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Worry Class #1 · Wetumpka Church of Christ Online

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Evening. I am sorry.
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We're running a little late, a minute late, but we're getting
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started here this evening. Okay.
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Thank you. All right.
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Worry anxiety, depression. Two emotions.
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And an emotional state. So, since we're talking about
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things that involve emotions and emotional states.
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The topics can be emotional. So the topics will be emotional.
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So I Want To Tread very carefully.
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I want to make the only goals being, this being encouraging
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and edifying and God glorifying and so will will be very
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careful. To be as gracious as we can and
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covering these topics because they're emotional topics.
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And there are so many that battle.
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These three things so many I struggled with how to start this
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class. Really struggle with the way to
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go about starting it in such a way where?
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We approach it in a very disarming way in a very
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encouraging and uplifting way. And I heard something yesterday.
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And I thought, wow, that that is a great way to start this class
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because it helps us understand one of the reasons for the
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importance of embracing these topics and these issues.
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There's so many things that whirring anxiety, depression.
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Do that robbed us. In fact, I'll refer to these
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three things on occasion during the course of the next few
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Wednesdays as the gang of Thieves, because that's that's
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what they are. They're a gang of Thieves and
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they robbed us of a lot of things.
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When When they become overpowering, disabling in the
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ways that they are capable of doing.
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And one of the things that worry anxiety, depression robbed us of
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is Hope. when you get to the point where you're dealing with
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depression, now, all of a sudden, you're feeling hopeless,
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I think hopelessness, and depression are Two peas in a
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pod. And I was listening to a piece
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of I don't know if it was an audio book that Norm Macdonald
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had written about himself for free.
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It was part of an interview. I don't know.
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But some of you may know who normally Donald is.
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He's a comedian who passed away last year and those that know
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him have described him as a deep thinker.
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He was always looking always searching.
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In fact, I'll share a quote with you here in just a moment that
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really kind of outlines. The searching that he involves
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himself in for a big portion of his adult life.
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And I learned through listening, and this was his words that I
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was hearing. And I learned that he for many
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years in his adult. Life was a gambling addict.
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In fact, he lost his entire Fortune, three different times
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in his life, went completely, and totally broke due to his
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gambling addiction. And he said, I think there was
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one occasion where he went to see a psychiatrist.
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To try to get some help with overcoming, his addiction to
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gambling. And this is what he said.
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Quote. The only time I went to a
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psychiatrist, it was for gambling and he was like, you
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gamble to avoid life. And I was like, isn't that why
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you do everything? And so he didn't feel like he
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got a lot out of the session that he had with the
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psychiatrist concerning his gambling.
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So he tried to figure out why, why am I drawn to this?
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Why do I allow it to overtake me?
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Why do I allow it to to rob me of of all of my money?
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And he said, it's not the thrill of the wind.
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He said, I got no pleasure when I would win.
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He said, I really didn't really get much pleasure.
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During the act of gambling. And he said, when I really just
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started dissecting the experience and my personal
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experience. He said there was one moment in
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the whole process and the particular game.
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He was describing at the time was a dice game.
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And he said, I was able to pinpoint.
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I think what was for him? The root cause of his addiction.
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And he said it was not the beginning.
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It was not placing the BET and it was not learning the result
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of the bed, win or lose. He said it was when the dice
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were in the air. And when the dice were in the
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air, there was hope. And he says this, as long as the
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red dice are in the air, The Gambler has hope and hope is a
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wonderful thing to be addicted. And that just blew my mind when
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I heard that. Because I thought here is an
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individual. He was not addicted to winning
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and winning money. He was a wealthy man before he
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started gambling and he became wealthy over and over again and
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continue to allow his wealth to be lost by gambling, but he was
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addicted to that Split Second of time, when the dice were in the
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air. He said it was like time Stood
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Still and there was hope. That was his addiction.
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Norm spent the vast majority of his life searching and towards
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the end of his life. He said this God is the best.
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That's what I'm trying to get to is God every gate, every great
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novel, I read. Faith is the only salvation but
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I don't know how to get it. I don't know how to suddenly
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believe I'm too stupid or proud or pretend.
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I'm smart. I've come to it a long time ago
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that I have to control over anything, but I'm struggling
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with faith is really hard to keep believing because it's the
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hardest thing to believe. Maybe I'm not deep enough and
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that was to me one of the saddest things.
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I Read where he realized that that is what he needed and he
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did not know how to get there. He did not know how to find it,
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but he felt like that's where he could finally find.
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This sustainable hope that he only felt for just a moment
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during his gambling years while the dice were suspended in the
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air. For those of you that know, he
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had dealt with cancer for several years before he died
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when he died. It was a surprise to most people
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that knew him. They didn't even know he had
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been sick. He had said in other places that
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he was almost to a debilitating level scared of death and scared
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to die, and it caused him. A lot of depression in the years
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that he was battling cancer leading up to his death.
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And in fact, someone told this Don't worry.
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They said the only person that they have heard.
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Say that they heard nor McDonald's say something about
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dealing with his cancer. That eventually took his life
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and say anything. In a humorous way.
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They shared this, I spoke to someone who was aware of his
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Decline and remembers him, explicitly making about making
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this statement about his situation as he was being
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wheeled out into the sun, splashed atrium of a hospital
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where he was being treated. Isn't it?
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Nice? Here norm and his response was
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yeah. He replied in the atrium of
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diminished expectations. And I thought, that's what
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depression does. Is it robs us of Hope and it
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diminishes our expectations for a contented peaceful.
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Hopeful joy-filled life. So when I came across, that is
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so funny. I've been thinking for a couple
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of weeks, how to start this class.
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And then I came across that yesterday and thought, wow,
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because I was going to get into some of the things that these
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three things, Rob us of, and if you picture, Whirring signing
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depression. That's a, those are three things
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that build upon one another, and imagine you have a basket of
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bread and that Brad represents your hope.
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And so worried comes along and reaches his hand into the basket
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and steals, a couple of pieces of your bread that represent the
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hope that you have. And then anxiety comes along and
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it grabs a few more pieces of that bread of that represents
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your hope and then depression comes along and just m The
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empties the basket and there's, there's nothing left.
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And so these these three emotions build upon one another.
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And then lead to this sustained state.
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That so many struggle with so many deal with and what one of
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the things I hope to accomplish with.
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This class, is, to make sure that we know as Christians, if
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If depression is an issue for you, it is that doesn't mean
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there's something faulty with your faith necessarily.
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Sometimes that can be the case, not all the time.
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Is that the case? And we're going to, we're going
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to make sure that we address these topics in such a way where
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let me just put it this way. Cool, beans 46.
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Paul says, be anxious for nothing.
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You don't have to raise your hand, but have any of you felt
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anxiety when reading the instruction to not be anxious,
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have interview felt anxious when reading the command do not be
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anxious. Because I don't be anxious for
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anything and then you start worrying.
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How am I going to do that? How is that possible?
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Well, you know, we have to understand and part of what
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we're going to do with this class is to understand the
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definitions, the parameters in the boundaries of words.
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Now, you know, me when I typically teach, I'm very free
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with with asking for comments and thoughts and we will do
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that. I just will beg for your
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Indulgence for the majority of this class.
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If you have some thoughts and observations will have some time
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towards the end of the class, if you could Student.
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Don't indulge me for a few moments tonight to kind of lay
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the groundwork a little bit for what our goals and objectives
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are for this class words, instructions commands.
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We have to understand, definitions parameters
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boundaries. The same Paul who says be
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anxious for nothing also says, pray without ceasing.
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Well, does that mean that we can never sleep?
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Because praying without ceasing means a continual persistent.
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Never-ending prayer. If we take it very Literally,
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right. See, see if we take that
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extremely literally, than we can't sleep.
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We can't do anything else. We've got to pray Non-Stop.
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That's impossible. It's very interesting and we're
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going to get into this that the same word that is translated as
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anxious in Philippians 4:6 and Paul telling us not to be, he
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commends Timothy for being using that same word in a different
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context in Philippians, when he talks about Timothy.
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There's nobody like him and I that have an independent
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translation to read from concern for you.
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It's the same word that's translated as anxiety in
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Philippians. Chapter 4 and verse 6.
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So we have to understand, parameters, boundaries,
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definitions of words. I think what we have done as a
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disservice to one another for a long time as we have.
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I think looked at these topics as taboo as they're being a
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stigma attached to them that if you're struggling with them
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because Jesus says do not worry. Worry, four or five different
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times in Matthew chapter 6 multiple times and Luke chapter
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10 and Paul tells us to be anxious for nothing.
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And so if I'm struggling with whirring, zaidi depression, then
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I'm not doing something right spiritually?
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And I'm not going to let people know that I've got this issue or
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this struggle because then they'll wonder what's wrong with
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you. And so that's been a bad way of
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going about dealing with these emotions.
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If these are things that we struggle with.
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I think these are things that we need to share with one another
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and help one another along with them, because they didn't
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necessarily mean that we're failing as a Christian.
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There's a lot more things that can be factors and we'll talk
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about those more as we go. This is a book.
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I'm going to leave it. I've got another copy.
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This, I'm going to leave it on the bulletin board.
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So you can, you can just kind of Glide by if you don't want to
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see anybody. If you don't want anybody to see
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you picking it up, you know, just nonchalantly a slide it
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into your, your pocket or purse, and just bring it back when
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you're done. So, somebody else can read it.
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Many of you, may know, a, just a wonderful Christian, couple of
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brother, James, and Jean assist, your jeans, Barry brother.
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James went onto his reward a year or two ago.
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Faithful members of the church in this area for decades.
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I did not know this about brother.
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James's wife. I think she's still living.
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Is. Anybody know if Sister Gene
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Barry is still living. I think she is.
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I believe right before he passed, they were members it
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University but she wrote a book self-published book about a
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decade ago. The title is memories, how they
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linger and the subtitle is a true story about one, family
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struggle with depression and suicide gene.
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Barry had a lot of tragedy. Ade in her life again.
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Faithful faithful Christian woman.
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Her husband was as well. Both grew up in will brother.
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James grew up in a Christian home and sister genes parents
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became Christians, I think after she was born a little bit, but
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very moral, very decent. Her dad was a farmer, her mom, a
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homemaker just in fact, the first several chapters of the
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book. She just talks about the Charmed
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Life that she lived growing up in her home and And just what a
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blessing it was to have the parents that she did how great
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they were or how good they were to her their faith.
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Both of her parents committed, suicide, seven years apart.
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Her mother was suffering from breast cancer and got into a
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deep depression over her health. And for several weeks, her.
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Husband sister jeans, father would stay at home with her
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rather than going to Services. She wasn't feeling well enough
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to go and, and sister Jean tells the story in the book that on
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these Sunday mornings, that both of them were staying home.
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She would call on that particular, Sunday morning and
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talked to her dad and asked how her mom was doing and say, you
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know, we're going to come over and see y'all in the afternoon.
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And so this particular Sunday morning she calls her mom
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answers the phone. And she's excited because Been
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the first Sunday in several weeks.
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And she had answered the phone and she sounded real chipper.
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And she said, well, how are you doing Mom?
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And she said, well, I'm doing gray.
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So your dad's going to, go to services this morning and I just
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cooked him breakfast and we're having having a great day.
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And while he was at Services, she shot herself, a shotgun that
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she had never used in her life. She shot it into the couch, one
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time to make sure she knew how to use it and then went into the
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hallway. Lean it up against the washing
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machine and shot herself while they were in.
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Service. Seven years later.
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Her father. Did the exact same thing in the
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exact same Hall leaning the gun up against the exact same
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washing machine. She had an uncle and another
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family member also that committed suicide at various
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times in their life. Godly Christian people.
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If they didn't do this because they were faulty Christian.
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They didn't do this because they didn't have Bay.
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They didn't do this because they just weren't living the
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Christian Life, right? They were struggling with with
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severe, debilitating, depression and got to the point where that
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hope basket was empty. And they could not see any other
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way, or alternative out. I'll leave that book under the
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bulletin board outside after class.
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If you would like to read it. There's some Difficult things.
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With some things that can give you some some encouragement and
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hope as well. I want to share out a.
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I'm so thankful you, some of you many of you, maybe saw the email
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where I solicited, any thoughts observations questions that you
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would like shared or addressed during the course of the next
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few Wednesdays? And I am so thankful.
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And I said he would be anonymous unless you stated otherwise and
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this this good brother said it's okay to use his name.
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I'm so thankful for his Arrange for his Candor.
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I'm just going to read you his words as he sent them to me
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because they are just so spot-on.
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So so meaningful and impactful. Our brother, Peyton wrote this
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and what an example brother. I just appreciate you and love
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you so much. We're learning.
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Every day, what a Wordsmith Peyton is and how what a great
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communicator he is. And let me just share with you
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what he had to say. He said, depression, anxiety, or
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familiar topics to me as I struggle with both last year.
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I started seeing a counselor who helped me understand and deal
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with them. One thing that I learned is that
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most people find it easier to admit to anxiety than
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depression. That was definitely the case.
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For me, it took seeing a counselor for me to even accept
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I was depressed, let alone till others.
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Apparently anxiety and depression.
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Go hand-in-hand. My counselor called them.
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The ugly stepsisters anxiety, pulls you in One Direction.
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Worrying about the future, depression pulls you in the
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other direction. Usually focused on the past.
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And between them, they don't let you rest and they both lie to
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you all the time telling you that you're not worthy and then
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nothing matters. And that everyone you think are
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your friends are actually sick of you but too nice to say.
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So. I've been interested in the
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Christian response to anxiety and depression.
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There's such a simple answer in. Jesus, loves you be happy, but
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that's not enough. If just choosing, happiness was
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all it took, there would not be a single anxious or depressed
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person out there. And even in the worst grip of my
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anxiety and depression. I never really questioned God's
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goodness. It was more like, I know, the
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Bible is true and I wouldn't be feeling like this, unless I was
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feeling in some way. Pain is just hitting the nail on
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the head. And, and this is, I think why
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some Christians are hesitant to share this burden with other
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Christians. It's, there's got to be
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something wrong with me for feeling this way.
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There's got to be some, there's got to be something I'm not
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doing right in my Christian walk for me to struggle chronically
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with these emotions. And that, that is one of the
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lies that the devil convinces us is true.
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Even in the worst grip of my anxiety and depression.
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I never really questioned God's goodness.
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It was more like, I know, the Bible is true and I wouldn't be
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feeling like this, unless I was failing in some way.
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And if you're already depressed, when you start to think that
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way, it's a Whirlpool of circular thinking that will just
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suck you right down the toilet. You can see happiness.
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You can see God's love but it's like standing outside in the
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snow. Looking at it through a window.
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It's there. You believe in it, but you feel
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separated from it for that. It's being with.
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Old. And frankly, the church has a
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problem. Dealing with people who don't
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understand anxiety depression think that they can just cheer
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you up by telling you Jesus loves you, or they can berate
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you into having a better attitude.
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By telling you that you aren't being faithful enough.
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People do not know how to cope with your negative emotions, and
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they think they can talk you out of them.
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When, what, a depressed or anxious person really needs.
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Is someone who says? I love you.
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I'm here for you. I'm sorry.
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You're going through this. Christ said be anxious for
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nothing and pain. I'm so glad you include that
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because that was one of the passages.
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We're going to spend some time on with this series.
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Christians, want to use that as a stick to drive out the
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negative feelings from themselves or others, but there
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are different kinds of anxiety and they need different
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treatments to overcome. That's part of what we'll be
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talking about. You're surely.
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There are the real everyday worries that come with human
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life. And I think that specifically
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what Christ is talking about here.
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And then there's the crippling emotional state that requires
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treatment. In my experience anxiety,
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depression, don't go away altogether.
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I've learned to cope with them to recognize the lies when they
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start to speak Etc, but there are still days when they both
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Loom large with counseling and effort though.
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I have my life back. Oh with counseling, an effort
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though. I have my life back.
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More often than not I can rotate and thank you so much for
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Allowing me to read this and allowing me to to credit you
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with this. What a what a fantastic example
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you are in sharing this and you know, Helping us see in, I mean
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and you know, people like Peyton you we just we just love him
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because he's positive and he's jovial, and he's inviting, and
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he's welcoming and he's all these great things.
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But but he's allowing us to see inside and realize that
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sometimes what you see on the outside is not how he's feeling
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on the inside. And and I absolutely know for a
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fact, Peyton is not in a room by himself in that walk.
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I know he is not, I have. Well, thousands of anecdotes,
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but we will stop there before we continue on.
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Okay, light bulb moment. I had really Larry.
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I love these. Oh my goodness.
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I had never come across this before.
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So. One of the things, of course,
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God wants us to do is what Peter tells us.
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In First Peter 5:7 casting all your care upon him for he cares
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for you. There's only one other time that
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word is you turn with me to Luke chapter, 19.
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The word that is translated as casting in First Peter chapter 5
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and verse 7. Oh, man, this this just brought
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a smile to my face, when I. There are so many little nuances
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in scripture as you. Well know that you may read
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something 5G lien times. And then on five gives you a
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lien in Warren. Oh my goodness.
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I did not know that was there. And so that word casting.
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Only appears twice and here's the other time.
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Under the subheading of the Lord's triumphal entry into
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Jerusalem. You remember, the two disciples
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have been told by Jesus to go to the place where they'll find.
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This cult has never been ridden. Tied and took, you know, what's
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going on here. Let's look at verse beginning of
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verse 33 and as they were untying the Colt its owner said
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to them. Why are you untying the cult?
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And they said the Lord has need of it and they brought it to
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Jesus and and here's the only other time it's used.
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I'm reading from the ESV and it's translated here throwing
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their cloaks cloaks. Colt.
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They set Jesus on it. Okay.
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So here's the two times, this word casting throwing is you and
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you've got what is being cast in 1st.
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Peter. 5:7 is, is our burdens, our anxieties, our worries, and
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concerns. And the only other time it's use
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is here in Luke chapter 19. I want you to think about this,
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this same spiritual idea of casting worried and I want you
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to look at the way. It's used to describe these two
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disciples casting their cloaks on to this cold and then setting
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Jesus on top of them. And now Jesus is riding on top
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of your cares and your concerns and your worries.
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So I want these cloaks to represent the worries and
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concerns that Peters alluding to and First Peter chapter 5 and
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verse 7. And so these two men, I know,
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it's two totally different things.
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But tying it in and paints, a beautiful picture of what the
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Lord wants us to do, with our anxieties and our worries, and
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those things that cause us and times this debilitating state of
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depression. Cast of them on.
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This cult and then set Jesus on top of those cares and concerns
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or worries, so that now he's riding on top of your concern.
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And then as he's riding along, Jesus has this Limitless powered
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back and he's got this Santa likes a cone, his back that
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never runs out of room. And now, as you were practicing
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First, Peter chapter 5 and verse 7, he sitting on top of your,
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the concerns that you had at that moment.
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When you initially engaged in this process of casting, your
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cares, your burdens upon him. So you did it that one time
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because it was a singular act. In Luke chapter, 19.
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It's a continual Perpetual Act. First Peter chapter 5 and verse
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7. So you got Jesus sitting on top
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of your cares and concerns the ones that you brought to him on
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that occasion. And then as they continue to
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manifest themselves in your day-to-day life, you're casting.
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So you cast and you're casting your continually throwing these
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Burns. Jesus is sitting on top of the
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ones that you brought to him initially and then when others
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come up, he's got the sack on his back.
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He's sitting on top, you're putting your cares.
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You're putting your tears underneath him.
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You're putting your hair. Is on top of him?
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And he's telling you, I'm fine with you doing, either one and
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both. And I'm going to help you
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through this when it comes to worry, anxiety and depression.
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Here's, here's the not-so-great news.
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For some of us, many of us, those feelings are never going
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to completely dissolve. For some, there's a chemical
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thing going on where it's, it's physiologically impossible
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without the aid of medication, for those those situations when
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you think about, when I looking at the three different reasons
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for anxiety, you've got, well, I'm really jumping way ahead of
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my notes Here. Skip ahead, just for a second,
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three forms of anxiety. You've got chemical.
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These are neurons out of balance and thinking, like when we go
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through puberty ladies, when you go through menopause, these are
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when chemicals are working in a, not normal fashion.
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And so you've got, you've got chemical causes anxiety.
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You've got reactive forms of anxiety.
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These are extended periods of stress that caused your mind,
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not to be able to turn off. You can't put your mind in park.
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You can't let it idle. And Then you've got traumatic.
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So you've got reactive where it's daily buildup of stresses
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that cause anxiety, and then when anxiety is fermented
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completely, then it becomes depression.
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And then you have traumatic that's real, that's can be a
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reaction to a singular event that that causes anxiety.
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And so, you know, there are some that it's not going to be able
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to go away. Because there's there's Chemical
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component to it. There are others that there may
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not be a chemical component. But it's it's a constant
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struggle that maybe it's never going to be removed from you.
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But what can happen over time? Is it becomes manageable?
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You know what Paul tells us about Temptation in 1st
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Corinthians chapter 10 is God does not get us to a point where
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Temptation ceases to occur. That's not the promise.
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The promise is not walk with me, trust in me and you're going to
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get to a point where you will never experience temptation.
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What's the promise concerning temptation?
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Said, with every Temptation, I'll give you the tools to
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withstand. You'll be able to Bear it.
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You'll be able to manage it. It's not going to disappear.
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It's not going to go away, but you'll have the tools to get
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through and get to the other side.
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And so what we're going to talk about over the next few years is
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things that that will help us equip us with the tools where
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when when worry is moving into anxiety and anxiety is going to
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take us into depression to be able to have those those coping
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mechanisms in place. Is that will help us not to the
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point where they go away and never bother us again.
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But to the point where they're not debilitating.
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He's we have to understand the parameters and boundaries with
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words. When Paul says to be anxious for
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nothing. He is not saying you have no
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permission from God to ever be worried or concerned about
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anyone or anything. Because Paul uses that same word
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to commend Timothy's relationship and concern for the
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Philippian church. He uses that same word.
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Peyton. I'm sure.
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You know, in the passage that you share with us in the photo,
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the devotional concerning, the body of Christ at the end of
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that, that section of scripture, Paul in his letter to the
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Corinthians talks about the concern that we are to have for
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one another, as the representative body parts that
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make up the body of Christ. So the same word that is
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translated as anxious. Don't do that in Philippians.
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4:6 Timothy's commended for having it in Philippians 2 and
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in the analogy of the spiritual body that makes up our.
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Or we who make up the spiritual body of Christ, having this
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concern for one, another Paul when he was listing his
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sufferings in, was it 2nd Corinthians chapter 11?
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What was the thing that he said at the end?
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Thank you. I appreciate that.
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I brought some cough drops and forgot.
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I had them in here. Thank you, Jonathan.
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When Paul was listing his sufferings, what was the one?
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He said that he dealt with everyday?
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Anxiety for the church's concern worry for the Church's.
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So, Paul is saying, don't be anxious about anything, but then
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says to us there's a part of me that worries every single day.
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So what we have to understand is what is meant by these words.
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And what are we allowed to do? That does not move into.
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What is displeasing to God. Let me illustrate it this way.
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Don't dare tell a mother. When she's got a teenage child
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on a road trip, to not be concerned about the safety of
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that child, while they're on that trip.
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You want to get yourself in trouble.
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Go to a mom, who's in experience, child is driving for
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hours and say to them all said, be anxious for nothing.
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Don't be concerned. Don't you worry, don't don't
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give a thought to that 16 year old that you brought into the
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World Behind that wheel for 4 hours.
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Here's What is natural and I would, you know, I know we need
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to be very careful when we say what God would and would not be
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okay with. But it would be very natural for
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God to observe a mom say to that child before they left.
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You wear your seatbelt. You give them all the rules for
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the road and the second. You pull in safely to your
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destination. I need a call or a text to let
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me know you got there. And then that Mom spending.
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An hour of those four hours praying for the safety of that
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child. Perfectly understandable,
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Perfectly Natural. Here's where worry and concern
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could become unhealthy. You're going to pull over every
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five minutes at the nearest intersection.
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You're going to tell me. Everything is good so far.
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I am going to follow behind you in this drive that you're making
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and to make sure you're being the speed limit.
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To make sure you get there carefully.
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I'm going to be right behind you, every step of the way and
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for you, the whole four hours that they're gone to literally
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the world stand still, you can do nothing else.
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It is now you are so overcome with anxiousness and worry that
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it is now affected your ability to function as a normal human
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being. It's Perfectly Natural, and
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normal and authorized in scripture to have worry and
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concern for the welfare, for the well-being of our family, our
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children, our church family. but when we allow those natural
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emotions, So then go into an unhealthy place, you know,
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almost every emotion that we've got is perfectly God approved
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when it's used in its proper way.
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It's okay for us to be angry, isn't it?
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The instruction is be angry and sin.
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Not so do not act upon that anger in a way, which now moves
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that emotion from natural to sinful.
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And so, with worry and concern, we have to understand the
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boundaries and parameters for this word.
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God is not saying you don't be worried concerned about
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anything, anybody know. Understand what God is
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instructing us. He's not telling us to do things
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that are literally impossible for us to do.
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We got a few minutes left. So I'll stop there.
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And Andrew will start with you. And I think brother Cliff you
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had your hand. Y'all help us finish out the
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last few moments tonight. Absolutely.
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Top, fantastic. When engineer.
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We're going to get into more of some of those unintended
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consequences of allowing these natural emotions.
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To rule us and then to inhibit us from from doing the things
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that God has called on us to do in our day-to-day life.
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Where the clip such a great illustration and
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just reminding us of What Jesus wants to be for us?
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And again? I don't want to.
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I don't want to do anything to downplay the struggle that that
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this issue is for so many because Peyton is so, right?
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And what he said, we can do great harm to someone who is
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struggling with these emotions, especially when, when worry has
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led to anxiety, which is has led, you know, has contributed
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to depression and just telling them it just pray more, just
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study more just read Philippians 4:6 read Matthew.
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X.25 and following when we're saying this to a fellow
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Christian, we're probably saying this to someone who has those
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verses memorized they've agonized on the over.
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Those verses they've read that verse and say, why can I not do
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it? You're not telling me anything.
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I don't know. But listen, listen, never lose
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sight of the ways that Jesus can help us.
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Not get to the point where it's never going to be an issue and
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never going to be a struggle, but he can help us make it
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manageable. Let me share with you.
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We've got just. When are we supposed to be done?
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Is that 10:15 amp? Hey, nobody gave the answer.
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So we're going to go to a quarter after, okay.
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I think I see bitches 10 after because now I'm seeing people
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come to the door. I don't want to rush through
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this because this illustration is so good.
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What ready to save this for next Wednesday?
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If you do have thoughts again Peyton gave us permission, and
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I'm so thankful for that. If you've got a thought, an
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observation so many that you have gone through that, you
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would like to see addressed in this class.
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Feel free to share it with me and let me know your name will
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be withheld unless you explicitly tell me you can
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include my name in this so do not fear it not being anonymous
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cuz it will be if that's the way you want it to be.
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But I want us to make Sure, that as we go through this.
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We address it in such a way that that is edifying encouraging.
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And hopefully helpful. These issues as far as the
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statistics. They're off the charts.
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I'll share with you. This statistics of those just in
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our country. Better dealing with chronic
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anxiety disorder and depression and We Know It exists in the
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church and not because these people that are struggling with
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that are failing is Christian. It is just the struggle that
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they are having to find on a regular basis and hopefully will
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be very supportive encouraging and burden-sharing for us as we
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go through the study. Thank you so much for your kind
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attention. Tonight will move on to the next
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part of our service.