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Infamous Step Moms, Getting Dick on the Road, Fashion Week · Juicy Scoop with Heather McDonald

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  Speaker 2: Heather Macdonald.
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  Speaker 2: Woof, woof. Hannah McDonald.
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  Speaker 6: Hello and welcome to Juicy Scoop. Well, I had a
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  Speaker 6: wonderful weekend. I went out to La Quinta in the
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  Speaker 6: Palm Desert, Palm Springs area to celebrate Brandon's birthday. And
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  Speaker 6: as you know, I've been referring to Brandon as the
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  Speaker 6: spare because I relate a lot to the royal family.
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  Speaker 6: So I have an heir, Drake, and a spare, Brandon.
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  Speaker 6: And we had a lot of fun. If you go
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  Speaker 6: to my social media on Instagram, we did a lot
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  Speaker 6: of videos. of Brandon's life as the spare. And it
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  Speaker 6: was pretty great. I went to polo for the first time.
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  Speaker 2: It was real fun. So we were in, I was
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  Speaker 2: in the desert.
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  Speaker 4: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: But a lot of people were in the desert, which
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  Speaker 6: I'll get to you in a minute.
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  Speaker 2: First of all, big news.
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  Speaker 6: We finally know Kylie's son's name and it's, I believe
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  Speaker 6: it's going to be pronounced airy, like stormy and airy.
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  Speaker 6: And it's spelled A I R E And she showed
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  Speaker 6: a picture of him, and he's absolutely adorable. He looks
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  Speaker 6: a lot like her daughter, Stormy. Anyway, I guess in Arabic,
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  Speaker 6: the spelling of it, A-I-R-E in Arabic, means my penis
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  Speaker 6: or something.
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  Speaker 2: It means penis.
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  Speaker 6: So did she figure that out? Did she ask anybody?
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  Speaker 6: I mean, she had the name for 10 months. Maybe
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  Speaker 6: she doesn't care.
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  Speaker 2: Um, but that's the case. So look, got people talking.
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  Speaker 6: Also what got people talking is that she went to
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  Speaker 6: Paris fashion week. A lot of people are there and
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  Speaker 6: she wore this big lion's head on like a black
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  Speaker 6: strapless dress. And this was the picture we all saw
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  Speaker 6: last night. And this morning I'm recording this Monday. And, um,
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  Speaker 6: she made it very clear. This is not a real
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  Speaker 6: lion's head. This is, was manmade and, And then there's
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  Speaker 6: all these other, now I just saw that, I guess
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  Speaker 6: this was part of this fashion show or something of
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  Speaker 6: this designer where he had a lot of people in
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  Speaker 6: the fashion show wearing like a wolf's head or a different,
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  Speaker 6: all these kinds of heads that are attached to like
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  Speaker 6: coats and things or like a dress that the bodice
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  Speaker 6: is just a big piece of wood. And I mean,
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  Speaker 6: you know, and then, oh, Doja Cat, she went to
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  Speaker 6: a fashion show. in which she had 30,000 crystals, red crystals,
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  Speaker 6: I guess on a bald head or whatever.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know. Maybe she put a bald cap on.
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  Speaker 6: Put crystals all over herself, and then the crystals were
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  Speaker 6: on the dress to go to the fashion show. And
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  Speaker 6: I'm like, God, if I ever get invited to Fashion Week,
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  Speaker 6: what am I going to do? What am I going
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  Speaker 6: to have to wear? I just want to go and
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  Speaker 6: sit and look at the fashions and be like, that's cute.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe I would buy that. Maybe I wouldn't.
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  Speaker 6: But then I'm like, God, if you go all the
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  Speaker 6: way to Paris, you kind of want to get some
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  Speaker 6: people talking. So I'm like, what hasn't been done? And
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to go and I'm going to wear stilts.
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  Speaker 6: I'm going to wear stilts. And so here I am.
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  Speaker 6: If you're watching YouTube, we put an outfit together. I'm
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  Speaker 6: here with Lisa Rinna and Pretty Mess Erica.
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  Speaker 4: And so.
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  Speaker 6: I'm probably giving someone the idea, but I'm just saying
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  Speaker 6: if I ever get invited to a real fashion show,
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  Speaker 6: I will be going in stilts to make a big
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  Speaker 6: splash and have some people notice me because that's apparently
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  Speaker 6: why people do this.
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  Speaker 5: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: Also, Kanye, as you know, he married this woman who
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  Speaker 6: is an architect. Pretty impressive.
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  Speaker 2: A lot of people think she looks like Kim.
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  Speaker 5: I don't know.
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  Speaker 6: She does kind of. She has short blonde hair. They
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  Speaker 6: got married yesterday. very soon, but who knows what was
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  Speaker 6: going on there. So he took North out for dinner.
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  Speaker 6: So she met the wife, the new stepmother and you know,
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  Speaker 6: everybody in the Twitter verse or whatever in, in the
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  Speaker 6: internet is talking about it. And some people are saying,
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  Speaker 6: why are people mad? No one cared when, um, Pete
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  Speaker 6: Davidson met the kids right away.
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  Speaker 2: And, but the, but he met the kids.
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  Speaker 6: After four weeks of dating and this girl, they've only
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  Speaker 6: known each other for one week.
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  Speaker 2: Apparently they've known each other for a while. Here's the thing.
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  Speaker 6: I think Kim is thrilled. I think Kim, if I
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  Speaker 6: was Kim, I would be thrilled. This woman seems pretty normal,
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  Speaker 6: like an educated, normal woman who has known him.
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  Speaker 2: Maybe she doesn't know what she's getting into. Did you
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  Speaker 2: know what you were getting into?
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  Speaker 6: Anyway, I would be happy to know that he had
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  Speaker 6: some nice relationships woman that is going to be the
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  Speaker 6: one that controls him might be there when the kids
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  Speaker 6: are around. That is what I, so I think she's like,
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  Speaker 6: go North, have the best time.
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  Speaker 2: Um, who knows?
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  Speaker 6: Like, I don't, I don't think she even, I don't
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  Speaker 6: think she has a problem with it. And everyone's just
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  Speaker 6: saying like, it's too soon. It's not, these kids are
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  Speaker 6: gonna be screwed up. You know, the Pete Davidson had
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  Speaker 6: like tattoos and brandings and stuff on him. And now
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  Speaker 6: he's with some other girl named Chase and Oh, I'm
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  Speaker 6: just so sick of Pete Davidson dating people.
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  Speaker 2: Okay, now let me tell you what's going on in Dubai.
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  Speaker 6: So all these big influencers on TikTok got to go
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  Speaker 6: to Dubai for this Tarte makeup launch, or just Tarte
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  Speaker 6: paid for it. And they all got to go in
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  Speaker 6: first class with the pod and the whole thing. And
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  Speaker 6: also there was a big opening of the Atlantis Hotel,
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  Speaker 6: in which Beyonce was paid $ 24 million to perform there.
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  Speaker 2: At this opening.
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  Speaker 6: And a lot of other influencers got to go to that.
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  Speaker 6: One being Allie Shapiro, Jill Zarin's daughter. So I saw
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  Speaker 6: that she was going and I immediately called Jill and I'm.
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  Speaker 2: Like, how the hell are you?
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  Speaker 6: Why aren't you going with her? And like, how can
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  Speaker 6: you guys get me invited next time? She's like, you
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  Speaker 6: got to talk to Allie. She just got invited.
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  Speaker 2: She took in her boyfriend. And I'm like, oh my God.
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  Speaker 6: So Anyway, then Allie did address it on her TikTok,
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  Speaker 6: and she said, you know, a lot of people said,
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  Speaker 6: why did you get to be invited? You only had 50,000 followers.
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  Speaker 6: I mean, I have a lot more than 50,000 on TikTok.
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  Speaker 6: I have, what, 350?
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  Speaker 2: They didn't want me. I don't know how these things work.
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  Speaker 6: I said to Peter, I go, if I find that
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  Speaker 6: you missed a fucking email that was under, like, Hey,
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  Speaker 6: question for you or something, you know, and then you
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  Speaker 6: open it up and it's like, I know it's last minute,
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  Speaker 6: but we'd like to fly Heather McDonald and one companion
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  Speaker 6: first class on Emmett's or whatever that airline is to
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  Speaker 6: Dubai to check out. We heard her talk about Atlantis
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  Speaker 6: in the Bahamas and how much she liked performing there
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  Speaker 6: and going down the water slide. Yes, I'd like to go.
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  Speaker 6: I'd like to go to Dubai. I'd like to go
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  Speaker 6: on the water slide. Apparently they have the biggest water
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  Speaker 6: park or whatever. Um, I'd like to go to the Nobu.
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  Speaker 6: I'd like to go on a camel ride like the housewives.
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  Speaker 6: I'd like to go.
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  Speaker 2: But, um, oh, but Allie did mention me in her TikTok.
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  Speaker 6: She goes, you know, we started making these mastering COVID
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  Speaker 6: and people like Heather McDonald would talk about us and
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  Speaker 6: bring it up. And now I am a big influencer
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  Speaker 6: and it's because I did this. A lot of people
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  Speaker 6: want to go to Dubai.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah.
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  Speaker 6: She did a really good job. I want to go
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  Speaker 6: to Dubai.
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  Speaker 2: Now.
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  Speaker 6: Um, There's controversy over the Dubai stuff, obviously. And then
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  Speaker 6: these other TikTokers, mostly like makeup and fashion young girls,
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  Speaker 6: went and stayed at a different place for Tarte makeup.
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  Speaker 6: By the way, I just noticed I do have a
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  Speaker 6: Tarte blush. Again, why was I not invited? Anyway, there's always,
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  Speaker 6: you know, issues with people going to Dubai. People had
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  Speaker 6: a problem with.
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  Speaker 2: Real Housewives of Dubai.
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  Speaker 6: People didn't like that Sex and City 2 went to
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  Speaker 6: Abu Dhabi. And Kim Cattrall was like, mm, Abu Dhabi
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  Speaker 6: and my punani. Oh, mm, I'm so moist. Give me
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  Speaker 6: some of that hummus.
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  Speaker 2: I need to wipe it on my clit.
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  Speaker 6: Anyway, that was just some of the things I remember
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  Speaker 6: from Sex and the City 2. You remember, remember she
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  Speaker 6: was all horny and got in trouble. Okay, but because
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  Speaker 6: there's still controversy of how they've treated sex gay men
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  Speaker 6: in that country, how they see homosexuality. And then the
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  Speaker 6: Real Housewives of Dubai have said, no, it's, you know,
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  Speaker 6: it's so beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: We love being there. We love living there. It's so safe.
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  Speaker 6: And it's really a matter of not showing any PDA between.
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  Speaker 2: Heterosexual couples too.
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  Speaker 6: So if you are gay, they don't want you holding hands.
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  Speaker 6: They don't want you making out. My question is, if
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  Speaker 6: there was another big Dubai trip and whatever company was
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  Speaker 6: sponsoring it did invite some really popular gay male influencers,
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  Speaker 6: would they go?
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  Speaker 2: Would they be comfortable going?
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  Speaker 6: I don't know enough about it. You know, I only
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  Speaker 6: just know that I was not invited.
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  Speaker 2: That's all I know.
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  Speaker 6: Anyway, here is this girl, Alex, Alex Earl, and everybody's,
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  Speaker 6: obsessed with her. She's a cute, sexy girl who was
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  Speaker 6: going to University of Miami and she blew up on
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  Speaker 6: TikTok because she would like eat pizza and talk really
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  Speaker 6: honestly to the camera. She also had a great sense
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  Speaker 6: of fashion. And then she was dating this guy who
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  Speaker 6: was a, a major baseball player, and she went on
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  Speaker 6: and said he wouldn't tag me.
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  Speaker 2: So I'm like, fuck you. And everyone's like, yeah, girl. Yeah, Alex.
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  Speaker 2: And then everyone loved her. And since then, she got lips.
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  Speaker 6: She got a boob job. The body's banging. And she
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  Speaker 6: got to go to Dubai. And there's people doing reports
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  Speaker 6: on how much she's making off of this and how
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  Speaker 6: much she's going to get a month doing TikTok and
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  Speaker 6: all this stuff.
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  Speaker 2: So good for her. So then it also came out that.
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  Speaker 6: She's got a juicy, there's a little juicy history for you.
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  Speaker 6: So she has, appears to be an extremely attractive dad
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  Speaker 6: who her parents got divorced in 2012. Also in 2012,
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  Speaker 6: her dad had a baby with his girlfriend, Ashley Dupree,
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  Speaker 6: who then he later married in 2013 and they had
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  Speaker 6: two more kids and they've been together ever since. Ashley Dupree,
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  Speaker 6: if the name sounds familiar for Juicy Scoop historians, was
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  Speaker 6: part of a huge scandal out of New York. She
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  Speaker 6: was aspiring singer and she was working at a restaurant
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  Speaker 6: and she was approached by an escort service.
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  Speaker 2: Would you like to work at our escort service? She said, sure.
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  Speaker 5: Great.
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  Speaker 6: This is like pre-seeking arrangements. This is like old school
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  Speaker 6: hooker situation. This is like pretty woman, except you weren't
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  Speaker 6: on the street, but it's like you're, you're, it's, it's
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  Speaker 6: not an arrangement. It's a one-time shebang.
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  Speaker 2: Okay.
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  Speaker 6: And one of her clients was the governor of New
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  Speaker 6: York at that time. And, um, and it all got
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  Speaker 6: found out and she went by a different name, Christie
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  Speaker 6: or something. But if you ask me, I think Ashley
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  Speaker 6: Dupree sounds like a fake name. That wasn't a fake name.
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  Speaker 6: That was the real name. Anyway, what was kind of
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  Speaker 6: great about her, she's like, yeah, that's me.
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  Speaker 2: I'm owning, I'm going to own it. Like Lisa Renner,
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  Speaker 2: she owned it.
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  Speaker 6: And she got to be on The Hills and she
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  Speaker 6: got to be on the spinoff of The Hills, which
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  Speaker 6: was about this PR woman. What was the name of
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  Speaker 6: that show? I just saw a clip of it. And
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  Speaker 6: she was like, yeah, Ashton Dupree is my friend.
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  Speaker 2: She's coming in.
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  Speaker 6: And then she also got to do like a sex article,
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  Speaker 6: like Carrie Bradshaw in Sex and the City, but she
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  Speaker 6: got to do it in the Post. And then eventually
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  Speaker 6: met this hot guy and, you know, had a baby
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  Speaker 6: and got married to him.
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  Speaker 2: And just, you know, what a connection. And also the
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  Speaker 2: Alex Earl has a little sister who is also real hot.
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  Speaker 2: That's a Kappa Kappa Gamma.
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  Speaker 6: And so I'm like, who knows what they'll do together?
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  Speaker 6: You know, who's the other girl that has the sister?
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  Speaker 2: Dixie and Charlie. Dixie and Charlie... D'Amelio. D'Amelio. They're the
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  Speaker 2: queens of TikTok along with... Addison Rae. Addison Rae. So
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  Speaker 2: now it's the three of them. But this girl doesn't dance.
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  Speaker 2: She just.
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  Speaker 6: Well, she dances, but, like, she just wears, like... I'm
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  Speaker 6: kind of surprised girls are so, so into her because,
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  Speaker 6: to me, she just seems like... Her stuff is very model-y,
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  Speaker 6: very bikini, you know, shaking around, under-tit showing. But she
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  Speaker 6: is really pretty and she has a really good body, so...
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  Speaker 6: Good for her, anyway.
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  Speaker 2: You know, has a pretty exciting stepmother action going on.
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  Speaker 5: Okay, this is.
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  Speaker 6: Let's talk about Alec Baldwin for a minute. So, a
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  Speaker 6: couple days ago, it was announced the DA is going
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  Speaker 6: to press charges, and he has been charged with two
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  Speaker 6: acts of involuntary manslaughter.
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  Speaker 2: But it's only for when... Now, you remember... The one
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  Speaker 2: woman was shot and killed.
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  Speaker 6: That is what he's being charged for, but he's not
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  Speaker 6: being charged for the fact that the bullet hit her
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  Speaker 6: and then also hit the director, but the director recovered. Now,
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  Speaker 6: why this is so interesting is they have footage, which
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  Speaker 6: I just saw like on Extra or something, of him
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  Speaker 6: right after explaining what happened to a detective in a
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  Speaker 6: room that And he says, and then I whipped around
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  Speaker 6: and I shot the gun, but why the hell was
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  Speaker 6: there a live bullet in it when it was supposed
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  Speaker 6: to be a dummy blank bullet?
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  Speaker 2: But he does say, I shot the gun. That's where
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  Speaker 2: the controversy happens.
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  Speaker 6: He then later on did a one-on-one interview with George Stapalopogopoulos,
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  Speaker 6: and he says to him, no, it went off. I
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  Speaker 6: never pulled the trigger because– I think between the time
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  Speaker 6: that he initially told the detectives right after the tragedy
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  Speaker 6: and when he did this interview, he got counsel or
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  Speaker 6: got word that what will put him in the bad
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  Speaker 6: position is if in fact he actually pulled the trigger
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  Speaker 6: because I guess you're never supposed to do that or
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  Speaker 6: you wouldn't have been doing that. I don't really know
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  Speaker 6: how it works as far as the movie set goes.
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  Speaker 6: Of course, the girl who was in charge Of all
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  Speaker 6: the armory and bullets, she was charged as well. So
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  Speaker 6: it was, you know, a big deal this weekend. And
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  Speaker 6: Hilaria was out. First she went out because she had
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  Speaker 6: to get a espresso, like a latte, at the local
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  Speaker 6: coffee shop in New York. Just like Chris Frangelo says,
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  Speaker 6: nobody has Keurigs. You know, I mean, I would think
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  Speaker 6: this is a big, this is not the day. This
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  Speaker 6: might be the day you want to go without. a
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  Speaker 6: walk to get coffee with your friends. So she's acting
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  Speaker 6: all annoyed at the paparazzo there. She's shutting the door,
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  Speaker 6: leave me alone. Then they catch up to her again.
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  Speaker 6: This time later in the day, she's out carrying, I
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  Speaker 6: guess her youngest baby. There's seven of them. And, um,
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  Speaker 6: and the accent is full force. Like she is just
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  Speaker 6: doing her Spanish accent. As you guys remember, She always
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  Speaker 6: said she was from Spain. Alec would go on talk
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  Speaker 6: shows and do her Spanish accent and say, my wife
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  Speaker 6: is from Spain. And she wouldn't ever deny it. It
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  Speaker 6: turns out she grew up in Boston. She spent one
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  Speaker 6: summer in Spain. And then her parents bought a place
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  Speaker 6: in Spain. And then she just took on this Spanish
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  Speaker 6: persona so much so that she acted like English was
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  Speaker 6: her second language, you know, fumbling for words and whatnot.
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  Speaker 6: So in this one, she didn't fumble for any words,
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  Speaker 6: but she was full-blown like, Just talking to me like,
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  Speaker 6: listen to me, people, okay? We have seven children, okay?
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  Speaker 6: And they're like, Mommy, why are there these people that
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  Speaker 6: are following you?
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  Speaker 2: And it's not okay as a human being, as a mother, okay?
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  Speaker 2: Alec is not going to answer you. I'm not going
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  Speaker 2: to answer any questions for you, okay? My kids are not.
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  Speaker 2: The questions that I need to answer to my kids are,
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  Speaker 2: why are these people following us, Mommy, when we go
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  Speaker 2: to get food? some dinner or some lunch or go
• 17:32
  Speaker 2: to the store. All I'm saying is please, please give
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: us some privacy, okay, so we can have some time,
• 17:40
  Speaker 2: so we can have a siesta in the middle of
• 17:42
  Speaker 2: the day, so we can relax, okay? That's what we
• 17:45
  Speaker 2: like to do. And just let this play out.
• 17:49
  Speaker 5: Thank you.
• 17:50
  Speaker 6: She was very annoyed, took off. And it was just amazing.
• 17:56
  Speaker 6: It's just amazing. The whole store, I mean, I guess,
• 17:58
  Speaker 6: you know, if you just started... Speaking, like, in an
• 18:02
  Speaker 6: accent for so long, I guess it would be kind
• 18:04
  Speaker 6: of hard to then curtail it. And then I think
• 18:07
  Speaker 6: maybe when it's, like, you want to really lean in to, like,
• 18:10
  Speaker 6: that Spanish mother of seven, you know?
• 18:12
  Speaker 2: Like, all the little bambinos are here. And she calls them.
• 18:16
  Speaker 6: She calls them balduinos. Baldinos or balduinos or whatever.
• 18:21
  Speaker 2: Anyway. So... Oh, also, interesting.
• 18:25
  Speaker 6: Julie Chrisley has... has come to prison. She has started
• 18:30
  Speaker 6: her prison sentence, she and Todd. She is going to
• 18:33
  Speaker 6: have to mop floors and do some hard cleaning. Otherwise,
• 18:39
  Speaker 6: if she doesn't do the cleaning, I don't know, she
• 18:40
  Speaker 6: doesn't get her meals or whatever. And she is with
• 18:44
  Speaker 6: Jerry Harris. Now, I don't understand how they're in the
• 18:48
  Speaker 6: same prison because they're both.
• 18:51
  Speaker 2: They're in the same prison, but they're not going to
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: cross paths.
• 18:55
  Speaker 6: They're in the same prison, but there's a girl prison
• 18:57
  Speaker 6: and a men's prison? Anyway, so Jerry Harris is the
• 19:01
  Speaker 6: guy from Cheer who was, like.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: Always so excited.
• 19:06
  Speaker 6: And if you ever watched that show, it was about
• 19:09
  Speaker 6: these kids that were at a junior college, community college,
• 19:13
  Speaker 6: and they would take one class a semester, and they
• 19:16
  Speaker 6: stayed there for seven years so that they could just
• 19:18
  Speaker 6: continue to cheer, okay?
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: And he.
• 19:22
  Speaker 6: Got convicted of soliciting minor children and sending– pictures of
• 19:30
  Speaker 6: himself and pursuing and I think there's also physical contact
• 19:34
  Speaker 6: with some of these kids so he's doing like 6
• 19:38
  Speaker 6: to 13 years or something anyway again these reality stars
• 19:44
  Speaker 6: I mean I really hope that that they can do
• 19:47
  Speaker 6: something in there even if it's just like a play
• 19:49
  Speaker 6: or something be entertaining for the rest of the people
• 19:52
  Speaker 6: that have to be behind bars with these losers. And
• 19:55
  Speaker 6: then the Jen Shah is set to go, I think,
• 20:00
  Speaker 6: February 17th is when she's going to go in. And she,
• 20:05
  Speaker 6: of course, turned down. Now she's not doing the Andy
• 20:07
  Speaker 6: Cohen one-on-one interview. She's like, I just didn't feel like
• 20:11
  Speaker 6: I'd be protected, and I want to tell my truth. Meanwhile,
• 20:14
  Speaker 6: over the weekend, there was another expose about the crime
• 20:18
  Speaker 6: she did in which they actually interviewed some of her victims,
• 20:23
  Speaker 6: which we didn't see in the previous Hulu doc.
• 20:27
  Speaker 2: So, you know, it's very— I mean, what she did is
• 20:30
  Speaker 2: absolutely horrible.
• 20:32
  Speaker 6: And she's going to go starting February 17th, so we'll
• 20:35
  Speaker 6: see if she does any other kind of interviews if—
• 20:39
  Speaker 6: You know, maybe she wants to give it to a
• 20:42
  Speaker 6: podcaster instead of Andy.
• 20:43
  Speaker 2: I don't know. Definitely not going to be me.
• 20:45
  Speaker 6: She blocked me a long time ago because I was right.
• 20:48
  Speaker 6: I said she was a phony asshole right from the start.
• 20:51
  Speaker 6: I don't always want to be right, but I always am.
• 20:54
  Speaker 6: And you guys are going to enjoy my next interview.
• 20:58
  Speaker 6: These are the stars of one of the hit podcasts,
• 21:01
  Speaker 6: Girls Gotta Eat.
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Here we go.
• 21:03
  Speaker 7: I'm Darman, and this is What Happens Next. Each week
• 21:07
  Speaker 7: on the show, I sit down with extraordinary people who
• 21:10
  Speaker 7: have faced tremendous setbacks, and yet somehow have found a
• 21:14
  Speaker 7: way to turn them into their greatest strengths.
• 21:17
  Speaker 4: Life is one long lesson of chaos. I'm heading to
• 21:21
  Speaker 4: the Emmys, and I have police complaints filed against me.
• 21:23
  Speaker 4: When your free will was about to be taken from you,
• 21:26
  Speaker 4: what would you do if it was given back?
• 21:28
  Speaker 7: Where did that need come from, where you thought that
• 21:31
  Speaker 7: you had to succeed in order to feel loved?
• 21:33
  Speaker 6: He said, I have a work dad.
• 21:34
  Speaker 7: I need a home dad.
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: What happens next? When I came in, he started crying.
• 21:38
  Speaker 7: Everybody in life encounters hardships. What defines them is not
• 21:43
  Speaker 7: those hard moments that they go through.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: It's about what happens next.
• 21:47
  Speaker 4: I decided to risk it all. I realized how valuable
• 21:49
  Speaker 4: every day was.
• 21:50
  Speaker 2: You're worth the work.
• 21:51
  Speaker 5: Listen, Dara, I'm not going to pull punches.
• 21:53
  Speaker 4: You can use your voice even if it's shaped.
• 21:55
  Speaker 7: The stories are different, but the impact is the same.
• 21:59
  Speaker 7: Only one question matters. What happens next?
• 22:09
  Speaker 6: Hello, and welcome to Juicy Scoop. I have two new guests,
• 22:13
  Speaker 6: but they're not new to the podcasting world. One of
• 22:15
  Speaker 6: the top comedic duo podcasting girls, Girls Gotta Eat.
• 22:21
  Speaker 2: I've got Raina and Ashley here, and welcome. Welcome to L.A.
• 22:27
  Speaker 2: You guys have migrated from New York to L.A. for
• 22:33
  Speaker 2: maybe ever, but maybe just for a short stint, we
• 22:36
  Speaker 2: don't know. Welcome. So let's talk about your juicy life.
• 22:41
  Speaker 6: Okay, so you guys have been doing this show and
• 22:45
  Speaker 6: you met shortly before you started doing the show in 2018.
• 22:48
  Speaker 2: How did this friendship blossom?
• 22:53
  Speaker 5: I always say, Ashley, you tell the story better, babe.
• 22:55
  Speaker 5: So she'll tell the story. But yes, we weren't really
• 22:57
  Speaker 5: friends before we started this, not long-term friends. And it's
• 22:59
  Speaker 5: been really fun. The show's been around for five years now,
• 23:03
  Speaker 5: over 150 live shows. It's been really fun. Now we
• 23:05
  Speaker 5: took a show at LA.
• 23:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 23:07
  Speaker 5: I'll let Ashley tell you how we met.
• 23:08
  Speaker 4: We met on this influencer trip in Aruba. I hate
• 23:11
  Speaker 4: saying that sentence because it's just like, of course you
• 23:13
  Speaker 4: fucking did. So we met. It was just a press trip,
• 23:18
  Speaker 4: influencer trip for the Aruba Marriott. So we met and-
• 23:21
  Speaker 4: at this dinner on the beach. And I mean, I
• 23:24
  Speaker 4: had looked right up on Instagram before. I'm sure she
• 23:26
  Speaker 4: like did the same. And I was like, she looks
• 23:27
  Speaker 4: cool and normal, you know? So we did hit it
• 23:29
  Speaker 4: off at dinner and we, the whole group stayed up
• 23:33
  Speaker 4: that night kind of just hanging out and drinking and
• 23:34
  Speaker 4: lobby rain. And I tried to crash this wedding at the,
• 23:36
  Speaker 4: at the beach. This bride, there was like not that
• 23:39
  Speaker 4: many people there. I was like, let us in. You know,
• 23:42
  Speaker 4: like the guys like swarmed.
• 23:43
  Speaker 2: I have wanted to crash weddings when I've seen stuff
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: like that.
• 23:46
  Speaker 4: Like they're playing, you know, like black eyed peas and
• 23:49
  Speaker 4: it doesn't even look that lit.
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I got a feeling.
• 23:51
  Speaker 5: Yes.
• 23:52
  Speaker 4: And so these guys kind of saw us and came
• 23:55
  Speaker 4: to like where the beach met the private like wedding
• 23:58
  Speaker 4: event and was.
• 23:59
  Speaker 2: Like, come on in.
• 24:00
  Speaker 4: And we were like, oh my God, this is like
• 24:01
  Speaker 4: so dope. You know, and that's like our first friendship moment.
• 24:03
  Speaker 4: And the bride was just like, absolutely not. So we
• 24:06
  Speaker 4: attempted to crash a wedding. Bottom line, we just became
• 24:08
  Speaker 4: really good friends on... I mean, we became friends on
• 24:10
  Speaker 4: this trip. And it was a matter of, like, are
• 24:11
  Speaker 4: we going to be real friends when we come back
• 24:13
  Speaker 4: to New York? And we became friends. And I had
• 24:17
  Speaker 4: had this idea to do a podcast. I had this
• 24:19
  Speaker 4: guy friend I was going to do it with. And
• 24:20
  Speaker 4: I was like, I just don't feel like I want to, like,
• 24:21
  Speaker 4: start a life with a guy, like a random dude,
• 24:24
  Speaker 4: you know? Like, I want to do this with a woman.
• 24:26
  Speaker 4: And so it was the end of 2017. I was like,
• 24:29
  Speaker 4: I want to figure this out before we go into
• 24:31
  Speaker 4: a new year. And I just shot Raina a text,
• 24:33
  Speaker 4: would you want to do a podcast? And she was like, yeah,
• 24:35
  Speaker 4: say less.
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: So.
• 24:36
  Speaker 4: I asked her immediately.
• 24:37
  Speaker 2: Oh, that's kind of sexy.
• 24:38
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 24:39
  Speaker 7: Yes.
• 24:40
  Speaker 2: Say less.
• 24:42
  Speaker 5: It's really weird how much we're on the same page
• 24:44
  Speaker 5: all the time. Ashley's just like, hear me out. I'm like,
• 24:46
  Speaker 5: let's do it.
• 24:47
  Speaker 4: But I was like, are you comfortable sharing about your life?
• 24:50
  Speaker 5: Because.
• 24:51
  Speaker 3: Not everybody is. And I've been doing this for so long.
• 24:53
  Speaker 4: I do stand-up. I blogged before that. Like, I've always
• 24:55
  Speaker 4: put it all out there. And my parents are cool
• 24:57
  Speaker 4: with it. And I've never had, like, a corporate job
• 24:59
  Speaker 4: where it's a problem.
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 25:00
  Speaker 4: But not everybody's like that. And they think they might be.
• 25:02
  Speaker 4: But then it comes down to it. And they're like,
• 25:05
  Speaker 4: I don't want to talk about sucking a dick that
• 25:06
  Speaker 4: my dad might hear this. You know? And Raina.
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: This is not your dad's dick.
• 25:12
  Speaker 5: Or dad's dick, baby. Or do tell. Stepdad's dick, but
• 25:15
  Speaker 5: not your own dad's dick.
• 25:16
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 25:16
  Speaker 4: We don't go down that road. But she was like, yeah,
• 25:19
  Speaker 4: of course. Yeah, that's for the Patreon when you suck
• 25:22
  Speaker 4: your stepdad's dick.
• 25:23
  Speaker 5: It's just, it's so funny because my whole life I
• 25:25
  Speaker 5: was the kind of person that, like, I felt like
• 25:27
  Speaker 5: I was, like, I wasn't always popular or well-liked, but
• 25:29
  Speaker 5: I was, like, made fun of because I always said
• 25:31
  Speaker 5: these crazy things. Like, you never know what's going to
• 25:32
  Speaker 5: come out of her mouth kind of stuff.
• 25:34
  Speaker 2: And, like.
• 25:34
  Speaker 5: Now I've built my career on it. Ashley and I
• 25:37
  Speaker 5: will talk about literally anything. We talk about our own lives.
• 25:40
  Speaker 5: That's why I think the show's so relatable, because anything
• 25:42
  Speaker 5: good or bad that happens, we're just like, let's talk
• 25:44
  Speaker 5: about it. We get on stage, it's so cathartic, we'll
• 25:46
  Speaker 5: talk about it. One time I had invited this guy
• 25:49
  Speaker 5: to a live show, and we didn't know if he
• 25:50
  Speaker 5: was gonna show up. He was coming to stay with
• 25:52
  Speaker 5: me in New York, and Ashley was like- So he.
• 25:53
  Speaker 2: Was like a romantic guy.
• 25:54
  Speaker 5: Yes, and I had heard from him all day, and
• 25:56
  Speaker 5: Ashley was like, whatever happens, that's what we talk about
• 25:58
  Speaker 5: on stage.
• 25:59
  Speaker 4: And he comes to the show, and I see him
• 26:01
  Speaker 4: come in the back. Well, I could barely see him.
• 26:03
  Speaker 4: It was really skinny. We fucked these skinny guys this
• 26:04
  Speaker 4: one year. And I see him come in and I'm like,
• 26:07
  Speaker 4: the light hits him.
• 26:08
  Speaker 5: The light hits my shirt.
• 26:09
  Speaker 4: Like anything, I mean, you know, like it's a blessing
• 26:12
  Speaker 4: to do this and things that are negative that might
• 26:16
  Speaker 4: hurt your feelings that could happen, you get to turn
• 26:18
  Speaker 4: them into comedy.
• 26:19
  Speaker 6: So, okay, so you guys are both currently single.
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: Yes. And you have a lot of fun and, you know,
• 26:26
  Speaker 2: getting fresh dick on the road.
• 26:29
  Speaker 5: We get a lot of dick on the road.
• 26:30
  Speaker 4: Exclusively where we get the dick. New York dick is
• 26:34
  Speaker 4: not for us.
• 26:37
  Speaker 2: And how do you wheel it in?
• 26:39
  Speaker 6: Do you start, do you turn on your location the
• 26:41
  Speaker 6: minute you get off the plane for the Bumble or
• 26:43
  Speaker 6: the Tinder and you start Fishing, how does it work?
• 26:47
  Speaker 5: So we meet guys at shows a lot. Our audience
• 26:50
  Speaker 5: is very female, but in the last couple years, a
• 26:52
  Speaker 5: lot of people have been bringing their boyfriends, their boyfriends' friends, husbands,
• 26:56
  Speaker 5: just friends that are in town. So we meet a
• 26:57
  Speaker 5: lot of guys at shows.
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: Just guys that want to get laid.
• 26:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I mean, I think that you're crazy if you
• 27:01
  Speaker 5: don't come to our shows and try to get laid.
• 27:02
  Speaker 5: We don't want it. We don't want you to come
• 27:03
  Speaker 5: to try to get laid by our little angels. Yes,
• 27:05
  Speaker 5: if you want to fuck us.
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Come. For sure.
• 27:08
  Speaker 4: But yeah, I think we both have an epic story
• 27:12
  Speaker 4: from meeting a guy at a show. That skinny guy,
• 27:15
  Speaker 4: she met him because we were doing a live bumble
• 27:19
  Speaker 4: at a show. A live bumble? We bring a girl up,
• 27:24
  Speaker 4: a single woman.
• 27:25
  Speaker 2: And you put her phone?
• 27:26
  Speaker 4: We put her bumble up on the screen.
• 27:27
  Speaker 6: I've done that before. That's pretty fun.
• 27:29
  Speaker 3: And she matched with him.
• 27:30
  Speaker 4: Yeah. he came down there. We were like, you want
• 27:32
  Speaker 4: to come down here?
• 27:33
  Speaker 3: And so Raina's like, we called him via Bumble.
• 27:36
  Speaker 4: Raina's talking to him on the phone. She's like, you
• 27:37
  Speaker 4: should come down here. You should try to fuck this girl.
• 27:39
  Speaker 4: You know, we'll pay for your Uber, you know?
• 27:41
  Speaker 5: And he was like, sure. It was 10 p.m.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: At night.
• 27:43
  Speaker 5: And he just like, came down in San Francisco to
• 27:45
  Speaker 5: this comedy club. He was in town for work for
• 27:47
  Speaker 5: the night.
• 27:48
  Speaker 4: So we like, told, we held the show. They're like,
• 27:51
  Speaker 4: you guys have to get off stage. We're like, we're
• 27:52
  Speaker 4: waiting on this fucking guy. So he shows up him
• 27:55
  Speaker 4: and the girl don't really hit it off. But then
• 27:58
  Speaker 4: Ray ends up dating him for like months.
• 28:01
  Speaker 5: Yes. Well, she had like a boyfriend or something. So
• 28:03
  Speaker 5: she went home and I kept saying to Ashley, it's
• 28:04
  Speaker 5: the coolest fucking guy I've ever met. He just like
• 28:06
  Speaker 5: comes down by himself, just threw his backpack down, hopped
• 28:09
  Speaker 5: on stage. It was like, I don't know what the
• 28:10
  Speaker 5: fuck is going on. He had no idea who we were.
• 28:12
  Speaker 5: I couldn't let it go. I was like, Ashley, this
• 28:14
  Speaker 5: guy's so cool. And she's like, well, you got to
• 28:15
  Speaker 5: pay him back for the Uber. So like get in
• 28:17
  Speaker 5: touch with him. So we're sitting in Seattle, like on
• 28:19
  Speaker 5: the dock, having a nice day the next day. And
• 28:21
  Speaker 5: I'm like DMing with him. She's like, who are you
• 28:23
  Speaker 5: talking to? I was like, that guy. I became the show.
• 28:26
  Speaker 4: So then he was randomly from, I don't know how
• 28:29
  Speaker 4: much details. He was from another city. He was out
• 28:31
  Speaker 4: in San Francisco for work. So then we go to
• 28:33
  Speaker 4: that city a few months later for a show. He
• 28:35
  Speaker 4: had already come to visit New York. He came for
• 28:37
  Speaker 4: the 4th of July. So then we go to where
• 28:39
  Speaker 4: he lives for the show. I end up fucking his
• 28:41
  Speaker 4: best friend and roommate. So Raina and I are like
• 28:43
  Speaker 4: in this house.
• 28:43
  Speaker 2: And roommate.
• 28:44
  Speaker 4: Yeah, they were like younger.
• 28:45
  Speaker 2: They were these like- But on the same night?
• 28:46
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we did fuck in that house.
• 28:48
  Speaker 5: Well, I fucked him. Yeah, I fucked him in New
• 28:49
  Speaker 5: York for a while. He even stayed with me. I
• 28:50
  Speaker 5: was like, I've never hung out with this person ever.
• 28:52
  Speaker 2: So you guys have screwed the same human.
• 28:55
  Speaker 5: No, we never had sex with the same person or
• 28:57
  Speaker 5: each other.
• 28:57
  Speaker 4: These two friends that live together. We were with them
• 29:00
  Speaker 4: in their house, like in separate bedrooms.
• 29:02
  Speaker 2: But then you screwed the guy and his roommate.
• 29:05
  Speaker 5: No, we were in the city together where they live.
• 29:07
  Speaker 7: Oh, God.
• 29:08
  Speaker 5: And they came to our show that we had there,
• 29:10
  Speaker 5: and then I fucked this one guy, and then she
• 29:12
  Speaker 5: fucked his roommate.
• 29:13
  Speaker 4: Yeah, I was like, have his friend come. His friend
• 29:15
  Speaker 4: was super tall, super skinny, but he was super tall.
• 29:18
  Speaker 4: And we hooked up with them, and then we kind
• 29:21
  Speaker 4: of started to keep in touch. And then Raina and
• 29:24
  Speaker 4: her break up months later. And she's like, are you
• 29:26
  Speaker 4: going to break up with that guy?
• 29:28
  Speaker 5: I could see his name pop up on her phone.
• 29:30
  Speaker 4: You can't stay with the friend if I'm not going
• 29:33
  Speaker 4: to be with the other friend. This was like a
• 29:34
  Speaker 4: double date situation. I was like, oh, yeah, for sure.
• 29:38
  Speaker 4: And he was like planning to come visit me in
• 29:40
  Speaker 4: New York. I had to like tell him, like, I
• 29:41
  Speaker 4: just don't think this is going to work.
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: I mean, have you realized how how like codependent. phoning
• 29:50
  Speaker 2: buddies you guys are. I've never done it since.
• 29:52
  Speaker 5: That was just like a stint. That was just it.
• 29:54
  Speaker 5: By the way, also, if she really was into this guy,
• 29:57
  Speaker 5: I wouldn't be like, you have to break up with him.
• 29:58
  Speaker 4: I was like, he's not going to come stay with
• 30:00
  Speaker 4: me in New York. I'm not trying to start a
• 30:01
  Speaker 4: long-distance relationship with this kid.
• 30:03
  Speaker 5: He doesn't eat.
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: So, okay, I have a prediction.
• 30:07
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 30:08
  Speaker 6: Because I once did the Bumble thing too or something
• 30:12
  Speaker 6: because I love all that stuff because I've been married
• 30:16
  Speaker 6: for so long. And I did think, what if I
• 30:20
  Speaker 6: do this with the screen? Because we take the phone
• 30:22
  Speaker 6: and we plug it in and we see who's on
• 30:25
  Speaker 6: someone's thing.
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: Because I was like, wait, swipe left, swipe, who do
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: we like?
• 30:31
  Speaker 6: And it's someone's husband who's in there or someone's boyfriend
• 30:35
  Speaker 6: who's in there. So my prediction is that within the
• 30:39
  Speaker 6: next 18 months, there'll be a scripted show where there's
• 30:42
  Speaker 6: someone doing a live podcast with And girls are doing.
• 30:45
  Speaker 2: This, and this is how someone finds out they're cheating.
• 30:47
  Speaker 5: We should do that show, though. I know, but I.
• 30:50
  Speaker 6: Just put out the stories, and then when it happens,
• 30:53
  Speaker 6: I get some satisfaction that someone copied me and listened
• 30:56
  Speaker 6: to it.
• 30:56
  Speaker 2: But I'm too lazy to write the whole script.
• 30:58
  Speaker 4: I love that idea.
• 31:00
  Speaker 6: But 100%, that's going to happen, and you're going to
• 31:01
  Speaker 6: be like, oh, my God. So I decide to put
• 31:03
  Speaker 6: it out there when I get the vision.
• 31:05
  Speaker 5: It did happen one time that this girl said that
• 31:07
  Speaker 5: she saw her boyfriend on the screen, but. If you don't,
• 31:11
  Speaker 5: I think a lot of people think if you delete
• 31:13
  Speaker 5: the app from your phone, it deactivates your profile and
• 31:15
  Speaker 5: it doesn't. So that doesn't necessarily mean.
• 31:18
  Speaker 4: But it was.
• 31:18
  Speaker 5: If it was your husband.
• 31:19
  Speaker 4: It was his current photos, yes. He wasn't in the room,
• 31:22
  Speaker 4: but she was like, this is my boyfriend and I
• 31:24
  Speaker 4: just recently moved to be with him. And it was
• 31:26
  Speaker 4: kind of sad that that happened.
• 31:29
  Speaker 6: So obviously you meet a lot of guys through the
• 31:33
  Speaker 6: app situation, right?
• 31:34
  Speaker 2: Is it... We don't.
• 31:36
  Speaker 4: Really love to do the apps. Raina's never really done...
• 31:40
  Speaker 4: We just like to meet people in the wild. I mean,
• 31:42
  Speaker 4: I meet a lot of guys at comedy clubs and
• 31:44
  Speaker 4: different things.
• 31:45
  Speaker 5: I do Raya.
• 31:46
  Speaker 4: That's the only app that I do. But Raina's never
• 31:48
  Speaker 4: really done the app dating thing. We just.
• 31:50
  Speaker 3: It's not our preferred way to meet people.
• 31:52
  Speaker 4: I mean, we think it's great.
• 31:54
  Speaker 2: That it exists.
• 31:55
  Speaker 4: That it exists.
• 31:56
  Speaker 2: Yes, I agree.
• 31:56
  Speaker 5: And it works.
• 31:57
  Speaker 4: People get married that they.
• 31:58
  Speaker 5: Met on an app.
• 31:59
  Speaker 4: But it's like.
• 32:00
  Speaker 3: I just don't have a lot of luck with it.
• 32:03
  Speaker 2: Are you watching... Fleshman's in Trouble.
• 32:05
  Speaker 5: You're obsessed with it. I watched it right off the book.
• 32:08
  Speaker 2: I haven't finished it.
• 32:08
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 32:10
  Speaker 2: I'm at like episode five.
• 32:11
  Speaker 5: Okay.
• 32:12
  Speaker 2: But it's very good. It's on Hulu. And it starts
• 32:16
  Speaker 2: out with something that I have thought for a long time.
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: In that these apps.
• 32:23
  Speaker 6: even though it sounds like it's great for women and stuff,
• 32:25
  Speaker 6: it's really, really great for guys.
• 32:28
  Speaker 2: It's better for guys. And especially in this, so the
• 32:32
  Speaker 2: main character is a doctor who is separated or getting
• 32:35
  Speaker 2: divorced from his wife or divorced. And so after, you know,
• 32:41
  Speaker 2: being a dork in high school, studying his ass in
• 32:43
  Speaker 2: college and medical school, getting the love of his life,
• 32:46
  Speaker 2: now he's like this divorced 40-year-old doctor, which is a
• 32:51
  Speaker 2: huge asset. in America.
• 32:54
  Speaker 1: Okay.
• 32:55
  Speaker 6: So he opens a thing and it's just girls will
• 32:58
  Speaker 6: come over, do anything he wants.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: He's got multiple girls.
• 33:02
  Speaker 6: And I always thought that too, because I was always like,
• 33:04
  Speaker 6: you know, there's always, there's these guys that like, maybe
• 33:08
  Speaker 6: they didn't get any tail in high school and really
• 33:12
  Speaker 6: had to work hard to get in college. And then
• 33:13
  Speaker 6: finally got the girl to marry them. And then after
• 33:16
  Speaker 6: 17 years, now they're single and they're not terrible looking
• 33:20
  Speaker 6: and they have a couple of bucks and, And then
• 33:22
  Speaker 6: there's all these women from, I want to fuck a daddy,
• 33:25
  Speaker 6: a 25-year-old, to, like, a 55-year-old that are all willing
• 33:29
  Speaker 6: to drive, go to their house, and suck their dick
• 33:32
  Speaker 6: because they're like, you're not that cute, but all settled.
• 33:35
  Speaker 2: Because you own a home.
• 33:37
  Speaker 4: And you're a doctor.
• 33:38
  Speaker 2: And you have so many, but even guys that don't
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: own a doctor, just the fact that they, like, have.
• 33:43
  Speaker 5: A home and, like, are somewhat.
• 33:45
  Speaker 2: Established and, like, oh, it's cute, he's a divorced dad,
• 33:49
  Speaker 2: and I'm like, And I mean, I just, it keeps
• 33:54
  Speaker 2: me married. I mean, it just seems like really hard.
• 33:58
  Speaker 5: Well, the bar is low for men. I think that
• 34:00
  Speaker 5: they lower it. In New York, it's the lowest of
• 34:02
  Speaker 5: the low. Yes, and we think that women just get
• 34:05
  Speaker 5: better as they age.
• 34:05
  Speaker 2: No, that's what I'm saying. Men have so much to
• 34:08
  Speaker 2: choose from.
• 34:08
  Speaker 5: So much. I mean, Ashley and I have so many
• 34:10
  Speaker 5: girlfriends that have tons of friends. They work out and
• 34:13
  Speaker 5: they volunteer and they have great jobs. They're successful. They just, like,
• 34:16
  Speaker 5: kill it. And it's just, like, they're struggling to date.
• 34:18
  Speaker 5: I mean, we're not in serious relationships. I think we're
• 34:20
  Speaker 5: the fucking best. I mean, Ali Wong says it so
• 34:22
  Speaker 5: well in her most recent special where she talks about how, like,
• 34:25
  Speaker 5: men have become more successful.
• 34:26
  Speaker 2: Because now she's divorced, right?
• 34:27
  Speaker 5: Right, which was so crazy. Well, that was so crazy
• 34:28
  Speaker 5: that she talks to her husband so much. They separated
• 34:30
  Speaker 5: right after that.
• 34:30
  Speaker 2: Oh, so she hasn't done a new one since the divorce.
• 34:33
  Speaker 5: No, this was last winter.
• 34:35
  Speaker 2: I'm wondering if she got divorced just to get a
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: couple new hours out of it.
• 34:38
  Speaker 4: Right. No, I'm just kidding.
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: We would.
• 34:40
  Speaker 5: It's worth it.
• 34:40
  Speaker 4: It'd be worth it.
• 34:42
  Speaker 5: But, you know, she was saying that, like, women's ability,
• 34:45
  Speaker 5: men's ability to date goes up as they become more
• 34:47
  Speaker 5: successful and make more money. And women's goes down.
• 34:48
  Speaker 4: Our pool gets smaller.
• 34:49
  Speaker 5: It's directly the opposite.
• 34:51
  Speaker 3: Especially in comedy.
• 34:52
  Speaker 5: Like, what?
• 34:53
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 34:53
  Speaker 5: Who wants this?
• 34:54
  Speaker 4: I mean, someone does.
• 34:56
  Speaker 6: No, but I remember when I, as, you know, a
• 35:00
  Speaker 6: younger person, I loved watching stand-up, you know, like, I'd
• 35:03
  Speaker 6: watch whatever, A & E, Evening at the Improv, whatever
• 35:06
  Speaker 6: the new, like, you know, as a teenager, and... I
• 35:09
  Speaker 6: loved stand-up, and I'd see the female stand-ups, and it
• 35:13
  Speaker 6: was never anybody cute.
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: Like, no offense.
• 35:15
  Speaker 6: But it was like Paula Poundstone. It was like very,
• 35:17
  Speaker 6: or Ellen, who wasn't out yet, but like not feminine.
• 35:21
  Speaker 6: I had no one to like relate to. And then
• 35:23
  Speaker 6: even Joan Rivers, who was pretty, would always.
• 35:25
  Speaker 5: Talk about, I'm so ugly.
• 35:27
  Speaker 2: I'm like, why? You're not ugly. Like, I don't understand
• 35:29
  Speaker 2: why you.
• 35:29
  Speaker 6: The whole act is about how ugly and undesirable you
• 35:32
  Speaker 6: are and how your vagina is at your ankles.
• 35:34
  Speaker 2: I was just like... Anyway. And then Roseanne. It was
• 35:37
  Speaker 2: always that.
• 35:37
  Speaker 5: Totally, yeah.
• 35:38
  Speaker 2: And so I was kind of like... But I'm like,
• 35:40
  Speaker 2: but I really think I'd like to do this. But
• 35:41
  Speaker 2: then I remember thinking... Am.
• 35:43
  Speaker 5: I too pretty for this?
• 35:44
  Speaker 2: No, I'm thinking, who the hell would ever want to
• 35:47
  Speaker 2: marry a female stand-up?
• 35:51
  Speaker 5: And I know I want to.
• 35:52
  Speaker 2: Get married and have kids. And so then I finally....
• 35:56
  Speaker 6: After I got out of college and got fired from
• 35:58
  Speaker 6: my first job and my friend was like, you need
• 36:01
  Speaker 6: to be a standup. And she threw down this like
• 36:03
  Speaker 6: booked how to become a standup, whatever this, um, one
• 36:06
  Speaker 6: night class.
• 36:07
  Speaker 5: At the Radisson.
• 36:08
  Speaker 6: And, um, and I was just like, I left that
• 36:12
  Speaker 6: class and I go, you know, even if I have
• 36:14
  Speaker 6: to have a child on my own, I just think
• 36:17
  Speaker 6: I have to do this because it's what, like God
• 36:20
  Speaker 6: gave me this gift to do it. And if it
• 36:22
  Speaker 6: means nobody wants to marry me or date me, I'm
• 36:25
  Speaker 6: just gonna, I'll just.
• 36:28
  Speaker 2: I'm just going to do it.
• 36:29
  Speaker 3: But there's no guarantee someone's going to want to marry
• 36:30
  Speaker 3: or date you anyway.
• 36:31
  Speaker 4: So it's like, why would you not give up your passion?
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: But I'm saying like, I'm just being honest that that
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: is what went through my head 25 years ago.
• 36:40
  Speaker 5: Like what's the alternative? You just give up all your
• 36:42
  Speaker 5: dreams on like a wish and a prayer that some
• 36:44
  Speaker 5: like dusty ass dude might marry you one day.
• 36:47
  Speaker 2: No, absolutely not. You do what you should do and
• 36:50
  Speaker 2: the right thing will come along.
• 36:51
  Speaker 5: I mean, I know what you're saying though. It's hard. I,
• 36:54
  Speaker 5: it's a special kind of guy that looks at you
• 36:56
  Speaker 5: on stage and is like, watching you talk about fucking
• 36:59
  Speaker 5: stepdads and sucking dick, and it's like, that's my girl.
• 37:02
  Speaker 5: But I would never, and she would never, settle for
• 37:05
  Speaker 5: somebody other than that. We get stripped on at our shows,
• 37:09
  Speaker 5: like strippers, and my dad is in the front row,
• 37:12
  Speaker 5: holding up a phone, filming it. He's like, go girl.
• 37:16
  Speaker 5: That's the kind of man I want. Like your dad?
• 37:18
  Speaker 5: It's a common theme, right?
• 37:19
  Speaker 4: I want to fuck her dad.
• 37:21
  Speaker 5: Right, but he's too short for me. But that's the
• 37:25
  Speaker 5: kind of guy we want. If that's not who it's
• 37:26
  Speaker 5: going to be, then like, I, you know.
• 37:28
  Speaker 6: I definitely, I definitely think, you know, guys between whatever
• 37:34
  Speaker 6: 20 and, and 35 are way more opened and fine with,
• 37:40
  Speaker 6: you know, the woman, but like people would like, even
• 37:44
  Speaker 6: with my husband, I don't, my husband never had a
• 37:46
  Speaker 6: problem with me talking about him, but it would be these,
• 37:49
  Speaker 6: sometimes these other men that I wasn't even aware of
• 37:51
  Speaker 6: until like the last couple of years. Where they would
• 37:55
  Speaker 6: give him shit. And I was like, they're being dicks
• 38:00
  Speaker 6: to you.
• 38:02
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 38:02
  Speaker 2: Like, they're being like, whoa. Oh, yeah.
• 38:05
  Speaker 4: I could never do it.
• 38:06
  Speaker 2: What your wife says about you. And I was like.
• 38:10
  Speaker 6: I'm like, he's doing that because he's insecure that you
• 38:13
  Speaker 6: have a wife that's, like, successful.
• 38:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 38:16
  Speaker 6: And he, I'm sure, loves his wife, but his wife
• 38:19
  Speaker 6: is shopping and decorating the home.
• 38:21
  Speaker 5: She also says the same stuff about him. She just
• 38:23
  Speaker 5: doesn't get paid to do it on stage, okay? I
• 38:25
  Speaker 5: would much rather have somebody get money for it.
• 38:28
  Speaker 4: Yeah, she's just doing it at brunch.
• 38:29
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. And I didn't even really.
• 38:32
  Speaker 6: like looking back, I was like, all the stuff I
• 38:35
  Speaker 6: was said, I was like, I don't think I, you know,
• 38:37
  Speaker 6: ever said anything wrong. But then I was always like
• 38:40
  Speaker 6: with my kids, I was like, are you okay if
• 38:42
  Speaker 6: I post this?
• 38:43
  Speaker 2: Are you okay if I, you know, say this? And
• 38:45
  Speaker 2: they're like fine with it.
• 38:47
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 38:48
  Speaker 6: But I do always ask because I do think like,
• 38:51
  Speaker 6: you know, so, but I wonder if, and then there
• 38:54
  Speaker 6: would be Female stand-ups I knew that, you know, would
• 38:58
  Speaker 6: have their whole act be about their guy.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: Then they'd break up, right?
• 39:02
  Speaker 6: And then the new guy would say, I don't want
• 39:05
  Speaker 6: you talking about me. And they'd be like, okay, that's fine.
• 39:09
  Speaker 6: But it's such a weird thing to then have, like,
• 39:11
  Speaker 6: any kind.
• 39:11
  Speaker 2: Of, like.
• 39:12
  Speaker 6: Like, if you have a hilarious story that happens with
• 39:15
  Speaker 6: you and your partner.
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Then you have to go to your husband or
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: your wife and say... Okay, can I tell about when
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: we got pulled over?
• 39:23
  Speaker 6: Oh, I can't tell about it because you were a
• 39:26
  Speaker 6: co-starring in that scene.
• 39:28
  Speaker 2: Like where does it come?
• 39:29
  Speaker 6: Like that's where I wouldn't, I would think it'd be
• 39:31
  Speaker 6: very hard because men too, men talk a lot about
• 39:35
  Speaker 6: their wives and their kids and women should be able
• 39:38
  Speaker 6: to do that too. And I think if you ever
• 39:40
  Speaker 6: have a partner as a female storyteller about your life,
• 39:43
  Speaker 6: that is going to say, you can't talk about me.
• 39:46
  Speaker 6: I think you got to leave. I mean, that's like
• 39:48
  Speaker 6: your business.
• 39:49
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 39:49
  Speaker 4: I don't think it would work. And I also say
• 39:51
  Speaker 4: just at a deep level, I don't think that's probably
• 39:53
  Speaker 4: the type of person I would be with in the
• 39:55
  Speaker 4: first place. It's really private. You know, like I don't
• 39:59
  Speaker 4: know that we would mesh in the first place.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 40:01
  Speaker 4: Personality wise.
• 40:01
  Speaker 7: So.
• 40:04
  Speaker 4: Yeah, we get asked that.
• 40:04
  Speaker 5: Question all the time.
• 40:05
  Speaker 3: What if you and Dana Smith just want you to
• 40:07
  Speaker 3: talk about him?
• 40:07
  Speaker 4: It's like, I don't know.
• 40:08
  Speaker 5: We probably wouldn't be. Yeah, I don't know how far
• 40:10
  Speaker 5: we'd get down the road. I will say the last
• 40:12
  Speaker 5: relationship I had, I revealed very early on who that
• 40:15
  Speaker 5: person was, tagged him on Instagram, and he was a
• 40:18
  Speaker 5: part of it. I would probably not do that the
• 40:19
  Speaker 5: second time around. I want to give myself a really
• 40:21
  Speaker 5: long runway. Because there was no benefit to it for me.
• 40:25
  Speaker 4: Except for him. He got new followers.
• 40:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you kind of wonder.
• 40:30
  Speaker 3: You build their career up.
• 40:32
  Speaker 2: I definitely think some guys... And I don't think it's wrong.
• 40:35
  Speaker 6: Like, you know, I know it happens with some of
• 40:37
  Speaker 6: my friends who are, like, real housewives and stuff. And
• 40:39
  Speaker 6: it happened with my friends that were real stars. And
• 40:42
  Speaker 6: they were always so excited to say they were dating
• 40:44
  Speaker 6: somebody that had.
• 40:46
  Speaker 2: Never seen the show.
• 40:47
  Speaker 6: And I'm like, you realize that guy also dated Courtney
• 40:50
  Speaker 6: Love and Uma Thurman.
• 40:52
  Speaker 2: I think he probably knows who you are. Right. But
• 40:54
  Speaker 2: it's always, like, supposed to be so flattering. Like, oh,
• 40:56
  Speaker 2: he didn't know who I was. No, he likes it.
• 40:59
  Speaker 2: It's cred for him.
• 41:00
  Speaker 6: Not only are you pretty and funny, but you're super successful,
• 41:03
  Speaker 6: and you're well-liked.
• 41:05
  Speaker 2: You're a cool chick. For sure.
• 41:06
  Speaker 6: So I think that's okay, but I think that's always
• 41:10
  Speaker 6: so funny. And then there are guys that do enjoy being.
• 41:16
  Speaker 6: On the camera and do enjoy when people come up
• 41:18
  Speaker 6: to another restaurant and have the new fame and they
• 41:20
  Speaker 6: like it.
• 41:21
  Speaker 4: But they can't like it too much.
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: Exactly.
• 41:23
  Speaker 4: And that's like a star fucker.
• 41:24
  Speaker 2: Yes, they need to like it just enough that they're
• 41:27
  Speaker 2: not annoyed and more like, I just wanted to have
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: a night alone with you. Like, it can't be that.
• 41:31
  Speaker 5: Yes, I agree.
• 41:32
  Speaker 2: But they can't also be doing laps by themselves.
• 41:35
  Speaker 4: To get noticed.
• 41:35
  Speaker 2: To get noticed. And I've seen all levels.
• 41:37
  Speaker 6: 100%.
• 41:38
  Speaker 2: Well, you know, I met a guy at a.
• 41:39
  Speaker 5: Show that we were kind of.
• 41:44
  Speaker 4: He came up on stage. We did this thing. And
• 41:46
  Speaker 4: then he and I stayed in touch. And I really–
• 41:48
  Speaker 4: I liked talking to him. He was talking about coming
• 41:50
  Speaker 4: to New York. He didn't live in New York because
• 41:52
  Speaker 4: we don't, you know, do that. It's always guys from
• 41:54
  Speaker 4: out of town. And then I got this email that, like,
• 41:59
  Speaker 4: he was bragging about talking to me, to his exes,
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: and just using– I'm sure he thought I was cool,
• 42:06
  Speaker 4: but he was kind of using our communication for clout.
• 42:09
  Speaker 4: And I've never been so turned off. I never talked
• 42:11
  Speaker 4: to him again.
• 42:11
  Speaker 2: You really– good call. Yeah. But yeah, that is, I mean,
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: and girls do that too. For sure.
• 42:16
  Speaker 5: Girls will be like, Oh my God.
• 42:18
  Speaker 2: So, um, so funny.
• 42:20
  Speaker 6: I was hanging out with, you know, bragging like, Oh,
• 42:22
  Speaker 6: I was at this movie star or whatever. They do
• 42:24
  Speaker 6: that to their exes too.
• 42:25
  Speaker 4: A hundred percent. I mean, it's like girls are the originals,
• 42:27
  Speaker 4: but like now guys are, guys are doing it too
• 42:29
  Speaker 4: because they also know like, Oh, who are you?
• 42:33
  Speaker 7: Oh, wow.
• 42:34
  Speaker 6: You're like this kind of cool, famous person. That's like
• 42:36
  Speaker 6: well liked and well respected. You're not, just a girl
• 42:40
  Speaker 6: on OnlyFans, you actually have a brain, and people like you.
• 42:44
  Speaker 5: And it is cool, and I want you to be
• 42:46
  Speaker 5: proud of me and hype me, but I want you
• 42:48
  Speaker 5: to be secure enough that somebody hands you a camera
• 42:51
  Speaker 5: and says, can you take a photo of us, that
• 42:53
  Speaker 5: you can do it, and that you're a secure-ass man.
• 42:55
  Speaker 5: People used to thrust their phone at my ex all
• 42:57
  Speaker 5: the time, be like, you take the photo. He was
• 42:59
  Speaker 5: fine about it. It's hard to date somebody in the
• 43:01
  Speaker 5: same industry as you. It's a fine line. You just
• 43:04
  Speaker 5: know it when you see it. I want somebody to
• 43:05
  Speaker 5: be proud of me, but I don't want them to
• 43:06
  Speaker 5: use my name. But I also want to help them.
• 43:08
  Speaker 5: If I love you, I want to help you professionally.
• 43:10
  Speaker 5: I'm happy to do it. I don't want to feel
• 43:12
  Speaker 5: like I'm being taken advantage of. It's just a fine line.
• 43:14
  Speaker 5: I just know it when I see it.
• 43:15
  Speaker 6: Have you ever been out with girlfriends and then someone
• 43:18
  Speaker 6: comes up and is like, I'm so sorry.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: I'm such a huge fan. I listen to the show
• 43:21
  Speaker 2: all the time.
• 43:22
  Speaker 5: All the time.
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: And then your friend... Oh, my God.
• 43:25
  Speaker 4: What are you going to say?
• 43:26
  Speaker 7: No.
• 43:26
  Speaker 2: I've had this for, like, my friends, especially, like, old friends,
• 43:29
  Speaker 2: like college friends and stuff.
• 43:30
  Speaker 5: They offered you pictures?
• 43:31
  Speaker 2: A couple years ago, yes. They were like, would you
• 43:34
  Speaker 2: like a picture? No, no. Would you like a picture?
• 43:36
  Speaker 2: And then I'm like, half the time they really don't
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: want a picture. Like, they don't look that cute.
• 43:40
  Speaker 5: They don't really want it.
• 43:41
  Speaker 4: It's giving me, like, internal rage to even hear you
• 43:43
  Speaker 4: say it. And I've had to have this talk because
• 43:45
  Speaker 4: they're just being nice and they're excited.
• 43:46
  Speaker 3: They're being nice and they're.
• 43:47
  Speaker 2: So excited that their loser friend from high school and
• 43:49
  Speaker 2: college is actually being recognized. But you're like, But this
• 43:53
  Speaker 2: is like weird, like I'm always gonna be polite when
• 43:55
  Speaker 2: someone approaches the table, but it's not so euphoric for me.
• 43:59
  Speaker 2: I'd rather enjoy the rest of our Chinese chicken salad.
• 44:02
  Speaker 4: Nothing is more mortifying than when your friend is like,
• 44:05
  Speaker 4: do you want me to take a picture of you guys?
• 44:06
  Speaker 2: What if they say no?
• 44:08
  Speaker 5: They have.
• 44:09
  Speaker 4: They have.
• 44:10
  Speaker 5: Also, they will say, they'll say they want a photo
• 44:12
  Speaker 5: if they want a photo. Like most, our audience is
• 44:14
  Speaker 5: so cool and they walk up and they say hello
• 44:16
  Speaker 5: and they just keep it moving. If they want a photo...
• 44:17
  Speaker 5: they'll usually ask sometimes.
• 44:18
  Speaker 4: They'll walk away and then they'll come back because they
• 44:20
  Speaker 4: like they beat themselves up I recently did.
• 44:21
  Speaker 6: It to myself and that was embarrassing you asked somebody
• 44:24
  Speaker 6: if they want a photo well sometimes you can feel
• 44:27
  Speaker 6: it I was on vacation and this girl was very
• 44:30
  Speaker 6: adorable so like tiny body bikini I'm like why wouldn't
• 44:34
  Speaker 6: this girl want a picture you know so she she
• 44:39
  Speaker 6: comes up and she's like hey you know sorry to
• 44:42
  Speaker 6: bother you.
• 44:42
  Speaker 2: Or whatever I'm just a huge Juicy Scooper fan whatever I'm.
• 44:45
  Speaker 6: Like oh my god not at all you know and
• 44:47
  Speaker 6: then And then she's just kind of like, I could tell, like,
• 44:49
  Speaker 6: there's that little anticipation.
• 44:51
  Speaker 2: And you're like, I'd rather just, like, get the photo,
• 44:54
  Speaker 2: you know, so everyone can get on with life. And
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh, would you like a photo? And she's like, um,
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: I don't have my camera. I'm like, oh, no, it's fine.
• 45:03
  Speaker 5: I go, it's fine.
• 45:03
  Speaker 2: I just didn't want you to be shy about it.
• 45:06
  Speaker 5: No, like, yes.
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: You know, and then I'm like, but if you want
• 45:09
  Speaker 2: to come back. And then she, like, never came back.
• 45:10
  Speaker 5: And I was just like.
• 45:12
  Speaker 2: I was like, I've become that person. Like, I just
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: kind of. Stop.
• 45:15
  Speaker 5: It's like when you tell your Uber driver, your Uber
• 45:18
  Speaker 5: driver says, like, have a good flight and you say
• 45:19
  Speaker 5: you too. And then you just think about it for
• 45:21
  Speaker 5: the rest of the day.
• 45:22
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 45:22
  Speaker 5: I would think about it for an hour.
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: You too. Yeah.
• 45:25
  Speaker 5: That is so funny.
• 45:26
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 45:26
  Speaker 5: She's like, can you.
• 45:27
  Speaker 4: She tells her friend, she's like, Heather McDonald asked me
• 45:29
  Speaker 4: for a picture. Like she's like, you fangirl. She's like,
• 45:33
  Speaker 4: she like wanted a picture with me. It was so weird.
• 45:37
  Speaker 2: It has happened to me after shows, though.
• 45:39
  Speaker 6: I remember I was like in Atlanta and I was
• 45:41
  Speaker 6: in the lobby and it was just after a show
• 45:43
  Speaker 6: where I, I may have not had a meet and greet,
• 45:45
  Speaker 6: but it was a while ago.
• 45:46
  Speaker 2: So I'd taken photos with, you know, people after shows, whatever.
• 45:49
  Speaker 6: And I'm like on a pretty good high and I
• 45:51
  Speaker 6: come into the lobby and, you know, these.
• 45:53
  Speaker 2: Women are like, hi, I'm sorry. And I'm like, no,
• 45:56
  Speaker 2: no problem. They're like, can we, can we get a picture?
• 45:58
  Speaker 2: I'm like, oh yeah. They wanted me to take it.
• 46:02
  Speaker 5: No.
• 46:03
  Speaker 2: Them and their girlfriends. And they just figured, let me
• 46:05
  Speaker 2: just ask a girl that probably knows how to work
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: an iPhone.
• 46:07
  Speaker 4: Cringing.
• 46:09
  Speaker 5: And I'm literally like, of course.
• 46:15
  Speaker 4: I feel like that's happened.
• 46:16
  Speaker 5: I blocked it out. I've been there. I've been there
• 46:19
  Speaker 5: where I'm just like, oh, yeah, sure. And I motioned
• 46:21
  Speaker 5: to be in it. And they just thrust the phone
• 46:22
  Speaker 5: in your mouth.
• 46:23
  Speaker 6: But now all I can think about is this one
• 46:25
  Speaker 6: comment that someone wrote yesterday. under someone did a tick
• 46:29
  Speaker 6: talk about what a piece of shit.
• 46:30
  Speaker 2: I am, whatever.
• 46:31
  Speaker 6: And then there were like comments, you know, and some
• 46:34
  Speaker 6: were like defending me.
• 46:35
  Speaker 2: Like, what are you talking about? Like, she's nice.
• 46:36
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 46:37
  Speaker 6: And this one person is like, I saw her at
• 46:40
  Speaker 6: Sephora and you know, she kept having eye contact with me,
• 46:43
  Speaker 6: like begging for me to like want to recognize her.
• 46:45
  Speaker 6: And so I'm like, normally it's that star say, don't
• 46:48
  Speaker 6: look me in the eye. Now me just, looking someone
• 46:52
  Speaker 6: in the eye is like, ah, you thirsty bitch looking
• 46:55
  Speaker 6: for your lip gloss. Yeah, so then I was like,
• 46:57
  Speaker 6: so now I'm always like, oh my God, who's the
• 46:59
  Speaker 6: girl that's going to be like, story time.
• 47:01
  Speaker 2: So I'm in.
• 47:04
  Speaker 6: Virgin Islands and I see Heather McDonald and I'm just like, hey,
• 47:07
  Speaker 6: I like the show. And she's like, want a picture?
• 47:09
  Speaker 2: I'm like, no, I don't want a picture. And I'm like, oh,
• 47:11
  Speaker 2: my God, this is so weird. My husband's like, are
• 47:13
  Speaker 2: you okay? And then she, like, saw me again and
• 47:15
  Speaker 2: smiled and had eye contact with me. I'm like, leave
• 47:17
  Speaker 2: me alone, you fucking freak. Like, what?
• 47:20
  Speaker 4: This is what scars people from being nice to their
• 47:22
  Speaker 4: fans like this.
• 47:24
  Speaker 2: Oh, my gosh.
• 47:25
  Speaker 4: This was when we first started the podcast. It was, like,
• 47:27
  Speaker 4: very exciting. I think this was even, like, summer of
• 47:29
  Speaker 4: 2018 where I was on a first date and someone
• 47:31
  Speaker 4: came up and, like, had this guy take a picture.
• 47:33
  Speaker 3: And he didn't know what I did yet for work. Like,
• 47:35
  Speaker 3: it was a weird thing for him.
• 47:37
  Speaker 4: He was just like, what is it? Like, it was very, like,
• 47:38
  Speaker 4: hold my purse situation. And I had to, like, explain
• 47:41
  Speaker 4: the whole thing.
• 47:42
  Speaker 6: I just listened to one of my favorite people to impersonate.
• 47:46
  Speaker 6: It's the Ramona Singer from Real Housewives of New York. And,
• 47:49
  Speaker 6: you know, she has a reputation of being very short
• 47:52
  Speaker 6: and rude with people. And it's never gotten better with
• 47:55
  Speaker 6: her fame. And so she was doing an interview and
• 47:58
  Speaker 6: she was like, you know, I just, I really, you know,
• 48:01
  Speaker 6: I was on a first date, okay?
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: We were at Tao. It's a very classy restaurant. Yeah.
• 48:08
  Speaker 4: In New York City.
• 48:09
  Speaker 2: And, you know, we're in the booth and it's like
• 48:11
  Speaker 2: our first date, you know, and this girl just comes
• 48:13
  Speaker 2: up to me and she's like, oh my God, I
• 48:16
  Speaker 2: know you don't want this, but I want to get
• 48:17
  Speaker 2: a picture of you.
• 48:17
  Speaker 5: And I'm like, no, no.
• 48:19
  Speaker 2: Like, this is my date. A lot of guys don't
• 48:20
  Speaker 2: really like it. It's really, you know, it's really upsetting
• 48:23
  Speaker 2: to them.
• 48:23
  Speaker 6: They're like successful businessmen and they don't really appreciate.
• 48:27
  Speaker 2: All these women coming up to me. And I'm like, yeah.
• 48:30
  Speaker 5: I can't believe everything you do with your face. It's
• 48:32
  Speaker 5: like she's having Tourette's in her whole face. Oh, my God. Also,
• 48:36
  Speaker 5: by the way, if you don't want to get recognized,
• 48:39
  Speaker 5: you don't go to the tourist, the most touristy place
• 48:41
  Speaker 5: in Europe.
• 48:42
  Speaker 2: Tao.
• 48:43
  Speaker 5: You're like, I'm just trying to be under the radar
• 48:44
  Speaker 5: at Tao.
• 48:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah. In a booth.
• 48:48
  Speaker 5: Like, there isn't any other good Asian restaurants in all
• 48:50
  Speaker 5: of New York City. Like, there isn't, by the way,
• 48:51
  Speaker 5: another town down town.
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: No, we were in Bravo. That's where we went. We
• 48:53
  Speaker 2: went to Tao.
• 48:54
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 48:55
  Speaker 2: But also, we got, like, a deal. We got a hookup.
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: I'll never turn down a hookup. Yeah. Yeah. Free apps,
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: a couple cocktails.
• 49:02
  Speaker 5: I'm always.
• 49:03
  Speaker 2: Some flaming dessert at the end. I'm all about it.
• 49:05
  Speaker 5: I like Tao. I think it's fun, but I'm not
• 49:07
  Speaker 5: trying to knock you. Except that Tao in Vegas. No.
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: Yeah, come on. Yeah, totally.
• 49:12
  Speaker 5: The town Vegas, they just- I have mixed feelings about
• 49:14
  Speaker 5: getting recognized when I'm on a date. You remember that
• 49:16
  Speaker 5: guy that I was on a date with at that
• 49:17
  Speaker 5: bar and the bartender recognized me? and sent over shots.
• 49:20
  Speaker 5: The bartender was a man. I was on a second
• 49:22
  Speaker 5: date with this guy or yeah, second date. And then
• 49:25
  Speaker 5: the bartender sent over shots and he was like, how
• 49:27
  Speaker 5: do you know this guy? What's the deal? He got
• 49:29
  Speaker 5: like really crazy about it. He thought I like slept
• 49:30
  Speaker 5: with the bartender.
• 49:31
  Speaker 2: So now when you go out with these guys, do.
• 49:36
  Speaker 6: You, If they don't know who you are and they
• 49:38
  Speaker 6: just thought you were a cute girl that they're talking
• 49:39
  Speaker 6: to at an event, and they're like, what do you do?
• 49:43
  Speaker 6: So then do you say, I have a podcast, which
• 49:45
  Speaker 6: is not a coup anymore. Everyone on earth has a podcast.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah. So I have a podcast.
• 49:51
  Speaker 6: So unless they look you up and see how many
• 49:53
  Speaker 6: followers you have, they might just be like, whatever, this
• 49:55
  Speaker 6: girl's whatever. So in that case with the bartender guy,
• 49:58
  Speaker 6: did he kind of not know the level of notoriety
• 50:02
  Speaker 6: you were?
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: Or he did?
• 50:04
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I think that was probably the case. I'm never
• 50:07
  Speaker 5: going to tell somebody how big the show is or
• 50:11
  Speaker 5: how big the live shows are. I don't need to
• 50:13
  Speaker 5: tell you.
• 50:14
  Speaker 2: I know, it's so weird. Have you ever had someone
• 50:15
  Speaker 2: be like, how do I know you? I mean, I'll
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: say that.
• 50:18
  Speaker 5: I'll say I have a pretty well-known podcast.
• 50:20
  Speaker 2: And then I'll go, oh, I'm like, well, maybe from TV.
• 50:23
  Speaker 5: I don't watch TV.
• 50:24
  Speaker 2: I don't know. I'm a comedian. No, that's not it.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: We went to high school together.
• 50:29
  Speaker 6: I'm like, okay, I know what high school you went to,
• 50:31
  Speaker 6: and it's not the one you went to, so I
• 50:33
  Speaker 6: don't know how you know me. You know, like, some
• 50:34
  Speaker 6: people get angry. So I'm just kind of wondering, do
• 50:36
  Speaker 6: you ever just, like, with the guys, just be like,
• 50:41
  Speaker 6: it's pretty popular.
• 50:42
  Speaker 2: I'm, like, a little bit famous. Whatever.
• 50:44
  Speaker 4: I mean, I just, I've never put it on the apps,
• 50:48
  Speaker 4: because what I don't want is someone looking me up and, like,
• 50:52
  Speaker 4: knowing everything about me before they meet me in person.
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: Like, I just don't want to... I mean, not that
• 50:57
  Speaker 3: they would.
• 50:58
  Speaker 4: I think girls do that a little bit more than
• 50:59
  Speaker 4: guys like do a deep stalk before an in-person meeting.
• 51:02
  Speaker 4: But I never like on my dating app profiles had
• 51:05
  Speaker 4: pictures of me with like a microphone in my hand
• 51:06
  Speaker 4: or anything like that. I like to, but I'll tell
• 51:09
  Speaker 4: you on the first date what I do. Yeah.
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: But it's like, it, it like kind of is a
• 51:13
  Speaker 3: slow rollout.
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 51:14
  Speaker 4: Like there, it's like this podcast. And then if the
• 51:17
  Speaker 4: tour comes up, they're like, Oh, where do you play?
• 51:20
  Speaker 4: You know, you do like the improv and we're like,
• 51:21
  Speaker 4: what's the beacon? You know, like it's kind of just
• 51:23
  Speaker 4: can be a little bit, like peeling back the layers,
• 51:27
  Speaker 4: but I, I don't know.
• 51:29
  Speaker 5: I'd like somebody to ask me leading questions. I like
• 51:31
  Speaker 5: what she said about the microphone. I did the same
• 51:33
  Speaker 5: thing when I, I mean, I have a dating app
• 51:34
  Speaker 5: profile and it used, but no photos of me on
• 51:36
  Speaker 5: stage or with a mic. And that was Ashley's idea.
• 51:39
  Speaker 5: I don't need to tell you how big the show is.
• 51:41
  Speaker 5: If somebody's like, is it pretty popular? I'll say yes.
• 51:42
  Speaker 5: I'm not going to give you stats. And if somebody says,
• 51:45
  Speaker 5: where do you perform? I'm probably not leading with the
• 51:47
  Speaker 5: Chicago theater. And I still don't know that most people
• 51:49
  Speaker 5: would even know how big that is. Like your average
• 51:51
  Speaker 5: person would not know necessarily. I think it's a famous theater.
• 51:54
  Speaker 2: You ever have a guy that's like, oh, that's cool. Yeah,
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: I have a podcast too.
• 51:59
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 52:01
  Speaker 4: I was talking to this guy the other night about stand-up,
• 52:04
  Speaker 4: and that was the energy. And I was like, we
• 52:06
  Speaker 4: are not the same.
• 52:07
  Speaker 5: I don't know. No, just keep doing it, girl.
• 52:09
  Speaker 4: They do that same energy.
• 52:12
  Speaker 5: Yeah, I have a podcast too. It's same, same, but different.
• 52:16
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
• 52:17
  Speaker 2: No, no, it is. Is it your full-time job? No,
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: but my friend and I, it's actually pretty good. I
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: just got license plates frames for it.
• 52:26
  Speaker 4: We talk about movies. Yeah, talk about movies and sports.
• 52:30
  Speaker 5: And we just shoot the shit.
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we should.
• 52:32
  Speaker 5: We don't really have a format. We just put it
• 52:34
  Speaker 5: out whenever. We're like, us two.
• 52:35
  Speaker 2: How do you guys make money?
• 52:36
  Speaker 5: We're like, every once in a while we're running an ad.
• 52:40
  Speaker 5: Esther Perel and Elizabeth Warren were on the show, but
• 52:42
  Speaker 5: you know, whatever.
• 52:43
  Speaker 2: Like, how long are you going to do it for?
• 52:45
  Speaker 4: How do you guys make money? Yeah, exactly.
• 52:47
  Speaker 5: How long have you guys been doing it? Five years.
• 52:48
  Speaker 2: No, but how long are you going to keep doing
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: it for?
• 52:50
  Speaker 5: Like, you're asking me or are you just, like, joking?
• 52:52
  Speaker 2: No, I'm being the dude.
• 52:52
  Speaker 4: She's being the dude.
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: Oh, I'm being the awful dude.
• 52:54
  Speaker 5: I was like, are we on a date? I don't know.
• 52:56
  Speaker 2: I know, because I cannot.
• 52:57
  Speaker 5: You know, as long as people listen. We have, like,
• 52:59
  Speaker 5: a really core 15 listeners and I don't want to
• 53:01
  Speaker 5: let them down.
• 53:02
  Speaker 6: Oh.
• 53:02
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 53:02
  Speaker 5: She's a hobby.
• 53:03
  Speaker 2: And then you do stand-up? Yeah. All right.
• 53:07
  Speaker 4: Tell me something funny. Yeah, tell me a joke. When
• 53:09
  Speaker 4: you talk about, like, sucking dick and shit like that.
• 53:12
  Speaker 6: Yes.
• 53:12
  Speaker 5: Yes, we do.
• 53:13
  Speaker 4: I'm playing the girl.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: You're playing you.
• 53:17
  Speaker 4: I mean, if a guy says, tell me a joke,
• 53:19
  Speaker 4: I just say no.
• 53:21
  Speaker 2: Me too. No.
• 53:22
  Speaker 4: Like, I would be like, no.
• 53:24
  Speaker 5: Do you know that my breast reduction doctor asks me
• 53:25
  Speaker 5: every time I go into his office to tell him
• 53:27
  Speaker 5: a joke and my tits are fully out? I've gone to, what,
• 53:30
  Speaker 5: eight different meetings when I'm there? And he's like, tell me.
• 53:33
  Speaker 6: Why does it go so many follow-ups? I think I'm
• 53:35
  Speaker 6: a little suspicious of that.
• 53:37
  Speaker 5: I had two breast reductions this year.
• 53:39
  Speaker 2: He wants like a new hour from you.
• 53:40
  Speaker 5: I had two breast reductions this year. The first one
• 53:44
  Speaker 5: just wasn't really a reduction. It was just like, let's
• 53:47
  Speaker 5: cut you open, see what happens. The second one was
• 53:48
  Speaker 5: really like a reduction.
• 53:50
  Speaker 2: Okay.
• 53:50
  Speaker 5: But yeah, you go to a lot of follow-ups just
• 53:52
  Speaker 5: to make sure everything's like healing okay. So I probably
• 53:54
  Speaker 5: did like eight times.
• 53:55
  Speaker 4: Or to hear a couple jokes.
• 53:56
  Speaker 5: Yeah, tell me a joke every time with my tits
• 53:58
  Speaker 5: in his hands.
• 53:59
  Speaker 4: I like to say what? I like if someone says something,
• 54:01
  Speaker 4: I just go, what? And then it's just like the standoff.
• 54:05
  Speaker 5: And then they know.
• 54:05
  Speaker 3: Like if a guy was like, so tell me a joke.
• 54:07
  Speaker 3: I think I'd be like, what?
• 54:08
  Speaker 5: Show me your dick.
• 54:09
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 54:10
  Speaker 6: Right.
• 54:10
  Speaker 4: Show me your dick, I'll make a joke. That's a
• 54:11
  Speaker 4: good one.
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: I like that.
• 54:14
  Speaker 4: I like that.
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 54:17
  Speaker 5: I'll make a joke.
• 54:20
  Speaker 3: Show me how you'd go down on me. I'm sure
• 54:21
  Speaker 3: I can come up with something.
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 54:23
  Speaker 4: Well, this, I get so fired up about this because
• 54:25
  Speaker 4: I feel the same way as you. When something happens.
• 54:28
  Speaker 4: I post on Instagram. It's like the people that follow me,
• 54:32
  Speaker 4: they're nice. They know me. They're fans. And if I
• 54:35
  Speaker 4: have something that goes viral on TikTok, you know, at
• 54:38
  Speaker 4: first it's really nice. I've put a clip on TikTok.
• 54:41
  Speaker 4: At first it's all the people that follow me. And
• 54:42
  Speaker 4: then it gets in the People's For You page. And
• 54:44
  Speaker 4: then it's like a free-for-all. So then I can see
• 54:47
  Speaker 4: exactly the moment when I stop reading the comments. Because
• 54:50
  Speaker 4: I don't need to be in the comments and read
• 54:51
  Speaker 4: mean things about myself. I've never been like that. I
• 54:53
  Speaker 4: love reading mean things about myself.
• 54:55
  Speaker 2: I can't do it. Absolutely not.
• 54:56
  Speaker 5: I would never.
• 54:57
  Speaker 3: But I like the nice ones. So that first comment
• 55:00
  Speaker 3: that says, like.
• 55:00
  Speaker 2: Women aren't funny.
• 55:01
  Speaker 4: All women talk about is sex.
• 55:03
  Speaker 3: I'm like, no more comment reading for me. And then
• 55:05
  Speaker 3: it kicks up.
• 55:06
  Speaker 4: It's like hundreds of thousands, a million views. And so... it's,
• 55:09
  Speaker 4: men are so mad. They're so, I'm like, are men
• 55:14
  Speaker 4: okay that we do comedy and we talk about sex? Like,
• 55:17
  Speaker 4: and it's always the same comment. It's always either a
• 55:19
  Speaker 4: blank avatar or this guy that looks the same. It's
• 55:22
  Speaker 4: like some MAGA dude with like a fish, you know, whatever. And,
• 55:26
  Speaker 4: They're so angry that we have the, A, audacity to
• 55:29
  Speaker 4: do comedy that they could never, and B, that we
• 55:32
  Speaker 4: dare to talk about sex. Like, I just, when I
• 55:34
  Speaker 4: see these comments flow in, I'm like, are y'all good? Like,
• 55:38
  Speaker 4: why are you so upset about women doing comedy?
• 55:42
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 55:43
  Speaker 6: But it's also those people that feel the need that
• 55:45
  Speaker 6: they want to, like, write it. And I always have
• 55:48
  Speaker 6: to try to remind myself, like, Okay, not only is
• 55:51
  Speaker 6: it such a small percentage of the comments, but it's also,
• 55:53
  Speaker 6: there's so many people that saw it.
• 55:55
  Speaker 2: That didn't comment, that smiled.
• 55:56
  Speaker 4: We remind ourselves that all the time. It's like, who
• 55:58
  Speaker 4: are these losers? Even just anything, anything, like Comedy Central, JFL, whatever.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: What's JFL mean?
• 56:06
  Speaker 4: Just for laughs. I'm just talking about sites, Instagram accounts
• 56:09
  Speaker 4: that post comedy clips all the time.
• 56:11
  Speaker 5: Netflix, whatever.
• 56:12
  Speaker 4: Why do you write, didn't laugh, What? Just go about
• 56:17
  Speaker 4: your day. It's crazy to me that people see something
• 56:21
  Speaker 4: in their feed that they don't like and they write in.
• 56:23
  Speaker 5: They pause their day and they don't just continue their day.
• 56:26
  Speaker 5: And also, Ashley and I will never respond to those people,
• 56:29
  Speaker 5: by the way. You'll never get a response. You can
• 56:30
  Speaker 5: talk to yourself for days, hours, weeks. We will never
• 56:33
  Speaker 5: talk to you back. But the once in a blue moon,
• 56:35
  Speaker 5: every six months, I will clap back at somebody. They
• 56:38
  Speaker 5: walk it back. so quickly. They don't even mean it.
• 56:41
  Speaker 5: They're just like, oh man, I'm just joshing or whatever.
• 56:43
  Speaker 5: Those are the people that walk it back the quickest.
• 56:45
  Speaker 5: One girl commented on my Instagram one time. She said
• 56:48
  Speaker 5: something like, why do you dress so bad? And I wrote,
• 56:50
  Speaker 5: who the fuck asked you? And she wrote me this
• 56:54
  Speaker 5: super long DM that was like, I really have to
• 56:56
  Speaker 5: work on myself. I'm really so sorry. I'm going through
• 56:58
  Speaker 5: a lot. I shouldn't have said that. That was really
• 57:00
  Speaker 5: out of line. I was like, what? Every once in a.
• 57:02
  Speaker 4: While I will ruin someone's day.
• 57:05
  Speaker 5: And clap back.
• 57:06
  Speaker 3: Every once in a while I'm like, I'm going to
• 57:07
  Speaker 3: make you feel really bad about yourself.
• 57:08
  Speaker 4: But it's rare. Right.
• 57:10
  Speaker 2: And sometimes you're like, yeah, I hope this did screw
• 57:14
  Speaker 2: up your day. Because you set out to screw up mine.
• 57:16
  Speaker 2: That was your goal. Yeah. Yeah.
• 57:21
  Speaker 4: But, you know, it's good for.
• 57:22
  Speaker 6: You for saying it because I bet that girl won't
• 57:25
  Speaker 6: ever do that to another celebrity or person that they
• 57:28
  Speaker 6: don't personally know again. I mean, you know, she probably
• 57:30
  Speaker 6: really did like learn like, yeah, you know, you know,
• 57:34
  Speaker 6: I remember one time like Fortune Feimster. She wrote this
• 57:37
  Speaker 6: long thing and she it was like someone wrote something
• 57:40
  Speaker 6: mean years ago. And she like wrote this long thing
• 57:44
  Speaker 6: of how she looked up the person. The person was
• 57:47
  Speaker 6: a middle aged woman.
• 57:48
  Speaker 7: She.
• 57:49
  Speaker 6: Had pets she was a grandma she like looked like
• 57:52
  Speaker 6: she was like this nice person yeah it always.
• 57:54
  Speaker 5: Says wife mother yoga instructor it's always a bible verse
• 57:58
  Speaker 5: and it's spread love live laugh love love and light
• 58:01
  Speaker 5: in their instagram bio always yeah she.
• 58:03
  Speaker 2: Was like you know like just because we're like on
• 58:04
  Speaker 2: tv and you think that like we're these super rich
• 58:07
  Speaker 2: successful people which we're like not like it doesn't mean
• 58:10
  Speaker 2: that we don't have feelings that your words don't affect
• 58:14
  Speaker 2: us like It does.
• 58:17
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 58:18
  Speaker 2: You know, it's just kind of like, wow. Yeah.
• 58:20
  Speaker 5: I think people think they're commenting into the abyss. I mean,
• 58:23
  Speaker 5: I would never go on to Reddit and I would
• 58:25
  Speaker 5: never look at her out. Like I just, I wouldn't
• 58:26
  Speaker 5: do it. But when I, when somebody comes into my home,
• 58:29
  Speaker 5: my Instagram page, you're showing up at my work and
• 58:31
  Speaker 5: you're leaving a shitty comment. It's just, it's not the
• 58:33
  Speaker 5: place for it. Most of our comments, 99% are so positive.
• 58:36
  Speaker 5: So nice. But once somebody says that, and it's usually
• 58:38
  Speaker 5: so stupid, you dress bad. I don't care.
• 58:40
  Speaker 4: Like you, I don't, I don't, it doesn't bother me
• 58:43
  Speaker 4: that much.
• 58:43
  Speaker 5: I wasn't trying to have a teachable moment. I was
• 58:45
  Speaker 5: trying to just make her feel stupid. But, yeah, maybe
• 58:47
  Speaker 5: that girl did look inside herself and feel stupid and
• 58:50
  Speaker 5: feel bad.
• 58:53
  Speaker 6: Being that you guys are, you know, two females, you
• 58:55
  Speaker 6: have a partnership together, and you're not in, like, a
• 58:59
  Speaker 6: marriage or anything, did you ever worry that, you know,
• 59:04
  Speaker 6: you might have, like, a daddy gang situation where the
• 59:09
  Speaker 6: two girls break up? up and it's a caller daddy
• 59:11
  Speaker 6: yeah caller daddy breakup or because I asked the lady
• 59:15
  Speaker 6: gangs Kelty this as well because I'm like I wonder
• 59:19
  Speaker 6: like how have you ever gotten to a place where
• 59:23
  Speaker 6: you got in a bad fight or have you been like,
• 59:25
  Speaker 6: you know what, let's like legally do this so that
• 59:27
  Speaker 6: if anything ever happens, like it's like a nice clean break,
• 59:30
  Speaker 6: like a marriage divorce.
• 59:32
  Speaker 4: We've never, at least I have been, I don't think
• 59:35
  Speaker 4: Raina has either thought that that was like could, could happen.
• 59:39
  Speaker 4: Like there was no fight, any, any fight we've gotten
• 59:43
  Speaker 4: into also hasn't had anything to do with the business.
• 59:45
  Speaker 4: Like luckily we've just really have had our goals aligned
• 59:48
  Speaker 4: the whole time. And we know we're, just like two
• 59:51
  Speaker 4: mature adults. I mean, I also think those girls were
• 59:53
  Speaker 4: a lot younger. Like I probably, you know, eight to
• 59:56
  Speaker 4: 10 years younger than us. Like, I don't know that
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 4: this would have worked so well when I was 27,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 4: you know, like, I think you're just more hotheaded. You're
• 1:00:05
  Speaker 4: not as mature. You don't know how to work through
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 4: things as much. Not everything's about age, but I think
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 4: it is sometimes, you know, like rain and I treat
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 4: this like it is, a marriage with a child. Not
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 4: that I can tell you what it's like to work
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 4: on a marriage and have a child, but I think
• 1:00:17
  Speaker 4: that it's so important to us. Like we would do
• 1:00:20
  Speaker 4: whatever it takes. We got asked this on a call
• 1:00:21
  Speaker 4: the other day with some like potential investors of like,
• 1:00:24
  Speaker 4: they would be worried. Anyone would be worried.
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 3: What if you guys break up? What if it's call
• 1:00:27
  Speaker 3: her daddy? What if it's this and that?
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 4: Or notorious people that have broke up in the past.
• 1:00:30
  Speaker 4: It's like, I don't know what to tell you. Like
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 4: we just would figure it out. Like we've been doing
• 1:00:35
  Speaker 4: this for five years. We went into business a second
• 1:00:37
  Speaker 4: time together. We really love and respect each other. And
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 4: this is so important to us. And we have the
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 4: same goals. I mean, I said this really early on
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 4: that if Raina, if I started to feel like Raina
• 1:00:48
  Speaker 4: was like, wanted to be like a real housewife or
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 4: like wanted to be reality TV, like that was her
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 4: end goal. Like that wouldn't have worked. Like we both randomly,
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 4: even not being friends that long, have the same goals
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 4: in what we want out of the business.
• 1:01:02
  Speaker 2: What is the goal?
• 1:01:04
  Speaker 5: Um, just.
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 4: Everything that we've done you know in terms of like
• 1:01:06
  Speaker 4: the touring the touring was the thing too Raina never
• 1:01:08
  Speaker 4: been on stage before luckily she liked doing it you
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 4: know like these things have all just fallen into place
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 4: and then the sex toy business like we wanted to
• 1:01:14
  Speaker 4: start that but neither of us are really obsessed with
• 1:01:16
  Speaker 4: being on TV we'll do it we'll do TV we
• 1:01:19
  Speaker 4: don't really want a reality show we just kind of
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 4: I've always felt like the thing that the one person
• 1:01:24
  Speaker 4: wants to do next is the same thing the other
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 4: person wants to do next.
• 1:01:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah. And we have a really good communication side. I
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 5: think it's gotten even better. I feel like now we've, like, really, like,
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 5: we've been together for five years now doing these businesses. And, like,
• 1:01:34
  Speaker 5: we just don't really argue ever. Like, that doesn't mean
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 5: to say that we have not in the past. We've
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 5: had arguments. But I think we just really know each
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 5: other really well at this point with the buttons to
• 1:01:43
  Speaker 5: push on each other and what to avoid. And, like,
• 1:01:44
  Speaker 5: the battles to pick.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:01:45
  Speaker 5: How to, like. who's responsible for what thing and when
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 5: to just sort of like relax and sit back a
• 1:01:49
  Speaker 5: little bit. We're like pretty aligned and I don't imagine
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 5: any business decisions that like one person really wants to
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 5: do this thing and the other person's like, I refuse
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 5: to do this. Like we will find a compromise. And
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 5: we get along really well. Our lives are like super integrated.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 5: Like we interviewed the lady gang girls and they were like,
• 1:02:03
  Speaker 5: we don't socialize that much. And I was like, we
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 5: cannot relate. We spend like holidays together. We have a
• 1:02:07
  Speaker 5: lot of the same girlfriends. We travel together. So it's
• 1:02:10
  Speaker 5: a lot of like together time, but we communicate.
• 1:02:12
  Speaker 2: Do any of you have a sister?
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 4: No, we both have brothers that are exactly four years younger.
• 1:02:15
  Speaker 4: It's just kind of a funny thing, too.
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 6: I think that's why, too. Like, there's no, like, I
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 6: don't know. That might be really why the stars aligned
• 1:02:24
  Speaker 6: as well.
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 5: We think it's interesting. We don't really, like, fight or bicker.
• 1:02:28
  Speaker 5: I mean, I think that, like, Ashley has taught me
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 5: a lot about communication because I withhold my feelings. I'm
• 1:02:32
  Speaker 5: just mad. I just, like, I won't talk about it.
• 1:02:34
  Speaker 5: I won't hit your calls. I won't text you back.
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 5: I'm just mad about something. And Ashley has taught me
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 5: a lot about just, like, just say the thing, just
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 5: have the conversation, and, like, It might feel really bad
• 1:02:42
  Speaker 5: in the moment, but like it feels better after you
• 1:02:44
  Speaker 5: do it.
• 1:02:45
  Speaker 6: And have you ever been in more of a serious
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 6: relationship with somebody and you're hoping to find like twin
• 1:02:54
  Speaker 6: brothers or something?
• 1:02:57
  Speaker 4: I mean, I also think we have really healthy boundaries.
• 1:02:59
  Speaker 4: Like I think that what I love about our relationship
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 4: is it's easy to be like we don't want to.
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 4: be together. Like we need some time apart. Like I really,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 4: I want a partner in life that I can be
• 1:03:08
  Speaker 4: the same way with. And I'm like, I need to
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 4: not be around you right now. You know, like we've
• 1:03:12
  Speaker 4: just been together for 10 days traveling. Like I don't
• 1:03:14
  Speaker 4: want to see you till Wednesday. You know, like we
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 4: feel really comfortable saying that with each other. That's great.
• 1:03:19
  Speaker 4: So it was funny when people know, heard that we
• 1:03:22
  Speaker 4: were moving here and just assumed we were living together.
• 1:03:24
  Speaker 4: Like we would ever, like we would, like I would
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 4: ever live with anybody, but like I would live with right.
• 1:03:28
  Speaker 3: Like we, why would we ever do that?
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 5: We spent a lot of time together.
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: But, um, Yeah, I think it's– I think you've been–
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: I think all those things are, like, really smart. But
• 1:03:38
  Speaker 2: a lot of it's, like– I think they're really smart
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 2: to not.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 6: Only keep a friendship but to keep a business partnership going. Like,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 6: when it is based on chemistry and friendship, you know,
• 1:03:48
  Speaker 6: it is good that you– even though you didn't set
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 6: out to have those boundaries– In reflection, you guys did.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 6: And I think that's what makes life easy and successful.
• 1:03:59
  Speaker 6: And you can have both. You should have your life...
• 1:04:02
  Speaker 6: A successful life should be easy.
• 1:04:05
  Speaker 2: Otherwise, it's not successful.
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 5: I remember hearing about the Call Your Daddy situation and
• 1:04:09
  Speaker 5: how they walked out of this meeting with Dave and
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 5: they were completely misaligned about what the two of them
• 1:04:14
  Speaker 5: wanted and the vision for the brand and... I don't
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 5: think Ashley and I have ever walked out of a
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 5: meeting and felt like that. And that's like a good
• 1:04:19
  Speaker 5: feeling that we like really do want a lot of
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 5: the same stuff. Well, I mean, again, who.
• 1:04:23
  Speaker 4: Knows what goes on behind closed doors? The narrative was
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 4: kind of like Alex was doing most of the work
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 4: and that Sophia wasn't pulling her weight. I mean, who
• 1:04:29
  Speaker 4: really knows?
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 6: I mean, I've interviewed Sophia, too. I think everything worked
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 6: out great for the way it was supposed to be.
• 1:04:37
  Speaker 6: I just kind of was like I've had people like
• 1:04:39
  Speaker 6: ask in a live show. We're thinking of doing a
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 6: podcast together with my two friends.
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: Do you have any suggestions? And one of my things
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: was if you're going to start to do this, listen,
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: 10 people may listen and you might have some fun
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: on Tuesday mornings or it actually might become something.
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 6: And just like any business, I would say at least
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 6: have a one pager, you know, like have a one
• 1:05:03
  Speaker 6: pager of like what the plan is, what the responsibility is.
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 6: If and when money comes in, how it's going to
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 6: be distributed and how it's going to be like, just
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 6: have a, just in case, whether you're making jewelry together
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 6: or setting up a daycare or whatever your other, whatever,
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 6: becoming real estate partner, whatever it is. I think, you know,
• 1:05:26
  Speaker 6: just cause your best friends just, just have that right
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 6: at the start so that it's never, that's just to
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 6: the general people listening.
• 1:05:33
  Speaker 4: I think that's, you know, Well, I think I was
• 1:05:36
  Speaker 4: right and I were vetting each other early on and
• 1:05:39
  Speaker 4: how the other person works. Like I love I just
• 1:05:42
  Speaker 4: am like I was constantly in my head of like,
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 4: is she a hard worker? Is she like does she
• 1:05:47
  Speaker 4: do what she says she's going to do? I knew
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 4: that she worked in restaurants, which we both have. Like
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 4: I knew she was like a hustler, like. my whole
• 1:05:53
  Speaker 4: thing with working with people throughout the years has been
• 1:05:55
  Speaker 4: someone's not pulling their weight. Like I'm always the group
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 4: project leader, you know, like I'll do it.
• 1:05:58
  Speaker 2: You have the same work ethic.
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 5: It's very important.
• 1:06:01
  Speaker 4: It's the most important. It would be, that's when people
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 4: ask about, when you think about luck and like hard work,
• 1:06:06
  Speaker 4: like the luckiest part is that this, we found each
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 4: other and it worked out not knowing each other that well,
• 1:06:11
  Speaker 4: but that's the thing. Like, and if you feel like
• 1:06:14
  Speaker 4: you're going to do more work, you should make more
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 4: money then.
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 6: I want to say, I think maybe that's why this
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 6: has been so successful is that you didn't have, 20
• 1:06:24
  Speaker 6: years that you met in fourth grade. And even though
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 6: you're best friends, this this bothered you in eighth grade
• 1:06:30
  Speaker 6: and this bothered you when you went to college. And
• 1:06:32
  Speaker 6: this was happened in the sorority house. And that can
• 1:06:35
  Speaker 6: like bubble up after five margaritas or whatever. Like, I
• 1:06:38
  Speaker 6: think it's probably because you didn't have so much history
• 1:06:40
  Speaker 6: and you were starting as mature, hardworking women that.
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: Had your goals aligned, you know?
• 1:06:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah, it's been fun for our audience and for us,
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 5: because we've gotten to know each other through the show,
• 1:06:49
  Speaker 5: and still she tells me so many stories that I've
• 1:06:51
  Speaker 5: never heard before. I love that, yeah. That's really fun
• 1:06:54
  Speaker 5: for us, and yeah, in terms of work, if I
• 1:06:57
  Speaker 5: say I'm gonna do something, I absolutely do it, and
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 5: her too, and we tell everybody we hire, if I
• 1:07:02
  Speaker 5: tell you to do something, I have to trust you're
• 1:07:03
  Speaker 5: gonna do it. I can't ask you twice. You can't
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 5: tell me you forgot or you did this in a
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 5: rush and you fucked it up. Like, that's the most
• 1:07:08
  Speaker 5: important part of our business is, like, any time Ashley
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 5: says that she's going to take care of something, like,
• 1:07:12
  Speaker 5: I don't ever think for one second it's not going
• 1:07:14
  Speaker 5: to be done. It's just done. And so, like, that
• 1:07:16
  Speaker 5: breeds a lot of trust. And it's just fun. We
• 1:07:18
  Speaker 5: just have fun. We laugh a lot.
• 1:07:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 4: I don't know, like, how, like, what would you say is, like,
• 1:07:23
  Speaker 4: the number one thing in your marriage? That, like, is
• 1:07:25
  Speaker 4: it laughing a lot? Like, is it, like, time apart? Like,
• 1:07:29
  Speaker 4: I always am curious about, like, long relationships, romantic or otherwise. Like,
• 1:07:32
  Speaker 4: what people attribute to that.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 6: I mean, the biggest thing is just that if we
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 6: have an argument or disagreement, it just doesn't last very long.
• 1:07:43
  Speaker 2: Like, you know, we we know we have to get
• 1:07:47
  Speaker 2: along with the day. So it's like the next person
• 1:07:51
  Speaker 2: like I leave like I leave like I left, you know,
• 1:07:54
  Speaker 2: we're like doing this. We have this coffee maker and
• 1:07:57
  Speaker 2: I don't really think it's that great. I don't like
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 2: I don't know. And so now I like to do
• 1:08:03
  Speaker 2: like half Keurig, half the coffee maker, because for some
• 1:08:06
  Speaker 2: reason I don't feel like the cappuccino thing is like
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 2: that hot or it's too milky. I hear you on
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: all this. So I'm like combining it.
• 1:08:12
  Speaker 6: And and Peter's like, well, you have to clean out
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 6: the whatever. You just set the cleaner for the milk thing.
• 1:08:19
  Speaker 2: And I'm like, well, I don't. I might have another cup. Like,
• 1:08:22
  Speaker 2: I still have to dry my hair.
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 1: Okay?
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: And he's like, no, do it. I'm like, what about
• 1:08:27
  Speaker 2: your eggs? Did you clean your eggs? And I go,
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 2: you know what? This is like I'm done with, like,
• 1:08:30
  Speaker 2: a domestic argument. Like, goodbye. Like, I'm successful. Goodbye. So
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 2: I go to the bathroom.
• 1:08:34
  Speaker 5: I start to do my hair. That's what I'm going
• 1:08:36
  Speaker 5: to tell Ashley. I'm done with this. I'm successful and goodbye.
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 5: And so, like, fine.
• 1:08:40
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:08:43
  Speaker 2: So I did. I dumped it. A waste of milk
• 1:08:46
  Speaker 2: because I could have made another cup. I dumped the milk.
• 1:08:48
  Speaker 2: I cleaned the thing. And I'm thinking in my head,
• 1:08:51
  Speaker 2: I'm never going to make. I'm only going to.
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 6: Buy $ 6 Starbucks from now on.
• 1:08:56
  Speaker 2: I'm not using this stupid little thing. I don't even
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: like it. That's what I'm thinking in the house. And then, like,
• 1:09:01
  Speaker 2: he comes in and he's like, hey, with the dog. Oh, like,
• 1:09:05
  Speaker 2: he's just, like, acts like a psycho that nothing happened.
• 1:09:09
  Speaker 2: But I was like, all right.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 5: And then we just started.
• 1:09:12
  Speaker 2: He goes, so I'm going to book this place for, like,
• 1:09:14
  Speaker 2: Keita for Brandon's birthday. I'm like, yeah, that's it. And
• 1:09:16
  Speaker 2: that was it.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 4: I mean, I think that's, like... And sometimes.
• 1:09:20
  Speaker 2: There are bigger deals than that. But I'm saying like
• 1:09:23
  Speaker 2: in the long run of like how many years, but
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: it's also a lot of that. But it also has
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: to be like, I always.
• 1:09:30
  Speaker 6: Tell people this when they're like going through marriage situations
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 6: or whatever. And if they have kids and I just say,
• 1:09:40
  Speaker 6: when you look at your husband, do you want to
• 1:09:43
  Speaker 6: babysit your grandchildren together? Do you see yourself at 70
• 1:09:48
  Speaker 6: being like, Oh, we're so excited. Johnny's bringing over Kaylee today.
• 1:09:53
  Speaker 6: And if you're like, no, I think.
• 1:09:54
  Speaker 2: It'd be a fucking night. Like then get out now.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 2: Great call. Get out now.
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 6: Like, because, but if you do say that, then just
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 6: know that like, there's going to be times that are
• 1:10:04
  Speaker 6: just not great.
• 1:10:07
  Speaker 2: Months, not great years. There's going to be times that
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 2: are like, wow, that was like a.
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 6: Really rough, we weren't getting along or we were going
• 1:10:14
  Speaker 6: through a business thing or, a parent was dying.
• 1:10:18
  Speaker 2: So like the big thing, like, it's interesting though, when
• 1:10:21
  Speaker 2: I see like sometimes just celebrities talk about relationships and
• 1:10:24
  Speaker 2: stuff and they date someone for six months and they
• 1:10:27
  Speaker 2: get a book deal about love and then they break
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: up and I'm like, and it's this big thing. You
• 1:10:32
  Speaker 2: can do it. And I'm like, Hey, that's fine. Come
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: back to.
• 1:10:37
  Speaker 4: Me in 10 years.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:10:38
  Speaker 5: Come back to me in 10 years.
• 1:10:39
  Speaker 6: Like, But in the meantime, like, totally enjoy the love
• 1:10:43
  Speaker 6: bombing and the fresh dick.
• 1:10:45
  Speaker 2: Like, have the best time ever.
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 7: Yeah.
• 1:10:47
  Speaker 2: But don't start doing TED Talks on it.
• 1:10:49
  Speaker 5: Right. I mean, I would never.
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 4: It's a blind spot for me. I can't tell you
• 1:10:52
  Speaker 4: what it's like to be with somebody for five years,
• 1:10:54
  Speaker 4: ten years. Like, leave it to the pros.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:10:56
  Speaker 5: But we don't have the option to fight long term.
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 5: We are always on tour together or go out to dinner.
• 1:11:01
  Speaker 5: We run two companies together. We're not like a let
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 5: it marinate and be mad at each other. We don't
• 1:11:06
  Speaker 5: have an option to do that. I'm not talking to
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 5: you for the rest of the day. We have to
• 1:11:09
  Speaker 5: talk to so many people together all day, every day. Well,
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 5: you know what I think?
• 1:11:13
  Speaker 2: What is great, even though you guys are not lovers,
• 1:11:18
  Speaker 2: it is kind of interesting to whatever your case is,
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: whosoever is listening to this, whether it's with a romantic
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: person or a friend or even like a sister or whatever,
• 1:11:28
  Speaker 2: something you're in business with, is I do think you
• 1:11:30
  Speaker 2: have to figure out It's really great if you're on
• 1:11:33
  Speaker 2: the same level of communication of like exactly what you said.
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 2: We're not going to marinate. We're not going to do
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: the silent game. We're not going to.
• 1:11:40
  Speaker 6: And it's really hard because sometimes you marry someone and
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 6: you've never fought. And then five years in, now you're
• 1:11:45
  Speaker 6: fighting and someone is communicating different than you and they're
• 1:11:49
  Speaker 6: doing this silent treatment or whatever.
• 1:11:52
  Speaker 2: And it's like, I don't know how to fix that.
• 1:11:54
  Speaker 2: That is hard. That is hard.
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 6: And so it's like, again, you guys are just really
• 1:11:59
  Speaker 6: lucky that you, you know.
• 1:12:01
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:12:02
  Speaker 5: I mean, it's so funny.
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 2: You should do a TED Talk.
• 1:12:04
  Speaker 4: The coffee, like, the coffee maker thing.
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 5: We could do a TED Talk on working together.
• 1:12:07
  Speaker 4: Like, the thing is, like, I just have dated those
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 4: people where, like, it's two days later and they bring
• 1:12:12
  Speaker 4: up the coffee maker and you're like, what?
• 1:12:14
  Speaker 2: Like... I thought we were past.
• 1:12:16
  Speaker 5: What are you talking about?
• 1:12:17
  Speaker 3: The way you look to me when you talk about
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 3: the milk. Like, I'm just like, oh, my God.
• 1:12:21
  Speaker 5: It's not about the coffee maker. It's not about the pasta.
• 1:12:23
  Speaker 4: But it, like, would be. It's just, it's.
• 1:12:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 4: You guys seem like you just rebound quick. Keep it moving.
• 1:12:30
  Speaker 3: Like, yeah, something terrible happens. But, like, I feel like
• 1:12:33
  Speaker 3: I was in those situations where I was like, you're still.
• 1:12:36
  Speaker 4: Also, if you were still mad about it, just tell me, like,
• 1:12:38
  Speaker 4: how can you still be mad about this days later?
• 1:12:40
  Speaker 4: I thought we were past this. Like, I don't like
• 1:12:41
  Speaker 4: not knowing what's going on. And that's why Raina will say, like,
• 1:12:44
  Speaker 4: I'll bring it up immediately.
• 1:12:45
  Speaker 3: I'll ruin a dinner.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 5: I don't care.
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 3: If I feel like the vibe is off, I'm like,
• 1:12:48
  Speaker 3: let's get it out now.
• 1:12:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah. What do you mean? With each other or with
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 2: a guy?
• 1:12:53
  Speaker 5: She doesn't like something. She just says it.
• 1:12:56
  Speaker 4: But I'm like, if something is, if the vibe is off,
• 1:12:59
  Speaker 4: I'm like, let's just fix it now.
• 1:13:00
  Speaker 5: If the pillows are too small in a hotel room.
• 1:13:02
  Speaker 4: Oh, we're talking about different stuff. Well, I won't sit
• 1:13:05
  Speaker 4: at a bad table.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 5: She is like a let's fix it now person. It's
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 5: hard for me when I take the thing in a
• 1:13:10
  Speaker 5: romantic relationship and attribute it to a larger personality trait
• 1:13:14
  Speaker 5: I don't like. So if it's like you're not doing
• 1:13:16
  Speaker 5: the dishes because I think you're just fucking lazy in
• 1:13:19
  Speaker 5: general and you can't take care of stuff in general
• 1:13:21
  Speaker 5: and you're just not like you're not proud of where
• 1:13:24
  Speaker 5: you live so you're not taking care of where you live.
• 1:13:26
  Speaker 5: Like if I attribute it to a much larger character
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 5: trait then I do silent treatment a little bit because
• 1:13:31
  Speaker 5: I'm trying to like figure out in my head like
• 1:13:33
  Speaker 5: how do I address this? Because it's not nice. What
• 1:13:36
  Speaker 5: I'm thinking about you is not nice. It's not that
• 1:13:37
  Speaker 5: I think you just didn't do the dishes. It's that
• 1:13:39
  Speaker 5: I think you're a sloppy, lazy person.
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 4: Yeah.
• 1:13:41
  Speaker 2: Well, if you think that, then you should dump this person.
• 1:13:44
  Speaker 5: Absolutely.
• 1:13:45
  Speaker 2: And I did.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 5: Yeah, we're not together anymore. Like, you sat here all
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 5: day while I was out being successful with my other partner,
• 1:13:53
  Speaker 5: and you didn't do the dishes. I don't understand this.
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 5: How's dinner not on the table? Yeah. And that's a
• 1:13:59
  Speaker 5: really mean thing to think about a person. Yeah. And
• 1:14:02
  Speaker 5: I said to Ashley, I was like, I don't know
• 1:14:03
  Speaker 5: how his ex-wife dealt with this. And she was like,
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 5: you dealt with your boyfriend? What do you mean? He's
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 5: your boyfriend. That's right.
• 1:14:08
  Speaker 4: If you find yourself saying, like, I don't know how
• 1:14:11
  Speaker 4: his ex dealt with this, then how are you?
• 1:14:13
  Speaker 5: When you were like, you mean with your boyfriend? I
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 5: still hear it. It makes me laugh so hard.
• 1:14:18
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 1:14:20
  Speaker 6: Sometimes I used to be like, you know, complain to
• 1:14:23
  Speaker 6: my mother-in-law about her son.
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 4: And....
• 1:14:28
  Speaker 6: And she was always so nice, you know, and never,
• 1:14:31
  Speaker 6: ever didn't take my side. Just tried to be really
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 6: nice about it. And then one day I realized, do
• 1:14:39
  Speaker 6: I want my son Drake's wife calling me when I'm 80?
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 2: No.
• 1:14:43
  Speaker 6: I want to stop this shit right now. And then
• 1:14:45
  Speaker 6: I also realized there came a time where I'm like,
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 6: wait a minute. I've had him in my custody longer
• 1:14:51
  Speaker 6: than she did. Like, if I don't like the way
• 1:14:55
  Speaker 6: that things are going.
• 1:14:57
  Speaker 2: How is it her fault?
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 5: Right.
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 2: She raised him until she was 18. I've had him
• 1:15:01
  Speaker 2: for 22 years. Wow.
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 7: So I.
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 6: Are responsible I have to take I have to take
• 1:15:08
  Speaker 6: the responsibility it's me yeah.
• 1:15:11
  Speaker 2: It's not her fault anymore god leave her alone.
• 1:15:14
  Speaker 4: Right she had him when he was a kid you're
• 1:15:16
  Speaker 4: like yeah I have the adult version this is on
• 1:15:18
  Speaker 4: me yeah that's so funny.
• 1:15:20
  Speaker 6: Like yeah when you sometimes you're just like oh why
• 1:15:22
  Speaker 6: and then I just think like I don't I hope
• 1:15:24
  Speaker 6: my sons are like good partners I don't know if they.
• 1:15:26
  Speaker 4: Will be or not I don't want someone complaining to
• 1:15:28
  Speaker 4: me you have two boys yeah how do you like
• 1:15:30
  Speaker 4: raise boys like how do you make sure they're good
• 1:15:32
  Speaker 4: partners like do you find yourself being like what the
• 1:15:34
  Speaker 4: fuck This is crazy. I'm just supposed to, like, make
• 1:15:37
  Speaker 4: sure they're good people.
• 1:15:38
  Speaker 2: No, it's stressful. I don't know.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 5: I mean, I try to say it. How do you
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 5: raise kids?
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 2: Like, I mean, I know it's hard. It really is.
• 1:15:47
  Speaker 5: Because you've got to love them, but you can't love
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 5: them too much. You've got to give them confidence, but, like,
• 1:15:50
  Speaker 5: not too much, you know?
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 4: But are you worried about, like, boys specifically?
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 6: Yes.
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 3: Like, are you worried, like, are you treating women right?
• 1:15:56
  Speaker 3: Are you, like, how do you.
• 1:15:58
  Speaker 2: Or could they get a woman at all? I'm more
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 2: concerned that, like, they are, like... Never going to, like, try.
• 1:16:07
  Speaker 5: Are they not fucking?
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 2: No.
• 1:16:09
  Speaker 4: Wait, are they hot?
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 5: Yes. Are they tall? You both are kind of tall.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: They're tall.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 4: How tall is Drake?
• 1:16:15
  Speaker 5: He's, like, 6'4. What? Drake is 6'4?
• 1:16:18
  Speaker 2: I don't know what he does in college. He's in college.
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: I don't know what he does. But the other one
• 1:16:23
  Speaker 2: is just an innocent kid. Like, no. And, you know,
• 1:16:30
  Speaker 2: there's no rush to it. oh there's no there's.
• 1:16:34
  Speaker 4: No is that heather in the middle yeah that's me
• 1:16:36
  Speaker 4: okay sick so there's no.
• 1:16:38
  Speaker 6: Rush to it but then i also think oh my
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 6: god you know there did you hear that statistic that
• 1:16:44
  Speaker 6: one third of all men under 30 have never had.
• 1:16:48
  Speaker 4: Sex well so is it by scott galloway it's in
• 1:16:50
  Speaker 4: the last year i i had to go back to
• 1:16:53
  Speaker 4: that because when we heard i did this um it's
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 4: it's It's Scott Galloway. But Scott Galloway, it's not... I
• 1:16:58
  Speaker 4: don't know if he did the research on it, but
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 4: he speaks about it. But it is within the last year,
• 1:17:02
  Speaker 4: because I had to check that, too. I was like,
• 1:17:03
  Speaker 4: that can't be right. But that still is like.
• 1:17:05
  Speaker 2: I totally think it is right. Oh, really?
• 1:17:07
  Speaker 6: Because I think between COVID and video games and OnlyFans
• 1:17:14
  Speaker 6: and Webcam Girls and.
• 1:17:19
  Speaker 6: Me Too and being scared and, like, even, like, just...
• 1:17:24
  Speaker 6: A perfect example is, you know, like I was out
• 1:17:27
  Speaker 6: one night and there's these girls having a dirty 30 party.
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 2: Some girls turning 30, right? And they're all cute and
• 1:17:34
  Speaker 2: they're all there. And my sister and I are there.
• 1:17:36
  Speaker 2: And my sister goes, why are these girls being approached
• 1:17:42
  Speaker 2: by guys?
• 1:17:43
  Speaker 5: Why are they not being approached?
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: Why are they not being approached by guys?
• 1:17:47
  Speaker 6: Like, she's like, if we were at this place at,
• 1:17:50
  Speaker 6: you know, 28, 30... we would 100% already, like, have
• 1:17:56
  Speaker 6: gotten a drink, given our number out, and maybe even, like,
• 1:17:58
  Speaker 6: kissed someone on the dance floor.
• 1:17:59
  Speaker 4: Like, there would be a bachelor party with you guys.
• 1:18:01
  Speaker 6: Yes, we would be, like, and I just think there's
• 1:18:04
  Speaker 6: so much of a fear of, like, because every girl,
• 1:18:10
  Speaker 6: you know, if a guy even approaches them, they're like,
• 1:18:14
  Speaker 6: you know, I think in the guy's head, you know, like, Jokingly,
• 1:18:18
  Speaker 6: like I've even said, like, you know, everybody that even
• 1:18:21
  Speaker 6: pursues you, are they grooming you? Are they love bombing you?
• 1:18:24
  Speaker 6: Are they a narcissist? Or are they just, would like
• 1:18:28
  Speaker 6: to take you out. I don't know how it's supposed
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 6: to happen.
• 1:18:30
  Speaker 5: Well, I think about now there's an alternative, right? Men
• 1:18:33
  Speaker 5: used to have to approach women and deal with rejections.
• 1:18:35
  Speaker 5: They'd be like, ew, don't talk to me. But now
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 5: there's an alternative to that. They just go on a
• 1:18:39
  Speaker 5: nap and meet women if they want to. Boys had to.
• 1:18:41
  Speaker 4: Call my house and talk to my dad.
• 1:18:42
  Speaker 5: You know what I mean?
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 4: They're different. They just are built different. I like where
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 4: we're at and then being a little more cautious when
• 1:18:49
  Speaker 4: it comes to to anything aggressive. They just can't be...
• 1:18:54
  Speaker 4: The way that the guys that are, like, you know,
• 1:18:57
  Speaker 4: elder millennials are going to be.
• 1:18:58
  Speaker 3: Because they were just built so different. Like, I think
• 1:19:00
  Speaker 3: about how crazy that is.
• 1:19:01
  Speaker 4: Like, when I was in middle school and high school,
• 1:19:02
  Speaker 4: guys had to pick up a landline and call. And, like,
• 1:19:05
  Speaker 4: my dad could answer. And they had to be like,
• 1:19:07
  Speaker 4: is Ashley home? And then they would have to, like, come.
• 1:19:09
  Speaker 2: Like, it just.
• 1:19:10
  Speaker 5: I think it's different.
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 4: But everything's different.
• 1:19:13
  Speaker 2: Like, you know. I mean, my son shared this one
• 1:19:15
  Speaker 2: story with me. But he's, like. I mean, he has
• 1:19:17
  Speaker 2: a car. I mean, we'll mark this probably for Patreon.
• 1:19:20
  Speaker 7: But.
• 1:19:21
  Speaker 2: He has a car and.
• 1:19:22
  Speaker 6: You know, that's a nice car. But I'm like, you
• 1:19:25
  Speaker 6: don't want to lead with that. But you just say
• 1:19:26
  Speaker 6: I have a car I'd like to take you, you know, whatever.
• 1:19:28
  Speaker 2: So I'm like, I was kind of coaching them in
• 1:19:31
  Speaker 2: the beginning. And now I'm like, I'm just going to
• 1:19:33
  Speaker 2: let the chips fall.
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 6: But I was like, when you talk to a girl,
• 1:19:37
  Speaker 6: he likes to golf. OK, so there's all these golf
• 1:19:39
  Speaker 6: courses they can go in Arizona. And so I'm like,
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 6: you know, he meets this girl that likes to golf.
• 1:19:45
  Speaker 2: So he's he's like.
• 1:19:46
  Speaker 6: OK, well, would you want to go golfing one day?
• 1:19:50
  Speaker 6: And she's like, OK. So she gives him her number.
• 1:19:52
  Speaker 6: So he texts her and is like, OK, you know,
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 6: would you want to go Saturday?
• 1:19:56
  Speaker 2: I can pick you up, whatever. She's like, I can't.
• 1:19:58
  Speaker 2: I have something else. He asked her again. I can't.
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 2: I have the sorority stuff. And I'm like, all right, well,
• 1:20:03
  Speaker 2: then that's it. Like you asked her out twice. Yeah.
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 2: You know, but I go.
• 1:20:07
  Speaker 6: But on the other hand, I'm like, I wonder if
• 1:20:09
  Speaker 6: this girl. it's like so freaked out by like everything
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 6: in the news. Like, who's this guy that's going to
• 1:20:15
  Speaker 6: come to my dorm and like put me in a car? Like,
• 1:20:18
  Speaker 6: because there's so many women that I, when they read
• 1:20:21
  Speaker 6: my book, which was my first book, you'll never blue
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 6: on this town again.
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 2: It's about all these dates I went on. Yeah.
• 1:20:26
  Speaker 6: And I had so many girls that are like, they're
• 1:20:29
  Speaker 6: not virgin, but they've literally never been on a date.
• 1:20:31
  Speaker 6: Like they've never had someone call them on the phone.
• 1:20:35
  Speaker 6: Text them whatever and say, can I come?
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 5: Where do you live?
• 1:20:38
  Speaker 6: We met at the bar. You know, you know that,
• 1:20:42
  Speaker 6: you know, my friend, I'm not a serial killer or whatever.
• 1:20:44
  Speaker 2: Maybe they could be. But you got to risk it
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 2: at a certain point. I don't know. Like, I just.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 6: I think I think it's really hard for the guys.
• 1:20:53
  Speaker 6: And I think it's really hard for the girls. And
• 1:20:55
  Speaker 6: I almost feel like. I've joked about bringing back arranged marriage.
• 1:20:59
  Speaker 6: I don't know how we're gonna get people together. I
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 6: feel like it's very hard right now for everybody out there.
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 5: Well, she could call an Uber and take her. I
• 1:21:07
  Speaker 5: think two times is great. I'd love to empower men
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 5: to ask twice. The first time, maybe you really have plans.
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 5: Second time, it does show interest to be like, I'm
• 1:21:14
  Speaker 5: just gonna put myself out there. Any time more than two,
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 5: I've said no. It feels a little annoying and obnoxious
• 1:21:19
  Speaker 5: if you've asked a third time. It's like I've made
• 1:21:20
  Speaker 5: it clear I don't want to. But I think we
• 1:21:22
  Speaker 5: should empower men to try a little bit. But the
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 5: third time, I think that she can offer to get
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 5: into an Uber and go there. She shouldn't feel unsafe
• 1:21:28
  Speaker 5: in the middle of the day, I don't think.
• 1:21:29
  Speaker 2: I don't know that she is. I'm just saying, like,
• 1:21:31
  Speaker 2: I just wonder if.
• 1:21:33
  Speaker 6: Like, I remember when a guy was almost, like, too
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 6: nice to, like, oh, I'd like to pick you up.
• 1:21:39
  Speaker 2: I'd be like, there would be, like, this weird, like...
• 1:21:42
  Speaker 2: And I don't know why.
• 1:21:43
  Speaker 5: Also, by the way, if you feel unsafe, don't go
• 1:21:45
  Speaker 5: on a date.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 7: No, don't.
• 1:21:46
  Speaker 5: I won't put that in there. If you feel unsafe,
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 5: then listen to your dad.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 2: Even if it's my son. Don't go.
• 1:21:51
  Speaker 5: We talk about this all the time.
• 1:21:52
  Speaker 4: It is hard for everybody. And the COVID fucked everything
• 1:21:55
  Speaker 4: up even more. But it's like, we always want to
• 1:21:57
  Speaker 4: say that, yes, there's totally guys out there that can't
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 4: read the room. They come approach you in a bar.
• 1:22:03
  Speaker 4: They won't leave. It's like, come on. You should be
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 4: able to read basic body language. Just because someone buys
• 1:22:07
  Speaker 4: you a drink doesn't mean you have to speak to
• 1:22:09
  Speaker 4: them all night. You don't owe them your time. But like,
• 1:22:11
  Speaker 4: we always want women to just like not shame guys
• 1:22:15
  Speaker 4: for trying to, because that's why they stop, you know,
• 1:22:18
  Speaker 4: like guys don't want to, they have this, a lot
• 1:22:21
  Speaker 4: of them think that you're, they're being creepy, you know,
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 4: that they, if they walk up to you in a
• 1:22:24
  Speaker 4: bar that a woman's going to be like, Oh my God,
• 1:22:25
  Speaker 4: can you believe it?
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 3: Can you believe he, that creep came up, you know?
• 1:22:28
  Speaker 5: And it's like, I don't know.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 4: Like he, which it is.
• 1:22:31
  Speaker 2: Very intimidating to a big group of girls.
• 1:22:33
  Speaker 4: You don't want to penetrate the crowd.
• 1:22:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah. Yeah. That is intimidating to a guy.
• 1:22:38
  Speaker 4: Like one guy's not going to, like, try to penetrate
• 1:22:40
  Speaker 4: the 30-year-old birthday party.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 6: And when I think about it, I think I was
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 6: really forward back in the day.
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 2: Wait, what did you say?
• 1:22:46
  Speaker 4: I don't know. I was saying penetrate.
• 1:22:48
  Speaker 5: He probably is going to try to penetrate it, but
• 1:22:50
  Speaker 5: I know what you're talking about.
• 1:22:51
  Speaker 4: But when we were, like, I know, I'm like, I
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 4: don't think the young girls today will ever know the
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 4: joy of, like, any bachelorette party I went on.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 3: Any, all of them.
• 1:22:59
  Speaker 4: Another bachelorette party, like, sniffs you out. A bachelorette and.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 5: A bachelorette party.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 4: Or a group of guys.
• 1:23:05
  Speaker 3: A guy's trip, a girl's trip.
• 1:23:07
  Speaker 5: Anytime I've gone, it's like, You can smell the low
• 1:23:10
  Speaker 5: inhibitions and the horniness.
• 1:23:11
  Speaker 2: Yes, and the group setting.
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 4: And it was just like, that was so fun. And
• 1:23:15
  Speaker 4: I'm like, I don't know if that's happening today the
• 1:23:16
  Speaker 4: way we used to roll. Like, I remember being in Miami.
• 1:23:20
  Speaker 4: It was like probably 10, 12 years ago. I was
• 1:23:23
  Speaker 4: at a bachelor party. We met this bachelor party. Like,
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 4: fuck this guy in the ocean until 5 a.m. You know, like,
• 1:23:28
  Speaker 4: it just, those are the days.
• 1:23:30
  Speaker 2: Water's so nice and warm in Miami.
• 1:23:32
  Speaker 4: But, like, we got out of the water when the
• 1:23:34
  Speaker 4: people were, like, up.
• 1:23:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:23:36
  Speaker 4: Old people are walking the beach. It was weird. It
• 1:23:38
  Speaker 4: was like... The metal detectors that are walking the beach.
• 1:23:41
  Speaker 5: That's how you.
• 1:23:42
  Speaker 4: Know it's early. The dogs are out. I'm like, my
• 1:23:45
  Speaker 4: pussy's out.
• 1:23:46
  Speaker 5: You know?
• 1:23:47
  Speaker 4: But what a night.
• 1:23:48
  Speaker 2: What a night.
• 1:23:49
  Speaker 5: I love men approaching me. We talk about meeting guys
• 1:23:52
  Speaker 5: in the wild all the time and just... You just
• 1:23:54
  Speaker 5: have to make prolonged eye contact. More than once, I
• 1:23:56
  Speaker 5: will smile at somebody, have physically an open body to
• 1:23:59
  Speaker 5: the room. You can't sit in the corner and be like,
• 1:24:01
  Speaker 5: don't look, don't look, girl.
• 1:24:03
  Speaker 2: First of all, you got to do the laps. Yeah,
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 2: do a lap.
• 1:24:05
  Speaker 6: And then what you do is you do the eye
• 1:24:07
  Speaker 6: contact a couple times, a little long.
• 1:24:12
  Speaker 2: And then you, what I also like to.
• 1:24:14
  Speaker 6: Do is you walk by And you make sure your
• 1:24:18
  Speaker 6: tits touch them.
• 1:24:24
  Speaker 4: I did not know what was going on.
• 1:24:25
  Speaker 5: Like, you brush a tit on an arm?
• 1:24:26
  Speaker 2: Anything. It's really good if you can do face-to-face and
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 2: it's crowded.
• 1:24:29
  Speaker 5: Enough that you won't buy.
• 1:24:30
  Speaker 4: It must be nice for you guys with larger tits.
• 1:24:31
  Speaker 5: I feel like I have to get right up.
• 1:24:33
  Speaker 4: I feel like, can you feel my sternum?
• 1:24:35
  Speaker 5: She'd be nose-to-nose with somebody.
• 1:24:37
  Speaker 4: My nose would touch them before my tits. Just kidding.
• 1:24:39
  Speaker 5: I forgot my nose first.
• 1:24:40
  Speaker 2: Something like that. If you don't have a tit... It's
• 1:24:43
  Speaker 2: some type of physical something.
• 1:24:45
  Speaker 5: Touch is important.
• 1:24:46
  Speaker 2: A lean over. Sorry to get that napkin. I don't know. Something.
• 1:24:51
  Speaker 4: The touch is important. What we always want to do
• 1:24:54
  Speaker 4: is empower women to say things when guys are making
• 1:24:59
  Speaker 4: them uncomfortable. Just control your whole situation. Because I think
• 1:25:03
  Speaker 4: women are so scared to be like, he won't leave
• 1:25:05
  Speaker 4: us alone. It's like, tell him to leave you alone.
• 1:25:07
  Speaker 4: If some guy won't leave you alone, I've been like, hey,
• 1:25:09
  Speaker 4: I'm just trying to have fun. drinks with my girlfriend,
• 1:25:12
  Speaker 4: you know, like you're, you're bothering us. Like, I think
• 1:25:15
  Speaker 4: we should always be in control of those situations. Like,
• 1:25:19
  Speaker 4: like we always, even with sex, you know, you're in
• 1:25:21
  Speaker 4: that situation where you're like, well, I just, I didn't
• 1:25:23
  Speaker 4: want to have sex with them, but I didn't know
• 1:25:25
  Speaker 4: what else to do. We were making out and I
• 1:25:26
  Speaker 4: was at his place and we were naked. So I
• 1:25:28
  Speaker 4: just like did it. Like, I'm not saying that this
• 1:25:30
  Speaker 4: is that someone forced themselves on someone, but a lot
• 1:25:32
  Speaker 4: of it is teaching like women how to exit situations.
• 1:25:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:25:36
  Speaker 6: End up being like, I didn't even want to, but
• 1:25:38
  Speaker 6: I just, it was less effort.
• 1:25:40
  Speaker 5: Yeah.
• 1:25:41
  Speaker 2: To just lay there.
• 1:25:43
  Speaker 4: Well, and this is taking, not saying that the guy
• 1:25:46
  Speaker 4: did anything, but I've been in those situations where I'm like.
• 1:25:48
  Speaker 5: Pants are already off, man.
• 1:25:49
  Speaker 4: I just didn't know how to, what to say.
• 1:25:51
  Speaker 5: The butt plug's already out.
• 1:25:52
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:25:53
  Speaker 4: So I love like giving people the language. I think
• 1:25:56
  Speaker 4: that people look up to us for this type of things,
• 1:25:58
  Speaker 4: like the younger girls. And we want to like give
• 1:26:00
  Speaker 4: them the empowering language to like remove yourself from situations
• 1:26:03
  Speaker 4: that you don't want to be in. Yeah.
• 1:26:04
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:26:05
  Speaker 4: Because that was, I think, our thing when we were
• 1:26:07
  Speaker 4: younger was like, I don't know what to say or do.
• 1:26:09
  Speaker 5: I would already be like making out. I'd be in
• 1:26:11
  Speaker 5: the bed and I would just be like, I guess
• 1:26:12
  Speaker 5: I'm just going to have sex. I don't know. I'm here.
• 1:26:14
  Speaker 5: Once I'm horizontal, like there's no, I can't turn back now. And,
• 1:26:19
  Speaker 5: you know, I don't beat myself up for any of
• 1:26:20
  Speaker 5: those situations either. Like I had fun. I was in
• 1:26:23
  Speaker 5: the moment. That's fine. I don't care. Like I've never
• 1:26:25
  Speaker 5: been the one to like wake up and be like,
• 1:26:26
  Speaker 5: I can't. I'm so upset and journal about it for weeks.
• 1:26:29
  Speaker 5: I try to just forgive myself if I was enjoying
• 1:26:31
  Speaker 5: myself and I was in the moment. But now I'm
• 1:26:33
  Speaker 5: fine to just not be in that moment.
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:26:35
  Speaker 5: Or put myself in moments I want. I walked up
• 1:26:37
  Speaker 5: to a guy the other night at a bar and
• 1:26:39
  Speaker 5: I just started making out with him. And it was nice.
• 1:26:40
  Speaker 5: It felt nice.
• 1:26:41
  Speaker 2: What happened to there?
• 1:26:42
  Speaker 5: I had sex with him.
• 1:26:43
  Speaker 2: Oh, and where is he now?
• 1:26:46
  Speaker 3: They did butt stuff on the first night.
• 1:26:47
  Speaker 4: It was crazy. And Miranda doesn't even like butt stuff.
• 1:26:50
  Speaker 5: I don't not like it. I hate it. I don't
• 1:26:54
  Speaker 5: even want a finger near the rim. If I'm almost
• 1:26:56
  Speaker 5: going to orgasm and you tap on my butthole, I
• 1:26:59
  Speaker 5: will never have an orgasm.
• 1:27:01
  Speaker 4: I'm coming immediately. I love a finger back there.
• 1:27:03
  Speaker 5: Lots of women. All my girlfriends are like, I love it.
• 1:27:05
  Speaker 5: I will come immediately. Tap on the butthole. He handed
• 1:27:08
  Speaker 5: me a butt plug and was like, you put it
• 1:27:10
  Speaker 5: in yourself.
• 1:27:12
  Speaker 4: Which is crazy to have to do.
• 1:27:14
  Speaker 5: He's a crazy person.
• 1:27:15
  Speaker 2: And so where is he now?
• 1:27:17
  Speaker 5: He's in New York. It was just one of those
• 1:27:19
  Speaker 5: wild nights.
• 1:27:20
  Speaker 2: But did it happen here or in New York?
• 1:27:22
  Speaker 5: It happened in New York. He's actually from here, but
• 1:27:24
  Speaker 5: it happened in New York.
• 1:27:25
  Speaker 4: He was just a good one-night stand.
• 1:27:27
  Speaker 5: Yeah. I just felt like it. That's fine.
• 1:27:29
  Speaker 2: But, like, why can't he be a good second one-night stand?
• 1:27:33
  Speaker 5: He turned out to be kind of weird.
• 1:27:34
  Speaker 2: Oh, okay.
• 1:27:35
  Speaker 5: Yeah, but, like, it was just a fun experience.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 1:27:38
  Speaker 5: I mean, he just sends me, like, one-word text messages, like, sup.
• 1:27:42
  Speaker 4: But Reyna used some of this content at our recent
• 1:27:46
  Speaker 4: live show during the holidays, and it crushed.
• 1:27:49
  Speaker 3: It's the benefit to that type of thing.
• 1:27:51
  Speaker 6: But do you feel like sometimes you are boning just
• 1:27:53
  Speaker 6: for the content?
• 1:27:56
  Speaker 4: I'm not going to do it just for the story,
• 1:27:57
  Speaker 4: but afterwards, I'm like, that's going to be a great story.
• 1:28:00
  Speaker 2: I mean, it's always a great... Every bad date, I
• 1:28:03
  Speaker 2: went on everything.
• 1:28:04
  Speaker 6: And then as an adult, married adult, I remember one
• 1:28:09
  Speaker 6: time my stepdaughter... I was upset about something, and she
• 1:28:11
  Speaker 6: was like 12 at the time, and she goes, she goes,
• 1:28:16
  Speaker 6: it's fine, mom will be fine, and in two weeks
• 1:28:18
  Speaker 6: it'll be in her act or something.
• 1:28:19
  Speaker 2: And I was like, oh!
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 5: And it was right.
• 1:28:22
  Speaker 6: In the moment, I'm like, if cameras saw that, this, everyone.
• 1:28:26
  Speaker 2: Would tell me to pack my bags and leave!
• 1:28:29
  Speaker 6: And then within, so quickly, I can tell the story
• 1:28:33
  Speaker 6: and see all the humor in it, and all the,
• 1:28:35
  Speaker 6: and how relatable it is to so many people's lives.
• 1:28:38
  Speaker 2: Yes. And so it's like, you know, it's truly.
• 1:28:42
  Speaker 6: The lemonade that you can make out of the lemons is,
• 1:28:45
  Speaker 6: is when you're.
• 1:28:46
  Speaker 5: We think so too.
• 1:28:47
  Speaker 4: When I was at that urgent care and that woman
• 1:28:48
  Speaker 4: was squeezing that cyst in my butthole, I was like,
• 1:28:51
  Speaker 4: I'm never telling anyone about this. And then a week
• 1:28:54
  Speaker 4: later I was like, this is pretty good on stage.
• 1:28:55
  Speaker 2: You had a cyst in a butthole?
• 1:28:58
  Speaker 4: In my butt crack.
• 1:28:59
  Speaker 6: Oh.
• 1:29:00
  Speaker 4: And I had to get it, like, drained manually. She just, like,
• 1:29:03
  Speaker 4: got back in there. It was horrifying. I was, like, clutching.
• 1:29:06
  Speaker 2: Did you go to a vet? That sounds like, honestly,
• 1:29:08
  Speaker 2: something you'd have to do for your daughter.
• 1:29:11
  Speaker 5: Like, human doctors won't do it. Only animal doctors.
• 1:29:14
  Speaker 3: Well, I was in the room with this hot male nurse.
• 1:29:17
  Speaker 4: And I was, like, telling him about it. And I was, like,
• 1:29:19
  Speaker 4: is he going to ask me to, like, show him? Like,
• 1:29:21
  Speaker 4: I'll take my pussy out.
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 5: I don't care.
• 1:29:22
  Speaker 4: You know, like, he's this hot guy. And he was, like,
• 1:29:25
  Speaker 4: let me stop you right there.
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 6: Yeah.
• 1:29:26
  Speaker 4: Go get the woman doctor and I was like okay
• 1:29:30
  Speaker 4: so we went into like another room and she she
• 1:29:33
  Speaker 4: fixed it it was just that this I wasn't even
• 1:29:35
  Speaker 4: I was here I was in LA like out of
• 1:29:37
  Speaker 4: town at the time like we this was months ago
• 1:29:40
  Speaker 4: when I had to go to this urgent care and
• 1:29:41
  Speaker 4: deal with the situation it was so like I was
• 1:29:43
  Speaker 4: like even me I'm not never telling anyone about this
• 1:29:46
  Speaker 4: I am mortified I can't believe I'm in this situation
• 1:29:49
  Speaker 4: just face down ass up with this woman's like in
• 1:29:51
  Speaker 4: my butt crack and sure enough I was like she'll
• 1:29:54
  Speaker 4: talk about it two weeks later I figured out the
• 1:29:57
  Speaker 4: the tags and did it.
• 1:30:00
  Speaker 5: What a blessing.
• 1:30:01
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• 1:30:06
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• 1:30:08
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• 1:30:13
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  Speaker 5: It was so fun.
• 1:31:34
  Speaker 4: The car is beautiful.
• 1:31:36
  Speaker 2: Where did you end up going for it?
• 1:31:37
  Speaker 4: This exclusive place that Dad has connections with. They have
• 1:31:40
  Speaker 4: more cars for more dealerships than like anywhere else.
• 1:31:43
  Speaker 2: You have to put me in touch. What's it called?
• 1:31:45
  Speaker 5: It's Dunaidial.
• 1:31:47
  Speaker 7: Where?
• 1:31:49
  Speaker 2: Dunaidial.
• 1:31:50
  Speaker 4: There's an accent on the E.
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 2: Do you mean.
• 1:31:53
  Speaker 4: Yes, I got it on Dundale Cars.
• 1:31:55
  Speaker 2: Lift?
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 4: Please.
• 1:31:56
  Speaker 2: Are you going past Kimmage? Oh, Kimmage.
• 1:31:59
  Speaker 5: No.
• 1:32:00
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• 1:32:01
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