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- 0:00Buying
- 0:00a
- 0:00house
- 0:00with
- 0:01someone
- 0:01you've
- 0:01only
- 0:02known
- 0:02three
- 0:02weeks
- 0:03is
- 0:04not
- 0:04the
- 0:04usual
- 0:05investing
- 0:05advice.
- 0:06Sometimes
- 0:07the
- 0:07path
- 0:08from
- 0:08being
- 0:08bad
- 0:09with
- 0:09money
- 0:10to
- 0:10becoming
- 0:10a
- 0:10confident
- 0:11investor
- 0:12is
- 0:13a
- 0:13little
- 0:13unconventional.
- 0:15Today's
- 0:15guest,
- 0:16perfect
- 0:16example
- 0:17of
- 0:17that.
- 0:18Now,
- 0:18these
- 0:18days,
- 0:19Sophie
- 0:19Horwright
- 0:20is
- 0:20the
- 0:20co
- 0:20founder
- 0:21of
- 0:21the
- 0:21Curve,
- 0:22a
- 0:22platform
- 0:23helping
- 0:23thousands
- 0:24of
- 0:24women
- 0:24learn
- 0:25about
- 0:25money
- 0:25and
- 0:26investing.
- 0:27But
- 0:27like
- 0:28many
- 0:28of
- 0:28us,
- 0:29she
- 0:29has
- 0:29had
- 0:30to
- 0:30learn
- 0:30a
- 0:30few
- 0:31lessons
- 0:31the
- 0:32hard
- 0:32way.
- 0:33Memorably,
- 0:33she
- 0:34once
- 0:34invested
- 0:35so
- 0:35much
- 0:35in
- 0:35the
- 0:35share
- 0:36market
- 0:36that
- 0:37she
- 0:37ended
- 0:37up
- 0:37investing
- 0:38herself
- 0:38broke,
- 0:39without
- 0:40even
- 0:40having
- 0:40the
- 0:40money
- 0:41to
- 0:41pay
- 0:41for
- 0:41a
- 0:41bus
- 0:42ticket.
- 0:42And
- 0:42more
- 0:43recently,
- 0:43she
- 0:44took
- 0:44the
- 0:44leap
- 0:44into
- 0:45property
- 0:45investment
- 0:46with
- 0:47someone
- 0:47she'd
- 0:48only
- 0:48known
- 0:49for
- 0:49three
- 0:49weeks.
- 0:50I
- 0:50also
- 0:50had
- 0:51known
- 0:51this
- 0:51person
- 0:51for
- 0:51three
- 0:52weeks
- 0:52when
- 0:52we
- 0:52decided
- 0:53to
- 0:53do
- 0:53this.
- 0:53So,
- 0:53like,
- 0:54I
- 0:54am
- 0:55crazy.
- 0:56Okay,
- 0:57so,
- 0:57all
- 0:57right.
- 0:58Yeah,
- 0:58more
- 0:59context,
- 0:59more
- 0:59context.
- 1:00The
- 1:00truth
- 1:00is,
- 1:01a
- 1:01lot
- 1:01of
- 1:01people
- 1:01who
- 1:02end
- 1:02up
- 1:02good
- 1:02with
- 1:02money
- 1:03don't
- 1:03start
- 1:04out
- 1:04that
- 1:04way.
- 1:05They
- 1:05experiment,
- 1:06make
- 1:07mistakes,
- 1:07and
- 1:08figure
- 1:08things
- 1:08out
- 1:09as
- 1:09they
- 1:09go.
- 1:10Everybody
- 1:10listening.
- 1:11Do
- 1:11not
- 1:11do
- 1:11this.
- 1:13That's
- 1:13been
- 1:13a
- 1:13theme
- 1:14I
- 1:14had
- 1:15to
- 1:15really
- 1:17F
- 1:17up
- 1:18many
- 1:18times
- 1:19before,
- 1:20or
- 1:20I
- 1:21started
- 1:21to
- 1:21put
- 1:22better
- 1:22practices
- 1:22in
- 1:23place
- 1:23to
- 1:23avoid
- 1:24that
- 1:24constant
- 1:25anxiety.
- 1:26To
- 1:26take
- 1:26those
- 1:26lessons
- 1:27and
- 1:27then
- 1:28build
- 1:28a
- 1:28business
- 1:28around
- 1:29it
- 1:29alongside
- 1:30a
- 1:30friend,
- 1:30well,
- 1:31that's
- 1:32the
- 1:32sort
- 1:32of
- 1:32thing
- 1:32I
- 1:32love
- 1:33to
- 1:33see.
- 1:33It
- 1:33does
- 1:34make
- 1:34me
- 1:34pause,
- 1:35though,
- 1:35the
- 1:36idea
- 1:36of
- 1:36going
- 1:36into
- 1:37business
- 1:37with
- 1:38a
- 1:38friend.
- 1:39Now
- 1:39there's
- 1:40another
- 1:40financial
- 1:40decision
- 1:41that
- 1:41people
- 1:41will
- 1:42often
- 1:42warn
- 1:43you
- 1:43to
- 1:44avoid.
- 1:44So
- 1:45does
- 1:45it
- 1:45work?
- 1:45Having
- 1:46worked
- 1:46with
- 1:46someone
- 1:47before,
- 1:47you
- 1:47go
- 1:47into
- 1:47business
- 1:48with
- 1:48them,
- 1:48and
- 1:48a
- 1:49really
- 1:49good
- 1:49starting
- 1:49point,
- 1:49like,
- 1:50because
- 1:50it's
- 1:50always
- 1:50going
- 1:50to
- 1:51be
- 1:51difficult
- 1:51being
- 1:51in
- 1:52business
- 1:52with
- 1:52someone
- 1:52like.
- 1:53And
- 1:53I
- 1:53think
- 1:53for
- 1:54anyone
- 1:54that
- 1:54doesn't
- 1:54know
- 1:55that
- 1:55it's
- 1:55because
- 1:55you've
- 1:55never
- 1:56experienced
- 1:56it.
- 1:56Well,
- 1:57welcome
- 1:57to
- 1:57Making
- 1:58Sense.
- 1:58It's
- 1:58the
- 1:58podcast
- 1:59for
- 1:59people
- 1:59who
- 1:59want
- 2:00financial
- 2:00freedom
- 2:00without
- 2:01giving
- 2:01up
- 2:01their
- 2:02coffee.
- 2:02I'm
- 2:03Francis
- 2:03Cook,
- 2:03a
- 2:03financial
- 2:04journalist
- 2:04and
- 2:05fellow
- 2:05financial
- 2:05freedom
- 2:06seeker
- 2:06who
- 2:06makes
- 2:07money
- 2:07simple
- 2:07for
- 2:08you.
- 2:08Today
- 2:08we're
- 2:09talking
- 2:09about
- 2:09how
- 2:09Sophie
- 2:10moved
- 2:10from
- 2:10chaotic
- 2:11money
- 2:11moments
- 2:11to
- 2:12confident
- 2:12investor.
- 2:13And
- 2:14why
- 2:14sometimes
- 2:15that
- 2:15unconventional
- 2:16path
- 2:16can
- 2:17be
- 2:17the
- 2:17one
- 2:17that's
- 2:17just
- 2:18perfect
- 2:19for
- 2:19you.
- 2:19This
- 2:20episode
- 2:20of
- 2:20Making
- 2:21Sense
- 2:21is
- 2:21supported
- 2:22by
- 2:22Odoo,
- 2:23the
- 2:23affordable
- 2:23way
- 2:24to
- 2:24get
- 2:24your
- 2:24business
- 2:25working
- 2:25Smarter.
- 2:26Go
- 2:26to
- 2:26odoo.com
- 2:27that's
- 2:28od.com
- 2:29for
- 2:30more.
- 2:30Welcome
- 2:31to
- 2:31the
- 2:31podcast,
- 2:31Sophie.
- 2:32We
- 2:33have
- 2:33been
- 2:33circling
- 2:34around
- 2:34each
- 2:34other
- 2:35for
- 2:35years
- 2:35and
- 2:35now
- 2:35we
- 2:36are
- 2:36finally
- 2:36doing
- 2:36a
- 2:37we
- 2:37podcast
- 2:37hang.
- 2:38So
- 2:38I
- 2:39love
- 2:39this.
- 2:40You
- 2:40are
- 2:40someone
- 2:41who
- 2:41you
- 2:41now
- 2:41talk
- 2:42about
- 2:42money
- 2:42for
- 2:43a
- 2:43living,
- 2:43and
- 2:43you
- 2:43talk
- 2:44about
- 2:44money
- 2:44very
- 2:44well
- 2:44for
- 2:44a
- 2:45living,
- 2:45but
- 2:46you
- 2:46haven't
- 2:46always
- 2:46had
- 2:47the
- 2:47Easiest
- 2:47relationship
- 2:48with
- 2:48it.
- 2:48So
- 2:49back
- 2:49to
- 2:50the
- 2:50start.
- 2:51What
- 2:51was
- 2:51your
- 2:51relationship
- 2:52with
- 2:52money
- 2:52like
- 2:52growing
- 2:53up?
- 2:53God,
- 2:54I
- 2:54mean,
- 2:54how
- 2:54long
- 2:55do
- 2:55we
- 2:55have?
- 2:55Because
- 2:55that
- 2:56question
- 2:56could
- 2:56be
- 2:57the
- 2:57entire
- 2:57podcast.
- 2:59I
- 3:00had
- 3:00a
- 3:00really
- 3:00interesting
- 3:01relationship
- 3:01with
- 3:02money
- 3:02growing
- 3:02up.
- 3:02It
- 3:03was
- 3:03never
- 3:03really
- 3:04spoken
- 3:04about.
- 3:05You
- 3:05know,
- 3:05my
- 3:05parents
- 3:06didn't
- 3:06know
- 3:06a
- 3:06lot
- 3:06about
- 3:06money
- 3:07growing
- 3:07up,
- 3:07so
- 3:08I
- 3:08wasn't
- 3:08really
- 3:08taught
- 3:09it.
- 3:10And
- 3:11I
- 3:11think
- 3:11that's
- 3:11true
- 3:11for
- 3:12a
- 3:12lot
- 3:12of
- 3:12people.
- 3:12My
- 3:13parents
- 3:13are
- 3:13well
- 3:13educated.
- 3:14It's
- 3:14not
- 3:14as
- 3:15though
- 3:15they
- 3:17didn't
- 3:17teach
- 3:17me
- 3:17cause
- 3:18they
- 3:18were
- 3:18trying
- 3:18to
- 3:18gatekeep.
- 3:19They
- 3:19just
- 3:19didn't
- 3:20really
- 3:20know
- 3:20themselves.
- 3:21And
- 3:22so
- 3:22I
- 3:22didn't
- 3:22learn
- 3:23about
- 3:24budgeting
- 3:24or.
- 3:25I
- 3:26mean,
- 3:26I
- 3:26remember
- 3:26hearing
- 3:26about
- 3:27investing
- 3:27for
- 3:27the
- 3:27first
- 3:28time
- 3:28when
- 3:28I
- 3:28was
- 3:2827
- 3:29through
- 3:29a
- 3:29friend.
- 3:30I
- 3:30always
- 3:30had
- 3:31this
- 3:32scarcity
- 3:32mindset,
- 3:33which
- 3:33I
- 3:33know
- 3:33a
- 3:34lot
- 3:34of
- 3:34people
- 3:34have,
- 3:36and
- 3:36it
- 3:36showed
- 3:36up
- 3:36in
- 3:37so
- 3:37many
- 3:37ways.
- 3:38You
- 3:38know,
- 3:38as
- 3:38an
- 3:38example,
- 3:39do
- 3:39you
- 3:39remember
- 3:39Hamish
- 3:40Nandy?
- 3:41Yeah.
- 3:41So
- 3:42I
- 3:42moved
- 3:42over
- 3:42to
- 3:43Australia.
- 3:43Their
- 3:44executive
- 3:44producer
- 3:45like
- 3:45plucked
- 3:46me
- 3:46up
- 3:46from
- 3:46Media
- 3:47Works
- 3:47and
- 3:47I
- 3:47moved
- 3:47over
- 3:48there
- 3:49and
- 3:50I
- 3:50had
- 3:50this
- 3:50really
- 3:51bizarre
- 3:51experience
- 3:52where
- 3:53the
- 3:53package
- 3:54they
- 3:54gave
- 3:54me
- 3:55included,
- 3:55Super.
- 3:56And
- 3:56I
- 3:56didn't
- 3:56know
- 3:56what
- 3:57that
- 3:57meant.
- 3:57It
- 3:57was,
- 3:57it's
- 3:58kind
- 3:58of
- 3:58like
- 3:58the
- 3:58Kiwi
- 3:58saver
- 3:59of
- 3:59New
- 3:59Zealand.
- 4:00And
- 4:00I
- 4:00found
- 4:00out
- 4:01that
- 4:01it
- 4:01wasn't
- 4:01actually
- 4:01money
- 4:02coming
- 4:02into
- 4:02my
- 4:02pocket.
- 4:03And
- 4:03I
- 4:03remember
- 4:03being
- 4:03like,
- 4:04hold
- 4:04on,
- 4:04I
- 4:05thought
- 4:05my
- 4:05package
- 4:05was
- 4:0680,
- 4:06not
- 4:0660,
- 4:07you
- 4:07know,
- 4:08and
- 4:08so
- 4:08like
- 4:08those
- 4:08things
- 4:09happened.
- 4:09But
- 4:09then
- 4:09I
- 4:10actually
- 4:10moved
- 4:10over
- 4:11and
- 4:11I
- 4:11lost
- 4:11my
- 4:12job
- 4:12within
- 4:12about
- 4:13six
- 4:13months.
- 4:13The
- 4:14person
- 4:14who
- 4:14hired
- 4:14me
- 4:14was
- 4:15fired.
- 4:16And
- 4:16then
- 4:17I
- 4:17didn't
- 4:17have
- 4:17a
- 4:18job
- 4:18and
- 4:18I
- 4:18didn't
- 4:19have
- 4:19a
- 4:19financial
- 4:19plan.
- 4:20I
- 4:20didn't
- 4:20have
- 4:21any
- 4:21emergency
- 4:22funds.
- 4:22I
- 4:23didn't
- 4:23have.
- 4:24I
- 4:24didn't.
- 4:24Honestly,
- 4:25it
- 4:25was
- 4:25the
- 4:25scariest
- 4:26thing
- 4:26ever.
- 4:26And
- 4:26I
- 4:26all
- 4:27of
- 4:27a
- 4:27sudden
- 4:27had
- 4:28no
- 4:28work
- 4:28prospects,
- 4:29no
- 4:29money
- 4:30coming
- 4:30in
- 4:30and
- 4:31no
- 4:31idea
- 4:32what
- 4:32to
- 4:33do
- 4:33financially.
- 4:34Do
- 4:34you
- 4:34remember
- 4:34sort
- 4:35of
- 4:35those
- 4:35times,
- 4:35sort
- 4:36of
- 4:36like
- 4:37how
- 4:37money
- 4:37made
- 4:37you
- 4:38feel
- 4:38and
- 4:38that
- 4:38sort
- 4:39of
- 4:39realization
- 4:39of
- 4:39like,
- 4:40oh,
- 4:40like
- 4:40I
- 4:41need
- 4:41to
- 4:41do
- 4:41something
- 4:41differently
- 4:41and
- 4:42I
- 4:42don't
- 4:42know
- 4:42what.
- 4:43Money
- 4:43always
- 4:43had
- 4:44so
- 4:44much
- 4:44power
- 4:45over
- 4:45me.
- 4:45And
- 4:45if
- 4:45I'm
- 4:46being
- 4:46really
- 4:47transparent,
- 4:47I
- 4:47don't
- 4:47think
- 4:48that's
- 4:48changed
- 4:48a
- 4:49lot.
- 4:49I
- 4:49think
- 4:49that
- 4:49I've
- 4:50improved
- 4:51hugely
- 4:52and
- 4:52I
- 4:52have
- 4:52way
- 4:53better
- 4:53systems
- 4:53in
- 4:54place.
- 4:54I
- 4:54feel
- 4:55confident
- 4:55that
- 4:55I
- 4:56know
- 4:56how
- 4:56to
- 4:57get
- 4:57myself
- 4:57out
- 4:57of
- 4:58a
- 4:58situation,
- 4:58how
- 4:59to
- 4:59grow
- 4:59wealth.
- 5:00But
- 5:00I
- 5:01think
- 5:01that
- 5:01when
- 5:02I
- 5:02used
- 5:02to
- 5:02spend
- 5:03money,
- 5:04it
- 5:05was
- 5:05this
- 5:05sort
- 5:05of
- 5:05endless
- 5:06pot.
- 5:06There
- 5:06was
- 5:07this
- 5:07low
- 5:07level
- 5:07anxiety
- 5:08all
- 5:09the
- 5:09time.
- 5:09All
- 5:10the
- 5:10time.
- 5:10It's
- 5:10actually
- 5:11funny,
- 5:11I
- 5:11still
- 5:11got
- 5:12this
- 5:12dress.
- 5:12I
- 5:12went
- 5:12into
- 5:13Ruby,
- 5:13which
- 5:13is
- 5:13in
- 5:14New
- 5:14Zealand.
- 5:14I
- 5:14don't
- 5:14know
- 5:14how
- 5:15much
- 5:15of
- 5:15your
- 5:16audience
- 5:16is
- 5:16New
- 5:16Zealand
- 5:16based,
- 5:17but
- 5:17this
- 5:17brand
- 5:18in
- 5:18New
- 5:18Zealand.
- 5:18And
- 5:18I
- 5:18tried
- 5:19this
- 5:19dress
- 5:19on,
- 5:20and
- 5:20it
- 5:20was
- 5:20bright
- 5:20Barbie
- 5:21pink.
- 5:21And
- 5:21I
- 5:22just
- 5:22thought,
- 5:22I
- 5:22love
- 5:22it.
- 5:23I
- 5:23feel
- 5:23so
- 5:23good.
- 5:23God,
- 5:24it
- 5:24looks
- 5:24so
- 5:24good.
- 5:24I
- 5:24can
- 5:24see
- 5:24you
- 5:24rocking
- 5:25that.
- 5:25You
- 5:25know,
- 5:26since
- 5:26then,
- 5:26I
- 5:26have
- 5:26had
- 5:27my
- 5:27colors
- 5:27done.
- 5:27Apparently,
- 5:28that
- 5:28is
- 5:28my
- 5:28color.
- 5:28So
- 5:29before
- 5:29I
- 5:30knew.
- 5:30Anyway,
- 5:30point
- 5:31is,
- 5:31I
- 5:31bought
- 5:31the
- 5:31dress,
- 5:31I
- 5:31got
- 5:32home,
- 5:32and
- 5:32I
- 5:32had
- 5:32a
- 5:32total
- 5:32panic
- 5:33attack.
- 5:33Not
- 5:33a
- 5:33literal
- 5:34panic
- 5:34attack,
- 5:34but
- 5:34a,
- 5:35why
- 5:35did
- 5:35I
- 5:35do
- 5:36that?
- 5:36That
- 5:36was
- 5:36really
- 5:36irresponsible.
- 5:37I
- 5:37need
- 5:37to
- 5:37take
- 5:38it
- 5:38back.
- 5:38And
- 5:39that
- 5:40was
- 5:40kind
- 5:40of
- 5:40the
- 5:41exact
- 5:41way
- 5:42that
- 5:42I
- 5:42interacted
- 5:42with
- 5:43money.
- 5:43Always.
- 5:43There
- 5:44was
- 5:44no
- 5:45conscious
- 5:45decision
- 5:46making
- 5:46or
- 5:47I
- 5:48have
- 5:48this
- 5:48money
- 5:48put
- 5:48aside
- 5:49for
- 5:49this,
- 5:49and
- 5:49I
- 5:49can
- 5:50spend
- 5:50it
- 5:50without
- 5:50guilt.
- 5:51I
- 5:52think
- 5:52that
- 5:52for
- 5:52me,
- 5:53the
- 5:53last
- 5:53couple
- 5:54of
- 5:54years,
- 5:54that's
- 5:54changed
- 5:55only
- 5:55since
- 5:56I
- 5:56started
- 5:56splitting
- 5:57my
- 5:57pay.
- 5:58And
- 5:58it's
- 5:58so
- 5:59interesting
- 5:59because
- 6:00I
- 6:00know
- 6:00what
- 6:00we're
- 6:00gonna
- 6:00talk
- 6:01about
- 6:01today,
- 6:01which
- 6:01is
- 6:02more
- 6:02about
- 6:02investing
- 6:03and
- 6:03overinvesting.
- 6:04But
- 6:04I
- 6:05had
- 6:05to
- 6:06really
- 6:07f
- 6:07up
- 6:08many
- 6:08times
- 6:10before
- 6:10I
- 6:11started
- 6:11to
- 6:12put
- 6:12better
- 6:12practices
- 6:13in
- 6:13place
- 6:13to
- 6:14avoid
- 6:14that
- 6:15constant
- 6:15anxiety.
- 6:16And
- 6:17I
- 6:17definitely
- 6:18have
- 6:18gotten
- 6:19to
- 6:19a
- 6:19much
- 6:19better
- 6:19place
- 6:19at
- 6:20that.
- 6:20And
- 6:21I
- 6:21just
- 6:21think
- 6:21that
- 6:22for
- 6:22us,
- 6:22we
- 6:22really
- 6:23focused
- 6:23in
- 6:23the
- 6:23beginning
- 6:24on
- 6:24investing
- 6:25and
- 6:25stock
- 6:26picking
- 6:26in
- 6:26the
- 6:26stock
- 6:27market.
- 6:27Cause
- 6:27that's
- 6:27what
- 6:28my
- 6:28business
- 6:28partner
- 6:28and
- 6:29co
- 6:29host
- 6:30knew
- 6:30so
- 6:30well.
- 6:31But
- 6:32because
- 6:32I'd
- 6:32missed
- 6:33conversations
- 6:34about
- 6:34money
- 6:34and
- 6:35budgeting
- 6:36and
- 6:36splitting
- 6:37your
- 6:37pay
- 6:37and
- 6:38saving,
- 6:39I
- 6:39had
- 6:40no
- 6:41pre.
- 6:41It
- 6:42was
- 6:42like
- 6:42I'd
- 6:42missed
- 6:42the
- 6:42training
- 6:43wheels
- 6:43and
- 6:43I'd
- 6:44gone
- 6:44straight
- 6:44to
- 6:44the
- 6:45motorbike.
- 6:46And
- 6:46I
- 6:46think
- 6:46that
- 6:47I.
- 6:48I
- 6:48had
- 6:48to
- 6:48learn
- 6:49the
- 6:49hard
- 6:49way
- 6:50that
- 6:50that
- 6:50stuff
- 6:51is
- 6:51so
- 6:51fundamental.
- 6:52And
- 6:52you
- 6:52actually
- 6:53can't
- 6:53get
- 6:53to
- 6:53the
- 6:53motorbike
- 6:54riding
- 6:55unless
- 6:55you've
- 6:56tried
- 6:57biking
- 6:57with
- 6:57your
- 6:57training
- 6:58wheels.
- 6:58Yeah.
- 6:59So,
- 6:59yeah,
- 7:00it's
- 7:00really
- 7:00been
- 7:00in
- 7:00the
- 7:01last
- 7:01couple
- 7:01of
- 7:01years
- 7:01that
- 7:02I've
- 7:02started
- 7:03to
- 7:04feel
- 7:05more
- 7:05confident,
- 7:05let's
- 7:06just
- 7:06say,
- 7:06in
- 7:06terms
- 7:06of
- 7:07the
- 7:07money
- 7:07that
- 7:07comes
- 7:07in
- 7:07and
- 7:08how
- 7:08I
- 7:08distribute
- 7:08that.
- 7:09Yeah,
- 7:09I
- 7:10think,
- 7:10God,
- 7:10that's
- 7:11such
- 7:11a
- 7:11good
- 7:11analogy
- 7:11as
- 7:12well,
- 7:12because
- 7:12you
- 7:12did.
- 7:13You
- 7:13hit
- 7:13a
- 7:13point.
- 7:14And
- 7:14I
- 7:14think
- 7:14so
- 7:14many
- 7:14of
- 7:15us
- 7:15do
- 7:15this.
- 7:15Investing
- 7:15is
- 7:16exciting.
- 7:16And
- 7:17investing
- 7:17is
- 7:17like,
- 7:17oh,
- 7:17I
- 7:18can
- 7:18grow
- 7:18wealth.
- 7:18I
- 7:19can
- 7:19maybe
- 7:19quit
- 7:19work
- 7:19one
- 7:20day.
- 7:20I
- 7:20can
- 7:21do
- 7:21all
- 7:22this
- 7:22great
- 7:22stuff
- 7:22with
- 7:23my
- 7:23money
- 7:23through
- 7:23investing.
- 7:24Investing
- 7:25can
- 7:25go
- 7:25so
- 7:25wrong
- 7:26if
- 7:26you
- 7:26don't
- 7:26approach
- 7:27it
- 7:27in
- 7:27the
- 7:27right
- 7:27way.
- 7:28So
- 7:28you
- 7:28unfortunately
- 7:29did
- 7:29fall
- 7:29into
- 7:29that
- 7:30bad
- 7:30trap.
- 7:31Tell
- 7:31me
- 7:31about
- 7:32how
- 7:33investing
- 7:33went
- 7:33very
- 7:33wrong
- 7:34for
- 7:34you.
- 7:34Well,
- 7:35okay,
- 7:36let's
- 7:36just
- 7:36say
- 7:37I
- 7:37had
- 7:38the
- 7:38best
- 7:38of
- 7:38intentions.
- 7:40I
- 7:40was
- 7:40Very
- 7:40excited.
- 7:41So,
- 7:42okay,
- 7:43our
- 7:43podcast,
- 7:44when
- 7:44we
- 7:44started
- 7:45talking
- 7:45about
- 7:45all
- 7:46these
- 7:46different
- 7:46stocks
- 7:47and
- 7:47what's
- 7:47happening
- 7:47in
- 7:47the
- 7:47stock
- 7:48market,
- 7:49because
- 7:49I
- 7:50now
- 7:50understood
- 7:50the
- 7:51fundamentals
- 7:51of
- 7:51what
- 7:51investing
- 7:52meant
- 7:53and
- 7:53the
- 7:53idea
- 7:53that
- 7:53you
- 7:53invest
- 7:54in
- 7:54companies
- 7:54that
- 7:55you
- 7:55want
- 7:55to
- 7:56see
- 7:56grow
- 7:56and
- 7:56that
- 7:56you
- 7:56believe
- 7:57in
- 7:57and
- 7:57blah,
- 7:57blah,
- 7:57blah.
- 7:58There
- 7:58was
- 7:58this
- 7:58news
- 7:59that
- 7:59came
- 7:59out
- 7:59about
- 7:59Netflix
- 8:00and
- 8:00it
- 8:00was
- 8:00something
- 8:01really
- 8:01small
- 8:01and,
- 8:02you
- 8:02know,
- 8:02not
- 8:03important,
- 8:03and
- 8:03the
- 8:03stock
- 8:04price
- 8:04had
- 8:04dropped.
- 8:05We
- 8:05speak
- 8:05about
- 8:05this
- 8:06a
- 8:06lot
- 8:06on
- 8:06the
- 8:06podcast.
- 8:07The
- 8:07idea
- 8:07that,
- 8:07you
- 8:08know,
- 8:08if
- 8:08there's
- 8:08a
- 8:09sale
- 8:09on
- 8:09your
- 8:09favorite
- 8:10clothing
- 8:10store,
- 8:10everyone's
- 8:11rushing
- 8:11to
- 8:11it,
- 8:11but
- 8:12if
- 8:12a
- 8:12stock's
- 8:13on
- 8:13sale
- 8:13or
- 8:14the
- 8:14share
- 8:14price
- 8:14is
- 8:15undervalued
- 8:16it,
- 8:16everyone
- 8:16freaks
- 8:17out.
- 8:17No
- 8:17one
- 8:17buys
- 8:17it.
- 8:18So
- 8:18I
- 8:19had
- 8:19this
- 8:19light
- 8:19bulb
- 8:19moment
- 8:20and
- 8:20I
- 8:20thought,
- 8:21step
- 8:21aside,
- 8:21everyone.
- 8:22This
- 8:22is
- 8:22my
- 8:22investing
- 8:23moment.
- 8:23Here
- 8:24I
- 8:24go.
- 8:25And
- 8:25I
- 8:25put
- 8:26about
- 8:263,000
- 8:27New
- 8:27Zealand
- 8:28dollars
- 8:28into
- 8:28Netflix,
- 8:29which,
- 8:29can
- 8:30I
- 8:30just
- 8:30say,
- 8:30if
- 8:30I
- 8:31had
- 8:31more
- 8:31money
- 8:32than
- 8:32that
- 8:33and
- 8:33also
- 8:33had
- 8:33the
- 8:34rest
- 8:34of
- 8:34my
- 8:34finances
- 8:35sorted,
- 8:35this
- 8:35would
- 8:35have
- 8:35been
- 8:35a
- 8:36stunning
- 8:36investment
- 8:37decision.
- 8:38However,
- 8:39I
- 8:39did
- 8:40no
- 8:40calculations
- 8:41on
- 8:41what
- 8:41I
- 8:42should
- 8:42be
- 8:42putting
- 8:42in.
- 8:42I
- 8:43had
- 8:43no
- 8:43money
- 8:44set
- 8:44aside
- 8:44for
- 8:44my
- 8:45rent,
- 8:45for
- 8:45my
- 8:46groceries,
- 8:46for
- 8:47insurance,
- 8:47for
- 8:47all
- 8:48the
- 8:48things
- 8:48I
- 8:48need
- 8:48to
- 8:48pay
- 8:48for.
- 8:49I
- 8:49just
- 8:49took
- 8:50a
- 8:50lump
- 8:50sum
- 8:51that
- 8:51felt
- 8:52like
- 8:52a
- 8:52vague
- 8:52amount,
- 8:53put
- 8:53it
- 8:53in,
- 8:53and
- 8:54thought,
- 8:54God,
- 8:55I'm
- 8:55clever.
- 8:56And
- 8:56so
- 8:56stressed
- 8:57on
- 8:57your
- 8:57behalf.
- 8:57Honestly,
- 8:58just
- 8:58what
- 8:58was
- 8:59I
- 8:59thinking?
- 9:00And
- 9:00like,
- 9:00it's
- 9:01so
- 9:01funny
- 9:01to
- 9:01think
- 9:01about
- 9:02it
- 9:02in
- 9:02hindsight,
- 9:02but
- 9:03at
- 9:03the
- 9:03time,
- 9:04Vic
- 9:04and
- 9:04I
- 9:05and
- 9:05a
- 9:05bunch
- 9:05of
- 9:05friends
- 9:05were
- 9:05going
- 9:06on
- 9:06a
- 9:06holiday
- 9:06to
- 9:06Italy.
- 9:07I
- 9:07hadn't
- 9:08budgeted
- 9:08for
- 9:08the
- 9:08holiday.
- 9:09I.
- 9:09I
- 9:09didn't
- 9:10have
- 9:10money
- 9:10in
- 9:10my
- 9:10account
- 9:11for
- 9:11anything.
- 9:12And
- 9:12I
- 9:12checked
- 9:13my
- 9:13accounts
- 9:13and
- 9:13I
- 9:13had
- 9:13this
- 9:14meltdown
- 9:14the
- 9:15day
- 9:15we
- 9:15were
- 9:15leaving
- 9:15because
- 9:16I
- 9:16didn't
- 9:16have
- 9:16money
- 9:16to
- 9:17pay
- 9:17for
- 9:17the
- 9:17bus
- 9:17ride
- 9:18to
- 9:19get
- 9:19from
- 9:19where
- 9:19I
- 9:19was
- 9:20to
- 9:20the
- 9:20airport
- 9:21and
- 9:21then
- 9:21to
- 9:21our
- 9:21accommodation,
- 9:22let
- 9:22alone
- 9:22pay
- 9:23for
- 9:23the
- 9:23pasta
- 9:24and
- 9:24the
- 9:24drinks
- 9:25and
- 9:25all
- 9:25of
- 9:25the
- 9:25activities
- 9:26we
- 9:26were
- 9:26going
- 9:26to
- 9:26do.
- 9:27Which,
- 9:27again,
- 9:27you
- 9:28think
- 9:28about
- 9:28now
- 9:28and
- 9:29it
- 9:29sounds
- 9:29so
- 9:29obvious,
- 9:30but
- 9:30I
- 9:30think
- 9:30I
- 9:30want
- 9:30to
- 9:31tell
- 9:31this
- 9:31story
- 9:31because
- 9:32it
- 9:32wasn't
- 9:33obvious
- 9:33to
- 9:33me
- 9:33as
- 9:34someone
- 9:34that
- 9:34didn't
- 9:34have
- 9:34financial
- 9:35education,
- 9:35that
- 9:36was
- 9:36not
- 9:36obvious.
- 9:37And
- 9:37so
- 9:38it
- 9:38seems
- 9:39now
- 9:39in
- 9:39hindsight,
- 9:40like,
- 9:40how
- 9:40did
- 9:41you
- 9:41do
- 9:41that?
- 9:41But
- 9:42I
- 9:42know
- 9:42how
- 9:42I
- 9:42did
- 9:42it,
- 9:43and
- 9:43it's
- 9:43because
- 9:43I
- 9:43missed
- 9:44all
- 9:44those
- 9:44beginner
- 9:45steps.
- 9:45So
- 9:46I
- 9:46was
- 9:47at
- 9:47the
- 9:47airport
- 9:47with
- 9:48Vic
- 9:48and
- 9:48I
- 9:48was
- 9:48having
- 9:49a
- 9:49total
- 9:49meltdown.
- 9:50First
- 9:50he
- 9:50had
- 9:50to
- 9:50borrow
- 9:51money
- 9:51from
- 9:51a
- 9:51friend
- 9:51to
- 9:51pay
- 9:51for
- 9:52that
- 9:52bus
- 9:52ride.
- 9:52Oh,
- 9:53God,
- 9:53so
- 9:54embarrassing.
- 9:54Vic
- 9:55was
- 9:55like,
- 9:55how
- 9:55much
- 9:56do
- 9:56you
- 9:56have
- 9:56in
- 9:56your
- 9:56sharesies
- 9:57account?
- 9:57Like,
- 9:57how
- 9:57Much
- 9:57have
- 9:57you
- 9:58invested?
- 9:58And
- 9:58I
- 9:58had
- 9:5820,000
- 9:59in
- 9:59there.
- 9:59So
- 10:00it
- 10:00wasn't
- 10:00like
- 10:00I
- 10:00had
- 10:00no
- 10:01money.
- 10:02It
- 10:02was
- 10:02just
- 10:02that
- 10:02I
- 10:02was
- 10:02getting
- 10:03so
- 10:03excited
- 10:03by
- 10:03investing
- 10:04and
- 10:04putting
- 10:05lump
- 10:05sums
- 10:05away
- 10:07without
- 10:08planning.
- 10:09And
- 10:10Vic
- 10:10had,
- 10:10you
- 10:11know,
- 10:11said
- 10:11to
- 10:11me,
- 10:12for
- 10:12years,
- 10:12you
- 10:13invest
- 10:13and
- 10:13you
- 10:13leave
- 10:14it
- 10:14for
- 10:14at
- 10:14least
- 10:14five
- 10:15years.
- 10:15Invest
- 10:15and
- 10:16think
- 10:16of
- 10:16it
- 10:16as
- 10:16your
- 10:16retirement
- 10:17savings.
- 10:17Do
- 10:18not
- 10:18touch
- 10:18this
- 10:19money.
- 10:19Invest
- 10:19in
- 10:19things
- 10:20that,
- 10:21you
- 10:21know,
- 10:22you
- 10:22could
- 10:23leave
- 10:23for
- 10:2415,
- 10:2420
- 10:25years
- 10:25and
- 10:25come
- 10:25back
- 10:26after
- 10:26being
- 10:26on
- 10:26a
- 10:26desert
- 10:27island
- 10:27and
- 10:27that
- 10:27money
- 10:27would
- 10:28have
- 10:28grown.
- 10:28So
- 10:28I
- 10:29had
- 10:29this
- 10:29really
- 10:30strict
- 10:30mentality
- 10:30of,
- 10:31I
- 10:31can't
- 10:31touch
- 10:31that
- 10:31money.
- 10:32Yeah.
- 10:33So
- 10:33in
- 10:33my
- 10:33head,
- 10:34I
- 10:34had
- 10:34no
- 10:34money
- 10:34to
- 10:35pay
- 10:35for
- 10:35the
- 10:35bus.
- 10:36I
- 10:36didn't
- 10:36even
- 10:36think
- 10:37about
- 10:37the
- 10:37idea
- 10:37of
- 10:38cashing
- 10:39out
- 10:39or
- 10:39selling
- 10:39those
- 10:39shares.
- 10:40What
- 10:41happened
- 10:41from
- 10:41there
- 10:42was
- 10:42I
- 10:42basically
- 10:43Vic
- 10:44said
- 10:44to
- 10:44me,
- 10:45you
- 10:45know,
- 10:45you
- 10:45can
- 10:45take
- 10:46money
- 10:46out
- 10:46of
- 10:46your
- 10:46sharesies
- 10:47account,
- 10:47you
- 10:47know,
- 10:47you
- 10:47can
- 10:47pull
- 10:48money
- 10:48out.
- 10:49But
- 10:49there
- 10:49I
- 10:49was,
- 10:49sat
- 10:50on
- 10:50this
- 10:50holiday
- 10:50feeling
- 10:51embarrassed,
- 10:52feeling
- 10:52sorry
- 10:52for
- 10:52myself,
- 10:53feeling
- 10:53like
- 10:53I
- 10:53shouldn't
- 10:54be
- 10:54there
- 10:54actually,
- 10:55and
- 10:55really
- 10:55struggling
- 10:56to
- 10:57enjoy
- 10:58going
- 10:58out
- 10:58for
- 10:58a
- 10:58meal
- 10:59because
- 10:59all
- 10:59I
- 10:59was
- 10:59doing
- 11:00was
- 11:00thinking,
- 11:01how
- 11:01much
- 11:01is
- 11:01the
- 11:01split
- 11:02bill
- 11:02gonna
- 11:02be?
- 11:02I'm
- 11:03not
- 11:03drinking.
- 11:03Everyone
- 11:04else
- 11:04is.
- 11:04You
- 11:04know,
- 11:05there
- 11:05was
- 11:05just
- 11:06so
- 11:06much
- 11:06anxiety
- 11:07around
- 11:08money
- 11:08for
- 11:08me.
- 11:08And,
- 11:10yeah,
- 11:10I
- 11:10was
- 11:10really
- 11:10lucky.
- 11:11I
- 11:11had
- 11:12to
- 11:12pull
- 11:12money
- 11:12out.
- 11:12And
- 11:13that
- 11:143,000
- 11:14that
- 11:14I
- 11:14put
- 11:15on
- 11:15Netflix
- 11:15had
- 11:15grown
- 11:16to
- 11:166,000.
- 11:16So
- 11:17I'd
- 11:17made
- 11:17an
- 11:17incredible
- 11:18return.
- 11:19Nice
- 11:19work.
- 11:20Which,
- 11:21sorry,
- 11:21for
- 11:21a
- 11:21beginner
- 11:22investor,
- 11:22quite
- 11:23impressive.
- 11:24But
- 11:24I
- 11:24was
- 11:24so
- 11:25lucky
- 11:25that
- 11:25that
- 11:25happened.
- 11:26And
- 11:26the
- 11:26learning
- 11:27for
- 11:27me
- 11:27was
- 11:27just,
- 11:28I
- 11:28needed
- 11:28that
- 11:28money.
- 11:29I
- 11:29didn't
- 11:29have
- 11:29a
- 11:29choice
- 11:29about
- 11:30pulling
- 11:30it
- 11:30out
- 11:30because
- 11:31I
- 11:31had
- 11:31nowhere
- 11:31else
- 11:31to
- 11:32get
- 11:32money
- 11:32from.
- 11:32And
- 11:32if
- 11:33that
- 11:33share
- 11:33price
- 11:34or
- 11:34the
- 11:34rest
- 11:34of
- 11:34my
- 11:35investments
- 11:35were
- 11:35going
- 11:35down,
- 11:36like
- 11:36we
- 11:36all
- 11:36know
- 11:37the
- 11:37stock
- 11:37market
- 11:37does
- 11:38all
- 11:38the
- 11:38time,
- 11:39I
- 11:40could
- 11:40have
- 11:40lost
- 11:40a
- 11:41lot
- 11:41of
- 11:41money.
- 11:41And
- 11:42so,
- 11:43yeah,
- 11:43I'm
- 11:43really
- 11:44grateful
- 11:44that
- 11:44that
- 11:45learning
- 11:45for
- 11:45me
- 11:45was
- 11:45almost
- 11:46a
- 11:46positive
- 11:46one
- 11:47where
- 11:47I
- 11:47could
- 11:47see
- 11:48how
- 11:48bad
- 11:48it
- 11:49could
- 11:49have
- 11:49gone,
- 11:49but
- 11:49I
- 11:49didn't
- 11:50have
- 11:50to
- 11:50experience
- 11:50an
- 11:51enormous
- 11:51loss.
- 11:52Now,
- 11:52when
- 11:53you
- 11:53look
- 11:53at
- 11:53that
- 11:54and
- 11:54you
- 11:54have
- 11:54the
- 11:54beautiful
- 11:55benefit
- 11:55of
- 11:55hindsight,
- 11:58how
- 11:58would
- 11:59you
- 11:59have
- 11:59done
- 11:59things
- 12:00differently
- 12:00to
- 12:01end
- 12:01at
- 12:01a
- 12:01more
- 12:02ideal
- 12:02and
- 12:02much
- 12:03less
- 12:03stressed
- 12:04place?
- 12:04Well,
- 12:05knowing
- 12:06how
- 12:06much
- 12:06money
- 12:06you
- 12:07have,
- 12:07splitting
- 12:08out
- 12:08your
- 12:08essentials,
- 12:09for
- 12:09me,
- 12:09I
- 12:09just
- 12:10had
- 12:10the
- 12:10most
- 12:10simple.
- 12:11I
- 12:11was
- 12:11going
- 12:11to
- 12:11say
- 12:11hit
- 12:11me
- 12:12with
- 12:12your
- 12:12split.
- 12:12For
- 12:12me,
- 12:13because
- 12:13I
- 12:13live
- 12:13in
- 12:13London,
- 12:14my
- 12:14expenses
- 12:15are
- 12:15much
- 12:16more
- 12:16than
- 12:16I
- 12:16would
- 12:17like,
- 12:17so
- 12:18my
- 12:18rent
- 12:18is
- 12:1970%
- 12:20of
- 12:20my
- 12:20income,
- 12:21not
- 12:21quite,
- 12:22maybe
- 12:2265%.
- 12:22It's
- 12:23a
- 12:23lot
- 12:23that's
- 12:24up
- 12:24there.
- 12:24It's
- 12:24so
- 12:24expensive.
- 12:25But
- 12:25I've
- 12:25chosen
- 12:26that
- 12:26lifestyle
- 12:26for
- 12:26now
- 12:27and
- 12:27I
- 12:27just
- 12:27have
- 12:27to
- 12:27know
- 12:28that
- 12:28that's
- 12:28important
- 12:29to
- 12:29me
- 12:29and
- 12:29that's
- 12:30how
- 12:30I'm
- 12:30spending
- 12:30my
- 12:30money.
- 12:31So
- 12:31I
- 12:32don't
- 12:32have
- 12:32a
- 12:32lot
- 12:32of
- 12:32money
- 12:33for
- 12:33fun
- 12:33things,
- 12:34for
- 12:34travel,
- 12:35for
- 12:35going
- 12:36out
- 12:36for
- 12:36dinners.
- 12:36I
- 12:37also
- 12:37don't
- 12:37pay
- 12:37myself
- 12:37very
- 12:38much,
- 12:38so
- 12:39I
- 12:39just
- 12:40know
- 12:40that
- 12:40there's
- 12:40things
- 12:40I
- 12:40have
- 12:41to
- 12:41cut
- 12:41back
- 12:41on.
- 12:41And
- 12:42that's
- 12:42just
- 12:42the
- 12:42reality
- 12:42of
- 12:43what
- 12:43I've,
- 12:44you
- 12:44know,
- 12:44the
- 12:44cards
- 12:44I've
- 12:44dealt
- 12:45myself
- 12:45for
- 12:45now.
- 12:47So
- 12:47I
- 12:47have
- 12:47my
- 12:48money
- 12:48set
- 12:48aside
- 12:48for
- 12:48my
- 12:49needs.
- 12:49So
- 12:49my
- 12:49rent,
- 12:50my,
- 12:50you
- 12:51know,
- 12:51my
- 12:51bills,
- 12:52things
- 12:52that
- 12:53I
- 12:53need
- 12:53to
- 12:53pay
- 12:53for,
- 12:53I
- 12:54used
- 12:54to
- 12:54have
- 12:54in
- 12:54there
- 12:55things
- 12:55like
- 12:55therapy,
- 12:56because
- 12:56for
- 12:56me,
- 12:57mental
- 12:57health
- 12:57should
- 12:58be
- 12:58an
- 12:58essential.
- 12:58I
- 12:59definitely
- 12:59have
- 12:59struggled
- 12:59with
- 13:00that
- 13:00in
- 13:00my
- 13:00life.
- 13:00So
- 13:01I
- 13:01used
- 13:02to
- 13:02put
- 13:02that
- 13:02in
- 13:02my
- 13:02essentials.
- 13:03I
- 13:03can't
- 13:03afford
- 13:03to
- 13:03right
- 13:04now.
- 13:04But
- 13:04things
- 13:05like
- 13:05exercise,
- 13:06if
- 13:06I
- 13:06want
- 13:06to
- 13:06pay
- 13:06for
- 13:06that,
- 13:07all
- 13:07those
- 13:07things
- 13:07go
- 13:07into
- 13:08my
- 13:08essentials
- 13:08bucket.
- 13:09And
- 13:10that's
- 13:10generally
- 13:1160
- 13:11to
- 13:1170%
- 13:12of
- 13:12my
- 13:12income.
- 13:13It
- 13:13should
- 13:14be
- 13:1450%,
- 13:14and
- 13:15I
- 13:15know
- 13:15that.
- 13:15But
- 13:15again,
- 13:16it's
- 13:16just
- 13:16where
- 13:16I'm
- 13:16at
- 13:17in
- 13:17my
- 13:17life.
- 13:17It's
- 13:17an
- 13:17expensive
- 13:18place.
- 13:18What
- 13:18do
- 13:18you
- 13:18do
- 13:19then?
- 13:20I've
- 13:20got
- 13:20probably
- 13:21around
- 13:2120%
- 13:22ish,
- 13:23or
- 13:23maybe
- 13:23less
- 13:24than
- 13:24that
- 13:24on
- 13:24my.
- 13:25The
- 13:26fun
- 13:26things,
- 13:27but
- 13:27that
- 13:27fluctuates
- 13:28and
- 13:28I
- 13:28really
- 13:28don't
- 13:29have
- 13:29a
- 13:29huge
- 13:29amount
- 13:30in
- 13:30there.
- 13:30And
- 13:30then
- 13:30I
- 13:30have
- 13:31a
- 13:31small
- 13:31amount,
- 13:31which
- 13:32maybe
- 13:32is
- 13:32like
- 13:325%,
- 13:33that
- 13:33goes
- 13:33towards
- 13:34savings
- 13:35goals
- 13:35and
- 13:36investments,
- 13:37which
- 13:37again,
- 13:38I'd
- 13:38love
- 13:38to
- 13:38be
- 13:38way
- 13:39more.
- 13:39I'm
- 13:39just
- 13:39not
- 13:40in
- 13:40a
- 13:40position
- 13:40to
- 13:41do
- 13:41that
- 13:41right
- 13:41now.
- 13:42But
- 13:42what
- 13:42it
- 13:42means
- 13:43is
- 13:43the
- 13:43amount
- 13:43that
- 13:43I
- 13:44have
- 13:44to
- 13:44invest
- 13:44or
- 13:45go
- 13:45towards
- 13:45things,
- 13:45whether
- 13:46it's
- 13:46I
- 13:47want
- 13:47to
- 13:47save
- 13:47for
- 13:47a
- 13:47holiday
- 13:48or
- 13:48I
- 13:48want
- 13:49to
- 13:49put
- 13:49more
- 13:49money
- 13:49in
- 13:50my
- 13:50investments,
- 13:51there's
- 13:52just
- 13:52a
- 13:52set
- 13:52amount.
- 13:53Rather
- 13:53than
- 13:54deciding
- 13:55each
- 13:55month
- 13:56how
- 13:56generous
- 13:56am
- 13:57I
- 13:57feeling,
- 13:57because,
- 13:58yeah,
- 13:58I
- 13:59think
- 13:59that
- 14:01stresses
- 14:01me
- 14:01out,
- 14:02not
- 14:02knowing
- 14:03and
- 14:04potentially
- 14:04eating
- 14:04into
- 14:05savings
- 14:05or
- 14:05rent
- 14:06money.
- 14:07Not
- 14:07cool.
- 14:07Not
- 14:08worth
- 14:08the
- 14:08anxiety.
- 14:09100%.
- 14:10And
- 14:10I
- 14:10think
- 14:10there's
- 14:11seasons
- 14:11in
- 14:12life.
- 14:12I
- 14:12was
- 14:12literally
- 14:13just
- 14:13chatting
- 14:13to
- 14:14my
- 14:14business
- 14:14coach
- 14:15the
- 14:16other
- 14:16day
- 14:16and
- 14:16we
- 14:16were
- 14:16talking
- 14:16about
- 14:17seasons
- 14:17of
- 14:17life
- 14:17and,
- 14:18you
- 14:18know,
- 14:18which
- 14:18opportunities
- 14:19work.
- 14:20And
- 14:20I've
- 14:20had
- 14:21to
- 14:21put
- 14:21a
- 14:21ban
- 14:22on
- 14:22myself
- 14:23for
- 14:23speaking
- 14:23events
- 14:24this
- 14:24year.
- 14:24Love
- 14:24speaking
- 14:25events.
- 14:25Really.
- 14:26It's
- 14:26so
- 14:26interesting.
- 14:27Yeah,
- 14:27but
- 14:28it's
- 14:28just
- 14:28in
- 14:29terms
- 14:29of
- 14:29the
- 14:29amount
- 14:29of
- 14:29time
- 14:30it
- 14:30takes.
- 14:30And
- 14:30I've
- 14:31got
- 14:31two
- 14:31very
- 14:31young
- 14:31kids
- 14:32who
- 14:32I'm
- 14:32obsessed
- 14:33with
- 14:33and
- 14:33want
- 14:33to
- 14:33be
- 14:33around
- 14:34all
- 14:34the
- 14:34time.
- 14:36There
- 14:36are
- 14:36other
- 14:36opportunities
- 14:38that
- 14:38I
- 14:38can
- 14:38make
- 14:39a
- 14:39lot
- 14:39of
- 14:39in
- 14:40this
- 14:40time
- 14:40of
- 14:41my
- 14:41life
- 14:41that
- 14:42don't
- 14:42pull
- 14:42me
- 14:42away
- 14:42from
- 14:43family
- 14:43as
- 14:43much.
- 14:44And
- 14:45so
- 14:45I'm
- 14:45choosing
- 14:45to
- 14:45prioritize
- 14:46those
- 14:47because
- 14:47it
- 14:47makes
- 14:48business
- 14:48sense
- 14:48and
- 14:49life
- 14:49sense.
- 14:49And
- 14:49I
- 14:50think
- 14:50it's
- 14:50a
- 14:50very
- 14:50interesting
- 14:51thing
- 14:51as
- 14:51well
- 14:51for
- 14:51you.
- 14:52You
- 14:52know,
- 14:52you're
- 14:52in
- 14:53a
- 14:53phase
- 14:53of
- 14:53life
- 14:53where
- 14:54you're
- 14:54in
- 14:54London,
- 14:54you're
- 14:55getting
- 14:55business
- 14:55done,
- 14:55it's
- 14:56exciting.
- 14:57You
- 14:57can
- 14:57footloose
- 14:58fancy
- 14:58free,
- 14:59just
- 14:59be
- 14:59on
- 14:59the
- 14:59other
- 15:00side
- 15:00of
- 15:00the
- 15:00world.
- 15:00And
- 15:01how
- 15:01amazing.
- 15:02That
- 15:02comes
- 15:02with
- 15:02a
- 15:02cost
- 15:02with
- 15:03that.
- 15:03But
- 15:03it's
- 15:04seasons.
- 15:04You
- 15:05haven't
- 15:05totally
- 15:06abandoned
- 15:07the
- 15:07future
- 15:07goals,
- 15:08you've
- 15:08just
- 15:09moved
- 15:10it
- 15:10around
- 15:10a
- 15:10little.
- 15:10How
- 15:11do
- 15:11you
- 15:11handle
- 15:11those
- 15:11splits?
- 15:11Are
- 15:12you
- 15:12a
- 15:12fan
- 15:12of
- 15:12different
- 15:12bank
- 15:12accounts?
- 15:13I'm
- 15:13a
- 15:13really
- 15:13visual
- 15:14person.
- 15:15So
- 15:15I
- 15:15actually
- 15:15went
- 15:16into
- 15:16Canva
- 15:17and
- 15:17used
- 15:17our
- 15:17design,
- 15:18you
- 15:18know,
- 15:18our
- 15:18work
- 15:19design
- 15:19account
- 15:19and
- 15:20I
- 15:20created
- 15:21visuals.
- 15:21So
- 15:22I've
- 15:22got
- 15:23my
- 15:23wants,
- 15:24my
- 15:24needs
- 15:25and
- 15:25then
- 15:25I've.
- 15:25And
- 15:26in
- 15:26fact
- 15:26I
- 15:26could
- 15:26probably
- 15:26honestly
- 15:27just
- 15:27get
- 15:27it
- 15:27out.
- 15:28I've
- 15:28got
- 15:28my
- 15:28essentials
- 15:29with
- 15:29like
- 15:29green
- 15:30love
- 15:30hearts,
- 15:31my
- 15:31nice
- 15:32to
- 15:32have
- 15:32with
- 15:32pink
- 15:33love
- 15:33hearts
- 15:33and
- 15:33then
- 15:33my
- 15:34rent
- 15:34with
- 15:34blue.
- 15:35I've
- 15:35got
- 15:35a
- 15:36card
- 15:36attached
- 15:36to
- 15:37my
- 15:37essentials
- 15:37and
- 15:38my
- 15:38nice
- 15:38to
- 15:38have.
- 15:38So
- 15:38I've
- 15:39got
- 15:39a
- 15:39green
- 15:39card
- 15:39for
- 15:39essentials
- 15:40and
- 15:40I've
- 15:40got
- 15:40a
- 15:41pink
- 15:41card
- 15:41for
- 15:41my
- 15:41nice
- 15:42to
- 15:42haves.
- 15:43And
- 15:43that's
- 15:43just
- 15:43because
- 15:44I
- 15:44need
- 15:45to
- 15:45have
- 15:45some
- 15:46kind
- 15:46of
- 15:46like,
- 15:47I
- 15:47don't
- 15:47know,
- 15:47reminder
- 15:48and
- 15:48color
- 15:48stimulus.
- 15:49But
- 15:49if
- 15:49I
- 15:49go
- 15:50into
- 15:50my
- 15:50nice
- 15:50to
- 15:50haves,
- 15:51I
- 15:51have
- 15:51a
- 15:51grand
- 15:51total
- 15:51of
- 15:5223
- 15:52pounds
- 15:52in
- 15:52there
- 15:53right
- 15:53now.
- 15:53But
- 15:54I've
- 15:54got
- 15:54a
- 15:54purple
- 15:55visual
- 15:55so
- 15:56I
- 15:56drink
- 15:56cacao
- 15:57often
- 15:57instead
- 15:58of
- 15:58coffee.
- 15:58So
- 15:58I've
- 15:59got
- 15:59my
- 15:59nice
- 15:59to
- 15:59haves
- 16:00which
- 16:00tells
- 16:00me
- 16:00what
- 16:00I
- 16:01pay
- 16:01for
- 16:01from
- 16:01this
- 16:01account.
- 16:02So
- 16:02cacao,
- 16:03coffee,
- 16:03gifts,
- 16:04travel,
- 16:04shopping,
- 16:05Uber.
- 16:05So
- 16:05those
- 16:05are
- 16:06like
- 16:06the
- 16:06things
- 16:06that
- 16:06I
- 16:06have.
- 16:07And
- 16:07then
- 16:07when
- 16:07I
- 16:07go
- 16:08into
- 16:08my
- 16:08essentials,
- 16:09I've
- 16:09got
- 16:09my
- 16:09little
- 16:09green
- 16:10one
- 16:10and
- 16:10I
- 16:11have
- 16:11essentials,
- 16:11rent
- 16:11and
- 16:12bills,
- 16:12therapy,
- 16:12which
- 16:13I
- 16:13no
- 16:13longer
- 16:13can
- 16:13afford,
- 16:14groceries,
- 16:15limes,
- 16:15getting
- 16:16around
- 16:16London,
- 16:16trains,
- 16:17buses,
- 16:17class
- 16:17pass.
- 16:18And
- 16:19then
- 16:19I
- 16:19also
- 16:20have
- 16:20a
- 16:20separate
- 16:21savings
- 16:21account
- 16:22which
- 16:22I
- 16:22also
- 16:23have
- 16:23my
- 16:23emergency
- 16:24fund.
- 16:24I
- 16:25have
- 16:25a
- 16:25beauty
- 16:25account
- 16:26which
- 16:26I
- 16:26take
- 16:26out
- 16:26of
- 16:27my
- 16:27nice
- 16:27to
- 16:27haves
- 16:28because
- 16:28it's
- 16:28stuff
- 16:29that
- 16:29I
- 16:29pay
- 16:29for
- 16:29in
- 16:29lump
- 16:30sums
- 16:30like
- 16:31getting
- 16:31my
- 16:31hair
- 16:31dyed.
- 16:32And
- 16:32I
- 16:32just
- 16:33know
- 16:33that
- 16:33if
- 16:33I
- 16:33had
- 16:33it
- 16:34in
- 16:34my
- 16:34nice
- 16:34tabs
- 16:34and
- 16:34I
- 16:34was
- 16:35spending
- 16:35it
- 16:35on
- 16:35coffees
- 16:36and
- 16:36stuff,
- 16:36I
- 16:36would
- 16:36spend
- 16:37it
- 16:37and
- 16:37then
- 16:37it
- 16:37would
- 16:37be.
- 16:37I
- 16:38would
- 16:38have
- 16:38the
- 16:38worst
- 16:38regrowth
- 16:39ever
- 16:39and
- 16:39couldn't
- 16:40afford
- 16:40it.
- 16:40So
- 16:40I
- 16:41have
- 16:41that
- 16:41separate.
- 16:41And
- 16:41then
- 16:41I
- 16:42have
- 16:42my
- 16:42travel
- 16:42account
- 16:43which
- 16:43slowly
- 16:43has
- 16:44money
- 16:44going
- 16:44into
- 16:44it
- 16:44again,
- 16:45which
- 16:45I've
- 16:45pulled
- 16:45from
- 16:46like
- 16:46my
- 16:46nice
- 16:47to
- 16:47have
- 16:47kind
- 16:47of
- 16:47short
- 16:48term
- 16:48savings
- 16:48bucket.
- 16:49So
- 16:49that's
- 16:49automated
- 16:50out.
- 16:50And
- 16:50then
- 16:50I
- 16:50have
- 16:50a
- 16:51gifts
- 16:51amount
- 16:51for
- 16:52friends,
- 16:53presents
- 16:54or
- 16:54you
- 16:55know,
- 16:55things
- 16:55like
- 16:55that.
- 16:56But
- 16:56so
- 16:57my
- 16:57beauty,
- 16:57travel,
- 16:58clothes,
- 16:59gifts,
- 16:59that
- 16:59kind
- 16:59of
- 16:59thing
- 17:00as
- 17:00well
- 17:00as
- 17:00the
- 17:00nice
- 17:01to
- 17:01haves,
- 17:01all
- 17:01of
- 17:02that
- 17:02is
- 17:02within
- 17:02like
- 17:0220%
- 17:03of
- 17:03my
- 17:03pay.
- 17:04It's
- 17:04just
- 17:04that
- 17:04I've
- 17:04separated
- 17:05them,
- 17:05some
- 17:05of
- 17:05them
- 17:06into
- 17:06separate
- 17:06accounts
- 17:06so
- 17:07I
- 17:07can
- 17:07keep
- 17:07track
- 17:07better
- 17:08just
- 17:08quickly.
- 17:09On
- 17:09the
- 17:09seasons
- 17:09thing,
- 17:09what
- 17:10I
- 17:10will
- 17:10say
- 17:10is
- 17:10last
- 17:10year
- 17:10I
- 17:11bought
- 17:11two
- 17:11properties.
- 17:11I
- 17:12bought
- 17:12two
- 17:12investment
- 17:12properties
- 17:13which
- 17:13I
- 17:13really
- 17:13focused
- 17:14on.
- 17:14I
- 17:14took
- 17:15a
- 17:15lot
- 17:15of
- 17:15money
- 17:15out
- 17:15of
- 17:15the
- 17:15stock
- 17:16market.
- 17:16I
- 17:16took
- 17:16a
- 17:17lot
- 17:17of
- 17:17my.
- 17:18What
- 17:18I'd
- 17:18built
- 17:18up
- 17:19and
- 17:19put
- 17:19it
- 17:19in
- 17:19that.
- 17:19So.
- 17:20And
- 17:20I
- 17:20feel
- 17:21like
- 17:21that
- 17:21was
- 17:21a
- 17:21really
- 17:21clever
- 17:22decision
- 17:22when
- 17:23the
- 17:23market
- 17:23right
- 17:24now
- 17:24in
- 17:24New
- 17:24Zealand's
- 17:24not
- 17:24great
- 17:25for
- 17:25property.
- 17:25So
- 17:26I've
- 17:26made
- 17:27those
- 17:27decisions
- 17:27and
- 17:28I
- 17:28have
- 17:28those
- 17:28assets
- 17:29that
- 17:29are
- 17:29going
- 17:29to
- 17:29be
- 17:29accruing
- 17:30in
- 17:30value
- 17:30over
- 17:30a
- 17:31long
- 17:31period
- 17:31of
- 17:31time.
- 17:31So
- 17:32I
- 17:32don't
- 17:32feel
- 17:33like
- 17:33I'm
- 17:33just
- 17:33putting
- 17:34my
- 17:34financial
- 17:35goals
- 17:35on
- 17:36the
- 17:36back
- 17:36burner
- 17:36totally.
- 17:38It's
- 17:38just
- 17:38that
- 17:39I
- 17:39don't
- 17:39have
- 17:39as
- 17:40much
- 17:40to
- 17:40grow
- 17:40as
- 17:41quickly.
- 17:41And
- 17:42so
- 17:42I
- 17:42think
- 17:42I
- 17:42feel
- 17:42okay
- 17:43about
- 17:43that
- 17:43because
- 17:44the
- 17:44season
- 17:44last
- 17:44year
- 17:45was
- 17:45property
- 17:45and
- 17:46now
- 17:46this
- 17:46year
- 17:46it's
- 17:47about
- 17:47building
- 17:47up
- 17:47a
- 17:47bit
- 17:47more
- 17:48into
- 17:48the
- 17:48stock
- 17:48market
- 17:48again.
- 17:49So
- 17:50I
- 17:50feel
- 17:50okay
- 17:50about
- 17:51that.
- 17:51You
- 17:51talk
- 17:51about
- 17:51yourself
- 17:52as
- 17:52if
- 17:52you're
- 17:52not
- 17:52very
- 17:52good
- 17:52with
- 17:53money,
- 17:53but
- 17:53you
- 17:54are
- 17:54making
- 17:54so
- 17:54much
- 17:55huge
- 17:55progress
- 17:55and
- 17:56you're
- 17:56actually
- 17:56quite
- 17:56focused
- 17:57and
- 17:57you've
- 17:58got
- 17:58all
- 17:58this,
- 17:58you're
- 17:59actually
- 17:59sneakily
- 17:59very
- 18:00organized
- 18:00and
- 18:01to
- 18:01have
- 18:01two
- 18:01investment
- 18:02properties
- 18:02is
- 18:03amazing.
- 18:03How
- 18:03old
- 18:04are
- 18:04you
- 18:04now?
- 18:0434.
- 18:05That's
- 18:05great.
- 18:06Firstly,
- 18:06thank
- 18:07you.
- 18:07That's
- 18:07so
- 18:07lovely.
- 18:08I
- 18:08think
- 18:08I
- 18:08have,
- 18:09you
- 18:09know,
- 18:09and
- 18:09sort
- 18:09of
- 18:09back
- 18:10to
- 18:10the
- 18:10start
- 18:10of
- 18:10this
- 18:10conversation
- 18:11in
- 18:11my
- 18:12head
- 18:12because
- 18:12I've
- 18:13always
- 18:13been
- 18:13bad
- 18:13with
- 18:14money
- 18:14and
- 18:14because
- 18:14I
- 18:14have
- 18:15so
- 18:15much
- 18:15trauma
- 18:15around
- 18:16money
- 18:16and
- 18:16doing
- 18:17really
- 18:17stupid
- 18:18things,
- 18:19I.
- 18:19I
- 18:19still
- 18:20consider
- 18:20myself
- 18:21such
- 18:21a
- 18:22beginner.
- 18:22But
- 18:22you're
- 18:22right,
- 18:23I've
- 18:23come
- 18:23so
- 18:24far
- 18:24and
- 18:25what
- 18:25I'm
- 18:25doing
- 18:25now,
- 18:25if
- 18:26I
- 18:26told
- 18:26myself
- 18:26five
- 18:27years
- 18:27ago,
- 18:27I
- 18:27would've
- 18:27been
- 18:28like,
- 18:28God,
- 18:29I'm
- 18:29so
- 18:29clever
- 18:29and
- 18:30smart.
- 18:31But
- 18:31I
- 18:32found
- 18:32ways
- 18:33to
- 18:33build
- 18:33wealth
- 18:33later
- 18:34in
- 18:34life
- 18:34because
- 18:35I
- 18:35missed
- 18:35out
- 18:35on
- 18:36this
- 18:36really
- 18:36early.
- 18:37So,
- 18:37for
- 18:37example,
- 18:37the
- 18:38properties,
- 18:38I
- 18:39did
- 18:39it
- 18:39with
- 18:39a
- 18:39friend
- 18:39and
- 18:40we
- 18:40bought
- 18:40houses
- 18:41that
- 18:41were
- 18:41400,000,
- 18:42not
- 18:42a
- 18:42million,
- 18:42because
- 18:43that
- 18:43was
- 18:44within
- 18:44our
- 18:44budget.
- 18:44You
- 18:45know,
- 18:45I've
- 18:46had
- 18:46to
- 18:46start
- 18:46from
- 18:46a
- 18:46different
- 18:47place
- 18:47because
- 18:47I
- 18:47didn't
- 18:48split
- 18:49my
- 18:49money
- 18:49early,
- 18:49and
- 18:49I
- 18:50didn't
- 18:50invest
- 18:50early.
- 18:51So
- 18:52I
- 18:52have
- 18:52to
- 18:52be
- 18:52quite
- 18:52accepting
- 18:53in
- 18:53the
- 18:53fact
- 18:53that
- 18:54I
- 18:54am
- 18:54behind
- 18:54a
- 18:55lot
- 18:55of
- 18:55my
- 18:55friends.
- 18:56No,
- 18:56I
- 18:56am.
- 18:57You're
- 18:57ahead
- 18:57of
- 18:57so
- 18:58many
- 18:58other
- 18:58people,
- 18:58though.
- 18:58I
- 18:58would
- 18:59still
- 18:59say
- 18:59no,
- 18:59I
- 18:59am.
- 19:00But
- 19:00I
- 19:00look
- 19:00at
- 19:00my
- 19:00business
- 19:01partner
- 19:01who
- 19:01invested
- 19:02from
- 19:02the
- 19:02age
- 19:02of
- 19:0215
- 19:03or
- 19:03no,
- 19:03to
- 19:03be
- 19:04honest,
- 19:04she
- 19:04was
- 19:047.
- 19:04She
- 19:05had
- 19:05shares
- 19:05from
- 19:05her
- 19:05parents
- 19:06when
- 19:06she
- 19:06was
- 19:06young,
- 19:06you
- 19:07know,
- 19:07so.
- 19:08And
- 19:08she
- 19:08has
- 19:08two
- 19:09very
- 19:09valuable
- 19:10properties
- 19:10and
- 19:10she
- 19:11has
- 19:11a
- 19:11lot
- 19:12more
- 19:12than
- 19:12I
- 19:12do.
- 19:12So
- 19:12I
- 19:12had
- 19:13that
- 19:13constant
- 19:13comparison
- 19:14of.
- 19:15And
- 19:15she's
- 19:15only
- 19:15a
- 19:16few
- 19:16years
- 19:16older
- 19:16than
- 19:16me.
- 19:17But
- 19:18that
- 19:18is
- 19:18a
- 19:18really
- 19:19toxic,
- 19:20bad
- 19:20place
- 19:21to
- 19:21be
- 19:21because
- 19:22all
- 19:23of
- 19:23us
- 19:23are
- 19:23starting
- 19:24from
- 19:24somewhere.
- 19:24And
- 19:24you've
- 19:25got
- 19:25to
- 19:25be
- 19:25really
- 19:25proud
- 19:25of
- 19:25where
- 19:25you've
- 19:26been
- 19:26and
- 19:26where
- 19:26you're
- 19:26going.
- 19:27And
- 19:27if
- 19:27you're
- 19:27listening
- 19:27to
- 19:28this
- 19:28thinking,
- 19:28I
- 19:29cannot
- 19:29even
- 19:29believe
- 19:29that
- 19:30she's
- 19:30thinking
- 19:30she's
- 19:30bad
- 19:30with
- 19:31money.
- 19:31I
- 19:31don't
- 19:31do
- 19:31any
- 19:31of
- 19:32these
- 19:32things.
- 19:33I
- 19:33hope
- 19:33that
- 19:33it
- 19:34is
- 19:34reassuring
- 19:35to
- 19:35know
- 19:35that
- 19:35I
- 19:36genuinely
- 19:37have
- 19:37done
- 19:37the
- 19:37most
- 19:38outrageous
- 19:38things
- 19:38with
- 19:39money.
- 19:39And
- 19:40I
- 19:40mean,
- 19:40I've
- 19:40been
- 19:40in
- 19:40a
- 19:40lot
- 19:40of
- 19:41debt
- 19:41before.
- 19:41I've
- 19:41done
- 19:41a
- 19:41lot
- 19:42of
- 19:42really
- 19:42stupid
- 19:43things,
- 19:44but
- 19:44you
- 19:44can
- 19:44totally
- 19:45turn
- 19:45it
- 19:45around.
- 19:45And
- 19:46I
- 19:46think
- 19:47having
- 19:47visualizations
- 19:48for
- 19:48me
- 19:48and
- 19:49small
- 19:49goals
- 19:49that
- 19:50I
- 19:50can
- 19:50feel
- 19:50accumulate
- 19:51and
- 19:51I
- 19:51get
- 19:51excited
- 19:52by.
- 19:52Like
- 19:52when
- 19:52I
- 19:53first
- 19:53started
- 19:53building
- 19:53my
- 19:53emergency
- 19:54fund,
- 19:55every
- 19:55time
- 19:55my
- 19:55pay
- 19:56came
- 19:56in
- 19:56and
- 19:56a
- 19:56little
- 19:57bit
- 19:57was
- 19:57split
- 19:57into
- 19:57all
- 19:58of
- 19:58these
- 19:58accounts,
- 19:59it
- 19:59was
- 19:59exciting
- 20:00rather
- 20:00than
- 20:00crawling
- 20:01to
- 20:01the
- 20:01finish
- 20:01line
- 20:02of
- 20:02payday.
- 20:03And
- 20:03I
- 20:03think
- 20:04it's
- 20:04because
- 20:04I
- 20:04put
- 20:04those
- 20:05systems
- 20:05in
- 20:05place
- 20:06that
- 20:07meant
- 20:07I
- 20:07knew
- 20:07I
- 20:08was
- 20:08going
- 20:08somewhere
- 20:08and
- 20:09I
- 20:09was
- 20:09heading
- 20:09in
- 20:09the
- 20:09right
- 20:09direction.
- 20:10So
- 20:10I
- 20:10think
- 20:11that,
- 20:12yeah,
- 20:12it's.
- 20:12It's
- 20:13so
- 20:13possible
- 20:13and
- 20:14it's
- 20:14so
- 20:14easy,
- 20:14but
- 20:15you
- 20:15do
- 20:15have
- 20:15to
- 20:15do
- 20:16a
- 20:16bit
- 20:16of
- 20:16organization,
- 20:16even
- 20:17if
- 20:17you're
- 20:17not
- 20:17that
- 20:17way
- 20:17inclined,
- 20:18because
- 20:18I'm
- 20:18not
- 20:18normally.
- 20:19Yeah,
- 20:20yeah,
- 20:20no,
- 20:20I
- 20:20hear
- 20:21you
- 20:21on
- 20:21that.
- 20:21And
- 20:21it's.
- 20:21It's
- 20:22kind
- 20:22of
- 20:22interesting,
- 20:22right,
- 20:23because
- 20:23there
- 20:23is
- 20:23a
- 20:23lot.
- 20:24You
- 20:24see
- 20:24a
- 20:24lot
- 20:24of
- 20:24conversations
- 20:25online.
- 20:25And
- 20:25I
- 20:26actually
- 20:26agree
- 20:27overall
- 20:27with
- 20:27this
- 20:28conversation
- 20:29that
- 20:29the
- 20:29old
- 20:30thing
- 20:30of
- 20:30if.
- 20:30If
- 20:30you're
- 20:30the
- 20:30smartest
- 20:31person
- 20:31in
- 20:31the
- 20:31room,
- 20:31it's
- 20:31time
- 20:32to
- 20:32change
- 20:32rooms.
- 20:32Because
- 20:33you
- 20:33should
- 20:33be
- 20:33like
- 20:34that.
- 20:34It's
- 20:34good,
- 20:34right?
- 20:36Because
- 20:36you
- 20:37should
- 20:37always
- 20:37be
- 20:37around
- 20:37people
- 20:38who
- 20:38make
- 20:38you
- 20:38want
- 20:38to
- 20:39level
- 20:39up.
- 20:40You
- 20:40are
- 20:40the
- 20:40sum
- 20:41of
- 20:41the
- 20:41five
- 20:42closest
- 20:42people
- 20:42to
- 20:43you.
- 20:43I
- 20:43truly
- 20:43believe
- 20:44that
- 20:44as
- 20:44well.
- 20:45You
- 20:45do
- 20:45absorb
- 20:46a
- 20:46lot
- 20:46from
- 20:46the
- 20:46people
- 20:46around
- 20:47you,
- 20:47and
- 20:47it
- 20:47will
- 20:48subconsciously
- 20:49set
- 20:49a
- 20:49lot
- 20:49of
- 20:50your
- 20:50expectations
- 20:51for
- 20:51yourself,
- 20:52what
- 20:52you
- 20:52can
- 20:52achieve
- 20:53in
- 20:53life,
- 20:53what
- 20:53is
- 20:54possible.
- 20:54And
- 20:55I
- 20:55think
- 20:55Your
- 20:55idea
- 20:55of
- 20:56what
- 20:56is
- 20:56possible
- 20:57is
- 20:57a
- 20:57huge
- 20:57part
- 20:58of
- 20:58what
- 20:58you
- 20:59will
- 20:59then
- 20:59even
- 20:59try
- 21:00for.
- 21:00If
- 21:01you
- 21:01don't
- 21:01even
- 21:01try
- 21:01for
- 21:01something
- 21:03that
- 21:03can
- 21:04actually
- 21:04be
- 21:04the
- 21:04biggest
- 21:05thing
- 21:05that
- 21:05will
- 21:05hold
- 21:06some
- 21:06people
- 21:06back.
- 21:06The
- 21:07idea
- 21:07of
- 21:07that's
- 21:08not
- 21:08for
- 21:08people
- 21:08like
- 21:08me,
- 21:10but
- 21:10the
- 21:10flip
- 21:11side
- 21:11of
- 21:11that
- 21:11that
- 21:11you've
- 21:12run
- 21:12into
- 21:12is
- 21:12it
- 21:13can
- 21:13create
- 21:13this,
- 21:14as
- 21:14you
- 21:14say,
- 21:14quite
- 21:15toxic
- 21:16comparison.
- 21:17So
- 21:17when
- 21:18you're
- 21:18surrounding
- 21:18yourself,
- 21:19I
- 21:19mean,
- 21:19you
- 21:19work
- 21:19with
- 21:20Vic
- 21:20every
- 21:20day,
- 21:21you
- 21:21are
- 21:22co
- 21:22founders
- 21:22of
- 21:22a
- 21:23financial
- 21:23education
- 21:23platform,
- 21:24you
- 21:24are
- 21:24talking
- 21:24about
- 21:25money
- 21:25every
- 21:25day,
- 21:25you
- 21:26are
- 21:26surrounding
- 21:26yourself
- 21:27with
- 21:27smart
- 21:27people
- 21:27who
- 21:28are
- 21:28also
- 21:28similarly
- 21:29inclined.
- 21:30How
- 21:30do
- 21:31you
- 21:31put
- 21:31yourself
- 21:31in
- 21:31that
- 21:32position
- 21:32where
- 21:32you're
- 21:32inspired
- 21:33and
- 21:33you're
- 21:33leveling
- 21:34up
- 21:34and
- 21:34you're
- 21:34seeing
- 21:34what's
- 21:35possible
- 21:36without
- 21:36falling
- 21:36into
- 21:36that
- 21:37trap
- 21:37of
- 21:37I
- 21:38feel
- 21:38like
- 21:38an
- 21:38idiot
- 21:38compared
- 21:39to
- 21:39these
- 21:39people.
- 21:40I
- 21:40think
- 21:40comparison
- 21:41has
- 21:41always
- 21:42been
- 21:42something
- 21:43that's
- 21:43plagued
- 21:43me.
- 21:44Whether
- 21:44it's
- 21:44money
- 21:44or
- 21:45other
- 21:45things.
- 21:45You
- 21:45know,
- 21:46I'm
- 21:4634
- 21:46and
- 21:47I'm
- 21:47only
- 21:47now
- 21:47just
- 21:48in
- 21:48a
- 21:48serious
- 21:48relationship
- 21:49with
- 21:49someone
- 21:49that
- 21:49I
- 21:50really
- 21:50love.
- 21:51But
- 21:51I
- 21:51was
- 21:51single
- 21:52for
- 21:52a
- 21:52long
- 21:52time
- 21:52and
- 21:52all
- 21:52my
- 21:53friends
- 21:53were
- 21:53getting
- 21:53married
- 21:53and
- 21:53having
- 21:54kids.
- 21:54And
- 21:54I've
- 21:55always
- 21:55been
- 21:56quite
- 21:56different
- 21:56from
- 21:57the
- 21:57people
- 21:57around
- 21:57me
- 21:58and
- 21:58from
- 21:58people
- 21:58I've
- 21:58grown
- 21:59up
- 21:59with.
- 22:00While
- 22:00I'm
- 22:00really
- 22:01proud
- 22:01of
- 22:01all
- 22:01of
- 22:02the
- 22:02decisions
- 22:02that
- 22:02I've
- 22:02made
- 22:03and
- 22:03all
- 22:03of
- 22:03the
- 22:03things
- 22:04that
- 22:04I've
- 22:04done
- 22:04and
- 22:04the
- 22:05places
- 22:05that
- 22:05I've
- 22:05gone,
- 22:05it's
- 22:06been.
- 22:06Been
- 22:06a
- 22:07really
- 22:07wild,
- 22:08different
- 22:08ride.
- 22:09And
- 22:09I
- 22:09know
- 22:09that
- 22:09that's
- 22:09suited
- 22:10to
- 22:10who
- 22:10I
- 22:10am.
- 22:11But
- 22:11with
- 22:12that
- 22:12comes
- 22:12the
- 22:13comparison
- 22:13piece
- 22:14so
- 22:14often.
- 22:15And
- 22:15I
- 22:15think
- 22:16on
- 22:17the
- 22:17financial
- 22:18side
- 22:18of
- 22:19things,
- 22:19you
- 22:20know,
- 22:20for
- 22:20Vic
- 22:21to
- 22:21go
- 22:21full
- 22:21time
- 22:21in
- 22:22the
- 22:22curve,
- 22:22she
- 22:22wanted
- 22:23to
- 22:23have
- 22:23a
- 22:23hundred
- 22:23thousand
- 22:24invested
- 22:24in
- 22:24the
- 22:25stock
- 22:25market,
- 22:25so
- 22:25she
- 22:25had
- 22:26a
- 22:26buffer.
- 22:27When
- 22:27I
- 22:28went
- 22:28full
- 22:28time
- 22:28in
- 22:28the
- 22:28curve,
- 22:29I
- 22:30had
- 22:30almost
- 22:31no
- 22:31money
- 22:31in
- 22:32my
- 22:32account.
- 22:33I.
- 22:33It
- 22:33was
- 22:34decided
- 22:34overnight
- 22:35with
- 22:35our
- 22:35business
- 22:36advisor.
- 22:36I
- 22:36didn't
- 22:36have
- 22:37time
- 22:37to
- 22:37have
- 22:37a
- 22:37financial
- 22:37plan.
- 22:38I
- 22:38didn't
- 22:38even
- 22:38know
- 22:38what
- 22:39a
- 22:39financial
- 22:39plan
- 22:39was.
- 22:40When
- 22:40we're
- 22:41both
- 22:41coming
- 22:41back
- 22:41to
- 22:41New
- 22:42Zealand
- 22:42and
- 22:42she's
- 22:43going
- 22:43and
- 22:43spending
- 22:43time
- 22:44at
- 22:44her
- 22:44beach
- 22:44house
- 22:45in
- 22:45Maringi
- 22:45that
- 22:46she
- 22:46owns
- 22:46or,
- 22:46you
- 22:47know,
- 22:47she
- 22:47rents
- 22:47out
- 22:48her
- 22:48beautiful
- 22:48home
- 22:49in,
- 22:49in
- 22:49Auckland
- 22:50and
- 22:50gets
- 22:51amazing
- 22:51income
- 22:51from
- 22:52that.
- 22:52I,
- 22:53I'm
- 22:54in
- 22:54a
- 22:54totally
- 22:54different
- 22:55position
- 22:56and
- 22:56there's
- 22:57been
- 22:57times
- 22:57where
- 22:57I
- 22:57do
- 22:57feel
- 22:57jealous
- 22:58of
- 22:58that.
- 22:58I
- 22:58do
- 22:58feel,
- 22:59I,
- 22:59I
- 22:59do
- 22:59feel
- 22:59envious
- 23:00and
- 23:00wish
- 23:00that
- 23:00I
- 23:00had
- 23:01known
- 23:01this
- 23:02more
- 23:02and
- 23:03done
- 23:03better
- 23:04and
- 23:04was
- 23:04in
- 23:04a
- 23:04different
- 23:05position
- 23:05now.
- 23:06I
- 23:06just
- 23:06wish
- 23:06that
- 23:07I
- 23:07had
- 23:07known
- 23:07this
- 23:08sooner.
- 23:08What
- 23:09I
- 23:09come
- 23:09back
- 23:09to
- 23:09is
- 23:10looking
- 23:10at
- 23:10what
- 23:10I've
- 23:10achieved
- 23:11and
- 23:11where
- 23:12I'm
- 23:12going.
- 23:13And
- 23:13I
- 23:13think
- 23:13that
- 23:14it's
- 23:14inspiring
- 23:15to
- 23:15look
- 23:15at
- 23:15the
- 23:15people
- 23:16around
- 23:16you
- 23:16and
- 23:16surround
- 23:16yourself
- 23:17with
- 23:17people
- 23:17that
- 23:17are
- 23:17doing
- 23:18well.
- 23:18I
- 23:18just
- 23:19think
- 23:19you
- 23:19have
- 23:19to
- 23:19totally
- 23:20check
- 23:20in
- 23:20with
- 23:20how
- 23:20you
- 23:21feel
- 23:21around
- 23:21the
- 23:21people.
- 23:22How
- 23:22are
- 23:23they
- 23:23talking
- 23:23to
- 23:23you
- 23:23about
- 23:24stuff?
- 23:24Are
- 23:24you,
- 23:24what,
- 23:25what,
- 23:25what
- 23:25do
- 23:25you
- 23:26feel
- 23:26when
- 23:26you
- 23:26go
- 23:26out
- 23:26for
- 23:26dinner
- 23:26with
- 23:27people
- 23:27who
- 23:27can
- 23:27afford
- 23:28a
- 23:29menu
- 23:29that's
- 23:29five
- 23:29times
- 23:30more.
- 23:30You
- 23:30know,
- 23:30you
- 23:31have
- 23:31to
- 23:31reevaluate
- 23:31the
- 23:32way
- 23:32perhaps
- 23:32you
- 23:33spend
- 23:33time
- 23:33with
- 23:33those
- 23:33people.
- 23:33Maybe
- 23:34it's
- 23:34you
- 23:34go
- 23:34for
- 23:34walks
- 23:35rather
- 23:35than
- 23:35out
- 23:35for
- 23:35dinner.
- 23:36I
- 23:36don't,
- 23:36I
- 23:37don't
- 23:37know
- 23:37if
- 23:37that's
- 23:37a
- 23:37very
- 23:38helpful
- 23:38answer
- 23:38because
- 23:39I
- 23:39haven't,
- 23:39I
- 23:39haven't
- 23:39got
- 23:40it
- 23:40sorted.
- 23:40If
- 23:40I'm
- 23:40being
- 23:41totally
- 23:41honest.
- 23:42I
- 23:42think
- 23:42what
- 23:43I
- 23:43pick
- 23:43up
- 23:43from
- 23:43that
- 23:43is
- 23:44that
- 23:4490%
- 23:44of
- 23:44it
- 23:44is
- 23:44just
- 23:45being
- 23:45aware
- 23:45of
- 23:45it.
- 23:46And
- 23:46I've
- 23:46noticed
- 23:47that
- 23:47because
- 23:47I'm
- 23:48someone
- 23:48who's
- 23:48very
- 23:49ambitious,
- 23:49very
- 23:50motivated
- 23:51and
- 23:51like
- 23:52a
- 23:52lot
- 23:52of
- 23:52my
- 23:53life
- 23:53I
- 23:53can
- 23:53look
- 23:53at
- 23:53and
- 23:53be
- 23:54like,
- 23:54damn,
- 23:54girl.
- 23:55Like
- 23:55you
- 23:55really,
- 23:55you
- 23:56built
- 23:56something
- 23:56like
- 23:57that's
- 23:57really
- 23:57cool
- 23:58in
- 23:58so
- 23:58many
- 23:58different
- 23:58areas.
- 23:59And
- 23:59then
- 24:00there
- 24:00is
- 24:01always
- 24:01someone
- 24:02who
- 24:02is
- 24:02doing
- 24:02better
- 24:02than
- 24:03you
- 24:03in
- 24:03whatever
- 24:04area.
- 24:04I've
- 24:05got
- 24:05a
- 24:05really
- 24:05good
- 24:06friend
- 24:06who
- 24:06makes
- 24:06me
- 24:06feel
- 24:07totally
- 24:07insecure
- 24:07as
- 24:07a
- 24:08mum
- 24:08and
- 24:08I
- 24:08just,
- 24:09I
- 24:09love
- 24:09her
- 24:09to
- 24:10bits,
- 24:11but
- 24:11she
- 24:11went
- 24:12and
- 24:12did
- 24:12a
- 24:12cake
- 24:13making
- 24:13course
- 24:14and
- 24:14like
- 24:14the
- 24:14cakes
- 24:15that
- 24:15she
- 24:15makes
- 24:15for
- 24:15her
- 24:16children's
- 24:16birthdays
- 24:17look
- 24:17professional
- 24:18and
- 24:18it
- 24:19is
- 24:19beautiful.
- 24:19It
- 24:20is
- 24:20like
- 24:20this,
- 24:20this
- 24:20crazy
- 24:21flavor
- 24:21there's.
- 24:22She's
- 24:22done
- 24:22her
- 24:22own
- 24:23paw
- 24:23patrol
- 24:23decorations.
- 24:25It's
- 24:26nuts.
- 24:26And
- 24:26I
- 24:27look
- 24:27at
- 24:27it
- 24:27and
- 24:27I'm
- 24:27like,
- 24:27well,
- 24:28I
- 24:28really
- 24:28regret
- 24:29inviting
- 24:29you
- 24:29to
- 24:29a
- 24:30birthday
- 24:30party
- 24:30and
- 24:31seeing
- 24:31my
- 24:31version
- 24:32of
- 24:32a
- 24:32cake.
- 24:32But
- 24:33she's
- 24:33so
- 24:33lovely.
- 24:33She's
- 24:34such
- 24:34a
- 24:34sweet.
- 24:35And
- 24:36I'm
- 24:37sure
- 24:37that
- 24:37there
- 24:37are
- 24:37some
- 24:38parts
- 24:38of
- 24:38my
- 24:38life
- 24:38that
- 24:38she
- 24:39would
- 24:39look
- 24:39at
- 24:39and
- 24:39feel
- 24:40comparison
- 24:40as
- 24:40well.
- 24:41You
- 24:41know,
- 24:41we're
- 24:41on,
- 24:42we're
- 24:42doing
- 24:42different
- 24:42things
- 24:43and
- 24:44I
- 24:44have
- 24:44found
- 24:44that
- 24:44being
- 24:45just
- 24:45aware
- 24:45of
- 24:46it
- 24:46and
- 24:46being
- 24:46like,
- 24:46oh,
- 24:46that's
- 24:47a
- 24:47me
- 24:47issue
- 24:48has
- 24:48been
- 24:49very
- 24:49helpful
- 24:49for
- 24:50me
- 24:50and
- 24:50just
- 24:50always
- 24:51knowing
- 24:51there
- 24:51will
- 24:51always
- 24:52be
- 24:52someone.
- 24:53And
- 24:54if
- 24:54I
- 24:54want
- 24:54to
- 24:54go
- 24:54on
- 24:54a
- 24:54cake
- 24:55decorating
- 24:55course,
- 24:55maybe
- 24:55I
- 24:56should
- 24:56go
- 24:56with
- 24:56her
- 24:56because
- 24:56she'd
- 24:57know
- 24:57the
- 24:57good
- 24:57ones.
- 24:57It's
- 24:58really
- 24:58interesting
- 24:58because
- 24:59I
- 24:59do
- 24:59think
- 24:59that
- 24:59the
- 25:00times
- 25:00you
- 25:00feel
- 25:00kind
- 25:00of
- 25:00jealous
- 25:01or
- 25:01you
- 25:01feel
- 25:01inferior,
- 25:03it's
- 25:03totally
- 25:04a
- 25:04mirror
- 25:05and
- 25:05it's
- 25:05something
- 25:05you
- 25:06need
- 25:06to
- 25:06look
- 25:06at
- 25:06yourself.
- 25:06So,
- 25:07for
- 25:07example,
- 25:07I
- 25:07am
- 25:08insecure
- 25:08about
- 25:08money.
- 25:09I
- 25:09am
- 25:09insecure
- 25:09about
- 25:10where
- 25:10I
- 25:10am
- 25:11financially
- 25:11compared
- 25:12to
- 25:12a
- 25:12lot
- 25:12of
- 25:12my
- 25:12friends.
- 25:13So
- 25:13I
- 25:14know
- 25:14that
- 25:14when
- 25:14I
- 25:14feel
- 25:15those
- 25:15things,
- 25:15it's
- 25:15a
- 25:15me
- 25:15problem
- 25:16or
- 25:17I
- 25:17look
- 25:17at
- 25:17people
- 25:17around
- 25:18me
- 25:18and
- 25:19I
- 25:19don't
- 25:19have
- 25:19great
- 25:19feelings
- 25:20about
- 25:20it.
- 25:20I
- 25:20need
- 25:21to
- 25:21look
- 25:21at
- 25:21that
- 25:21and
- 25:21go
- 25:21and
- 25:22journal
- 25:22about
- 25:22it
- 25:23or
- 25:23think
- 25:23about
- 25:23it.
- 25:24Because
- 25:24being
- 25:25around
- 25:25people
- 25:25that
- 25:25are
- 25:25doing
- 25:25better
- 25:26than
- 25:26me,
- 25:26I
- 25:26E
- 25:27Beck,
- 25:27who
- 25:28has
- 25:28an
- 25:28incredible
- 25:28investing
- 25:29portfolio,
- 25:30is
- 25:30ultimately
- 25:31positive
- 25:32because
- 25:32it's
- 25:32taught
- 25:33me
- 25:33so
- 25:33much.
- 25:34This
- 25:34episode
- 25:34of
- 25:34Making
- 25:35Sense
- 25:35is
- 25:35supported
- 25:36by
- 25:36Odoo.
- 25:37Be
- 25:37honest,
- 25:38how
- 25:38many
- 25:39subscriptions
- 25:39are
- 25:39you
- 25:39paying
- 25:40for
- 25:40right
- 25:40now
- 25:40to
- 25:41run
- 25:41your
- 25:41business
- 25:41or
- 25:42side
- 25:42hustle?
- 25:43Because
- 25:43I
- 25:43reckon
- 25:44it's
- 25:44more
- 25:44than
- 25:44you'd
- 25:45like
- 25:45to
- 25:45admit
- 25:46and
- 25:46half
- 25:46of
- 25:46them
- 25:47don't
- 25:47even
- 25:47work
- 25:48together.
- 25:49That's
- 25:49exactly
- 25:49why
- 25:50I
- 25:50like
- 25:50Odoo.
- 25:51It's
- 25:51one
- 25:52platform
- 25:52with
- 25:5270
- 25:53apps.
- 25:54Accounting,
- 25:54invoicing,
- 25:55sales,
- 25:56inventory,
- 25:56HR,
- 25:57your
- 25:57website,
- 25:58no
- 25:58extra
- 25:59subscriptions,
- 26:00no
- 26:00new
- 26:00logins.
- 26:01It's
- 26:02all
- 26:02already
- 26:02there,
- 26:03starting
- 26:04from
- 26:04$34.40
- 26:05Aussie
- 26:05dollars
- 26:06per
- 26:06user
- 26:07per
- 26:07month.
- 26:07And
- 26:08the
- 26:08first
- 26:08app
- 26:08is
- 26:09free
- 26:09for
- 26:09life,
- 26:10hosting
- 26:10and
- 26:10support
- 26:11included.
- 26:12Try
- 26:12it
- 26:12for
- 26:12free
- 26:13for
- 26:1315
- 26:13days.
- 26:14No
- 26:15card
- 26:15details
- 26:15needed.
- 26:16Go
- 26:16to
- 26:16odoo.com
- 26:18that's
- 26:18O
- 26:18D
- 26:18double
- 26:19O
- 26:20to
- 26:20dig
- 26:21further
- 26:21into
- 26:21your
- 26:21insecurities.
- 26:22Sorry.
- 26:22No,
- 26:23it's
- 26:23fine.
- 26:24Hang
- 26:24me
- 26:24out
- 26:24to
- 26:24dry.
- 26:25I'm
- 26:25fine
- 26:25with
- 26:25that.
- 26:26In
- 26:26a
- 26:26loving,
- 26:27safe
- 26:27space.
- 26:29But
- 26:29you,
- 26:30you
- 26:30know,
- 26:30you
- 26:31mentioned
- 26:31before
- 26:31about
- 26:31you're
- 26:31someone
- 26:32who's
- 26:32been
- 26:32in
- 26:32a
- 26:32lot
- 26:32of
- 26:32debt
- 26:33before
- 26:33and
- 26:33yeah,
- 26:34that's
- 26:34super
- 26:34interesting
- 26:34to
- 26:35me
- 26:35because
- 26:35I
- 26:35only
- 26:35just
- 26:36realized
- 26:36you
- 26:36put
- 26:36up
- 26:36a
- 26:36social
- 26:37post
- 26:37the
- 26:37other
- 26:37day
- 26:37and
- 26:38I
- 26:38was
- 26:38like,
- 26:38wow,
- 26:38I
- 26:38had
- 26:38no
- 26:39idea
- 26:39about
- 26:39this
- 26:39one
- 26:41$50,000
- 26:42post.
- 26:42Christchurch
- 26:43quakes.
- 26:43Have
- 26:44I
- 26:44got
- 26:44the
- 26:44details
- 26:44right?
- 26:45Hit
- 26:45me
- 26:45with
- 26:45the
- 26:45proper
- 26:46story.
- 26:46Jesus.
- 26:49Right,
- 26:50so
- 26:50throughout
- 26:51this
- 26:51conversation,
- 26:51as
- 26:52I've
- 26:52been
- 26:52talking
- 26:52about
- 26:52being
- 26:53a
- 26:53disaster
- 26:53or
- 26:53having
- 26:54disasters,
- 26:54this
- 26:54was
- 26:54probably
- 26:55the
- 26:55worst.
- 26:56Well,
- 26:56there
- 26:56was
- 26:56a
- 26:56literal
- 26:56disaster
- 26:57at
- 26:57the
- 26:57core
- 26:57of
- 26:57this.
- 26:57Yeah,
- 26:58it
- 26:58was
- 26:58a
- 26:58literal
- 26:58disaster.
- 26:58And,
- 26:59you
- 26:59know,
- 26:59the
- 26:59earthquake
- 27:00and
- 27:00what
- 27:00happened
- 27:00was
- 27:01devastating
- 27:01for
- 27:01me
- 27:02and.
- 27:03But
- 27:04people
- 27:04lost
- 27:04loved
- 27:05ones,
- 27:05so
- 27:05it's
- 27:05so
- 27:05easy
- 27:06to
- 27:06say
- 27:06what
- 27:06happened
- 27:07to
- 27:07me
- 27:07was
- 27:07awful,
- 27:07but
- 27:08there's
- 27:08people
- 27:08that
- 27:09have
- 27:09it
- 27:09worse
- 27:09always.
- 27:10However,
- 27:12what
- 27:12happened
- 27:13to
- 27:13me
- 27:13was
- 27:13essentially
- 27:14I
- 27:14moved
- 27:14into
- 27:14a
- 27:15flat.
- 27:15A
- 27:15week
- 27:16after
- 27:16that,
- 27:18the
- 27:18earthquake
- 27:19happened.
- 27:19The
- 27:19big
- 27:192011
- 27:20one.
- 27:21I
- 27:21was
- 27:21at
- 27:22broadcasting
- 27:22school
- 27:22at
- 27:23the
- 27:23time.
- 27:23I'd
- 27:23move
- 27:24everything
- 27:24I
- 27:24own,
- 27:25all
- 27:25of
- 27:25my
- 27:2521st
- 27:26jewellery,
- 27:27all
- 27:27of
- 27:27my
- 27:27clothing,
- 27:28all
- 27:28the
- 27:28things
- 27:28I
- 27:28bought,
- 27:29a
- 27:29new
- 27:29microwave,
- 27:30you
- 27:30know,
- 27:31all
- 27:31of
- 27:31my
- 27:31items
- 27:32that
- 27:32I
- 27:33owned
- 27:33were
- 27:33in
- 27:33this
- 27:33flat
- 27:34that
- 27:34then
- 27:35lost
- 27:35two
- 27:35of
- 27:36its
- 27:36four
- 27:36walls
- 27:36and
- 27:37was
- 27:37in
- 27:37the
- 27:38red
- 27:38zone.
- 27:38So
- 27:38I
- 27:38was
- 27:38condemned
- 27:39for
- 27:39a
- 27:39year.
- 27:39So
- 27:40I
- 27:40couldn't
- 27:40get
- 27:40access
- 27:40to
- 27:40anything
- 27:41in
- 27:41there
- 27:41you
- 27:41couldn't
- 27:41get.
- 27:42Even
- 27:42the
- 27:42sentimental
- 27:42stuff.
- 27:43No,
- 27:43nothing.
- 27:44So
- 27:44I
- 27:45flew
- 27:45out
- 27:45of
- 27:45Christchurch
- 27:46wearing
- 27:46what
- 27:47I
- 27:47had
- 27:47on
- 27:47my
- 27:47body
- 27:48and
- 27:49I
- 27:49got
- 27:49a
- 27:49credit
- 27:50card
- 27:50to
- 27:50buy
- 27:50the
- 27:51essentials,
- 27:51to
- 27:51buy
- 27:51a
- 27:51new
- 27:52wardrobe.
- 27:52Basically.
- 27:53I
- 27:53went
- 27:53to
- 27:53Melbourne
- 27:54to
- 27:54stay
- 27:54with
- 27:54a
- 27:54friend
- 27:55and
- 27:55I
- 27:56was
- 27:56getting
- 27:56a
- 27:56new
- 27:56wardrobe.
- 27:57That's
- 27:57when
- 27:57I
- 27:57was
- 27:57there
- 27:57to
- 27:57see
- 27:58her
- 27:58and
- 27:58get
- 27:58new
- 27:58clothes.
- 27:59How
- 27:59privileged.
- 28:00But
- 28:01also
- 28:01I
- 28:01was
- 28:01spending
- 28:02money
- 28:02that
- 28:02wasn't
- 28:02mine,
- 28:03it
- 28:03was
- 28:03a
- 28:03credit
- 28:04card.
- 28:04And
- 28:04I
- 28:04racked
- 28:05up
- 28:05just
- 28:06under
- 28:06$20,000.
- 28:07And
- 28:08what
- 28:08happened
- 28:08was
- 28:08I
- 28:09had
- 28:0910
- 28:09days
- 28:09basically
- 28:10of
- 28:10shopping
- 28:10with
- 28:10this
- 28:11credit
- 28:11card.
- 28:12Nice
- 28:12work.
- 28:13And
- 28:13I
- 28:13started
- 28:13with
- 28:13the
- 28:13essentials.
- 28:14I
- 28:14started
- 28:14with
- 28:14jeans,
- 28:15I
- 28:15started
- 28:15with
- 28:15tops,
- 28:15I
- 28:15started
- 28:16with
- 28:16the
- 28:16basics
- 28:16and
- 28:16then
- 28:17it
- 28:17just
- 28:17spiraled
- 28:18and
- 28:18I
- 28:18was
- 28:18buying,
- 28:18you
- 28:18know,
- 28:18the
- 28:19leather
- 28:19miniskirt
- 28:20that
- 28:20I
- 28:20needed
- 28:20for
- 28:21essentials
- 28:21and
- 28:21heels
- 28:22and
- 28:22stupid
- 28:22things.
- 28:23And
- 28:23yeah,
- 28:24it
- 28:24was
- 28:25quite
- 28:25devastating
- 28:26financially.
- 28:26And
- 28:27my
- 28:27parents
- 28:27were
- 28:28absolutely
- 28:30gobsmacked.
- 28:31Like,
- 28:31how
- 28:31did
- 28:31this
- 28:31happen?
- 28:32At
- 28:32that
- 28:33point,
- 28:33I
- 28:33hadn't
- 28:33earned
- 28:33my
- 28:34own
- 28:34money.
- 28:34I
- 28:34hadn't
- 28:35actually
- 28:35had
- 28:35a
- 28:35job
- 28:35and
- 28:36I
- 28:36do
- 28:36think
- 28:36that
- 28:36that
- 28:37is
- 28:37like
- 28:37I
- 28:37had
- 28:38small
- 28:38jobs
- 28:38over
- 28:38summer,
- 28:39like
- 28:39housekeeping
- 28:40for
- 28:40three
- 28:41weeks,
- 28:41whatever,
- 28:41but
- 28:42I
- 28:42wasn't
- 28:42constantly
- 28:43thinking,
- 28:43oh,
- 28:44that's
- 28:45seven
- 28:45years
- 28:46of
- 28:46working
- 28:46full
- 28:46time
- 28:47at
- 28:47my
- 28:48$15
- 28:49an
- 28:49hour
- 28:49rate
- 28:51making
- 28:51beds.
- 28:52Do
- 28:52you
- 28:52know
- 28:52what
- 28:52I
- 28:52mean?
- 28:52So
- 28:53I
- 28:53think
- 28:53that
- 28:54that
- 28:54had
- 28:54a
- 28:54huge
- 28:54amount
- 28:55to
- 28:55do
- 28:55with
- 28:56spending
- 28:57without
- 28:57concept
- 28:57of
- 28:57how
- 28:58much
- 28:58that
- 28:58was.
- 28:59Yeah,
- 28:59yeah,
- 28:59that
- 29:00makes
- 29:00a
- 29:00lot
- 29:00of
- 29:00sense.
- 29:01So
- 29:01did
- 29:01that
- 29:01end
- 29:02up
- 29:02going
- 29:02up
- 29:02from
- 29:03the,
- 29:03like,
- 29:03interest
- 29:03and
- 29:04fees
- 29:04and
- 29:04things,
- 29:05or
- 29:05did
- 29:05you?
- 29:07I
- 29:07was
- 29:07really
- 29:07lucky
- 29:08with
- 29:08that,
- 29:08that
- 29:08insurance
- 29:09came
- 29:09through
- 29:10for
- 29:10a
- 29:10portion
- 29:10of
- 29:10it,
- 29:11so
- 29:11I
- 29:11didn't
- 29:11have
- 29:11to
- 29:12pay
- 29:12the
- 29:12full
- 29:1220,000
- 29:13dol.
- 29:14In
- 29:14my
- 29:14defence,
- 29:14I
- 29:14was
- 29:15spending
- 29:15thinking
- 29:16all
- 29:16of
- 29:16it
- 29:16would
- 29:17be
- 29:17paid
- 29:17back
- 29:17by
- 29:17insurance
- 29:18because
- 29:18I
- 29:18didn't
- 29:18understand
- 29:18how
- 29:19insurance
- 29:19worked.
- 29:19I
- 29:19didn't,
- 29:20you
- 29:20know,
- 29:20I.
- 29:21Again,
- 29:21that
- 29:21was
- 29:21just
- 29:22an
- 29:22entire
- 29:22blind
- 29:22spot
- 29:23for
- 29:23me.
- 29:23So
- 29:24now
- 29:24if
- 29:25this
- 29:25happened,
- 29:25I
- 29:25would
- 29:25be
- 29:26looking
- 29:26at
- 29:26the
- 29:26fine
- 29:26print
- 29:27of
- 29:27my
- 29:27insurance
- 29:28and
- 29:28I
- 29:28would
- 29:28see,
- 29:29am
- 29:29I
- 29:29covered?
- 29:30If
- 29:31so,
- 29:31how
- 29:31much
- 29:31for
- 29:33how
- 29:33long
- 29:33is
- 29:33it
- 29:33going
- 29:33to
- 29:33take
- 29:34them
- 29:34to
- 29:34pay
- 29:34me
- 29:34back?
- 29:34You
- 29:35know,
- 29:35like,
- 29:35all
- 29:35those
- 29:35things
- 29:35are
- 29:36really
- 29:36important
- 29:37and
- 29:37I
- 29:37just
- 29:38didn't
- 29:38think
- 29:38about
- 29:38them.
- 29:39Yeah,
- 29:40yeah.
- 29:40And
- 29:40I
- 29:41think
- 29:41part
- 29:41of
- 29:41it
- 29:41is
- 29:42age,
- 29:42like
- 29:42you
- 29:43say,
- 29:43experience
- 29:44having
- 29:44earned
- 29:45money.
- 29:45But
- 29:45also,
- 29:46do
- 29:46you
- 29:46think
- 29:46some
- 29:46of
- 29:46it
- 29:47was,
- 29:47you
- 29:47know,
- 29:47after
- 29:48the
- 29:48earthquakes?
- 29:49But
- 29:49just
- 29:49being
- 29:50there
- 29:50at
- 29:50all,
- 29:50I
- 29:51think
- 29:51would
- 29:51be
- 29:52quite
- 29:52traumatic.
- 29:53And
- 29:53having
- 29:53all
- 29:53your
- 29:54stuff
- 29:54lost,
- 29:55do
- 29:56you
- 29:56think
- 29:56there
- 29:56was
- 29:56a
- 29:56little
- 29:56element
- 29:57of
- 29:57that
- 29:57too,
- 29:57that
- 29:57was
- 29:58impacting
- 29:58trauma
- 29:58response?
- 29:59Yeah,
- 29:59probably.
- 30:00I
- 30:00mean,
- 30:00I
- 30:01Think
- 30:01about
- 30:01that
- 30:01now.
- 30:02I
- 30:02mean,
- 30:02straight
- 30:02after
- 30:03it
- 30:03happened,
- 30:03we
- 30:03were
- 30:03all
- 30:03wandering
- 30:04the
- 30:04streets
- 30:04with
- 30:04these,
- 30:05like,
- 30:05blankets
- 30:06around
- 30:06our
- 30:06shoulders,
- 30:07looking
- 30:07at
- 30:07these
- 30:07ginormous
- 30:08roads
- 30:09that
- 30:09have
- 30:09cracks
- 30:09for
- 30:104
- 30:10meters.
- 30:10You
- 30:11know,
- 30:11like,
- 30:11it
- 30:11was,
- 30:11it
- 30:12was
- 30:12like
- 30:12apocalyptic.
- 30:13It
- 30:13looked
- 30:14like
- 30:14a
- 30:14scary
- 30:15movie.
- 30:16There
- 30:16were
- 30:16people
- 30:16trapped
- 30:16in
- 30:17buildings.
- 30:17It
- 30:17was,
- 30:18I
- 30:18had
- 30:18trauma
- 30:18around
- 30:18my
- 30:19phone
- 30:19not
- 30:19being
- 30:19charged
- 30:20for
- 30:20full,
- 30:21you
- 30:21know,
- 30:22for
- 30:22years
- 30:22because
- 30:23there
- 30:23were
- 30:23these
- 30:23people
- 30:23trapped
- 30:24in
- 30:24buildings
- 30:24and
- 30:24as
- 30:24soon
- 30:24as
- 30:25their
- 30:25phone
- 30:25died,
- 30:25no
- 30:25one
- 30:25knew
- 30:26where
- 30:26they
- 30:26were.
- 30:26You
- 30:26know,
- 30:27it
- 30:27was
- 30:27pretty
- 30:27awful.
- 30:28So,
- 30:29yes,
- 30:29I
- 30:29would
- 30:29say
- 30:29there
- 30:29probably
- 30:30was
- 30:30an
- 30:30element
- 30:31of
- 30:31that.
- 30:31Yeah,
- 30:32I,
- 30:32I
- 30:32would
- 30:32think
- 30:33so.
- 30:33If
- 30:34I'd
- 30:34been
- 30:34in
- 30:34that
- 30:34situation,
- 30:35I
- 30:35don't
- 30:35think
- 30:35I'd
- 30:35be
- 30:35making
- 30:35very
- 30:36smart
- 30:36decisions
- 30:36afterwards.
- 30:37No.
- 30:37And
- 30:37I
- 30:37think
- 30:38that's
- 30:38another
- 30:38thing,
- 30:38you
- 30:38know,
- 30:39when
- 30:39you
- 30:39start
- 30:39to
- 30:39look
- 30:39at
- 30:40how
- 30:40you're
- 30:40spending
- 30:40money
- 30:40and
- 30:41you
- 30:41see
- 30:41your
- 30:41emotional
- 30:42responses.
- 30:42So,
- 30:42for
- 30:43example,
- 30:43when
- 30:43you
- 30:43spend,
- 30:44how
- 30:44do
- 30:44you
- 30:44feel?
- 30:45And
- 30:45this
- 30:45is
- 30:45something
- 30:45you
- 30:46spoke
- 30:46about
- 30:46on
- 30:46our
- 30:46podcast
- 30:47years
- 30:47ago,
- 30:47and
- 30:48it
- 30:48was
- 30:48so
- 30:48helpful
- 30:49for
- 30:49me.
- 30:50Just
- 30:50reflecting
- 30:50on
- 30:51how
- 30:51you
- 30:51feel
- 30:51when
- 30:51you
- 30:51spend
- 30:52money
- 30:52and,
- 30:53and
- 30:53do
- 30:53you
- 30:53feel
- 30:53good
- 30:53or
- 30:54bad?
- 30:54I
- 30:54feel
- 30:54amazing
- 30:55when
- 30:55I
- 30:55spend
- 30:55$100
- 30:56on
- 30:56a
- 30:56nut
- 30:57butter
- 30:57in
- 30:57an
- 30:57organic
- 30:57shop,
- 30:58but
- 30:58I
- 30:58feel
- 30:59terrible
- 30:59when
- 30:59I
- 31:00spend
- 31:00it
- 31:00on
- 31:00a
- 31:00pink
- 31:01dress
- 31:01from
- 31:01Ruby,
- 31:01you
- 31:01know,
- 31:02so
- 31:02it's,
- 31:03it's,
- 31:03it's,
- 31:03it's
- 31:03just
- 31:04like
- 31:04figuring
- 31:04out
- 31:04for
- 31:04you
- 31:05how
- 31:05you
- 31:05feel
- 31:05good
- 31:05and
- 31:06noticing
- 31:07when
- 31:07you
- 31:07go
- 31:07and
- 31:07splash
- 31:08out.
- 31:08Because
- 31:08I
- 31:08do
- 31:08have
- 31:09times
- 31:09where
- 31:09either
- 31:09I'll
- 31:10go
- 31:10and
- 31:10put
- 31:11my
- 31:11head
- 31:11in
- 31:11a
- 31:11bag
- 31:12of
- 31:12salt
- 31:12and
- 31:12vinegar
- 31:13chips
- 31:13because
- 31:13I'm
- 31:13feeling
- 31:13emotionally
- 31:14stressed,
- 31:14or
- 31:14I'll
- 31:15go
- 31:15and
- 31:15spend
- 31:15money
- 31:15and
- 31:16once
- 31:16the
- 31:16floodgates
- 31:17are
- 31:17open,
- 31:17I
- 31:17find
- 31:17it
- 31:17really
- 31:18hard
- 31:18to
- 31:18stop.
- 31:18So
- 31:19you
- 31:19did
- 31:19have
- 31:19insurance
- 31:19come
- 31:19through
- 31:20for
- 31:20helping
- 31:20you
- 31:20pay
- 31:20off
- 31:20some
- 31:21of
- 31:21that
- 31:21debt.
- 31:22How
- 31:22did
- 31:22you
- 31:22get
- 31:22rid
- 31:23of
- 31:23the
- 31:23rest
- 31:23of
- 31:23it?
- 31:23How
- 31:23long
- 31:23did
- 31:24it
- 31:24take
- 31:24you?
- 31:24What's
- 31:24your
- 31:24favorite
- 31:25debt
- 31:25repayment
- 31:26strategy?
- 31:27Quick
- 31:27wins
- 31:28for
- 31:28me,
- 31:28as
- 31:28a
- 31:29neurodiver
- 31:29scowl,
- 31:30I
- 31:31need
- 31:31some
- 31:32kind
- 31:32of
- 31:32sort
- 31:32of
- 31:32tick
- 31:33off.
- 31:33So
- 31:34doing
- 31:34the
- 31:34smaller
- 31:35first
- 31:35and
- 31:35then
- 31:36moving
- 31:36to
- 31:36bigger
- 31:36ones
- 31:37worked
- 31:37for
- 31:37me
- 31:37for
- 31:38a
- 31:38period
- 31:38of
- 31:38time.
- 31:38Cool.
- 31:39So
- 31:39you
- 31:39target
- 31:39those
- 31:40smaller
- 31:40dats,
- 31:40snipe
- 31:41them
- 31:41out,
- 31:41get
- 31:41that
- 31:42win
- 31:42of
- 31:42like
- 31:43goddess.
- 31:43Yeah,
- 31:44the
- 31:44dopamine
- 31:44hit
- 31:44of
- 31:44crossing
- 31:45something
- 31:45out
- 31:45for
- 31:46me
- 31:46was
- 31:46great,
- 31:47but
- 31:47the
- 31:48more
- 31:48educated
- 31:49I
- 31:49became
- 31:49with
- 31:49how
- 31:50detrimental
- 31:51high
- 31:51interest
- 31:51debt
- 31:52was
- 31:52and
- 31:53how
- 31:53much
- 31:53that
- 31:54was
- 31:54massively
- 31:54holding
- 31:55me
- 31:55back,
- 31:55I
- 31:55swapped
- 31:56and
- 31:56I
- 31:56did
- 31:56do
- 31:57some
- 31:57of
- 31:57the.
- 31:57Is
- 31:57it
- 31:58the
- 31:58avalanche
- 31:59Avalanche
- 31:59where
- 32:00you.
- 32:00Target
- 32:00the
- 32:00high
- 32:00interest
- 32:01debts,
- 32:02Smack
- 32:02all
- 32:02your
- 32:02extra
- 32:02payments
- 32:03on
- 32:03that.
- 32:03Yeah.
- 32:04So
- 32:04I
- 32:05think
- 32:06in
- 32:07answer
- 32:07to
- 32:07your
- 32:07question,
- 32:08I've
- 32:08Tried
- 32:08many
- 32:08different
- 32:09things.
- 32:10I
- 32:10think
- 32:10when
- 32:10it
- 32:11comes
- 32:11to
- 32:11debt,
- 32:11I
- 32:12think
- 32:12that
- 32:12it
- 32:13can
- 32:13feel
- 32:14really
- 32:14shameful.
- 32:15You
- 32:15kind
- 32:16of
- 32:16just
- 32:16have
- 32:16to
- 32:16accept
- 32:16the
- 32:17fact
- 32:17that
- 32:17that's
- 32:17where
- 32:17you're
- 32:18at
- 32:18and
- 32:18you
- 32:18just
- 32:18have
- 32:18to
- 32:18work
- 32:19your
- 32:19way
- 32:19out
- 32:19of
- 32:19it.
- 32:19Because
- 32:20life
- 32:20is
- 32:20long
- 32:20and
- 32:21if
- 32:21you're
- 32:2130
- 32:21and
- 32:22you're
- 32:22in
- 32:22debt,
- 32:22you've
- 32:22got
- 32:23hopefully
- 32:23at
- 32:23least
- 32:2450,
- 32:24if
- 32:24not
- 32:24more
- 32:25years
- 32:25of
- 32:25living.
- 32:27You
- 32:27know,
- 32:27money
- 32:27is
- 32:28not
- 32:28a
- 32:28quick
- 32:28one.
- 32:29It's
- 32:29not
- 32:29something
- 32:29that
- 32:29you
- 32:29can
- 32:30sort
- 32:30out
- 32:30overnight.
- 32:30It
- 32:31does
- 32:31take
- 32:31time.
- 32:31And
- 32:31I
- 32:32think
- 32:32that
- 32:32for
- 32:32me,
- 32:33looking
- 32:33back
- 32:33the
- 32:33last
- 32:33five
- 32:34years,
- 32:34I've
- 32:34now
- 32:35done
- 32:35a
- 32:35lot.
- 32:35What's
- 32:35that
- 32:35saying?
- 32:36It's
- 32:36like
- 32:37you
- 32:37overestimate
- 32:37what
- 32:37you
- 32:38can
- 32:38do
- 32:38in
- 32:38here,
- 32:38but
- 32:38you
- 32:38underestimate
- 32:39what
- 32:39you
- 32:39can
- 32:39do
- 32:39in
- 32:39five
- 32:40years.
- 32:40And
- 32:40I
- 32:40do
- 32:40think
- 32:41that's
- 32:41a
- 32:41really
- 32:41valuable
- 32:42piece
- 32:42to
- 32:42anyone
- 32:43particularly
- 32:43that's
- 32:44in
- 32:44debt.
- 32:44Do
- 32:44you
- 32:44think
- 32:44as
- 32:45well
- 32:45there's
- 32:45a
- 32:46certain
- 32:46confidence
- 32:46that
- 32:47you
- 32:47can
- 32:47get
- 32:47from,
- 32:48okay,
- 32:48you've
- 32:49had
- 32:49these
- 32:51steaks
- 32:53where
- 32:53you've,
- 32:53you've
- 32:54made
- 32:54a
- 32:54boo
- 32:54boo
- 32:55and
- 32:55it's
- 32:55not
- 32:55gone
- 32:56well
- 32:56and
- 32:56you've
- 32:56had
- 32:57to
- 32:57dig
- 32:57yourself
- 32:57out
- 32:57of
- 32:57it.
- 32:58But
- 32:58do
- 32:58you
- 32:59also
- 32:59think
- 32:59there's
- 32:59a
- 32:59flip
- 33:00side
- 33:00to
- 33:00that
- 33:01where
- 33:01it
- 33:01gives
- 33:02you
- 33:02the
- 33:02confidence
- 33:02of,
- 33:03I've
- 33:03gotten
- 33:03out
- 33:03of
- 33:04things
- 33:04before,
- 33:04I
- 33:04can
- 33:04do
- 33:05it
- 33:05again?
- 33:05Yeah,
- 33:06I
- 33:06think
- 33:06that.
- 33:07And
- 33:07I
- 33:07went
- 33:07to
- 33:07a
- 33:08talk
- 33:08not
- 33:08that
- 33:08long
- 33:08ago
- 33:09in
- 33:09London.
- 33:09There
- 33:09was
- 33:10this
- 33:10woman
- 33:10who'd
- 33:10done
- 33:11all
- 33:11this
- 33:11research.
- 33:11She
- 33:11was
- 33:12based
- 33:12in
- 33:12Edinburgh
- 33:12University.
- 33:13And
- 33:13it
- 33:14was
- 33:14about
- 33:14the
- 33:14reason
- 33:14why
- 33:16the
- 33:16gender
- 33:16pay
- 33:16gap,
- 33:17the,
- 33:18the
- 33:19kiwisaver
- 33:20or
- 33:20retirement
- 33:21gap.
- 33:21You
- 33:21know,
- 33:21we
- 33:21have
- 33:2240%
- 33:22less
- 33:22than,
- 33:23you
- 33:23know,
- 33:23I
- 33:23mean,
- 33:24all
- 33:24of
- 33:24those
- 33:24sorts
- 33:24of
- 33:24things.
- 33:25And
- 33:25she
- 33:25was
- 33:25looking
- 33:25at
- 33:26some
- 33:26of
- 33:26the
- 33:26things
- 33:27that
- 33:27we
- 33:27could
- 33:27do.
- 33:27And
- 33:28one
- 33:28of
- 33:29the
- 33:29biggest
- 33:29takeaways
- 33:29for
- 33:29me
- 33:30was
- 33:30the
- 33:30idea
- 33:30that
- 33:30a
- 33:30lot
- 33:31of
- 33:31us,
- 33:31particularly
- 33:32women,
- 33:33learn,
- 33:33learn,
- 33:33learn,
- 33:34feel
- 33:34like
- 33:34we
- 33:34need
- 33:34to
- 33:34do
- 33:35absolutely
- 33:35everything
- 33:35before
- 33:35we
- 33:36do,
- 33:36do,
- 33:36do.
- 33:36And
- 33:37actually
- 33:37doing
- 33:38is
- 33:38the
- 33:38best
- 33:38place
- 33:39to
- 33:39build
- 33:39confidence.
- 33:40So
- 33:41obviously
- 33:41don't
- 33:41go
- 33:41and
- 33:42chuck
- 33:42all
- 33:42of
- 33:43your
- 33:43investment
- 33:43money
- 33:43in
- 33:43one
- 33:44stock.
- 33:44But
- 33:45it
- 33:45might
- 33:45be
- 33:45as
- 33:45simple
- 33:46as
- 33:46finding
- 33:46a
- 33:47small
- 33:47amount,
- 33:48putting
- 33:48in
- 33:48an
- 33:48index
- 33:49fund,
- 33:49or,
- 33:49you
- 33:49know,
- 33:50tracking
- 33:50the
- 33:51market
- 33:51like
- 33:51the
- 33:51s
- 33:51and
- 33:52P500,
- 33:52even
- 33:52if
- 33:52it's
- 33:52like
- 33:53$5.
- 33:54This
- 33:54is
- 33:54not
- 33:55advice.
- 33:56But
- 33:57the
- 33:57more
- 33:57that
- 33:58you
- 33:58do,
- 33:58the
- 33:59more
- 33:59confidence
- 33:59you
- 34:00build.
- 34:00And
- 34:00I
- 34:01wholeheartedly
- 34:02think
- 34:02that
- 34:02that's
- 34:03true.
- 34:03The
- 34:03more
- 34:03that
- 34:03I've
- 34:04seen
- 34:04myself
- 34:04do,
- 34:04the
- 34:05more
- 34:05confidence
- 34:05I
- 34:05have
- 34:05in
- 34:05myself.
- 34:06To
- 34:06do
- 34:06more
- 34:07hundred
- 34:07percent.
- 34:08And
- 34:08as
- 34:09well,
- 34:09I
- 34:09think
- 34:09from
- 34:09someone
- 34:09who's
- 34:10had
- 34:10that
- 34:10bad
- 34:10experience
- 34:10with
- 34:11that,
- 34:12chipped
- 34:12away,
- 34:12got
- 34:12rid
- 34:13of
- 34:13it
- 34:13and
- 34:13now
- 34:13you've
- 34:14moved
- 34:14into
- 34:14having
- 34:15investment
- 34:15properties.
- 34:17Was
- 34:17there
- 34:17a
- 34:18little
- 34:18bit
- 34:18of
- 34:18a
- 34:18mental
- 34:18flip
- 34:19there
- 34:19to
- 34:19be
- 34:19like,
- 34:19oh,
- 34:19I'm
- 34:19taking
- 34:20on
- 34:20debt
- 34:20again?
- 34:20Was
- 34:20there
- 34:21any
- 34:21moment
- 34:21of.
- 34:22No,
- 34:22that
- 34:22was
- 34:22good
- 34:22because
- 34:22you
- 34:23knew
- 34:23it
- 34:23was
- 34:23good
- 34:23stuff.
- 34:23It's
- 34:24so
- 34:24interesting.
- 34:24I
- 34:25have
- 34:25a
- 34:25very
- 34:25high
- 34:25risk
- 34:25tolerance.
- 34:26I
- 34:26think
- 34:26I'm
- 34:27not
- 34:27stressed
- 34:27at
- 34:28the
- 34:28idea
- 34:28of
- 34:28having
- 34:28good
- 34:29debt.
- 34:29So
- 34:29I
- 34:30e.
- 34:30A
- 34:30mortgage
- 34:31Vic,
- 34:31when
- 34:31she
- 34:31looks
- 34:32at
- 34:32her
- 34:32account,
- 34:32stresses
- 34:33out,
- 34:33hates
- 34:33it,
- 34:34like,
- 34:34really
- 34:34struggles.
- 34:35I
- 34:36have
- 34:37had
- 34:37no
- 34:37issue
- 34:38to
- 34:38the
- 34:39point
- 34:39where
- 34:39I
- 34:39probably
- 34:39will
- 34:39do
- 34:39a
- 34:40third
- 34:40this
- 34:40year
- 34:41and
- 34:41leverage
- 34:42again
- 34:42and
- 34:42refinance
- 34:43and
- 34:43then
- 34:44go
- 34:44again.
- 34:44Yeah,
- 34:45I
- 34:45have
- 34:45no
- 34:45issue
- 34:45with
- 34:45it.
- 34:46And
- 34:46maybe
- 34:46it's
- 34:46the
- 34:46idea
- 34:47of
- 34:47feeling
- 34:47like
- 34:47I
- 34:47need
- 34:47to
- 34:47catch
- 34:48up.
- 34:48So
- 34:48I'm
- 34:48really
- 34:48have
- 34:49no
- 34:49issue
- 34:49with
- 34:50doubling
- 34:50down
- 34:50on
- 34:50the
- 34:51risk
- 34:51front.
- 34:51You
- 34:51know,
- 34:51for
- 34:51me,
- 34:52I
- 34:52find
- 34:52crypto
- 34:53really
- 34:53interesting,
- 34:53and
- 34:54I
- 34:54find
- 34:55investments
- 34:55that
- 34:55are
- 34:55perhaps
- 34:56more
- 34:56risky
- 34:57interesting,
- 34:58and
- 34:59I'm
- 34:59happy
- 34:59to
- 34:59take
- 34:59those
- 34:59bets.
- 35:00So,
- 35:00yeah,
- 35:00in
- 35:01terms
- 35:01of
- 35:01debt
- 35:02and
- 35:02mortgage,
- 35:02No,
- 35:03I
- 35:03also
- 35:03don't
- 35:03have
- 35:04my
- 35:04mortgage
- 35:04with
- 35:04my
- 35:05everyday
- 35:05account.
- 35:06Like,
- 35:06I
- 35:06can't
- 35:06see
- 35:06it
- 35:06when
- 35:07I
- 35:07log
- 35:07in.
- 35:07And
- 35:07I
- 35:07think
- 35:07that
- 35:08helps
- 35:08psychologically.
- 35:10So
- 35:10much
- 35:10of
- 35:11it
- 35:11does
- 35:11come
- 35:11back
- 35:11to
- 35:11money
- 35:12psychology,
- 35:12though,
- 35:12right.
- 35:13When
- 35:13you
- 35:13were
- 35:13saying
- 35:13about
- 35:13your
- 35:14risk
- 35:14tolerance
- 35:14and
- 35:14you're
- 35:15fine
- 35:15with
- 35:15it
- 35:15and
- 35:15you're
- 35:16like,
- 35:16let's
- 35:16go.
- 35:18I
- 35:18understand
- 35:18money
- 35:19now
- 35:19much
- 35:20more
- 35:20than
- 35:20I
- 35:20did.
- 35:21I
- 35:21understand
- 35:21that
- 35:22to
- 35:22build
- 35:22wealth,
- 35:22you
- 35:23like
- 35:23to
- 35:23be
- 35:24able
- 35:24to
- 35:24leverage
- 35:24from
- 35:24a
- 35:24bank
- 35:25and
- 35:25to
- 35:25be
- 35:25able
- 35:25to
- 35:25use
- 35:25that
- 35:25money
- 35:26to
- 35:26catapult
- 35:27returns.
- 35:27Incredible,
- 35:29amazing
- 35:29opportunity.
- 35:30Worth
- 35:31the
- 35:31headache
- 35:31of
- 35:32getting
- 35:32your
- 35:32mortgage
- 35:32and
- 35:32jumping
- 35:33through
- 35:33the
- 35:33hoops.
- 35:33You
- 35:33have
- 35:34to,
- 35:34you
- 35:34know,
- 35:34because
- 35:34the
- 35:34power
- 35:35of
- 35:35knowledge.
- 35:35Yeah,
- 35:36the
- 35:36power
- 35:36of
- 35:36knowledge.
- 35:36I
- 35:36think
- 35:37it's.
- 35:37Yeah,
- 35:37it's
- 35:38just
- 35:38changed
- 35:38the
- 35:38way
- 35:39I
- 35:39think
- 35:39about
- 35:39everything.
- 35:40I
- 35:41say
- 35:41this
- 35:41all
- 35:41the
- 35:41time.
- 35:42First
- 35:42thing
- 35:42to
- 35:43invest
- 35:43into
- 35:43is
- 35:43your
- 35:43education
- 35:44and
- 35:44your
- 35:44knowledge.
- 35:45Career
- 35:45helps
- 35:46too,
- 35:46then
- 35:47the
- 35:47other
- 35:47investments,
- 35:48you
- 35:48know.
- 35:48But
- 35:48to
- 35:49invest
- 35:49into
- 35:49your
- 35:49education
- 35:50and
- 35:50your
- 35:50knowledge
- 35:51is
- 35:51actually
- 35:51amazing
- 35:51because
- 35:52it
- 35:52does
- 35:52give
- 35:52you
- 35:52that
- 35:52confidence
- 35:53to
- 35:53be
- 35:53like,
- 35:53I'm
- 35:54doing
- 35:54it,
- 35:54I'm
- 35:54going
- 35:54for
- 35:54it
- 35:55100%.
- 35:56And
- 35:56I
- 35:57think
- 35:57anyone
- 35:57listening
- 35:57that
- 35:58is
- 35:58feeling
- 35:59scared
- 35:59about
- 35:59investing
- 36:00in
- 36:00whatever
- 36:01asset
- 36:01class
- 36:01or
- 36:02maybe
- 36:02it's
- 36:03the
- 36:03way
- 36:03that
- 36:03you
- 36:03split
- 36:03your
- 36:03pay.
- 36:04Honestly,
- 36:05the
- 36:06best
- 36:06thing
- 36:06you
- 36:06can
- 36:06do
- 36:07is
- 36:07take
- 36:07action
- 36:07rather
- 36:08than
- 36:08sit
- 36:08there
- 36:09and
- 36:09continue
- 36:09to
- 36:10learn
- 36:10until
- 36:10you
- 36:10think
- 36:10you
- 36:10have
- 36:11everything
- 36:11sorted.
- 36:12Because
- 36:13we've
- 36:13had
- 36:14how
- 36:14many
- 36:15hours
- 36:15of
- 36:15interviews
- 36:16have
- 36:16we
- 36:16spoken
- 36:16to
- 36:16finance
- 36:17professionals?
- 36:17And
- 36:18we're
- 36:18still
- 36:18not
- 36:18perfect,
- 36:19but
- 36:19if
- 36:19we'd
- 36:20waited
- 36:20five
- 36:20years,
- 36:22we
- 36:22wouldn't
- 36:22have
- 36:22done
- 36:23anything.
- 36:23So
- 36:23I
- 36:23think
- 36:24that
- 36:24that's
- 36:24just
- 36:24like,
- 36:25don't
- 36:25feel
- 36:26like
- 36:26you
- 36:26have
- 36:26to
- 36:27have
- 36:27every
- 36:27little
- 36:28bit
- 36:28of
- 36:28knowledge
- 36:28sorted
- 36:29before
- 36:29you
- 36:29do
- 36:30things
- 36:30differently.
- 36:31Such
- 36:31a
- 36:31good
- 36:31point.
- 36:32When
- 36:32you
- 36:33with
- 36:33the
- 36:33investment
- 36:34properties,
- 36:34I
- 36:34know
- 36:34a
- 36:35lot
- 36:35of
- 36:35people
- 36:35will
- 36:35be
- 36:35interested
- 36:35on
- 36:36that
- 36:36because
- 36:36you've
- 36:36sort
- 36:36of
- 36:36mentioned
- 36:37a
- 36:37couple
- 36:37of
- 36:37things
- 36:37and
- 36:38I
- 36:38think
- 36:38people's
- 36:38ears
- 36:39will
- 36:39have
- 36:39perked
- 36:39up.
- 36:40So
- 36:40you
- 36:40mentioned
- 36:41two.
- 36:42You
- 36:42went
- 36:42for
- 36:42regions
- 36:43and
- 36:43a
- 36:44friend
- 36:44was
- 36:44involved.
- 36:45How
- 36:45did
- 36:46you
- 36:46take
- 36:46this
- 36:47from?
- 36:47Oh,
- 36:47gosh,
- 36:47I'm
- 36:47a
- 36:48bit
- 36:48of
- 36:48a
- 36:48money
- 36:48mess.
- 36:48I
- 36:48can't
- 36:48even
- 36:48afford
- 36:49a
- 36:49bus
- 36:49ticket
- 36:49to
- 36:50investment
- 36:50property.
- 36:51What
- 36:51was
- 36:51the
- 36:51strategy?
- 36:52It's
- 36:52an
- 36:53investing
- 36:53approach
- 36:53called
- 36:54brrrr.
- 36:55So
- 36:55you
- 36:56buy,
- 36:57renovate,
- 36:58rent,
- 36:58refinance,
- 36:59repeat.
- 37:00And
- 37:00it's
- 37:00the
- 37:00idea
- 37:01that
- 37:01you
- 37:01buy
- 37:01wealth,
- 37:02you
- 37:02buy
- 37:02a
- 37:02house
- 37:02somewhere
- 37:03that
- 37:03you
- 37:03don't.
- 37:04You
- 37:04never
- 37:04planning
- 37:04on
- 37:05living
- 37:05in
- 37:05this
- 37:05house,
- 37:05by
- 37:05the
- 37:05way,
- 37:05so
- 37:06you're
- 37:06not
- 37:06having
- 37:06to
- 37:06spend
- 37:07money
- 37:08or
- 37:09effort
- 37:09or
- 37:10emotional
- 37:10exertion
- 37:11on
- 37:11finding
- 37:11the
- 37:11right
- 37:12property
- 37:12because
- 37:12you're
- 37:13not
- 37:13going
- 37:13to
- 37:13be
- 37:13living
- 37:13in
- 37:13it,
- 37:13if
- 37:14that
- 37:14makes
- 37:14sense.
- 37:14It's
- 37:14all
- 37:14about
- 37:15the
- 37:15numbers.
- 37:15So
- 37:15I,
- 37:15I
- 37:16was
- 37:16like
- 37:16approaching
- 37:16this
- 37:17completely
- 37:17as
- 37:17an
- 37:17investment
- 37:18property.
- 37:19So
- 37:19buy
- 37:19well,
- 37:20find
- 37:20a
- 37:21house
- 37:21that
- 37:21you
- 37:21can
- 37:21add
- 37:21value
- 37:22to,
- 37:23which
- 37:23is
- 37:23what
- 37:23we
- 37:23did.
- 37:23We
- 37:24spent.
- 37:24So
- 37:25the
- 37:25first
- 37:25one
- 37:26we
- 37:26bought
- 37:26for
- 37:26400,000,
- 37:28spent
- 37:2873,000
- 37:29on
- 37:29the
- 37:29renovation,
- 37:30budgeted
- 37:3080,
- 37:31spent
- 37:31less
- 37:32than
- 37:32that,
- 37:33renovated
- 37:33in
- 37:34six
- 37:34weeks
- 37:34and
- 37:34then
- 37:35we
- 37:36rented
- 37:36it
- 37:37out.
- 37:37So
- 37:37there's
- 37:37people
- 37:37covering
- 37:38the
- 37:38rent.
- 37:38It
- 37:38now
- 37:39completely
- 37:39washes
- 37:40its
- 37:40face.
- 37:40As
- 37:41you
- 37:41know,
- 37:41property
- 37:41professionals
- 37:42say,
- 37:43basically,
- 37:43I
- 37:44don't
- 37:44have
- 37:44to
- 37:44put
- 37:44any
- 37:44money
- 37:45into
- 37:45that
- 37:45month
- 37:45to
- 37:45month.
- 37:46So
- 37:46it's
- 37:46growing
- 37:47in
- 37:47value
- 37:47by
- 37:48tracking
- 37:48the
- 37:48market.
- 37:48So
- 37:49we're
- 37:49going
- 37:49to
- 37:49hold
- 37:50it
- 37:50for
- 37:50a
- 37:50long
- 37:50period
- 37:50of
- 37:51time.
- 37:51But
- 37:51by
- 37:52renovating
- 37:52and
- 37:52adding
- 37:53an
- 37:53extra
- 37:53bedroom,
- 37:54we
- 37:54immediately
- 37:55had
- 37:55an
- 37:55uplift
- 37:56of
- 37:56about
- 37:56125,000.
- 37:58So
- 37:59it's
- 37:59just
- 38:00a
- 38:00different
- 38:00approach
- 38:00to
- 38:00property.
- 38:01It's
- 38:01the
- 38:01idea
- 38:02that
- 38:02you
- 38:03buy
- 38:03in
- 38:03an
- 38:03area
- 38:04you
- 38:04wouldn't
- 38:04otherwise,
- 38:05because
- 38:05I'm
- 38:06not
- 38:06planning
- 38:06on
- 38:06living
- 38:07in
- 38:07Whangarei,
- 38:07but
- 38:08it
- 38:08was
- 38:08the
- 38:08perfect
- 38:09house
- 38:09for
- 38:09what
- 38:09we
- 38:09needed.
- 38:10I've
- 38:11now
- 38:11done
- 38:11it
- 38:11for
- 38:12a
- 38:12second
- 38:12time.
- 38:12So
- 38:12because
- 38:13we
- 38:13had
- 38:14such
- 38:14an
- 38:14equity
- 38:15uplift
- 38:15in
- 38:15that
- 38:15first
- 38:16one,
- 38:16I
- 38:17could
- 38:17borrow
- 38:17against
- 38:17that
- 38:18so
- 38:18I
- 38:18didn't
- 38:18have
- 38:18to
- 38:18put
- 38:18any
- 38:18money
- 38:19in
- 38:19as
- 38:19a
- 38:19deposit
- 38:19for
- 38:20the
- 38:20second
- 38:20house,
- 38:20which
- 38:20is
- 38:21just
- 38:21like.
- 38:21So,
- 38:22you
- 38:23know,
- 38:23when
- 38:23something
- 38:23lands.
- 38:24For
- 38:24me,
- 38:24I
- 38:24was
- 38:24like
- 38:24the
- 38:25property
- 38:25ladder.
- 38:26They
- 38:26call
- 38:26it
- 38:26a
- 38:26ladder
- 38:27for
- 38:27a
- 38:27reason.
- 38:27You
- 38:27know,
- 38:27it's
- 38:28so
- 38:28hard
- 38:28to
- 38:28get
- 38:28the
- 38:28first
- 38:29one.
- 38:29It's
- 38:30just
- 38:30like
- 38:30investing
- 38:30the
- 38:31first
- 38:31100k
- 38:31is
- 38:31the
- 38:32hardest.
- 38:32You
- 38:32know,
- 38:32those,
- 38:33those
- 38:33first
- 38:33steps
- 38:34are
- 38:34hard
- 38:34and
- 38:34then
- 38:34money
- 38:35makes
- 38:35Money.
- 38:35So
- 38:36yeah,
- 38:37we,
- 38:37we
- 38:37loaned
- 38:37against
- 38:38the
- 38:38second
- 38:38one
- 38:39to
- 38:39get
- 38:39it,
- 38:39like
- 38:40extend
- 38:40the
- 38:40mortgage,
- 38:41spent
- 38:42that
- 38:42on
- 38:42the
- 38:42deposit
- 38:43for
- 38:43the
- 38:43second,
- 38:44budgeted
- 38:44100
- 38:45grand
- 38:45for
- 38:45our
- 38:45renovation,
- 38:47spent
- 38:47100
- 38:48grand
- 38:48on
- 38:48the
- 38:48renovation,
- 38:49had
- 38:49it
- 38:49revalued
- 38:50and
- 38:50made
- 38:50close
- 38:51to
- 38:51130
- 38:51in
- 38:52that
- 38:52one
- 38:52in
- 38:53equity
- 38:53uplift
- 38:53and
- 38:54again
- 38:54have
- 38:54rented
- 38:54it
- 38:54out,
- 38:55holding
- 38:55onto
- 38:55it
- 38:55for
- 38:55a
- 38:56long
- 38:56period
- 38:56of
- 38:56time.
- 38:56So
- 38:57they're,
- 38:57you
- 38:58know,
- 38:58they're
- 38:58not
- 38:58expensive
- 38:59houses.
- 38:59We
- 38:59haven't
- 39:00gone
- 39:00and
- 39:00bought
- 39:00in,
- 39:01you
- 39:01know,
- 39:02a
- 39:03main
- 39:03center.
- 39:04And
- 39:04for
- 39:04me
- 39:04it
- 39:04was
- 39:04a
- 39:05stepping
- 39:05stone
- 39:05because
- 39:06A,
- 39:06I
- 39:06couldn't
- 39:07buy
- 39:07a
- 39:07house
- 39:07that
- 39:07I
- 39:07was
- 39:07going
- 39:07to
- 39:08live
- 39:08in
- 39:08and
- 39:08therefore
- 39:09needed
- 39:09to
- 39:09look
- 39:10at
- 39:10investment,
- 39:10which
- 39:10is
- 39:1130%
- 39:11deposit,
- 39:12which
- 39:12is
- 39:12obviously
- 39:12more.
- 39:13And
- 39:13because
- 39:14I
- 39:14needed
- 39:14a
- 39:1430%
- 39:14deposit
- 39:15I
- 39:15could
- 39:15only
- 39:15afford
- 39:16in
- 39:16the
- 39:16regions,
- 39:17so
- 39:17I
- 39:17spent
- 39:17less
- 39:18on
- 39:18that
- 39:19property.
- 39:20But
- 39:20I
- 39:20just
- 39:20think
- 39:21it's
- 39:21been
- 39:21such
- 39:21a
- 39:21cool
- 39:22way
- 39:22to
- 39:22invest
- 39:23in
- 39:23property
- 39:23and
- 39:23I
- 39:23don't
- 39:24know
- 39:24why
- 39:24more
- 39:24people
- 39:24don't
- 39:25do
- 39:25it.
- 39:25Well,
- 39:25it's
- 39:25tricky,
- 39:26right,
- 39:26because
- 39:26people
- 39:27often
- 39:27struggle
- 39:27with
- 39:27a
- 39:28deposit.
- 39:29So
- 39:29that
- 39:29was
- 39:29you
- 39:30mentioned
- 39:30about
- 39:30you'd
- 39:30been
- 39:31making
- 39:31investments
- 39:32into
- 39:32the
- 39:33share
- 39:33market
- 39:34and
- 39:34liquidated
- 39:35some
- 39:35of
- 39:35that.
- 39:36The
- 39:36deposit.
- 39:36Yeah.
- 39:37How
- 39:37do
- 39:37you
- 39:37feel
- 39:38about
- 39:38that?
- 39:39Still
- 39:40investing
- 39:40money.
- 39:40Right.
- 39:41But
- 39:41liquidating
- 39:41some
- 39:42to
- 39:42put
- 39:42it
- 39:42elsewhere?
- 39:43Yeah,
- 39:43I
- 39:43felt
- 39:43really
- 39:44good
- 39:44about
- 39:44it
- 39:44because.
- 39:45Well,
- 39:45firstly,
- 39:46this
- 39:47was
- 39:47last
- 39:48February
- 39:48when
- 39:48I
- 39:48bought
- 39:49my
- 39:49first
- 39:49one
- 39:49and
- 39:49it
- 39:49was
- 39:50when
- 39:50the
- 39:50market
- 39:50started
- 39:51to
- 39:51tank.
- 39:51So
- 39:51this
- 39:52was
- 39:52last
- 39:52year,
- 39:52like
- 39:52February,
- 39:53April,
- 39:53when
- 39:53all
- 39:53of
- 39:54the
- 39:54tariff
- 39:54saga
- 39:55was
- 39:55happening.
- 39:55And
- 39:56I
- 39:56did
- 39:56not
- 39:57do.
- 39:58Everybody
- 39:58listening,
- 39:59do
- 39:59not
- 39:59do
- 39:59this.
- 40:00It's
- 40:01been
- 40:01a
- 40:01theme.
- 40:02So
- 40:03basically,
- 40:03you
- 40:04know
- 40:04how
- 40:04everyone
- 40:04will
- 40:05say
- 40:05to
- 40:05you,
- 40:05put
- 40:05money
- 40:06in
- 40:06the
- 40:06stock
- 40:06market
- 40:06that
- 40:06you
- 40:07want
- 40:07to
- 40:07leave
- 40:08for
- 40:08five
- 40:08years.
- 40:09You
- 40:09need
- 40:09to
- 40:10readjust
- 40:10or
- 40:10move
- 40:11things
- 40:11around
- 40:11if
- 40:11you're
- 40:11planning
- 40:12on
- 40:12using
- 40:12that
- 40:12money.
- 40:13Because
- 40:14investing
- 40:14in
- 40:14the
- 40:14stock
- 40:15market
- 40:15goes
- 40:15up
- 40:15and
- 40:15down
- 40:16and
- 40:16sideways
- 40:16in
- 40:17the
- 40:17short
- 40:17term.
- 40:18So
- 40:18if
- 40:19you
- 40:19need
- 40:19it
- 40:19and
- 40:20you're
- 40:20going
- 40:20to
- 40:20be
- 40:20using
- 40:20that
- 40:21money,
- 40:21do
- 40:22not
- 40:22risk
- 40:22it
- 40:22going
- 40:22down
- 40:22in
- 40:23the
- 40:23short
- 40:23term.
- 40:24I
- 40:24nearly
- 40:25couldn't
- 40:26buy
- 40:26the
- 40:26house
- 40:26because
- 40:26I
- 40:27didn't
- 40:27pull
- 40:27that
- 40:27money
- 40:27out
- 40:28of
- 40:28the
- 40:28stock
- 40:28market
- 40:28soon
- 40:28enough.
- 40:29I
- 40:30knew
- 40:30I
- 40:30was
- 40:30buying
- 40:30a
- 40:30property
- 40:31but
- 40:31I
- 40:31didn't
- 40:31know
- 40:31how
- 40:31long
- 40:32it
- 40:32would
- 40:32be
- 40:32till
- 40:32I
- 40:32found
- 40:32one
- 40:33and
- 40:33blah,
- 40:33blah,
- 40:33blah.
- 40:33And
- 40:33I
- 40:33didn't
- 40:34do
- 40:34that
- 40:34early.
- 40:34So
- 40:35the
- 40:35stock
- 40:35market
- 40:35started
- 40:36to
- 40:36go
- 40:36down
- 40:36and
- 40:36I
- 40:36pulled
- 40:37it
- 40:37all
- 40:37out
- 40:37just
- 40:38before
- 40:38it
- 40:38like
- 40:38fully
- 40:39tanked.
- 40:40So
- 40:40I
- 40:40was
- 40:41really,
- 40:41really
- 40:42lucky.
- 40:43You
- 40:43know,
- 40:43it
- 40:44was
- 40:44pulling
- 40:44money
- 40:44out
- 40:44of
- 40:44investments
- 40:45that
- 40:45I
- 40:45had
- 40:45made
- 40:46money
- 40:46on
- 40:46to
- 40:46leverage
- 40:47by
- 40:47using
- 40:48more
- 40:48money
- 40:48from
- 40:48the
- 40:48bank
- 40:48to
- 40:49make
- 40:49hopefully
- 40:50more
- 40:50returns.
- 40:51I
- 40:51wasn't
- 40:51also
- 40:51crystallizing
- 40:52losses
- 40:53by
- 40:53taking
- 40:53money
- 40:54out
- 40:54of
- 40:54the
- 40:54stock
- 40:54market.
- 40:55I'd
- 40:55made
- 40:56money,
- 40:56so.
- 40:56And
- 40:57also
- 40:57I
- 40:57will
- 40:57say,
- 40:57just
- 40:58for
- 40:58transparency,
- 40:58my
- 40:59dad
- 40:59gave
- 41:00me
- 41:0050,000
- 41:01towards
- 41:01my
- 41:01first
- 41:02property.
- 41:03So
- 41:03I
- 41:03was
- 41:03able
- 41:04to
- 41:04get.
- 41:04I
- 41:04wouldn't
- 41:04have
- 41:05been
- 41:05able
- 41:05to
- 41:05do
- 41:05it
- 41:05without
- 41:05that.
- 41:06And
- 41:06I
- 41:06just
- 41:06think
- 41:06it's
- 41:06important
- 41:07to
- 41:07recognize
- 41:08that.
- 41:08Cause
- 41:08a
- 41:08lot
- 41:08of
- 41:08people
- 41:09don't
- 41:09have
- 41:09help
- 41:10from
- 41:10parents.
- 41:10I'm
- 41:10really
- 41:11privileged.
- 41:12And
- 41:12I
- 41:13think
- 41:13it's
- 41:13really
- 41:13unhelpful
- 41:13when
- 41:14people
- 41:14don't
- 41:14talk
- 41:14about
- 41:14getting
- 41:15help
- 41:15from
- 41:16parents
- 41:16because
- 41:16it
- 41:16again
- 41:17is
- 41:17the
- 41:17comparison
- 41:17game
- 41:18of
- 41:18like,
- 41:18what
- 41:18am
- 41:18I
- 41:18doing
- 41:18wrong?
- 41:19You
- 41:19just
- 41:20don't
- 41:20know
- 41:20someone's
- 41:21personal
- 41:21situation.
- 41:22I
- 41:22was
- 41:22really
- 41:22lucky
- 41:23to
- 41:23have
- 41:23that.
- 41:24I
- 41:24know
- 41:24it's
- 41:24tricky
- 41:24that,
- 41:24isn't
- 41:25it?
- 41:25Because
- 41:25you
- 41:25want
- 41:25to
- 41:25be
- 41:26honest
- 41:26and
- 41:26you
- 41:26know
- 41:26that
- 41:26some
- 41:26people
- 41:27are
- 41:27not
- 41:27gonna
- 41:27like
- 41:27it.
- 41:27But
- 41:28at
- 41:28the
- 41:28same
- 41:28time
- 41:28hiding
- 41:29it
- 41:29is
- 41:29so
- 41:30unfair.
- 41:30Well,
- 41:31it's
- 41:31worse.
- 41:31And
- 41:31I
- 41:31mean
- 41:31people
- 41:32will
- 41:32listen
- 41:32to
- 41:32that
- 41:32and
- 41:32think,
- 41:33you
- 41:33privileged
- 41:33spoiled
- 41:34brat,
- 41:34you
- 41:35were
- 41:35given
- 41:35$50,000
- 41:36to
- 41:36put
- 41:36into
- 41:36it.
- 41:37You
- 41:37know,
- 41:37and
- 41:37I'm
- 41:38have
- 41:38to
- 41:38own
- 41:38that
- 41:38because
- 41:39it's
- 41:39the
- 41:39reality
- 41:40of
- 41:40my
- 41:40situation.
- 41:41But
- 41:42I
- 41:42know
- 41:42a
- 41:43lot
- 41:43of
- 41:43people
- 41:43who
- 41:44have
- 41:44had
- 41:44way
- 41:45more
- 41:45help
- 41:45than
- 41:45that
- 41:46and
- 41:46don't
- 41:46talk
- 41:46about
- 41:46it
- 41:46and
- 41:47I
- 41:47think
- 41:47that's
- 41:47even
- 41:48more
- 41:48detrimental.
- 41:48So
- 41:49I'm
- 41:49kind
- 41:49of
- 41:49like
- 41:50willing
- 41:50to
- 41:50risk
- 41:50people
- 41:50thinking
- 41:51I'm
- 41:51a
- 41:51brat,
- 41:52to
- 41:52be
- 41:52honest,
- 41:53because
- 41:53I
- 41:53think
- 41:54that
- 41:54it's
- 41:54important.
- 41:55I
- 41:55love
- 41:55that.
- 41:57The
- 41:57other
- 41:57thing
- 41:57that
- 41:58sticks
- 41:58with
- 41:58me
- 41:58though
- 41:58is
- 41:59buying
- 41:59them
- 41:59with
- 41:59a
- 41:59friend.
- 42:00Yeah,
- 42:00sorry,
- 42:01I
- 42:01thought
- 42:01that
- 42:01was
- 42:01part
- 42:01of
- 42:01the
- 42:01question.
- 42:02Yes,
- 42:02no,
- 42:02but
- 42:02I
- 42:03like
- 42:03compare
- 42:03that
- 42:03with
- 42:04your
- 42:04business
- 42:04as
- 42:04well.
- 42:05You
- 42:05know,
- 42:05you've
- 42:05gone
- 42:05into.
- 42:05I'm
- 42:06assuming
- 42:06it's
- 42:06a
- 42:06different
- 42:06friend.
- 42:07Yes,
- 42:07yes.
- 42:08So
- 42:08you've
- 42:08got
- 42:08these
- 42:08investment
- 42:09properties
- 42:09with
- 42:09a
- 42:09friend.
- 42:10You've
- 42:10also
- 42:10gone
- 42:11into
- 42:11business
- 42:11with
- 42:11a
- 42:12friend.
- 42:12Yeah.
- 42:12People
- 42:13do
- 42:13often
- 42:13say,
- 42:14don't
- 42:14mix
- 42:14money.
- 42:14Well,
- 42:15they
- 42:15more
- 42:15say
- 42:16don't
- 42:16mix
- 42:16money
- 42:16in
- 42:16family,
- 42:17but
- 42:17don't
- 42:17mix
- 42:17money
- 42:18in
- 42:18friendship
- 42:18is
- 42:18certainly
- 42:19up
- 42:19there.
- 42:20You've
- 42:20got
- 42:20a
- 42:21good
- 42:21risk
- 42:21tolerance.
- 42:22I
- 42:22really
- 42:22do,
- 42:23don't
- 42:23I?
- 42:24I
- 42:24also
- 42:24known
- 42:25this
- 42:25person
- 42:25for
- 42:25three
- 42:25weeks
- 42:25when
- 42:26we
- 42:26decided
- 42:26to
- 42:26do
- 42:27this.
- 42:27So
- 42:27like,
- 42:27I
- 42:28am
- 42:28crazy.
- 42:30Okay,
- 42:30so.
- 42:31All
- 42:31right.
- 42:32Yeah,
- 42:32more
- 42:32context,
- 42:33more
- 42:33context.
- 42:34So
- 42:34he
- 42:34moved
- 42:34into
- 42:34the
- 42:35flat
- 42:35that
- 42:35I
- 42:35was
- 42:35living
- 42:36in
- 42:36at
- 42:36the
- 42:36time.
- 42:36He's
- 42:37really
- 42:37good
- 42:37friends
- 42:37of
- 42:37one
- 42:37of.
- 42:37My
- 42:38friends,
- 42:38also
- 42:38London
- 42:38based.
- 42:39A
- 42:39New
- 42:39Zealander.
- 42:40Yeah,
- 42:40yeah,
- 42:40he's.
- 42:41I
- 42:41knew
- 42:41his
- 42:42sister.
- 42:42I
- 42:42knew,
- 42:42you
- 42:43know,
- 42:43it
- 42:43wasn't
- 42:43like
- 42:43he
- 42:44was
- 42:44a
- 42:44random.
- 42:44I
- 42:44met
- 42:44and
- 42:44knew
- 42:45for
- 42:45three
- 42:45weeks.
- 42:46We.
- 42:46So
- 42:47we
- 42:47basically
- 42:47set
- 42:47it
- 42:47up
- 42:47as
- 42:48a
- 42:48business.
- 42:48So
- 42:48Rather
- 42:49than
- 42:49doing
- 42:49it
- 42:49in
- 42:50a
- 42:50personal
- 42:51capacity,
- 42:51we've
- 42:51done
- 42:52it
- 42:52all
- 42:52through
- 42:52a
- 42:52business
- 42:54and
- 42:54we
- 42:54did
- 42:54it
- 42:5550,
- 42:5550.
- 42:55We
- 42:55were
- 42:56both
- 42:56in
- 42:56a
- 42:56position
- 42:56where
- 42:56we
- 42:57had
- 42:57enough
- 42:57for
- 42:58a
- 42:58deposit
- 42:58and
- 42:58the
- 42:59renovation.
- 43:00He'd
- 43:00always
- 43:00wanted
- 43:01to
- 43:01do
- 43:01property
- 43:01and
- 43:01that
- 43:02way
- 43:02he
- 43:02works
- 43:02in
- 43:02that
- 43:03industry.
- 43:03He
- 43:03understands
- 43:04it.
- 43:04I
- 43:05introduced
- 43:05him
- 43:05to
- 43:06the
- 43:06concept,
- 43:06the
- 43:07person
- 43:07I
- 43:07was
- 43:07gonna
- 43:07work
- 43:07with
- 43:08to
- 43:08make
- 43:08it
- 43:08happen.
- 43:08He
- 43:08loved
- 43:09the
- 43:09idea.
- 43:10So
- 43:11yeah,
- 43:11it
- 43:11was
- 43:12crazy.
- 43:13But
- 43:13the
- 43:13only
- 43:13way
- 43:14I
- 43:14could
- 43:14have
- 43:14done
- 43:14it.
- 43:14What
- 43:15I
- 43:15will
- 43:15say
- 43:15is
- 43:15we
- 43:15did
- 43:16have
- 43:16a
- 43:16lot
- 43:16of
- 43:16honest
- 43:17conversations
- 43:17about
- 43:18how
- 43:19long
- 43:19are
- 43:19you
- 43:19willing
- 43:19to
- 43:19hold
- 43:20it
- 43:20for?
- 43:20You
- 43:21know,
- 43:21we
- 43:21had
- 43:21some
- 43:22pretty
- 43:22hairy
- 43:23questions.
- 43:24Let's
- 43:24just
- 43:24say
- 43:24that
- 43:24we
- 43:24both
- 43:25had
- 43:25to
- 43:25answer
- 43:25and
- 43:25be
- 43:26on
- 43:26the
- 43:26same
- 43:26page
- 43:26and
- 43:26we
- 43:26had
- 43:26it
- 43:26in
- 43:27right
- 43:27hand.
- 43:27How
- 43:27did
- 43:27you
- 43:27vet
- 43:28each
- 43:28other?
- 43:28Like
- 43:28legally,
- 43:29financially
- 43:29and
- 43:29also
- 43:30personalities?
- 43:30Yeah.
- 43:31We
- 43:31basically
- 43:32had
- 43:32really
- 43:32long
- 43:33conversations,
- 43:33at
- 43:33length.
- 43:34We
- 43:34had
- 43:34a
- 43:34huge
- 43:34list
- 43:34of
- 43:34questions
- 43:35to
- 43:35work
- 43:35our
- 43:35way
- 43:35through
- 43:36and
- 43:36make
- 43:36sure
- 43:36we're
- 43:36on
- 43:36the
- 43:36same
- 43:37page.
- 43:37We
- 43:38have
- 43:38an
- 43:38agreement
- 43:38between
- 43:39the
- 43:39two
- 43:39of
- 43:39us.
- 43:39We've
- 43:40done
- 43:40it
- 43:40really
- 43:41properly,
- 43:41like
- 43:42a
- 43:42lawyer's
- 43:42agreement.
- 43:42Sat
- 43:43down
- 43:43with
- 43:43a
- 43:43lawyer
- 43:43as
- 43:43well.
- 43:44ChatGPT.
- 43:45But
- 43:46I
- 43:46did
- 43:46run
- 43:46it
- 43:46past
- 43:46a
- 43:47lawyer
- 43:47to
- 43:47be
- 43:47fair.
- 43:47Okay,
- 43:48good.
- 43:48Yeah.
- 43:48And
- 43:49the
- 43:49world
- 43:50we
- 43:50live
- 43:50in,
- 43:50houses
- 43:50and
- 43:51property
- 43:51is
- 43:51so
- 43:51expensive
- 43:52for
- 43:52a
- 43:52lot
- 43:52of
- 43:52people.
- 43:53If
- 43:53you're
- 43:53not
- 43:53in
- 43:53a
- 43:53relationship,
- 43:54it's
- 43:54kind
- 43:54of
- 43:54impossible.
- 43:55We
- 43:56were
- 43:56both
- 43:56single,
- 43:56so
- 43:57it
- 43:57was
- 43:57perfect.
- 43:58I'm
- 43:58so
- 43:58glad
- 43:58I
- 43:59did
- 43:59it
- 43:59that
- 43:59way
- 43:59because
- 43:59also
- 44:00I
- 44:00didn't
- 44:00want
- 44:00to
- 44:00put
- 44:00100%
- 44:01of
- 44:01my
- 44:01life
- 44:02wealth
- 44:02into
- 44:02property.
- 44:02I
- 44:03wanted
- 44:03to
- 44:03be
- 44:03diversified
- 44:04still.
- 44:04What
- 44:04would
- 44:05have
- 44:05been
- 44:05a
- 44:05red
- 44:05flag
- 44:06that
- 44:06would
- 44:06have
- 44:06made
- 44:07you
- 44:07pull
- 44:07the
- 44:07pin
- 44:07on
- 44:08it?
- 44:08One
- 44:08of
- 44:08the
- 44:09things
- 44:09that
- 44:09we.
- 44:10He
- 44:10was
- 44:10wanting
- 44:11to
- 44:11talk.
- 44:11He
- 44:11was
- 44:11talking
- 44:12about
- 44:12wanting
- 44:12to
- 44:12leave
- 44:12it
- 44:12at
- 44:12it
- 44:12for
- 44:13three
- 44:13years
- 44:13and
- 44:13then
- 44:13potentially
- 44:14selling.
- 44:14And
- 44:14I
- 44:14wanted
- 44:14a
- 44:14minimum
- 44:15of
- 44:15five.
- 44:16I
- 44:16just
- 44:17felt
- 44:17like
- 44:17we
- 44:17didn't
- 44:18know
- 44:18if
- 44:18we
- 44:18were
- 44:18in
- 44:18the
- 44:18bottom
- 44:18of
- 44:19the
- 44:19market.
- 44:19And
- 44:20I
- 44:20wanted
- 44:21capital
- 44:21gains
- 44:21and
- 44:21I
- 44:22know
- 44:22the
- 44:22longer
- 44:22you
- 44:22keep
- 44:22something.
- 44:23I
- 44:23wanted
- 44:23to
- 44:23know
- 44:23he
- 44:24wasn't
- 44:24going
- 44:24to
- 44:24need
- 44:24that
- 44:24money
- 44:24for
- 44:25a
- 44:25long
- 44:25period
- 44:25of
- 44:25time
- 44:26and
- 44:26there
- 44:26wasn't
- 44:26going
- 44:26to
- 44:27be
- 44:27some
- 44:27contentious.
- 44:27I
- 44:27want
- 44:28to
- 44:28sell
- 44:28early.
- 44:29What
- 44:29were
- 44:29green
- 44:30flags?
- 44:30Super
- 44:31open
- 44:31minded.
- 44:32Quite
- 44:32a
- 44:32high
- 44:32risk
- 44:33tolerance.
- 44:33Like
- 44:33me
- 44:34had
- 44:34the
- 44:34amount
- 44:34of
- 44:35money
- 44:35that
- 44:35we
- 44:35both
- 44:35needed
- 44:36to
- 44:36make
- 44:36it
- 44:36happen.
- 44:38Had
- 44:38pre
- 44:38existing
- 44:39knowledge
- 44:39around
- 44:39building
- 44:40construction.
- 44:42So
- 44:42could
- 44:42really
- 44:43like
- 44:43sense
- 44:43check
- 44:44all
- 44:44the
- 44:44numbers
- 44:44that
- 44:44we
- 44:44were
- 44:45looking
- 44:45at.
- 44:45If
- 44:46someone
- 44:46else
- 44:46was
- 44:46thinking.
- 44:47Because
- 44:47I
- 44:47do
- 44:47think
- 44:47teaming
- 44:48up
- 44:48with
- 44:48friends
- 44:49or
- 44:50people
- 44:50you're
- 44:50friendly
- 44:50with,
- 44:51like
- 44:51do
- 44:51we
- 44:51call
- 44:51someone
- 44:52a
- 44:52friend
- 44:52after.
- 44:52Three
- 44:52weeks,
- 44:53who
- 44:53is
- 44:53my
- 44:54friend?
- 44:54You
- 44:54Definitely
- 44:55have
- 44:55a
- 44:55higher
- 44:55risk
- 44:55tolerance
- 44:56that
- 44:56I
- 44:57really
- 44:57want
- 44:57that
- 44:58one
- 44:58you've
- 44:58got.
- 44:58Oh,
- 44:59my
- 44:59God.
- 44:59Okay,
- 44:59good
- 45:00to
- 45:00know.
- 45:01But
- 45:01hey,
- 45:01it's
- 45:02working
- 45:02so
- 45:02good
- 45:02for
- 45:03you.
- 45:04But
- 45:04I
- 45:04think,
- 45:04you
- 45:04know,
- 45:05when,
- 45:05when
- 45:05you
- 45:05team
- 45:05up
- 45:05with
- 45:06someone,
- 45:06I
- 45:06think
- 45:06you're
- 45:06spot
- 45:07on
- 45:07there,
- 45:07that
- 45:07it's
- 45:07easier
- 45:08with
- 45:08two
- 45:08incomes
- 45:08than
- 45:08one.
- 45:09Of
- 45:09course.
- 45:10And
- 45:10if
- 45:10you're
- 45:10not
- 45:11in
- 45:11a
- 45:11partnership,
- 45:11if
- 45:11you
- 45:12can
- 45:12find
- 45:12someone
- 45:12who
- 45:12you
- 45:13trust
- 45:13and
- 45:13you
- 45:13are
- 45:13on
- 45:13the
- 45:14same
- 45:14page
- 45:14financially,
- 45:15I
- 45:15think
- 45:15it's
- 45:15smart.
- 45:16I
- 45:16mean,
- 45:16the
- 45:16amount
- 45:16of
- 45:16people
- 45:17I
- 45:17know
- 45:17who
- 45:17are
- 45:17in
- 45:17romantic
- 45:18relationships
- 45:18and
- 45:19it's
- 45:19not
- 45:19necessarily
- 45:19the
- 45:20best
- 45:20money
- 45:20match
- 45:21and
- 45:21they
- 45:21still
- 45:21buy
- 45:21houses
- 45:22together.
- 45:22So,
- 45:22like,
- 45:24I
- 45:24just
- 45:24think
- 45:24changing
- 45:25your
- 45:25mindset
- 45:25around
- 45:26buying
- 45:26property
- 45:27as
- 45:27a
- 45:28less
- 45:28emotional,
- 45:28romantic
- 45:29thing
- 45:30is
- 45:30an
- 45:31interesting
- 45:31mindset
- 45:32shift
- 45:32in
- 45:32itself.
- 45:32Like
- 45:33most
- 45:33people
- 45:33who
- 45:33buy
- 45:34property
- 45:34with
- 45:34their
- 45:34partners
- 45:34are
- 45:35buying
- 45:35a
- 45:35house
- 45:35to
- 45:35live
- 45:35in.
- 45:36It's
- 45:36completely
- 45:37different
- 45:38to
- 45:38what
- 45:38I
- 45:38did.
- 45:39You
- 45:39know,
- 45:39I
- 45:40actually
- 45:40think
- 45:41what
- 45:41would
- 45:41be
- 45:41higher
- 45:42risk
- 45:42for
- 45:42me
- 45:42would
- 45:43be
- 45:43going
- 45:43into
- 45:44a
- 45:44mortgage
- 45:45with
- 45:45my
- 45:45now
- 45:46boyfriend.
- 45:47That
- 45:47to
- 45:47me
- 45:48would
- 45:48feel
- 45:48more
- 45:48risky
- 45:49than
- 45:49what
- 45:49I
- 45:49did
- 45:50with
- 45:50my
- 45:50friend.
- 45:51It's
- 45:51totally
- 45:52different
- 45:52buying
- 45:53a
- 45:53house
- 45:53that
- 45:53you
- 45:53live
- 45:54in
- 45:54because
- 45:55also
- 45:55the
- 45:56stakes
- 45:56are
- 45:56higher
- 45:56in
- 45:56terms
- 45:57of
- 45:57the
- 45:57relationship
- 45:58doesn't
- 45:58work
- 45:58out.
- 45:58You
- 45:59probably
- 45:59have
- 45:59to
- 45:59sell
- 45:59the
- 45:59asset
- 46:00at
- 46:00a
- 46:00time
- 46:00that
- 46:00might
- 46:00not
- 46:00be
- 46:01ideal,
- 46:01blah,
- 46:01blah,
- 46:02blah.
- 46:02So
- 46:02for
- 46:02me,
- 46:03having
- 46:03that
- 46:03quite
- 46:03separate
- 46:04to
- 46:04my
- 46:04romantic
- 46:05life
- 46:06is
- 46:06great
- 46:07because
- 46:07I
- 46:07can
- 46:07be
- 46:07super
- 46:08strategic
- 46:08and
- 46:09numbers
- 46:09focused
- 46:10rather
- 46:10than
- 46:11romanticize.
- 46:12Like,
- 46:13I've
- 46:13only
- 46:13seen
- 46:13one
- 46:14of
- 46:14the
- 46:14two
- 46:14properties
- 46:14I
- 46:14own.
- 46:15You
- 46:15know,
- 46:15it's
- 46:16totally
- 46:16different.
- 46:16You
- 46:16don't.
- 46:17I
- 46:17don't
- 46:18need
- 46:18to
- 46:18see
- 46:18touch,
- 46:19feel,
- 46:19feel
- 46:19good
- 46:19in
- 46:20it,
- 46:20get
- 46:20a
- 46:20good
- 46:20vibe.
- 46:20You
- 46:21know,
- 46:21it's
- 46:21not
- 46:21about
- 46:21that.
- 46:22So
- 46:23in
- 46:23an
- 46:23ideal
- 46:24world,
- 46:24where
- 46:24would
- 46:25you
- 46:25like
- 46:25to
- 46:25land
- 46:26with
- 46:26the
- 46:26money
- 46:26side
- 46:27of
- 46:27things?
- 46:28You
- 46:28mentioned
- 46:28that
- 46:28you
- 46:28would
- 46:28like
- 46:29more
- 46:29investment
- 46:29properties
- 46:30and
- 46:30I'm
- 46:30assuming
- 46:31more
- 46:31share
- 46:31market
- 46:32investing
- 46:32too.
- 46:33You
- 46:33know,
- 46:33do
- 46:33you
- 46:33have
- 46:34an
- 46:34ideal
- 46:35number?
- 46:35Whether
- 46:36it's
- 46:36an
- 46:36ideal
- 46:36number
- 46:36of
- 46:37properties
- 46:37or
- 46:37an
- 46:37ideal
- 46:38amount
- 46:38invested,
- 46:39do
- 46:39you
- 46:40have
- 46:40those
- 46:40sorts
- 46:40of
- 46:40goals
- 46:41in
- 46:41mind?
- 46:42I
- 46:42find
- 46:42this
- 46:42one
- 46:42really
- 46:43hard
- 46:43because
- 46:43so
- 46:43much
- 46:44of
- 46:44the
- 46:44value
- 46:44or
- 46:45so
- 46:45much
- 46:45of
- 46:45my
- 46:45wealth
- 46:45is
- 46:45tied
- 46:46up
- 46:46in
- 46:46my
- 46:46business.
- 46:47And,
- 46:48you
- 46:48know,
- 46:48whether
- 46:48or
- 46:48not
- 46:49we
- 46:49sell
- 46:49that,
- 46:50whether
- 46:50or
- 46:50not
- 46:50we
- 46:50can
- 46:51pay
- 46:51ourselves,
- 46:51like
- 46:51all
- 46:52those
- 46:52things
- 46:52play
- 46:53a
- 46:53huge
- 46:53role
- 46:54in
- 46:54my
- 46:54potential
- 46:55future
- 46:55wealth
- 46:56trajectory.
- 46:57So,
- 46:58yes,
- 46:58I
- 46:59have
- 46:59goals
- 46:59around
- 46:59how
- 47:00much
- 47:00I
- 47:00want
- 47:00to
- 47:00invest
- 47:00in
- 47:01the
- 47:01stock
- 47:01market.
- 47:01And
- 47:02yes,
- 47:02I
- 47:02definitely
- 47:03want
- 47:03to
- 47:03become
- 47:03a
- 47:04property
- 47:04mogul.
- 47:04I
- 47:04want
- 47:05to
- 47:05have
- 47:05absolutely
- 47:06more
- 47:06properties.
- 47:07But
- 47:08that
- 47:08all
- 47:08could
- 47:09change
- 47:09very
- 47:09easily
- 47:10because
- 47:10for
- 47:11me,
- 47:11I'm
- 47:11betting
- 47:12my
- 47:12wealth
- 47:12through
- 47:12my
- 47:12business,
- 47:13which
- 47:13is
- 47:14something
- 47:14that
- 47:15is
- 47:16really
- 47:16hard
- 47:16to
- 47:17put
- 47:18too
- 47:18many
- 47:18parameters
- 47:19around.
- 47:19So
- 47:19when
- 47:19I
- 47:19make
- 47:20my
- 47:20financial
- 47:20goals,
- 47:21there's
- 47:21almost
- 47:21like
- 47:22the
- 47:22dream
- 47:22scenario
- 47:23which
- 47:23is
- 47:23dependent
- 47:24on
- 47:25my
- 47:25business
- 47:25on
- 47:26the
- 47:26curve.
- 47:26And
- 47:27then
- 47:27there's
- 47:27the
- 47:27one
- 47:27that
- 47:28doesn't
- 47:28think
- 47:28about
- 47:28that
- 47:29I
- 47:29don't
- 47:30have
- 47:30right
- 47:30now,
- 47:30like
- 47:31my
- 47:31number
- 47:31sorted
- 47:32or
- 47:32the
- 47:32amount
- 47:33I'm
- 47:33trying
- 47:33to
- 47:33get
- 47:33to.
- 47:34I
- 47:34find
- 47:36that
- 47:36I
- 47:36think
- 47:36that
- 47:36would
- 47:37be
- 47:37really
- 47:37helpful
- 47:37for
- 47:37me.
- 47:38And
- 47:38I
- 47:38think
- 47:38that
- 47:38having
- 47:39sort
- 47:39of
- 47:39a
- 47:39big
- 47:40final
- 47:40destination
- 47:40that
- 47:41I'm
- 47:41trying
- 47:41to
- 47:41get
- 47:41to
- 47:41would
- 47:41be
- 47:42really
- 47:42motivating.
- 47:43But
- 47:43right
- 47:44now
- 47:44I
- 47:44don't
- 47:44have
- 47:44that.
- 47:45Yeah,
- 47:45I
- 47:45think
- 47:45that's
- 47:46honest
- 47:46though.
- 47:47It's
- 47:47good.
- 47:47And
- 47:48it's
- 47:48funny
- 47:48because
- 47:48people
- 47:49ask
- 47:49me
- 47:49that
- 47:49all
- 47:49the
- 47:49time.
- 47:50I
- 47:50also
- 47:50don't
- 47:50have
- 47:50a
- 47:51final
- 47:51number.
- 47:52Really?
- 47:52That's
- 47:52what
- 47:52I
- 47:53was
- 47:53gonna
- 47:53ask
- 47:53you.
- 47:53Yeah.
- 47:54Good
- 47:54to
- 47:54know.
- 47:55Yeah.
- 47:55Spoiler
- 47:55alert.
- 47:58I
- 47:58just,
- 47:58I
- 47:58kind
- 47:59of,
- 47:59I'm
- 48:00so
- 48:00loosey
- 48:00goosey
- 48:01about
- 48:01things
- 48:01that
- 48:01I'm
- 48:01like,
- 48:01oh,
- 48:02we'll
- 48:02vibes
- 48:03through
- 48:03it.
- 48:03But
- 48:05it's
- 48:06very
- 48:06much,
- 48:07I
- 48:07think
- 48:07you
- 48:07kind
- 48:07of
- 48:08instinctively
- 48:08can
- 48:08know
- 48:09sometimes
- 48:09when
- 48:09enough
- 48:09is
- 48:10enough.
- 48:11And
- 48:11I
- 48:11think
- 48:11you
- 48:11don't
- 48:11always
- 48:12know
- 48:12until
- 48:12you
- 48:12hit
- 48:12it.
- 48:13So
- 48:13it's,
- 48:13it's
- 48:13kind
- 48:13of
- 48:14good
- 48:14to
- 48:14stay
- 48:14open
- 48:14minded
- 48:15to
- 48:15that,
- 48:16mentioning
- 48:16the
- 48:16business
- 48:17because
- 48:17that
- 48:17is
- 48:17a
- 48:17huge
- 48:17one.
- 48:18You
- 48:18know,
- 48:18I
- 48:19talk
- 48:19a
- 48:19lot
- 48:19about
- 48:20increasing
- 48:20income
- 48:20in
- 48:21order
- 48:21to
- 48:22create
- 48:22these
- 48:22opportunities
- 48:23elsewhere.
- 48:24A
- 48:24business
- 48:24is
- 48:24an
- 48:24amazing
- 48:25one
- 48:25for
- 48:25that,
- 48:25whether
- 48:26it's
- 48:26income
- 48:26in
- 48:26the
- 48:26hand
- 48:27now
- 48:27or
- 48:27you're
- 48:27building
- 48:27an
- 48:28asset
- 48:28for
- 48:28the
- 48:28future.
- 48:28Right.
- 48:29And
- 48:29again,
- 48:30you
- 48:30chose
- 48:30to
- 48:30build
- 48:31your
- 48:31business
- 48:31with
- 48:31a
- 48:32friend,
- 48:32which
- 48:32I
- 48:32think
- 48:33is
- 48:33bold,
- 48:33but
- 48:33I
- 48:34love
- 48:34it.
- 48:34What's
- 48:35it
- 48:35like
- 48:35running
- 48:36the
- 48:36curve
- 48:37alongside
- 48:37Vic?
- 48:38You
- 48:38were
- 48:39friends
- 48:39before
- 48:40the
- 48:40business,
- 48:40right?
- 48:42So
- 48:42did
- 48:42you
- 48:42have
- 48:42to
- 48:42put
- 48:43in
- 48:43boundaries
- 48:44as
- 48:44the
- 48:44business
- 48:44progressed?
- 48:45Like,
- 48:45how
- 48:45do
- 48:45you
- 48:45preserve
- 48:46both
- 48:46the
- 48:46friendship
- 48:47and
- 48:47the
- 48:47business
- 48:47relationship?
- 48:48Oh,
- 48:48it's
- 48:49so
- 48:49hard.
- 48:49I
- 48:50think
- 48:50when
- 48:51the
- 48:51curve
- 48:51started,
- 48:52we
- 48:52were
- 48:53babies.
- 48:53We
- 48:54didn't
- 48:54know.
- 48:55I
- 48:55mean,
- 48:55I
- 48:55personally
- 48:56didn't
- 48:56know
- 48:57anything
- 48:57about
- 48:57business.
- 48:58I
- 48:58didn't
- 48:58know
- 48:58anything
- 48:59about
- 48:59what
- 48:59an
- 48:59ideal
- 48:59business
- 49:00partner
- 49:00looked
- 49:00like.
- 49:01I
- 49:01didn't
- 49:01know.
- 49:01I
- 49:01had
- 49:02no
- 49:02idea.
- 49:03So
- 49:03I
- 49:03went
- 49:03in
- 49:03really
- 49:03blind.
- 49:04I
- 49:04do
- 49:04think
- 49:04that
- 49:05for
- 49:05us
- 49:05a
- 49:06challenge
- 49:06has
- 49:06been.
- 49:06We've
- 49:07worked
- 49:07in
- 49:07different,
- 49:08completely
- 49:09different
- 49:09industries.
- 49:09You
- 49:10know,
- 49:10like
- 49:10she's
- 49:10from
- 49:10the
- 49:10finance
- 49:11world,
- 49:11which
- 49:11is
- 49:11like
- 49:12so
- 49:12cut
- 49:13and
- 49:13dry,
- 49:13so
- 49:13black
- 49:14and
- 49:14white.
- 49:14I'm
- 49:15from
- 49:15the
- 49:15creative
- 49:16production,
- 49:17you
- 49:17know,
- 49:17content
- 49:18show,
- 49:19like
- 49:19completely
- 49:19different,
- 49:20which
- 49:20is
- 49:20the
- 49:21opposite
- 49:21of
- 49:21that.
- 49:21It's
- 49:22collaborative,
- 49:23it's
- 49:23creative,
- 49:24it's
- 49:24loose,
- 49:24it's,
- 49:25you
- 49:25know,
- 49:25so
- 49:26there's
- 49:26definitely
- 49:26been
- 49:27a,
- 49:27like
- 49:27us
- 49:27trying
- 49:28to
- 49:28meet
- 49:28in
- 49:28the
- 49:28middle
- 49:29in
- 49:29Terms
- 49:29of
- 49:29me
- 49:29being
- 49:30more
- 49:30strict,
- 49:30her
- 49:30being
- 49:30more
- 49:31fluid,
- 49:31you
- 49:31know,
- 49:32is
- 49:32just
- 49:32coming
- 49:32down
- 49:32to
- 49:32figuring
- 49:33out
- 49:33what
- 49:33each
- 49:33other
- 49:33need
- 49:33and
- 49:34being
- 49:34able
- 49:34to
- 49:34respect
- 49:34that.
- 49:35Now
- 49:35that
- 49:35I've
- 49:36looked
- 49:36at
- 49:36so
- 49:36many
- 49:36different
- 49:37businesses
- 49:37and
- 49:38business
- 49:38partnerships,
- 49:39I
- 49:40think
- 49:40a
- 49:40common
- 49:40thread
- 49:41and
- 49:41something
- 49:41that
- 49:43when
- 49:43I,
- 49:43in
- 49:44the,
- 49:44you
- 49:45know,
- 49:45very
- 49:45distant
- 49:46future,
- 49:46start
- 49:47a
- 49:47different
- 49:47business,
- 49:47which
- 49:48I'm
- 49:48sure
- 49:48I
- 49:48will
- 49:48one
- 49:48day,
- 49:49I
- 49:49think
- 49:50a
- 49:50really
- 49:50good
- 49:50starting
- 49:51point
- 49:51for
- 49:51finding
- 49:51a
- 49:52business
- 49:52partner
- 49:52that
- 49:53is
- 49:53probably
- 49:54because
- 49:54it's
- 49:54always
- 49:55going
- 49:55to
- 49:55be
- 49:55difficult
- 49:55being
- 49:56in
- 49:56business
- 49:56with
- 49:56someone
- 49:57like.
- 49:57And
- 49:57I
- 49:58think
- 49:58for
- 49:58anyone
- 49:58that
- 49:58doesn't
- 49:59know
- 49:59that,
- 49:59it's
- 49:59because
- 49:59you've
- 50:00never
- 50:00experienced
- 50:00it.
- 50:01It's.
- 50:01It's
- 50:01kind
- 50:01of
- 50:02like
- 50:02assuming
- 50:03that
- 50:03a
- 50:03relationship
- 50:04has
- 50:04no
- 50:05bumps
- 50:05in
- 50:05the
- 50:06road
- 50:06romantically.
- 50:07It's
- 50:07like,
- 50:08life's
- 50:08hard,
- 50:08work's
- 50:09hard,
- 50:09we're
- 50:09stressed.
- 50:10We
- 50:10have
- 50:10a
- 50:10huge
- 50:11amount
- 50:11of
- 50:11pressure
- 50:11on
- 50:11us.
- 50:12So
- 50:12it's
- 50:12not.
- 50:13We're
- 50:13not
- 50:13sitting
- 50:13there,
- 50:14like,
- 50:14laughing
- 50:14every
- 50:14five
- 50:15seconds.
- 50:15It's,
- 50:16you
- 50:16know,
- 50:16it's
- 50:16like
- 50:17there's
- 50:17a
- 50:17lot
- 50:17going
- 50:17on.
- 50:18But
- 50:19I
- 50:19think
- 50:19that
- 50:19having
- 50:20worked
- 50:20with
- 50:20someone
- 50:20before
- 50:21you
- 50:21go
- 50:21into
- 50:21business
- 50:21with
- 50:22them
- 50:22is
- 50:22a
- 50:22really
- 50:22good
- 50:23starting
- 50:23point.
- 50:23Like,
- 50:23if
- 50:24you
- 50:24look
- 50:24at
- 50:24the
- 50:24Shameless
- 50:25girls,
- 50:26they
- 50:26worked
- 50:27together
- 50:27in
- 50:27Mamma
- 50:28Mia.
- 50:28Before
- 50:28they
- 50:29started
- 50:29Shameless.
- 50:31And
- 50:31so
- 50:31I
- 50:31think
- 50:31when
- 50:31you
- 50:31know
- 50:32how
- 50:32someone
- 50:32works,
- 50:33it's
- 50:33a
- 50:33really
- 50:33good
- 50:34starting
- 50:34point.
- 50:34We
- 50:35didn't
- 50:35have
- 50:35that
- 50:35foundation,
- 50:36so
- 50:36we
- 50:36had
- 50:37to
- 50:37figure
- 50:37that
- 50:37out
- 50:37along
- 50:37the
- 50:37way.
- 50:38Well,
- 50:38speaking
- 50:38of
- 50:38Shameless,
- 50:39I
- 50:39remember
- 50:39I.
- 50:40They
- 50:40mentioned
- 50:40at
- 50:40one
- 50:41point
- 50:41on
- 50:41the
- 50:41podcast
- 50:43that
- 50:43they
- 50:43don't
- 50:44talk
- 50:44to
- 50:44each
- 50:44other
- 50:44on
- 50:45weekends
- 50:46to
- 50:46give
- 50:46themselves
- 50:47a
- 50:47little
- 50:47break.
- 50:48Do
- 50:48you
- 50:48do
- 50:48anything
- 50:49like
- 50:49that?
- 50:49Yeah,
- 50:50I
- 50:50mean,
- 50:50we.
- 50:50We've
- 50:50just
- 50:51spent
- 50:51so
- 50:51much
- 50:52time
- 50:52together
- 50:52now
- 50:52that
- 50:53we
- 50:53don't
- 50:53hang
- 50:53out
- 50:54that
- 50:54much
- 50:55unless
- 50:55it's
- 50:55with
- 50:55a
- 50:55group
- 50:56of
- 50:56friends,
- 50:57because
- 50:57we've
- 50:58got
- 50:58a
- 50:58lot
- 50:58of
- 50:58mutual
- 50:58friends.
- 50:59It's
- 51:00more
- 51:00just
- 51:00like,
- 51:00so
- 51:01easy
- 51:01to
- 51:01revert
- 51:01to
- 51:01talking
- 51:02about
- 51:02work.
- 51:02You
- 51:03know,
- 51:03Our
- 51:04relationship
- 51:04has
- 51:04changed
- 51:05so
- 51:05much.
- 51:07What,
- 51:07we
- 51:07started
- 51:07as
- 51:08friends
- 51:08and
- 51:08then
- 51:08turned
- 51:08business
- 51:09partners.
- 51:09We're
- 51:09now
- 51:10very
- 51:10much
- 51:10business
- 51:10partners
- 51:11and
- 51:11friends.
- 51:11But
- 51:12it's
- 51:12like
- 51:12the
- 51:12business
- 51:13is
- 51:13what
- 51:13we've
- 51:13prioritized
- 51:14because
- 51:15we
- 51:15can't
- 51:15help
- 51:16the
- 51:16fact
- 51:16that
- 51:16we
- 51:16have
- 51:17to
- 51:17spend
- 51:17so
- 51:17much
- 51:18time
- 51:18together
- 51:18and
- 51:19work.
- 51:19But
- 51:19what
- 51:20we
- 51:20can
- 51:20change
- 51:20is
- 51:21outside
- 51:21of
- 51:21work.
- 51:22And
- 51:22honestly,
- 51:23it
- 51:23does
- 51:23sometimes
- 51:24otherwise
- 51:24feel
- 51:24like
- 51:25you're
- 51:25working
- 51:26all
- 51:26the
- 51:26time.
- 51:26Because
- 51:26also
- 51:27our
- 51:27friendship
- 51:28is
- 51:28the
- 51:28podcast,
- 51:29which
- 51:30is
- 51:30also
- 51:31work.
- 51:31Do
- 51:31you
- 51:31know
- 51:31what
- 51:32I
- 51:32mean?
- 51:32So
- 51:32it's
- 51:32like,
- 51:33yeah,
- 51:33it's
- 51:34a
- 51:34complicated
- 51:34one.
- 51:34I
- 51:35think
- 51:35for
- 51:35us,
- 51:35what
- 51:35works
- 51:36best
- 51:36is
- 51:36hanging.
- 51:37Like,
- 51:37I
- 51:37had
- 51:37a
- 51:37dinner
- 51:37party
- 51:38at
- 51:38mine
- 51:38at
- 51:38the
- 51:38end
- 51:38of
- 51:39last
- 51:39year
- 51:39and
- 51:39I
- 51:40invited
- 51:40four
- 51:40friends
- 51:41that
- 51:41we're
- 51:41both
- 51:41really
- 51:41good
- 51:42friends
- 51:42with.
- 51:42And
- 51:42that
- 51:42was
- 51:43so
- 51:43lovely
- 51:44because
- 51:44we
- 51:45can
- 51:45just
- 51:45talk
- 51:45about
- 51:46normal
- 51:46stuff.
- 51:47It's
- 51:47not
- 51:48anywhere
- 51:49near
- 51:49the
- 51:49curve,
- 51:50you
- 51:50know.
- 51:50And
- 51:51I
- 51:51think
- 51:51for
- 51:52Vic
- 51:52and
- 51:52I,
- 51:52we're
- 51:52both
- 51:53very
- 51:53all
- 51:53consuming
- 51:54in
- 51:54terms
- 51:54of
- 51:54work.
- 51:55We
- 51:55both
- 51:55work
- 51:56ridiculous
- 51:56hours
- 51:57and
- 51:57we're
- 51:57really
- 51:57obsessed
- 51:58with
- 51:59making
- 51:59the
- 52:00business
- 52:00as
- 52:00good
- 52:00as
- 52:01it
- 52:01can
- 52:01be.
- 52:01And
- 52:02I
- 52:02think
- 52:02that
- 52:03with.
- 52:03That
- 52:03means
- 52:04we're
- 52:04not
- 52:04great
- 52:04with
- 52:05our
- 52:05own
- 52:05boundaries
- 52:06anyway
- 52:07in
- 52:07terms
- 52:07of
- 52:08work
- 52:08life
- 52:08boundaries.
- 52:09I'm
- 52:09trying
- 52:09so
- 52:10hard
- 52:10to
- 52:10be
- 52:10better
- 52:10at
- 52:10it,
- 52:11but
- 52:11one
- 52:11thing
- 52:11that
- 52:12we
- 52:12can
- 52:12do
- 52:13is
- 52:14have,
- 52:14you
- 52:14know,
- 52:14like
- 52:15separate
- 52:15work
- 52:15and
- 52:15friendship
- 52:16chat.
- 52:16So
- 52:16like
- 52:18we've,
- 52:18we've
- 52:18done
- 52:19things
- 52:19like
- 52:19we've
- 52:19got
- 52:19now
- 52:20slack
- 52:20for
- 52:20our
- 52:20work
- 52:21chat
- 52:21rather
- 52:21than
- 52:21having
- 52:22WhatsApp,
- 52:22you
- 52:22know,
- 52:22it
- 52:22was
- 52:23sort
- 52:23of
- 52:23being
- 52:23like,
- 52:23hey,
- 52:23what
- 52:24are
- 52:24you
- 52:24doing
- 52:24on
- 52:24Saturday?
- 52:24To
- 52:25like,
- 52:25can
- 52:25you
- 52:25send
- 52:25me
- 52:25this
- 52:25blah,
- 52:26blah,
- 52:26you
- 52:26know,
- 52:26and
- 52:26that's
- 52:27really
- 52:27confusing.
- 52:27So
- 52:27I
- 52:27think
- 52:28separating
- 52:28out
- 52:28comms
- 52:29was
- 52:29really
- 52:29helpful.
- 52:30The
- 52:30team
- 52:30is
- 52:31also
- 52:31growing,
- 52:31so
- 52:31it's
- 52:32not
- 52:32just
- 52:32Vic
- 52:32and
- 52:32I
- 52:33anymore.
- 52:33And
- 52:33that's
- 52:33also
- 52:34changed
- 52:34the
- 52:34dynamic.
- 52:35So
- 52:35it's
- 52:35quite
- 52:35clear
- 52:35on
- 52:35who
- 52:36does
- 52:36what,
- 52:36which
- 52:36I
- 52:36think
- 52:36is
- 52:37actually
- 52:37probably
- 52:38helped
- 52:38in
- 52:38terms
- 52:38of
- 52:39the
- 52:39more
- 52:40that
- 52:40we
- 52:40free
- 52:40up
- 52:41and
- 52:41kind
- 52:41of
- 52:41actually
- 52:41as
- 52:42the
- 52:42business
- 52:42grows
- 52:42and
- 52:43our
- 52:43jobs
- 52:43start
- 52:43to
- 52:44become
- 52:44slightly
- 52:45less
- 52:45intertwined,
- 52:46I
- 52:46would
- 52:47say
- 52:47we'll
- 52:47slowly
- 52:48build
- 52:48back
- 52:49up
- 52:49more
- 52:50time
- 52:50outside
- 52:50of
- 52:50work.
- 52:52If
- 52:52you
- 52:52could
- 52:52go
- 52:52back
- 52:52and
- 52:53talk
- 52:53to
- 52:53your
- 52:54younger
- 52:54self,
- 52:55do
- 52:55you
- 52:55think
- 52:55she'd
- 52:55be
- 52:55surprised
- 52:56at
- 52:56where
- 52:56you've
- 52:56ended
- 52:57up?
- 52:57It
- 52:57would
- 52:58be.
- 52:58She'd
- 52:58fall
- 52:58off
- 52:58her
- 52:59chair
- 52:59laughing.
- 53:00Especially
- 53:01if
- 53:01the
- 53:01content
- 53:01that
- 53:02she's
- 53:02creating
- 53:02is
- 53:03for
- 53:03money.
- 53:05I
- 53:05think
- 53:05mainly
- 53:06she'd
- 53:06be
- 53:06surprised
- 53:07because
- 53:08my
- 53:08perception
- 53:08of
- 53:08money
- 53:08used
- 53:09to
- 53:09be
- 53:10I,
- 53:10I'm
- 53:10a
- 53:11creative.
- 53:11So
- 53:11like,
- 53:11I
- 53:12don't
- 53:12care
- 53:12about
- 53:12money.
- 53:13I'm
- 53:13not
- 53:13materialistic.
- 53:14I
- 53:14don't
- 53:14need
- 53:14to
- 53:14worry
- 53:15about
- 53:15finance
- 53:15and
- 53:15budgeting.
- 53:17Like,
- 53:17how
- 53:17sad
- 53:18that
- 53:18that's
- 53:18the
- 53:18rhetoric
- 53:19that
- 53:19we've
- 53:20all
- 53:20had.
- 53:20Because
- 53:21creativity
- 53:22and
- 53:22being
- 53:23financially
- 53:23astute
- 53:23are
- 53:24not
- 53:24mutually
- 53:24exclusive.
- 53:25They
- 53:25can
- 53:26exist
- 53:26together
- 53:26and
- 53:26they
- 53:27should
- 53:27exist
- 53:27together.
- 53:28And
- 53:28there'd
- 53:28probably
- 53:28be
- 53:28more
- 53:29creativity
- 53:29if
- 53:29they
- 53:29existed
- 53:30together.
- 53:30If
- 53:31I
- 53:31spoken
- 53:32to
- 53:32my
- 53:32younger
- 53:32self
- 53:32saying
- 53:32what
- 53:33I
- 53:33would
- 53:33be
- 53:33creating
- 53:33content
- 53:34about,
- 53:34I
- 53:34would
- 53:34have
- 53:34been
- 53:35judgmental
- 53:35and
- 53:35I
- 53:36would
- 53:36have
- 53:36said
- 53:37that's
- 53:37a
- 53:37bit
- 53:37icky.
- 53:38Like,
- 53:38why
- 53:38are
- 53:39you
- 53:39talking
- 53:39or
- 53:39learning
- 53:40about
- 53:40money
- 53:40or
- 53:40credit?
- 53:41Like,
- 53:41you
- 53:42don't
- 53:42care
- 53:42about
- 53:42that
- 53:42stuff.
- 53:43And
- 53:44I
- 53:44just
- 53:44did
- 53:44myself
- 53:44such
- 53:45a
- 53:45disservice
- 53:45by
- 53:46thinking
- 53:47that
- 53:47because
- 53:48I
- 53:48think
- 53:49it
- 53:49prevented
- 53:49me
- 53:49from
- 53:50looking
- 53:50at
- 53:50my
- 53:50finances
- 53:51sooner.
- 53:51Well,
- 53:52we're
- 53:52pretty
- 53:52much
- 53:52out
- 53:52of
- 53:52time.
- 53:53But
- 53:53where
- 53:53can
- 53:54people
- 53:54find
- 53:54you?
- 53:54There's
- 53:54lots
- 53:55of
- 53:55places
- 53:55hit
- 53:55with
- 53:56all
- 53:56of
- 53:56them.
- 53:57We're
- 53:57spamming
- 53:58you
- 53:58on
- 53:58all
- 53:58fronts
- 53:59at
- 53:59the
- 53:59Curve
- 54:00platform,
- 54:00on
- 54:00socials
- 54:01like
- 54:01Instagram,
- 54:02TikTok,
- 54:02et
- 54:02cetera.
- 54:03TheCurvePlatform.com
- 54:04is
- 54:05our
- 54:05website
- 54:06and
- 54:06our
- 54:06podcast
- 54:07is
- 54:07the
- 54:07Curve
- 54:07Podcast.
- 54:08So
- 54:08yeah,
- 54:09we
- 54:09do
- 54:09two
- 54:09podcasts
- 54:10a
- 54:10week.
- 54:10One
- 54:10that's
- 54:10more
- 54:11interview
- 54:11style,
- 54:12speaking
- 54:12to
- 54:12amazing
- 54:13people
- 54:13like
- 54:13yourself
- 54:14and
- 54:14also
- 54:15focusing
- 54:15on
- 54:16like
- 54:16topics.
- 54:16So
- 54:17it
- 54:17might
- 54:17be
- 54:17what
- 54:17is
- 54:17your
- 54:17enough
- 54:18number
- 54:18or
- 54:19how
- 54:19do
- 54:19you
- 54:19diversify?
- 54:20So
- 54:20kind
- 54:21of
- 54:21focus
- 54:21topics.
- 54:21And
- 54:22then
- 54:22we
- 54:22have
- 54:22the
- 54:22Curve
- 54:22weekly,
- 54:23which
- 54:23is
- 54:23our
- 54:23news
- 54:23weekly
- 54:24news.
- 54:24So
- 54:24if
- 54:24you
- 54:24want
- 54:24to
- 54:25stay
- 54:25up
- 54:25to
- 54:25date
- 54:25with
- 54:26what's
- 54:26happening
- 54:26and
- 54:26feel
- 54:27kind
- 54:27of
- 54:27smart,
- 54:27but
- 54:27in
- 54:28a
- 54:28way
- 54:28that
- 54:28feels
- 54:28like
- 54:28you're
- 54:29learning
- 54:29with
- 54:29friends,
- 54:29then
- 54:30the
- 54:30Curve
- 54:30Podcast
- 54:31is
- 54:31a
- 54:31really
- 54:31good
- 54:31one.
- 54:32Love
- 54:32it
- 54:32so
- 54:32much.
- 54:32Sophie
- 54:33Horo,
- 54:33thank
- 54:33you
- 54:34so
- 54:34much
- 54:34for
- 54:34coming
- 54:34on
- 54:34Making
- 54:35Sense.
- 54:35Absolute
- 54:35delight
- 54:36chatting
- 54:36to
- 54:36you
- 54:36now.
- 54:37If
- 54:37this
- 54:37episode
- 54:37was
- 54:37helpful
- 54:38to
- 54:38you,
- 54:38send
- 54:38it
- 54:38to
- 54:38a
- 54:39friend.
- 54:39First
- 54:39and
- 54:39foremost,
- 54:39let's
- 54:40all
- 54:40level
- 54:40up
- 54:40with
- 54:40money
- 54:40together.
- 54:41Until
- 54:41next
- 54:42time,
- 54:42have
- 54:42a
- 54:42great
- 54:42day.
- 54:44This
- 54:45podcast
- 54:45can
- 54:45only
- 54:46give
- 54:46you
- 54:46general
- 54:46information
- 54:47about
- 54:47how
- 54:48things
- 54:48work
- 54:48in
- 54:48most
- 54:49situations.
- 54:50It's
- 54:50not
- 54:50individual
- 54:51financial
- 54:51advice.
- 54:52If
- 54:52you're
- 54:53after
- 54:53that,
- 54:53a
- 54:53financial
- 54:54advisor
- 54:54is
- 54:55always
- 54:55the
- 54:55best
- 54:56bet.