Latest / Murder Files Unsealed / 19 Shocking True Crime Connection Stories From Real People
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- 0:00Speaker 1: I want you to picture your typical setup. It's a
- 0:02Tuesday night, or you know, maybe a Thursday. You are
- 0:05curled up on your couch wearing your most comfortable worn
- 0:08in sweatpants.
- 0:09Speaker 2: Right, You've got the ultimate cozy setup going exactly.
- 0:13Speaker 1: The only light in the living room is that cold,
- 0:15flickering blue glow of the television screen, and you are
- 0:20like three hours deep into a binge watch of the
- 0:23latest darkest true crime documentary to hit streaming.
- 0:27Speaker 2: Probably with your phone out too, right, yeah, mindlessly scrolling.
- 0:30Speaker 1: Oh one, you're scrolling through Reddit threads, analyzing crime scene photos,
- 0:35maybe debating suspect motives with complete strangers. And the weird
- 0:38thing is you're feeling this very strange, very specific kind
- 0:42of cozy security.
- 0:44Speaker 2: It is a weird paradox, isn't it. You're consuming absolute horror,
- 0:47but you feel completely relaxed.
- 0:49Speaker 1: Yes, you are actively consuming nightmares, but you are doing
- 0:53it from inside a fortress. It feels safe, It feels
- 0:56entirely contained.
- 0:57Speaker 2: Well because subconsciously we all tell ours so it's the
- 1:00exact same comforting lie to just get through the day.
- 1:03Speaker 1: Right, that these kinds of nightmares only happen to other people, Right,
- 1:07like they happen in faraway places or sketchy neighborhoods we
- 1:10just don't visit, or.
- 1:11Speaker 2: They happened decades ago, you know, captured only in those
- 1:15grainy black and white photographs. It is a deeply necessary
- 1:19psychological shield.
- 1:20Speaker 1: A shield. What do you mean by that?
- 1:22Speaker 2: Well, if we didn't compartmentalize that darkness, if we didn't
- 1:27firmly put it in a mental box labeled things that
- 1:29happened to strangers and other zip codes, the world would
- 1:33just feel entirely unnavigable.
- 1:34Speaker 1: Because we'd be terrified of everyone.
- 1:37Speaker 2: Exactly. Our brains literally demand that distance so we can
- 1:40wake up, go to work, and function in society without
- 1:44being completely paralyzed by paranoia.
- 1:46Speaker 1: That makes total sense. We basically consume true crime like
- 1:49we're at the zoo.
- 1:50Speaker 2: The zoo, Okay, I like that analogy.
- 1:51Speaker 1: Yeah, think about it. We're looking at a terrifying predator,
- 1:54but it's safely behind thick, reinforced glass. You know, you
- 1:59can admire the sharp teeth, you can study its behavior,
- 2:01but you know the glass is going to hold.
- 2:04Speaker 2: And you can just walk away and buy a pretzel
- 2:06when you're done.
- 2:06Speaker 1: Exactly. But the mission of today's deep dive is to
- 2:10basically shatter that glass. We are talking about what happens
- 2:14when you turn around, drop your popcorn, and realize the
- 2:17predator was never actually at the zoo, It was.
- 2:19Speaker 2: Sitting in your living room the whole time.
- 2:21Speaker 1: Right. We are exploring the shockingly terrifyingly thin line between
- 2:26a totally normal, mundane life and an absolute waking nightmare, and.
- 2:31Speaker 2: We have an incredibly unique set of source material to
- 2:34guide us through this. Today we're looking at a twenty
- 2:37twenty six community collection that was curated by BuzzFeed.
- 2:40Speaker 1: And this isn't just like creepy campfire stories, right, No.
- 2:43Speaker 2: Not at all. It's an aggregation of nineteen verified, deeply
- 2:47eerie personal accounts from everyday people. These are individuals who
- 2:52completely unknowingly brush right up against some of history's most
- 2:55infamous monsters, victims.
- 2:58Speaker 1: And crimes, which is just wild to think it really is.
- 3:01Speaker 2: And I want to emphasize right from the jump, these
- 3:03are not urban legends. This isn't the hook hand on
- 3:05the car door or some internet creepyposter, right. They brought
- 3:08receipts exactly. These are verified accounts back by court records,
- 3:12news artives, and rigorous official investigations. They reveal how completely
- 3:17ordinary routines can just violently intersect with true evil.
- 3:21Speaker 1: Ordinary routines like what going to the grocery store, going on.
- 3:24Speaker 2: A double date, walking down the middle school allway, or
- 3:27even just taking a field trip.
- 3:28Speaker 1: Okay, let's unpack this because I want you, the person
- 3:31listening right now, to think about your own life. Think
- 3:34about your casual acquaintances.
- 3:36Speaker 2: The people you just sort of wave to in the morning.
- 3:39Speaker 1: Yeah, the person who lives three doors down from you,
- 3:41or the coworker who always makes the coffee in the breakroom,
- 3:45or even the guy you chat with at the dog
- 3:46park every Saturday. Think about how well you actually know them.
- 3:50Speaker 2: Because if there's one overarching thesis to the sources we're
- 3:53looking at today, it's that the most shocking connection to
- 3:56true darkness is always the one you never ever saw coming.
- 4:00Speaker 1: Right. So to really understand how that happens, we have
- 4:03to start by looking at the concept of camouflage, Like,
- 4:06how do prolific predators actually manage to operate for years
- 4:10or sometimes decades without being caught.
- 4:12Speaker 2: Well, they don't do it by hiding in dark alleys
- 4:14or lurking in the shadows, wearing a trench coat. That's
- 4:16a movie trope. They do it by hiding in plain sight.
- 4:18Speaker 1: They just blend in.
- 4:19Speaker 2: Exactly. They actively exploit the inherent trust built into our
- 4:23small social networks and local communities.
- 4:26Speaker 1: Which brings us to a submission from a thirty two
- 4:28year old in Seattle. This one centers on a name
- 4:31that absolutely still terrifies the Pacific Northwest. I mean, we're
- 4:35talking about Gary Ridgeway, the Green River Killer. Yeah. Now,
- 4:39if you follow true crime, you know the basics. He's
- 4:42statistically one of America's most prolific serial murderers. He was
- 4:46finally caught in two thousand and one via DNA.
- 4:49Speaker 2: Right to provide just a brief context for those who
- 4:51might not know. Between nineteen eighty two and nineteen ninety eight,
- 4:54Ridgeway confessed to seventy one murders.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Though investigators strongly suspect the actual numbers is significantly higher.
- 5:02Speaker 2: Absolutely, he targeted young women, runaways and sex workers. His
- 5:06modus operandi was to lure vulnerable women with offers of
- 5:09money or rides, and then.
- 5:11Speaker 1: Strangle them, usually from behind I read to avoid defensive wounds, yes, exactly, and.
- 5:16Speaker 2: Then he dumped their bodies in remote wooded areas or
- 5:18near the Green River, hence they name. He was essentially
- 5:21a ghost haunting the Seattle Tacoma area for nearly two decades.
- 5:25Speaker 1: But what I really want to focus on isn't his
- 5:27crime spree itself. It's the submission from this thirty two
- 5:31year old whose father had this incredibly casual, just horrifying
- 5:35brush with Ridgeway's orbit.
- 5:36Speaker 2: Right. The personal connection here is what makes it so chilling.
- 5:39Speaker 1: It makes my blood run cool. Yeah, So, the anonymous
- 5:41submitter's father was friends with a man whose sister was
- 5:44Constance Naon. She went by Connie.
- 5:47Speaker 2: Connie was a twenty year old woman who vanished on
- 5:49June eighth, nineteen eighty.
- 5:51Speaker 1: Three, right, and her remains were found four months later
- 5:54in a vacant lot near SeaTac Airport, which was one
- 5:56of Ridgeway's preferred dumping grounds. But before where she vanished,
- 6:00the submitter's father went on a double date.
- 6:03Speaker 2: The double date just a completely normal Friday night activity exactly.
- 6:06Speaker 1: It was his girlfriend, his friend, and Connie Naon.
- 6:10Speaker 2: It's the sheer statistical improbability of that social overlap that
- 6:14is just so striking to me. I mean, in the
- 6:16early nineteen eighties, the Seattle area was gripped by absolute panic.
- 6:20Speaker 1: Oh totally. The Green River Killer was dominating the headlines
- 6:24every single night.
- 6:25Speaker 2: Women were terrified. The police task force was completely desperate.
- 6:29And here you have this submitter's family completely unknowingly setting
- 6:34one single degree of separation away from the apex predator
- 6:38causing all that fear.
- 6:39Speaker 1: The father shared a casual night out, a double date
- 6:42with drinks, dinner, small talk. He shared that with a
- 6:45woman who would soon be hunted and killed by Ridgeway.
- 6:48Speaker 2: Just imagine being that father, you know, looking back at
- 6:50your calendar years later, remembering that double date.
- 6:53Speaker 1: You'd remember like laughing over appetizers or complaining about the weather,
- 6:58totally oblivious.
- 6:59Speaker 2: And then you realize the horrifying fate that awaited the
- 7:01woman is sitting right across the table from you. It
- 7:04leaves this lifelong shadow.
- 7:06Speaker 1: It really does, because you realize that Gary Ridgeway wasn't
- 7:09a movie monster living in a gothic castle. He was
- 7:12a truck painter.
- 7:12Speaker 2: He was a married man, he had a son, he.
- 7:15Speaker 1: Went to church. I mean, he blended seamlessly into his community.
- 7:18Speaker 2: And that duality isn't just a quirk, you know, it
- 7:22is the fundamental survival mechanism of these individuals. Ridgeway was
- 7:27deliberately presenting a facade of profound mundanity.
- 7:31Speaker 1: He used his normalcy as a shield exactly.
- 7:34Speaker 2: And this isn't an isolated phenomenon in the source material.
- 7:37We see corroborating cases that echo this exact terrifying reality.
- 7:42Take Timothy McVeigh for instance.
- 7:44Speaker 1: Right, the perpetrator of the nineteen ninety five Oklahoma City bombing.
- 7:47Speaker 2: Yes, the sources have a submission from someone whose cousin
- 7:50actually graduated high school with McVay, and their.
- 7:53Speaker 1: Aunt worked school events alongside mcvay's mother.
- 7:56Speaker 2: Right, they did, And how did they describe him? Not
- 7:58as a budding demanick terrorists, not as a radicalized threat.
- 8:02Speaker 1: They described him as a normal, polite kid from farm.
- 8:04Speaker 2: Country, a plighted kid. And we see it again with
- 8:07a more recent case from the text involving Stuart Weldon
- 8:10in Springfield, Massachusetts.
- 8:11Speaker 1: Oh, the twenty eighteen case. Yeah, Weldon was discovered to
- 8:14have tortured and killed three women, burying their bodies on
- 8:17his property.
- 8:18Speaker 2: But the submitter in the piece was his next door neighbor.
- 8:21This submitter had shared Thanksgiving dinners with Weldon.
- 8:24Speaker 1: Wow, they were literally passing the mashed potatoes to a
- 8:27man who had bodies buried in his yard.
- 8:30Speaker 2: It's incredibly dark.
- 8:31Speaker 1: Okay, here's where it gets really interesting, though. We have
- 8:34this pervasive Hollywood trope, right, the creepy loaner.
- 8:39Speaker 2: Right, the guy who lives in the dilapidated house at
- 8:41the end of the streets.
- 8:41Speaker 1: Yeah, the one with overgrown weeds, who glares at kids
- 8:45and mutters to himself. We are so conditioned by movies
- 8:49and television to look for the obvious villain.
- 8:52Speaker 2: But these individuals, the Ridgeways, the mcveigh's, the Weldons, they
- 8:57aren't hiding in the shadows at all.
- 8:59Speaker 1: They are wearing normalcy, like a Gilli suit. They are
- 9:01perfectly camouflaged against the background of a suburban neighborhood or
- 9:05a church pew. So I have to ask you how
- 9:08much of our vulnerability as a society is due to
- 9:11our desperate, almost pathetic desire to believe that polite automatically
- 9:15equals safe.
- 9:16Speaker 2: That is the core psychological question here. Yeah, from an
- 9:19evolutionary and psychological standpoint, our brains are what we call
- 9:23cognitive misers.
- 9:23Speaker 1: Wait, hold on, let's pause right there, cognitive misers, explain
- 9:26that to me, like I'm five, What exactly is a
- 9:29heuristic and how does it make me vulnerable to the
- 9:31guy passing me the mashed potatoes?
- 9:33Speaker 2: Absolutely, so, think of a heuristic as a mental shortcut.
- 9:37Your brain is processing millions of pieces of sensory and
- 9:40social data every single second.
- 9:42Speaker 1: Right, sites, sound, social cues.
- 9:44Speaker 2: Exactly, if you had to consciously evaluate every single person
- 9:48you met for every possible threat, your brain would fry.
- 9:52You would never be able to leave your house.
- 9:53Speaker 1: You'd just be exhausted all the time.
- 9:55Speaker 2: You would so to save energy, to be a miser
- 9:58with your cognitive low your brain creates shortcuts.
- 10:02Speaker 1: Okay, So how does the polite neighbor fit into that shortcut?
- 10:06Speaker 2: Well, if someone adheres to expected social norms, if they smile,
- 10:09if they say please and thank you, if they mow
- 10:11their lawn on Sundays, your brain's threat detection system basically
- 10:15powers down.
- 10:16Speaker 1: It just categorizes them as a safe tribe member.
- 10:18Speaker 2: Precisely, we instinctively equate social compliance with moral goodness. Prolific
- 10:23predators understand this cognitive shortcut, whether consciously or instinctively, and
- 10:28they exploit it ruthlessly.
- 10:29Speaker 1: So Basically, we are neurologically lazy, and they know it.
- 10:33Speaker 2: It's less about laziness and more about efficiency, but yes,
- 10:37it's a very dangerous efficiency. They learn the choreography of normalcy.
- 10:41Speaker 1: The choreography of normalcy. I love that phrasing, but it's
- 10:44also deeply unsettling.
- 10:46Speaker 2: It is they know exactly which steps to take to
- 10:49make your alarm bells stay silent.
- 10:50Speaker 1: Because it leads to a really terrifying scenario if predators
- 10:55use this polite camouflage. What happens when an innocent person
- 10:59interacts directly with.
- 11:00Speaker 2: That mass, right when they are totally oblivious to the
- 11:03horrors hiding just beneath the surface.
- 11:05Speaker 1: Yeah, and then suddenly the mask slips or the context
- 11:09changes and you realize you were just having a pleasant
- 11:11chat with a monster.
- 11:12Speaker 2: When that happens, it induces a profound psychological whiplash, and
- 11:17the source material provides perhaps the most visceral stomach training
- 11:21example of this I have ever encountered.
- 11:22Speaker 1: I think I know which one you're talking about.
- 11:24Speaker 2: It involves one of the most notorious figures in American
- 11:26true crime history, John.
- 11:28Speaker 1: Wayne Gacy, the killer Clown. Just hearing the name makes
- 11:31people physically shudder.
- 11:33Speaker 2: It does. And most people know the broad strokes, thirty
- 11:37three young men and boys murdered in the suburbs of
- 11:39Chicago in the nineteen seventies, the.
- 11:41Speaker 1: Crawl space, the river, all of that, right, But.
- 11:45Speaker 2: What they don't know is how incredibly ingrained he was
- 11:48in the community before he was caught. He was a
- 11:51successful building contractor.
- 11:53Speaker 1: He was a Democratic precinct captain. He literally had his
- 11:57photo taken with the first Lady of the United States.
- 12:00He was throwing neighborhood parties.
- 12:01Speaker 2: He is the ultimate pillar of the community, which gave
- 12:03him access to his victims. Many of them were employees
- 12:07of his contracting business or vulnerable teenagers in the area.
- 12:10It's so sick.
- 12:11Speaker 1: And when he was finally caught, the horror of what
- 12:14was discovered in that crawl space completely shattered the Chicago area.
- 12:18Speaker 2: His nineteen eighty trial was an absolute media circus. It
- 12:21was the definition of a sensationalized, high stakes legal proceeding.
- 12:24Speaker 1: And this is where our submitter's story drops us right
- 12:27into the middle of that circus. So the submitter is
- 12:30a twenty six year old from Chicago talking about their mother.
- 12:33Speaker 2: Right back in nineteen eighty, the mother was a pre
- 12:35law student in college.
- 12:36Speaker 1: Yeah, and because she knew someone with connections at the courthouse,
- 12:40she was invited to sit in on the trial to
- 12:42gain some academic, real world legal insight.
- 12:46Speaker 2: But the connection went way beyond just sitting quietly in
- 12:49the gallery.
- 12:50Speaker 1: Way beyond. She was asked if she wanted to actually
- 12:52meet the man on trial.
- 12:54Speaker 2: Put yourself in her shoes. You are a young pre
- 12:57law student expecting to observe legal maneuvering and courtroom procedure.
- 13:02Suddenly you are led out of the public areas and
- 13:05into a secure holding area.
- 13:07Speaker 1: Right, She described walking into a large room with a
- 13:10massive cage like box right in the center, and.
- 13:12Speaker 2: Sitting inside that cage is John Wayne Gacy, and.
- 13:15Speaker 1: She talks to him. She actually has a conversation with
- 13:18him through the bars of this holding cage.
- 13:20Speaker 2: And her takeaway from that conversation is what's so chilling.
- 13:23Speaker 1: Yeah. The thing that burned into her memory and that
- 13:25she passed down to her child decades later, was that
- 13:28if he hadn't been sitting in a cage, if you
- 13:30just met him on the street, you never ever would
- 13:32have suspected him of anything.
- 13:34Speaker 2: He was incredibly polite, He was pleasant, he was entirely disarming.
- 13:38Speaker 1: The term is the weapon. It's what allowed him to
- 13:41lure thirty three people to their deaths exactly.
- 13:44Speaker 2: But the story doesn't end in that holding cage. This
- 13:47is where the psychological whiplash really occurs.
- 13:50Speaker 1: Oh man, this part is awful.
- 13:52Speaker 2: After meeting him, the mother leaves the holding area and
- 13:55takes her seat in the packed courtroom gallery to observe
- 13:58the trial. When Gaycy is led into the courtroom by
- 14:01the bailiffs, he looks out into the sea of people
- 14:04in the gallery.
- 14:05Speaker 1: He spots the young pre law student he just chatted with.
- 14:08He smiles, he waves at.
- 14:09Speaker 2: Her, and he addresses her by her first.
- 14:11Speaker 1: Name out loud in the middle of the courtroom. Oh
- 14:14my god, my stomach just drops thinking about it. It's
- 14:17horrifying because here's the gut punch. The mother realizes, with
- 14:22this sudden, absolute paralyzing mortification, that she is seated directly
- 14:26in front of the grieving parents of Gaysey's victims.
- 14:29Speaker 2: Think about the spatial awareness of that room, the heavy air, the.
- 14:33Speaker 1: Tension it must have been suffocating.
- 14:35Speaker 2: And suddenly the architect of all this misery is warmly
- 14:38greeting her. This creates an extreme case of cognitive dissonance.
- 14:42Speaker 1: Because she's holding two completely opposite truths at.
- 14:45Speaker 2: Once, exactly. In one hand, she holds the reality of
- 14:48a polite, pleasant man who just had a nice chat
- 14:51with her, made her feel seen and remembered her name
- 14:53right In the other hand, she holds the reality of
- 14:56the devastated parents sitting mere inches behind her, whose children
- 15:01were tortured and stuffed into a crawl space by that
- 15:03exact same man. Her brain has to reconcile those two
- 15:07realities simultaneously.
- 15:09Speaker 1: It's like a grotesque magic trick. The charm, the pleasantry
- 15:13is the remembering her name. That isn't just a personality trait.
- 15:17It is the misdirection.
- 15:18Speaker 2: That's a great way to put it.
- 15:19Speaker 1: It is the magician waving his brightly colored wand to
- 15:22keep you from looking at his bloody hands. But in
- 15:26that courtroom, with the parents sitting right there, the illusion
- 15:29completely shattered.
- 15:30Speaker 2: Imagine the visceral horror of a monster knowing your name.
- 15:34Speaker 1: How do you ever ever trust your own judgment of
- 15:37character again? After having a friendly, pleasant chat with John
- 15:40Wayne Gacy, You'd second guess every single person you ever met.
- 15:44Speaker 2: It is a trauma that clearly echoed down through generations
- 15:47as her child submitted the story decades later. It inadvertently
- 15:52placed the mother right at the intersection of unimaginable loss.
- 15:56Speaker 1: Her polite interaction linked her to the epicenter of this tragedy.
- 15:59Speaker 2: And again, the sources show this is not a singular event.
- 16:02There are other corroborating accounts of people brushing up against
- 16:05the masks of prolific killers, sometimes intimately, and realizing their
- 16:10own judgment was completely compromised.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Right the text Men shows a submission from someone who
- 16:15had a distant family member who was actually Ted Bundy's
- 16:18former fiance.
- 16:20Speaker 2: And we're not talking about his post arrest partner who
- 16:22famously married him during the trial.
- 16:24Speaker 1: No, we're talking about someone who dated him early on,
- 16:27saw the mask slipping, broke up with him, and actually
- 16:29timped off the police early in history.
- 16:31Speaker 2: She saw the charm, but she also saw the cracks
- 16:34in it.
- 16:34Speaker 1: And then there is a submission regarding the Atlanta child murders.
- 16:38Wayne Williams.
- 16:39Speaker 2: Yes, Wayne Williams was convicted of two murders and linked
- 16:43to dozens of others between nineteen seventy nine and nineteen
- 16:45eighty one. The submitter's older Cousins served as a forensic
- 16:49psychologist for William's defense team.
- 16:51Speaker 1: A forensic psychologist that's a trained expert.
- 16:54Speaker 2: Exactly after evaluating him using all the clinical tools and
- 16:58training available to her, she officially declared him sane and competent.
- 17:02Speaker 1: It really demonstrates how deeply these individuals can manipulate even
- 17:06trained professionals. It's not just everyday people relying on heuristic, No, it's.
- 17:10Speaker 2: Clinical experts being duped by the camouflage too.
- 17:13Speaker 1: It really makes you realize how fragile our perception of
- 17:16safety is. We want to believe we have an internal
- 17:19radar for evil.
- 17:20Speaker 2: We want to believe our internal alarm bells will start
- 17:22ringing wildly if a predator walks into the room.
- 17:25Speaker 1: But these stories prove that the alarm system is faulty.
- 17:28Sometimes the monster just smiles, asks how your day is going,
- 17:31and you.
- 17:31Speaker 2: Smile back, which I think is a perfect transition point
- 17:34to ask an even darker question.
- 17:36Speaker 1: Okay, I embracing myself.
- 17:37Speaker 2: We have discussed the charismatic masks killers wear. We've talked
- 17:41about the polite farm boy and the charming contractor, But
- 17:44what about the moments when the mask isn't flawless.
- 17:47Speaker 1: Oh, when it starts to slick.
- 17:49Speaker 2: Exactly what happens when the monstrous reality is literally seeping
- 17:52into the everyday environment, physically manifesting in the real world,
- 17:57but people completely ignore it or write it off as
- 17:59a Monday annoyance.
- 18:01Speaker 1: Oh, this part of the source material completely messed me up,
- 18:04because it is all about the physical intrusions.
- 18:07Speaker 2: Of evil, the silent screaming clues that we just stepped
- 18:10right over while we're rushing to get to work.
- 18:12Speaker 1: Let's talk about Kendall Francois, the Poughkeepsie killer.
- 18:15Speaker 2: Kendall Francois murdered eight sex workers in upstate New York
- 18:18between nineteen ninety six and nineteen ninety eight. The factual
- 18:22reality of this case is gruesome.
- 18:24Speaker 1: He really is.
- 18:25Speaker 2: He was living in a house with his mother and
- 18:27his brother, and he was storing the bodies of his
- 18:29victims in the attic and crawl spaces of his family's home.
- 18:32Speaker 1: And the submitter for this story knew him not as
- 18:34a killer, but because Kennel Francois was their middle school
- 18:37hall monitor.
- 18:38Speaker 2: He was a daily fixture in their adolescent life right.
- 18:42Speaker 1: And the detail that sticks with the submitter the thing
- 18:44they remembered vividly, even before Francois was arrested. The thing
- 18:47all the kids talked about was that the hall monitor
- 18:50perpetually smelled awful.
- 18:52Speaker 2: He had this horrific, lingering, metallic odor.
- 18:56Speaker 1: And the horrific retrospective realization for that middle school years
- 19:00later when the news broke, was that the terrible smell
- 19:03in the school hallway wasn't just poor hygiene.
- 19:06Speaker 2: No, the smell was the scent of human decomposition clinging
- 19:11to his clothes from the bodies hidden in his family's attic.
- 19:15Speaker 1: Now, normally people use the boiling frog analogae here. You know,
- 19:18you throw a frog in boiling water, it jumps out,
- 19:20But if you put it in cold water and slowly
- 19:22turn up the heat, it boils to death because it adapts.
- 19:25Speaker 2: That's a common way to frame it, sure, but.
- 19:26Speaker 1: I don't think that it quite fits the horror of this.
- 19:28It's more like nose blindness, right, you know, how you
- 19:30spray a new perfume and ten minutes later you can't
- 19:33smell it anymore, but everyone else can.
- 19:35Speaker 2: Right, old factory adaptation exactly.
- 19:37Speaker 1: It's like the brain's olfactory adaptation, but applied to a
- 19:41lethal threat. It's the threat blindness, because when you see
- 19:45someone every single day in a middle school hallway, you
- 19:48adapt to their quarks.
- 19:50Speaker 2: Your brain says, Oh, that's just Kendle, he smells bad.
- 19:52Let's get to algebra class.
- 19:54Speaker 1: You rationalize it because what's the alternative.
- 19:57Speaker 2: Precisely, the human brain is not fired to default to
- 20:01the most extreme, horrifying conclusion. We normalize anomalies to maintain
- 20:06our sense of safety and order.
- 20:08Speaker 1: Like if your neighbour's yard smells terrible, your brain searches
- 20:11for the most mundane explanation.
- 20:14Speaker 2: You assume it is a broken sewer line or maybe
- 20:16a dead raccoon under the porch. You do not assume
- 20:19a serial killer is burying victims in the flower.
- 20:21Speaker 1: Beds, because that would be crazy.
- 20:23Speaker 2: Exactly, the psychological leap required to go from bad smell
- 20:26to mass murder is simply too vast for a healthy
- 20:29mind to make without undeniable, irrefutable proof. The brain literally
- 20:34protects you from that realization.
- 20:35Speaker 1: And we see this rationalization play out in other cases.
- 20:38From the text. There's the story of Joseph Bannis and
- 20:41Jeffrey munt Right.
- 20:42Speaker 2: They were next door neighbors to one of the submitters.
- 20:44Speaker 1: And they were eventually arrested for murdering a man and
- 20:47burying his body in their basement wine cellar. This was
- 20:51actually a huge case. It was featured in the HBO
- 20:54documentary Murder in Glitterball.
- 20:56Speaker 2: City, and the submitter lived right next door while this
- 20:59was happening.
- 21:00Speaker 1: When your neighbors are hauling dirt and concrete around, you
- 21:03just think, Wow, they're really committing to those basement renovations.
- 21:06You don't think they're constructing a tomb.
- 21:08Speaker 2: We also see it with the case of Dorothea Puente.
- 21:11Speaker 1: The notorious boarding house killer in Sacramento.
- 21:14Speaker 2: Yes, she murdered nine of her elderly and mentally disabled
- 21:19tenants and buried them in the yard of her boarding
- 21:21house to continue cashing their social Security checks.
- 21:25Speaker 1: Awful.
- 21:26Speaker 2: The submitter and the BuzzFeed piece casually drove past her
- 21:29house on their daily commute, precisely as the police were
- 21:32digging up the yard and arresting this seemingly sweet cardigan
- 21:35wearing elderly landlady.
- 21:37Speaker 1: That visual is so striking to me. You're driving to
- 21:40get your morning coffee, you're listening to the radio, and
- 21:42you look out your window to see a crime scene
- 21:44unit exhooming bodies from the lawn of the sweet old
- 21:47lady who waters her petunias every Tuesday.
- 21:49Speaker 2: The sheer proximity of it is staggering.
- 21:52Speaker 1: And then there is a Jumpierre Orlivitz case. This one
- 21:55is brutal.
- 21:56Speaker 2: It was a two thousand and seven thrill kill. Yeah.
- 21:58Speaker 1: Orlivitz was a high school student who decapitated and burned
- 22:01a man in his grandfather's garage. The submitter was a
- 22:06high school classmate.
- 22:07Speaker 2: But the craziest part of that submission.
- 22:08Speaker 1: The submitter's mother's friend actually served as a character witness
- 22:12for Orlovitz at his trial.
- 22:14Speaker 2: This is where we see the intense friction between the
- 22:17reality of evil and a community's perception. A character witness
- 22:22is literally someone standing up in a court of law
- 22:25under oath, placing their hand on a bible to vouch
- 22:29for the normalcy and goodness of a person who has
- 22:31committed an unspeakable atrocity.
- 22:34Speaker 1: I have to push back on that, though. How can
- 22:36someone sit under oath and vouch for a killer like
- 22:38even if they were fooled before the arrest, once the
- 22:41evidence is out, once the trial is happening, how do
- 22:43they still cling to the idea that this is a
- 22:45good kid.
- 22:46Speaker 2: Because acknowledging the alternative shatters their own reality. What do
- 22:50you mean if they admit that the boy they carpooled with,
- 22:53the boy they had over for dinner, is capable of
- 22:56a thrill kill, then they have to admit that they're
- 22:59entire higher worldview is flawed. They have to admit that
- 23:03they are utterly defenseless.
- 23:05Speaker 1: So to protect their own psychological integrity, they double down
- 23:09on the camouflage.
- 23:10Speaker 2: Exactly. They cling to the polite facade because the truth
- 23:14is just two destabilizing. It underscores how completely blind we
- 23:19can be to the darkness. Right next to us.
- 23:21Speaker 1: We see the manicured lawn, we share the polite greetings,
- 23:24and we completely ignore the metaphorical or sometimes literal stench
- 23:28of decay.
- 23:28Speaker 2: Which is why we rationalize it away.
- 23:30Speaker 1: I really want you, the listener, to stop and think
- 23:33about this right now. What strange things in your own
- 23:35neighborhood are you currently rationalizing away?
- 23:38Speaker 2: The neighbor who is digging in their yard at two am.
- 23:41Speaker 1: Yeah, Or the weird metallic smells coming from the apartment
- 23:43down the hall, the person who has entirely blacked out
- 23:46their basement windows.
- 23:47Speaker 2: You probably telling yourself it is just a quirky hobby
- 23:50or a plumbing issue, or someone who works the night
- 23:52shift and needs to sleep during the day.
- 23:54Speaker 1: You rationalize it because they are just part of your
- 23:57daily scenery. But this deep dive proves that's sometimes this
- 24:01scenery is a facade.
- 24:03Speaker 2: That normalization process is incredibly powerful. But we also have
- 24:07to look at the other side of the coin.
- 24:09Speaker 1: Okay, what's the other side.
- 24:10Speaker 2: We we've talked about what happens when the camouflage works
- 24:13and the killer blends in, but we must also examine
- 24:16what happens when a crime happens the truth remains hidden
- 24:20and the killer goes dormant.
- 24:22Speaker 1: When the clueser missed, and the environment.
- 24:24Speaker 2: Is rationalized right, because the tragedy does not just hit
- 24:27the pause button.
- 24:28Speaker 1: No, the pain doesn't just freeze an amber. It mutates.
- 24:30Speaker 2: Precisely, the void created by an unsolved case a cold
- 24:34case generates a massive destructive vacuum in a community.
- 24:38Speaker 1: And that vacuum sucks in innocent people, destroying lives and
- 24:42entire families through the crushing weight of false suspicion and
- 24:45false narratives.
- 24:47Speaker 2: Which brings us to a story that I think is
- 24:48the most heartbreaking in the entire collection. It involves the
- 24:52BTK killer Dennis Raider.
- 24:54Speaker 1: Oh Man, The collateral damage in the story is just staggering.
- 24:57Speaker 2: Let's ground this in the history. First B stands for
- 25:01bind torture kill. Dennis Raider actually gave himself that acronym.
- 25:07Speaker 1: Of course he did. He was such a narcissist.
- 25:08Speaker 2: He murdered ten people in and around Wichita, Kansas between
- 25:12nineteen seventy four and nineteen ninety one. He was a
- 25:15deeply sadistic killer who taunted the police and local media
- 25:19with letters, poems, and puzzles.
- 25:21Speaker 1: He posed his victims, he took trophies from the crime scenes,
- 25:24and he just terrorized the city. He was literally the
- 25:27bogeyman of Kansas.
- 25:28Speaker 2: And then after nineteen ninety one he stopped. He went
- 25:32completely dormant for years. He wasn't arrested until two thousand
- 25:35and five.
- 25:36Speaker 1: And how he was caught is famously absurd. I mean,
- 25:38it's almost comical if it weren't so grim.
- 25:40Speaker 2: He asked the police via a newspaper ad if a
- 25:43floppy disc could be traced back to.
- 25:45Speaker 1: Him, and the police essentially said, nope, totally safe, send
- 25:47it on over he sent them.
- 25:49Speaker 2: A floppy disc and they immediately traced the metadata to
- 25:52his church, where he was the president of the congregation.
- 25:54Speaker 1: He is currently serving ten consecutive life sentences. But we
- 25:58aren't here to talk about his ego. Let's look at
- 26:00the collateral damage of those dormant years, that fourteen year gap,
- 26:04through the eyes of our submitter.
- 26:05Speaker 2: The submitter describes growing up in a neighborhood next door
- 26:08to a boy who was a few years younger than them.
- 26:11This boy lived alone with his father.
- 26:13Speaker 1: And the dark whispered secret of the neighborhood, the thing
- 26:16all the kids knew but weren't supposed to talk about,
- 26:19was that when this boy was an infant in nineteen
- 26:21eighty six, his mother was found murdered in their home.
- 26:25Speaker 2: The mother was Dolores Davis. She was shot and strangled
- 26:29while her baby slept nearby.
- 26:30Speaker 1: And because in almost every single domestic murder, the spouse
- 26:35is the primary suspect, the boy's father immediately became the
- 26:38top suspect for the police, but there.
- 26:40Speaker 2: Wasn't enough evidence to convict him, so he wasn't arrested.
- 26:43Speaker 1: He just lived there in the same house, raising his son.
- 26:47Speaker 2: And this is where the societal ripples of cold cases
- 26:50become so incredibly toxic. The justice system could not prove
- 26:54his guilt, but the community had already convicted him in
- 26:56the court of public opinion.
- 26:58Speaker 1: The submitter explicitly states that they spent their entire childhood, say,
- 27:01eyeing this man.
- 27:02Speaker 2: The neighborhood gossiped incessantly. Parents likely warned their children to
- 27:06stay away from the yard.
- 27:07Speaker 1: That boy grew up in a house entirely shadowed by
- 27:11the pervasive, unspoken belief that his father had slaughtered his mother.
- 27:15Speaker 2: It's tragic.
- 27:16Speaker 1: I get so passionate about this because gossip like that
- 27:19is a social poison. It's like a chemical spill. The
- 27:22original murder, the horrific taking of Dolores Davis's life, is
- 27:26the initial toxic spill, right, But the false suspicion, the
- 27:30whispers at the grocery store, the side eyes at the mailbox,
- 27:33the ostracization that poisons the entire neighborhood for decades. It
- 27:38toxifies the son's childhood, It isolates the grieving father.
- 27:42Speaker 2: It destroys them slowly, day by day, year by year.
- 27:45Speaker 1: Imagine mowing your lawn while the neighbor across the street
- 27:48quickly ushers their kids inside. Imagine living with that for
- 27:50nineteen years.
- 27:51Speaker 2: And it remained exactly that way until January two thousand
- 27:54and five, sixteen years after his last known murder. Vtk's
- 27:58massive ego could not hand the fact that people were
- 28:01writing books about him, theorizing that he was dead or
- 28:03in prison, and speculating about his identity.
- 28:06Speaker 1: He needed to prove he was still the smartest guy
- 28:08in the room.
- 28:08Speaker 2: So he resurfaced, and to prove he was still out there,
- 28:12he mailed a package to a local Wichita newspaper.
- 28:15Speaker 1: And what was in the package Dolores Davis's driver's license.
- 28:19BTK had kept it as a trophy for nineteen years.
- 28:22Speaker 2: The delivery of that single piece of plastic completely rewrote
- 28:26the history of that neighborhood overnight.
- 28:28Speaker 1: It officially made Dolores Davis the tenth and final known
- 28:31victim of the BTK Strangler.
- 28:33Speaker 2: And in an instant it proved unequivocally that the father,
- 28:38the man the neighborhood had shunned, feared, and side eyed
- 28:41for almost twenty years, was entirely innocent.
- 28:44Speaker 1: We talk a big game in society about innocent until
- 28:47proven guilty. It is the absolute bedrock of our legal system.
- 28:51Speaker 2: But this story proves that community gossip operates as its
- 28:54own ruthless unofficial jury.
- 28:56Speaker 1: And they don't care about reasonable doubt. I cannot fathom
- 28:59the silence of that wrongly accused father having to grieve
- 29:03your brutally murdered wife while your neighbors look at you
- 29:05like a monster, all while the real monster is sitting
- 29:08in a church pew across town thinking he's a genius.
- 29:10Speaker 2: It's a profound injustice.
- 29:12Speaker 1: Why do we do that? Why is a community so
- 29:14quick to destroy a man's life without.
- 29:16Speaker 2: Proof, Because the void of an unsolved crime demands to
- 29:19be filled. Human beings struggled deeply with ambiguity, especially when
- 29:24it involves violence.
- 29:25Speaker 1: If a predator strikes and vanishes, it means everyone is vulnerable.
- 29:29Speaker 2: The threat is everywhere. But if the community decides the
- 29:32killer is the husband, or the drifter or the weird neighbor,
- 29:35they regain a false sense of security.
- 29:38Speaker 1: The false narrative creates boundaries.
- 29:40Speaker 2: Yes, if the killer is the husband, then we are
- 29:43safe because we aren't married to him. Society needs a
- 29:46scapegoat to process the trauma of the vacuum that is.
- 29:49Speaker 1: So bleak, but it makes perfect sense. We crave resolution
- 29:53so badly we will literally manufacture it, even if it
- 29:56destroys an innocent family.
- 29:57Speaker 2: And the source text touches on this with another brief,
- 30:00corroborating case involving David Millgart.
- 30:02Speaker 1: Right Canada's most wanted wrongful conviction exonery.
- 30:05Speaker 2: Yes, David Millgard is one of Canada's most famous and
- 30:09tragic wrongful conviction exonneries. He served twenty three years in
- 30:13a maximum security prison for a nineteen sixty nine murder
- 30:16he absolutely did not commit.
- 30:18Speaker 1: And the submitter in the BuzzFeed article actually spent time
- 30:21with mill Guard while he was on the run at
- 30:23one point, and later corresponded with him and became friends.
- 30:27Speaker 2: Twenty three years stolen from a man's life because the
- 30:30narrative demanded a culprit and the system failed to find
- 30:33the real one.
- 30:35Speaker 1: It's devastating. We rely on these narratives to feel safe.
- 30:38But sometimes the connection to a crime isn't a long
- 30:41term neighborhood grudge or a twenty year false suspicion.
- 30:44Speaker 2: Sometimes the connection is sudden. It's incredibly jarring.
- 30:47Speaker 1: It's a physical reminder that the media spectacles we consume
- 30:50on television, the things we watch on the couch and
- 30:53our sweatpants involve real, breathing people, which.
- 30:57Speaker 2: Brings us to the profound impact of brushing up against
- 31:00the tangible artifacts and bizarre encounters of highly publicized crimes.
- 31:05Speaker 1: Right Because when a case becomes a national sensation, it
- 31:08often loses its humanity.
- 31:09Speaker 2: It becomes a two dimensional media circus. We consume it
- 31:12as entertainment, but physical objects have a unique way of
- 31:16crashing through that abstraction and making it brutally real.
- 31:20Speaker 1: The perfect example of this is the story involving Patsy Ramsey.
- 31:23Speaker 2: The nineteen ninety six murder of six year old John
- 31:26bene Ramsey in Boulder, Colorado, remains one of the most
- 31:29heavily scrutinized and polarizing unsolved cases in American history.
- 31:33Speaker 1: The bizarre ransom note, the child beauty pageants, the family's
- 31:37immense wealth. It created a media firestorm that lasted for decades.
- 31:42Speaker 2: And John Beney's mother, Patsy Ramsey, who died in two
- 31:45thousand and six, became a massive tabloid fixture. She was analyzed, criticized, impersonated,
- 31:51and suspected by millions.
- 31:52Speaker 1: She became less of a grieving mother and more of
- 31:55a character in a national soap opera.
- 31:57Speaker 2: The smitter for this story says their mother worked retail
- 32:00at a high end department store in Denver in the
- 32:01nineteen nineties, right during the absolute height of the media frenzy.
- 32:05Speaker 1: She sold clothes to affluent clients.
- 32:07Speaker 2: Years later, long after she stopped working there, the mother
- 32:11was cleaning out her closet and donating old suits she
- 32:13used to wear to work.
- 32:14Speaker 1: She reached into the pocket of one of the suits,
- 32:16and she pulled out Patsy Ramsey's business card.
- 32:19Speaker 2: What is fascinating here is the emotional weight of a
- 32:21mundane object. A business card is designed for networking, for
- 32:25the trivialities of daily commerce. It's just ink on cardstock.
- 32:28Speaker 1: But finding it years later in a coat pocket serves
- 32:32as a visceral trigger.
- 32:33Speaker 2: It suddenly and violently humanizes a woman who had been
- 32:36reduced to a caricature by the tabloid press. It is
- 32:39a physical relic from a national tragedy, resting right there
- 32:43in the palm of a retail worker's hand.
- 32:45Speaker 1: It's like finding a piece of a sunken ship watched
- 32:48up on your local beach. You know the ship sank,
- 32:50You saw the news reports, But holding the wood makes
- 32:53the abstracts suddenly very real.
- 32:55Speaker 2: Exactly, And there are other examples of this in the text.
- 32:58Speaker 1: Oh yeah, there's a submitter whose town has a real
- 33:00estate office operating out of a house where they literally
- 33:03found the Tommy guns used in the nineteen twenty nine
- 33:06Saint Valentine's Day massacre in Chicago.
- 33:08Speaker 2: Imagine signing your mortgage papers talking about interest rates in
- 33:12the exact same room where al Capone's men stashed the
- 33:15murder weapon, right.
- 33:16Speaker 1: Or the submitter who attended the same high school as
- 33:18both Patty Hurst, the heiress turned SLA bank robber, and
- 33:22Sam Bankman Free, the disgraced cryptocurrency founder.
- 33:26Speaker 2: The submitter notes that their names were kept visible daily
- 33:29on school plaques and free book tables. History and infamy
- 33:33layered right over the mundane high school experience of locker
- 33:36combinations and gaffeteria lunches.
- 33:38Speaker 1: But touching an artifact is one thing. Finding a business
- 33:41card or looking at a plaque is static. What about
- 33:45when the artifact looks back at you. We have to
- 33:47talk about the direct eye contact stories.
- 33:50Speaker 2: The transition from inanimate objects to living, breathing perpetrators. The
- 33:56text includes an account from a submitter who took a
- 33:59tour of the King Penitentiary.
- 34:00Speaker 1: In Canada right and during the tour they saw Paul Bernardo.
- 34:04For those who don't know, Paul Bernardo is one of
- 34:06Canada's most notorious and sadistic serial killers and rapists.
- 34:10Speaker 2: He and his wife, Carla Homolka committed unspeakable crimes in
- 34:13the early nineties.
- 34:14Speaker 1: And as the submitter looked at him standing there in
- 34:17the penitentiary, they locked eyes and Paul Bernardo winked at them.
- 34:21He win wink no, no, absolutely not. My blood would freeze,
- 34:24I would never sleep again.
- 34:25Speaker 2: It is the most casual, cheeky human gesture, but coming
- 34:29from him, it is bone jelling.
- 34:31Speaker 1: It forces you to realize that there is a conscious
- 34:34entity in there. He is aware of his own infamy.
- 34:38He is actively playing with the people observing him.
- 34:41Speaker 2: It brings up this massive philosophical question about true crime tourism.
- 34:46Why do we do this, Why do we take field
- 34:49trips to maximum security prisons? Why do we keep plaques
- 34:53of infamous people on our walls.
- 34:55Speaker 1: It's a form of morbid curiosity, but it's also a
- 34:57way of seeking control, isn't it. We want to look
- 35:00at the monster while it's in a cage, to reassure
- 35:03ourselves that the system works.
- 35:04Speaker 2: That's a huge part of it.
- 35:05Speaker 1: I think it's like a child touching a hot stove
- 35:07just to make sure it's still burning. We want to
- 35:09get as close to the fire as possible without getting burned.
- 35:12Speaker 2: But the wink from Paul Bernardo, that is the fire
- 35:15leaping out and licking your hand.
- 35:16Speaker 1: It is the ultimate horrifying realization that while we are
- 35:20safely observing the monsters, the monsters are looking right back
- 35:23at us.
- 35:23Speaker 2: They see us, and sometimes they aren't just looking back.
- 35:27Sometimes they're the ones giving the tour.
- 35:30Speaker 1: Oh my god, Yes, the Lorna Anderson story, this one
- 35:34felt completely surreal.
- 35:35Speaker 2: It is a staggering detail from the BuzzFeed compilation. A
- 35:39submitter was on a prison field trip.
- 35:41Speaker 1: With a group and their tour guide. An inmate at
- 35:44the facility who had earned privileges, was casually chatting with them,
- 35:48showing them the grounds, explaining the daily routine, and.
- 35:51Speaker 2: During the tour, the guide casually revealed her identity. She
- 35:55was Lorna Anderson.
- 35:56Speaker 1: She was half of the infamous murder Ordained case from
- 35:59nineteen eighty five three in Kansas, where she conspired with
- 36:02her minister to murder both of their respective spouses.
- 36:05Speaker 2: Imagine signing up for a prison tour to learn about
- 36:08the justice system, and your cheery guide the person telling
- 36:11you where the cafeteria is is it Amine who plotted
- 36:14to have her husband assassinated on a highway so she
- 36:16could run off with a preacher.
- 36:18Speaker 1: It shatters the boundary between the observer and the subject entirely.
- 36:21Speaker 2: It absolutely does. And the text concludes with perhaps the
- 36:24most modern and certainly the most tragic form of brushing
- 36:28against the spectacle.
- 36:28Speaker 1: The Highland Park Parade shooting submission.
- 36:31Speaker 2: Yes, a submitter who had a college shulebotomy classmate who
- 36:35survived the twenty twenty two Highland Park Parade shooting.
- 36:38Speaker 1: This classmate was on the ground directly dodging bullets during
- 36:42a rooftop massacre that dominated national news for weeks.
- 36:45Speaker 2: It bridges the gap completely. It's not a historical artifact
- 36:49like al Capone's Tommy Guns. It's not a killer behind
- 36:52bars like Paul Bernardo.
- 36:53Speaker 1: It is someone you sit next to in class, someone
- 36:55you practice drawing blood with, who was forced to run
- 36:58for their life in a mass cat event.
- 37:00Speaker 2: It reminds us that behind every breaking news chiron, behind
- 37:04every casualty statistic we scroll past on Twitter, are real
- 37:07people who have to go back to phlebotomy class on
- 37:10Monday morning and try to act normal.
- 37:12Speaker 1: It requires an incredible amount of psychological resilience from the survivors,
- 37:16and it forces us, the consumers of this media, to
- 37:19acknowledge that the violence we consume as content or news
- 37:23is a lived trauma for thousands of people quietly existing
- 37:27in our everyday spaces.
- 37:28Speaker 2: If we pull all these threads together, the picture it
- 37:31paints is incredibly unsettling.
- 37:32Speaker 1: It really is. We started by stripping away the illusion
- 37:35of the safe social circle. We saw how Gary Ridgeway's
- 37:38hunting grounds perfectly overlapped with a casual, mundane double date.
- 37:42Speaker 2: We examined the terrifying charisma of the mask, and how
- 37:46John Wayne Gacy used charm as a weapon to disarm
- 37:49a pre law student, only to humiliate her by waving
- 37:52in a courtroom full of grieving parents.
- 37:54Speaker 1: We look at the silent clues. We ignore the threat blindness,
- 37:57like the physical stench of death clinging to a middle
- 37:59school hall monitor, because our brains simply refuse to accept
- 38:03that evil is standing right in front of us.
- 38:05Speaker 2: We discussed the devastating, decades long collateral damage of cold cases,
- 38:10highlighting how a community's false narrative and gossip destroyed a
- 38:13father's life while the BTK killer sat quietly in a
- 38:16church pew.
- 38:17Speaker 1: And finally, we looked at the jarring artifacts of tragedy,
- 38:21from Patsy Ramsey's business card to the bone chilling wink
- 38:24of a locked up serial killer, proving that the distance
- 38:26between us and the true crime spectacles we watch on
- 38:29TV is practically non existent.
- 38:31Speaker 2: The through line here is undeniable. The justice system sometimes
- 38:35fails for decades, Small quiet towns hide massive, rotting secrets.
- 38:40Speaker 1: And the most dangerous killers on earth look exactly like
- 38:42the guy bagging your groceries or the neighbor mowing the lawn.
- 38:46Speaker 2: Which brings us to the warning embedded in the source material.
- 38:50The BuzzFeed article is a fascinating read, but it is
- 38:53also a necessary call to vigilance.
- 38:55Speaker 1: Yeah, this source text literally warns you you might want
- 38:59a double check your own neighbors. You might want to
- 39:02flip through your old high school yearbooks.
- 39:04Speaker 2: You might want to look a little closer at the
- 39:06background of your family photo albums because you never know
- 39:09who is standing just out of focus.
- 39:11Speaker 1: But I think there is an even deeper psychological takeaway here,
- 39:14something beyond just checking your locks.
- 39:17Speaker 2: If history's worst predators, the most prolific and sadistic killers
- 39:21we have ever documented, rely entirely on our assumption of
- 39:25normalcy to hide.
- 39:26Speaker 1: Right, If their greatest defense mechanism is just acting like
- 39:29everyone else.
- 39:30Speaker 2: Then there's our very definition of normal serve as their
- 39:33greatest weapon. By establishing these rigid socle scripts smile, say hello,
- 39:38keep your yard clean, bring a cast role to the
- 39:40block party. Have we simply provided predators with an instruction
- 39:44manual on how to become invisible?
- 39:46Speaker 1: That is the thought I want to leave you with today.
- 39:48It is going to stick with me for a long time.
- 39:50As you go about your week, as you walk through
- 39:53the aisles of the grocery store, as you commute to work,
- 39:56or as you attend your next neighborhood barbecue, take a
- 39:59look at the polite smiles around you.
- 40:01Speaker 2: Look at the people seamlessly blending into the crowd following
- 40:04the script perfectly.
- 40:06Speaker 1: And ask yourself, are you truly safe in your community?
- 40:11Or are you just relying on the camouflage to work