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Why Great Guys Get Overlooked! · Secrets They'll Only Tell a Matchmaker with Gina Hendrix

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  Ladies, you guys can be very tough on the men.
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  And I think some men think because I do so many videos for
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  you ladies, that I'm like, pro lady down with the men.
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  Are you kidding? My whole business is built on
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  the fact that I work with men. I help them find the perfect
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  woman as a matchmaker. OK, But then I have another side
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  of the business where I do coaching for the women.
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  OK, so that's why, you know, that's why I do both.
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  I do both. But.
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  But I do want to talk today to you ladies.
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  OK. Come close ladies, because I
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  want to talk to you guys and the men too about why great guys get
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  overlooked. Because they do all the time.
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  I think the main reason the great guys get overlooked is
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  because you ladies only focus on just like the men do too though.
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  The shiniest object. The shiniest object.
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  So the fittest guy. The the guy who's got the
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  charisma and the charm and knows all the right things to say.
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  Although those are red flags. Those are huge red flags.
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  I'm going to tell you ladies, if a guy knows every right move to
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  make, that is a red flag. The only way he got good at it
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  is by having a lot of practice. OK, so a guy who is just a
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  regular guy, he may not have the best style.
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  In fact, he probably doesn't have the best style because he's
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  not a guy who's trying to play women.
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  He's not a guy who who. That's not his focus.
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  His focus might be on work and family or you know, or other
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  things besides the exterior. I'm just going to tell you, as a
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  former celebrity stylist, OK, that I did that for 10 years
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  before I started my matchmaking. And now as a matchmaker, I know
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  that fixing the exterior of a person is so easy.
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  It's so much easier than fixing the interior of a person.
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  OK, so if somebody's a cheater or a player or a narcissist or
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  all these things, you're never going to change that.
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  You're never going to change that.
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  OK, even if he's the cutest guy in the world.
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  But if you take a guy who's like a good guy, a solid guy, he
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  works hard and he cares about the things that are important
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  and he can be relied on, but he doesn't have the shiniest, most
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  perfect exterior. You kidding me?
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  That's such an easy fix. All right, so keep an open mind.
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  So men, man, if you've hung with the video this long, then I have
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  a gift for you. All right?
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  I created A5 video series because I know how dating is so
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  tough for you, man. I know it is.
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  So I created a free 5 video series for you guys.
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  The link is in my bio. Go there and you can learn about
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  how to be the guy she can't resist.
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  OK. OK.
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  I hope it helps.