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Read it on Reddit #6 · WDYM What Do You Mean?

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• 1:10
  SPEAKER_02: And welcome to the WDYM, the What Do You Mean podcast.
• 1:14
  SPEAKER_02: How's everybody doing?
• 1:15
  SPEAKER_02: Listen, um, I've signed up.
• 1:18
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I get I'm I allow Reddit to give me notifications right now, and there's been some stuff on uh the relationship advice on Reddit.
• 1:27
  SPEAKER_02: So we're gonna get right into a Reddit on Reddit, which will be the sixth one.
• 1:33
  SPEAKER_02: Reddit on Reddit 6.
• 1:35
  SPEAKER_02: So we're gonna do we'll do four topics today.
• 1:38
  SPEAKER_02: Four topics today.
• 1:39
  SPEAKER_02: Let's start with the first one.
• 1:40
  SPEAKER_02: Square Juggernaut 689.
• 1:43
  SPEAKER_02: My wife's sister is flirting with me.
• 1:47
  SPEAKER_02: I've been married for about two years now.
• 1:49
  SPEAKER_02: No kids.
• 1:50
  SPEAKER_02: We still live pretty close to my wife's family, and we see them most weekends to do laundry or for various other things like eating out.
• 1:57
  SPEAKER_02: Pause.
• 1:58
  SPEAKER_02: Over the last year or so, my wife's sister has made the occasional flirty comment towards me.
• 2:04
  SPEAKER_02: Usually something along the lines of calling me cute or something similar while I'm with their family.
• 2:11
  SPEAKER_02: It's odd that she would say such things around my wife and her sister.
• 2:15
  SPEAKER_02: But me and my sister-in-law never hang out one-on-one, so I suppose that those are her only chances to hint at her interests.
• 2:23
  SPEAKER_02: She has only done this a handful of times, but I do remember them, and they're pretty clear by now that she has a crush on me.
• 2:30
  SPEAKER_02: I just ignore it and treat her normally.
• 2:32
  SPEAKER_02: I'm making this post today because out at lunch today she was playing footsies with me under the table.
• 2:38
  SPEAKER_02: While I'm sitting next to my wife and their family.
• 2:42
  SPEAKER_02: I did not mention it then.
• 2:44
  SPEAKER_02: I have not told my wife, I am wondering if I should say something to my Sill sister-in-law about it, asking her to quit flirting.
• 2:53
  SPEAKER_02: Question mark.
• 2:54
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like continuing to remain silent may be the same thing as encouraging her behavior, and I'm beginning to feel a bit guilty about it.
• 3:02
  SPEAKER_02: Should I tell my wife and hurt their relationship or just go right to my sister-in-law?
• 3:08
  SPEAKER_02: Cutie music.
• 3:11
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 3:14
  SPEAKER_02: Square juggernaut.
• 3:17
  SPEAKER_02: You like this.
• 3:18
  SPEAKER_02: You like you like the sister-in-law flirting with you.
• 3:24
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, you do.
• 3:25
  SPEAKER_02: Yes, you do.
• 3:26
  SPEAKER_02: And you just a little weird because they blood.
• 3:30
  SPEAKER_02: She knows, sister-in-law knows, sister-in-law knows you are married to her sister, and she still does it.
• 3:39
  SPEAKER_02: And you ain't said nothing yet.
• 3:40
  SPEAKER_02: To a point where she's playing footsies underneath the table.
• 3:46
  SPEAKER_02: Ladies and gentlemen, let this be a lesson to you.
• 3:49
  SPEAKER_02: You better A.
• 3:52
  SPEAKER_02: A.
• 3:54
  SPEAKER_02: Tell your spouse your sister, her sister is flirting with you.
• 4:01
  SPEAKER_02: Let her know.
• 4:02
  SPEAKER_02: ASAP, this is something that needs to be squashed immediately.
• 4:06
  SPEAKER_02: Cause this is probably a reason why she's doing it.
• 4:08
  SPEAKER_02: She don't like her sister.
• 4:10
  SPEAKER_02: That's what it is.
• 4:11
  SPEAKER_02: She don't like her sister, and she's like, watch this.
• 4:14
  SPEAKER_02: I'm about to get him.
• 4:16
  SPEAKER_02: And it's working because you ain't said nothing before.
• 4:18
  SPEAKER_02: And he's letting this happen.
• 4:20
  SPEAKER_02: And now you're at the point where you like, yo, I'm feeling guilty.
• 4:22
  SPEAKER_02: What you feeling guilty about, huh?
• 4:25
  SPEAKER_02: Something else is going on that you ain't telling us about.
• 4:28
  SPEAKER_02: I could tell.
• 4:30
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, this is this is obvious to me.
• 4:33
  SPEAKER_02: Tell your wife immediately.
• 4:36
  SPEAKER_02: Quit playing, juggernaut.
• 4:39
  SPEAKER_02: That's number one.
• 4:45
  SPEAKER_02: Next one.
• 4:47
  SPEAKER_02: Constant comment.
• 4:49
  SPEAKER_02: My boyfriend 26 says it's a woman's fault for choosing the wrong man during a discussion on single parenthood.
• 4:58
  SPEAKER_02: Hello, fellow Redditors.
• 5:00
  SPEAKER_02: I think that's how they say it.
• 5:01
  SPEAKER_02: I really need your advice.
• 5:03
  SPEAKER_02: My boyfriend 26 and I, 28, are having a conversation about single parenthood, sparked by the recent Laney Monarch comic, when he dropped the bomb that he thought partially a woman's fault if they end up as a single mother due to their partner leaving them for picking a bad partner.
• 5:23
  SPEAKER_02: This did not go well with me.
• 5:25
  SPEAKER_02: Short of being literally psychic and clairvoyant, there isn't any way to be absolute certain about a parent's fidelity and behavior, which I told him.
• 5:34
  SPEAKER_02: According to my boyfriend, actions over time will always give them away.
• 5:38
  SPEAKER_02: Failing to see red flags is always a failing.
• 5:42
  SPEAKER_02: I know I've been fooled by a former partner for a long time.
• 5:46
  SPEAKER_02: It's not always that cut and dry.
• 5:48
  SPEAKER_02: We talk about it, and he not only doubled down that there's always red flags, and it's the woman's, or I guess the abandoned partner, since this could never this could very well happen to a man's fault for not seeing them.
• 6:03
  SPEAKER_02: Then he tried to shift the conversation to there is also a lot of wish casting in situations like that.
• 6:09
  SPEAKER_02: He will change once the baby comes.
• 6:12
  SPEAKER_02: Having kids will change our relationship, which, yes, you shouldn't try to fix a failing relationship by having a child, but different topic than the conversation we are having.
• 6:22
  SPEAKER_02: Or alternatively, if he thinks all single moms had babies deliberately with men they knew had issues, that's a bigger problem.
• 6:29
  SPEAKER_02: Guys, I'm furious.
• 6:30
  SPEAKER_02: We aren't psychic, we can only know what we see and experience.
• 6:34
  SPEAKER_02: And honestly, both genders can be fooled by their romantic by their romantic partner.
• 6:40
  SPEAKER_02: I thought I was going to marry my last serious partner before my current boyfriend.
• 6:44
  SPEAKER_02: There were absolutely no red flags till it got bad.
• 6:46
  SPEAKER_02: I experienced how it's like to be fooled.
• 6:49
  SPEAKER_02: This to me wreaks of victim blaming.
• 6:51
  SPEAKER_02: And I'm sorry, but it's single mother's fault for choosing poor man.
• 6:55
  SPEAKER_02: Also reeks of nice guy BS to me.
• 6:58
  SPEAKER_02: Am I overreacting?
• 6:59
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not sure.
• 7:00
  SPEAKER_02: Boyfriend has overall more conservative views than me.
• 7:04
  SPEAKER_02: His constant consummation of Ben Sh his constant his constant consumption of Ben Shapiro and Jordan Peterson context have been the subject of prior fights.
• 7:16
  SPEAKER_02: But nothing this jarring has come up before.
• 7:19
  SPEAKER_02: How do I explain just how wrong I find his views on this?
• 7:27
  SPEAKER_02: Constant comment.
• 7:29
  SPEAKER_02: You're on the board.
• 7:32
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 7:34
  SPEAKER_02: So there is a lot of problems with this one.
• 7:41
  SPEAKER_02: Now, from personal experience, do women do women choose the wrong men?
• 7:53
  SPEAKER_02: It happens both ways.
• 7:56
  SPEAKER_02: But usually in the chase of relationship, usually the man chases the woman, am I right?
• 8:04
  SPEAKER_02: So when a man chases a woman, there has to be an evaluation period.
• 8:13
  SPEAKER_02: Right?
• 8:14
  SPEAKER_02: There has to be a time where you're evaluating this person to see how they act mentally, physically, financially.
• 8:28
  SPEAKER_02: And you get to see those things display during the dating period.
• 8:34
  SPEAKER_02: I have a thing, I had a thing, I should say, when I was in the dating game.
• 8:41
  SPEAKER_02: It was six months before I decided to do anything substantial.
• 8:46
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, like, it would even go to a point where this probably eliminated me from a lot of things.
• 8:53
  SPEAKER_02: Like we would go out to eat.
• 8:54
  SPEAKER_02: She'd be like, hey, do you mind buying me a cheeseburger?
• 8:56
  SPEAKER_02: I said, absolutely.
• 8:58
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not buying you a cheeseburger.
• 8:59
  SPEAKER_02: Guess what?
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  SPEAKER_02: That means you don't know how to manage your money.
• 9:01
  SPEAKER_02: Uh-uh.
• 9:02
  SPEAKER_02: And strike one, red flag.
• 9:04
  SPEAKER_02: That's what we do.
• 9:05
  SPEAKER_02: Red flag.
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  SPEAKER_02: Foul on the play.
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  SPEAKER_02: Personal foul.
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  SPEAKER_02: Woman with no finances, five-yard penalty.
• 9:11
  SPEAKER_02: We'll go to second down.
• 9:13
  SPEAKER_02: Right?
• 9:14
  SPEAKER_02: Those are the things that are signals for you.
• 9:18
  SPEAKER_02: If you're asking me to buy you a cheeseburger, I don't care.
• 9:22
  SPEAKER_02: It doesn't matter.
• 9:23
  SPEAKER_02: You need to show me that you are financially stable.
• 9:26
  SPEAKER_02: I don't care if it's a cheeseburger or not.
• 9:28
  SPEAKER_02: The point is that how it is articulated, right?
• 9:34
  SPEAKER_02: That's one thing.
• 9:35
  SPEAKER_02: Is that six-month period where you're judging this person on everything, and they have to meet every one of your check marks.
• 9:44
  SPEAKER_02: Are they on time?
• 9:46
  SPEAKER_02: Are they polite?
• 9:47
  SPEAKER_02: Do they yell?
• 9:48
  SPEAKER_02: When they get in a fight, what are they fighting about?
• 9:50
  SPEAKER_02: Is this something really worth fighting about?
• 9:52
  SPEAKER_02: All these things need to be added up when it comes to picking a partner, right?
• 9:58
  SPEAKER_02: And they have to at least get whatever your your check marks are, they have to get 90% of it.
• 10:04
  SPEAKER_02: Because you're not nothing no relationship's perfect, right?
• 10:07
  SPEAKER_02: No relationship is gonna be perfect for you.
• 10:10
  SPEAKER_02: So you gotta understand 90% of the check marks, not flags, check marks, in order to move on.
• 10:16
  SPEAKER_02: Use that six-month evaluation to do that.
• 10:19
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I say.
• 10:21
  SPEAKER_02: And the things that the people they listen to, yeah, those those are trash.
• 10:24
  SPEAKER_02: We know we both we both know that.
• 10:26
  SPEAKER_02: That's that's trash right there.
• 10:28
  SPEAKER_02: He's listening to Ben Shapiro.
• 10:30
  SPEAKER_02: That dude's trash.
• 10:31
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 10:32
  SPEAKER_02: I'm just saying.
• 10:33
  SPEAKER_02: So if anybody listened to that, you that's also that's a red flag.
• 10:37
  SPEAKER_02: Personal foul, dude's listening to douchebags, third down.
• 10:41
  SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
• 10:42
  SPEAKER_02: That's what needs to be done.
• 10:43
  SPEAKER_02: So get 90% of your check marks before you move on to think, hey, this might be someone I can seriously see myself with.
• 10:53
  SPEAKER_02: There you go.
• 10:56
  SPEAKER_02: Next one.
• 10:57
  SPEAKER_02: This one's by Dam Yassi.
• 11:03
  SPEAKER_02: I can't believe some of the ones I picked.
• 11:05
  SPEAKER_02: This one's title, White Boyfriend 21, said Hard R, and I am utterly shocked.
• 11:14
  SPEAKER_02: My white boyfriend, who's 21 and I, I'm 19, have been dating for around two months.
• 11:19
  SPEAKER_02: Last night during our call, I showed him a funny song.
• 11:23
  SPEAKER_02: I have found earlier that day.
• 11:25
  SPEAKER_02: The song consists of mocking Southern rednecks and chugging bear and the other very American things.
• 11:32
  SPEAKER_02: I thought he would at least laugh at it because he's southern.
• 11:36
  SPEAKER_02: But I'm a West Coast girl.
• 11:39
  SPEAKER_02: I'm guessing by the way he went silent that he didn't like it very much and added words.
• 11:43
  SPEAKER_02: Well, I don't know.
• 11:44
  SPEAKER_02: Sounds like hard R whipping cousin effing country mess.
• 11:49
  SPEAKER_02: There was a complete silence for about 10 seconds.
• 11:52
  SPEAKER_02: I really don't know what to say.
• 11:53
  SPEAKER_02: I'm black.
• 11:54
  SPEAKER_02: So of course I'm going to be offended by the word, right?
• 11:58
  SPEAKER_02: I ended up hanging up after after, telling him I couldn't deal with him tonight.
• 12:02
  SPEAKER_02: A lot of ums were said.
• 12:04
  SPEAKER_02: He texted me, apologizing, explained how he thought it wouldn't bother me.
• 12:08
  SPEAKER_02: He even said he jokes with the word with his friends.
• 12:12
  SPEAKER_02: I feel stupid for not instantly telling him off and s and also very ignorant for having so many feelings for him.
• 12:20
  SPEAKER_02: I know I should have cut him off completely, but I really felt like I found my person besides what happened.
• 12:27
  SPEAKER_02: So Dem Yassi, you're up.
• 12:36
  SPEAKER_02: Alright, so within two months, he's using the hard R.
• 12:41
  SPEAKER_02: That should be your sign right there.
• 12:45
  SPEAKER_02: Hard R.
• 12:47
  SPEAKER_02: Why?
• 12:48
  SPEAKER_02: See, this is the problem with anybody that listens to rap music.
• 12:55
  SPEAKER_02: In my opinion, this is my opinion, you know.
• 12:58
  SPEAKER_02: Take it for a grain of salt.
• 13:01
  SPEAKER_02: But if the word is used, the hard R is used, let's just say publicly.
• 13:07
  SPEAKER_02: The hard R or the A is publicly, and people that are not black, not African American, not Black American, listen to it.
• 13:19
  SPEAKER_02: They feel like, hey, well, if Jordan Lucas can say it, why can't I?
• 13:24
  SPEAKER_02: So in this situation, you kind of got set up for failure.
• 13:30
  SPEAKER_02: You presented this to him, he used it, him and his friends clown about it.
• 13:36
  SPEAKER_02: I'm assuming his friends are the same shade as you.
• 13:41
  SPEAKER_02: And he hauled off and thought he could use it.
• 13:44
  SPEAKER_02: Uh-uh.
• 13:46
  SPEAKER_02: Nah, two months.
• 13:48
  SPEAKER_02: Two months ain't enough time to be invested where you be like, I really love him, and blah, blah, blah.
• 13:54
  SPEAKER_02: You can move on.
• 13:55
  SPEAKER_02: He's a hard R right now.
• 13:59
  SPEAKER_02: Don't waste your time.
• 14:01
  SPEAKER_02: Not on this one.
• 14:01
  SPEAKER_02: You're gonna have to let this one go.
• 14:03
  SPEAKER_02: But I mean, you did kind of bring up the song that made fun of Rednecks and Chugging Bear and very American things.
• 14:14
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe he got offended and thought that was cool.
• 14:17
  SPEAKER_02: So therefore, he said, hey, if you could do that, I could hard R you.
• 14:22
  SPEAKER_02: Mm-hmm.
• 14:23
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, I think it might be two months into it.
• 14:26
  SPEAKER_02: You ain't, you ain't, you, there's no investment in it.
• 14:28
  SPEAKER_02: You can pull your money out and keep it moving.
• 14:30
  SPEAKER_02: This this ain't worth it.
• 14:31
  SPEAKER_02: If you're feeling this way now and y'all had this little little thing, little disagreement, go on, move on.
• 14:38
  SPEAKER_02: It's it's not that it's not that serious.
• 14:40
  SPEAKER_02: There you go.
• 14:42
  SPEAKER_02: Courtesy of the WDYM.
• 14:44
  SPEAKER_02: What do you mean he said R.
• 14:46
  SPEAKER_01: You serious?
• 14:49
  SPEAKER_02: Lord.
• 14:51
  SPEAKER_02: Next one.
• 14:53
  SPEAKER_02: By these names.
• 14:55
  SPEAKER_02: By Moist Aid 191.
• 14:57
  SPEAKER_02: My wife of 27 wants me, also 27, to be more masculine, he says.
• 15:03
  SPEAKER_02: TLDR.
• 15:05
  SPEAKER_02: What the hell does that mean?
• 15:06
  SPEAKER_02: Hold on, let me look at what TLDR means.
• 15:09
  SPEAKER_02: Too long, didn't read.
• 15:13
  SPEAKER_02: Alright.
• 15:14
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not gonna do that because it's not even that long.
• 15:17
  SPEAKER_02: She wants me to take the lead, which I'm fine doing.
• 15:20
  SPEAKER_02: I prefer it both in relationship, friendship, and work.
• 15:23
  SPEAKER_02: But the reason why I haven't is because she's way too independent and masculine.
• 15:27
  SPEAKER_02: Wait, she's way too independent and masculine, I think.
• 15:30
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, she told me just don't don't ask, just do things.
• 15:34
  SPEAKER_02: Start the car, tell me we're going.
• 15:36
  SPEAKER_02: I did this word for word, and she responded with not today.
• 15:39
  SPEAKER_02: I'm tired.
• 15:41
  SPEAKER_02: And when I tried to take the lead in the bed, she tells me 101 excuses.
• 15:46
  SPEAKER_02: She sends me a TikTok about a guy saying she's in her masculine masculine because you don't let her be in her feminine.
• 15:54
  SPEAKER_02: And she sent me another one that literally says for a man to be masculine and a woman to be feminine.
• 15:59
  SPEAKER_02: And I tell her, I agree saying she's too masculine.
• 16:02
  SPEAKER_02: And her replies, I don't care.
• 16:06
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, Moist Aid 191.
• 16:10
  SPEAKER_02: You are on the clock.
• 16:14
  SPEAKER_02: So your girl, your wife wants you to be more masculine after 1.5 years of marriage.
• 16:23
  SPEAKER_02: Oh my goodness.
• 16:25
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 16:27
  SPEAKER_02: So, number one.
• 16:29
  SPEAKER_02: What do you look like?
• 16:31
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I want to know.
• 16:32
  SPEAKER_02: Like, do you got muscles?
• 16:34
  SPEAKER_02: Do you I'm I mean, I don't I can't see you.
• 16:37
  SPEAKER_02: This is just a Reddit post.
• 16:40
  SPEAKER_02: Do you got muscles?
• 16:42
  SPEAKER_02: Something that I'm gonna say that I really shouldn't say, that it don't matter, but they use this against us.
• 16:51
  SPEAKER_02: Is she taller than you?
• 16:54
  SPEAKER_02: Does she have like some kind of advantage over you?
• 17:00
  SPEAKER_02: Right?
• 17:01
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe that's why.
• 17:03
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe it's hard to tell when I can't see what you look like.
• 17:07
  SPEAKER_02: So this is what we do.
• 17:10
  SPEAKER_02: This is how we fix this, right?
• 17:12
  SPEAKER_02: Double down on the masculine.
• 17:15
  SPEAKER_02: How you do that?
• 17:17
  SPEAKER_02: Go get something to eat.
• 17:19
  SPEAKER_02: Your food.
• 17:20
  SPEAKER_02: Get you some food.
• 17:23
  SPEAKER_02: Sit there and eat in front of her.
• 17:24
  SPEAKER_02: And she'd be like, Well, why are you getting me no food?
• 17:26
  SPEAKER_02: Well, don't and I was gonna yeah, I'm gonna say it because I'm gonna edit it out.
• 17:32
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 17:33
  SPEAKER_02: So I'm like, you weren't here.
• 17:37
  SPEAKER_02: Say, look, double down on the masculine.
• 17:41
  SPEAKER_02: Right?
• 17:42
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I say.
• 17:44
  SPEAKER_02: I'm gonna edit that out, so don't worry about that.
• 17:47
  SPEAKER_02: She's sending you TikToks about masculine men.
• 17:52
  SPEAKER_02: Man, I don't even know how to how do you get around that?
• 17:57
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 17:58
  SPEAKER_02: That's a rough one.
• 17:59
  SPEAKER_02: Send her TikToks about I don't know.
• 18:01
  SPEAKER_02: Send her TikToks about you being about feminine women, you know.
• 18:06
  SPEAKER_02: It's gotta be something that I don't that I I can't put together.
• 18:10
  SPEAKER_02: Like, you might hey man, I'm just saying, maybe you got bigger, bigger boobies than her.
• 18:15
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe you need to get to gym.
• 18:16
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe you need to hit the gym a little bit.
• 18:19
  SPEAKER_02: Oh, I got it.
• 18:22
  SPEAKER_02: No, don't do that.
• 18:23
  SPEAKER_02: Never mind.
• 18:24
  SPEAKER_02: Never mind.
• 18:26
  SPEAKER_02: I think just from reading this Reddit, is that you're not gym enough.
• 18:34
  SPEAKER_02: You're not, you know, you know, you're not working out enough.
• 18:37
  SPEAKER_02: Hit the gym.
• 18:39
  SPEAKER_02: Work out.
• 18:40
  SPEAKER_02: Do you.
• 18:41
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I say.
• 18:42
  SPEAKER_02: Do you before you do her?
• 18:45
  SPEAKER_02: Hey, and if she's taller than you, check her.
• 18:48
  SPEAKER_02: You know what I mean?
• 18:49
  SPEAKER_02: Like, hey, look.
• 18:49
  SPEAKER_02: She says something like, hey, go fix me some eggs.
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_02: She said that.
• 18:52
  SPEAKER_02: You said you go fix your own eggs.
• 18:54
  SPEAKER_02: Get right in her face.
• 18:56
  SPEAKER_02: Spit to the P's and T's.
• 19:00
  SPEAKER_02: Spit.
• 19:02
  SPEAKER_02: Let's see what happens.
• 19:06
  SPEAKER_02: Here's one thing.
• 19:07
  SPEAKER_02: Give her the up-down stare.
• 19:08
  SPEAKER_02: You know what I'm saying?
• 19:09
  SPEAKER_02: You say something like, hey, can you go make me a burger?
• 19:13
  SPEAKER_02: And she be like, well, I ain't making you a burger.
• 19:16
  SPEAKER_02: You look her up down, like, what?
• 19:18
  SPEAKER_02: Huh?
• 19:19
  SPEAKER_02: Excuse me?
• 19:21
  SPEAKER_02: Do something like that.
• 19:23
  SPEAKER_02: See what happens.
• 19:24
  SPEAKER_02: But without pictures, without more details, I just I just think you're scrawny.
• 19:29
  SPEAKER_02: Or you're fat.
• 19:31
  SPEAKER_02: And there's nothing wrong with that.
• 19:32
  SPEAKER_02: I'm not saying there's nothing wrong with that.
• 19:34
  SPEAKER_02: I'm just saying, like, hey, there's roles that we all play.
• 19:38
  SPEAKER_02: You gotta define your role.
• 19:40
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe you do need to get more massive.
• 19:41
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe you just get to the gym, get swole, and all that stuff.
• 19:44
  SPEAKER_02: All that stuff.
• 19:46
  SPEAKER_02: That's what I say.
• 19:49
  SPEAKER_02: I think that was four.
• 19:52
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 19:53
  SPEAKER_02: Is that four?
• 19:57
  SPEAKER_02: Last one by Throw Raw.
• 19:59
  SPEAKER_02: 6736-3729.
• 20:02
  SPEAKER_02: I really don't enjoy having cheese with my husband.
• 20:08
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, remember this is a G show.
• 20:10
  SPEAKER_02: We put two and two together, you know what cheese is.
• 20:12
  SPEAKER_02: My husband and I have been married for almost 10 years.
• 20:14
  SPEAKER_02: We are both Mormon until a few years ago.
• 20:17
  SPEAKER_02: We were both virgins when we got married.
• 20:19
  SPEAKER_02: We almost have zero cheese compatibility.
• 20:24
  SPEAKER_02: And I think we had cheese maybe once in the last two years.
• 20:29
  SPEAKER_02: I mean, lactose intolerance is a mother.
• 20:32
  SPEAKER_02: Back when we had cheese more regularly, I always felt embarrassed, awkward, ultimately frustrated.
• 20:38
  SPEAKER_02: And part of it is that it's just not really very exciting.
• 20:42
  SPEAKER_02: There's no passion, no chemistry.
• 20:44
  SPEAKER_02: We've only ever managed to actually make okay, so we actually make penetration work in one position and it lasted it lasted three seconds.
• 20:59
  SPEAKER_02: It's not that he's selfish.
• 21:01
  SPEAKER_02: He has said he that he enjoys doing things, but I don't really find it all that enjoyable when he does.
• 21:09
  SPEAKER_02: Again, I feel really awkward.
• 21:11
  SPEAKER_02: I feel like awkward reading this.
• 21:14
  SPEAKER_02: And because it's been because he has been my only ever partner, I have no idea what is normal, what isn't.
• 21:22
  SPEAKER_02: I don't think I am a lesbian or asexual.
• 21:26
  SPEAKER_02: I'm definitely attracted to men.
• 21:29
  SPEAKER_02: I get going and enjoy myself with love.
• 21:35
  SPEAKER_02: I just really don't like having cheese with my husband.
• 21:40
  SPEAKER_02: Would you consider this a deal breaker for a relationship?
• 21:45
  SPEAKER_02: Also, to the men trying to DM me asking basic questions about my interests, stop being gross.
• 21:53
  SPEAKER_02: Of course.
• 21:55
  SPEAKER_02: Of course.
• 21:56
  SPEAKER_02: Okay, so who is this person?
• 22:01
  SPEAKER_02: Throw Raw 67363729.
• 22:04
  SPEAKER_02: You're on the clock.
• 22:07
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know what the Mormon race or the Mormon religion race what the Mormon religion has to do with any of this.
• 22:15
  SPEAKER_02: Again, combat combatibility matters in this situation, right?
• 22:23
  SPEAKER_02: How do you be in a relationship that you only have cheese once in the last two years?
• 22:33
  SPEAKER_01: How you be married for 10 years and the ratio, the math doesn't math.
• 22:42
  SPEAKER_02: What's going on here?
• 22:45
  SPEAKER_02: I I don't know.
• 22:48
  SPEAKER_02: You've already said there's no passion, no chemistry.
• 22:52
  SPEAKER_02: He he makes penetration and he's three seconds in and he's a two-pump chump.
• 23:02
  SPEAKER_02: Listen.
• 23:05
  SPEAKER_02: When they say size don't matter, does this count?
• 23:08
  SPEAKER_02: I don't I don't.
• 23:10
  SPEAKER_02: I don't know.
• 23:11
  SPEAKER_02: This one's rough, man.
• 23:12
  SPEAKER_02: This is this is woo.
• 23:15
  SPEAKER_02: Yeah, you need to get out of this.
• 23:17
  SPEAKER_02: You you this is this a this I would listen.
• 23:23
  SPEAKER_02: I would have this hey, this is the conversation the end all conversations.
• 23:28
  SPEAKER_02: Like, look, this ain't working.
• 23:31
  SPEAKER_02: We need to figure this out.
• 23:32
  SPEAKER_02: Go there is therapists out there that can help you.
• 23:35
  SPEAKER_02: There is people out there that can, you know, hey, maybe do this or do something, or online.
• 23:45
  SPEAKER_02: Online, there's a lot of sites that will help you diagram what's going on, and maybe you can get the right flavor of cheese that suit that suits you.
• 23:58
  unknown: Right?
• 23:59
  SPEAKER_02: This is a PG show.
• 24:00
  SPEAKER_02: I can't be saying these words.
• 24:03
  SPEAKER_02: No, cheese.
• 24:04
  SPEAKER_02: Okay.
• 24:05
  SPEAKER_02: No, seriously though, you need to talk to this talk to your husband of 10 years that you only have cheese with once every two years.
• 24:14
  SPEAKER_02: That's that's that means you only had cheese five times.
• 24:17
  SPEAKER_02: Maybe you're lactose intolerant.
• 24:19
  SPEAKER_02: I'm lactose intolerant, but I still I still I still I still anyway.
• 24:28
  SPEAKER_02: This ain't about me.
• 24:29
  SPEAKER_02: This ain't this is about you.
• 24:30
  SPEAKER_02: You need to get this fixed.
• 24:32
  SPEAKER_02: Have a conversation.
• 24:33
  SPEAKER_02: Hey, look, I need some cheese in my life because I'm not lactose intolerant, and you know, you need to figure out what works for you guys and get something going because right now you you're young, you 33, you in the primes, you in the primes.
• 24:49
  SPEAKER_02: You need to be having you a fun du of cheese because you seem deprived and all that stuff.
• 24:57
  SPEAKER_02: So, with that being said, we are bringing this episode of Reddit on Reddit to an end.
• 25:07
  SPEAKER_02: I swear, Reddit is crazy, absolutely crazy with some of these things.
• 25:14
  SPEAKER_02: I think still, I still think to this day, people still make up stuff.
• 25:17
  SPEAKER_02: There's no way this person's having cheese once every two years.
• 25:22
  SPEAKER_02: She says she likes to have cheese on her own.
• 25:26
  SPEAKER_02: But, you know, and she's still saying she likes people that make cheese.
• 25:31
  SPEAKER_02: You can't make this up, people.
• 25:34
  SPEAKER_02: Thank you for listening to the WDYM.
• 25:36
  SPEAKER_02: I'm your host, Michael Gillespie.
• 25:37
  SPEAKER_02: As always, guys.
• 25:40
  SPEAKER_02: Peace, love each other, and all that good stuff.
• 25:42
  SPEAKER_02: I'm out, Girl Scout, Boy Scout.
• 25:45
  SPEAKER_02: Peace.