Latest / NO FILTER / Hiring Is a Skill - Interview With Laura Mazzulo of East Side Staffing and Ken Monroe_ CEO of Bchex
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- 0:00Speaker 1: This is The Bad Hire, the show with the best
- 0:02Speaker 1: stories about the worst employees.
- 0:05Speaker 2: We fired him, of course.
- 0:06Speaker 1: People are crazy. It's like an HR nightmare. Right? One
- 0:10Speaker 1: bad hire stole all of it.
- 0:12Speaker 3: Crazy stuff. She got what she deserved.
- 0:15Speaker 1: Oh. I'm your host, Ken Monroe, and every week we
- 0:19Speaker 1: dive into real-life stories... from the wild world of work
- 0:23Speaker 1: and what can happen when the wrong person gets the job.
- 0:27Speaker 1: These stories aren't just crazy. They're cautionary tales about lessons
- 0:31Speaker 1: learned the hard way. Let's get started. This is so
- 0:36Speaker 1: interesting that I was really intrigued that you only hire
- 0:40Speaker 1: HR leaders. I was just like, okay, well that's, you know, that's,
- 0:44Speaker 1: that's super interesting. Yeah.
- 0:46Speaker 2: That's a bizarre thing.
- 0:48Speaker 1: Well, I, You know, what I got out of that was,
- 0:53Speaker 1: you know, when you're, and I think this is probably true,
- 0:56Speaker 1: and at some point you get old enough to have
- 0:58Speaker 1: or big enough to have, you know, an HR professional
- 1:03Speaker 1: come in and help you. So much of when you're
- 1:06Speaker 1: growing your company as a CEO, you're trying to, you know,
- 1:08Speaker 1: you're doing that role, right? You're involved in every hire.
- 1:11Speaker 1: You're trying to do whatever when it comes to culture
- 1:14Speaker 1: and everything. The good ones figure it out and the
- 1:19Speaker 1: bad ones don't. But you get to a place where
- 1:23Speaker 1: you have to have somebody carry the torch there and
- 1:25Speaker 1: build the systems that allow you to scale. And I
- 1:29Speaker 1: never really thought about it. You wrote something that said
- 1:36Speaker 1: how you hire determines who you hire. Basically, if I recall,
- 1:39Speaker 1: you wrote how you hire determines who you hire and
- 1:41Speaker 1: who you hire determines how great your company becomes. And
- 1:45Speaker 1: I thought, well, in no other position do you hire
- 1:48Speaker 1: someone who now affects every hire after that. And so
- 1:55Speaker 1: it kind of struck me in the business that I'm in,
- 2:00Speaker 1: the businesses that I do, how I make a living,
- 2:04Speaker 1: just how critical these HR teams are. Especially on the
- 2:10Speaker 1: hiring side, I was telling someone the other day, We
- 2:13Speaker 1: were talking about this, Laura, and I was talking about
- 2:16Speaker 1: what I perceive their life to be like. Right. I
- 2:18Speaker 1: don't I'm not not I don't do it. Right. I'm
- 2:22Speaker 1: a cog in the wheel. But I feel the same
- 2:25Speaker 1: kind of pressure. And that is. You know, a thousand
- 2:28Speaker 1: a thousand things right goes unnoticed. One thing wrong. Is
- 2:33Speaker 1: completely focused in on in the hiring process. Yeah. And.
- 2:38Speaker 1: It's this, the hiring is a long process. It starts
- 2:42Speaker 1: with somebody saying, I think I need this person. And
- 2:45Speaker 1: then there's a discussion and then somebody frames out a
- 2:48Speaker 1: job application, you know, a job description. And then, you know,
- 2:51Speaker 1: there's an agreement and then they'd run ads. And then,
- 2:54Speaker 1: you know, all this happens before you even talk to
- 2:59Speaker 1: the first person. Then you go through this interview cycle
- 3:03Speaker 1: and you, you know, you finally honed down and you
- 3:05Speaker 1: make an offer and, And then you start the onboarding.
- 3:08Speaker 1: Sometimes the onboarding, you know, it's challenging. And, you know,
- 3:13Speaker 1: I was talking about helping someone in my business understand
- 3:18Speaker 1: that's the pressure they're under. If we're late, if we're
- 3:21Speaker 1: not fast, if we make mistakes, they get yelled at.
- 3:27Speaker 1: They get the pressure from whatever it is, you know,
- 3:30Speaker 1: hiring managers out there, you know, divisional leaders that are
- 3:34Speaker 1: trying to put people in place. And, you know, that's
- 3:37Speaker 1: the pressure, you know, the same pressure we feel. We're
- 3:40Speaker 1: feeling the exact same pressure. So when someone calls and says,
- 3:42Speaker 1: why is this taking so long? You know, that's the
- 3:46Speaker 1: reason we want to eliminate that at every corner because
- 3:50Speaker 1: that's a pressure-filled life to live. You know, you hire
- 3:54Speaker 1: 10 great people, no one, you know, says, man, great job.
- 3:59Speaker 1: That was flawless, wasn't it? You know? Yeah.
- 4:03Speaker 2: I mean, it's just such a complicated issue, which is
- 4:06Speaker 2: why I said we just need to kind of hash
- 4:08Speaker 2: it out a little bit. I think that, A, the
- 4:11Speaker 2: more I've killed back the layer of the onion, you've
- 4:13Speaker 2: realized no company really invests in training their internal talent
- 4:17Speaker 2: acquisition team or their internal recruiting team. So you have
- 4:20Speaker 2: these bad recruiters, or we hear these horror stories on
- 4:24Speaker 2: the other side, candidates complaining about a bad hiring process,
- 4:28Speaker 2: and I interviewed 12 times, and it was four months.
- 4:31Speaker 2: It's not... You know, I feel the same with candidates.
- 4:34Speaker 2: It's not like they want to be bad. Like the
- 4:36Speaker 2: internal recruiter doesn't want to be doing that. They often
- 4:38Speaker 2: just haven't been trained on ways to be more efficient
- 4:41Speaker 2: and use better processes and have better systems and be
- 4:44Speaker 2: more assertive and confident and push back. So everyone's kind
- 4:50Speaker 2: of the victim of a bad process that could so
- 4:52Speaker 2: easily be fixed with a little humility and a desire
- 4:56Speaker 2: to actually get better.
- 4:57Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 4:58Speaker 2: And that's where the ball drops. And I think to
- 5:00Speaker 2: your point, because I recruit HR, I have to convince
- 5:03Speaker 2: HR leaders to become humble, to learn and to unlearn.
- 5:07Speaker 2: And that's hard for them because they feel a pressure
- 5:09Speaker 2: to be perfect, especially at something like hiring, which falls
- 5:13Speaker 2: under their umbrella. So my job, the hardest part of
- 5:16Speaker 2: my job, I would say, is to get them to
- 5:17Speaker 2: a place of, are you willing to totally dismantle how
- 5:20Speaker 2: you've hired up until now and try something different?
- 5:23Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, it's I was I was reading
- 5:27Speaker 1: your some of your some of your posts. And, you know,
- 5:32Speaker 1: by the way, congratulations on being super successful online. That's awesome.
- 5:37Speaker 2: Thank you.
- 5:38Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 5:38Speaker 2: Years of LinkedIn and kind of. But I think we
- 5:42Speaker 2: haven't been talking about hiring as a skill all these years.
- 5:45Speaker 2: We've just talked about it to your point, kind of
- 5:47Speaker 2: like being a transactional thing. So there are like bad
- 5:50Speaker 2: candidates and bad recruiters and bad processes. And we all
- 5:53Speaker 2: just kind of complain about it. But actually, it's like being,
- 5:56Speaker 2: you know, I always attribute it to people who play
- 5:59Speaker 2: a sport or musical instrument or kids who struggle in
- 6:03Speaker 2: a subject. You know, you just need to put in
- 6:05Speaker 2: some time to get it right. And to your point,
- 6:08Speaker 2: like there's a whole process before you meet candidates that
- 6:11Speaker 2: has to be so tight and so efficient. And then
- 6:14Speaker 2: it will move fast.
- 6:15Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 6:16Speaker 2: I just think there's a kind of an arrogance around
- 6:18Speaker 2: hiring that I've been noticing in recent years. Just like, yeah,
- 6:21Speaker 2: I know how to do it. And at some point
- 6:23Speaker 2: we all get to a point of like, ah.
- 6:25Speaker 1: I was going to ask you this question because there's
- 6:27Speaker 1: a little bit of, there's always been this kind of
- 6:32Speaker 1: talk around the lack of, you know, HR is trying
- 6:35Speaker 1: to rattle the organization and say, hey, pay attention, HR
- 6:39Speaker 1: is strategic. Right? It's not compliance. And And that was
- 6:48Speaker 1: a real, for a long time, that was a real,
- 6:51Speaker 1: you know, you could go to conferences about it. It
- 6:53Speaker 1: was a movement, right? Yeah. And then you started seeing
- 6:57Speaker 1: chief HR officers and, you know, taking a position in
- 7:00Speaker 1: the C-suite. And I wonder now if you think that CEOs,
- 7:05Speaker 1: especially in up-and-coming companies, if they're smarter, if they're any
- 7:12Speaker 1: better in terms of understanding you know, that, you know,
- 7:16Speaker 1: your mantra, recruit and retain, the retain part. They figured
- 7:20Speaker 1: out the retain piece of culture, you know, and all
- 7:24Speaker 1: the pieces afterwards that I guess add up to retain.
- 7:26Speaker 1: Do you think they're getting any smarter?
- 7:30Speaker 2: There is such a disconnect between when you talk to
- 7:34Speaker 2: a CEO and a founder or a head of HR.
- 7:38Speaker 2: And so a CEO will say to me, I wish
- 7:40Speaker 2: HR would have come to me and let me know
- 7:42Speaker 2: they needed training. They needed help. They needed external recruiters.
- 7:45Speaker 2: They needed vendors. They needed partners. Like, of course, we
- 7:48Speaker 2: would have spent money or invested in them to make
- 7:50Speaker 2: their life easier. Instead, what happens is HR typically burns
- 7:54Speaker 2: out and then goes to them and it's a little
- 7:56Speaker 2: too late. And so it's a little bit on HR
- 7:59Speaker 2: to feel like instead of just complaining about it, because
- 8:03Speaker 2: I think they're often negotiating against themselves. And they're often saying, like,
- 8:06Speaker 2: if I go to my CEO, they're going to say no.
- 8:08Speaker 2: Whereas the CEO is like, I absolutely would not have
- 8:11Speaker 2: said no. So there's definitely a disconnect there between I
- 8:13Speaker 2: think the strategic HR pros have learned how to be
- 8:16Speaker 2: more assertive and confident. But that's actually still a massive
- 8:20Speaker 2: problem because I meet a lot of them who aren't
- 8:22Speaker 2: capable of just those kinds of conversations.
- 8:26Speaker 1: Right.
- 8:26Speaker 2: And it's, I guess, not easy for everybody to go
- 8:29Speaker 2: to an executive and say what you need and want.
- 8:31Speaker 2: But I think it's so important when you're trying to
- 8:33Speaker 2: move something forward.
- 8:34Speaker 1: That's a theme I hear from you. is the assertiveness.
- 8:41Speaker 1: And I assume you mean that in a super positive way,
- 8:43Speaker 1: but the ability to have a conversation with an executive,
- 8:46Speaker 1: with a CEO, with an owner, a founder, and say, hey,
- 8:48Speaker 1: you know, you may not want to hear this, but,
- 8:51Speaker 1: or this is the way it has to happen or
- 8:53Speaker 1: should happen, or this is good counsel. Correct.
- 8:57Speaker 2: It's so funny because that never came hard to me.
- 9:00Speaker 2: I don't know if it's like the New Yorker in
- 9:01Speaker 2: me or what. I, That was never hard for me.
- 9:04Speaker 2: Even when I was early in my career, if I
- 9:06Speaker 2: saw something wrong in a company I worked for, I
- 9:08Speaker 2: just went to the top and told them what I noticed.
- 9:10Speaker 2: But I do think for a lot of people that
- 9:12Speaker 2: does not come naturally. And so they see a problem
- 9:15Speaker 2: and then they just like swallow it. And it doesn't
- 9:19Speaker 2: make any sense. So I always, when I'm coaching internal recruiters,
- 9:22Speaker 2: I remind them, like, if you're seeing problems with your processes,
- 9:25Speaker 2: you need vendors, you need help. You need tech that
- 9:28Speaker 2: you're not getting access to. You have to tell somebody
- 9:30Speaker 2: they're not going to know. Your CEO doesn't know what
- 9:34Speaker 2: a hiring team needs or what an HR team needs.
- 9:37Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 9:39Speaker 2: We always want to blame the executive.
- 9:41Speaker 1: I think sometimes we think we do. Right. I think
- 9:45Speaker 1: sometimes we think I get approached. So I get, you know,
- 9:49Speaker 1: the sales mantra to salespeople is like call to the
- 9:52Speaker 1: highest level. Right. So they're calling above the HR leader.
- 9:55Speaker 1: They're calling the CEO. They're calling the chief operating officer
- 9:59Speaker 1: and they're pitching salespeople. stuff. Right. And I think about the, the, the, if,
- 10:04Speaker 1: if you are an HR leader and challenged to, to,
- 10:09Speaker 1: to confront challenge, to speak up and, and you know,
- 10:13Speaker 1: CEO says, Oh, I've got this super cool new technology
- 10:16Speaker 1: that this guy pitched me. It's, It's super good. It's
- 10:19Speaker 1: going to make us way, it's going to make us
- 10:21Speaker 1: way efficient. You're going to love it. We're never going
- 10:23Speaker 1: to have to speak to anyone else. AI is going
- 10:24Speaker 1: to do it all, whatever it is, you know? And
- 10:27Speaker 1: then you've got, you know, on the, on the opposite
- 10:30Speaker 1: end of that, you got CEO founder tumbling down this
- 10:35Speaker 1: thing and you, you know, an HR leader looking at
- 10:37Speaker 1: it going, Oh, this is not going to end good.
- 10:39Speaker 1: I just don't see it.
- 10:40Speaker 2: It's interesting that you said assertive could even be perceived
- 10:43Speaker 2: as negative. Cause in my mind, it's only positive. If
- 10:45Speaker 2: you want to be perceived as a strategic leader, the
- 10:49Speaker 2: way I would define that is you're a person who
- 10:50Speaker 2: comes forward with solutions. And so that means you also
- 10:53Speaker 2: have to express the problem, right? You have to be
- 10:56Speaker 2: willing to say, and you know, I listened to so
- 10:59Speaker 2: many of your stories and a lot of it could
- 11:00Speaker 2: be solved with better hiring processes. So it's like, yeah,
- 11:03Speaker 2: you know, we're complaining about all these bad hires we've made.
- 11:06Speaker 2: It's probably solvable if we actually try to improve.
- 11:09Speaker 1: There's two, there's a lot of themes in there that
- 11:11Speaker 1: I see is like, I listen to these stories and
- 11:14Speaker 1: others that come in and they're like, how in the
- 11:15Speaker 1: world did this person make it into the system. And second,
- 11:21Speaker 1: often after some of these stories, we're looking at it going,
- 11:26Speaker 1: why didn't, why did they wait so long? Like this
- 11:29Speaker 1: person just was tumbling out of control, you know, and
- 11:35Speaker 1: they just kept sending them back to work and this,
- 11:37Speaker 1: and it continued and you hear, and then finally a
- 11:40Speaker 1: year later, we, you know, and, I guess we've.
- 11:46Speaker 2: Nailed it with lack of assertion. There's usually somebody who
- 11:49Speaker 2: sees a problem who's scared to say it. And I
- 11:52Speaker 2: don't know why, because to me, there's only upside.
- 11:54Speaker 1: Lawsuits. Everyone's afraid of directing them. Yeah, and if.
- 12:02Speaker 2: You're having a conversation with your executive about something that's
- 12:05Speaker 2: going on, that's not.
- 12:10Speaker 1: That shouldn't be driving. Yeah, for sure. Exactly.
- 12:12Speaker 2: That's just a, hey, I'm noticing something that we might
- 12:16Speaker 2: need to escalate or get legal involved with. But it's
- 12:19Speaker 2: like at least just flagging it, right? It feels like
- 12:21Speaker 2: that's the problem is these things just don't even get flagged.
- 12:24Speaker 1: So back in 2013, tell me about the journey to then.
- 12:30Speaker 1: What had you been doing?
- 12:31Speaker 2: Yeah, I had been working for a big recruiting firm
- 12:34Speaker 2: from 2007 to 2012. 2007 was like a height of hiring.
- 12:40Speaker 2: So there were 22 recruiters on my team just placing
- 12:43Speaker 2: HR people in New York alone. And then 2008 came.
- 12:47Speaker 2: And so we had layoff, layoff, layoff. It was rough.
- 12:50Speaker 2: By 2012, I was the last man remaining and I
- 12:54Speaker 2: was running their HR practice alone. And I thought I
- 12:56Speaker 2: should do this on my own and do it the
- 12:58Speaker 2: way I want to do it with my own values.
- 13:00Speaker 2: And so that's what led me to launch Eastside Staffing.
- 13:03Speaker 2: 2013 was also an exciting time for hiring. I mean,
- 13:07Speaker 2: I would not launch a recruiting firm today.
- 13:09Speaker 1: Right.
- 13:09Speaker 2: Then it was like everybody was hiring and everybody needed
- 13:12Speaker 2: help and they welcomed the help. And then it's, you know,
- 13:16Speaker 2: then it was a happy ride until 2020. And then
- 13:18Speaker 2: the last couple of years have been tricky. You kind
- 13:20Speaker 2: of have to ride a roller coaster.
- 13:22Speaker 1: Yeah. Well, all of us that depend on hiring are
- 13:25Speaker 1: like that, right? You know, all of my, most of
- 13:29Speaker 1: my businesses are all aligned to hiring. HR. So it's, um,
- 13:34Speaker 1: it's in different verticals, but, um, yeah, it is. Now we,
- 13:39Speaker 1: we also do a lot of work in schools, which is, um,
- 13:44Speaker 1: super interesting hiring cycles. Um, if I was again, explaining
- 13:49Speaker 1: to someone the other day, you know, an HR pro
- 13:53Speaker 1: who's hiring in school, the entire, the entire year of
- 13:57Speaker 1: hiring is compressed into a two and a half month period,
- 13:59Speaker 1: two month period. Like And there's this impending event, like
- 14:02Speaker 1: if you're late, right? And you deliver someone late in
- 14:08Speaker 1: a typical role, you know, you're going to make some,
- 14:11Speaker 1: it's going to ruffle some feathers. People will be, you know,
- 14:13Speaker 1: they're going to call you slow. They're going to be,
- 14:14Speaker 1: you know, there's lots of reasons they could be upset.
- 14:16Speaker 1: But in a school. class starts and there's going to
- 14:19Speaker 1: be kids in that classroom, right? And there's going to
- 14:22Speaker 1: be like, we don't have anybody that teach second grade or,
- 14:25Speaker 1: you know, seventh grade English. There's no one in that
- 14:28Speaker 1: school that can qualify to teach it on this day
- 14:31Speaker 1: and school started. So lots of pressure for them.
- 14:36Speaker 2: You need sometimes a deadline that you actually are working
- 14:41Speaker 2: on a timeline.
- 14:41Speaker 1: Yeah. They compress so much into, you know, into that and,
- 14:46Speaker 1: you know, supporting them and helping them is a lot
- 14:49Speaker 1: of times about just refining process and getting better and
- 14:52Speaker 1: better and better and becoming faster and efficient, effective at, at,
- 14:56Speaker 1: you know, not only doing things fast, but also creating
- 14:59Speaker 1: a positive experience for them. You know, these, you want
- 15:03Speaker 1: the experience of coming on to be positive. That's your
- 15:06Speaker 1: first taste of the culture, right? How did I get treated?
- 15:09Speaker 1: How did they treat me along the way? Do they
- 15:11Speaker 1: know what they were doing? You know, those are all
- 15:13Speaker 1: like really positive things that.
- 15:15Speaker 2: So interesting because as you're talking, I just had this
- 15:17Speaker 2: like light bulb thought that because you were saying strategic HR,
- 15:21Speaker 2: it was everyone's goal to be strategic, but no one
- 15:24Speaker 2: really knew what that meant or how to get there.
- 15:26Speaker 2: And so it's just kind of been a buzzword in
- 15:28Speaker 2: a lot of ways. The same is true on the
- 15:31Speaker 2: recruiting end. So we've always, on the external side, we've
- 15:34Speaker 2: always referred to ourselves as recruiting consultants. Like that was
- 15:37Speaker 2: always my title since 20 years ago. And then I
- 15:41Speaker 2: think I understood what that meant as, you know, you're
- 15:43Speaker 2: an external consultant, you add value. However, I think in
- 15:47Speaker 2: the last few years, it's become even clearer that it's
- 15:49Speaker 2: about being creative to find different solutions to meet the
- 15:53Speaker 2: actual problems of the clients. Historically, it was always, okay,
- 15:57Speaker 2: we need an external recruiter, we pay a fee, you
- 15:59Speaker 2: find the person, it's a transaction. Lately, it's been more of,
- 16:03Speaker 2: you know, I don't know if we need an external headhunter,
- 16:05Speaker 2: but we need help. Our internal recruiters are struggling. Our
- 16:08Speaker 2: process needs work. Our hiring managers need training. Our processes
- 16:13Speaker 2: are too long. It's like I've actually started really peeling
- 16:16Speaker 2: back layers of the onion and realizing the right solution
- 16:18Speaker 2: isn't always just fill the job. It's actually, to use
- 16:21Speaker 2: your point about education, teach.
- 16:23Speaker 1: Teach people. Oh, that's interesting. Yeah, so not necessarily like
- 16:27Speaker 1: staff augmentation. Here's some additional recruiters to go find some people,
- 16:31Speaker 1: but more we're broken in these places. This doesn't feel right.
- 16:34Speaker 1: This is inefficient. My people need to be better trained
- 16:38Speaker 1: to do this. Yeah, that's interesting.
- 16:40Speaker 2: It just requires a team.
- 16:42Speaker 1: To admit that. Are you working to fill that now?
- 16:44Speaker 1: Is that what you're doing?
- 16:45Speaker 2: The bulk of my business is still filling HR jobs
- 16:50Speaker 2: where there are openings. So I'm still very much kind
- 16:52Speaker 2: of seen as an external recruiter. However, I think what
- 16:56Speaker 2: I'm getting better at and what I'm enjoying is when
- 16:58Speaker 2: clients call me and say something like, Laura, we've been
- 17:01Speaker 2: working on this HR job for four months. Our internal
- 17:04Speaker 2: recruiter is hitting a wall. She's brought in 25 people
- 17:07Speaker 2: for us. We're not filling it. Instead of me just saying, okay, great,
- 17:11Speaker 2: I'll fill it. Sometimes I'm offering like, do you want
- 17:13Speaker 2: me to work with them one-on-one for a few months,
- 17:15Speaker 2: see what's going wrong? Maybe I can help figure out
- 17:19Speaker 2: why it's been problematic. I'm sure there's a reason. You
- 17:21Speaker 2: probably already have your candidate there. not usually an issue
- 17:25Speaker 2: of more people. It's usually an issue of kind of
- 17:27Speaker 2: identifying the talent. Are we asking the right questions? Is
- 17:30Speaker 2: the process efficient? So I'm having fun with kind of
- 17:33Speaker 2: hearing the problem and identifying exactly what they need, but
- 17:37Speaker 2: it's not always just pay a fee and be done
- 17:40Speaker 2: with it.
- 17:41Speaker 1: Right. You know, it seems, um, well, I guess they're
- 17:44Speaker 1: both rewarding. I mean, I enjoy, I enjoy, I enjoy
- 17:48Speaker 1: fixing things and building things. And so there's probably feeds
- 17:52Speaker 1: that for you. That's really good.
- 17:54Speaker 2: Well, I think historically in recruitment, there's been an internal
- 17:58Speaker 2: recruiter versus external recruiter battle. And the internal recruiter, rightfully so,
- 18:04Speaker 2: is usually annoyed when they go to search because it's
- 18:06Speaker 2: like they've already been working on it. Now we have
- 18:08Speaker 2: to bring in an external person who's going to get
- 18:09Speaker 2: all the credit and get it done. And so I
- 18:13Speaker 2: started noticing that dynamic and thinking, shouldn't I just help them?
- 18:16Speaker 2: They probably just need some support. And that could be
- 18:19Speaker 2: in the form of training or coaching or something else.
- 18:23Speaker 2: So that we're working as an actual team. And I
- 18:27Speaker 2: think part of being strategic is also teamwork and not
- 18:30Speaker 2: just kind of like outsourcing at all.
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- 19:18Speaker 1: I had a conversation earlier this week with a former
- 19:23Speaker 1: provost of a major university. And we were talking about,
- 19:29Speaker 1: we were really talking about behaviors and hiring for behaviors
- 19:34Speaker 1: and looking for certain behavior sets, modeling, and, you know,
- 19:39Speaker 1: he's doing something at his university using some technology that
- 19:43Speaker 1: defines a set of core behaviors, tests for them, and
- 19:46Speaker 1: allows them to kind of open up their candidate pool
- 19:48Speaker 1: beyond just resume fundraising. fitness, right? Just like to try
- 19:52Speaker 1: to find, Hey, these people might not have the total,
- 19:56Speaker 1: you know, the total experience or the skillset, but they
- 19:59Speaker 1: have the behaviors of what we perceive the best performers
- 20:03Speaker 1: to be. And we were in, it was in a
- 20:06Speaker 1: university setting. And it struck me as he shared with me,
- 20:10Speaker 1: I never really thought about this, but he was sharing
- 20:14Speaker 1: that in a university setting, it's a very long process
- 20:18Speaker 1: to hire someone. And that they've introduced this behavioral piece
- 20:24Speaker 1: to help them get through the process to selecting. And
- 20:27Speaker 1: the reason it's so important is the people who show
- 20:32Speaker 1: up often show up with tenure. They bring their tenure
- 20:35Speaker 1: with them. It's a permanent hire the moment they pull
- 20:40Speaker 1: the trigger. There is no escaping the bad hire there.
- 20:46Speaker 2: They can't mess up.
- 20:47Speaker 3: Yeah, it is.
- 20:48Speaker 1: They cannot. And oftentimes, they're well-paid. It could mean research
- 20:58Speaker 1: grants and other things that are under their control that
- 21:01Speaker 1: they might lose if they pull the trigger on the
- 21:03Speaker 1: wrong person. It's just not a good fit. So I
- 21:08Speaker 1: just never imagined that. And listening to him describe the process,
- 21:14Speaker 1: and we were talking about how to improve the process.
- 21:16Speaker 1: He was asking me questions. And I really thought about
- 21:23Speaker 1: walking away from that. Some of these things are just
- 21:26Speaker 1: the differences in scale between trying to pull the trigger
- 21:30Speaker 1: on a decision like that and how important it The
- 21:33Speaker 1: process was in very unique ways compared to how important
- 21:36Speaker 1: the process was for Target or somebody who's hiring lots
- 21:42Speaker 1: of people and you still got to do it right.
- 21:46Speaker 2: Well, and you're referring to really this push towards using data,
- 21:49Speaker 2: which is so smart and logical, right? So you use
- 21:51Speaker 2: competencies and use skills as a data point to make
- 21:55Speaker 2: an accurate hiring decision, not off of gut feel. Not
- 21:59Speaker 2: out of instinct. And for those of us that were
- 22:01Speaker 2: trained that way 20 years ago, it isn't unlearning. To
- 22:04Speaker 2: be like, well, I like this guy more, but the
- 22:06Speaker 2: other guy actually matches exactly what we need. You have
- 22:09Speaker 2: to go that route. And I think it's beautiful when
- 22:15Speaker 2: you follow a process and it actually works. That's how
- 22:18Speaker 2: managers start to trust it more.
- 22:19Speaker 1: I had a question right now for you, but I
- 22:21Speaker 1: think I deleted it. I had a question for you.
- 22:26Speaker 1: It was going to be, I'm a big believer in that,
- 22:31Speaker 1: like most jobs, there are core behaviors that make people
- 22:37Speaker 1: successful in most jobs. But not all jobs require high skills.
- 22:44Speaker 1: Like you can train skills faster than you can train behaviors.
- 22:51Speaker 1: Behaviors are built over, in my opinion, years of coaching
- 22:54Speaker 1: and development, and it's hard to change who you are.
- 22:57Speaker 1: but it can happen. It doesn't mean it can't. It
- 22:59Speaker 1: just means it's, I think it takes longer. And then, then,
- 23:04Speaker 1: then so skills based versus behavior based. And, and I
- 23:09Speaker 1: was going to, when I think about an HR leader,
- 23:13Speaker 1: It's a combo. It has to be a combo. Well,
- 23:17Speaker 1: I'm going to, that's okay. That's interesting. Cause I thought like,
- 23:20Speaker 1: this has got to be 80% behavior. Like if I
- 23:23Speaker 1: was hiring somebody, I think I will, I'm interested in
- 23:27Speaker 1: your reaction to that because I would think, yeah, let
- 23:29Speaker 1: me find the right behaviors because they can go figure
- 23:32Speaker 1: out the compliance hole they have or this hole. But,
- 23:37Speaker 1: you know, do they have the assertiveness? Do they have
- 23:41Speaker 1: the curiosity? Do they have, you know, the courage? What
- 23:45Speaker 1: are those behaviors that you need to profile that that
- 23:48Speaker 1: makes a perfect HR leader? And maybe that's different depending
- 23:52Speaker 1: on where you're at. You know, if you're at my company, it's...
- 23:57Speaker 1: one thing if you're a bank of.
- 23:58Speaker 2: America, every team, every role should be different.
- 24:02Speaker 1: Absolutely. Yeah.
- 24:04Speaker 2: And usually it's a combo platter because let's say it's
- 24:06Speaker 2: like a head of total rewards job. That's all about
- 24:09Speaker 2: benefits and compensation. They do need some skills to run
- 24:12Speaker 2: that department obviously. And so you need to check some
- 24:15Speaker 2: of those boxes, but of course you need to check those,
- 24:18Speaker 2: you know, we're still unfortunately often referring to them as
- 24:20Speaker 2: culture fit questions, but they really are to your point behaviors.
- 24:24Speaker 2: And yeah, you know, there's a million ways we can
- 24:28Speaker 2: refer to them. You know, I like sometimes cultural ad they're,
- 24:31Speaker 2: they're adding to your culture. They're not necessarily fitting your culture.
- 24:34Speaker 2: They're bringing something in that is needed.
- 24:36Speaker 1: And I think the.
- 24:39Speaker 2: Other piece, like when I listened to a lot of
- 24:41Speaker 2: the bad hire stories, I'm thinking, you know, are we
- 24:44Speaker 2: asking candidates what they want and what they need? Because
- 24:46Speaker 2: that's such an important part of it too. It's not
- 24:49Speaker 2: all about what's our wishlist and then let's go find it.
- 24:52Speaker 2: It's like, what does the candidate want to need from us?
- 24:55Speaker 2: And usually it's, if it's mutual and the person identifies
- 24:58Speaker 2: why this job, this company, this leader is right for them,
- 25:02Speaker 2: that's when it's a good sign. Like if I have
- 25:04Speaker 2: a client who's down to two candidates, kind of like,
- 25:05Speaker 2: I don't know which one to choose. They're both scoring
- 25:08Speaker 2: the same on the scorecards. They're both kind of showing
- 25:11Speaker 2: up the same in interviews. I'm like, well, let's ask
- 25:14Speaker 2: who wants it more. Like, let's ask kind of what
- 25:16Speaker 2: they're feeling. And usually there's one person who's really like,
- 25:18Speaker 2: this is the place I want. And this is why,
- 25:20Speaker 2: and this is what that really does help kind of,
- 25:24Speaker 2: you know, it is a two person journey here. I
- 25:27Speaker 2: think we often forget that. We just kind of go
- 25:29Speaker 2: looking for what we want.
- 25:30Speaker 1: I was going to ask you if you had a.
- 25:35Speaker 1: So you've had I'm going to I'm just going to
- 25:37Speaker 1: I'm not going to ask you how many, but I
- 25:39Speaker 1: would assume hundreds of placements you've done, if not a thousand.
- 25:41Speaker 2: Yeah, I've never even counted.
- 25:43Speaker 1: Right. So just consume a lot. All right. So a
- 25:46Speaker 1: lot of repetitions to learn from, you know, what still
- 25:50Speaker 1: shocks you, you know, about how CEOs treat the HR
- 25:55Speaker 1: leadership role or that seat.
- 25:58Speaker 2: It still shocks me that they don't communicate well with
- 26:01Speaker 2: each other. So it still shocks me, like I said earlier,
- 26:04Speaker 2: that a CEO wants to help HR get better, but
- 26:07Speaker 2: HR is not speaking up about it. And so there
- 26:10Speaker 2: is often this bitterness where HR feels like they're not
- 26:13Speaker 2: seen or heard, but they're not really saying anything. And
- 26:16Speaker 2: then I think executives feel like they're not getting enough
- 26:18Speaker 2: from HR because they're not kind of helping them. And
- 26:21Speaker 2: so I try to remind both parties, Like CEO, you
- 26:25Speaker 2: have to ask your HR people to speak up. They're
- 26:27Speaker 2: not naturally as good at it maybe as your other
- 26:29Speaker 2: department heads. So get them to tell you what they
- 26:31Speaker 2: need and want. Kind of encourage them.
- 26:34Speaker 1: There is a piece of what you're saying that sounds
- 26:36Speaker 1: like you're a dating matchmaker. And a therapist. Because you
- 26:41Speaker 1: literally are.
- 26:44Speaker 2: I've always said they say, they say recruiting is like marketing.
- 26:50Speaker 2: And I've always said, no, recruiting is like psychology.
- 26:53Speaker 1: There's no doubt.
- 26:54Speaker 2: That's a much stronger comparison because you have to be
- 26:57Speaker 2: in the psyche of like, what is the hiring manager
- 27:00Speaker 2: up against with themselves? Why are they feeling bitter about this?
- 27:03Speaker 2: Why are they struggling with this? Why are they resisting this?
- 27:06Speaker 2: And then why is the candidate being guarded? And why
- 27:08Speaker 2: are they, you know, it's just so much nuance. And
- 27:11Speaker 2: when it's HR to your point, there's this extra armor
- 27:15Speaker 2: up because they feel like they should either know how
- 27:17Speaker 2: to hire really well or know how to job search
- 27:19Speaker 2: really well. They're feeling very resistant to advice. So first
- 27:24Speaker 2: piece is getting all that guard down. Just like right now,
- 27:26Speaker 2: you're a candidate right now. You're a hiring manager. I'm
- 27:28Speaker 2: the expert. Let me help you. And then, then we
- 27:32Speaker 2: can move forward.
- 27:33Speaker 1: What's the favorite part of your, what is the favorite
- 27:36Speaker 1: part about, of what you do? What's the favorite part
- 27:40Speaker 1: of your job?
- 27:40Speaker 2: What do you love? Yeah, I love, I love when
- 27:43Speaker 2: hiring managers realize things they could be doing better. And
- 27:46Speaker 2: so they start hiring better. I think that I really
- 27:51Speaker 2: hate watching people hire poorly because we have all seen
- 27:55Speaker 2: just these horror stories from it. And it's all fixable
- 27:58Speaker 2: if you're just willing to say, look, I've been in
- 28:01Speaker 2: HR for 25 years. I've hired a million people, but
- 28:03Speaker 2: I'm happy to relearn new things and unlearn things that
- 28:06Speaker 2: don't work anymore. And I want to get this right.
- 28:08Speaker 2: there is such humility and curiosity required to do that.
- 28:11Speaker 2: And when it's being done, it's like magic. And I
- 28:14Speaker 2: love it. And I feel like I'm really adding value there.
- 28:16Speaker 1: That's yeah. You mentioned your, your three, your three values
- 28:21Speaker 1: are what? Curiosity.
- 28:23Speaker 2: Curiosity and humility. I keep them on my desk. I
- 28:26Speaker 2: don't forget. Yeah.
- 28:27Speaker 1: You also have a, don't you have a doll around
- 28:30Speaker 1: your desk? Yeah.
- 28:32Speaker 2: Alice in Wonderland.
- 28:33Speaker 1: Alice in Wonderland. Yeah. There you go.
- 28:35Speaker 2: Curiosity.
- 28:36Speaker 1: Who gave that to you? I always liked this story.
- 28:38Speaker 1: Did a family member give that to you? Who gave
- 28:41Speaker 1: that to you?
- 28:42Speaker 2: Probably my mom.
- 28:43Speaker 1: When I was little. Your mom?
- 28:44Speaker 2: Yeah, I think I had this set of Alice dolls,
- 28:47Speaker 2: but this is the one I like the most.
- 28:50Speaker 1: I was listening to a podcast you were talking about.
- 28:52Speaker 1: You were talking about that and how she helps you
- 28:55Speaker 1: remember the curiosity piece.
- 28:57Speaker 2: She does because, you know, look, I live in New
- 29:00Speaker 2: York City, which can be a very fast-paced city where
- 29:03Speaker 2: people feel like they need to have all the answers.
- 29:05Speaker 2: And I just don't think you hire well if you
- 29:08Speaker 2: act like you, I don't have all the answers, you know?
- 29:11Speaker 2: We learn as we go and we have to like
- 29:13Speaker 2: pause and do it right. And I think that it's,
- 29:17Speaker 2: you have to come from a place of curiosity, yeah.
- 29:19Speaker 2: Like ask questions and seek wisdom and it's, I don't know.
- 29:24Speaker 2: To me that's, arrogance just doesn't win in this space
- 29:29Speaker 2: when it comes to hiring.
- 29:30Speaker 1: I don't know that I've, I think I know how
- 29:34Speaker 1: important people and hiring the right people are, right? That's
- 29:39Speaker 1: that's part of who we are and exist and what
- 29:41Speaker 1: we do. But I never, I don't think I connected
- 29:46Speaker 1: how important, how important that the role of finding the
- 29:53Speaker 1: right person to find the right person. Yeah. Right. Right. when,
- 29:59Speaker 1: when it, when I read your, you know, your bio
- 30:02Speaker 1: and I was going over it, I was like, okay,
- 30:04Speaker 1: an HR pro that does just does HR. Cause you know,
- 30:07Speaker 1: I get pitched. I get pitched recruiting all the time. Right.
- 30:10Speaker 1: I mean, there's no shortage of people calling me and saying, Hey,
- 30:13Speaker 1: let us help you. Um, you know, I, I get, uh,
- 30:18Speaker 1: two or three phone calls a day from that. And
- 30:20Speaker 1: I get two or three venture capitalists calling me going,
- 30:22Speaker 1: are you for sale? You know? So, um, I guess what, uh,
- 30:28Speaker 1: I've seen so many of them that are probably the
- 30:31Speaker 1: specialists I see are in sales, maybe in tech. Yeah. Right.
- 30:37Speaker 1: And maybe I just, I'm not in the, I'm not
- 30:39Speaker 1: in it deep enough to know, Oh, there's all kinds.
- 30:41Speaker 1: There's just HR specialists everywhere. But you were the first
- 30:44Speaker 1: person I had ever come across. It was like, I
- 30:46Speaker 1: know I do HR and HR only. Yeah. And you know,
- 30:49Speaker 1: I was like, wow, that is, it was just an
- 30:52Speaker 1: indication to me that like, and it made me think
- 30:54Speaker 1: about it more that how important it that role is
- 30:59Speaker 1: in my organization. Yeah. And to be honest, really transparent,
- 31:08Speaker 1: I've had somebody in HR in my company, and they
- 31:16Speaker 1: were good and got me to here, and I'm not
- 31:18Speaker 1: sure that's the same person to get me to there.
- 31:20Speaker 2: That's right.
- 31:22Speaker 1: Right? Yeah. And when I got a hold of this company,
- 31:25Speaker 1: we had to go through a massive culture shift and
- 31:27Speaker 1: change and really change the kind of underpinnings of the
- 31:31Speaker 1: people dynamics of this business, which is incredibly important to me.
- 31:35Speaker 1: And I really had someone who could help me understand
- 31:39Speaker 1: from the staff's perspective, all the dials I needed to
- 31:44Speaker 1: be turning. It wasn't just, I'll just pay everybody more.
- 31:48Speaker 1: That'll make them, it was just so many little dials Um,
- 31:53Speaker 1: and she did a really great job. And then, um,
- 31:57Speaker 1: and then she, she, she left. I didn't, I, you know,
- 31:59Speaker 1: I would have, she'd been here forever. She, she left.
- 32:02Speaker 1: And now, you know, as I contemplate that role, I
- 32:04Speaker 1: contemplate what, you know, what's next for me, you know,
- 32:08Speaker 1: I'm going to begin, you know, hiring different types of people. Um,
- 32:14Speaker 1: you know, we're moving so fast. Um, um, you know,
- 32:18Speaker 1: and I, and I realized how important, um, Because I've
- 32:22Speaker 1: got a handful of friends who are recruiters and they're
- 32:25Speaker 1: all like, oh, no, I'll help you find somebody. Right. Right.
- 32:29Speaker 1: They're like generalists. Hey, you know.
- 32:32Speaker 2: Of course. I always remember I had a client. It
- 32:36Speaker 2: must have been like 2014, 15. It was when the
- 32:38Speaker 2: market was really booming. They invited in a bunch of
- 32:40Speaker 2: their vendors for like a lunch. And I was sitting
- 32:43Speaker 2: at the table with fellow recruiters and they were like,
- 32:45Speaker 2: what do you do? I was like, I specialize in
- 32:46Speaker 2: placing experienced HR pros, mostly in New York. And then
- 32:50Speaker 2: like the rest of the table was like, I just
- 32:51Speaker 2: work on whatever I can get my hands on.
- 32:53Speaker 1: Right.
- 32:54Speaker 2: I don't know how that, how does that work? Like
- 32:56Speaker 2: my clients like that I'm an expert in something, but.
- 33:00Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 33:00Speaker 2: I mean, I think as you were talking to, I
- 33:02Speaker 2: was realizing that we generally aren't listening to the candidate
- 33:07Speaker 2: feedback as a whole. So we all hear horror stories of,
- 33:12Speaker 2: you know, our friends who interview and the process was awful.
- 33:14Speaker 2: And I took me seven months and I finally got
- 33:16Speaker 2: a rejection.
- 33:17Speaker 1: Right.
- 33:18Speaker 2: I don't know many executives who just pause and ask
- 33:20Speaker 2: their internal recruiter or their external recruiter or the candidate
- 33:25Speaker 2: that they hired, like, how is your process with us
- 33:27Speaker 2: comparative to what you experienced elsewhere? What could we have
- 33:31Speaker 2: done better? Did you notice anything that was kind of annoying? Like,
- 33:35Speaker 2: tell me again, let me seek the information because maybe
- 33:38Speaker 2: we can use that going forward.
- 33:39Speaker 1: And you'd be amazed.
- 33:40Speaker 2: People are happy to share. And again, it's not a
- 33:42Speaker 2: scary conversation. It's a helpful conversation.
- 33:44Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 33:45Speaker 2: And so when I start a search with a new client,
- 33:46Speaker 2: I'll always say, do you want me to share the
- 33:48Speaker 2: feedback I receive? Because I'm going to receive feedback. And
- 33:52Speaker 2: to your point of curiosity, the best managers are like, absolutely. Like,
- 33:56Speaker 2: let's gently tell me, of course, and I will, but
- 34:00Speaker 2: tell me where we can be doing better.
- 34:01Speaker 1: Yeah, I think one of your value propositions in life
- 34:05Speaker 1: and business is your willingness to collect information and shoot straight. Yeah.
- 34:10Speaker 1: Am I right? Thank you. Yeah. Oh, I didn't want
- 34:14Speaker 1: to hear that. I suck.
- 34:17Speaker 2: I need to be better.
- 34:19Speaker 1: Laura told me I suck really bad at this.
- 34:24Speaker 2: That's very insightful information. I feel like an early manager
- 34:28Speaker 2: of mine used to say to me, you say things
- 34:30Speaker 2: to clients I would never say. I'm like, well, I
- 34:32Speaker 2: don't know what else to do.
- 34:33Speaker 1: Do you stay connected to some of the people that
- 34:37Speaker 1: you hire?
- 34:39Speaker 2: Yes.
- 34:39Speaker 1: I can imagine that it's become like a It's kind
- 34:44Speaker 1: of circular, especially when you, when you crush it, you know,
- 34:47Speaker 1: when someone gets somewhere and they can be.
- 34:49Speaker 2: Your client later on, they might need your help somewhere else.
- 34:52Speaker 1: Yeah. Yeah.
- 34:54Speaker 2: It's a long game. I mean, I'll get texts or
- 34:57Speaker 2: emails from people that I placed 15 years ago that
- 34:59Speaker 2: are like, I might need your help with something, you know?
- 35:02Speaker 1: Yeah. If you, if you think about those people who
- 35:07Speaker 1: are crushing it, what's the, What's the like it factor?
- 35:15Speaker 1: You're like, oh, you know, I know like the group
- 35:19Speaker 1: I know, like what's the what's the it factor for them?
- 35:21Speaker 1: What do you think makes them?
- 35:24Speaker 2: I think we nailed it. We've nailed it so much
- 35:26Speaker 2: in this conversation around humility and curiosity. And I think
- 35:30Speaker 2: it's worth just repeating in the sense that the people
- 35:33Speaker 2: who aren't crushing it are arrogant and they're in a
- 35:36Speaker 2: fixed mindset. They believe they know everything and they don't
- 35:39Speaker 2: really want to learn anything else.
- 35:41Speaker 1: On both sides, really. On both sides. It's the CEO
- 35:44Speaker 1: who thinks that.
- 35:45Speaker 2: And HR and the candidate, right? All three players, the
- 35:48Speaker 2: internal recruiter, like everyone involved with the hiring process. Think
- 35:52Speaker 2: about it. It's often an internal recruiter, sometimes an external,
- 35:55Speaker 2: the candidate, the hiring manager, and the interviewers. I mean,
- 35:59Speaker 2: it could be five, six people that we're talking about.
- 36:01Speaker 2: And if they're arrogant and they're stuck in fixed mindset,
- 36:04Speaker 2: it's a disaster. If everybody involved can just stay humble
- 36:08Speaker 2: and grounded and curious and try to just learn as
- 36:12Speaker 2: we go. You know, those are my favorite experiences because
- 36:16Speaker 2: people are usually pleasantly surprised. Somehow the candidate is delighted.
- 36:20Speaker 2: The hiring manager is happy. It's hard to teach that.
- 36:25Speaker 2: And I think the only way I kind of try
- 36:27Speaker 2: is just by expressing how important it is and it's worth,
- 36:31Speaker 2: it's worth a shot.
- 36:32Speaker 1: You know, I read your stuff and I came across
- 36:35Speaker 1: one post and I was like, I actually sent my
- 36:40Speaker 1: chief operating officer a letter or an email, and I
- 36:44Speaker 1: just said, hey, can you send me all of our
- 36:46Speaker 1: job ads? Yeah.
- 36:48Speaker 2: Like, what are we posting?
- 36:51Speaker 1: You had pointed out some, like, code language. And I
- 36:54Speaker 1: was like, I wonder how much code language we have
- 36:56Speaker 1: in our job postings where I've got people like Laura
- 36:59Speaker 1: telling people, run from some company that says– about.
- 37:04Speaker 2: Feedback, like asking the people you interview that you have
- 37:07Speaker 2: a good rapport with, like, what'd you think of the ad?
- 37:09Speaker 2: How did it look? And, you know, people are really
- 37:12Speaker 2: happy to tell you when they're an expert in something,
- 37:15Speaker 2: you know, actually my favorite advertisement was this company's I'll
- 37:18Speaker 2: forward it to you so you can get inspired. Or
- 37:20Speaker 2: my favorite interview process was with this company. And this
- 37:22Speaker 2: is why, I mean, that's how I learn. I'm constantly
- 37:24Speaker 2: asking like, what was your favorite? What was it like?
- 37:28Speaker 2: You can't believe how many hiring managers are on their phone.
- 37:30Speaker 2: They're distracted and they don't know they're, Nobody's ever said
- 37:34Speaker 2: to them, just notice if you're texting, like it sounds simple,
- 37:38Speaker 2: but you have to be taught it sometimes. Like this
- 37:41Speaker 2: is important because in that 30 minutes, that person is
- 37:43Speaker 2: judging everything you're doing. And so being super present and
- 37:47Speaker 2: really listening and really engaging matters. So a lot of
- 37:51Speaker 2: times it's like the feedback that I have to give
- 37:53Speaker 2: is subtle. It's not massive stuff, but it's little changes
- 37:56Speaker 2: that are going to make a big impact.
- 37:58Speaker 1: Have you ever, your LinkedIn profile is so good. Thank you.
- 38:04Speaker 1: Have you ever, like, looked at a– did you ever
- 38:06Speaker 1: get a LinkedIn profile, like, from somebody? When I think
- 38:11Speaker 1: about an HR person, I'm like, oh, well, these are
- 38:13Speaker 1: the experts in HR. I mean, they're the experts in
- 38:16Speaker 1: LinkedIn because they spend so much time on it probably.
- 38:21Speaker 1: Have you ever just looked at a LinkedIn profile and went, oh,
- 38:23Speaker 1: my God. Oh, jeez. What was she thinking or what
- 38:25Speaker 1: was he thinking? Like– You know.
- 38:29Speaker 2: The biggest LinkedIn blunder I see?
- 38:31Speaker 1: What is it? I want to know.
- 38:32Speaker 2: It's remarkable. Yeah, this is important. People put their email
- 38:36Speaker 2: address because contact information is listed. They will have their
- 38:39Speaker 2: email address from a job they had six jobs ago.
- 38:43Speaker 2: So if I email them now to be like, are
- 38:46Speaker 2: you looking for.
- 38:46Speaker 1: A new job?
- 38:47Speaker 2: It's going to their old colleague five years ago. And
- 38:51Speaker 2: I think they must be missing so much communication just
- 38:54Speaker 2: by not updating their they're contacted or putting their own
- 38:58Speaker 2: Gmail on it or whatever. Like, why do you have your,
- 39:00Speaker 2: if you're going to put your work info, then it
- 39:02Speaker 2: has to be updated. You just don't update it.
- 39:05Speaker 1: I think that answer is, as I get to know you,
- 39:08Speaker 1: I think that answer is so you, because you're not,
- 39:11Speaker 1: I was like, I'll ask her this question and maybe
- 39:14Speaker 1: she'll have a funny story about maybe something funny. And
- 39:17Speaker 1: you immediately go to, you know, here's what's broken. And
- 39:21Speaker 1: people could talk more and this should be fixed. I
- 39:24Speaker 1: think you're a fixer.
- 39:26Speaker 2: I'm a fixer because you know what it is? I don't, I,
- 39:30Speaker 2: I'm all for humor too. And I love a good story.
- 39:33Speaker 2: And I just, I'm like, let's not shame people for
- 39:36Speaker 2: the mistakes they're making. Let's actually tell them like, okay,
- 39:39Speaker 2: you made a mistake. It's like what I would say
- 39:40Speaker 2: to a kid, like, all right, what are we going
- 39:42Speaker 2: to do differently next time?
- 39:43Speaker 1: Right.
- 39:44Speaker 2: It's like, I, and I tell, and that's all we
- 39:47Speaker 2: can do is keep pointing it out and letting people know.
- 39:50Speaker 2: And I think that these bad hires and these bad
- 39:52Speaker 2: experiences are all opportunities to do it better.
- 39:55Speaker 1: Well, I think that's one part of the show is to, is,
- 39:59Speaker 1: is to, you know, have a little fun around the
- 40:01Speaker 1: bonfire a little bit. Maybe these are our bonfire stories,
- 40:04Speaker 1: but in the end, you know, we all, we all,
- 40:08Speaker 1: you know, we know what makes life tough for, for,
- 40:11Speaker 1: you know, people who live in this space. And, but we,
- 40:15Speaker 1: you know, we all want to be better. We all
- 40:16Speaker 1: want to do a great, we all want to avoid
- 40:18Speaker 1: those things.
- 40:20Speaker 2: And you know what I remind people? Your bad hire
- 40:23Speaker 2: might be somebody else's best hire. I mean, it's a
- 40:27Speaker 2: wild thing. I have worked with candidates and I'm like,
- 40:29Speaker 2: I can't imagine anyone wants to hire this person. But
- 40:31Speaker 2: they land places and they do really well. And there's
- 40:34Speaker 2: just a match for everybody. Back to your dating analogy.
- 40:37Speaker 2: There truly is. It would not work for me. I
- 40:40Speaker 2: could not work with this individual. But believe it or not,
- 40:43Speaker 2: somebody else is thriving.
- 40:45Speaker 1: We had a guy on the show who's got this
- 40:47Speaker 1: little He's got this great production company. He now owns it.
- 40:51Speaker 1: It's growing. And he was telling a bit of his journey, right?
- 40:54Speaker 1: And so he was telling a story about bad hires.
- 40:57Speaker 1: And the story he told was that he was the
- 40:59Speaker 1: bad hire. Yeah. Right? And it was really a great
- 41:05Speaker 1: story about how he wanted this one role so bad
- 41:09Speaker 1: because this was the ego role. This one role was like,
- 41:12Speaker 1: this is the one that you want, right? And so
- 41:15Speaker 1: he was on and on and on about it. And, but,
- 41:20Speaker 1: and he went after it and it just, but it
- 41:22Speaker 1: didn't fit his, it really wasn't what he was great at. Right.
- 41:27Speaker 1: So a mentor gives him the role. He completely smokes
- 41:33Speaker 1: it bad, like just blows it up, crashes, you know,
- 41:37Speaker 1: mentor has to come in behind him, fix it. You know,
- 41:39Speaker 1: they nearly lose a huge client over it. And, you know,
- 41:43Speaker 1: that goes out to dinner and does some coaching with him. Right. And,
- 41:48Speaker 1: But he put him on a path. You know, it
- 41:51Speaker 1: helped define who he was. And I was like, you know,
- 41:53Speaker 1: not every bad hire is a reflection of the person
- 41:56Speaker 1: in terms of who they are. Sometimes it's a reflection
- 42:01Speaker 1: of just an it's just an ill fit. Right. Yeah.
- 42:05Speaker 1: And and it and so some are just terrible, crazy
- 42:09Speaker 1: people have lost their mind kind of stories and others are.
- 42:14Speaker 1: Just a misalignment. And this was a great misalignment story
- 42:16Speaker 1: that just, you know, one as a leader reminded me
- 42:20Speaker 1: that when I find people that I feel like aren't
- 42:23Speaker 1: a fit, you know, I thought they were great. I
- 42:26Speaker 1: hired them because I thought they were great. There was
- 42:28Speaker 1: something there that made me think they're great. Right. And
- 42:33Speaker 1: I want them. And then they don't perform. And so
- 42:37Speaker 1: I often try to take responsibility for that. I'm like,
- 42:39Speaker 1: I did something wrong. I missed something. I had something
- 42:42Speaker 1: not right here. I, you know, either now before in
- 42:44Speaker 1: the selection or now and when it's running, this is,
- 42:48Speaker 1: I own this. And so I just kind of made
- 42:51Speaker 1: a point to say, make sure to coach these people
- 42:53Speaker 1: and mentor these people, you know, as we try to
- 42:56Speaker 1: make a change, even if that's a change to somewhere else,
- 42:58Speaker 1: you know, A hundred percent.
- 43:00Speaker 2: And it goes back to my point about asking the
- 43:02Speaker 2: candidate what they need and want. Like you might fall
- 43:05Speaker 2: in love with a candidate because you think they're going
- 43:08Speaker 2: to be perfect for your team. But if they're not
- 43:10Speaker 2: feeling excited about you as their leader, or for some
- 43:12Speaker 2: reason they picture a different environment that they would thrive in,
- 43:16Speaker 2: it's going to feel off, you know, like, because I
- 43:18Speaker 2: always say there's HR directors who want to work at
- 43:20Speaker 2: big New York investment banks that are super corporate. And
- 43:23Speaker 2: there are HR people that thrive in startups and everything
- 43:26Speaker 2: in between. And I love that part. I think it's good.
- 43:29Speaker 2: that we you know not one is bad or good
- 43:32Speaker 2: or whatever yeah um it's so much you know the
- 43:35Speaker 2: other piece we haven't touched on that we could talk
- 43:37Speaker 2: hours about another time it's just like self-awareness like so
- 43:40Speaker 2: much of all of this is knowing who you are
- 43:42Speaker 2: and admitting it you know we are a corporate investment
- 43:45Speaker 2: bank and we're very boring and stuffy and we follow
- 43:47Speaker 2: a ton of rules okay you'll find the right people
- 43:50Speaker 2: but don't act like you're a startup it's gonna that's
- 43:53Speaker 2: gonna be a problem right Right. You read the.
- 43:57Speaker 1: Startup ads and they're so inspiring. You go, we should
- 43:59Speaker 1: need to sound like that. We need to sound like that.
- 44:01Speaker 1: That's not what it's like to work here, but.
- 44:04Speaker 2: I remember like a decade ago, some company said to me,
- 44:06Speaker 2: we're like the Google of insurance businesses. I'm like, no,
- 44:10Speaker 2: you're not. It's insurance is not thrilling. It might be
- 44:14Speaker 2: a great place to work and very stable, but you know,
- 44:18Speaker 2: a high cutting edge tech company, it is not.
- 44:20Speaker 1: Yeah. So.
- 44:22Speaker 2: Yeah, I think authenticity is so important, and I guess
- 44:25Speaker 2: that goes back to my straight shooting. I just think
- 44:28Speaker 2: own who you are as a candidate, own who you
- 44:29Speaker 2: are as a hiring manager, know your limitations, know your weaknesses,
- 44:33Speaker 2: and then you can kind of tackle it all.
- 44:35Speaker 1: Yeah, I love it.
- 44:36Speaker 2: But the bravado is where everybody gets messed up. They
- 44:40Speaker 2: bring all these, I don't know, obstacles.
- 44:44Speaker 1: Yeah. Where do you live at in New York?
- 44:47Speaker 2: In Manhattan.
- 44:47Speaker 1: You did?
- 44:47Speaker 2: On the east side.
- 44:48Speaker 1: Really?
- 44:49Speaker 2: East side staffing.
- 44:50Speaker 1: All right. Yeah. Where are you? I'm in Charlotte, North Carolina.
- 44:55Speaker 1: Love it. Just north of Charlotte. Little Lake town. Great. Suburb. Good. Yeah.
- 45:03Speaker 1: It's good stuff. What you, you would, uh, you would
- 45:07Speaker 1: love it here. I would. You would. It's very green.
- 45:11Speaker 2: Breaks from city living for sure.
- 45:13Speaker 1: Right. Yeah. It's very green. It's very beautiful. Am I right? Uh, uh,
- 45:19Speaker 1: Nathan was in, uh, You met Nathan. Nathan, he was in,
- 45:25Speaker 1: I guess, close to Silicon Valley in California for a
- 45:31Speaker 1: good bit, five or six years. And so I got
- 45:34Speaker 1: him to move back to the East Coast.
- 45:36Speaker 2: That's smart.
- 45:37Speaker 1: Backwards. Yeah. Yep. Yeah, he was a good hire. He
- 45:41Speaker 1: was a good egg. Laura, that was great. I loved it.
- 45:46Speaker 1: It was great talking to you. See, I know why
- 45:47Speaker 1: you're just so good at this. Thank you. Thank you.
- 45:51Speaker 3: Hey, Laura, we've recorded just a couple of these kind
- 45:54Speaker 3: of like in this format. And what I've been asking,
- 45:56Speaker 3: I guess, in closing, and you've kind of already covered
- 45:59Speaker 3: just throughout our conversation, but just one piece of advice
- 46:04Speaker 3: that you'd give to somebody who's in hiring, whether it's
- 46:07Speaker 3: like to somebody who's like you, who has a very
- 46:10Speaker 3: specific role, or just anybody who's building a team right now,
- 46:13Speaker 3: what would that advice be?
- 46:15Speaker 2: Yeah, notice when you're getting in your own way when
- 46:17Speaker 2: you're hiring. So notice if you're making it harder than
- 46:20Speaker 2: it needs to be, or you're feeling a certain way,
- 46:24Speaker 2: as the kids would say about hiring, just identify what's
- 46:27Speaker 2: going on because you can make it better. You can
- 46:29Speaker 2: learn how to do it better, but you've got to
- 46:31Speaker 2: be willing to kind of catch what might be going wrong.
- 46:35Speaker 2: And there's always room for improvement. There really is.
- 46:39Speaker 1: And I'm going to take your advice and ask. as
- 46:43Speaker 1: we get better at doing this podcast after being on here,
- 46:47Speaker 1: what feedback could you give Nathan and I to say, Hey,
- 46:50Speaker 1: here's how you could do a better job.
- 46:52Speaker 2: No, you guys were amazing. This was really fun. I'm
- 46:55Speaker 2: excited to see kind of what clips you could pull out.
- 46:58Speaker 2: And yeah, I think that it's, you guys have very
- 47:01Speaker 2: much similar personalities to me, which is just nice. There's
- 47:04Speaker 2: just a genuine kindness in your company and your, and
- 47:06Speaker 2: it's just, it shows. And even though it's, there's a
- 47:10Speaker 2: edge to this content. I think it, to your point,
- 47:13Speaker 2: it comes with kindness. It's not meant to be, you.
- 47:17Speaker 1: Know, mean.
- 47:17Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 47:18Speaker 1: It's funny.
- 47:18Speaker 3: Cause some of the, uh, the only, some of the
- 47:21Speaker 3: negative feedback we've gotten is like, Oh, I don't, I
- 47:23Speaker 3: don't want to join in on like, you know, laughing
- 47:25Speaker 3: at people's misfortune that they're fine. And it's like, if
- 47:28Speaker 3: you actually listen to the show, like, no, like, you know,
- 47:31Speaker 3: we've said there's, There's some bad stories.
- 47:33Speaker 1: One of the themes is how bad I love good
- 47:36Speaker 1: stories that have a positive ending.
- 47:39Speaker 2: I know.
- 47:40Speaker 1: I love positive ending stories. So if you're going to
- 47:42Speaker 1: tell me something bad happened, tell me the guy got
- 47:47Speaker 1: a great job and something good happened. I agree.
- 47:51Speaker 2: I think you're doing a good job of that, but
- 47:52Speaker 2: it's important. I think that's important too. It's so funny.
- 47:57Speaker 2: I don't like, I'm not like an Oprah person. But
- 48:00Speaker 2: she came in my TikTok feed just recently, actually. And
- 48:03Speaker 2: she said early on her show, they booked like, I
- 48:06Speaker 2: forget what the story was, but it was like an
- 48:08Speaker 2: awful story. And she felt like it was kind of salacious.
- 48:12Speaker 2: She didn't like the like, she felt gross about it
- 48:14Speaker 2: after like, why did we do this? We brought somebody
- 48:17Speaker 2: on showcasing their negative stuff. So she said to her
- 48:21Speaker 2: producers after, we need to be clear on what our
- 48:23Speaker 2: intention is, because if we're going to bring on people
- 48:25Speaker 2: with very tragic stories, I want to know what our
- 48:28Speaker 2: purpose is. Are we trying to like just put them
- 48:30Speaker 2: on the stage or are we trying to help them?
- 48:32Speaker 2: Are we trying to like, and she said going forward
- 48:35Speaker 2: after that, every time they booked a show, they all
- 48:37Speaker 2: talked about like, here's who's coming on and here's kind
- 48:39Speaker 2: of what our intention is with this thing. And I
- 48:42Speaker 2: thought that was beautiful because it's easy to get sometimes
- 48:46Speaker 2: wrapped up in the gossip, like all of us. And that's,
- 48:49Speaker 2: I think that's what helped me when I started offering
- 48:52Speaker 2: like training and coaching, because it was usually clients just
- 48:54Speaker 2: bitching to me of like, our internal recruiter is terrible.
- 48:57Speaker 2: And I would like, I was used to just going
- 49:02Speaker 2: with that, like kind of that's okay. And that's what
- 49:04Speaker 2: we do. And, and it's, I, something just switched in
- 49:08Speaker 2: me of like, hold on, we can make it better.
- 49:10Speaker 2: We don't have to just like hate them. We can,
- 49:12Speaker 2: So I think that's, as you move forward, just kind
- 49:14Speaker 2: of like, okay, we can talk about how awful the
- 49:16Speaker 2: person was, but what was the lesson or what was the... upside?
- 49:20Speaker 1: So that, yeah. Yeah.
- 49:22Speaker 2: Because also, obviously if someone's mentally ill.
- 49:24Speaker 1: We had one the other day, Laura, that, that I know, Nathan,
- 49:28Speaker 1: I know you know what I'm talking about. Like, it
- 49:31Speaker 1: was like midnight and I was working and I was,
- 49:34Speaker 1: and I scrolled through TikTok and I saw one that
- 49:38Speaker 1: we did. And I saw, cause a lot of times
- 49:41Speaker 1: I don't see the final edited version, you know, the
- 49:43Speaker 1: clip ups, you know, they do all that. And I
- 49:45Speaker 1: just started. And so, and I saw it and there was, it,
- 49:52Speaker 1: it was, the story was about someone who got injured
- 49:55Speaker 1: the first day of work. Right. And made this crazy
- 49:58Speaker 1: decision to like bike 10, 15 miles to the hospital, right.
- 50:04Speaker 1: Instead of calling on one. And I, you know, in
- 50:08Speaker 1: the moment we're talking and you go, yeah, that's crazy.
- 50:12Speaker 1: And you're, and you kind of make fun of it. Right.
- 50:15Speaker 1: You're like, Oh, that's crazy. You know? And I, I
- 50:18Speaker 1: called Nathan or I sent him a text that night
- 50:20Speaker 1: and I said, take that off. Good. Take that tonight.
- 50:23Speaker 1: Like get to it tonight and take it off. Because
- 50:26Speaker 1: I don't feel good about what I said. I don't
- 50:29Speaker 1: want to be seen as somebody.
- 50:30Speaker 2: That's not you. That's not your values.
- 50:31Speaker 1: Yeah, it wasn't. I was like, I feel like I
- 50:34Speaker 1: can have fun about someone who freaked out at a job,
- 50:38Speaker 1: but I'm not going to have fun at the expense
- 50:40Speaker 1: of someone being injured. Like that's not happening. I don't,
- 50:42Speaker 1: I'd have no idea how that got past me in
- 50:44Speaker 1: the moment, but seeing it clipped and put there, I
- 50:48Speaker 1: was like, yeah, that's, that's not me. And I don't,
- 50:51Speaker 1: I don't, I don't want to answer that question, you know?
- 50:53Speaker 2: No, I agree. It's a fine line. I think that–
- 50:57Speaker 2: I think when we hear these horror stories, they're important
- 51:01Speaker 2: to share so people don't feel alone, that they're not
- 51:03Speaker 2: the only one who's had this.
- 51:04Speaker 1: All the reasons.
- 51:05Speaker 2: But then it's like, what are we doing with it?
- 51:07Speaker 2: What are we doing about it?
- 51:08Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 51:09Speaker 2: That's really– I think that if you guys can keep–
- 51:11Speaker 2: and we can keep exploring that together, but I think
- 51:14Speaker 2: it's important that people know, like, it's– there is no shame.
- 51:19Speaker 2: It's like, what can you do better next time? Like
- 51:21Speaker 2: what was the lesson learned? And maybe that's a good
- 51:23Speaker 2: question to start asking, you know, the host too. So
- 51:26Speaker 2: what'd you learn from that? What would you do differently
- 51:28Speaker 2: next time? It is, it is tricky, but yeah, I
- 51:33Speaker 2: find like, even when I'm at those events, like you're saying, Ken,
- 51:35Speaker 2: and that starts happening like lately, I'm like, so what
- 51:38Speaker 2: are we doing about it?
- 51:38Speaker 1: Cause I, well, that's, that's you. You're the fixer.
- 51:43Speaker 2: After a while, it's like, yeah.
- 51:44Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 51:46Speaker 2: I guess I'm the fixer. That makes sense. That is
- 51:48Speaker 2: totally my role, but people need fixing. So I'm happy
- 51:52Speaker 2: to keep helping.
- 51:53Speaker 1: Not necessarily people, but the process you're wondering what's, what's,
- 51:57Speaker 1: why is that happening? You know, it's, it just, it,
- 52:01Speaker 1: it pours from you. This, this system, systems, high level
- 52:06Speaker 1: thinking comes, comes, you know, when talking to you, you
- 52:09Speaker 1: realize that, you're less transactional, more systemic in terms of
- 52:15Speaker 1: how to, you know, and I think you're in a
- 52:17Speaker 1: world where transactions occur and you have to live it.
- 52:21Speaker 1: You live by the transactions, but you've got to find
- 52:24Speaker 1: a way to.
- 52:24Speaker 2: Well, everybody wants an internal recruiting team that's really strategic. Like,
- 52:27Speaker 2: and that's where I'll say it. I'm like, I think
- 52:29Speaker 2: the reason you often go to a headhunter is because
- 52:32Speaker 2: we are more strategic because we just by nature are
- 52:35Speaker 2: looking at things a little bit from the outside.
- 52:37Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
- 52:38Speaker 2: So that's why I have such joy training them because
- 52:40Speaker 2: I'm like, they just don't know how to do this.
- 52:42Speaker 2: They wouldn't know. They're thrown in there and just looking
- 52:45Speaker 2: at resumes all day, but they're not really sure exactly
- 52:47Speaker 2: what they're doing.
- 52:48Speaker 1: Well, this has been awesome. I appreciate you.
- 52:51Speaker 2: Thank you for the time. I'm excited to see the clips.
- 52:53Speaker 2: I'm sure you'll find some stuff. Thanks for digging through it, Nathan.
- 52:56Speaker 2: That's your job.
- 52:57Speaker 1: Yeah, for sure.
- 52:59Speaker 3: And we'll keep you in the loop on all of it.
- 53:01Speaker 1: We'll let you know when everything's up.
- 53:02Speaker 3: Yeah, we'll definitely stay in touch.
- 53:04Speaker 2: Let's keep talking.
- 53:05Speaker 1: Sounds good. See you later.
- 53:06Speaker 2: Thanks for your time, guys. Talk to you soon.