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THE SECRET TO EVERYTHING YOU WANT. FORREAL. · All In with Allie

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In this episode, I am spilling these secrets of the universe. Yes you
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heard that right, the secrets of the universe. How do I know it's
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the secret of the universe. I don't, but I promise you I'm going
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to be reminding you of something super powerful in this episode. So listen up.
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Welcome to Aline with Alied, podcast for online business owners and entrepreneurs who
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are ready to create the life and business of their dreams. I am so
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happy you are here. Okay, So backstory, all right, I don't
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know about you, Actually I do. I do know about you because I've
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had many conversations with many of you, because this has kind of been the
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theme of the past few episodes have been alluding a lot to my own experience
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of the past year. When I say the past year, I'm talking about
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twenty twenty three and how it's just been different. Right. It hasn't been
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all bad, obviously, it never is, but it's just felt like when
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you compare it. It's really easy to compare years, right, but when
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you compare it to twenty twenty two, twenty twenty one, it just the
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vibe feels a bit more difficult for me. Anyway, And again a lot
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of you resonate with this and sidebar. I came across a TikTok the other
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day that kind of blew my mind a little bit because it was so simple,
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but it felt so true because this is what like the past year for
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me is kind of felt like a big test. That's what it's felt like.
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And this TikTok said, when you're going through a hard thing and God
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feels as if he's nowhere to be found, right like like you're you're like
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hello, need you would love some backup here, and it's just silence.
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The guy said in the TikTok, he said, when this happens, I
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remember that the teacher is quiet during a test. The teacher is quiet during
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the test, that's our time to shine, right, So good, So
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this this checks out for me and anyway like that for the backstory, it's
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just felt like, you know, twenty twenty three specifically was just kind of
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it was just a different bag of fun and games and journeys. And I
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can see now in hindsight in so many different ways how it had to be
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that way and how it did support me, and I can I can kind
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of piece the puzzle pieces together now for sure, but I'm ready for I'm
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ready for a shift, you know. And I can say this, I
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have felt such a shift, a palpable shift, in twenty twenty four,
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and I really hope that you're feeling the same. But like for me,
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it's been the past week that things have really really shifted in my world.
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It feels as if I'm trying to think of a metaphor, but it feels
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as if all I've been I don't know what would be a good metaphor.
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I got it, okay. You know the meme where it shows the guy
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digging, digging a trail or like a hole in the dirt looking for a
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diamond and he's so close and like one guy is also looking for the same
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diamond and he ends up quitting and turning around before he gets to the diamond,
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and the other guy's literally one hit until he hits the diamond. You've
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seen this, right, And it's all about like keep going persevere, It's
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okay, it's hard, blah blah, Okay, we get it. That's
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what it's felt like. And it feels like this past week I've hit a
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diamond, right, Like, not the diamond, but it's just felt like
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Okay, We're we're picking up momentum again. I'm seeing a really good shift.
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The shift that I've been praying for for damn near a year is what
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it feels like, and I'm so thankful. But I will say this,
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and the reason why this episode is what it is is because I did something
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very different in the I wouldn't say it's the past week. I've been doing
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this for well, really all of twenty twenty three, because I started with
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Rebel, and Rebel was the thirty one day program that I ran in January,
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which was all around listening to an activation every day getting your mind right,
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and it gave really thoughtful it by it, I mean I gave super
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thoughtful and intentional prompts to set yourself apart for the year and beyond. So
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that really helped me make a positive shift for myself. And then I just
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kind of kept it going and the past week things have just changed and I
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kind of had a massive breakthrough, which is the secret that I'm alluding to,
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because it just clicked. You know, when you can hear the same
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thing or hear somebody talk about or read or you know, learn about the
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same thing again and again and again, and conceptually you're like, yes,
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one plus one equals to Conceptually, I understand, but in practice it doesn't
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make sense to me. Do you get what I'm saying? Like, that's
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this thing that I'm about to share with you. So many of you are
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going to be like, Okay, yay, yeah, yeah, yay,
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I've heard this before, got it, yep, yep, totally got it.
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Not really telling us anything new here, thanks, thanks for nothing.
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And then others of you are like facts because you understand on a different level
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than the average person, probably because you've allowed yourself to really consciously put this
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into practice and you have experienced the fruits of this labor, and it's legit.
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Okay. So one thing that I did that I've been working on and
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I kind of kicked it up a notch this past couple weeks was anchoring in
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deeper and deeper and deeper into gratitude. What does this mean. This does
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not mean that I got up in the morning and I got out a piece
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of paper and I wrote out ten things that I'm thankful for. That's not
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what that means. This doesn't mean that I sat Indian style and I thanked
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God for everything that I have and I thought pretty thoughts for two minutes and
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went on with my day. What I mean by this was I seeped myself
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so deep in gratitude. I was so hyper consciously hyper aware of my thoughts,
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of my feelings and how I was moving through my day that the only
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option was to regear, refocus to gratitude. That's what I mean that any
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thought that came up that was not in the vibe of thank you God,
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it's working right. And also I'll throw into you know, in addition to
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like simply being grateful for where I am, also consciously speaking into existence the
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thing that I want to happen. So instead of looking around and saying,
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yes, thank you God, I'm so glad that I'm here right now,
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I'm so glad that this is working, but it's not enough. But this
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like this probably isn't going to happen, and then this bad thing probably will,
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and then it's just like this constant vibe of preparing for what it is
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that I actually want to happen. Do you hear that? Do you hear
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that? Remaining in a constant or as consistent as possible vibe of speaking into
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existence and preparing for the outcome that I actually want while being seeped in gratitude
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for what is what this looks like? Some examples for you, I was
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in an interesting situation where there was just like something there were to be frank
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with you, there were some payments that weren't coming through my business that I
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was very much expecting for you know, whatever reason, and people were defaulting
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on pretty large payments, which this happened sometimes, and it put me in
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a precarious situation and for and I'm not going to get into a ton of
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details there, but like I was in this and I was sitting there and
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I literally laughed like that when I realized that this wasn't turning around immediately right
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like like in the way that I would hope this played out. It wasn't
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shifting immediately. And instead of being like why me, why is this happening?
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What? You know, not saying that we can't reflect and be thoughtful
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about the situations that we're in and how to fix it, right, But
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I literally left and I was like, this is gonna be one hell of
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a story one day. That was my response. I laughed like a looney
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tune, like, oh my god, this is the wow this is so
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interesting. Okay, this is gonna this is gonna make for a hell of
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a story one day. And in that moment, I caught myself and I
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was like, I'm damn proud of you, you if you have come a
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long way, Missy. This isn't like normally, this is something that would
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send me into a freaking tail spin. And I normally, you know where
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this would really affect me. It would affect my mood at home. Right,
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Normally, something like this, I would just I would carry it home.
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I wouldn't be as playful with my kids. I wouldn't be as like
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loving and and fun with Chris. Like this happened on a Friday, and
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we were preparing for a night just like a sweet night at home. And
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normally this would totally just put a damper on my night and I'd be in
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such a bad mood and I'd probably try and come out of it, but
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it would one hundred percent affect me for sure. And then I was like,
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I can't change it, not right now. There is nothing I can
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do right now to change this situation. So am I going to let it
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continue to manifest and dampen the rest of my night? And negatively affect the
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rest of my night, or am I going to prepare as if the thing
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I want is happening, which is this is going to turn around any minute.
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So what would I do if this was turning around in any minute?
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What would I do if I trusted that the teacher is silent during the test,
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but it's not far, it's still it's still got my back? What
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would I do then? So you know what I did? I laughed.
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I put on some music that I was like at the store, walking walking
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to my car from the store, and I was just like, this is
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crazy, and I laughed, and I got my car, I put on
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some good music. I shit, you now that i'm thinking about it,
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I totally forgot about this. I think I cried because I was listening to
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this song that I'm just loving lately. And I know you're gonna ask what
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it is, No Cars Go By. I can't. I always forget the
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name of the band, but it's called No Cars Go It's an older song
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and it just makes me emotional. And I literally, like like cried tears
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of gratitude on the way home because I just felt so thankful for that shift,
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and I knew I just knew. I knew it was going to be
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fine. I knew it was going to be fine, and I just I
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went home. You would have thought I had hit the freaking lottery. I
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was just happy, and I you know, I was just happy. So
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had such an incredible night with my family, had such an incredible day the
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day after all, like didn't stress about it. The next day somebody signed
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up for my Mastermind, paid in full, shifted everything everything. This was
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such a unique situation. It was such like like I haven't one day I'll
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be able to give more context, but like has to do with taxes,
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has to do with a lot of different things, and that it's not important
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to the story, which is why I'm not going into it here. But
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it was just an uncomfortable situation. And then it all, it all got
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shifted instantly because an old client decided to come back into my world and paid
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and paid in full for the Mastermind, and it was like there it is,
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there it is now. Would this Would this have happened had I gone
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into a tailspan? Would this have happened if I had taken action out of
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alignment and done something that I really didn't want to do in the frequency of
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preparing for the thing that I don't want, that this was not going to
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be. Okay, we don't know, we don't know, but I can
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tell you it's been a hot minute since something that big has shifted for me
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in that way, in that way, if that makes sense, and I
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just knew, And with every you know when you just know, like for
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me, we all they say that everybody has a level of a voyance.
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I think like some people are clairvoyant, some people are audio voyant. I
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don't know all the terms, but everybody has a little bit of Claire something.
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Yeah, that's what is Claire audient, clairvoyant, Claire sentient, Claire
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emotion. That's wrong, But like everybody has a Claire, right, you
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have some sort of psychic ability in you. Mine for sure is a knowing.
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That's what mine is. Like sometimes I just know things and I don't
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know why I know them. And I knew in this moment with everything in
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me, I had passed the test. I wasn't being tested to be tested.
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It was just a situation that in many ways I put myself in,
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Like if you really get down to it, I'm responsible for the things that
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happened in my business even when it comes down to taxes and tax bills aren't
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but we're not going to get into it. But like, I take full
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responsibility for that, right. So it was a test that in a way
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I kind of put myself in, but I passed it. I passed it,
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and I prepared for the thing that I wanted. And the thing that
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I wanted came, which was an opportunity out of this to shift this funk
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right, a real shift and reprieve from the temporary discomfort that we were feeling
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in my business. I'm telling like, it gives me chills to think about
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this. Immediately, like right after this happened and I messaged my and I'm
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just like, I mean, just the fact that I get to work with
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this person, you know, like we celebrated. I'm just so thankful anyway.
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But then on top of that, the compounded effect of whoa you like
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your energy played a role in this. We've got to remember this, You've
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got to remember this. I wrote pages and pages and I just journaled,
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like, don't forget what happened in this moment. Don't forget how you felt,
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Don't forget the option for fear was there, and it's not that it
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went away. It's not that the fear went away, It's that I walked
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with it, and I decided the energy I was going to walk with it
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through. That's what it was. Everybody feels fear. Everybody has interesting things
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and uncomfortable situations that comes up in business, in life and whatever. This
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is normal. And I know I used to think that fear was reserved for
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newbies or people that, like, I don't know, I kind of in
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a weird way thought you get to a certain level and you just don't get
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scared anymore. And what I'm finding is that's absolutely not true. It's always
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going to be there. As a matter of fact, the more successful you
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get kind of the more that you have to lose in a lot of ways,
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which can make fear feel and seem even larger and louder than maybe what
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it might have felt like at a different level. So fear's normal. But
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the difference is is how do you choose to walk through it? How do
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you choose to move through that fear? This is I this is my feeling
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of knowing right now? Is this is it? This is the secret to
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everything is how you choose to well, Okay, It's kind of two parts
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actually now that I'm really thinking about it, because I kind of went on
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the fear tangent a little bit, and that's absolutely part of it. But
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let's take it back to gratitude, because this was another thing to you that
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I've been Again, I've already shared this like so hyper aware of and the
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reason why I went home and I was I allowed myself to just have fun
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and be thankful and be happy for the beautiful things in my life is because
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they're in my life. These are things that I used to pray for years
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ago. These are things that make me the luckiest human on the planet.
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The man that I'm married to, these two gorgeous, healthy children in our
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house, and our like everything about it. The blessings on blessings on blessings.
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Why would I ever, in any way, shape or form take that
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for granted. But there are times where, because of outside circumstances, you
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would think I am taking them for granted. If you asked me, I
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would of course argue like, of course not. But like if you judged
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by my actions, you'd be like, do you remember how lucky you are?
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And this is to say, guys, we're going to be human.
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This doesn't mean we can't have a bad day. And this is actually really
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important that I want you to hear. This doesn't mean that if over the
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weekend when this happened and I was already just I was at a limit and
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this hit me on the wrong day the wrong time, and I needed to
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let out emotion. This doesn't mean that I failed to test or you failed
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to test. It's about what we do after that, right. It's not
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the fact that I laughed about it like a psychopath and was like, well,
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that's not it. It's that I was able to compartmentalize in my mind
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that this is a blip on the radar compared to all the other things that
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are going right, that are going so stupidly right in my world, things
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that I that used to be on vision boards, things that when I was
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a little girl, Like if you had told me I would be, I
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would be married to a man like Chris Reeves who loves me in the way
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that Chris Read loves me and cares for our children. And I would have
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these two boys that are who they are, and this would be our life.
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And I have a business that I get to do from literally anywhere and
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I get to create whatever I want, and I get to speak into a
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microphone these words that are going to help move people in the right direction.
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God willing, Like, this is my life? Are you joke? Am
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I dreaming? Did I fall into a coma at the age of twelve?
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And I'm having like some trippy dream where this is the best dream ever?
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Because this is my life. And I would bet if you were to look
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at your own life. While of course there's always the things, in large
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part, I would bet you probably feel the same about most of it.
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That is gratitude, remembering how good you have it. Now does it get
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to get better? Of course? Will it get better? Of course,
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We're here to grow and evolve, that's the point, but not at the
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expense of appreciating all the good that we've created thus far and even looking at
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And this is when I was like having a moment driving home crying tears of
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gratitude. I was even thankful for the situation. You don't have to like.
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Gratitude doesn't look like being thankful for only the things going right. Ninja
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level gratitude is being able to look at everything in your life through the filter
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of how is this supporting me in some way, even if I can't see
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it now, how is this supporting my growth? Let me tell you something
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what I've experienced in the past six months as it relates to business, and
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like the tax thing and and feeling this pressure of okay, there's like we're
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we save right, like and my business does well. But like how I
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have felt the past few months, it's not it, not it. I
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will never feel this way again. I've got new wealth goals. Now.
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I'm somebody who like like, for example, I was preparing to buy my
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dream car in a couple of months. I was so excited about it.
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I'm ready. It's like it's on brand. I'm not even gonna tell you
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what it is because I just I'm so excited for when it happens. But
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like after everything that happened, And this isn't from a place of scarcy.
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This is from a place of I desire to feel differently at all times,
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Like as it relates to finances anyway, like I will have a cushion.
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I will have like there's a there's a new level of security that feels right
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to create right now, and it's and it feels it feels that it feels
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expansive. So now I have new goals of I'm not buying this car now.
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As a matter of fact, I avenue I want X amount in the
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bank period at all times, and then anything that comes on top of that
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we get to play with that feels. So I cannot tell you how expansive
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that feels for me. I cannot wait to be and we're already building it
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like it's already happening. And who's to say this. I don't get to
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get the car in a couple of months because things can shift. That like
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the way our businesses work, guys, we literally pull money from the air
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from this guy. This is why I have a program called pulling money from
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this guy, because that's what we do. You get the right idea.
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You have changed your life in a freaking week, sometimes a day. But
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this situation, the discomfort of it, shows me what is not working anymore.
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What I am not available for anymore. And what I'm not available for
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is to put myself in any more precarious situations where I need a mini miracle
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to feel safe. It's not happening. I will not be responsible for putting
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myself in that situation anymore. I would not have felt this way and now
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have these new what I believe is higher level wealth goals and intentions that are
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going to far serve me and my family and my business far more than what
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they were just a few months ago had it not been for this situation.
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So we can, like the ninja level pro level gratitude is looking at everything
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the good and what we perceive is bad because we're the ones that put the
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label on it. We see situations as good or bad. They're just situations.
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They're just things that you have attracted based on your vibe, your energy.
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And let me tell you how fast it can turn around. That's another
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thing I definitely underestimate. And I know it's really easy to underestimate because sometimes
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it feels like I'm never going to get out of this. It could turn
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around like that in a moment. But are you preparing for that outcome or
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are you preparing for the absolute worst, the absolute opposite thing of what you
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actually want. I wrote an email this week, and I really like how
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this I feel like, I don't know, I don't know how you feel
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when people say this, but I genuinely feel like a large part of this
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email was channeled in some way because I had a Unity Mastermind call which really
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uplifted me and just like it just this is why I believe in high level
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mentorship and long term mentorship, because it just getting around other people who are
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playing, I like to say, like, are playing a big game like
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you and are also feeling the same things and going through the same challenges.
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I often will come out the other end of these calls just totally reconnected with
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my vision and what I'm capable of. And it was one of those calls
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and I went on a walk and I had this massive breakthrough as it relates
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to a couple of different things, and I was like, I need to
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send an email, like I've got to I've got to share this. And
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I even said the email. I was like, I'm going to share this
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in a podcast too, and we'll go deep on it, which is what
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we're doing now. But I had I was like, I need to share
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this immediately, and it just flooded through me. It was the easiest email
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I've ever written. It was long, af but one of the things that
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I put in there was a decision when made from a place of your truth
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times desired outcome is gold. I didn't put that exactly, but I added
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the gold part for the podcast, but in the email it was your decision
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when made from a place of your truth times or plus whatever desired outcome equals
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what it is that you want. Because gratitude is a big, big piece
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of this, But then you also have to move right. The other piece
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is moving with the fear, moving through the situation. That's a big piece.
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You can't just sit in a room and feel grateful and not make decisions
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in most cases. So I feel like one of the things that you used
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to trip me up was I would feel the feelings that I wanted to feel.
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I would anchor into gratitude or at least to the best of my ability.
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But that preparation piece that I've been saying, like what are you preparing
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for the thing that you want or other thing that you don't want? The
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preparation comes in the action that you're taking. So as you're moving through your
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life, I want you to try and do this. When you go to
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take any action that is business related, anything important to you, I want
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you to ask yourself, is this in alignment with my truth? Which simply
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means what you really want in this moment, like what feels right in this
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moment, mixed with your desired outcome, what you want to create, how
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you want to come out the other side of this, what your desired outcome
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is. So an example of this is when I was having this breakthrough,
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I had this moment where I don't know why, but I just felt as
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if like I want to relaunch my Mastermind. And this had like kind of
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come up a little bit, but I always shot it down immediately because this
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was something that I had said previously that I was taking a break from My
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Mastermind because I wanted more time to focus on the podcast. I wanted to
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focus more on scaling my offers and my memberships, and frankly, I just
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needed more time in general. I had really I was booked and busy the
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past couple of years, big time, and I just needed more space.
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And I had said, and i'd kind of like in a weird way,
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promised myself and even publicly that I wasn't gonna be doing the Mastermind for a
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while. So because of that, anytime this feeling would come up, I
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was like, maybe I should, and then immediately shot it down. But
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then I funneled it through this right, like what is my truth and versus
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my desire at times my or mixed with my desired outcome. My truth is
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I was craving creating a group where we can have this level of conversations in
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deeper every single day. Like I missed this so much. I love my
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Mastermind and I've missed it, and I feel ready again. And my desired
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outcome is to create the level of business where this is included as part of
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the business. This is one of my favorite ways is to support people.
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So I allowed myself to pivot. We have to be able to do that.
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So as you're moving through your business and your life, ask yourself that
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question, what is your truth in this moment? Is it also in alignment
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with your desired outcome? If so? Move? Who cares what other people
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think? Who cares what you two weeks ago under different circumstances thought? Move?
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Allow yourself to pivot. It's usually when I'm able to make these decisions
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and trust that I get some of the most incredible experiences and outcomes. And
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this decision of relaunching My Masterlind has led. This has been one of the
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big shifts that's happened the past couple of weeks I've just seen. I'm seeing
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people moving again in my world in a way that it felt like it had
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slowed right, and it feels so good. It feels so good. So
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we can look through life through any filter that we wish. Right. You've
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heard of like rose colored glasses, and people walk around with rose colored glasses
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and everything's rosy and peachy and too good to be true. And then you've
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also heard of people who walk through life what I call with shitty the shit
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filter. And what I've noticed with myself is if I am not paying attention,
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it's not long before I can look at my own filter and see that
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it has been color shit, And now everything I look at looks like shit.
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It happens so easy. Sometimes it's frustrating, But with a little self
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awareness and consciously wanting to make this shift, all you got to do is
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wipe off the lens. And what that looks like is what's going right?
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The amount of people that walk through life only asking themselves what's going wrong?
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Where are the fires? What do I need to? What do I want
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to bitch about? Now? What's getting on my nerves? Now? What
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do I want to? You know, we all do this on some level.
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But some people this is like this is their permanent setting, or you
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would think it is. It's never a permanent setting, but you would think
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it was. Wipe off the lens. How are things going right? I
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would bet there are equal amounts, if not more, reasons to celebrate and
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romanticize in your life versus things that are going terribly wrong. I would bet
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so. I would encourage you, if you want to get on a train
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that's headed in the direction that you want to go, wipe off your lens,
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get on the right train. If you've been going in the opposite direction,
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get off the train, get on a different one. It's gonna take
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a little effort at first, because you've been used to going a certain way
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a certain direction for a certain amount of time. It's gonna take a little
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practice. It's gonna take a little effort to get the shit off, the
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filter off the lens, but it will come off, and then before you
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know it, you begin to acclimate to this. One of the things I
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love about my mentor, and I've always loved this, but now this has
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been one of the greatest things she's ever taught me. And I'm about to
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tell it to you, and it's right in line with the topic of conversation
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today. She is one of the most happy people you will ever meet.
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She's constantly celebrating, and when I mean, I don't mean big things,
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although like she she'll celebrate anything. But she celebrates a snowflake, she celebrates
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getting a free coffee, she celebrates the way the sun comes in through a
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window like this, Like she is walking gratitude. And when I first got
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around her, I used to think, like, you know, it's part
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of her brand, and you know, everybody, everybody's human, right,
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so like I knew I didn't think she she wasn't that by any means.
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But I also was like, but she's also human, so I'm sure it's
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not like that all the time. I've been in our world for two years
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now, close proximity. This is who this woman is. And I've seen
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her walk in the two years I've been with her, walk through some of
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the most difficult things that would have brought me to my knees, that would
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have brought any normal person to their knees and question of everything, and she
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still was able to conduct herself with grace and eventually through the lens of this
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this is how this served me and turned shit into freaking gold. This is
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one of the greatest lessons and it's one of those things I appreciated conceptually,
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and it's been in the past couple weeks that it finally hit me like a
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freaking sledgehammer, like this is it. And you might be thinking, yeah,
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I would be really happy too if I've made seventy seven million dollars to
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day in my business, because that's how much she's made. Yes. Same,
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But I fully believe. Now I've only been in her world for two
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years, but I fully believe this is just who she is and she's She's
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told many stories and many people back this, but I just like you can
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tell a person to their core and this is something like in my in my
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knower, in my knowing, this is it. This is one of the
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reasons. It's like what comes first, the chicken or the egg? What
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comes first, the reason to celebrate or the celebration. So many people wait
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for the reason to celebrate before they have the celebration, and her thing is
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celebrating regardless on the way to the celebration. That is the secret. I'm
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telling you. I'm telling you right now. That's it. It could be
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so simple, and we all over complicate, and we all take it for
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granted because it feels too simple, and in some ways it's not easy.
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But that's it. So let's ruminate on that, shall we. I hope
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this was helpful for you. If so, I would love a few screenshot
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and send it to me and tag me on Instagram. I would love if
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you left us five stars on iTunes or wherever you listen to this. I
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would just love if you really thought about this, and if you really put
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this into practice for yourself, just try it. Be curious. But if
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you think this is silly or I really don't think anybody listening, really,
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I feel like you wouldn't be listening to this if you thought this was silly.
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But if there's any part of you that doubts this, or you think
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it's too simple, or you think you're too far in a hole, or
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whatever the situation is, gamify this shit. Do it for two weeks.
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I don't even think you're gonna need that. I think I genuinely think if
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you do this good for three days, you're gonna blow your mind. But
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set a set a timer for two weeks and just see just who cares.
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What's the worst that can happen. You're happier, you have more fun.
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Ooh try it. I love you, I'll see you next week. Bye.