Latest / The Mental Healness Podcast / THE INTIMACY TRAP: How Narcissists Weaponize the Bedroom

Transcript

THE INTIMACY TRAP: How Narcissists Weaponize the Bedroom · The Mental Healness Podcast

• 0:01
  So boom, you could be fighting all day, but the moment you get
• 0:06
  behind closed doors, it's like the narcissist becomes an
• 0:09
  entirely different person. Like they take the mask off,
• 0:12
  they change their whole they, they, they take that, they take
• 0:15
  their personality off and leave it, leave it in the floor by the
• 0:18
  door. You feel like you finally feel
• 0:22
  seen, you feel wanted and you think this is the real damn,
• 0:27
  this is who I love fell in love with.
• 0:30
  This is the real person. But as someone is diagnosed with
• 0:33
  NPD, I'm here to tell you it's a weapon.
• 0:38
  Today we're talking about the intimacy trap and why the
• 0:41
  bedroom is often the hardest place to go no contact with a
• 0:44
  narcissist and how narcissist the people can use the the
• 0:48
  bedroom. Boom, to control you, to
• 0:51
  manipulate you or, and, or to punish you as well.
• 0:55
  Because that happens too, right? You get into these situations
• 0:58
  where you get punished for what what?
• 1:01
  You get punished for wanting intimacy.
• 1:03
  You get punished for your wanting your partner to care for
• 1:06
  you or be there for you or something along those lines.
• 1:08
  You get punished. And I know people don't want to
• 1:11
  be, people don't want to be punished.
• 1:12
  And I know that this sucks right there when you're dealing with
• 1:14
  somebody who does this type of stuff, but this is what goes on.
• 1:17
  This is part of what happens. You you're dealing with a
• 1:20
  narcissistic person. Yeah.
• 1:22
  So you don't. What about having scares?
• 1:26
  What do you mean scares? What type of scares and whatnot?
• 1:28
  I'm gonna might be a little confused about the scares part,
• 1:33
  but yeah, we're gonna hop right into it.
• 1:34
  Y'all. Is it that good or is it your
• 1:38
  only connection? Is the bedroom stuff that good?
• 1:45
  Is it really that good or is it your only connection that you
• 1:48
  have to this person? Is the only time that you might
• 1:51
  feel seen or heard by this person?
• 1:53
  Is that it right there? Is it that good or is it your
• 1:57
  only connection? Now some of y'all might say,
• 2:01
  well Lee, it is that good. I'm here to tell you that, Lee,
• 2:06
  it is that good. And da da, da da.
• 2:08
  Yeah, I think you could be right.
• 2:10
  But sometimes it's, it's a myth. It's a myth for many survivors
• 2:13
  of, for many survivors of narcissistic abuse or a toxic
• 2:17
  relationship dynamic, the bedroom, you might feel like
• 2:20
  it's the only safe zone that you have.
• 2:22
  Like the narcissistic person knows this, right?
• 2:24
  They know they use the physical high to erase the emotional low
• 2:29
  of the rest of the day. So again, I ask you, is it
• 2:32
  really that good? Or is it your only connection to
• 2:36
  them? Is it the only time you feel
• 2:38
  connected to this person at all? Because if it's the only
• 2:40
  connection, of course it's going to make it feel that much
• 2:44
  better. Of course you're going to be
• 2:46
  like, well, hell yeah, at least it is that good.
• 2:48
  That's why. Right?
• 2:50
  Of course that's what's going to happen.
• 2:51
  Of course you're going to say that because that's a big part
• 2:54
  of it. That's a big piece of it, you
• 2:55
  know? So if it's your only connection,
• 2:59
  of course you're going to think that it is better than what it
• 3:02
  actually is. That's what happens, right?
• 3:05
  So that's something you got to think about too.
• 3:07
  Is it really that good? Or is it the only time you feel
• 3:10
  seen by this person? Is it the only time you feel
• 3:13
  heard by this person? Is that it right there?
• 3:16
  Is it? You know what I mean?
• 3:18
  That's something you got to say like that's important to
• 3:23
  recognize, y'all. That is absolutely going to be
• 3:25
  important. What is going on, Rayanne?
• 3:27
  You know, that's going to be important to recognize.
• 3:29
  That's something to think about as well.
• 3:31
  So the the next thing that comes about is the high and the crash.
• 3:37
  Like y'all know the bedroom stuff, the clapping cheeks.
• 3:40
  As I as I say, sometimes it's a chemical addiction right?
• 3:44
  Your brain get is getting flooded with dopamine and
• 3:48
  oxytocin and cheeks, the cheeks sounds and all the other stuff
• 3:52
  which all all this stuff, all this good stuff that happened in
• 3:55
  there. It kind of like temporarily
• 3:58
  blurs the red flags, you know, it blurs the red flags.
• 4:03
  It makes them seem like everything is going to be OK
• 4:05
  because now you feel seen. Now you feel heard, right?
• 4:08
  And then you get, you come to realize that when it's all over
• 4:11
  and it's all said and done and they start to treat you or to
• 4:13
  retreat, they start to treat you horribly or retreat from you,
• 4:16
  you start to realize that you're not addicted to them.
• 4:19
  You're addicted to the the relief that you feel in this
• 4:23
  moment. Yes, cheek sounds.
• 4:26
  You're addicted to the relief that you feel in this moment.
• 4:28
  You feel like, well damn, I finally feel seen and heard and
• 4:31
  da, da, da, da, da. So that's important to recognize
• 4:33
  that as well. You ain't.
• 4:35
  I meant heard, not that. Yeah, I got you.
• 4:36
  But that's important to recognize that part as well,
• 4:39
  y'all, because this is a piece of it.
• 4:42
  It really, truly is a big piece of what ends up happening.
• 4:45
  What ends up going on. It really is.
• 4:48
  So that's something to consider as you're moving forward against
• 4:53
  this narcissistic toxic person or whatever, right?
• 4:56
  That's something to really think about.
• 4:59
  Like when when it comes to the intimacy or the lack thereof,
• 5:02
  you get into your mind, you're like, OK, was it really that
• 5:05
  good? Or was it the only time I felt
• 5:09
  seen and heard by this person? So it made it that much better
• 5:12
  and because it's the only time I felt seen and heard by this
• 5:15
  person, I wanted it more and more from this person because
• 5:18
  now I feel like you see me, you hear me, you touch me, you feel
• 5:21
  me, blah blah blah Boo Boo Boo BBB.
• 5:25
  So you get to that space as well.
• 5:27
  You know, you get into that situation as well.
• 5:30
  It's the intimate, that reinforcement as the
• 5:31
  breadcrumbing Actually just did a video about breadcrumbing on
• 5:33
  my on my channel. So actually just did a video
• 5:36
  literally about breadcrumbing on my YouTube channel.
• 5:38
  If y'all haven't seen it yet and whatnot.
• 5:41
  So this was going on. Somebody said in the beginning
• 5:44
  it was amazing and then it started becoming quite robotic.
• 5:46
  The love started to fade on my end.
• 5:48
  Yep, That's part of what happened.
• 5:50
  Yeah. I'm just being real with you.
• 5:51
  That is part of what happens. Like, because you in the
• 5:54
  beginning, of course, doing a love bombing fade.
• 5:55
  Some people, some people do I I look, I call it, I call it SEX
• 6:00
  bombs, right? You get bombed with the bedroom
• 6:06
  stuff, especially in the beginning.
• 6:07
  So you get you like, damn, I'm getting this is the best I ever
• 6:10
  had. And then slowly but surely that
• 6:12
  narcissistic person starts to reel it away.
• 6:15
  They started to take it away, right?
• 6:18
  They started to take it away and things just change up.
• 6:21
  Things feel different. That's where that's the way it
• 6:23
  goes. That's the way it ends up
• 6:25
  happening. So things feel different.
• 6:26
  Things feel like they're going on and on and on.
• 6:29
  They remove it, they remove it. So then when they remove it, you
• 6:33
  enter what people refer to as the punishment phase, right?
• 6:36
  If you, if you, this is the punishment, punishment favorite
• 6:39
  with the intimacy stuff. If you do something that we
• 6:42
  don't like, if you do something that a narcissist does not like,
• 6:45
  right? The first thing that a
• 6:47
  narcissist takes away is affection.
• 6:50
  It's the easy thing to take away.
• 6:52
  They just remove the affection. They take it away, they strip it
• 6:56
  away from you, they strip it, look, they strip it down to the
• 6:59
  studs. They take that away from you.
• 7:02
  So when they take the affection away, of course you're going to
• 7:05
  feel a certain type of way, right?
• 7:07
  You're going to feel unwanted. You're going to feel unseen,
• 7:09
  you're going to feel unheard. They're So they're going to
• 7:11
  remove that first appreciate that, Shamir.
• 7:13
  They're going to remove the intimacy first, the infection,
• 7:16
  the first. No more hugging, no more
• 7:17
  kissing, no more anything. No more clapping of the cheeks.
• 7:21
  Who's that right there? Yes.
• 7:22
  They become as cold as ice. That's what happens.
• 7:26
  They become seriously as cold as ice, you know, and they're you
• 7:30
  don't you no longer recognize the partner that once made you
• 7:33
  feel good, the partner that once made you smile.
• 7:35
  The part of the these, the promise to take care of you.
• 7:37
  You don't see it anymore, right? So they take the affection away.
• 7:40
  Like when they take it away, they damn near try to make you
• 7:44
  earn it back, right? It's like they put you on the
• 7:47
  payroll. You got to like, you know, you
• 7:48
  know how you start working a a new job, You got to earn your
• 7:51
  benefits. You have like you had a 90, you
• 7:53
  had a 90 day probationary period before you can get a health
• 7:55
  insurance or dental, right? You got a tooth infection.
• 7:58
  You're like, man, my, my damn teeth.
• 7:59
  But to fall out, I need to get this insurance now I got to wait
• 8:01
  90 days to get insurance. I got to trust me, you got it.
• 8:05
  You got to work for it back, right?
• 8:06
  You got to work back for it. You got to earn it back.
• 8:10
  So this turns your basic human need for connection and
• 8:13
  affection. They turn that into a reward
• 8:16
  system that they themselves, that the narcissist controls
• 8:20
  your basic wants and needs, turn into a reward system where they
• 8:23
  take control of you. They do this type of stuff, you
• 8:26
  know what I mean? And everything, that's what goes
• 8:28
  on. That's what ends up happening.
• 8:29
  That's the piece in the space that so many people fall into,
• 8:32
  right? They can be cold and
• 8:34
  unaffectionate while still having SEX with you.
• 8:36
  Absolutely true. Lanelle, you hit the nail on the
• 8:39
  head right here. Like 100% true.
• 8:42
  They can be. They can.
• 8:43
  Just because they do it with you does not mean they're going to
• 8:46
  be affectionate. Some people just like turn
• 8:48
  around and take it, don't say a word, don't look at me.
• 8:52
  I got needs and you got to fulfill those needs.
• 8:55
  I don't care how you feel about it.
• 8:56
  And that shit up right? And then if you say no, you're
• 9:00
  the bad guy. Then if you say no, you're
• 9:02
  withholding affection. If you say no, you don't want to
• 9:05
  give it to him. That's why I chewed on you.
• 9:06
  You see what I'm saying? That's what ends up happening.
• 9:09
  That's what could absolutely happen.
• 9:11
  There's so many people are in this situation.
• 9:13
  It absolutely could. So that's something you got to,
• 9:15
  you kind of got to defend yourself against and guard
• 9:17
  yourself against as well. Like, seriously.
• 9:20
  And shout out to Lashawn, who are joining the channel
• 9:21
  membership. Appreciate you.
• 9:24
  But that happened. I'd say this next time.
• 9:27
  Way to do the trauma. Yeah.
• 9:28
  Oh, he began SA ING you. Oh, that's an evil bastard.
• 9:31
  Oh, that's evil. Oh, he's an evil bastard.
• 9:35
  You see what I'm saying? That's the evil bastard right
• 9:36
  there. And sometimes, like when you
• 9:41
  deal with a narcissistic person, they do give you the cold
• 9:43
  shoulder, right? Have you ever felt closer than
• 9:47
  ever to a narcissist, right? And then 10 minutes or what 10
• 9:50
  minutes later, they act like they don't even know who you
• 9:52
  are. That's the power play.
• 9:54
  It leaves you confused and chasing the high again, right?
• 9:58
  10 minutes later, like after y'all have just done something
• 10:01
  now they're acting like you don't exist.
• 10:06
  They're acting like you don't exist, like you don't matter.
• 10:08
  They, they turn around, they turn over and go to sleep.
• 10:11
  They're like you're over there sleeping, burping, farting,
• 10:15
  they're doing everything else and they sleep and you, you over
• 10:18
  there unfulfilled and feeling like a piece of meat, right?
• 10:22
  That's what be happening. They just take everything away.
• 10:26
  So in in essence, y'all you, what you have to do next y'all
• 10:29
  is you have to reclaim your power.
• 10:30
  Y'all know that's why y'all know that's all I'm about is
• 10:33
  absolutely reclaiming your power.
• 10:36
  You, you have to, you have to reclaim your power for a
• 10:38
  narcissistic person. So in order to reclaim your
• 10:41
  power, the first thing you have to do is recognize the cycle.
• 10:44
  Like you have to see it for what it is, not what it ain't, not
• 10:48
  what you think it is. You have to see it for exactly
• 10:51
  what it is. It's a transaction.
• 10:54
  Like most things with narcissistic people, it's a
• 10:57
  transactional relationship. Physical intimacy is a
• 11:00
  transaction with a narcissist. It just is, right?
• 11:06
  It is a transaction with a narcissist.
• 11:08
  If it's not like if it's not consistent outside the bedroom,
• 11:12
  it's not real inside the bedroom.
• 11:13
  So if they're only touching you and showing you affection behind
• 11:16
  closed doors, then you see what I'm saying?
• 11:19
  If they're only showing you affection behind closed doors,
• 11:22
  that's in and of itself should show you what's going on right
• 11:25
  there, right? That should show you that it's
• 11:27
  not necessarily a real dynamic. They're not.
• 11:29
  They don't hug and kiss you or talk to you outside of outside
• 11:32
  the bedroom. But now you're outside the
• 11:34
  bedroom. Now you're inside the bedroom.
• 11:35
  Now they won't be touchy feely. You see, that's not real
• 11:37
  intimacy. That's just fake.
• 11:38
  That's situational. It's like situational intimacy,
• 11:41
  right? I was the main supplier for 28
• 11:43
  years. 28 years is a long time. Distance is key.
• 11:46
  Yeah, distance is key. Distance is also a boundary,
• 11:49
  right? Even distance, like distance in
• 11:52
  the bedroom, distance in the relationship.
• 11:53
  I'll show you this in the house, what's going on.
• 11:56
  That's important right there. And after you kind of recognize
• 11:58
  the cycle, yeah, you got to, you got to detox your body from this
• 12:02
  narcissistic person. You absolutely have to detox
• 12:05
  your body. You have to go through a a toxic
• 12:07
  detox and what not when you're dealing people like this.
• 12:11
  And like, because healing from narcissistic abuse, healing from
• 12:14
  this emotional withdrawal or whatever, it requires a physical
• 12:18
  and emotional detox. You have to realize that your
• 12:21
  body's hunger for them that that what feel what, what could feel
• 12:25
  like an addiction to them, an your body's hunger or obsession
• 12:31
  and what could feel like an addiction to them.
• 12:34
  It isn't really for them. It's for the stability that
• 12:37
  they're refusing to give you. It's for the stuff that they're
• 12:40
  refusing to give you. That's what ends up going on.
• 12:43
  What's going on. That's what that's what ends up
• 12:45
  going on. Sleep.
• 12:46
  Yeah, yeah. Sleep pisses them off.
• 12:48
  No contact is the detox I'm doing.
• 12:50
  Good for you, good for you, 'cause that can be helpful.
• 12:54
  Detoxing like the no contact detox can absolutely be helpful
• 12:56
  when you're dealing with somebody like this.
• 12:58
  So you have to be able to detox from them, 'cause like, think
• 13:02
  about like this. Your body isn't a playground for
• 13:06
  someone who doesn't respect your heart.
• 13:11
  Your body is not a playground for someone who does not respect
• 13:14
  your heart. You have to reclaim your space.
• 13:17
  You absolutely have to. And reclaiming your heart means
• 13:21
  maybe going no contact like Shamira said, right?
• 13:24
  Maybe going no contact, maybe joining a support group, maybe
• 13:27
  doing a one-on-one, maybe reading a book, maybe doing some
• 13:30
  self-care. That's what it means that that's
• 13:32
  what ends up happening right there y'all.
• 13:33
  Like seriously that seriously, y'all should go check out the
• 13:36
  the YouTube short, the YouTube short I just posted about
• 13:39
  self-care. You know, like physical
• 13:41
  self-care is a YouTube short. I just posted it called so it's
• 13:44
  about taking control back. Go check that out because it can
• 13:47
  help you understand what you're going through in this situation.
• 13:49
  Y'all, It really, really came. So I had a few minutes for AQ
• 13:52
  and a y'all if I have some questions.
• 13:54
  My camera is doing something funky right now.
• 13:55
  I see it and I don't want to just stay on there too long.
• 13:58
  It's true. You have the detox.
• 13:59
  Yeah, absolutely. But yeah, make sure also to
• 14:01
  check out my website, mentalillness.net for my
• 14:04
  coaching, my courses, all this stuff.
• 14:06
  They can help you. They can help set you free is
• 14:09
  available here at mentalillness.net or here.
• 14:11
  I don't know what's going to pop up in the screen.
• 14:12
  It's at the bottom of the screen right now.
• 14:14
  Mental illness.net. self-care is extremely important.
• 14:18
  It absolutely. self-care is absolutely. self-care is so
• 14:23
  important on your journey. It really is.
• 14:26
  Outside of support groups, no contact was easy physically
• 14:29
  because he's on. No, he's on no contact for five
• 14:32
  years after court closed. But at the same time, mentally,
• 14:35
  they're still contacting my brain.
• 14:36
  Even after a year. It's still in trouble.
• 14:37
  Yeah. It's going to take time, right?
• 14:39
  It's going to take time. One day you might wake up and
• 14:42
  not feel better, Right? But it's going to take time.
• 14:47
  Read my comment before I send the word.
• 14:48
  Sleep. It pissed him off.
• 14:50
  Sleep. Oh, when he would act like I
• 14:53
  didn't exist after doing it, I would satisfy myself.
• 14:55
  Satisfy myself while he's pretending to be sleep.
• 14:57
  Oh, they're lower. I know he I know they might have
• 14:59
  messed with his head right there.
• 15:00
  I know they might have messed with his head.
• 15:01
  Daddy, I have his child and still go no contact.
• 15:04
  I don't. Yeah, just protect your peace
• 15:06
  right there. Right, Because sometimes you
• 15:08
  just don't want to go no contact.
• 15:09
  And like, I'm not saying you're doing this, but they can claim
• 15:13
  if you block them, they can try to claim parental alienation.
• 15:15
  Like she don't let me talk to my baby.
• 15:17
  You don't let y'all not baby. She'd keep me away from me.
• 15:22
  Your body is in the playground for someone who doesn't respect
• 15:24
  your heart. Yes those fire wouldn't it?
• 15:27
  Can we just hire you to confront our narcs and psycho this
• 15:29
  matter? I wish people all hear dangers
• 15:32
  these days. I would I would.
• 15:33
  You know I used to buy. I'm beyond.
• 15:35
  I'm beyond my fighting days y'all.
• 15:36
  I turn 40. I'm beyond my fighting days.
• 15:38
  My fighting prime is behind me. I don't throw hands no more.
• 15:42
  I throw TikTok videos, I throw YouTube shorts.
• 15:47
  That's what I do now. That's what I throw it out.
• 15:51
  I throw these things right now. That's what I'm trying to throw.
• 15:55
  I'm gonna try to keep throwing them.
• 15:59
  How do you not let them get under your skin?
• 16:00
  All the downtime where you have to Co parent, you have to
• 16:02
  understand what exactly what they're doing.
• 16:05
  If you know they're trying to get under your skin, you have
• 16:06
  to, you have to prepare when you have to encounter them, you have
• 16:09
  to prepare because like, OK, I got to go meet.
• 16:12
  Let's just say I'm Co parenting with you and you're the
• 16:13
  narcissist. Liz.
• 16:14
  OK, I got to go meet Liz at 1:00.
• 16:16
  I got to get my mind right because I know Liz is going to
• 16:18
  try to trigger me. I know she's going to try to get
• 16:20
  into my skin. I know she's going to try to say
• 16:21
  something crazy. I'm just going to ignore her.
• 16:23
  I have a goal in mind. The goal is to pick up, pick up
• 16:26
  baby, get out of here and not give you any kind of energy.
• 16:31
  Your energy is worth protecting. I have been Hoover back many
• 16:34
  times. Last night was the last round.
• 16:35
  Any advice to stay strong and not breaking no contact when you
• 16:38
  getting hoovered, what is going on?
• 16:40
  Because after a while they're no longer hoovering you.
• 16:43
  You're accepting it. You see what I'm saying?
• 16:46
  After a while you know it's coming.
• 16:47
  You're like oh they're going to Hoover me again.
• 16:48
  I know what they're doing. What's going on up here?
• 16:51
  You see what's going on up here that allows you to fall for the
• 16:54
  Hoover because you have to break it.
• 16:56
  You have whatever you want over here.
• 16:57
  You have to break it. And that's what I'm telling
• 16:59
  y'all. My courses do help y'all.
• 17:00
  My course, like I said, if you go to my website,
• 17:02
  mentalillness.net or courses.mentalillness.net and
• 17:05
  check out my courses, you'll see those.
• 17:07
  It was a five star highly rated courses that help people
• 17:10
  understand what they went through and break the trauma
• 17:12
  bond. courses.mentalillness.net. Look, if you enter the code
• 17:16
  mothers or fathers, you get 50% off the courses.
• 17:19
  So it makes it makes both my courses super cheap, right?
• 17:24
  You make some super affordable, super cheap and whatnot because
• 17:28
  not everybody wants to do a one-on-one.
• 17:30
  Some people want to learn and and to grow and heal at their
• 17:32
  own pace. That's what the courses are for.
• 17:36
  If you got that work is gang stalking a form of Hoover and
• 17:41
  possibly right gang stalking. It could be possibly be a reason
• 17:45
  to try to get you to reach out to negotiate or whatever, right?
• 17:47
  They could be what happens could be maybe not.
• 17:51
  It might not. Not necessarily.
• 17:52
  Always. I'm close to Two years walked
• 17:56
  away. I had to get my head cleared. 09
• 17:59
  years walked away. OK, good for you.
• 18:02
  No problem. Excellent.
• 18:07
  Withheld intimacy for three years and blame me for it.
• 18:09
  Yep. They'll put it on to you.
• 18:10
  Like you. You.
• 18:11
  Don't you. I'm not attracted to you like I
• 18:13
  used to be. Why?
• 18:14
  I don't want to sleep with you. Best is joining support group.
• 18:20
  Yeah, I have a support. Yeah, I know.
• 18:21
  I keep trying to put something out, but I do have a support
• 18:22
  group as well. That's that mental.
• 18:24
  That's that mental illness.net as well.
• 18:26
  That's a mental illness.net too. The support group.
• 18:28
  I hate that my camera's doing a little flicky thing.
• 18:31
  Y'all was like just going crazy. So I'm about to have off y'all.
• 18:34
  I do have to have off this thing, y'all.
• 18:35
  I'm gonna try to see what's wrong, what's going on with this
• 18:37
  camera because it's like kind of annoying me too.
• 18:39
  So if you haven't already, make sure you hit this hit that
• 18:42
  subscribe button. You know, if you haven't
• 18:44
  already. You can say that man.
• 18:47
  Make sure you hit the subscribe button if you haven't already to
• 18:50
  the channel. Check out my website,
• 18:52
  mentalillness.net for all things Lee Hammock, my coach, my
• 18:56
  coaching, my courses, Everything is at mentalillness.net, y'all,
• 19:00
  and I'll probably be I'll probably be going live again
• 19:02
  this weekend. Just make sure you check it out,
• 19:04
  y'all. Turn on, turn on, turn on those
• 19:07
  notifications. Check it out too.
• 19:09
  And I do y'all, before I go. I do movie breakdowns, toxic
• 19:14
  movie breakdowns on my other channel.
• 19:16
  If y'all haven't seen my other channel, it's called terrible
• 19:19
  takes. Me me, my twin brother and I
• 19:22
  have started breaking down toxic movies and sports and stuff like
• 19:26
  that. If you want to break, if you
• 19:27
  like my content but you want to break from narcissism, you want
• 19:30
  to break from just toxic relationship stuff, make sure to
• 19:33
  follow my other channel it's called it's called terrible
• 19:36
  takes. I'm going to drop the link right
• 19:38
  here so y'all can just check it out.
• 19:40
  It's called terrible takes and y'all can see it right here.
• 19:44
  Terrible. I'm gonna do so Kyle, I'm gonna
• 19:45
  do I'm gonna do another live. I'm gonna just do a straight up
• 19:48
  Q&A here pretty soon. But yeah, follow my other
• 19:50
  YouTube channel. It's called terrible takes 4.
• 19:53
  Make sure to check that out. Y'all go join that Channel right
• 19:55
  now before we hop off, go check out terrible takes 4.
• 19:59
  Make sure to subscribe to the channel and check out my last
• 20:01
  two movie reviews. I did the movie frozen, which is
• 20:03
  kind of crazy, but I also did I did frozen and I also did the
• 20:07
  the movie enough by Jlo. And then you can go in the
• 20:10
  comment section and suggest other movies.
• 20:11
  I'm about to do sleeping with the enemy.
• 20:13
  Beauty and the beast, tangled, Little Mermaid, I got a lot of
• 20:17
  other movies love and basketball.
• 20:18
  I got a lot of other movies. I'm about to start breaking down
• 20:20
  as well right here so check out my channel right here click it
• 20:23
  the link is now it's TurboTax 4. Check that Channel out for my
• 20:26
  movie reviews and stuff like that.
• 20:27
  Y'all going to go into greater detail over there hit that
• 20:30
  subscribe button y'all and I'm out peace.
• 20:32
  Thank you for joining us.