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71. Giving Back with Guest Brittni Schroeder · Burning Brightly

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  71
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  of
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  burning
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  brightly.
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  Giving
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  back
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  with
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  guest
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  Britney
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  Schroeder.
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  Brittany
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  is
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  a
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  certified
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  life
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  and
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  business
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  coach.
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  Who
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  specializes
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  in
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  getting
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  other
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  life
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  coaches
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  to
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  six
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  figures
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  and
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  beyond,
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  but
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  today,
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  Brittany
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  is
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  sharing
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  with
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  us,
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  her
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  journey
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  to
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  creating
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  the
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  nonprofit
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  that
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  she
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  built
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  in
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  honor
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  of
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  her
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  late
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  teenage
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  son.
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  Join
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  us
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  for
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  this
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  beautiful
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  bittersweet
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  interview
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  where
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  we
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  learn
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  how.
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  God,
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  put
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  it
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  on
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  Brittany's
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  heart
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  to
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  build
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  something
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  out
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  of
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  the
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  ashes
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  of
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  grief.
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  This
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  is
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  Burning
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  Brightly,
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  a
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  podcast
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  for
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  Christian
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  moms
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  who
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  are
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  feeling
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  called
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  to
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  build
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  a
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  business
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  and
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  share
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  their
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  light
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  with
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  the
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  world.
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  I'm
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  Bonnie
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  Wiscombe,
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  a
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  life
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  coach,
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  mom,
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  and
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  entrepreneur,
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  and
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  I'm
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  honored
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  to
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  be
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  your
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  guide
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  as
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  you
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  face
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  this
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  business
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  building
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  adventure
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  full
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  of
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  highs,
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  lows,
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  and
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  everything
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  in
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  between.
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  This
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  is
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  where
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  we
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  help
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  each
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  other
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  find
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  the
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  courage
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  to
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  shine.
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  Welcome
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  back,
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  friends.
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  I
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  am
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  excited
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  to
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  have
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  a
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  guest
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  here
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  today.
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  I
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  haven't
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  had
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  a
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  guest
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  in
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  a
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  little
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  while
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  and
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  I
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  am
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  excited
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  to
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  welcome
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  Brittany
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  Schroeder.
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  Thank
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  you
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  so
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  much
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  for
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  joining
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  me,
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  Brittany.
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  Thanks
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  for
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  having
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  me.
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  I'm
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  excited.
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  Brittany
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  is
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  a
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  fellow
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  business
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  coach,
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  which
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  I,
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  you
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  guys
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  know,
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  I
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  could
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  talk
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  business
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  all
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  day,
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  every
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  day
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  about
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  all
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  the
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  things,
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  but
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  we're
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  going
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  to
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  shift
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  a
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  little
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  bit
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  because
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  I
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  want
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  to
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  hear
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  some
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  of
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  Brittany's
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  experience
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  with
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  a
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  nonprofit
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  and
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  some
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  of
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  her,
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  um,
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  kind
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  of
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  unique
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  experience
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  in
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  business
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  that
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  doesn't
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  look
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  like
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  what
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  a
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  lot
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  of
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  us
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  are
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  building.
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  So
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  Brittany,
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  why
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  don't
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  we
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  start
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  off
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  with
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  you
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  giving
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  us
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  a
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  little
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  intro
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  to
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  yourself?
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  My
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  name
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  is
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  Brittany
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  Schroeder
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  and
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  I
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  am
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  a
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  business
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  and
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  marketing
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  coach.
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  Um,
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  I,
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  I,
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  I
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  guess
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  kind
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  of
• 1:24
  my,
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  my
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  journey
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  with
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  getting
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  to
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  where
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  I'm
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  at
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  now
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  is
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  I.
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  I
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  was
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  a
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  photographer
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  for
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  10.
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  Well,
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  you're
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  always
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  a
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  photographer,
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  right?
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  Like,
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  but
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  I
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  had
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  a
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  photography
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  business
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  for
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  10
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  years
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  and
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  kind
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  of
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  how
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  it
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  started
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  is
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  I
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  just,
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  I
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  wanted
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  to
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  take
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  good
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  pictures
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  of
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  my
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  kids
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  and
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  I
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  was
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  a
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  mom
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  and
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  that's
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  my
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  favorite
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  job.
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  And
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  so
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  I
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  got
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  a
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  camera
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  and
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  I
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  started
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  taking
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  pictures
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  and
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  I
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  love
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  to
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  learn.
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  So
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  I
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  just
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  was
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  learning
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  and
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  how
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  to,
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  you
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  know,
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  like
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  how
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  to
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  do
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  photography
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  and.
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  And
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  it
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  just
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  kind
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  of,
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  I
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  kind
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  of
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  stumbled
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  into
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  having
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  a
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  business,
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  you
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  know,
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  people
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  start
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  to
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  ask
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  you
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  to
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  take
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  your
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  pictures
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  and
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  then
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  you
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  realize
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  like,
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  okay,
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  I'm
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  doing
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  this
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  a
• 2:02
  lot
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  and
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  it's
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  my
• 2:04
  time.
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  And,
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  and,
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  um,
• 2:06
  then
• 2:06
  I
• 2:06
  decided
• 2:07
  I
• 2:07
  was
• 2:07
  going
• 2:07
  to
• 2:07
  do
• 2:07
  it
• 2:07
  as
• 2:07
  a
• 2:07
  business.
• 2:08
  And
• 2:08
  I
• 2:08
  was
• 2:09
  a
• 2:09
  high
• 2:09
  school
• 2:09
  senior
• 2:09
  photographer
• 2:10
  for
• 2:10
  10
• 2:11
  years
• 2:11
  and
• 2:11
  had
• 2:11
  a
• 2:11
  lot
• 2:12
  of
• 2:12
  success
• 2:13
  and
• 2:13
  built
• 2:14
  a
• 2:14
  business.
• 2:14
  I
• 2:14
  had
• 2:14
  a
• 2:14
  photography
• 2:15
  magazine.
• 2:16
  And
• 2:17
  that
• 2:17
  is
• 2:18
  kind
• 2:18
  of
• 2:18
  how
• 2:18
  I,
• 2:19
  I
• 2:19
  always
• 2:19
  say
• 2:19
  that
• 2:19
  I,
• 2:20
  the
• 2:20
  business
• 2:20
  stuff
• 2:20
  came
• 2:21
  so
• 2:21
  natural
• 2:21
  to
• 2:21
  me.
• 2:22
  I
• 2:22
  had
• 2:22
  to
• 2:22
  work
• 2:22
  more
• 2:22
  at
• 2:22
  the
• 2:22
  creative
• 2:23
  stuff,
• 2:23
  but
• 2:23
  I've
• 2:23
  always
• 2:24
  just
• 2:24
  been
• 2:24
  really
• 2:24
  business
• 2:24
  minded
• 2:25
  and
• 2:25
  left
• 2:25
  brained
• 2:26
  and
• 2:26
  analytic
• 2:26
  and
• 2:27
  all
• 2:27
  the
• 2:27
  things.
• 2:27
  And
• 2:27
  so
• 2:28
  that's
• 2:28
  kind
• 2:28
  of
• 2:28
  where
• 2:28
  I
• 2:29
  started
• 2:29
  like
• 2:30
  my,
• 2:31
  my,
• 2:31
  my
• 2:32
  photography,
• 2:32
  like
• 2:32
  my,
• 2:32
  my
• 2:33
  business
• 2:33
  starting.
• 2:34
  You
• 2:34
  know,
• 2:34
  growing
• 2:35
  a
• 2:35
  business.
• 2:36
  And
• 2:36
  then,
• 2:36
  um,
• 2:37
  my,
• 2:38
  my
• 2:38
  husband
• 2:38
  at
• 2:38
  the
• 2:38
  time,
• 2:39
  I'm,
• 2:39
  I'm
• 2:39
  divorced
• 2:40
  now,
• 2:40
  but
• 2:40
  he
• 2:40
  got
• 2:41
  a
• 2:41
  job
• 2:42
  in
• 2:42
  Houston
• 2:42
  and
• 2:43
  we
• 2:43
  were
• 2:43
  in
• 2:43
  El
• 2:43
  Paso
• 2:44
  when
• 2:44
  I
• 2:44
  built
• 2:44
  my
• 2:44
  photography
• 2:45
  business.
• 2:45
  And
• 2:45
  so
• 2:45
  I
• 2:45
  said,
• 2:45
  you
• 2:45
  know,
• 2:46
  this
• 2:46
  is
• 2:46
  a
• 2:46
  good
• 2:46
  time
• 2:46
  to
• 2:46
  pivot.
• 2:47
  I
• 2:47
  don't
• 2:47
  want
• 2:47
  to
• 2:48
  start
• 2:48
  another
• 2:48
  location
• 2:49
  based
• 2:49
  business.
• 2:49
  I
• 2:50
  want
• 2:50
  to
• 2:50
  do
• 2:50
  something
• 2:50
  that
• 2:51
  I
• 2:51
  can
• 2:51
  do
• 2:51
  anywhere.
• 2:52
  And
• 2:53
  I
• 2:53
  got
• 2:53
  certified
• 2:53
  as
• 2:53
  a
• 2:53
  life
• 2:54
  coach.
• 2:54
  And
• 2:54
  then,
• 2:55
  you
• 2:55
  know,
• 2:55
  I'm
• 2:55
  like,
• 2:56
  Oh,
• 2:56
  like,
• 2:56
  I
• 2:56
  don't
• 2:56
  know
• 2:56
  if
• 2:56
  I
• 2:56
  want
• 2:57
  to
• 2:57
  do
• 2:57
  this.
• 2:58
  Um,
• 2:58
  but
• 2:59
  I
• 2:59
  started
• 2:59
  helping
• 3:00
  life
• 3:00
  coaches
• 3:00
  with
• 3:01
  business.
• 3:01
  And
• 3:01
  I'm
• 3:01
  like,
• 3:01
  Oh,
• 3:02
  this
• 3:02
  is
• 3:02
  my
• 3:02
  jam.
• 3:02
  Like
• 3:03
  I
• 3:03
  am.
• 3:04
  I
• 3:04
  can
• 3:04
  help
• 3:04
  start
• 3:05
  businesses
• 3:05
  like
• 3:05
  this
• 3:05
  is
• 3:05
  what
• 3:06
  I
• 3:06
  do.
• 3:07
  And
• 3:07
  so
• 3:07
  that's
• 3:07
  kind
• 3:07
  of
• 3:08
  where
• 3:08
  my,
• 3:09
  my
• 3:09
  work
• 3:09
  experience
• 3:10
  with
• 3:10
  my
• 3:11
  business
• 3:11
  comes
• 3:11
  from
• 3:12
  my
• 3:12
  nonprofit
• 3:13
  experience.
• 3:14
  It's
• 3:14
  kind
• 3:14
  of
• 3:14
  funny
• 3:14
  because
• 3:15
  when
• 3:15
  I
• 3:15
  was
• 3:16
  in
• 3:16
  high
• 3:17
  school,
• 3:17
  I
• 3:17
  wanted
• 3:17
  to
• 3:18
  join
• 3:18
  the
• 3:18
  Peace
• 3:18
  Corps
• 3:19
  and
• 3:19
  people,
• 3:19
  I
• 3:19
  don't
• 3:19
  even
• 3:19
  know
• 3:20
  people
• 3:20
  know
• 3:20
  what
• 3:20
  that
• 3:20
  is
• 3:21
  anymore.
• 3:21
  But
• 3:22
  I
• 3:22
  was
• 3:22
  like,
• 3:22
  I,
• 3:23
  I.
• 3:23
  I
• 3:23
  had
• 3:23
  this
• 3:24
  like
• 3:24
  idea
• 3:24
  where
• 3:24
  I
• 3:24
  wanted
• 3:25
  to
• 3:25
  go
• 3:25
  and
• 3:25
  help
• 3:26
  people
• 3:26
  in,
• 3:27
  and
• 3:27
  in
• 3:27
  my
• 3:27
  head,
• 3:27
  I
• 3:27
  thought
• 3:27
  in
• 3:28
  third
• 3:28
  world
• 3:28
  countries,
• 3:28
  cause
• 3:29
  that's
• 3:29
  probably
• 3:29
  what
• 3:30
  I
• 3:30
  saw
• 3:30
  on
• 3:30
  TV
• 3:30
  or
• 3:30
  in
• 3:30
  a
• 3:30
  movie
• 3:31
  or
• 3:31
  something.
• 3:32
  So
• 3:32
  I've
• 3:32
  always
• 3:32
  had,
• 3:33
  it's
• 3:33
  always
• 3:33
  really
• 3:34
  been
• 3:34
  like
• 3:34
  a
• 3:34
  strong
• 3:34
  desire
• 3:35
  of
• 3:35
  mine
• 3:35
  to
• 3:35
  serve
• 3:36
  and
• 3:36
  to
• 3:36
  help
• 3:36
  people.
• 3:36
  And
• 3:37
  so
• 3:38
  as
• 3:38
  I,
• 3:38
  as
• 3:38
  I
• 3:38
  got
• 3:38
  older,
• 3:39
  I
• 3:40
  like,
• 3:40
  I've,
• 3:40
  I've
• 3:41
  worked
• 3:41
  with
• 3:41
  like
• 3:41
  a
• 3:41
  lot
• 3:41
  of
• 3:41
  nonprofits
• 3:42
  and
• 3:42
  it
• 3:42
  started,
• 3:43
  I
• 3:43
  had.
• 3:44
  You
• 3:44
  know,
• 3:44
  at
• 3:44
  the
• 3:44
  time
• 3:45
  I
• 3:45
  had
• 3:45
  two
• 3:45
  small
• 3:46
  children,
• 3:46
  no
• 3:47
  I
• 3:47
  had
• 3:47
  one,
• 3:47
  I
• 3:47
  had
• 3:47
  one,
• 3:48
  one
• 3:48
  child
• 3:49
  and
• 3:49
  I
• 3:49
  started
• 3:50
  doing
• 3:50
  Meals
• 3:50
  on
• 3:50
  Wheels
• 3:51
  and
• 3:51
  at
• 3:51
  the
• 3:51
  time
• 3:51
  I
• 3:51
  had
• 3:52
  moved
• 3:52
  to
• 3:52
  Michigan,
• 3:52
  I
• 3:52
  had
• 3:52
  just
• 3:53
  moved
• 3:53
  there
• 3:53
  and
• 3:54
  I
• 3:54
  was
• 3:54
  delivering
• 3:54
  food
• 3:55
  to
• 3:55
  elderly
• 3:55
  people
• 3:56
  or
• 3:56
  people
• 3:56
  who
• 3:56
  couldn't
• 3:56
  leave
• 3:57
  their
• 3:57
  house
• 3:57
  and
• 3:58
  then
• 3:58
  I
• 3:58
  got
• 3:58
  pregnant
• 3:59
  and
• 3:59
  so
• 3:59
  then
• 3:59
  I
• 3:59
  was,
• 4:00
  you
• 4:00
  know,
• 4:01
  then
• 4:01
  I
• 4:01
  had
• 4:01
  another
• 4:02
  baby
• 4:02
  and
• 4:02
  so
• 4:02
  I
• 4:02
  was
• 4:03
  pushing
• 4:03
  one
• 4:03
  in
• 4:04
  a
• 4:04
  stroller
• 4:04
  and
• 4:04
  the
• 4:04
  other
• 4:05
  one
• 4:05
  walking
• 4:05
  around
• 4:05
  and
• 4:05
  we
• 4:06
  were
• 4:06
  delivering
• 4:06
  food.
• 4:08
  Males
• 4:08
  to
• 4:08
  elderly
• 4:09
  people.
• 4:09
  And
• 4:09
  I
• 4:09
  did
• 4:10
  that
• 4:10
  for
• 4:10
  like
• 4:10
  six
• 4:10
  years.
• 4:11
  I
• 4:11
  did
• 4:11
  it
• 4:11
  for
• 4:11
  like
• 4:12
  a
• 4:12
  long
• 4:12
  time.
• 4:12
  And,
• 4:13
  um,
• 4:14
  you
• 4:14
  know,
• 4:14
  I
• 4:14
  always
• 4:14
  just
• 4:15
  had
• 4:15
  this
• 4:15
  desire
• 4:15
  to
• 4:15
  serve.
• 4:16
  And
• 4:16
  then
• 4:16
  how
• 4:17
  I
• 4:17
  kind
• 4:17
  of
• 4:17
  got
• 4:17
  involved
• 4:18
  in
• 4:19
  nonprofit
• 4:20
  work
• 4:20
  was,
• 4:21
  um,
• 4:22
  It's
• 4:22
  interesting
• 4:22
  because
• 4:24
  I
• 4:24
  had,
• 4:24
  I
• 4:24
  moved
• 4:25
  to,
• 4:26
  um,
• 4:26
  at
• 4:26
  the
• 4:26
  time
• 4:26
  we
• 4:26
  were
• 4:27
  in
• 4:27
  Michigan
• 4:27
  and
• 4:27
  they
• 4:27
  had
• 4:28
  two
• 4:28
  kids
• 4:28
  and
• 4:28
  three,
• 4:29
  and
• 4:29
  then
• 4:29
  we
• 4:29
  moved
• 4:29
  to
• 4:30
  El
• 4:30
  Paso
• 4:31
  and
• 4:31
  I
• 4:32
  just,
• 4:33
  I,
• 4:33
  I
• 4:33
  was,
• 4:33
  I
• 4:33
  had
• 4:34
  my
• 4:34
  photography
• 4:34
  business
• 4:35
  and
• 4:35
  I
• 4:35
  just,
• 4:35
  I
• 4:35
  wanted,
• 4:36
  I
• 4:36
  think
• 4:36
  I
• 4:36
  had
• 4:36
  a
• 4:36
  client
• 4:37
  say,
• 4:37
  Oh,
• 4:37
  you
• 4:37
  should
• 4:37
  come
• 4:38
  and
• 4:38
  we
• 4:39
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• 4:39
  are
• 4:39
  looking
• 4:39
  for
• 4:39
  volunteers
• 4:40
  to
• 4:40
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• 4:40
  and
• 4:41
  help
• 4:41
  us
• 4:42
  with
• 4:42
  this,
• 4:42
  um,
• 4:42
  children's
• 4:43
  hospital.
• 4:44
  Gay
• 4:44
  love
• 4:44
  that
• 4:44
  we
• 4:44
  do.
• 4:45
  And
• 4:45
  so
• 4:45
  I
• 4:46
  was
• 4:46
  working
• 4:46
  with
• 4:46
  their
• 4:47
  nonprofit
• 4:47
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• 4:48
  we
• 4:48
  were
• 4:48
  raising
• 4:48
  money
• 4:48
  for
• 4:48
  the
• 4:48
  children's
• 4:49
  hospital.
• 4:49
  And
• 4:50
  then
• 4:50
  that
• 4:50
  kind
• 4:51
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• 4:51
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• 4:51
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• 4:51
  working
• 4:52
  with
• 4:52
  the
• 4:52
  boys
• 4:52
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• 4:52
  girls
• 4:52
  club.
• 4:53
  So
• 4:53
  I've
• 4:53
  always
• 4:54
  done
• 4:54
  that.
• 4:54
  I
• 4:54
  did
• 4:54
  some
• 4:54
  stuff
• 4:55
  with
• 4:55
  my,
• 4:55
  with
• 4:55
  the
• 4:56
  church,
• 4:56
  like
• 4:56
  doing
• 4:56
  refugee
• 4:57
  stuff.
• 4:57
  So
• 4:57
  I've
• 4:57
  always
• 4:58
  just
• 4:58
  loved
• 4:59
  like,
• 4:59
  like
• 5:00
  doing
• 5:00
  that
• 5:00
  kind
• 5:00
  of
• 5:00
  stuff.
• 5:01
  Um,
• 5:02
  and
• 5:02
  then
• 5:02
  it's
• 5:02
  interesting
• 5:03
  because
• 5:03
  I
• 5:03
  still
• 5:04
  in
• 5:04
  the
• 5:04
  back
• 5:04
  of
• 5:04
  my
• 5:04
  head
• 5:05
  had
• 5:05
  this,
• 5:06
  this
• 5:06
  thought
• 5:06
  where
• 5:06
  I
• 5:07
  still
• 5:07
  want
• 5:07
  to
• 5:07
  go
• 5:07
  to
• 5:07
  these
• 5:08
  third
• 5:08
  world
• 5:08
  countries
• 5:08
  and
• 5:09
  I
• 5:09
  want
• 5:09
  to
• 5:09
  help
• 5:09
  people.
• 5:10
  And,
• 5:12
  I
• 5:13
  kept
• 5:13
  thinking,
• 5:13
  I
• 5:13
  need
• 5:14
  to
• 5:14
  go
• 5:14
  back
• 5:14
  to
• 5:14
  school.
• 5:15
  I
• 5:15
  have
• 5:16
  a
• 5:16
  degree
• 5:16
  in
• 5:16
  exercise
• 5:17
  science,
• 5:17
  which
• 5:17
  I've
• 5:17
  never
• 5:18
  used,
• 5:18
  but
• 5:18
  I'm
• 5:18
  like,
• 5:19
  I
• 5:19
  need
• 5:19
  to
• 5:19
  go
• 5:19
  back
• 5:19
  to
• 5:19
  school
• 5:19
  and
• 5:19
  do
• 5:20
  nursing
• 5:20
  so
• 5:20
  I
• 5:20
  can
• 5:20
  go
• 5:21
  to
• 5:21
  the
• 5:21
  third
• 5:21
  world.
• 5:22
  I
• 5:22
  thought
• 5:22
  like
• 5:22
  I
• 5:22
  had
• 5:23
  to
• 5:23
  have
• 5:23
  something
• 5:23
  medical
• 5:24
  to
• 5:24
  get
• 5:24
  me
• 5:25
  to
• 5:25
  these
• 5:25
  third
• 5:25
  world
• 5:25
  countries
• 5:26
  to
• 5:26
  help
• 5:26
  like
• 5:26
  people,
• 5:27
  but
• 5:28
  it
• 5:28
  was
• 5:28
  actually
• 5:28
  like
• 5:28
  my
• 5:28
  camera.
• 5:29
  It
• 5:29
  was
• 5:29
  my
• 5:29
  photography
• 5:30
  that
• 5:30
  got
• 5:30
  me
• 5:30
  to
• 5:31
  a
• 5:31
  third
• 5:31
  world
• 5:31
  country.
• 5:32
  And
• 5:33
  so
• 5:33
  I
• 5:34
  had
• 5:34
  a
• 5:34
  friend
• 5:34
  and
• 5:34
  she
• 5:35
  said,
• 5:35
  Hey.
• 5:36
  You
• 5:36
  know,
• 5:36
  my
• 5:36
  cousin
• 5:37
  has
• 5:37
  this
• 5:37
  nonprofit
• 5:38
  in
• 5:38
  Haiti
• 5:39
  and
• 5:39
  they
• 5:40
  educate
• 5:40
  kids.
• 5:40
  They
• 5:41
  are,
• 5:41
  you
• 5:41
  know,
• 5:41
  it's
• 5:42
  like
• 5:42
  they're
• 5:42
  opening
• 5:43
  a
• 5:43
  school.
• 5:44
  Do
• 5:44
  you,
• 5:44
  do
• 5:44
  you
• 5:44
  want
• 5:44
  to
• 5:44
  go?
• 5:45
  And
• 5:46
  I
• 5:46
  was
• 5:46
  like,
• 5:46
  yes,
• 5:47
  like
• 5:47
  that
• 5:47
  sounds
• 5:48
  so
• 5:48
  awesome.
• 5:49
  So
• 5:49
  we,
• 5:50
  we
• 5:50
  went
• 5:50
  out
• 5:50
  there,
• 5:50
  we
• 5:50
  opened
• 5:50
  a
• 5:51
  school.
• 5:51
  I
• 5:51
  took
• 5:52
  all
• 5:52
  my,
• 5:52
  my
• 5:52
  photography
• 5:53
  gear
• 5:53
  and
• 5:53
  it
• 5:53
  was
• 5:54
  all
• 5:54
  these
• 5:54
  kids
• 5:54
  were
• 5:55
  there.
• 5:55
  And
• 5:55
  we,
• 5:56
  the
• 5:56
  objective
• 5:57
  for
• 5:57
  this.
• 5:58
  Nonprofit
• 5:58
  was
• 5:58
  to
• 5:58
  get
• 5:59
  these
• 5:59
  kids
• 5:59
  sponsored
• 6:00
  because
• 6:00
  education
• 6:01
  is
• 6:01
  not
• 6:01
  free
• 6:02
  in
• 6:02
  Haiti.
• 6:03
  So
• 6:04
  many
• 6:04
  kids
• 6:04
  are
• 6:04
  not
• 6:05
  educated.
• 6:06
  So
• 6:06
  I
• 6:06
  went
• 6:06
  out
• 6:06
  there.
• 6:06
  I
• 6:06
  took
• 6:07
  pictures
• 6:07
  of
• 6:07
  these
• 6:07
  kids
• 6:08
  and
• 6:08
  I
• 6:08
  could
• 6:09
  take
• 6:09
  beautiful
• 6:10
  portraits
• 6:10
  of
• 6:10
  people.
• 6:11
  And
• 6:11
  I
• 6:11
  took
• 6:11
  pictures
• 6:11
  of
• 6:12
  these
• 6:12
  beautiful
• 6:12
  Haitians.
• 6:13
  Like
• 6:13
  they
• 6:13
  are
• 6:13
  the
• 6:14
  most
• 6:14
  beautiful
• 6:14
  people.
• 6:15
  And
• 6:16
  then
• 6:16
  we
• 6:16
  put
• 6:16
  them
• 6:16
  on
• 6:16
  a
• 6:16
  website
• 6:17
  and
• 6:17
  that's
• 6:17
  how
• 6:17
  we
• 6:17
  got
• 6:18
  them
• 6:18
  to
• 6:18
  sponsor.
• 6:19
  So
• 6:19
  it
• 6:19
  was
• 6:19
  actually
• 6:19
  like
• 6:19
  my
• 6:20
  photography.
• 6:21
  That
• 6:21
  got
• 6:21
  me
• 6:22
  to
• 6:22
  this,
• 6:22
  the
• 6:23
  third
• 6:23
  world
• 6:23
  countries.
• 6:23
  And
• 6:24
  so
• 6:24
  then
• 6:25
  I
• 6:25
  was
• 6:25
  a
• 6:25
  part
• 6:26
  of
• 6:26
  that
• 6:26
  nonprofit.
• 6:26
  I
• 6:26
  was
• 6:27
  on
• 6:27
  the
• 6:27
  board
• 6:27
  of
• 6:27
  directors
• 6:28
  and
• 6:28
  for
• 6:28
  four
• 6:29
  years,
• 6:29
  and
• 6:29
  I
• 6:29
  go
• 6:29
  to
• 6:29
  Haiti
• 6:30
  every
• 6:30
  year,
• 6:30
  at
• 6:30
  least
• 6:30
  once
• 6:31
  and
• 6:31
  go
• 6:31
  over
• 6:31
  and
• 6:32
  take
• 6:32
  pictures
• 6:32
  of
• 6:32
  the
• 6:32
  kids.
• 6:33
  And,
• 6:33
  and
• 6:34
  then
• 6:34
  I
• 6:34
  was
• 6:34
  in
• 6:34
  their
• 6:34
  PR
• 6:35
  and
• 6:35
  I,
• 6:35
  my,
• 6:36
  my
• 6:37
  job
• 6:37
  was
• 6:38
  to,
• 6:39
  you
• 6:39
  know,
• 6:39
  get
• 6:39
  people
• 6:39
  to
• 6:40
  sponsor
• 6:40
  and
• 6:40
  to
• 6:40
  raise
• 6:41
  money
• 6:41
  so
• 6:41
  that
• 6:41
  we
• 6:41
  could
• 6:42
  educate
• 6:42
  these
• 6:42
  kids.
• 6:42
  And,
• 6:43
  um,
• 6:44
  we
• 6:44
  educated,
• 6:44
  it
• 6:44
  was
• 6:44
  over
• 6:44
  400
• 6:45
  kids
• 6:45
  that
• 6:45
  we,
• 6:46
  we
• 6:46
  educated
• 6:47
  with
• 6:47
  this
• 6:47
  organization.
• 6:48
  So
• 6:49
  that
• 6:49
  was
• 6:49
  kind
• 6:49
  of,
• 6:50
  that
• 6:50
  was.
• 6:51
  kind
• 6:51
  of
• 6:51
  how
• 6:51
  I,
• 6:51
  like,
• 6:52
  got
• 6:52
  into,
• 6:52
  like,
• 6:53
  non
• 6:53
  profits.
• 6:54
  And
• 6:54
  it
• 6:54
  changed
• 6:54
  my
• 6:54
  life.
• 6:55
  Like,
• 6:55
  it
• 6:55
  was
• 6:56
  very
• 6:56
  life
• 6:57
  changing
• 6:57
  to
• 6:58
  go
• 6:58
  work
• 6:58
  in
• 6:58
  Haiti.
• 6:59
  So.
• 6:59
  Oh
• 6:59
  my
• 6:59
  gosh.
• 6:59
  That
• 7:00
  sounds
• 7:00
  amazing.
• 7:01
  And
• 7:01
  it
• 7:01
  sounds
• 7:01
  like
• 7:01
  you've
• 7:01
  had,
• 7:01
  like,
• 7:02
  so
• 7:02
  many
• 7:02
  amazing
• 7:02
  experiences
• 7:03
  already
• 7:03
  in
• 7:04
  business
• 7:04
  and
• 7:04
  everything.
• 7:05
  What
• 7:05
  I'm
• 7:05
  hearing
• 7:05
  from
• 7:06
  your
• 7:06
  story
• 7:06
  is
• 7:06
  that
• 7:07
  you,
• 7:07
  you
• 7:08
  start
• 7:08
  something
• 7:08
  that
• 7:08
  sounds
• 7:08
  interesting,
• 7:09
  right?
• 7:09
  And
• 7:09
  then
• 7:09
  God
• 7:09
  just,
• 7:10
  like,
• 7:10
  leads
• 7:10
  you
• 7:10
  here
• 7:11
  and
• 7:11
  then
• 7:11
  to
• 7:11
  this
• 7:11
  next
• 7:11
  little
• 7:12
  hop
• 7:12
  over
• 7:12
  here
• 7:12
  and
• 7:13
  then
• 7:13
  we'll
• 7:13
  skip
• 7:13
  over
• 7:13
  here.
• 7:14
  And
• 7:14
  all
• 7:14
  these
• 7:14
  opportunities
• 7:15
  just
• 7:15
  feel
• 7:15
  so
• 7:15
  fulfilling.
• 7:16
  Like,
• 7:16
  oh
• 7:16
  yeah,
• 7:16
  I'm
• 7:17
  Oh
• 7:17
  yeah.
• 7:18
  Oh
• 7:18
  yeah.
• 7:18
  Yeah.
• 7:18
  It's
• 7:19
  interesting
• 7:19
  because
• 7:21
  You
• 7:21
  know,
• 7:22
  I,
• 7:22
  I
• 7:22
  remember
• 7:23
  like
• 7:23
  when
• 7:23
  I
• 7:23
  was
• 7:24
  taking
• 7:24
  pictures
• 7:25
  of
• 7:25
  high
• 7:25
  school
• 7:25
  seniors,
• 7:27
  and
• 7:27
  I
• 7:27
  remember
• 7:27
  this
• 7:27
  one
• 7:27
  time
• 7:28
  I
• 7:28
  was
• 7:28
  out
• 7:28
  jogging
• 7:29
  with
• 7:29
  my
• 7:29
  friend
• 7:29
  and
• 7:30
  we
• 7:30
  were
• 7:30
  talking
• 7:31
  about
• 7:31
  it
• 7:31
  and
• 7:31
  I
• 7:31
  said,
• 7:32
  I,
• 7:33
  because
• 7:33
  I
• 7:33
  was
• 7:33
  able
• 7:34
  to
• 7:34
  like,
• 7:34
  I'm
• 7:34
  a,
• 7:35
  I'm
• 7:35
  a,
• 7:35
  I'm
• 7:35
  a
• 7:35
  builder.
• 7:36
  Like
• 7:36
  I
• 7:36
  love
• 7:37
  to
• 7:37
  build
• 7:37
  people
• 7:37
  up
• 7:37
  and
• 7:37
  I
• 7:38
  love,
• 7:38
  I
• 7:38
  love
• 7:39
  teenagers.
• 7:39
  Like
• 7:40
  I
• 7:40
  just
• 7:40
  can
• 7:40
  connect
• 7:40
  with
• 7:40
  teenagers.
• 7:41
  I,
• 7:41
  I
• 7:41
  love
• 7:42
  them.
• 7:42
  I
• 7:42
  think
• 7:42
  I'm
• 7:42
  still
• 7:43
  one,
• 7:44
  even
• 7:44
  though
• 7:44
  I'm
• 7:44
  not,
• 7:45
  but,
• 7:45
  um,
• 7:46
  When
• 7:46
  I
• 7:46
  was
• 7:47
  taking
• 7:47
  pictures,
• 7:47
  I'm
• 7:47
  like,
• 7:48
  Oh
• 7:48
  my
• 7:48
  gosh,
• 7:48
  like
• 7:48
  this
• 7:49
  is
• 7:49
  what
• 7:49
  I,
• 7:49
  this
• 7:49
  is
• 7:49
  what
• 7:50
  God
• 7:50
  wants
• 7:50
  me
• 7:50
  to
• 7:50
  do
• 7:51
  because
• 7:51
  I
• 7:51
  am,
• 7:52
  I
• 7:52
  have
• 7:52
  this
• 7:52
  opportunity.
• 7:54
  to
• 7:54
  build
• 7:54
  these
• 7:55
  teenage
• 7:55
  girls
• 7:55
  up
• 7:56
  and
• 7:56
  I
• 7:56
  can,
• 7:57
  I
• 7:57
  can
• 7:57
  build
• 7:58
  them
• 7:58
  up
• 7:58
  and
• 7:58
  tell
• 7:58
  them
• 7:58
  they're
• 7:59
  amazing
• 7:59
  and
• 7:59
  they're
• 7:59
  beautiful
• 8:00
  and
• 8:01
  empower
• 8:01
  them.
• 8:02
  And
• 8:03
  you
• 8:03
  know,
• 8:03
  I
• 8:03
  felt
• 8:03
  like,
• 8:03
  you
• 8:04
  know,
• 8:04
  and
• 8:04
  I
• 8:04
  remember
• 8:04
  like
• 8:04
  a
• 8:04
  specific
• 8:05
  time
• 8:05
  being
• 8:05
  like,
• 8:05
  this
• 8:06
  is
• 8:06
  what
• 8:06
  God
• 8:06
  wants
• 8:06
  me
• 8:07
  to
• 8:07
  do.
• 8:07
  And
• 8:07
  then
• 8:08
  fast
• 8:08
  forward
• 8:08
  and
• 8:09
  I'm
• 8:09
  in
• 8:09
  Haiti
• 8:09
  and
• 8:09
  I'm
• 8:10
  like,
• 8:10
  Oh,
• 8:10
  no,
• 8:10
  no,
• 8:10
  no.
• 8:10
  This
• 8:11
  is
• 8:11
  what
• 8:12
  God
• 8:12
  wants
• 8:12
  me
• 8:12
  to
• 8:13
  do.
• 8:13
  This
• 8:13
  is
• 8:13
  what
• 8:14
  He
• 8:14
  wants
• 8:14
  me
• 8:14
  to
• 8:14
  do.
• 8:15
  And
• 8:16
  so
• 8:16
  I,
• 8:16
  yeah,
• 8:16
  I
• 8:17
  definitely
• 8:17
  feel
• 8:17
  like.
• 8:18
  You
• 8:18
  know,
• 8:18
  hindsight's
• 8:19
  20
• 8:19
  20
• 8:20
  where
• 8:20
  we
• 8:20
  see
• 8:20
  like,
• 8:20
  okay,
• 8:21
  look
• 8:21
  at
• 8:21
  how
• 8:21
  God
• 8:22
  placed
• 8:22
  me
• 8:22
  here,
• 8:23
  and
• 8:23
  he
• 8:23
  was
• 8:23
  preparing
• 8:24
  me
• 8:24
  for
• 8:24
  this,
• 8:24
  and
• 8:24
  then
• 8:25
  look
• 8:25
  at
• 8:25
  how
• 8:25
  he
• 8:25
  placed
• 8:26
  me
• 8:26
  here.
• 8:27
  And
• 8:27
  he
• 8:27
  was
• 8:27
  preparing
• 8:27
  me
• 8:27
  for
• 8:27
  this,
• 8:28
  but
• 8:28
  definitely
• 8:29
  like,
• 8:30
  like
• 8:30
  understanding
• 8:31
  your,
• 8:31
  your
• 8:31
  spiritual
• 8:31
  gifts
• 8:32
  and
• 8:32
  knowing
• 8:32
  your
• 8:32
  strengths.
• 8:33
  Like
• 8:34
  if
• 8:34
  you
• 8:34
  use
• 8:34
  those,
• 8:35
  you
• 8:35
  know,
• 8:35
  it's
• 8:36
  God,
• 8:36
  he'll
• 8:37
  make
• 8:37
  it
• 8:37
  happen.
• 8:38
  You
• 8:38
  just
• 8:38
  have
• 8:38
  to
• 8:39
  trust
• 8:40
  that
• 8:40
  he
• 8:41
  has
• 8:41
  a
• 8:41
  plan,
• 8:41
  you
• 8:41
  know?
• 8:42
  So,
• 8:42
  but
• 8:42
  yeah.
• 8:43
  I
• 8:43
  love
• 8:43
  that
• 8:44
  concept.
• 8:44
  Yeah.
• 8:44
  And
• 8:44
  the
• 8:45
  idea
• 8:45
  that
• 8:45
  like,
• 8:45
  if
• 8:45
  you,
• 8:46
  if
• 8:46
  20
• 8:47
  or
• 8:47
  25
• 8:47
  year
• 8:47
  old
• 8:48
  you
• 8:48
  could
• 8:48
  see
• 8:49
  you
• 8:49
  now,
• 8:49
  she'd
• 8:49
  probably
• 8:50
  be
• 8:50
  like,
• 8:50
  what?
• 8:50
  I'm
• 8:50
  doing
• 8:51
  what?
• 8:51
  Like
• 8:51
  how?
• 8:51
  Right.
• 8:52
  But
• 8:53
  one
• 8:53
  step
• 8:53
  at
• 8:53
  a
• 8:53
  time,
• 8:53
  it
• 8:54
  becomes
• 8:54
  easy.
• 8:54
  And
• 8:54
  this
• 8:54
  is
• 8:55
  something
• 8:55
  that
• 8:55
  I
• 8:55
  talk
• 8:56
  about
• 8:56
  a
• 8:56
  lot
• 8:56
  on
• 8:56
  my
• 8:56
  show
• 8:57
  and
• 8:57
  to
• 8:57
  my
• 8:57
  audience
• 8:57
  is
• 8:57
  that
• 8:58
  so
• 8:58
  many
• 8:58
  of
• 8:58
  us
• 8:58
  feel
• 8:59
  so
• 8:59
  terrified
• 9:00
  at
• 9:00
  what
• 9:00
  they
• 9:00
  feel
• 9:00
  like
• 9:00
  God
• 9:00
  is
• 9:01
  calling
• 9:01
  them
• 9:01
  to
• 9:01
  do.
• 9:02
  But
• 9:02
  he's
• 9:02
  really
• 9:02
  just
• 9:03
  calling
• 9:03
  us
• 9:03
  to
• 9:03
  take
• 9:03
  like
• 9:03
  one
• 9:04
  step
• 9:04
  into
• 9:04
  the
• 9:04
  dark.
• 9:04
  And
• 9:04
  he's
• 9:05
  going
• 9:05
  to
• 9:05
  like
• 9:05
  make
• 9:05
  the
• 9:05
  rest
• 9:05
  of
• 9:06
  the
• 9:06
  path.
• 9:06
  It's
• 9:06
  actually
• 9:06
  so
• 9:07
  good
• 9:07
  that
• 9:07
  we
• 9:07
  can't
• 9:08
  see
• 9:08
  the
• 9:08
  long
• 9:08
  term
• 9:09
  plan
• 9:09
  he
• 9:09
  has
• 9:09
  for
• 9:10
  us
• 9:10
  because
• 9:10
  we'd
• 9:10
  probably
• 9:10
  be
• 9:11
  freaked
• 9:11
  out
• 9:11
  and
• 9:11
  be
• 9:11
  like,
• 9:11
  no,
• 9:11
  I'm
• 9:12
  not
• 9:12
  doing
• 9:12
  that.
• 9:13
  Oh
• 9:13
  yeah.
• 9:13
  One
• 9:14
  step
• 9:14
  at
• 9:14
  a
• 9:14
  time.
• 9:14
  And
• 9:15
  then,
• 9:15
  yeah,
• 9:15
  like
• 9:15
  you
• 9:15
  say,
• 9:15
  you
• 9:15
  sit
• 9:16
  in
• 9:16
  it,
• 9:16
  you
• 9:16
  go,
• 9:17
  yes,
• 9:17
  this
• 9:17
  feels
• 9:17
  so
• 9:18
  right.
• 9:18
  And
• 9:18
  it
• 9:18
  might
• 9:18
  not
• 9:19
  be
• 9:19
  forever.
• 9:19
  It
• 9:19
  might
• 9:19
  just
• 9:19
  be
• 9:19
  a
• 9:20
  stepping
• 9:20
  stone,
• 9:21
  but
• 9:22
  to
• 9:22
  just
• 9:22
  acknowledge
• 9:22
  that
• 9:23
  he's,
• 9:23
  he's
• 9:23
  leading
• 9:24
  us
• 9:24
  if
• 9:24
  we're
• 9:24
  willing
• 9:24
  to
• 9:24
  go.
• 9:24
  I
• 9:24
  love
• 9:25
  that.
• 9:25
  Yeah.
• 9:25
  Yeah.
• 9:26
  Well,
• 9:26
  I
• 9:26
  think
• 9:26
  it's
• 9:26
  also
• 9:27
  recognizing
• 9:28
  your
• 9:29
  spiritual
• 9:29
  gifts
• 9:30
  and,
• 9:31
  and
• 9:31
  understanding.
• 9:33
  You
• 9:33
  know,
• 9:33
  like,
• 9:34
  like
• 9:34
  for
• 9:34
  me,
• 9:34
  like
• 9:34
  I
• 9:35
  told
• 9:35
  you,
• 9:35
  I
• 9:35
  love,
• 9:36
  I
• 9:36
  love
• 9:36
  teenagers.
• 9:37
  Like
• 9:37
  I
• 9:38
  can
• 9:38
  connect
• 9:38
  with
• 9:38
  teenagers.
• 9:39
  I
• 9:39
  can
• 9:39
  get
• 9:39
  kids
• 9:39
  to
• 9:39
  talk
• 9:40
  to
• 9:40
  me.
• 9:41
  I
• 9:41
  am
• 9:41
  a
• 9:41
  builder.
• 9:42
  I'm
• 9:43
  really
• 9:43
  good
• 9:44
  at
• 9:44
  just
• 9:45
  loving
• 9:45
  people
• 9:46
  and
• 9:46
  without
• 9:47
  judgment.
• 9:48
  I
• 9:48
  mean,
• 9:48
  not
• 9:48
  always
• 9:49
  my
• 9:49
  own
• 9:49
  kids,
• 9:49
  but
• 9:50
  definitely
• 9:50
  other
• 9:50
  people's
• 9:51
  kids.
• 9:51
  Right.
• 9:52
  But,
• 9:52
  but
• 9:53
  I
• 9:53
  think
• 9:53
  like.
• 9:54
  I,
• 9:54
  I
• 9:55
  recognize
• 9:55
  like
• 9:56
  that,
• 9:56
  that
• 9:56
  is
• 9:56
  like
• 9:57
  my
• 9:57
  gift
• 9:58
  and
• 9:59
  I
• 9:59
  need,
• 10:00
  I
• 10:00
  need
• 10:01
  to
• 10:01
  use
• 10:01
  it.
• 10:01
  You
• 10:01
  know,
• 10:01
  I
• 10:02
  need
• 10:02
  to
• 10:02
  do
• 10:02
  it.
• 10:02
  I,
• 10:03
  I
• 10:03
  had,
• 10:03
  there
• 10:04
  was
• 10:04
  an
• 10:04
  experience
• 10:05
  where
• 10:05
  I
• 10:05
  had,
• 10:05
  when
• 10:05
  I
• 10:05
  was
• 10:05
  going
• 10:05
  to
• 10:06
  Haiti,
• 10:06
  like,
• 10:06
  so
• 10:06
  you
• 10:07
  go
• 10:07
  to
• 10:07
  Haiti
• 10:08
  and
• 10:08
  we
• 10:08
  talked
• 10:08
  before
• 10:09
  you
• 10:09
  hit
• 10:09
  record,
• 10:09
  we
• 10:09
  talked
• 10:09
  about
• 10:10
  Mexico,
• 10:10
  that
• 10:10
  you
• 10:10
  lived
• 10:10
  in
• 10:10
  Mexico.
• 10:11
  And
• 10:11
  so
• 10:11
  I,
• 10:12
  I
• 10:12
  had
• 10:12
  understood,
• 10:13
  I'd
• 10:14
  been
• 10:14
  to
• 10:14
  Mexico
• 10:15
  many
• 10:15
  times.
• 10:15
  I
• 10:15
  understood
• 10:16
  what
• 10:16
  a
• 10:16
  third
• 10:16
  world
• 10:16
  country
• 10:17
  looked
• 10:17
  like,
• 10:18
  but.
• 10:18
  You
• 10:18
  cannot
• 10:19
  wrap
• 10:19
  your
• 10:19
  head
• 10:20
  around
• 10:21
  the
• 10:21
  poverty
• 10:22
  of
• 10:22
  Haiti.
• 10:23
  Like,
• 10:23
  I
• 10:23
  mean,
• 10:23
  it
• 10:23
  is
• 10:24
  just.
• 10:25
  pure
• 10:25
  chaos
• 10:25
  over
• 10:26
  there.
• 10:26
  Like,
• 10:26
  Mexico
• 10:27
  looks
• 10:28
  like,
• 10:29
  like,
• 10:29
  amazing
• 10:30
  compared,
• 10:31
  compared
• 10:31
  to
• 10:31
  Haiti.
• 10:32
  I
• 10:32
  mean,
• 10:32
  they
• 10:33
  had
• 10:33
  this
• 10:33
  earthquake
• 10:34
  in
• 10:34
  2000,
• 10:35
  and
• 10:35
  I
• 10:35
  can't
• 10:35
  remember,
• 10:36
  17,
• 10:37
  18,
• 10:37
  I
• 10:37
  can't
• 10:37
  remember,
• 10:37
  but
• 10:38
  they
• 10:38
  never,
• 10:38
  like,
• 10:38
  really
• 10:39
  rebuilt.
• 10:39
  They,
• 10:39
  because
• 10:40
  they
• 10:40
  didn't
• 10:40
  have,
• 10:40
  they
• 10:40
  don't
• 10:41
  have
• 10:42
  any
• 10:42
  systems.
• 10:42
  And
• 10:43
  so
• 10:43
  even
• 10:43
  just
• 10:43
  driving
• 10:44
  down
• 10:44
  the
• 10:44
  streets,
• 10:45
  kids
• 10:45
  aren't
• 10:45
  in
• 10:45
  school,
• 10:45
  so
• 10:45
  there's
• 10:46
  hundreds
• 10:46
  of
• 10:46
  people
• 10:46
  in
• 10:47
  the
• 10:47
  streets.
• 10:47
  This
• 10:47
  is
• 10:47
  like
• 10:47
  Port
• 10:48
  au
• 10:48
  Prince,
• 10:48
  but,
• 10:49
  and
• 10:49
  there's
• 10:49
  just
• 10:49
  rubble
• 10:50
  everywhere.
• 10:51
  And
• 10:51
  it's
• 10:51
  just
• 10:51
  chaos,
• 10:52
  like,
• 10:52
  even
• 10:52
  the
• 10:52
  roads,
• 10:53
  it'd
• 10:53
  be
• 10:53
  like,
• 10:53
  one
• 10:53
  car
• 10:53
  would
• 10:54
  go,
• 10:54
  one
• 10:54
  would
• 10:54
  stop,
• 10:54
  one
• 10:54
  would
• 10:55
  go,
• 10:55
  like,
• 10:55
  there's
• 10:56
  not
• 10:56
  stop
• 10:56
  signs,
• 10:56
  there's
• 10:56
  not,
• 10:57
  you
• 10:57
  know,
• 10:57
  you're
• 10:58
  weaving
• 10:58
  in
• 10:58
  and
• 10:58
  out
• 10:59
  of,
• 10:59
  like,
• 10:59
  holes
• 10:59
  in
• 10:59
  the
• 11:00
  street,
• 11:00
  and
• 11:00
  then
• 11:00
  there's
• 11:01
  just
• 11:01
  people
• 11:01
  that,
• 11:01
  like,
• 11:01
  just
• 11:02
  swarm
• 11:02
  you,
• 11:02
  and
• 11:02
  then
• 11:03
  they're
• 11:03
  so
• 11:04
  poor,
• 11:04
  you
• 11:04
  go
• 11:05
  into
• 11:05
  any
• 11:05
  grocery
• 11:06
  store,
• 11:06
  and
• 11:06
  there
• 11:06
  are,
• 11:06
  like,
• 11:07
  men
• 11:07
  with
• 11:07
  machine
• 11:08
  guns
• 11:08
  at
• 11:08
  the
• 11:08
  end
• 11:08
  of
• 11:08
  every
• 11:09
  aisle,
• 11:10
  and
• 11:10
  even
• 11:10
  our
• 11:10
  school,
• 11:11
  we
• 11:12
  had
• 11:12
  an
• 11:12
  armed
• 11:12
  guard
• 11:13
  with,
• 11:13
  outside
• 11:14
  the
• 11:14
  gate,
• 11:14
  and
• 11:14
  they'd
• 11:15
  lock
• 11:15
  the,
• 11:15
  this
• 11:15
  big
• 11:16
  metal
• 11:16
  gate,
• 11:17
  to
• 11:17
  let
• 11:17
  kids
• 11:18
  in
• 11:18
  and
• 11:18
  out.
• 11:18
  Like,
• 11:19
  so
• 11:19
  it
• 11:19
  just
• 11:20
  like,
• 11:20
  I,
• 11:20
  I,
• 11:21
  I
• 11:21
  just
• 11:21
  could
• 11:21
  not
• 11:21
  like
• 11:22
  that.
• 11:22
  You
• 11:22
  can't
• 11:22
  fathom
• 11:23
  like
• 11:23
  the
• 11:24
  poverty.
• 11:25
  And
• 11:25
  so,
• 11:26
  but
• 11:26
  when
• 11:27
  every
• 11:27
  time
• 11:27
  I'd
• 11:27
  go
• 11:28
  to
• 11:28
  Haiti,
• 11:28
  we
• 11:28
  called
• 11:29
  it
• 11:29
  like,
• 11:30
  well,
• 11:30
  I
• 11:30
  remember
• 11:30
  the
• 11:30
  first
• 11:30
  time
• 11:31
  that
• 11:32
  I
• 11:32
  went
• 11:32
  to
• 11:32
  Haiti,
• 11:33
  it
• 11:33
  was
• 11:33
  like,
• 11:33
  it
• 11:34
  was
• 11:34
  like
• 11:34
  such
• 11:34
  a
• 11:34
  spiritual
• 11:35
  experience.
• 11:35
  And
• 11:35
  I
• 11:35
  remember,
• 11:36
  um,
• 11:37
  one
• 11:37
  of
• 11:37
  the
• 11:37
  founders
• 11:37
  of
• 11:37
  this
• 11:38
  nonprofit
• 11:38
  said
• 11:38
  to
• 11:38
  me,
• 11:39
  you
• 11:39
  don't
• 11:39
  choose
• 11:40
  Haiti,
• 11:40
  Haiti
• 11:41
  chooses
• 11:41
  you.
• 11:42
  And.
• 11:43
  I
• 11:44
  was
• 11:44
  like,
• 11:44
  wow,
• 11:44
  that's
• 11:45
  like
• 11:45
  really
• 11:45
  powerful
• 11:46
  because
• 11:46
  it
• 11:46
  was
• 11:46
  like,
• 11:46
  once
• 11:47
  I
• 11:47
  went,
• 11:47
  I
• 11:47
  was
• 11:47
  like,
• 11:48
  I,
• 11:48
  I
• 11:49
  can't
• 11:49
  ever
• 11:49
  like
• 11:50
  not
• 11:50
  do
• 11:50
  this
• 11:50
  anymore.
• 11:51
  And,
• 11:52
  and
• 11:53
  I
• 11:53
  felt
• 11:53
  like
• 11:53
  this,
• 11:53
  like,
• 11:54
  you
• 11:54
  know,
• 11:54
  like
• 11:55
  pull,
• 11:55
  like
• 11:55
  I
• 11:55
  have
• 11:55
  to
• 11:55
  help
• 11:56
  these
• 11:56
  kids.
• 11:56
  But
• 11:57
  when
• 11:57
  you,
• 11:57
  when
• 11:58
  we
• 11:58
  go
• 11:58
  on
• 11:58
  these
• 11:58
  trips,
• 11:59
  we
• 11:59
  all
• 11:59
  call
• 12:00
  this,
• 12:00
  like,
• 12:00
  if
• 12:00
  you've
• 12:00
  been
• 12:01
  there
• 12:01
  and
• 12:01
  you're
• 12:01
  in
• 12:01
  with
• 12:02
  us,
• 12:02
  nonprofit,
• 12:02
  we
• 12:02
  always
• 12:02
  are
• 12:03
  like,
• 12:03
  we
• 12:03
  have
• 12:03
  to
• 12:03
  hate
• 12:04
  the
• 12:04
  Haiti
• 12:04
  funk
• 12:05
  because
• 12:05
  you
• 12:05
  go
• 12:05
  to
• 12:05
  Haiti
• 12:06
  and
• 12:06
  it's
• 12:06
  so
• 12:07
  there's
• 12:07
  so
• 12:07
  much
• 12:07
  poverty
• 12:07
  and
• 12:08
  it's
• 12:08
  so
• 12:09
  poor.
• 12:09
  Then
• 12:09
  you
• 12:09
  come
• 12:10
  home
• 12:11
  and
• 12:11
  you
• 12:12
  are
• 12:12
  like,
• 12:13
  Why
• 12:13
  do
• 12:14
  I
• 12:14
  need,
• 12:14
  like,
• 12:15
  two
• 12:15
  cars?
• 12:15
  Why
• 12:16
  do
• 12:16
  I
• 12:16
  need
• 12:17
  a
• 12:17
  house
• 12:17
  this
• 12:17
  big?
• 12:18
  Why
• 12:18
  do,
• 12:19
  why
• 12:19
  is
• 12:19
  there
• 12:19
  food
• 12:19
  in
• 12:19
  the
• 12:19
  trash?
• 12:20
  Why,
• 12:21
  you
• 12:21
  know,
• 12:21
  because
• 12:22
  it's
• 12:22
  so,
• 12:22
  you
• 12:22
  know,
• 12:23
  and
• 12:23
  you
• 12:23
  kind
• 12:23
  of
• 12:23
  get
• 12:24
  in
• 12:24
  a
• 12:24
  funk,
• 12:24
  like
• 12:24
  a,
• 12:25
  like
• 12:25
  a
• 12:25
  depression,
• 12:26
  you
• 12:26
  know,
• 12:26
  like,
• 12:27
  man,
• 12:27
  like,
• 12:27
  this
• 12:28
  is
• 12:28
  just
• 12:28
  so
• 12:28
  depressing.
• 12:29
  And
• 12:29
  I,
• 12:29
  and
• 12:30
  I
• 12:30
  had
• 12:30
  this,
• 12:30
  this,
• 12:31
  uh,
• 12:31
  Like
• 12:32
  this
• 12:32
  thought
• 12:32
  once
• 12:33
  and,
• 12:33
  and,
• 12:34
  you
• 12:34
  know,
• 12:34
  and
• 12:34
  it
• 12:34
  just
• 12:34
  was
• 12:34
  like,
• 12:35
  I
• 12:35
  was
• 12:35
  thinking,
• 12:36
  like,
• 12:36
  why
• 12:36
  did
• 12:36
  God
• 12:37
  give
• 12:37
  me
• 12:37
  this
• 12:38
  life
• 12:38
  and
• 12:38
  give
• 12:39
  those
• 12:39
  people
• 12:40
  that
• 12:40
  life?
• 12:41
  And
• 12:42
  I
• 12:42
  was
• 12:42
  thinking,
• 12:43
  you
• 12:43
  know,
• 12:43
  like,
• 12:43
  what
• 12:43
  would
• 12:44
  God,
• 12:44
  God
• 12:45
  think,
• 12:45
  you
• 12:45
  know,
• 12:45
  and,
• 12:46
  and
• 12:46
  I
• 12:46
  had
• 12:46
  this
• 12:46
  thought
• 12:47
  where
• 12:47
  it
• 12:47
  was
• 12:47
  like,
• 12:47
  God
• 12:48
  gave
• 12:48
  me
• 12:48
  these
• 12:49
  gifts.
• 12:49
  He
• 12:49
  gave
• 12:49
  me
• 12:50
  intelligence.
• 12:50
  He
• 12:50
  gave
• 12:51
  me,
• 12:51
  like,
• 12:52
  drive.
• 12:52
  He
• 12:53
  gave
• 12:53
  me,
• 12:54
  like,
• 12:54
  a
• 12:54
  voice.
• 12:55
  He
• 12:55
  gave
• 12:55
  me
• 12:55
  all
• 12:56
  these
• 12:56
  gifts.
• 12:56
  And
• 12:57
  if
• 12:57
  I
• 12:57
  do
• 12:57
  not
• 12:57
  use
• 12:58
  them
• 12:58
  to
• 12:58
  help
• 12:58
  other
• 12:59
  people,
• 12:59
  then
• 12:59
  shame
• 12:59
  on
• 13:00
  me.
• 13:00
  Like,
• 13:00
  shame
• 13:00
  on
• 13:00
  me
• 13:01
  that
• 13:01
  I
• 13:01
  was
• 13:01
  given
• 13:01
  these
• 13:02
  gifts
• 13:02
  and
• 13:02
  I
• 13:02
  did
• 13:02
  not
• 13:02
  use
• 13:03
  them
• 13:03
  to
• 13:03
  help
• 13:03
  other
• 13:03
  people.
• 13:05
  You
• 13:06
  know,
• 13:06
  I
• 13:06
  think
• 13:06
  from
• 13:06
  that
• 13:07
  point
• 13:07
  on,
• 13:08
  you
• 13:08
  know,
• 13:08
  like
• 13:08
  recognizing
• 13:09
  like
• 13:09
  we
• 13:10
  have
• 13:10
  so
• 13:11
  many
• 13:11
  gifts
• 13:12
  that
• 13:12
  we
• 13:12
  don't
• 13:12
  even
• 13:12
  realize
• 13:13
  like,
• 13:13
  like
• 13:14
  that
• 13:14
  we
• 13:14
  have,
• 13:15
  you
• 13:15
  know,
• 13:15
  and
• 13:15
  so,
• 13:16
  but
• 13:16
  it's
• 13:17
  like,
• 13:17
  are
• 13:17
  we
• 13:17
  using
• 13:18
  our
• 13:18
  gifts
• 13:18
  to
• 13:19
  help
• 13:19
  other
• 13:19
  people
• 13:20
  to,
• 13:20
  to
• 13:20
  build
• 13:21
  other
• 13:21
  people
• 13:21
  up?
• 13:21
  Are
• 13:22
  we
• 13:22
  really?
• 13:23
  like
• 13:23
  a
• 13:23
  tool,
• 13:24
  you
• 13:24
  know,
• 13:25
  for
• 13:25
  like
• 13:26
  God,
• 13:26
  you
• 13:26
  know?
• 13:27
  And
• 13:27
  so,
• 13:28
  you
• 13:28
  know,
• 13:28
  at
• 13:28
  that
• 13:28
  time
• 13:29
  I
• 13:29
  was
• 13:29
  just
• 13:29
  like,
• 13:29
  I,
• 13:30
  I
• 13:30
  like,
• 13:30
  I
• 13:30
  have
• 13:30
  to
• 13:30
  help,
• 13:31
  like
• 13:31
  I
• 13:31
  have
• 13:31
  to
• 13:31
  help
• 13:31
  other
• 13:31
  people.
• 13:32
  So,
• 13:33
  yeah.
• 13:33
  I
• 13:33
  love
• 13:33
  that.
• 13:34
  And
• 13:34
  this
• 13:35
  is
• 13:35
  so,
• 13:35
  uh,
• 13:36
  good
• 13:36
  for
• 13:37
  my
• 13:37
  audience
• 13:37
  because
• 13:37
  so
• 13:38
  many
• 13:38
  of
• 13:38
  us
• 13:38
  get
• 13:38
  into
• 13:39
  coaching
• 13:39
  or
• 13:39
  content
• 13:40
  creating
• 13:40
  or
• 13:40
  something
• 13:40
  because
• 13:41
  we
• 13:41
  feel
• 13:41
  a
• 13:41
  drive
• 13:41
  to
• 13:41
  help.
• 13:42
  Most
• 13:42
  of
• 13:42
  the
• 13:42
  time
• 13:42
  it's
• 13:43
  not
• 13:43
  like,
• 13:43
  you
• 13:43
  know
• 13:43
  what?
• 13:44
  I
• 13:44
  think
• 13:44
  this
• 13:44
  is
• 13:44
  going
• 13:44
  to
• 13:44
  be
• 13:44
  the
• 13:44
  easiest
• 13:45
  way
• 13:45
  to
• 13:45
  make
• 13:45
  me
• 13:45
  a
• 13:45
  millionaire.
• 13:46
  I
• 13:46
  mean,
• 13:46
  it
• 13:46
  kind
• 13:47
  of
• 13:47
  is
• 13:47
  in
• 13:47
  a
• 13:47
  lot
• 13:47
  of
• 13:47
  ways,
• 13:48
  but
• 13:48
  at
• 13:48
  the
• 13:48
  same
• 13:49
  time,
• 13:49
  that's,
• 13:49
  that's
• 13:50
  not
• 13:50
  where
• 13:50
  most
• 13:50
  of
• 13:50
  these
• 13:51
  women
• 13:51
  of
• 13:51
  faith
• 13:51
  come
• 13:51
  from,
• 13:52
  right?
• 13:52
  It's
• 13:52
  like,
• 13:52
  I
• 13:52
  feel
• 13:53
  this
• 13:53
  calling.
• 13:53
  I
• 13:53
  have
• 13:54
  to
• 13:54
  do
• 13:54
  this.
• 13:54
  Whether
• 13:55
  I'm
• 13:55
  going
• 13:55
  to
• 13:55
  be
• 13:55
  successful
• 13:55
  at
• 13:56
  it
• 13:56
  or
• 13:56
  not
• 13:56
  doesn't
• 13:56
  matter,
• 13:56
  but
• 13:57
  I'm
• 13:57
  feeling
• 13:57
  called
• 13:57
  to
• 13:57
  do
• 13:57
  it.
• 13:58
  So
• 13:58
  let's
• 13:58
  talk
• 13:59
  specifically
• 13:59
  about
• 13:59
  your
• 14:00
  nonprofit
• 14:00
  now.
• 14:01
  The
• 14:01
  Compassion
• 14:01
  Club.
• 14:02
  Is
• 14:02
  that
• 14:02
  what
• 14:02
  it's
• 14:02
  called?
• 14:02
  Yeah.
• 14:03
  Yeah.
• 14:03
  Awesome.
• 14:03
  I'd
• 14:03
  love
• 14:03
  to
• 14:03
  hear
• 14:04
  more
• 14:04
  about
• 14:04
  it
• 14:04
  and
• 14:05
  why
• 14:05
  you
• 14:05
  started
• 14:05
  that.
• 14:05
  Yeah.
• 14:06
  So,
• 14:07
  um,
• 14:07
  so
• 14:08
  I
• 14:08
  was
• 14:08
  at
• 14:08
  the
• 14:08
  time,
• 14:09
  uh,
• 14:09
  this
• 14:10
  was
• 14:10
  in
• 14:10
  2017.
• 14:12
  But
• 14:12
  I
• 14:12
  was
• 14:13
  working
• 14:13
  with
• 14:14
  Haitian
• 14:14
  roots
• 14:14
  and
• 14:14
  I
• 14:15
  was
• 14:15
  going
• 14:15
  to
• 14:15
  Haiti
• 14:15
  and
• 14:16
  I
• 14:16
  was,
• 14:16
  I
• 14:16
  was
• 14:16
  doing
• 14:16
  all
• 14:17
  of
• 14:17
  all
• 14:17
  that
• 14:17
  stuff.
• 14:18
  And,
• 14:19
  you
• 14:19
  know,
• 14:19
  I
• 14:19
  look
• 14:19
  at
• 14:19
  my
• 14:20
  life
• 14:20
  and,
• 14:20
  you
• 14:21
  know,
• 14:21
  I
• 14:21
  had
• 14:21
  this
• 14:21
  thriving
• 14:22
  photography
• 14:22
  business.
• 14:23
  I
• 14:23
  owned
• 14:23
  a
• 14:23
  photography
• 14:24
  magazine.
• 14:24
  I
• 14:24
  was
• 14:24
  going
• 14:25
  to
• 14:25
  Haiti.
• 14:25
  I
• 14:25
  was
• 14:25
  working
• 14:25
  with
• 14:25
  a
• 14:26
  nonprofit.
• 14:27
  And,
• 14:28
  um,
• 14:29
  It
• 14:29
  was
• 14:29
  2017
• 14:30
  and
• 14:30
  I
• 14:30
  had
• 14:31
  an
• 14:31
  El
• 14:31
  Paso
• 14:32
  and
• 14:32
  three
• 14:32
  kids
• 14:33
  and
• 14:33
  my
• 14:33
  oldest
• 14:33
  son
• 14:34
  Gage
• 14:34
  was
• 14:34
  14
• 14:35
  and,
• 14:36
  um,
• 14:37
  he
• 14:37
  was
• 14:37
  in
• 14:38
  an
• 14:38
  accident
• 14:38
  with
• 14:39
  a
• 14:39
  firearm
• 14:40
  and
• 14:40
  my
• 14:40
  son
• 14:41
  passed
• 14:41
  away
• 14:42
  and,
• 14:43
  um,
• 14:44
  you
• 14:44
  know,
• 14:44
  it
• 14:45
  just,
• 14:45
  it
• 14:45
  like,
• 14:46
  it
• 14:46
  shook
• 14:47
  my
• 14:47
  world
• 14:48
  and,
• 14:49
  you
• 14:49
  know,
• 14:50
  I
• 14:51
  always
• 14:51
  think
• 14:51
  of
• 14:51
  like,
• 14:52
  you
• 14:52
  know,
• 14:52
  sometimes
• 14:52
  when
• 14:52
  we're
• 14:52
  like
• 14:53
  struggling.
• 14:54
  And
• 14:55
  we
• 14:55
  think
• 14:55
  our
• 14:55
  life
• 14:55
  is
• 14:55
  so
• 14:56
  hard,
• 14:56
  like,
• 14:57
  we
• 14:57
  think
• 14:57
  like,
• 14:58
  there's,
• 14:58
  I
• 14:58
  always,
• 14:58
  and
• 14:59
  I
• 14:59
  say
• 14:59
  this
• 14:59
  to
• 14:59
  my
• 14:59
  kids,
• 15:00
  there's
• 15:00
  going
• 15:00
  to
• 15:00
  be
• 15:00
  a
• 15:00
  time
• 15:01
  in
• 15:01
  your
• 15:01
  life
• 15:01
  where
• 15:01
  you're
• 15:02
  going
• 15:02
  to
• 15:02
  look
• 15:02
  back
• 15:02
  and
• 15:02
  say,
• 15:02
  I
• 15:03
  wish
• 15:03
  that
• 15:03
  I,
• 15:04
  I
• 15:04
  wish
• 15:04
  I
• 15:04
  was
• 15:04
  in
• 15:05
  that
• 15:05
  struggle.
• 15:05
  Like,
• 15:05
  my
• 15:06
  life
• 15:06
  was
• 15:06
  like,
• 15:06
  so
• 15:07
  good,
• 15:07
  you
• 15:07
  know,
• 15:08
  and
• 15:10
  I
• 15:10
  look
• 15:10
  at
• 15:10
  that.
• 15:11
  And,
• 15:12
  um,
• 15:12
  you
• 15:12
  know,
• 15:13
  so,
• 15:13
  so
• 15:13
  my
• 15:13
  son
• 15:13
  passed
• 15:14
  away
• 15:15
  and,
• 15:16
  um,
• 15:16
  he
• 15:16
  was
• 15:16
  14,
• 15:17
  almost
• 15:17
  15.
• 15:18
  And,
• 15:19
  um,
• 15:20
  you
• 15:20
  know,
• 15:21
  the
• 15:21
  kids,
• 15:21
  like
• 15:22
  we,
• 15:22
  our
• 15:23
  house
• 15:23
  was
• 15:23
  always
• 15:23
  a
• 15:23
  house
• 15:24
  where
• 15:24
  we
• 15:24
  always
• 15:24
  had,
• 15:24
  had
• 15:25
  tons
• 15:25
  of
• 15:25
  kids
• 15:25
  at
• 15:26
  our
• 15:26
  house
• 15:26
  all
• 15:26
  the
• 15:26
  time.
• 15:27
  And
• 15:27
  his
• 15:27
  friends
• 15:27
  were
• 15:27
  always
• 15:28
  at
• 15:28
  our
• 15:28
  house
• 15:28
  and
• 15:29
  it
• 15:29
  just
• 15:30
  like
• 15:30
  shook
• 15:30
  our
• 15:30
  whole
• 15:30
  community.
• 15:31
  He
• 15:31
  was
• 15:31
  just
• 15:31
  like
• 15:31
  such
• 15:32
  an
• 15:32
  awesome
• 15:32
  kid.
• 15:33
  And
• 15:33
  he
• 15:33
  talked
• 15:33
  to
• 15:34
  everybody.
• 15:34
  It
• 15:34
  was
• 15:34
  super
• 15:35
  outgoing.
• 15:35
  He
• 15:35
  was
• 15:35
  like
• 15:36
  in
• 15:36
  the
• 15:36
  gifted
• 15:37
  and
• 15:37
  talented
• 15:37
  program.
• 15:38
  So
• 15:38
  he
• 15:38
  was
• 15:39
  like
• 15:39
  smart.
• 15:39
  He's
• 15:39
  friends
• 15:40
  with
• 15:40
  all
• 15:40
  the
• 15:40
  intellects
• 15:41
  and,
• 15:42
  but
• 15:42
  he
• 15:42
  was
• 15:42
  like
• 15:43
  a
• 15:43
  varsity
• 15:43
  wrestler.
• 15:43
  So
• 15:44
  he
• 15:44
  has
• 15:44
  friends
• 15:44
  with
• 15:44
  the
• 15:44
  jocks
• 15:45
  and,
• 15:45
  you
• 15:46
  know,
• 15:46
  and
• 15:46
  he
• 15:46
  just,
• 15:46
  he
• 15:47
  was
• 15:47
  just
• 15:47
  a
• 15:47
  talker
• 15:48
  and
• 15:48
  just.
• 15:48
  Just
• 15:49
  such
• 15:49
  an
• 15:49
  awesome
• 15:49
  kid.
• 15:50
  And
• 15:50
  so,
• 15:51
  um,
• 15:52
  you
• 15:52
  know,
• 15:52
  we
• 15:52
  saw
• 15:52
  these
• 15:53
  kids
• 15:53
  started
• 15:54
  coming
• 15:54
  to
• 15:54
  our
• 15:54
  house.
• 15:55
  And
• 15:56
  before
• 15:57
  that,
• 15:57
  we,
• 15:58
  you
• 15:58
  know,
• 15:59
  um,
• 15:59
  we
• 15:59
  started,
• 16:00
  I
• 16:00
  started
• 16:00
  getting
• 16:00
  these
• 16:01
  messages.
• 16:02
  And
• 16:03
  they
• 16:03
  were
• 16:03
  like
• 16:03
  letters,
• 16:04
  people
• 16:04
  were
• 16:04
  dropping
• 16:05
  off
• 16:05
  letters
• 16:05
  and
• 16:06
  in
• 16:07
  the
• 16:07
  mail,
• 16:07
  at
• 16:07
  my
• 16:07
  door,
• 16:08
  like
• 16:08
  sending
• 16:09
  me
• 16:09
  messages,
• 16:09
  sending
• 16:10
  me
• 16:10
  text
• 16:10
  messages
• 16:11
  and
• 16:11
  DMs.
• 16:13
  And
• 16:13
  it
• 16:13
  was
• 16:13
  like
• 16:13
  all
• 16:13
  these
• 16:13
  messages
• 16:14
  of
• 16:14
  how
• 16:14
  my
• 16:15
  son
• 16:15
  had
• 16:15
  impacted
• 16:16
  their
• 16:16
  life
• 16:16
  in
• 16:16
  such
• 16:16
  a
• 16:17
  positive
• 16:17
  way.
• 16:18
  And
• 16:18
  just
• 16:19
  I
• 16:19
  knew
• 16:19
  he
• 16:20
  was
• 16:20
  like
• 16:20
  an
• 16:20
  awesome
• 16:20
  kid,
• 16:21
  but
• 16:21
  like,
• 16:21
  I
• 16:21
  had
• 16:21
  no
• 16:22
  idea,
• 16:22
  like
• 16:23
  the
• 16:23
  impact
• 16:23
  he
• 16:23
  had
• 16:24
  on
• 16:24
  like,
• 16:24
  so
• 16:24
  many
• 16:24
  people.
• 16:25
  And
• 16:26
  he
• 16:26
  was
• 16:26
  like
• 16:26
  a
• 16:26
  little
• 16:26
  entrepreneur
• 16:27
  and
• 16:27
  he
• 16:27
  had
• 16:27
  a
• 16:28
  garbage
• 16:28
  can
• 16:28
  cleaning
• 16:29
  business.
• 16:29
  And
• 16:29
  I
• 16:29
  got
• 16:30
  letters
• 16:30
  from
• 16:31
  people.
• 16:31
  He'd
• 16:31
  clean
• 16:31
  their
• 16:32
  cans
• 16:32
  and
• 16:32
  now
• 16:32
  he'd
• 16:32
  play
• 16:33
  with
• 16:33
  their
• 16:33
  kids
• 16:34
  and,
• 16:34
  and
• 16:35
  just
• 16:35
  do
• 16:36
  like,
• 16:36
  just
• 16:36
  kind
• 16:37
  things.
• 16:37
  And
• 16:38
  I
• 16:38
  mean,
• 16:39
  I
• 16:39
  ended
• 16:39
  up
• 16:39
  putting
• 16:40
  a
• 16:40
  lot
• 16:40
  of
• 16:40
  them
• 16:40
  in,
• 16:40
  in
• 16:40
  books.
• 16:41
  And
• 16:41
  I
• 16:41
  mean,
• 16:42
  I
• 16:42
  got
• 16:42
  probably
• 16:42
  over
• 16:42
  500
• 16:43
  messages,
• 16:44
  like
• 16:44
  from
• 16:45
  people
• 16:45
  that
• 16:45
  he
• 16:46
  had
• 16:46
  like
• 16:46
  impacted.
• 16:47
  And
• 16:47
  so
• 16:48
  it
• 16:48
  really
• 16:48
  like
• 16:48
  rocked.
• 16:49
  the
• 16:49
  community.
• 16:51
  And,
• 16:51
  um,
• 16:52
  just
• 16:52
  because
• 16:52
  he
• 16:52
  was
• 16:53
  just
• 16:53
  friends
• 16:53
  with
• 16:53
  everybody.
• 16:54
  He
• 16:54
  didn't
• 16:54
  discriminate
• 16:55
  with
• 16:55
  age,
• 16:56
  with
• 16:56
  like
• 16:57
  nothing,
• 16:57
  with
• 16:58
  race,
• 16:58
  nothing.
• 16:58
  He
• 16:58
  just
• 16:59
  was
• 16:59
  friends
• 16:59
  with
• 16:59
  everybody.
• 16:59
  And
• 17:00
  so
• 17:01
  then
• 17:02
  at
• 17:02
  right,
• 17:02
  like
• 17:03
  after
• 17:03
  that,
• 17:03
  um,
• 17:04
  you
• 17:04
  know,
• 17:04
  we
• 17:04
  started
• 17:05
  to
• 17:05
  get
• 17:05
  like
• 17:05
  knocks
• 17:05
  on
• 17:05
  our
• 17:06
  door
• 17:06
  and
• 17:06
  then
• 17:06
  another
• 17:07
  and
• 17:07
  another
• 17:07
  and
• 17:07
  another,
• 17:07
  and
• 17:08
  these
• 17:08
  kids
• 17:08
  were
• 17:08
  just
• 17:09
  coming
• 17:09
  to
• 17:09
  our
• 17:09
  house
• 17:10
  and
• 17:10
  they
• 17:10
  just
• 17:10
  wanted
• 17:11
  to,
• 17:11
  like,
• 17:12
  they
• 17:12
  just
• 17:12
  wanted
• 17:12
  to
• 17:12
  grieve
• 17:13
  with
• 17:13
  us.
• 17:14
  And
• 17:14
  they
• 17:14
  were
• 17:14
  just
• 17:15
  like
• 17:15
  sad
• 17:15
  and,
• 17:16
  um,
• 17:18
  They
• 17:18
  just
• 17:18
  wanted
• 17:18
  to
• 17:19
  feel
• 17:19
  like
• 17:19
  love
• 17:20
  and,
• 17:20
  um,
• 17:22
  so
• 17:22
  I
• 17:23
  was
• 17:23
  like,
• 17:23
  Oh
• 17:23
  my
• 17:23
  gosh,
• 17:24
  we
• 17:24
  have
• 17:24
  to
• 17:24
  like
• 17:24
  help
• 17:25
  these
• 17:25
  kids.
• 17:25
  Like,
• 17:25
  how
• 17:26
  can
• 17:26
  we
• 17:26
  like
• 17:26
  help
• 17:26
  these
• 17:27
  kids?
• 17:28
  And
• 17:28
  I
• 17:28
  saw
• 17:28
  a
• 17:28
  lot
• 17:28
  of
• 17:28
  them
• 17:28
  like
• 17:29
  turning
• 17:29
  to
• 17:29
  like
• 17:29
  drugs
• 17:30
  and
• 17:30
  alcohol
• 17:31
  and
• 17:31
  stuff.
• 17:31
  And,
• 17:33
  and
• 17:33
  I'm
• 17:33
  like,
• 17:33
  we
• 17:33
  have
• 17:34
  to
• 17:34
  help
• 17:34
  these
• 17:34
  kids.
• 17:34
  Like,
• 17:35
  how
• 17:35
  can
• 17:35
  we
• 17:35
  help
• 17:35
  these
• 17:36
  kids?
• 17:36
  Um,
• 17:37
  before
• 17:38
  that,
• 17:38
  um,
• 17:39
  during
• 17:39
  the
• 17:40
  services
• 17:40
  and
• 17:40
  stuff.
• 17:41
  I
• 17:42
  was
• 17:42
  getting
• 17:42
  all
• 17:42
  these
• 17:42
  plants
• 17:43
  and
• 17:43
  flowers
• 17:43
  and
• 17:43
  I'm,
• 17:43
  I'm
• 17:44
  like
• 17:44
  such
• 17:44
  a
• 17:44
  practical
• 17:44
  person
• 17:45
  and
• 17:45
  you
• 17:45
  know,
• 17:45
  but
• 17:46
  I'm
• 17:46
  like,
• 17:46
  Oh,
• 17:46
  I
• 17:46
  don't
• 17:46
  want
• 17:46
  people
• 17:47
  sent.
• 17:47
  Like,
• 17:47
  this
• 17:47
  is
• 17:47
  just
• 17:48
  a
• 17:48
  waste
• 17:48
  of
• 17:48
  money.
• 17:48
  Please
• 17:49
  don't
• 17:49
  spend
• 17:49
  your
• 17:49
  money
• 17:49
  on
• 17:49
  flowers
• 17:50
  and
• 17:50
  plants.
• 17:50
  Like
• 17:50
  they're
• 17:51
  just
• 17:51
  going
• 17:51
  to
• 17:51
  die.
• 17:51
  And
• 17:52
  so
• 17:52
  my
• 17:53
  friend
• 17:53
  said,
• 17:54
  what
• 17:54
  if
• 17:54
  we
• 17:54
  started
• 17:55
  a
• 17:55
  GoFundMe
• 17:56
  and
• 17:56
  what
• 17:56
  if
• 17:56
  you
• 17:56
  started
• 17:57
  a
• 17:57
  scholarship
• 17:57
  fund
• 17:58
  for,
• 17:58
  for
• 17:58
  gauge?
• 17:59
  And
• 17:59
  I
• 17:59
  said,
• 18:00
  Oh
• 18:00
  yeah,
• 18:00
  like,
• 18:00
  that's
• 18:00
  a
• 18:01
  great
• 18:01
  idea.
• 18:01
  And
• 18:01
  she
• 18:01
  started
• 18:02
  a
• 18:02
  GoFundMe
• 18:02
  and
• 18:02
  within
• 18:03
  like
• 18:03
  a
• 18:03
  day,
• 18:04
  there
• 18:04
  was
• 18:04
  like
• 18:04
  30,
• 18:05
  000
• 18:05
  in
• 18:05
  donations.
• 18:06
  Whoa.
• 18:07
  And
• 18:08
  anyway,
• 18:08
  and
• 18:08
  so
• 18:09
  I
• 18:10
  had
• 18:10
  all
• 18:10
  this
• 18:10
  money
• 18:10
  and
• 18:10
  I'm
• 18:11
  like,
• 18:11
  what
• 18:11
  am
• 18:11
  I
• 18:11
  going
• 18:11
  to
• 18:12
  do
• 18:12
  with
• 18:12
  it?
• 18:12
  And,
• 18:13
  you
• 18:13
  know,
• 18:13
  I,
• 18:14
  I
• 18:14
  knew
• 18:14
  I
• 18:14
  was
• 18:14
  going
• 18:14
  to
• 18:14
  do
• 18:14
  a
• 18:14
  scholarship,
• 18:15
  but
• 18:15
  I'm
• 18:15
  just
• 18:15
  like,
• 18:15
  I
• 18:15
  just
• 18:16
  feel
• 18:16
  like
• 18:16
  there's
• 18:16
  more
• 18:16
  like,
• 18:17
  you
• 18:17
  know,
• 18:18
  there's
• 18:18
  more.
• 18:19
  And
• 18:19
  I
• 18:19
  remember
• 18:20
  like
• 18:20
  meeting
• 18:20
  with
• 18:21
  a
• 18:21
  mom
• 18:21
  who
• 18:22
  at
• 18:22
  a
• 18:22
  time
• 18:22
  when
• 18:22
  you're
• 18:23
  like
• 18:23
  grieving,
• 18:23
  when
• 18:23
  you're
• 18:23
  losing
• 18:24
  a
• 18:24
  child,
• 18:24
  you're
• 18:24
  just
• 18:24
  looking
• 18:25
  for
• 18:25
  hope.
• 18:26
  And
• 18:26
  I
• 18:26
  would
• 18:26
  talk
• 18:27
  to
• 18:27
  all
• 18:27
  these,
• 18:27
  these
• 18:27
  people
• 18:28
  who
• 18:28
  had
• 18:28
  lost
• 18:28
  children.
• 18:29
  And
• 18:30
  I
• 18:30
  remember
• 18:30
  meeting
• 18:31
  with
• 18:31
  this
• 18:31
  one
• 18:31
  lady
• 18:32
  and
• 18:32
  she
• 18:32
  had
• 18:33
  a
• 18:33
  nonprofit
• 18:33
  and
• 18:34
  it's
• 18:34
  called
• 18:34
  the,
• 18:34
  um,
• 18:35
  Braden
• 18:35
  Abood
• 18:35
  foundation
• 18:36
  and
• 18:37
  in
• 18:37
  El
• 18:37
  Paso,
• 18:37
  and
• 18:38
  she
• 18:39
  donates
• 18:40
  a
• 18:40
  pair
• 18:41
  of
• 18:41
  shoes
• 18:41
  and
• 18:42
  two
• 18:42
  pairs
• 18:42
  of
• 18:42
  socks
• 18:43
  to.
• 18:43
  Every
• 18:44
  kid
• 18:44
  in
• 18:44
  one
• 18:45
  low
• 18:45
  income
• 18:45
  school
• 18:45
  a
• 18:45
  year.
• 18:46
  And
• 18:47
  she
• 18:47
  told
• 18:48
  me
• 18:48
  a
• 18:48
  story
• 18:48
  about
• 18:48
  how
• 18:49
  that
• 18:50
  they
• 18:50
  had
• 18:50
  money
• 18:50
  and
• 18:51
  her
• 18:51
  kid
• 18:51
  had
• 18:51
  gone
• 18:52
  to
• 18:52
  a
• 18:52
  school
• 18:52
  where
• 18:52
  they
• 18:52
  were
• 18:52
  uniforms.
• 18:53
  And,
• 18:53
  and
• 18:54
  she'd
• 18:54
  made
• 18:54
  this
• 18:54
  comment
• 18:55
  to
• 18:55
  her,
• 18:56
  her
• 18:56
  son
• 18:56
  once
• 18:56
  when
• 18:57
  he
• 18:57
  was
• 18:57
  alive
• 18:57
  and
• 18:57
  said,
• 18:59
  um,
• 18:59
  I
• 18:59
  love
• 19:00
  uniforms
• 19:00
  because
• 19:01
  you
• 19:01
  don't
• 19:01
  know
• 19:01
  who
• 19:01
  has
• 19:01
  money
• 19:02
  and
• 19:02
  who
• 19:02
  doesn't.
• 19:03
  And
• 19:03
  her
• 19:03
  son
• 19:03
  said,
• 19:04
  until
• 19:04
  you
• 19:04
  look
• 19:04
  down
• 19:04
  at
• 19:05
  their
• 19:05
  feet
• 19:05
  and
• 19:05
  you
• 19:05
  see
• 19:05
  their
• 19:06
  shoes
• 19:06
  and
• 19:06
  that's,
• 19:07
  and
• 19:07
  he,
• 19:08
  and
• 19:08
  she
• 19:08
  did,
• 19:08
  and
• 19:08
  she
• 19:09
  said
• 19:09
  to
• 19:09
  me,
• 19:10
  she
• 19:10
  told
• 19:10
  me
• 19:10
  that
• 19:10
  story
• 19:11
  and
• 19:11
  she
• 19:11
  said
• 19:11
  it.
• 19:12
  Gage
• 19:12
  will
• 19:12
  tell
• 19:12
  you,
• 19:13
  listen,
• 19:14
  listen
• 19:15
  for
• 19:15
  Gage.
• 19:16
  He
• 19:16
  will
• 19:16
  tell
• 19:16
  you
• 19:17
  like
• 19:17
  what
• 19:17
  to
• 19:17
  do
• 19:18
  with,
• 19:19
  with
• 19:19
  the
• 19:19
  money.
• 19:20
  He
• 19:20
  will
• 19:20
  tell
• 19:20
  you
• 19:20
  what
• 19:20
  to
• 19:20
  do
• 19:21
  with
• 19:21
  like,
• 19:21
  if
• 19:21
  you
• 19:22
  start
• 19:22
  a
• 19:22
  nonprofit.
• 19:22
  And
• 19:23
  so
• 19:24
  we
• 19:24
  saw
• 19:24
  these
• 19:24
  kids
• 19:24
  like
• 19:24
  struggling
• 19:25
  and
• 19:26
  I've
• 19:26
  always
• 19:26
  been,
• 19:27
  you
• 19:27
  know,
• 19:27
  like
• 19:27
  I've
• 19:28
  always
• 19:28
  been
• 19:28
  into
• 19:28
  nonprofit
• 19:29
  work
• 19:29
  and
• 19:29
  serving.
• 19:30
  And
• 19:30
  one
• 19:31
  of
• 19:31
  my
• 19:31
  favorite
• 19:31
  quotes
• 19:31
  by
• 19:32
  Tony
• 19:32
  Robbins
• 19:32
  is
• 19:32
  we
• 19:33
  only
• 19:33
  suffer
• 19:33
  when
• 19:33
  we
• 19:33
  think
• 19:34
  of
• 19:34
  ourselves.
• 19:34
  So
• 19:34
  we
• 19:34
  think
• 19:34
  about
• 19:35
  ourselves
• 19:35
  and
• 19:36
  And
• 19:36
  I
• 19:36
  know
• 19:37
  this
• 19:37
  to
• 19:37
  be
• 19:37
  true.
• 19:37
  And
• 19:37
  even
• 19:38
  like,
• 19:39
  since
• 19:39
  I
• 19:40
  have
• 19:40
  been
• 19:40
  young,
• 19:41
  like,
• 19:41
  and
• 19:41
  raising
• 19:42
  my
• 19:42
  kids
• 19:42
  when
• 19:43
  we
• 19:43
  were
• 19:43
  struggling,
• 19:43
  I
• 19:44
  would
• 19:44
  say
• 19:44
  like,
• 19:45
  we
• 19:45
  need
• 19:45
  to
• 19:45
  serve,
• 19:46
  like
• 19:46
  we're
• 19:46
  struggling
• 19:47
  right
• 19:47
  now,
• 19:47
  like
• 19:47
  we
• 19:48
  need
• 19:48
  to
• 19:48
  go
• 19:48
  find
• 19:48
  somebody
• 19:49
  to
• 19:49
  serve.
• 19:50
  And
• 19:51
  I
• 19:51
  knew
• 19:51
  that
• 19:51
  like,
• 19:52
  that's
• 19:52
  what
• 19:52
  I
• 19:52
  had
• 19:52
  to
• 19:52
  teach.
• 19:53
  Like
• 19:53
  I
• 19:53
  had
• 19:53
  to
• 19:54
  teach
• 19:54
  these
• 19:54
  kids
• 19:55
  because
• 19:55
  I
• 19:55
  was
• 19:55
  seeing,
• 19:56
  you
• 19:57
  know,
• 19:57
  cause
• 19:57
  I've
• 19:57
  been
• 19:57
  working
• 19:57
  with
• 19:57
  teenagers
• 19:58
  for
• 19:58
  so
• 19:58
  long.
• 19:59
  I
• 19:59
  saw
• 19:59
  these
• 19:59
  kids
• 19:59
  like
• 19:59
  really
• 20:00
  struggling
• 20:00
  with
• 20:00
  adversity.
• 20:01
  Like
• 20:01
  they,
• 20:02
  they
• 20:02
  couldn't
• 20:02
  hang.
• 20:02
  They
• 20:03
  couldn't
• 20:03
  cope.
• 20:04
  I
• 20:04
  saw
• 20:04
  that
• 20:05
  they
• 20:05
  were
• 20:05
  like
• 20:05
  not
• 20:06
  connecting
• 20:06
  with
• 20:06
  people
• 20:07
  and
• 20:07
  they
• 20:07
  were
• 20:07
  lonely
• 20:08
  and
• 20:08
  they
• 20:08
  were
• 20:08
  on
• 20:08
  social
• 20:09
  media
• 20:09
  and
• 20:09
  they
• 20:09
  had
• 20:09
  all
• 20:09
  these
• 20:10
  followers,
• 20:10
  but
• 20:10
  they
• 20:10
  were
• 20:10
  so
• 20:11
  lonely
• 20:11
  and,
• 20:11
  you
• 20:12
  know,
• 20:12
  and
• 20:13
  selfish,
• 20:14
  you
• 20:14
  know?
• 20:14
  And
• 20:14
  so
• 20:15
  I,
• 20:16
  so
• 20:16
  at
• 20:17
  the
• 20:17
  time
• 20:17
  I'm
• 20:17
  like,
• 20:17
  Hey,
• 20:17
  we
• 20:17
  have
• 20:18
  to
• 20:18
  help
• 20:18
  these
• 20:18
  kids.
• 20:19
  And.
• 20:20
  I,
• 20:20
  I
• 20:20
  don't
• 20:21
  even
• 20:21
  know
• 20:21
  how
• 20:21
  the
• 20:21
  idea,
• 20:21
  but
• 20:22
  I
• 20:22
  said,
• 20:22
  what
• 20:22
  if
• 20:22
  we
• 20:22
  started
• 20:23
  like
• 20:23
  a
• 20:23
  group?
• 20:24
  What
• 20:24
  if
• 20:24
  we,
• 20:24
  we
• 20:25
  started
• 20:25
  like
• 20:25
  a
• 20:25
  club
• 20:26
  and
• 20:27
  we
• 20:27
  call
• 20:27
  it
• 20:27
  the
• 20:27
  compassion
• 20:28
  club.
• 20:28
  And
• 20:28
  so
• 20:29
  at
• 20:29
  the
• 20:29
  time
• 20:29
  I
• 20:30
  reached
• 20:30
  out
• 20:30
  at
• 20:30
  the
• 20:30
  time
• 20:30
  I
• 20:31
  had
• 20:31
  a
• 20:31
  kid
• 20:31
  in
• 20:31
  every
• 20:31
  school,
• 20:32
  elementary,
• 20:32
  middle,
• 20:32
  and,
• 20:33
  and
• 20:33
  gauge
• 20:33
  was
• 20:33
  in
• 20:33
  high
• 20:33
  school.
• 20:34
  And
• 20:34
  I,
• 20:35
  I
• 20:35
  met
• 20:36
  with
• 20:36
  like
• 20:36
  the
• 20:36
  administration
• 20:37
  and
• 20:37
  I
• 20:37
  said,
• 20:38
  what
• 20:38
  if
• 20:38
  we
• 20:38
  start
• 20:38
  a
• 20:38
  club?
• 20:39
  And,
• 20:40
  um,
• 20:41
  and
• 20:41
  call
• 20:41
  it
• 20:42
  the
• 20:42
  compassion
• 20:42
  club.
• 20:42
  And
• 20:42
  we
• 20:43
  teach
• 20:43
  these
• 20:43
  kids
• 20:44
  like
• 20:44
  acts
• 20:44
  of
• 20:45
  service.
• 20:45
  And
• 20:45
  so
• 20:46
  they
• 20:46
  were
• 20:46
  so
• 20:46
  supportive.
• 20:47
  They're
• 20:47
  like,
• 20:47
  yes,
• 20:47
  let's
• 20:47
  do
• 20:47
  it.
• 20:47
  Let's
• 20:48
  do
• 20:48
  it.
• 20:49
  So
• 20:49
  I
• 20:49
  started
• 20:49
  going
• 20:49
  to
• 20:49
  the
• 20:49
  schools
• 20:50
  and
• 20:51
  the
• 20:51
  high
• 20:51
  school,
• 20:51
  it
• 20:51
  was
• 20:51
  like
• 20:52
  once
• 20:52
  a
• 20:52
  month,
• 20:52
  but
• 20:53
  then
• 20:53
  the
• 20:53
  high
• 20:53
  school
• 20:54
  kids,
• 20:54
  especially
• 20:54
  were
• 20:54
  like,
• 20:55
  and
• 20:55
  they
• 20:55
  were
• 20:55
  his
• 20:56
  friends.
• 20:56
  They
• 20:56
  were
• 20:56
  grieving
• 20:57
  and
• 20:57
  they're
• 20:58
  like
• 20:58
  more
• 20:58
  like,
• 20:59
  this
• 20:59
  is
• 20:59
  my
• 20:59
  favorite
• 21:00
  time
• 21:00
  of
• 21:00
  like,
• 21:01
  when
• 21:01
  you
• 21:01
  come,
• 21:01
  can
• 21:01
  you
• 21:01
  do
• 21:02
  this
• 21:02
  more?
• 21:02
  And
• 21:02
  it
• 21:02
  started,
• 21:02
  we
• 21:03
  were
• 21:03
  going
• 21:03
  to
• 21:03
  every
• 21:03
  single
• 21:04
  week
• 21:04
  and
• 21:04
  the
• 21:04
  first
• 21:05
  meeting
• 21:05
  that
• 21:05
  we
• 21:05
  had,
• 21:06
  there
• 21:07
  was
• 21:07
  like,
• 21:07
  It
• 21:07
  was
• 21:08
  standing
• 21:08
  room
• 21:08
  only
• 21:09
  like
• 21:09
  we
• 21:09
  did
• 21:09
  it
• 21:09
  in
• 21:09
  the
• 21:09
  classroom
• 21:10
  and
• 21:10
  there
• 21:10
  were
• 21:10
  so
• 21:11
  many
• 21:11
  kids
• 21:11
  there
• 21:12
  wasn't
• 21:12
  even
• 21:12
  like
• 21:13
  people
• 21:13
  had
• 21:13
  to
• 21:13
  stand
• 21:14
  there
• 21:14
  was
• 21:14
  like
• 21:14
  no
• 21:15
  room
• 21:15
  for
• 21:15
  people
• 21:16
  to
• 21:16
  even
• 21:16
  sit.
• 21:17
  And
• 21:17
  they
• 21:17
  just
• 21:17
  wanted
• 21:18
  like
• 21:18
  they
• 21:18
  wanted
• 21:19
  to
• 21:19
  heal
• 21:20
  they,
• 21:20
  they
• 21:20
  were
• 21:20
  like
• 21:21
  in
• 21:21
  pain
• 21:21
  and
• 21:21
  they
• 21:22
  were
• 21:22
  confused
• 21:22
  and
• 21:23
  so.
• 21:24
  We
• 21:24
  started
• 21:24
  doing
• 21:24
  these
• 21:25
  meetings
• 21:25
  and
• 21:25
  I
• 21:25
  would
• 21:25
  tell
• 21:26
  stories
• 21:26
  of
• 21:26
  kindness
• 21:27
  that,
• 21:28
  like,
• 21:28
  things
• 21:29
  that
• 21:29
  Gage
• 21:29
  had
• 21:29
  done.
• 21:30
  And
• 21:30
  then
• 21:30
  we
• 21:30
  would
• 21:30
  do,
• 21:31
  like,
• 21:31
  a
• 21:31
  random
• 21:31
  act
• 21:31
  of
• 21:31
  kindness.
• 21:32
  Like,
• 21:32
  we
• 21:32
  would
• 21:32
  put
• 21:32
  post
• 21:33
  it
• 21:33
  notes
• 21:33
  of
• 21:34
  words
• 21:34
  of
• 21:34
  encouragement
• 21:35
  on
• 21:35
  the
• 21:35
  lockers.
• 21:36
  Or
• 21:36
  we
• 21:36
  would
• 21:37
  go
• 21:37
  clean
• 21:38
  up
• 21:38
  after
• 21:38
  a
• 21:38
  home
• 21:38
  game
• 21:39
  so
• 21:39
  janitors
• 21:39
  could
• 21:39
  have
• 21:40
  the
• 21:40
  night
• 21:40
  off
• 21:40
  with
• 21:40
  their
• 21:40
  families.
• 21:41
  Like,
• 21:41
  just
• 21:42
  all
• 21:42
  these,
• 21:42
  like,
• 21:42
  we
• 21:42
  were
• 21:43
  just
• 21:43
  doing,
• 21:43
  like,
• 21:43
  service.
• 21:44
  And
• 21:44
  the
• 21:44
  kids
• 21:45
  were
• 21:45
  just,
• 21:45
  like,
• 21:46
  thriving
• 21:47
  and
• 21:47
  they
• 21:47
  just
• 21:47
  they
• 21:48
  loved
• 21:48
  it
• 21:48
  and
• 21:49
  we
• 21:49
  had
• 21:49
  so
• 21:49
  many
• 21:49
  kids
• 21:50
  every
• 21:50
  time
• 21:50
  and
• 21:51
  a
• 21:51
  lot
• 21:51
  of
• 21:51
  like
• 21:51
  really
• 21:52
  emotional
• 21:52
  activities
• 21:53
  where
• 21:54
  you
• 21:54
  know
• 21:54
  like
• 21:55
  these
• 21:55
  kids
• 21:55
  were
• 21:55
  struggling
• 21:56
  and
• 21:56
  and
• 21:56
  nobody
• 21:57
  knew
• 21:57
  and
• 21:57
  so
• 21:58
  I
• 21:58
  knew
• 21:58
  at
• 21:59
  that
• 21:59
  time
• 21:59
  I'm
• 21:59
  like
• 22:00
  and
• 22:00
  then
• 22:00
  I
• 22:00
  started
• 22:00
  getting
• 22:01
  messages
• 22:01
  from
• 22:01
  people
• 22:01
  saying
• 22:02
  how
• 22:02
  can
• 22:02
  I
• 22:02
  bring
• 22:02
  this
• 22:03
  into
• 22:03
  the
• 22:03
  world?
• 22:03
  To
• 22:03
  my
• 22:03
  school,
• 22:04
  my
• 22:04
  kid
• 22:04
  is
• 22:04
  struggling.
• 22:05
  I
• 22:05
  was
• 22:05
  getting
• 22:05
  messages
• 22:05
  from
• 22:06
  kids,
• 22:06
  like,
• 22:07
  how
• 22:07
  can
• 22:07
  I
• 22:08
  bring
• 22:08
  this
• 22:08
  to
• 22:08
  my
• 22:08
  school?
• 22:09
  Like,
• 22:09
  I'm
• 22:10
  struggling.
• 22:10
  And
• 22:11
  I
• 22:11
  knew
• 22:11
  I'm
• 22:11
  like,
• 22:12
  I
• 22:12
  have
• 22:12
  to,
• 22:12
  I
• 22:12
  have
• 22:12
  to
• 22:13
  do
• 22:13
  something.
• 22:14
  And
• 22:14
  so
• 22:14
  that's,
• 22:15
  I
• 22:15
  formed
• 22:16
  a
• 22:16
  nonprofit.
• 22:17
  And
• 22:18
  it
• 22:18
  took
• 22:19
  us
• 22:19
  a
• 22:19
  year
• 22:19
  and
• 22:19
  I
• 22:20
  collaborated
• 22:20
  with
• 22:20
  like
• 22:21
  a
• 22:21
  bunch
• 22:22
  of
• 22:22
  parents
• 22:22
  and
• 22:22
  teachers
• 22:23
  and
• 22:23
  counselors
• 22:23
  and
• 22:24
  we
• 22:24
  created
• 22:24
  a
• 22:24
  curriculum
• 22:25
  and
• 22:26
  it
• 22:26
  is
• 22:27
  just
• 22:27
  like
• 22:28
  a
• 22:28
  curriculum
• 22:28
  of
• 22:29
  teaching
• 22:29
  values,
• 22:30
  where
• 22:30
  it
• 22:30
  has
• 22:30
  positive
• 22:30
  quotes.
• 22:31
  It
• 22:31
  has
• 22:31
  a
• 22:31
  lot
• 22:31
  of
• 22:31
  stories
• 22:32
  about
• 22:32
  Gage
• 22:32
  in
• 22:32
  there.
• 22:33
  And
• 22:33
  then
• 22:33
  it
• 22:33
  has
• 22:33
  a
• 22:33
  bunch
• 22:34
  of
• 22:34
  activities
• 22:35
  to
• 22:35
  teach
• 22:35
  kids
• 22:36
  to
• 22:36
  serve.
• 22:37
  And
• 22:37
  so
• 22:37
  we
• 22:38
  created
• 22:38
  the
• 22:38
  curriculum.
• 22:39
  And
• 22:39
  then
• 22:40
  the
• 22:40
  nonprofit
• 22:40
  is
• 22:41
  like,
• 22:41
  we,
• 22:41
  we
• 22:41
  sell
• 22:42
  the
• 22:42
  curriculum
• 22:42
  to
• 22:42
  schools.
• 22:44
  And
• 22:45
  with
• 22:45
  that
• 22:45
  money,
• 22:46
  in
• 22:46
  addition,
• 22:46
  then
• 22:46
  we
• 22:46
  did
• 22:46
  some
• 22:47
  fun,
• 22:47
  we
• 22:47
  do
• 22:47
  some
• 22:47
  fundraisers.
• 22:48
  I
• 22:48
  do
• 22:48
  a
• 22:48
  memorial
• 22:49
  wrestling
• 22:49
  tournament
• 22:49
  for
• 22:49
  my
• 22:50
  son
• 22:50
  every
• 22:50
  year.
• 22:51
  And
• 22:51
  since,
• 22:52
  and
• 22:52
  with
• 22:52
  the
• 22:52
  money
• 22:53
  that
• 22:53
  we
• 22:53
  raised
• 22:54
  from
• 22:54
  both
• 22:54
  since
• 22:54
  2017,
• 22:56
  we've
• 22:56
  given
• 22:56
  over
• 22:57
  70,
• 22:57
  000
• 22:58
  in
• 22:58
  scholarships
• 22:58
  and
• 22:58
  grants.
• 22:59
  And
• 23:01
  we
• 23:01
  give
• 23:01
  them
• 23:01
  to
• 23:02
  like
• 23:02
  active
• 23:03
  compassion
• 23:03
  clubs,
• 23:04
  like
• 23:04
  they
• 23:04
  can
• 23:04
  nominate
• 23:05
  anybody.
• 23:05
  And
• 23:06
  then
• 23:06
  we
• 23:06
  give
• 23:06
  it,
• 23:06
  we
• 23:06
  give
• 23:07
  a
• 23:07
  lot
• 23:07
  of
• 23:07
  scholarships
• 23:07
  to
• 23:07
  wrestlers
• 23:08
  too.
• 23:09
  So,
• 23:09
  and,
• 23:09
  and
• 23:09
  it's,
• 23:10
  it's
• 23:10
  people,
• 23:10
  it's
• 23:11
  kids
• 23:11
  who
• 23:11
  are
• 23:11
  just
• 23:11
  good
• 23:12
  kids
• 23:12
  who
• 23:12
  are
• 23:12
  making
• 23:13
  a
• 23:13
  difference.
• 23:13
  You
• 23:13
  know,
• 23:13
  they're
• 23:13
  not.
• 23:14
  the
• 23:15
  smartest.
• 23:15
  They're
• 23:15
  not
• 23:15
  always
• 23:16
  the
• 23:16
  smartest.
• 23:16
  They're
• 23:16
  not
• 23:17
  always
• 23:17
  the
• 23:17
  most
• 23:18
  athletic,
• 23:19
  but
• 23:19
  it's
• 23:19
  just
• 23:20
  kindness.
• 23:20
  Kids
• 23:20
  who
• 23:21
  have
• 23:21
  like
• 23:21
  overcome
• 23:22
  hard
• 23:22
  things
• 23:22
  and
• 23:23
  like
• 23:23
  rise
• 23:23
  above
• 23:24
  and
• 23:24
  make
• 23:24
  the
• 23:24
  world
• 23:24
  a
• 23:24
  better
• 23:25
  place.
• 23:25
  So
• 23:26
  that
• 23:26
  is
• 23:27
  the,
• 23:27
  that's
• 23:27
  the
• 23:28
  compassion
• 23:28
  club.
• 23:29
  The
• 23:29
  it's
• 23:29
  called
• 23:29
  the
• 23:29
  Gage
• 23:30
  Schroeder
• 23:30
  Compassion
• 23:30
  Foundation,
• 23:31
  but
• 23:31
  then
• 23:32
  we
• 23:32
  call
• 23:32
  it
• 23:32
  the
• 23:33
  compassion
• 23:33
  club
• 23:33
  too.
• 23:33
  So
• 23:34
  that's
• 23:35
  my
• 23:35
  nonprofit
• 23:36
  story.
• 23:36
  So
• 23:37
  that's
• 23:37
  how
• 23:37
  I
• 23:38
  stumbled
• 23:38
  into
• 23:38
  my
• 23:38
  own
• 23:38
  nonprofit.
• 23:40
  That
• 23:40
  is
• 23:40
  so
• 23:40
  amazing
• 23:41
  and
• 23:41
  and
• 23:41
  what
• 23:41
  I'm
• 23:41
  seeing
• 23:42
  is
• 23:42
  obviously
• 23:42
  like
• 23:42
  we
• 23:42
  were
• 23:42
  talking
• 23:43
  about
• 23:43
  God
• 23:43
  just
• 23:43
  leading
• 23:44
  us
• 23:44
  on
• 23:44
  one
• 23:44
  step
• 23:44
  at
• 23:45
  a
• 23:45
  time
• 23:45
  like
• 23:46
  imagine
• 23:46
  if
• 23:46
  you
• 23:46
  had
• 23:47
  felt
• 23:47
  that
• 23:47
  calling
• 23:48
  without
• 23:48
  any
• 23:48
  experience
• 23:49
  in
• 23:49
  nonprofits,
• 23:49
  but
• 23:50
  you've
• 23:50
  been
• 23:50
  in
• 23:50
  the
• 23:50
  sector
• 23:50
  before
• 23:51
  you
• 23:51
  were
• 23:51
  you
• 23:51
  were
• 23:52
  probably
• 23:53
  relatively
• 23:53
  confident
• 23:53
  that
• 23:54
  you
• 23:54
  could
• 23:54
  pull
• 23:54
  something
• 23:55
  off.
• 23:55
  Yeah.
• 23:56
  And
• 23:57
  then
• 23:57
  I
• 23:57
  love
• 23:58
  this
• 23:58
  reminder
• 23:58
  of
• 23:59
  that.
• 24:00
  We're
• 24:00
  miserable
• 24:00
  when
• 24:00
  we
• 24:00
  focus
• 24:01
  on
• 24:01
  ourselves.
• 24:01
  Right.
• 24:01
  I,
• 24:02
  I
• 24:02
  bring
• 24:02
  this
• 24:02
  up
• 24:02
  a
• 24:02
  lot
• 24:02
  with
• 24:03
  my
• 24:03
  business
• 24:03
  clients
• 24:03
  because
• 24:04
  we'll
• 24:04
  get
• 24:04
  to
• 24:05
  this
• 24:05
  place
• 24:05
  where
• 24:05
  we're
• 24:05
  like,
• 24:06
  we
• 24:06
  feel
• 24:06
  like
• 24:06
  things
• 24:06
  are
• 24:06
  going
• 24:07
  okay.
• 24:07
  And
• 24:07
  then
• 24:07
  we
• 24:07
  see
• 24:08
  somebody
• 24:08
  else's
• 24:08
  success,
• 24:09
  or
• 24:10
  then
• 24:10
  we,
• 24:11
  you
• 24:11
  know,
• 24:11
  hyper
• 24:11
  focus
• 24:12
  on
• 24:12
  what
• 24:12
  we're
• 24:12
  doing
• 24:12
  wrong.
• 24:12
  And
• 24:12
  it's
• 24:13
  like,
• 24:13
  Oh,
• 24:13
  but
• 24:13
  most
• 24:14
  of
• 24:14
  us
• 24:14
  got
• 24:14
  into
• 24:14
  business
• 24:15
  because
• 24:15
  we
• 24:15
  knew
• 24:16
  we
• 24:16
  could
• 24:16
  put
• 24:16
  something
• 24:16
  good
• 24:17
  out
• 24:17
  into
• 24:17
  the
• 24:17
  world
• 24:17
  because
• 24:17
  we
• 24:17
  knew
• 24:18
  it
• 24:18
  helps
• 24:18
  alleviate
• 24:19
  someone's
• 24:19
  burden
• 24:19
  or,
• 24:20
  or
• 24:20
  give
• 24:20
  a
• 24:20
  transformation
• 24:21
  or
• 24:21
  something.
• 24:22
  And
• 24:22
  the
• 24:22
  more
• 24:22
  we
• 24:22
  focus
• 24:23
  on
• 24:23
  what
• 24:23
  we
• 24:23
  don't
• 24:23
  have
• 24:24
  or
• 24:24
  what
• 24:24
  we
• 24:24
  haven't
• 24:25
  accomplished
• 24:25
  yet,
• 24:26
  or
• 24:26
  whatever,
• 24:27
  the
• 24:27
  less
• 24:28
  available
• 24:28
  we
• 24:28
  are
• 24:29
  to
• 24:29
  the
• 24:29
  people
• 24:29
  that
• 24:29
  need
• 24:29
  help,
• 24:30
  right?
• 24:30
  Oh,
• 24:30
  yeah.
• 24:31
  So
• 24:31
  even
• 24:31
  just
• 24:31
  in
• 24:32
  a
• 24:32
  pure
• 24:32
  for
• 24:32
  profit
• 24:33
  business,
• 24:33
  it's
• 24:34
  so
• 24:34
  critical
• 24:34
  to
• 24:34
  just
• 24:35
  remember,
• 24:35
  we
• 24:36
  want
• 24:36
  to
• 24:36
  build
• 24:37
  a
• 24:37
  business
• 24:37
  with
• 24:38
  a
• 24:38
  servant's
• 24:38
  heart,
• 24:38
  right?
• 24:38
  We
• 24:38
  want
• 24:39
  to
• 24:39
  build
• 24:39
  it
• 24:40
  in
• 24:40
  a
• 24:40
  way
• 24:40
  that's
• 24:40
  going
• 24:40
  to
• 24:40
  make
• 24:41
  the
• 24:41
  world
• 24:41
  a
• 24:41
  better
• 24:41
  place.
• 24:42
  Yeah.
• 24:42
  Well,
• 24:43
  and
• 24:43
  I
• 24:43
  think
• 24:43
  even
• 24:43
  touching
• 24:44
  about
• 24:44
  that,
• 24:44
  touching
• 24:45
  back
• 24:45
  on
• 24:45
  that
• 24:45
  with,
• 24:45
  with
• 24:46
  business
• 24:46
  where
• 24:47
  if
• 24:47
  you
• 24:47
  have,
• 24:48
  I
• 24:48
  really
• 24:49
  believe
• 24:49
  in
• 24:49
  the
• 24:49
  power
• 24:50
  of
• 24:50
  like
• 24:50
  giving,
• 24:50
  you
• 24:51
  know,
• 24:51
  when
• 24:51
  you
• 24:52
  serve
• 24:52
  and
• 24:52
  you
• 24:52
  put
• 24:52
  that
• 24:53
  out
• 24:53
  in
• 24:53
  the
• 24:53
  universe,
• 24:54
  like
• 24:54
  it
• 24:54
  comes
• 24:54
  back
• 24:55
  to
• 24:55
  you.
• 24:55
  And,
• 24:56
  you
• 24:56
  know,
• 24:56
  a
• 24:57
  lot
• 24:57
  of
• 24:57
  times
• 24:57
  we.
• 24:58
  We
• 24:58
  might
• 24:58
  have
• 24:58
  the
• 24:58
  mentality
• 24:59
  is
• 24:59
  like,
• 24:59
  what
• 24:59
  am
• 24:59
  I
• 25:00
  going
• 25:00
  to
• 25:00
  get
• 25:00
  from
• 25:00
  this?
• 25:00
  Or
• 25:01
  am
• 25:01
  I
• 25:01
  going
• 25:01
  to
• 25:01
  get
• 25:01
  paid
• 25:01
  him?
• 25:01
  And,
• 25:02
  but
• 25:02
  if
• 25:02
  we
• 25:02
  have
• 25:02
  this
• 25:03
  mindset
• 25:04
  of
• 25:04
  like,
• 25:04
  how
• 25:04
  can
• 25:05
  I
• 25:05
  help
• 25:05
  other
• 25:05
  people?
• 25:06
  Then
• 25:07
  the
• 25:07
  money
• 25:07
  and
• 25:08
  all
• 25:08
  that
• 25:08
  come,
• 25:08
  it
• 25:09
  just
• 25:09
  comes
• 25:09
  naturally.
• 25:10
  It
• 25:10
  comes
• 25:11
  back
• 25:11
  to
• 25:11
  you.
• 25:11
  So,
• 25:12
  but
• 25:12
  when
• 25:12
  we
• 25:13
  are
• 25:13
  like,
• 25:14
  We
• 25:14
  want
• 25:14
  some,
• 25:15
  and
• 25:15
  we
• 25:15
  see
• 25:15
  this
• 25:15
  all
• 25:15
  the
• 25:16
  time.
• 25:16
  We
• 25:16
  see
• 25:16
  people
• 25:16
  get
• 25:16
  greedy
• 25:17
  and
• 25:17
  then
• 25:17
  they
• 25:17
  want
• 25:18
  power
• 25:18
  and
• 25:18
  they
• 25:18
  want
• 25:18
  money
• 25:19
  and
• 25:19
  we
• 25:19
  see
• 25:19
  their
• 25:19
  businesses
• 25:20
  crumble
• 25:20
  too
• 25:20
  because
• 25:21
  it's,
• 25:22
  you
• 25:22
  know,
• 25:22
  it's,
• 25:22
  they
• 25:23
  are
• 25:23
  starting
• 25:23
  to
• 25:23
  like
• 25:24
  worship
• 25:24
  the
• 25:24
  power
• 25:25
  and
• 25:25
  the
• 25:25
  money
• 25:25
  over
• 25:26
  like,
• 25:27
  how
• 25:27
  can
• 25:27
  I
• 25:27
  help
• 25:27
  other
• 25:27
  people?
• 25:28
  Right.
• 25:29
  Yeah.
• 25:29
  And
• 25:29
  in
• 25:29
  my
• 25:29
  experience,
• 25:29
  that's
• 25:30
  what
• 25:30
  puts
• 25:30
  off
• 25:31
  a
• 25:31
  lot
• 25:31
  of
• 25:31
  Christian
• 25:32
  women
• 25:32
  from
• 25:32
  starting
• 25:33
  a
• 25:33
  business
• 25:33
  is
• 25:33
  they
• 25:33
  think
• 25:33
  they
• 25:34
  have
• 25:34
  to
• 25:34
  be
• 25:34
  focused
• 25:35
  on
• 25:35
  the
• 25:35
  bottom
• 25:36
  line
• 25:36
  or
• 25:36
  the
• 25:36
  money
• 25:36
  or
• 25:37
  the
• 25:37
  power
• 25:37
  or
• 25:37
  whatever.
• 25:37
  It's
• 25:38
  like,
• 25:38
  no,
• 25:38
  you
• 25:38
  can
• 25:38
  build
• 25:39
  a
• 25:39
  thriving
• 25:39
  business
• 25:40
  as
• 25:40
  a
• 25:40
  servant,
• 25:41
  as
• 25:41
  someone
• 25:41
  who
• 25:41
  just
• 25:42
  wants
• 25:42
  to
• 25:42
  put
• 25:42
  good
• 25:42
  out
• 25:42
  into
• 25:42
  the
• 25:42
  world.
• 25:43
  Now
• 25:43
  there
• 25:43
  are
• 25:43
  some
• 25:43
  tactics
• 25:44
  to
• 25:44
  make
• 25:44
  sure
• 25:44
  that
• 25:44
  you
• 25:44
  are
• 25:44
  profitable
• 25:45
  and
• 25:45
  it's,
• 25:45
  you're
• 25:46
  going
• 25:46
  to
• 25:46
  continue
• 25:47
  building
• 25:47
  this
• 25:47
  business.
• 25:47
  You're
• 25:48
  not
• 25:48
  just
• 25:48
  going
• 25:48
  to
• 25:48
  drive
• 25:48
  yourself
• 25:48
  into
• 25:49
  the
• 25:49
  ground
• 25:49
  and,
• 25:49
  you
• 25:49
  know,
• 25:49
  spend
• 25:49
  all
• 25:49
  your
• 25:50
  money.
• 25:50
  But
• 25:50
  Um,
• 25:51
  that
• 25:51
  that's
• 25:51
  totally
• 25:52
  possible.
• 25:53
  Yeah.
• 25:53
  Yeah.
• 25:54
  So
• 25:54
  what
• 25:54
  I
• 25:54
  want
• 25:54
  to
• 25:54
  ask
• 25:55
  you
• 25:55
  is,
• 25:55
  okay.
• 25:55
  So
• 25:56
  for
• 25:56
  those
• 25:56
  who
• 25:56
  are
• 25:56
  listening
• 25:57
  that
• 25:57
  are
• 25:57
  like,
• 25:57
  I
• 25:57
  would
• 25:57
  love,
• 25:58
  or
• 25:58
  I'm
• 25:58
  feeling
• 25:58
  called
• 25:59
  to
• 25:59
  give
• 25:59
  back
• 25:59
  in
• 25:59
  some
• 26:00
  way.
• 26:00
  I'm
• 26:00
  feeling
• 26:00
  called
• 26:01
  to
• 26:01
  build
• 26:01
  something
• 26:02
  in
• 26:03
  this
• 26:03
  way.
• 26:03
  Where,
• 26:04
  where
• 26:04
  would
• 26:04
  they
• 26:04
  even
• 26:04
  get
• 26:05
  started?
• 26:05
  Like
• 26:05
  it
• 26:05
  feels
• 26:05
  so
• 26:06
  overwhelming
• 26:06
  to
• 26:06
  somebody
• 26:07
  who's
• 26:07
  never
• 26:07
  had
• 26:07
  experience
• 26:07
  in
• 26:07
  that
• 26:08
  sector.
• 26:09
  Like
• 26:09
  they
• 26:09
  want
• 26:10
  to
• 26:10
  start
• 26:10
  a
• 26:10
  nonprofit.
• 26:10
  Is
• 26:10
  that
• 26:11
  asking
• 26:11
  you
• 26:11
  as
• 26:11
  a
• 26:11
  nonprofit?
• 26:12
  So
• 26:12
  I
• 26:12
  mean,
• 26:13
  I,
• 26:13
  I
• 26:13
  was
• 26:13
  lucky
• 26:14
  and
• 26:14
  very
• 26:14
  blessed
• 26:15
  because
• 26:15
  I
• 26:15
  had
• 26:16
  an
• 26:16
  attorney
• 26:17
  set
• 26:17
  up.
• 26:17
  Yeah.
• 26:18
  My
• 26:18
  nonprofit
• 26:18
  pro
• 26:19
  bono,
• 26:19
  you
• 26:19
  know,
• 26:20
  and
• 26:20
  so
• 26:21
  there
• 26:21
  is
• 26:22
  like
• 26:22
  some
• 26:22
  legal
• 26:23
  things
• 26:23
  that
• 26:23
  you,
• 26:24
  you
• 26:24
  have
• 26:24
  to
• 26:24
  do,
• 26:24
  like
• 26:25
  you
• 26:25
  have
• 26:25
  to
• 26:25
  set
• 26:25
  up,
• 26:26
  you
• 26:26
  have
• 26:26
  to
• 26:26
  set
• 26:27
  it
• 26:27
  up,
• 26:27
  you
• 26:27
  know,
• 26:28
  a
• 26:28
  501
• 26:28
  C
• 26:28
  you,
• 26:29
  you
• 26:29
  have
• 26:29
  to
• 26:29
  have
• 26:30
  somebody
• 26:30
  file
• 26:30
  that
• 26:30
  for
• 26:31
  you.
• 26:32
  Um,
• 26:33
  And,
• 26:33
  but
• 26:33
  once
• 26:34
  that's
• 26:34
  filed,
• 26:35
  you
• 26:35
  know,
• 26:36
  it's
• 26:36
  more
• 26:36
  for
• 26:36
  like
• 26:37
  the
• 26:37
  money
• 26:37
  and
• 26:37
  the
• 26:37
  donations
• 26:38
  you
• 26:38
  are
• 26:39
  tax
• 26:39
  exempt,
• 26:39
  but
• 26:40
  it
• 26:40
  depends
• 26:41
  because
• 26:41
  like
• 26:41
  when
• 26:42
  I
• 26:42
  was
• 26:42
  working
• 26:43
  with
• 26:43
  a
• 26:43
  bigger
• 26:43
  nonprofit,
• 26:45
  there's
• 26:45
  like
• 26:45
  a
• 26:45
  lot
• 26:45
  of
• 26:46
  organization,
• 26:46
  the
• 26:46
  tricky
• 26:47
  part
• 26:47
  with
• 26:47
  nonprofit
• 26:48
  work
• 26:49
  is
• 26:49
  a
• 26:49
  lot
• 26:49
  of
• 26:50
  people
• 26:50
  are
• 26:51
  volunteering
• 26:51
  their
• 26:51
  time.
• 26:53
  And
• 26:53
  so
• 26:53
  it's,
• 26:54
  you
• 26:54
  know,
• 26:55
  you
• 26:55
  have
• 26:55
  to
• 26:55
  find
• 26:55
  people
• 26:56
  who
• 26:56
  are
• 26:57
  as
• 26:57
  passionate
• 26:57
  about
• 26:58
  you.
• 26:58
  Like
• 26:58
  with
• 26:58
  me
• 26:58
  right
• 26:59
  now,
• 26:59
  my
• 26:59
  nonprofit.
• 27:00
  When
• 27:00
  I
• 27:00
  first
• 27:01
  started
• 27:01
  that
• 27:01
  I
• 27:01
  had
• 27:01
  a
• 27:01
  board,
• 27:02
  they
• 27:02
  were
• 27:02
  all
• 27:02
  my
• 27:02
  friends,
• 27:03
  but
• 27:03
  I
• 27:03
  was
• 27:04
  doing
• 27:04
  everything.
• 27:05
  They
• 27:05
  were
• 27:05
  just
• 27:05
  kind
• 27:05
  of
• 27:06
  in
• 27:06
  the
• 27:06
  background,
• 27:06
  like
• 27:07
  helping
• 27:07
  and
• 27:07
  supportive.
• 27:08
  And
• 27:08
  that's
• 27:09
  like
• 27:09
  fizzled.
• 27:09
  And,
• 27:09
  and,
• 27:10
  and,
• 27:10
  and
• 27:10
  even
• 27:10
  my
• 27:10
  nonprofit
• 27:11
  now,
• 27:11
  like
• 27:11
  I
• 27:12
  still
• 27:12
  do
• 27:12
  stuff
• 27:12
  I
• 27:12
  don't
• 27:13
  do.
• 27:14
  Like
• 27:14
  it
• 27:14
  served
• 27:14
  its
• 27:15
  purpose
• 27:15
  when
• 27:15
  I
• 27:16
  was
• 27:16
  grieving
• 27:16
  my
• 27:16
  son,
• 27:16
  I
• 27:16
  was
• 27:17
  very
• 27:17
  involved
• 27:18
  and
• 27:18
  my
• 27:18
  circumstances
• 27:18
  have
• 27:18
  changed.
• 27:19
  I'm
• 27:19
  divorced
• 27:19
  now.
• 27:19
  I
• 27:20
  don't
• 27:20
  have
• 27:20
  the
• 27:20
  luxury
• 27:21
  of
• 27:21
  a
• 27:21
  ton
• 27:21
  of
• 27:21
  time
• 27:22
  anymore.
• 27:23
  And
• 27:23
  so
• 27:23
  I
• 27:23
  still,
• 27:24
  you
• 27:24
  know,
• 27:24
  I'm
• 27:24
  not
• 27:24
  doing
• 27:24
  as
• 27:24
  much
• 27:25
  as
• 27:25
  I
• 27:25
  would
• 27:25
  love
• 27:25
  to,
• 27:26
  but,
• 27:26
  um,
• 27:27
  it's
• 27:27
  all
• 27:27
  me.
• 27:28
  You
• 27:28
  know,
• 27:29
  and,
• 27:29
  and
• 27:29
  doing
• 27:29
  it.
• 27:30
  So
• 27:30
  I
• 27:30
  think
• 27:30
  it's,
• 27:31
  you
• 27:31
  know,
• 27:31
  you
• 27:32
  like
• 27:33
  learn
• 27:33
  about
• 27:33
  nonprofits,
• 27:34
  like
• 27:34
  form
• 27:35
  a
• 27:35
  board,
• 27:35
  find
• 27:36
  people
• 27:36
  who
• 27:37
  have
• 27:37
  strengths,
• 27:37
  like
• 27:37
  maybe
• 27:38
  get
• 27:38
  somebody
• 27:38
  who's
• 27:38
  good
• 27:39
  with
• 27:39
  finances
• 27:39
  on
• 27:39
  your
• 27:39
  board,
• 27:40
  get
• 27:40
  that
• 27:41
  you
• 27:41
  have
• 27:41
  to
• 27:41
  find
• 27:41
  the
• 27:41
  people
• 27:42
  who
• 27:42
  are
• 27:42
  like
• 27:42
  passionate
• 27:43
  about
• 27:43
  the
• 27:44
  same
• 27:44
  thing
• 27:44
  you
• 27:44
  are,
• 27:45
  because
• 27:45
  it
• 27:45
  will
• 27:45
  fizzle
• 27:46
  if,
• 27:46
  if
• 27:46
  they
• 27:47
  don't,
• 27:47
  you
• 27:47
  know,
• 27:48
  and,
• 27:48
  and
• 27:48
  that's
• 27:49
  a
• 27:49
  challenge.
• 27:49
  Every
• 27:50
  nonprofit,
• 27:50
  like
• 27:50
  there
• 27:51
  is
• 27:51
  a
• 27:51
  lot
• 27:51
  of
• 27:51
  drama
• 27:52
  in
• 27:52
  a
• 27:52
  lot
• 27:52
  of
• 27:52
  nonprofits
• 27:53
  because
• 27:54
  it
• 27:54
  is,
• 27:54
  it's,
• 27:54
  it's
• 27:54
  people
• 27:55
  who
• 27:56
  are
• 27:56
  volunteering
• 27:56
  their
• 27:56
  time
• 27:57
  and
• 27:57
  people
• 27:57
  just
• 27:57
  don't
• 27:57
  have
• 27:58
  the
• 27:58
  luxury
• 27:58
  of
• 27:59
  time,
• 27:59
  you
• 27:59
  know,
• 28:00
  and
• 28:00
  when
• 28:00
  you're
• 28:00
  passionate
• 28:01
  about
• 28:01
  it,
• 28:01
  it's,
• 28:02
  it's,
• 28:02
  it's
• 28:02
  your
• 28:02
  baby,
• 28:03
  you
• 28:03
  know,
• 28:03
  but
• 28:03
  I
• 28:03
  think
• 28:04
  just
• 28:04
  like
• 28:04
  learning,
• 28:05
  like
• 28:05
  volunteer
• 28:05
  with
• 28:05
  a
• 28:05
  nonprofit
• 28:06
  and
• 28:06
  kind
• 28:06
  of
• 28:07
  get,
• 28:07
  get
• 28:07
  a
• 28:07
  feel
• 28:07
  for
• 28:08
  like
• 28:08
  how
• 28:09
  nonprofits
• 28:09
  work.
• 28:10
  But
• 28:10
  I
• 28:10
  mean,
• 28:11
  there's
• 28:11
  so
• 28:11
  many
• 28:12
  opportunities
• 28:13
  to,
• 28:13
  to
• 28:13
  serve.
• 28:14
  And
• 28:14
  I
• 28:14
  think
• 28:14
  finding
• 28:15
  something
• 28:15
  that
• 28:15
  you're,
• 28:15
  you're
• 28:16
  passionate
• 28:16
  about,
• 28:16
  and
• 28:16
  that
• 28:16
  can
• 28:17
  be.
• 28:18
  Maybe
• 28:18
  you
• 28:19
  are
• 28:19
  like,
• 28:20
  you
• 28:20
  like
• 28:21
  to
• 28:21
  read
• 28:21
  and
• 28:22
  you
• 28:22
  like
• 28:22
  start
• 28:22
  a
• 28:22
  nonprofit
• 28:23
  where
• 28:23
  you're
• 28:23
  like
• 28:23
  donating
• 28:24
  books
• 28:24
  to
• 28:25
  low
• 28:25
  income
• 28:25
  places.
• 28:26
  But,
• 28:26
  you
• 28:26
  know,
• 28:26
  so
• 28:27
  I
• 28:27
  think
• 28:27
  it's,
• 28:27
  it's
• 28:27
  finding
• 28:27
  something
• 28:28
  you're
• 28:28
  passionate
• 28:28
  about.
• 28:29
  You
• 28:29
  have
• 28:29
  to
• 28:30
  like
• 28:30
  the,
• 28:31
  you
• 28:31
  know,
• 28:31
  the
• 28:31
  logistics
• 28:32
  of
• 28:32
  it
• 28:32
  is
• 28:32
  you
• 28:32
  do
• 28:32
  have
• 28:32
  to
• 28:33
  file
• 28:33
  with,
• 28:33
  with
• 28:34
  the
• 28:34
  IRS
• 28:34
  you
• 28:34
  have,
• 28:35
  you
• 28:35
  know,
• 28:36
  and
• 28:36
  it
• 28:36
  is
• 28:37
  really
• 28:37
  like
• 28:37
  very
• 28:38
  similar
• 28:38
  to
• 28:38
  a
• 28:38
  business.
• 28:39
  Mm-hmm
• 28:39
  You
• 28:39
  know.
• 28:40
  You
• 28:40
  have
• 28:40
  to,
• 28:40
  you
• 28:41
  have
• 28:41
  to
• 28:41
  get
• 28:41
  a
• 28:41
  business
• 28:41
  license
• 28:42
  depending
• 28:42
  on
• 28:42
  your
• 28:42
  state,
• 28:42
  but
• 28:42
  you
• 28:43
  have
• 28:43
  to,
• 28:43
  you
• 28:43
  have
• 28:44
  to
• 28:44
  get
• 28:44
  registered
• 28:45
  with
• 28:45
  the
• 28:45
  government
• 28:46
  as
• 28:46
  far
• 28:46
  as
• 28:47
  like
• 28:47
  taxes
• 28:48
  and
• 28:48
  stuff.
• 28:48
  That's
• 28:48
  like
• 28:48
  a
• 28:49
  little
• 28:49
  different.
• 28:49
  You
• 28:49
  have
• 28:49
  to
• 28:49
  file
• 28:49
  a
• 28:50
  little,
• 28:50
  a
• 28:50
  little
• 28:50
  bit
• 28:50
  different.
• 28:51
  Um,
• 28:51
  you
• 28:52
  can
• 28:52
  be
• 28:52
  tax
• 28:53
  exempt
• 28:53
  and
• 28:53
  so
• 28:53
  you
• 28:54
  can,
• 28:54
  you
• 28:54
  know,
• 28:54
  you
• 28:55
  don't
• 28:55
  have
• 28:55
  to
• 28:55
  pay
• 28:55
  taxes
• 28:55
  on
• 28:55
  a
• 28:55
  lot
• 28:56
  of
• 28:56
  things.
• 28:56
  So
• 28:57
  there's
• 28:57
  definitely
• 28:57
  like
• 28:58
  a
• 28:58
  lot,
• 28:59
  a
• 28:59
  lot
• 28:59
  to
• 28:59
  it,
• 28:59
  but
• 29:00
  dabble
• 29:00
  in
• 29:00
  it.
• 29:00
  And
• 29:00
  there's
• 29:01
  a
• 29:01
  ton
• 29:01
  of
• 29:01
  podcasts
• 29:02
  out
• 29:02
  there
• 29:02
  and
• 29:02
  books,
• 29:03
  and
• 29:03
  you
• 29:03
  can
• 29:03
  always
• 29:04
  reach
• 29:04
  out
• 29:04
  to
• 29:04
  me.
• 29:04
  I
• 29:04
  can,
• 29:05
  I
• 29:05
  can
• 29:05
  tell
• 29:05
  you
• 29:05
  what
• 29:05
  I
• 29:05
  know,
• 29:06
  but
• 29:06
  it
• 29:07
  really
• 29:07
  is
• 29:08
  like.
• 29:08
  finding
• 29:09
  other
• 29:10
  people
• 29:10
  who
• 29:10
  have
• 29:10
  that
• 29:11
  same
• 29:11
  passion
• 29:11
  as
• 29:11
  you
• 29:12
  and
• 29:12
  building
• 29:13
  it.
• 29:13
  But
• 29:13
  it's
• 29:14
  a
• 29:14
  business,
• 29:14
  and
• 29:15
  what
• 29:15
  you
• 29:15
  put
• 29:15
  into
• 29:16
  it
• 29:16
  is
• 29:16
  what
• 29:16
  you
• 29:16
  get
• 29:16
  out
• 29:16
  of
• 29:17
  it,
• 29:17
  too.
• 29:17
  Right.
• 29:17
  So.
• 29:18
  Well,
• 29:18
  and
• 29:18
  I
• 29:18
  love
• 29:19
  what
• 29:19
  you're
• 29:19
  saying
• 29:19
  about
• 29:19
  just
• 29:19
  dabbling
• 29:20
  in
• 29:20
  it.
• 29:20
  Like,
• 29:20
  I
• 29:20
  think
• 29:20
  most
• 29:21
  of
• 29:21
  us
• 29:21
  probably
• 29:21
  have
• 29:22
  something
• 29:22
  weighing
• 29:22
  on
• 29:22
  our
• 29:23
  hearts,
• 29:23
  right?
• 29:23
  And
• 29:23
  most
• 29:24
  of
• 29:24
  us
• 29:24
  are
• 29:24
  not
• 29:24
  yet
• 29:24
  in
• 29:25
  a
• 29:25
  place
• 29:25
  where
• 29:25
  we
• 29:25
  can
• 29:25
  build
• 29:26
  that.
• 29:26
  But,
• 29:26
  like,
• 29:26
  I
• 29:26
  firmly
• 29:27
  believe
• 29:27
  in
• 29:27
  like
• 29:27
  these
• 29:27
  phases
• 29:28
  of
• 29:28
  life,
• 29:28
  right?
• 29:29
  We
• 29:29
  have
• 29:29
  the,
• 29:29
  like
• 29:29
  the
• 29:29
  chaos
• 29:30
  phase
• 29:30
  of
• 29:30
  little
• 29:30
  kids,
• 29:31
  right?
• 29:31
  Where
• 29:31
  there's
• 29:31
  not
• 29:31
  a
• 29:31
  lot
• 29:32
  of
• 29:32
  time
• 29:32
  and
• 29:32
  it's
• 29:32
  just
• 29:32
  like
• 29:32
  survival,
• 29:33
  right?
• 29:33
  And
• 29:33
  then
• 29:33
  we
• 29:34
  have
• 29:34
  kind
• 29:34
  of
• 29:34
  this
• 29:34
  builder
• 29:34
  phase
• 29:35
  where
• 29:35
  maybe
• 29:35
  more
• 29:35
  middle
• 29:36
  aged
• 29:36
  and
• 29:36
  it's
• 29:36
  like,
• 29:36
  oh,
• 29:36
  we're
• 29:36
  building
• 29:37
  something
• 29:37
  career
• 29:38
  wise
• 29:38
  or
• 29:38
  yeah.
• 29:39
  And
• 29:39
  then
• 29:39
  I
• 29:39
  really
• 29:40
  believe
• 29:40
  that
• 29:40
  there's
• 29:40
  this
• 29:40
  mission
• 29:41
  phase.
• 29:41
  And
• 29:41
  I
• 29:41
  think
• 29:41
  that
• 29:42
  a
• 29:42
  lot
• 29:42
  of
• 29:42
  us
• 29:42
  will
• 29:42
  get
• 29:42
  into
• 29:43
  that
• 29:43
  as
• 29:43
  our
• 29:44
  kids
• 29:44
  grow
• 29:44
  and
• 29:44
  leave
• 29:45
  the
• 29:45
  nest.
• 29:45
  And,
• 29:45
  and
• 29:46
  maybe
• 29:46
  it's
• 29:46
  something
• 29:46
  we
• 29:46
  just
• 29:46
  kind
• 29:47
  of
• 29:47
  want
• 29:47
  to
• 29:47
  dabble
• 29:47
  in
• 29:48
  right
• 29:48
  now.
• 29:48
  Like,
• 29:48
  let's
• 29:49
  just
• 29:49
  try
• 29:49
  a
• 29:49
  couple
• 29:50
  of
• 29:50
  different
• 29:50
  causes
• 29:50
  and
• 29:50
  think,
• 29:51
  what
• 29:51
  do
• 29:51
  I
• 29:51
  want
• 29:51
  to
• 29:51
  spend
• 29:52
  my
• 29:52
  time
• 29:52
  on?
• 29:52
  Yeah.
• 29:53
  When
• 29:53
  I
• 29:53
  do
• 29:54
  have
• 29:54
  more
• 29:54
  of
• 29:54
  it,
• 29:54
  right?
• 29:55
  I'm,
• 29:55
  I'm
• 29:55
  not
• 29:55
  a
• 29:56
  huge
• 29:56
  fan
• 29:56
  of
• 29:56
  the
• 29:56
  idea
• 29:57
  of
• 29:57
  retirement.
• 29:57
  I
• 29:57
  think
• 29:57
  it
• 29:57
  sounds
• 29:58
  terrible.
• 29:58
  Like
• 29:58
  I
• 29:58
  want
• 29:59
  to
• 29:59
  go
• 29:59
  build
• 30:00
  more
• 30:00
  things.
• 30:00
  Yeah,
• 30:01
  travel
• 30:01
  to
• 30:01
  places
• 30:02
  that
• 30:02
  need
• 30:02
  me.
• 30:02
  I
• 30:02
  want
• 30:02
  to
• 30:03
  put
• 30:03
  my,
• 30:03
  my
• 30:03
  time
• 30:04
  and
• 30:04
  effort
• 30:04
  into
• 30:04
  something
• 30:04
  that
• 30:04
  really
• 30:05
  matters.
• 30:05
  But,
• 30:06
  but
• 30:06
  what,
• 30:06
  what's
• 30:06
  that
• 30:06
  going
• 30:07
  to
• 30:07
  be?
• 30:07
  And,
• 30:07
  and
• 30:08
  do
• 30:08
  I
• 30:08
  have
• 30:08
  the
• 30:09
  energy
• 30:09
  for
• 30:09
  it
• 30:09
  longterm?
• 30:10
  Right.
• 30:10
  That's
• 30:10
  some
• 30:10
  really
• 30:11
  good
• 30:11
  questions.
• 30:12
  Yeah,
• 30:12
  for
• 30:12
  sure.
• 30:13
  Yeah.
• 30:13
  Sure.
• 30:14
  So.
• 30:14
  Okay.
• 30:15
  So
• 30:15
  finally,
• 30:16
  I
• 30:16
  want
• 30:16
  to
• 30:16
  ask
• 30:16
  you
• 30:16
  kind
• 30:17
  of
• 30:17
  a
• 30:17
  hard
• 30:17
  question,
• 30:17
  but
• 30:17
  tell
• 30:18
  us
• 30:18
  just
• 30:18
  a
• 30:18
  little
• 30:18
  bit
• 30:18
  about
• 30:19
  how
• 30:19
  this,
• 30:20
  I
• 30:20
  know
• 30:20
  you
• 30:21
  said
• 30:21
  you
• 30:21
  felt
• 30:21
  called
• 30:22
  to
• 30:22
  do
• 30:22
  the
• 30:22
  Compassion
• 30:22
  Club,
• 30:23
  but
• 30:23
  tell
• 30:23
  us
• 30:23
  also
• 30:24
  a
• 30:24
  little
• 30:24
  bit
• 30:24
  about
• 30:25
  how
• 30:25
  that
• 30:25
  helped
• 30:25
  you
• 30:25
  through
• 30:26
  the
• 30:26
  grieving
• 30:26
  process.
• 30:26
  Like
• 30:27
  obviously
• 30:27
  it
• 30:27
  is
• 30:27
  a
• 30:27
  long
• 30:28
  process
• 30:28
  that
• 30:29
  goes
• 30:29
  on
• 30:29
  forever.
• 30:30
  Yeah.
• 30:30
  It
• 30:30
  never
• 30:31
  goes
• 30:31
  away.
• 30:32
  Yeah.
• 30:32
  Never
• 30:32
  goes
• 30:32
  away.
• 30:32
  And,
• 30:33
  and,
• 30:33
  and
• 30:33
  was
• 30:34
  that,
• 30:34
  tell,
• 30:34
  tell
• 30:34
  us
• 30:34
  a
• 30:34
  little
• 30:35
  bit
• 30:35
  about
• 30:35
  that.
• 30:35
  Yeah.
• 30:36
  Yeah.
• 30:36
  I
• 30:36
  mean,
• 30:36
  I
• 30:36
  think
• 30:37
  just.
• 30:37
  Yeah.
• 30:38
  serving
• 30:39
  and,
• 30:40
  and,
• 30:41
  you
• 30:42
  know,
• 30:42
  showing
• 30:42
  these
• 30:43
  kids,
• 30:43
  especially
• 30:43
  like
• 30:43
  his
• 30:44
  friends,
• 30:45
  you
• 30:45
  know,
• 30:46
  are
• 30:47
  just
• 30:47
  like
• 30:48
  spending
• 30:48
  time
• 30:48
  with
• 30:48
  them
• 30:49
  and
• 30:49
  serving
• 30:49
  and
• 30:50
  seeing
• 30:50
  like,
• 30:50
  oh,
• 30:51
  you
• 30:51
  can,
• 30:51
  you
• 30:51
  can
• 30:51
  be
• 30:51
  happy.
• 30:52
  And
• 30:53
  you
• 30:53
  know,
• 30:53
  it
• 30:53
  really
• 30:54
  is
• 30:54
  like,
• 30:55
  Whenever
• 30:55
  I'm
• 30:55
  struggling,
• 30:56
  it's
• 30:56
  like,
• 30:56
  like
• 30:57
  I
• 30:57
  said
• 30:57
  this
• 30:57
  to
• 30:57
  my
• 30:57
  daughter
• 30:57
  the
• 30:57
  other
• 30:57
  day,
• 30:58
  we
• 30:58
  need
• 30:58
  to
• 30:58
  serve,
• 30:58
  we
• 30:58
  need
• 30:59
  to
• 30:59
  do
• 30:59
  some
• 30:59
  service,
• 30:59
  you
• 31:00
  know,
• 31:00
  like,
• 31:01
  and
• 31:01
  I
• 31:01
  think
• 31:02
  it
• 31:02
  was
• 31:02
  just
• 31:02
  like
• 31:02
  really
• 31:02
  healing
• 31:03
  to
• 31:03
  help
• 31:03
  his
• 31:04
  friends
• 31:04
  and
• 31:04
  his
• 31:05
  friends,
• 31:06
  you
• 31:06
  know,
• 31:07
  it
• 31:07
  really
• 31:08
  is
• 31:08
  just
• 31:08
  like
• 31:08
  kindness.
• 31:09
  And
• 31:09
  I
• 31:09
  think
• 31:09
  that's
• 31:09
  something
• 31:10
  that
• 31:10
  like,
• 31:11
  we
• 31:11
  oftentimes
• 31:12
  dismiss
• 31:13
  the
• 31:13
  value
• 31:14
  of
• 31:14
  how
• 31:14
  powerful
• 31:15
  kindness
• 31:15
  is.
• 31:16
  And,
• 31:17
  I
• 31:17
  think
• 31:17
  of
• 31:17
  his
• 31:17
  friends
• 31:18
  like
• 31:18
  they
• 31:18
  were
• 31:18
  just
• 31:19
  kids.
• 31:19
  They
• 31:19
  were
• 31:19
  like
• 31:19
  14
• 31:20
  year
• 31:20
  old
• 31:20
  kids
• 31:21
  and
• 31:21
  they
• 31:22
  showed
• 31:22
  up
• 31:22
  at
• 31:22
  our
• 31:23
  house.
• 31:23
  You
• 31:23
  know,
• 31:24
  we
• 31:24
  lived
• 31:24
  there
• 31:24
  for
• 31:25
  just
• 31:26
  over
• 31:26
  a
• 31:26
  year
• 31:26
  after
• 31:27
  my
• 31:27
  son
• 31:27
  passed
• 31:27
  away
• 31:28
  and
• 31:28
  then
• 31:28
  we,
• 31:28
  we
• 31:29
  moved.
• 31:29
  But
• 31:30
  these
• 31:31
  teenagers,
• 31:31
  like,
• 31:31
  we
• 31:32
  call
• 31:32
  them
• 31:32
  our
• 31:32
  teenagers
• 31:32
  and
• 31:33
  they're
• 31:33
  in
• 31:33
  their
• 31:33
  20s
• 31:33
  now,
• 31:34
  but
• 31:34
  like,
• 31:35
  they
• 31:35
  showed
• 31:35
  up
• 31:36
  at
• 31:36
  our
• 31:36
  house,
• 31:36
  like,
• 31:37
  every
• 31:37
  day,
• 31:38
  like,
• 31:38
  until
• 31:39
  we
• 31:39
  moved
• 31:39
  and
• 31:39
  it
• 31:39
  would
• 31:39
  sometimes
• 31:40
  be
• 31:40
  1,
• 31:41
  sometimes
• 31:41
  it
• 31:41
  would
• 31:41
  be
• 31:41
  30
• 31:42
  and
• 31:42
  these
• 31:42
  kids
• 31:42
  showed
• 31:42
  up.
• 31:43
  Every
• 31:44
  single
• 31:44
  day.
• 31:45
  And
• 31:45
  I
• 31:45
  think
• 31:46
  like,
• 31:46
  they
• 31:46
  like
• 31:46
  saved
• 31:47
  us.
• 31:47
  They
• 31:47
  saved
• 31:48
  my
• 31:48
  children.
• 31:49
  You
• 31:49
  know,
• 31:49
  it
• 31:49
  was
• 31:49
  like,
• 31:50
  it
• 31:50
  was
• 31:50
  like
• 31:51
  they
• 31:51
  lost
• 31:52
  their
• 31:52
  brother,
• 31:52
  my
• 31:53
  kids,
• 31:53
  but
• 31:53
  like,
• 31:54
  they
• 31:54
  gained,
• 31:55
  like,
• 31:56
  All
• 31:56
  these
• 31:57
  kids
• 31:57
  that
• 31:57
  just
• 31:57
  like
• 31:58
  love
• 31:58
  them.
• 31:58
  And
• 31:59
  they
• 31:59
  just,
• 32:00
  you
• 32:00
  know,
• 32:00
  I
• 32:00
  think
• 32:00
  that
• 32:00
  they,
• 32:02
  and
• 32:02
  we've
• 32:02
  told
• 32:02
  them
• 32:03
  before,
• 32:03
  like,
• 32:03
  they
• 32:03
  didn't
• 32:03
  realize
• 32:04
  like
• 32:04
  that
• 32:04
  they
• 32:05
  saved
• 32:05
  us
• 32:06
  by
• 32:06
  just
• 32:06
  like
• 32:07
  showing
• 32:07
  up.
• 32:07
  And
• 32:08
  I
• 32:08
  think
• 32:08
  it's
• 32:08
  just
• 32:08
  like,
• 32:09
  it's
• 32:09
  such
• 32:09
  a
• 32:09
  simple
• 32:10
  like
• 32:10
  thing.
• 32:11
  It's
• 32:11
  just
• 32:11
  like
• 32:11
  showing
• 32:11
  up
• 32:12
  for
• 32:12
  people
• 32:12
  and
• 32:12
  just
• 32:13
  checking
• 32:13
  on
• 32:13
  people.
• 32:14
  And,
• 32:15
  you
• 32:15
  know,
• 32:15
  I
• 32:15
  think
• 32:15
  it
• 32:16
  was
• 32:16
  just
• 32:16
  like,
• 32:16
  it
• 32:16
  was
• 32:16
  so
• 32:17
  healing
• 32:17
  and
• 32:18
  it
• 32:18
  just
• 32:18
  like
• 32:18
  brought
• 32:18
  us
• 32:18
  together
• 32:19
  for
• 32:19
  like
• 32:19
  a
• 32:19
  greater
• 32:20
  cause
• 32:21
  and
• 32:21
  that
• 32:21
  was
• 32:21
  like
• 32:21
  serving
• 32:22
  other
• 32:22
  people.
• 32:22
  And
• 32:23
  it
• 32:23
  really.
• 32:24
  was
• 32:25
  like
• 32:25
  such
• 32:25
  a
• 32:25
  healing
• 32:26
  time
• 32:26
  for
• 32:26
  me
• 32:28
  and
• 32:29
  just
• 32:29
  spending
• 32:29
  time
• 32:30
  because
• 32:30
  I
• 32:30
  felt
• 32:30
  like,
• 32:31
  I
• 32:31
  felt
• 32:31
  like
• 32:32
  I
• 32:32
  was
• 32:32
  helping.
• 32:33
  I
• 32:33
  felt
• 32:33
  like
• 32:33
  I
• 32:33
  was
• 32:34
  like
• 32:34
  my
• 32:35
  son
• 32:35
  helping
• 32:36
  his
• 32:36
  friends.
• 32:36
  Like
• 32:36
  I,
• 32:37
  I
• 32:37
  felt
• 32:37
  like
• 32:37
  as
• 32:38
  a
• 32:38
  mother,
• 32:38
  like
• 32:38
  I
• 32:39
  was
• 32:39
  still
• 32:39
  taking
• 32:39
  care
• 32:40
  of
• 32:40
  him
• 32:40
  because
• 32:40
  I
• 32:40
  was
• 32:40
  taking
• 32:41
  care
• 32:41
  of
• 32:41
  his
• 32:41
  friend.
• 32:42
  And
• 32:42
  I
• 32:43
  just
• 32:43
  think
• 32:43
  that
• 32:43
  it's
• 32:43
  something
• 32:44
  that
• 32:44
  it's
• 32:44
  just
• 32:44
  like,
• 32:45
  we
• 32:45
  just
• 32:45
  underestimate
• 32:46
  the
• 32:46
  power
• 32:46
  of
• 32:47
  like
• 32:47
  so
• 32:47
  much,
• 32:48
  you
• 32:49
  know,
• 32:49
  and
• 32:49
  I
• 32:49
  think
• 32:49
  it's
• 32:50
  really
• 32:50
  like,
• 32:51
  It
• 32:51
  was
• 32:51
  like
• 32:52
  such
• 32:52
  a
• 32:52
  spiritual
• 32:53
  experience
• 32:54
  for
• 32:54
  me,
• 32:54
  the
• 32:55
  whole
• 32:55
  thing,
• 32:55
  the
• 32:55
  whole
• 32:55
  thing,
• 32:56
  even
• 32:56
  though
• 32:56
  it
• 32:56
  was
• 32:56
  like,
• 32:56
  so
• 32:57
  painful,
• 32:58
  it
• 32:58
  was
• 32:58
  such
• 32:58
  a
• 32:58
  spiritual
• 32:59
  experience
• 33:00
  and
• 33:01
  you
• 33:01
  know,
• 33:01
  it
• 33:01
  just,
• 33:02
  like,
• 33:02
  it
• 33:02
  changed
• 33:03
  me
• 33:03
  and
• 33:04
  you
• 33:04
  know,
• 33:04
  like
• 33:04
  I've
• 33:04
  always
• 33:05
  been
• 33:05
  somebody
• 33:05
  who
• 33:05
  served,
• 33:06
  but
• 33:07
  you
• 33:07
  know,
• 33:07
  it,
• 33:07
  it
• 33:08
  just
• 33:08
  gave
• 33:08
  me
• 33:08
  a
• 33:09
  whole
• 33:09
  new
• 33:09
  perspective
• 33:10
  of
• 33:10
  just
• 33:11
  kindness,
• 33:11
  you
• 33:11
  know,
• 33:12
  and
• 33:12
  how
• 33:12
  powerful
• 33:12
  it
• 33:12
  is.
• 33:13
  And
• 33:13
  I
• 33:13
  saw
• 33:13
  in
• 33:14
  so
• 33:14
  many
• 33:15
  kids
• 33:15
  lives.
• 33:16
  And,
• 33:16
  and
• 33:17
  that
• 33:17
  there's
• 33:17
  such
• 33:17
  a
• 33:17
  need
• 33:17
  for
• 33:18
  it
• 33:18
  too.
• 33:19
  And
• 33:19
  what
• 33:20
  an
• 33:20
  interesting,
• 33:21
  fascinating,
• 33:21
  just
• 33:23
  beautiful
• 33:23
  way
• 33:24
  to
• 33:24
  grieve
• 33:25
  that
• 33:25
  through
• 33:26
  your
• 33:26
  grieving
• 33:26
  process,
• 33:26
  you
• 33:27
  were
• 33:27
  actually
• 33:27
  able
• 33:27
  to
• 33:27
  help
• 33:28
  others
• 33:28
  through
• 33:29
  theirs
• 33:29
  as
• 33:29
  well.
• 33:29
  Right?
• 33:30
  Like
• 33:30
  that
• 33:30
  you
• 33:31
  were
• 33:31
  there,
• 33:31
  you
• 33:31
  needed
• 33:31
  them
• 33:32
  and
• 33:32
  they
• 33:32
  needed
• 33:32
  you
• 33:33
  and
• 33:33
  that
• 33:33
  you
• 33:33
  guys
• 33:33
  were
• 33:33
  able
• 33:33
  to
• 33:34
  come
• 33:34
  together
• 33:34
  and
• 33:34
  experience
• 33:35
  it
• 33:35
  together.
• 33:35
  I
• 33:35
  think
• 33:36
  one
• 33:36
  of
• 33:36
  the
• 33:36
  hardest
• 33:36
  things
• 33:37
  about
• 33:38
  grief
• 33:38
  in
• 33:38
  general
• 33:39
  is
• 33:40
  that
• 33:40
  if
• 33:40
  you're
• 33:40
  not
• 33:41
  in
• 33:41
  it,
• 33:41
  it's
• 33:41
  very
• 33:42
  hard
• 33:43
  to
• 33:43
  know
• 33:43
  what
• 33:43
  people
• 33:44
  need.
• 33:44
  It's
• 33:44
  also
• 33:44
  very
• 33:44
  hard
• 33:45
  to
• 33:48
  So,
• 33:49
  I've
• 33:49
  had
• 33:49
  a
• 33:49
  handful
• 33:50
  of
• 33:50
  experiences
• 33:50
  in
• 33:50
  the
• 33:50
  last
• 33:50
  few
• 33:51
  years
• 33:51
  that
• 33:51
  I
• 33:52
  feel
• 33:52
  like
• 33:52
  God
• 33:52
  is
• 33:53
  teaching
• 33:53
  me
• 33:53
  how
• 33:53
  to
• 33:54
  be
• 33:54
  a
• 33:54
  compassionate
• 33:54
  griever,
• 33:55
  like
• 33:55
  be
• 33:55
  a
• 33:55
  griever
• 33:55
  alongside
• 33:56
  someone
• 33:56
  else.
• 33:57
  And
• 33:58
  it
• 33:58
  is
• 33:58
  not
• 34:00
  an
• 34:00
  enjoyable
• 34:00
  thing
• 34:01
  to
• 34:01
  choose,
• 34:01
  right?
• 34:01
  Like
• 34:02
  for
• 34:02
  many
• 34:02
  of
• 34:02
  us,
• 34:02
  we
• 34:03
  don't
• 34:03
  choose
• 34:03
  our
• 34:03
  grief.
• 34:03
  It
• 34:04
  just
• 34:04
  hits
• 34:04
  us.
• 34:04
  But
• 34:05
  when,
• 34:05
  like,
• 34:06
  if,
• 34:06
  if
• 34:06
  it's
• 34:06
  someone
• 34:07
  that
• 34:07
  you
• 34:07
  love,
• 34:08
  you
• 34:08
  have
• 34:08
  to
• 34:08
  choose
• 34:08
  to
• 34:09
  step
• 34:09
  into
• 34:09
  that
• 34:09
  space.
• 34:10
  Yeah.
• 34:11
  And,
• 34:11
  and
• 34:11
  making
• 34:12
  that
• 34:12
  choice
• 34:12
  is
• 34:12
  a
• 34:12
  hard
• 34:12
  choice
• 34:13
  and
• 34:13
  yet
• 34:14
  it's
• 34:14
  the
• 34:14
  only
• 34:14
  way
• 34:14
  we
• 34:14
  get
• 34:14
  through.
• 34:15
  Like
• 34:15
  we
• 34:15
  mourn
• 34:16
  with
• 34:16
  those
• 34:16
  that
• 34:16
  mourn.
• 34:16
  That's
• 34:17
  the,
• 34:17
  that's
• 34:17
  the
• 34:17
  commitment
• 34:18
  we
• 34:18
  make.
• 34:18
  Right.
• 34:19
  Yeah.
• 34:19
  And
• 34:19
  so
• 34:19
  to
• 34:19
  be
• 34:20
  able
• 34:20
  to
• 34:20
  do
• 34:20
  that
• 34:21
  with
• 34:21
  all
• 34:21
  these
• 34:21
  kids
• 34:22
  that,
• 34:22
  I
• 34:22
  mean,
• 34:22
  and
• 34:22
  now
• 34:23
  they
• 34:23
  have
• 34:23
  this
• 34:23
  amazing
• 34:24
  experience
• 34:24
  of
• 34:24
  having
• 34:25
  gone
• 34:25
  through
• 34:25
  that
• 34:25
  and
• 34:26
  knowing
• 34:26
  what
• 34:26
  it's
• 34:26
  like
• 34:27
  to,
• 34:27
  they're
• 34:28
  not
• 34:28
  burying
• 34:28
  their
• 34:28
  feelings.
• 34:29
  They're
• 34:29
  just
• 34:29
  feeling
• 34:29
  them.
• 34:30
  Right.
• 34:30
  They
• 34:30
  understand.
• 34:31
  And
• 34:31
  that's,
• 34:31
  and
• 34:31
  that's
• 34:31
  how
• 34:31
  we
• 34:32
  get
• 34:32
  empathy
• 34:32
  and
• 34:32
  compassion
• 34:33
  is
• 34:33
  to
• 34:33
  go
• 34:33
  through
• 34:34
  these
• 34:34
  hard
• 34:34
  things.
• 34:34
  And,
• 34:35
  you
• 34:35
  know,
• 34:35
  it's
• 34:35
  interesting
• 34:35
  that
• 34:35
  you
• 34:35
  say
• 34:36
  that
• 34:36
  about,
• 34:36
  you
• 34:37
  know,
• 34:37
  like
• 34:37
  we
• 34:37
  mourn
• 34:37
  with
• 34:37
  those
• 34:38
  who
• 34:38
  mourn
• 34:38
  is
• 34:38
  somebody
• 34:39
  once
• 34:39
  asked
• 34:39
  me,
• 34:40
  like,
• 34:40
  what
• 34:40
  is
• 34:40
  the
• 34:40
  kindest
• 34:41
  thing
• 34:41
  that
• 34:42
  anybody
• 34:42
  has
• 34:42
  ever
• 34:43
  done
• 34:43
  for
• 34:43
  you?
• 34:44
  And,
• 34:44
  and
• 34:44
  I
• 34:44
  was
• 34:45
  like,
• 34:45
  Oh,
• 34:45
  so
• 34:46
  people
• 34:46
  have
• 34:46
  done
• 34:46
  so
• 34:46
  many
• 34:47
  like
• 34:47
  kind
• 34:47
  things
• 34:48
  for
• 34:48
  me,
• 34:48
  you
• 34:48
  know,
• 34:49
  especially,
• 34:49
  especially
• 34:50
  during
• 34:50
  that
• 34:50
  time.
• 34:51
  But,
• 34:51
  um,
• 34:52
  I
• 34:52
  have
• 34:52
  this
• 34:53
  one
• 34:53
  like
• 34:53
  memory
• 34:54
  and
• 34:56
  I
• 34:56
  was
• 34:56
  at
• 34:56
  church
• 34:57
  and
• 34:57
  we
• 34:58
  were,
• 34:58
  like,
• 34:58
  Sundays
• 34:59
  were
• 34:59
  so
• 34:59
  hard
• 35:00
  for
• 35:00
  me
• 35:00
  because,
• 35:00
  like,
• 35:01
  that
• 35:01
  was
• 35:01
  a
• 35:01
  time
• 35:01
  where
• 35:01
  it,
• 35:02
  like,
• 35:03
  his
• 35:03
  absence
• 35:03
  was
• 35:04
  just,
• 35:04
  like,
• 35:04
  so,
• 35:05
  like,
• 35:06
  big
• 35:06
  because
• 35:07
  we
• 35:07
  were
• 35:07
  always
• 35:07
  together
• 35:07
  on
• 35:08
  Sundays,
• 35:08
  you
• 35:08
  know,
• 35:09
  and
• 35:09
  I,
• 35:09
  I
• 35:09
  couldn't
• 35:10
  make
• 35:10
  it
• 35:10
  through
• 35:11
  like
• 35:12
  I
• 35:12
  could
• 35:12
  not
• 35:12
  make
• 35:12
  it
• 35:12
  through
• 35:13
  church
• 35:13
  without
• 35:13
  getting
• 35:14
  up
• 35:14
  and
• 35:14
  like,
• 35:14
  you
• 35:14
  know,
• 35:14
  sobbing
• 35:15
  and,
• 35:15
  and
• 35:15
  the
• 35:16
  music,
• 35:16
  they'd
• 35:16
  start
• 35:16
  singing
• 35:17
  and
• 35:17
  I'd
• 35:17
  start
• 35:17
  sobbing.
• 35:17
  But
• 35:18
  I
• 35:18
  remember
• 35:19
  this
• 35:19
  one
• 35:19
  particular
• 35:19
  time
• 35:20
  that
• 35:20
  I
• 35:20
  was
• 35:21
  like,
• 35:22
  we
• 35:22
  were
• 35:22
  singing
• 35:23
  and
• 35:23
  like,
• 35:23
  we
• 35:24
  were
• 35:24
  singing
• 35:24
  a
• 35:24
  hymn
• 35:25
  and
• 35:25
  I
• 35:25
  was
• 35:25
  crying
• 35:27
  and
• 35:27
  in
• 35:27
  like
• 35:28
  in
• 35:28
  the
• 35:28
  songs
• 35:28
  in
• 35:28
  between
• 35:29
  my
• 35:29
  sobs,
• 35:30
  like
• 35:30
  I
• 35:30
  could
• 35:31
  hear
• 35:31
  somebody
• 35:31
  like
• 35:32
  two
• 35:32
  rows
• 35:32
  back
• 35:33
  and
• 35:33
  they
• 35:33
  were
• 35:34
  crying
• 35:35
  and
• 35:35
  they
• 35:35
  were
• 35:36
  grieving
• 35:36
  with
• 35:36
  me.
• 35:37
  And
• 35:37
  like,
• 35:37
  that
• 35:37
  is
• 35:38
  the
• 35:38
  kindest
• 35:38
  thing
• 35:39
  that
• 35:39
  like
• 35:39
  anybody
• 35:40
  has
• 35:40
  ever
• 35:40
  done
• 35:40
  for
• 35:41
  me
• 35:41
  was
• 35:41
  to
• 35:41
  grieve
• 35:41
  with
• 35:42
  me.
• 35:43
  And
• 35:43
  I,
• 35:43
  I
• 35:43
  like
• 35:44
  knew
• 35:44
  she
• 35:44
  was
• 35:45
  grieving
• 35:45
  for
• 35:46
  me
• 35:46
  and
• 35:47
  just,
• 35:47
  I
• 35:47
  mean,
• 35:47
  so
• 35:48
  many
• 35:48
  people,
• 35:48
  like
• 35:49
  I
• 35:49
  felt
• 35:49
  the
• 35:49
  prayers,
• 35:50
  like
• 35:50
  I
• 35:50
  felt
• 35:51
  like
• 35:51
  the
• 35:51
  grief
• 35:51
  and
• 35:51
  it
• 35:52
  really
• 35:52
  was
• 35:52
  like
• 35:53
  the
• 35:53
  kindest
• 35:53
  thing
• 35:54
  because
• 35:54
  it's
• 35:55
  such
• 35:55
  a
• 35:55
  lonely,
• 35:56
  like
• 35:56
  a
• 35:56
  hard
• 35:57
  journey
• 35:57
  and
• 35:58
  it
• 35:58
  never
• 35:58
  ends,
• 35:58
  you
• 35:59
  know
• 35:59
  what
• 35:59
  I
• 35:59
  mean?
• 35:59
  And
• 35:59
  so.
• 36:00
  It's
• 36:00
  just
• 36:01
  knowing
• 36:01
  that
• 36:01
  people
• 36:02
  are,
• 36:02
  like,
• 36:02
  sad
• 36:03
  with
• 36:03
  you
• 36:03
  and
• 36:03
  they're,
• 36:04
  like,
• 36:04
  grieving
• 36:05
  with
• 36:05
  you.
• 36:05
  And
• 36:05
  I
• 36:05
  think
• 36:06
  that's
• 36:06
  why
• 36:06
  his
• 36:06
  friends
• 36:07
  brought
• 36:07
  me
• 36:07
  so
• 36:07
  much,
• 36:07
  like,
• 36:08
  comfort,
• 36:08
  because
• 36:08
  I
• 36:08
  knew
• 36:09
  that
• 36:09
  they
• 36:09
  were,
• 36:09
  like,
• 36:09
  grieving
• 36:10
  with
• 36:10
  me,
• 36:11
  you
• 36:11
  know?
• 36:11
  I
• 36:11
  knew
• 36:11
  they
• 36:11
  missed
• 36:12
  him,
• 36:13
  you
• 36:13
  know,
• 36:13
  as
• 36:14
  much
• 36:14
  as
• 36:14
  I
• 36:14
  did.
• 36:15
  I
• 36:15
  actually
• 36:16
  had
• 36:16
  a
• 36:16
  thought
• 36:16
  about
• 36:16
  this,
• 36:16
  uh,
• 36:17
  recently.
• 36:17
  I
• 36:17
  was
• 36:17
  thought,
• 36:18
  I
• 36:18
  was
• 36:18
  wondering
• 36:18
  about
• 36:19
  this.
• 36:19
  Why
• 36:19
  are
• 36:19
  we
• 36:19
  commanded
• 36:20
  to
• 36:20
  grieve
• 36:20
  with
• 36:20
  those
• 36:20
  that
• 36:20
  grieve?
• 36:21
  And
• 36:21
  I
• 36:21
  just
• 36:21
  thought,
• 36:21
  what
• 36:22
  if
• 36:23
  What
• 36:23
  if
• 36:23
  there's
• 36:23
  a
• 36:23
  specific
• 36:24
  amount
• 36:24
  of
• 36:25
  grief
• 36:25
  that
• 36:25
  has
• 36:26
  to
• 36:26
  pass
• 36:26
  through
• 36:26
  us?
• 36:27
  And
• 36:27
  what
• 36:27
  if,
• 36:28
  this
• 36:28
  is
• 36:28
  just
• 36:28
  like,
• 36:28
  you
• 36:28
  know,
• 36:28
  my
• 36:29
  musings,
• 36:29
  but
• 36:29
  what
• 36:29
  if
• 36:30
  every
• 36:31
  time
• 36:31
  I
• 36:31
  show
• 36:31
  up
• 36:31
  for
• 36:32
  somebody
• 36:32
  who's
• 36:32
  in
• 36:32
  that
• 36:32
  grief
• 36:33
  space,
• 36:33
  I
• 36:33
  get
• 36:34
  to
• 36:34
  just
• 36:34
  carry
• 36:34
  some
• 36:34
  of
• 36:34
  it?
• 36:35
  You
• 36:36
  know?
• 36:36
  I
• 36:36
  don't
• 36:36
  know.
• 36:36
  Maybe?
• 36:37
  Like,
• 36:38
  just
• 36:38
  that
• 36:38
  chance
• 36:39
  is
• 36:40
  worth
• 36:40
  it.
• 36:40
  But
• 36:41
  don't
• 36:41
  you
• 36:41
  think
• 36:41
  it's
• 36:41
  interesting
• 36:41
  because
• 36:42
  like
• 36:42
  after
• 36:43
  that
• 36:43
  had
• 36:43
  happened,
• 36:44
  I
• 36:44
  had
• 36:44
  some
• 36:44
  people,
• 36:45
  two,
• 36:45
  two,
• 36:45
  two
• 36:45
  people
• 36:46
  Girls
• 36:46
  that
• 36:46
  I
• 36:47
  knew
• 36:47
  in
• 36:47
  high
• 36:47
  school.
• 36:47
  I
• 36:47
  wasn't
• 36:47
  like
• 36:48
  super
• 36:48
  close
• 36:48
  with
• 36:48
  them,
• 36:48
  but
• 36:48
  I
• 36:49
  grew
• 36:49
  up
• 36:49
  in
• 36:49
  a
• 36:49
  small
• 36:49
  town
• 36:49
  So
• 36:49
  everybody
• 36:50
  was
• 36:50
  friends
• 36:51
  and
• 36:51
  they
• 36:51
  reached
• 36:51
  out
• 36:52
  to
• 36:52
  me
• 36:52
  and
• 36:52
  I
• 36:53
  felt
• 36:53
  so
• 36:53
  I
• 36:53
  wasn't
• 36:54
  ever
• 36:54
  mean
• 36:54
  to
• 36:54
  them
• 36:55
  in
• 36:55
  high
• 36:55
  school
• 36:55
  I
• 36:56
  felt
• 36:56
  so
• 36:56
  bad
• 36:57
  that
• 36:57
  I
• 36:57
  wasn't
• 36:58
  I
• 36:58
  didn't,
• 36:58
  wasn't
• 36:59
  better
• 36:59
  with
• 36:59
  them.
• 37:00
  Why
• 37:00
  did
• 37:00
  I
• 37:00
  not
• 37:01
  show
• 37:01
  them
• 37:01
  more,
• 37:02
  more
• 37:02
  compassion?
• 37:03
  And
• 37:03
  it's
• 37:04
  really
• 37:04
  like,
• 37:05
  until
• 37:05
  you
• 37:05
  go
• 37:06
  through
• 37:06
  it
• 37:06
  and
• 37:06
  you
• 37:07
  understand
• 37:07
  it,
• 37:08
  that
• 37:08
  you,
• 37:09
  you
• 37:10
  under,
• 37:10
  you
• 37:10
  can
• 37:11
  have
• 37:11
  more
• 37:11
  compassion,
• 37:12
  empathy
• 37:12
  for
• 37:12
  them.
• 37:13
  And,
• 37:13
  and
• 37:14
  I
• 37:14
  didn't
• 37:14
  even
• 37:14
  experience
• 37:15
  this,
• 37:15
  you
• 37:15
  know,
• 37:15
  interesting.
• 37:15
  I
• 37:15
  just
• 37:16
  went
• 37:16
  through
• 37:16
  a
• 37:16
  divorce
• 37:16
  and
• 37:16
  it
• 37:17
  was
• 37:17
  like,
• 37:17
  it's
• 37:17
  been
• 37:17
  really,
• 37:18
  really
• 37:18
  hard.
• 37:18
  And
• 37:19
  it's
• 37:20
  grief
• 37:20
  because
• 37:20
  I'm
• 37:20
  grieving
• 37:21
  the
• 37:21
  loss
• 37:21
  of
• 37:21
  like
• 37:21
  my
• 37:21
  family,
• 37:22
  you
• 37:22
  know,
• 37:22
  in
• 37:22
  a
• 37:22
  marriage
• 37:23
  and
• 37:23
  stuff.
• 37:23
  And,
• 37:25
  and,
• 37:25
  um,
• 37:25
  I,
• 37:26
  you
• 37:26
  know,
• 37:26
  I
• 37:26
  often
• 37:27
  say
• 37:27
  like,
• 37:27
  gosh,
• 37:28
  going
• 37:28
  through
• 37:28
  a
• 37:28
  divorce,
• 37:29
  it's
• 37:29
  been,
• 37:29
  it's
• 37:29
  been
• 37:29
  harder
• 37:30
  than
• 37:30
  not
• 37:30
  harder
• 37:31
  in
• 37:31
  different
• 37:31
  ways.
• 37:32
  Harder
• 37:32
  than
• 37:32
  losing
• 37:32
  a
• 37:33
  child.
• 37:33
  Because
• 37:34
  when
• 37:34
  I
• 37:34
  lost
• 37:34
  a
• 37:35
  child,
• 37:35
  people
• 37:36
  rallied
• 37:36
  around
• 37:37
  me
• 37:37
  and
• 37:37
  they
• 37:38
  felt
• 37:38
  bad
• 37:39
  for
• 37:39
  me
• 37:39
  and
• 37:39
  they
• 37:39
  love
• 37:40
  me.
• 37:40
  And
• 37:40
  therefore
• 37:41
  you
• 37:41
  with
• 37:41
  a
• 37:41
  divorce,
• 37:42
  like,
• 37:43
  It's
• 37:43
  still
• 37:43
  grief,
• 37:44
  but
• 37:44
  people
• 37:44
  aren't
• 37:45
  as
• 37:45
  like,
• 37:45
  they,
• 37:46
  they
• 37:46
  didn't,
• 37:46
  they
• 37:46
  haven't
• 37:47
  been
• 37:47
  rallying
• 37:47
  around
• 37:47
  me
• 37:47
  as
• 37:48
  much
• 37:48
  as
• 37:48
  they
• 37:48
  did
• 37:48
  with
• 37:48
  my
• 37:48
  son,
• 37:49
  which
• 37:49
  understandable.
• 37:51
  But
• 37:51
  I'm
• 37:51
  just
• 37:51
  like,
• 37:51
  this
• 37:52
  has
• 37:52
  been
• 37:52
  very,
• 37:53
  like,
• 37:54
  this
• 37:54
  is
• 37:54
  lonely.
• 37:54
  And,
• 37:54
  but
• 37:55
  I
• 37:55
  have
• 37:55
  so
• 37:55
  much
• 37:56
  compassion
• 37:57
  for
• 37:57
  people
• 37:57
  who've
• 37:57
  gone
• 37:57
  through
• 37:57
  divorce
• 37:58
  now.
• 37:58
  So
• 37:59
  now
• 37:59
  when
• 37:59
  somebody
• 37:59
  says
• 37:59
  I'm
• 38:00
  going
• 38:00
  through
• 38:00
  divorce,
• 38:01
  and
• 38:01
  especially
• 38:02
  in
• 38:02
  the
• 38:02
  circumstances
• 38:02
  that
• 38:03
  I
• 38:03
  went
• 38:03
  through
• 38:03
  it,
• 38:03
  where
• 38:03
  it's
• 38:04
  like,
• 38:04
  Oh
• 38:04
  my
• 38:04
  gosh,
• 38:04
  it's
• 38:04
  so
• 38:05
  hard.
• 38:05
  Like,
• 38:05
  I
• 38:06
  am
• 38:06
  here
• 38:06
  for
• 38:06
  you.
• 38:06
  Like
• 38:07
  what,
• 38:07
  how
• 38:07
  can
• 38:07
  I
• 38:08
  support
• 38:08
  you?
• 38:08
  How
• 38:08
  can
• 38:08
  I
• 38:09
  love
• 38:09
  you?
• 38:10
  And
• 38:10
  it's
• 38:10
  like,
• 38:10
  you
• 38:10
  go
• 38:10
  through
• 38:11
  these
• 38:11
  things
• 38:11
  so
• 38:11
  that
• 38:11
  you.
• 38:12
  You
• 38:13
  gain
• 38:13
  that
• 38:13
  understanding.
• 38:14
  It's,
• 38:15
  I
• 38:15
  think
• 38:16
  that
• 38:16
  it's
• 38:16
  a
• 38:16
  catalyst,
• 38:17
  like
• 38:17
  grief
• 38:17
  is
• 38:17
  a
• 38:18
  catalyst
• 38:18
  for
• 38:18
  your
• 38:18
  spiritual
• 38:19
  growth.
• 38:19
  Like
• 38:20
  it,
• 38:20
  it
• 38:20
  like
• 38:21
  speeds
• 38:21
  it
• 38:21
  up
• 38:22
  because
• 38:22
  you
• 38:22
  see
• 38:23
  your
• 38:23
  perspective
• 38:24
  changes.
• 38:25
  Because
• 38:25
  you
• 38:25
  have,
• 38:26
  like,
• 38:26
  experienced
• 38:27
  so
• 38:27
  much
• 38:27
  pain
• 38:28
  that
• 38:28
  you
• 38:28
  understand,
• 38:29
  like,
• 38:29
  what's
• 38:29
  really
• 38:29
  important
• 38:30
  and
• 38:30
  you
• 38:30
  value
• 38:31
  things
• 38:31
  that
• 38:31
  you
• 38:31
  didn't
• 38:32
  before.
• 38:32
  Yeah.
• 38:33
  Oh,
• 38:34
  just
• 38:34
  as
• 38:34
  kind
• 38:34
  of
• 38:34
  a
• 38:34
  silly
• 38:35
  example,
• 38:35
  I
• 38:35
  remember
• 38:35
  having
• 38:36
  my
• 38:36
  first
• 38:36
  son
• 38:36
  and
• 38:37
  just
• 38:37
  immediately
• 38:37
  wanting
• 38:37
  to
• 38:37
  call
• 38:38
  my
• 38:38
  mom
• 38:38
  and
• 38:38
  be
• 38:38
  like,
• 38:38
  I'm
• 38:38
  so
• 38:39
  sorry.
• 38:40
  I'm
• 38:40
  so
• 38:40
  sorry
• 38:41
  you
• 38:41
  went
• 38:41
  through
• 38:41
  that
• 38:41
  so
• 38:41
  many
• 38:42
  times
• 38:42
  because
• 38:43
  all
• 38:43
  of
• 38:43
  a
• 38:43
  sudden
• 38:43
  I
• 38:43
  got
• 38:44
  it.
• 38:44
  All
• 38:44
  of
• 38:44
  a
• 38:44
  sudden
• 38:45
  I
• 38:45
  understood.
• 38:45
  And
• 38:46
  obviously
• 38:46
  nobody's
• 38:46
  grief
• 38:47
  is
• 38:47
  the
• 38:47
  same.
• 38:47
  None
• 38:48
  of
• 38:48
  us
• 38:48
  can
• 38:48
  ever
• 38:48
  understand
• 38:49
  exactly
• 38:49
  what
• 38:49
  someone
• 38:49
  else
• 38:49
  is
• 38:49
  going
• 38:49
  through,
• 38:50
  but
• 38:50
  you
• 38:50
  bring
• 38:50
  up
• 38:50
  a
• 38:50
  really
• 38:51
  good
• 38:51
  point.
• 38:52
  Those
• 38:52
  who
• 38:52
  need
• 38:52
  us
• 38:52
  the
• 38:52
  most
• 38:53
  are
• 38:53
  probably
• 38:53
  the
• 38:53
  ones
• 38:54
  that
• 38:54
  most
• 38:54
  people
• 38:54
  don't
• 38:54
  realize
• 38:55
  are
• 38:55
  suffering,
• 38:56
  right?
• 38:56
  Like,
• 38:56
  what
• 38:56
  if
• 38:56
  we
• 38:56
  just
• 38:57
  went
• 38:57
  out
• 38:57
  there
• 38:58
  automatically
• 38:58
  assuming
• 38:59
  everyone
• 38:59
  was
• 38:59
  suffering
• 39:00
  and
• 39:00
  everyone
• 39:00
  was
• 39:01
  carrying
• 39:01
  a
• 39:01
  hidden
• 39:01
  load?
• 39:02
  Yeah.
• 39:02
  But
• 39:02
  you
• 39:03
  have
• 39:03
  to
• 39:03
  go
• 39:03
  through
• 39:03
  to
• 39:03
  understand
• 39:04
  that
• 39:04
  even
• 39:04
  my
• 39:05
  own
• 39:05
  children,
• 39:06
  you
• 39:06
  know,
• 39:06
  like,
• 39:06
  not
• 39:07
  that
• 39:07
  they're
• 39:07
  not
• 39:07
  sad
• 39:08
  and
• 39:08
  they
• 39:08
  don't
• 39:08
  miss
• 39:08
  their
• 39:08
  brother,
• 39:09
  but
• 39:09
  my
• 39:09
  daughter
• 39:09
  was
• 39:10
  eight
• 39:10
  and
• 39:10
  my
• 39:10
  son
• 39:10
  was
• 39:10
  12
• 39:11
  when
• 39:11
  he
• 39:11
  passed
• 39:11
  away.
• 39:12
  And
• 39:14
  You
• 39:14
  know,
• 39:14
  like
• 39:14
  I'm
• 39:15
  crying
• 39:15
  today,
• 39:16
  I've
• 39:16
  been
• 39:16
  crying
• 39:16
  today
• 39:16
  about
• 39:17
  it
• 39:17
  and,
• 39:17
  you
• 39:17
  know,
• 39:18
  my
• 39:18
  kids
• 39:18
  don't
• 39:18
  get
• 39:18
  it.
• 39:19
  Like,
• 39:19
  they're
• 39:19
  like,
• 39:19
  yeah,
• 39:19
  I
• 39:20
  miss
• 39:20
  him.
• 39:20
  But
• 39:20
  like,
• 39:20
  gosh,
• 39:21
  you're
• 39:21
  been
• 39:21
  so
• 39:22
  sad
• 39:22
  for
• 39:22
  so
• 39:22
  long.
• 39:22
  And
• 39:23
  I'm
• 39:23
  just
• 39:23
  like,
• 39:24
  one
• 39:24
  day
• 39:24
  you
• 39:25
  will
• 39:25
  understand
• 39:25
  when
• 39:25
  you
• 39:26
  have
• 39:26
  children,
• 39:26
  one
• 39:27
  day
• 39:27
  you'll
• 39:27
  understand
• 39:28
  this
• 39:28
  pain.
• 39:29
  And
• 39:29
  so
• 39:29
  I
• 39:29
  think
• 39:29
  it's
• 39:30
  just
• 39:30
  like,
• 39:31
  you
• 39:31
  have
• 39:31
  to
• 39:31
  go
• 39:31
  through
• 39:31
  stuff.
• 39:32
  You
• 39:32
  have
• 39:32
  to
• 39:33
  like,
• 39:34
  you
• 39:34
  have
• 39:34
  to
• 39:34
  go.
• 39:34
  That's
• 39:35
  why
• 39:35
  we're
• 39:35
  here
• 39:35
  is
• 39:36
  to
• 39:36
  learn,
• 39:37
  you
• 39:37
  know,
• 39:37
  it's,
• 39:37
  it's,
• 39:37
  it's,
• 39:38
  it's,
• 39:38
  it's,
• 39:38
  it's,
• 39:38
  it's,
• 39:39
  how
• 39:39
  we
• 39:39
  get
• 39:39
  closer
• 39:39
  to
• 39:40
  Christ.
• 39:40
  So,
• 39:41
  yeah,
• 39:41
  absolutely.
• 39:42
  Okay.
• 39:42
  The
• 39:42
  last
• 39:43
  thing
• 39:43
  I
• 39:43
  want
• 39:43
  to
• 39:43
  say
• 39:43
  that
• 39:43
  came
• 39:43
  to
• 39:44
  me
• 39:44
  when
• 39:44
  you
• 39:44
  were
• 39:44
  first
• 39:44
  talking
• 39:45
  about
• 39:45
  this
• 39:45
  experience
• 39:45
  was
• 39:46
  all
• 39:46
  the
• 39:47
  wonderful
• 39:47
  letters
• 39:47
  you
• 39:47
  got
• 39:48
  about
• 39:48
  your
• 39:48
  son
• 39:48
  and
• 39:49
  how
• 39:49
  he
• 39:49
  had
• 39:49
  touched
• 39:49
  people's
• 39:49
  lives.
• 39:50
  And
• 39:50
  I
• 39:50
  just
• 39:50
  thought
• 39:52
  all
• 39:52
  of
• 39:52
  the
• 39:52
  things
• 39:52
  that
• 39:53
  he
• 39:53
  did,
• 39:53
  like
• 39:54
  it's
• 39:54
  like
• 39:54
  1
• 39:54
  million
• 39:55
  times
• 39:55
  compounded
• 39:57
  through
• 39:57
  his
• 39:57
  passing.
• 39:58
  Like
• 39:58
  the
• 39:58
  fact
• 39:58
  that
• 39:58
  he
• 39:59
  left
• 40:00
  was
• 40:00
  able
• 40:00
  to
• 40:00
  do
• 40:01
  so
• 40:01
  much.
• 40:01
  Yeah.
• 40:01
  So
• 40:01
  much
• 40:02
  good.
• 40:02
  Yeah.
• 40:02
  No,
• 40:03
  yeah.
• 40:03
  To
• 40:03
  bring
• 40:04
  all
• 40:04
  these
• 40:04
  kids
• 40:04
  together
• 40:04
  and
• 40:05
  to
• 40:05
  inspire
• 40:06
  you
• 40:06
  to
• 40:06
  create
• 40:06
  this
• 40:06
  thing.
• 40:07
  Like
• 40:07
  what
• 40:07
  a,
• 40:08
  that's
• 40:08
  how
• 40:09
  God
• 40:09
  created
• 40:09
  beauty
• 40:09
  out
• 40:10
  of
• 40:10
  the
• 40:10
  ashes.
• 40:10
  That
• 40:10
  just,
• 40:11
  yeah.
• 40:11
  It
• 40:11
  was
• 40:11
  a
• 40:11
  really
• 40:12
  amazing
• 40:12
  thought.
• 40:13
  Yeah.
• 40:13
  Yeah.
• 40:14
  No,
• 40:14
  it,
• 40:14
  it,
• 40:14
  it
• 40:15
  has.
• 40:15
  And
• 40:15
  my
• 40:16
  daughter
• 40:16
  has
• 40:16
  said
• 40:16
  that
• 40:17
  not
• 40:17
  too
• 40:17
  long
• 40:17
  ago,
• 40:17
  she
• 40:18
  just
• 40:18
  said,
• 40:19
  you
• 40:19
  know,
• 40:19
  like
• 40:19
  that
• 40:20
  there's
• 40:20
  been
• 40:20
  lots
• 40:20
  of
• 40:20
  blessings
• 40:21
  since
• 40:22
  he,
• 40:22
  you
• 40:22
  know,
• 40:22
  and
• 40:22
  I'm
• 40:23
  like,
• 40:23
  no,
• 40:23
  there
• 40:23
  has
• 40:24
  there.
• 40:24
  And
• 40:24
  I
• 40:24
  think
• 40:24
  that,
• 40:25
  I
• 40:25
  think
• 40:25
  that's
• 40:25
  important
• 40:25
  to
• 40:26
  like,
• 40:27
  I,
• 40:27
  I
• 40:28
  think
• 40:28
  it's
• 40:28
  innate
• 40:28
  for
• 40:28
  me.
• 40:29
  I'm
• 40:29
  naturally
• 40:29
  like
• 40:30
  an
• 40:30
  optimistic
• 40:30
  person.
• 40:32
  You
• 40:33
  know,
• 40:33
  I,
• 40:33
  I
• 40:33
  have
• 40:34
  always
• 40:34
  had
• 40:34
  like
• 40:34
  a
• 40:34
  lot
• 40:34
  of
• 40:34
  gratitude
• 40:35
  and
• 40:35
  I
• 40:35
  think
• 40:35
  it's
• 40:35
  something
• 40:36
  I've
• 40:36
  worked
• 40:36
  on,
• 40:36
  but
• 40:36
  something
• 40:37
  that,
• 40:37
  that
• 40:37
  does
• 40:37
  come
• 40:37
  naturally
• 40:38
  to
• 40:38
  me.
• 40:39
  But
• 40:39
  you
• 40:39
  know,
• 40:40
  I
• 40:40
  was
• 40:40
  never
• 40:40
  angry
• 40:41
  at
• 40:41
  God
• 40:41
  and
• 40:41
  lots
• 40:42
  of
• 40:42
  people
• 40:42
  are
• 40:42
  when
• 40:42
  they
• 40:42
  lose
• 40:43
  children.
• 40:43
  You
• 40:43
  know,
• 40:43
  I
• 40:44
  was,
• 40:44
  I
• 40:44
  was
• 40:44
  just
• 40:44
  grateful
• 40:45
  that
• 40:45
  I
• 40:45
  got
• 40:45
  him
• 40:45
  for
• 40:46
  the
• 40:46
  time
• 40:46
  that
• 40:46
  I
• 40:46
  got
• 40:46
  him.
• 40:46
  I
• 40:46
  was
• 40:47
  grateful
• 40:47
  I
• 40:47
  was
• 40:47
  chosen
• 40:48
  to
• 40:48
  be
• 40:48
  his
• 40:48
  mom,
• 40:49
  you
• 40:49
  know?
• 40:50
  And,
• 40:51
  but
• 40:51
  I
• 40:51
  just
• 40:51
  think
• 40:51
  like
• 40:52
  always
• 40:52
  looking
• 40:53
  for
• 40:53
  like,
• 40:54
  there's
• 40:54
  blessings
• 40:55
  in
• 40:55
  everything,
• 40:56
  no
• 40:56
  matter
• 40:57
  like
• 40:57
  how
• 40:57
  hard
• 40:57
  it
• 40:57
  is.
• 40:58
  Like
• 40:58
  there's
• 40:58
  always
• 40:59
  like,
• 41:00
  You
• 41:00
  know,
• 41:00
  we
• 41:00
  have
• 41:01
  a
• 41:01
  merciful
• 41:01
  God
• 41:02
  that
• 41:02
  like
• 41:02
  he,
• 41:03
  he
• 41:03
  gives
• 41:03
  us
• 41:03
  trials,
• 41:04
  but
• 41:04
  he
• 41:04
  blesses
• 41:04
  us.
• 41:06
  Absolutely.
• 41:08
  Oh
• 41:08
  my
• 41:08
  goodness,
• 41:08
  Brittany.
• 41:08
  What
• 41:09
  a
• 41:09
  beautiful,
• 41:09
  beautiful
• 41:10
  story.
• 41:10
  Thank
• 41:10
  you
• 41:10
  so
• 41:10
  much
• 41:11
  for
• 41:11
  being
• 41:11
  willing
• 41:11
  to
• 41:11
  be
• 41:12
  vulnerable
• 41:12
  with
• 41:12
  us
• 41:12
  and
• 41:12
  share
• 41:13
  it
• 41:13
  all.
• 41:13
  It's
• 41:13
  just
• 41:14
  so
• 41:14
  beautiful.
• 41:15
  And
• 41:15
  I
• 41:15
  hope
• 41:15
  it
• 41:15
  inspires
• 41:15
  other
• 41:16
  people
• 41:16
  to
• 41:16
  go
• 41:17
  and
• 41:17
  do
• 41:17
  that
• 41:17
  thing
• 41:18
  they're
• 41:18
  feeling
• 41:18
  called
• 41:18
  to
• 41:18
  do
• 41:18
  no
• 41:18
  matter
• 41:19
  how
• 41:19
  hard
• 41:19
  it
• 41:19
  seems,
• 41:19
  because
• 41:20
  there's
• 41:20
  a
• 41:20
  reason.
• 41:21
  And,
• 41:21
  and
• 41:22
  that
• 41:22
  God
• 41:22
  is
• 41:22
  calling
• 41:22
  us
• 41:22
  specifically
• 41:23
  to
• 41:23
  use
• 41:23
  those
• 41:23
  gifts
• 41:24
  he's
• 41:24
  given
• 41:24
  us.
• 41:24
  And
• 41:24
  we
• 41:24
  have
• 41:24
  to
• 41:24
  have
• 41:25
  the
• 41:25
  courage
• 41:25
  to
• 41:25
  do
• 41:25
  it.
• 41:25
  I
• 41:25
  love
• 41:26
  it.
• 41:26
  Yeah,
• 41:26
  for
• 41:27
  sure.
• 41:27
  Thank
• 41:27
  you
• 41:27
  so
• 41:27
  much.
• 41:28
  Do
• 41:28
  you
• 41:28
  want
• 41:28
  to
• 41:28
  share
• 41:28
  with
• 41:29
  our
• 41:29
  audience
• 41:29
  where
• 41:29
  they
• 41:29
  can
• 41:29
  find
• 41:30
  you,
• 41:30
  where
• 41:30
  they
• 41:30
  can
• 41:30
  get
• 41:30
  some
• 41:30
  amazing
• 41:31
  business
• 41:31
  tips?
• 41:31
  You
• 41:31
  guys
• 41:32
  have
• 41:32
  to
• 41:32
  go
• 41:32
  follow
• 41:32
  Britney.
• 41:32
  She's
• 41:32
  got
• 41:33
  tons
• 41:33
  of
• 41:33
  wisdom.
• 41:34
  Um,
• 41:34
  well,
• 41:34
  my,
• 41:35
  my
• 41:35
  nonprofit,
• 41:36
  you
• 41:36
  can
• 41:36
  find
• 41:36
  me
• 41:36
  on
• 41:37
  www.
• 41:38
  showcompassion.
• 41:39
  org.
• 41:40
  And
• 41:40
  then
• 41:40
  I'm
• 41:40
  on
• 41:40
  Instagram,
• 41:41
  um,
• 41:41
  compassion
• 41:42
  club,
• 41:42
  but
• 41:43
  my
• 41:43
  website
• 41:44
  for
• 41:44
  my
• 41:44
  business
• 41:44
  is
• 41:45
  brittanyschroeder.
• 41:46
  com.
• 41:46
  And
• 41:46
  I'm
• 41:47
  on
• 41:47
  all
• 41:47
  the
• 41:47
  social
• 41:48
  medias
• 41:48
  at
• 41:49
  britney.
• 41:50
  schroeder.
• 41:50
  So
• 41:51
  you
• 41:51
  can
• 41:52
  go
• 41:52
  to
• 41:52
  Instagram.
• 41:52
  That's
• 41:52
  my
• 41:53
  main,
• 41:53
  and
• 41:53
  then
• 41:53
  you
• 41:53
  can
• 41:54
  find
• 41:54
  me
• 41:54
  on
• 41:54
  all
• 41:54
  the
• 41:55
  other
• 41:55
  places.
• 41:55
  So
• 41:56
  yes,
• 41:56
  follow
• 41:56
  her
• 41:56
  on
• 41:56
  Instagram.
• 41:57
  She's
• 41:57
  got
• 41:57
  so
• 41:57
  many
• 41:57
  great
• 41:58
  tips.
• 41:58
  Thank
• 41:58
  you
• 41:58
  so
• 41:58
  much
• 41:58
  for
• 41:58
  joining
• 41:59
  us.
• 41:59
  I
• 41:59
  so
• 41:59
  appreciate
• 42:00
  it.
• 42:00
  Thanks
• 42:01
  for
• 42:01
  having
• 42:01
  me.
• 42:03
  Are
• 42:03
  you
• 42:04
  ready
• 42:04
  to
• 42:04
  start
• 42:04
  or
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  grow
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  your
• 42:05
  dream
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  business?
• 42:06
  Click
• 42:06
  the
• 42:06
  link
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  in
• 42:06
  the
• 42:06
  show
• 42:06
  notes
• 42:07
  to
• 42:07
  download
• 42:07
  the
• 42:07
  free
• 42:08
  starter
• 42:08
  guide
• 42:08
  to
• 42:08
  building
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  a
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  business
• 42:09
  or
• 42:09
  to
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  schedule
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  a
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  free
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  call
• 42:11
  And
• 42:11
  if
• 42:11
  you
• 42:12
  loved
• 42:12
  this
• 42:12
  episode,
• 42:13
  Don't
• 42:13
  forget
• 42:13
  to
• 42:13
  leave
• 42:13
  a
• 42:14
  review
• 42:14
  and
• 42:14
  share
• 42:14
  it
• 42:14
  with
• 42:15
  a
• 42:15
  friend
• 42:15
  who
• 42:15
  might
• 42:15
  be
• 42:16
  feeling
• 42:16
  the
• 42:16
  call
• 42:16
  to
• 42:16
  burn
• 42:17
  a
• 42:17
  little
• 42:17
  brighter.