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Yearning Aimlessly Part 1 · Outcast

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All right, welcome. Thank you for those that have
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been listening. Welcome back.
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And those are the new. Welcome back again, Diego.
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Oh yes, thank you for having. Me again.
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Once again. Yeah, brother.
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How you been? I've been doing just fine.
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I'll be you guys, yeah. You've been good man.
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Just working. It's pretty much it.
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We're all on the grind here, yeah?
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They're much, yeah, yeah. Everybody right, right, right.
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Dude anything, anything new has has happened lately or no?
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Like with it's life in general, news, anything.
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I wouldn't say anything like new new has been happening in my
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life, but I don't know, I feel like when it comes to something
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to talk about, I feel like it's the kind of something we we
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touched base on yesterday for a little.
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We didn't talk about it a whole lot yesterday, but it was about,
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I don't know if you guys have talked about like marriage on
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this. Marriage.
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On this part On this on this part.
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I know we we haven't. I haven't touched marriage.
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Like what about marriage like? Matrimonial like.
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Like for instance like. Marriage in a sense like.
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Like we know like pre marriage and then marriage itself.
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Like, you know, especially when it comes to like finding.
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I wouldn't say finding, but like finding the one.
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Exactly. Finding the one.
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Yeah, well, you're not the one asking the question.
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OK, OK. No.
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No, no, no. Then this this topic is from God
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then because we. Talked.
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About it yesterday for a little bit all.
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Right. So look, look, you know, we did,
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we did, we did. But look, before I I got here, I
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was eating. And then in my mind a question
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came up. Could I think?
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I'm confident it was God, what are you looking for in a woman?
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Right. Like, like basically like today.
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What are you? Yeah, today before I got here.
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I'm not even joking. Wow.
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What are you looking for in a woman?
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And I said, well, God, whatever you bring.
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And then I was like, you know what, I'm going to call Oscar?
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I'm going to challenge him. So, so, so I thought I was going
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to challenge him and then I call him like, you know, with my
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chest pop popped out and I was like, yo, so.
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I could. I could even like see your chest
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come out of the phone. I was like but I see those.
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Yeah, so I was like, I was like, all right, well, I have a
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question for you, bro. He's like, oh gosh, what
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happened? I'm like, what are you looking
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for in a woman? You know, that was going to
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challenge him with that question.
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But if anything, what I got out of that whole conversation was
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like a backfire towards me, basically like God saying, So
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what are you looking for in a woman?
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And when I got out of that whole conversation was you can't just
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aim aimlessly. Now as we're followers of
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Christ, we know one thing, right?
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We we want a woman that loves God.
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Yeah, and this and this conversation is probably
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comfortable, uncomfortable, Yeah, for a lot of guys, 'cause,
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you know, a lot of guys puff their chest like, Nah, I'm good.
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Or or you can be from the other spectrum, like you're just.
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I guess you can say that what we call it today, simping or
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simping like a little dog with your tongue out.
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Right. Looking for like a girl, Right.
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Yeah. From either 1 spectrum, old to
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the other end. Oh, I don't need that.
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Yeah. So you're saying, yeah, yeah.
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Like there's those that are prideful and like I don't need a
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woman. And well, yeah, 'cause the
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conversation is uncomfortable. Right, right, right.
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So. But what in regards to to
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marriage, Diego? What in regard, let's say?
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Is there like a desperation? No, not a desperation, but at
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times I'm thinking, man, like, you know, one, I wonder when my
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time will be like, you know, to actually meet this person, then,
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you know, get to know them and then, you know, you get into the
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relationship phase and of course you're getting to know them as
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a, you know, as a like in my case, yeah, beginning to learn
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to know them as the girlfriend that could be a potential
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partner. I only say potential because
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anything's possible. It could.
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Things could end or or things could lead to marriage, but it
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all depends. Yeah, interestingly enough, I
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had a conversation with my friend Mike.
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I told you, right? We were catching up, how's he's
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doing and stuff like that. And we touched a little bit
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about that because, you know, I was asking how's everything and
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all that. And he's single, obviously.
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And he said something very, actually, very well said.
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And he's like, if I'm single right now, I might as well make
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it worth it, right? So when my future wife comes, I
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did not waste my time in my singleness, right?
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Yeah. So I like how he said that.
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I like how he said that because if, I mean, if you're going to
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be single, make it worth it. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Right. Do something, work on something
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that's true, make it worth it. So when when she comes, you know
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you did not waste your time. Yeah, that is very.
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True, yeah. And so a lot, a lot of dudes,
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guys want to, they want that wife and they're not taking
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advantage of now. That there's, yeah, absolutely.
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You know, doesn't mean you have to go conquer the world to have
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a huge enterprise, but the things that you have to do as a
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man and take get that taken care of, right?
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Right, right. They don't.
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They're not focusing that. They're focused on like, well,
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you know, I'm not pointing at you do, but I'm just saying like
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a lot of guys are thinking like that.
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Yeah, yeah, yeah. When you asked me the question,
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I was like, oh, interesting. The first thing I thought, and
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this is not to throw you under the.
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Bus No, no, go for it. Go for it.
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I was like, damn, he's desperate you.
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Know you know, you know, I, I understand why you thought that.
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I totally understand. But I, I, I promise.
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I promise. But but.
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But wait, I I promise I was not thinking about a wife at all.
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I was just eating. Yeah, but yeah, the Spirit knows
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the heart. It does know the heart.
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OK. You cannot yearn for a wife if
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you don't even know what you're looking.
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For right, right, right. That's what he says.
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You can't aimlessly. Exactly.
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You can't yearn aimlessly. Aimlessly, yeah.
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And now what I mean by that is like, OK, so you're following
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God, your heart is aligned with God.
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Obviously those these common sense answers like a woman that
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loves God. Yeah, that's just.
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Goes to church common sense stuff yeah, it's just common
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sense. Obviously I wouldn't.
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I honestly, I'll be honest. I, I know you're going to say
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you don't know what you're saying, but like, like if I had
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a girl that, you know, respected what I was doing and God pointed
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me towards her. I, I know, I know, hold on.
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And God wants me to disciple her.
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Well, I'm I'll take, I'll take You don't know.
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You don't know you. Don't know, I'll take, I'll take
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the challenge. Not that I'm asking for it, but
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I'll take up the challenge. It's I know it's going to be
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hard. I know, I know, but for me I'd
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rather prefer a girl that already loves God with all her.
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Heart, Yeah, because how are you going to?
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I mean, I'm not saying never say never, but how is God going to
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present that? Then you still are in your
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growing stages, right? No, no, I know.
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I know. That's what I'm saying.
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Like. I'm not saying that there's a
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I'm not saying there's like a, a stage where like, all right, you
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figured it out as a believer. No, Yeah, you still keep.
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Growing, no, of course, of course.
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But there's a level of maturity. I, I get it.
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But going back to the thing, like I, I, there's just, those
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are common sense things that every Christian man wants,
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right? But then there are those
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attributes in which where God has you at that moment right now
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in life, like whatever God has placed into your hands.
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Those things. I've realized I'm like, wait a
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second, 'cause when I, when that question popped in my mind, I, I
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would, couldn't think of anything except basic questions.
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I mean basic answers like a woman that loves God, fears God,
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all this. But The thing is, you, you said
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this to me before. Do you?
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Oh, I just want a woman that loves God.
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But you don't even know what you're saying.
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Like you when you say that, Brian, or you, you don't even
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know what you're saying by that. Because what if, what if you do
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find that woman that loves God and fears God?
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Do you understand the relentlessness she's going to
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have in her search with God? She's going to put that upon you
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as. Well, and if.
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You were not conditioned to have the flesh disciplined and have
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learned to be in different situations like while Paul says
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through Christ I can do everything who strengthens me
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right. He's not saying that because
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your hopes and dreams saying that in any situation you find
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yourself. You learn how to be content as a
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believer. So when you ask for a wife like
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this, she comes and pushes you. Mm.
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Hmm. Can you handle that?
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Because what if she does? I mean, she will love God, she
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will fear God, right? But everybody can fear and love
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God, right? Yeah.
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But it's different when a woman comes with that relentlessness.
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I totally agree. Yeah, all in for God like.
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And then she challenges you and then you feel uncomfortable.
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And then now you don't even know what you were asking.
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For yes, I agree. No, exactly.
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So it's very simple to say a girl that loves God, right?
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But then when the attributes come, what is it that this woman
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like? What have you seen this woman?
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I guess in other words, be careful what you ask for.
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Well, yeah, because you're saying like.
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I'm sorry, but that's so funny you said that.
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What? Before I turned off my phone,
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That's the last thing I saw on my phone that our sister Linda
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shared with me. Oh really?
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Be careful what you asked. For oh, because you were texting
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her. Yeah, no, because I sent her.
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Oh, OK, right. About a buffet.
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Oh, OK, but yeah, but it's true. Like you, you, unless, you know,
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if you want a woman that loves God and really expect
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relentlessness, right, right, right.
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But I mean relentlessness. Meaning like she's also gonna
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push. You.
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Yes. Yeah, she should.
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Yeah, she should. Yeah.
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But, you know, yeah. But yeah, you're right.
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The thing is that, Are you sure? Can you?
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Or she could be asking, I want a man of God.
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I want a man who fears God. Whoa.
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She should know that if she finds herself with a man of God.
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Man of God, yeah. It's it's not gonna be like
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rainbows and sunshine. It's gonna be he's gonna go,
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yeah, he's gonna push her. He's gonna do all these things.
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Yeah, yeah. In a good way.
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Yes, it goes. It goes both.
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Ways, yeah. So it's both ways.
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Yeah. So as a believer, if you think
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about marriage, you also have to think about what are you really
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asking for. Yeah, exactly.
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You can just shoot aimlessly. Yeah.
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Like for example, when you're going to shoot a bow and arrow,
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you know that this is a bow, this is an arrow, and that is a
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target. You know that common sense.
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It's like you say I want a woman that goes to church, I want a
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woman that loves God. It's common sense.
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But can you aim with aim or you're going to aim aimlessly?
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Yeah. Yeah, You know what I mean?
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So like, like I, what was I gonna say?
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Oh, yeah. So you know, you know that verse
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that everybody uses equally yoked.
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You know, a lot of Christians take that like, oh, you know,
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she's not a believer. It's, it's unequally yoked.
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OK, all right, whatever. But what about like, let's just
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say there's a woman in there that loves God too, but God has
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you on a different mission. But that woman does love God.
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Now her mission might be different from yours.
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Why don't you consider that unequal yoke?
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Well, yeah, too, because you can love God.
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She loves God that you guys, you know, check all the boxes.
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Yeah, but in regards to mission, that there may be in that aspect
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of an unequal yoke, right? Yes.
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Unequal yoke just means this, that when the two beast had the
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yoke on, they had to be exactly the same.
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Right, right, right. Yeah.
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So that they can both the yoke can have a function yeah or
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otherwise the other and the other beast is putting all the
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work and the other one is. Not right So.
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In that they, they, you know, they added to that by saying,
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well, it's if you don't find a believer, right?
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You're unequally yoked in that sense, yeah.
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Yeah, sure. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
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Yeah, that's the understanding. Because like, you're you, your
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your faith isn't God, right? And perhaps she or vice versa,
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her faith isn't God and his faith is not.
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There's going to be a sense of struggle.
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Yeah. There's going to be a sense of
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arguments. There's going to be friction,
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resistance, tension. They love each other.
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But when it comes to the faith and believe, there's all that.
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So do you want to be going through thorns and thistles?
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Yeah. Yeah.
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Do you know what I mean? Right, right.
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Right. No.
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Absolutely. Exactly.
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But but I know where you're coming from.
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Yeah, I think it's. Like that equally.
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It's I get it. Yeah, like that.
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Unequally yoked could also mean like someone in the faith too.
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I meet someone. Let's say I meet someone who
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just came into the faith a year, two years ago.
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So technically, in retrospect, in comparison to me, I've been
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in it for a long time. Yeah, but what if she meets my
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same yoke by the passion that she then has for the stuff that
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I'm doing? Right, right.
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Versus someone who's been in it, but she just doesn't see what
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I'm doing. Exactly.
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Exactly. Exactly.
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I totally get what you're saying.
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Yes, that's exactly what I'm trying to say, yeah.
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So could you ever see yourself, Diego, I mean, ending up with
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someone who's not a believer? But stuff I mean, like, but then
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this kind of leads me to asking a question.
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So since you since you brought up that question, so is it
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possible that God could pair you up with an unbeliever?
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Like he can destine you to marry an unbeliever or, or I don't
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know. It's just a general general
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question. All right, so then ask her.
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Ask her. Of course, of course.
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So going going back to the thing where I was talking about, where
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you're like, you don't know what you're saying, which is true.
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I don't know what I'm saying, but you'll remember that story
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about that prophet. Hosea, I knew you were.
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I yeah, you know, I was going to bring it up.
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But see, you can't. You can't apply that pattern
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into your life. I know, I know.
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Because God was trying to teach also the prophet Hosea while
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teach the nation right. Right, right.
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Although he did love her. Right.
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But every time she would escape and leave, God would talk going.
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Go after, yeah. Go after her, yeah.
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But you see the struggle, you see that.
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Ohh no, no, absolutely. You see, you see, you see what
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the prophet like married a prostitute, God told her.
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Marry a prostitute. Yeah.
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You know that story, right? Had I think they have they have
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kids and everything and she would leave, go after her right,
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You're going to go through that. That is true.
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You're going to go through all that, what God was trying to
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describe to Isaiah, what Israel is to me.
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They leave. They come back to me.
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They leave. Right, Right.
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And I come for them. Yeah.
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When they leave me, I come. Right, right.
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So if you're willing to go through that, by all means your
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your mission in life will be that.
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Yeah. No, that is a.
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That is a a burden. Yeah, right.
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Now imagine having that burden and working on the things God
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has placed in the table for you. Oh yeah, yeah, you're going to
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have to be hauling a lot, you know what I mean?
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No, I agree. I agree.
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No, there are cases that it happens and the believer ends up
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becoming a, The non believer becomes a believer, right,
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Because they see their partners faithfulness and fruits.
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Yeah, yeah, that can be a thing that I'm not saying that we're
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ruling it out. No, no, no, of course not.
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But there is cases when both couples who are both non, like
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the couple who are both non believer become one becomes a
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believer and then later on she can or vice versa.
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He can, right? And they don't let go of each
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other because you never know one day that partner can become a
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believer, right? Right.
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Paul does describe this in the First Corinthians.
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Yeah. So the thing about marriage that
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what you're saying is like, well, you want marriage, but do
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you know why you want marriage? That is true.
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Do you want it for like, like you're saying like, do you want
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it for like your own luxury, for your own vanity, for your own
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looks? Or do you want it like, because
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like it's going to honor God and you can honor God with that
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marriage? And I never really thought of it
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that way, 100%. Well, yeah.
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Because I mean. No, because, because look, we
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have social media and and they promote marriage a lot.
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Like especially in the Christian algorithm, I guess.
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I don't know, that sounds weird to say, but yeah.
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And the algorithm where it pushes like, you know, all that
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Christianity stuff, like, you see, you see like a lot of
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marriage stuff and the, you know, so beautiful, so, so this
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and that. But there are couples out there.
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I remember actually when I first went to church, when I was, when
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I, when that time period remember when I texted you and,
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and that you brought me to that church where I got baptized.
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I remember the first service that I that I, that I was, I was
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there the very first service. It was a couple.
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It was a married couple that they they, I forgot.
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Was it my wall? Yeah, my wall.
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Yeah. And it was, it was that married
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couple that they were on God's, they were doing God's mission.
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And what? What country do you remember?
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What country it was? I think if I'm going to say
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it's, it's Uzbekistan. Uzbekistan.
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Yeah, it was. Yeah, yeah.
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And I remember. That or some weird name
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somewhere around there. Yeah, some like place I have not
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many people talk about is Middle East.
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Right. Yeah, it's it's Asia.
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Asia, Yeah, yeah, yeah. So, so there, you know, she was
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like, Oh yeah, You know, God called us there.
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And she's like, yes, you know, I have a family.
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I remember the wife talking, yes, I have a family.
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And it's very uncomfortable. Sometimes you don't really have
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that much running water. You know, sometimes we have a
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little food, this and that. And she's like, but if this is
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where God calls me, then I don't care.
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He's like, I'm willing to. I don't care what it takes on.
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And what'd you got out of that? When I got out of that, I was
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like, wow, this couple right here.
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I'm not even. I was like the the that was like
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when I was coming back to God, bro.
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That was like the first, the first day I went to church, it
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was that and the couple was like the, the, the wife was like, I
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don't care where God takes me. If God is there, then it's OK.
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So and she was, she was telling stories about like, you know,
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like how they didn't sometimes they would struggle this and
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that. It was, it's hard.
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It's cold up there, this and that.
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It's like, but if God, that's where God calls us, then that's
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where we're going to be at. And when I got out of it, I was
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like, wow, now that I'm more mature and I can see things a
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little more now I understand those, that couple is not
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married for a vanity and looks. They're they're married because
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they're, they're all in, in God's mission.
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And they're gonna, they're willing to go all out to the
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point where even like they're setting the example to their
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kids being like, Hey, this is our marriage.
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They're setting that example to them.
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So when they get older and then their kids find somebody,
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they're gonna have that same mentality.
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Like we're gonna go all out on God, whoever God calls us.
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That was very inspiring. Now that I'm much, you know,
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more mature the faith, now I see how valuable and how beautiful
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that is compared to what social media actually like promotes.
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Portrays. Yeah, portrays where it's like
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all you see is like a beautiful girl in a farm, you know, with
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that with head covering, which is obviously that's beautiful.
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I, I love when women had wear head covering.
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But what I'm trying to say is that like those are things like
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cuz 'cause I was on social media and I was seeing a lot of the
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stuff, a lot of that stuff on there and I'm like, God, you
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know, that's so beautiful. But I can be ignorant to the
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fact that that's also vanity of life too.
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We keep thinking that Christians keep thinking that vanity of
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life is like in the city partying.
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No, it can also be in the farm. It can also be in a different
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world. It can be in a different country
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where like you're living luxurious with the with, with
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organic things, you know, all these things.
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What I'm trying to say is basically like like.
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When marriage now I understand marriage so much more now that
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it's not for vanity, it's not for looks.
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No, it's not like to be like use the ring you see.
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You're. Committing.
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You're becoming one, Diego? Yes.
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You know, becoming one. It's tough.
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You're becoming one with your partner.
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Yeah, you're giving up, half of you.
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Yes. To take half of hers, right?
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The half you gave up, she's taking right?
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Becoming one, Yeah. It goes both ways.
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Yeah, 100%. Yeah, man, and your marriage is
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not going to look like social media, like how it promotes it.
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Yeah, it's good. Who knows where God is going to
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send you I. I I know social media kind of
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distorts everything, yeah, of reality and there's really no
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real way or a manual, but for sure, for sure, for sure, asked
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the Lord. Yes, Abraham asked his servant.
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His servant asked the Lord because he didn't want to fail
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his master in bringing him the wife of his son.
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You see, that's a perfect example of not aiming aimlessly.
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Yeah, he was after a mission. Abraham told him.
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I want to go to this nation in this region specifically that's
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aiming yes, his servant goes to that area to that nation in in
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region and then he then specifically as the Lord for
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certain things he's aiming. Yes.
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Right. And then he came back with the
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with the wife's master's son's. Wife.
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Wife So when you are yearning for a marriage, what do you you
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have to ask yourself for what? For what do you want it for?
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For what? What like you obviously you're a
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man. One day you're you're going to
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have a girl girlfriend and marry them.
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Do you know what you need it for?
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Do you know what responsibly that comes with?
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Yes, the responsibility. You know, that undertakes a
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sense of being uncomfortable. You're giving up your single
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life. You're tending to this other
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person, their needs, their emotions.
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You know what I mean? Vice versa.
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And remember, you're like, I mean us as men, like that's
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God's daughter. Yeah.
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Or do we yearn for marriage because we feel alone?
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Because you can't handle that part of our nature as a man.
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Oh, yeah, so much that like this, this.
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I can't deal with this anymore. Yeah, I need to get married.
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Yeah. You know what I mean?
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That's also extremely wrong, too, for a lot of Christians.
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Yeah, Yeah. And to get married like that,
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that's why, yo, I mean, I know I've said this before, but yo,
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it really does blow my mind when I hear, like, pastors.
23:02
I'm like, oh, yeah, I got married and I was still addicted
23:04
to porn. I'm like, what?
23:06
Yo, if I was addiculous, if I was addicted to porn, yo, I
23:10
would not even think about getting.
23:12
Married. I wouldn't say all the churches
23:16
but like the pushing them to get married because they're in
23:19
flaming passion I think is a huge mistake.
23:23
Yes, and they take it out of context.
23:24
Too, because Paul's talking two couple 2 couples that are
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already. Together.
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Yes, they just get married. So you have to be playing with
23:32
that fight, right? He's not talking about a guy.
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No, no, no. If God has.
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A guy finds him. A guy generally 24/7 finds
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himself in front of the fire. Like what do you?
23:41
Yeah, every morning, all the time, yeah.
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Bro, so like, control yourself, seek for the Lord, tell the Lord
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to help you, Yeah, to intercede for you, right, right.
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To give you the spirit of self-control, right.
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So that you can discern properly.
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Yeah, what you want when you say I want to get married.
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And and if you're yearning for that, you should know what you
24:04
are looking. You should know what you're.
24:05
Looking for yes yes. Yes, so that when you ask the
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Lord, things work the way they should.
24:10
Work no absolutely man, absolutely what I mean no trust
24:12
me man this podcast I'm I'm learning in real time and before
24:16
I came here I I learned something new I'm still learning
24:19
because. I wasn't trying to put you down,
24:22
but. No, no, you did.
24:23
No, I was kidding. I was kidding.
24:25
I was kidding, bro. No, no, no.
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I because this is all I've said to God.
24:30
This is the deepest I've gone to praying to God about my wife.
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I said God give me the perfect portion of a woman.
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Yeah, there's something wrong, right about it.
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Right to to be asking God. Yeah, yeah.
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Like me personally, it's like I have all the tools basically to
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ask. Yeah, I am.
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But I haven't gotten to it. I don't know, maybe I should
24:53
already. I should stop with this
24:54
nonsense, right? But yeah, yeah, like I said,
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it's I like, I like what my friend Mike said like.
24:59
Oh dude, what your friend Mike said is key.
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He's like, if you're going to be single during that time, take
25:03
advantage. Yes, Yeah.
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Of that moment of singleness. Prepare yourself.
25:07
Do what you got to do. Make it worth it.
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Yes. Make the single life worth it so
25:10
that when she comes things work out.
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Yeah. No, don't waste your time and
25:14
then still yearn for your life and you're not really not even
25:18
prepared or you have to like conquer an enterprise.
25:21
You know what? I mean, like, no, I totally know
25:22
what you mean, yeah. As a man.
25:23
Yeah, and, and you know what? Your friend, he speaks for
25:27
himself because he has his own painting company and it's going
25:31
really well for him. Yeah.
25:32
He's killing it. He's killing it.
25:34
So he's taking advantage of his single life right now.
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It's awesome. Yeah.
25:38
Yeah. No, Yeah, yeah.
25:39
So for all those women or men you know, if you're yearning for
25:43
a husband or wife, you should know what you're what you should
25:46
be looking for, yes. Otherwise you're yearning
25:48
aimlessly. Exactly.
25:50
Exactly. Exactly.
25:51
So good, good topic, Diego, good one.
25:54
Good. Yeah, it was a good one, man.
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Good one. Yeah, it's a very good topic.
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I hope everybody here learn and there's so much more to talk
25:59
about marriage, but that's really in a nutshell.
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Yeah. It's not rocket science.
26:04
It's really not. You know.
26:06
This is for, you know, those that are not married or going to
26:09
get married or I even saved those that are in marriage
26:11
already. Yeah.
26:12
I would say this could help someone who's in a couple, who's
26:14
in marriage as well, yeah. Yeah, yeah, absolutely.
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All right, So thank you guys for listening.
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This was a good one. This is a good this is a great
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one and it's. Very good, very good.
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Yeah, I just realized something. Yeah, well, you.
26:28
Pray in the beginning. I don't know, but because we did
26:33
not pray, you are going to close it because you're the one who
26:36
started. Yo, yeah, man, I'm sorry.
26:39
God, It's OK. But you know what I know?
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God. This is from God.
26:43
Of course I learned something new.
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I'm pretty sure Diego learned something new, I think.
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We all did. Yeah, and.
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For me it's just a refresher and a warning.
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Yeah, yeah, man. Awesome, awesome.
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I'm glad you got warned. It's better than.
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I got warned yo. Yeah bro, so all.
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Right, let's close it. Let's close with the prayer.
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Lord, thank you so much for just allowing us just to be here,
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guide us and lead us always into the absolute truth.
27:17
Your wisdom is great. Your wisdom is perfect.
27:20
It refines us in so many ways, challenges us, but you are the
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one true, living God. You are not a God of confusion,
27:29
but rather you are the absolute truth.
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Praise your holy name, for You are greater than all things
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holy. You are in every way.
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All glory goes to you, Lord, and thank you for today.
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Amen. Amen.
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All right, until the next time, guys.