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- 0:00Hi, Benny here and I'm here with George Velachos AKA Digital
- 0:03Nachos. Welcome.
- 0:04Welcome, George. Thank you, glad to be here.
- 0:06Good to be have you here, you. For the people who don't know
- 0:10George, he's been the legend who's built our volunteer
- 0:13management app. So 12 months ago or even 16
- 0:16months ago, we we didn't have volunteers.
- 0:19But then all this stuff needed to get done each week and we
- 0:21were sort of scratching our heads how to organise it.
- 0:24But George lucky as a friend of mine and sort of came in with
- 0:27this problem because we'd looked at some other volunteer
- 0:30management software and they were super confusing, super
- 0:33expensive. And George just said, oh, I'll
- 0:35just build you 1. And I said what?
- 0:37And he just whipped one up in about a week and it's been
- 0:40unbelievable. So I thought it's really
- 0:41important to get you on for a number of reasons.
- 0:43One is thanks. But two, also some people know
- 0:45who's who's built this app that we've been all the volleys have
- 0:48been using every week. But before I get into that,
- 0:51we'll talk about the the app you've been travelling the last
- 0:5512 months around the world, a little bit of digital nomad and
- 0:58you've written as you got back, you wrote an essay called titled
- 1:02The Architecture of Connection, How social collisions build
- 1:07thriving communities. Why'd you write it and what's it
- 1:11about? We'll put it in the show notes,
- 1:13link to the show notes when he wants to read it, but.
- 1:15Yeah, Yeah, it's a very early version of actually.
- 1:17You're probably the only person that actually shared with this.
- 1:22Yeah, Ben, but I'm mostly working on like putting it in
- 1:26more plain English onto like a sub stack article, so hopefully
- 1:29that'll be a bit more digestible as well.
- 1:33Also legend. Come a bit closer, come a.
- 1:35Little bit closer. OK, this face from the face.
- 1:37Oh OK, hopefully this is better. That's good, but legend is a big
- 1:41word. I don't use it sparingly mate.
- 1:44Do not use it sparingly. But so, OK, going back all the
- 1:48way, why have I written this and what's kind of motivated me to
- 1:51write this? So yeah, I left, left Canberra
- 1:57around October last year, stayed at the coast with some friends
- 2:02for a few months and then kind of went around Australia for a
- 2:05bit. And then for most of the year I
- 2:08was going around Europe and the US and the whole mission was, I
- 2:13know Canberra is amazing and like Australia is amazing, I
- 2:16love it. We're pretty close to Sydney and
- 2:20Melbourne. Like whatever, life is great.
- 2:22But I'm a very curious person. So I was like, let's just go
- 2:28around the world, try and see if there's a better place to live,
- 2:31whatever that is for me, what that means.
- 2:34And I've like, after a year of travelling, I've sort of nailed
- 2:38it down to what it means for me. So for me, I want to be
- 2:41somewhere where people are ambitious, but not ambitious to
- 2:46the degree of backstabbing everyone else.
- 2:48Like I want it to be still be a very kind of purposeful social
- 2:52community, helping each other out and helping support the
- 2:57whole community, not to the degree of like detrimental to
- 3:01each other. So I had been to the US for a
- 3:05bit. A little bit of backstabbing
- 3:07there was there. No, no, no, I just like it.
- 3:10No, like for me, just travelling around, it's hard to get
- 3:13backstabbed, you know, because I'm maximum two weeks out of
- 3:15place and it's not. Long enough?
- 3:17It's not long enough to get stabbed, is it?
- 3:19Too. Wait, that's right, that's
- 3:20right. I was like maybe not, not long,
- 3:22not too long so I can get backstabbed.
- 3:25So I guess to not drag out the the background too long, I sort
- 3:32of realised that yes, certain places attract certain kinds of
- 3:36people, but at the end of the day, that's what the ideal place
- 3:40is all about the people. So for me, I can try and maybe
- 3:44pick a better place and deal with the trade offs that it has,
- 3:49or I can be a little bit crazy and try and bring all the best
- 3:54things from era, all the different places that I
- 3:56experienced in the world back to the place I know, which is
- 3:59Canberra. So like looking back in my life,
- 4:04certain kind of decision frameworks and what's led me to
- 4:07where I am, I've always had the mindset of wanting to be the
- 4:12change that I want to see in the world.
- 4:15So I was like, at least I can try for 12 months and see what
- 4:18happens. And so this is kind of like I
- 4:23stumbled across some very interesting books while I was
- 4:25also thinking about those kind of things.
- 4:28And it sort of just helped me put everything together and
- 4:33connect everything as to what I think Canberra is missing and
- 4:37what can be done to make it better.
- 4:40Obviously this is very personal based on my experience, but.
- 4:43And what makes you think it's the people like you just said
- 4:46that you want to, yeah, bring people together, But like, why
- 4:51is that? What like you're a open source
- 4:54developer and your former Co founder told me that you're a
- 4:56big like that open source community really helped teach
- 4:59you how to learn how to code and that you always felt very
- 5:02grateful back to back to that community.
- 5:04So what is that? Is that been a big part that
- 5:06experience been a big part of why you sort of want to bring
- 5:10people together for the better of Canberra And then I guess how
- 5:14and then you really talk about this social collisions.
- 5:16I guess, sorry, answer that first question, then we'll get
- 5:17into this social collisions because it's something I found
- 5:19really interesting, which is super applicable to our for our.
- 5:23Yeah. So I mean, you start to, you
- 5:28know, if you look at life, you're going to use the onion
- 5:30analogy. For me, it's like you peel back
- 5:33the layers of the onion. It's like, yes, work is
- 5:36important. Yes, whatever is important.
- 5:39Like what are some people like cooking, art, music, all those
- 5:43things are important. But at the end of the day, what
- 5:46is behind all those things? It's people, relationships.
- 5:49Yeah, yeah, yeah. So if you break it down to the
- 5:52very foundational layout, it's always people.
- 5:55Like there's people behind everything.
- 5:57So for me, it's like pretty like simple.
- 6:02Now, in my head, I've probably gone through too many
- 6:04existential crisis to get to this point, but yeah, that's
- 6:10sort of like having a good community, looking out for each
- 6:12other. That's kind of like humans have
- 6:15evolved. Like, I hate to use the
- 6:17historian perspective, but if you want to go we.
- 6:21Haven't evolved past the need of our genetics, not needing
- 6:23community and other people. Yeah, that's what I personally
- 6:26think. Yeah, that's right.
- 6:28No I agree, but then what do you so like?
- 6:30But then why did you write this? Was it just, you've just
- 6:34travelling and you had lots of thoughts and you just want to do
- 6:36a bit of a brain dump at the end and try and link it all
- 6:39together? And then let's expand on this
- 6:42social collisions bit. So, you know, like why, what,
- 6:45what is the purpose of writing it?
- 6:46Like obviously you want to bring people together to help make
- 6:51Canberra better and to maximise it's potential.
- 6:53All that's in a in a positive way.
- 6:54But then and then, yeah, what about the these cat of the
- 6:56collisions play into that? Yeah.
- 6:59So it's I've tried to think about it a few different angles
- 7:02to try and explain this, but essentially one, it was first
- 7:09hand evidence. So while I was travelling, I
- 7:12actually did a bunch of dinners with strangers.
- 7:14So there's a few apps out there at the moment where you just
- 7:18sign up and you just, there's like usually 6 or 7 strangers
- 7:21have dinner with them. Dinner with strangers?
- 7:24Never met them. You don't get to see a profile
- 7:25of them. Before nothing you didn't know
- 7:27anything about. The only thing I think they tell
- 7:29you is like the nationality which the user picks and there's
- 7:36a very brief you don't know about each person that just
- 7:39tells you what kind of industry everyone's in, like work wise.
- 7:44So I was like, I'm a curious person again, I might as well
- 7:48try and meet some other what? City was this in?
- 7:50I did it in all sorts of different cities yeah.
- 7:53So this is so time left is 1 app did that across Europe and the
- 7:58US and then the US has another really cool app called 222 and.
- 8:05That's New York based, that one. Is that the one you showed me?
- 8:07Yeah. Yeah, yeah.
- 8:08So it's New York, Chicago, LA, like pretty much the major U.S.
- 8:12cities. But doing that made me realise,
- 8:17like you, just the wildest things in a very wild, in a very
- 8:23good way happen when you least expect it.
- 8:26So yes, you can try and optimise like, oh, I want to meet this
- 8:30person, I want to meet this person.
- 8:32Or like, I want to do this, but having some sort of capacity of
- 8:37leaving yourself open to chance encounters and serendipity is
- 8:42like, you never know what's going to come out of that.
- 8:45And a lot of the times, if not all the times, it's actually
- 8:50very positive and very meaningful.
- 8:52So that's kind of my thinking behind social collisions is we
- 8:56just, I would love to increase the amount of random social
- 9:00collisions that happen in public.
- 9:03So there's the chance encounters that you just, it's not like a
- 9:06networking thing where it's, you know, you're meeting this person
- 9:09because you think there's a way they can benefit you or vice
- 9:12versa. It's just this chance encounter
- 9:14that's just not architected or like designed or artificial is
- 9:20that that's what a collision is. So.
- 9:21I hate networking events. I absolutely despise them.
- 9:25Like, but if I'm at a cafe, I will always talk to someone at
- 9:29that cafe. If I'm waiting in the line, I
- 9:31will always try and make a mistake.
- 9:33I'm not going to like jump in and be like, hey, you talking to
- 9:36your friend? Yeah, yeah, talk to you.
- 9:38No, I'm not going to do that. But you can get a, a general
- 9:42vibe of is this person open to being talked to?
- 9:45Are they not? And so a lot of the times this
- 9:50is the thing, I'm just going to go back to travel a little bit.
- 9:52But this is the thing I realised when I came back to Australia,
- 9:56there were a couple of things that I was really missing from
- 9:59my travel, but not in a way that made me want to travel again, in
- 10:03a way that made me want to bring them to my day to day life.
- 10:07And one of them was just, you know, we can just say whatever
- 10:11we want and. When you're travelling.
- 10:13Yeah, when you're travelling. But like in general, as it turns
- 10:16out, not just when we're travelling, like we've got
- 10:18thoughts, we can say them and people react and we can have a
- 10:22conversation. Like that's it.
- 10:24But we don't, I mean, I don't share everything, all my
- 10:27thoughts, especially in my community because I might offend
- 10:29people or I guess what you're saying when you're travelling
- 10:32there's a lot more freedom than what you say, might not come
- 10:36back to bite you in the arse long term.
- 10:38But how many times has it come back to bite you like it hasn't?
- 10:43I don't know because I keep my mouth shut all.
- 10:44The time, maybe that's. Yeah, maybe.
- 10:46You share all my opinions. Yeah, you can tell who's the
- 10:49wiser one in here, but. I'm good at apologising when I.
- 10:56Yeah, yeah. But for me I guess like
- 10:59sometimes. It's I miss the freedom to just
- 11:00wish I could just always just say what's on my mind like and
- 11:04that's a sign of a good friend. It's some I have a few friends
- 11:07brainy just about top of the list who is just so I can tell
- 11:10him whatever I'm thinking and I know I won't feel judged even if
- 11:13what I say is complete garbage and not not well thought out.
- 11:17Like it might offend him or upset him but he just knows it's
- 11:20just me just working things soon.
- 11:22If I do overstep the line I apologise but yeah, so brainy.
- 11:26Yeah, he knows what I'm talking about.
- 11:28We've had a few convos where I've not let RIP but just word
- 11:33vomited. But like.
- 11:36And that's a big part of our friendship and the trust that I
- 11:38have around him, that I trust him, that I can just be myself
- 11:40and word vomit around and that he's not going to judge me for
- 11:44it. But like, can I, can I role play
- 11:46for a little bit? So if a stranger came up to you
- 11:50and they started telling you their thoughts, would you tell
- 11:53them that's garbage, Don't talk to me.
- 11:56No, I'd listen. Exactly.
- 11:59If I wasn't in a rush, yeah. I didn't need to be that girl.
- 12:01That's OK. Have you thought about this or?
- 12:03Usually, or for me, I, like I said, I do it when I'm sitting
- 12:06down at a cafe. So if I see someone just holding
- 12:08a cup of coffee, I'm going to assume they're not in a rush.
- 12:12So it's like a lot of it is just.
- 12:15So the environment creates this context where you think you,
- 12:17you, they're open for a conversation and.
- 12:20Yeah, yeah. I mean, if I see someone rushing
- 12:21to get a taxi, I'm not going to go and say oh hey.
- 12:24Hey can we have a chat? Yeah, where are you going real
- 12:26quick? Can I interview you?
- 12:27Or like, you know, I'm not going to do that.
- 12:29But if someone's just sitting down, they're comfortable,
- 12:32they're not in a rush and like, yes, I'm not going to go just
- 12:37blur whatever is I'm thinking. But I'm just trying to show, I
- 12:42guess, in a way that if someone talks to you like is very pure
- 12:47with their thoughts, with their thoughts and tell you what they
- 12:49think, you're not going to maybe you'll judge them, sure.
- 12:52Maybe you're like, maybe I don't want to talk to this.
- 12:54Yeah, yeah, I don't want to talk to this person again.
- 12:57But chances are you're going to listen to them.
- 13:01You're not going to tell them straight to their face.
- 13:02It's like just being open minded and being like conscious that
- 13:07everyone goes through, regardless of whether they're
- 13:09your close friend or someone's strange, like a complete
- 13:11stranger. We're all humans and doesn't
- 13:15make much of a difference to me. So back to the, you say in the
- 13:18cafe, and it's like the context. If someone's rushing to get
- 13:21their taxi, you can't really talk to them.
- 13:23But if they're in the cafe, it's the environment that creates the
- 13:26permission for a conversation, which is something we try and do
- 13:29on a Wednesday night or whenever after you do a run, there's
- 13:32permission and the environment to have a chat.
- 13:35I mean, for people who haven't read or whatever, assume no one
- 13:37else has read, read this. How are some other ways based on
- 13:40what you've seen around the world around creating more of
- 13:43those environments for these social collisions 'cause you
- 13:46also state that, you know, there's two types of importance
- 13:49that are you call them it's social capital, but really it's
- 13:53like it's friendship. There's like obviously the long
- 13:56term, like family friendships. And then there's the these more
- 13:59bridging capital, which are like just the day to day.
- 14:04What's the word like? The weak there's like.
- 14:08Weak ties. What's the weak ties?
- 14:10Yeah. And then how if you those weak
- 14:12ties can eventually then with enough collisions can grow into
- 14:15real friendships. But yeah, how do you reckon we
- 14:19can design, especially Canberra and Afra, to create more of
- 14:24these environments which increase these collisions?
- 14:27Yeah, I mean, I think that's one thing that Alpha is absolutely
- 14:30nailing because we do not have enough third spaces in, I mean,
- 14:36definitely in Canberra, but in Australia in general.
- 14:39The one thing I absolutely loved about the US and Southeast Asia
- 14:44is that I could just go like anywhere, at any Cafe, pull out
- 14:49my laptop. I would find other people
- 14:51working there's. But like there's something for
- 14:55everyone. Whether you're into fitness,
- 14:56you're whether you're into like Co working and meeting those
- 14:59kind of people, whether you just want to go out for a drink.
- 15:01There's so many third spaces in the open at various times
- 15:06throughout the day. Explain the third space just for
- 15:08anyone that hasn't had the term. The simplest way you can explain
- 15:12it is there's kind of two main spaces in our lives.
- 15:16One's our workplace, the second is our home, and a third space
- 15:21is kind of just any space that is not those two.
- 15:23So it could be just out in the park, it could be a cafe,
- 15:29literally. Place to make friends or hobbies
- 15:31or. Yeah, it doesn't.
- 15:34That's the, this is my naive interpretation.
- 15:37Like it doesn't actually have to be that productive.
- 15:40It doesn't have to have a focus to.
- 15:42It doesn't have to be I'm going to go there to make friends or
- 15:44I'm going to go there to do something.
- 15:47It's just maybe I'm sick of work and home and I just want to go
- 15:52somewhere else to decompress out of those two things.
- 15:55And again, this is me jumping ahead, but if you're open minded
- 15:59and you just go somewhere else, like maybe you'll meet someone,
- 16:02maybe there'll be some chance encounter.
- 16:04Well, you get in, you get into like the social anxiety.
- 16:07I don't know what page it's on that I think holds a lot of
- 16:10people back when we've heard from our for our like feedback
- 16:13we've had, especially with the big crowds.
- 16:15I don't know where it is, but you, you, you describe it pretty
- 16:19like spot on around. Oh, there's social anxiety.
- 16:22It effects a huge amount of adults, which manifests worrying
- 16:25about upcoming social events, fear of judgement and and
- 16:28creates avoidance behaviours. And that events with clear
- 16:32structure, defined duration and shared focus reduces anxiety and
- 16:36these barriers and increases attendance.
- 16:38So which is something I think we're doing pretty well at our
- 16:42for our. So my brain's just what were we
- 16:44talking about? No, no.
- 16:45No, Yeah, so. We want to create more of these
- 16:48third spaces. Sorry, that's right.
- 16:49Why do we need more of them? Apart from, I guess they're just
- 16:53good stress relievers from the work and work at home, yeah.
- 16:58Why is Australia, why is Canberra falling behind in the
- 17:02third space department compared to the US and South East Asia?
- 17:05Yeah, yeah. So for example, on my second day
- 17:09back in Canberra from coming back to Australia, I just had a
- 17:14random chat as I do in the cafe, like here, my favourite cafe in
- 17:20Canberra with this lady long term in the APS, lovely lady.
- 17:24And we both kind of bonded over how there's nothing, there's
- 17:29nothing open after 5:00 PM. It's like, oh, you know, just
- 17:33like a quick drink after work somewhere close by in the city
- 17:37or some people, not even a drink, just like a coffee.
- 17:40You're not going to especially coffee, you're not going to find
- 17:42anything else. But yeah, everyone listeners,
- 17:44not a good way to get sleep if you haven't have our coffees.
- 17:47Sure, you can get decaf, some people have coffee and you know
- 17:52they have 5 coffees a day and they're fine.
- 17:55But choice is good, right? Like and that's coming back to
- 17:58why having more third space isn't is important.
- 18:01I'm not saying let's go open up 24/7 cafes everywhere.
- 18:05I think having multiple choices. So some people would like a
- 18:08cafe, some people like to get active.
- 18:11Or pub. Pub.
- 18:12Yeah, Pub is a great example. I remember you were telling me
- 18:16about. I didn't know about this.
- 18:18Well, yes, the pubs were originally called public houses.
- 18:20You write and you write. Amazing thing in here about the
- 18:22Penny University. Yeah, yeah, you.
- 18:24Originally like the term, because I know there's the cafe
- 18:27in Kingston. I don't know what page it was
- 18:29on. Oh, here we go.
- 18:30Yeah. And the King Charles over tried
- 18:33to ban him because in 1675, yeah, there was Penny
- 18:36University. It was like a cafe where you'd
- 18:38pay a penny to get in 2 pence for your coffee, and then you
- 18:41could have wide ranging discourse.
- 18:44Yeah, which was like a place for free speech and conversation.
- 18:48And yeah, King Charles tried to suppress it and ban it and tell
- 18:51you there was a huge public uproar.
- 18:53And yeah, this there was a space to come and chat and connect,
- 18:56kind of like what this space is. Exactly.
- 18:58But yeah, we're conversation we had this morning.
- 19:01Exactly, exactly. And that's, that's the other
- 19:03thing like Co Co working is another 3rd space.
- 19:06Like it's not necessarily an office where you're bounded in a
- 19:09way. I mean, it depends on the
- 19:11environment. I'm getting a bit out of out.
- 19:12Of well, this is how we met. Oh no, we met through Startup
- 19:15Striders, which was like another chance.
- 19:17That's right. Which?
- 19:18Is very, which is just a group that goes to park runs on
- 19:20Saturday. They're interested in startups.
- 19:22Yeah, it's just a WhatsApp group.
- 19:24Yeah. And that's how we said we were
- 19:26running a couple of times through I guess that and that's
- 19:29probably what I've. Well, I guess I wanted to talk
- 19:31about it. This is, I think, running for
- 19:32resilience and park run out of places for these chance
- 19:35collisions. And then when you have a few of
- 19:36these, you collide them. We collided at work club, yes,
- 19:42Co working space and that's how sort of our friendship grew.
- 19:45And then when I I came to you with the problem about how we
- 19:47were trying to manage running for resilience Vault, running
- 19:48for resilience volleys, and then you offered amazing.
- 19:53Exactly like. It's just such a good example.
- 19:55Exactly how? How do we get to you?
- 19:57It's just chance like. We were just both open minded,
- 20:02kind of going to different third spaces, kept meeting up and
- 20:06that's that's like the more diversity you have in the third
- 20:09spaces, the easier it is to actually philtre people, I think
- 20:12because then you're like, Oh, this one person keeps coming to
- 20:16all the other things that I'm going.
- 20:18So you're like, oh, maybe we're probably.
- 20:20Got something similar with that guy.
- 20:21Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. So, well, because a lot like, so
- 20:25this is something, yeah, you wrote about, yeah, the
- 20:28collisions and incidental bump insurance and how that sort of
- 20:32really sparks, those incidental bump insurance is what sparks
- 20:35sort of by people who become end up becoming friends.
- 20:40And you argue that there's, you know, it is very important for
- 20:43her to have lots of like weak ties, something that my wife
- 20:47would strongly disagree with. And I've had a lot of debates
- 20:50with her because I've moved heaps.
- 20:52I know a lot of people, like I got a lot of Facebook friends,
- 20:55the people that are actually like everywhere we go, we joke
- 20:57that I sort of know someone just because, yeah, they've just
- 20:59moved around and met every people through sport and the
- 21:01pub. But she thinks she believes you
- 21:05only actually need like a couple of really good friends and and
- 21:08she's unbelievably super close to the family and she actually
- 21:12doesn't believe in weak ties at all.
- 21:14Can you for just anyone that's listening, my wife is listening.
- 21:17Can you go into bat for the weak ties, like those weak
- 21:20connections? And I certainly think you you've
- 21:24got to have a few very, really strong relationships, like
- 21:27especially with family and and there are like some really core
- 21:31friendships. But what were those other
- 21:33benefits of those weak ties and having a lot of, yeah, having a
- 21:37lot of connections? I guess I would love, can I flip
- 21:41back the question and it's OK to know, but I would actually love
- 21:44to understand more about the rationale for thinking that
- 21:49strong ties, like strong bonds are the only thing that's needed
- 21:54if that makes. Sense well, and my argument to
- 21:55her is what happens if something happens to those if you only got
- 21:57a few really strong ties and something happens to those ties.
- 22:00Yeah, that's another thing. Yeah, yes.
- 22:03And whereas if you've got a lot of friendships, I guess they're
- 22:06not as strong, Some will, some may grow kind of like a garden,
- 22:09some will grow big, some might not.
- 22:11And you don't really know, I guess that's why.
- 22:15But I do agree especially, and that's something social media
- 22:18plays a lot on. People get caught up in having
- 22:20their follower count and I've got millions of it, like Avicii,
- 22:23one of my favourite artists, you know, millions of followers,
- 22:27brilliant DJ, unbelievably lonely and took his own life.
- 22:30So I guess that's, that's, yeah, an example of probably too many
- 22:35weak ties having millions of fans.
- 22:37But they're no no really strong, strong relationships.
- 22:41Yeah, yeah. So I guess my view on that is
- 22:44like everything in life needed, everything is good in
- 22:47moderation. So you definitely like having
- 22:51your family and keeping those strong bonds is really
- 22:55important. Like you look out after one
- 22:57another, you're always there for one another.
- 23:00But as flawed humans that we are and the kind of experience that
- 23:08we accumulate across our lifespan is very limited based
- 23:13on our like brain and eyes that we have, right?
- 23:18So and the environment that we're in.
- 23:20So one is by actually just opening yourself out there to
- 23:24the world, you learn more about what what is.
- 23:28More people you make, the more information you get.
- 23:30Yeah, exactly, exactly, exactly. And there's, like, a lot.
- 23:35And bad. Good and bad and you have to be
- 23:37very careful of course, like anything.
- 23:39And another thing is like I try whenever I think about
- 23:43something, whether it's like a social, I love maths or computer
- 23:47science from a computer science background, I try and like find
- 23:51the parallels across all those concepts.
- 23:53So then like you in investing, you look at the concept of like
- 23:58don't put all your eggs in one basket or you get to diversify
- 24:01your portfolio. And I can go into the reasons of
- 24:05why they say you're going to diversify your portfolio, but
- 24:09there's if you look at it from a very woo woo high level.
- 24:14Diversify your friendships. Not yeah, yeah, just diversify
- 24:18your interactions. Like I wouldn't even.
- 24:20I think having friendship, solid friendships is good and you
- 24:23can't always go and keep making new friends.
- 24:27I think for me, weak ties is not necessarily go out there and
- 24:31make as many friends as you can. It's just go out there, meet
- 24:35someone you be genuinely interested about.
- 24:38Even if it's just like an hour or 30 minutes or 15 minutes,
- 24:41like you guys talk, you'll get an idea of who they are and who
- 24:45knows what might happen out of that or who knows what might
- 24:48happen down down the track. But what what are the barriers
- 24:52to do? I mean, obviously there's the
- 24:54fear of going to dinner with six strangers or 7 strangers.
- 24:58Is that something you're going to keep doing now you're back in
- 25:00Canberra or is it just a something that you do when
- 25:03you're travelling and you've actually got time?
- 25:06So I actually did. You've done.
- 25:08You've done my first dinner with strangers in Canberra.
- 25:12Was it 2 weeks ago? I think yeah, because I was
- 25:14really excited. I was like, I'm curious to see
- 25:17how this is going to go in Canberra.
- 25:21I don't want to. Obviously I'm saying all these
- 25:24exciting things I said about Canberra.
- 25:25I don't want to bag Canberra but I went in with pretty low
- 25:29expectations and that's just because I know the nature of.
- 25:33You know what most Cam barons do?
- 25:35And exactly, I was like the typical Cam Baron would not
- 25:38attend something like this. I was curious to see what kind
- 25:40of people would go. So funnily enough half the
- 25:45people didn't show up. So out of 6/3 didn't show up.
- 25:50The other person was from Melbourne and then the other
- 25:53person had moved from Sydney to Canberra in the last three
- 25:57years, I think. And I'm going to be honest, it
- 26:01wasn't like the best experience, but I would still like, I still
- 26:05want to actually do it again and see what next time it's going to
- 26:08be like. And I still learned something
- 26:11about those people. Well, what are the other
- 26:14challenges of Campbell you just said with bringing people
- 26:17together? You just said obviously that
- 26:18experience wasn't maybe maybe it's just because you're from
- 26:21Canberra and the New York. I mean, it's hard to argue
- 26:24Canberra would ever be more exciting going to dinner in
- 26:26Canberra than going to dinner in New York.
- 26:27But what are you've said some really interesting stuff that we
- 26:30spoke about earlier today, Like what are some of the other from
- 26:34what everything that you've seen around third places, what are
- 26:36the challenges to Canberra that like are unique to Canberra and
- 26:41bringing people together? Like, what are some of the other
- 26:43challenges I I've read? I mean, it's just that people
- 26:47who haven't read what you wrote, what are some other challenges
- 26:50that are for or anyone working to try and bring people
- 26:54together, What are some of the challenges, yeah, that people in
- 26:56Canberra face? It's going to be really
- 26:58controversial. No, I think Canberra is like,
- 27:03it's too comfortable. It's so easy like.
- 27:07Shouldn't it be easy then to bring people together?
- 27:09You would think so. You would think so.
- 27:13I'm so I'm very fond of this saying like I'm going to butcher
- 27:19it, but it goes something like, and I don't want to be like, say
- 27:23I'm going to be trying to be politically correct, but tough
- 27:26times create so good times create weak men or women.
- 27:32You can substitute for either. So good times create weak men,
- 27:35weak men create tough times, tough times create strong men or
- 27:38women again. So there's kind of like this
- 27:41cycle. It's a cycle, yeah.
- 27:42So when things are too easy, we get, I get comfortable.
- 27:47I'm like, oh, life is pretty good.
- 27:49Like I don't have to do much. I.
- 27:51Can if everyone's lonely like in Can't Roll and then it's a super
- 27:54high in Canberra maybe it is tough times at the moment.
- 27:57Yeah, that's right. Even though economically
- 27:59Canberra's pretty good house prices are great, people get
- 28:01paid well. Yeah.
- 28:03So a lot of people are saying they're lonely.
- 28:05So that's one thing that we're seeing and everyone's kind of
- 28:09glued to their phone as well, which like exacerbates that.
- 28:13But that's a universal thing of, of phones.
- 28:15What what do you think it is specifically to camera?
- 28:17Other than that it's really life's comfortable.
- 28:19So you think because it's comfortable, people just
- 28:22struggle to do the uncomfortable thing of going out and meeting
- 28:25strangers that we're just, we're just so used to everything being
- 28:29comfortable that we just, we really struggle doing something
- 28:31uncomfortable. Is that the main thing you think
- 28:34Canberra phones? That's what kind of a universal
- 28:37thing that struggles with that. I mean, so yes, cultural thing
- 28:41I'd say is definitely one of the main things, but I also don't
- 28:45think there are many actual opportunities to like, let's
- 28:49say, OK, I'm, I'm comfortable to go and meet strangers as someone
- 28:53in Canberra, how do I do that? There's obviously there's art
- 28:56for art. There's other sort of social
- 28:59communities. Park run.
- 29:00This is running. Yeah, there's a, there's a lot
- 29:02of run clubs, which is awesome. And I love run clubs.
- 29:05I go to them like I don't love them, but let's say someone
- 29:09who's not interrounding, OK, there's some walking groups,
- 29:12let's go past the fitness like world.
- 29:15What's there next? Was there like websites like
- 29:19made up and? Yeah, but what?
- 29:22What? What is their meet up?
- 29:25I don't know is there camera events on there?
- 29:27I, I don't think so. I've I so I've been to some tech
- 29:30events in the past. Some of them have stopped
- 29:32happening. Some of them have like, sort of
- 29:36happening, but they've changed and it's hard to keep them
- 29:39going. And so a lot of it is maybe, and
- 29:43this is kind of what it's like a shameless plug.
- 29:47Now. It's a good segue.
- 29:51Like for me it's like, yeah, how do we take the initiative and
- 29:56actually do something that attracts other people instead of
- 30:00always looking for what other people are doing and going to
- 30:03that? So for me that means like the
- 30:06exact, there's not enough things happening in Canberra.
- 30:09Maybe some of it is a meet up or Eventbrite.
- 30:11So one of my ideas was I bought the domain Canberra dot events
- 30:16and I want to make that the single source of truth for all
- 30:19the events happening in Canberra, make it completely
- 30:21free to use. I want to make it better than
- 30:24like meet up, Eventbrite, Humanities, all those platforms.
- 30:26So it's actually people want to use it and so hopefully that
- 30:29will make it a bit easier to host events.
- 30:32Like it doesn't have to be paid events, it can be free events.
- 30:36And lots of people can just Chuck their events on it.
- 30:38Free to yeah, free to post. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 30:42And then when's that going live? It's a very good question,
- 30:45people. Want to know?
- 30:46Yeah. Well, early, early next year.
- 30:50OK. Yeah, I'll keep it as vague as
- 30:52that. But I mean, obviously there's
- 30:54demand for that. But one final thing I wanted to
- 30:59and I probably this is my my turn.
- 31:00Never rant. Yeah, yeah, it was was about why
- 31:02I can. I think Canberra loneliness is
- 31:06so bad. And you've said, and you say it
- 31:08in the about we've got a car culture, especially in Australia
- 31:12that we all like we live so spread out.
- 31:15The average Australian's house is it's the average Australian
- 31:18house is 10% bigger than the average Americans house.
- 31:20We don't know. We this is, I think this strange
- 31:23dream is playing a big part in the earliness that we're all
- 31:26trying to move out and have our own Aussie dream quarter acre
- 31:28block that we just yeah, we're sort of we're living physically
- 31:34further from each other and further away from work.
- 31:37So we have to like spend a lot of time driving into work and
- 31:40driving back, which then just doesn't leave enough time in the
- 31:43day to go and do stuff socially. And then I mean, not tinfoil
- 31:50hat, but this is what I believe. There's also like the decline in
- 31:53religion that people, I think some people are just putting all
- 31:57their purpose and the meaning of life is in like work and paying
- 32:03their mortgage. It's like their whole life is
- 32:05revolving around. And then there's and how you
- 32:07provide for your family is super important, Don't get me wrong,
- 32:09but just hope the big reason why I want to have this discussion
- 32:12and more and more these discussions help people realise
- 32:14how important with community and spending time with friends and
- 32:19family. That's I feel a big part of life
- 32:22or any whatever you want to call it, like a big part of purpose.
- 32:25And that which is what I mean religion gave everyone was a
- 32:28weekly gathering of people that they knew and trusted and talked
- 32:33about belief structures. Whether you believe it or not,
- 32:36there's so much good stuff about religion.
- 32:38And I think a big part of the mental health struggle is this
- 32:41decline in purpose and that people are replacing it with,
- 32:45with work. Yeah, with work and then paying
- 32:48the mortgage. And that, I think's making
- 32:50people miserable. Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 32:52And like, obviously, again, just banging on about the phones, but
- 32:56it's like so easy to get the dopamine hit.
- 32:59Well to then then that's to like numb the pain that you're
- 33:02miserable because you made this choice to work heaps, have a big
- 33:05ass big mortgage, grind hard and job you don't like.
- 33:09Yeah, and you're in pain because you're not getting out and
- 33:13you're spending huge long work hours and you're not seeing
- 33:16friends. You're not getting the oxytocin,
- 33:18you're not exercising, you're not getting the endorphins.
- 33:20And it's just. And that's.
- 33:22Yeah, I feel like, I don't know, as we talked about before, just
- 33:26I've kept my opinions very close to my chest and now letting them
- 33:29out. And you, I mean, hopefully no
- 33:31one listens to this episode. And then they come up.
- 33:33To me and go, oh, how dare you bag the Australian dream.
- 33:36And then mate, of course it's important to buy a house and
- 33:38provide for your family, but just gone too far.
- 33:42Yeah, gone too far. We've not allowed time for those
- 33:44third spaces. It's just work from homework,
- 33:47from homework, homework. Like even if there was third
- 33:50spaces, people just don't have time because of how they're
- 33:53prioritising their life. That's yeah, there's a really
- 33:57good point. I'm you're.
- 33:59Still gonna be friends with me even though no.
- 34:01No, I think we're we're very much in a good.
- 34:03If I was travelling I would say that to anyone that listened.
- 34:07I kept it very quiet. No, yeah, yeah, yeah, no, it's
- 34:10actually so the Co founder of Eucalyptus has some really good
- 34:14videos about. Charlie Gearside.
- 34:17Yeah, yes, yes, yes, yes. So he's got some really good
- 34:21content. Yeah, he says, the Aussie
- 34:22dream's dead. Yeah, yeah, obviously in a very
- 34:26extreme way. I think he's right in many ways.
- 34:30And actually, I, I really remember this was like 5 years
- 34:33ago, I was at an interview for a public service department and
- 34:37they had they scenario they asked us to do is if you had 60
- 34:41minutes, 60 seconds in an elevator with the Prime
- 34:44Minister, what would be the most pressing issue that you would
- 34:48bring up to them? And for me, it was, I just kind
- 34:50of went ham about how people should not focus on housing as
- 34:55an investment and the whole concept.
- 34:58But then again, I'm going to flip it on his head and I'm
- 35:03obviously just wired very different.
- 35:06But going back to your point, I think the distance thing about
- 35:11housing and how spread out we are.
- 35:13Especially in Canberra. I woke up at 2:00 AM and I drove
- 35:193 hours from Merimbula to Canberra and I was here at 5:00
- 35:23AM. Went for a coffee at Kita and
- 35:26then went for a walk around the lake with a friend at 6:00 AM
- 35:29so. You've had a big day.
- 35:31Yeah, but I love it. It's like it's only you're
- 35:34talking about 20 minutes and like, I don't know, it's, it's
- 35:37only an issue if you make it kind of thing.
- 35:39It's, I don't know, it's it's a hot take.
- 35:43It's a hot take. No, no.
- 35:45And doing that, if you were doing that every day, though,
- 35:48driving up from Roomba every day like that would be pretty odd.
- 35:52If that's what I had to do, I would do it.
- 35:54You mean you do it every day when you drive back now?
- 35:56Yeah, I'll drive back today. Drive back again.
- 35:58OK, yeah, kudos to you. It's worth, for me, it's worth
- 36:01it like even just the one chance encounter that I'll have or like
- 36:07the things that I'm going to do it.
- 36:09It makes you that the more difficult something is, the more
- 36:12intentional and the more kind of value you want to get out of it.
- 36:17So for me, I'm like, I'm so energised.
- 36:19I'm, I'm like driving 3 hours. I'm really going to make it
- 36:21worth my time and so. And then what if it isn't?
- 36:24What if the one time you do it and it's not worth it, then what
- 36:26do you? Are you back or are you going?
- 36:30Oh well, that was it. But that how that's never going
- 36:32to happen. Why?
- 36:34Because for me the the the thing that makes it worse.
- 36:36Said that Canberra dinner you went to was a bit of a flop.
- 36:40Yeah, but I I learnt that I didn't.
- 36:42I wouldn't have known it. Otherwise, but are you going to
- 36:43go again? I'm going to go again.
- 36:45Because that's life is a casino. And you sort of have to like
- 36:50there's probably a terrible analogy.
- 36:52Don't don't condone gambling, Yeah.
- 36:54Don't don't gambling. No, but you know what I mean.
- 36:58I'm being a bit crazy right now, but you just have to put
- 37:01yourself out there and as long as you're doing, as long as
- 37:04you're being yourself and you're having fun, then you'll attract
- 37:08similar people. Well, I'm being being yourself
- 37:11and having fun. The Volley app has done an
- 37:17unbelievable job at helping bring people together.
- 37:20I hope you enjoy working on it because it is just, I mean, it's
- 37:23saving US hours, hours in the week.
- 37:26Like how have you enjoyed? What have you learned from that
- 37:28experience and what do you hope? I mean, we've spoken about
- 37:31hopefully, you know, we called it run buddy initially, maybe
- 37:34it's called Volley Buddy. We don't really know what to
- 37:36call it, but it has just been so useful at bringing people
- 37:43together around like, yeah, around an event, connect and
- 37:46volunteer and give back. Like people, Yeah.
- 37:49That people love volunteering. We're getting emails every week,
- 37:52people wanting to volunteer, wanting to give back to Afrah
- 37:55and that this app is kind of the structure to help people.
- 37:58Give back what people. Yeah.
- 38:01What are the plans going for? Like do you plan to do you want
- 38:05to help more charities or and what do you give people a bit of
- 38:11a rundown about what what you plan, what do you want it to do
- 38:15long term? And maybe some sneak peek into
- 38:17some of the features we're going to build or.
- 38:19Yeah, yeah, yeah. So it's been a such a cool
- 38:22journey just building that together and actually seeing it
- 38:25get used. And that's kind of like the
- 38:30reason I quit my job three years ago.
- 38:32And I was like, let me try something on my own was I had
- 38:35had so many horror stories about people in the software space,
- 38:41like getting software services and just not getting anything or
- 38:45being taken advantage of. So for me, it's like building
- 38:49run buddy was something so simple and easy that I could
- 38:52just chip away in my free time. And seeing the the kind of time
- 38:59that I've dedicated versus the impact that it's had, it's a no
- 39:03brainer for me. It's like I get joy and it's
- 39:05like fun. I'm learning like generally a
- 39:08curious person. I'm learning about how I had no
- 39:11idea what it takes to run a community.
- 39:13I had no idea what it takes to organise volunteers.
- 39:16Like this is a world I would have never been exposed to and.
- 39:19What have been the key learnings to that?
- 39:21Like specific learnings that you've got?
- 39:22Shit, I didn't realise that. Or is it just the sheer amount
- 39:26of organising and what, what, Yeah.
- 39:28What have been some interesting learnings you've had from the
- 39:31year helping build Volley app? It takes a lot of effort to
- 39:36organise people and get them together at a specific place a
- 39:40specific time. And also for me, being super
- 39:45technical, it's been super insightful to see from people
- 39:49who have no tech background. Like what's simple for me is not
- 39:54simple for someone else. It's actually working together
- 39:58and you've got a very strong ethos of let's keep it as simple
- 40:02as possible and. Because it's not their work.
- 40:05When it's a work tool, you're kind of getting paid.
- 40:07You've got to learn how to use it.
- 40:08But people just want to volunteer.
- 40:10They might only have a minute or two.
- 40:11It's got it. Like it just has to be really
- 40:14easy for them regardless of their tech level.
- 40:17Yeah, yeah, yeah. And obviously we've talked a lot
- 40:19about some potential risks and like is it?
- 40:23But again, is it? Like is it worth introducing
- 40:26more complexity to address those risks?
- 40:29And in this case, it's probably no.
- 40:31So it's just it's been like a full like a lot of learnings
- 40:37both from like people perspective, but also like
- 40:41actually we're building something for the people, not
- 40:44something because oh, this is like cool tech.
- 40:47We're on the people. I want to, firstly, if any of
- 40:50you've got the volleys watching this, we want to.
- 40:52I'm going to just bring something up on it.
- 40:55Any of the volleys watching, please.
- 40:57We'd love feedback. Georgia, tell them we want to
- 40:59hear. I've seen some feedback in the
- 41:02group chat already and I love seeing any like feedback.
- 41:07Well, we've got a little leaderboard, we just want to
- 41:09actually do a quick shout out for the people.
- 41:11So we've been tracking and how many?
- 41:14Oh, yeah, every time people enrol, it gets tracked and we
- 41:16just need to do a few quick shout outs to the people, the
- 41:20legends we had. It's no surprise.
- 41:22Our top, actually. I'll work back.
- 41:23I'll do. I'll read the top sort of seven
- 41:25or eight, Jen, So an eighth. We had Jen Cunnington from 2
- 41:29before 10, who's just amazing. She's volunteered 31 times this
- 41:33year. D33 times Sunday 37, Trudy 39,
- 41:38big Stewie Coats, 43 volunteers. Trisha, who'd only joined us
- 41:43earlier this year, like mid this year, she volunteered 63 times,
- 41:48but in first by a long way. And now the long time after our
- 41:53people will know who this is at 106.
- 41:55So it's second place. Someone volunteered 63 rolls and
- 42:00we only ever let people do 2 in one night.
- 42:02Yeah, that's right. Blocker on it.
- 42:03So that's 50. Not well.
- 42:05This person's 106 volunteers Ellie Tonkin It's a pretty round
- 42:10of a pause, Ellie. We played the music.
- 42:12Yeah, I know. Oh my gosh. 106, I mean there,
- 42:15yeah, we've there. We've had total 55 people have
- 42:18volunteered 729 different roles, we get 13.
- 42:25The average person has done 13 roles a year and we've had 22
- 42:28people volunteer in the last two weeks.
- 42:30Jeez. All because of what you built
- 42:32mate. So firstly, thank you to
- 42:35everyone that's volunteered and last round of applause to
- 42:37Georgie for for building that mate.
- 42:39Yeah, super excited for what's next with it.
- 42:42Yeah. What?
- 42:46I'm out of question. No, you.
- 42:47Talked about upcoming features and.
- 42:48Where we want to go Plans for the run buddy?
- 42:51Yeah, yeah. I mean, it's interesting even
- 42:53just chatting with you, Ben. Like there seems to be like a
- 42:56real need for something like a lot of organisations or like not
- 43:00for profit communities, volunteer kind of focus.
- 43:03Communities are struggling to manage volunteers just from
- 43:06anecdotal evidence. But I mean, our, our plans, just
- 43:13talking about how can we make it even more, even easier to
- 43:16actually get some more data and understand how people use it,
- 43:20automate some more stuff like the ongoing reminders, SMS
- 43:24reminders, and really just making it super seamless for
- 43:28people to use. Yeah.
- 43:32I mean, there's a yeah, there's a cool, potentially very cool
- 43:36opportunity that we've talked about in terms of like, is this
- 43:40something that we've had a lot of learnings, a lot of iteration
- 43:44building this platform, potentially package it as a full
- 43:50on product and try and help more communities manage the
- 43:54volunteers. So, yeah, it's, it's too early
- 43:59to say. And obviously with all the
- 44:01camera stuff that I want to do, like getting stretched for time
- 44:06as well, but it's, it's, it's hard to ignore the fact that
- 44:10there's something there. And it's 2 sided.
- 44:14You're making it easier for the like, for the organisations to
- 44:17go look. This is how we need help.
- 44:20Yeah, we've got an event coming up.
- 44:21We need help in these ways, but then you're also enabling people
- 44:26who want to give back to causes they feel passionate about and
- 44:28they've got a bit of spare time and they want to and energy and
- 44:31they believe in this cause they want to help.
- 44:34You're kind of it's enabling like that transaction, which in
- 44:39a new report that volunteering's declining.
- 44:42So that it's a sad trend nationally or internationally,
- 44:45the volunteering is declining, but something we've kind of seen
- 44:49is opposite, I mean for us. Yeah, yeah.
- 44:52Park Run always, you know, they've got a tonne of volleys.
- 44:54Like maybe the nature of volunteering is changing into
- 44:57what people want to volunteer and how they want to volunteer
- 45:00is changing. I think it's and I didn't know
- 45:04how good volunteering is for my mental health.
- 45:06When I like left rugby, I knew it was nutrition, sleep,
- 45:09exercise. Didn't really know much about
- 45:12importance of community, but learned that.
- 45:13But I've also and then looking back, how much like being a part
- 45:17of the Afro community, but then also giving back to the Afro
- 45:20community, how good that's been for my mental health.
- 45:25So I guess if we can enable that for more people, why not?
- 45:29Yeah, yeah, I do. Like, yeah, you mentioned the
- 45:31idea of like can also use it as a platform for upcoming
- 45:36volunteers to actually find things to volunteer to.
- 45:40Because yeah, if you want to volunteer, I guess you can reach
- 45:44out to certain societies directly, but there's no other
- 45:47way at the moment. No awesome man.
- 45:49So Georgie, we'll wrap it up in a minute.
- 45:52For anyone there that doesn't know your other work Digital
- 45:55Nachos, do you want to give that a plug?
- 45:56Sure. Yeah, Yeah, yeah.
- 45:58So I touched it a little bit. But the kind of force, the
- 46:05driving force that made me start Digital Nachos one, it's a very
- 46:09funky name and that's intentional.
- 46:11Like I think work should be fun. And I don't think we should, you
- 46:15know, focus on like enterprise corporate, you know, just be fun
- 46:18and have fun and do a very good job while doing it as well.
- 46:22Not just like, you know, half do things.
- 46:25But yeah, I was really kind of frustrated with the fact that,
- 46:30like, a lot of my close friends were, for lack of a better word,
- 46:34like taken for a run of their money from different software
- 46:38companies and different kind of suppliers in the software space.
- 46:42So I was like, you know, what, if all these other businesses
- 46:47can be sustainable with those practises, why can I be even
- 46:53more sustainable with doing good work that's reasonably priced
- 46:57and help businesses that actually need help?
- 47:01And so that's kind of what I've been doing for the last three
- 47:05years. It's just like all sorts of
- 47:07different software development where I've worked with gyms have
- 47:13worked with like HVAC companies that want to build their own
- 47:16SAS, I've had the pleasure to work.
- 47:18Like SAS software as a service for the non techies.
- 47:21Yes, thank you. And I've also done some very
- 47:25cool pro bono work for like different women's organisations
- 47:29that's been super rewarding to actually see being used.
- 47:35So yeah, I'm just super grateful to like work with good clients
- 47:41and continue to do that. One way.
- 47:43Super grateful. That's why I wanted to get you
- 47:44under introduce you to everyone, but also like it.
- 47:49Thank you for everything you've done and I wanted to get you on
- 47:53also. And we're going to get Timbo
- 47:54Fulton who built our website on as well.
- 47:56The same but Timbo could make today as you 2 are two of the
- 48:00two of there's many, but two of the best examples of just you
- 48:05see a community trying to do something and you want to help
- 48:08out using your unique skill set. What do you say to people or if
- 48:12anyone's still listening, what do you say to them that they've
- 48:17got this unique skill that they want to use, They want to help
- 48:22benefit not just our fraud, but other charities.
- 48:24What do you say to them? Like how?
- 48:27I mean, I know I asked you, but Timbo, nicest guy in the world.
- 48:30It took him a lot of courage to because he, our first website
- 48:34was shit that Brandy built. Brandy knows it's terrible.
- 48:37And Timbo finally irked. He liked what we're doing, love
- 48:39what we're trying to do, but he's like, either guys, do you
- 48:42mind if I build your new webs? And we're like, yeah, go for it.
- 48:44Like Brandy put his best effort into it, but it was, it's not
- 48:48Brandy's strength, but like how? Yeah.
- 48:50Do you have any advice to people who've they've got this unique
- 48:53skill set? Yeah.
- 48:58Any to advise them to to get get involved with it and not just
- 49:01our fraud but any charity and give back into trying to
- 49:03leverage that skill set to make their community or other
- 49:06communities better. Yeah, so this is going to be
- 49:09super simple and super boring, and I'm not sponsored by Nike at
- 49:15all, but just do it. That's literally, if I could
- 49:18give any life advice would be just do it.
- 49:21Like I think it's so important. Like when you have a set of
- 49:25skills, the best thing you can do is find some way to help
- 49:32people with those skills. You get like exchange for money,
- 49:36kind of that's how business works.
- 49:38So your two options are when you have the skills and you don't
- 49:41have clients is you create some sort of portfolio so people can
- 49:46see what you build and it's all like fake stuff or you have like
- 49:51a tangible problem in your community that you can solve and
- 49:56it's actually like the real results.
- 49:59It's like that's a no brainer for me.
- 50:01It's like from whatever perspective you look at it, it
- 50:05is the best thing you can do is reach out to your community,
- 50:08your friends, reach out to anyone.
- 50:10And I think doing free work is completely underrated because
- 50:15anything you do, I think anything.
- 50:17It'll compound. It will compound and come back
- 50:19to you. So that's my kind of only advice
- 50:23that I have. Oh, and the flip side?
- 50:24Charity's going to get better at saying where where they need
- 50:27help. Yeah.
- 50:29Yeah, so I said. I said we had this problem and I
- 50:31knew you had the skills. Lucky I knew you knew some
- 50:34skills. And I thought, what told you
- 50:36that we were sort of struggling in this way.
- 50:38Yeah. And then you stepped up to the
- 50:40plate. So thank you.
- 50:41No, it's good to to see both perspectives because yeah, for
- 50:44me, I'm like, Oh yeah, it's like Ben just asked me, but no one
- 50:48else has asked. I've actually posted on LinkedIn
- 50:51a couple of years ago. I was like once a few.
- 50:54No one asked. Free website or free software
- 50:56services? No, no requests.
- 50:59Yeah, Yeah. So you're right.
- 51:02Ask, ask for help, I guess, and that's something that just not
- 51:05just an organisational of individuals.
- 51:07We're not very good at asking for help.
- 51:09Finally, there's anyone else you'd love to see on there
- 51:11Running Brazilians podcast? Who would it be?
- 51:13Who should we get on next? You got a minute?
- 51:16You have a thing. It's going to be a couple of
- 51:18people. Does it have to be Canberra
- 51:20local? Just we've had people said don't
- 51:22want to hear Kim Kardashian. It could be anyone can be local
- 51:26as well. And if you can make the intro,
- 51:29that would be really helpful. Oh, this is going to be.
- 51:36I'm going to need a minute for this, Yeah.
- 51:38We can get the leaderboard up again, see how far Ellie's put
- 51:41everyone to shame. Oh, the timing that how long
- 51:45everyone takes to answer. Oh, the music.
- 51:49Oh, right, right. Right.
- 51:50No, I was just going to get the the.
- 51:52Oh, the art to. Fill in time while you think of
- 51:55an answer. What's the one minute later?
- 52:01I wasn't prepared for this question.
- 52:21I'm gonna go with the CEO of Anthropic.
- 52:30OK, what's his name? Oh, Dario.
- 52:33Almighty, yeah. Yeah, former Open AI employee.
- 52:37Yeah, yeah, yeah, a lot. I mean a lot of maybe
- 52:39controversial requests. I don't know.
- 52:41Why? Why AI?
- 52:42Why? So I think he does a really good
- 52:45job of not just AI, but explaining.
- 52:50He's actually written kind of like a short essay.
- 52:53I'm going to butcher the name, but it's something like Thinking
- 52:56Machines and something it's like a 4050 page short essay and it
- 53:04talks about AI and how it can help different kind of aspects
- 53:11of life and industries, but also damage them.
- 53:13So he has ease seems to have a really this is just as an
- 53:18outsider perspective. You never know interior motives,
- 53:22but kind of the way his brain works seems pretty fascinating.
- 53:27And he's got, he's got kind of medical background as well.
- 53:30So yeah, it's sort of fascinating.
- 53:33Can you hook a brother up if you ever meet him and he's in
- 53:36Canberra? Actually we could zoom him in if
- 53:38he was keen or his mate. Scam Altman.
- 53:41That's someone I'd like. To not tiger, I would not like
- 53:44to no not scam. But Georgie Velachos mate.
- 53:46Bloody legend. Both.
- 53:47Thank you. Thank you.