
15: The Dance of Development: How Others Personalities Shape Who We Think We Are (with John Harper)
This week on (re)Parenting Radio Lisa is joined by guest John Harper — Diamond Approach teacher, Enneagram guide, and author of The Enneagram World of the Child and Nurturing Essence: A Compass for Essential Parenting.
Together, they explore what John calls “the dance of development” — the way a child’s early environment, their parents’ personalities, and the nervous system’s survival responses weave together to create the sense of self we later mistake as “just who I am.”
You’ll hear John unpack:
How fear, anger, shame, and the inner critic become core forces in ego development
Why children…
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