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What If the Life You're Living Isn't the Life Your Soul Chose · Just Be True ~ A Soul-Led Podcast

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Hello and welcome to Just Be True, a soul -led
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podcast. My name is Summer and I am so happy
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that you're here with me today. And the question
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is, what if the life you're living isn't the
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life your soul chose? Today's conversation is
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an invitation to look beyond the light that we've
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been conditioned to live and listen more closely
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to the life our soul may be actually calling
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us towards. Today my guest Drakos is a spiritual
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guide inner alchemist and author of founder of
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a modern meditation retreat and in divine destiny
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Academy his own journey took him from the corporate
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world into years of deep personal transformation
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spiritual practice and Explorational consciousness
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in this episode. We're going to talk about awakening
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intuition Inner alignment transformation and
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what can happen when we begin to trust the deeper
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guidance within us This is the conversation about
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remembering who you are Questioning what no longer
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feels alive and having the courage to follow
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where your soul is leading you So I truly hope
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get into it! Hey, so welcome to another episode
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of Just Be True, a soul -led podcast. And I am
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so excited for the conversation that we're going
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to have today. It's going to be amazing. It's
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going to be soul awakening, we should say. And
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hopefully, it's something that touches each and
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every one of you. So thank you so much for being
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here. And so tell us a little bit about yourself.
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And then I definitely want to step into what
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your purpose is and how you help people. in their
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awakening process and remembering who they are.
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For sure. Thank you. Thank you, Summer. Thank
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you for having me on this beautiful podcast.
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And I notice it's such a beautiful... Usually
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the podcasts are emerging, like the conversations.
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It's so beautiful what insights can come up and
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so honored to be here. So... For me, all this
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awakening journey started so many years ago.
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I believe in 2016 was one of the biggest years
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of shifting so much the paradigm I was living
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in. I had a few awakening moments that helped
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me break this whole paradigm and I had more phases,
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let's call it like this. So now I'm helping people
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remember who they truly are, release what is
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holding them back, and then creating from that
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their divine destiny, the life that they came
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here to live. Because I believe we all came with
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a sole purpose. a life that represents our true
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unique essence, our unique vibration we came
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here with. And I usually use this metaphor with
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the hands, like with the open hand, the vibration
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we came here to express into the world. But what
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happened is through our birth, through our incarnation,
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even from the womb, but also in the first years,
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we begin to contract. to close, to experience
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trauma, different events that made us to contract,
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to close our hearts and to develop this protective
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personality, the ego, whatever we want to call
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it. And then we're leaving from this personality
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and creating our reality, which doesn't reflect
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who we truly are. So I believe the awakening
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or remembering process is remembering our true
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essence and actually coming back to who we truly
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are and then expressing that into the world.
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I love that hand analogy. So when you're doing
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the hand and having it open and then closing
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and then opening back up, it feels kind of like
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a flower blooming. Right like when they started
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opening back up it kind of felt like a flower
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blooming so blooming into who we truly are in
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our essence and so I really I just have a quick
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question, you know, like when you said that you
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help people You know work through that is there
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a common theme that you see in individuals and
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what's holding them back I believe there's a
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few themes and everybody has his or her own life
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theme. Of course, we have a lot of limiting paradigms
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and limiting beliefs that are common, like not
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belonging, not being good enough, self -worth
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and so on. But I believe there, above that, like
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I believe everyone has at least one major life
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theme, like karmic. theme that we need to learn,
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integrate, embody, which usually it's the one
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that it's preventing us the most to express who
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we truly are. Like, for example, for me, one
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of them was not belonging and I always had this
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protection mechanism, which at the beginning
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was... trying to fit in, like people pleasing.
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But which was also not my true self, right? Right.
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But it felt like it was working, right? Having
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a lot of relationships, friendships. But when
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I had my awakening process, I withdrew from people,
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from society. So I had my hermit period. to remember
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who I truly am, because I believe when we are
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energetically entangled in life, relationship,
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people, career, job and so on, we're always thinking,
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thinking, thinking, always on the run, struggling
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and hustling and so on. We cannot remember, we're
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just on autopilot. So I believe we need a period
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of... of stopping, of breathing, of relaxing,
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of coming back to silence, and that helps us
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to remember. And then to see these paradigms,
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how we actually sabotage and live a false life,
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like from this construction, from this identity,
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protective personality, and then we can actually
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shift to heal or alchemize those behaviors, when
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we understand the root cause of it, where it
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comes from, and then we can choose to respond
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differently, to choose a different paradigm,
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which is more aligned to who we truly are. So,
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I believe... that everybody has his or her own
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life lesson. And this is what, when we learn
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this lesson, it's actually what helps us to live
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the most authentic life, that it's an expression
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of who we truly are. Because I believe beyond
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our deepest... fears, wounds, we build the protective
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mechanisms and compensatory strategies, I call
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them, which actually, on one hand, it gives the
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illusion that it keeps us safe, like we're not
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experiencing the emotional wound, the trauma,
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but in the same time, it keeps us in a... false
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identity and not expressing who we truly are.
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So true. And I love that you use root, the root
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cause. So root analysis is kind of like, I used
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to do that for my job, for my career. I used
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to do root analysis where I worked for things.
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So I really love that concept of it and bring
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it in into this space. And so when you're working
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with people, and you're helping them to identify
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like those barriers that have to come down, right?
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And so, and then like, how do you help them identify
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those barriers and kind of like work through
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them? Because like I've had some clients and
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they have all this stuff going on. inside of
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their head, and they're not really looking at
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what the root cause is, they're looking at all
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these external things, which is separate from
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them, and they're thinking that's their problem,
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versus looking at themselves. Right. This is
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the default strategy, how we were conditioned
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to actually look at the world and reality. we
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see the circumstances, the reality outside, and
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we're trying to fix the outside in order for
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us to feel good inside. But it's exactly the
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opposite. Because the outside world is just a
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reflection of who we truly are, of our internal
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world. So when we're looking in the mirror and
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we see something we don't like, we're trying
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to... scratch the mirror to divert the image
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that we see that we don't like, but it's not
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working at the root, right? We're working on
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the mirror, which is just a reflection. So the
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true cause, it's within, right? It's all the
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blockages and the distortions that we created
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out of fear, out of wounding, out of trauma.
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And it's not something like the ego and the protective
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mechanism is not something bad or something wrong.
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It helped us, it served us, like from the beginning
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when we were children or infants, like we couldn't
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protect ourselves, right? Like the energy or
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what we experienced was too big for us to handle,
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for our energetic system. So of course we needed...
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to protect ourselves, so all the strategies that
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we form, of course they served us, but now as
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an adult we can handle much more, we can understand
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much deeper the reality and how it functions
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and we can reclaim our sovereignty and our power,
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our energy. So I believe we are this stream of
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consciousness, pure awareness, and this flows
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through us and is reflected in the outer reality,
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outer world. We are creators. But when we are
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living based on what we see outside the circumstances,
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and we take that as reality, then it creates
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a loop. Like we receive this feedback from, I
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don't have enough money, I live in lack, I don't
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have this relationship that works or fights or
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whatever it might be. So we take that as feedback
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for who we truly are. There's something wrong
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with me. It doesn't work. And we give power and
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we try to fix the outside. We try to fix the
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partner, the event, or whatever it might be.
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But it's a losing game. It is not ever going
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to work. It might give the illusion that it works.
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We're using a lot of willpower and manipulation,
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whatever, trying to fix the outside. when the
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outside is just a reflection, an effect of what
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is happening within us. So that's why coming
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back to ourselves and seeing what it's within,
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it's so powerful because as you said, we're working
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at the root. Otherwise, it's a never ending game
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for working on the effect. Absolutely. Um, that's
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so beautiful. Um, I love that is it just It wraps
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it up nice and neat kind of right But there's
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still a lot of work to be done Like we still
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have a lot of work when we're working and what
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I have found and amazing enough like when I started
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my I'll say my hand healing awakening journey
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because when you're waking you start a healing
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journey Along with that right to be able to be
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in the pure essence of what you're meant to be
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and for your purpose here. And so what I have
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found though, is that at first it seems like
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it's a lot. It seems like it's just like one
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thing, just bam, bam, bam, bam, bam, right behind
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one another on that healing journey. And I mean,
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I've said it and I've had clients that said it
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that just is like, I am just so tired of it all,
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let it be done. and being able to find the grace
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and the patience within ourselves. But what I've
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discovered is that as you go along, it gets easier.
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I can share a few understandings that I... got
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also from my healing journey, which I feel is
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relevant for our discussion. So, of course, at
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the beginning, when we are in the automated way
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of living life, I mean, for me also, before my
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awakening, I thought everything is normal, like
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I don't have any problem, and this is what happens
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at the beginning. Until we have a... like some
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crisis or the Dark Night of the Soul, where it
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pushes many people to awaken and to stop and
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to look within. And then we start, because when
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we are always on do -do -do and always agitated,
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we don't see. It's like... So the mud, you know,
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like in a glass of water, there's mud at the
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end where it's in the subconscious, right? This
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is where all of these patterns are stored. So
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when it's agitation, so we don't get to see what
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it's underneath. But when we stop and we begin
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to bring more energy, more light within that
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which is stored in our subconscious, the reactions,
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the emotional wounds, samskaras are called in
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Sanskrit, tend to surface. And then we begin
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to see, oh my God, I have this, I have that.
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How is it possible? And it's, of course, overwhelming
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if we're not used to, and we are not used to
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this. And that's why many people give up on meditation,
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on healing or on this journey, because it might
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feel too overwhelming if we don't understand
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that it's a natural process. And it's normal
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that we have all of these things, even if we're
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so busy that we don't recognize. But when we
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reverse the process from always on the outside,
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coming back within, these things are gonna come
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up and it's a beautiful thing because only when
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they come up and we are becoming aware of them
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we can actually heal them and alchemize and transform
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and letting that energy reintegrate in our system
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in our energy this is actually how we are reclaiming
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our power instead of from giving it outside always
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like a an addiction because it's an addiction
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to thoughts to things outside to feel us and
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not to feel why it's uncomfortable, because we're
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running away from ourselves. So we're running
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to get the next stimulus, whatever it might be,
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social media, distractions, in order not to feel
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what's within ourselves and our hearts. So when
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we... begin to come back, of course, we're going
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to feel all these things. So that's why we need
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to have patience, to have acceptance, to develop
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self -love. And only actually the energy of love
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is the power that actually alchemizes, transforms
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all these energies within. So, yeah, if you want
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to share maybe We'll see if we go how this actually
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works in dynamic, I call it the alchemy process
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instead of healing. But as you said, there are
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so many people and also some of your clients
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said this and also it was my experience that
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it's overwhelming, like it's too much, you begin
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to recognize this and this and this, like it's
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never ending. And from what I experienced and
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what I discovered is that at some point, like
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after we do some healing and we try a lot of
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techniques and processes and so on, I believe
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there comes a point when we make a shift from
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trying and focusing on what is not working and
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what is the next thing I need to solve to remembering
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our... essence and the part of us that is whole
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and complete now. Because we have this, this
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is actually our true nature, right? The open
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hand. Remember, in coming back to this, even
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if the personality, the human aspect of us still
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has these blockages, but if we identify with
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the protective personality and what is not working,
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it will never end. So I believe at some point
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we need to make this shift to accept this is
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who I am, and then I walk on this journey with
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this, right, the two parts of us, the divine
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and the human, working and going together in
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this journey. So the healing process happens
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by itself. We don't need to focus on it anymore.
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All these things that are keeping us, all the
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emotional reactions, because this is the sign
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when something pops up. We have an intense emotional
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reaction of anger, judgment, whatever it may
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be. We learn how to alchemize and transform them
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along the way, following our path. So we don't
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need to focus on them anymore, but focus on the
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vision on who we truly are, on the life we are
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here to live, to embody. That's beautiful. I
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mean... You just have a way of putting it where
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it just sounds so easy. And it's difficult for
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me to speak in English because, of course, it's
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not my native language. No, you're doing extremely
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well and expressing it extremely well. And no,
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and I thank you for that. No, that's really no,
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you're doing fabulous. So don't just push that
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aside. You do very well. You probably do better
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than most of us. I'm telling you. Our English
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is not spoken well in many areas. So you're doing
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great. So earlier you mentioned bringing in the
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energy in. And so when we are connecting to that
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energy, what I have discovered um along my journey
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is that we can bring in various different types
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of energies that we connect with and work with
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through our our daily lives especially when we
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really step fully into who our awakening being
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is right and so that's when for me and you're
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happy to you know um Even you're happy to for
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the discussion to be very open But for me the
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more I stepped into who I truly am the true essence
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of my spiritual being Right and my spiritual
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self those energies became more Powerful, but
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also they started to change so instead of just
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the energy of my higher self and You know the
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God energy that I felt connected to, I started
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feeling more the energies of the galactic or
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the star seeds, right? So the Palladiums and
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things like that. And so I would love to hear
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your take and your experience with that. Right.
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So we're expanding now. So all its energy, right?
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So of course, we can attune to different types
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of energies in this universe. And there are also,
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of course, lower energies and higher energies.
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So we are like a radio station and this is our
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frequency. And depending on what we are broadcasting,
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we're attracting these types of energies. From
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the unity point of view, there's no good or bad
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energies, right? They're just energy. They're
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just vibrating on different frequencies. There
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are more dense and lower vibrations, some are
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higher. So, of course, in this process, it's
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required for us to learn to not see the lower
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energies as bad, and to have rejection, aversion
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towards them, because otherwise, especially in
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this human incarnation, which we are here in
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this more dense 3D reality, we have to deal also
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with more dense energies, vibrations, which might
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feel uncomfortable in the body. So, of course,
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our... natural instinct is to prefer only the
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love and light frequencies, right? So that's
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beautiful, of course, but if we don't accept
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also the darkness, it's a bypassing. So we're
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not actually integrating and not using fully
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our human experience. So I believe that, of course,
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it's very beautiful to connect with the higher
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dimensions to the other constellations, star
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seeds, star families. And for many, it's a beautiful
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remembering of the star seed origin. There are
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many beings, souls, that came on Earth from other
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galaxies. We call them star seeds. is beautiful
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when we have this remembering of our cosmic origin
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and inheritance, but also it's very important
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to remember that we came here in this human form,
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in this physical body, and it's so important
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to take advantage of this, because in the higher
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realms, when we don't have a physical body, just
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love and light energies, we don't have the opportunity
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of the contrast, right? When it's just the high
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energies, so we don't have the opportunity to
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alchemize, to transform the darkness and what
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it's stored there in the subconscious, if we
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don't have the contrast. Also, one thing that
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is misunderstood or not fully understood, like
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the star seed concept is not only the love and
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light, the positive. There's also the negative
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polarity. So I believe that in current times
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on Earth, there came stars to help. So it's a
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transition period, very important cosmic event
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for the Earth, which is transitioning to a higher
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realm, higher consciousness. Some people call
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it the 5D consciousness. But there's also beings
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from the positive polarity, but also beings from
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the negative polarity, and they have different
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agendas. So there is some spiritual warfare happening.
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I don't know if you want to go in this discussion
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or not, but it's... Yeah, so there are many energies
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in this universe, even here. on earth so it's
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important to first of all not reject the darkness
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because it's within us as well and it's an opportunity
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when we learn how to transform that to alchemize
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that and then we can raise more and more our
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consciousness this is the very important process
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actually in spiritual evolution. It's not only
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just meditation and bypassing and going to higher
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dimensions, but it's also integrating the darkness.
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The darkness as well. And that's so important.
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It's like our human minds put darkness as bad
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or negative, right? And then so trying to understand
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the concept that It all is, right? It's all neutral.
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There's no, you know, in the spirit life or in,
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you know, beyond this human experiences, everything,
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it just simply is. It's not good. It's not bad.
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It just is. And being able to understand that
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concept can be very challenging. Yes, it's true.
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Because when we are functioning from the For
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protective personality actually from for our
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ego. This is very challenging Because our ego
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is conditioning our protective personality is
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conditioned with two things one to Get pleasure
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and second to avoid pain or discomfort. Yes.
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Yeah So it's it's like it's very Built in in
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our nervous system this so it's the way we As
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humans we tend to function. But in order to transcend
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the duality, and we are living in a realm where
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is duality, but if we want to transcend to 5D
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and beyond consciousness, the space of unity,
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we need to transcend this game of opposites,
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good or bad, night and day and so on. So, for
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that, for example, I was in Vipassana meditation.
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I did quite a few, like 10 -day meditation retreat.
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And what happens there is that you observe the
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sensations in the body and you stay not moving.
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Like, even you notice different sensations coming
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to the body. Some are pleasant, some are unpleasant.
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And even if you have a pain in the knee, there
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are some sessions when you just don't move, you
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just stay with the pain and just observe it.
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Which is, of course, contradictory to how we
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are conditioned to feel, react, respond to this.
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Like the whole society teaches us, you know,
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take this medicine when you feel some pain, you
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know, the pharma in the streets, so on, right,
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expanding so much. Like we are conditioned not
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to feel any pain, any discomfort. But it's not
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actually natural, it's not the only way we are
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designed to function. So that's why I'm giving
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this example of the meditation, because when
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we observe the pain in the knee, by just staying
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with it with equanimity, not reacting, it's just
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an energy actually moving through my knee, And
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if I observe with it without needing to react,
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to say it's good or bad, it dissolves. It's very
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important to observe on your own experience,
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not somebody telling you intellectually, this
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is good, this is bad. But observing that everything
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is transitory, nothing is permanent. And when
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I observe this energy shifting from the pain,
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just dissolving and shifting on its own, just
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for me. observing and staying there with it,
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it changes how we are conditioned to function,
31:19
to behave. Absolutely. I've even like had pain
31:24
and I have sat there and connected with it and
31:27
just simply asked, what is this? You know, or
31:32
what are you trying to tell me? And a lot of
31:34
times it'll tell me what energy or what emotion
31:38
is sitting there with it that I'm hanging on
31:40
to. and then I can connect with that and then
31:43
start doing the work to release it. Exactly,
31:47
and this is one of the core and main principles
31:50
in healing, like what we discussed before in
31:55
alchemy, in order to heal that emotional wound,
31:59
because we're talking about physical wound in
32:01
this example, but it's the same with the emotional
32:04
wound, which is on a much deeper layer. The the
32:10
key is the same. It's like you said, what is
32:14
this energy? What it's without putting a label
32:16
on it. What is it here? What does it want to
32:20
teach me? Just become curious and observe it
32:23
without wanting to fix it because this is the
32:27
The ego paradigm, right? You always want to fix
32:30
things to solve. What is the next problem? Like
32:33
what we said earlier? It's a never -ending loop
32:36
trying to solve the next problem because it never
32:39
ends. But when we come and step into the observer
32:43
with the awareness of love and presence and acceptance,
32:50
it's just an energy that needs our attention,
32:53
our loving presence. And when we offer that,
32:57
the same is with the inner child, which is a
32:59
different aspect. I was going to go there, so
33:02
yeah. Yeah. So it's just that energy when we
33:09
are observing it, it just we unlock it. We just
33:14
we're letting it flow and follow its natural
33:18
course. Yeah. It just dissipates and integrates.
33:22
Absolutely. Yeah. And it's funny. So I had I'm
33:29
trying to think like I think it was back in like
33:30
2012. my lower back went out and it went out
33:38
after I expressed, after I shared with my mom
33:48
the physical abuse that I endured from her husband.
33:54
He wasn't my dad. He was my stepdad. And there
33:58
wasn't support back from her that I was expecting.
34:02
And again, like I, I tell, I say it all the time,
34:04
like I put expectations around that which I shouldn't
34:07
have. And because those expectations weren't
34:10
met and I felt that I was not supported, my back
34:14
went out the very next day. You know, and then
34:19
so basically I lived on the floor for weeks because
34:22
that was the only place I was comfortable was
34:24
the hard floor, right? And it gave me problems
34:29
for a few years, but then I started to stop looking
34:34
for the support outside of me and started identifying
34:42
the support within me. And with the connecting
34:49
with the divine and realizing that it's there
34:52
all along, I just have to tap into it and I just
34:55
have to bring that energy in. And I'm gonna tell
34:58
you, I haven't had back problems in over 10 years.
35:06
And that's because I dealt with the hurt and
35:10
the pain that I was carrying from all of that,
35:13
let go of the expectations. and started finding
35:17
it within myself and within my own divining,
35:21
divine connection, I guess, is a good way to
35:23
put it. Yeah, beautiful. Thank you. Thank you
35:26
for sharing that. It's, I think, a very relevant
35:30
example to what we were discussing. And yeah,
35:34
I believe that the pain, it's a portal when we
35:37
learn how to go back and through it. We always
35:41
try to go outside of us, to solve it outside.
35:44
But as we were sharing before, I believe there's
35:48
nothing to blame, not even somebody else or even
35:52
ourselves, for we could have done better or whatever.
35:57
Like when we were little or when these things
36:00
happen, maybe we don't have the capacity to deal
36:05
with them. So, of course, we develop protective
36:10
mechanisms and so on. But at some point, when
36:13
we are ready and we have the awareness, the understanding
36:17
and the capacity, then we can work at the root,
36:24
what we are discussing and what you did as well.
36:28
So, this is what is actually liberating us, going
36:32
back to the root, staying with it. loving presence,
36:37
awareness, even if it's uncomfortable at the
36:39
beginning, but after that, a whole new world
36:44
emerges, right? Like it opens up a new reality.
36:49
Yes, yes. And I mean, it's amazing. Like I can
36:53
look at all of that now and have a completely
36:57
different observation of it, right? The emotions
37:02
around it, the observation of it. the you know
37:05
everything I I'm disconnected from it but I I'm
37:12
disconnected from it not because I'm hiding and
37:14
trying to protect myself I'm disconnected from
37:17
it because I've become the observer and the observer
37:21
from a stance of love and and understanding yeah
37:26
and actually we can rewrite our past so absolutely
37:30
it's not So if we don't deal with it, it stays
37:35
there. It stays under the surface. It stays in
37:37
our body. It stays in the subconscious. And it
37:40
affects everything in our lives. Relationships,
37:44
career, everything. Health, right? And when we
37:51
go back to it, but it's very important because
37:55
somebody said some time ago, like, why would
37:59
I go there? Why would I want to feel that? remember
38:02
this bad thing and emotions. And of course, if
38:08
we don't have the capacity, don't develop the
38:12
awareness, the capacity to hold this, then it's
38:15
better not to go there, because we can re -traumatize
38:19
ourselves. And that's why it's important if somebody
38:24
helps us, like the work that you do with the
38:26
clients as well, to hold the space for somebody.
38:29
go through that and to remember, because it's
38:35
important that if we don't have the capacity
38:39
on ourselves to hold the presence, the space
38:42
for that emotion to be processed, to surface
38:45
and to be alchemized, then of course somebody
38:49
else can hold that space for us and it works
38:53
the same. But there's no other way. We have to
38:59
feel it, to let it surface. And then that energy,
39:03
not that before we used to sabotage ourselves,
39:07
like on all areas, now it's integrated in our
39:11
flow. And we're taking back actually the energy
39:14
that before we used to sabotage and drain us.
39:17
Now it's integrated and we become much more powerful,
39:21
much more energy is being unleashed, unlocked
39:23
in our system. So that's we're owning the energy
39:27
versus separating ourselves from it. We're we're
39:30
bringing that back in and we're alchemizing it,
39:33
as you say, and we're putting light on that shadow.
39:38
Right. And healing from that and being able to
39:41
see it in a different way, which makes us more
39:42
whole versus separate. Exactly. And this is what
39:48
we're here to do, actually. We're not here to.
39:52
Try to fix things outside trying to I don't know
39:56
earn some different job Relationship or whatever
40:01
our mind believes it wants Right all those things
40:05
actually come from our wounding from not feeling
40:08
whole within So the the mind has this strategy.
40:12
Oh if I get this Raise or this house or this
40:16
person or whatever it might be getting it from
40:19
outside and I will feel whole and complete within.
40:22
Which it might give the appearance when we get
40:25
the relationship, whatever, for a few hours,
40:30
days, weeks or so on, might give the impression
40:33
that it works because it opens our blockages
40:37
and we get the energy flow from the source. This
40:42
is an... indirect and we're giving power to the
40:47
outside things, right? Instead of doing the inner
40:50
work and working with these blockages, which
40:53
are the root cause for our suffering and everything.
40:59
So when we become a more pure channel, more whole
41:02
within all this stream of consciousness, which
41:06
is our essence, peace, love, abundance, flow,
41:12
love, all... flow through us. It's actually who
41:15
we truly are. We don't need to search them from
41:17
outside. We just need to release the blocks like
41:21
Rumi is saying. We don't need to find love or
41:25
bring love. We just need to release the blocks
41:27
that it's preventing love. Preventing that type
41:31
of coming in. So how can so this has been an
41:36
amazing conversation and I almost don't want
41:38
to end it But I do have a time limit on these
41:40
things like for another hour easily So maybe
41:44
we'll just have to bring you back for another
41:45
for another session. I know that you're fixing
41:50
to go on some adventures yourself But if somebody
41:53
wanted to learn more about you and connect or
41:55
work with you, how would they do that? So My
42:02
website is divinedestiny .ro and this is where
42:08
we have the main programs. We have also like
42:15
soul mission activation. It's a free process,
42:19
a guided activation where we help people going
42:22
to this space. beyond the mind and reconnect
42:26
to who they truly are, to their true identity,
42:29
their unique vibration, who they came here to
42:31
be and express into the world. So this is the,
42:37
it's because many people want to find this answer
42:41
with the mind, right, from the protective personality,
42:45
like what am I here to do, who am I and so on.
42:48
But this is not going to be found through the
42:51
mind. It's always coming back to who we truly
42:55
are, to our essence. So this is what we help
43:01
people with. It's the four -step framework, I
43:06
call it. It's the four Rs. One is remember. Remember
43:12
who we are. Second is release. like what we spoke
43:16
about, the alchemy and the blocks and so on,
43:18
because it's very important. And third R is rise,
43:23
rise as the creator of your divine destiny, because
43:26
it's not only about remembering, it's not only
43:31
about releasing, but it's also important to have
43:33
a vision, because we are creators, we are made
43:37
in the image of God, of the creator, so we have
43:40
this capacity to create our reality. not to just
43:46
be on autopilot on what reality is reflecting.
43:51
We are a stream of consciousness when we create
43:54
reality. Like a flower, like a tree that brings
44:00
fruit or has a purpose, the same, when we are
44:04
aligned with the divine, we become the co -creators.
44:07
Actually, it's a better word, co -creators. And
44:10
the fourth is relate. because I believe also
44:14
in the power of community. It's very important
44:18
on this path because actually it's a new, a different
44:23
way of living than the one we are conditioned
44:25
with. So it's very important to be with others
44:28
who are on the same path for empowerment, for
44:33
being witness, for being supported and held in
44:37
this higher frequency because it's very easy
44:40
to fall back into the... old identity into the
44:44
protective mechanisms. So, yeah, this is the
44:50
framework that we help people with who are willing
44:54
to go into this journey of awakening and becoming
44:58
the creator. So, yeah, we're organizing many
45:03
things and they can find more details on the
45:08
website. On the website. I will definitely have
45:10
the website in our show notes so everybody can
45:15
connect with you and, you know, maybe step into
45:19
that for our process. and discover it for themselves.
45:24
So I truly thank you for today. This has been
45:26
amazing. I really wish that I had like another
45:29
whole hour so we could have a whole nother conversation,
45:31
but this is beautiful. So please everyone check
45:34
out the show notes and we'll see you next time.
45:37
Bye. Thank you so much. Thank you. It was a beautiful
45:40
conversation. Absolutely. Lovely. Hi there. I'm
45:47
Summer. I'm here to help you navigate the journey
45:50
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45:54
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45:57
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