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Dirty Little Secret:I'm in Love With A Older Man! · Billy The Kidd In The Morning

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  Speaker 1: Get it off your chest. It's Dirty Little Secret with
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  Speaker 1: Billy the Kid in the Morning on Mix 102.9. Anytime
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  Speaker 1: you want to confess. Anytime you want to confess, 833-787-1029.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't matter what it is. Candace, if you feel
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  Speaker 1: like you've got a dirty little secret you need to
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  Speaker 1: get off your chest, do it. Yeah, I might. You
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  Speaker 1: have no secrets. No, I don't. Maybe you do. Maybe
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  Speaker 1: you have the secrets and we just don't know about them,
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  Speaker 1: but I've known you for a long time. I know
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  Speaker 1: no good secrets.
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 1: I could get Pooh arrested right now with all the
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  Speaker 1: secrets I know about him. Either way. All right, if
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  Speaker 1: you got one, 833-787-1029. Just tell us about it. Confess
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  Speaker 1: any time you want. Go ahead. You got one.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm going to admit something that I literally I've
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  Speaker 3: never told anybody because I know you guys are going
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  Speaker 3: to make fun of me. I just know. I'm 30
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  Speaker 3: for some reason. The older I get, the more I've
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  Speaker 3: developed this really specific type. Okay. And I call them
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  Speaker 3: Home Depot Dads. Um, yeah. I mean, you know exactly
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  Speaker 3: what I'm talking about. It's older guys, like a little
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  Speaker 3: rough around the edges, maybe slightly frumpy, like dad bod
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  Speaker 3: faded jeans. Like I like the beat up work boots.
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  Speaker 3: It's the kind of, it's the kind of guy you
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  Speaker 3: see walking around home Depot at like eight 30 Saturday.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 3: And I don't, yeah, I don't know why I find
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  Speaker 3: it so hot.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on. Hold on. You find, okay. So this is your,
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  Speaker 1: and you sound young. You're 30, you said?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So you're into what you call Home Depot dads, which.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't... It makes no sense. Like, I get it.
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  Speaker 3: It makes no sense. Like, I'm young. Like, I'm cute. Like,
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  Speaker 3: I take care of myself. Like, if you saw me,
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  Speaker 3: you probably, like, you wouldn't guess. Like, that's my thing. But, like,
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  Speaker 3: I don't have some weird dad trauma, just before you ask.
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  Speaker 1: Like.
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  Speaker 3: My dad's in pretty good shape. Like he just, I
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  Speaker 3: don't know. He barely knows how to hang a picture
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  Speaker 3: on the wall. So it's like, I have no idea.
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  Speaker 1: That's funny because that's the first thing I was going
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  Speaker 1: to ask. I was like, do you have some kind
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  Speaker 1: of like weird thing with your dad where you like,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I don't know. Daddy issues. So you like frumpy, older,
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  Speaker 1: frumpy guys.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. I'm kind of dating one right now. We've gone
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  Speaker 3: out a few times. Like he's 54. rich like he's
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  Speaker 3: just totally like he's just a regular dude with a
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  Speaker 3: dad bod like he's just got work boots old jeans.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know my mind is blown right now I
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  Speaker 2: just don't I didn't expect it okay so you're he's
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  Speaker 2: 54 you're 30 yeah that's a pretty big age gap
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  Speaker 2: I know.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just really attracted to him. It's ridiculous. And I think,
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  Speaker 3: I don't know, he's confused why I'm into him. He's
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  Speaker 3: even made comments like, you know you could date somebody
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  Speaker 3: your own age, right? Like, you know. We've been dating
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  Speaker 3: just for a little while. I haven't brought him in
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  Speaker 3: around any of my friends or family because I already
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  Speaker 3: know they're going to be like, this.
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  Speaker 1: Is your boyfriend?
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  Speaker 3: And I don't know. I don't know where it's going.
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  Speaker 3: I definitely haven't told him that he basically checks every
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  Speaker 3: box in my extremely embarrassing Home Depot dad fantasy. But
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  Speaker 3: this is who I am now.
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  Speaker 1: I can't believe this.
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  Speaker 3: I don't know what it is. I'm just into it.
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  Speaker 3: I'm just into it.
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  Speaker 1: My Home Depot dad fantasy. It could be worse.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Could it? Could be a lot worse. I'm not saying
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  Speaker 1: it's bad. I'm just saying people are into what they're into.
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  Speaker 1: It doesn't. Hey, I'm not one to judge. I think
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  Speaker 1: Martha Stewart's incredibly attractive.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: She's 84. Yeah. You like Martha Stewart moms. I like. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Am I? Is that my. No, but I don't see that.
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  Speaker 2: You don't, though.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like a bunch of just older women who
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  Speaker 1: happen to be great homemakers. Just Martha. Just Martha. And
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  Speaker 1: I don't know what it's her. It's not my type, though.
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  Speaker 1: But I do get it. How would you do? get
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  Speaker 1: new things that you, I don't know, you start to
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  Speaker 1: change as a person. Now I'm attracted to this. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: It could be weirder. It could be.
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  Speaker 2: For sure.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. Candace is acting like this is somewhat normal.
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  Speaker 2: No, I'm just saying she could be like have a
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  Speaker 2: type that guys that are in jail, like, you.
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  Speaker 1: Know, weird stuff like that. Yeah, it's just Home Depot, dude.
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  Speaker 1: You've seen the TLC shows. Yeah, but I. My weird obsession.
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  Speaker 1: I guess my thing is I normally think, well, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. And I always thought the dad bod thing,
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  Speaker 1: you know, there was research coming out that the dad
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  Speaker 1: bod is actually more attractive than the guy that's in shape.
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  Speaker 1: I always thought that was completely ridiculous. I'm like, girls.
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  Speaker 1: would not prefer a dad bod over someone who's got
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  Speaker 1: a six pack.
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  Speaker 3: Well, it's intimate. Like a six pack is like, get
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  Speaker 3: over yourself. You know what I mean? Like it comes
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  Speaker 3: with a personality that you just don't need. Like there's
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  Speaker 3: just no point. And like dad bod, I'm not talking
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  Speaker 3: about like completely like let himself go. Like, you know,
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  Speaker 3: but just not, things are loose, you know?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Whatever you're into, you're into. But you said something that
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  Speaker 1: was very important to me. You said, I mean, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know where this is going. And that was my question.
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  Speaker 1: It's like, where is this going to go? If you
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  Speaker 1: don't want to tell everybody about this guy you're dating
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  Speaker 1: who's 54, Home Depot dad, I mean, do you continue
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  Speaker 1: to date him? You don't even think about the future, really.
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  Speaker 1: You're just doing what you do.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't know. I mean, he's divorced. he has
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  Speaker 3: no kids like it's not like I don't you know
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  Speaker 3: what I mean like we're not there's no pressure right
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  Speaker 3: now to figure anything out you're not getting into.
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  Speaker 2: Some messy past situation.
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  Speaker 3: Right okay no no he has an ex but it
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  Speaker 3: seems like it's fine yeah.
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  Speaker 1: You think like one day you might bring him around
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  Speaker 1: your friends or you don't know I don't know. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know.
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  Speaker 3: It's weird. I'm trying to figure it out. Like, I'm
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  Speaker 3: into it, but I don't know yet.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I don't like that. What's your daddy going to say?
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  Speaker 3: I mean, my dad will probably ask for help with something.
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  Speaker 1: Your dad's like, now I got a new friend. They
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  Speaker 1: might be the same age. Son-in-law? Future son-in-law who's older
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  Speaker 1: than me? Whatever. Listen, we in Dallas, we see this
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  Speaker 1: all the time, but there's usually one other factor. Usually
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  Speaker 1: the guy is rich.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Sugar daddy. It's a it's a guy who's. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: No, he just like he just pays his bills, you know.
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  Speaker 3: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Good. Well, good. That is good. So, hey, look, I.
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  Speaker 3: Dated a guy who like were, you know, like was
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  Speaker 3: kind of he wanted to like play his guitar all
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  Speaker 3: the time. And that was not going to work for us.
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  Speaker 1: And he didn't pay his bills. Yeah.
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  Speaker 3: He did not. He wanted me to pay his bills,
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  Speaker 3: so I don't want to do that.
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  Speaker 1: Did he have a six-pack?
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  Speaker 3: He did go to the gym.
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  Speaker 1: He did.
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  Speaker 3: He did. Protein was really important to him.
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  Speaker 1: He was protein maxing.
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  Speaker 2: All right.
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  Speaker 1: Well, thank you for the confession. I'm glad you got
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  Speaker 1: that off your chest. Please keep us up to date
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  Speaker 1: on what happens with Home Depot, Dad.
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  Speaker 2: I will.
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  Speaker 1: I will.
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  Speaker 2: Okay. All right.
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  Speaker 1: Good luck.
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  Speaker 3: Thank you.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe it's real love. Maybe it's real love, and I
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  Speaker 1: just don't know. Maybe.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe.
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  Speaker 1: You'll never know. I'd be shocked, but it wouldn't surprise
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  Speaker 1: me at this point. But, like, what happens if you're
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  Speaker 1: 54 and 30, and then what happens when she's 40? And,
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  Speaker 1: you know. Right.
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  Speaker 2: She'll eventually be building stuff for him.
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  Speaker 1: She'll need space. Yeah. She'll need space like Poo's ex. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: what are you saying? I'm just saying. Either way.