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- 0:00Speaker 1: Now.
- 0:00Speaker 2: Best morning show in Boston.
- 0:02Speaker 3: Billy and Lisa in the morning. It's just a great
- 0:04Speaker 3: start to my day.
- 0:05Speaker 4: On Kiss 108.
- 0:09Speaker 5: Well, good morning, everybody, and happy Monday. We apologize in advance.
- 0:13Speaker 5: We were all up a little late last night with
- 0:15Speaker 5: the VMAs, the MTV Awards, and Madonna.
- 0:20Speaker 6: Are you gonna say what i texted.
- 0:23Speaker 7: You um i'm gonna say a lot eventually this morning
- 0:27Speaker 7: i gotta ease into this yeah uh there are a
- 0:29Speaker 7: lot of things that kind of freak me out during
- 0:31Speaker 7: the show last night but the good news is our
- 0:34Speaker 7: guy somber was coming in for our jingle ball was
- 0:37Speaker 7: a big part of last night's awards he joined madonna
- 0:40Speaker 7: on stage he was also part of the george michael
- 0:43Speaker 7: tribute he's our guy somber coming in for jingle ball
- 0:47Speaker 7: and by the way we've got tickets this morning at
- 0:48Speaker 7: 7 10 and 8 10 and don't forget tomorrow morning
- 0:51Speaker 7: at 10.
- 0:51Speaker 2: Is the capital one pre-sale how.
- 0:53Speaker 5: About that huh riley i got it all in let's
- 0:56Speaker 5: go ah so the storm is on its way out
- 1:01Speaker 5: of here and uh Were any of us impacted in
- 1:04Speaker 5: a big way?
- 1:05Speaker 2: You, Lisa?
- 1:07Speaker 6: Not so much.
- 1:07Speaker 8: It was just like downpours. I couldn't believe how much
- 1:10Speaker 8: water was coming out of the sky at one point.
- 1:12Speaker 8: I'm just like, OK, can this please stop now? But no,
- 1:15Speaker 8: I didn't have any trees down or anything like that.
- 1:17Speaker 5: There were some towns on the Cape that got like
- 1:20Speaker 5: eight inches of snow.
- 1:22Speaker 2: I mean, rain. There was no snow.
- 1:24Speaker 9: Oh, OK.
- 1:25Speaker 2: No, the snow never came. All right.
- 1:27Speaker 5: I told you we were up late last night.
- 1:29Speaker 2: Madonna. Madonna.
- 1:30Speaker 6: Places like Weymouth and Scituate. I know in Weymouth, there
- 1:33Speaker 6: are a lot of boats lost.
- 1:35Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 1:35Speaker 5: Well, a lot of people decided to keep their boats
- 1:37Speaker 5: on the moorings. And when you have a windstorm, which
- 1:40Speaker 5: is what we had, as much rain as we had,
- 1:42Speaker 5: it was the wind that was terrifying everybody.
- 1:45Speaker 2: So a lot of the boats... Break off the moorings.
- 1:47Speaker 2: And they sank. And they flip over and they sank.
- 1:50Speaker 6: How about your boat?
- 1:51Speaker 2: Yeah, off yours. The boat is fine.
- 1:53Speaker 11: Nice.
- 1:54Speaker 2: It's a good boy. Yeah. He stood up to the
- 1:57Speaker 2: big nor'easter. I wasn't hoping for anything bad to happen. Yep.
- 2:01Speaker 2: Off the air, stared it all down.
- 2:03Speaker 3: Nope.
- 2:03Speaker 6: Did you stay on the boat?
- 2:05Speaker 2: I was on the boat a lot over the weekend
- 2:07Speaker 2: and throughout the storm. And yeah. No, he didn't sleep
- 2:10Speaker 2: on the boat. I called Michelle.
- 2:11Speaker 5: I didn't sleep on the boat because Michelle wouldn't have it.
- 2:15Speaker 2: Right. We had a conversation about Uncle Bill.
- 2:17Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 2:18Speaker 2: And he stayed home.
- 2:20Speaker 5: So, yeah, I was on the boat a lot and
- 2:22Speaker 5: I actually hosted an event.
- 2:25Speaker 2: I do it every two years.
- 2:27Speaker 5: It's for Lovelame, which is an amazing organization, equestrian therapy organization.
- 2:32Speaker 5: for special needs kids. It's just an awesome, a magical place.
- 2:35Speaker 5: But it's a hoedown.
- 2:37Speaker 2: And it went off without a hitch. Yeah, so I
- 2:40Speaker 2: was on a boat and hosting a hoedown. Hoedown. So
- 2:44Speaker 2: help me. All right. If you play boats and hoes,
- 2:47Speaker 2: I'm telling you. I don't want to disrespect the organization.
- 2:50Speaker 2: I would never do that.
- 2:51Speaker 12: No.
- 2:52Speaker 2: No, never. I've got hoes. Hoedown with Bill.
- 2:59Speaker 6: It's all that worry, and you were fine.
- 3:01Speaker 2: I know, you were fine.
- 3:02Speaker 5: I was never more worried about the boat than I
- 3:04Speaker 5: was with this storm. I thought something major.
- 3:07Speaker 2: At least someone sent me some audio of Bill hosting
- 3:11Speaker 2: at the gala. I would like to be someone's hoe
- 3:13Speaker 2: on a boat. So if you have a boat... A
- 3:18Speaker 2: maritime vehicle. Yeah. And you are in need of a
- 3:22Speaker 2: hoe to be on your boat. Okay, you need to stop.
- 3:25Speaker 2: I got you. You really need to stop.
- 3:27Speaker 5: Is that why they pay you all that money? It
- 3:29Speaker 5: was a hoe down. We celebrated Americana was the theme.
- 3:33Speaker 2: Oh, that's.
- 3:36Speaker 4: Good.
- 3:36Speaker 2: I heard it was a great idea. It was a
- 3:37Speaker 2: good thing. It was a nice thing. What are you doing?
- 3:41Speaker 2: That's fine. Like a monster. It's fine.
- 3:43Speaker 8: I'm a hoe.
- 3:45Speaker 3: I'm a hoe.
- 3:46Speaker 2: Okay, I'm done. The boat is fine. Awesome. I want
- 3:50Speaker 2: to get back to the boat. How are the chickens?
- 3:52Speaker 2: I was so worried. Didn't a tree fall on top
- 3:55Speaker 2: of the hen house? A giant. No, close. About a
- 3:57Speaker 2: couple of feet away, a huge tree came down in
- 4:00Speaker 2: my backyard. I mean, a big tree.
- 4:03Speaker 6: So lucky.
- 4:04Speaker 2: Just missed the chickens. They lived to see another day. Wow.
- 4:09Speaker 6: Thank God.
- 4:09Speaker 2: And it wasn't even your tree. It was the neighbor's tree.
- 4:13Speaker 6: Oh, so who pays for that?
- 4:14Speaker 2: Well, it's the mean lady next door. It was the
- 4:16Speaker 2: neighbor's tree. I'm not ruffling those feathers.
- 4:18Speaker 3: Yeah, good luck with that.
- 4:19Speaker 2: We're going to chop that thing up.
- 4:21Speaker 9: Yeah.
- 4:21Speaker 6: Will you do it yourself or will you get a
- 4:23Speaker 6: tree guy?
- 4:24Speaker 2: I have a friend that has a chainsaw.
- 4:26Speaker 12: Oh, good.
- 4:26Speaker 2: Okay.
- 4:27Speaker 6: Oh, that's impressive.
- 4:27Speaker 5: You may need to check with the neighbor who owns
- 4:31Speaker 5: the tree that fell in your yard because if you
- 4:34Speaker 5: chop it up, she may want it for firewood.
- 4:37Speaker 2: You think? It's her tree. Well, I'm going to put
- 4:39Speaker 2: it in the back of her house anyway. Stack it
- 4:42Speaker 2: up right on the borderline between your property.
- 4:45Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 4:46Speaker 2: But I woke up. My wife woke up and was
- 4:48Speaker 2: walking to the back of the house to the living room.
- 4:51Speaker 2: And then we have bay windows that overlook the yard.
- 4:53Speaker 2: And all I heard was a scream. She thought the
- 4:56Speaker 2: chickens were done screaming. Then I come out and look
- 4:59Speaker 2: and I'm like, oh, my God. Freaking tree is flat
- 5:02Speaker 2: on the ground.
- 5:02Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 5:03Speaker 8: Oh, that little gem was out there looking at the tree.
- 5:05Speaker 13: Yep.
- 5:06Speaker 2: Surveying the damage. Oh, boy. Yeah. Could have been worse.
- 5:10Speaker 6: I know, right? The whole chicken coop could have been smashed.
- 5:12Speaker 2: I know. Yeah.
- 5:13Speaker 5: So the storm canceled out the Ed Sheeran shows out
- 5:16Speaker 5: at Gillette Stadium.
- 5:16Speaker 2: Those never even happened. They refunded the tickets. Yeah.
- 5:20Speaker 5: Everybody got their money back. Riley, you went to a
- 5:23Speaker 5: show that wasn't canceled by the storm.
- 5:25Speaker 2: Role Model. Yeah.
- 5:26Speaker 3: Role Model out at the pavilion last night was not canceled.
- 5:29Speaker 3: It was very wet.
- 5:31Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:32Speaker 3: And he was very thankful for everybody who showed up
- 5:35Speaker 3: because he was like, I thought half of you were
- 5:36Speaker 3: not going to be here. It was a really good show.
- 5:39Speaker 3: For some reason, I thought he wasn't going to play Sally,
- 5:41Speaker 3: but he did.
- 5:42Speaker 2: So that was great. Why wouldn't he play Sally? It's
- 5:44Speaker 2: his only hit.
- 5:45Speaker 3: Because that's it.
- 5:48Speaker 2: Like five versions of Sally. He's just doing Sally over
- 5:50Speaker 2: and over again. I know. Sally! Come on.
- 5:56Speaker 3: He had to bring people out. It was like a thing.
- 5:58Speaker 3: Remember how he'd bring out all the celebrities? He didn't
- 6:00Speaker 3: want to do that anymore. And he said that. So
- 6:03Speaker 3: I just thought in my head, oh, he's just not playing.
- 6:05Speaker 2: Imagine if he didn't sing Sally.
- 6:07Speaker 6: Did he close on that?
- 6:08Speaker 3: Second to last.
- 6:10Speaker 2: I don't like that. I don't like that when they
- 6:11Speaker 2: try to change direction. on things right like people love
- 6:15Speaker 2: that you're known for it keep doing it play the
- 6:17Speaker 2: heads yeah don't be a sally don't be embarrassed by
- 6:21Speaker 2: it it's your biggest hit.
- 6:22Speaker 5: Yeah actually it's his only hit isn't it well not to.
- 6:27Speaker 3: Riley no comment i did request an interview and he
- 6:30Speaker 3: said no so you.
- 6:31Speaker 5: Know um he said no to kiss 108 Screw him.
- 6:36Speaker 2: No, I'm kidding. I'm kidding.
- 6:38Speaker 5: So the role model show, was that your weekend date?
- 6:42Speaker 5: Because I know you had a date.
- 6:45Speaker 3: OK, so, yeah, I need some help here because I
- 6:48Speaker 3: went on a date with a guy first date, but
- 6:51Speaker 3: I have gone on a previous couple of dates with
- 6:53Speaker 3: this other guy who I actually do like. But I thought,
- 6:57Speaker 3: you know, I'd only gone out with this original guy twice.
- 7:00Speaker 3: I thought now's the time to go on this other
- 7:02Speaker 3: date with a guy who I did have stuff in
- 7:04Speaker 3: common with. And so I went on the first date
- 7:08Speaker 3: and I did not like him as much as I
- 7:10Speaker 3: liked the original guy, like at all. But he's kind
- 7:13Speaker 3: of been like blowing up my phone a little bit,
- 7:15Speaker 3: like kind of like, hey, like, oh, boy.
- 7:17Speaker 2: And you haven't responded.
- 7:19Speaker 3: I just I don't know what to say. I don't
- 7:21Speaker 3: want to ghost him.
- 7:22Speaker 2: That's the thing.
- 7:22Speaker 3: I don't want to ghost him because that's like I'm
- 7:25Speaker 3: too old for that. But I just don't know what
- 7:27Speaker 3: to say because he was very nice. But it feels
- 7:30Speaker 3: weird to be like, I just liked this other guy more.
- 7:32Speaker 6: Well, I think you just have to be honest with him.
- 7:34Speaker 3: But like, how do I phrase that without just being
- 7:36Speaker 3: like talking.
- 7:37Speaker 6: About it on the radio?
- 7:38Speaker 2: Lisa, how does she phrase that?
- 7:40Speaker 6: Well, for starters, we're on the air listening right now.
- 7:43Speaker 2: Well, maybe not. Well, let's help Riley out.
- 7:45Speaker 6: Yeah, I think.
- 7:46Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah.
- 7:47Speaker 6: If you like the other guy.
- 7:49Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 7:49Speaker 2: So the other guy you went on a couple of days,
- 7:51Speaker 2: that's the coffee shop guy. She went on a coffee
- 7:54Speaker 2: shop date with him. Oh, you only go to coffee shops?
- 7:57Speaker 3: No, it was just like the first date.
- 7:58Speaker 2: That's actually a good idea. They went on a daytime
- 8:01Speaker 2: coffee shop.
- 8:01Speaker 6: It's neutral.
- 8:02Speaker 2: Date.
- 8:02Speaker 12: Yeah.
- 8:03Speaker 5: Okay.
- 8:04Speaker 2: Coffee time.
- 8:05Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 8:06Speaker 6: That's normal, though.
- 8:08Speaker 2: The iHeartRadio app is how you send messages to us
- 8:10Speaker 2: on the contact feature if you're listening right now. On
- 8:13Speaker 2: the app, just that red microphone button. Let's help producer
- 8:16Speaker 2: Riley out. What should you tell this guy? Because today
- 8:17Speaker 2: is like the deadline.
- 8:18Speaker 3: Yeah, I have to say something today because it was
- 8:20Speaker 3: this weekend or else it's just like it's rude.
- 8:23Speaker 2: I'm sure he was very nice. He's just not the guy.
- 8:25Speaker 3: He's not for you. Yeah, but what do I say
- 8:28Speaker 3: without being mean?
- 8:29Speaker 5: Well, our listeners are going to give you some ideas
- 8:31Speaker 5: on what to say. Send us some talkbacks right now.
- 8:33Speaker 2: Don't take Billy's idea. Let's not go down that road. Yeah,
- 8:37Speaker 2: I'm going to stay out of it. Yeah, he's got
- 8:39Speaker 2: other concerns. He's got other concerns. Oh, my God. You've
- 8:42Speaker 2: got to stop. It was a hoedown. We celebrated Americana.
- 8:47Speaker 2: And raised a lot of money.
- 8:48Speaker 5: Saturday night and raised a lot of money for Lovelane,
- 8:50Speaker 5: which is one of the best organizations on the planet.
- 8:54Speaker 6: Now, the entertainment update with Billy Costa on Kiss 108. Okay,
- 8:57Speaker 6: we've got tickets for the Jingle Ball right now.
- 8:59Speaker 3: Call at 25-877-617-1108. You'll need the keyword, and the.
- 9:00Speaker 2: Keyword is somber.
- 9:12Speaker 5: And don't forget the Capital One presale, 10 o'clock tomorrow morning. Now,
- 9:15Speaker 5: somber is the key word because he's coming in for
- 9:18Speaker 5: the Kiss 108 Jingle Ball. And last night, he was
- 9:22Speaker 5: part of the George Michael tribute on the VMAs. I
- 9:33Speaker 5: got to tell you, for that entire George Michael tribute,
- 9:36Speaker 5: all I can think of was you.
- 9:37Speaker 6: Yeah, I was thinking of myself.
- 9:39Speaker 5: The biggest George Michael fan I've ever known.
- 9:46Speaker 2: I wasn't thinking that way. I was thinking the George
- 9:48Speaker 2: Michael thing.
- 9:49Speaker 3: No, I know. I felt the same way.
- 9:51Speaker 6: I adored George Michael.
- 9:53Speaker 8: And when he died, it was such a tragic moment
- 9:57Speaker 8: because he was such a performer.
- 9:58Speaker 6: But I thought Sombra did a great job.
- 10:00Speaker 13: Yeah.
- 10:00Speaker 2: And the tour documentary is coming out. George Michael. That's
- 10:03Speaker 2: going to be that's going to be good. I thought
- 10:05Speaker 2: it was cool watching Sombra on the red carpet. Then
- 10:07Speaker 2: during the Madonna performance and that performance and thinking to myself,
- 10:11Speaker 2: we just announced Jingle Ball on Friday. He's coming to
- 10:13Speaker 2: Jingle Ball tomorrow. And here he is all over the VMA.
- 10:16Speaker 6: Yeah, he was part of an iconic moment last night.
- 10:18Speaker 5: Yeah, and we're waiting for caller 25 right now. During
- 10:21Speaker 5: that Madonna performance, she must have had 100 people on
- 10:24Speaker 5: stage with her at one point. They were jumping in
- 10:26Speaker 5: and out of these closet-type things. And somber jumped right
- 10:30Speaker 5: out at you. Instantly, I said to Michelle, oh, my God,
- 10:32Speaker 5: that's somber. You can't miss him.
- 10:33Speaker 2: He's so tall.
- 10:34Speaker 1: Thank you.
- 10:34Speaker 2: He is so tall.
- 10:36Speaker 5: And Justin finally found the Madonna clip I was looking for.
- 10:39Speaker 2: It's ready to dance.
- 10:40Speaker 5: Here we go.
- 10:46Speaker 2: We're poking a little fun.
- 10:48Speaker 5: This morning, but the production, her opening number, the production
- 10:51Speaker 5: itself was mind-blowing.
- 10:52Speaker 2: It really was.
- 10:53Speaker 6: It was fun.
- 10:53Speaker 2: It really was. I didn't even care that she wasn't
- 10:55Speaker 2: singing or wasn't doing much. It was everything that was
- 10:58Speaker 2: happening around her.
- 10:59Speaker 5: Well, it's kind of, you didn't expect her to be singing, right?
- 11:02Speaker 5: So it wasn't that big a disappointment.
- 11:03Speaker 8: I loved all the cameos, like Julia Garner as the
- 11:06Speaker 8: express yourself.
- 11:07Speaker 6: Madonna was so cool.
- 11:08Speaker 2: Well, because she's rumored to play Madonna in the biopic. Yeah.
- 11:12Speaker 2: And then Seth Rogen, like what was he doing there?
- 11:14Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 11:15Speaker 6: Smoking a cigarette.
- 11:15Speaker 2: Yeah, he just showed up on stage.
- 11:17Speaker 5: There were at least three different people that were sparking
- 11:20Speaker 5: up cigarettes in the building last night, even on stage.
- 11:23Speaker 5: Did a Nirvana presentation. One of the guys just.
- 11:26Speaker 2: Took the matches out and sparked up a... But I'm like,
- 11:29Speaker 2: what's going on here? I know. Smoking back? So let's go.
- 11:32Speaker 2: I don't know. My mother-in-law, you know?
- 11:36Speaker 3: I didn't watch the VMAs, but I was up late
- 11:37Speaker 3: at the Role Model concert last night. And considering the
- 11:40Speaker 3: wind and the rain, it was just an incredible show.
- 11:42Speaker 2: I had so much fun.
- 11:43Speaker 4: But the true.
- 11:44Speaker 12: Highlight this weekend was the Jonas Brothers.
- 11:46Speaker 3: I went to Boston and Manchester.
- 11:48Speaker 6: And they are just such a great performer.
- 11:50Speaker 11: So much energy.
- 11:51Speaker 3: And Billy, I have to tell you, Kevin's guitar was
- 11:53Speaker 3: definitely plugged in.
- 11:54Speaker 14: It was great.
- 11:55Speaker 1: Have a great day.
- 11:56Speaker 2: Riley, you were at Role Model. How was it? You're
- 11:58Speaker 2: a big fan. I was.
- 12:00Speaker 3: It was really good. He didn't have a huge stage production,
- 12:03Speaker 3: which ended up being really fun because it was just
- 12:06Speaker 3: literally him. You could hear his amazing vocals, but it
- 12:09Speaker 3: was very wet. Not too bad. Not like the Noah
- 12:11Speaker 3: Khan rain show that we were all at, but it
- 12:14Speaker 3: was definitely wet.
- 12:16Speaker 12: I saw Riley in the pit of Role Model last night,
- 12:21Speaker 12: and I just need to know, how do you wake
- 12:24Speaker 12: up and operate for work so early the next day
- 12:27Speaker 12: because i'm driving to work right now and i think
- 12:30Speaker 12: i could cry and i'm gonna get two large iced
- 12:33Speaker 12: coffees it's not easy.
- 12:35Speaker 3: No it's not and that's actually funny because i slept
- 12:37Speaker 3: through my alarms this morning i was five minutes late
- 12:39Speaker 3: wow i woke up when i was supposed to be
- 12:41Speaker 3: leaving and.
- 12:42Speaker 5: You come in from new so you had to go
- 12:44Speaker 5: home to new hampshire north country and then drive back
- 12:47Speaker 5: in this.
- 12:47Speaker 3: Morning yes wow but it's worth it loved him.
- 12:51Speaker 5: The talkbacker mentioned the Jonas Brothers. Yeah, they did the
- 12:54Speaker 5: TD Garden Friday night. Joe Jonas went to Children's Hospital
- 12:58Speaker 5: in Boston.
- 12:59Speaker 2: Hey, everybody. What's up? It's Joe Jonas here. I'm at
- 13:01Speaker 2: the Boston Children's Hospital. And I just want to say hello.
- 13:04Speaker 2: Thinking of all of you, sending you love and strength.
- 13:07Speaker 2: You guys are awesome.
- 13:10Speaker 5: Bye.
- 13:11Speaker 6: Yeah, that was so cool that he did that.
- 13:13Speaker 2: I really like the Jonas Brothers.
- 13:15Speaker 12: I do, too.
- 13:15Speaker 6: They're good guys.
- 13:16Speaker 2: It seems like they do everything right.
- 13:18Speaker 6: They're good guys.
- 13:19Speaker 2: They do, all three of them.
- 13:21Speaker 4: Yep.
- 13:21Speaker 2: Just seem like, you know, there's not really much drama
- 13:25Speaker 2: or controversy. And it's great to hear Kevin's guitar finally
- 13:28Speaker 2: got plugged in. Yeah, well. I'm kidding. I hope they
- 13:33Speaker 2: know I'm kidding. I'm just kidding.
- 13:35Speaker 5: Olivia Rodrigo brought the tour to Hartford, Connecticut this weekend.
- 13:39Speaker 2: First stop of the tour, by the way.
- 13:49Speaker 5: Now, during the show, it seemed like her dress disintegrated
- 13:54Speaker 5: from a rain sequence.
- 13:56Speaker 2: But apparently it was all intentional, Lisa.
- 13:59Speaker 6: It was actually true. I thought it was AI at first.
- 14:01Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 14:01Speaker 6: It was actually part of the show. It was artificial rain.
- 14:05Speaker 8: And yes, the dress that was made was made to
- 14:07Speaker 8: disappear completely.
- 14:08Speaker 6: And show the red corset underneath. I thought it was
- 14:11Speaker 6: so cool.
- 14:11Speaker 2: Yeah, I love their putting all these things into the production.
- 14:14Speaker 2: I mean, think about the Ariana Grande show we went to,
- 14:17Speaker 2: the VMAs last night, and the Olivia. I saw that.
- 14:20Speaker 2: I was like, is that real?
- 14:21Speaker 6: Well, it's called the Unraveled Tour. Oh, good point.
- 14:24Speaker 3: Yeah, it was very cool.
- 14:26Speaker 2: I saw some of the videos. She has flowers all
- 14:29Speaker 2: over the stage there. Yeah, it's pretty cool. I gave
- 14:32Speaker 2: away Olivia Rodrigo tickets Friday night at the gala that
- 14:35Speaker 2: I was hosting. Four seats.
- 14:37Speaker 5: Oh, amazing.
- 14:37Speaker 2: To Olivia Rodrigo. Yeah, those fetched a lot of money.
- 14:40Speaker 6: Good morning.
- 14:41Speaker 9: This is Sarah from Syracuse. First time talk backer. Justin,
- 14:45Speaker 9: you met my brother Stephen Friday night from Big Bop
- 14:48Speaker 9: It's Barbecue at the Merrimack Valley Auction Gala. He said
- 14:52Speaker 9: you did a great job and seeing. And I know
- 14:55Speaker 9: it was a really successful event for them. So thank
- 14:58Speaker 9: you for doing that. Appreciate listening every day from upstate
- 15:02Speaker 9: New York and having you all fill me in on
- 15:04Speaker 9: what is my favorite city in the world.
- 15:07Speaker 1: Thanks.
- 15:08Speaker 2: Big Bopper's Barbecue. That's what we're dealing with. Yeah, that
- 15:11Speaker 2: was one of the hot items on the live auction.
- 15:13Speaker 2: I hosted them at Merrimack Valley YMCA Gala. It was
- 15:16Speaker 2: really good. And Steve flags the owner. And ahead of time,
- 15:18Speaker 2: he came up to me and he goes, I'm really
- 15:19Speaker 2: nervous that this thing isn't going to sell.
- 15:22Speaker 12: It was a.
- 15:22Speaker 2: 30-person backyard barbecue. So he would come, he would smoke
- 15:26Speaker 2: me and teach you how to– Do what he does. Thousands.
- 15:29Speaker 6: That's amazing.
- 15:30Speaker 2: It was one of the hot items. While I was
- 15:32Speaker 2: doing the auction, I was looking at him like, see
- 15:34Speaker 2: what I mean, Steve? You see what's going on here?
- 15:36Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 15:36Speaker 5: I mean, 30 people, that's a big party. It could
- 15:39Speaker 5: be a family reunion.
- 15:41Speaker 13: Yeah.
- 15:41Speaker 2: It could be a graduation party, a block party, whatever.
- 15:44Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 15:44Speaker 2: So thank you to him. Thank you to his sister, too,
- 15:46Speaker 2: for listening. We appreciate it. Back to Olivia Rodrigo for
- 15:49Speaker 2: a second.
- 15:49Speaker 5: Don't forget, she's bringing her tour to Boston, the TD Garden,
- 15:52Speaker 5: for three shows, October 15th, 17th, and 18th. And in
- 15:57Speaker 5: case you missed it, everybody was busy this weekend. Jalen
- 16:00Speaker 5: Brunson of the Knicks was the guest host on Saturday
- 16:02Speaker 5: Night Live.
- 16:03Speaker 2: The new season is just a couple weeks away. And
- 16:05Speaker 2: I got to say, it's going to be pretty cool
- 16:06Speaker 2: to be back in Madison Square Garden. Looking around like, wow,
- 16:12Speaker 2: just a few months ago, this was the exact spot
- 16:15Speaker 2: where Taylor and Travis got married.
- 16:20Speaker 5: Sabrina Carpenter was a big part of the VMAs last night.
- 16:23Speaker 5: And just announced she and Tom Holland will be in
- 16:27Speaker 5: the Fred Astaire biopic.
- 16:30Speaker 6: Perfect for her.
- 16:31Speaker 5: Fred Astaire, one of the greatest dancers, legendary dancers of
- 16:36Speaker 5: all time. Fred Astaire goes back to the.
- 16:39Speaker 2: 40s or something.
- 16:40Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 16:40Speaker 2: Don't you think that Tom Holland is like the perfect
- 16:43Speaker 2: casting for this?
- 16:44Speaker 11: Perfect.
- 16:44Speaker 6: And so is Sabrina.
- 16:45Speaker 13: Yeah.
- 16:46Speaker 2: He looks just like him. Is he light on his feet?
- 16:48Speaker 2: I mean, I'd hope so.
- 16:49Speaker 3: He actually grew up tap dancing. His parents are dancers.
- 16:53Speaker 3: He's an amazing dancer.
- 16:54Speaker 5: How do you know that Tom Holland was a childhood
- 16:57Speaker 5: tap dancer?
- 16:57Speaker 2: Wait, Riley, before we went on the air, Billy said
- 17:00Speaker 2: to me, Producer Riley has no idea who Fred Astaire is.
- 17:02Speaker 1: Oh.
- 17:03Speaker 3: No, I do.
- 17:04Speaker 2: You definitely don't.
- 17:04Speaker 3: Know who Fred Astaire is.
- 17:06Speaker 2: Yeah, I know.
- 17:07Speaker 3: Well, what's that really famous movie that he's tap dancing in?
- 17:11Speaker 3: Singing in the Rain?
- 17:12Speaker 1: Is that him?
- 17:12Speaker 2: No, that was Gene Kelly. Oh. Gene Kelly was Singing
- 17:16Speaker 2: in the Rain.
- 17:16Speaker 3: I've seen videos of this man.
- 17:18Speaker 2: How did I know? Singing in the rain.
- 17:20Speaker 5: Yeah. Okay.
- 17:21Speaker 2: Singing in the rain. Okay.
- 17:22Speaker 6: Not what I said. That's so cool, though.
- 17:24Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 17:24Speaker 4: All right.
- 17:25Speaker 5: Sabrina and Tom Holland. Meantime, the Patriots, we haven't talked
- 17:29Speaker 5: about this much at all this morning. Oh, my God.
- 17:32Speaker 5: They were blown out by the Jaguars, 35-6. Drake May
- 17:37Speaker 5: was awful. He coughed up the ball three times. It
- 17:41Speaker 5: was an ugly game all around for the Patriots. Even
- 17:44Speaker 5: Coach Vrabel knows that.
- 17:45Speaker 2: Well, my concern level is very high for this football team.
- 17:49Speaker 2: I just want to coach and improve. We can't do
- 17:54Speaker 2: things in all three phases that end up getting you beat.
- 17:59Speaker 2: So certainly we have to fix a lot of things.
- 18:03Speaker 2: There's a lot of concern here. Terrible. First three games, terrible.
- 18:06Speaker 2: I don't know what's happening with Drake May.
- 18:08Speaker 5: Doesn't it seem like he's throwing more passes to the
- 18:11Speaker 5: opposition than he is to his own guys?
- 18:13Speaker 2: There were a couple of bad ones yesterday. Right into
- 18:16Speaker 2: their arms, in the letters. And the ball slipping out
- 18:18Speaker 2: of his hand.
- 18:19Speaker 6: Yeah, this is a confidence issue, though, now.
- 18:21Speaker 2: Yeah. I was at a surprise birthday party for my grandmother,
- 18:25Speaker 2: and so we're all watching it in this restaurant. And
- 18:27Speaker 2: we're all going, put Tommy Cutlets in. You texted me,
- 18:30Speaker 2: put Cutlets in. Sit down, Drake. And they did. Yeah,
- 18:34Speaker 2: they took him out late in the game. How about
- 18:36Speaker 2: those Patriots next week in Buffalo? Good luck. Yeah, Bill's
- 18:42Speaker 2: a 3-0. They're on fire.
- 18:44Speaker 5: And a lot of people are picking them to win
- 18:46Speaker 5: the Super Bowl with Josh Allen this year. Meantime, Red Sox-Yankees,
- 18:51Speaker 5: here we go. Playoff baseball game one. Red Sox-Yankees tomorrow.
- 18:55Speaker 2: That is next. Huge. We're in the playoffs, guys.
- 18:58Speaker 3: You don't want to say anything about Pasternak becoming the
- 19:00Speaker 3: captain of the Bruins?
- 19:00Speaker 5: Oh, how about those Boston Bruins? They finally have a captain.
- 19:03Speaker 5: First captain since Brad Marshawn.
- 19:06Speaker 2: Marshawn, yeah.
- 19:07Speaker 3: I'm very excited about this. This is the choice that
- 19:10Speaker 3: I wanted, so.
- 19:11Speaker 2: Paster, what's up, dog? Yeah, Cam Neely is going to
- 19:14Speaker 2: have a press conference today. Cam Neely is coming in soon.
- 19:18Speaker 2: He's coming into this show within the week.
- 19:21Speaker 6: I just saw Hannah's wife at a restaurant opening last week.
- 19:24Speaker 2: Oh, did you say hello?
- 19:25Speaker 6: I did, yeah.
- 19:26Speaker 2: And Lisa from the Billy and Lisa Morning Show.
- 19:28Speaker 4: Hey, Kat.
- 19:29Speaker 2: Awesome. How are you doing?
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- 19:50Speaker 2: To john on line four good morning john.
- 19:56Speaker 5: John how are you how are you uh john john
- 20:02Speaker 5: did you enter the logan contest.
- 20:04Speaker 2: Yet I didn't.
- 20:07Speaker 12: You know what?
- 20:08Speaker 13: I got a text from my daughter to call in
- 20:10Speaker 13: today for my granddaughters to try to win tickets.
- 20:13Speaker 5: Well, you called in and you made it. You're calling 25.
- 20:15Speaker 5: All you need now, John, is the key word.
- 20:20Speaker 9: That's Samba.
- 20:21Speaker 2: Samba. He should answer the voice of Logan. Samba is
- 20:25Speaker 2: the key word. We love you, John. Say hello to
- 20:28Speaker 2: Somerville for us. But hang on. Do not hang up, OK?
- 20:31Speaker 2: You got it.
- 20:32Speaker 10: Thank you very much.
- 20:33Speaker 2: All right. All right. There goes Johnny. Here's Johnny. There
- 20:37Speaker 2: we go.
- 20:38Speaker 12: Wow.
- 20:39Speaker 2: Very good. Thank you again. 8-10, your next shot at
- 20:41Speaker 2: Jingle Ball tickets, all right? How about Snoop last night?
- 20:44Speaker 2: If you just now tuned in, man, where the hell
- 20:47Speaker 2: you been?
- 20:47Speaker 3: I love Billy and Lisa.
- 20:49Speaker 12: Kiss 108.
- 20:50Speaker 5: So earlier in the show, we found out that producer
- 20:53Speaker 5: Riley had a busy weekend. She went to role model.
- 20:56Speaker 5: That was not a date. Um, but, um, she did
- 21:01Speaker 5: have a date and, uh, there's a problem. And, uh.
- 21:06Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 21:06Speaker 6: Run us through what happened.
- 21:07Speaker 2: Well, first and foremost, 877-617-1108. Tell us what is the
- 21:12Speaker 2: best way that you told someone you are not interested.
- 21:16Speaker 2: That is the question we want to know.
- 21:17Speaker 6: Right.
- 21:18Speaker 3: So I, I was, I've seen this other guy like twice.
- 21:21Speaker 3: So I thought now is the time to see somebody
- 21:24Speaker 3: else that I had a connection with. So I went
- 21:26Speaker 3: on a first date with a different guy. Um, He
- 21:29Speaker 3: was super nice, super, super nice. We had stuff in common.
- 21:32Speaker 3: But when I was on this date, all I could
- 21:34Speaker 3: think about is the other guy. I liked him better.
- 21:37Speaker 3: So this guy, the second guy that I don't really
- 21:41Speaker 3: have interest in anymore has been texting me and I
- 21:44Speaker 3: don't want to ghost him. But I also don't really
- 21:46Speaker 3: know how to say I'm not interested anymore. Because I
- 21:50Speaker 3: don't want to say, like, I like this other guy better.
- 21:52Speaker 3: That just seems a little like, why am I throwing
- 21:54Speaker 3: it in his face? But I just don't know how
- 21:56Speaker 3: to phrase, like, I'm good text.
- 21:57Speaker 2: So the first guy, right, the first two dates, that's
- 22:00Speaker 2: coffee shop guy.
- 22:02Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 22:02Speaker 2: Went on the first date to a coffee shop.
- 22:04Speaker 4: Yes.
- 22:04Speaker 2: So you like him. You think you like him better
- 22:06Speaker 2: than this new guy. And so you haven't responded back
- 22:09Speaker 2: to him.
- 22:10Speaker 3: I just don't know what to say.
- 22:12Speaker 2: Oh, God. And so when did he text you yesterday?
- 22:15Speaker 3: Yeah, yesterday.
- 22:16Speaker 6: So are you thinking about texting him or calling him?
- 22:19Speaker 3: I'm going to text him. I don't know him well
- 22:20Speaker 3: enough to call.
- 22:21Speaker 6: Him, but I know that's a valid question, but you
- 22:24Speaker 6: got to do it today. You should do it soon.
- 22:28Speaker 4: Right.
- 22:28Speaker 8: And I think that it's nice that you want to
- 22:32Speaker 8: say something to him and not ghost him.
- 22:34Speaker 11: Right.
- 22:34Speaker 3: Yeah. I feel like I'm too old for that.
- 22:36Speaker 2: Right.
- 22:37Speaker 8: So I think you just say that this is, I,
- 22:41Speaker 8: I really liked getting to meet you and know you and,
- 22:44Speaker 8: but I just, um, I'm not really feeling it or
- 22:47Speaker 8: I'm just not.
- 22:48Speaker 6: I mean, you just have to sort of tell him.
- 22:51Speaker 2: Do you remember his name? Yes.
- 22:55Speaker 6: But you like him as.
- 22:57Speaker 3: Yeah, he was nice. He didn't do anything wrong. I
- 22:59Speaker 3: just have a better connection with the other guy.
- 23:01Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 23:02Speaker 6: I don't think you should mention it. Like you said,
- 23:03Speaker 6: don't mention the other guy.
- 23:04Speaker 2: And that's what the dating is all about, right? Sometimes
- 23:07Speaker 2: it doesn't work out. I think the fact that she's
- 23:08Speaker 2: even considering responding to him and not ghosting him in
- 23:11Speaker 2: 2026 is good and nice.
- 23:13Speaker 3: Well, one of my friends that I saw after I
- 23:16Speaker 3: saw him, I was like telling her the situation. She
- 23:17Speaker 3: was like, you don't owe him a response. Just don't answer.
- 23:19Speaker 2: Oh, see, that's wrong.
- 23:20Speaker 3: And I was like, well, that's still a little mean.
- 23:24Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 23:24Speaker 8: But you seem nice and you want to like.
- 23:26Speaker 6: Say something to him because you never know.
- 23:28Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 23:29Speaker 3: He doesn't deserve to know, like to not understand why
- 23:31Speaker 3: I never answered.
- 23:32Speaker 2: Is there any any thought that if you tell this
- 23:36Speaker 2: guy you are all set and then you continue with
- 23:38Speaker 2: coffee shop guy and that doesn't work out, it's like, oh, man, well,
- 23:41Speaker 2: I already told the other guy.
- 23:42Speaker 5: Oh, no, I'm not worried about even without coffee shop guy.
- 23:46Speaker 5: You still really don't think it's working with the new guy.
- 23:49Speaker 3: I think so.
- 23:50Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 23:50Speaker 3: OK.
- 23:51Speaker 4: Good morning, guys. Just regarding Riley's situation, I don't think
- 23:57Speaker 4: that she should rule out either guy at this point.
- 24:02Speaker 4: She only went on one date with guy number two.
- 24:05Speaker 4: He might have been nervous. He might be a really
- 24:07Speaker 4: great guy. So and guy number one, she doesn't know
- 24:13Speaker 4: enough information about. So I would say be open minded
- 24:16Speaker 4: about both still early.
- 24:18Speaker 2: Well, she had two dates with coffee shop guy and
- 24:21Speaker 2: those went well.
- 24:21Speaker 5: Yes.
- 24:22Speaker 2: And they were both at a coffee shop.
- 24:24Speaker 3: No, that doesn't matter.
- 24:26Speaker 2: I just said that to give a name to the
- 24:28Speaker 2: other guy. I just wanted to know what kind of
- 24:29Speaker 2: a quality date it was. Oh, gotcha.
- 24:33Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 24:33Speaker 3: Coffee drinks. Easy, easy dates.
- 24:36Speaker 2: OK, second date went well, too. Yeah, yeah, yeah. So
- 24:40Speaker 2: why go on the date with the other guy?
- 24:41Speaker 3: OK, that's the thing. Like, because I had only gone
- 24:45Speaker 3: on two dates with this first guy who I liked,
- 24:49Speaker 3: but like. I don't I didn't know if I liked
- 24:52Speaker 3: him also because like I was going out with him
- 24:55Speaker 3: and he was nice. Like I was like, maybe I
- 24:57Speaker 3: should go out with somebody else who I thought I
- 24:59Speaker 3: might have a connection with to see. Like, do I
- 25:02Speaker 3: really like him or do I just like that I'm
- 25:04Speaker 3: dating him?
- 25:05Speaker 6: So did you kiss him?
- 25:07Speaker 3: The first guy, yes. The second guy, no.
- 25:09Speaker 2: Coffee shop guy?
- 25:10Speaker 3: Yes.
- 25:10Speaker 13: Nice.
- 25:10Speaker 12: Coffee time.
- 25:11Speaker 2: Wow, that worked out.
- 25:13Speaker 6: All right, so coffee time is working.
- 25:15Speaker 2: Coffee time.
- 25:16Speaker 6: Yeah.
- 25:16Speaker 2: That should be the name, Lise, right? Coffee time.
- 25:18Speaker 13: Yeah, Ellie, I adore you. Dating is very, very difficult.
- 25:22Speaker 13: And I'm not sure if guy one knows about guy two.
- 25:28Speaker 13: But if he doesn't, you can do the mature thing
- 25:33Speaker 13: and say, I had a really good time. I don't
- 25:37Speaker 13: think we're necessarily a match. You could even call him
- 25:42Speaker 13: and say that. That could like break records in the
- 25:46Speaker 13: dating world.
- 25:48Speaker 2: I'm freaking out just at the thought of the call.
- 25:50Speaker 8: I know that's why I'm like I can't do that
- 25:52Speaker 8: I don't I don't you only now with them twice
- 25:54Speaker 8: I don't think a call is necessary it would be
- 25:56Speaker 8: nice like she said but.
- 25:58Speaker 3: Yeah yeah and I understand why people are like why
- 26:00Speaker 3: like why cut off the second guy at all I'm
- 26:03Speaker 3: just like I don't really date like that and I
- 26:06Speaker 3: know which sounds weird because I did go on this
- 26:08Speaker 3: second date when I liked the first guy but I
- 26:11Speaker 3: I get stressed I can't handle two people it's a
- 26:14Speaker 3: lot to manage exactly I'm like dating multiple people is
- 26:16Speaker 3: just like really stressful.
- 26:18Speaker 2: You're going to be so relieved once you make the
- 26:20Speaker 2: contact today.
- 26:21Speaker 14: Yeah.
- 26:21Speaker 2: With guy number two. But you have to put it
- 26:23Speaker 2: behind you. You have to do it today, right? Today
- 26:25Speaker 2: is like the deadline. I say you put.
- 26:27Speaker 5: It behind you and then a minute later, call the
- 26:30Speaker 5: first guy and set up a date. Coffee time.
- 26:32Speaker 2: But it doesn't have to be coffee again. That was
- 26:36Speaker 2: just the first date. Was the second date a restaurant though?
- 26:38Speaker 3: No, we went to Tuscan actually.
- 26:40Speaker 2: I'll just walk around the village.
- 26:42Speaker 3: Well, we sat outside and like the beer garden.
- 26:45Speaker 2: Oh, yeah.
- 26:46Speaker 3: There's a lot of music.
- 26:47Speaker 2: Oh, that's perfect.
- 26:48Speaker 12: Very nice.
- 26:49Speaker 2: Riley, just tell this guy that you had a nice time,
- 26:52Speaker 2: but you're not feeling it.
- 26:53Speaker 12: I'll leave it at that.
- 26:55Speaker 2: It could be short and simple.
- 26:56Speaker 13: I know.
- 26:56Speaker 3: I feel like I'm stressing myself out a little too
- 26:59Speaker 3: much about like the whole thing. Like, I feel like
- 27:03Speaker 3: I could easily just be like, thank you so much.
- 27:05Speaker 2: I'm good.
- 27:05Speaker 6: Yeah, it was two dates.
- 27:07Speaker 2: One date.
- 27:07Speaker 1: One date. Yeah.
- 27:08Speaker 3: So like.
- 27:09Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 27:09Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 27:10Speaker 6: Just nip it.
- 27:11Speaker 3: I just don't want to be like me.
- 27:12Speaker 6: But you're not. You're not being. You're actually being so
- 27:14Speaker 6: nice that.
- 27:16Speaker 5: Yeah.
- 27:16Speaker 6: That you're talking about.
- 27:18Speaker 2: You're not ghosting the guy.
- 27:19Speaker 6: And thinking about his feelings.
- 27:21Speaker 5: You know, maybe introduce him to a friend of yours.
- 27:24Speaker 5: You know, I think you'd really like my friend.
- 27:27Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 27:27Speaker 2: Honesty. Honesty is always the best policy.
- 27:29Speaker 3: Lesbian.
- 27:30Speaker 2: That's what they say. Oh, God, Bill.
- 27:32Speaker 1: 877-617-1108.
- 27:36Speaker 2: Is our phone number? What should Riley do? How should
- 27:39Speaker 2: she tell this second guy she's not interested? Or what
- 27:43Speaker 2: are some ways that you've done it in your dating life?
- 27:46Speaker 2: We'd love to hear from you. Give us a call.
- 27:47Speaker 2: Leave us a talk back.
- 27:48Speaker 6: Billy and Lisa in the morning.
- 27:50Speaker 3: Kiss 108.
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- 28:02Speaker 2: So producer Riley is in a jam. She had a
- 28:05Speaker 2: couple of dates with a guy, liked.
- 28:06Speaker 5: The guy, but then went on a date with another
- 28:09Speaker 5: guy and didn't really like him all that much.
- 28:11Speaker 2: Nice guy. Didn't do anything wrong.
- 28:13Speaker 5: He just wasn't as nice as the first guy.
- 28:15Speaker 2: And now she doesn't know what to do.
- 28:17Speaker 12: Yeah.
- 28:18Speaker 2: Today's like the deadline. The guy was texting her after
- 28:20Speaker 2: the first date and she doesn't want to go out
- 28:22Speaker 2: with him again. But what should she do? What should
- 28:24Speaker 2: she say? Text him? Call him?
- 28:26Speaker 1: Bradley, can you text this guy this morning so we
- 28:29Speaker 1: can find out his response?
- 28:31Speaker 4: Hopefully before the show is over.
- 28:33Speaker 3: Yeah, I knew people were going to say that, and
- 28:35Speaker 3: I assumed. That's why I needed the advice now.
- 28:37Speaker 2: Yeah, could you get your phone? Well, no, after topic time. Yeah,
- 28:42Speaker 2: we'll get it. We'll get the update if he's up early.
- 28:45Speaker 2: Who knows?
- 28:45Speaker 10: I think what I've realized is that it just kind
- 28:48Speaker 10: of got to say, I'm not interested because there have
- 28:52Speaker 10: been times where I wish I said that, and I didn't.
- 28:57Speaker 10: So there's also been a couple times where people have
- 28:59Speaker 10: just been really annoying, and I just literally said, you're
- 29:02Speaker 10: so annoying.
- 29:03Speaker 2: I can't deal with you um.
- 29:04Speaker 10: Which i know is super rude but it happens um
- 29:09Speaker 10: you just gotta say you know what we're not um
- 29:12Speaker 10: simpatico and that's what you gotta.
- 29:13Speaker 3: Do yeah just simpatico yeah yeah we're not simpatico.
- 29:19Speaker 2: No clearly not working no no.
- 29:21Speaker 3: Uh better than ghosting to say you're so annoying leave
- 29:25Speaker 3: me alone.
- 29:26Speaker 11: Definitely better than ghosting hi i'm from ashby um hey
- 29:30Speaker 11: riley Do not be throwing any good guys away.
- 29:34Speaker 14: You know, save them up. You need them.
- 29:37Speaker 11: If the guy you like falls through, the next guy
- 29:41Speaker 11: might fall through.
- 29:42Speaker 9: I mean.
- 29:43Speaker 14: You want something, just get rid of everyone and just
- 29:47Speaker 14: bank on one guy.
- 29:48Speaker 11: Not now, at least. Give it some time. Okay, just
- 29:53Speaker 11: give it some time. Consider all your possibilities.
- 29:55Speaker 2: I'm going to disagree.
- 29:56Speaker 5: Producer Riley does not have to settle.
- 29:59Speaker 6: No, and plus, if you know, you know, right?
- 30:02Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't like the idea of going out with
- 30:05Speaker 3: two people and you're just thinking of the other one
- 30:07Speaker 3: the entire time you're with one. That's just not fair.
- 30:10Speaker 3: You're wasting their time.
- 30:12Speaker 5: I'm more interested in your conversation with the guy you
- 30:14Speaker 5: like if you call him and he knows you went
- 30:16Speaker 5: on another date.
- 30:19Speaker 2: Okay.
- 30:19Speaker 5: And he doesn't think you liked him enough. So that
- 30:21Speaker 5: could be, you know, that's down the road. That one's
- 30:24Speaker 5: down the road.
- 30:25Speaker 3: Let's just keep it between all of us.
- 30:27Speaker 2: Yeah, no one's listening to this. Of course, who the
- 30:29Speaker 2: hell listens to this show? No one's listening.
- 30:32Speaker 4: Riley, just be upfront, girl.
- 30:34Speaker 3: You just got to be like, look, I'm sorry.
- 30:36Speaker 15: I've had a great time, but I am feeling somebody
- 30:39Speaker 15: else a little bit more.
- 30:40Speaker 4: I wish you nothing but the best.
- 30:42Speaker 3: And that's really it.
- 30:43Speaker 4: I had to do the same thing. And now I'm
- 30:45Speaker 4: married to the guy that I chose.
- 30:48Speaker 6: So go for it, girl. Yeah, trust your instinct. Trust
- 30:53Speaker 6: your gut.
- 30:53Speaker 1: Right.
- 30:54Speaker 6: Like, yeah, yeah. You're just not feeling it with this guy.
- 30:57Speaker 3: I feel like a lot of people, too, would be like,
- 30:58Speaker 3: what do you want him if if it was roles reversed?
- 31:00Speaker 3: What would you want him to say to you? And
- 31:02Speaker 3: I I feel like I would rather somebody be like, oh,
- 31:05Speaker 3: like I was going out with somebody else. And I
- 31:07Speaker 3: just feel like we have a better connection. Nothing against you.
- 31:10Speaker 3: Just like timing.
- 31:12Speaker 11: Yeah.
- 31:13Speaker 2: And just be honest. Always remember, honesty without compassion equals hostility. Right.
- 31:17Speaker 4: Right.
- 31:17Speaker 2: So just be honest, Riley. That's the best way.
- 31:21Speaker 1: As someone who spent the entire summer dating after a
- 31:24Speaker 1: two-year relationship, I think that it's important to go out.
- 31:29Speaker 1: Even if you like somebody that you went on a
- 31:30Speaker 1: date with once or twice, I think it's important to
- 31:32Speaker 1: kind of date around and just see what your options
- 31:36Speaker 1: are before you jump into another relationship. And I think
- 31:40Speaker 1: that you did the right thing, Riley. And I think
- 31:44Speaker 1: just letting him know that it's just you're not interested.
- 31:46Speaker 1: But you had a good time.
- 31:49Speaker 2: I can't wait for the end of the show. Okay.
- 31:51Speaker 3: He's like hoping that this guy cusses me out or something.
- 31:55Speaker 2: Bill hopes for disaster at all times.
- 31:56Speaker 6: He's like being so confident.
- 31:57Speaker 2: No, I was being positive.
- 31:59Speaker 5: I can't wait for the end of the show because
- 32:00Speaker 5: you would have done it and you would have felt great.
- 32:02Speaker 2: And now you go running into the arms of the
- 32:04Speaker 2: other guy. And then he's going to say, I'm married.
- 32:08Speaker 4: Oh, boy.
- 32:08Speaker 3: Oh, my God. Please do not hope that for me.
- 32:12Speaker 6: That's Uncle Bill.
- 32:14Speaker 2: I have crazy thoughts.
- 32:15Speaker 3: Why are you putting that in the universe?
- 32:17Speaker 2: Exactly. Yeah, never listen to Uncle Bill. So she needs
- 32:19Speaker 2: to know what to text this guy this morning.
- 32:21Speaker 4: I would suggest Riley to simply say, it's not you,
- 32:25Speaker 4: it's me.
- 32:26Speaker 6: Yeah, that's exactly what you're saying.
- 32:29Speaker 2: The George Costanza.
- 32:30Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 32:30Speaker 2: You know, he invented it. It works every time. Works
- 32:33Speaker 2: every time for sure.
- 32:34Speaker 11: All right.
- 32:34Speaker 2: Let's be real. We're just hoping now Riley doesn't get
- 32:36Speaker 2: asked to stay over and give him a T-shirt and then,
- 32:39Speaker 2: you know, sleep opposite ways. Hopefully this guy's got a
- 32:43Speaker 2: little more balls, for lack of a better word. Oh, yeah,
- 32:46Speaker 2: that was a previous.
- 32:47Speaker 3: Yeah, hopefully that was a one and done situation.
- 32:50Speaker 2: That was weird.
- 32:51Speaker 3: That was really weird.
- 32:52Speaker 5: Boy, they really listen to everything we say, don't they?
- 32:55Speaker 2: Well, we should explain that was a previous thing. She
- 32:57Speaker 2: was dating a guy, right, Riley? And you slept over
- 32:59Speaker 2: his house. He gave you a t-shirt and did not
- 33:01Speaker 2: make a move.
- 33:01Speaker 3: There was no move to be had.
- 33:04Speaker 6: Ever.
- 33:04Speaker 2: He put you in his t-shirt on the couch.
- 33:07Speaker 6: You slept with him in his bed.
- 33:08Speaker 2: I slept in his bed.
- 33:09Speaker 12: Oh.
- 33:09Speaker 3: And nothing happened. It was really, really weird.
- 33:13Speaker 2: Yeah. Did you sleep, like, head to feet?
- 33:16Speaker 12: No.
- 33:17Speaker 3: I was like, move over, give me some pillow. Have
- 33:19Speaker 3: you ever seen him again? I work with him. He's
- 33:22Speaker 3: my co-worker.
- 33:23Speaker 2: All right.
- 33:24Speaker 3: I actually haven't seen him yet, though.
- 33:26Speaker 2: Oh, my God. Wow. Riley's just lighting up the city
- 33:30Speaker 2: of Boston. Hey, Riley.
- 33:31Speaker 6: Sue from Boston.
- 33:34Speaker 11: Now, you're not feeling it with that guy.
- 33:36Speaker 6: You're not feeling it.
- 33:37Speaker 14: It's not going to come back.
- 33:38Speaker 6: You don't need to keep him around.
- 33:40Speaker 14: Just in case. I'm really glad that you're not ghosting
- 33:43Speaker 14: him and you just tell him, you know what?
- 33:45Speaker 6: I'm just not feeling a connection.
- 33:46Speaker 11: That's okay.
- 33:48Speaker 6: And the girl has said, like, it's.
- 33:51Speaker 11: Better to have someone than nothing.
- 33:53Speaker 12: No.
- 33:55Speaker 11: You're fine by yourself, right?
- 33:56Speaker 6: If these two guys don't work, there's plenty out there.
- 33:59Speaker 6: It's very true.
- 34:01Speaker 3: Is there though?
- 34:02Speaker 2: It's like, we keep hearing how hard it is. I know.
- 34:05Speaker 3: I understand when people are like, keep the good men
- 34:08Speaker 3: around because there's like none left. I totally get that.
- 34:10Speaker 3: But I also have, I feel like I've been single
- 34:12Speaker 3: for so long that I'm very secure in being by myself.
- 34:15Speaker 3: So like, I'd rather be by myself than with some
- 34:17Speaker 3: guy that I like kind of like. Yeah. Like, there's
- 34:20Speaker 3: no point in settling.
- 34:20Speaker 2: Well, wait a minute. You have coffee shop guy. No,
- 34:22Speaker 2: I know.
- 34:23Speaker 6: She's saying if the other one ends up not working out.
- 34:26Speaker 10: Yeah.
- 34:26Speaker 3: Everybody's being like, well, what if both of them don't work? Well,
- 34:29Speaker 3: stop wishing that for me, first of all.
- 34:31Speaker 2: Right.
- 34:31Speaker 3: Like, I'm trying here.
- 34:33Speaker 2: Well, I think that's a good position to be in,
- 34:35Speaker 2: to be comfortable with yourself.
- 34:36Speaker 13: Yeah.
- 34:37Speaker 2: Not desperate. Well, you are looking for ideas.
- 34:40Speaker 15: So a crazy breakup idea that I did, actually. I
- 34:44Speaker 15: was dating this guy briefly. The vibe was not vibing.
- 34:47Speaker 15: And so I decided to start, like, forcefully sneezing around
- 34:52Speaker 15: him any chance I could. Anytime he was near me,
- 34:54Speaker 15: I just started sneezing. And finally, I was like, hey, buddy,
- 34:59Speaker 15: we're going to have to stop doing this. You know,
- 35:01Speaker 15: I think I'm allergic to your pheromones. And I was like, yeah, dude,
- 35:06Speaker 15: I'm allergic to you. Like we're going to have to
- 35:08Speaker 15: call it quits.