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Why Narcissists think everyone is out to get them? · The Mental Healness Podcast

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  What is going on, Beautiful people.
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  Today we're going to be talking about why narcissists think that
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  everybody is out to get them, Why narcissistic people tend to
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  be paranoid. Everybody's watching me.
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  If you're new here, my name is Lee Hammock.
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  I'm a self aware narcissist. And welcome to another episode
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  of The Narcissist Code. Welcome back folks, welcome
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  back, welcome back. Yes, narcissistic people tend to
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  think not everybody, not every narcissist is going to be the
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  same y'all. This is not me speaking like
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  narcissist or monolith, but there are a lot of narcissist
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  that think everybody is out to get them to think that the world
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  is out to get them, to think that people are out to hurt them
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  or harm them in some way, shape or form.
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  This is going to be true for a lot of narcissistic people.
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  But Lee, OK, I get it. The narcissist in my life or
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  your life or whoever's life, they're paranoid, right?
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  As you say, narcissists are paranoid.
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  Yes, a lot of narcissists are absolutely paranoid as hell.
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  And that's not me trying to minimize it.
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  Paranoia runs rampant with a lot of narcissists and toxic people.
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  Like even in my own life, yeah, I have a lot of paranoid traits.
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  I'm damn near almost get it seemed like when I saw my test,
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  when I saw my, my psychotic, my the results of my psyche valve,
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  I damn near had paranoid personality disorder.
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  I was so paranoid. But that's what happens.
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  Y'all. You think like I have general
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  anxiety disorder as well, right? So I have narcissistic
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  personality disorder along with general anxiety disorder and
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  clinical depression, right. So being super anxious having
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  general anxiety disorder makes me damn near highly paranoid and
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  I think a lot of narcissists all the same way.
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  Again, not every narcissist. Y'all be surprised how many
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  narcissists see my videos and start whining in the self aware
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  narcissist group lately. It's victimizing all of us.
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  He's speaking for ice shut. Stop whining.
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  Damn. But like not every narcissist is
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  going to be the same. But there are a lot of
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  narcissists that probably suffer from general anxiety disorder or
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  just being just anxiety overall in general.
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  And anxiety can make you feel like you're going crazy.
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  That anxiety can make you feel like your life is tough, like
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  the world is tough, like everybody's out to get you.
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  That anxiety can be rough as hell.
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  That's pointed out. That's a part of it right there.
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  That's a piece of it. There really is.
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  There are a lot of narcissists and types of people who like the
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  paranoia drives us to a certain point.
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  It just does. The paranoia drives us to a
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  certain point and makes us feel a certain type of way about
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  situations. Like it makes us feel like the
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  people are out together, like people are watching us.
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  Like even nowadays, y'all, it's hard for me.
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  Like I had to focus on my breath work nowadays because even in
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  the gym when I'm working out, I'll be doing the and there's
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  nobody looking at me. I'll peek around, but I feel
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  like everybody's looking at me. Like if I don't hit this last
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  Rep, people are going to laugh at me.
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  Yeah, if I don't, if I don't complete this last Rep, people
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  are going to pick on me. So I have to, I have to make
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  this, I have to finish this last Rep where I'm going to be picked
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  on. It's stuff like that.
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  It happens all the time. I feel like people are watching
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  me do the smallest things. It's like the people, like the
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  world is out to get me. Like people are out to laugh at
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  me. Like I'm going to fail and
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  people, people are going to point and laugh.
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  Maybe. And it could also be a thing
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  because like right here, I feel like people are going to point
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  and laugh and people are going to point at me and pick on me
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  and I'm going to feel so much shame, right.
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  But I thought about it. I had a thought, maybe a lot of
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  narcissists think people are watching them because the
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  narcissist is watching other people and think about that
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  danger. Who thought about that?
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  Honestly, drop it in the comment section.
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  Like put a little hand, raise emojis lightly.
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  I thought about it, I did, I did.
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  If you did, good on you. If you didn't, also good on you.
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  But like, yeah, this is the mindset.
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  This is the space that so many people fall into.
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  Y'all narcissistic people like could be watching other people
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  could have like other could have eyes on other people because
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  they think that other people have eyes on them or the
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  opposite around they think other people watching them because
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  narcissists are watching other people like because I'm I'm
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  super analytical because I'm super astute of my opposite.
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  I'm super paranoid. I'm watching everybody, so I
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  assume everybody is watching me. Sometimes I feel like somebody's
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  watching me yes, because I'm watching them.
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  This is what happens. It is is do narcissist think
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  that or some narcissist predatory?
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  Yes, there are a lot of predatory narcissist that think
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  that you are watching them because they're watching you
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  because they're targeting you. The narcissist has a target on
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  your back. They're they are targeting you.
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  You are a target of theirs. So they're going to try to make
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  it happen in whatever way, shape or form they can and make it
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  happen, right. They're going to try to do a lot
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  of different things. They're going to try to
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  manipulate you. They're going to try to take
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  from you. They're going to try to do a lot
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  of different things to you to mess with you.
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  They just are. This is the space that so many
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  people fall into. They'll message your hand like
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  narcissists will try to bring the crazy, my narcissist, a lot
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  of narcissists, they will try to drag you into their delusions,
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  right? If you are their partner or
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  their children, they take out their paranoia and their anxiety
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  out on you. They think they think like say,
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  and they will break like say. You get a lot of narcissists
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  that are conspiracy theorists. They believe This is why you get
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  a lot of narcissists that fall into cultures, cult like
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  movements, because they you're easily convinced by conspiracy
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  theories or just fear mongering. It's easy like this is
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  conspiracy like it's easily it's so provably, provably false that
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  they do, they do the type of stuff y'all, they will fall into
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  conspiracy theories because they think everybody's out to get
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  them. They think everybody's watching
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  them because they, we ourselves are watching other people and we
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  fall into these conspiracy theories.
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  Like I'm not a conspiracy theorist.
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  I'm, I'm super self aware, I'm super logical, I'm super
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  analytical. I do actual research on certain
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  things in situations and whatnot.
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  And I don't let people, other people influence my decision
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  making abilities without my own in confirmed confirmed consent,
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  confirmed judgment and whatnot. So many people are just like,
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  well, willing to let everybody else tell you how to think.
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  And that's what narcissists do. They will pull you into their
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  delusions and tell you how you should be thinking, tell you how
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  you should be behaving, tell you how you should be acting and
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  reacting, tell you how you how you should be living your life
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  or going about doing things, tell you all of this, tell you
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  all of that. That's the mentality.
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  That's the mindset that so many people face.
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  It really is. So if you're dealing with an
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  abusive narcissist, a toxic narcissist, an abusive person,
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  this is the stuff you're going to have to go against, y'all?
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  And I'm not saying it's the fear monger.
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  I know people like, well, are you trying to scare us?
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  No, I'm not trying to scare you. I'm just letting you know this
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  is the mindset that you're probably going to face when
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  you're dealing with an abusive person.
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  They're going to try to be manipulative.
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  They're going to try to do this, they're going to try to do that.
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  There's so many things, so many different ways.
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  They're going to go about trying to do things to hurt you or to
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  harm you or to put you through the ringer.
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  This is what you're going to fall into.
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  Like they will try to bring you into their paranoid delusions.
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  They'll try to scare you. They'll try to scare you into
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  thinking how they think. That's why so many, I'm going to
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  tell you, This is why if you were a narcissist, they scare
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  you with their fears. Like they're scared of things.
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  They think that everybody's watching them, so they scare you
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  as well. They tell you that everybody's
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  watching you. They're super safety
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  precautions. A lot of times they're super,
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  you know what I mean? They have a lot of situational
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  awareness. They do like there's a lot of
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  narcissists with a lot of situational awareness because
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  they're afraid of people attacking them.
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  They're afraid of of not being prepared.
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  They're afraid of not being ready.
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  So they have this astute situational awareness.
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  Again, not all narcissists are the same.
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  Or there's some narcissists, other have 0 situational
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  awareness. Yes, this is, this is me
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  speaking about those that have no situational awareness or very
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  little situation, no high situation, high high situational
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  awareness. This, these are the ones that
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  I'm speaking on right now. The ones with high, high, high
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  situational awareness and whatnot, right?
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  Because this the space that so many people fall into like I
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  want, like I say, I'd be wanting people to win so much.
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  That's why I do a lot of these videos to try to wake you up and
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  totally help you understand, hey, this is what you're going
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  to process. Like narcissists think other
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  people are out to get them because they could be have
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  general anxiety disorder outside alongside a personality
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  disorder, a mood disorder or something like that.
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  And a general anxiety disorder makes them super paranoid.
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  So they're just walking around like this.
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  You know, they might not be physically doing the act, the
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  act of doing this right here, looking back and forth and
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  thinking somebody's stalking them or following them around.
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  They might not be physically doing it, but they have these
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  emotional and visual representations of this type of
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  stuff that happens. They'll let you know that
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  they're paranoia. They'll share their paranoid
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  delusions with you. A lot of narcissists are
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  delusional. There's most of the times
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  there's nobody watching them. But could somebody be watching
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  them? Could somebody be stalking them?
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  Yeah, it could be. You know what I'm saying?
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  There's a famous saying one time, just because you don't see
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  them. Oh, yeah.
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  Just because you don't see them, it doesn't mean nobody's
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  watching you. Like the spies are hiding, the
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  spies are in disguise. You just they're watching, you
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  just can't see them. Just be careful with these type
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  of people y'all Because like there's some narcissistic people
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  right? Sometimes people whose behaviors
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  will start to escalate, right? They will truly start to
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  escalate and they start behaving a certain type of way.
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  They start doing a certain type of thing to get into your head,
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  to mess with you, to abuse you and sort of bring you into their
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  delusions and bring you into their mindset, bring you into
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  this space where they only end up hurting you and putting you
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  through the ringer, dragging you through the ringer, so to speak.
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  This is the type of stuff that happens to so many people like
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  this one. I'm trying to scare y'all.
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  I know people are like, well, are you trying to scare
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  everybody? No, I'm not trying to scare
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  anybody. I'm just letting y'all know this
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  is how it works. You know what I mean?
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  This, this is how it works with so many people.
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  So narcissistic people go through this all the time.
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