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Episode #312: Energy Mistakes of Massage Therapists · Tea Time w/Amie & Bev

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  Speaker 1: Hi, everybody, Welcome to tea time with Amy and bev Welcome.
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  Speaker 2: Welcome, welcome, welcome kind of conversation. Huh do you have
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  Speaker 2: the AI companion on I do? I think, yeah, son, Okay, sorry,
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  Speaker 2: it didn't show as it was going, So.
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  Speaker 1: We do that. So I have the notes, so when
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  Speaker 1: I go back and create the post, then I have
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  Speaker 1: the information. So thanks. I recently had a conversation with
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  Speaker 1: a massage therapist and one of HER's she's practiced massage,
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  Speaker 1: this massage in another state and recently moved here and
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  Speaker 1: we were having a conversation and she's she's working on
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  Speaker 1: her confident but one of the things she said was
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  Speaker 1: I'm scared of giving people my negative energy. I was like, oh, girl,
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  Speaker 1: so if you gave me a massage, you'd be scared
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  Speaker 1: to give me your negative energy. And she's like yes,
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  Speaker 1: And I said, okay, Well, first of all, it's your responsibility,
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  Speaker 1: but not your responsibility. So the responsibility really relies on
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  Speaker 1: me to maintain my energy. So majority of the population
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  Speaker 1: isn't aware of that majority of the population or is
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  Speaker 1: just open willy nilly, and everybody's absorbing each other's energy,
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  Speaker 1: and so yes, is it possible that yes you can.
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  Speaker 1: And I explained to her my experience when I first
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  Speaker 1: started doing energy work and absorbing the sensations that people
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  Speaker 1: were experiencing in their own body with pain. And I said,
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  Speaker 1: so there's a difference between absorbing energy and observing energy,
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  Speaker 1: and I had to learn those those two things, I said.
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  Speaker 1: But absorbing energy is I'm not maintaining my energy and
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  Speaker 1: I'm just open to it, so I said. And the
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  Speaker 1: flip side of that is you absorbing other people's energy
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  Speaker 1: as the massage therapist and learning to maintain your energy.
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  Speaker 1: So it's kind of like a kind of like a
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  Speaker 1: barrier between the two of you, he said. And on
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  Speaker 1: the other side of that, though, is in doing energy work.
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  Speaker 1: So energy work, as far as what I do, is
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  Speaker 1: like reiki and even massage therapy, said, you can utilize
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  Speaker 1: that information. So if you are feeling the energy of
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  Speaker 1: your clients, then you can use that energy or the
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  Speaker 1: messages that you're receiving in your body as guidance as
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  Speaker 1: to how to work on your client. So it was
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  Speaker 1: an interesting conversation, and of course I told her I'm
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  Speaker 1: a reiki master and I can teach her about all
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  Speaker 1: that and be reiki certified and it would help her
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  Speaker 1: in in the space of being a massage therapist. But
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  Speaker 1: I also noticed that, so one uh, I asked her,
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  Speaker 1: you know, I asked her, what other what do you
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  Speaker 1: learn in massage school when you went to school about energy?
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  Speaker 1: And she's like, well, they just tell us too, you know,
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  Speaker 1: before we step into somebody's to touch somebody, just take
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  Speaker 1: a deep breath and then put our hands on them
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  Speaker 1: and just take a breath and then start the massage.
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  Speaker 1: And it's like, so you really you don't learn about
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  Speaker 1: energy massage school and she said no, so I know
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  Speaker 1: you have your massage therapist. So speaking to people who
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  Speaker 1: do energy work and or massage from your perspective and
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  Speaker 1: what you've learned, what could you share as far as
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  Speaker 1: that goes, you know.
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  Speaker 2: Just like as far as being grounded, being grounded before
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  Speaker 2: you put your hands onto someone else, honestly, And it's
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  Speaker 2: just kind of like a for me going through massage school,
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  Speaker 2: I have changed so much and it's been I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: twelve fifteen years, I don't even know how many years now,
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  Speaker 2: but I felt the same way when you talked about her.
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  Speaker 2: That's how it felt like for me in the beginning too.
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  Speaker 2: And when I was going through massage school, we did
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  Speaker 2: do a lot of modalities that could be construed as
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  Speaker 2: more energy stuff because I feel like cranial sacral reflexology,
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  Speaker 2: a lot of that kind of goes that direction. But
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  Speaker 2: did we sit and really talk about the energy?
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  Speaker 1: No?
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  Speaker 2: And then how we didn't sit and talk about how
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  Speaker 2: empathic we can be and we can go in and
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  Speaker 2: pick up all that stuff like you were just saying,
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  Speaker 2: we don't have to absorb it. But when you so,
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  Speaker 2: it's like a learning journey for her to go on
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  Speaker 2: to kind of figure out what works best for her.
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  Speaker 2: But for a lot of stuff, it is taking that breath.
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  Speaker 2: It is making sure that you're grounded it from the
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  Speaker 2: perspective I'm att right now, it's not even clearing your
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  Speaker 2: energy when that person leaves. I've had different ways of
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  Speaker 2: clear and energy. I've had one instructor tell me to
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  Speaker 2: you go into their bathroom or into a sink or whatever,
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  Speaker 2: and you bring the water all the way up your hands,
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  Speaker 2: and you're washing it all the way down your hands.
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  Speaker 2: You're not keeping it. I had another one teach us.
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  Speaker 2: It was called the Corona break, where you've kind of
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  Speaker 2: cut the energy, And for me, it's like I always
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  Speaker 2: leave a massage now, I always leave a massage, and
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  Speaker 2: like your energy stays with you and my energy stays
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  Speaker 2: with me. Period. So then because I was bringing that home,
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  Speaker 2: I was bringing that energy home to everybody else. And
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  Speaker 2: so she's talking about feeling, you know, worried about bringing
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  Speaker 2: her negative energy. Well, we can look at that as
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  Speaker 2: far as an alignment goes as well, it's like, why
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  Speaker 2: are these certain people coming into your experience right now?
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  Speaker 2: Because it's for us to learn and grow while we're
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  Speaker 2: having hands on that person. And it's also learning to
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  Speaker 2: not take on all that other stuff because I've done
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  Speaker 2: it to the point where I could not even do
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  Speaker 2: in the massage. I could look at someone from across
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  Speaker 2: the gas station, someone has a dry look on their face,
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  Speaker 2: and then I got felt horrible sick after that. My
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  Speaker 2: stomach hurts so bad that I just went home and
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  Speaker 2: that was it. And so I know that I was
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  Speaker 2: picking up on other people's stuff, but recognizing and we
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  Speaker 2: don't have to do that. Our early training was to
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  Speaker 2: tune into all the environment around us so we can
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  Speaker 2: keep ourselves safe. Right, And then you kind of pull back,
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  Speaker 2: You just kind of learned the quote it was easier
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  Speaker 2: for me to be in a quiet space or away
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  Speaker 2: from everybody else, or to be drinking to be able
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  Speaker 2: to handle everybody else. So I wasn't taken on everything.
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  Speaker 2: So it's really just taking the time to be grounded
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  Speaker 2: that she's going to have to find and anyone in
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  Speaker 2: that kind of space. It's like really looking into what
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  Speaker 2: does it mean energetically to pick up on something like that,
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  Speaker 2: go exploring, like make it be fun, and then also
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  Speaker 2: be aware of the words her words immediately to you
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  Speaker 2: where she was afraid fear, and that she's gonna give negativity,
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  Speaker 2: that she's already claiming this negative energy instead of claiming
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  Speaker 2: it or changing it or saying, hey, I'm in the
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  Speaker 2: middle of it. Transitioning from positive to a negative or
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  Speaker 2: negative to a positive. There's just so many different ways.
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  Speaker 2: So it's like it's just there's so much different things
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  Speaker 2: in that moment with this person. Yeah, and the confidence
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  Speaker 2: level too, and that's time. That just takes time For me.
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  Speaker 2: That just took time. That took time because I was
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  Speaker 2: so worried that I was gonna I was so much
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  Speaker 2: in a fear that I was gonna mess it up.
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  Speaker 2: I'm doing a massage for God's sakes, but I felt
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  Speaker 2: like I wasn't. I was gonna mess it up. I
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  Speaker 2: would put too much time into each person. And I
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  Speaker 2: say too much because a lot of times my appointments
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  Speaker 2: were running over into the next appointment, even though I
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  Speaker 2: would give a half an hour space in between clients
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  Speaker 2: or even fifteen minutes, and that didn't seem to be
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  Speaker 2: long enough because I would feel if the person wasn't
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  Speaker 2: feeling one hundred percent before they left me, I didn't
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  Speaker 2: feel good with them leaving, and then I sit and
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  Speaker 2: worry about it the whole time, just all the stuff
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  Speaker 2: that was a waste. It was it was being in
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  Speaker 2: that whole fear. When you break it down and look
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  Speaker 2: at it from you know, further away, it was just
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  Speaker 2: basically a fear I was going to do something wrong,
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  Speaker 2: somebody was going to judge me I didn't do it
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  Speaker 2: good enough. On the bottom line is there's a million
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  Speaker 2: freaking therapists out there, and someone's going to align with
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  Speaker 2: you and someone's not. And that's just the bottom line.
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  Speaker 2: That's just going out and taking those tools and I
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  Speaker 2: like to I just like to explore anymore with it.
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  Speaker 2: It's easy, but we lead into all that stuff and
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  Speaker 2: it's like I've had experiences recently they're letting me know
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  Speaker 2: that that door is probably more to closing just because
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  Speaker 2: I read the messages and stuff like that. But that's
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  Speaker 2: kind of on a we'll go off on that if
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  Speaker 2: it arises.
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  Speaker 1: So and of course, like you said, with confidence that
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  Speaker 1: is just comes with practice. I know when I first
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  Speaker 1: started doing energy work, before I was certified in reiki,
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  Speaker 1: that I was scared just do an energy work and
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  Speaker 1: it was I wasn't manipulating muscles or anything. My hands
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  Speaker 1: literally are just above the person or on the person.
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  Speaker 1: But again that energy exchange. What if I say something
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  Speaker 1: that's not correct? What if they take action on something
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  Speaker 1: I said and it turns out that it was wrong.
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  Speaker 1: So there was it was a whole confidence level in
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  Speaker 1: me for that as well. And I was doing energy
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  Speaker 1: work and again over time, so in the beginnings, I
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  Speaker 1: would I just decided I would ask what they experienced,
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  Speaker 1: and through what they would say to me, then would
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  Speaker 1: confirm validate what I was either thinking or feeling in
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  Speaker 1: my body. And so once I started realizing, yeah, this
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  Speaker 1: is this is like real stuff and the things that
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  Speaker 1: I'm feeling in my body is exactly what they're experiencing.
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  Speaker 1: Then I got to where I would say ask them
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  Speaker 1: the questions, are you feeling this pain in your back?
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  Speaker 1: Or are you feeling this discomfort in your knee? Or
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  Speaker 1: and then they would an answer yes or no, and
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  Speaker 1: I would say ninety eight percent of the time the
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  Speaker 1: answer was yes. So then that felt confidence in what
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  Speaker 1: I was doing. And so then I started utilizing Louise
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  Speaker 1: Hayes teachings of how the whatever the physical body sensations,
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  Speaker 1: the discomfort is attached to some emotional experience, and so
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  Speaker 1: I would start asking, you know those questions, have you
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  Speaker 1: experienced you know whatever was connected to that? So the
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  Speaker 1: back is connected to support. Are you struggling and having
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  Speaker 1: feeling like you have support or need support and you're
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  Speaker 1: not get like starting to be inquisitive like a like
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  Speaker 1: a detective, and they would start answering yes to those
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  Speaker 1: questions majority of the time. And so it just keep
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  Speaker 1: building that confidence. And similar to I would imagine as
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  Speaker 1: a massage therapist that just practicing on tuning into the
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  Speaker 1: body more to understand they might have a knee pain,
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  Speaker 1: but it could be coming from their back. I mean,
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  Speaker 1: these are things. Even chiropractors have to. Even a foot
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  Speaker 1: issue could be something in the hip. So opening up
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  Speaker 1: that intuitive the piece of intuition of listening to the
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  Speaker 1: guidance that the body is giving the massage therapist or
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  Speaker 1: the energy worker.
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  Speaker 2: It's funny you say some of that stuff. And sometimes
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  Speaker 2: I'll be doing a massage on somebody and I might
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  Speaker 2: be going down the spine and I might have my
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  Speaker 2: middle finger like not touching the body. I'm just doing whatever,
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  Speaker 2: and then my body will automatically touch a certain spot
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  Speaker 2: and I know that that's letting me know there's something
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  Speaker 2: going on there. But it's not something that I had
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  Speaker 2: always known, and it wasn't something that I paid attention
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  Speaker 2: to until you start really listening. Like even for me,
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  Speaker 2: I like working on people that have issues or whatever
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  Speaker 2: because I can always go right to the space and
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  Speaker 2: I can feel the muscle to It's one you're a therapist.
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  Speaker 2: It's having faith in knowing what you're feeling too, because
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  Speaker 2: right fit mentally, physically, emotionally, spiritually, all of it. But
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  Speaker 2: I'll feel it and then it's like I'll work on
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  Speaker 2: that area and sometimes and I think it probably happens
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  Speaker 2: to everybody, but something will pop up in the mind
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  Speaker 2: and they'll let you know, and that's when you can
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  Speaker 2: ask a question instead of saying, hey, I'm feeling this,
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  Speaker 2: but I do I'll do that sometimes too. Gosh, I
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  Speaker 2: just walked in. You just walked in, and I'm filling
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  Speaker 2: this down here? Are you having any stuff going on
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  Speaker 2: down here? So it's really just it keeps you in
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  Speaker 2: the now because you're more connected, You're being more aware
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  Speaker 2: of everything that's going on. And I also recognizing we're
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  Speaker 2: like a metronome and so if we're going to vibrate
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  Speaker 2: higher before she goes in there. Even like when I
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  Speaker 2: learned reiki, it was really making sure that you were
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  Speaker 2: nice and grounded and you were centered, and then you
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  Speaker 2: had intention, whatever your intention was. And I would even
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  Speaker 2: have back in the day, I would have clients even
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  Speaker 2: set their intention. Hey, putting my hands on you, set
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  Speaker 2: your intention right now? What do you want to receive
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  Speaker 2: from this? Because it takes the power out of our hands,
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  Speaker 2: so to speak, and it helps to guide both people honestly,
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  Speaker 2: but it puts power back into the person's hands as
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  Speaker 2: well instead of us being so responsible for it. And
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  Speaker 2: then she can spend more time on noticing the things
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  Speaker 2: is is she keep being drawn to her hip or
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  Speaker 2: when she's talking to one that's standing across from her
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  Speaker 2: and she's rubbing her own Hipperton. Just there's so many
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  Speaker 2: details that you can watch for. There's so much, but
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  Speaker 2: it's just an awareness thing and it's it's just like
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  Speaker 2: a great training ground. Really, she's going to open up
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  Speaker 2: so much, it's gonna be awesome. Yeah, she does have.
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  Speaker 1: An amazing energy about her, soothing energy about her. And
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  Speaker 1: the other thing I would add to that is that
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  Speaker 1: if you're if you're doing energy work or massage therapy,
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  Speaker 1: that if you are so busy in your head worried
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  Speaker 1: about your energy to their energy or am I doing
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  Speaker 1: a good enough job or just questioning yourself or I
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  Speaker 1: hope I'm I hope they they're relaxed, Like your busyness
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  Speaker 1: in your head keeps you from receiving the information that's
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  Speaker 1: actually going to help you be a really good energy
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  Speaker 1: worker or massage therapist, and just relax into the process
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  Speaker 1: and you breathe through it.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, and then you start recognizing, Oh, I feel like
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  Speaker 2: I'm all up in my head. Wait, this isn't me.
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  Speaker 2: I wasn't like that a minute ago. So it's like
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  Speaker 2: your helper. She's learning how to fine tune or be
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  Speaker 2: an awareness of what her energy is so that when
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  Speaker 2: someone else comes in, you automatically recognize what's not yours,
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  Speaker 2: so then you can help the other person.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. Yes, and that was one of the things in
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  Speaker 1: the beginning as well. It's one of the things I
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  Speaker 1: started doing for myself, was.
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  Speaker 2: Just breathe with them.
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  Speaker 1: Oh yeah, just focus on your breath. I had to
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  Speaker 1: tell myself just focus on your breath and breathe and focus.
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  Speaker 1: So in reiki we use reyki symbols, so focus on
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  Speaker 1: your breath and focus on the symbol and then I would,
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  Speaker 1: you know, maybe breathe and just repeat the word for
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  Speaker 1: the symbol, or just repeat reiki or you know, and
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  Speaker 1: that helped me be even more present. You know, maybe
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  Speaker 1: it's breathe and just focus on the pressure, or breathe
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  Speaker 1: and focus on the the texture of the skin, or
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  Speaker 1: you know, breathe and just focus on how your hands
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  Speaker 1: feel as it's as it's massaging. But giving yourself a
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  Speaker 1: focal point so that your head is not willy nilly
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  Speaker 1: thinking about all the things that you think you're doing
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  Speaker 1: wrong or what you need to do when you get
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  Speaker 1: done with that massage, because we do that too.
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  Speaker 2: And it's probably not even in that space the whole time,
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  Speaker 2: so it's recognized giving giving more energy to Hey, I
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  Speaker 2: noticed that that kind of all shut off when I
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  Speaker 2: was working on this person because you're in the now.
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  Speaker 2: Right now, you're in that breath and it's an awesome
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  Speaker 2: thing because if the breath is so huge, right, if
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  Speaker 2: we were in a group, we would probably have a
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  Speaker 2: group of people taking a deep breath at the same
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  Speaker 2: time and releasing it at the same time because we
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  Speaker 2: all kind of connect with each other that way. And
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  Speaker 2: so she could always start out every single sauce that way,
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  Speaker 2: just have the person breathing with her, and then then
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  Speaker 2: you're now into an alignment and it's more into a
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  Speaker 2: piece for both people. It's taking both people into that
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  Speaker 2: alignment instead of that, you know, feeling the resistance or
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  Speaker 2: feeling cut off from our connection our alignment. Yeah, the source.
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  Speaker 1: Very cool. Well, and every massage syrapis is different I've had,
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  Speaker 1: and even chiropractors are different. I've had both both massage
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  Speaker 1: syrapis and chiropractors who do the exact same thing every
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  Speaker 1: single time. And I'm just after a few times thinking,
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  Speaker 1: especially for a chip, I'm like, I have other bones
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  Speaker 1: in my body, or why are we just doing the
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  Speaker 1: same routine crack, Yeah, And then I thought about that
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  Speaker 1: for a massage therapist too. This is years ago. It's like,
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  Speaker 1: why would a massage therapist have the same routine massage?
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  Speaker 1: The only thing I came up with correct me if
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  Speaker 1: I'm wrong. The only thing I came up with was timing.
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  Speaker 1: When they have the same routine, they know how long
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  Speaker 1: it takes them, and then they'll be able to get
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  Speaker 1: done in the time frame that they've allotted.
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  Speaker 2: And some people like that structure. There's a Russian massage
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  Speaker 2: that it's very time like you spend a certain amount
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  Speaker 2: of minutes on each limb or each part of the body,
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  Speaker 2: and it's very structured like that, which is not me
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  Speaker 2: because I'm more of a I like to go with
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  Speaker 2: the flow of it, and because the body tells you
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  Speaker 2: what it needs and you can listen to what the
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  Speaker 2: client says. You had mentioned before about these we call
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  Speaker 2: them phantom pains around here. My heel has been killing
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  Speaker 2: me for my right heel right for a while, and
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  Speaker 2: it comes and goes. It's my low back. It was
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  Speaker 2: my low back, So it's like and then it's like
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  Speaker 2: we look at the Louise Hayes or we look at
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  Speaker 2: our Sagal book or any of the other things and
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  Speaker 2: find that it's you know, it's not being supported, not
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  Speaker 2: feeling supported, and it's like for me, it was for
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  Speaker 2: me not supporting myself. So as recognizing all these things,
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  Speaker 2: it's just an awesome thing. And I've also realized it's not.
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  Speaker 2: I am not the god over each person. Each person
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  Speaker 2: has their own internal guidance in their own experiences, and
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  Speaker 2: they can come into my space and I can help them,
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  Speaker 2: but I can only help them to the point that
• 19:29
  Speaker 2: they allow that help to come into So that goes
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  Speaker 2: back with the confidence saying that doesn't have anything to
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  Speaker 2: do with me. I'll certainly try to help someone feel better,
• 19:37
  Speaker 2: but I also know if they're not feeling better by
• 19:40
  Speaker 2: the time I'm done, I'm also paying attention to the
• 19:43
  Speaker 2: words they're using. I'm paying attention to the energy space
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  Speaker 2: they're in right now, because then that goes back to
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: the same thing that might be me, like, hey, maybe
• 19:53
  Speaker 2: you should go get a notebook and a piece of
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: paper and start writing down, like sit and feel that
• 19:57
  Speaker 2: pain and then start writing down whatever comes into your mind.
• 20:00
  Speaker 2: Like there's so many there's other ways of us handing,
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: handing out more tools. We've talked about before, getting more
• 20:07
  Speaker 2: toys for the toy box, more tools for the tool built. Right,
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: it's all, it's all the same thing. It's just gathering
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  Speaker 2: more information for us, and then it helps to share
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  Speaker 2: it with others as soon as it popped in. And
• 20:18
  Speaker 2: that's having trust and confidence and the information that's coming
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  Speaker 2: to you and just sharing it. And if it's wrong,
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  Speaker 2: or or if you said something that they don't seem
• 20:26
  Speaker 2: to align with because maybe your words didn't match with
• 20:29
  Speaker 2: what their definitions align with, it's okay, it's okay. I
• 20:35
  Speaker 2: heard recently we talked about confidence and stuff. Suzanne Geeseman
• 20:38
  Speaker 2: said that she had done this reading on this person
• 20:41
  Speaker 2: and the whole time it was all yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: and she's because she does readings, she's very connected and
• 20:49
  Speaker 2: she gets done and the guy says, all that was
• 20:51
  Speaker 2: all that was wrong because I said, I said yes,
• 20:54
  Speaker 2: just to basically checking you out. And she said it
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: was really hard for her to say that, to tell
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  Speaker 2: us this stuff. It was really hard for her to
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: deal with that, because you know, she kept getting all
• 21:04
  Speaker 2: these yeses, but it stopped her to make her pay attention,
• 21:07
  Speaker 2: to start asking a little bit more questions and recognize
• 21:10
  Speaker 2: how we're tuned in or if we're not tuned in not.
• 21:13
  Speaker 2: So it's like it's it's all of us have these
• 21:15
  Speaker 2: experiences and they're going to make us really question things,
• 21:18
  Speaker 2: probably to the core. But I think that's awesome because
• 21:22
  Speaker 2: we're also dealing with other people's energies.
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: Well, and it teaches you to to listen and notice
• 21:30
  Speaker 1: the different energies, notice what's yours and what's not yours.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: And that's why I mentioned that take your own inventory mentally, physically, spiritually,
• 21:41
  Speaker 1: and emotionally, so that if you feel like you know,
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: you step into your client's energy and then all of
• 21:50
  Speaker 1: a sudden, you feel something in your body and you're
• 21:52
  Speaker 1: just like, hold on, I was fine just a second ago,
• 21:56
  Speaker 1: until I start touching them and then for the validation
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: is oh, are you feeling discomfort in your elbow or whatever?
• 22:06
  Speaker 1: And they say yes immediately. Well, after I got used
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: to to, or got more confident in knowing that I
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: was feeling their physical sensations, I would use it as
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: a tool to guide me into where to work on
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: the body and immediately tell my guides and angels this
• 22:29
  Speaker 1: is not mine and you can take it now because
• 22:32
  Speaker 1: I don't want it. I don't want to keep it.
• 22:34
  Speaker 1: It's just like you were saying earlier, you can keep
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: your energy and I'm taking my energy with me. So yes,
• 22:41
  Speaker 1: you can lean on your spiritual guidance. So again, God,
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: divine source, angels, guides, disease, loved ones, whoever that is
• 22:52
  Speaker 1: for you, and let them know, or even your internal spirit,
• 22:59
  Speaker 1: the sensation is not mine. Please release it now. And
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: it's a to me, it's an internal request. I don't
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: need to say it out loud because my clients don't
• 23:09
  Speaker 1: need excuse me, don't need to know I'm having these
• 23:12
  Speaker 1: conversations and distract them because now that's probably going to
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: open up some other conversation while you're trying to do
• 23:19
  Speaker 1: energy work. So so yeah, just to say this is
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: a mind so take it out of my body please.
• 23:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah. And I noticed a lot of times when you
• 23:31
  Speaker 2: just say the things out loud to the other person
• 23:33
  Speaker 2: about whatever you're noticing, it usually just it just goes away.
• 23:38
  Speaker 1: For me.
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: I mean, that's what I've noticed, is that the pain
• 23:40
  Speaker 2: and stuff goes away. And if I don't say anything,
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: that's like it kind of lingers with me a little
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: bit longer then I could. I could definitely say that,
• 23:47
  Speaker 2: but yeah, I've recognized that that's actually actually happened a
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: few times.
• 23:52
  Speaker 1: And you can ask for the guidance to maneuver around
• 23:57
  Speaker 1: that area too, Like you don't have to have all
• 24:01
  Speaker 1: the solutions. You can ask for Okay, what would be
• 24:04
  Speaker 1: the best way to massage this area or what would
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: be maybe what's an affirmation I could internally repeat as
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: I'm sending energy to that space. Yeah, so we can
• 24:17
  Speaker 1: ask our divine guidance as to how to move through
• 24:22
  Speaker 1: this session or experience sensation.
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: Sometimes I'll even say, either to my higher self or
• 24:34
  Speaker 2: to the Council of Light, Okay, we're going in. I
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: don't know what this person needs or you know what's
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: the best right, what's what's for the greatest good for
• 24:43
  Speaker 2: this person, for both I mean for everybody involved. So
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: and then just letting it be whatever it is, and
• 24:49
  Speaker 2: then not questioning it because it's out of my hands,
• 24:51
  Speaker 2: right because I'm not claiming I'm not claiming that I'm
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: the only one doing the massage. I've got I've got
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: help so if the help didn't do the job, rights, Hey.
• 25:01
  Speaker 1: I've done similar, help me guide help guide me through
• 25:04
  Speaker 1: this energy session.
• 25:07
  Speaker 2: Es.
• 25:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I want to go back to what you
• 25:11
  Speaker 1: were saying about their words, because as we've talked to
• 25:18
  Speaker 1: you about many, many, many of times that even though
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: people are are wanting the relief from the discomforts and
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: they're trying all you know, modalities that they can think of,
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: that when you listen to what they are saying, what
• 25:34
  Speaker 1: their actual words are and the energy behind those words,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: you will know if they are being authentic about their healing,
• 25:47
  Speaker 1: because what their words and their energy is saying are
• 25:52
  Speaker 1: two different things a lot of times, and if they're,
• 25:55
  Speaker 1: if they're continuously just spewing out saying things in a
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: negative way, then you know they're not interested in doing
• 26:08
  Speaker 1: the work.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: And it's not personal. It's not personal where they're.
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: At, and it's much easier to blame somebody else for
• 26:16
  Speaker 1: their discomfort than it is for them to take responsibility
• 26:19
  Speaker 1: for their healing. So don't yeah, don't take it personal.
• 26:23
  Speaker 1: It's just where they are with themselves at the moment.
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: You can plant seeds for positive outcomes or a different path.
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: Plant seeds it doesn't mean they're going to do it,
• 26:39
  Speaker 1: doesn't mean they want to do it. And sometimes they
• 26:43
  Speaker 1: do and they'll come back and they're they're wanting more information.
• 26:47
  Speaker 1: So it's dependent upon each client.
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: It really is. And it is listening. It's listening on
• 26:55
  Speaker 2: all levels, it really is. I've had people, you know,
• 26:59
  Speaker 2: come in for one thing and then they say, oh, well, yeah,
• 27:01
  Speaker 2: I've got that too, Oh we can work on that.
• 27:03
  Speaker 2: Oh no, that that's been like that forever, it's gonna
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: it'll so they claim that they bring it there, it's there,
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: it's their story, and it's like, it's not for me
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: to rewrite their story. It's for me to write my story.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Right, And some people just want to stay in their suffering.
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: They want the relief in the moment, they want the
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: magic pill in the moment, hoping that it's going to
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: cure all, but they really want to stay in their suffering.
• 27:28
  Speaker 2: So yeah, and then when that happens, also asking yourself, why,
• 27:32
  Speaker 2: how how come this person's in my space right now?
• 27:35
  Speaker 2: What am I to learn from this? What is my understanding?
• 27:38
  Speaker 2: Or maybe it's just a Some people like to call
• 27:41
  Speaker 2: them chess to see where you're at right now with
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: this stuff?
• 27:44
  Speaker 1: So yeah, ever experiences has got some lesson in it.
• 27:49
  Speaker 1: We choose to choose to embrace that. I don't always
• 27:54
  Speaker 1: embrace it either. I'm just like, no, I just can't.
• 28:00
  Speaker 2: Yeah, And that's guess what. That's okay, Yeah, because it'll
• 28:03
  Speaker 2: come back around.
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: It's okay, it'll come back around.
• 28:06
  Speaker 2: It's right, it's right.
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: I'm not missing out anything.
• 28:09
  Speaker 2: No, no, And that's the truth too, also knowing that
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: we're never missing out on anything that's meant for us. Ever,
• 28:16
  Speaker 2: it's not possible, it's not.
• 28:19
  Speaker 1: Yeah. And so even this massage therapist, everything she's experiencing
• 28:24
  Speaker 1: right now is a benefit for her growth and to
• 28:29
  Speaker 1: become even even a more advanced therapist, yes, yes, better therapists,
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: more in tune therapist. Like everything she's experiencing now is
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: she's asking the questions or has these fears and people
• 28:45
  Speaker 1: are showing up to help guide her. Then she again
• 28:49
  Speaker 1: I planted seeds. What she does with it her on her.
• 28:53
  Speaker 1: I did what I could do in that moment, and
• 28:57
  Speaker 1: so what she does with the information from that point
• 28:59
  Speaker 1: forward is up to her. And then if I come
• 29:01
  Speaker 1: back and have the same conversation, I will know she
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: she didn't choose to do anything different, and again that's
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: on her, that's her journey, that's not on me. So
• 29:14
  Speaker 1: maybe that conversation was just a reminder for me about
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: my energy and maintaining my energy, which was right at
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: the time when I was sharing in the last video
• 29:26
  Speaker 1: of taking that breath after being on Blast for three
• 29:29
  Speaker 1: months and I wasn't maintaining my energy. Maybe that conversation
• 29:34
  Speaker 1: was just for me as a reminder for myself, and
• 29:36
  Speaker 1: I needed to say it out loud. So there is
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: something in every conversation for both parties to learn from.
• 29:47
  Speaker 2: One hundred percent agree.
• 29:49
  Speaker 1: So all right, friends, take what resonates and implement what
• 29:55
  Speaker 1: you can and do and be better within yourself.
• 29:58
  Speaker 2: So you just keep showing up to do and be.
• 30:00
  Speaker 1: Better in this world. Other people are having these conversations
• 30:05
  Speaker 1: and sometimes they need the guidance too, so be resourceful.
• 30:09
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• 30:23
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• 30:27
  Speaker 1: access us. AMYMBEV community. Any other final words before we sign.
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: Off, when you're feeling things, hearing things sometimes and it
• 30:37
  Speaker 2: just feels kind of off, ask is this mine? And
• 30:41
  Speaker 2: a lot of times when you just ask that question,
• 30:43
  Speaker 2: it just goes away or you might even see where
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: it's associated with it. Then it gives you an opportunity
• 30:47
  Speaker 2: to say a blessing or whatever to that person.
• 30:51
  Speaker 1: Prayer is powerful.
• 30:53
  Speaker 2: It is powerful.
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: H right, friends, thanks for hanging out with us, teach
• 30:57
  Speaker 1: time with Amien Bev. We'll see you next time.
• 30:59
  Speaker 2: Bye,