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ISSA HUSBAND with Price and Vlad (Part 1) · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: We're just two unapologetically Black women with an opinion who
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  Speaker 1: talk back.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, y'all?
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  Speaker 3: Thank you for tuning in for a new episode of
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  Speaker 3: We Talk Back, a show dedicated to you niggas and bitches.
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  Speaker 2: I'm showing off. We got a co-host today, y'all. Hold on, wait.
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  Speaker 2: You're saying niggas and bitches again? It's your girl, AJ.
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  Speaker 2: What's up, Tam? We got a co-host on also. Kick it, Tam.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all, it's me, Tam. I love y'all once again. Thank
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  Speaker 1: y'all for tuning in. Co-host, go ahead and tell everybody
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  Speaker 1: who you are.
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  Speaker 4: What up, y'all? It's your boy, Price. I'm on here
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  Speaker 4: with the ladies, man. And we doing it for the
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  Speaker 4: niggas and bitches today.
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  Speaker 2: Every day.
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  Speaker 3: It's supposed to be niggas, you niggas, and these hoes.
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  Speaker 2: But I just went all out today, all right? Yeah, nigga.
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  Speaker 4: Okay. Okay.
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  Speaker 1: I thought I was the one drinking the whole time.
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  Speaker 2: I'm just high off life, man. How was your weekend, y'all?
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  Speaker 1: My weekend, what did I do? Oh, I went to
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  Speaker 1: see Beyonce twice in one week, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: Period.
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  Speaker 1: It was amazing. Listen, every weirdo in the world comes
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  Speaker 1: to Beyonce concert and they feel free. I love every
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  Speaker 1: bit of it. You can dress how you want to dress.
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  Speaker 1: You can look how you want to look. Nobody's judging you.
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  Speaker 1: And we just had a ball, man. It was such
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  Speaker 1: a good time. I went in Atlanta.
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  Speaker 4: Was Blue Ivy there?
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  Speaker 1: Blue Ivy was, yeah, she was there. She was at
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  Speaker 1: both Charlotte and Atlanta. Now, they had the mute challenge,
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  Speaker 1: the Beyonce mute challenge, and they said Atlanta won, but
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  Speaker 1: I feel like Charlotte really won that thing. We was quiet.
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  Speaker 1: We was really quiet during that mute scene, but whatever.
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  Speaker 1: They said Atlanta won.
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  Speaker 3: She just proven adults got ADHD. Y'all cannot follow directions.
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  Speaker 3: Just be quiet for a couple seconds. For a second.
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  Speaker 1: It'll be like, woo!
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  Speaker 4: Somebody gotta say something.
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  Speaker 1: Somebody gotta say woo. That's really what it is.
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  Speaker 4: We love you, Beyonce. Shut the fuck up, man.
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  Speaker 2: What'd you do, AJ? Nothing, Playhouse. That's about it. I'm
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  Speaker 2: pretty sure your weekend was a lot more lit.
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  Speaker 3: After seeing all the videos about the concert, I was like, damn,
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  Speaker 3: should I have went to Beyonce's concert?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you should have gone. It was a good time.
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  Speaker 1: In Charlotte, we had a suite. In Atlanta, I had
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  Speaker 1: a floor seat. And I thought the floor suite was
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  Speaker 1: going to be more lit because, I mean, I was
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  Speaker 1: really close to Beyonce's aura. Like, I could see it. Like,
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  Speaker 1: it was like she glowed, right? I was real close
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  Speaker 1: to it. But when I tell you they maximized every
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  Speaker 1: inch of that floor, like, it was not enough room
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  Speaker 1: between me and the next person to dance. Like, you
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  Speaker 1: just really packed in that motherfucker like sardines. I swear
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  Speaker 1: to God. Like, it just was so close. So I
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  Speaker 1: didn't like that part. The suite, I got to dance.
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  Speaker 1: I got to move around. It was food. It was
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  Speaker 1: just a much better experience, honestly. 100%.
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  Speaker 2: I don't be liking big events like that. Y'all know
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  Speaker 2: how I feel. It's fucking energy harvesting. That's how I
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  Speaker 2: feel about it. Y'all can't have my energy. What you
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  Speaker 2: did this weekend, Price?
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  Speaker 4: Shit, man.
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  Speaker 5: Slow motion for me. Writing for Saweetie damn every day.
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  Speaker 5: So it's been taking over my damn life.
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  Speaker 4: But yeah. I just slow motion vibes.
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  Speaker 1: And then in the studio.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Shit, that sound like fun.
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  Speaker 4: No, it do be fun. You know, but it's work too.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I want to hang out with Sweetie.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, she cool.
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  Speaker 1: Did you get that Sweetie McDonald's meal?
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  Speaker 5: No, I'm going to tell you the truth though. I
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  Speaker 5: did the Travis Scott one.
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  Speaker 4: When he did his. Yeah, because that's my nigga.
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  Speaker 5: And I'm like, yo, the homie, this the first nigga,
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  Speaker 5: rap nigga with McDonald's.
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  Speaker 4: Let me go just. A sandwich. Yeah, let me just go.
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  Speaker 1: They trying to kill us y'all yeah it's all right let.
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  Speaker 4: Me go ahead and see what they're doing i.
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  Speaker 3: Don't even trust niggas that ain't mcdonald's dog yeah.
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  Speaker 4: I ain't gonna lie to you soon as i get
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  Speaker 4: drunk enough i'm damn near gonna eat anything i'll be
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  Speaker 4: ready to eat pork off the damn so that's that's
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  Speaker 4: yeah that's that's probably my guilty pleasure when i'm drunk
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  Speaker 4: i'm pulling up and getting me a little Nugget with
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  Speaker 4: some sweet and sour. It's foul, too. It's out of line.
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  Speaker 4: It's out of line, though.
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  Speaker 2: A little mystery meat.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. It's foul.
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  Speaker 3: Let's get into this stupid internet news for this week, y'all.
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  Speaker 4: What's been cracking?
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  Speaker 1: Sex Duran.
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  Speaker 2: Sex Duran says she is the raw dog queen, okay?
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  Speaker 4: Uh-oh.
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  Speaker 1: And I would like to beg to differ, because you
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  Speaker 1: are the raw dog queen, AJ.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, shit.
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  Speaker 1: How she talk about she the raw dog queen?
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  Speaker 2: No, AJ.
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  Speaker 4: I am.
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  Speaker 1: When she been getting raw dick before her sexy bread
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  Speaker 1: was born.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 2: If you gonna fucking do it, do it. I mean,
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  Speaker 2: y'all doing everything else.
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  Speaker 3: Like, now you gonna throw some plastic in between?
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  Speaker 2: If you don't trust a nigga, just say that.
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  Speaker 4: That part.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't trust these niggas.
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  Speaker 4: Pussy pink booty ho brown, man. She said what she said, now.
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  Speaker 2: Why y'all fucking with him at all if you don't
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  Speaker 2: trust him?
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  Speaker 3: That's my thing. I'm literally not fucking with somebody. I'm
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  Speaker 3: not going to give you my coochie, but I won't
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  Speaker 3: suck your dick. It doesn't make sense to me. Right.
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  Speaker 2: So if I'm not willing to do all the things,
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  Speaker 2: I'm not fucking with you.
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  Speaker 4: Right.
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  Speaker 3: It just doesn't make sense otherwise. So I'm definitely not
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  Speaker 3: the raw dog queen, okay? Because I'm a grown-ass woman.
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  Speaker 3: I take care. Like, my hygiene, all that shit is
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  Speaker 3: number one priority. But Sexy Red appeared on Lil Yachty's
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  Speaker 3: A Safe Space podcast and shared explicit details about her
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  Speaker 3: bedroom experiences. Red shared the story of her ex-boyfriend suspecting
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  Speaker 3: her of cheating due to a condom in the trash.
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  Speaker 3: Her surprising response to him caught fans and surely her
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  Speaker 3: man off guard. That wasn't my condom, sexy rat said.
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  Speaker 3: I don't use condoms, baby. I'm the raw dog queen.
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  Speaker 4: It made it a great argument, though. Because it's like,
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  Speaker 4: if you know your girl, and.
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  Speaker 5: You know y'all be using condoms, and if that ain't
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  Speaker 5: really her forte like that, then it's like, why would
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  Speaker 5: there be a condom in the trash can?
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  Speaker 4: It really was like.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, you don't use condoms, but that means you're not,
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  Speaker 1: maybe not using condoms with other niggas.
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  Speaker 2: We was making water balloons.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, shit.
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  Speaker 4: And then it's because, but then she said, because I
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  Speaker 4: remember seeing it, she said it was her homegirl's dude
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  Speaker 4: who was over there that seen the condom in the
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  Speaker 4: trash can and told her dude. He did it.
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  Speaker 2: He framed her.
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  Speaker 4: Right. I think some framing that went on over there
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  Speaker 4: with that. That's happened to.
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  Speaker 2: Me, man. I done got framed by a homeboy before.
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  Speaker 5: What the hell is raw dog queen mean, though? Do
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  Speaker 5: that mean, you know, like, because I get it?
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  Speaker 1: You know what it mean.
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  Speaker 4: I'm hoping it don't mean.
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  Speaker 5: Every single person that you encounter and you just raw
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  Speaker 5: dog queen it.
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  Speaker 4: Versus.
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  Speaker 1: First of all, you can't be the queen without raw
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  Speaker 1: dog and everything.
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  Speaker 3: Oh, shit.
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  Speaker 2: That's a great line.
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  Speaker 4: You can't be the queen if you don't raw dog everything.
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  Speaker 4: That is a bar.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Bars.
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  Speaker 2: Damn. I hope she not. She only got one kid.
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  Speaker 3: We don't know how many abortions she had, but she
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  Speaker 3: only got one kid, so maybe she not really raw dog.
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  Speaker 2: I think a lot of times these bitches be out
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  Speaker 2: here saying shit for fun.
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  Speaker 4: Same thing we do. I got somebody, one of my
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  Speaker 4: homies is really close to me. He's actually one of
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  Speaker 4: my cousins. Fuck it. I'm just not going to say
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  Speaker 4: his name. One of my cousins.
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  Speaker 5: His reason for why he, because he got a girl
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  Speaker 5: he's extremely faithful to, but one of his biggest inspirations
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  Speaker 5: on why he's so faithful to her, other than the
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  Speaker 5: fact he loves her, is the fact that he don't
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  Speaker 5: use condoms.
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  Speaker 4: So he not finna just fuck on anything.
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  Speaker 2: I'd rather not have sex.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, because he's not using a condom. And so, like,
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  Speaker 4: that just not happens. It's not even in the... cards
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  Speaker 4: for him like.
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  Speaker 1: So and i'm just not having sex without a condom
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  Speaker 1: period i'm not let me tell you i have this
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  Speaker 1: image right and it just it scares the fuck out
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  Speaker 1: of me of me in a hospital bed right like
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  Speaker 1: all sick and all my family around me because i
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  Speaker 1: had raw sex with somebody that wasn't.
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  Speaker 3: Right that one no dog look that's scary that ain't
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  Speaker 3: scary It ain't not worse than fucking on a nigga
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  Speaker 3: and then he cough right after.
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  Speaker 1: Like, nigga, why are you coughing? But if you have
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  Speaker 1: on a condom, you're not as scared, right?
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Might still get a little hurt. That's skin contact.
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  Speaker 5: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: That's true. But what about.
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  Speaker 1: Do herpes make you cough? Like, the shit that make
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  Speaker 1: you cough is trapped in that condom.
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  Speaker 3: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 5: But what about oral, though?
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  Speaker 4: Because... That's what I'm saying.
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  Speaker 2: Like, you can get all that in your throat.
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  Speaker 4: Because ain't nobody get no hair with no condom on.
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  Speaker 4: It's like, at that point, if you didn't did that.
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  Speaker 2: I value my mouth and coochie the same. That's all
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  Speaker 2: I'm saying.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, but then what about pregnancy? Throw babies.
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  Speaker 5: Right.
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  Speaker 1: Like, you ain't never heard nobody have a baby out
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  Speaker 1: their throat. I'm sorry.
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  Speaker 4: That's true.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I was born of my mama's throat.
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  Speaker 4: Right, right. That's fair.
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  Speaker 3: There's so many tools out here now. Listen, get your
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  Speaker 3: ovulation calendars. Women, if you don't want to get pregnant,
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  Speaker 3: you don't have to. That shit is really up to us.
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  Speaker 2: For real. Just look around the ovulation.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: This girl is going to advocate for raw dick every
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  Speaker 1: single time.
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  Speaker 2: It's for safe. It's so safe. You know what I'm saying?
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  Speaker 2: Safe raw dick is what I'm advocating for. I'm not
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  Speaker 2: mad at that.
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  Speaker 4: I'm not mad at that.
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  Speaker 1: Anytime I fuck raw, I can't sleep at night. I
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  Speaker 1: be laying in the bed.
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  Speaker 2: Because you fucking with somebody you don't trust.
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  Speaker 1: I don't trust none of these niggas.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, don't trust yourself is what I'm hearing. Yeah, don't
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  Speaker 2: trust yourself. niggas.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah, not the new vibes, man. It can't be the
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  Speaker 4: new vibes.
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  Speaker 5: But then again, like to your point, it could be
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  Speaker 5: somebody that you been fucking with. Y'all could be fucking
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  Speaker 5: around for X amount of time, but he dipping and diving.
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  Speaker 2: Exactly.
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  Speaker 1: Mm-hmm.
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  Speaker 3: Ooh, I don't like niggas. That's why I be scared
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  Speaker 3: about niggas who spin the block. Anytime, like, it be
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  Speaker 3: years and niggas spin the block, like, what you coming
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  Speaker 3: to give me?
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  Speaker 2: Them the niggas on.
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  Speaker 1: Smash and Rock.
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  Speaker 2: Like, why you got that special delivery?
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  Speaker 4: Nah, I'm cool.
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  Speaker 1: House in Virginia?
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  Speaker 3: That hotel room in Vegas? Yeah, I'm good.
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  Speaker 4: Yeah. It's just, it's tricky. It's tricky.
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  Speaker 1: Y'all, Drake can't Go ahead.
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  Speaker 4: That's why I said niggas just need to be cool, man.
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  Speaker 4: Find your little one too and get on out the way, man.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, or they have like skin condoms and that thing
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  Speaker 1: feels close to skin.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: It's close to pop. Yeah, it does.
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  Speaker 4: The ecstasy joints them motherfuckers is crazy them bad boys
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  Speaker 4: ain't no joke.
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  Speaker 3: Add a little lube too that shit do be feeling
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  Speaker 3: like you fuck around fall in love on.
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  Speaker 1: Some condom dick for real I don't need no I
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  Speaker 1: had lube I don't need no.
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  Speaker 3: Lube my shit don't work right with them condoms it
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  Speaker 3: be feeling like I'm rubbing my coochie on the carpet
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  Speaker 3: at some point.
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  Speaker 2: I'm cool on.
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  Speaker 4: It okay that is amazing All right. I'm moving right along.
• 11:34
  Speaker 1: Drake came to the defense of a woman after a
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  Speaker 1: male fan was arguing with her over his tossed towel
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  Speaker 1: in L.A. So Drake threw his towel in the crowd.
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  Speaker 1: He was throwing it to this particular woman. And she
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  Speaker 1: caught it, but there was a man right next to her,
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  Speaker 1: and he tried to get the towel. And he was
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  Speaker 1: literally tussling with this woman for that towel.
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  Speaker 4: Crazy.
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  Speaker 1: And Drake had to say, like, boy, I sent somebody
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  Speaker 1: up there on you. Like, relax, poopy.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 4: Nah, Drake did, right?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it seems like men are, you know, oftentimes bigger
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  Speaker 1: groupies than the women.
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  Speaker 4: Men is the new bitches, man. Like, it's unfortunate.
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  Speaker 3: I think it's always been this way, though. I think
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  Speaker 3: y'all really be lying on women.
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  Speaker 1: Nah.
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  Speaker 2: Since the beginning of time.
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  Speaker 3: Nah. Niggas is lying on Eve, talking about she ate
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  Speaker 3: the apple.
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  Speaker 2: Meanwhile, niggas got the Adam's apple in they neck, dog.
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  Speaker 4: Right. Yeah, but nah, right, right.
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  Speaker 5: That's the bar right there. I almost tried to argue that,
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  Speaker 5: but damn. Nah, but women been the ones lying from
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  Speaker 5: the gate. I ain't gonna lie. I think niggas just
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  Speaker 5: been always chasing the pussy from the beginning. So the woman,
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  Speaker 5: she just nibbled on the apple, bit it, and she
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  Speaker 5: did the unthinkable. But then the niggas see her doing it,
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  Speaker 5: he like, fuck it, I'm with my woman.
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  Speaker 4: Hey, you naked? What you doing? What? Fuck.
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  Speaker 1: I don't even think the apple was real. I think
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  Speaker 1: the apple was Eve.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, for sure.
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  Speaker 1: And Adam did it to her ass.
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  Speaker 4: Oh, for sure. Oh, for sure. Without a doubt. But
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  Speaker 4: Drake did right though. I don't understand.
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  Speaker 5: Because at first when I seen the video, it was like,
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  Speaker 5: it looked like girls was tussling over it.
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  Speaker 4: And at first, that's why I feel like Drake kind
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  Speaker 4: of had a little bit of resistance first.
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  Speaker 5: Like he wasn't tripping. Because it looked like just women,
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  Speaker 5: you know, fighting over the towel, which is cool. But
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  Speaker 5: then it started getting crazy. And I wonder if the
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  Speaker 5: dude was the dude gay, maybe?
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  Speaker 4: I wonder. I don't know. I got questions.
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  Speaker 1: Does that make a difference?
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  Speaker 4: It doesn't make a difference, but it does make a
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  Speaker 4: small difference.
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  Speaker 2: It's a little bit more understandable.
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  Speaker 3: But we see this with It's homoeroticism that be going
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  Speaker 3: on with niggas. Niggas be writing poems to each other
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  Speaker 3: through the raps. You supposedly beefing with this nigga, but
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  Speaker 3: you're writing poems through your lyrics.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all in VIP, damn it. Y'all in VIP, damn it.
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  Speaker 3: Pushing women out of VIP to be next to the
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  Speaker 3: nigga with the check. Like, men do the same groupie shit.
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  Speaker 2: If not worse.
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  Speaker 5: Niggas definitely be on. One thing I can't stand is
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  Speaker 5: them pushing a nigga all in a section to be
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  Speaker 5: around other niggas.
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  Speaker 4: More niggas.
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  Speaker 5: It's six girls in this section. It's 13 of you niggas. Like,
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  Speaker 5: somebody hit the dance floor. Somebody go to the bar.
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  Speaker 1: Right. Or get another section.
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  Speaker 4: That's out of the question. That's out of the question
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  Speaker 4: most times. These niggas ain't getting no sections. Niggas is
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  Speaker 4: in here off the three drink minimum budget, man. Niggas
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  Speaker 4: ain't doing that.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, the same way we like niggas with money, niggas
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  Speaker 2: like niggas with money too. Let's be very clear. Okay?
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  Speaker 3: Yeah. don't nobody like broke niggas let's be clear y'all had.
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  Speaker 4: Said a bar earlier I don't know if I may
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  Speaker 4: have said but one of our prior conversations y'all said
• 14:52
  Speaker 4: a bar that was like you got some men that
• 14:56
  Speaker 4: feel fueled by how many women they can fuck and
• 14:59
  Speaker 4: you got some people that's fueled by how many people
• 15:02
  Speaker 4: they can take care of or something like that that
• 15:05
  Speaker 4: was fire I like that I agree.
• 15:11
  Speaker 3: All right, so somehow, I'm going to just go ahead
• 15:13
  Speaker 3: and say it. Bitch-ass academics. I don't like that dude.
• 15:17
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 15:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I don't fuck with academics.
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: I just don't like him. Okay, I don't like him.
• 15:20
  Speaker 3: And now you coming for, I feel like me and
• 15:23
  Speaker 3: Erykah Badu in the same coven. Okay, you better be careful, nigga,
• 15:26
  Speaker 3: before we put you in a motherfucking jar.
• 15:28
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 15:29
  Speaker 2: Put your ass in the freezer right quick. Be very careful.
• 15:32
  Speaker 3: How you talking to Erykah Badu? This nigga was talking
• 15:37
  Speaker 3: so reckless. So apparently she was on Everyday Struggle in 2018.
• 15:43
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 15:44
  Speaker 3: Remember Everyday Struggle was academics, Joe Budden, Remy Ma, and
• 15:49
  Speaker 3: some other, it was one of the, I think they
• 15:51
  Speaker 3: swapped out somebody.
• 15:53
  Speaker 2: It was like another guy, another girl at some point.
• 15:55
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 15:56
  Speaker 2: But those three main characters is always there. And Erykah
• 15:59
  Speaker 2: Badu was on and she was like, you know what
• 16:00
  Speaker 2: you look like? She said, you know who you look like?
• 16:03
  Speaker 4: Jeri.
• 16:05
  Speaker 2: Jerry off of.
• 16:06
  Speaker 3: Tom and jerry and once you see that shit you
• 16:08
  Speaker 3: can't unsee it right the nigga literally looks like jerry
• 16:13
  Speaker 3: the mouse off of tom and jerry and we also
• 16:16
  Speaker 3: know he was out there siding with 69 nigga stay
• 16:19
  Speaker 3: snitching dry snitching on people on his platform yeah so
• 16:24
  Speaker 3: now here it is 2023 we done made it through
• 16:26
  Speaker 3: covid you know i'm saying whoever's alive gonna be alive
• 16:29
  Speaker 3: we chilling How the fuck you beefing with Erykah Badu
• 16:33
  Speaker 3: by some shit she said to you in 2018?
• 16:34
  Speaker 2: Why you need to check her right there in her face?
• 16:37
  Speaker 3: Here you a grown man in your fucking basement cussing
• 16:39
  Speaker 3: Erykah Badu out.
• 16:41
  Speaker 2: You look crazy.
• 16:42
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I witnessed, one thing I witnessed about that guy
• 16:46
  Speaker 5: is like, he loves to want to argue with women.
• 16:50
  Speaker 5: Because the only time you've ever seen him in an
• 16:52
  Speaker 5: in-person physical altercation going hard on a woman, well, in
• 16:56
  Speaker 5: person it was a woman. when he was yelling at
• 16:59
  Speaker 5: her talking about I'm the prize and all that nut
• 17:01
  Speaker 5: shit so you never I didn't watch too many niggas
• 17:04
  Speaker 5: in person check the fuck out of him tell him
• 17:06
  Speaker 5: crazy shit and that nigga not budge even with Erykah
• 17:10
  Speaker 5: Badu telling him something in public in person you not
• 17:13
  Speaker 5: budge but I think now that he's gotten so much
• 17:17
  Speaker 5: cause he up now he millions up at this point
• 17:20
  Speaker 5: so now that he's financially at a different space and
• 17:24
  Speaker 5: he really don't gotta go outside to make money And
• 17:28
  Speaker 5: when he does, he got security. Now you getting a
• 17:30
  Speaker 5: whole different tone out that nigga. It's a whole different.
• 17:34
  Speaker 4: He wanted them niggas. He wanted them niggas when the
• 17:36
  Speaker 4: security finally come. Now he bucking and barking like, nigga,
• 17:39
  Speaker 4: what you want to do? He wanted him. I'm working
• 17:42
  Speaker 4: on me because me two years ago, I would be
• 17:45
  Speaker 4: really trying to put my hands on him. He's somebody
• 17:50
  Speaker 4: who I really feel like I got to stay away
• 17:52
  Speaker 4: from because I would probably, I'm serious. I really do
• 17:56
  Speaker 4: think I will put my hands on him.
• 17:58
  Speaker 2: I think a lot of people feel like that.
• 18:00
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 18:01
  Speaker 4: It's just not fresh for our people. And then for
• 18:06
  Speaker 4: him to be kind of like a gatekeeper and a,
• 18:09
  Speaker 4: you know, it's fucking up the narrative. Extremely.
• 18:14
  Speaker 1: For him to say like, nigga, what's up now? What
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: we finna do? It's like, are you threatening her? Even
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: if you don't like what she said, even if you're
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: mad at what she said, cool, but all of that
• 18:26
  Speaker 1: like what you gonna fight Erica Badu man you better.
• 18:29
  Speaker 5: Act like you better act like Jay Electronica is her
• 18:31
  Speaker 5: baby daddy and cool the fuck out I ain't even
• 18:36
  Speaker 5: first of all Common will fucking come step on you
• 18:39
  Speaker 5: like it's niggas that just encountered her that will literally
• 18:42
  Speaker 5: fuck him up but nigga Jay Electronica will choke you
• 18:45
  Speaker 5: to death that nigga is a fruit of Islam that
• 18:48
  Speaker 5: nigga under Farrakhan nigga trippy you better leave him alone
• 18:52
  Speaker 5: so nah.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: He crazy Sometimes I think he just says things so
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: like we can talk about it.
• 18:57
  Speaker 4: Of course.
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: Like I just think it's just, you know, some shock
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: therapy for all of us because why, what was the point?
• 19:03
  Speaker 4: You know, it's clickbait, but he's really, he's really to
• 19:07
  Speaker 4: a internet nigga. And he's a part of that, this era.
• 19:11
  Speaker 5: He's a part of this era where it's just like
• 19:13
  Speaker 5: people get in front of their phone, get in front
• 19:15
  Speaker 5: of a computer camera and just pop it, you know,
• 19:19
  Speaker 5: like Twitter fingers and, you know Instagram warriors and YouTube
• 19:24
  Speaker 5: goons like this is what they do you know what
• 19:26
  Speaker 5: I mean like he's like the epitome of that you
• 19:30
  Speaker 5: know so it's really sad Erica Badua fuck him up
• 19:34
  Speaker 5: my money don't hurt.
• 19:35
  Speaker 3: Yeah like Erica don't have to leave the house to
• 19:39
  Speaker 3: touch that boy he better be careful that's all.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: I gotta say about academics you.
• 19:43
  Speaker 3: Do look like Tom and Jerry you do look like
• 19:45
  Speaker 3: Jerry she said nothing wrong okay it's all facts money
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: definitely on Erica, y'all.
• 19:53
  Speaker 4: And she said it in your face, man.
• 19:55
  Speaker 5: We don't never fuck with nobody who, like, somebody, y'all
• 19:59
  Speaker 5: had a physical, in-person conversation, disagreement, altercation, any of that,
• 20:04
  Speaker 5: and you.
• 20:04
  Speaker 4: Don't budge, you don't move on it, and then you go...
• 20:08
  Speaker 4: home and get on MySpace, get on Twitter, get on Instagram,
• 20:11
  Speaker 4: get on Black Planet, get on anything.
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: Not MySpace, god damn.
• 20:14
  Speaker 4: I'm taking it all the way back to there. I
• 20:16
  Speaker 4: don't give a fuck what you go get on. You
• 20:18
  Speaker 4: don't deal with that shit head on. You are the
• 20:22
  Speaker 4: bottom of the barrel.
• 20:25
  Speaker 1: And then four or five years later, come on man.
• 20:30
  Speaker 3: I think I might start a beef with academics. I'm
• 20:32
  Speaker 3: thinking about it. I might do a diss song. I
• 20:35
  Speaker 3: might start some beef with that nigga.
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: Just make a clip of this.
• 20:39
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 20:39
  Speaker 2: You will have started it. Fuck academics.
• 20:44
  Speaker 3: Right.
• 20:45
  Speaker 4: I've envisioned it. I've envisioned it. I'm waiting to get
• 20:48
  Speaker 4: to a certain level to where it's like, where you
• 20:50
  Speaker 4: going to respond to me. And then when you respond,
• 20:53
  Speaker 4: I'm going to hunt on you. I'm going to be
• 20:55
  Speaker 4: all outside your house.
• 20:56
  Speaker 2: Well, he going to respond to us.
• 20:56
  Speaker 3: He going to respond to a woman before he responds
• 20:58
  Speaker 3: to a man anyway. So you already know it's about
• 21:00
  Speaker 3: to be on and popping. And I'm pretty sure I
• 21:03
  Speaker 3: could beat academics up. I'm pretty sure.
• 21:05
  Speaker 4: My money will be with you too. I'm serious.
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: I'm not fighting no man. I promise you I'm not
• 21:12
  Speaker 1: fighting no man. I'm shooting though. I have been going
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: to the range. I'm not fighting.
• 21:16
  Speaker 4: Come on, y'all. I ain't mad at that. All right, y'all.
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: We were about to go to a break and we're
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: going to be talking relationships in marriage with Price and
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: we have another guest. So we'll be right back in
• 21:29
  Speaker 1: a minute.
• 21:29
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 21:30
  Speaker 2: All right, y'all. Listen. Thank you for staying tuned.
• 21:39
  Speaker 3: Okay, so for today's episode, Tim and I wanted to
• 21:42
  Speaker 3: talk about marriage, right? But neither one of us are married.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: We're two single bitches, okay? And then we also wanted
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: to get the perspective of marriage from men.
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: So today we have Mr. Do you call yourself a rappreneur?
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: Is that how you pronounce it?
• 21:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah, actually. Yeah, a rappreneur.
• 22:03
  Speaker 5: I do music, I'm an artist, but I also love business.
• 22:07
  Speaker 4: I'm crazy about business. Yeah.
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: Alright, so we got Mr. Price, the rappreneur, okay? And
• 22:14
  Speaker 2: then we have a film and TV executive producer, Mr. Vlad.
• 22:21
  Speaker 3: How you doing?
• 22:22
  Speaker 6: How's it going?
• 22:24
  Speaker 2: Is that how you pronounce your last name?
• 22:26
  Speaker 6: It's French.
• 22:28
  Speaker 4: Oh, excuse me. Yeah.
• 22:30
  Speaker 3: Okay y'all welcome to we talk back yeah look y'all
• 22:37
  Speaker 3: remember the movie tallit perry movie why did i get
• 22:39
  Speaker 3: married why did y'all get married okay vlad is currently
• 22:43
  Speaker 3: married y'all and price is a divorcee of a few
• 22:46
  Speaker 3: years now so why did y'all get married let's start
• 22:50
  Speaker 3: with you vlad um.
• 22:53
  Speaker 6: Why did i get married it's crazy um You know,
• 22:57
  Speaker 6: so I did the whole, my situation is a little different.
• 23:01
  Speaker 6: So I got with my wife about 10 years ago.
• 23:05
  Speaker 6: Matter of fact, 2009, about 14 years ago. We had
• 23:09
  Speaker 6: a first child. We moved in together around 2016. I
• 23:15
  Speaker 6: had my second child. And by 2017, I'm like, okay,
• 23:21
  Speaker 6: we're fully committed. We've done it all. Like, what's next?
• 23:24
  Speaker 6: There's nothing else to do but to get married, right?
• 23:27
  Speaker 6: I did it that way because, you know, I didn't
• 23:29
  Speaker 6: like the way the traditional things were running. You know,
• 23:31
  Speaker 6: you get with somebody, then you get married, then you
• 23:33
  Speaker 6: have kids. That's where all this kind of like falters
• 23:36
  Speaker 6: for me. And I never seen a real relationship go
• 23:39
  Speaker 6: down that way. So, you know, I had to do
• 23:41
  Speaker 6: things a little different. And I've been married four years
• 23:44
  Speaker 6: since and it's been good for me.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: I feel like men get married like, all right. damn,
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: we done been together 17 years. Let me go ahead
• 23:54
  Speaker 1: and marry her. Yeah, I feel like that too.
• 23:57
  Speaker 3: I feel like there's really no rhyme or reason why
• 24:00
  Speaker 3: men get married.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: It's like whoever you with at the time, you feel
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: like you're ready.
• 24:04
  Speaker 6: That's even that man. It's all about mitigating the risks.
• 24:08
  Speaker 6: You know what I mean? At that point, it's like,
• 24:10
  Speaker 6: where are we both going?
• 24:12
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 24:14
  Speaker 1: What about you, Price? Why did you get married?
• 24:17
  Speaker 5: Um, I decided to get married at the time. When
• 24:21
  Speaker 5: I got married, I want to say I was 25.
• 24:23
  Speaker 5: I was, I think I was 25. Um, yeah, very, but, um,
• 24:29
  Speaker 5: what inspired me to get married is cause I am
• 24:31
  Speaker 5: an artist, you know, I'm in the, I'm in a
• 24:33
  Speaker 5: lot of musical settings and well, other than the fact
• 24:37
  Speaker 5: I was like in love with the, with the woman, but, um,
• 24:41
  Speaker 5: you know, what really inspired me.
• 24:43
  Speaker 4: Was, yeah, definitely, definitely is.
• 24:45
  Speaker 5: But what inspired it more than anything too, I could say,
• 24:48
  Speaker 5: was just wanting to kind of like stand for something
• 24:51
  Speaker 5: a little different for like my generation and my people,
• 24:54
  Speaker 5: you know, like I'm big on just black legacy. And
• 25:00
  Speaker 5: I got two sons. Well, I have two sons now,
• 25:01
  Speaker 5: but at the time I had one son and it
• 25:04
  Speaker 5: was important for me for my son who was not
• 25:06
  Speaker 5: by my ex-wife. I just wanted him to see black
• 25:11
  Speaker 5: family structure done the right way. Like I didn't see
• 25:13
  Speaker 5: that my family wasn't married. My mom, my pops was independent.
• 25:17
  Speaker 5: So I was five, you know, my mom's a single mom.
• 25:21
  Speaker 5: So I'd never seen that structure. My mom actually ended
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: up getting married to my stepdad later, but that shit
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: was terribly balanced.
• 25:26
  Speaker 4: My mom was the breadwinner. My step pops didn't work
• 25:29
  Speaker 4: and just did what the fuck you wanted to do.
• 25:30
  Speaker 5: So it was just, just not the proper representation of
• 25:35
  Speaker 5: like a great black family structure.
• 25:37
  Speaker 4: And I kind of wanted to just create that for myself.
• 25:41
  Speaker 4: And so that's where my inspiration came from other than
• 25:44
  Speaker 4: just love. Cause I feel like I've even loved.
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: Other women more than my ex-wife but it was like
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: at the current time of my life I was just
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: really heavy on that and um yeah I kind of
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: just went for it that's one thing about me too
• 25:57
  Speaker 5: like I'm a risk taker no risk no reward I'm
• 26:00
  Speaker 5: like I believe in that so I was just like
• 26:03
  Speaker 5: let's get it you know it just didn't exactly it
• 26:07
  Speaker 5: didn't turn out you know but we'll get to.
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: That do y'all feel like men benefit from marriage because
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: I hear a lot of conversation now like marriage is
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: for the woman, it's not for the man. And y'all
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: don't benefit at all from it.
• 26:23
  Speaker 4: Um... I guess... Well, go ahead, yeah.
• 26:26
  Speaker 6: Nah, yeah, I benefit, because what I like to do is, like,
• 26:30
  Speaker 6: everything with my wife, everything we do, like, we do, like,
• 26:33
  Speaker 6: new things together, especially with the kids. Like, it has
• 26:35
  Speaker 6: to be... If we have our favorite restaurant, we'll go
• 26:37
  Speaker 6: to that. But if we're doing something new, we're doing
• 26:39
  Speaker 6: something new together, right? This is what keeps it going,
• 26:41
  Speaker 6: instead of, you know, stagnant. But, um... Nah, I enjoy it.
• 26:44
  Speaker 6: You know what I mean? Because, like, nah, this dating
• 26:45
  Speaker 6: scene is... kind of.
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: Crazy right now trash baby who you telling.
• 26:52
  Speaker 7: Trenches for real right and i never did the whole
• 26:55
  Speaker 7: online dating thing because i'm just like an outside kind
• 26:57
  Speaker 7: of guy if i meet you in person chemistry is
• 26:59
  Speaker 7: there we go from there but uh date i can't
• 27:01
  Speaker 7: i can't i don't even like putting myself on instagram
• 27:04
  Speaker 7: like pictures of myself on instagram so right to.
• 27:06
  Speaker 6: Do a whole profile and like try to you know
• 27:09
  Speaker 6: With a file. Yeah, do an audition.
• 27:11
  Speaker 1: Niggas profile pictures get whack.
• 27:15
  Speaker 3: They profile pictures get whack.
• 27:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah, that's crazy.
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:22
  Speaker 3: Maybe the same people in heavy rotation on those dating
• 27:25
  Speaker 3: apps too. It's like a fucking freedom frenzy for fucking.
• 27:28
  Speaker 6: That's all it is.
• 27:29
  Speaker 4: I've actually never even been on other dating sites, but
• 27:33
  Speaker 4: I can't say when I was.
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: You listen to Puget?
• 27:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: Yeah. carry on unless Instagram's a dating.
• 27:43
  Speaker 3: Site it is the biggest dating site so then I
• 27:47
  Speaker 3: would say then I definitely have.
• 27:51
  Speaker 5: But I would say that the men definitely benefit from
• 27:55
  Speaker 5: marriage especially when it's right you know what I mean
• 27:58
  Speaker 5: when it's right when there's a proper like structure and
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: just balance and communication levels men definitely benefit because you
• 28:05
  Speaker 5: got a partner and if you got like a wife
• 28:07
  Speaker 5: that um.
• 28:09
  Speaker 4: You know, is a partner and team player.
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: It's many ways, depending on what type of lifestyle you live,
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: that your wife can help enhance your life and vice versa,
• 28:18
  Speaker 5: you know?
• 28:19
  Speaker 4: So I think for sure men benefit.
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: Yeah, you know, like me, I'm a type of dude,
• 28:24
  Speaker 5: like I like, I'll be all over the place.
• 28:28
  Speaker 4: So I be needing somebody to kind of have a
• 28:30
  Speaker 4: little structure.
• 28:31
  Speaker 5: And I was cool with sharing like bank accounts and
• 28:33
  Speaker 5: shit like that, because I want you to just pay
• 28:35
  Speaker 5: for all this shit. The money going to be there.
• 28:37
  Speaker 5: You pay for everything. I like that type of shit.
• 28:40
  Speaker 5: You know, I make my life easy. I don't got
• 28:41
  Speaker 5: to think about nothing.
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: That's definitely old school. Yeah, that's old school, you know,
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: where the man brings home the bacon and the woman
• 28:48
  Speaker 1: spread the money out and give him.
• 28:49
  Speaker 4: A little piece.
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: That's really not though. I think a lot of people
• 28:54
  Speaker 2: that I know are married, like usually the woman handles
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: the finances.
• 28:57
  Speaker 3: Like, you know what I'm saying? She has the pocketbook.
• 28:59
  Speaker 3: She has the checkbook. The man just deposits the money
• 29:01
  Speaker 3: and the bills get paid. Now, you can get a
• 29:03
  Speaker 3: fucked up wife. who just be running a check up
• 29:05
  Speaker 3: on Instagram, you know? I think pretty much that's how
• 29:09
  Speaker 3: a lot of people I know who are married run
• 29:11
  Speaker 3: a household.
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 29:15
  Speaker 5: That was where it was successful at for me.
• 29:19
  Speaker 4: So to answer the question, I think men definitely benefit
• 29:22
  Speaker 4: from marriage.
• 29:24
  Speaker 2: I was wanting one of y'all to say no so
• 29:25
  Speaker 2: we can argue.
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: I wish I had some pushback on that.
• 29:34
  Speaker 5: Yeah, because if you're the type of man where you
• 29:37
  Speaker 5: actually want to be married, like, some men are married
• 29:41
  Speaker 5: based on weird circumstances and shit like y'all were.
• 29:44
  Speaker 4: Talking about, right?
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: Like, I'm about to go to prison, and I don't
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: need this woman to be able to talk in court
• 29:50
  Speaker 1: against me, so I'm going to marry her.
• 29:52
  Speaker 4: Yeah, or just some type.
• 29:53
  Speaker 6: Of financial play.
• 29:54
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 29:55
  Speaker 5: They don't want to, like, oh, you ain't got it pregnant. And, like,
• 29:59
  Speaker 5: different from bro situation, Vlad, where it's, like, it's conniving. Like, oh,
• 30:04
  Speaker 5: I ain't got this girl pregnant.
• 30:05
  Speaker 4: And she might do, dude, let me just marry her.
• 30:06
  Speaker 5: You know, it'd be a lot of trickery. So with
• 30:10
  Speaker 5: those types of situations, I don't even really speak on.
• 30:13
  Speaker 5: But when it's a man who actually wants to be
• 30:15
  Speaker 5: married and, like, values the woman they with, men benefit, too,
• 30:19
  Speaker 5: because when you marry, you're, like, sharing, you're fusing life
• 30:22
  Speaker 5: with a person.
• 30:23
  Speaker 4: So, like, marriage forced me to see things about myself.
• 30:27
  Speaker 5: I never even, like, I didn't know I had, like,
• 30:29
  Speaker 5: issues with, like, anger, like, I did, you know, or
• 30:32
  Speaker 5: certain things that I was, like, forced to see and
• 30:34
  Speaker 5: forced to change because I cared about, like, making my
• 30:38
  Speaker 5: partner happy and shit.
• 30:39
  Speaker 6: So, yeah. We got some good men on.
• 30:43
  Speaker 4: No, no, no.
• 30:43
  Speaker 6: To piggyback off of that, too, it was great, too,
• 30:45
  Speaker 6: because me and my wife, we started doing couples therapy. And, like,
• 30:49
  Speaker 6: we didn't, I didn't know from, like, certain perspectives, like, like,
• 30:54
  Speaker 6: certain things that would affect her, right? So I was
• 30:56
  Speaker 6: so stuck in, you know, just doing my own thing,
• 30:58
  Speaker 6: just hustling, whatever, like doing what I need to do
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: for the fam. But when I would have a therapy session,
• 31:03
  Speaker 6: it would always be like, oh, this is the way
• 31:06
  Speaker 6: I feel from this point of view. I'm like, I
• 31:07
  Speaker 6: would never know that. And this is the way I
• 31:09
  Speaker 6: feel from this point of view. She would never know that.
• 31:11
  Speaker 6: So therapist was like a great, like, mediator to, like,
• 31:14
  Speaker 6: seeing point of views and working on that. Because I'm
• 31:18
  Speaker 6: a guy, like, I just get upon my feelings. I'm like,
• 31:19
  Speaker 6: you know, I'm going to do what I need to do.
• 31:21
  Speaker 6: And if you, you know what I mean?
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: That's what it is.
• 31:24
  Speaker 6: I mean, until the situation gets fixed and then we
• 31:26
  Speaker 6: keep moving. But yeah, having a therapist in a marriage
• 31:30
  Speaker 6: is like helpful. Even if you feel like you don't
• 31:31
  Speaker 6: need it and everything's good, but it helps out a
• 31:34
  Speaker 6: lot though.
• 31:34
  Speaker 4: A hundred percent.
• 31:36
  Speaker 1: Do you feel like your wife needs to be submissive
• 31:39
  Speaker 1: to you?
• 31:41
  Speaker 3: Let me tell y'all where that's coming from. So we
• 31:44
  Speaker 3: wanted to do this episode. Have y'all seen that viral
• 31:46
  Speaker 3: video that's.
• 31:47
  Speaker 2: Going on right now? There's a man and woman out
• 31:49
  Speaker 2: at the altar, right?
• 31:51
  Speaker 3: And, you know, they're reading these traditional vows, which I
• 31:53
  Speaker 3: want all our listeners and y'all to know that the
• 31:56
  Speaker 3: vows that they read and they have you agree to
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: when you're getting married, that shit is not biblical. It's
• 32:02
  Speaker 3: not in the fucking Bible, okay?
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: It's not.
• 32:05
  Speaker 3: So when they got to the part where the preacher
• 32:09
  Speaker 3: was like.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: For richer or poorer.
• 32:12
  Speaker 3: She was like, because apparently they had already talked about
• 32:16
  Speaker 3: that shit in therapy before getting married. And she was like,
• 32:19
  Speaker 3: oh no, I'm not agreeing to the obey part of
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: the vows, right? So that's like a big thing online.
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: It's about women being submissive, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah, blah. That,
• 32:31
  Speaker 3: you know, going into Tam's question, what do y'all feel
• 32:33
  Speaker 3: about submission in a marriage? Because I think both me
• 32:39
  Speaker 3: and Tam, we feel like both people... are supposed to
• 32:42
  Speaker 3: submit to each other.
• 32:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Exactly.
• 32:44
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 32:45
  Speaker 4: Exactly. Yeah.
• 32:46
  Speaker 6: Cause it's like, you know, I don't want to, I
• 32:49
  Speaker 6: wanted to be bickering all the time. You know what
• 32:51
  Speaker 6: I mean? It's like, I guess somebody has to get right.
• 32:53
  Speaker 4: And it's like, yeah. Yeah.
• 32:56
  Speaker 6: I mean, that makes it entertaining as well. You know
• 32:58
  Speaker 6: what I mean? It's like, as long as we have
• 32:59
  Speaker 6: like boundaries and structure in that, you know what I mean?
• 33:02
  Speaker 6: We keep it real with each other. It's like, okay.
• 33:03
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 33:04
  Speaker 6: But yeah, yeah. I'm married to a woman, you know
• 33:08
  Speaker 6: what I mean? You can be an independent, strong woman,
• 33:10
  Speaker 6: but you know, We can have our conversations about, you know,
• 33:13
  Speaker 6: doing some shit.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be an independent strong woman.
• 33:15
  Speaker 2: Yes, you do, bitch.
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: No, I don't.
• 33:17
  Speaker 4: If you didn't, you'd be married.
• 33:19
  Speaker 2: You would be married right now.
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: I'm tired of being an independent strong woman. I want, like,
• 33:24
  Speaker 1: all right, so it says that you will obey. And
• 33:28
  Speaker 1: people are, like, cringing at the word obey.
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: I don't mind that.
• 33:31
  Speaker 3: Let's read the definition. Let's read the definition of obey
• 33:34
  Speaker 3: right quick. I got it for y'all.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 33:37
  Speaker 3: The Cambridge dictionary definition of obey is to act according
• 33:42
  Speaker 3: to what you have been asked or ordered to do
• 33:45
  Speaker 3: by someone in authority or to behave according to a
• 33:48
  Speaker 3: rule law or instruction. No, you know what I'm saying?
• 33:53
  Speaker 3: Because not everybody doesn't have all the answers, right? So
• 33:56
  Speaker 3: I should be able to, We should be able to
• 33:59
  Speaker 3: have a conversation about whatever the problem is or whatever
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: it is that we're trying to solve together. I don't
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: want to always be the number one problem solver or
• 34:08
  Speaker 3: decision maker, and I know that can get tiring for
• 34:10
  Speaker 3: a man.
• 34:11
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 34:11
  Speaker 4: Right. So, AJ, do me a favor, though, one more time.
• 34:14
  Speaker 4: Can we read that one more time?
• 34:15
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 34:16
  Speaker 3: To act according to what you have been asked or
• 34:19
  Speaker 3: ordered to do by someone in authority.
• 34:22
  Speaker 4: Let's stop right there.
• 34:24
  Speaker 3: Right?
• 34:25
  Speaker 4: So, I love how it says, ask... asked or ordered
• 34:30
  Speaker 4: right right so it's not just like whoever's ordering you
• 34:34
  Speaker 4: to do some shit or tell you what you know
• 34:36
  Speaker 4: i'm saying it's you're being asked now if i gotta
• 34:41
  Speaker 4: order your ass.
• 34:43
  Speaker 5: Depending on what the situation is what we're talking about
• 34:46
  Speaker 5: you might get ordered.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: But i'm okay with that i'm okay with that if
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: it's my husband Like, I married this man for a reason, right?
• 34:55
  Speaker 4: Exactly, exactly.
• 34:56
  Speaker 1: That's why I feel like I'm not, like, it doesn't
• 34:58
  Speaker 1: make me cringe as much.
• 35:00
  Speaker 4: Yeah, but I agree with y'all. Like, I agree with
• 35:02
  Speaker 4: what you said in the beginning.
• 35:03
  Speaker 5: At the end of the day, I believe that both
• 35:06
  Speaker 5: partners should be willing to submit because we're going to
• 35:09
  Speaker 5: have to submit in moments.
• 35:10
  Speaker 4: There's going to be times where it's like, I don't
• 35:12
  Speaker 4: want to watch this show, baby, but fuck it. Like,
• 35:15
  Speaker 4: here we are. Here we are watching a.
• 35:17
  Speaker 1: Let's talk about a mainland thing.
• 35:19
  Speaker 4: Love is blind.
• 35:19
  Speaker 2: TV is, like, minuscule. Let's talk about big life decisions.
• 35:23
  Speaker 4: Big life decisions.
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: It's small depending on who and what you do and
• 35:29
  Speaker 5: who you are. Because to me, watching shit that I
• 35:31
  Speaker 5: don't want to watch ain't small. Because, like, to me,
• 35:34
  Speaker 5: time is money. Wasted time is wasted money.
• 35:36
  Speaker 4: If I'm spending two hours watching a show that I
• 35:38
  Speaker 4: don't give a fuck about, I'm not learning from, I'm
• 35:40
  Speaker 4: not gaining anything from it just to satisfy you with
• 35:43
  Speaker 4: this in a time spending moment. That's not small to me.
• 35:48
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean? But on a bigger scale,
• 35:52
  Speaker 4: there are just moments where, you know, we'll have to
• 35:55
  Speaker 4: say like me and my ex-wife at the time, I
• 35:58
  Speaker 4: had a Porsche and she had, I had a Porsche that,
• 36:02
  Speaker 4: you know, we were married.
• 36:03
  Speaker 5: So I put it in both of our names because
• 36:06
  Speaker 5: we're married, but i bought the porsche you know i'm
• 36:09
  Speaker 5: saying like obviously you know i paid for the person
• 36:11
  Speaker 5: etc etc my ex-wife at the time she had uh
• 36:15
  Speaker 5: she she had a car already like her dad gets
• 36:18
  Speaker 5: cars so make a little story short she ended up
• 36:20
  Speaker 5: having this at this brand new ford whatever wherever we
• 36:24
  Speaker 5: we would argue over like if i'm going to a
• 36:27
  Speaker 5: meeting or i got a studio session with travis goddard
• 36:29
  Speaker 5: etc etc it's.
• 36:30
  Speaker 4: Like I got to take the porch.
• 36:33
  Speaker 5: You know, she'll be going to brunch with her homegirls
• 36:37
  Speaker 5: and we'll be arguing over this shit.
• 36:38
  Speaker 1: Take the fort, nigga. Take the fort. She wants you
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: to take you to Ford?
• 36:43
  Speaker 4: This would be real beef. We'd be having real issues
• 36:46
  Speaker 4: over this shit. I would be sitting there looking like, yo.
• 36:49
  Speaker 2: That's my car.
• 36:51
  Speaker 4: See, I wouldn't even go there.
• 36:53
  Speaker 2: I wouldn't even do the my shit.
• 36:55
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I'm not even going to do the my. I'm
• 36:56
  Speaker 5: going to just actually make you think about what you're
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: saying right now. So you want me to pull up
• 37:01
  Speaker 5: to Warner Brothers or to Interscope in the Ford when
• 37:04
  Speaker 5: we have a Porsche?
• 37:05
  Speaker 4: We got a whole Panamera in the garage, but you
• 37:08
  Speaker 4: want me to pull up in this fucking Ford So
• 37:10
  Speaker 4: then niggas can, unfortunately, we live in a perception era
• 37:13
  Speaker 4: and a perception day where at that point, niggas are
• 37:16
  Speaker 4: going to value me to this Ford. So now I'm
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: coming home with instead of $ 100, 000, maybe $ 10, 000 play. Right.
• 37:22
  Speaker 5: Because you want to go eat and drink with your
• 37:24
  Speaker 5: homegirls and do who knows what the fuck.
• 37:26
  Speaker 2: Spend money.
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: Do the Ford make the music or do you make
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: the music? I know she was like that.
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: Oh, my God.
• 37:32
  Speaker 1: Right.
• 37:32
  Speaker 4: Exactly. Just saying that to say at those moments, it's like,
• 37:37
  Speaker 4: all right, it got to be some order in here.
• 37:39
  Speaker 4: I ain't necessarily trying to.
• 37:41
  Speaker 5: I want to submit and bend, but okay, now I
• 37:45
  Speaker 5: got to lay the law down because I'm not taking
• 37:47
  Speaker 5: the floor.
• 37:47
  Speaker 4: It's just not even an option anymore. Now we not
• 37:49
  Speaker 4: even talk about it no more. It's not a debate
• 37:52
  Speaker 4: no more.
• 37:53
  Speaker 5: We can beef, we can do it however you want
• 37:55
  Speaker 5: to do it, but the conversation's done.
• 37:59
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: To y'all, there's no head of household is equal?
• 38:03
  Speaker 4: Well, Go ahead, if you want to.
• 38:05
  Speaker 5: I don't think it's equal because I'm going to tell
• 38:08
  Speaker 5: you why it's not equal.
• 38:09
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 38:11
  Speaker 4: If, God forbid, we're in our home and we laying
• 38:15
  Speaker 4: down and for whatever reason our little alarm system don't
• 38:18
  Speaker 4: go off and somebody end up in our house.
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: And I got this Glock at the top of this damn,
• 38:25
  Speaker 5: this counter, I mean, underneath the bed or on the
• 38:27
  Speaker 5: top of this shelf, I'm finna lay whoever down and
• 38:31
  Speaker 5: it came up in our shit.
• 38:32
  Speaker 4: Them niggas is going down. You finna be protected by
• 38:35
  Speaker 4: all measures and period. You ain't even gonna have to
• 38:38
  Speaker 4: think about nothing. So to me, it's like, I'm not
• 38:42
  Speaker 4: going to say it's like a head or a hand
• 38:45
  Speaker 4: in the house, like an overarchy, like somebody to just
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: make all the decisions.
• 38:48
  Speaker 5: But at the same time, like there should be leadership.
• 38:50
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
• 38:51
  Speaker 5: I feel like, like you said, if you, if you are,
• 38:54
  Speaker 5: if you chose to like marry this man, you should
• 38:56
  Speaker 5: be able to trust his leadership.
• 38:58
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? Trust him. following behind or
• 39:01
  Speaker 4: on side. I'm not even with the whole following behind.
• 39:03
  Speaker 4: You could just be on my side. But I'm going
• 39:07
  Speaker 4: to steer where we're going. You know what I'm saying?
• 39:09
  Speaker 4: So that's what I think. I agree. I think.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm sorry.
• 39:12
  Speaker 4: Go ahead.
• 39:12
  Speaker 2: I'm sorry.
• 39:13
  Speaker 6: No, sorry to cut you off. But from one thing
• 39:15
  Speaker 6: that you said, we are living in this perception era, right?
• 39:19
  Speaker 6: So my whole thing is like, before you get married,
• 39:21
  Speaker 6: figure all those things out. All those things are right
• 39:25
  Speaker 6: to get past that perception shit and just like okay
• 39:30
  Speaker 6: if i know we're gonna do this or whatever we
• 39:31
  Speaker 6: get into it was like you know get past that
• 39:33
  Speaker 6: perception or whatever and whatever you put out on the
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: gram or put out to people is what you want
• 39:37
  Speaker 6: to put out to people but you know when you
• 39:39
  Speaker 6: go home it's solid right yeah right and the communication
• 39:42
  Speaker 6: tool is like that has to be key something i
• 39:44
  Speaker 6: had to work on a lot communication but you know.
• 39:47
  Speaker 4: Facts.
• 39:50
  Speaker 1: I just want to point out that if there was
• 39:52
  Speaker 1: an intruder that came into me and AJ's house, we
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: both are going to have our gun. Period. You got
• 39:58
  Speaker 1: yours and I got mine, nigga. I like it.
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: I like it.
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: Look, somebody got to love to tell a story. It
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: is always going.
• 40:07
  Speaker 6: To be me.
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: Mr.
• 40:08
  Speaker 3: And Mrs.
• 40:08
  Speaker 4: Smith. That's a good one. Period. Like, we.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: But yeah, in order for men.
• 40:16
  Speaker 3: To protect ladies, right, you have to be able to
• 40:19
  Speaker 3: take some type of direction. You know what I'm saying?
• 40:21
  Speaker 3: Like you fuck around and end up dead if you
• 40:23
  Speaker 3: can't listen to anybody.
• 40:24
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 40:25
  Speaker 3: So if you want the protection of a man, you
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: got to be able to listen.
• 40:29
  Speaker 4: Right. Or not even God forbid, but just like, and
• 40:33
  Speaker 4: if we got children, like if we got children in
• 40:36
  Speaker 4: the house as well, you going to have to go
• 40:38
  Speaker 4: in here and protect the children at the moment. Like
• 40:40
  Speaker 4: you need to go in the room. whether it's cover
• 40:43
  Speaker 4: the church, whether it's sneak them out, whatever that looks like,
• 40:45
  Speaker 4: you're going to have to do that. That's the role
• 40:48
  Speaker 4: you got to take. The role ain't for y'all to
• 40:50
  Speaker 4: be shooting it out in here or tying this nigga
• 40:53
  Speaker 4: up or doing whatever.
• 40:54
  Speaker 1: I will. I will, God damn it.
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: Hole in the leg, baby.
• 41:01
  Speaker 4: That's hilarious but that's that's great to know though.
• 41:10
  Speaker 3: So price you said you didn't grow up with like
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: the the the well i won't even call it normal
• 41:14
  Speaker 3: because the normal family structure in the black community is
• 41:16
  Speaker 3: mom usually usually right vlad did you grow up with
• 41:20
  Speaker 3: your dad in the house or like did you see
• 41:22
  Speaker 3: like this husband wife like what love actually looked like growing.
• 41:25
  Speaker 6: Up so my dad left when he was eight when
• 41:27
  Speaker 6: i was eight years old Uh, my mom, she, she
• 41:30
  Speaker 6: raised my brother and I, and it was like, you know,
• 41:32
  Speaker 6: she's from Haiti. So she was really strong, a strong woman. Um, so,
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: you know, that's why nothing to me is so traditional.
• 41:41
  Speaker 6: Cause I don't know what traditional really is from just
• 41:44
  Speaker 6: watching TV. So doing things the way I did, it
• 41:47
  Speaker 6: was like more, you know, some people say non-traditional, but
• 41:50
  Speaker 6: it worked for me.
• 41:51
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 41:52
  Speaker 6: And I feel like, you know, I feel like I
• 41:53
  Speaker 6: work with a lot of people once you get to
• 41:54
  Speaker 6: know the person you're dealing with before you get married.
• 41:56
  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
• 41:57
  Speaker 6: Yeah. And at that time, when I tell people this
• 42:01
  Speaker 6: all the time, especially new people that are getting married,
• 42:03
  Speaker 6: male or female, don't let nobody rush you. Don't let
• 42:07
  Speaker 6: anybody rush you. Because if you rush me into getting married,
• 42:10
  Speaker 6: I'm going to get a divorce.
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: Right?
• 42:11
  Speaker 6: Right. If I would do it on my terms, you
• 42:14
  Speaker 6: do it on your terms, then.
• 42:14
  Speaker 4: It's like, okay, cool. We're good.
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: But sometimes you got to put a little, you know,
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: a little push behind that. Man, because y'all be 87
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: years old.
• 42:22
  Speaker 6: Like, you ready, baby?
• 42:23
  Speaker 1: You finally ready.
• 42:24
  Speaker 4: Dick don't work. You don't want to.
• 42:26
  Speaker 2: Get to work no more.
• 42:28
  Speaker 1: Now you want to get married.
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 42:29
  Speaker 6: I got a little ultimatum after year nine.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 42:32
  Speaker 3: It's like, all right now.
• 42:33
  Speaker 4: What's up? What's up?
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, because what's the problem? I'm confused. Yeah.
• 42:37
  Speaker 4: Yeah, like, I mean, and then just speaking to what, like,
• 42:40
  Speaker 4: the question you asked, bro.
• 42:42
  Speaker 5: A lot of us, and that's why it was so
• 42:45
  Speaker 5: important for me because I feel like everybody from the,
• 42:49
  Speaker 5: that's 80s babies, 90s babies, even like maybe late, late
• 42:52
  Speaker 5: 70s babies, but for the most part, 80s babies, 90s babies,
• 42:56
  Speaker 5: things like that. You know, we suffer from so many
• 42:59
  Speaker 5: like traumatic shit that happened to the black families and
• 43:03
  Speaker 5: black communities to where like not having no daddies.
• 43:06
  Speaker 4: Around shit just was the norm.
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: Like we are, it's our generation that is getting like
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: not even the clean slate, but we're getting the opportunity to, like,
• 43:15
  Speaker 5: wipe the slate clean.
• 43:16
  Speaker 4: And change the trajectory.
• 43:18
  Speaker 5: Yeah, because I'm talking about from crack to damn Jim
• 43:24
  Speaker 5: Crow to damn food.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: Like, to welfare. Like, these couldn't even... Black women couldn't
• 43:28
  Speaker 4: even get welfare if the.
• 43:30
  Speaker 5: Like, when my mom would try to be with my
• 43:33
  Speaker 5: little brother's dad.
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: She'd lose her housing.
• 43:35
  Speaker 4: Yeah, exactly. You couldn't even get no assistance if the
• 43:37
  Speaker 4: man in the house. You know what I mean? Which
• 43:39
  Speaker 4: is just... It's a strategy. It's a strategy play. So
• 43:42
  Speaker 4: just saying that all to say, so many of us
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: that haven't seen that, and that's why it is inspiring.
• 43:48
  Speaker 4: I do believe white marriage is important. You know what
• 43:51
  Speaker 4: I'm saying? It's just got to be fly and got
• 43:52
  Speaker 4: to be done right.
• 43:54
  Speaker 1: So there's this term, strong black woman. You'll never hear, oh,
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: I got a strong white woman. I got a strong
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: Asian woman. You'll never hear that. Do y'all expect your
• 44:04
  Speaker 1: spouse to be strong black women?
• 44:08
  Speaker 4: I would love for... I would love for, I got sisters,
• 44:13
  Speaker 4: I got nieces, I got mama. You know what I'm saying?
• 44:16
  Speaker 4: I hated seeing how strong my mama had to be. Like,
• 44:19
  Speaker 4: you know, my sisters, my sisters all got terrible ass
• 44:22
  Speaker 4: baby daddies for the most part.
• 44:26
  Speaker 5: So ideally, like, I would love for all, like, the
• 44:30
  Speaker 5: black women in my life and just all that I know, period,
• 44:33
  Speaker 5: black women I want to love that not have to
• 44:35
  Speaker 5: be that.
• 44:35
  Speaker 4: You know, like, strong don't necessarily mean that you're weak.
• 44:41
  Speaker 5: Or you just go for everything versus this. Strong becomes
• 44:47
  Speaker 5: this in the house. Because we both can't be bulls
• 44:51
  Speaker 5: in this motherfucker. Black women ain't even able to just
• 44:55
  Speaker 5: be in a feminine, divine, feminine era and spirit.
• 44:59
  Speaker 4: Which is creativity. I would love to see that for
• 45:03
  Speaker 4: Black women. Because Black women are naturally... Black women are
• 45:09
  Speaker 4: naturally strong. You know what I mean? The real, like,
• 45:14
  Speaker 4: it's just effortless.
• 45:15
  Speaker 1: It's passed down in our DNA, honestly. You feel me?
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: But now it's become like a, it's a, to me
• 45:21
  Speaker 5: it's the difference between strong and independent. right so like
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: i would love for my black women to be strong
• 45:27
  Speaker 5: but you ain't gotta be like this so i have
• 45:29
  Speaker 5: to have like such this independent energy where like i
• 45:31
  Speaker 5: don't need nothing i don't need no nigga i don't need.
• 45:34
  Speaker 3: I've never said that i need a nigga yeah i've
• 45:37
  Speaker 3: never said that shit in.
• 45:38
  Speaker 2: Life i don't need no.
• 45:40
  Speaker 3: Man i was raised by somebody like that but i
• 45:42
  Speaker 3: definitely like you need each other you.
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: Know what i'm saying yeah come on now yeah i
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: agree You know, my mom, I asked my mom when
• 45:49
  Speaker 1: my mom and dad got married, I was like, what
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: was the first thing you said to my dad after
• 45:54
  Speaker 1: you married him? And my mom said, I got you now, motherfucker.
• 45:58
  Speaker 1: So that's what the household I was raised in, okay?
• 46:04
  Speaker 4: So you were raised in, so Tam, you got to see.
• 46:09
  Speaker 4: You know marriage and family.
• 46:10
  Speaker 1: Structure I got to see family structure but there was
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: very much toxic energy in there because they were still
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: very much learning their way you know as a child
• 46:19
  Speaker 1: I didn't understand but looking in hindsight as a grown
• 46:21
  Speaker 1: woman they both were just young black people trying to
• 46:24
  Speaker 1: figure it out and this is the 80s so you
• 46:27
  Speaker 1: know there's drugs there's crack people are trying crack because
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: they don't know the devastation that you know it can
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: cause so it was a struggle Yeah, it was a
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: party drug at that time.
• 46:39
  Speaker 4: Facts. I explain that to people all the time. Like,
• 46:41
  Speaker 4: people really, like, that don't get it.
• 46:43
  Speaker 1: Like hookah.
• 46:44
  Speaker 4: I'm like, like, exactly. Or just how, like, in our era,
• 46:47
  Speaker 4: it's like weed, perks, pills, you know, all that shit.
• 46:51
  Speaker 4: And it's like, but back then, you only had one
• 46:53
  Speaker 4: time to try. You try that shit one time.
• 46:55
  Speaker 2: Magic.
• 46:56
  Speaker 4: It'll be a wrap. It's a wrap.
• 46:59
  Speaker 2: Let me tell y'all some shit about crack.
• 47:00
  Speaker 3: This is so off topic, but I wish black people, like, listen.
• 47:05
  Speaker 3: I read a fucking medical article about crack cocaine in particular,
• 47:10
  Speaker 3: how it adheres to melanin. So even like the hair
• 47:13
  Speaker 3: follicle test is racist, right? Because of how our hair grows.
• 47:18
  Speaker 3: And that's why they do the drug test on your
• 47:20
  Speaker 3: hair now. Cause you won't catch more black people on
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: cocaine or crack through the hair follicle than white people.
• 47:27
  Speaker 3: Cause they should, you know, slippery slip down. Our shit
• 47:30
  Speaker 3: is knotted at the root.
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: So, You had white crackheads, but it did not take
• 47:36
  Speaker 3: over the whole community like it did black.
• 47:38
  Speaker 2: People because it was created to fuck black people up,
• 47:41
  Speaker 2: like with melanin, to fuck with melanin in particular.
• 47:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah, 100%. It's fucked up, man. That's a fact. That's
• 47:49
  Speaker 4: a fact. AJ, were you... Was your parents married or
• 47:53
  Speaker 4: did you get to see? I think you said you didn't.
• 47:55
  Speaker 2: Toxic. Okay, they weren't.
• 47:57
  Speaker 3: My mom definitely was married. All three of my sisters
• 47:59
  Speaker 3: got the same dad. Tam got three girls, three girls.
• 48:02
  Speaker 3: Same scenario, right? My dad never grew up. We actually
• 48:07
  Speaker 3: had our dads on for an episode last year or
• 48:09
  Speaker 3: a year before or whatever. And let that nigga tell it.
• 48:12
  Speaker 3: No woman ever came between him and my mom's marriage.
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: She was doing all this shit. They just don't grow up.
• 48:17
  Speaker 3: And I think for a woman, you got to grow up.
• 48:21
  Speaker 3: You got to grow up because you have other people
• 48:23
  Speaker 3: you're responsible for. And sometimes men think they have the option, right?
• 48:27
  Speaker 3: And he's coming from a household he never saw. Like,
• 48:30
  Speaker 3: his dad was there, but then he left.
• 48:31
  Speaker 2: His dad left his mom with 11 kids. You know
• 48:33
  Speaker 2: what I'm saying?
• 48:35
  Speaker 3: So, I think when we talk about, like, the systems
• 48:38
  Speaker 3: put in place for black mothers, I think that we
• 48:41
  Speaker 3: need to also consider that men were actually leaving the
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: households as opposed to being put out.
• 48:46
  Speaker 4: Right. Right, yeah. No, for sure.
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: My mom was.
• 48:50
  Speaker 1: My mom was submissive. Like, I'll bring you your plate.
• 48:53
  Speaker 1: I'll take your plate. I'll rub your feet. But I
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: will also hit you with a car if you play
• 48:56
  Speaker 1: with me.
• 48:57
  Speaker 4: Yes.
• 48:57
  Speaker 1: So that was, it was that dynamic. It was all
• 49:00
  Speaker 1: the way extreme one way and all the way extreme
• 49:02
  Speaker 1: the other.
• 49:03
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 49:04
  Speaker 1: So I have a little bit of that. I don't
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: think I'll hit nobody with no car, but I don't know, man.
• 49:09
  Speaker 4: I might. Y'all bringing the plate and taking the plate back?
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: Oh, yeah. Absolutely.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I love to serve. That's one of the things
• 49:16
  Speaker 2: that make me happy, for real.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: But we're Southern women. I don't know how that applies
• 49:21
  Speaker 1: to women from, like, the North and the West or whatever,
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: but Southern women, I think we all like to serve
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: in that way.
• 49:27
  Speaker 6: So let me ask you this. So you guys want
• 49:29
  Speaker 6: to get married, right, eventually?
• 49:31
  Speaker 4: Absolutely.
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: My last relationship, I was engaged. I didn't make it
• 49:35
  Speaker 3: down the aisle, but I did say yes.
• 49:37
  Speaker 6: How many years? How many years were y'all together?
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: Like four years.
• 49:43
  Speaker 4: About four years.
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: Almost five years. Mm-hmm.
• 49:45
  Speaker 4: Yeah. Okay.
• 49:46
  Speaker 1: I've been single since 2016. That's a long time.
• 49:50
  Speaker 4: When's 2016? What that mean? Like, not dating or just
• 49:55
  Speaker 4: not in a serious relationship? Like, what is that?
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: I mean, I was dating. You're definitely been fucking.
• 50:02
  Speaker 4: Me?
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: What is Pearl?
• 50:05
  Speaker 4: No.
• 50:06
  Speaker 1: No, I was, I've been, you know, having situationships or,
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: you know, this and that. For, I was in a
• 50:13
  Speaker 1: relationship most of my 20s and then most of my
• 50:18
  Speaker 1: 30s I was in a relationship too. So, I just
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: decided that I didn't want a man. Seriously, like, you
• 50:25
  Speaker 1: can come over. You got to go. But now I'm
• 50:29
  Speaker 1: in a space where I do want something more serious.
• 50:31
  Speaker 1: But the dating pool is just very, very difficult now.
• 50:35
  Speaker 2: Your husband already married. You just got to wait. For
• 50:39
  Speaker 2: him to get a divorce?
• 50:41
  Speaker 1: Around five to seven years, that's when that shit break up.
• 50:45
  Speaker 2: He got married at 25, he about to get divorced,
• 50:47
  Speaker 2: and then he gonna be.
• 50:49
  Speaker 4: Right.
• 50:51
  Speaker 5: Nah, for real though, uh, cause sometimes people gotta go through,
• 50:56
  Speaker 5: you know, some, some men are, were, like, my experience
• 51:01
  Speaker 5: made me incredible, I believe, for the next situation.
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying? Cause I still, I had
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: to go through so much, um, just living and learning
• 51:11
  Speaker 4: and really dissecting of myself to realize, okay, what do
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: you bring to the table?
• 51:16
  Speaker 5: What do you take from the table? Like, you kind
• 51:18
  Speaker 5: of be killing the vibe sometimes too. Like, you know
• 51:20
  Speaker 5: what I mean?
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: Like, so I really.
• 51:22
  Speaker 5: Had to just do a lot of self-reflecting and yeah,
• 51:28
  Speaker 5: I'm pretty positive the next year to be.
• 51:31
  Speaker 1: I think that applies to everybody. Like your relationships help
• 51:34
  Speaker 1: to guide you to be a better person for the
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: next one. Cause I know my mouth was reckless in
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: my last relationship. Woo baby. I used to go there.
• 51:43
  Speaker 3: But that come with a lack of respect though. So
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: something happened for you to lose respect for him. That's
• 51:48
  Speaker 3: usually when the mouth start getting crazy.
• 51:49
  Speaker 1: You know what it was? It was cause he let
• 51:52
  Speaker 1: his baby mama disrespect him and disrespect me. And I
• 51:56
  Speaker 1: think that's what made me be like, shit, don't nobody
• 52:00
  Speaker 1: respect you where I got to, you know? It really
• 52:04
  Speaker 1: was like that, you know, like you letting people talk
• 52:06
  Speaker 1: to you crazy. You take, you wash the dishes, motherfucker.
• 52:10
  Speaker 4: Like, that's how I felt at that point.
• 52:12
  Speaker 6: And that's perfect for you to know that, because if
• 52:15
  Speaker 6: you would have gotten married and found that out later,
• 52:16
  Speaker 6: you'd be like, I'm out.
• 52:18
  Speaker 4: You know what I mean?
• 52:19
  Speaker 6: It's like, it's kind of crazy.
• 52:20
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: And that's when I realized that I can't be with
• 52:23
  Speaker 1: a beta male personality. Like, you have to, it got
• 52:27
  Speaker 1: to be an alpha, because I'm going to run over you.
• 52:29
  Speaker 6: I'm going to run over you bad. Yeah, at that point,
• 52:30
  Speaker 6: it becomes a game.
• 52:32
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 52:32
  Speaker 4: Facts. And you don't want nobody who can get ran over,
• 52:35
  Speaker 4: like you said.
• 52:36
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I don't want somebody that can easily disrespect. I
• 52:39
  Speaker 3: don't want nobody like that.
• 52:40
  Speaker 4: Or that's getting easily disrespected. Like, you don't want it
• 52:43
  Speaker 4: to be with your man, and then you hear.
• 52:46
  Speaker 5: All right, I got two sons and not with me,
• 52:50
  Speaker 5: so I got two baby mamas, right? My ex-wife and
• 52:53
  Speaker 5: then my son's mom before that.
• 52:56
  Speaker 4: And it's order.
• 52:58
  Speaker 5: Or granted they get to talk in they shit when
• 53:00
  Speaker 5: they want you know what I mean pop they little
• 53:02
  Speaker 5: shit here and there but y'all don't run my program
• 53:04
  Speaker 5: y'all don't run nothing but.
• 53:06
  Speaker 8: You was gonna say something no so it goes back
• 53:09
  Speaker 8: to the whole submissive thing like okay so you don't
• 53:12
  Speaker 8: want a beta male you want an alpha male so
• 53:14
  Speaker 8: if he's telling you to do something and you're like
• 53:16
  Speaker 8: okay cool we're gonna do it or not you know
• 53:19
  Speaker 8: what I mean it's like where do you draw that line.
• 53:21
  Speaker 6: Where it's like you are a little bit submissive to
• 53:24
  Speaker 6: this alpha male who you know is gonna control everything
• 53:27
  Speaker 6: If that's what you're looking for, the alpha, you know
• 53:29
  Speaker 6: what to do.
• 53:29
  Speaker 3: So, hold on.
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: Ask me that again?
• 53:31
  Speaker 4: Sorry.
• 53:31
  Speaker 6: So, you say you need an alpha.
• 53:33
  Speaker 1: Now you interviewing me.
• 53:34
  Speaker 6: Go ahead. It's both of you, AJ and Tam. It's like,
• 53:38
  Speaker 6: all right, so you want an alpha male, right?
• 53:41
  Speaker 4: Mm-hmm.
• 53:41
  Speaker 6: And, you know, he's known for just telling things, saying things.
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: Laying down the law.
• 53:47
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 53:47
  Speaker 8: Yeah.
• 53:47
  Speaker 6: So, how does that fall in line when it comes
• 53:50
  Speaker 6: to you being submissive? You know what I mean? Is
• 53:53
  Speaker 6: it a line you draw? Like, he ain't going to
• 53:54
  Speaker 6: tell me. He's going to tell everybody else but me.
• 53:57
  Speaker 6: Or how do you go about that?
• 53:57
  Speaker 1: No, I don't mind. As long as he's an alpha
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: male and I respect him, I'll let him take lead
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: as long as I feel like he's leading me correctly.
• 54:07
  Speaker 1: you gambling all the money way and you alpha male,
• 54:09
  Speaker 1: that's not, that's not going to work. You know, like,
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: damn baby, I lost $ 10, 000 again tonight. That's not okay.
• 54:15
  Speaker 6: You know, let me hold another five.
• 54:17
  Speaker 2: Um, I definitely would follow a man to the end
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: of the earth.
• 54:22
  Speaker 3: If he leading me in the right, in the right direction,
• 54:24
  Speaker 3: you know what I'm saying? I don't think that any
• 54:25
  Speaker 3: man should expect a woman to just follow you blindly.
• 54:29
  Speaker 3: Cause that means I can go out and I can
• 54:31
  Speaker 3: go out in the world and get finessed by other
• 54:34
  Speaker 3: people too.
• 54:35
  Speaker 2: So do you really want a dumb bitch? Okay?
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: Let's be clear.
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: You know what I'm saying?
• 54:40
  Speaker 3: I can be submissive at home, but I'm going to
• 54:43
  Speaker 3: run shit when I'm outside this household. You said something
• 54:46
  Speaker 3: about the table. I cannot stand the fucking table. OK,
• 54:50
  Speaker 3: because I think a lot of men like these social
• 54:53
  Speaker 3: media niggas, these podcast niggas, they don't even know what
• 54:56
  Speaker 3: they need on a table.
• 54:57
  Speaker 2: Why are you asking a woman what she brings to it?
• 55:00
  Speaker 4: What do you need?
• 55:02
  Speaker 2: What do you need?
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: Because I can bring you a lot of shit you
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: don't need. You know, so let me know what you need.
• 55:08
  Speaker 3: So I think that sometimes men have to figure out.
• 55:10
  Speaker 3: I think men who are more prone to marriage, you
• 55:12
  Speaker 3: understand the. the benefits of being married to a woman
• 55:18
  Speaker 3: how a woman just simply enhances a man's life like
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: we talk about this shit a lot on the podcast
• 55:23
  Speaker 3: how we literally keep niggas alive even in boyfriend girlfriend
• 55:27
  Speaker 3: situations like men don't pay attention to their health you
• 55:31
  Speaker 3: eating fucked up you don't drink water nigga like you
• 55:34
  Speaker 3: wasn't even drinking water now we now you're looking at
• 55:37
  Speaker 3: ph and all this shit.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: When you come to me no for sure Would you
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: get married again, Price?
• 55:44
  Speaker 4: 100%.
• 55:47
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I'd love to hear that. All right, y'all.
• 55:49
  Speaker 3: If you enjoyed this episode, tune in next week for
• 55:52
  Speaker 3: part two, y'all. This is just part one of this
• 55:55
  Speaker 3: much-needed conversation with The Price and Vlad. Y'all, if you
• 55:59
  Speaker 3: enjoyed this episode, tune in every Thursday on your iHeartRadio app,
• 56:02
  Speaker 3: wherever the fuck you get your podcasts at. This is
• 56:05
  Speaker 3: your co-host, AJ Holiday 2.0. Follow me on Instagram. Also,
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• 56:15
  Speaker 2: Follow us now. Bye.