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- Lucas: So we're smack in the middle of the year — July third, 2026. And I've been thinking about something most of us skip: a mid-year career reset. Not a vacation, not a retreat — just a deliberate pause to ask, 'Am I on the right track?' Luna: I love that. Because I think a lot of people set goals in January, then just grind until December and wonder why they're burnt out. Lucas: Exactly. And there's actually good data on this. A Harvard Business Review study from 2024 found that professionals who paused for even one structured reflection session mid-year were 40 percent more likely to report satisfaction with their career trajectory at year-end. And the ones who did it quarterly saw a measurable salary growth advantage — about 8 percent higher over two years. Luna: That's not nothing. And I bet most people don't do it because they think they don't have time. Lucas: Right. So today I want to walk through a specific protocol — a 90-minute mid-year reset that you can do this weekend. I've seen it work for a marketing director who told me it tripled her chances of getting promoted. Let's break it down into three parts: a metrics review, a satisfaction score, and a one-sentence pivot statement. Luna: Okay, I'm taking notes. Let's start with the metrics review. Lucas: So step one: pull up the goals you set at the beginning of the year — or honestly, even if you didn't write them down, think about what you wanted to achieve by now. Then look at three numbers: how many projects you've completed, how many new skills you've gained, and how many meaningful connections you've made. Not just random metrics — these three predict career momentum. Luna: Wait — meaningful connections? That's not something most people track. Lucas: No, but they should. The same HBR study showed that professionals who reflected on network growth were twice as likely to receive a job offer or promotion in the following six months. So write down three people you've built a real relationship with this year — not just a LinkedIn request, but someone you've had a substantive conversation with. Luna: That's a good prompt. I can already think of two for me. But what if the numbers are low? Like, what if you haven't completed many projects? Lucas: Then that's useful information — it tells you whether you're overcommitted, or maybe you're working on things that don't count. The point isn't to judge yourself. It's to see the gap between intention and reality. Luna: Fair. And step two — the satisfaction score? Lucas: This one's simple: on a scale of one to ten, how satisfied are you with your current role? Not your company, not your commute — the actual day-to-day work. And then ask why. I like to break it into three dimensions: autonomy, mastery, and purpose. Rate each one from one to ten. Luna: Autonomy, mastery, purpose — that's a classic framework. It's from Daniel Pink's Drive, right? Lucas: Exactly. And it maps really well to career satisfaction. So if your autonomy score is a four, maybe you need to have a conversation with your manager about more flexibility. If mastery is low, maybe you're not learning enough — that's a sign to seek a stretch assignment or training. Luna: And purpose — that's the big one. If that's low, you might be in the wrong role entirely. Lucas: Right. And the beauty of doing this mid-year is you still have six months to course-correct. You're not stuck waiting for the annual review. Luna: So step one and two are about diagnosis. Step three is about action — the one-sentence pivot statement. Lucas: Yes. After you've reviewed your metrics and satisfaction scores, write one sentence that describes the adjustment you want to make. For example: 'I will spend the second half of the year focusing on two high-impact projects rather than spreading myself across five.' Or: 'I will proactively seek mentorship from senior leaders in the marketing division.' Luna: That's concrete. I like that it's not a vague goal like 'work less' or 'network more'. Lucas: Exactly. And you should share it with one person — an accountability partner, a friend, your manager if you trust them. The act of saying it out loud makes it real. The marketing director I mentioned — she wrote her pivot statement as: 'I will position myself for promotion by leading the Q3 product launch and documenting every outcome.' She showed it to her boss, and he put her on the launch team. Luna: And she got the promotion? Lucas: She did. She said the mid-year reset was the turning point because she stopped drifting and started being intentional. Luna: I want to try this. But I'm also thinking — what about people who feel like they can't spare 90 minutes? They're drowning in work right now. Lucas: Then I'd argue they're the ones who need it most. It's like the old saying: 'If you're too busy to sharpen the axe, you're working too hard with a dull blade.' Luna: Right. And honestly, if we've helped you think through a career move or decision, that's exactly why we do this show. We're listener-supported — no ads, no sponsors. A small group of people chip in monthly through buy me a coffee dot com slash fexingo, and that's what keeps us going. Lucas: Yeah, it means a lot. And it lets us keep the show exactly as it is — no fluff, just practical stuff you can use. Luna: So back to the reset — if someone only has 30 minutes, what's the most important part? Lucas: The satisfaction score. That's the quickest diagnostic. Rate autonomy, mastery, and purpose, and then write that one-sentence pivot. You can do that in 20 minutes and still get huge value. Luna: And the metrics review — could you do it informally? Like, just think back over the six months? Lucas: You could, but writing it down makes a difference. There's a 2023 study from Dominican University that showed people who wrote down their goals were 42 percent more likely to achieve them than those who just thought about them. So take five minutes to jot it down. Luna: Okay. So for our listeners — this weekend, carve out 90 minutes. Coffee, notebook, no distractions. Start with the three numbers, then the three scores, then the one sentence. Lucas: And if you want to share your pivot statement with us, we'd love to hear it. We're on social — we might read some on a future episode. But more importantly, share it with someone who'll hold you accountable. Luna: I know I'm going to do this. I've been feeling like I'm busy but not necessarily moving forward. This feels like a way to check that. Lucas: That's exactly the feeling. And look, if you do this and realize you're actually on the right track — that's great too. Sometimes the reset confirms you're doing the right things, and that's valuable in itself. Luna: So maybe the biggest boundary we need is the boundary against drifting — against letting the year happen to us instead of us happening to the year. Lucas: Perfectly put. So that's our challenge for this week: take 90 minutes, do the mid-year reset, and see what you find. We'll check back with you soon.