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I Choose … to Believe in Signs from Above with Theresa Caputo · I Choose Me with Jennie Garth

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  Speaker 1: You're listening to I Choose Me with Jenny Garle. Hi. Everyone,
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  Speaker 1: welcome back to I Choose Me, the podcast about the
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  Speaker 1: choices we make and how they shape us. Today, I'm
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  Speaker 1: joined by Teresa Caputo, who has touched millions through her
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  Speaker 1: extraordinary gift. She has built her life around helping others
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  Speaker 1: find out what it really means to trust your own intuition.
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  Speaker 1: Teresa is the star of Long Island, Medium and Raising Spirits.
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  Speaker 1: She's a best selling author, she's a jewelry designer, you
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  Speaker 1: name it. I love her and I know you will too. Teresa,
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  Speaker 1: we met recently in Santa Monica when you joined the
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  Speaker 1: Quintessential fifty Yes, and I was so happy that you
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  Speaker 1: were there being a part of this just amazing group
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  Speaker 1: of women who are taken names and kicking ass. Is
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  Speaker 1: that how you say that, I guess so yeah, or
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  Speaker 1: kicking ass and taken names. I think that's how it
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  Speaker 1: is after fifty So you're like the perfect example. I
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  Speaker 1: love it how you just keep thriving, keep driving so wonderfully. Okay, So,
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  Speaker 1: in addition to your podcast and your tours, which I
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  Speaker 1: know are a lot of work, You've also decided to
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  Speaker 1: launch your jewelry line on QVC.
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  Speaker 2: That just happened, right, amazing, It just happened last week.
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  Speaker 1: How did it go?
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  Speaker 2: Phenomenal? Really, it was unbelievable.
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  Speaker 3: QBC is like very overwhelming, Like you get there, it's
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  Speaker 3: a compound.
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  Speaker 1: It's in a whole world.
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  Speaker 3: You know, you're watching QBC on TV. It is like
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  Speaker 3: a compound. And everyone is so lovely and so nice.
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  Speaker 3: And the support that you get from everyone there, I
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  Speaker 3: love that. I love that the more when you were
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  Speaker 3: talking about when we went to the q fifty like women,
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  Speaker 3: you know, yeah, they're kicking ass and taking names, but
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  Speaker 3: they're also supporting and uplifting.
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  Speaker 2: People, Yes, which is so important especially today.
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  Speaker 1: I know when I met my friends at QBC and
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  Speaker 1: like immersed into that world. Well, first of all, you
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  Speaker 1: do you get immersed, like when I go to the
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  Speaker 1: work there for three days in a row, like there's
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  Speaker 1: nothing else in the world, Like I'm barely checking my phone.
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  Speaker 1: It's just really all consuming. So but it's it's the
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  Speaker 1: first time in my life that I had that feeling
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  Speaker 1: of support from other females. Yes, And I just was like,
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  Speaker 1: oh this is nice.
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  Speaker 2: I like it really is a beautiful family.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, yeah, who was your host for your Solberte
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  Speaker 1: ALBERTI I did that, did a couple of live hits
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  Speaker 1: with him.
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  Speaker 3: I did the TikTok shop right right with the young ladies, okay,
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  Speaker 3: and then I did an owl with Mallie fifty fabulous. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: oh yeah, you guys have fantastic Did you get crazy?
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  Speaker 2: Oh? My god?
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  Speaker 4: Crazy? She's crazy? And then crazy and how crazy with her?
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  Speaker 4: Right this kicks in you have to be crazy with her.
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  Speaker 4: It makes you feel so good though, it does, it does, Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: it's just camaraderie. So you had been communicating with spirit
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  Speaker 4: since you were four years old?
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I didn't realize that four that that what I
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  Speaker 3: was doing. I had no idea what I was doing.
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  Speaker 3: I just like sensed and felt things that other people didn't.
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  Speaker 3: And I would always just say like random odd things.
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  Speaker 2: No one ever made a big deal about it.
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  Speaker 3: And I would always say to my mom, I don't
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  Speaker 3: feel right. I feel different than everyone else. I don't
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  Speaker 3: feel like I belong here. And my mom literally said
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  Speaker 3: to me one day, She's like, Teresa, you're not adopted.
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  Speaker 3: You belong to this family, so stop feeling that way.
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  Speaker 5: Like this is you know.
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  Speaker 3: And I was always so fearful about a lot of things.
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  Speaker 3: And my mom never forced me to do anything, and
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  Speaker 3: you know, pushed me like if I didn't want to
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  Speaker 3: go on like school trips or because I would always
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  Speaker 3: be afraid.
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  Speaker 2: Yet, and it.
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  Speaker 3: Wasn't until I was almost thirty that I realized that
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  Speaker 3: not only was I able to communicate with my own
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  Speaker 3: departed loved ones, which I believe everyone has that ability
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  Speaker 3: to do. Really, yes, I believe in because that's a
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  Speaker 3: soul bond that can never be broken. So we all
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  Speaker 3: have that connection. Those little things we get, I say,
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  Speaker 3: they're little helloes from heaven. Those little signs, symbols or
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  Speaker 3: things that just happened that remind you of your loved
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  Speaker 3: ones that have died.
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  Speaker 2: Know that that's them.
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  Speaker 1: I love that. Yeah, I'm a true believer in that.
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  Speaker 1: In the wind and the wind chimes anything, Yeah, do
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  Speaker 1: you feel.
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  Speaker 3: I just had this odd thing, like I switched wallets
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  Speaker 3: from traveling and everything, and my assistant she took everything out,
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  Speaker 3: and I took the wallet and I opened it up
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  Speaker 3: and a dime fell out of it, Like who has changed?
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  Speaker 3: I literally had my healthcare card, my driver's license, a
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  Speaker 3: credit card, and I think like.
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  Speaker 1: Two twenties and one it was a single die.
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  Speaker 2: And that's my grandmother. Yeah, she she always shows me.
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  Speaker 2: She always shows me dimes.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, it was a little as all. We both looked
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  Speaker 5: at each other and she was like, op Gram's here.
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  Speaker 1: Oh I love that. You just don't. You're not scared
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  Speaker 1: by it. You just know except that that's how it
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  Speaker 1: should be. I feel like too, it is.
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  Speaker 3: I tell you, it was a little scary like when
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  Speaker 3: I was younger, because I really didn't know what was happening,
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  Speaker 3: you know. And that's where a lot of like my
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  Speaker 3: anxiety had come in growing up, because I feel the
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  Speaker 3: way someone passes, so they bring me through their departure.
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  Speaker 3: So like I feel very heavy right now in the
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  Speaker 3: chest and my head hurts. So that's usually someone passed
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  Speaker 3: from something of the chest, heart, lungs, chest or breast,
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  Speaker 3: and then the head could be like an aneurysm, brain
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  Speaker 3: tumb or something where something happens with the brain.
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  Speaker 2: So they bring me through that departure.
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  Speaker 3: So I'd be like out in the food store and
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  Speaker 3: this stuff would be happening to me.
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  Speaker 2: So when I be freaking out.
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  Speaker 1: You're just walking around feeling all the.
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  Speaker 3: Feeling way that the way that people have departed, So
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  Speaker 3: they only make me feel things if for a reason,
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  Speaker 3: like I just don't randomly feel those things, So they
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  Speaker 3: would have to be souls that pass to people connected
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  Speaker 3: in this room that passed in that way.
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  Speaker 1: Are you so you're feeling a headache, Well.
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  Speaker 3: I got like the head So when I get like
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  Speaker 3: a pain, like in the front of my it's different,
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  Speaker 3: So I have different symbols.
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  Speaker 2: So in the front of the head.
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  Speaker 3: Is like aneurysm, brain tumor at Alzheimer's dementia is something
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  Speaker 3: that would affect the brain. And then I'm having a
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  Speaker 3: lot of difficulty breathe, so it'd be hard long chest.
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  Speaker 3: But there's two souls, so that passed in that each way.
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  Speaker 2: They passed in that way.
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  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh. Yeah, you're already freaking me out.
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  Speaker 3: But like I always say, souls, I always say not
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  Speaker 3: everyone wants to or needs to hear from their loved
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  Speaker 3: ones that have died. So there's always certain things that
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  Speaker 3: souls have to show me. They have to show me
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  Speaker 3: several things before I would actually say something really like
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  Speaker 3: what they show like they would have to show They
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  Speaker 3: would have to make me feel the bond of relationship
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  Speaker 3: like how you knew them. Then they bring me through
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  Speaker 3: the departure, which they already did, but then they will
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  Speaker 3: show me whatever it is that you might be holding
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  Speaker 3: onto that might be making you feel better sad about yourself.
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  Speaker 3: So there was a young gentleman, so young for me,
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  Speaker 3: is anyone that left the physical world before we feel
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  Speaker 3: their time?
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  Speaker 2: And I don't know, did you not get to see him.
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  Speaker 1: Before he died? Oh? Or we're going there?
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  Speaker 2: Oh?
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  Speaker 5: I don't know. I guess, I guess, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, yeah, no, Okay, does that make sense?
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  Speaker 1: I'm not sure which one? Well?
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  Speaker 3: I felt now cut both of them, but more than male,
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  Speaker 3: like I felt like there was I don't know, did
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  Speaker 3: you not were.
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  Speaker 2: You supposed to see him?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah?
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  Speaker 2: And then and then he passed and you didn't get
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  Speaker 2: to see him?
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  Speaker 3: Huh Okay, so he would not want you to carry
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  Speaker 3: that burden A feeling like I never should have canceled,
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  Speaker 3: or I should have went there, or I should have
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  Speaker 3: done this.
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  Speaker 2: Does that make sense?
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  Speaker 3: Because this is why I do the work that I do.
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  Speaker 3: I always say I don't care if people believe in
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  Speaker 3: what I do. I want them to believe in an afterlife,
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  Speaker 3: and I want them to know that our loved ones
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  Speaker 3: do not want us to carry burdens or gils. Did
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  Speaker 3: you just feel something like on the side of your cheek,
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  Speaker 3: like a warmth or like a like a like a chill.
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  Speaker 2: I just watched him kiss you on.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, that is just crazy. Yeah, how's he looking?
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  Speaker 2: Well, I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: I don't see the way we see here in the
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  Speaker 3: physical world. But I felt very very strong, features, very handsome,
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  Speaker 3: and very strong. So usually when souls show me that,
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  Speaker 3: it means that they weren't themselves in the end. So
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  Speaker 3: whatever that may be, if they were ill, or maybe
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  Speaker 3: they were going through a rough whatever it is to
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  Speaker 3: remember them strong, maybe striking, very very well, very well dressed,
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  Speaker 3: very dapper. If I would say, I don't know, he's
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  Speaker 3: showed me something with his shoes, So I don't know
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  Speaker 3: if there's something with shoes with him that you.
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  Speaker 2: If he liked shoes or if you, I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: bought them a pair of shoes. I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, Usually a father would show me that, or like
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  Speaker 3: someone will like the wingtip shoes, but I so like
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  Speaker 3: more of like a loafer.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what kind of shoe it is.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, does this happen? Do you like walking through the airport?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah?
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  Speaker 3: So I could get things, but like I said, a
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  Speaker 3: soul has to push me enough to say something, and
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  Speaker 3: it's usually of whatever the person is holding onto that
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  Speaker 3: is making not for them not being able to heal.
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  Speaker 3: Do you have something with handwriting or were you looking
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  Speaker 3: at something with someone's handwriting on it.
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  Speaker 1: I have a tattoo of my dad's handwriting. Perfect.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, okay, perfect.
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  Speaker 3: I just wanted to make sure that I was interpreting
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  Speaker 3: all the information correctly.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, yeah, I think you're pretty good at this.
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  Speaker 2: The filing, I might got something.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, oh gosh, well yeah, it's a lot. I should
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  Speaker 1: think about taking this up. Okay, So when you were
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  Speaker 1: a little girl and you had to face what I'm
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  Speaker 1: sure felt like skepticism or criticism, Well.
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  Speaker 3: When I got older, once I got on TV, Okay,
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  Speaker 3: that's where all that came from. But I get it,
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  Speaker 3: like I respect if someone doesn't. If someone is skeptical,
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  Speaker 3: and I always say they don't understand what I do,
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  Speaker 3: you know, and I get it and I respect it.
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  Speaker 2: But that's why I have spirit validate.
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  Speaker 3: Things with such unique things, things that you would never
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  Speaker 3: expect them to bring up and talk about I want
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  Speaker 3: them to channel with that personality, to really show that
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  Speaker 3: from the moment the soul left the physical body, they
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  Speaker 3: lea they leave all of the ability or ailment. They
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  Speaker 3: don't take it with them on the other side. So
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  Speaker 3: I have them validated with such crazy things. And you're like, wait,
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  Speaker 3: how would she know that? Nobody would know that?
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  Speaker 1: What kind of I'm just curious, Like when you're in
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  Speaker 1: high school.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, school was.
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  Speaker 3: Very difficult for me because being trapped in a classroom
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  Speaker 3: was very very difficult. You know, once they closed that
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  Speaker 3: classroom draw door, I immediately fell. I was now trapped in
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  Speaker 3: a room with energy. But you also have to understand
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  Speaker 3: at that time, I was blocking it because at the
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  Speaker 3: age of sixteen, when my dad's mom had passed away,
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  Speaker 3: my nanny, that was the first time that I was like,
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  Speaker 3: wait a minute, something is really different about me because
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  Speaker 3: I like literally freaked out at her wake because I
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  Speaker 3: was looking at her in the casket, but I could
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  Speaker 3: hear her talking to me. Oh gosh, So I that
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  Speaker 3: is when this and that's when I completely shut down
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  Speaker 3: and when my anxiety started going through the roof because
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  Speaker 3: now I was. I wasn't allowing them to come in.
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  Speaker 3: I was just holding onto all this anxiety.
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  Speaker 1: What did that do physically to you?
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  Speaker 2: It was exhausting.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't I'm very difficult to live my life and
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  Speaker 3: right but right after I had my daughter at the
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  Speaker 3: age of twenty seven is when I was afraid to
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  Speaker 3: leave my house.
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  Speaker 2: I wouldn't even go to the store.
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  Speaker 1: So you shut it off from the age of sixteen
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  Speaker 1: to time about twenty seven, twenty seven, Yeah, then it
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  Speaker 1: started to really come out.
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  Speaker 3: And then I was kind of saying, Okay, this is great.
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  Speaker 3: God's blessed me with this gift. Who's going to want
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  Speaker 3: to come to a medium? And then nine to eleven happened.
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  Speaker 3: And then that's when I had a spiritual experience where
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  Speaker 3: it was shown to me and told me that thousands
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  Speaker 3: of people perished that day and people didn't know what
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  Speaker 3: happened to their loved ones, and they deserve the gift
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  Speaker 3: of healing. So I put my gift in God's hands.
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  Speaker 3: I should say I am a practicing Catholic. I share
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  Speaker 3: that with people because people wonder if I have a
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  Speaker 3: religion or a faith, and I put it.
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  Speaker 2: My gift in God's hands.
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  Speaker 3: And I said, look, if this is my soul's journey,
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  Speaker 3: then you open the doors and I will walk through
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  Speaker 3: them with my gift. But I only want to use
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  Speaker 3: my gift for healing purposes. And I reminded God that
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  Speaker 3: I was afraid of.
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  Speaker 2: The dark and I don't like to be scared.
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  Speaker 5: I didn't want to see scary things.
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  Speaker 1: That's good. Yeah, and it's worked on badelines.
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  Speaker 3: It's worked so far, like this has now been for
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  Speaker 3: like twenty five years, so it's been working good.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you've protected yourself going in. Yep, absolutely, Yes, that's smart.
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  Speaker 1: Do you remember your first session with like a paying
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  Speaker 1: customer or someone bought you out?
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, So.
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  Speaker 3: I believe it was the first person. It was a
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  Speaker 3: woman and her son committed suicide. And then the same
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  Speaker 3: day because I read two people in one day, and
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  Speaker 3: it was a.
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  Speaker 2: Sister that lost her brother also to he died tragically.
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  Speaker 3: And I'll never forget that because that morning I kept
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  Speaker 3: seeing I would I was brushing my teeth that I
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  Speaker 3: look up in the mirror and I would see a
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  Speaker 3: man standing behind me in like he looked like the
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  Speaker 3: brawny paper towel guy. Yeah, and then I would go
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  Speaker 3: down that I look up and he'd be gone. So
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  Speaker 3: this is how I used to see spirit before I
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  Speaker 3: started doing this for a living. And then I said,
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  Speaker 3: I can't this is too overwhelming. I can't be walking
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  Speaker 3: around and you know, see people looking through my window, right,
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  Speaker 3: so I said to the young lady, I said, oh,
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  Speaker 3: I said, And then I saw the brawny guy again
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  Speaker 3: from the pane, and I go, did your brother wear
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  Speaker 3: like a flannel shirt and look like that?
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  Speaker 5: She goes.
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  Speaker 2: We used to call him the guy from the brawny
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  Speaker 2: paper towels.
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  Speaker 5: We used to say that that's what my brother looked like.
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  Speaker 1: So good.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah, So like those are the little things that.
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  Speaker 3: Are like odd that you would never think that Spirit
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  Speaker 3: would talk about bring up to really validate their presence.
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  Speaker 1: I wonder about that because you said that you just
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  Speaker 1: kept feeling seeing people and you had to like set
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  Speaker 1: some ground rules. Because I was wondering while you're talking,
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  Speaker 1: can you just turn it off?
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  Speaker 2: Well, like I said, have to show me things.
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  Speaker 3: I just can't feel something and then just say it,
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  Speaker 3: does that make sense? Like they have to show me
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  Speaker 3: several things before I will actually say something. So sometimes
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  Speaker 3: if I'm out and about and say the real world
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  Speaker 3: say I'm at the store, I will and if I'm
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  Speaker 3: feeling things, and I'll.
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  Speaker 2: Just say, present the opportunity.
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  Speaker 3: And then usually some random person will just start talking
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  Speaker 3: to me for no reason, and then I'll say something.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, okay, I'm getting the whole divinely guided messaging of
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  Speaker 1: your jewelry line that you don't I'm wearing. By the way,
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  Speaker 1: I'm wearing your beautiful bracelet. What does it say because
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  Speaker 1: I can't see it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, well, these are the little posies. I believe this
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  Speaker 2: one says the soul bond can ever be broken.
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  Speaker 3: Oh so we did the posies because it's that little
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  Speaker 3: like remember back in the medieval days where they had
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  Speaker 3: those little met hidden messages.
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  Speaker 2: That's what a poesy bracelet is like.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know those press or they used.
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  Speaker 2: To be in rings, they used to be in jewelry,
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  Speaker 2: little messages. So these are just little gentle reminders.
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  Speaker 1: Careful, okay, may a soul a soul bond and never
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  Speaker 1: be yes, I see it now, see okay, thank you
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  Speaker 1: for that. I needed that help. So sometimes when someone
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  Speaker 1: wants to come through with a message from you, it
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  Speaker 1: makes people really happy, and sometimes it causes a lot
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  Speaker 1: of pain and grief. Sure, how do you manage that? So?
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  Speaker 3: I always say spirit brings us on this emotional rollercoaster, right,
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  Speaker 3: They allow us to feel the pain, the sorrow, the
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  Speaker 3: loss and the grief. But then I want them to
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  Speaker 3: communicate with laughter because we need the levity and it
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  Speaker 3: kind of gives us permission in a sense to find happiness.
• 15:47
  Speaker 2: It's almost like they're giving us that permission.
• 15:49
  Speaker 6: It's like it's okay, hey, to not breave, All's right, yeah,
• 15:52
  Speaker 6: And it's okay not to be okay also, but they
• 15:55
  Speaker 6: don't want us like grieving and stop living because they die.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: And I and that's really really hard.
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: That's really hard to like juggle in my mind.
• 16:05
  Speaker 3: Yeah, for so many different Is it the family that
• 16:09
  Speaker 3: loses a child. Is it someone who loses their spouse.
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: Is it someone who loses their partner, their parents or
• 16:15
  Speaker 3: their grandparents you know there maybe there their their adult,
• 16:20
  Speaker 3: their pet, Because to people, our pets are like our children,
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: it's like.
• 16:24
  Speaker 1: Losing a child. Yeah.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: So and we struggle with that too because we don't
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: know what's going on with them, especially if we have
• 16:30
  Speaker 3: to put them down right the worst, the the worst,
• 16:34
  Speaker 3: the absolute worst. So I know I have this most
• 16:40
  Speaker 3: amazing and beautiful gift, and the fact that people trust
• 16:44
  Speaker 3: me with the souls of their loved ones means the
• 16:46
  Speaker 3: absolute world to me. I bet because to show and
• 16:50
  Speaker 3: to watch someone heal right in front of you, like
• 16:53
  Speaker 3: if you come to one of my live shows, or
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: like like even on the on the TV show You,
• 16:58
  Speaker 3: or even if you're listening to my podcast, you can
• 17:01
  Speaker 3: literally hear it in their voice that something's lifted, something
• 17:05
  Speaker 3: has changed, They're looking at life differently.
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: So just to make tomorrow a little bit easier.
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: Not easy, I mean, Teresa, I walk around with so
• 17:16
  Speaker 1: much going on in my head that I wouldn't even
• 17:19
  Speaker 1: know if I was getting a message that meant something,
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: because I'm just always in my head. No, you know,
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: do you feel like you're always in your head? If
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: this is how it's happening for you.
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Yes, listen, I'm out on a day pass.
• 17:32
  Speaker 1: You know you have to be back in about an
• 17:38
  Speaker 1: hour or not.
• 17:39
  Speaker 2: No.
• 17:40
  Speaker 3: But I say this because people are always like to me,
• 17:43
  Speaker 3: oh my god, you create your schedule is insane.
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: How do you find time?
• 17:47
  Speaker 3: And I say, listen, we're all busy because no matter
• 17:49
  Speaker 3: what we do in life, whether we're retired, whether we
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: have young children, older children, We work part time, we
• 17:57
  Speaker 3: fill our lives with things, so we're all busy, right,
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: So it's just getting those little gentle reminders. It's like
• 18:04
  Speaker 3: when you put the radio on and you hear an
• 18:06
  Speaker 3: old song that comes on and it reminds you of
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: your loved one that has died and it's not a
• 18:11
  Speaker 3: current top footy hit, right, that's them. Or if you
• 18:15
  Speaker 3: see something and you feel it, you just think of them,
• 18:18
  Speaker 3: know that that's them. You might smell something that reminds
• 18:21
  Speaker 3: you of them, that's their soul and there's no reason
• 18:24
  Speaker 3: why you would smell it. Like if we sort of
• 18:26
  Speaker 3: just smelled old spice, why would we be smelling cologne?
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: Is there a reason you said old spice?
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: But this was a reason why I say stuff.
• 18:35
  Speaker 3: I always say things because I always I That's why
• 18:38
  Speaker 3: I always say I'm good at what I do. So
• 18:42
  Speaker 3: I always feel like, especially whatever I'm doing, I'm always
• 18:46
  Speaker 3: I don't look at it as work though, but people
• 18:48
  Speaker 3: say you always in work mode.
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: It's not work. This is who I am. I don't
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: know how to be anything else but who I am
• 18:55
  Speaker 2: right now.
• 18:57
  Speaker 1: Growing up your kids. I'm just imagining what it must
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: have been like for them.
• 19:03
  Speaker 3: Well, my kids were like, yeah, my dad's an Italian importer,
• 19:07
  Speaker 3: and my mom talks to dead people, you know, those
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: phone calls from school, like you know there's something wrong.
• 19:12
  Speaker 2: You know your kids are like telling tales.
• 19:14
  Speaker 5: Oh that's pretty much it. Yeah, you know my kids.
• 19:17
  Speaker 2: Didn't know any different.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 19:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And my son, he even says like he cracks
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: me up.
• 19:23
  Speaker 3: He goes, Ma, he goes, I don't know who you're
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: talking to, but you're talking to somebody because the things
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: that you say you don't know nothing about.
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: So you know, either of them have the gift.
• 19:37
  Speaker 3: So I so gifts, I believe are very abilities are
• 19:41
  Speaker 3: very different. My daughter shows more potential that I have.
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: But what I do, but it's a big task to
• 19:52
  Speaker 3: take on, take on. So and I think I like
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: to say that because I say to people, just because
• 19:59
  Speaker 3: you might get other people's loved ones messages, that doesn't
• 20:02
  Speaker 3: mean then.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: You have to do what I do, because it is
• 20:06
  Speaker 2: alive and it's I was built to do what I do.
• 20:09
  Speaker 1: I know that.
• 20:10
  Speaker 3: Yeah, my son is very sensitive, very intuitive.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: And I say the same thing about my brother.
• 20:16
  Speaker 3: My brother is a physical therapist and everyone that goes
• 20:19
  Speaker 3: to my brother.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: They're like, I've never been to a physical therapist like that.
• 20:22
  Speaker 3: Your brother has magic hands because my brother's a healer.
• 20:26
  Speaker 3: I feel with the words that I speak, and my
• 20:28
  Speaker 3: brother has I always say he's a healer.
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: How did your husband feel? So in the.
• 20:34
  Speaker 4: Beginning he was very like yeah, okay, yeah, right, you
• 20:40
  Speaker 4: know Italian, yeah, oh yeah.
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: And then as he saw people coming to the house
• 20:46
  Speaker 3: and then seeing people and seeing how people would say,
• 20:50
  Speaker 3: you know, your wife changed my life, that was huge,
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: and then he just like jumped on the on the bandwagon.
• 20:57
  Speaker 3: He's like, Okay, she talks to dead people. But it's
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: so interesting. And even my ex husband's parents very devout Catholics, right,
• 21:11
  Speaker 3: My mother in law's brother was a priest, and they always.
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: Embraced what I did.
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: Really yes, yeah, hm, that's really interesting.
• 21:21
  Speaker 3: Because I think we all feel it, right, yeah, and
• 21:26
  Speaker 3: we believe it in afterlife, right.
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, so you think there's
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: an afterlife? Absolutely without a doubt.
• 21:34
  Speaker 3: Listen, I say this to people. If there is nothing,
• 21:37
  Speaker 3: we're not going to know about it, so it doesn't matter, right.
• 21:40
  Speaker 1: I was going to ask you, what do you think
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: happens when our hearts.
• 21:44
  Speaker 3: Just I believe and my spirit has shown me this
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: because they will describe. I mean, I'll be reading someone
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: and they will say to me, I reached up and
• 21:53
  Speaker 3: I was calling for my husband, that my husband was
• 21:57
  Speaker 3: coming from me, that I was going to go with him.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: And the people will say, yeah, that's exactly what happened.
• 22:02
  Speaker 3: My mother didn't speak for weeks, and she was calling
• 22:04
  Speaker 3: my father's name, and my father had passed years before her,
• 22:08
  Speaker 3: and she said that.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: He was in the room, and then she passed.
• 22:13
  Speaker 3: So I can't make these things up right, No, And
• 22:17
  Speaker 3: these are experiences that people have. I know that when
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: we leave the physical world, we are greeted by our
• 22:24
  Speaker 3: loved ones that have gone on before us, and that
• 22:27
  Speaker 3: those left here in the physical world are going to
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: miss us terribly.
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: Do you believe that we come back?
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: I do believe in past lives.
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: I do believe that I've done past life regressions, and
• 22:40
  Speaker 3: in one of them, I was shown that this is
• 22:42
  Speaker 3: my last lifetime here. Let my soul won't come back
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: in the physical world again.
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: How did that make you feel?
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: I'm okay with it.
• 22:51
  Speaker 3: Yeah, because the past lives that I was brought through
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: were not very good ones.
• 22:57
  Speaker 2: And I always say I have Champagne problems.
• 23:01
  Speaker 5: Is that I don't mean to.
• 23:02
  Speaker 3: I mean, everyone has things, right, everyone has stuff, but
• 23:06
  Speaker 3: you know what I really and yeah, there have been
• 23:08
  Speaker 3: hard things. I mean I've had family members suffer from
• 23:12
  Speaker 3: addiction and pass away. But I have the most amazing family,
• 23:18
  Speaker 3: very close family, and I was very very blessed to
• 23:22
  Speaker 3: have the life.
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: That I have.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: Like you've fat, you've gotten to that point where you've
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: lived your best life, living my best life.
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: So but I feel like I always have, you know,
• 23:32
  Speaker 3: even with all maybe my struggles with anxiety and you know,
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: being a mom right for the first time and those
• 23:41
  Speaker 3: struggles too, but I always felt so loved and supported
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: you know, and I always felt very blessed for that
• 23:48
  Speaker 3: because I realize I thought everyone I thought, you have
• 23:52
  Speaker 3: to realize. I thought everyone saw someone standing at the
• 23:54
  Speaker 3: foot of their bed at night. I heard people speak
• 23:56
  Speaker 3: to them in a room and there was no one
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: else in the room but themselves. I thought that everyone
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: had grandparents who loved them like their own children, and
• 24:04
  Speaker 3: would have sleepovers and go away on camping trips, and
• 24:08
  Speaker 3: had parents that would do anything that My mom asked me,
• 24:11
  Speaker 3: I'm going to say maybe about ten years ago. She
• 24:14
  Speaker 3: was like, and I said, Mom, we were talking about
• 24:16
  Speaker 3: something and I said, she said, I said, Mom, I go,
• 24:19
  Speaker 3: I never felt like we were poor, like.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: We didn't have anything. I said, there was never a
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: moment in my life that I ever felt that I
• 24:26
  Speaker 2: didn't have what I wanted or needed. And my mom
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: cried and she says that, you know, it was. It
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: was tough at times, you know.
• 24:34
  Speaker 3: And my brother feels the same exact way, like we
• 24:37
  Speaker 3: never felt that we were doing without.
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: That sounds like a really nice way to live your life.
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, wow, I am.
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm a little sad here.
• 24:49
  Speaker 5: This is it for you?
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I'm not. I mean, I don't know.
• 24:52
  Speaker 3: I'll find out, that's what you know. Who knows, I'll
• 24:54
  Speaker 3: find out when I get there.
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: If anyone knows, it's you.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: So well, I don't know anything. I just talked to
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: dead people.
• 25:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, you were you when that movie came
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: out where the little kid said I talked to dead people?
• 25:07
  Speaker 3: So the sixth sense was literally like, I watched that
• 25:11
  Speaker 3: movie and I knew right off the bat that Bruce
• 25:13
  Speaker 3: Willis was dead, and I ruined the movie for everyone.
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: I'm like, why he's dead, and they're like, Trisa, what
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: are you talking about.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm the guy's dead.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Oh god, Okay, note to self, don't watch it.
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: Don't watch movies, and I like to watch movies with me.
• 25:28
  Speaker 5: When I saw I forgot where I was.
• 25:30
  Speaker 2: It was what is that song? Lady Gaga just did
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: the movie?
• 25:33
  Speaker 1: I mean, oh yeah, yeah, the with the singers. Yeah,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: what's that called Star is Born? Star is Born?
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: Yes?
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: Yes, So I never saw the movie before we all
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: was we had a day off on tour. We all
• 25:44
  Speaker 3: went to the movie and they showed the point where
• 25:46
  Speaker 3: the guy goes in the garage and go, oh, he's
• 25:48
  Speaker 3: gonna kill himself. I literally yelled it out in the.
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: Movie theater, you yeah, do that?
• 25:52
  Speaker 3: And yet these two women turned around and looked at me.
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: And then every month.
• 25:57
  Speaker 3: My old crew was like, I think you ruined the movie.
• 26:00
  Speaker 3: After it happened, they're like, you ruined the movie for
• 26:04
  Speaker 3: every single person in this movie theater. We need to
• 26:06
  Speaker 3: leave now, get out.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: But I was like, how could you not know that?
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: I mean, I'm gonna be honest, I kind of knew
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: it was gonna happen. But I think that's.
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: Because I never saw the movie before.
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: I never saw the movie before either. But the guy
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: goes into the garage and he's really miserable.
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: Well, sometimes people cuts around in the garage basically men.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Well I don't know. Maybe I have maybe you
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: might have had a little forgift yourself. Yeah.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: People don't like to watch movies with me.
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: No, I Can'tno, Dan, how do you stay connected with
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: your spirit when you're constantly being taken by other people's spirits, emotions,
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: energies like how do you touch in with Teresa?
• 26:45
  Speaker 2: Oh that's hard.
• 26:46
  Speaker 3: So I a lot of times it's like most women do.
• 26:50
  Speaker 3: I think we put ourselves on the back burner, right,
• 26:53
  Speaker 3: But I've learned, especially in my fifties. I really started
• 26:58
  Speaker 3: in my forties to really take care of myself. That's
• 27:01
  Speaker 3: certain things weren't luxuries or pampering or selfish or bougie.
• 27:06
  Speaker 3: They were they were necessities for me. So like a massage,
• 27:10
  Speaker 3: massage is it's great for me because and a lot,
• 27:14
  Speaker 3: like most of us, we carry so much stress on
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: our shoulders and in our lower back, especially for me
• 27:18
  Speaker 3: with the energy and things like that. So and going
• 27:21
  Speaker 3: to the gym working out, I need to sometimes sweat
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: it out.
• 27:24
  Speaker 2: Listen, who likes going to the gym? Let's face it.
• 27:27
  Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, I'm tired, Like I don't want to be
• 27:30
  Speaker 3: getting up at six thirty in the morning to go
• 27:32
  Speaker 3: to pilates or go to the gym because it's when
• 27:34
  Speaker 3: I'm out on the road.
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: I like to run.
• 27:37
  Speaker 3: I sprint because I want to sweat out, like case
• 27:40
  Speaker 3: if I have anything attached or things like that.
• 27:42
  Speaker 2: So there are things that are that aren't are necessities.
• 27:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I do believe that. Yeah, because sometimes people see
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: the concept of I choose me, and I talk about
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: it so much, then there are people that are like, well,
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: that just sounds like she's really selfish. She's talking about
• 27:58
  Speaker 1: telling other people to be selfish too. But I don't
• 28:00
  Speaker 1: feel that way at all.
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: No, you're not. You're not being selfish.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: When you take care of yourself.
• 28:05
  Speaker 2: Think about it. What do they tell you when you're
• 28:07
  Speaker 2: on an aeroplane.
• 28:08
  Speaker 3: Yes, yes, you got to put the mask on yourself
• 28:11
  Speaker 3: first so you can help others.
• 28:12
  Speaker 1: That's why don't we apply that.
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: In our everyday life.
• 28:15
  Speaker 3: You have to take care of yourself so you can
• 28:18
  Speaker 3: be one hundred percent for the people around you, whether
• 28:22
  Speaker 3: it's your children, friends of markers.
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: Right, I talk about it every day all day long.
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: I've built my business around Yeah, it's my life. Yes,
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: And just this morning, I did not practice what I preach.
• 28:36
  Speaker 1: I didn't put I didn't I was taking care of
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: someone else when I knew I needed to be taken
• 28:40
  Speaker 1: care of, and then I ended up not feeling great
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: from it, and so it was like duck knock knock hellou.
• 28:48
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: I mean there are times, but like so like for me,
• 28:53
  Speaker 3: it's very important. Like when I get up in the morning,
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: I choose to get up a full hour before or
• 29:00
  Speaker 3: I would start my day with anything, because I like
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: to have my cup of coffee, I say my rosary,
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: I say my prayers, and I take that time. I
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: sometimes and then read. So I take that hour that's
• 29:12
  Speaker 3: what I do, and then I read.
• 29:15
  Speaker 2: I became into how do I say this?
• 29:18
  Speaker 3: I would say reading is new to me because I
• 29:20
  Speaker 3: was never a big reader, and I've learned how to
• 29:23
  Speaker 3: still like kind of quiet myself enough to do that.
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: Does that help your brain? Yes, kind of like check
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: out for a little bit and go yah.
• 29:31
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I get so into it, and so I take
• 29:34
  Speaker 3: that time for myself in the morning every single morning today,
• 29:38
  Speaker 3: I didn't read, but I read on the plane. But
• 29:40
  Speaker 3: you know, there are certain things that I will not
• 29:43
  Speaker 3: give up that I have to do.
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: Okay, So say, like, for example, this morning, you got
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: up at two.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: I got up at my alarm went off at two am.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: Two am.
• 29:50
  Speaker 3: I got up, I went in the shower, I went downstairs,
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: I made my coffee, I said my rosary and said
• 29:55
  Speaker 3: my daily prayers, and then I started to get ready.
• 30:00
  Speaker 5: So I didn't read.
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: You didn't read, okay, So that one sid that day, okay,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: but I read.
• 30:05
  Speaker 3: I read on the plane for a little bit. What
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: about exercise, I did not exercise.
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: So it's so hard when you're traveling all the time.
• 30:12
  Speaker 3: It's very, very hard. And sometimes I also realized that
• 30:15
  Speaker 3: sometimes meditating and being still and sleeping an extra hour
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: is more beneficial for me at the age of fifty
• 30:22
  Speaker 3: eight than it would be pushing myself to go to
• 30:26
  Speaker 3: the gym because it was just too I just had
• 30:28
  Speaker 3: too much.
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: Like when I went home, I had all.
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: My plates classes scheduled, but I ended up having to
• 30:34
  Speaker 3: cancel them because I was like, I'm not doing myself
• 30:36
  Speaker 3: any good because I'm either going to hurt myself or
• 30:39
  Speaker 3: I'm not going to feel good.
• 30:40
  Speaker 1: So I love that.
• 30:42
  Speaker 3: So I chose I chose me in a different way,
• 30:45
  Speaker 3: Like I realized, like what was more important staying in
• 30:48
  Speaker 3: bed for an extra hour or just doing something else.
• 30:51
  Speaker 3: I spent time with my grandson instead.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: So you know, tell me about your grandson. You have
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: these years telling me you have three grandchildren.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: Grandchildren.
• 31:06
  Speaker 3: So the first thing was that my daughter and my
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: son in law lived with me for the first two
• 31:11
  Speaker 3: years of their marriage and they had Michelina. So she
• 31:14
  Speaker 3: lived with me until she was like almost a year
• 31:16
  Speaker 3: and a half.
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: Oh my god, that's the best time for her to
• 31:19
  Speaker 1: live with you.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: So I made a joke saying when my daughter in
• 31:22
  Speaker 3: law my son had Nico, I said, you know, Nico's
• 31:25
  Speaker 3: got to live with grandma for a year.
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: And a half.
• 31:28
  Speaker 3: Well, be careful what you wish for, Jenny, because now
• 31:31
  Speaker 3: they bought the house on one house away from me,
• 31:34
  Speaker 3: so it's my parents I live. I still live next
• 31:36
  Speaker 3: door to my parents where I grew up. So it's
• 31:38
  Speaker 3: my parents, me, my neighbor, and now Larry and Leah.
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  Speaker 3: So they just moved in with me because they're going
• 31:43
  Speaker 3: to start renovation on their house.
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  Speaker 2: There.
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: You go, so they're going to be there at least
• 31:47
  Speaker 3: a year and a half.
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  Speaker 1: I love that. Wait, you just said you have to
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: be careful what you asked for. Do you see that
• 31:54
  Speaker 1: for other people? Do you see that for yourself? Because
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: you can just be really general and say I want
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: to be sick successful. But success comes in so many
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: different ways for everybody.
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  Speaker 2: Oh absolutely, yeah.
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  Speaker 3: But you know what, I don't think I ever wished
• 32:10
  Speaker 3: for you know, I don't think I've ever wished for success.
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  Speaker 2: Does that make sense? Like I didn't.
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  Speaker 3: I didn't wake up one morning and say, you know,
• 32:20
  Speaker 3: I think I'm going to talk to dead people for
• 32:21
  Speaker 3: a living. It seems like a really good career choice.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: So I think because my intention was always to help people,
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: and it really was never about the money. You know,
• 32:37
  Speaker 3: there's a lot of things that people don't know and
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: realize about me, about the work that I do, how
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: much we give back, what my fan club is really about.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: And you know, so people that are on my podcast,
• 32:50
  Speaker 3: they don't pay for their reading. You know, I don't
• 32:52
  Speaker 3: charge people for their readings.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: You know. So it was never about the money or
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: right success.
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: And they say that that's true success when it's coming
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  Speaker 1: from a place of love and a passion, a purpose
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: inside that you just can't keep in. Then yeah, it
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: grows into this.
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  Speaker 3: I can't imagine doing anything else. Like it's the most normal,
• 33:14
  Speaker 3: Like I feel normal now. Once I embraced my gift,
• 33:18
  Speaker 3: I felt complete. So I feel because I don't think camera,
• 33:23
  Speaker 3: you know, having cameras in your face all the time,
• 33:26
  Speaker 3: even whether doing a live show or being around people, and.
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: Just that's to me, that's normal.
• 33:32
  Speaker 3: That feels normal to me, And I think to the
• 33:35
  Speaker 3: average person, it's not.
• 33:38
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, what would Theresa Caputo be if she
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: weren't who she is?
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: Like what, I don't know, who would you do? I
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: wanted to be a legal secretary.
• 33:47
  Speaker 1: That sounds funny.
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that sounds fun I want to be one of
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: those stenographers.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, I wanted to be the grocery store checkout girl.
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: I wanted to be a Dallas cowgirl cheerleader. That was
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: my number one dream.
• 33:59
  Speaker 1: Oh I can see that.
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I want it to be that, but that never happens.
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  Speaker 3: But yeah, I don't know. I don't think. I feel
• 34:09
  Speaker 3: like I really did do everything except be a cheerleader.
• 34:13
  Speaker 3: But I feel like I'm my own cheerleader, so and
• 34:15
  Speaker 3: I'm a cheerleader for everyone else around me. I feel
• 34:18
  Speaker 3: like I really did achieve everything that I wanted to.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: What about like normal people, like just real people, every
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: day people us. Yeah, but no, yeah we are. We
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: are all the same, Yes we are. But what about people?
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: How how can you help people listen to their own instincts?
• 34:37
  Speaker 3: Well, that's what I want people to do when whatever
• 34:40
  Speaker 3: it is, maybe it's someone listening to your podcast right now.
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: I am not asking anyone to believe in mediums. That's
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: not what this is about. I want them to believe
• 34:49
  Speaker 3: in themselves and an afterlife. That's it to Like, no
• 34:53
  Speaker 3: one can tell someone. I can't tell someone how to
• 34:56
  Speaker 3: connect with their loved ones. That's something that you have.
• 35:00
  Speaker 3: That's your connection, your soul bond. You'll know it, you'll
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: feel it.
• 35:04
  Speaker 2: And I want people to embrace that. Is that what
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: you were kind of hey?
• 35:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah? Yeah? Like to get them to tune in to
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: themselves a little bit more.
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: Just be aware, just.
• 35:12
  Speaker 3: Be open to the possibility of an afterlife, you know,
• 35:16
  Speaker 3: because there's also that other side, Jenny of people that
• 35:20
  Speaker 3: they could be the most faithful person, right, such strong faith,
• 35:24
  Speaker 3: so spiritual and then they lose a loved one and
• 35:29
  Speaker 3: all of that goes out the window. And I always say,
• 35:31
  Speaker 3: my gift is so much more than just communicating with
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: people that have died. My gift and channeling the souls
• 35:37
  Speaker 3: of the departed has restored people's faith and has even
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: brought families back together. So I can't I wouldn't trade
• 35:44
  Speaker 3: what I do for anything here in the physical world.
• 35:46
  Speaker 3: I can't even imagine myself doing anything else.
• 35:49
  Speaker 1: I cannot either. I'm curious. Are there things sometimes that
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: come through that you hold back on telling the person no,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Like if you get a message that's you know it's
• 36:00
  Speaker 1: going to be upsetting, or you know, because.
• 36:04
  Speaker 3: Okay, so let me let me I always deliver things
• 36:08
  Speaker 3: with dignity and grace, so I might have to find
• 36:11
  Speaker 3: a way how to say.
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: Something, but I will never.
• 36:13
  Speaker 3: If spirituals me something, I have to say it and
• 36:16
  Speaker 3: to show I'm gonna This just happened probably about two
• 36:19
  Speaker 3: years ago, was doing a live show. I was channeling
• 36:23
  Speaker 3: someone's loved one of me, and all of a sudden,
• 36:24
  Speaker 3: I turned and I looked at this woman and I
• 36:26
  Speaker 3: said to her, just this came right out of my mouth.
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: I said, God took your child. And I then said
• 36:32
  Speaker 3: to myself, I literally that. I put my hand over
• 36:34
  Speaker 3: my mouth and I was like, what did you just
• 36:36
  Speaker 3: say to this woman? And the woman looked at me,
• 36:39
  Speaker 3: hysterical crying, and she said, I've been carrying this.
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: For thirty years.
• 36:45
  Speaker 3: She says, I was raped by my uncle and I
• 36:48
  Speaker 3: became pregnant and my family did not believe me, and
• 36:50
  Speaker 3: they were forcing me to have this baby, and I
• 36:53
  Speaker 3: prayed to God to take my baby, and that night
• 36:58
  Speaker 3: I miscarried my child, she said.
• 37:00
  Speaker 2: And I felt guilty for that for thirty years. Like
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: who says that to someone?
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: Teresa Computo, Yeah, I guess.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: But like there's something that I also like, I trust
• 37:14
  Speaker 3: the souls. I have to trust them knowing that what
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: they're going to have me say is going to help
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: this person. And something like that was very I didn't
• 37:29
  Speaker 3: even have time to think about. It just came out
• 37:31
  Speaker 3: of my mouth. But that's exactly what she needed to hear.
• 37:34
  Speaker 3: She had actually sent an email to my fan club
• 37:36
  Speaker 3: after that saying on how that changed her life. I
• 37:39
  Speaker 3: bet because she was so afraid and she felt so guilty.
• 37:44
  Speaker 1: I'm much shame. I'm sure so much. Yeah.
• 37:47
  Speaker 3: And then she said to me. She goes, and I'm
• 37:49
  Speaker 3: gay on top of it. So she says, so, now
• 37:51
  Speaker 3: I'm really going down below. I said, listen, I go,
• 37:54
  Speaker 3: I talk to dead people. So if there is a hell,
• 37:56
  Speaker 3: we're going together and a handbasket.
• 38:00
  Speaker 1: Do you think there's help?
• 38:02
  Speaker 3: Spirits never said to me that it's hot down here,
• 38:04
  Speaker 3: so I go with that there is no help, right, I.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: Would think it would have come up.
• 38:08
  Speaker 3: Do I think there's a level, a lower level, yes,
• 38:12
  Speaker 3: because I've seen that you have. So, like I told
• 38:15
  Speaker 3: you earlier, I only want to channel souls in God's
• 38:18
  Speaker 3: white life. I don't want to know anything else. And
• 38:21
  Speaker 3: I know that I can only lower my I can't.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: This is the only way that I can explain to
• 38:25
  Speaker 3: I lower my vibration. Sometimes I raise my vibration. I
• 38:29
  Speaker 3: can only lower my level so low. And how I
• 38:33
  Speaker 3: know this for a fact is one time I was
• 38:37
  Speaker 3: childing a woman's daughter and the young lady had me say,
• 38:42
  Speaker 3: please tell my mom that he is remorseful and that
• 38:46
  Speaker 3: he's sorry for taking me from her and for killing me.
• 38:51
  Speaker 3: So this young girl, her boyfriend had killed her and
• 38:55
  Speaker 3: then killed himself, and I could see the soul below her.
• 39:00
  Speaker 3: But I couldn't hear anything from him, I couldn't feel anything.
• 39:03
  Speaker 3: She was channeling for him. And the mother looked at
• 39:06
  Speaker 3: me and she says, that's why I came here. I
• 39:08
  Speaker 3: wanted to know if he was remorseful and if he
• 39:12
  Speaker 3: knew what he did to my life and to me
• 39:15
  Speaker 3: by killing my daughter.
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, I.
• 39:18
  Speaker 3: Would not think that that's why someone would come right.
• 39:21
  Speaker 3: And this was in like a theater of like four
• 39:23
  Speaker 3: thousand people.
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: And interesting that you couldn't see him, but you could
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: couldn't hear because she was in a higher life.
• 39:29
  Speaker 3: So what they also say is that souls can lower
• 39:32
  Speaker 3: their vibration to help other souls channel or to be
• 39:35
  Speaker 3: with them to channel, but that soul here cannot raise
• 39:39
  Speaker 3: that vibration until the soul learns lessons. Lessons so like,
• 39:46
  Speaker 3: so like, let's just say you had someone that wasn't
• 39:53
  Speaker 3: very nice to you, right, okay, and then they pass.
• 39:58
  Speaker 3: They if they say and they say, I'm sorry for
• 40:01
  Speaker 3: my choices, actions, decisions, the pain that accors you.
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry. That's my sign that that person had.
• 40:09
  Speaker 3: To relive their life through your eyes, so they had
• 40:13
  Speaker 3: to feel what it was like for you, for their
• 40:15
  Speaker 3: choices and decisions, and then that's how the soul. It's
• 40:18
  Speaker 3: like a life review. The soul goes through a life
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: review and it learns lessons and then the soul grows,
• 40:24
  Speaker 3: I say, closer to God.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: That's really cool.
• 40:28
  Speaker 3: So you know, people will also that's the other thing
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: that I love, like spirit will validate and acknowledge. They'll
• 40:34
  Speaker 3: show me like that their soul actually moved through their
• 40:37
  Speaker 3: loved one's physical body after they died. So usually when
• 40:41
  Speaker 3: they show me the holding of the hand and the
• 40:43
  Speaker 3: whispering of the ear, it means nothing was left unsaid.
• 40:46
  Speaker 3: Then I actually feel like this wave of emotion that
• 40:49
  Speaker 3: runs right through me, and then the person will most
• 40:52
  Speaker 3: likely get like a goose bump. That's my symbol for
• 40:55
  Speaker 3: that they felt the soul leave the physical body and
• 40:59
  Speaker 3: knowing that they did get the opportunity to say goodbye.
• 41:03
  Speaker 1: I want to know. I want to go back to
• 41:05
  Speaker 1: the beginning of this. Yeah, and I want to know
• 41:08
  Speaker 1: what you're hearing, what you're feeling.
• 41:11
  Speaker 2: Well, what I just said to you about I heard
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: you say goodbye. I felt that was free.
• 41:15
  Speaker 1: Right, Yeah, yeah, that was definitely for me.
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: See, I can do things with dignity and grace.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: Uh huh.
• 41:21
  Speaker 2: This is how I always say.
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: It doesn't always I will sit I will even at
• 41:25
  Speaker 3: my life shows. I'll say to people, I'll stand here
• 41:27
  Speaker 3: and make it look like I don't know what I'm
• 41:28
  Speaker 3: talking about, but I know the person that I'm standing
• 41:31
  Speaker 3: in front of and the things that I'm saying is
• 41:33
  Speaker 3: healing them. This isn't about me getting it right right,
• 41:38
  Speaker 3: That's not what it's about.
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah. What a gift you have. And I'm so happy
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: to get to sit down and talk to you. And
• 41:44
  Speaker 1: I was so.
• 41:44
  Speaker 3: Excited because I know we could have done this over
• 41:46
  Speaker 3: zoom yeah, and I was like, after meeting you at
• 41:49
  Speaker 3: the Q fifty, I was like, no, I want to
• 41:51
  Speaker 3: do this in person.
• 41:53
  Speaker 2: I love that. Yeah, so much better.
• 41:55
  Speaker 3: Yeah, it really is, And especially when you're in someone's
• 41:58
  Speaker 3: energy as so beautiful as you.
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: So yeah.
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: Oh wait. I have one last question. What This is
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: the question that I ask everyone. Theresa, you know, what
• 42:07
  Speaker 1: was your last I choose me a moment?
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Oh, I don't know. I choose myself every day. You
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: that's it, you have to I am I think I do,
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: I really do. I feel like I do. I choose
• 42:21
  Speaker 2: me and at the smallest moments every day.
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: So it's not like big.
• 42:28
  Speaker 2: I have a big well, I.
• 42:29
  Speaker 3: Think because I learned that. I learned that it's important
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: for me to choose me. And I think I learned
• 42:35
  Speaker 3: that through embracing my gift.
• 42:39
  Speaker 2: And also I.
• 42:40
  Speaker 3: Think more so with you know, my divorce. You know,
• 42:44
  Speaker 3: I never thought in a million years that I would
• 42:46
  Speaker 3: ever get divorced, right, And I even say it today.
• 42:49
  Speaker 3: I didn't want to get divorced, so I had to.
• 42:54
  Speaker 3: And I'm even going to also say, for like, we
• 42:56
  Speaker 3: chose ourselves in that moment, right, So I think when
• 43:01
  Speaker 3: you go through something like that, for me, that was
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: where I chose myself. That was the biggest where I chose,
• 43:11
  Speaker 3: I choose me.
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: You said you didn't want to get divorced.
• 43:16
  Speaker 5: No.
• 43:17
  Speaker 3: I I love Larry still, but we're just not good
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: together anymore. We're better friends, if you want to say,
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: you know, we're able. We have family gatherings, were still
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: together for family.
• 43:31
  Speaker 1: Yeah that's good. Yeah, I can see because we're still a.
• 43:35
  Speaker 3: Family even though we're not married, we're still a family.
• 43:38
  Speaker 3: So and here and for me, here was someone that
• 43:45
  Speaker 3: I was really afraid of, my own shadow, couldn't leave
• 43:50
  Speaker 3: my home and to be independent and to be on
• 43:53
  Speaker 3: my own.
• 43:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah huge, that is trusted. Yeah, the universe, the God, whatever,
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: the spirit. But I still live next door to my
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: parents so well, I've loved having you here. Thank you,
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: thank you, thank you for choosing me to you on
• 44:12
  Speaker 1: your podcast.