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You've Got Decisions: Yuck Mouth - Can I Get Past Bad Oral Hygiene? · Decisions, Decisions

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  Speaker 1: Okay. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: This is why I couldn't be a rapper. I was
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  Speaker 1: going to keep going, but I didn't know what else
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  Speaker 1: to say. No, no, no. You couldn't. But it was good, though.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I wanted to keep going, but I got three.
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  Speaker 1: I got three bars. Y'all know, bitch, I can do
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  Speaker 1: three bars. Next time I come, though, I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: try to have eight ready. I'm going to try to
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  Speaker 1: have eight. And maybe I'll have my husband help me.
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  Speaker 1: Because he can help me write eight bars, bitch. I
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  Speaker 1: almost asked you who that was. Bitch, you know who
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  Speaker 1: it is. His name is Chet. Now I know. I apologize.
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  Speaker 1: I apologize.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 1: Chat actually be pissing me off a little bit now
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  Speaker 1: because as I try to like ask and have it
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  Speaker 1: help with different ways in which to flow conversations, even
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  Speaker 1: for this pod, it's so hard because they can't talk
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  Speaker 1: graphic or anything like that. So even when I went
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  Speaker 1: to Hedonism, they had HedoCon. HedoCon is where you dress
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  Speaker 1: up as, you know, anime character. It's like Comic-Con, but
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  Speaker 1: at Hedo. And so I bought... a wig with ears
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  Speaker 1: and pigtails, a purple wig and a little purple outfit
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  Speaker 1: from Amazon. And when people asked me who I was, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: I said the main character, period. So what I was
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  Speaker 1: trying to do, though, was have ChatGPT use the wig,
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  Speaker 1: the outfit, and a picture of me to create a
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  Speaker 1: picture of me anime style, where I looked like a superhero.
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  Speaker 1: They kept saying it was all too sexual. And I'm like, nigga,
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  Speaker 1: It's a swimsuit with chains and a purple wig. A
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  Speaker 1: swimsuit with chains?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, no, no, no. It definitely was given. Hold on.
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  Speaker 1: For the people watching this, because, you know, you actually
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  Speaker 1: can watch this if you join us on Patreon. Girl,
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  Speaker 1: it really ain't giving what you think it's giving right now.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on. It's Patreon. You want everybody to be like, right, Mandy. No, no,
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  Speaker 1: because I'm about to show you. Like, I bought it
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  Speaker 1: on Amazon, literally took a screenshot of it and was like,
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  Speaker 1: Put this on Mandy B and make her a cartoon. Girl!
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  Speaker 2: It looks like a deep green or shiny. It's got
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  Speaker 2: the tits are emphasized with other straps around the titty.
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  Speaker 2: It's a chain right above the pussy I'm looking at.
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  Speaker 1: And then this was the wig. Girl, and so I'm like, check.
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  Speaker 1: I know I don't suck your dick, but damn. Girl,
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  Speaker 1: we can't move. We can't have a conversation about something
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  Speaker 1: that is a little, but that wasn't even a conversation.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, just turn this into a picture. So
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  Speaker 1: I am now going to ask you guys if you
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  Speaker 1: could hop into my DMs because I've been watching so
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  Speaker 1: much AI porn and getting turned on by it. What
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  Speaker 1: AI system do I have to download to be able
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  Speaker 1: to talk about sex and sexual things. And even Weezy, like,
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  Speaker 1: our conversation, the conversation we've been having about our boundaries
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  Speaker 1: and stuff with our partners, bitch, I can't ask my
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  Speaker 1: therapist that. So maybe AI can help me just a
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  Speaker 1: little bit with how to have those conversations, too.
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  Speaker 2: Why is there not a life coachy... Well, there probably is.
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  Speaker 1: There is. There is. I don't want to call my
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  Speaker 1: therapist to tell him I'm a whore, but also... They
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  Speaker 1: would be life coaches. They're sexual life coaches. We've had
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  Speaker 1: a few of them on the pod, actually. So, like,
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  Speaker 1: Shea Primus, who came on. I know she's a matchmaker,
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  Speaker 1: but she does life coaching for Lifestyle. Brianna Jenea. That's right,
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  Speaker 1: that's right, that's right. Like, we've had a few people
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  Speaker 1: on our pod that actually focus on that. I think
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  Speaker 1: Raquel Savage, she even went and got her degree. to
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  Speaker 1: help with more so sex workers, though. I'm not. You
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  Speaker 1: have to talk to her again. It's been years. It's
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  Speaker 1: been years. I also think, honestly, I don't think she
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  Speaker 1: does private sessions. What happened with Raquel Savage? Did she
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  Speaker 1: vote for Trump? No, no, no, no, no. She didn't.
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  Speaker 1: She was fucking on a nigga who let white bitches
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  Speaker 1: say the N-word. No, I don't think that was it.
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  Speaker 1: I think it was like a Trump. You think she...
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  Speaker 1: I don't know about her. I don't think the way
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  Speaker 1: she posts about what is it, NEPSA or whatever we
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  Speaker 1: talked about that removed so many of the things for
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  Speaker 1: sex workers, there's no way she would vote for Trump, bro. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: so like... Don't even put that on somebody without... No, no, no.
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  Speaker 1: I've actually, like, literally, if you're listening, I hope someone
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  Speaker 1: passes you a clip.
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  Speaker 2: What was the problematic shit you did about two years ago,
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  Speaker 2: year and a half, two.
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  Speaker 1: Years ago, bitch, where I was like, huh? What was...
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  Speaker 1: What did everybody come at you for? See, and I
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  Speaker 1: missed that, okay? I missed that. But, yeah, I'm gonna
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  Speaker 1: go look. I'm not hiding. Like, I'm not no hate.
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  Speaker 1: I loved having her as a guest. She's so much fun.
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  Speaker 1: So hot. So fun. And she speaks so well. Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I want to know what.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I don't know. I know. Listen. She
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  Speaker 1: can speak it. No, listen, the way people think it's
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  Speaker 1: a microaggression, I've also shared how insecure I am with
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  Speaker 1: my own vernacular and how I speak and enunciate and do, like,
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  Speaker 1: I love when, like, hearing people speak specifically in this space,
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  Speaker 1: like how, I told you this too, Shan Boodram has
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  Speaker 1: the same conversations just in a much more polished way.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think I've ever seen her say nigga. I
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  Speaker 1: don't know how to get past a full paragraph without
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  Speaker 1: dropping nigga. I would like to be better. I'm just
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  Speaker 1: saying I love when it's just more educational sounding. I'm
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  Speaker 1: just sorry. We don't follow each other anymore. Oh, yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So you must have responded. You must have did something.
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  Speaker 1: Or you really. Maybe. Maybe you was like, because, you know.
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  Speaker 1: I love how she's got her page going. It looks
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  Speaker 1: so nice. What does she do? So she got her
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  Speaker 1: psychology degree and did... Okay, I'm curious now to see
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  Speaker 1: what she does. Bitch, wait. Yo, I'm... What she did,
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  Speaker 1: I just came across her face.
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  Speaker 2: I'm 35 years old and I'm getting to this age
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  Speaker 2: where I'm starting to take NAD plus injections for brain clarity.
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  Speaker 1: Bitch, I really want to hit her up and be like, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: why we don't fuck with each other? Because I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: You should. You should. I mean, I know like there was...
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  Speaker 1: I know it wasn't no motherfucking smoke. Well, no, there
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  Speaker 1: was a little, I mean, and that's the thing. Y'all
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Quite a few people we done had up
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  Speaker 1: on this pod in this space we done fell out
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  Speaker 1: with for various reasons. There's a little bit of what?
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  Speaker 1: There was a little bit of, I wouldn't say tension,
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  Speaker 1: but things left unsaid between me and Mistress Marley. And
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  Speaker 1: I feel like the energy was completely cleared at Hedo
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  Speaker 1: from that. I don't know why y'all have that. Do
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  Speaker 1: you remember? Yes, I remember. So it wasn't that crazy. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: I can share it because it wasn't that big of
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  Speaker 1: a deal. Basically, during the pandemic, she sent me merch
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  Speaker 1: of hers. She asked if she could send me merch.
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  Speaker 1: I said yes. Well, she like kept hitting me up
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  Speaker 1: about posting it. And I was like, I didn't like
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  Speaker 1: the quality of the shirt. So I was like, well,
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  Speaker 1: I get paid to post. And so, and she was like, yeah,
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  Speaker 1: but I sent it to you. I thought you would
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  Speaker 1: post it. And because I was, I kind of value
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  Speaker 1: when I actually stamp something. I was like, well, can
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  Speaker 1: you give me your address? I'll send it back to you.
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  Speaker 1: And yeah, because I just, I wasn't, I didn't want
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  Speaker 1: to post it. Okay. And I think she unfollowed me
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  Speaker 1: when I sent her, when she got, when she got
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  Speaker 1: her merch back. I haven't unfollowed her, I don't believe,
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  Speaker 1: but yeah, it was, it was a weird thing like that.
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  Speaker 1: And I just know, like, there's certain parts of businesses, like,
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  Speaker 1: and you know that, too. There's certain parts of businesses
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  Speaker 1: I don't mind promoting. But then there's certain parts of
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  Speaker 1: businesses where, like, remember when that girl came in a pod?
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  Speaker 1: And I wanted her to come on because she was
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  Speaker 1: pussy poet, did all these. And then she went into, like,
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  Speaker 1: and I sell candles and I do this. And we
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  Speaker 1: were like, hey, hold on now. Wait, that was one
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  Speaker 1: of my favorite. I told my friends, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: go watch the last three minutes of this. She pubbed
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  Speaker 1: like all these things, which we are on our platform.
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  Speaker 1: Do that. But when you want to send me things
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  Speaker 1: and have me post when maybe I get paid to
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  Speaker 1: post for brands and things like that, like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: it gives a little.
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  Speaker 2: I actually found there was like an interesting moment and
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  Speaker 2: I hope Brooke would be OK at me sharing this.
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  Speaker 1: Well, then maybe you should ask her.
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  Speaker 2: No, no, no. It's not like a detail about anybody.
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  Speaker 1: Okay.
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  Speaker 2: But basically, she was just like, no one, you don't
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  Speaker 2: need to post anything.
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  Speaker 1: This is like, come celebrate my 10-year anniversary.
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  Speaker 2: But she also invited in K18, which is like a
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  Speaker 2: really popping hair care brand. Like, we're all buying their
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  Speaker 2: fucking treatment masks. By we, I mean most women. Like,
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  Speaker 2: if you're up on hair shit, you use them. And
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  Speaker 2: there was a part where I thought to myself, as
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  Speaker 2: a friend, I know my girl would appreciate me posting.
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  Speaker 2: As a person going, do you now agree to them
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  Speaker 2: using you in branding and marketing for free, et cetera?
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  Speaker 1: What does that mean?
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  Speaker 2: And so for me, what I learned from that experience,
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  Speaker 2: why I said, I hope she wouldn't mind me being
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  Speaker 2: candid about this, because it's a true experience that I'm
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  Speaker 2: having with friends that have brand deals or are influencers
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  Speaker 2: just like us. It is a, it's like a silent
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  Speaker 2: like agreement and a yes. When I'm showing up to
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  Speaker 2: my friends' dinners and fashion week parties that have a
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  Speaker 2: brand sponsor, I know what I'm agreeing to and signing
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  Speaker 2: up for. And to me, in exchange, as I fuck
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  Speaker 2: with you, if I see anybody I fuck with post
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  Speaker 2: a partnership deal, I'm like.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, bitch, I gotta go get my beauty band. Ooh,
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  Speaker 1: I can't wait to try that edge control. That's the
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  Speaker 1: type of bitch I am. So I'm like, you know,
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  Speaker 1: I think Marley probably just expected the same. Which, the
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  Speaker 1: expectation is the problem. But that's the other thing too, right? Like,
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  Speaker 1: y'all know, and I'm going to shout it out to
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  Speaker 1: the rooftops. I buy a lot of bikinis. I always
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  Speaker 1: tag and always post in my bikini honey. Shout out
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  Speaker 1: to Bethany. Bikini honey drops new ones every damn near bi-seasonal.
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  Speaker 1: And that's my dog. I never charge her for a post.
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  Speaker 1: I never charge her for a shout out. That's been
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  Speaker 1: my friend for damn near 15 years. It's different from
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  Speaker 1: someone coming on our pod once and now expecting free promo.
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  Speaker 1: You know what I mean? Yeah. So there is a
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  Speaker 1: difference in that. And so, yeah, I think that there's
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  Speaker 1: a way to support and there's a way to have
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  Speaker 1: an expectation of someone just for knowing them. And I
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  Speaker 1: think that when we're all out here, there's just a
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  Speaker 1: different way of doing that. Yeah, yeah. And that's pandemic time, right?
• 11:15
  Speaker 1: For podcast live shows, I don't ask for free tickets anymore. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if it's sold out, bitch, and I want to come,
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  Speaker 1: that's different. But when I go to podcast live shows now,
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  Speaker 1: I buy tickets. Bitch, we done it. I will not
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  Speaker 1: ask nobody for free podcast tickets ever. Yeah, yeah, yeah. Now,
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  Speaker 1: if you're working with a brand and maybe you getting
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  Speaker 1: 30 bands from this brand and now you expect me
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  Speaker 1: to post this brand and the brand didn't pay me, tricky.
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  Speaker 1: I'm going to post you and be with you, but
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  Speaker 1: not the brand. So, and I hope we're not boring
• 11:45
  Speaker 1: y'all with this. We gonna get to the shit. But yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I think, yeah, just having the conversations, you know, is
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  Speaker 1: a thing. And now I do want to know. I
• 11:54
  Speaker 1: need you to send that email to Raquel and be like, bitch,
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  Speaker 1: why we unfollowed each other? I needs to know. If
• 12:04
  Speaker 1: you want to send your letter to us, make sure
• 12:07
  Speaker 1: you send it to decisionspod at gmail.com. Or if you
• 12:11
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• 12:14
  Speaker 1: You skip the email line and we read yours as
• 12:17
  Speaker 1: soon as we record next. Now let's get into this one.
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  Speaker 1: Get into it. This one, Weezy, if you do want to...
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  Speaker 1: There are pictures included, and you know you love pictures. Oh,
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  Speaker 1: hold on, bitch. Let me go. Which email? So go
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  Speaker 1: into the email and look for Yuck Mouth. That is
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  Speaker 1: the name of this week's episode. Oh, girl. So let's
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  Speaker 1: get into it. Let's get into it. Hi, ladies. Thank
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  Speaker 1: you so much for being the truly authentic, intelligent, original
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  Speaker 1: women that you are. But these pussy-ass hoes out here
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  Speaker 1: that think differently. I added pussy ass hoes to my vocabulary.
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  Speaker 1: Really hard for an accountant to do. Keep doing what
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  Speaker 1: you're doing. It's so funny, by the way. She's cute.
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  Speaker 1: I met a girl from, where was she at in Jamaica?
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  Speaker 1: I want to say she was from Europe, maybe Canada.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, can you tell me how to say
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  Speaker 1: pussy ass hoe the way you say it? That's cute.
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  Speaker 1: But anyway, let's keep going. I moved out to the Carolinas.
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  Speaker 1: and life has been lifing until recently. I met a
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  Speaker 1: really nice white man with yuck mouth. Like, courage the
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  Speaker 1: cowardly dog yuck mouth. Rotten teeth and smells, I thought
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  Speaker 1: gingivitis could be his STI. I knew about his problem
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  Speaker 1: six months in, and I really do like this man
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  Speaker 1: to where it's turning into love. But hold on. I did, however,
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  Speaker 1: tell myself that if he doesn't address this issue in November,
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  Speaker 1: doctor appointment, then I would have to dissolve this relationship.
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  Speaker 1: And no, I don't have low self-esteem, but I do
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  Speaker 1: date a lot of medium ugly dudes. I know how
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  Speaker 1: y'all love pics. Love you girls. So check out the pics,
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  Speaker 1: see what you did. To me, hygiene is really important.
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  Speaker 1: My questions to both of you. Here we go. Have
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  Speaker 1: you ever had an issue with someone's hygiene? How did
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  Speaker 1: you approach or address it? Have you heard of oral
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  Speaker 1: hygiene becoming a problem health-wise for your partner? And is
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  Speaker 1: it considered shallow to break up with someone even though
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  Speaker 1: you've known about the problem for a while? Thanks, Kristen.
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  Speaker 1: How do you want to attack these questions? First off,
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  Speaker 1: I guess, Weezy, have you ever had an issue with
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  Speaker 1: someone's hygiene? Now, we have talked about the threesome, girl.
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  Speaker 1: Mine is so specific. I want to lean this into
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  Speaker 1: someone you've dated. Maybe specifically a man. Okay, let's do it.
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  Speaker 1: Mine isn't a man. It was a girl I was
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  Speaker 1: fucking with for a little bit. Okay. And her dandruff
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  Speaker 1: was insane. Okay.
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  Speaker 2: And that, oh my God, I didn't even think about
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  Speaker 2: her until reading, did you ever have a problem with
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  Speaker 2: someone's hygiene?
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it's such a random one we wouldn't think of. No,
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  Speaker 1: that is a random one, yes. You don't know it's
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  Speaker 1: an issue until it's an issue. She would sleep over
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  Speaker 1: my crib.
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  Speaker 2: We would hang out. It would be on my body.
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  Speaker 2: If I wore black, forget about it. So... literally when
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  Speaker 2: i brought it up to her she was like i
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  Speaker 2: fucking have dry skin like like oh my god like
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  Speaker 2: i feel like you're trying to humiliate.
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  Speaker 1: Me no bitch it's called head and shoulders.
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  Speaker 2: But no i actually we didn't really talk much after
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  Speaker 2: that she was like very insulted she's like you have
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  Speaker 2: eczema you know what it's like i'm like yeah but
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  Speaker 2: like if i was leaving myself on the bedding.
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  Speaker 1: Right if my skin was peeling like a reptile every
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  Speaker 1: time we laid up.
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  Speaker 2: Girl she was so bad to the So then she
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  Speaker 2: and I last time seeing each other, she made a
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  Speaker 2: joke about it.
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  Speaker 1: She's like, I got braids and I'll see. Ha ha ha.
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  Speaker 1: Bitch do. So here's the thing.
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  Speaker 2: I say that to say hers was some kind of
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  Speaker 2: like deeper internal issue.
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  Speaker 1: Okay. So wait, you actually didn't. Wait, you did answer
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  Speaker 1: the second question then. How did you approach or address it?
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  Speaker 1: And you, how, what did you say to her about it?
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  Speaker 1: How did that conversation? I was like, Hey, like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know. Is it uncomfortable? Like, I know you have
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  Speaker 1: a lot of dandruff.
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  Speaker 2: She's like, actually, yeah, it is. Like I've tried everything.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, there has to be like a solution.
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  Speaker 2: I was like, I don't want you to be embarrassed,
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  Speaker 2: but like sometimes it's just kind of all over. And
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  Speaker 2: I don't, you know, I was like, like literally I
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  Speaker 2: was like, sometimes when you leave, I'm like changing pillowcases.
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  Speaker 2: She like, it's a lot. And then she got very embarrassed.
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  Speaker 2: So I didn't know how much better I could have
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  Speaker 2: said that. But what I do know is if you
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  Speaker 2: can say, yeah, I've tried and you forget about it,
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  Speaker 2: then we didn't try. Nigga, Nara Smith started making her
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  Speaker 2: own food because she had skin issues, okay? So, with
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  Speaker 2: him in particular, if he's talking to you about the
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  Speaker 2: gingivitis and he's already saying, like, he's working towards it, maybe,
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  Speaker 2: but the thing is, oral hygiene is so different because
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  Speaker 2: you're kissing every time you see each other, I'm assuming. So, like,
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  Speaker 2: not to mention, nigga, Jocelyn Hernandez sat on that motherfucking show,
• 17:01
  Speaker 2: coked up and said, all of you bitches stank. Your
• 17:04
  Speaker 2: teeth stank. It's going to go turn into gingivitis going
• 17:07
  Speaker 2: to your heart.
• 17:07
  Speaker 1: Bitch, you dead. I don't know if I could be
• 17:10
  Speaker 1: in front of a bad teeth. And the other thing
• 17:13
  Speaker 1: with gingivitis is it is a deep clean. It's expensive. Peridontis, like,
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: it's expensive, but it has to be done.
• 17:21
  Speaker 2: Nick, if y'all going to dinners or whatever the fuck
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: you doing, you need to put that motherfucking $ 1, 500 toward
• 17:27
  Speaker 2: that Peridontis shit. Do anybody remember when I went to
• 17:29
  Speaker 2: Mexico to get that teeth cleaning and I paid $ 150?
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: It's because I was having issues with my gums and
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: that could have turned into gingivitis.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: Oh, girl, no. Oh, no, no, no, no, no. I'm
• 17:40
  Speaker 1: trying to think if I've ever had an issue with
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: someone's hygiene. For me, it's funny because me and Crystal
• 17:48
  Speaker 1: have the same thing in common. When I date a guy,
• 17:52
  Speaker 1: if I'm intimate with a guy, like, that's a deal
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: breaker for me. So, like, for me, and maybe it's
• 18:01
  Speaker 1: because I like to eat ass. I'm a filthy bitch
• 18:06
  Speaker 1: in the bed. So for me, if there's any sort
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: of smell, no. It's given no. Like, even my hood
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: niggas be clean. Like, that's when I had hood niggas
• 18:19
  Speaker 1: back in the day. Y'all know it. It ain't happened
• 18:21
  Speaker 1: for a while for me now. I'm very big on hygiene.
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: I mean, I like dating niggas that look like Gap models.
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: I tell you all the time, me and Tyler Perry
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: have the same type. So for me, no. I don't
• 18:33
  Speaker 1: think I've ever had anyone with bad hygiene. I have
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: maybe been with women with a musk. But I don't
• 18:44
  Speaker 1: think it was bad hygiene. I just think they were like...
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: waist bead bitches. Like it was a musk, but it
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: wasn't bad. They were also like a lot of hair.
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: They had hair under their arms. I don't think it
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: was bad hygiene though. So I didn't have to approach it. However,
• 19:00
  Speaker 1: you getting into the oral hygiene, I'm just going to
• 19:04
  Speaker 1: sit here and tell my bias right now. Yes, I
• 19:09
  Speaker 1: went and got my teeth done. It's the number one
• 19:12
  Speaker 1: thing I look at now. I look at teeth before shoes.
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: before fingernails, before belly. Black is bad, bro. But not
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: only that, even with the, even having veneers, the way
• 19:27
  Speaker 1: me and my nigga was talking about this man at
• 19:30
  Speaker 1: Hedo whose veneers were so white they looked blue. I
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: don't want a nigga with them type of veneers either.
• 19:36
  Speaker 2: But I've smelled some bad breath veneers too because it's
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: hard to get your mouth clean.
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: Why are they so white? Why are they so white?
• 19:42
  Speaker 1: So for me, oral hygiene is a big thing. It's
• 19:45
  Speaker 1: so funny because there was this bitch in Hedo that
• 19:49
  Speaker 1: was so drunk. And y'all will hear it in the
• 19:51
  Speaker 1: Hedo episode. But literally the whole time me and him
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: kept talking, every tooth was a different color when I
• 19:59
  Speaker 1: walked up. And I was like, and she was so lit,
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: but she was also disrespectful because she waited for me
• 20:06
  Speaker 1: to move on. Like, she waited until I went to
• 20:08
  Speaker 1: the bar to even approach my nigga. No. Oh, girl.
• 20:12
  Speaker 1: But every tooth was a different color. When I say
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: every tooth was a different shade of cream to yellow,
• 20:21
  Speaker 1: I don't think she had one white tooth. And I
• 20:24
  Speaker 1: was like, yuck. Here's the thing. It's interesting to me.
• 20:29
  Speaker 1: I'll be honest with you. You said he has rotten
• 20:32
  Speaker 1: teeth and they smell. But you said you met a
• 20:36
  Speaker 1: really nice guy. And you also said you've been dating
• 20:40
  Speaker 1: him for six months. So you've been pushing through. At
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: what point did it become a problem? So here's the thing, too.
• 20:46
  Speaker 1: He's used to it, baby. He used to it. Because
• 20:49
  Speaker 1: once you stop texting him, literally... Okay, so I'll be honest.
• 20:55
  Speaker 1: Even this. I did tell myself if he doesn't address
• 21:00
  Speaker 1: this issue in November, then I'll dissolve this relationship. Let
• 21:04
  Speaker 1: me tell you how awful that sounds because what this
• 21:10
  Speaker 1: is is also a relationship rooted on no communication. If
• 21:14
  Speaker 1: this is something that bothers you, a dentist appointment, a
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: dentist trip, getting your teeth fixed, do you know if
• 21:21
  Speaker 1: he has insurance? Do you know if he has the
• 21:24
  Speaker 1: money or time to go to Colombia or Mexico or
• 21:26
  Speaker 1: somewhere where he could get it cheaper? Are you willing
• 21:28
  Speaker 1: or do you like him enough to help him? get
• 21:32
  Speaker 1: this issue resolved that you have an issue with. Bitch,
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: you about to pay for no white man. What I
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: noticed more and more. Too cute. Especially when a bitch
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: go to Europe. Y'all don't really care about oral hygiene
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: as much as y'all care about if a nigga white.
• 21:49
  Speaker 1: And how are they like living? Oh, they have better
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: food than us. Y'all be talking about me eating ass.
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: But y'all be kissing these niggas with these yuck mouths. Like,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: and there's a lot of women, too, with yuck mouths.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: So y'all be talking shit about the people eating ass.
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: She said the letter is turning into love. No, that's
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: what it's giving. It's turning into love with a yuck mouth?
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: I wouldn't love no nigga if I saw skid marks
• 22:18
  Speaker 1: in his drawl. All right, here's a wrap-up of advice.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: This is what you're going to do. You're going to
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: send him... A text message about it. You can't do
• 22:26
  Speaker 1: it on the phone. You can't do it in person
• 22:28
  Speaker 1: because you had to write us. So you don't have
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: the balls yet. No, no, no, no. It has to
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: be in person. It has to be in person. It
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: has to be in person. Dump, dump, dump, dump.
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: You're going to send a text message with option solutions.
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: Be like, hey, I feel so uncomfortable every time I
• 22:40
  Speaker 2: want to approach this. She's not going to be able
• 22:41
  Speaker 2: to do it in person because she had to write
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: us and it's too difficult. Be like, but, you know,
• 22:45
  Speaker 2: I know you're battling with like a periodontal issue.
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: Like, hey. I'll go with you.
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: There's a really cool place in Mexico where we can
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: get a deep clean. Like I want you to get
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: this fixed. I'm like super worried about it at this point.
• 22:56
  Speaker 2: I know like it may be something that can seem
• 22:59
  Speaker 2: unforgettable or can seem forgettable. Sometimes, you know, the dentist
• 23:02
  Speaker 2: can be really, no one likes going to the dentist,
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: but I really want you to get this fixed because
• 23:08
  Speaker 2: I want to.
• 23:08
  Speaker 1: Be able to enjoy you more. That's it. Something along
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: those lines. You have to tell him you're falling for him,
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: but this is just one thing you would love him
• 23:21
  Speaker 1: to work on about himself. And then maybe also say,
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: and babe, is there anything that I can fix that
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: you haven't told me about?
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: He's going to be like, take that wig off. He's
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: going to try to like... You know what I mean?
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: Like give him something. Say you're not perfect either.
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Anyways, hope this helped. I know we
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: shared a lot too, but hope this helped. Hope you
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: get over it. or hope it's resolved, but you have
• 23:42
  Speaker 1: to have the conversation with him. Don't just, in your mind,
• 23:45
  Speaker 1: give him a time frame for something he doesn't know about.
• 23:49
  Speaker 1: Don't do that. Because he might figure you've been with
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: him for seven months. It's not a problem. No one's
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: going to know a problem is a problem unless you
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: say that there's a problem. Anyways, Thank y'all again. If
• 24:00
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• 24:04
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• 24:09
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• 24:21
  Speaker 2: Bye.
• 24:23
  Speaker 1: And yak mouths.