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Naked Wasted Again? (RHOC Recap) · Two Ts In A Pod with Teddi Mellencamp and Tamra Judge

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  Speaker 1: Hi, guys, Welcome to another episode of Diamonds in the
• 0:16
  Speaker 1: Rough with myself Teddy Mellencamp.
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  Speaker 2: And Hi, I'm Erica Jane. Hi, Rika Jane, Hi baby,
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  Speaker 2: how are you? Oh?
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  Speaker 1: My gosh, I like almost needed to call you for
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  Speaker 1: advice because this past week has been so brutal.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, what's going on? I don't know.
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  Speaker 1: I feel like, well, I ended up getting.
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  Speaker 2: Sick, right, I text you you got COVID.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I got COVID, which I'm good now. But then
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  Speaker 1: I started feeling like extreme extreme depression.
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  Speaker 2: Ooh, like I hopeless, hopeless Okay, and did you call
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  Speaker 2: your psychiatrist?
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  Speaker 1: I called my psychiatrist. My dad flew in his assistant
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  Speaker 1: to be with me. Okay, but I haven't ever felt
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  Speaker 1: like that.
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  Speaker 2: It's frightening.
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  Speaker 1: So and then how long does it take to kind
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  Speaker 1: of bounce back from that?
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  Speaker 2: Everybody's different. What did your psychiatrist say?
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  Speaker 1: Well, I mean they changed my medications around, okay, and
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  Speaker 1: they my psychiatrist just said, like, nobody really knows exactly
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  Speaker 1: what you're going through. That's right, And all you can
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  Speaker 1: do is just, you know, try to stay as positive
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  Speaker 1: as you can and think about all the great things
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  Speaker 1: that are going on in your life. But I mean
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  Speaker 1: I didn't. I cried every single day last week.
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  Speaker 2: Why didn't you tell me?
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  Speaker 1: Because I hate asking people for help?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but you this is the time that you lean
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  Speaker 2: on people, like you know. I would have come out here,
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  Speaker 2: I know, but it's like I know you had COVID,
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  Speaker 2: but I still would have come. I would have come.
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  Speaker 1: But how when you I mean, because.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, you can ask anything you want to ask when you.
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  Speaker 1: Are going through like depressive stuffs, like how long does
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  Speaker 1: it normally take you to kind of snap out of it?
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  Speaker 2: Okay? So for me, my medication didn't really kick in
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  Speaker 2: till about four to six weeks, and I laid in
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  Speaker 2: bed a lot and I had really intrusive thoughts. Are
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  Speaker 2: you having intrusive thoughts? Okay? So I wanted to kill
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  Speaker 2: myself for a very long time and thought about it
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  Speaker 2: a lot and then didn't. The hopelessness is what's frightening,
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  Speaker 2: you know, the hopelessness, And sometimes you just need someone
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  Speaker 2: to come and sit with you, which I will do
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  Speaker 2: anytime you need me to. You're going through a lot,
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  Speaker 2: and I think, like, of course, obviously I'm no health professional,
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  Speaker 2: but I think the gravity of what you've gone through
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  Speaker 2: is hitting you right now.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, that's what I think too. Like I went from
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  Speaker 1: like having like this kind of chaotic life NonStop and
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  Speaker 1: then right into the hospital, right and then I bound
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  Speaker 1: to process hold on.
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  Speaker 2: But you had one of the biggest I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to say bounce backs, but that's the only word that's
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  Speaker 2: coming to me right now I've ever seen of anybody
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  Speaker 2: like I'm sure your doctors, like you shrugged this very
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  Speaker 2: serious diagnosis of like it was nothing. You had surgery,
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  Speaker 2: you were competing in horse shows, you were dating, you know,
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  Speaker 2: so all of those things. I say all of that
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  Speaker 2: to say that, like you're caught up in all of
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  Speaker 2: this and now it's hitting you like months later. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: the seriousness and the gravity, and I mean, I'm sure
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  Speaker 2: you're psychiatrists or your doctors have said that it's kind
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  Speaker 2: to normal.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, they said that it's normal to feel this way
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  Speaker 1: and just to kind of keep going through you know,
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  Speaker 1: you just have to keep going through it. But it
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  Speaker 1: was really scary.
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  Speaker 2: It is scary, isn't it. Yeah, Because it's almost like,
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  Speaker 2: who am I why? I've never felt this way, You've
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  Speaker 2: never felt so low, And I was worried it wasn't
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  Speaker 2: going to stop. I know, That's what I was worried about.
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  Speaker 2: Wasn't too How can this? How can I pull myself
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  Speaker 2: out of this? Because you and I are very proactive,
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  Speaker 2: whether it be fitness, nutrition, your family, your schedule. You know,
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  Speaker 2: you're somebody that had your entire life scheduled down to
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  Speaker 2: the minute. When something like this is overwhelming and you
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  Speaker 2: feel did you feel paralyzed?
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  Speaker 1: I felt paralyzed, and like that's why it's like hard
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  Speaker 1: for me to even like send a text message or
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  Speaker 1: reach out to anybody or and then you know, when
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  Speaker 1: it comes to work stuff like.
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  Speaker 2: I love work, Yeah you do.
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  Speaker 1: I love it, and I like the brain fall and
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  Speaker 1: all those types of things. It's just like I can't
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  Speaker 1: stand it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, but I think you need to be a little bit.
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  Speaker 2: You need to cut yourself a break right here and
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  Speaker 2: not be so hard on yourself. You're hard on yourself anyway,
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  Speaker 2: ye like at your best of times, like really hard
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  Speaker 2: on yourself. I think you really have to be gentle
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  Speaker 2: with yourself right here. Yeah. Also know that this is
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  Speaker 2: not forever. But the more you resist and the more
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  Speaker 2: you fight, the worse it kind of gets in your head,
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  Speaker 2: like you have to move because I hated it so much. So,
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  Speaker 2: like anybody listening, like, I wasn't the best at this either,
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  Speaker 2: because I started acting out.
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  Speaker 1: I mean that's what I was doing before, but now
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  Speaker 1: I don't even have the energy to act out.
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  Speaker 2: I understand, I understand, and I think that I think
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  Speaker 2: your faith is strong, yeah, yeah, very strong. This is
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  Speaker 2: where you really need to lean into your faith. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: and everyone around you and know that people are here. No,
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  Speaker 2: I don't know exactly what you're going through, Okay, I don't,
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  Speaker 2: but I do know what it's like to feel that way,
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  Speaker 2: and I think this is a time when all of
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  Speaker 2: us need to You know, you can call me any
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  Speaker 2: fucking time, Teddy, thank you, And I mean that like
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  Speaker 2: you're welcome to call me twenty four hours a day
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  Speaker 2: if you can send the text. Now I'm going to
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  Speaker 2: be calling you. I will, but then I understand if
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  Speaker 2: you don't answer. But I think that you need someone
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  Speaker 2: with you all the time. Someone needs to be with you,
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  Speaker 2: just because you don't need to be alone with your
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  Speaker 2: own thoughts, because that rumination can get into a place
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  Speaker 2: where it's just really heavy.
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  Speaker 1: And then you're just like you feel so stuck. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: And like I still can't drive. I felt like I
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  Speaker 1: was just stuck inside of this house. And then I
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  Speaker 1: think COVID added to it, well that's yes, And I
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  Speaker 1: was like, holy shit, I haven't felt like this.
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  Speaker 2: I don't ever, ever, ever.
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  Speaker 1: In my life. And then you start wondering like did
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  Speaker 1: I make a mistake. Did I need to change?
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  Speaker 2: Like you didn't make a mistake coming Okay, that's you
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  Speaker 2: did not make a mistake. You don't need to apologize
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  Speaker 2: for anything. You don't need to go back and relive
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  Speaker 2: the past. You need to take in this moment. And
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  Speaker 2: has your new medication started to kick in.
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  Speaker 1: I think it started to kick in, Like I feel
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  Speaker 1: pretty good today.
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  Speaker 2: Good?
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I feel pretty good today, but today is probably
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  Speaker 1: the first day. And but I mean, luckily for pax
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  Speaker 1: a livid, it got me through the cood pretty quickly.
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  Speaker 1: Good testing negative. So I was like, whew, now I
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  Speaker 1: can leave my house.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, and you do need to leave your house, even
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  Speaker 2: if it's just to walk around the block.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Like yesterday, I was like, okay, I'll go get
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  Speaker 1: my nails done.
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  Speaker 2: Nice.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I went and got a petty good. Yeah, so
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  Speaker 1: you know that's what it is. Then I watched Roal
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  Speaker 1: Housewives of Orange County.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, which will get in? I watched it too.
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  Speaker 1: Hold on, shold we talk a little bit about the wedding.
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  Speaker 2: Oh, okay, well, yes you. First off, I'm so happy
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  Speaker 2: you came and I think you had a good time.
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  Speaker 1: I had such It was such a beautiful wedding. It
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  Speaker 1: was so pretty, and their speeches.
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  Speaker 2: Were insane in saying the fact that they've known each
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  Speaker 2: other since the third grade and he used to spend
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  Speaker 2: the night in his car outside of their.
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  Speaker 1: Home waiting for her to wake up so they could
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  Speaker 1: spend more time together.
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  Speaker 2: So they were meant to be together.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, like that love story. It really got me.
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  Speaker 2: I saw Kyle the other night at the NBC Emmy
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  Speaker 2: party and I said to her, like, you know, there
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  Speaker 2: aren't many happy marriages in my family where I come from.
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  Speaker 2: We don't have events like that, and I'll never have
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  Speaker 2: a family like that, brothers and sisters and things like that.
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  Speaker 2: But I was so happy to have like witnessed that.
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  Speaker 2: I know that sounds horny, but it was so special.
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  Speaker 2: And singing, oh when singing, well.
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  Speaker 1: When they got up on stage and were singing, I
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  Speaker 1: was like, who's that beautiful voice? And the fact that it.
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  Speaker 2: Was coming out of Alexia.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, oh my goodness.
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  Speaker 2: And their first dance, which was totally adorable, complete with
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  Speaker 2: lifts and turns, and it was precious.
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  Speaker 1: It was one of those things like I was like,
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  Speaker 1: what a magical night. It was so magical and it
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  Speaker 1: was It was nice to have to see everybody.
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  Speaker 2: Everybody was really happy you were there.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, and I was happy to see Rinna.
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  Speaker 2: She's a good time.
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  Speaker 1: She cracks me up.
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  Speaker 2: You guys are having a good time over there at
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  Speaker 2: your table.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, your table? Who was who was at your table?
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  Speaker 2: Alex, myself, Sutton, who's on the edge. I think Justin
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  Speaker 2: was at my table? And who was across from us?
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  Speaker 2: I forget, but yeah, we had a great time.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was fun.
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  Speaker 2: It was beautiful. It was really pretty happy. The flowers
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  Speaker 2: were gorgeous handles, the food was good. Everybody there, it
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  Speaker 2: was really nice. And when I didn't think I was
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  Speaker 2: gonna cry, but when I saw Kyle come down and
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  Speaker 2: wait for her, I just was like, oh God, Erica stop,
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  Speaker 2: you know, doesn't even have anything to do with me.
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  Speaker 1: I cried too, And I loved that. It just felt
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  Speaker 1: it felt even though it was a big wedding. It
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  Speaker 1: felt so intimate.
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  Speaker 2: It felt like everyone there really knew the couple. Yeah,
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  Speaker 2: it didn't feel like a business event.
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  Speaker 1: No, it was.
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  Speaker 2: It was lovely.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, it was so nice. Probably more lovely than going
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  Speaker 1: to Temecula for a twenty four hour trip.
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  Speaker 2: I would say I'd rather go to Alexia's wedding like
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  Speaker 2: every day of the week than have to go to
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  Speaker 2: Temecula once. Even though the house looked really good, that
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  Speaker 2: house was quite beautiful.
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  Speaker 1: The house was beautiful, but okay, so it starts off,
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  Speaker 1: Taram recalls Shannon invites her on a twenty four hour
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  Speaker 1: venyard trip to Temecula. Shannon is hesitant to go on
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  Speaker 1: the trip because she doesn't know which Tam or She's
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  Speaker 1: gonna get.
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  Speaker 2: Valid point, valid point.
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  Speaker 1: Also, she couldn't even make an effort to be like
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  Speaker 1: no or yes.
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  Speaker 2: She was like, ah, well, two things I think are
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  Speaker 2: at play here. She can't say no, and we both
• 11:17
  Speaker 2: know why. So eh was probably her way of saying no,
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  Speaker 2: But I have to if I were to translate it.
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  Speaker 2: You know, you all know what I'm saying without me
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  Speaker 2: saying it.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, ah, eh, but why did you pack
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  Speaker 1: all those kitchen supplies? We didn't see any cooking.
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  Speaker 2: Purely for a kitchen and effect. I was like, it's
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  Speaker 2: a stick. Well, when nobody's cooking on this shit, like
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  Speaker 2: stop with all the games.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Then Shannon, Gina, and Jen meet for lunch. Gina and
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  Speaker 1: Jen tell Shannon they said yes to going on Tameras
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  Speaker 1: to Mecula trip. Gina thinks that it would be an
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  Speaker 1: opportunity for Shannon and Tarmor to clear some things up.
• 12:10
  Speaker 1: Gina was going to town on her You know how
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  Speaker 1: we always said it's hard to eat on camera with
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  Speaker 1: her artichoke biting, it was full.
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  Speaker 2: Well, she must have been the three that day, and
• 12:20
  Speaker 2: it's interesting you should bring that up because I was
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  Speaker 2: watching them eat and I was like, I hate eating
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  Speaker 2: on camera. I know we you know, we we've talked
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  Speaker 2: about this, never eat on camera. Yet here we are
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  Speaker 2: eating on camera, eating on that artichoke. Must have been good.
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  Speaker 2: And then Heather records her episode of her podcast with
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  Speaker 2: Dylan mulvaney, which was very good, and I thought, maybe
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  Speaker 2: I should listen to Heather's podcast.
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  Speaker 1: She has a new one. It's on iHeart. Actually it's
• 12:47
  Speaker 1: called Between Us Cute. Her and Terry have a podcast together.
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  Speaker 2: That's kind of adorable. I know, do they have a
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  Speaker 2: good time? Have you heard it?
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  Speaker 1: I haven't heard it, but I think that they probably.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe they should invite us over and we could really
• 13:00
  Speaker 2: chatted out. Oh we should do a double Yeah we should.
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  Speaker 2: We should actually, like, you know, we go over there
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  Speaker 2: and bullshit with them.
• 13:09
  Speaker 1: Because I mean, I think he's hilarious.
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  Speaker 2: He's great.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: Did you know his brother was like a fucking rock star?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, his brother was like the lead singer. Don't quote
• 13:18
  Speaker 2: is it Rat or Quiet Riot? Really? Yeah? I mean
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  Speaker 2: he's no longer on this planet, but yeah, his brother
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  Speaker 2: was like a legit guy, was a Quiet Riot. Quiet right,
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  Speaker 2: he's the lead of Quiet Riot. Come and feel the noise.
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  Speaker 2: Terry Deburrow's brother.
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  Speaker 1: That How did I not know that?
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  Speaker 2: Do you think your dad might have known him in passing?
• 13:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know. Let's ask ask.
• 13:40
  Speaker 2: We need to ask the Koug's.
• 13:42
  Speaker 1: Well, ask the coos Coogs. Did you know him?
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  Speaker 2: Now? Well, Koog's knows everybody.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, I mean the Coug's knows a lot of
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  Speaker 1: the kooks. Has farm made this weekend? By the way, guys, oh.
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  Speaker 2: Is it still going? I love that he's a bit
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  Speaker 2: he's like one of the leaders that is Willy showing
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  Speaker 2: up for that.
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  Speaker 1: I don't know if Willy is I would have I mean.
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  Speaker 2: Really so old, it's so fabulous. I'm not saying that
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  Speaker 2: in a bad way.
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  Speaker 1: Normally it's like Willie, your dad, Matthews.
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  Speaker 2: You know what. I like it that your dad has
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  Speaker 2: been so involved with that for so long.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, he's so passionate about it, but he should be.
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  Speaker 1: And that's what I was like. I couldn't even believe
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  Speaker 1: that he sent his assistant out. I'm like, during farm aid,
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  Speaker 1: you must really love me.
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  Speaker 2: Mut's have farm maide down though.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Then Emily and Jen help out at an animal shelter,
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  Speaker 1: which was cute. It was cute. While there, Emily opens
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  Speaker 1: up about Luke and how she coddles him and how
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  Speaker 1: Shane thinks Emily is rewarding bad behavior by doing that.
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  Speaker 2: I have a question, is Shane, and and forgive me
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  Speaker 2: for not knowing, is Shane their dad? Or does she
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  Speaker 2: have kids with another person?
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  Speaker 1: Or he has kids with another person?
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  Speaker 2: Okay, but these twins are theirs?
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  Speaker 1: Yes, But also did you hear that? And I'm trying
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  Speaker 1: not to do Shane. I'm just confused by it. That
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  Speaker 1: they're doing wife swap what.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, they're doing Yes, Emily and Shane are doing it.
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  Speaker 2: Yes with who are their part Who are they swapping with?
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  Speaker 1: We don't know exactly who.
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  Speaker 2: Oh like, oh, I I mean that's this is a
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  Speaker 2: hard time to do that.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, we're oh.
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  Speaker 2: My god with the boys.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, we've had the whole season talking about Luke, I know,
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  Speaker 1: and now they're going to switch families.
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  Speaker 2: I don't like that me neither. Emily knows best what's
• 15:25
  Speaker 2: right with her family.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah she does, but like I don't. Maybe she signed
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  Speaker 1: up for this before.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe it's a contractual obligation. That's where I'm going.
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  Speaker 1: Let's hope that's okay.
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  Speaker 2: I do want to say this though. Yeah, I see
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  Speaker 2: how Emily and Shane's marriage, Like, I get it. I
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  Speaker 2: think that again, And I've said this before. Men and
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  Speaker 2: women process things differently, and that's always going to be
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  Speaker 2: a thing, like I view it. But this is a
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  Speaker 2: tough spot, you know, because I feel it's hard because
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  Speaker 2: you know, Emily talks about how the other children haven't
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  Speaker 2: gotten as much focused as Lucaz and she kind of said,
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  Speaker 2: I'm paraphrasing, they'll be okay. At the same time are they.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, it's it's just it's really hard on a family.
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  Speaker 2: This is really hard on.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's really hard on the family and especially But
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  Speaker 1: do you think that it's like to the point where
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  Speaker 1: it's causing Emily and Shane so much stress that it's
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  Speaker 1: going to hurt them. No, I don't think so. I
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  Speaker 1: think they're a strong couple.
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  Speaker 2: I think they're a strong couple. And I also think
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  Speaker 2: that at times like this you really find out what
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  Speaker 2: your marriage is made of, you'll be fine.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think that this is going to rip them
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  Speaker 2: apart neither. They'll probably go to counseling, which all couples
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  Speaker 2: of all married couples, in my opinion, should go to anyway.
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  Speaker 1: I mean, maybe they're already in counseling.
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  Speaker 2: I hope so.
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  Speaker 1: I think it's just hard to record these types of
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  Speaker 1: things film talking about your son.
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  Speaker 2: Nobody wants to talk about that. That's very heartbreaking. It's
• 16:59
  Speaker 2: really I don't think people quite understand, like, yes, we
• 17:03
  Speaker 2: are on these reality TV shows to share our lives,
• 17:05
  Speaker 2: and while it's so much more fun to go to
• 17:09
  Speaker 2: a winery and talk about you know, when you're talking
• 17:12
  Speaker 2: about your children being having problems that hits on a
• 17:18
  Speaker 2: whole other level. That's really being vulnerable for all of us,
• 17:22
  Speaker 2: for every woman that's ever been on any one of
• 17:24
  Speaker 2: these shows.
• 17:25
  Speaker 1: Yeah, and because not only do you have to continue
• 17:29
  Speaker 1: to live through it again and again and again.
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: You're also subject to everybody else's opinion of it again
• 17:37
  Speaker 2: and again and again. So easy on the judgment of
• 17:41
  Speaker 2: moms whose children are struggling.
• 17:43
  Speaker 1: Please, Yes, for sure, I have another question for you.
• 17:47
  Speaker 2: I have an answer.
• 17:49
  Speaker 1: Shannon's missing a tooth and never getthing like that.
• 17:52
  Speaker 2: Need to see that. Don't think that's the best. We
• 17:56
  Speaker 2: need to get her some dental implants. Stat. I saw
• 18:00
  Speaker 2: that doctor Rashti. She keeps coming up on the TV.
• 18:03
  Speaker 2: I don't know if she's any good or not, but
• 18:05
  Speaker 2: she'd probably give you some free teeth.
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 18:08
  Speaker 2: I didn't like that. I don't hurt. And she called
• 18:10
  Speaker 2: it her flipper.
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: Well, flipper isn't.
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: That something in that old school MGM thing? Flipper like
• 18:16
  Speaker 2: Judy Garland.
• 18:17
  Speaker 1: I think a flipper is like when you are in beauty.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Pageants and you're missing your baby teeth. Yes, I said,
• 18:24
  Speaker 2: they give you the teeth the flipper, and so that
• 18:26
  Speaker 2: you when you smile and wave you had the full smile. Yeah,
• 18:29
  Speaker 2: that's what I thought it was too. I didn't need
• 18:31
  Speaker 2: to know she was missing a molar, you know what
• 18:34
  Speaker 2: I mean?
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: Like, I didn't need to know. But why didn't she
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: get it put back in or find it by a
• 18:40
  Speaker 1: new one.
• 18:43
  Speaker 2: Chance for the molars, I mean, can get them alone.
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: On the molar and now send us a quick selfie.
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Please is your molar back in?
• 18:50
  Speaker 2: Or now I'm being shady about the teeth, my apologies,
• 18:56
  Speaker 2: don't show it to us and then I won't have
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: to be it was. It was shocking.
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: It was shocking.
• 19:03
  Speaker 2: Yeah, just like hm mm hmm yeah, oh okay, okay.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Then into Mecula, Shannon unpacks her suitcase filled with pots,
• 19:14
  Speaker 1: pants and baking supplies.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: I left it at home. It's a stick, don't do it.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: And like what was she going to whip up and win?
• 19:21
  Speaker 1: Absolutely not?
• 19:22
  Speaker 2: Absolutely nothing? I mean, which I feel like.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: She just wanted to have a lot of luggage. Yeah
• 19:28
  Speaker 1: for camera, Like what was she going to make a
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: good spot?
• 19:32
  Speaker 2: Not a goddamn thing?
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: Like why did she need the blending thing?
• 19:34
  Speaker 2: She doesn't she had brought her own like blender to
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: make her own like protein shake or something. Yeah, like
• 19:39
  Speaker 2: I get all that, but like pots and pans.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Pots and pans, and maybe that was her pots and pants.
• 19:46
  Speaker 2: Well, I mean we did have to cook this year.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: It was a disaster, but that's just you know, who
• 19:51
  Speaker 2: did the cooking, allegedly all of us, not me. I
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: could have told you that was fucked up and we
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: to beg hungry, oh and a little you know an
• 20:04
  Speaker 2: it was my.
• 20:04
  Speaker 1: Birthday, so I was like, what did you guys cook?
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: I don't know because it never got completed. Everybody started
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: a dish and it was way lame.
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: Can you remember what we ate when we were on
• 20:15
  Speaker 1: the camping trip in the RV Okay?
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: First off, I was thinking of that the other day,
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: and I was thinking about how much fun we were having.
• 20:23
  Speaker 2: I just know that Duri killed us at beer pong.
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, she was so good.
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: She was so she was so good. I remember eating
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: the pumpkin pie for breakfast. I remember us going to
• 20:33
  Speaker 2: the grocery store and you were like, we only need
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: one mane and two sides. Meanwhile, I was like cheese
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: balls and brownie mix.
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: Oh, we were using what is that the cheese that
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: you like squeezed?
• 20:46
  Speaker 2: Oh? Score, cheese. Yeah, like hello, maybe easy cheese or
• 20:50
  Speaker 2: something like this, not cheese at all, but we were
• 20:52
  Speaker 2: using that on crackers.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I mean I don't know, but where did we
• 20:57
  Speaker 1: have dinner.
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: It's not coming to me we.
• 21:01
  Speaker 1: Either, Oh yeah, that's right. We got in an argument
• 21:05
  Speaker 1: with Camille because Camille like wanted to be in charge
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: of the grill.
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: And then like, all I remember is Camille telling us
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: how she gave Kelsey a pros state massage. That I
• 21:17
  Speaker 2: don't remember the grilling incident, but I do remember Camille
• 21:20
  Speaker 2: with the prostate massage. And I remember you're back and
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: forth with her about the playboy thing. Oh, her body
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: was rocking. I mean it was.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Rocking, but she was being judging about something I think,
• 21:34
  Speaker 1: and I.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: Was like, we need to yeah, like yeah, you're naked.
• 21:37
  Speaker 1: I wasn't having it. And then Heather hosts a sleepover
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: with Emily and Gretchen, but first the girls go shopping
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: in Beverly Hills and run into pop parazzi. She says
• 21:48
  Speaker 1: she knows for a fact that Heather did not call
• 21:51
  Speaker 1: the poparazzi at Disneyland. Emily wonders if they just ran
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: into a paid actress.
• 21:56
  Speaker 2: Well, Emily's a paid actor, so you ran into one
• 21:58
  Speaker 2: of your own. So I mean, like, quit it. Who
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: cares you know?
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: I mean, but it's a very random, coincidental, Like it's
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: not like every single paparazzi knows each other.
• 22:10
  Speaker 2: I have a note, Okay, my storage unit was broken into,
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: So I was making a police report yesterday. Hold on,
• 22:17
  Speaker 2: and then I had to go to the gym. As
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: I'm walking into the gym, who meets me there? The
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: paparazzi that was asking me if my storage unit was
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: broken into. So I'm gonna x out on this. Yeah,
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: I was like, did the fucking storage unit call you
• 22:32
  Speaker 2: and tell you or did you just how that?
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: What?
• 22:34
  Speaker 2: Were you following me from my house to the storage
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: unit and saw me and then followed me to the
• 22:39
  Speaker 2: gym to ask me this tacky question. So I've had
• 22:42
  Speaker 2: it with that whole line of shit. So everybody's a
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: paid actor in this town. And but I do like
• 22:49
  Speaker 2: the fact that the paparazzi uh stuck up for Heather.
• 22:53
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I liked it too, But I also was like,
• 22:55
  Speaker 1: they don't all know each other. They don't they don't know.
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: I mean, it's small, but I mean, but Also, I
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: don't care if she called.
• 23:04
  Speaker 2: I don't either, It's just not that important. I know
• 23:07
  Speaker 2: I didn't call it yesterday, and I found it fucking
• 23:09
  Speaker 2: annoying and interessive in my life. But that's my relationship
• 23:14
  Speaker 2: with that.
• 23:15
  Speaker 1: Well, anytime the pop Rozzi gets me, it's at my
• 23:17
  Speaker 1: very worst.
• 23:18
  Speaker 2: Definitely, exactly like I mean, my shit got stolen? Or
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: do you think that I fucking how do you think
• 23:23
  Speaker 2: I fucking feel? Thanks?
• 23:25
  Speaker 1: Thank you can. We also talk about how Heather and
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: Gretchen are dressed for two totally different whether I.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: Noticed that too. Gretchen looks like she's in New York City, Yeah,
• 23:36
  Speaker 2: and Heather is wearing a little strap like black adorable dress.
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: But Gretchen looks like it's fall or winter. Yeah. I
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: was like, Heather, it looks like it's summertime.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: What is going on? This com this, this combo of
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: three was a little bit interesting.
• 23:54
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it was interesting.
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: It was interesting. Then we're back at the winery. Tamra
• 23:59
  Speaker 1: starts yelling do you like me again? Shannon, and then goes,
• 24:02
  Speaker 1: I think Jen likes me again too. Gina thinks Tamara
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: isn't doing this right. Yeah, I mean, nobody's gonna like
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: you more. When you say do.
• 24:12
  Speaker 2: You like me? The answer is no, No, you're actually
• 24:16
  Speaker 2: on my nerves. Yeah, and asking Yeah, now it's getting worse.
• 24:20
  Speaker 2: Just leave it alone. Yeah, not the best, not the best.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: At dinner, Heather brings up taking classes at the Groundlings
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: into Mecula. The women question Heather doing a comedy, I
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: prov Emily. Okay, so I I just side note on this.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: Heather Debro is very talented, and she's a very talented
• 24:38
  Speaker 2: singer and had her own like band and I know
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: we kind of share the same voice. Coach and not
• 24:44
  Speaker 2: to say his name, but he was like, no, she
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: can sing. Yeah, she's talented, y'all. Like she's a talented actress.
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: She's a talented singer. I don't know if she's a
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: dancer or not.
• 24:53
  Speaker 1: But but if it makes her happy, what is what's
• 24:56
  Speaker 1: the problem with it?
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: Who cares? She's talented? Let her live her life.
• 25:00
  Speaker 1: Her live her life, and let her do things that
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: are going to give her more joy.
• 25:04
  Speaker 2: This is what this is about, like, and we should
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: be supporting her, and just like we need to support
• 25:09
  Speaker 2: everybody who's doing any sort of thing artistic and anything
• 25:13
  Speaker 2: that enriches their lives right, Yeah.
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: I mean how I would do anything right now to
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: find something that I really loved, that you.
• 25:19
  Speaker 2: Loved and like just like yeah you sunk your teeth
• 25:21
  Speaker 2: into and yeah.
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: My new version of riding horses. I need to find it.
• 25:26
  Speaker 2: You do, I need that was the last time you
• 25:28
  Speaker 2: got on horse.
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: Probably three months ago?
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: Miss it?
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: I miss it like crazy.
• 25:35
  Speaker 2: Well, then we need to get on I know I
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: need to. Would you go like ride some nag with
• 25:39
  Speaker 2: me around? Like yes, okay, it's it eight, I'm gonna
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: pick you up and we'll go.
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: Let's do it.
• 25:46
  Speaker 2: Okay, schedule that I'll find let's let's get gin on
• 25:49
  Speaker 2: it and we'll yeah, we'll and I'll come get you
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: and we'll go riding. Not not riding in the way
• 25:54
  Speaker 2: you ride, but just get on a horse and look
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: at pretty ship. Yeah.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Yeah, we did that once also when we filmed we
• 26:02
  Speaker 1: did that in Germany. Oh no, we've done it twice
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: then in Germany when the horses were all taking off.
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: But then also I think it was me you and
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: possibly we went riding and then we went to the
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: Mexican rest Superbank.
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: Maybe yeah, I mean yes, maybe we should do at
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: Griffith Park maybe we should do that. That was kind
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: of fun and then go to the Mexican place and
• 26:23
  Speaker 2: have a cocktail.
• 26:24
  Speaker 1: Perfect.
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, okayfect Brin. That was fun. Actually we were getting along.
• 26:30
  Speaker 2: Dury showed up in a chanelle I had on, like
• 26:34
  Speaker 2: you know, the ride. Yeah, we have a hotel, and
• 26:38
  Speaker 2: just like, yeah, yeah, let's go do that. That's actually closer.
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: There's one not on Sunset, I mean like Malibu, but
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: that's probably not a great place, right now, let's go
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: over there.
• 26:49
  Speaker 1: That would be fun.
• 26:49
  Speaker 2: Okay, we'll set it up. Jennifer're listening. Who by the way,
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: did crush Don't Stop Believing? Do you remember when she
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: sang that at the Who? Yeah, I was kind of shocked,
• 27:02
  Speaker 2: even the high note Eve like we she was. She
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: was on the microphone. So Jen, shout out to you.
• 27:09
  Speaker 1: Shout out to you. You nailed it. And and I
• 27:13
  Speaker 1: love like her background dancers new right, not background dancers,
• 27:16
  Speaker 1: but background singers new right. One to pull back and.
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Let let her have her moment. No, it was great,
• 27:21
  Speaker 2: It was great. It was great.
• 27:23
  Speaker 1: Jenna is one of our besties, just so everybody knows,
• 27:26
  Speaker 1: and she is just always such fun.
• 27:30
  Speaker 2: She's a good time. But she loves you very much.
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: She's such a good friend to all of us, but
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: especially she loves you and Kyle very much. She's just
• 27:39
  Speaker 2: she's really a giving soul, very giving beyond it. Emily
• 27:44
  Speaker 2: brings up that Jen had asked if Heather pacifies Tamra
• 27:49
  Speaker 2: because she's scared of her. This is like the oldest
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: housewife trick in the book. You're not saying it because
• 27:55
  Speaker 2: you're scared of her, you know what. I think? This
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: is my take. She don't want to fight with her,
• 27:58
  Speaker 2: like it's old. Yeah, it's just like I'm not afraid
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: of you. I'm fucking tired of you, Like I know
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: what you're gonna do, and so I don't want to deal.
• 28:05
  Speaker 1: With it and it's not worth it.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: It's not worth it because it never goes anywhere, and
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: it just is like it's time. Are you afraid of her?
• 28:11
  Speaker 2: It's like, no, she gets on my nerves and I
• 28:14
  Speaker 2: really don't want to hear it.
• 28:15
  Speaker 1: But also I think and that's why, Yeah, I mean,
• 28:17
  Speaker 1: I think she also likes her comparatively, speaking.
• 28:20
  Speaker 2: Of course she does. They do get along. I think
• 28:23
  Speaker 2: they get along, and I think and that's fine, and
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: you know what, you don't always want to like nail
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: somebody over.
• 28:27
  Speaker 1: Again and shit. And I think that Heather has empathy,
• 28:30
  Speaker 1: which a lot of people don't. And I think Heather
• 28:33
  Speaker 1: can see when a friend is going through a rough time.
• 28:36
  Speaker 2: Yeah, gets a bad rap, she gets shit on for
• 28:42
  Speaker 2: like not being but she's just different and I kind
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: of and we've said this before, what you know, she
• 28:47
  Speaker 2: lets the women be themselves. Yeah, so you don't always
• 28:51
  Speaker 2: have to fight with somebody to show that you don't
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: like their behavior or something like that. You can just
• 28:56
  Speaker 2: be like, you know, my nerves.
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: How did you feel about the behavior When the girls
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: walk through the vend and once again, Shannon's falling.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Down, Yeah, I mean it looked like, you know, how
• 29:06
  Speaker 2: did you feel?
• 29:07
  Speaker 1: Well? I just was like this, it felt.
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to pick her up because I don't
• 29:12
  Speaker 2: want dirt on my outfit and I'm not going to
• 29:14
  Speaker 2: stream my back.
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: But it just it's it felt like to me the
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: same way as bringing all the cooking supplies.
• 29:20
  Speaker 2: It is it's a stick.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: It's a stick.
• 29:23
  Speaker 2: It came off as sticky, it was shaky, and then
• 29:26
  Speaker 2: her ash was sticky because it had dirt all over it. Yeah,
• 29:30
  Speaker 2: I mean, if you're gonna fall down like eat like
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: when bit the dust in sand.
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: My gosh, I thought you were going to talk about
• 29:39
  Speaker 1: when almost fall down at the wedding. I never something
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: like that. So it was so story just to get backstory.
• 29:57
  Speaker 1: The wedding, it was an a place to wear like
• 30:01
  Speaker 1: huge shoes.
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: Even though we all did even I was guilty.
• 30:06
  Speaker 1: But Durd had on probably like I don't know, ten inches.
• 30:09
  Speaker 2: She wears big shoes, big shoes.
• 30:12
  Speaker 1: And so you walk up these stairs and there's like
• 30:14
  Speaker 1: these little rocks and as she's like plintering.
• 30:19
  Speaker 2: I'm laughing because we almost all of.
• 30:21
  Speaker 1: Us like, and I was like, believe me, I had
• 30:25
  Speaker 1: my own I wasn't even wearing big shoes and I
• 30:27
  Speaker 1: had my own I.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: Had my own pros. I have my own problems, and
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: I was wearing big shoes.
• 30:30
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but it was I And then like this random
• 30:35
  Speaker 1: man like caught her.
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: It was full to eat style.
• 30:38
  Speaker 1: It was full.
• 30:40
  Speaker 2: It was just but even like even walking down the
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: the place to our seats was tough.
• 30:47
  Speaker 1: That was I don't The girls nailed it though, when.
• 30:50
  Speaker 2: They walk was nailed it. How beautiful were those girls.
• 30:54
  Speaker 1: Oh, my gosh, and all the dresses that they looked
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: so pretty ordinated, but not too cordin.
• 30:58
  Speaker 2: Too coordinated, like it was beautiful. It was a beautiful night,
• 31:02
  Speaker 2: full moon. It was gorgeous.
• 31:05
  Speaker 1: And then after they're walking through the vineyard, Gina says,
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: Heather presented the story of that end quotes.
• 31:13
  Speaker 2: That photo, which she never said that photo. She never
• 31:17
  Speaker 2: said it heavy. You were heavier at that time. Okay.
• 31:33
  Speaker 2: The girls arrive at dinner into Mecula and Tamar brings
• 31:36
  Speaker 2: up the heavy photo to Jenn and apologizes, and Tamer
• 31:39
  Speaker 2: thinks no one wants to accept her apology, which is
• 31:41
  Speaker 2: kind of true because Tamra, you give a lot of
• 31:48
  Speaker 2: content and then they just spit it right back at you,
• 31:51
  Speaker 2: and so yeah, and she explains that. Tamer explains that
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: her issue with Jen started because Jin had Ryan go
• 31:57
  Speaker 2: to Cabo with them while bringing will to her house
• 32:01
  Speaker 2: hold on but then the comeback was so somebody was
• 32:05
  Speaker 2: having an affair. But then the if then it got
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: turned around that Tamra was having an affair with Eddie
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: while she was married to someone else. See, I did
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: not know this because I'm a new Orange County watcher.
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: I didn't know any of this. So I was like, oh, oh.
• 32:20
  Speaker 1: Well, I mean of course it's going to get talked about.
• 32:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I just didn't know.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: No, but I met like it's going to get talked
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: about that She okay, So.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: It's basically it's the same behavior.
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: It's well right imagedly, I don't I don't know is
• 32:35
  Speaker 1: it confirmed that they did.
• 32:36
  Speaker 2: Here's the thing, I don't really care when anybody like,
• 32:40
  Speaker 2: it's not any of my business who has an affair
• 32:42
  Speaker 2: or not. I'm not married to you. Shit happens in
• 32:45
  Speaker 2: adult relationships. Let's not throw it in people's faces. Well,
• 32:49
  Speaker 2: but I think the pro I'm wrong, Like, you know
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: you had an affair, way ye, who gives a fup?
• 32:54
  Speaker 2: Like you're not fucking the guy?
• 32:55
  Speaker 1: I am so, But if you went on a vacation
• 32:58
  Speaker 1: with that and then you come back and then you
• 33:02
  Speaker 1: have to see the person's husband.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: That's okay. So Tom girlready had the greatest rule ever.
• 33:07
  Speaker 2: And you guys can say what you want to say,
• 33:09
  Speaker 2: but this was a good one. He said, We meaning
• 33:14
  Speaker 2: he and I are never going to dinner or drinks
• 33:17
  Speaker 2: or anywhere with anyone's girlfriend slash side piece, even though
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: he had a million Okay, but yeah, because and he
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: was correct about this, So take his own indiscretions out
• 33:28
  Speaker 2: of it. He was like, what I don't want to
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: have happen is you and I say the wrong thing
• 33:33
  Speaker 2: or mix up the wrong date, and then we're in
• 33:36
  Speaker 2: the middle of something. And that's the problem with this. Yeah,
• 33:39
  Speaker 2: that's you know. It's like, oh, girl, say I was
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: you know, you go on a vacation with somebody you're
• 33:43
  Speaker 2: not supposed to be going on a vacation with, and
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: then other people see you and then they have to
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: pretend like they don't know. It's just dragging people in.
• 33:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, brings people in and then they all of a
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: sudden have to be held accountable.
• 33:55
  Speaker 2: To right, and then the person who's getting cheated on
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: goes to you. Let's just say, why didn't you tell me?
• 34:01
  Speaker 2: It's like, was it my place? Yeah? I didn't know
• 34:04
  Speaker 2: that homegirl was coming on the vacation.
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 34:07
  Speaker 2: So, like I said, even though Tom had a whole
• 34:09
  Speaker 2: lot of shit in his own indiscretion, he was SMA
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: pretty smooth about this one.
• 34:14
  Speaker 1: He knew you.
• 34:16
  Speaker 2: I gave her for a while until he got away
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: from him. Yeah, you know what happens to all of us,
• 34:21
  Speaker 2: to you.
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: Honey, Then Shannon gets involved and starts yelling at Tamra,
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: saying she doesn't ever take accountability. Shannon tells Tamar that
• 34:29
  Speaker 1: she goes low and everyone has just to forgive her.
• 34:32
  Speaker 2: Well, we've heard this both back and forth for years.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: Nothing no revelation here.
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: Yeah, well, I mean, I think the problem here is
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: tam says if she wants to go to zero to
• 34:42
  Speaker 1: one hundred, she needs to let them breathe and work
• 34:45
  Speaker 1: slowly through their friendship.
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: I believe that. Yeah, it's smart.
• 34:49
  Speaker 1: Yeah, I think it.
• 34:50
  Speaker 2: It's the most reasonable thing you can say. Yeah. Shannon
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: tells Tamra that her life has been better the past
• 34:58
  Speaker 2: year with Tamra not in it, and Shannon expresses how
• 35:01
  Speaker 2: hard last year was for her with Tamra calling her
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: an alcoholic. I'm sure that that is true. Calling someone
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: an alcoholic does hurt your friends. And if you've had
• 35:09
  Speaker 2: the best year of your life without Tamra being in
• 35:11
  Speaker 2: your life, Tamra probably doesn't care, Shannon. She's really not
• 35:15
  Speaker 2: gonna sweat it. I'm just gonna tell you, Uh, nobody
• 35:18
  Speaker 2: really cares.
• 35:18
  Speaker 1: What about Tamar's amazing pivot where she lobs it over
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: to Gina.
• 35:22
  Speaker 2: I kind of love it. That's why we like. That's
• 35:24
  Speaker 2: why we love Tamra. She's like, how potato now it's.
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: On you by actually really thinks you have a.
• 35:32
  Speaker 2: Bro exactly Actually it's her, which I kind of listen, Hey,
• 35:36
  Speaker 2: this is where it gets cute. Tamor throws Gina under
• 35:39
  Speaker 2: the bus, telling Shannon that Gina is worried about Shannon's drinking,
• 35:43
  Speaker 2: and Gin admits that she does worry about Shannon. Reasonable. Yeah,
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: I mean it's reasonable to worry about Shannon. She hit
• 35:49
  Speaker 2: a house. She hit a house and maybe lost the molar.
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: Do you think she lost the molar?
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: I'm just being rude. And Shannon, if you're listening, girl,
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: you know, I think you're fears. But I have to
• 36:06
  Speaker 2: be up here talking shit.
• 36:07
  Speaker 1: And if you're here, I have my teeth are fake.
• 36:10
  Speaker 2: So yeah, no, everybody's got veneers or something. I don't.
• 36:14
  Speaker 2: But yeah, I mean I would worry about Shannon's drinking too.
• 36:19
  Speaker 2: But did the tam encourage her to have a cocktail
• 36:21
  Speaker 2: in New Orleans?
• 36:22
  Speaker 3: Yeah?
• 36:23
  Speaker 2: So, I mean, y'all, really it's you.
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: Know, it's a lot, but I think next week it's
• 36:28
  Speaker 1: gonna get pretty juicy.
• 36:30
  Speaker 2: I did too. Listen. Once again, I enjoyed this episode
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: at first I'm like, when I watch these episodes, I'm
• 36:40
  Speaker 2: to be honest, I'm kind of like, okay, like what's
• 36:41
  Speaker 2: really going to happen? And then by the end, I'm
• 36:43
  Speaker 2: like that was cute. Yeah, yeah, no, that's fue And
• 36:45
  Speaker 2: I don't you know, the ladies are working hard. They're
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: putting it out.
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: There, and you know they're doing everything they can.
• 36:54
  Speaker 2: They're doing everything they can to entertain and to make
• 36:57
  Speaker 2: it happen.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: So I was a little bit curious when Heather, Gretchen,
• 37:02
  Speaker 1: and Emily were at dinner and Emily alludes to the
• 37:06
  Speaker 1: fact that she wants to get Gretchen hammered. Yeah, so
• 37:11
  Speaker 1: her vagina hangs out right, I'm like, this is kind
• 37:14
  Speaker 1: of similar to Naked Wasted.
• 37:16
  Speaker 2: But maybe Emily's just wanting to see if Gretchen's vagina
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: will come out and if she needs to go to
• 37:22
  Speaker 2: the hospital again or not. I mean, I don't know.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: Bottom line is, you can't get hammered unless you do
• 37:28
  Speaker 2: it yourself. Like nobody's gonna This is a show where
• 37:31
  Speaker 2: everybody should be adult enough to clock their own beverages.
• 37:35
  Speaker 2: I have been not naked and wasted, but I've been
• 37:38
  Speaker 2: wasted on this show. A couple of times too. Oh yeah,
• 37:45
  Speaker 2: one of your best performances.
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: By my most liked episode.
• 37:50
  Speaker 2: I didn't know you smoke cigarettes with the crew or
• 37:53
  Speaker 2: all kinds of shit. I was like, who was missed
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: off this fitness? You know, I didn't ship mad. I'm like,
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: who are you right?
• 38:02
  Speaker 1: Oh my gosh, those were the days. Oh my gosh. Well,
• 38:08
  Speaker 1: you guys, thank you for tuning in to another.
• 38:10
  Speaker 2: I just want to point out you're smiling.
• 38:12
  Speaker 1: I know that because you make me laugh. Good.
• 38:14
  Speaker 2: I'm glad.
• 38:15
  Speaker 1: That's the point. Why do you think I have you here.
• 38:18
  Speaker 2: Well to hopefully make you smile and good.
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: Make me laugh. Yes, but I appreciate you guys for
• 38:24
  Speaker 1: tuning in to another episode of Diamonds in the Rough,
• 38:27
  Speaker 1: and we will be back. I know that we're slightly delayed,
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: but we will be back recapping the next episode soon.
• 38:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, don't get mad at us. We got a lot
• 38:36
  Speaker 2: going on. She's got going on. We're doing the best
• 38:41
  Speaker 2: we can over here. Thank you for listening, and we'll
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: see you next time.