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Did Someone Slip Something Into Abby's Drink? · Scotty and Abby UNFILTERED

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  Speaker 1: Tampa Bay's Best music is.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome back to another episode of Scotty and Abby Unfiltered.
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  Speaker 2: We just got done with the episode that you probably
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  Speaker 2: have heard where Abby was getting completely trashed by our coworkers.
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  Speaker 1: They said kill that bitch twice, and.
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  Speaker 2: So we should make hats that say KTB. But I'm
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  Speaker 2: making merch. Yeah, you don't talk smack. We're gonna make money. Okay,
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  Speaker 2: I'm kidding. But we're not going to really dive into
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  Speaker 2: that right now because I'm still up in the air
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  Speaker 2: on if I want to bring one of them into
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  Speaker 2: the studio.
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  Speaker 1: I think we should. I do too, because I mean
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  Speaker 1: that's really ultimately I think what mean you both felt
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  Speaker 1: after listening was this could have been so much better radio.
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  Speaker 2: I think it would be an awesome opportunity to try
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  Speaker 2: to see eye to eye to air out any grievances. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: I was thinking about it over the weekend and I
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  Speaker 2: was like, I wonder though if it would turn into
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  Speaker 2: a fight.
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  Speaker 1: I think we're gonna fight.
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  Speaker 2: Well, I just like the uncomfortableness. Okay, so me naturally,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not a huge conflict person. So if they're two
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  Speaker 2: people that are going at it, I'm like even the
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  Speaker 2: thought of it, I'm getting chills down my spine. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: radio terms, I love it because I'm like, well that's
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  Speaker 2: entertaining and as long as it's like in all playful ways.
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  Speaker 1: I just can't think of anything that would go down
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  Speaker 1: in this room that would lead into like an actual brawl.
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  Speaker 2: I think the thing I'm worried about is like if
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  Speaker 2: something was said and you actually got hurt.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not as fragile as I look like. I know,
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  Speaker 1: I know that, but I mean you like, I'm more
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  Speaker 1: worried about them.
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  Speaker 2: Oh that's damn right, you know what? You know what
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  Speaker 2: actually that I take my statement back. I mean, I
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  Speaker 2: know you could hold your own, but I also, like
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  Speaker 2: I said in the podcast, I was like, it's just again,
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  Speaker 2: you're probably stronger will than I am. But like going
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  Speaker 2: into a new space and like you're finding out coworkers
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  Speaker 2: or talking shit, you're like, okay, yeah, I would be
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  Speaker 2: as I'm already like eternally self conscious. I'd be like, okay,
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  Speaker 2: everyone hates me. I'm gonna walk around my head down.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I appreciate your conscientiousness about that. I think that's
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  Speaker 1: very sweet of you to think of me. I I
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  Speaker 1: think it's because this isn't like a this isn't a
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  Speaker 1: pain point for me.
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  Speaker 2: You know what I mean.
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  Speaker 1: I my ultimate goal in creating content is creating things
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  Speaker 1: that make people laugh, that resonate with people. And so
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  Speaker 1: if these were videos that didn't perform well and people
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  Speaker 1: were talking about them, yeah, I would feel really insecure
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  Speaker 1: and I would feel a little embarrassed and did I
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  Speaker 1: go about this wrong? And yeah, maybe my philosophy wasn't right.
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  Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, I made content
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  Speaker 1: I think is really funny that you stand on that
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  Speaker 1: I stand on, and that other people think is funny,
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  Speaker 1: if it didn't resonate with them because they misinterpreted what
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  Speaker 1: I was saying, like that's a skill issue, you know
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  Speaker 1: what I mean, Like that's not it's not it's not
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  Speaker 1: a me issue, because it's not like these videos are flopping,
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  Speaker 1: you know what I mean. I'm not saying, oh, I'm
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  Speaker 1: going so viral, but they're getting hundreds and hundreds of shares,
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  Speaker 1: thousands of likes, tens of thousands of views.
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  Speaker 2: So you're not I'm not gonna stop just because you
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  Speaker 2: never hate.
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  Speaker 1: That's what I'm trying to say is like I'm proud
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  Speaker 1: of that content. I think it's funny, and ultimately that's
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  Speaker 1: my way of ingratiating myself in the Tampa market. Whereas
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  Speaker 1: I know they don't know my history with Tampa, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm not some random newbie. I've been coming to Tampa
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  Speaker 1: my whole life, and my relationship to Tampa is that
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  Speaker 1: of like a friend. And what do you do with
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  Speaker 1: your friends. You don't just hype them up constantly. You
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  Speaker 1: roast your friends, You dig in on their little quirks
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  Speaker 1: because you have that relationship. For me, if anything, that
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  Speaker 1: was my way of trying to show the Tampa Bay
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  Speaker 1: area that I am.
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  Speaker 2: Observing of what's going on here.
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  Speaker 1: I already understand the little nuances that happen here. This
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  Speaker 1: isn't my first rodeo. To me, the newbie thing to
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  Speaker 1: do would be to do what I did on a
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  Speaker 1: video I did where I was asking, hey, girls, what
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  Speaker 1: do I wear the lightning game? You know me likes
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  Speaker 1: that video? Got that got twenty likes because nobody cares
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  Speaker 1: that I'm new to Tampa and.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know what to wear to a lightning game.
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  Speaker 1: But if I can show that I have a if
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  Speaker 1: I have insider knowledge as the inside jokes into the
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  Speaker 1: things that happen here, and I can poke fun and
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  Speaker 1: make good, clever jokes to me.
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  Speaker 2: That's my way of saying, Tampa Bay, I get you.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah see, I like that. In'sa authentic You're just being
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  Speaker 2: who you are. You're joking around, and it reminds me
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  Speaker 2: of the influencer Tampa Brie, who's the realtor who her
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  Speaker 2: whole stick is. She bashes a house, She's like, this
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  Speaker 2: house looks like they had a bunch of three sums
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  Speaker 2: in here. It's too like what the heck kind of.
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  Speaker 2: It's so funny though, but that's why I watched the
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  Speaker 2: whole thing. And I don't give a dang about the house.
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  Speaker 2: I don't want it, but it's so entertaining. I'm like
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  Speaker 2: it worked because it's satirical and it's funny.
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  Speaker 1: If she was going around to those houses being like,
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  Speaker 1: look at these marrable cants, like that's what you watch
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  Speaker 1: HGTV war exactly, And there's a market for that, of course.
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  Speaker 1: But at the end of the day, as a twenty eight,
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  Speaker 1: twenty nine year old chick on my Instagram and I
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  Speaker 1: scroll by and I see her going, oh my god,
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  Speaker 1: look at the taj mahal, Yeah, countertops, I'm not paying
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  Speaker 1: attention to that.
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  Speaker 2: That's true. And again I like what you said. It's
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  Speaker 2: like you can't make me feel bad about something that
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  Speaker 2: I don't feel bad about. Like yeah, as in like
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  Speaker 2: you can't like make me insecure about something I don't
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  Speaker 2: feel insecure about. Like Okay, you guys are saying that,
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  Speaker 2: but it doesn't impact me. That's what I mean. You can't.
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  Speaker 1: I don't feel inferior or by it because I I
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  Speaker 1: like what I put.
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  Speaker 2: Out and it's honestly, I guess that's like you rattled
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  Speaker 2: the cage, which is good, and you made the noise
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  Speaker 2: and let them talk and that's awesome and we won't
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  Speaker 2: bring them in. Okay, that's good. I'm glad we had
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  Speaker 2: the discussion because I want to have that discussion with
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  Speaker 2: everybody and just see their point of view too, because
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  Speaker 2: I'm like, this is what hopefully a good conversation turns into.
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  Speaker 2: It is like where people could start to see eye
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  Speaker 2: to eye, but usually happens is like it's just so
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  Speaker 2: far off and I don't understand how people can understand it.
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  Speaker 2: And so I sit here with like my hand on
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  Speaker 2: my head and I'm like, how do you not understand
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  Speaker 2: what she's doing? Okay, I guess you just live in
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  Speaker 2: that bubble. But we'll bring them in.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I guess Ultimately I'm fine. But there's nothing they
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  Speaker 1: could come in and say to me that's gonna make
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  Speaker 1: me like go home and cry.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, good.
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  Speaker 1: Unless they actually have deep seated dislike for me, then
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  Speaker 1: that's different. Then that's something I don't The thing is,
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  Speaker 1: I don't think that they do.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think they can. You literally can't because you
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  Speaker 2: don't know who you are. You don't that's just if
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  Speaker 2: it's kind of like somebody on the internet right now,
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  Speaker 2: if they just hate me, I'm like, oh my gosh,
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  Speaker 2: like that sucks. But I literally don't know you and
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  Speaker 2: you don't know me, so it's kind of a weird
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  Speaker 2: place to put your hate.
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  Speaker 1: It's yeah, it's because you represent something that they have
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  Speaker 1: a history with, and I think just being in this position,
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  Speaker 1: it takes a couple of years for you to get
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  Speaker 1: those scabs over those emotions, whereas people will project so
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  Speaker 1: many things on you that at some point it starts
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  Speaker 1: to feel not normal, but it's it stops feeling like
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  Speaker 1: this is a personal attack.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, oh yeah, you see, it's like that's them literally projecting, Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I poke something in you that hurts, and so you're like, ah,
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  Speaker 2: I gotta tell you about that hurt, but I'm gonna
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  Speaker 2: make it seem like you're the worm that did all
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  Speaker 2: the wrong exactly.
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  Speaker 1: So when I hear you know, bury that bitch or
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  Speaker 1: I hate that bit, like, it doesn't feel personal because
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, I don't really understand this is this is something,
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  Speaker 1: but it's not about me.
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  Speaker 2: What about those names, though, because I feel like when
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  Speaker 2: I hear those names, I'm like, god, man to call
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  Speaker 2: somebody like a bitch, I'm like, ah, different style of radio.
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  Speaker 2: I know those guys do it all the time. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: I never do that because it just feels way too
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  Speaker 2: cringe derogatory. I don't like it. How does it hit you?
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  Speaker 1: My opinion is that the word bitch, when it's used
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  Speaker 1: towards a woman by a man, it hits.
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  Speaker 2: Derogatory with me.
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  Speaker 1: But I also recognize that that's a word they're probably
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  Speaker 1: really desensitized to. And so back to what we were
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  Speaker 1: saying with our video, if you take ten seconds to
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  Speaker 1: really think about where they're coming from, they're not calling
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  Speaker 1: me a bitch because I'm some crazy woman who has
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  Speaker 1: wild opinions. That's just what they call women constantly. Do
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  Speaker 1: I agree with it? Do I think women should be
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  Speaker 1: called bitches by men? No? No, But I also recognize
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  Speaker 1: that to them, when they say the word bitch, it's
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  Speaker 1: not coming out as harsh as it's hitting with me.
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  Speaker 2: That's okay, that's valid because I have heard their show
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  Speaker 2: before and I hear that a lot.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, okay, they call every woman a bitch, and so
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  Speaker 1: I think it is derogatory. But at the same time,
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  Speaker 1: I recognize that their intent is probably not to be derogatory. Well,
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  Speaker 1: I mean, maybe it is to be derogatory, but maybe
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  Speaker 1: they're so conceald they use it so consistently that it
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  Speaker 1: feels more normal to them than it sounds to me.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's just another word for them that they're going
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  Speaker 2: to And if you didn't listen to that episode, I
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  Speaker 2: did is broke down everything that they were kind of
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  Speaker 2: talking about and did the little pieces. You could actually
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  Speaker 2: listen to that on the last episode. But today I
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  Speaker 2: want to talk about how you actually did go out
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  Speaker 2: and Brace Tampa. You went all out in Brace Tampa
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  Speaker 2: and it actually ended up biting in the ass. And
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  Speaker 2: it seems like the worst way. But I think this
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  Speaker 2: conversation is going to take the turn that I think
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  Speaker 2: it needs based off of what you told me. Because
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  Speaker 2: on Friday you were talking about how you're going out,
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  Speaker 2: You're gonna get your hair, did you're gonna go out?
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  Speaker 2: And the crappy thing was is I know, now, well
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  Speaker 2: you know when you get your hair, did you want
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  Speaker 2: to go show the town? And so you told me
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  Speaker 2: and Alexia You're like, we should go out. Plans literally
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  Speaker 2: fall through, Like that sucks.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, this story I'm about to tell you was actually
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  Speaker 1: all you and Alexia's fault.
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  Speaker 2: I feel like it is we are the problem. I'm
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  Speaker 2: gonna play Alexia first. I'm just joking. But as I
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  Speaker 2: saw Abby was like going out out, I was getting
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  Speaker 2: my car fixed, and so I was like, ah, sorry, girl,
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  Speaker 2: I ain't gonna be able to get out there. You
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  Speaker 2: go have a great time out in downtown Tampa, which
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  Speaker 2: you have a couple spots in mind, What spots did
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  Speaker 2: you hit and up until the moment that you texted me,
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  Speaker 2: what happened in that couple hour window.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm a little annoyed because the one area of
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  Speaker 1: Tampa that I have found that I really enjoy going
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  Speaker 1: out to because I'm a city girl. Is I love
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  Speaker 1: going to the part of Tampa that feels the most
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  Speaker 1: like a walkable city to me, and.
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  Speaker 2: That is Channel Side.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I recognize it makes me basic, it makes me
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  Speaker 1: very transplant s.
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  Speaker 2: That's the whole point of the area. It is beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: The buildings are beautiful, the water is beautiful, the people
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  Speaker 2: are beautiful, the food is beautiful. Like every part of
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  Speaker 2: that was made to exactly that moment.
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  Speaker 1: Every single time I go out to Channel Side by myself,
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  Speaker 1: this is now two for two. There's always some kind
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  Speaker 1: of major sporting event that ruins my plans.
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  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, because that was the tournament for basketball.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, because last two weeks ago, I went out because
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  Speaker 1: I'd got my hair. There's a pattern here. I got
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  Speaker 1: my hair done and there was a lightning game. So
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  Speaker 1: I'd pay sixty hours for parking and couldn't get in
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  Speaker 1: anywhere that I wanted to sit down. I wanted to
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  Speaker 1: go sit at the Pearl I have a little gab
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  Speaker 1: with someone, and it was completely packed because it was
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  Speaker 1: a lightning game. So I'd go to the addition, which
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  Speaker 1: just wasn't really the plan. Whatever, it's fine. So then
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  Speaker 1: on Friday, I was like, it's a beautiful day, it's
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  Speaker 1: gorgeous out, my hair is done. I finally got my license.
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  Speaker 1: I let me take my new license. Fir a spin.
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna walk down to Channel Side and I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: get a Margara or I'm gonna do something by myself.
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  Speaker 2: Uh huh.
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  Speaker 1: And so I get down the Channel Side. It's the
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  Speaker 1: March Madness Tournament, which is so great. So I wore
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  Speaker 1: my little UF hat and I'm like, maybe I'll find
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  Speaker 1: some gators. It'll be great.
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  Speaker 2: That'd that's smart?
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  Speaker 1: Did you?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah? That intentionally like thinking I'm going to find somebody
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  Speaker 2: and that's an easy connection. Boom. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Well, first of all, I was like, I look cute
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  Speaker 1: in this hat. Second of all, I was like, the
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  Speaker 1: gators are literally playing.
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  Speaker 2: I need to support.
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  Speaker 1: Third, I'm like, this is a good conversation starter. So
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  Speaker 1: I go to Channel Side.
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  Speaker 2: It is a freaking madhouse.
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  Speaker 1: Thank god I could walk to it, because I'm like,
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  Speaker 1: if I had driven down there, no, absolutely not.
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  Speaker 2: So I get down there.
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  Speaker 1: It's a madhouse and I'm just trying to find an
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  Speaker 1: open bar seat. So I'm walking past the addition I'm
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  Speaker 1: walking past the Pearl. I'm walking past the place next
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  Speaker 1: to the Pearl, that pizza beer place, and finally everything
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  Speaker 1: is just I mean, it's like an ant hill, Like
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  Speaker 1: that's how freaking packed it is. But it's such a
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  Speaker 1: gorgeous day out, and I look so good that I
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  Speaker 1: was like, I'm not sitting in my house. I'm not
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  Speaker 1: sitting in my house today.
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  Speaker 2: Look in this damn good.
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  Speaker 1: So I walk past the pizza beer wings place that's
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  Speaker 1: next to the Pearl, and I walk towards Sparkmanmhor, which
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  Speaker 1: I have been once and I thought it was super cute.
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  Speaker 1: So I'm like, I'm gonna go back to Sparkmanworf. So
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  Speaker 1: I go to Sparkmanwharf and I'm like, you know what
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  Speaker 1: sounds really good right now is a fat margarita. And
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  Speaker 1: I find an empty bar seat, and I asked the
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  Speaker 1: guy sitting there. I was like, it's anyone sitting there? Like, no,
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  Speaker 1: you are, So I sit down and I immediately get
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  Speaker 1: start getting chatted up by the guy to my left,
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  Speaker 1: the guy to my right. It's a it's a march men,
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  Speaker 1: this duo. One's there to support duke. One's just there
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  Speaker 1: to support his friend. They're in their mid forties. They're
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  Speaker 1: being very nice to me, not in a creepy way,
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  Speaker 1: but just chatty with me. The guy in my left
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  Speaker 1: is my age, kind of a sweet, wholesome dude. And
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  Speaker 1: I'm sitting there ordering my margarita and I'm having like
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  Speaker 1: a lovely afternoon. I'm talking with these strangers. We're having
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  Speaker 1: a good time. And then about halfway through my margarita,
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  Speaker 1: the guy in my right goes, oh, we should take
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  Speaker 1: a shot, and I was like, oh, okay, I'll take one.
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  Speaker 1: He goes, what do you want, like a white tea,
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  Speaker 1: green tea? And I said, no, I'm drinking tequila. So
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  Speaker 1: I'm gonna stick with tequila because because the thing about
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  Speaker 1: me is Tequila's my very even keeled alcohol. Vodka's a
• 12:34
  Speaker 1: different story. If you ever see me drinking vodka, something's amiss,
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  Speaker 1: something is deeply wrong. Call me gaprasod I turn. You
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  Speaker 1: know how everyone always says, oh, tequila makes me crazy,
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  Speaker 1: makes my clothes fall off, all those things.
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  Speaker 2: That's how I feel about vodka.
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  Speaker 1: Wow, if I have too much vodka, I'm texting guys
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  Speaker 1: I haven't spoken to in ten years.
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  Speaker 2: I'm a savage. It's embarrassing.
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  Speaker 1: It's not a fun drunk wine is sappy and cute,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm commenting on all your Instagram stories. Tequila's bear
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  Speaker 1: even keeled. And then vodka crazy Abby comes out.
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  Speaker 2: Wow, wow, Oh.
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  Speaker 1: What the point I'm trying to make with the shot
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  Speaker 1: story is, I'm very cognizant about what I'm drinking and
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  Speaker 1: how much I'm drinking.
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  Speaker 2: I'm not like a I'm not somebody who.
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  Speaker 1: Goes and gets hammered every weekend and comes back to
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  Speaker 1: my house and doesn't remember what happens.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and so far you've just had you have what
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  Speaker 2: you're one margarite in front of you. I have one.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, granted it's a big margarita, of course, but
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  Speaker 1: I'm drinking it and I feel fine. I'm like, God,
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  Speaker 1: I could probably do another one if I want it.
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  Speaker 1: So anyway, I'm halfway through this margarita. I specifically asked
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  Speaker 1: for the tequila because I'm trying to stick with one
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  Speaker 1: alcohol because otherwise it makes me, it makes my stomach upset. Yeah,
• 13:33
  Speaker 1: so I take the Tila shot. I feel fine. I'm
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: actually eating the guy's food next to me. He's sharing
• 13:38
  Speaker 1: his case a deal with me. Forty five year old
• 13:43
  Speaker 1: nice all right, No, no, no, it's not like that.
• 13:45
  Speaker 1: But like he's like, oh, he seemed actually very like
• 13:49
  Speaker 1: a good dude. People are talking about his divorce. I'm
• 13:51
  Speaker 1: asking him questions about his divorce. He's got a new
• 13:53
  Speaker 1: younger girl for He's like, my girlfriend's thirty and like,
• 13:54
  Speaker 1: that's a little weird. But because he's like facetiming, I
• 13:57
  Speaker 1: can tell that he's.
• 13:58
  Speaker 2: A good guy.
• 13:59
  Speaker 1: Because I I did something where I did that little
• 14:02
  Speaker 1: clap thing I do with my fingers that they do
• 14:03
  Speaker 1: on theve Island. Yes, and he was like, oh my god,
• 14:05
  Speaker 1: I need to tell my girlfriend about this. She'll probably
• 14:07
  Speaker 1: think this is so funny. I was like, send a
• 14:08
  Speaker 1: video of me doing it, and he goes. He doesn't
• 14:10
  Speaker 1: point it to me, he points it to himself and
• 14:12
  Speaker 1: he does it to his girlfriend and send it to her.
• 14:14
  Speaker 1: And I'm like, oh, that guy is someone being cognizant
• 14:17
  Speaker 1: about his girlfriend's feelings. Oh and that makes sense, yeah,
• 14:20
  Speaker 1: because something he just entered a video.
• 14:21
  Speaker 2: But I saw him do it.
• 14:22
  Speaker 1: I was like, oh, that's a that was a cognizant
• 14:24
  Speaker 1: move to not make her feel weird that he's sitting
• 14:26
  Speaker 1: there with me.
• 14:27
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I's sitting next to a year So anyway, like.
• 14:30
  Speaker 1: Two hours later, they all leave. The guy to my
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: left leaves, the duo to my right leaves, and it's
• 14:34
  Speaker 1: just me and they've ordered me another margarita, and I
• 14:36
  Speaker 1: was like, oh my god, that's so nice. They covered
• 14:37
  Speaker 1: my tab. It was great.
• 14:38
  Speaker 2: Oh hell yeah.
• 14:39
  Speaker 1: Literally, so I'm like, yeah, I'm I'm gonna like finish
• 14:41
  Speaker 1: this Margarite's gonna be great. But then I have about
• 14:43
  Speaker 1: three SIPs of that next margarita and something is a miss,
• 14:48
  Speaker 1: something dangerous is a foot at the circle k in
• 14:50
  Speaker 1: my stomach. Oh my, and I start going I think
• 14:53
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna throw up, which is so weird because literally
• 14:55
  Speaker 1: the timeline is I left my house around four forty five.
• 14:59
  Speaker 1: It's it's now maybe seven pm. So I've had one
• 15:02
  Speaker 1: margarita and a shot.
• 15:04
  Speaker 2: Of tequila and a two hour window.
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: In a two hour window and a taco, so like
• 15:09
  Speaker 1: it's not like I'm on an empty stomach. I'm eating,
• 15:12
  Speaker 1: I'm drinking, I'm doing all the things, chips, case, all
• 15:14
  Speaker 1: the things. And I start to think something is dangerously wrong.
• 15:19
  Speaker 1: So I call my uber. The uber takes me to
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: my house. I get out of my uber and I
• 15:24
  Speaker 1: don't know. If I'm looking back on this, I'm like,
• 15:26
  Speaker 1: was I so drunk that I was like standing outside
• 15:29
  Speaker 1: the car for too long?
• 15:30
  Speaker 2: Which I don't think that I was.
• 15:31
  Speaker 1: But anyway, I get.
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: Outside the car, the door's open.
• 15:33
  Speaker 1: I'm trying to shut the door, and the Uber driver
• 15:36
  Speaker 1: jets off like and I'm literally screaming, I'm like, dude,
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: your car door, and so he pulls back around. He
• 15:43
  Speaker 1: gets out of the car and like shuts the door.
• 15:45
  Speaker 1: What in the world so bizarre. I get into my house,
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: I get into the shower, and I cannot remember the
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: last time I was just drunk. And it's the most
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: bizarre experience because it's not like, oh I've been because
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: literally last weekend, my mom and I were marathon drinking
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: from and.
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: You guys came out with us and we didn't drink
• 16:02
  Speaker 2: it every single bar, yeah to twelve.
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: Pm, Like we were going, going, going, and I was
• 16:06
  Speaker 1: perfectly fine that day. So all of a sudden, I
• 16:09
  Speaker 1: go out to this Mexican restaurant. I have one margarita
• 16:12
  Speaker 1: and a shot of tequila, and I am the sickest
• 16:14
  Speaker 1: I've been in years off alcohol. Like I can't remember
• 16:18
  Speaker 1: the last time I got that sick.
• 16:20
  Speaker 2: See. The thing that comes to me immediately is like,
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: when you're telling me this, I was like, there's no
• 16:24
  Speaker 2: way that that would have equated to literally in the shower,
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: like throw it up. There's no way. One Margaret, I
• 16:30
  Speaker 2: don't care how big it could be, the Jumbo thirty two,
• 16:33
  Speaker 2: like the Bartenders specific, like, they don't make it that
• 16:36
  Speaker 2: strong and it takes you so long to drink it
• 16:38
  Speaker 2: that it kind of evens you out. Yeah, the first
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: thought was I was like, I don't I don't think
• 16:44
  Speaker 2: it's the restaurants like I do think though it's a
• 16:47
  Speaker 2: potential that you might have been drugged.
• 16:50
  Speaker 1: I've been drugged once, and this experience didn't feel like
• 16:53
  Speaker 1: being drugged to me.
• 16:54
  Speaker 2: You don't think how else would you have gotten so
• 16:56
  Speaker 2: sick so fast?
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: I don't know, because I didn't start feeling bad it
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: until I had the second margarita. And I do have
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: this theory about the second drink is do you ever
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: notice when you get a glass of wine, the first
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: poor is always like five ounces, and then you get
• 17:09
  Speaker 1: order a second glass of wine and they always fill
• 17:11
  Speaker 1: it to the brim. Oh yes, I wonder if because
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: the tab was covered maybe he'd already gotten a big
• 17:17
  Speaker 1: tip if the bartender gave me like a crazy amount
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: of tequila in the second drink, because I felt totally
• 17:24
  Speaker 1: fine until I started drinking the second market?
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: Did you finish the second market?
• 17:27
  Speaker 1: I had maybe three SIPs of it.
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: That's the part to me that I'm like, Okay, even
• 17:30
  Speaker 2: if it was that much tequila, I could, as somebody
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: that rarely drinks, I could probably do like a couple
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: of shots in tequila right now and be like, all right,
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: We're fine.
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: That that is the weird thing.
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: That's why I'm like, why would you get six so quick?
• 17:43
  Speaker 2: And to the extent that you're like even thinking, like
• 17:46
  Speaker 2: what happened? How did I get on a car? Like
• 17:49
  Speaker 2: what you told me? Like like it was was it
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: a little spotty when you went home? And like a
• 17:54
  Speaker 2: little I'll be honest with you, but here's the thing.
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: So I'll tell you my experience of being drug the
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: first time and the only time I've ever been drugged.
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: And I know that there are different date rape drugs.
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: H I think the one I was given was GHB,
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: And I'll tell you why. So the first time, this
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: was such a convoluted story. So I was twenty two,
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: is my first year post grad. I was living in Jacksonville.
• 18:16
  Speaker 1: I met this guy out that I was talking to mumble.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: We date him form a couple months afterwards. It's like
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: the whole thing. But what I'm trying to say is
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: I wasn't drinking that much. I was having a couple
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: of vodka sodas and I was eating in between. I
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: remember I did get a little nervous at one point
• 18:28
  Speaker 1: where I started drinking a little bit more because I'm
• 18:30
  Speaker 1: talking to this guy and he's so cute. But here's
• 18:32
  Speaker 1: where things I noticed started getting really weird because I
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: wasn't able to stand up. So what's funny is I'm
• 18:37
  Speaker 1: talking to this guy that I've been talking to on
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: bumble and he's like so excited to ask me out.
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: And he's like, well, can we go out tomorrow? And
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: I was like sure, but you have to like ask me,
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: like you have to ask me out on a proper See,
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: he's so cute, and so he was so cute. He
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: got on one knee and like said, will you go
• 18:51
  Speaker 1: out with me tomorrow?
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: I mean it was just really fun. One am.
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: You know, we're both drunk, and so he stands up,
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: and in doing so, he kind of knocks me. He
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: jostles me a litle little bit, but not to the
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: point where it was like anything crazy. But I couldn't
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: stand up.
• 19:05
  Speaker 2: Good lord, So you're just and so there's all these.
• 19:07
  Speaker 1: Guys in this bar who think he's just pushed me.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Oh great, there's guys trying to fight him. My friends
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: are dragging me out of the bar. When I got home,
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: she's like, yeah, you were just Look. I was a
• 19:17
  Speaker 1: little mad about this because she was like, yeah, I
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: left because like you were just staring at me and
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: you wouldn't say anything. And I'm like, Okay, do you
• 19:23
  Speaker 1: not think that maybe something much wrong?
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: Like that's kind of a sign right there, I might
• 19:26
  Speaker 2: not be the same person.
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: But the reason I know I was drugged is a
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: because I couldn't stand up or really like move my
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: limbs and nonverbal. But I also woke up and there
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: was shit everywhere, like poop really, yes, all over my bathroom,
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: all over my bed, like I everything was cleared out.
• 19:48
  Speaker 1: Which when I told my friend that, my friend who's
• 19:50
  Speaker 1: a part of the community, I said, yeah, the only
• 19:52
  Speaker 1: time I've been drugged was I knew I was drugged
• 19:54
  Speaker 1: a because I couldn't stand went nonverbal. I've never really
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: blacked out before, don't remember anything, and I woke up
• 20:02
  Speaker 1: covered in shit and she was like, Oh, I bet
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: you they gave you GHB.
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: That is GHB.
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: GHB is a drug that I have been told by
• 20:11
  Speaker 1: this friend. And maybe I'm getting the drug name wrong,
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: but she said there is a specific drug that some
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: people in the community will use a because it clears
• 20:18
  Speaker 1: out your bowels, but be also you know, kind of
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: exhibits those.
• 20:22
  Speaker 2: Kinds of yeah, those symptoms.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: Those symptoms as well, And so that didn't happen to me.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: I just threw up like crazy. But I also didn't
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: have a ton of that drink, like I had like
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: two or three SIPs.
• 20:32
  Speaker 2: See that's the part that's just that's so crazy to me.
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: It's so scary. I had one friend at one time.
• 20:36
  Speaker 2: I remember like we went out to a bar in
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: Saint Pete and it was like maybe just one drink
• 20:40
  Speaker 2: in and all of a sudden they were just gone, yeah, gone,
• 20:44
  Speaker 2: like and I had a friend have to take them
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: home and everything like that, and I remember like, why
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: are they so belligit? And then we found out like, oh, yeah,
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: they're definitely drugged afterwards, like they they had like a
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: friend that was able to take them home and stay
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: with them, and they're okay, but it was it was
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: like a switch all of a sudden, They're falling all
• 20:59
  Speaker 2: over over all of a sudden, they can't really have
• 21:01
  Speaker 2: a good conversation with you, and I'm like, we've been
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: here for like ten minutes. This is insane. And that's
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: the part that's so terrifying. And that's where you know,
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: obviously it should never happen, but it sucks that it
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: happened on the one time that you're like, I'm well,
• 21:16
  Speaker 2: and again, I don't know what happened at the bar
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: on Friday, Yeah, but signs look very similar.
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: We really need to like put a disclaimer. I'm not
• 21:23
  Speaker 1: saying this bar drug being No, I don't think. No,
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: we didn't give the name of that.
• 21:27
  Speaker 2: No, there's no bars name of it. Again, it's like
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: it's not the bar that I think is the problem.
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: It's just like the bigger conversation is like you really
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: always have to be like, who the heck am I
• 21:37
  Speaker 2: sitting next to? What the heck are their intentions? Where
• 21:39
  Speaker 2: the heck is my drinking? I don't even at that
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: you don't even know.
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: I don't think those guys did anything because they left
• 21:44
  Speaker 1: and then they got the margarita. Do you. And I'm
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: not saying the bartender did anything either. I'm not even
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: saying my drink was drugged.
• 21:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just for me, it's just it sounds like
• 21:54
  Speaker 2: it might have been.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: Yes, And I think it's good that I have. I
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: have really good survival instincts because.
• 21:59
  Speaker 2: I got to get an over immediately, just like because.
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I immediately can clock when I feel sick, because
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: that's my body's reaction. If I had have too much
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: to drink, my body will instantly go into get it
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: out mode, which is great. Thank you, Thank you. Body
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: appreciated that. It's one of the reasons I don't like
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: weed is because when I feel like I get too high,
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: there's nothing you can do about it. Like you're just high,
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: that's just what it is. Whereas when you're too drunk,
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: I feel like my body goes, Okay, I need to
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: get this out.
• 22:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, can get it out.
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: So anyway, it is scary. It does make me wonder
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: can I go out by myself? Like can I sit
• 22:31
  Speaker 1: and have a drink at a bar? Or a restaurant
• 22:33
  Speaker 1: and not be afraid of like something happening to me.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Oh see, that's so. And women have to face this
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: thought way more than men.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I like will, but men can get drugged too, absolutely.
• 22:44
  Speaker 2: I you know, it's it's foolish of me to think
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: that I can't go out and like have a moment
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: like this. Yeah, it's never happened. I'm very grateful. I'm
• 22:50
  Speaker 2: knock on the studio to desk for it, because it's
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: not something I even think about consciously. I'll walk around
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: like I was the other night when we went out
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: and after you all went, I went to another bar
• 23:00
  Speaker 2: and before my buddy got there, I just walk around
• 23:03
  Speaker 2: is bobbing with people with an open drink. I'm like,
• 23:05
  Speaker 2: at any point, bam, bam, it could just happen in
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: minutes and nobody would know. And it's how how do
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: you not how do you prevent? But how do you protect?
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: In that case? Like, because you should be able to
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: go out in downtown Tampa and say I'm gonna go
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: sit at a nice bar and have a drink and
• 23:20
  Speaker 2: feel like, no matter what, I'm protected.
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: And to be fair, nine point nine out of ten times,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: I'm fine correct it just it only takes one time
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: for something to go wrong. And it is funny because
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: I'm such a proponent of buying those drug testing strips,
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: and I bring them every time I travel alone, but
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: I've never I always bring them with me and I
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: never use them because you know, we want to know
• 23:40
  Speaker 1: why I always have a false sense of security of
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: this place. Seems fine, Ah, that's the but you know,
• 23:46
  Speaker 1: am I gonna am I gonna test every drink I have?
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Now when I go out by myself, I probably should. Yeah.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: I think if you're going out alone, then yeah, it's
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: like if you're with friends or you have a friend nearby,
• 23:55
  Speaker 2: it's like, okay, god forbid. You guys are looking out
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: for each other. You know, you know this, you know
• 24:00
  Speaker 2: the things whatever. But if you're out of the bar alone,
• 24:02
  Speaker 2: you're like, all right, now, it's gonna take the quick,
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: little three seconds, a little dip this in here and
• 24:05
  Speaker 2: take it out and see what happens. I wish there
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: was a better way though, for like, because I do
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: love a classy drink where it like looks nice in
• 24:11
  Speaker 2: a glass. And then you know, I know there's some
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: bars that like don't now cover it to make sure
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: that nothing could be put in there. But I wish
• 24:19
  Speaker 2: there's just an easier way to protect or just feel
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: a little more secure if you are going out alone,
• 24:23
  Speaker 2: because there's so many nice bars you just sit at,
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: vibe at, and even if you're like getting pretty tipsy,
• 24:28
  Speaker 2: like that's still fun to do alone. No, I know
• 24:30
  Speaker 2: that's what I did, yeah, and like feel protected and safe. Yeah,
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: So I guess.
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: Maybe that's just what I need to do moving forward.
• 24:36
  Speaker 1: And maybe that'll make me look a little weird for
• 24:37
  Speaker 1: a minute at a bar. But I always think before
• 24:41
  Speaker 1: something really horrible happens, you get some kind of warning
• 24:45
  Speaker 1: shot like this Absolulu, and I don't want to be
• 24:48
  Speaker 1: in For example, I'm going to Italy next year. If
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: I'm sitting at a bar by myself in Italy, I
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: don't want to certainly be in a position to where
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: I wake up and I go I don't know where
• 24:57
  Speaker 1: I am and I don't know what's happened.
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: To me or I could be dead, you know what
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: I mean, like or being trafficked. Yeah, horrible. So what
• 25:02
  Speaker 2: is the link for these Like not the link, but
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: like what are these strips called? Because I've never seen
• 25:06
  Speaker 2: anybody pull these out. I've never seen these online.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: You can get the money Amazon. They are really expensive, though,
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: are they really? That's what's crazy is like, oh my god,
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: so not only you're paying twenty dollars for a cocktail
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: every time you go to the edition. You know, this
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: is like a two dollars strip.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Okay, but I think that's actually very Again, if it's
• 25:22
  Speaker 2: you're going out, I would say by yourself, by yourself.
• 25:24
  Speaker 1: But the thing is is nowadays I do go out
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: a lot by myself because that's kind of what I
• 25:29
  Speaker 1: have to do. Like I'll be texting people will be like, Hey,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: it's Friday. What do you guys want to do?
• 25:32
  Speaker 2: Alexia Scott, do you want to go? Nope, can't do it.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: And this is what happened. I know, you see that
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: we don't go out one time. Next thing you know,
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: you're flying home in an uber throwing up in the shower.
• 25:40
  Speaker 2: I know, my bad.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: So this is on you, Scott.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 25:43
  Speaker 1: It's definitely not the ten shots of tequila I allegedly had.
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: We'll go out to Top Club on Sunday. I'll go
• 25:50
  Speaker 2: up to that together. Who is this man that you're
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: sitting next to? The thirty year old, there's nothing there.
• 25:54
  Speaker 1: No, And I felt bad and all. This is again
• 25:57
  Speaker 1: prime example of me doing what I think women should do.
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: Is you don't embarrass somebody in public, but then you
• 26:03
  Speaker 1: shut them down in private if you're not into it.
• 26:05
  Speaker 1: So this guy was sitting next to me, to my left,
• 26:07
  Speaker 1: and he was about my age and super sweet guy,
• 26:10
  Speaker 1: just not not described.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: What does he look like?
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: No? What was it wrong with describe what? He's a
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: nice dude, He's in his thirties, tall, pale skin, good conversation. Yeah,
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: you're a sweet guy, I mean, like very much, just like
• 26:25
  Speaker 1: friend vibes.
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: Was he already sitting there?
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: When he was already sitting there, so I'm like, oh,
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: he probably thought I came to sit down next to him,
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: but I was like, no, I just want to order.
• 26:33
  Speaker 2: That was the only spot. So what was it like
• 26:36
  Speaker 2: that you knew like maybe he was possibly interested. I
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: mean you can just tell them, you know, like yeahsk
• 26:40
  Speaker 2: guys were not really secretive about it.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Here there was a moment and I don't mean this
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: in a derogatory way, but I don't I didn't think
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: he was interested in women. If it gives you any
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: kind of vibe and so when he he literally left
• 26:52
  Speaker 1: the bar and then came back and was like, you
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: know what, I want to get your number. And I
• 26:54
  Speaker 1: was like, oh, good for him, you know what, to
• 26:57
  Speaker 1: be fair, good for him.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Yeah, most guys don't like that. That's a thing that's
• 27:00
  Speaker 2: been talked about so much recently is most guys, especially
• 27:04
  Speaker 2: under twenty five, have never asked out a girl. Yeah,
• 27:07
  Speaker 2: they've never asked out somebody. They never asked for a number. Like,
• 27:09
  Speaker 2: it's just something that is not being done anymore. And
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: so I do love when you talk about this because
• 27:14
  Speaker 2: I think it's something I wish more women talked about,
• 27:17
  Speaker 2: because it's scary as a dude ycause usually right now,
• 27:20
  Speaker 2: it's like you're made to look like the freaking fool.
• 27:22
  Speaker 2: And so that's what stops us from doing it. We're
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: like at a bar, we see a pretty girl and
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: she's with friends. So the option is your brain's like, man,
• 27:29
  Speaker 2: I would love to, but my brain goes to the extreme.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: It's like you're gonna go, You're gonna ask. They're all
• 27:34
  Speaker 2: literally gonna look at you, look up and down, make
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: you feel like a worthless piece of shit. They're gonna
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: turn and they're gonna.
• 27:38
  Speaker 1: Laugh, Like that's literally what your brain plays out.
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: So the fact that you're like, no, I'm not not
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: gonna embarrass you in public. No, I want to make
• 27:46
  Speaker 2: sure that you feel confident and comfortable and know that
• 27:48
  Speaker 2: it's okay to do. But it's also okay for you
• 27:51
  Speaker 2: to say, well, I'm not also I'm not interested.
• 27:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I don't think women should be obligated to
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: give men their attention.
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: Absolutely.
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: I think ultimately weird in a generation where guys weren't
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: really there was no incentive for guys to make that
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: move in person, and so they never really learn those
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: skills to make those moves.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, to get comfortable in that space. Yeah, a couple
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: of times. And that's like, I don't know how many
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: dudes listen to this podcast, but I will tell you,
• 28:15
  Speaker 2: Like me and my buddy we do a thing where
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: it's like, every time we go out in public, the
• 28:17
  Speaker 2: goal is to talk to at least one person. Yes,
• 28:19
  Speaker 2: because it's a muscle. The more you use it, the
• 28:21
  Speaker 2: stronger and the more comfortable you will get with it.
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: And same with rejection too, Like exactly like when we
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: were talking about the podcast earlier about how them saying
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: kill that bitch or whatever on air doesn't bother me.
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: It's because that's a muscle that's been flexed before five
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: years ago that might have really upset me doesn't bother
• 28:37
  Speaker 1: me now. And I think men need to be and
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: I'm I'm saying men specifically because I do wish more
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: men would approach, whereas I know a lot of women
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: that now have to take that lead because they're not
• 28:47
  Speaker 1: getting approached. Is to know that rejection is a possibility,
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: but that when it happens, it's just rejection. Like it's
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: not me saying I think you're an unworthy person who
• 28:58
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have loved because at the end of the day,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: I'm hoping that by me giving you my number that
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: one time, the next time you sit next to a
• 29:05
  Speaker 1: girl that is interested in you, you have the courage
• 29:10
  Speaker 1: to say, hey, I want to go out with you
• 29:12
  Speaker 1: or ask for your number, and hope you know that
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: the worst thing that can happen is exactly what I
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: just did was go hey, I'm not really interested.
• 29:19
  Speaker 2: Boom from the comfort of your couch. Yes. And I
• 29:22
  Speaker 2: think that's the biggest thing that we need to remind
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: ourselves of is you know, it's literally not the end
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: of the world, and don't take it too personally. You're
• 29:28
  Speaker 2: not everyone's going to be your wife. Not everyone's going
• 29:29
  Speaker 2: to be your husband, Like, but you have to be
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: able to step into the arena to play the game,
• 29:33
  Speaker 2: step into the arena. So he asked you for a number,
• 29:36
  Speaker 2: you give it to him, and there was just nothing
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: there and he texted you later. Did you tell him
• 29:40
  Speaker 2: then that you weren't interested or did you tell him later?
• 29:42
  Speaker 1: I think I said I was seeing somebody because I
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: wanted to. I was hoping he would read between the
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: lines that I'm not interested, but I wanted to give
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: him something to hang on to that it wasn't personal,
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: because I do. Like that's hard because he wouldn't have
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: asked if he knew I wasn't interested. But also like,
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: I don't want to convey to you that I'm not interested,
• 29:58
  Speaker 1: because I'm happy to talk to you with bar and
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: be friendly, but it doesn't necessarily mean I want to
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: date you.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah. No, I like that it's a respectful way to
• 30:06
  Speaker 2: politely decline instead of like dropping your drink and looking
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: at them laughing and then walking away. That's what I mean.
• 30:12
  Speaker 2: That's my biggest fear.
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: I know but and everyone thinks it's gonna happen, like
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: it's literally not gonna happen.
• 30:16
  Speaker 2: No, it's not, and it very rarely does. And now
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: I've gotten to the point where I'm like, if that
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: does happen, that's not a met problem, that's a that's
• 30:21
  Speaker 2: a problem. What the hell is wrong with you? That's
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: what I mean. Make me feel like I what embarrassed? Okay,
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: enough of you. But we are going out to do
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: another social activity and that's Tub Club. We've talked a
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: lot about. We're finally confirmed this upcoming Sunday.
• 30:34
  Speaker 1: I'm so excited to go to Top Club.
• 30:36
  Speaker 2: I have been looking at their instagram now because I
• 30:38
  Speaker 2: saw you were following their Instagram, and initially I was like,
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: oh my god, the people there are beautiful, and I
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: wonder if because of course that's m there's probably hundreds,
• 30:52
  Speaker 2: if not thousands of people that are going to these events,
• 30:54
  Speaker 2: and their marketing team, it just seems like every photo
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: they put like post up, I'm like, did they hire
• 31:00
  Speaker 2: models to be a part of this? And I'm like
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: it's ridiculous, And at first it honestly does intimidate me.
• 31:05
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I'm getting in the tub with the guy
• 31:07
  Speaker 2: that was on Love Island, like I've done that before. Oh,
• 31:12
  Speaker 2: I don't know who the heck it was, though, this
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: guy's beautiful. He had a great head of Harry was
• 31:15
  Speaker 2: on like some reality show.
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: And he seems really sweet too.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: Oh my god. But I'm like sitting there, I'm like, Okay,
• 31:21
  Speaker 2: this is ridiculous. This dude's literally on TV. Like that's crazy.
• 31:24
  Speaker 2: But I am excited to go one because I think
• 31:26
  Speaker 2: there's a lot of other people that are probably like
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: not TV models, but just normal folks that are just
• 31:31
  Speaker 2: getting out hay s Ormies like us is Normy's like
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: us just doing a nice social activity. And I love
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: it because it's health but also social because most of
• 31:40
  Speaker 2: the time right now it's like to go out and
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: be social. Sometimes it takes away from your health. This
• 31:44
  Speaker 2: is like the best it's in the day you're getting
• 31:46
  Speaker 2: Like I think Gateway Subs is out there giving away food.
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: They got coffee vendors, they got tubs, and they got
• 31:50
  Speaker 2: a DJ so you could dance and in the day
• 31:52
  Speaker 2: not losing sleep.
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: I know, I'm excited, and I think we should issue
• 31:55
  Speaker 1: a challenge to ourselves because I know your challenge is
• 31:58
  Speaker 1: probably how many people can we be home friends. I'm like, no,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: I think our challenge we need to try and get
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: our photo posted on the top club page.
• 32:07
  Speaker 2: That's a good challenge.
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: We need to look so ungodly hot. On Sunday, I'm
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: gonna get Bronzer. So Scotty and I are going to
• 32:15
  Speaker 1: Solid Core on Wednesday. Oh my gosh, we have a
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: busy week together.
• 32:18
  Speaker 2: We have. I'm amazed you're not tired of me yet.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: That's actually really good. We'll get there.
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: Okay, No, Tuesday, We're going tomorrow, So when you're hearing this,
• 32:27
  Speaker 1: it'll be today. Okay, assuming you're listening on Tuesday. So Tuesday,
• 32:32
  Speaker 1: we are going to the Lightning Game on the twenty fourth.
• 32:34
  Speaker 2: What are we doing for that? We're gonna go, Well,
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: we're getting like they hooked us up, so we're going
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: to like the club level where it's like unlimited food
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: and drink, which, my.
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: God, I can't wait.
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: Crazy z.
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: We're gonna have to pre record the show on Wednesday.
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: Actually, we should talk to the boss about that. That's
• 32:48
  Speaker 2: a really good idea.
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: We really at least like the first hour.
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just to give ourselves a little second to breathe.
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: So then we're doing I think before we should hit
• 32:56
  Speaker 2: the place that you like. What was it Beacon at
• 32:58
  Speaker 2: the Top, honestly like to go to like.
• 33:01
  Speaker 1: Or we should do the Pearl. We should sit at
• 33:03
  Speaker 1: the Pearl. You want to go? The thing is it's
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: a madhouse downtown, Like, I don't even know if we'll
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: be I could maybe try and get us the reservation,
• 33:09
  Speaker 1: but why would we do that.
• 33:11
  Speaker 2: We're going to get free food at the club at
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: least one cocktail. We should always do one cocktail before.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: Let me see if I can get us a reservation.
• 33:16
  Speaker 2: We should always do like. I just love the always
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: I'm the drinking expert. No, we should go and either
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: go to the Pearl or to the rooftop at the Marriotte,
• 33:26
  Speaker 2: which is so Beacon Beacon Beacon's great. I've never been
• 33:29
  Speaker 2: to the Edition, but I don't know if we'll be
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: dressed for the addition.
• 33:32
  Speaker 1: No, but I also I don't really care.
• 33:34
  Speaker 2: You don't care for the addition or you can't don't care.
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: I don't care if they judge us.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, okay, I don't either. I would like to
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: go before.
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: Because I know we're also shooting video footage for sales
• 33:42
  Speaker 1: and so I'm like, do I need to wear something
• 33:43
  Speaker 1: under my lightning jersey?
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: No?
• 33:46
  Speaker 1: To like, oh look with the addition, I look normal,
• 33:48
  Speaker 1: and then I put the jersey on over it.
• 33:50
  Speaker 2: I guess we could. We'll talk to Alexei about it
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: and what we want to do with this.
• 33:52
  Speaker 1: Video because I have a really great outfit. I want
• 33:54
  Speaker 1: to wear a channels do you want to wear it
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: that night? And I could put a jersey over it?
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: Okay, so we can put the jersey in the car
• 34:00
  Speaker 2: and just have it like ready to go do one drink,
• 34:02
  Speaker 2: Go put the jersey and go to the game. Yeah, okay,
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: that would make sense. I can only do so many
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: spots though, like I'm gonna be I'm a lightweight. I
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: cannot do all that I can do, like one cocktail.
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: And allegedly I am too. Yeah, so, Marguerite, I'm blacked out.
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: I'm actually only gonna do mocktails. But it's Tuesday light,
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: so we're not drinking tomorrow, not to marrow. No we are.
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: Yes, you said you're only doing mocktails.
• 34:24
  Speaker 2: Well I kind of lied. I might do one cocktail, okay,
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: just one. I might do two. It make you two.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: We're gonna be in the club. So it's gonna be
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: a couple, but it's gonna be fun. We'll have a
• 34:33
  Speaker 2: whole video out about it. We did try to get
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: we'll see where. I just got a text back from
• 34:38
  Speaker 2: one of our bosses here about trying to get us
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: some cool lightning jerseys for it. We'll see if that
• 34:42
  Speaker 2: actually goes through.
• 34:43
  Speaker 1: So time, what time is the game tomorrow?
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: Ask me a lot of questions that I don't have
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: the answer to.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: I need you to google them.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna look at the tickets and my wallet. I
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: think it's probably seven. It's a Tuesday game, it's at seven.
• 34:54
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna okay. So let's say we go down at four,
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: four thirty, mm hmm. All those places aren't gonna be
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: open until five.
• 34:59
  Speaker 2: Five, seven thirty. The games at seven thirty.
• 35:02
  Speaker 1: I bet we could get in somewhere right at five,
• 35:05
  Speaker 1: we going over to the try the pearl The Pearls
• 35:08
  Speaker 1: Bar looked awesome, or what about the place that you like, Bulon?
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: We could probably try and get into Bulon. That'd be awesome.
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: At the bar at five it's probably fine.
• 35:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't think there's anybody going to be raging
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: in there because that's usually like what I hear it
• 35:20
  Speaker 2: is Friday night that's really crazy, or Saturday night that's
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: really crazy. Yeah, it's a Tuesday.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: I was there on a Saturday night and it wasn't
• 35:25
  Speaker 1: that crazy.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: Well, see that's seasons Seasons of change.
• 35:28
  Speaker 1: People are chilling.
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: That's right. Five point thirty. I think it'll be fine.
• 35:31
  Speaker 2: I'll be down for bulon. And we also got to
• 35:33
  Speaker 2: see what Alexia's schedule works up to to get us
• 35:35
  Speaker 2: over the bridge. I wonder if it's an uber kind
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: of day.
• 35:38
  Speaker 1: It's a walking kind of day for me.
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: Well not everyone has that luxury.
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: Well, you guys can park itt my place if you want.
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: And then walk over. We could stop by. What's that
• 35:46
  Speaker 2: we could do? Oh my god, it could be a
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: whole little bar tour like Jackson's. We could do a
• 35:51
  Speaker 2: little drink over there. Oh wait, no, no, no, no, okay,
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: I gotta I always get where you're at in Harbor Island.
• 35:59
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean you have to cross Harbor Islands.
• 36:01
  Speaker 2: Okay, then a side doesn't get a little cocktail there, Okay.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: Tuesday Wednesday, solid Core got to get sexy for them
• 36:07
  Speaker 2: tub club Sunday. Yeah, and how do you expect to
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: get on. We need to see who their social team is.
• 36:11
  Speaker 2: I bet we can find who that is, Like who
• 36:13
  Speaker 2: does the photos?
• 36:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I think he.
• 36:15
  Speaker 2: Actually here's my grievance. Actually we brought this up before.
• 36:18
  Speaker 2: What this is actually gonna be the thing that stops
• 36:20
  Speaker 2: me from growing to chup club?
• 36:22
  Speaker 1: Yes? No, I want to go to top clubs.
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well you told me before we'd even started this
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: that you actually have to get a ticket. Yes, I
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: didn't know this was a thing. I thought you just
• 36:31
  Speaker 2: showed up. No, and you hopped in a tub. It's
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: thirty dollars. That's ridiculous. Thirty dollars for me to freeze
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: my ass off.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: Well, it includes a workout class. Oh what kind of
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: class we're talkings? You want to do pilates with the
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: hot girls of Saint Pete. Where's your girlfriend coming?
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, I don't have a girlfriend.
• 36:53
  Speaker 1: It could be me you your girlfriend.
• 36:56
  Speaker 2: It would be fun.
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: I guess Alexi, it will probably want to come to No.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I had check with her for club tubs, even
• 37:01
  Speaker 2: though she does. She just did the party at the
• 37:03
  Speaker 2: Moxie this past weekend, so I don't know if there's
• 37:04
  Speaker 2: another one which.
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: By the way, do we define what tub club is
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: or are we just calling it tub club and assuming
• 37:08
  Speaker 1: that people know.
• 37:09
  Speaker 2: So tub club is. I mean, it's a bunch of
• 37:11
  Speaker 2: cold plunges that they set up in a certain part
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: of town. It changes all the time, and like I said,
• 37:17
  Speaker 2: they have a DJ that goes out there. It's like
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: a dirty if you remember that in college, like a
• 37:20
  Speaker 2: day party. It's a dirty but no alcohol exactly, which
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: was awesome, Like that sounds right up my alley. But
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: it might have like herbal drinks. I think it might
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: have like like a TC thing. Possibly Again, I've never been,
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: but I'm just going off of vibes.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: It doesn't look lame to me.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: It does not look blame at all. It looks like
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: a club but just outside during the day.
• 37:39
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 37:39
  Speaker 2: No, it's literally top club. It's like when I went
• 37:42
  Speaker 2: to an event and they are doing like public cold plunges,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: I will say, and I bet they have it, you
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: know what. I'm gonna give them the benefit of that.
• 37:49
  Speaker 2: I bet they have them so pristine. But when I
• 37:51
  Speaker 2: went to this public event, those things get dirty so
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: quick and people roast me up. I don't know if
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: you're gonna be peeing in that cold water, because.
• 37:57
  Speaker 1: It does kind of the thought of it if you
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: get into Even though the water looks like I'm looking
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: at these videos and it doesn't look dirty to me.
• 38:05
  Speaker 2: I hope they have a system that helps people like
• 38:07
  Speaker 2: clean off beforehand, because we were doing a whole event
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: where it's like we were running and working out and
• 38:12
  Speaker 2: getting to these tubs and the water got so murky
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: and so dirty.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: Okay, don't know you no.
• 38:17
  Speaker 2: We'll get through early though. And honestly, I'm not a
• 38:19
  Speaker 2: huge fan of they cold plunge anymore, so I'm just
• 38:21
  Speaker 2: doing it like one time, just to socialize. The cool
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: thing is that it opens the door for conversation very quick. Yeah,
• 38:27
  Speaker 2: oh my god, freezing my ass off.
• 38:29
  Speaker 1: How are you staying so warm?
• 38:30
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm really struggling. Is it your first time? Yeah,
• 38:32
  Speaker 2: that's my first time. That's really sweet. How did you
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: hear about it? I was listening to this podcast, Oh
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: which one unfiltered? Gott unfiltered?
• 38:39
  Speaker 1: Unlike this water? Which is weird? Or no, just like
• 38:41
  Speaker 1: this water.
• 38:42
  Speaker 2: This water is so unfiltered.
• 38:43
  Speaker 1: It girls, it's peed's sweat, it's probably clump of hair.
• 38:47
  Speaker 1: Mother into furious activities.
• 38:49
  Speaker 2: I bet it's so clean. Yeah, it's gonna be pristine.
• 38:51
  Speaker 2: It looks sexy, it looks very sexy. Is that what
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: gets you excited for?
• 38:55
  Speaker 1: My boyfriend's going to be a tug club.
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: That would be amazing.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: Guys, I'm getting a boyfriend this weekend.
• 39:00
  Speaker 2: Are we manifesting it? How do we probably manifest We
• 39:02
  Speaker 2: don't have crystals.
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: You don't need to manifest something that's written in the star, Scotty.
• 39:06
  Speaker 2: I think that's what manifestation is. No, I think it's
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: the same into the universe. Hey, I see you. I'm
• 39:10
  Speaker 2: ready for you. They're just conjured.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: You always do this moan thing. I know you're a
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: big moaner. No, I'm not manifesting. I'm not manifesting. I
• 39:21
  Speaker 1: am just announcing to the world. Hey, I'm getting a
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: boyfriend on Sunday. You're just letting the world know so
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: they're prepared. I feel it in my guts. I feel
• 39:29
  Speaker 1: it and every single one.
• 39:30
  Speaker 2: Do you think you're gonna meet them? Let me take
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: me to the scenario that's gonna happen on Sunday.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: He's gonna look at me and he's gonna be like, Wow,
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: that girl looks naked and afraid.
• 39:39
  Speaker 2: She literally is naked and she is afraid.
• 39:41
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean, you don't show up naked for context
• 39:43
  Speaker 1: for people like what are they talking about? You wear
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: like spandex and a sports bra or like I might
• 39:48
  Speaker 1: wear running shorts.
• 39:49
  Speaker 2: I haven't decided yet. Yeah that sounds about right.
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and you just get in the cold tub. But
• 39:54
  Speaker 1: it's like, yeah, you show up and you're freezing, like shivering.
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, so he sees you as you walk up, and.
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: You're like, she's like rail she looks like a small
• 40:05
  Speaker 1: Victorian child dying from tuberculosis.
• 40:08
  Speaker 2: She walking up next to this random man. I bet,
• 40:10
  Speaker 2: I bet they're together and they're gonna have to do
• 40:12
  Speaker 2: the whole thing where it's like, no, we're not, we
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: work together. What do you guys do a radio show?
• 40:19
  Speaker 2: Oh that's really cool.
• 40:20
  Speaker 1: That's why you have to bring your girlfriend, because me
• 40:22
  Speaker 1: and you look too much like siblings to where they'll go,
• 40:24
  Speaker 1: oh that's her brother. But if you bring your girlfriend.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Well now it's me and two girls, then actually then
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: I get all the attention to the guys. So like,
• 40:33
  Speaker 2: that guy's got to going. He knows how to do
• 40:35
  Speaker 2: this thing. It's challengers, that's right, guys to learn from me.
• 40:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but then if I bring Alexia, then people might
• 40:40
  Speaker 1: be like, oh my god, that's her girlfriend.
• 40:43
  Speaker 2: Unless Alexia brings her husband. And now, yes, now we're
• 40:47
  Speaker 2: a polycule. We we live in a compound together.
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: What if I got a hat that just says I'm single,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: please talk to me.
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: I do wish more events did that more often. Not
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: the hats, but like when you go out and they
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: give you like the wristbands or they give you the necklace.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: That's just a quick indicator Boom, I'm single and I'm interested,
• 41:02
  Speaker 2: or yes, boom, I'm taking do not ask me out,
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: or maybe we'll see what happens. I love when events
• 41:08
  Speaker 2: do that, like just take down that wall really quick,
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: make it very easy for everybody, so you just know, like,
• 41:13
  Speaker 2: all right, I'm going to spend my time talking to
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: you with the intentions of asking out, not just talking
• 41:18
  Speaker 2: to you because I guess we could be great friends
• 41:20
  Speaker 2: at the end of this.
• 41:20
  Speaker 1: I'm just going to show up looking like the biggest
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: slutt at tub club. Remember the teeniest, tiniest spandex shorts,
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: the slutiest skankiest.
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: Sports brush, working it on pilates, just really putting in
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: but how much effort do you put in pilates where
• 41:34
  Speaker 2: it's like do you want to be like sweaty? Are
• 41:37
  Speaker 2: you going to what's the class I was.
• 41:39
  Speaker 1: Going to do that?
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: I was like super worried. I was just gonna be
• 41:41
  Speaker 2: dripping my face off. I think I was going to
• 41:43
  Speaker 2: do a dancing class and I was like, boom, boom,
• 41:45
  Speaker 2: Well I sweat my ass off a zoom but too. Yeah,
• 41:47
  Speaker 2: but I was going to do like a dance lessons class,
• 41:50
  Speaker 2: and I was like, that's kind of sexy, but it's
• 41:52
  Speaker 2: not sexy when I start dripping sweat. I sweat so easily.
• 41:55
  Speaker 1: I don't sweat that much of pilates.
• 41:56
  Speaker 2: Must be nice if you do. I think it's like
• 41:59
  Speaker 2: a glistening thing. Well, we'll find out on Sunday when
• 42:01
  Speaker 2: I'm trying pilates. So this Wednesday, I'm going to do
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: a warm up pilates to see how that actually goes. No, no, no, no,
• 42:06
  Speaker 2: solid core is not the warm up. Well as in
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: it's gonna be my first experience ever doing it.
• 42:11
  Speaker 1: I cannot Actually you're gonna die. I just saw the
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: run club for mffors who don't run. They posted a
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: video of all the guys doing jet set pilates and
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: just seeing them die was so.
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: Funny. Oh good, that's actually you're bringing me for the cost.
• 42:27
  Speaker 1: Valid No, I think you'll enjoy it. And also I
• 42:30
  Speaker 1: get these free buddy passes. I'm like, I gotta do
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: something with it.
• 42:33
  Speaker 2: Bring up, buddy, I'm the buddy, You're my buddy.
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: Even Also, I've realized I enjoy going to solid core
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: more on the weekends when I go to Hyde Park
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: because it does feel a little bit more like a community.
• 42:44
  Speaker 1: Every time I go to the one on like in
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: Saint Pete, it doesn't feel as like cohesive group wise,
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: and maybe just because I vibe with the Hyde Park
• 42:52
  Speaker 1: people better not that God, now, no it.
• 42:55
  Speaker 2: Is I think I actually sound bad. No, no, no,
• 42:58
  Speaker 2: it does not sound bad because I think this is
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: something that I've walked into gyms or other spaces in film.
• 43:03
  Speaker 2: Sometimes people don't do the first out to reach and
• 43:05
  Speaker 2: then like you have to be the one that's like, hi,
• 43:07
  Speaker 2: I got to start the conversation with everybody. Yeah, and
• 43:09
  Speaker 2: then I judge if then it's still not taken.
• 43:11
  Speaker 1: I think it's because the classes I go to on
• 43:13
  Speaker 1: Saturday and Sundays and Fridays are smaller because they're always
• 43:16
  Speaker 1: like Friday night classes. So I show up on Saturday
• 43:19
  Speaker 1: and it's me and one other girl, and the the
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: instructors like, hey, it's just y'all. And I was like, hey,
• 43:25
  Speaker 1: so you have no choice but to kind of pay
• 43:26
  Speaker 1: attention to the other person. And I thought it felt
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: more fun because I'm like, oh, this is sort of like
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: a private lesson because she can only pay attention to us.
• 43:33
  Speaker 2: Well, then you could can I'm surprised that, Like, how
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: does it when you get on your little machine, what's
• 43:37
  Speaker 2: it called the reformer? The reformer? Do you talk to
• 43:40
  Speaker 2: the girl next to you?
• 43:41
  Speaker 1: Now?
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: Okay, so I would like I even do that when
• 43:44
  Speaker 2: I go to cycling classes. I like, you know, a
• 43:45
  Speaker 2: little couple jokes on the bike, and then I would
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: like talk to the people around me. Now it doesn't
• 43:50
  Speaker 2: go anywhere further than that, but I'm like, what an
• 43:51
  Speaker 2: easy way. It seems like easy to like make a friend.
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: I think it's because it depends on the energy, because
• 43:57
  Speaker 1: when I go to the St. Pete one, it's like
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: two pm on a Monday. No, Like, I'm just trying
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: to get a work out and go back to work.
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: I'm exhausted by the end. That's the end of my day.
• 44:06
  Speaker 1: You well, Mondays, it's not Mondays. That's like the middle
• 44:08
  Speaker 1: of my day, and then I have to go home
• 44:09
  Speaker 1: and do more work. So but like if I go
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: on like a Thursday, it's like Thursday at two pm,
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: I just want to go home after this. I'm here
• 44:15
  Speaker 1: because I have to be here, and then I just
• 44:16
  Speaker 1: want to go home. Whereas Saturday and Friday, it's kind
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: of like I got nothing to do, so I'm more
• 44:21
  Speaker 1: like relax.
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: I'm like, hey, so that sounds like it would be
• 44:24
  Speaker 2: a good challenge, Like you need to go out for
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: like brunch with the next girl that you see at
• 44:27
  Speaker 2: the Saturday pilates.
• 44:29
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, I'm not gonna do that.
• 44:29
  Speaker 2: What do you mean? Why not? That sounds so fun.
• 44:31
  Speaker 1: Everyone's living their life, you know what I mean.
• 44:33
  Speaker 2: Like, but people are looking for friends and just waiting
• 44:35
  Speaker 2: for that person to go first. You could be the
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: one that goes first.
• 44:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'll go second.
• 44:39
  Speaker 2: Okay, Well that means nobody's.
• 44:40
  Speaker 1: Ever gonna go like I'll go home to mark Cats
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: respective homes.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: Now, you'll be fine after you find a boyfriend. On
• 44:48
  Speaker 2: Sunday with tub club, I'm so.
• 44:49
  Speaker 1: Excited to meet my boyfriend on Sunday. That's what I'm
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: just gonna keep saying it. I'm just gonna keep saying it,
• 44:53
  Speaker 1: and I feel it in my gut. I'm so excited
• 44:55
  Speaker 1: to go to tub club because that's where I'm meeting
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: my boyfriend.
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: I do think it will be something in this world,
• 45:00
  Speaker 2: not in this world, but in this realm that will
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: be the place that you find something that you're actually
• 45:04
  Speaker 2: interested in. I don't think it's gonna be out on
• 45:06
  Speaker 2: a Friday night. I don't think it's gonna be like
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: bar hop, and I think it's gonna be like I
• 45:10
  Speaker 2: went to this random ass like Cold Plunge event and
• 45:13
  Speaker 2: then I just started chatting with this you know dude name.
• 45:16
  Speaker 2: You know, what's this hypothetical man's name, Zach?
• 45:21
  Speaker 1: I know Zach doesn't sit with my spirit. Well, really
• 45:24
  Speaker 1: give me another name. What do you think my boyfriend's
• 45:26
  Speaker 1: name is going to be?
• 45:27
  Speaker 2: Oh?
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: Okay, Because I think about.
• 45:28
  Speaker 2: This all the time, and I have a couple theories
• 45:30
  Speaker 2: about what your boyfriends name should be.
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: There are certain names that I'm like that sounds like
• 45:33
  Speaker 1: someone who would be my boyfriend.
• 45:35
  Speaker 2: I see an L. I see an L. An l
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: L like a Luke.
• 45:39
  Speaker 1: Oh, Luke, like a Luke.
• 45:41
  Speaker 2: Luke actually is a very strong man. The name Luke.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: Actually there, you manifested Luke. We're meeting Luke on Sunday.
• 45:48
  Speaker 1: Oh no, no, Luke. If you think about it, kind
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: of sounds like Dookie.
• 45:54
  Speaker 2: It does not sound like Dookie. No part of Luke
• 45:57
  Speaker 2: sounds like Dookie.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: You know what when I take too big of a
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: bye the yogurt, Yes, kind of like how I did
• 46:02
  Speaker 1: just right now. Luke does kind of sound like the
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: sound of me eating a big bitey yogurt.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: That's why you'd like him. We want to take a
• 46:08
  Speaker 2: big bite of him. Come on, Luke, not Luky Luky.
• 46:14
  Speaker 2: So if you see him and he's dancing and his
• 46:16
  Speaker 2: name's Luke, send him Mabby's way. Luke. All right, So
• 46:19
  Speaker 2: I got to reach out. We got to actually reach
• 46:21
  Speaker 2: out about this thirty dollars cause I'm not paying thirty
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: dollars to go to clublub Tub club. You're not, absolutely not.
• 46:25
  Speaker 2: I'm not paying, girl. I got bills. I have bills
• 46:29
  Speaker 2: and we're talking about them on our podcast in our show.
• 46:32
  Speaker 2: I'm not paying thirty dollars.
• 46:33
  Speaker 1: You're gonna send them a DM and say, hey, you're
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: gonna send them a deal. You're gonna send them a
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: DM because I almost paid the thirty dollars last night.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: You were just about to do it.
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, happy, we have thirty dollars to meet my boyfriend Scott.
• 46:45
  Speaker 2: That's true. I spent a lot more to meet somebody
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: else that really interested in it feels only. I think
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: thirty dollars is just the first wine.
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: Are you gonna make me go to tub club by myself?
• 46:53
  Speaker 2: Absolutely not, but I'm going to make sure that we
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: get in for free.
• 46:56
  Speaker 1: Okay, I asked them.
• 46:56
  Speaker 2: They're gonna be like, absolutely not. We'll see if we
• 46:58
  Speaker 2: got rejected. What do I say? Though? It's like him.
• 47:01
  Speaker 1: We could ask chatchebt.
• 47:03
  Speaker 2: Producer Chat, We're going out to your club, tub tub Club?
• 47:07
  Speaker 2: What the hell is it called?
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: We would love to post about you on our social media.
• 47:10
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we would want to, you know, give you access
• 47:12
  Speaker 2: to it. Oh jeez, that's plug ole or we're gonna
• 47:14
  Speaker 2: get arrested. Whatever. Well, we'll see how Sunday goes with
• 47:18
  Speaker 2: the adventure of top Club. Abby. What is your social
• 47:21
  Speaker 2: media so you can finish your yogurt? Oh my god,
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: I can't stand that noise. Could I just go ahead
• 47:27
  Speaker 2: and paint the picture the way that Abby each yogurt.
• 47:30
  Speaker 2: I have never seen someone takes so much yogurt on
• 47:34
  Speaker 2: a single spoonful. It's impressive. See Abby's gonna say I'm
• 47:37
  Speaker 2: judging her. I'm not.
• 47:38
  Speaker 1: I'm being efficient.
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: Efficiency is a great way to put it, because it
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: is a glob, a massive glob, and you're just like,
• 47:45
  Speaker 2: you're like, I'm gonna take this whole thing down. Hold,
• 47:48
  Speaker 2: And then I hear it in the microphone every single time.
• 47:52
  Speaker 1: I know. It's worse this morning because I I don't
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: know what is in my parents' house, but something in
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: that house is trying to kill me. It's a ghost,
• 47:59
  Speaker 1: it's someone either strangled me, or its allergies, or it's
• 48:03
  Speaker 1: like fumes from the paint. But I woke up with
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: just the worst pain in my throat this morning.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: Have you been drinking water?
• 48:10
  Speaker 1: Yes?
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: Not enough. It's kind of like when like your partner says,
• 48:14
  Speaker 2: I have that age, It's like, did you drink water?
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: That's not how allergies works.
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: Might as well be everything comes down to water.
• 48:19
  Speaker 1: Literally.
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: That's why I have a doctor degree. All right at
• 48:22
  Speaker 2: Scott'savlin is mine and then follow along on the Magic
• 48:25
  Speaker 2: ninety four to nine Instagram. We'll see if we could
• 48:28
  Speaker 2: get Abby a boyfriend talk