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What's Cookin Good Lookin · Second Date Update

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  All the hits, Kiss ninety five seven, Courtney and Kiss in the morning.
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  Let's make a love match. We're going to West Hartford. Second Date
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  Update. Ryan is getting a ghosted after a first date. We need to
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  find out whine. Good morning Ryan, Hey, good morning guys. Oh,
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  welcome to the show. Ryan. Obviously you know about second date update.
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  You need to tell us about this great first date. I guess that
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  is her name, Laura. Her name is Laura. Yes, okay,
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  so what did you guys do? So? I had an idea just to
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  try to do something different, you know, I wanted to start off on
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  the right foot and show her that I'm kind of creative and you know,
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  memorable. I wanted something that we would both enjoy. So I thought I
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  would take her to a cooking class, which I've heard about and I always
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  wanted to take somebody too. I had some friends that have done it and
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  they loved it and it was great. The food was good, great chefs.
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  So we did that. Okay, we had a great meal. We
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  sat, we ate the meal. I brought flowers, I brought wine.
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  You know. Basically, I thought it was great and I haven't heard from
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  her since. Okay, Oh, my God, first of all, sounds
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  like an awesome, awesome date. Did you try to reach out to her?
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  I have, Yes, I've tried a few times. You know,
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  I didn't want to be too overbearing, but you know, I'm kind of
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  taken the hint now that it's no return call, no overturn message, nothing,
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  so I want to know what's up. Okay, So, Ryan,
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  do you know that she likes to cook? Because I am a horrible baker
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  and I hate baking. So if somebody brought me, like on a baking
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  first date, I would be just mortified and embarrassed the whole time. Well,
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  I didn't know that. I mean, I think we all can agree.
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  Food is the common denominator and for most people, I mean, we
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  all enjoy eating. I think for the most part, most people I know
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  do. So I just again, I didn't want it just to the same
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  old Barring movie dinner type of thing. I wanted to, you know,
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  make it memorable. It's a chance for us to work together, you know,
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  get our hands you know dirty so speak and work together. I was
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  excited about it, and I would I would write it a you know,
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  pretty high score after all is done. Then yeah, I don't know why
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  she doesn't call me back? All right, Well listen right, it sounds
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  like a fabulous, creative date to me. I don't know why she's not
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  calling you back, and we're gonna get to the bottom of it. We're
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  gonna call up Laura. You're gonna be listening in. You'll hear everything she
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  has to say, and you can jump in and talk to her if you
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  want. Are you ready for that? I am ready for that? He
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  sounds fabulous? Does he sounds like a good, great guy. It's too
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  much for a first date. If you ask me, women want easy and
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  basic. All right, I mean, maybe you're right, But hello,
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  Hi, is Laura there? Yes, this is she. Hi Laura,
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  This is Courtnay. Hey, what's up. It's Walmart Jeff. Hey,
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  Laura, Savannah. We're calling from Kiss ninety five seven. You're on the
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  radio this morning. I'm sorry, what well, Laura, you're on the
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  radio. You're on Kiss ninety five seven, and I will tell you,
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  Oh my god, Yes see, you are on something called it's called second
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  date update. We get phone calls, we get emails, messages. If
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  you go on a first date, you have a great time, but you
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  get ghosted. Call us when we get answers, and that's why we're calling
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  you this morning. Laura. Oh okay, So Ryan, I'm just gonna
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  be honest, and I want you to be honest. Called us. Said
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  he took you on a date. He was trying to be creative. He
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  took you to a cooking class. He brought wine and flowers. He said,
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  you guys got along great, and he felt a connection. He didn't
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  want to be overbearing, but he has reached out to you, I think,
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  he said a couple of times. And you're ghosting him. Why are
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  you ghosting him? Yeah? I mean I was just surprised because he actually,
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  you know, didn't take me where I thought we were gonna go.
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  Like, I got all dressed up and he took me to a cooking class.
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  So, you know, I put on a nice dress and here I
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  am in an apron, you know, and my idea of a date is
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  not cooking my own meal. You know, I want to go on a
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  nice date, order a nice meal. He's a great guy. It's just
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  I don't know. I was turned off, you know, by that,
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  and also had joked a few times, you know, he said that I
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  looked good cooking a meal, and to me, that's just a little rude.
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  That's something you would have said Walmart, Jeff that I did. He
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  but it was joking when he said you look good in the kitchen, or
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  you feel like he was that, But I mean, that's not a really
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  funny joke. You know, that's not nice to say to a lady.
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  You know, you don't say that. Can we can? I just he's
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  on the line. Can I bring him on? Are you are you there?
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  Are you there? Ryan? I'm here? Hi, Laura, okay,
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  Hi, oh my okay. So I just want to first start by
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  apologizing profusely for the comment of you took it the wrong way. It was
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  not my intention at all of saying you look good in the con kitchen did
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  not mean you belong in the kitchen. I was truly commenting on how beautiful
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  you looked. And it was just that moment and I got caught up in
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  it and I think the words came out wrong. But I those were not
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  my intentions to be off putting by that at all. I appreciate you saying
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  that, and I just want to make sure you know, like you should
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  not say that to a woman ever, like it definitely will come across the
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  wrong way. I definitely took it the wrong way, but I do appreciate
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  you clearing it up. I know first dates can be very stressful and you
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  can get anxious and say weird things. So hearing that, I'm okay chalking
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  it up to that, can I just jump in for a second lore because
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  it sounds like I mean, it sounds like Ryan's a great guy. I'm
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  hoping that that was just, you know, he said something that he didn't
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  you know, me, and it came out the wrong way. But he
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  had told us he was trying to be really creative, and his friends suggested
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  the cooking class, and the friends said it would be great, you know,
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  something memorable and creative. Obviously it's memorable now, But I don't think
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  he meant like anything by it. I mean, I think it's something that
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  like two people have to agree to do. You don't just say surprised someone
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  and say hey, here's a job for you, Like, hey, I
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  know you, you're going to have a really nice, relaxing, enjoyable evening,
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  you know, getting to know someone. But no, actually you're going
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  to be sweating. You're gonna be working that new dress you bought is probably
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  going to get a stain on it. Make sure that the person dresses appropriately,
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  you know, like I got a little bit of like the soft stuff.
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  I'm yeah, it just wasn't okay, I yeah, no, can
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  you got to make sure the other person knows. Can I make a suggestion
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  because I feel like you are great and Ryan is great, and I feel
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  like if you guys would agree to a second date somewhere where you're not like
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  cooking a meal or doing you know, like what you said, like relaxing,
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  you get dressed up, you get to know each other. I will
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  pick up the tab. If that's something you guys want to do, I'll
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  pay for it. I think Ryan is a really nice guy, and I
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  would be interested. As long as I do not have to cook my own
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  meal, I am fine with that. I would be interested. I mean,
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  and I can promise you you will not do any cooking on that date
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  whatsoever. Okay, Okay, that sounds much better. I'm loving this.
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  I'm gonna put you both on hold and give you the scoop and let you
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  know, you know, uh, let you know all of the things you
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  know you can do it basically, go and do whatever you want and then
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  we'll pick up the tab Okay, okayible, I mean, this is what
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  a weird day. Okay, thank you, all right, hold on, guys,