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S02Ep7 - Inside Splash Mocha: Power, Presence & Real Lifestyle Experiences | AAR Breakdown · The Bull Brotherhood

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slap each other on the ass when we saw each other
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playing in the playroom or say I love you you
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dirty little whore I'm so proud of you you know
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just we had a good time so that was a great surprise
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that was one of my definite highlights was getting
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surprised by her so both of you are such good
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sluts such good sluts we are and I don't get
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I love seeing her in action I love looking over
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and seeing her. And actually, there was a couple
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times we were in the same playroom and we didn't
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know it. And then one of us would get up and
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see the other one and go over and give each other
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a kiss or something or a little nipple tweak
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or something. A little interaction just to say,
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hey, girl, I see you. You're putting in the work.
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You're doing a good job. It was fun. Good deal.
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-minded explorers, we see you. Let's go. Ladies
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and gentlemen, good evening. Welcome to another
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informative podcast from the Bull Brotherhood.
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I'm the Sigma male himself, Brian Morgan, along
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with my podcast team and family, the lovely Siren.
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What's up, baby? Hello, how are you? I'm good,
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I'm good. And of course, the nephew himself,
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Socrates. What up, dog? What's up, what's up?
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That sound is much better now. I'm the engineer,
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y 'all, and I was working on something. It didn't
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work out very well, and I adjusted it. Sounds
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much better. Let's go. Good, good. Ladies and
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gentlemen, we are coming at you tonight. I, of
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course, could not be there, but the family celebrated
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the 10th anniversary of Splash Mocha down in
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Fort Lauderdale this past weekend. I have heard
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nothing but great things. So we're going to do
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what we call an after action report tonight.
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And for those who don't know what an after action
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report is, coming from a military background,
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this is like when you go out on maneuvers and
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you come back after X amount of time and you
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have to brief the headquarters element and you're
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talking to the headquarters element right here,
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the master sergeant himself. Anyway. As I said
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before, it was the 10th anniversary of Splash
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Mocha and I've heard nothing but great things.
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So I'm going to start off with the lovely siren
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tonight. What I would like to know, beautiful,
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is not how many people you slept with. OK, because
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I know that was. Well, I only slept with my husband.
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I didn't get any sleep with anybody else. Oh,
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excuse me. Excuse me. Excuse me, ladies and gentlemen.
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OK, no, she didn't sleep with anybody with Socrates.
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But we'll get to how many you fucked in a few
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minutes, though. But tell the audience, tell
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the audience how some of your interactions went.
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How were the bulls? Did the bulls know how to
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properly greet you? Socrates was with you or
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did you guys separate and go your own separate
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ways? Just tell the people how you kind of operated.
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Yes, we can. Well, we as a couple moved a little
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bit differently. This was our seventh splash.
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We have in the past definitely been a lot more
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quick moving and trying to. I'll just be frank.
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I was about the numbers for a long time because
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in our area, the chocolate shop is very limited.
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So when I get to Splash, it's an all -you -can
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-fuck buffet, and I definitely had gone crazy.
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But this time, we took a page from your book,
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and we decided to slow our roll a bit and let
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people come to us, let the interactions just
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be. more authentic, more natural, and just worked
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on being very, very present. And I give it a
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95%. I think that it went very, very well with
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that change. So I'm excited to hear Socrates
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tell you about how it was for him. But yeah,
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together and separately, I feel that everyone...
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approach and acted well there was a lot of buzz
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about the podcasts uh both the siren of freedom
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podcast and then this one the bull brotherhood
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so you know a lot of people you know came up
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to us and said they had been listening and introduced
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themselves so we got to meet a lot of new people
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just based off of that and there was a lot of
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new faces um i don't think i had anything less
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than positive experiences the whole weekend so
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You know, it's just kind of, you know, once they're
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all positive, then, you know, it's just what's
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the what's your favorite flavor, you know, after
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that. So I was I was very pleased with how everyone
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moved and operated. I didn't have any negative
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bull interactions. If I wasn't interested and
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I said so, then they all responded very well.
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But it went great. It went fabulous. Wow, that's
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interesting. Very, very good. Very, very good.
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Usually you'll have at least one or two who,
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you know, maybe they were feeling some kind of
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way when you let them down. But, you know, I'm
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proud of the guys. Yeah, if they did, they didn't
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show it. They were respectful. And there really
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wasn't anybody that came up. that I necessarily
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turned down the only guy that I I flat out just
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had to kind of say no to is just only because
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I was already occupied he he knocked on the door
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when I was in the middle of a play session and
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I answered the door because I thought it might
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be my husband you know something wrong with his
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phone missing a room key whatever we had a banner
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over the door so I couldn't see out the peephole
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so I answered and There was a guy standing there
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in his drawers ready to go and wanted to know
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if I wanted to play. And I said, oh, if I wasn't
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already previously engaged, I would love to play
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with you. But that was a timing issue. Yeah,
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it was just a timing issue. But he was very,
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he was like, okay, I was hoping to catch you.
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You know, a little disappointment on his face,
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I could tell, but not, you know, nothing, nothing.
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you know i didn't what did he cut so what did
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he come back around and try to redeem himself
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or what um well kind of on sunday evening when
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we were still there we had just gotten back from
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the beach and i ran into him again but at that
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point i just i was i was done like i just couldn't
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i was too exhausted so you know so i gave him
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a nice kiss and i said you know we'll catch up
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at a future splash you know don't Don't cross
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me off your list just because our timing didn't
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work out. If you're listening, sir, you know
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who you are. I've been messaging him a little
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bit just to give him a little encouragement.
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There was one time I had to ask somebody to step
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back when I was playing in one of the playrooms
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because they were just crowding in a little bit.
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But again, they took that pretty well too. They
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didn't listen to the bull that I was playing
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with. He said, hey, I'm going to need you to
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move back or whatever. It's like they were in
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a little world and didn't hear. And then when
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they didn't respond to him, I looked up at him
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and said, hey, did you hear what he said? I'm
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going to need you to move back a little bit because
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I just want to be playing with him right now.
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But again, once he heard me. say it then he responded
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accordingly so i didn't i didn't have anything
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where i felt i needed to get stern with anybody
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and i would have you know so that's always nice
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okay good then so sound like so far we've had
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some some some gentlemen some gentlemen boys
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there that's good that's good i'm glad you had
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a great time nephew what about you brother tell
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me tell me what tell me how you Well, one, tell
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me how you interacted this time. Were you kind
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of anxious, you know, when you got there and
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didn't really like survey the scene? Or did you
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pull one of the tricks out of Unk's bag and just
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sit back and kind of survey the scene and let
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them come to you? Yeah, Unk, I took it even further.
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You know, I'm creating. documenting all the wisdom
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from you and Michael C., Pagan, and Mr. Mocha.
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And I executed it, and I'm not going to lie,
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flawless, 100%, bullseye. Everything was accomplished.
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It was dope as fuck. I'll just start there. I'm
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going to give myself a little credit here with
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the wife's feedback as well. With my ear to the
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ladies. So, 100%. My wife is also part of my
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council. This is my council of people that help
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me, you know, sharpen my saw. You know, so 100%.
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And we'll get into it because I got a lot. Yeah,
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it's really good. I was very proud of him. He
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moved excellently. Okay, okay. Well, keep going.
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I don't want to stop you. Yeah, yeah. Let's start
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off by letting everybody know if this is the
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first episode you decided to listen to, let's
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give you a little bit of background. So Splash
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Mocha is a lifestyle, ethical non -monogamy hotel
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takeover. They hold them in several locations,
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Atlanta, two locations in Florida, Fort Lauderdale
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and Orlando, and also Houston, Texas. It is focused
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on... black males, right? And what mostly come
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is white couples, either stag vixen, cuckold
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couples, just trying to explore couples, and
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a few single women. So it's, you know, for us,
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it's heaven. It's where I've met all of my best
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friends. It's, you know, it's where I have, I
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feel like I'm building a family. You know, it's
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perfect for me. The people that put it on, we'll
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have an episode soon with Tina from Splash Mocha,
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and she goes into all of the details of what
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that is. But, yeah, so let's get into the good
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stuff. I took everything you did. I plugged it
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in the chat, GBT, and it gave me a plan. And
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I'm not even going to lie because my brain works
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that way. I'm so nerdy that if I don't have a
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written plan. Based on authentic feelings, based
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on like, you know, where I'm the values that
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I have based on being an authentic person. Right.
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This isn't like a ploy or like 48 laws of power
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shit. You know what I mean? Like I'm being authentic.
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My brain works best when I have something organized
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and something to follow. The first thing Siren
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was like, the feedback is from Atlanta. You was,
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you know, zipping around like a fucking squirrel.
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And it made the women feel like they weren't
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important, you know, they weren't being focused
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on. And that was a major fail, you know. So if
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you're listening to this and you know, you know,
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that I was speaking, you know, that you felt
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that way, then I apologize because that is not
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what I wanted to convey. It was just, you know,
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we'll get into why. But so I took that advice
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and then your. pretty much the same side of other
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side of the same coin right i slowed down i chilled
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i you know people watched right i you know and
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then i also uh took mr mocha's advice and i picked
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the women i chilled and i picked the women that
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i knew was going to you know Grab my loins the
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most and intrigue me. Grabbed your loins. Okay.
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Oh, boy. Let me ask you this. The women that
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you were gravitated towards, were these women
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that were veterans of Splash or were these women
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that were, maybe they'd been the one or two mochas
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or were these new ladies? All of it, none of
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those categories were in there. But fortunately
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for you, Unc, I put it in the chat GBT, so I'll
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tell you exactly what the categories were. You're
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such a nerd. I swear to God, if I wake up one
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day and he leaves me a little note that says,
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I'm sorry, baby, me and chat GBT are running
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off together, I would not be surprised. If ChatGBT
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was a person, I wouldn't stand a chance. Look,
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I told you. Look, we are not polyamorous in our
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relationship, but I am in the sense that Siri
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is my girlfriend. Look, and I'm bi. ChatGBT is
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a dude. That's my boyfriend. Like, y 'all don't
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understand. All right. So, yeah. Please continue.
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Yep, yep. So, curvy, right? If I'm just seeing
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them. But most importantly, vibe, right? So the
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vibe has to be cool. I like them curvy. And then
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I also made this commitment. This is going to
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be crazy, but fuck it. My favorite room, and
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everybody knows this, I've been on several podcasts
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saying this, is the Glory Hole room. It just,
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I don't know. I love it. And a couple of splashes.
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I would either go down there and not have time
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to play afterwards or end up not being attracted
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to the woman that, you know, took care of me.
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Put in the work. Yeah. And I said, you know what?
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That's kind of fucked up. You know, like she
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does that and she wants to take it to the next
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level. Like, I'm definitely turned on. Shit.
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You know what I'm saying? I'm definitely ready
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to go. And I'm feeling the vibe. Now, if I didn't
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like it, which I haven't not liked it yet, that
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might be different. I haven't not liked it yet.
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So this time I said, you know what? Like, if
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she gets me, you know, if she does that thing,
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it's going to be about vibe. And I'm so happy
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I did that. Because I played with, it's kind
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of like the same story that Siren tells about
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playing in the dark room. you know and it's like
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yeah you walk out of there and she's like i wouldn't
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have picked him you know out in the crowd but
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i'm glad i did because he was dope right like
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same for me i'm glad i did because i think one
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of them i think one of them mr morgan did not
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have any teeth what did not have any teeth really
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and i bust i must have just i must have went
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crazy i think i think either that or she if she
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did ma 'am if you're listening and you did that
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and you don't you do have teeth i want to know
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your secrets that's amazing that's amazing Oh,
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I got to tell a little story, though, back up
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to Wednesday. Right. So we went over, you know,
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what we were going to do. Like, hey, we're going
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to move through with authentic. Oh, I want to
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find it. I mean, I must scroll back to last week
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because we wrote a whole thing of how we were
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going to move through this and like what our
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purpose was going to be. And. Oh, I got it. So
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we said, you know, our vision was to build on
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our professional and personal community for the
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purpose of facilitating and establishing authentic
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connections in order to facilitate the vision.
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The plan to be more present. For LeBron, it was
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going to be to be more patient with the process.
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And for me, it was going to be not rush the moment
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and to take time for myself. Because typically
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at Splash, I will run, run, run, run, run. And
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then I end up in the room about once a day bawling
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my eyes out because I'm just so overstimulated
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and exhausted. So that's why we put together
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that plan as well. So for me personally, just
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was to make sure that every moment and every
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situation that I was in, I would ask myself,
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is this where I want to be? And is this who I
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want to be with? And so that really helped. But
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on Wednesday, when things were just kind of starting
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up, people were starting to arrive, we were out
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in the pool. There were three lovely ladies that
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we were talking to in the pool. A couple of them
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were in my ladies' group, and we were all having
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a good conversation. Well, in walks one of Socrates'
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favorites. He's played with her many, many times,
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and I can see him kind of twitch. So I go over
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and I whisper in his ear and I say, remember
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the plan. She sees you. She will come say hi
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to you. But we have three lovely ladies in front
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of us that we're going to continue to interact
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with. And he said, thanks for the reminder, Mommy.
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And then we just kept talking to them, and sure
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enough, she came over, and then she joined us.
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And so he had an even bigger crowd of ladies.
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So I was just, from there on, it was like, boom.
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He was on the right track the entire time, and
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I was so proud of how he moved. So that was a
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fun start to seeing how it was going to go. Okay.
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So nephew, how did that make you feel to use
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that approach? One, it was focusing. It allowed
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my brain to focus on something. And so if I'm
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scatterbrained, it's because my brain is, right?
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So if my brain is like thinking of 75 different
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things to consider, then I'm scattered. But what
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it did is just say, okay, have a process. And
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it's... I'm going to use my brain to get me into
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situations where I see beautiful women that I
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want to play with. And then I'm going to use
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my loins to help me decide who that should be.
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And that's not to say that I closed out some
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other ones, because I played with a few women
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that were not on that list, and those were some
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of the dopest times. Like, some of the dopest
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times were with women that I just didn't. That
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wasn't my goal, but I left it open for vibe.
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So I said, I'm going to let my dick do that.
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And then once my dick decides, I'll let my brain,
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you know, get from zero to hopefully interacting
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with her. And then when I do, I let my dick take
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care of the bedroom. But then I let my brain
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do aftercare. And that's the, it's like an algorithm
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that I had in my head. because I was jumbling
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those things up for a while. Sometimes I would
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be in my head. If you're in your head while you're
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playing, then your dick's going to go down. So
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you be in your body. You be in your dick. I'm
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here for pleasuring. I'm here to please you,
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and I'm going to enjoy that myself. So making
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those switches helps me. And sometimes... When
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I'm trying to get to a point of being in the
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situation where I'm playing with women, my dick
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is thinking. Then I'm not thinking about all
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the things I have to do to get there, all the
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responsibilities I have, checking in on things,
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right? So I had all those things jumbled up,
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but this time that allowed me to just have that
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process. And so if I saw a woman, there's so
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many women, and I'm going to be real with y 'all.
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I don't know a lot of dudes will admit this,
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but I'm going to. A lot of times, And this is
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for vanilla men and lifestyle dudes. I don't
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even know if this is a bro code because I never
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heard it as a code. But I'm going to tell you
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like this. A lot of times, not everybody, but
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a lot of dudes, they'll play with a woman or
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try to fuck with a woman because two reasons.
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One, they're very attracted to her. He thinks
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they're hot. But two, so you can go back and
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tell your boys. A lot of dudes don't admit that
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shit. But I would be lying if I didn't before
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this look at certain women and say, yeah, man,
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if I hit that, I'm going to definitely tell the
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boys about that one. You know what I'm saying?
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You know? And then we follow. Listen, we follow
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privacy. You know, I brag. There's stuff in my
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phone that Siren has never seen. And I'm okay
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with that. And if she gives me permission, I'll
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share the picture. If she doesn't, I'll describe
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her. If she gives me permission to say her name
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or screen name, I'll say one of those. If she
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doesn't, I won't. I'll just be general, you know.
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But this time, I literally eliminated those people.
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And then I had the people in my mind, well, we
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played before, but I wasn't really feeling, I
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was cool. And then they want to play again. Sometimes
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I'll be like, oh, you know, I kind of owe them.
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I felt like that. That took that out of my mind.
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And then I had this category of people where
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it's like, in the beginning, I kind of, I didn't
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chase, but it felt like chasing because I didn't
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know the culture of Splash where a lot of people
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don't like to plan anything. They don't want
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to put anything in the calendar, right? They're
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leaving the world behind. They're leaving all
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their responsibilities. The last thing they want
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to do is put some shit in the calendar, right?
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Last thing they want to do is have some shit
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planned out, right? And I get that. I do now.
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I used to complain about it. I really didn't
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before. Right. So there was those in the first
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two splashes where I kind of chased them. And
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then when I see them in my head, I would be like.
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I'd spend energy almost trying to avoid them
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because I was like, man, mad at myself, not them,
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because they were just doing whatever they were
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doing. But I would be mad at myself. that I spent
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a lot of time chasing them, you know? And so
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that eliminated that. So those are the crazy
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thoughts of an ADHD person who reads like five
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books a month. Just so y 'all know. If you could
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follow that. To recap. To recap. To recap, along
25:31
with an answer is that it focused me and I eliminated
25:36
20 different thought processes that I would have
25:39
before. And that allowed me to calm down. It
25:43
calmed my nervous system. It focused me on the
25:47
person in front of me and what they're saying.
25:48
And then you're able to read people much easier.
25:52
And I don't mean read them like you're trying
25:54
to some psychological game. I mean, really feel
25:57
what they're saying, where they're coming from.
25:59
And if their vibe is wanting you. And you know
26:04
what? I will tell you that him calming down like
26:06
that calmed me down. And it made me have a much
26:10
better experience too, because, you know, I,
26:15
I am on anxiety meds. I'm not going to lie. And
26:19
I think in the past splashes, you know, you know,
26:23
my insecurities had got the better of me when
26:25
I see him running all over the place and knowing
26:29
exactly what our plan was and him like having
26:33
that leadership. really helped me to be able
26:37
to move through Splash in a calmer fashion as
26:40
well. So it truly felt like a team effort. And
26:43
I think that we probably honestly checked in
26:46
with each other or saw each other less than most
26:50
Splashes, but I overall felt a lot calmer and
26:55
just present wherever I was at as well, knowing
26:59
that this is what we're doing. So it was a big
27:03
blessing to me. And I definitely did not go for
27:08
numbers this time. I don't even know if I hit
27:10
a dozen. What? I know, you're shooketh. Well,
27:16
I did find a special one. So I spent about seven
27:21
hours worth of playtime with one individual.
27:25
But it really, I mean, it felt like 30 minutes.
27:29
So that took most of my Friday and my Saturday
27:34
night. And I do not regret a moment. Because
27:38
there was a couple times when I was playing with
27:40
this guy and I thought, well, maybe we should
27:44
wrap it up because, you know, there's other stuff
27:47
going on downstairs. And then one time I voiced
27:50
that to him and he said, well, the best thing
27:52
we got going on is right here. So why are we
27:54
going to leave? And I was like, that's right.
27:56
And then I just, you know, I said, well, this
27:59
is what I was. Right? Because each of our play
28:03
sessions was like two and a half hours. And we
28:07
probably would start out like 10 .30 or so in
28:11
one something. And then we did eventually wander
28:14
back downstairs. I think both nights I played
28:18
like one or two more times after that. But that
28:21
was the bulk of my nights. But time well spent.
28:25
And with authentic, just genuine connection.
28:30
Shout out to that. And again, yeah. And again,
28:34
to my fellow bulls that are listening right now,
28:37
did you hear what she just said? She spent quality
28:40
time with one quality bull for an extended period
28:44
of time. Let me tell you, I would rather have
28:47
three or four experiences like that with a quality
28:51
female. or a quality couple, you know, husband
28:55
watching, than to be around there like a damn
28:59
pinball going back and forth and burning myself
29:02
out like I did the very first splash. So that
29:05
right there, that puts a stamp on it. You know,
29:09
to that guy who had you feeling like that, feeling
29:12
good like that, I give him a gold star. Because
29:16
I would say the same damn thing. Sure thing when
29:18
you go back downstairs for it. It might be a
29:22
Mercedes and maybe a couple of them Toyotas downstairs,
29:26
but you got the Bentley right here. Right. No
29:31
need to go anywhere. Good, good. Another question.
29:36
Tell me, and both of you guys can comment together.
29:39
Tell me about some of the interactions with the
29:42
couples, just general conversation. Like after
29:45
they met you guys and found out, hey, this is
29:47
Socrates and Siren from Bull Brotherhood and
29:50
Siren of Freedom podcast. Were they interested
29:54
to talk to you about the podcast or what was
29:57
on their mind? Yeah. So, I mean, you know, again,
30:03
just incredible. I'll highlight the one. I'll
30:08
highlight one. I'll let Siren kind of talk about
30:11
some of the other ones. This one brother who
30:14
came up to us and said it is now his favorite
30:17
podcast of everything. Number one. And he was
30:24
just going on and on about how much he likes
30:26
the difference between your style and my style
30:29
and Siren. And he loved that feminine perspective.
30:34
And he said, you know, I am your number one fan.
30:37
And I was like, wait, what? Go ahead. Was that
30:42
the other interracial stag vixen couple? Yeah,
30:45
the guy. Yeah, and his wife was like a little
30:48
petite thing? I think so. Yeah, yeah, yeah. They
30:52
were adorable. Yeah, yeah. I mean, I was floored.
30:59
I was honored. I am honored. And funny enough,
31:05
I had a conversation with my brother, who is
31:07
not vanilla as all get out. And he listened to
31:14
four episodes. He couldn't listen anymore. And
31:16
I said, dude, I was just wanting you to listen
31:18
to one. And the biggest compliment he paid is
31:23
kind of the same thing that this other guy was
31:25
saying because there was two guys that said that,
31:27
but I won't talk about the other guy. But he
31:31
said, I like, you know, with the Sigma and what,
31:36
you know. alpha does and a beta he was like dude
31:41
i learned so much from that episode and it made
31:45
sense because he's a sigma male and he says i
31:47
finally found my home and he you know and i was
31:52
like and the other guys said it as well and that's
31:57
deep yeah and that that's what i want that's
31:59
what we are going for is that yeah this is a
32:02
niche of a niche but you know what what i realized
32:07
is that there's a lot of people out there teaching
32:10
how to interact with women and how to interact
32:14
with your spouse and with all that. And what
32:16
I realize is we're the ones with the most practice.
32:20
Just simply that. We're the ones with the most
32:24
practice. So we come out of this with so much
32:28
wisdom that can help anybody. Because women are
32:32
women. We just, you know, the lifestyle in these
32:34
hotel takeovers remove all the bullshit that
32:38
society puts on us, right? We could talk about
32:41
the anthropological perspective, the scientific
32:44
perspective, even some of the religious perspectives
32:47
on being ethically or being monogamous, right?
32:52
So it's like, I love the fact that, you know,
32:57
no matter what side you're on, ethical or non
33:01
-monogamy or... unethical non -monogamy or monogamy
33:05
no matter where you're at with it you know we
33:08
learned so many great skills that anybody can
33:12
use and and that was you know that was the best
33:16
conversation but we had several people come to
33:20
us and talk about how much they enjoyed it and
33:22
we're just grateful and humbled you know and
33:25
really you know just like it gives me motivation
33:29
to keep going And, you know, do what we do. Yeah,
33:33
it was rude. That was the same guy I ran into
33:36
down the elevator. I'm used to introducing myself
33:40
and people kind of say, oh, nice to meet you,
33:42
you know. And then I will say, I'm Socrates'
33:45
wife. And then they'll be like, oh, you know.
33:48
But this was the first splash where people were
33:51
like, you're Siren, aren't you? And you're on
33:55
this podcast and this podcast. You know, that
33:58
same individual, I saw him alone in the elevator
34:00
and he said, you're Siren from the Bull Brotherhood
34:03
podcast, aren't you? And I was it kind of took
34:06
me aback because, you know, I'm not used to like
34:08
anybody associating those two things together.
34:12
So it was cool just to have the recognition.
34:16
And then in my ladies chat afterwards, them talking
34:20
about, you know, being in on the recording. I
34:24
think we probably had about 30 people. in there
34:28
with the siren of freedom and i gave them some
34:30
t -shirts and we took a picture and um so that
34:33
was super cool and then them just talking about
34:36
you know um interacting with each other at splash
34:40
in in my ladies chat so that was the most rewarding
34:44
thing for me is seeing how they were looking
34:47
forward to meeting each other they all made it
34:49
happen there was a few that missed out on the
34:51
recording and then they were like you know disappointed
34:54
in themselves they didn't pay attention to the
34:57
little you know calendar but um you know that
35:00
just gives us more for next time to to be able
35:04
to bring the community together and just keep
35:06
building on that so you know now the ladies chat's
35:09
on fire just talking about all the favorite things
35:12
and where i've seen in the past is a lot of women
35:15
in the ladies chat talking about their favorite
35:17
you know guy that they interacted with well It's
35:21
very friendship -focused this time. It's very
35:24
focused on, man, this lady really had my back.
35:27
She helped me have confidence. She talked me
35:30
through a moment. There was one gal the first
35:33
day that she was having a little trouble getting
35:35
going, and she's like, I just feel like no one's
35:38
interested in me. And I saw her in the bathroom,
35:40
and I said, all right, face the mirror. We're
35:45
both going to look in the mirror. And repeat
35:46
after me. And I made her do affirmations. And
35:49
at first she was pretty resistant. She's like,
35:51
I just don't feel attractive. She's very attractive.
35:56
She's very sexy. She's never had... problems
36:00
in the past you know so she was just feeling
36:02
down herself and and she finally got in the flow
36:04
of it she said the affirmations walked out of
36:07
there and then i checked with her later and she
36:09
said you know what i just did what you said and
36:11
i just focused on the authentic connections she
36:14
said i had less amounts of play but she said
36:17
i really feel like the quality was a lot better
36:19
so just a little bit her first splash no it was
36:23
not No, she was just slow starting this one.
36:27
You know, she just kind of her confidence was
36:28
a little low. So and I feel like the whole vibe
36:32
was a little bit slow starting. And then it really
36:35
got cooking Friday. I feel like people were a
36:39
lot more in the conversation and not just saying,
36:41
hey, let's go. You know, like some of the other
36:44
splashes, I felt like people are a little more
36:47
aggressive out the gate. And this one felt a
36:50
little bit just more more chill overall. So she
36:54
was used to the past splashes where she'd kind
36:57
of just get attacked. And so then when it went
37:00
the other way of just calm conversations, you
37:03
know, it just threw her for a loop. But it was
37:06
rewarding just like, you know, interacting with
37:08
them and then them saying, you know, it always
37:11
nice to hear how they enjoyed meeting you. and
37:14
what you brought to the table, not just, you
37:17
know, that it was about the community of women
37:18
helping each other. You know, and I said, you
37:21
know, ladies, at the end of the, you know, at
37:23
the, we're all here to get some dick, right?
37:25
But at the end of the day, these lasting friendships
37:28
is what is going to go the distance for our lifetime,
37:31
you know, and the different people that we meet
37:34
here. So it was cool to see that, you know, it's
37:37
blossoming. So much more than just the sex. Yep.
37:42
So much more. And the camaraderie, the camaraderie,
37:46
the friendships. No, they ain't got a damn clue.
37:49
The civilians, as I call them, they ain't got
37:51
a damn clue. They ain't got a damn clue. But
37:55
that's why they are civilians. But here again,
37:58
though, ladies and gentlemen, for the people
37:59
that are listening, the ones who attended down
38:02
there and along with the family, this is what
38:05
we're talking about. The lasting friendships,
38:08
the lasting relationships. I love the way you
38:11
took that woman in there and had that moment
38:14
with her and got her confidence up. That's what
38:17
it's all about. Sex is going to come. The sex
38:21
is going to come. But things like this right
38:24
here, this is life changing. Yeah, building the
38:27
relationships. And then I had a wonderful surprise.
38:34
Hold on. Hold on. Yeah, I'm not letting you get
38:37
by. Okay. Ladies and gentlemen, this is what
38:41
I want to say. I'm putting this on wax. This
38:44
is that woman's calling. And this might not be
38:49
some people's religious views or personal views
38:51
that a calling can have to do with sex. But I'm
38:54
telling you right now, this woman's calling is
38:58
to really help other women feel better about
39:01
themselves. The context or the environment might
39:05
be sexual. But she is amazing at building other
39:10
women up, especially not in an anti -man way,
39:14
but not in a I'm a girl's girl way. More of like
39:18
whatever the truth is about being a strong, powerful,
39:21
sexual, you know, authentic, ethical woman. And
39:26
this lifestyle is she's there to build her up.
39:29
You know, I'm working really hard so that all
39:32
she's doing in this world is doing that because
39:35
it does have an impact on people. And that woman
39:38
is going to walk away with hopefully a tool that
39:41
she can use in the future. And even better, knowing
39:45
that I can always pick myself back up and know
39:48
it's just my attitude. And that, you know, Siren
39:52
has people outside of this lifestyle and other
39:55
contexts that people that remind, you know, They
39:59
have their own way of reminding people around
40:01
them that Siren changed her life. You know? So
40:05
that's what I'm so excited about with her, with
40:07
her podcast, Siren of Freedom podcast, and this
40:11
whole venture that she's going on. Because things
40:13
like that at Splash is what it's all about. Right?
40:18
You know, like, that's the thing that you're
40:22
saying to slow down so you can see and experience.
40:25
You can't see or experience those things running
40:28
around like a chicken with your head cut off.
40:30
100%. No. Thank you, baby. No, no, no. And here
40:36
again, that is something that comes with experience.
40:40
You're going to have to go to a few events before
40:43
you understand what I'm talking about. But when
40:46
it hits you, hits like it hit you too this time,
40:50
you can see it. I mean, it's in plain sight.
40:54
You know, and sound like you guys had one hell
40:57
of a great time. And I am so proud of you for
41:00
for doing not necessarily what I suggested, but,
41:06
you know, you listened to how I maneuver. And,
41:09
you know, you came up with your own game plan
41:11
and sound like you had a great time. Right. Something
41:15
that worked for us as a team. Yeah. Yeah. Yeah.
41:19
That's what sigmas do, right? I'm not going to.
41:21
Damn straight. Yeah. You're damn right. And I
41:24
hate I wasn't there to be in the corner to watch
41:26
that shit, to tell you the truth. You know? I
41:30
hate I wasn't there. But, wow. I'm speechless.
41:35
That was great. That was a great time for you
41:39
guys and the way you guys complimented each other.
41:42
Beautiful thing. Beautiful thing. I was going
41:45
to mention my surprise that happened. Yeah. Go
41:48
ahead. Go ahead. You know, I got my lifestyle
41:52
bestie, Mrs. Mocha, and they did not sign up
41:57
to attend. And so, you know, we weren't we weren't
42:01
counting on anything. We were like, OK, we'll
42:03
see in Houston. We were talking and she's like,
42:06
well, there's a small chance I might go. And
42:08
she's like, this couple's invited me, you know,
42:10
blah, blah, blah. And she's like, but I don't
42:13
know. There's so much going on. I don't think
42:14
it's going to work out. So I had checked in with
42:16
her on Wednesday evening. I said, you know, is
42:18
it going to happen? She said, no. You know, I
42:21
just got to do this and this, blah, blah, blah,
42:23
work, you know, all the typical excuses. Well,
42:27
then 2 o 'clock in the morning, you know, Socrates
42:29
and I had just gotten bed and having our little
42:32
snacks and all our nighttime rituals. And she
42:35
texted me and she said, are you awake? And I
42:37
said, I am. What's wrong? Call me. Because she
42:40
never. text me at two o 'clock in the morning
42:42
you know so i immediately was like who am i fighting
42:46
and she said i'm downstairs and i about i flew
42:52
out of that bed so fast threw some clothes on
42:54
and we ran down there and um that was the best
42:57
surprise ever and she literally had been sitting
42:59
at the airport to leave to get there when she
43:03
told me, Oh no, I'm not coming. So you can lie
43:06
to me all day if you're going to surprise me
43:08
like that. So then we were up till about four
43:11
in the morning catching up. So that was a wonderful
43:14
surprise. So then we got to, she was, uh, her
43:18
and I did the Siren of Freedom podcast together.
43:21
And then we did a Dirty Girls Corner episode.
43:24
So, um, you know, but that's just, you know,
43:27
not someone I met through Splash just a couple
43:29
of years ago. And, you know, we talk. damn near
43:32
every day on the phone or text or something so
43:34
you know just those friendships are super valuable
43:37
and um yeah we you know slap each other on the
43:42
ass when we saw each other playing in the playroom
43:44
or say i love you you dirty little whore i'm
43:48
so proud of you you know just we had a we had
43:52
a good time so that was that was a great surprise
43:54
that was one of my definite highlights was getting
43:58
surprised by her so Both of you are such good
44:02
sluts. Such good sluts. We are, and I don't get—
44:06
Mr. Lowe, I love seeing her in action. I love
44:09
looking over and seeing her in action. There
44:12
was a couple times we were in the same playroom,
44:13
and we didn't know it, and then one of us would
44:16
get up and see the other one and go over and
44:19
give each other a kiss or something or a little
44:22
nipple tweak or something, a little interaction
44:25
just to say, Hey, girl, I see you. You're putting
44:28
in the work. You're doing a good job. It was
44:30
fun. Good deal. Good deal. Oh, well, that was
44:37
quite a damn trip you guys had. Quite a good
44:40
trip. And here again, I hate that I missed it,
44:43
but I am planning. It's not definite, definite,
44:48
but I'm planning. Hopefully I'll be able to get
44:51
to Houston in November. Oh, you got to, man.
44:55
You got to pull whatever strength. You got to
44:57
figure it out because it's sold out. Yeah, that's
45:01
what I'm saying. Yeah, it's, it's, it's, you
45:03
know, so. No, you got to pull whatever, whatever
45:06
strength you got to pull. Well, if it were us,
45:09
we can always put you in on our sofa. All right.
45:14
Right. I don't do sofas too well. I know. I don't
45:17
really share the room too well either, but, uh,
45:20
you know, we get to add you to the room. You
45:22
can stay somewhere else. I love people, but at
45:29
the end of the day, I always got to have my time
45:31
with my husband at the end of the night. I applaud
45:34
the people that share rooms with all kinds of
45:37
people, but I... No, hell no. I don't share rooms
45:40
and shit. I need my own room, okay? Definitely
45:44
need that. So you're going to have to pull some
45:47
strings, lick some pussies. I don't know what
45:49
you're going to have to do. We need you there,
45:52
though. I'm not worried. I'm not worried. If
45:55
it happens, it happens. If it doesn't... You
45:57
guys will carry on without me. And it's going
45:59
to be epic because everybody who missed out on
46:03
Fort Lauderdale is signed up for Houston, it
46:05
seems like. Yeah, there's something about Houston.
46:09
For me, there's something about Houston and there's
46:12
something about Atlanta. Those two are the best
46:16
ones to me, in my opinion. But here again, though,
46:22
I'm glad you guys had a great time. Anything
46:25
else you want to put out there for the fans before
46:26
we close it out for the night? I'm going to just
46:29
talk about our affiliate link. Yeah, so we do
46:36
have an affiliate link. It will be a part of
46:38
this podcast in the show notes. And, you know,
46:44
use that if you're interested in looking into
46:46
Splash. You just go on to there, check it out.
46:50
And, you know, we do get a benefit from that,
46:53
but we're also willing to share the love. We're
46:55
going to try to figure out exactly what that
46:57
be, you know, in this episode or maybe some future
47:01
ones. We'll have a little commercial about it,
47:03
give you more details so you guys can benefit
47:06
from it. But besides that, you know, I would
47:10
just say, you know, 10 out of 10. Oh, I do want
47:14
to talk about the 10 -year anniversary part.
47:16
So this is the 10th anniversary of their initial
47:19
splash at that location. And the great thing
47:24
is all the splash heads, I only saw Tina and
47:32
Dimitri, but I know some other people got up
47:35
at the mocha room where the dance floor is, and
47:40
they kind of just. talked about 10 years of doing
47:45
this and how they've grown and all that and it
47:47
was beautiful you know it was a beautiful thing
47:50
it was it was like this is this is really dope
47:53
and you've seen all the hard work they put into
47:55
it and the passion they have for for this community
47:58
yeah yeah it was beautiful so now the dj was
48:03
killing it i love what you know his music selection
48:07
both djs Inside and out. And, man, I'm trying.
48:12
Look, I'm going to go ahead and put y 'all up
48:16
on some game. So I'm going to tell you this right
48:19
now. I don't care if you got to get some shorts
48:24
that double or some floaties. Black men. Oh,
48:29
you're going to give it away? I'm going to give
48:30
it away. You're going to give it away. I'm going
48:32
to give it away. Look, I'm being too greedy if
48:35
I don't. I noticed there was more this time.
48:38
Of what you're about to say. One or two more
48:40
on average. But look, this is a pool party for
48:46
Lauderdale. The pool is... Get in the pool. Huh?
48:50
Get in the damn pool. Get in the damn pool. Look.
48:55
There's ladies. You can touch them so easily
48:57
and consensually. Listen. Listen. I watched and
49:02
I observed. Every single time, the women came
49:06
up to you damn near. And I listened to Unk, so
49:10
I chilled, and they would approach me. Sometimes
49:12
I approached them if I knew them or whatever.
49:15
They would approach me. And I love that way.
49:19
They're picking the guy they're attracted to.
49:21
And I'm telling you, every dude, the guy in the
49:24
pool, had no problems. So it's no more than like
49:29
five feet. You ain't got to go on that side.
49:33
Most of it's like three, four feet tall. You'll
49:36
be fine. The women almost got to work harder
49:40
in the pool because I made out with that one
49:43
guy for 10 minutes, and then I asked him to go
49:45
to the room, and he was like, oh, maybe later.
49:47
And I was like, are you fucking kidding me? I'd
49:51
never try with that guy again. I'd just be like,
49:54
you're lost. I did that in my head, though. I
49:56
had a little speech. I was like, I wouldn't say
49:59
it to them, but in my head, there was a few guys
50:02
that turned me down, and I said in my head, It's
50:05
your loss because I'm a shit ton of fun. And
50:08
then there was a few guys that had kind of, I
50:12
don't know if they avoided me before or our timing
50:18
was off. But I played with them and they said,
50:22
you've been coming to Splash for how long? And
50:25
we haven't played and we finally played. And
50:27
they apologized to me. But I'd never asked them
50:30
to play before. But they were just like, I didn't
50:33
know. And I was like, well. When the timing's
50:37
right, the timing's right, right? But that fed
50:41
the little siren eagle a little bit. A little
50:43
bit. And sometimes we ladies need that. We need
50:46
a little shot in the arm too. Especially, you
50:49
know, I know some of the women are hard on themselves.
50:51
We talked a lot about the body positivity of
50:55
being like, if you're 100 pounds, if you're 300
50:58
pounds, there's something for everybody at Splash.
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And so just encouraging, you know, especially
51:04
women, don't be hard on yourselves. If you've
51:07
got a human body, you know, do the best you can.
51:10
Like we talk to the men, like do the best with
51:12
what you have, you know, but that's not a big
51:17
deal. You know, if you've got a few stretch marks
51:19
or fat rolls or whatever, like there is something
51:22
for everybody at Splash. The confidence is what's
51:26
sexy. Good deal. Good deal. Well, I tell you
51:33
what, this has been a very nice After Action
51:36
Report. Again, I hate I missed it. I really do.
51:40
Oh, and let me say this to the listeners out
51:43
there. We are podcasting tonight, but tune in
51:47
Thursday night at, what, 7 p .m. Eastern Standard
51:52
Time. We will have the sapiosexual one back with
51:56
us again. He is going to actually be... And that
52:02
will be our boy Pagan. And he will come up there
52:05
and he will take the reins and he will interview
52:08
myself along with Nephew. So that should be an
52:11
exciting podcast. Yeah, it's going to be fun.
52:15
Very, very fun. Very, very fun. Anything else
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you do? No. That's it. We're just in recovery
52:23
mode, you know, trying to catch up on work, life,
52:26
sleep, hydration. I hear you. Especially the
52:31
hydration. I hear you. All right, then. Well,
52:37
we're going to close this one out, ladies and
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gentlemen. Thank you for another wonderful evening,
52:43
Siren and Socrates, and for the listeners out
52:47
there. As I always say, this is B. Morgan coming
52:51
at you, a .k .a. the Sigma Male, to all the bulls
52:55
out there. Thank you for... Acting like the quality
52:59
gentleman that you were at Splash Mocha. And
53:03
here again, I bid you brothers a good night.
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And to all my sexy odd wives out there, unicorns
53:12
who acted like the perfect sluts that you suppose
53:14
act like at Splash Mocha and other, I bid you
53:19
all good morning. Until we talk to you again,
53:23
take care, stay sexy, and we will see you. in
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a few days. Love everybody. Good night.