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The Twot Seat: Guerdy Abraira (RHOM) · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: To Teas and a Pod with Teddy Mellencamp and camera judge.
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  Speaker 2: Hi, guys, welcome to another episode of Two Teas and Pod.
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  Speaker 2: Tam is not with me today. So I have a
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  Speaker 2: very special guest. I've got Gertie, who came in from Miami.
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  Speaker 2: Hey girl, Hey, okay, we reunited, honey, reunited. Before we
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  Speaker 2: even get started with the pod, I wanted, I got
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  Speaker 2: a very very up to date d m from the
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  Speaker 2: cruise line from away.
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  Speaker 3: From the cruising itself. Are you serious? No, from a
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  Speaker 3: sand like celebrity cruises and everything. What happened? Girls, talk
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  Speaker 3: to me.
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  Speaker 2: I worked for the cruise line. This was on a
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  Speaker 2: sailing with media and VIPs. If Julia simply said, hey,
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  Speaker 2: this is the person and we need to make room
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  Speaker 2: for her, they would have done it. It didn't have
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  Speaker 2: to be that deep.
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  Speaker 3: Are you serious, It's been verified.
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  Speaker 2: It's been verified.
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  Speaker 3: Mike drop, Mike drop.
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  Speaker 1: Wait, Doria says, clip clip, clip clip?
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  Speaker 3: I did. Can I have that person come to their
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  Speaker 3: reunion too?
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  Speaker 2: I know? Well, so I have to say I was
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  Speaker 2: a little bit because of the way that the event
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  Speaker 2: was kind of played out. I was like, I was
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  Speaker 2: kind of like, why is she doing it this set
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  Speaker 2: at this cancer event. I didn't understand. Oh okay, God,
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  Speaker 2: so can you explain that a little bit? And then
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  Speaker 2: we're going to.
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  Speaker 1: We're going back to just the event itself and why
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  Speaker 1: did it there?
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  Speaker 2: Or yeah, well just explaining it to me because I
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  Speaker 2: think a lot of us watching this is a cancer Okay,
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  Speaker 2: why is she doing it?
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  Speaker 3: Teddy?
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  Speaker 1: You know I would never ever use cancer as the
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  Speaker 1: playing field to do this with these girls. Number one,
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  Speaker 1: based on what they did to me or what happened
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  Speaker 1: to me at the wedding chaos. Do you think that
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  Speaker 1: some of these girls would even be at my My
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  Speaker 1: My cancer charity event?
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  Speaker 3: Probably not.
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  Speaker 1: This was a magazine cover party hosted by the Nott magazine,
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  Speaker 1: and I wish it would assume that that's an edited
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  Speaker 1: shot wider so you could see the heavily branded the
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  Speaker 1: not magazine them Teddy. When I tell you you look
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  Speaker 1: on the floor though not the napkins then not. They
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  Speaker 1: wanted to make sure they thought.
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  Speaker 2: They were Heather, Yes, honeywing it.
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  Speaker 3: It was everywhere.
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  Speaker 1: When you look at the screen, it's so zoomed into
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  Speaker 1: the pink, pink, pink, And it was very interesting, is
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  Speaker 1: what I'm saying. Secondly, it was me giving a speech
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  Speaker 1: because the magazine issue was speaking about celebrating the pursuit
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  Speaker 1: of life, of happiness and the whole thing. So my
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  Speaker 1: speech reflected my own testimony, which we'll have to see
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  Speaker 1: word in it.
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  Speaker 3: Cancer cancer, cancer cancer. That's part one.
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  Speaker 1: Part two is that I had two of thirty people there,
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  Speaker 1: thirty of my closest friends. There was no patrons donating
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  Speaker 1: to attend the event, strangers out there. No thirty of
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  Speaker 1: my rather dies live in Miami, two of them.
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  Speaker 2: So all the guests were yours, like true guests. It
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  Speaker 2: wasn't like it wasn't like the cancer evant. We saw
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  Speaker 2: each other at No.
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  Speaker 3: I was kidding and I'm like, what if I would
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  Speaker 3: never ever?
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  Speaker 1: And that's the spin, And this is how dangerous it
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  Speaker 1: could be when it's like, oh, she did it at
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  Speaker 1: the cancer event.
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  Speaker 2: Very dangerous girls are doing that.
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  Speaker 1: Of course they are, and I will see them at
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  Speaker 1: the reunion because that is disgusting and that is my
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  Speaker 1: name on the line.
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  Speaker 3: So we're gonna have to discuss that.
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  Speaker 1: Nevertheless, remember they can't read, okay, so you know, we
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  Speaker 1: got to work on that. Secondly, out of the thirty guests,
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  Speaker 1: two of my really good friends were our survivors too too,
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  Speaker 1: and of course they're gonna come to the event. One
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  Speaker 1: of them has a charity called Survive Her. Okay, at
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  Speaker 1: the event, I'm part of a group called Support your Girlfriends,
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  Speaker 1: where we actually support your girlfriends, and we had money.
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  Speaker 3: We have ten thousand dollars.
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  Speaker 1: And then the head of the organization, she goes, let's
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  Speaker 1: do a presentation of the check to survive her. So
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  Speaker 1: no one survivor paid. This was not an organization for survivor.
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  Speaker 1: Survivor is one person that came to the event, and
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  Speaker 1: she's my friend. We said, let's do a check presentation
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  Speaker 1: for survivor and that was it. The way that it
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  Speaker 1: looked was here's a charity. Oh yeah, oh look at
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  Speaker 1: you cancer survivors.
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  Speaker 3: It was unbelievable.
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  Speaker 1: And last and last and not least, Martina was not
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  Speaker 1: even invited to my party. You see me invite the
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  Speaker 1: girls at the LGBTQ event, which she was missing too.
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  Speaker 1: Write she was not there. I don't know why, but
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  Speaker 1: she was not there at that supporting. I had the caution,
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  Speaker 1: so she was not there supporting the cause. And she
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  Speaker 1: inserted herself to say, well, thank god, I wasn't there,
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  Speaker 1: because you know, how could she do that to the
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  Speaker 1: survivors who me and my two friends out of the
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  Speaker 1: thirty people girl.
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  Speaker 3: By so the spin is real.
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  Speaker 2: And at the reunion, let's gonna say one thing, how
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  Speaker 2: could she do that to all the mothers?
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  Speaker 3: Oh?
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  Speaker 2: Right? Well they I mean, like, I go, how could
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  Speaker 2: any like? And that's why I wanted to give you
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  Speaker 2: the like, that's what I wanted to talk to you
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  Speaker 2: about it, because yeah, people make mistakes or people because
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  Speaker 2: the way they made it look on the boat when
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  Speaker 2: you were talking about it was you were like, no,
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  Speaker 2: I stand by exactly what I did, but I didn't
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  Speaker 2: give this back information. Yes, So then I was like, well,
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  Speaker 2: I'm still annoyed at Gertie.
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  Speaker 1: And and by the way, even in the context of
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  Speaker 1: what it was, yes, because my testimony was really heart
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  Speaker 1: wrenching and it was really sweet, and I would and
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  Speaker 1: my event, I'm a party planner. For me, there's always
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  Speaker 1: a party and then there's always an after party. So
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  Speaker 1: my event had a program and then after the program
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  Speaker 1: there's the dancing part. So I did what I did
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  Speaker 1: right before, introducing the band for the dancing part. So
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  Speaker 1: the first part part of my event was already whole, and.
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  Speaker 2: My business part was yes, and I.
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  Speaker 1: Didn't even plan to do it Whenever that time, when
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  Speaker 1: I went back and finished the programming and Russell was leaving,
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  Speaker 1: and he's telling me what she was saying, still playing victim,
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  Speaker 1: still bringing it up. When I told her, bitch, this
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  Speaker 1: is between you and me and you my party.
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  Speaker 2: And she even said this is between she wanted that testing.
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  Speaker 1: But she's talking to my husband, bringing down the mood
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  Speaker 1: of my party, bringing the.
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  Speaker 2: Topic he carrying sneakers, dirty one.
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  Speaker 3: I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 1: I just when i'm nice until i'm not teddy, And
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  Speaker 1: I'm telling you my kindness in this group has been
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  Speaker 1: taken for weakness, clearly me getting on this day.
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  Speaker 2: Can we read this? Can we read this? A little
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  Speaker 2: bit about this cruise? Okay, okay, you be you and
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  Speaker 2: I'll be Julia.
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  Speaker 3: Okay, we're doing role player. Okay, okay, who's first?
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  Speaker 2: Me?
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  Speaker 3: Hi, baby, You're good.
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  Speaker 1: They don't have me at the dinner reservation where they
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  Speaker 1: swung me out, So I'm trying to figure things out.
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  Speaker 1: Not sure why they said because this is her not
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  Speaker 1: after a lot of minutes. Not sure why they separated
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  Speaker 1: us since I came only for you anyway, I'll figure
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  Speaker 1: it out.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, just getting back to my room. It's Blank's party
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  Speaker 2: and I had no control over the list. I guess
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  Speaker 2: changes were made when Blank canceled. I'm sorry. Are you
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  Speaker 2: all taken care of question mark?
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  Speaker 1: Blank is Martina and this is Sendy's party, all right?
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  Speaker 1: To be honest, I'm a little taken aback that I
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  Speaker 1: was moved to the site for this exclusive. If I'm
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  Speaker 1: supposed to come in as your replacement, as Martinez replacement,
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  Speaker 1: I should have been extended the invitation as a courtesy,
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  Speaker 1: especially when I'm leaving my kids and husband at home
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  Speaker 1: as your guest. I'm sure you had no control over it,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm also sure that Blank, Alexis Blino's publicist wanted
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  Speaker 1: to make this experience exclusive just for you since I'm
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  Speaker 1: not his client. But nevertheless, this is a little rude
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  Speaker 1: considering I was just trying to be supportive as a
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  Speaker 1: friend to you. I was not even on the reservation
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  Speaker 1: for the restaurant that you guys put me at. They're
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  Speaker 1: squeezing me in and I'll be okay, but know that
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  Speaker 1: I will never let anyone do that to my friends
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  Speaker 1: who show.
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  Speaker 3: Up for me.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, so I would now hearing this her, let's do
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  Speaker 2: her response first. Her response is, I don't coordinate dinner reservations.
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  Speaker 2: All I'm thinking about this weekend is Blank's condition condition.
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  Speaker 2: I thought you wanted to be here and would have
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  Speaker 2: enjoyed being here. Otherwise I would have never suggested you
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  Speaker 2: join me and leave your kids with Russell. I'm sorry
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  Speaker 2: you're upset. This is a work weekend and it wasn't
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  Speaker 2: done on purpose or to offend your clarification.
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  Speaker 1: The letter that all of us on the cast received
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  Speaker 1: because of you know, if half of us when half
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  Speaker 1: of us didn't the work translation content for cruising paper barter,
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  Speaker 1: it's a bartered not not paid anything in exchange. You
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  Speaker 1: don't want amazing two bedroom suite, You go coasting and
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  Speaker 1: then just post content.
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  Speaker 3: Girl. So now we're turning.
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  Speaker 2: It in and now content would have been better if
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  Speaker 2: you were in it. I love you, know what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe that's why, Maybe that's why I wasn't invite That
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  Speaker 1: was that, Maybe that was.
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  Speaker 2: That's why she didn't want to take the attention.
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  Speaker 1: Maybe that's why I was invited to the cruise for
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  Speaker 1: the content part and then the VIP part.
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  Speaker 3: No gurdy, no access.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, I think that you're proving that Julia wanted
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  Speaker 2: you there, but she wanted you to beg to be there.
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  Speaker 1: Well, no, she wanted me as a seat filler. So
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  Speaker 1: it's kind of like, oh, you're fun here, let's do
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  Speaker 1: the spot thing. But then now I need to go
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  Speaker 1: to VIP but I'll see you later at the bar.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, So I have a so why we're on her,
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  Speaker 2: we may as well just keep on her.
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  Speaker 3: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Do you think that Julia is trying to ic you
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  Speaker 2: out or some of the women are trying to ic
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  Speaker 2: you out? Or do you think she's just obsessed with
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  Speaker 2: being with the cool The cool girl are cool.
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  Speaker 1: Girls and they're gonna be cool Girlsdriana is a freaking riot.
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  Speaker 2: Oh my god, she was a one.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's multifaceted, and I think we'll get to
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  Speaker 1: the bottom of that at the reunion. But I think
• 9:12
  Speaker 1: Julia gets fixated on new, shiny objects, and I think
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  Speaker 1: that it's a repeat offense that she keeps doing, you know,
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  Speaker 1: like she's friends with you and then she finds something
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  Speaker 1: else and then she goes there. This is a nine
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  Speaker 1: time engage woman. So that's gonna tell you a lot
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  Speaker 1: about the pattern.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean that makes sense. Yeah, but I think
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  Speaker 2: do you think that Julia's relationship with Adriana is now
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  Speaker 2: flawed forever?
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  Speaker 1: I mean, it doesn't nonexistent right now, and so you'll
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  Speaker 1: have to keep watching to see how it becomes this extinct.
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  Speaker 2: Talking about this season, what is your opinion on Stephanie.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I love Stephanie.
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  Speaker 1: Stephanie came hard, strong, to the point no bullshit. Now
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  Speaker 1: initially you're kind of like taking it back because it's
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  Speaker 1: about some money, harsh around the edges, right, You're kind
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  Speaker 1: of like, wait, whoa come down Burke, you know what
• 10:03
  Speaker 1: you know? And I, by the way, didn't even meet
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  Speaker 1: her till a little bit later on.
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  Speaker 3: I think I can't remember. So she's coming in.
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  Speaker 1: And she sees my party and she sees what is happening,
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  Speaker 1: and these girls are like cancer survivor charity party, fundraiser,
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  Speaker 1: and she's kind of like, oh my god, this is horrible.
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  Speaker 1: And that's how I meet Stephanie with their spin on bus.
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  Speaker 1: So then of course she meets me and she's like, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: this is not what they said. You were like, okay
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  Speaker 1: the spin and then uh, there's things that happen when
• 10:29
  Speaker 1: we go to Sevilla in Spain where she starts to
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  Speaker 1: see some people for not what they pretend to be
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  Speaker 1: before what they really are.
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  Speaker 3: And trust me, it gets quite spicy in Spain.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah. Well, I'm excited for that. What are your thoughts
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  Speaker 2: on when you're when you guys were all on the
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  Speaker 2: yacht and you were separated. I don't want I personally
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  Speaker 2: don't like that.
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  Speaker 3: I liked it actually, to be honest, because I gotta break.
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  Speaker 3: I gotta break.
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  Speaker 1: It's a lot, it's a lot of personalities, you know.
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  Speaker 2: So, yeah, that's true.
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  Speaker 3: And I was and I was out of town.
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  Speaker 1: I was going to speak engagement on for the Lynn
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  Speaker 1: Sage Foundation in on Chicago.
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  Speaker 3: So that's the cancer, you know. Yeah, So I came back.
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  Speaker 3: I was like walking in, honey, anybody gonna phase me?
• 11:08
  Speaker 3: And what you got? Who's got a question?
• 11:11
  Speaker 2: How badly do you want doctor nicullback?
• 11:14
  Speaker 1: I what was good for her? And I'm not too sure.
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  Speaker 1: I'm not too sure if that's her coming back. So
• 11:18
  Speaker 1: you know her saying TBD, it's like she's got conditions,
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  Speaker 1: is what I'll say.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she played it. I liked your scene because you
• 11:25
  Speaker 2: could tell you were real girlfriends catching up and like
• 11:29
  Speaker 2: sometimes it's a little bit like, oh, you know, you're
• 11:31
  Speaker 2: gonna gossip all over the place. And then you called
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  Speaker 2: Stephanie and I thought they both handled it well, of.
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  Speaker 3: Course, but why not.
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  Speaker 1: See if you're a woman that's not that's not insecure,
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  Speaker 1: that has your crap together, and that really is supporting
• 11:43
  Speaker 1: other women, why not you dated the same man twenty
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  Speaker 1: years apart? Why not you have so much in common?
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, you know what, you need to
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  Speaker 1: meet Stephanie and that's how I roll.
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  Speaker 2: And they did it well and it made me like
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  Speaker 2: them both. The only thing I'm not loving about Stephanie
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  Speaker 2: is the money stuff. It's too much.
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  Speaker 1: It's a tense it's intense, and actually, when you see
• 12:02
  Speaker 1: one of the upcoming episodes in Sevilla, you'll see like
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  Speaker 1: how amazingly extreme, Like if you can get it, if
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  Speaker 1: you have it like that, then.
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  Speaker 3: That's good for you.
• 12:12
  Speaker 1: There's a big surprise for her and it's and it's like, what,
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  Speaker 1: it's Unbelievable's unbelievable.
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  Speaker 2: And how long have those two been together?
• 12:20
  Speaker 1: Her was sup for a long time, I believe a
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  Speaker 1: long time, over maybe ten years.
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  Speaker 2: I think because we were trying to figure out because
• 12:25
  Speaker 2: we just saw the house on the recent episodes and
• 12:28
  Speaker 2: they said they needed to wait until the divorce was
• 12:30
  Speaker 2: final on the blah blah blah. There's been all these
• 12:32
  Speaker 2: rumblings and so I'm really trying to dissect it because
• 12:35
  Speaker 2: you know, I have so much time on my hands.
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  Speaker 3: We do. We all do at some point in time
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  Speaker 3: the day.
• 12:41
  Speaker 2: Oh my gosh, in regards to you and Julia's tension,
• 12:56
  Speaker 2: do you think that there's room for resolution?
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  Speaker 3: Oh? Good times are coming because you know.
• 13:02
  Speaker 2: Something, so we're gonna see cease.
• 13:05
  Speaker 1: Yeah, something happens next episode that shifts my thinking. And
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  Speaker 1: if you see me walking into every single group event,
• 13:15
  Speaker 1: I always walk in with a smile. When Julia walks into,
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  Speaker 1: for example, my event, it's like Debbie down or like
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  Speaker 1: I'm here to ruin the event and I'm gonna talk
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  Speaker 1: to your husband and tell him. Were still are trying
• 13:26
  Speaker 1: to figure it out, Like it's like, what are you doing?
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  Speaker 1: So you see the opposite vibes. I'm on a high
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  Speaker 1: vibration and I don't know what vibration she's on. Nobody
• 13:34
  Speaker 1: knows what level she's on. But the fact is is
• 13:36
  Speaker 1: that I try and put my best foot forward, and
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  Speaker 1: finally it gets to a.
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  Speaker 3: Point where we're like, okay, we're neutral and let's see
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  Speaker 3: what you know.
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  Speaker 2: She she's yeah, yeah, I mean look at those ravies.
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  Speaker 2: You know.
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  Speaker 3: It's it's hard to watch these scenes back.
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  Speaker 1: It's to watch this this this show back because you know,
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  Speaker 1: I think we were good for a while and then
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  Speaker 1: something happens and then it's like, okay, this is again,
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  Speaker 1: we're going backwards, you know. So the reunion is going
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  Speaker 1: to be on and popping because did you see last
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  Speaker 1: night whatever that was? Did you see that last night?
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  Speaker 1: Watch what happens?
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  Speaker 3: I heard?
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  Speaker 2: I did. I wanted to talk to you about.
• 14:19
  Speaker 1: The well, I still I'm flabbergasted at how she's apologizing
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  Speaker 1: only for the water throwing assault and not the lies.
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  Speaker 1: That's what's blowing my mind. And so that tells me
• 14:40
  Speaker 1: that this person has not learned a single thing, is
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  Speaker 1: not really apologetic, and it's because of the backlash that
• 14:46
  Speaker 1: she's doing this about the water splashing in my face
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  Speaker 1: that she threw only.
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  Speaker 2: And you can't see water splashing. Water splashing is like
• 14:53
  Speaker 2: if you're on a boat and all of a sudden,
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  Speaker 2: water splashes.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, Isaac Mizrahi, if you're listening, I am di disgusted, disgusted, unacceptable,
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  Speaker 1: and this is not for entertainment. Okay, I was degraded
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  Speaker 1: on national television, humiliated and how dare you?
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  Speaker 2: And she sat there and just.
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  Speaker 1: Grinned, because if I was really sorry, I was gonna say,
• 15:18
  Speaker 1: you know what, I'm so sorry.
• 15:19
  Speaker 3: This is not right.
• 15:20
  Speaker 1: I've really mean I'm sorry, and I don't need you
• 15:22
  Speaker 1: to hype me up on this disgusting.
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: There was absolutely no reason it needed to get to
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: that point. And if she did do it, and it
• 15:31
  Speaker 2: was a reflex, like she's trying to claim, why not
• 15:34
  Speaker 2: say I'm really sorry?
• 15:37
  Speaker 1: Is a third physical offender? Okay, let's go back to Bahamas.
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: She tried to pour an entire eyes bucket on Marisol
• 15:47
  Speaker 1: and we helped make that not happen. And there's another
• 15:51
  Speaker 1: situation that was not aired, Okay, that was actually interesting
• 15:54
  Speaker 1: as well. So we will discuss this at the reunion
• 15:56
  Speaker 1: because the sweet voice is gonna only take you so far,
• 15:59
  Speaker 1: and when you have repeat offenses, we're going to have
• 16:02
  Speaker 1: to talk about it.
• 16:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think you know. When she was on Watch
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: It Happen's Life, she says it hasn't been it.
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: I don't want to hear it. I don't want to
• 16:10
  Speaker 3: hear I don't want to hear any of that.
• 16:11
  Speaker 2: I don't want to hear it. Well, it's pretty much
• 16:14
  Speaker 2: it's you know, you don't have to hear it. Everybody
• 16:17
  Speaker 2: heard it. But I feel like it's her way of
• 16:22
  Speaker 2: just once again trying like, I don't think that apology
• 16:26
  Speaker 2: was for you.
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: It wasn't.
• 16:27
  Speaker 2: I think it was for the people.
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: Nasty, absolutely, of course. Yeah.
• 16:32
  Speaker 2: Has she reached out or anything, of course not, of
• 16:35
  Speaker 2: course not.
• 16:36
  Speaker 3: No.
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: The last thing that I've heard her say is Gertie
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: used to stay as far away as possible. That was
• 16:41
  Speaker 1: the last thing I've heard, and then this apology months later,
• 16:44
  Speaker 1: So please spare me.
• 16:46
  Speaker 2: And do you think the girls are a little too
• 16:48
  Speaker 2: hard on Adriana or do you think that she brings
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: it all on herself.
• 16:55
  Speaker 3: With Adriana?
• 16:55
  Speaker 1: I mean this tick for tat with them, and they
• 16:58
  Speaker 1: have a long history, so you know, I mean, and
• 17:00
  Speaker 1: you see that they're like playing, but then they're they're smiling,
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: and then they're hugging. So it's a lot of back history.
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: That's why we hardly get involved and would let them play.
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: Would you've been upset about the Sagginese comment? No, I
• 17:10
  Speaker 2: mean I kind of would have laughed at it.
• 17:12
  Speaker 3: I have, but you know, you do, I do.
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: That's why that's why I have my jeans.
• 17:18
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: But you know who they don't keep accountable, you know,
• 17:21
  Speaker 1: is Julia for example? What what what should have happened
• 17:23
  Speaker 1: after that number one? She should have been escorted outside
• 17:26
  Speaker 1: the wedding.
• 17:26
  Speaker 3: No, she stayed. She got consoled by Larsa, and she
• 17:28
  Speaker 3: stayed there and cut the cake.
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: Like nothing happened, like nothing. And I you know, do
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: you know what it took for me to stay there?
• 17:35
  Speaker 1: I said to myself, No, I worked.
• 17:38
  Speaker 2: How did you do that?
• 17:38
  Speaker 3: You know, I don't know how I did it.
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: I just said to myself, I'm gonna stay there to
• 17:42
  Speaker 1: see what they do after I leave, so I can
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: witness what they do. And when I saw that, it
• 17:47
  Speaker 1: was kind of like, okay, oh you gotta don't worry,
• 17:50
  Speaker 1: just stop stopping, okay, cutting the cake. I saw her
• 17:53
  Speaker 1: give flowers to Marisol, Marisol hugging her, laughing, turned around
• 17:56
  Speaker 1: and cut the cake. So this is why this is
• 18:00
  Speaker 1: really not just for play and for entertainment. This is
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: really interesting and it's on my back.
• 18:07
  Speaker 3: This was at my expense.
• 18:09
  Speaker 2: It was done to me, and I think as viewers,
• 18:13
  Speaker 2: it's hard for us, Like, while we're watching it, we're
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: looking at it as two separate instances when it's all
• 18:20
  Speaker 2: the same thing wrapped into one, and no, wonder you're
• 18:23
  Speaker 2: so hurt. Not only did she not fight for Like,
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: if I invited a friend somewhere with me, it doesn't
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: matter if it's a paid post or what it is,
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, hey, no, this is who I came.
• 18:34
  Speaker 1: With as a replacement to your wife, and that you
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: got me on the cruise because of your wife, that
• 18:39
  Speaker 1: you're getting gleamed for to get on the cruise to
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: leave your wife. But then you say you're thinking about
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: your wife well on the cruise for content, And then
• 18:47
  Speaker 1: you say I'm thirsty and I'm the opportunities and I'm
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: psycho scary. Everything that she said to me, I'm looking
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: at her and I'm like, you really need a mirror
• 18:54
  Speaker 1: because the lies are so extreme, and it is about
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: it's not even about the cruise, Teddy, It's about.
• 19:02
  Speaker 2: The the from the lack of respect in your friendship.
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: No, the cruise was used as a tool to paint
• 19:08
  Speaker 1: me as something that she wanted them to see me out.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: She wanted you to be high maintenance, over the top.
• 19:14
  Speaker 2: It's too much. I couldn't deal. But this is the
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: person you chose to invite, so then take care of her.
• 19:21
  Speaker 3: Why did she call it Riana her best friend?
• 19:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's what I don't understand.
• 19:26
  Speaker 3: I even asked her. You'll see what she responded. I'll
• 19:28
  Speaker 3: talk to you about the reunion. Why didn't you call
• 19:31
  Speaker 3: it Guiana? First?
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: If I'm not your friend and you don't know me
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: like that, and all of a sudden, I'm a piece
• 19:35
  Speaker 1: of shit.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: But knowing like that. And also if for some reason,
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: somebody on that cruise line, which we already confirmed it
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: isn't the case, but.
• 19:42
  Speaker 3: Need I need that tea? Yeah, I'll give that to you.
• 19:45
  Speaker 2: But if somebody on that cruise line said, you know,
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: we don't want Gerty there she wasn't, then that's for
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: Julia should at least have the balls to come to
• 19:54
  Speaker 2: you and say, hey, I'm sorry, I tried. They're telling
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: me no, So where do you want to go now?
• 20:01
  Speaker 3: Yes?
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: And at the end of the day, like, let's go
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: together at.
• 20:04
  Speaker 3: The end of the day.
• 20:05
  Speaker 1: And again, let me remind everybody the cruise happened in
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: twenty twenty three. Yeah, okay, And at the end of
• 20:14
  Speaker 1: the day, Julia decided to bring it up now because
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: Julia has such, I guess an ego that she didn't
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: like the way I had something to say about it.
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: She didn't want to be called out, and so it
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: was kind of like, how dare you talk to me now?
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: Is you were my cruise? You were in my bed,
• 20:30
  Speaker 1: that's the spin on that. And I'm like, wait, you
• 20:33
  Speaker 1: literally called me. Russell's mom was like, is Martinez we
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: thought we thought the way that she sounded on the
• 20:38
  Speaker 1: phone that it was back.
• 20:40
  Speaker 3: That's how bad he was. Why would I get back
• 20:43
  Speaker 3: on the cruise. I'm like, oh, she'll be fine.
• 20:44
  Speaker 1: She didn't even want to tell me why. She said, please,
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: I'll tell you on the cruise. I can't talk now.
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: I'm getting she didn't want you to talk her out
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: of going. She was inappropriate.
• 20:53
  Speaker 3: She didn't want she didn't want me to say no.
• 20:56
  Speaker 1: She wanted to sound like there was something to hear
• 20:59
  Speaker 1: that was so here that to get me to get
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: on the cruise.
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: It's a manipulation.
• 21:03
  Speaker 1: And so I leave my house, I get on this cruise.
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: I'm there for you. And then I'm like, shu, sure
• 21:07
  Speaker 1: you know if there we get a reservation for you,
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: we'll be We'll see you at the Martin barlater, okay,
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: see yeah. And then I'm like alone, no reservation, I'm
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: by myself. Jen Fester was on the ship. Eventually she
• 21:17
  Speaker 1: comes to me later on, but she has her own thing.
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: She wasn't supposed to be babysitting me. I'm here alone
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: for you, and you can't pull a chair, and I'm like,
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: what can I sit on the chair that was meant
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: for Martina?
• 21:27
  Speaker 3: It didn't make sense to my friend.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: Felt I just and she would have.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Never done it. She would have never done it to Larsa.
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: She would have never done it to Alexia. Those are
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: facts she would have never Alexi would have parasceled her
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: ass out of that. For them to not have even said, Julia,
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: they didn't want to hear the story.
• 21:46
  Speaker 3: They didn't want to hear the story.
• 21:47
  Speaker 2: So that's the thing. I never heard the story. I
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: didn't feel like I got the full story, so I
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: wasn't able to take it in and really understand. But
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: now that I hear that, if I think, if me
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: and Taram are going to do something and I was
• 22:01
  Speaker 2: with you, and I asked her to go with me.
• 22:03
  Speaker 2: I would never in one million years, ditcher.
• 22:05
  Speaker 3: Who raised you? If you do that? Like who raised you?
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: Yeah? And if it was, If it was I get
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: paid this extra amount to attend this portion of the event,
• 22:15
  Speaker 2: I would have said to her, do you want to go?
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: It's really a paid thing for me, like you don't
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: have to.
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: Well, the itinerary that they sent to me, because I'm
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: very organized, you know, have a powerty planner. Before I packed,
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: I said, well, send me the itinerary so I can
• 22:25
  Speaker 1: see what to pack. And that VIP dinner was not
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: on my itinerary, but it sure wasn't hers. So you
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: understand there's lots of details that you're not going to
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: be able to walk back.
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: Honey, Okay, did she ask anyone else before you? Do
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: you think I asked?
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: I asked her to ask somebody else, Adriana. I said,
• 22:42
  Speaker 1: why don't you ask Adriana? I asked her. Yes, there's
• 22:46
  Speaker 1: lots of layers to this, and I don't I don't
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: want to even get into the semantics of it, because
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: at this point it's about the theme of the fact
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: that it's shitty behavior, you.
• 22:55
  Speaker 2: Know, but fans overall are unhappy with the way you've
• 22:58
  Speaker 2: been treated this season.
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: I didn't even ask Teddy when I tell you, you
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: know what, I just finished recovery.
• 23:05
  Speaker 3: I have two surgeries, you know, construct reconstructing surgeries.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: I was coming into this season like, oh, I'm getting
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: my groove and we're gonna have so much fun. I
• 23:13
  Speaker 1: don't have to worry about this sea thing anymore. I'm
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: doing my thing. I walk into this mess the biggest disappointment.
• 23:20
  Speaker 1: I was like, I cannot believe I'm in this mess.
• 23:23
  Speaker 1: I'm getting water thrown in my face, and I'm thinking
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna have my girls backing me up, and like
• 23:27
  Speaker 1: just being like Gertie, we got you, where do you
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: want to go and celebrate you? And I got the
• 23:31
  Speaker 1: complete opposite for no reason. So I'm like, wow, like
• 23:35
  Speaker 1: this this was really hurtful.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: Do you think it's because they were all being selfish
• 23:39
  Speaker 2: or do you think that it was intentional to hurt you.
• 23:43
  Speaker 1: I think it's a little bit of everything. I think
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: it's a little bit of everything. And I'm sorry that
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: I got attention last year for you know, having cancer.
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: It's not always the best attention, Like it's really hard,
• 24:07
  Speaker 2: So how how are you feeling? Like watching you and
• 24:10
  Speaker 2: watching your story has given me a lot of like
• 24:13
  Speaker 2: even when you were talking about physically feeling different, I
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: was like, oh my gosh, I don't feel alone anymore,
• 24:18
  Speaker 2: because I was wondering, like it sounds so silly, but
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: I was like, oh, I can't get botox, and well
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: because I well no, because I still haven't. Oh so
• 24:29
  Speaker 2: they were like, you got to wait a little bit.
• 24:32
  Speaker 2: Oh and because it can, like I guess, get into
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: your system a lot more like botox, Fieller and all
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: that kind of stuff. But I remember a moment of
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: being like feeling so like insecure, like well, I can
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: see my eyebrows lifting, I can see this, And so
• 24:48
  Speaker 2: when you were talking about that, I really felt it.
• 24:51
  Speaker 1: It's just a lot, and I, like, Russell can only
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: take so much and I feel like I only have
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: like a couple of people that can really go deep
• 24:58
  Speaker 1: into those layers in and I don't want to the
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: people with this crap. So you're on a show to
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: share your life, and you have other people who are
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: on this show to share their lives. You think you
• 25:07
  Speaker 1: can intermingle all those things, and I do talk with
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: someone and when I realized that they're not even listening
• 25:13
  Speaker 1: to the basics of like how's how's it going? And
• 25:16
  Speaker 1: I start talking and then I get interrupted, Like it's
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: just you'll see what got me to the point of
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: like I'm like, I'm just gonna do it right now,
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: Like I was just over I was up to here.
• 25:25
  Speaker 1: I'm like, they don't listen, they don't want to listen,
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: they don't care. Just all the feelings of like feeling
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: so like low and I'm like, I'm like, they don't
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: care about me, so so if the system is rigged,
• 25:36
  Speaker 1: blowing blow this spot. That was That was why I
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: was like, I'm doing it now. When they go low,
• 25:41
  Speaker 1: you go high. Well sometimes when they.
• 25:42
  Speaker 3: Go lower, you go lower.
• 25:43
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: I'm the one who literally is go Bama, Yeah, Hi,
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: go hi Laura. Time this time, I'm not going to
• 25:50
  Speaker 1: the pizza hill.
• 25:53
  Speaker 3: Shit. Oh you're not my best moment, but you know
• 25:56
  Speaker 3: what it happens.
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, how are you? How are you overall feeling? Like
• 26:02
  Speaker 2: just remind just some of our listeners what kind of
• 26:05
  Speaker 2: treatments you ended up having to go through and how
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: long you've.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: Been so there is a thing called cancer brain because
• 26:11
  Speaker 1: I looked at the confessional that I did and I said,
• 26:13
  Speaker 1: I have five chemo surgery, five chemo treatment.
• 26:15
  Speaker 3: I only have four. And I'm like, what did I say? Five?
• 26:17
  Speaker 3: Four chemo brain?
• 26:19
  Speaker 2: I have it too, but I don't have chemo, so
• 26:21
  Speaker 2: maybe it's yeah, it's a cancer a little Did you
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: have a little shakes?
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: Did you have a little I had a little bit
• 26:27
  Speaker 1: of everything. We shake, drop and roll. Okay, it was
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: a little bit of everything.
• 26:31
  Speaker 3: But what was the question? Yeah, I came. So I
• 26:35
  Speaker 3: had four chemo treatments, twenty radiations. Now now it's.
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: Actually up to nine surgeries because I had to do,
• 26:44
  Speaker 1: you know, the whole thing. So yeah, I and then
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: I take a nastrosol, which is I'm an estrogen receptor,
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: and so I'm taking that from five to ten years,
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: depending on how my body does. I have hot flashes
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: because it's severe hot flashes the pill I take. Plus
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: I had to get medical, you know, hysterectomy pulled, so
• 27:04
  Speaker 1: hysterectomy and so those two are screwing up my body
• 27:08
  Speaker 1: and my body is still trying to figure out what
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: happened because I'm not supposed to be in menopause right now,
• 27:12
  Speaker 1: So I take.
• 27:13
  Speaker 3: A pill to try to counter that.
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: So I'm like Cinderella, I have seven hours to be
• 27:18
  Speaker 1: okay in the streets.
• 27:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we girl.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Sometimes I cut that pill in half, which I know, doctor,
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: don't don't kill me.
• 27:24
  Speaker 3: I do cut it didn't happen. I'm supposed to.
• 27:25
  Speaker 1: I know, we're going to take this on half because
• 27:27
  Speaker 1: we have a brunch, and we're gonna take it on
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: half because we have a dinner.
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: So yeah, you just kind of as a.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: New medications alone. Yeah, even like everything that I take
• 27:37
  Speaker 2: is a non narcotic, but I swear they make me
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: feel a certain way. Yeah, And I don't know that.
• 27:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, they don't make me feel a certain way. Well,
• 27:45
  Speaker 1: and that's result does because it flushes me. So I
• 27:48
  Speaker 1: do get like the jitters a little bit more because
• 27:50
  Speaker 1: of it.
• 27:51
  Speaker 3: So I don't know.
• 27:52
  Speaker 1: And I was already hyper. So now I'm on ten
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: all the time. I feel like, you know, but there's
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: nothing I can do about it. When am I supposed
• 27:57
  Speaker 1: to do?
• 27:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And so you're feeling good, but you're feeling a
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: little hyper. But are you How often do you have
• 28:02
  Speaker 2: to go in to get rechecked.
• 28:03
  Speaker 3: Every six months? Every six months. I just booked my
• 28:06
  Speaker 3: next mamogram. Yeah, so every six months I get checked.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: What tip would you tell another woman right now who's
• 28:12
  Speaker 2: concerned that something might be going on with them?
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: Oh, you see something, say something? Absolutely no reason. What's
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: the reason to wait? Because you're losing a day in
• 28:22
  Speaker 1: your life. You should be gaining one by by getting checked,
• 28:25
  Speaker 1: to be proactive, preactive, you know. So I think that
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: people should definitely, uh, you know, get a move on
• 28:31
  Speaker 1: it if you haven't gotten checked, because you're scared. Just
• 28:34
  Speaker 1: it's better to find out now than you're finding out
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: on stage four. You don't want that heat, Okay, you
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: don't want.
• 28:38
  Speaker 2: You don't want it. And because it's different, I have
• 28:41
  Speaker 2: different we have different cancer. She doesn't have cancer. Oh god.
• 28:46
  Speaker 2: But the fact that what age should people be going
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: and getting their MAMMOGRAMD.
• 28:52
  Speaker 3: I tricked the system, I think. So I was getting
• 28:55
  Speaker 3: a boot job.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: I was getting a boot job after my son, Liam,
• 29:00
  Speaker 1: second son, and then they found a lot of calcification
• 29:03
  Speaker 1: and density, and then the doctors are well before I
• 29:06
  Speaker 1: do the boop job, I need to make sure you're
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: not you don't have anything in you. So I was
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: like thirty a Liam at thirty thirty. What is your
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: thirty five? Yeah, yeah, Liam a thirty five. So I
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: had my my thing like around thirty seven, I think.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: So I had my mamogram before forty, right, and then
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: I had to keep going because of the fact that
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: I was already in the system. So every year I
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: started going. So try to pretend you're going to get
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: a boob job and then.
• 29:31
  Speaker 2: Hopefully and then they'll give it to you a little early.
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Never know if you got a lot of density in
• 29:35
  Speaker 1: your breast. So I got them earlier, so thank god.
• 29:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah, my gosh, is there any other little tidbits you
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  Speaker 2: want to share with us or open up to that
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: you think our listeners would get in.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: From listen when here's the thing about it, Like, you know,
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: I wanted my main goal being an advocate for cancer
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  Speaker 1: in general, but also to break the stigma of people
• 29:56
  Speaker 1: hiding or not wanting to talk about the sea word,
• 29:59
  Speaker 1: the cancer word. We need to start normalizing it because
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: one in eight women is going to have cancer, breast cancer,
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: and one in three any type of other cancer. So
• 30:07
  Speaker 1: someone you know you will be affected in some way,
• 30:09
  Speaker 1: shape or form. And if we learn anything about last season, okay,
• 30:15
  Speaker 1: you want to be at least empathetic to someone who
• 30:18
  Speaker 1: says they have cancer.
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: You should know the.
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: Basic commendments, you know, you know, keep it calm, keep
• 30:24
  Speaker 1: it to yourself, you know, be a little bit more
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  Speaker 1: open minded.
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  Speaker 2: Don't be so you know, like try to pretend you're
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: not a doctor because you're not.
• 30:32
  Speaker 1: Don't question, don't question if the person has it or not,
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: and make it a gossip thing. There's a lot of
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: things that we can do. So you don't have you
• 30:41
  Speaker 1: don't have a book.
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: Right, hold on what congratulations?
• 30:48
  Speaker 1: So the book I wrote actually, you know, two years,
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: which is recently. I wrote it after having cancer because
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: I wanted to wait to see how I felt about everything.
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: And then I had a layer ish of trauma in
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: the past, including the cancer, which was traumatic. So my
• 31:04
  Speaker 1: book is from trauma to trophies and the unforeseen events
• 31:07
  Speaker 1: that redefined me.
• 31:09
  Speaker 2: Oh, I need to read.
• 31:11
  Speaker 1: This is not a cancer book, but the cancer is
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: in there on how it changed me from the gurdy
• 31:16
  Speaker 1: before to Gurdy two point zero.
• 31:19
  Speaker 3: And so now I'm like, this is for pre order,
• 31:23
  Speaker 3: for pre order, it's for pre order, and it's.
• 31:26
  Speaker 1: Going to be out by November and hopefully by Bravo, Khan,
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: Can I please have one?
• 31:29
  Speaker 2: Soon?
• 31:30
  Speaker 3: I will hook you up with a freaking copy, because I.
• 31:32
  Speaker 2: Think there are so many things that people don't know
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: and don't understand, and especially even about the way to
• 31:38
  Speaker 2: talk to people when they have Like I always tell
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: all of my friends. I don't know if maybe this
• 31:43
  Speaker 2: is just me, but I'm like, please stop asking me questions.
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: You know, I went to the room. Guess what I
• 31:48
  Speaker 3: asked her.
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: I said, how is she feeling? Does she want to
• 31:51
  Speaker 1: talk about anything around the S word?
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: Yes? No, okay, And I'm like, Hi, Teddy, how you doing? Girl?
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: You open up the conversation.
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, no, I don't mind. I don't mind that. But
• 32:00
  Speaker 2: you know when somebody will text you and they'll be like, hey, babe,
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: miss you, how are you feeling? What's going on? What
• 32:06
  Speaker 2: is all day?
• 32:07
  Speaker 3: You just got out of the doctor's office.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: Who I'm like, I can barely see, thank you too.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: My eyesight too, I can barely see.
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  Speaker 3: Man.
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: I'm going to need the audio book when I'm doing
• 32:19
  Speaker 2: the audio book as well.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: And this book is the beginning of the chapter of
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: me talking to people about the different facets and the
• 32:25
  Speaker 1: next book I'm going to write is about the care vivers.
• 32:28
  Speaker 1: So Russell's going to get in on that. Now, what
• 32:30
  Speaker 1: your man is doing, how is he feeling, what is
• 32:33
  Speaker 1: he taking care of? How is he affected by it?
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: That is like that blind spot that we feel like
• 32:38
  Speaker 1: it's all about us to wut. Your sex life going
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: now is much better. I'm taking a pill, Honey, I
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: took a pill. I'll tell you about that later.
• 32:44
  Speaker 2: Need to hear that just in case.
• 32:46
  Speaker 3: Yes, but like you.
• 32:47
  Speaker 1: Know, he's dry down there, Okay, I guess, but like
• 32:50
  Speaker 1: Russell with my eyes, I'm all like excited, right, so
• 32:53
  Speaker 1: I'm wet up here and then I'm like dright out there.
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: So I'm like, hey, you're focus, get it together, clarify.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: Yes, I'm ready.
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: So yeah, there's a lot of things that it's like,
• 33:07
  Speaker 1: you know, happening. And doctor Jackie from Married to Medicine. Oh,
• 33:11
  Speaker 1: you know, I'm gonna tease exclusive she makes a cameo.
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: Oh she does miss a cameo. I got to call
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: my backup, honey. I'm like listen, yeah, so you're gonna
• 33:19
  Speaker 1: see a little bit of her. And she's a two
• 33:22
  Speaker 1: time cancer survivor and so she has a whole sex
• 33:26
  Speaker 1: tools and all that stuff that she sent my way,
• 33:27
  Speaker 1: so you know.
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: She could tell her to send it my way.
• 33:30
  Speaker 3: Yeah, you know what, Good for you and your boyfriend's.
• 33:35
  Speaker 1: I know he's an ex borfriend, but good for you
• 33:36
  Speaker 1: and your future boyfriend or whoever, honey, girlfriend, boyfriend, whatever
• 33:39
  Speaker 1: you want to do. You have one wife, and who
• 33:41
  Speaker 1: are we to judge people and what they be doing?
• 33:44
  Speaker 3: Who?
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry, did you watch the show Dying for Sex?
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: No? What is that?
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: Oh? My gosh, it's about Michelle Williams and she has
• 33:53
  Speaker 2: Michelle Williams is in it and she had cancer okay,
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: and it's terminal. Yeah, and it's like all the things
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: she does in her last day, like and just watching
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: that made and granted this is far from where I am,
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: but I think we have to get to a place
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: where we're talking about it.
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: Break the stigma.
• 34:12
  Speaker 2: Let's break the stigma. It's like the way nobody used
• 34:14
  Speaker 2: to talk about ever having a miscarriage, and now we
• 34:18
  Speaker 2: can say it. And there's eight other.
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: Abortions, like, you know, there's so many past.
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've gotta be starting a podcast, me and Teddie
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: introducing you to you know what.
• 34:25
  Speaker 2: We we have a come trauma and trophy.
• 34:31
  Speaker 3: I love it.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: Oh well, thanks for joining us and you guys can
• 34:34
  Speaker 2: find Gerty online on Instagram at Girdy Design Girty Design.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Thanks for coming on and joining
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  Speaker 3: Us, Love you guys,