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Is OCD a Spiritual Attack? · Arise Women of God

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  Hey, my friend, have you ever wondered if OCD is a spiritual attack because you, a loved one or child, are trapped in an exhaustive loop of repetitive rituals, handwashing or extreme anxiety that feels like it's completely hijacking your
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  life?
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  This is extremely difficult because you want to know the solution to quiet the chaos.
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  Well, take heart.
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  You are in the right place.
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  And by the end of today's episode, you'll know how to identify the biological line where the anxiety ends, how the enemy weaponizes mental vulnerabilities, and exactly how to find the gift in the hidden struggle.
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  Stay tuned.
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  Ordinary women Extraordinary faith.
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  When God calls, we say yes.
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  Hello, and welcome to another episode of the Arise Women of God podcast.
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  I'm your host, Tamara K.
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  Andersen, and I am thrilled today to be joined by speaker, speaker and life coach Bonnie Randall.
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  As we look closely at this vital question.
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  Is OCD a spiritual attack?
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  Obsessive compulsive disorder can feel like an absolute plague inside your home.
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  To give you clear discernment over what is happening to yourself or your children, we are laying out three roadmaps today.
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  First is the illogical overdrive, the concrete difference between normal sensory routine and true clinical ocd.
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  Second, the Fern Gully effect, how the advers uses biological chinks in our armor to ooze toxic lies and amplify your thoughts into terrifying monsters.
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  And third, the beauty for ashes principle, how a devastating mental diagnosis can be radically repurposed by God to turn a child into a young, powerful minister of light.
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  Well, my friend, when we ask if these heavy battles are spiritual, scripture answers with an absolute yes.
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  The adversary works around the clock to completely twist our thoughts.
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  Now we're going to have Bonnie share the reality of what an adversarial attack looks like, as well as explaining the Fern Gully effect.
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  First of all, I want to say to anyone who experiences ocd, I'm really sorry.
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  It is one of the worst and can be one of the most debilitating disorders.
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  It is so difficult.
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  It runs someone's life if you let it.
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  And we didn't know for a long time that that's what we were dealing with because my daughter's also on the autism spectrum.
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  In a previous episode, we spoke about intrusive thoughts, and I gave some ideas of how to overcome this.
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  I want to speak more today in what ways it can be a spiritual attack and how to recognize what is happening to yourself or to someone else and when to seek professional help.
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  I am a life coach.
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  I am not a clinical psychologist, so I'm going to let others speak to the clinical nature of it and I'll just speak to my personal experience here.
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  So to share.
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  We didn't realize that what was going on was beyond a normal spectrum experience because spectrum kids tend to have routines, they tend to have anxiety, they tend to like things just so.
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  And when you mess up their routine or you throw something into their loop that they weren't expecting, they can have a meltdown.
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  And that's very typical of an autistic child.
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  Okay?
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  Now, when it becomes out of the norm of just normal anxiety or out of the norm of routine type things is when it becomes so intrusive and so obnoxious that is literally running your life.
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  When they are stuck in that loop, when they are stuck in that need to do something that's called a compulsion, or when they have an obsessive thought that is so obsessive that they can't get off of it.
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  When the ruminating and using your ruminating techniques like we've shared in other videos, aren't working, that's when you may want to consider having them evaluated for ocd.
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  OCD can look so different for so many people.
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  My daughter's wasn't hand washing, which is what everyone thinks of.
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  When you think of ocd, you think of someone compulsive, compulsively needing to wash their hands because their hands are dirty, or needing to flip on the light switches 18 times.
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  It is to the extreme when it becomes a spiritual attack.
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  I say it's both.
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  It's both a disorder and it's a spiritual attack because Satan attacks us at our weakest.
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  We know this.
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  We've discussed this many, many times.
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  And OCD has many, unfortunately, weaknesses attached with it.
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  They are more prone to have anxiety moments and more prone to have Satan try to take that thought and amplify it.
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  Remember how we've talked about the amplification of emot?
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  He's now going to not only amplify the emotion, he's going to amplify the thought and he's going to make the thought worse and worse and worse and worse and worse until they do something right.
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  We call it feeding the OCD monster.
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  So what happens is you get a falsehood.
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  A false belief comes in an intrusive thought, something that's a lie.
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  My daughter's big things are contaminations.
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  Things become contaminated because someone touched them.
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  And that someone is an unsafe person to her because they have hurt her in some way.
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  Okay?
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  Don't worry.
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  It wasn't like abuse or anything like that.
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  But that person hurt her feelings.
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  And now, therefore, that person is an unsafe person.
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  And therefore, if they touch, let's say, my tissue box, this tissue box becomes unsafe.
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  So what Satan does is he's now going to amplify this and say, if the tissue box has touched the table, the table is unsafe.
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  If sister has touched the table or used the tissue box, sister is now unsafe, and he now taints and plagues everything associated with it.
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  Think.
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  Have you guys seen the movie Fern Gully?
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  It was like an 80s 90s film.
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  In it, there's this black, toxic darkness.
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  He's the villain in the show, and he oozes out of the machine that's cutting down the trees, okay?
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  That's what Satan does.
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  He taints everything and he oozes and he takes it into the things.
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  That image of oozing toxic darkness perfectly captures what a spiritual siege feels like.
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  But scripture reminds us that when the adversary floods our minds, God can eventually turn it for good.
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  In Isaiah 61:3, we read the Lord's promise to give unto them beauty for ashes, the oil of joy for mourning, the garment of praise for the spirit of heaviness.
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  Doesn't that sound like an amazing promise?
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  You just want to grab onto and shove it into your mind and into your body.
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  Bonnie is now going to explain how she had to stop looking at her daughter's condition as a permanent plague and actively hunt for the beauty in those ashes and how she now sees the blessing and the miracle of
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  it several years later.
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  I want to encourage you that if you are experiencing ocd, I want you to know I understand it's difficult.
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  It's hard to watch someone go through it.
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  They call it an illogical disease because it.
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  It just really doesn't make any sense what the person is going through.
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  They know that it's illogical.
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  They know it and they hate it.
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  So please have compassion.
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  Give them grace.
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  Give them time to heal, and remember that they are still worthy, they are still divine.
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  They are still a child of God.
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  They are still this amazing human that God made them to be.
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  They're just dealing with something that's really hard.
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  And frankly, there's a gift in it.
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  When my daughter was little, we were all really upset and angry with this diagnosis.
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  We had come to terms with the autism diagnosis.
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  We had seen the gifts in the autism.
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  We had seen how beautiful autism is and how incredible autistic kids are.
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  But when the OCD came along, we looked at it as a plague.
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  And it was really, really hard to find the beauty in those ashes.
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  What I have since found is that some of the beauty of it is that it leads me back to Christ daily.
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  He is my anchor.
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  He is my friend.
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  He is my refuge.
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  He is the umbrella in the storm.
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  He is the one that can anchor her better than anyone else.
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  It is helping her develop compassion.
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  It is helping her develop grace.
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  It is helping her develop repentance.
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  It is helping her develop all of these incredible skills and gifts at a very young age.
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  She was 8 or 9 when we first discovered the OCD and she's now 12.
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  So at a very young age, we were struggling with something so difficult.
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  But the gift and the beauty in it is that it has strengthened our relationship in Christ.
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  It has made us so hyper aware of when it is Satan and when it is just her mental glitch and when we need to bring in other tools and other things.
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  But what's really cool is that she has had the opportunity at such a young age to serve other people.
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  She can recognize when someone else is struggling and she can help them through it.
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  She has the tools and the capacity to do that now.
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  And so at a young, young age, she has been turned into a minister.
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  She's been turned into a disciple of Christ.
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  That weakness is becoming a strength.
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  And so I just want to encourage you that if you're in the middle of this hard and it feels like a plague, I encourage you to find the blessings, to find the good things that are coming from this
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  and focus on those.
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  And the more you focus on the good, the more the good will grow, right?
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  Whatever we focus on amplifies.
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  So if we focus on the good in this situation, it will amplify.
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  I love you.
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  I'm here for you.
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  Please.
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  If you are a parent who is going through this, Tamara, please link my contact information.
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  I am more than willing to speak with you personally because I know what it's like and I'm here to be a resource to you.
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  You are not alone.
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  Oh, my friend, if you are right now standing in the middle of a very hard mental battle, remember that this struggle, or your child's struggle is not a spiritual sign of unworthiness.
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  It is a training ground where God is forging an incredible disciple.
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  So, my friend, when you walk this with God, he will lead you and guide you to get the help that you and your loved ones need to help you find anchor points in the middle of the storm and
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  track God's promises.
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  When your family's bandwidth is completely spent, we have designed an amazing toolkit for you and your family.
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  It's called A Mother's Spiritual Defense Guide 6 Empowering Steps to Fortify Home and Family and it is completely free at the link below.
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  When you download this manual, turn directly to step number six, Documenting Miracle Moments and you can use our Structured Journal template on page 19 to help you and your children actively search for those Beauty to Ashes moments, training
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  you to focus your eyes on how Jesus Christ is helping you and your family in the midst of your difficulty and starving the enemy's advances where he is trying to swirl your thoughts down into darkness.
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  Lean into the grace of your Savior.
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  He is strong enough to help you carry this burden.
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  You don't have to do it alone and until next time, may you arise.
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  Do it God's way.
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