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Why No One Wants To Date Transwomen · THINK BEFORE YOU SLEEP

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Speaker 1: A lot of people question my sexuality because they think
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Speaker 1: that I'm gay because I'm with a trans woman because yes,
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Speaker 1: she originally was a man, but truly, in her heart,
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Speaker 1: she is a woman. So therefore, I feel I am straight.
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Speaker 2: I've never been less convinced that a guy was straight.
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Speaker 2: You can always tell someone is LARPing because they'll say
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Speaker 2: things that a straight person would never say.
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Speaker 1: I've never seen a photo of Elena before she was transitioned.
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Speaker 3: Do you want to?
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Speaker 4: Yeah, let's do it.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, let's do it because I love you and it
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Speaker 1: doesn't matter.
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Speaker 5: I love it.
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Speaker 1: That is a handsome man.
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Speaker 4: I will put it out there.
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Speaker 1: I can say a man's handsome. I'm comfortable with my sexuality.
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Speaker 3: That is a handsome man.
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Speaker 1: And if I was a girl, I would.
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Speaker 3: Go for that guy too.
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Speaker 6: Right.
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Speaker 2: It's always the guy who's about to do something gay
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Speaker 2: that's like, I'm comfortable with my sexuality. Clearly you aren't
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Speaker 2: because you're pretending to be something that you're not. I mean,
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Speaker 2: it's fine if he's gay. It's current year. Who cares?
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Speaker 2: The only thing people have an issue with is those
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Speaker 2: who try to distort reality or just outright lie to
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Speaker 2: everyone to justify their worldview, especially when you do it
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Speaker 2: in front of kids.
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Speaker 7: This week is trans visibility week. What does it mean
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Speaker 7: to be visible? Yes, trans people do exist. Do you
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Speaker 7: have to be trans?
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Speaker 3: No.
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Speaker 4: No, no one is forcing you to be trans. I'm
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Speaker 4: not forcing you to be trans.
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Speaker 7: Do you have to love trans people?
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Speaker 6: No.
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Speaker 5: It'd be cool if you did.
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Speaker 7: But no, you don't have to.
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Speaker 2: That's a class of middle schoolers, by the way. A
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Speaker 2: math class, because why would you teach math in a
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Speaker 2: math class when there's gender ideology to preach to an
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Speaker 2: impressionable audience? But this guy obviously has never been on
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Speaker 2: Twitter before, because there are tons of videos there of
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Speaker 2: trans people saying that you have to be in a
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Speaker 2: relationship with them or you're a bad person.
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Speaker 8: If you're cis and you won't date trans folks, you're
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Speaker 8: a transphobe.
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Speaker 2: Well, I guess this one wasn't even that bad. At
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Speaker 2: least it wasn't one of the ones where they threaten
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Speaker 2: to kill you because you have a different opinion. But
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Speaker 2: for that math teacher to pretend that this isn't one
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Speaker 2: of the most radical groups of people trying to force
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Speaker 2: their ideas onto everyone, especially over the past five years,
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Speaker 2: is crazy. Fortunately, fatigue has set in and people are
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Speaker 2: just done with it. Also, it turns out that despite
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Speaker 2: the first video that I showed, the trans dating scene
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Speaker 2: isn't the greatest. there's a lot of people who are
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Speaker 2: transitioning and finding out that nobody wants them. And this
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Speaker 2: mostly seems to be due to the fact that instead
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Speaker 2: of sticking with people who are interested, they are hell-bent
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Speaker 2: on forcing themselves into other people's spaces. This is why
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Speaker 2: there have been tons of videos of them going around
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Speaker 2: and saying, no seriously, it's not gay.
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Speaker 3: I'm sorry, but as a trans woman, I think straight
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Speaker 3: men need to get behind the idea that dating somebody
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Speaker 3: or being attracted to somebody who is feminine or trans,
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Speaker 3: in my case, does not make you gay.
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Speaker 2: I don't think it makes you straight either. That's as
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Speaker 2: generous as I can be. Though you can tell this
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Speaker 2: is an issue because it's not that hard to find
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Speaker 2: video after video of them reassuring you that it's not
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Speaker 2: gay or saying, why won't straight men date us? Here's
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Speaker 2: another one.
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Speaker 7: Apparently some guys aren't willing to date trans girls, but I.
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Speaker 4: Just don't understand why. Can you even give me one
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Speaker 4: good reason why someone wouldn't like trans girls?
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Speaker 2: I had to crop the video because this junk was showing.
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Speaker 2: You're welcome. A lot of these people, if not most
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Speaker 2: of them, have all the male biology and they're telling
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Speaker 2: you that it's not gay simply because they're saying that
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Speaker 2: they're a woman. So either this is trolling or this
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Speaker 2: person is extremely self-centered and doesn't understand other people. I mean,
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Speaker 2: it could be trolling. A lot of them do use
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Speaker 2: rage bait to promote their OnlyFans. Anyway, outside of the
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Speaker 2: fact that most of these people are nowhere near passing
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Speaker 2: and are basically just a guy with long hair, even
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Speaker 2: the ones that do pass decently don't act like women.
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Speaker 2: I have yet to see one who has. They're either
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Speaker 2: fully just a dude with a wig with no feminine
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Speaker 2: qualities at all, or they're like a caricature of what
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Speaker 2: a guy thinks a woman is, or they act like
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Speaker 2: catty gay men. They don't actually understand femininity. Also, they
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Speaker 2: can't have kids. That's a pretty big consideration for a relationship.
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Speaker 2: And no amount of coping or reassuring yourself is going
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Speaker 2: to change reality.
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Speaker 8: Just so we're abundantly clear, trans women are real women,
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Speaker 8: and trans men are real men.
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Speaker 5: Full stop.
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Speaker 2: They act like this is such an own every time
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Speaker 2: they say it. Well, if it was true, you wouldn't
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Speaker 2: have to keep notifying people because as they say, any
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Speaker 2: man who must say, I am the king, is no
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Speaker 2: true king. And for all the female allies who are
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Speaker 2: trying to virtue signal and force others to participate in this,
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Speaker 2: tell her that she's so beautiful because she looks just
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Speaker 2: like a trans woman and watch her get pissed. Now, personally,
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Speaker 2: as long as they're adults, I think they can do
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Speaker 2: whatever they want. But don't force it on kids and
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Speaker 2: don't try to bully others into participating. In fact, you
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Speaker 2: can't really force anyone to do something they don't actually
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Speaker 2: want to do. If someone is good at convincing people
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Speaker 2: over to their side, like say if I'm good at
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Speaker 2: convincing you, then it's only because I'm able to tell
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Speaker 2: you how what I want gets you what you want.
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Speaker 2: If you don't follow that process, you aren't going to
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Speaker 2: convince anyone of anything. Unless you use violence. Well, maybe
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Speaker 2: that's the point. Maybe the whole movement is intended to
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Speaker 2: radicalize people. Anyway... If being trans was a choice.
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Speaker 9: Why on earth would someone choose to be a woman
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Speaker 9: in a patriarchal world? Because it's a fucking fetish, Janet!
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Speaker 9: That's what cross-dressing has always been about for these men.
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Speaker 9: They're not some poor vulnerable people oppressed because they're women
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Speaker 9: born into men's bodies.
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Speaker 4: They're men with fetishes.
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Speaker 9: I get aroused when I have gender euphoria.
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Speaker 5: Is that weird?
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Speaker 9: You can go to any of their forums and listen
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Speaker 9: to the things that they say to each other when
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Speaker 9: they think that dumbasses like you aren't listening. At best,
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Speaker 9: these are men who see women as a fetish costume
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Speaker 9: and not as human beings. And at worst, they're men
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Speaker 9: who get off on our discomfort when they invade our spaces,
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Speaker 9: watch us undress, threatening to rape lesbians if they won't
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Speaker 9: suck their girl dick.
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Speaker 2: Personally, I think there are certain people who have more
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Speaker 2: honest intentions than others. But also, let's not ignore the
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Speaker 2: elephant in the room, which is that a lot of
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Speaker 2: this is likely caused by porn addiction and early porn exposure,
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Speaker 2: at least on the male side. Again, I don't think
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Speaker 2: it's everybody, but probably a good rule of thumb for
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Speaker 2: being able to tell which ones are the porn addicts
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Speaker 2: is to just look at all the activists who are
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Speaker 2: trying to force-feed gender ideology on everyone.
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Speaker 4: My pronouns aren't preferred, they are mandatory.
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Speaker 6: Do not purposefully misgender trans people.
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Speaker 4: You do not get to decide how someone identifies. My
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Speaker 4: pronouns aren't preferred.
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Speaker 6: They are mandatory.
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Speaker 2: Why do all these people have to sing? But nothing's
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Speaker 2: going to make me want to misgender a person more
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Speaker 2: than saying pronouns are mandatory. Do any of them understand
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Speaker 2: the tiniest amount of human psychology? Bullying seems to be
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Speaker 2: their primary strategy with everything, and the LGB part of
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Speaker 2: the acronym is upset with them too, because not only
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Speaker 2: is bullying horrendous PR for gay people, but also, on
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Speaker 2: the dating apps, just like how trans women will not
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Speaker 2: disclose that they are trans on the straight apps, They
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Speaker 2: often will not disclose that they are trans on the
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Speaker 2: gay apps either when they are trying to date lesbians,
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Speaker 2: and they've been trying to use intimidation to get women
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Speaker 2: to date them.
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Speaker 8: Yeah, lesbians don't want them either. It would be nice
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Speaker 8: if the cultural narrative amongst the trans group was to
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Speaker 8: stick to people who want them.
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Speaker 2: And stop trying to trick everyone who's outside of that group,
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Speaker 2: but maybe that's too much to ask of the average Wokie. Now,
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Speaker 2: going back to what that lady was saying about her
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Speaker 2: gender being a fetish costume, I can see how it's
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Speaker 2: off-putting to see tons of people playing pretend and publicly
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Speaker 2: engaging in woman face.
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Speaker 4: Day one of being a girl, and I have already
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Speaker 4: cried three times. I wrote a scathing email that I
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Speaker 4: did not send. And then when someone asked me how
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Speaker 4: I was, I said, I'm fine, when I wasn't fine.
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Speaker 2: These are the people who will say that blackface is offensive.
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Speaker 2: I can also imagine how it's off-putting to watch how
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Speaker 2: many of these people are essentially engaging in stolen valor
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Speaker 2: by pretending to have menstruation cycles and demanding that they
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Speaker 2: get sympathy for something that they don't actually have to experience.
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Speaker 8: Okay, sweetie, so apparently you're not wanting to understand or listen.
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Speaker 8: I can tell you right now, my period I experience
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Speaker 8: every month is very real, very valid, and very painful.
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Speaker 8: But you know what? You go ahead and keep invalidating
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Speaker 8: trans women. You go ahead and keep telling them that
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Speaker 8: their experience is not real. Because if that makes you
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Speaker 8: feel like a real woman, if that makes you feel
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Speaker 8: so big and important, sweetie, then you go do it.
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Speaker 2: I mean, if I were a woman, I sure as
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Speaker 2: hell would think the first person who I would want
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Speaker 2: to be lectured by about womanhood is a man in
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Speaker 2: a dress who is pretending to know what a menstrual
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Speaker 2: cycle is like. and saying that you have to participate
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Speaker 2: in that, or you're a bigot. Especially as every mentally
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Speaker 2: ill pink-haired person is calling you slurs, and saying that
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Speaker 2: you're evil for not wanting to be called a slur.
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Speaker 10: Being a cis woman is not an insult. That is
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Speaker 10: one of the stupidest things that I've ever heard in
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Speaker 10: my entire life. The only people who have a problem
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Speaker 10: with it are people who are ignorant or hateful. And
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Speaker 10: if you're ignorant about it, and someone educates you about it,
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Speaker 10: and you continue to be ignorant about it, then you
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Speaker 10: are just a hateful person. Being cis just means that
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Speaker 10: you are cisgender, which means that you are the gender
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Speaker 10: you were assigned at birth. It just differentiates from trans people.
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Speaker 10: You're a cis woman. Deal with it. Live with it.
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Speaker 10: Be a better human being.
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Speaker 2: It's a slur, and it's always been used as a
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Speaker 2: slur against people who disagree with trans ideology. Just listen
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Speaker 2: to the vitriol in how they say the word cis
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Speaker 2: white male. The fact that you say that I'm a
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Speaker 2: bad person for not agreeing with you only proves my
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Speaker 2: point that cis is a slur, because the correct term
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Speaker 2: is normal. So as I said, women are pissed about this.
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Speaker 6: I'm not a cis woman, I'm a woman. You say
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Speaker 6: trans women are women, but then women become cis women
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Speaker 6: as if we're a subtype of our own sex. And
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Speaker 6: then you have the audacity to drag the very women
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Speaker 6: that you're trying to emulate. How is that not the
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Speaker 6: most misogynistic, patriarchal, logic imaginable? How is it that my
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Speaker 6: identity suddenly just needs a prefix? Why do women have
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Speaker 6: to shift their language, their boundaries, their spaces, So everyone
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Speaker 6: else can feel comfortable except actual woman. If a woman says, hey,
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Speaker 6: I'm not comfortable with this, suddenly she's the problem? I
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Speaker 6: don't need a new label to describe what I've always been.
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Speaker 5: Right.
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Speaker 2: I'm not cis. either. I'm normal. And no one's happy
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Speaker 2: to be around trans activists when they're constantly trying to
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Speaker 2: erase the existence of anyone who's not caught up in
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Speaker 2: their game. Why would you want to be in a
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Speaker 2: relationship with someone who acts like that? Difference between cis
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Speaker 2: and biological women.
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Speaker 10: Biological women, quote unquote.
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Speaker 2: It's an outdated term. It doesn't mean much of anything.
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Speaker 10: Biological women puts down.
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Speaker 2: Denying reality because you're offended is literally the definition of
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Speaker 2: being mentally ill. Also, the LGBT people who are not
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Speaker 2: deranged don't give a shit about any of this. They
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Speaker 2: just want to be left alone. That's what gay rights
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Speaker 2: was originally about. Now gay rights is about demanding people
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Speaker 2: participate in your fetish. Also, shouldn't this guy be on
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Speaker 2: a registry or something for filming in the woman's bathroom
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Speaker 2: with children present? Speaking of registries, considering that these people
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Speaker 2: are so insistent on forcing their way into everyone else's spaces,
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Speaker 2: another consideration for long-term relationships is is are you safe
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Speaker 2: to have around kids, and from my perspective, there is
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Speaker 2: so much sexually inappropriate behavior from these people that the
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Speaker 2: answer is largely no.
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Speaker 8: We will not let fear win.
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Speaker 4: A world without trans people has never existed. A world
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Speaker 4: without drag has never existed, and it never will.
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Speaker 3: Queer people have always been.
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Speaker 4: Here amongst us.
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Speaker 5: Drag is art.
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Speaker 3: Drag is culture. Drag is educational. Drag is creative.
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Speaker 5: Drag is comedy.
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Speaker 11: But drag is not a crime.
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Speaker 2: They're still fighting to do sexually inappropriate drag shows for kids.
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Speaker 2: I don't know why these people haven't been arrested.
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Speaker 11: I won't change your little town. Your own children will.
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Speaker 11: Your children will see us. Your children will love us.
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Speaker 11: And your children will join us.
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Speaker 2: I don't think I've seen a clearer admission of intent
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Speaker 2: to groom kids. How is it that there are so
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Speaker 2: many of these people caught on camera doing stripper dances
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Speaker 2: in front of a very young audience, and none of
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Speaker 2: them go to jail. It's like how they won't give
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Speaker 2: any prison time to the guy who's committed like 80 felonies.
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Speaker 2: There really has been zero punishment for any of these
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Speaker 2: people doing this stuff in front of kids. Well, there
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Speaker 2: has been some momentum on that, I guess. A bill
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Speaker 2: banning medically transitioning kids just passed the House of Representatives.
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Speaker 2: Hopefully it gets signed into law. This should have been
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Speaker 2: done years ago. All this weird stuff around kids has
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Speaker 2: to stop.
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Speaker 5: I'm a student at Martin Luther King High School, and
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Speaker 5: I run on the cross-country team, so I'm constantly affected
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Speaker 5: by these. Actions that have taken place this season, and
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Speaker 5: I have been around the females and just my team
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Speaker 5: in general, who have felt almost silenced to speak out
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Speaker 5: about it. And it is not okay that I have
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Speaker 5: to be in a position where I'm going to practice
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Speaker 5: and having to see a male in booty shorts and
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Speaker 5: having to see that around me. As a 16-year-old girl,
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Speaker 5: I don't find that as a safe environment. I don't
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Speaker 5: at all. And going into a locker room and seeing
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Speaker 5: males in there, I don't find that safe. I don't
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Speaker 5: find going to the bathroom safe when there's guys in there.
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Speaker 5: It's not OK. I'm a 16 year old girl. There's
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Speaker 5: girls around me where we do not feel safe having
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Speaker 5: boys in our environment. And it isn't OK. It isn't
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Speaker 5: OK to have them on our team. Right.
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Speaker 2: It's not OK. These kids are just trying to go
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Speaker 2: to school and live out their lives. and you're trying
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Speaker 2: to force some shit in there that doesn't belong, followed
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Speaker 2: by calling the kids hateful or evil for feeling uncomfortable
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Speaker 2: about something that should make them feel uncomfortable. The whole
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Speaker 2: idea that impressionable kids should have to be regularly taught
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Speaker 2: and exposed to any of this stuff is ridiculous. Also,
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Speaker 2: what a coincidence that LGBT identification has increased around the
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Speaker 2: same time they started force-feeding this stuff into schools. And
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Speaker 2: look at the age group that it's increasing in. Even
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Speaker 2: Hasan Piker's dog isn't shocked by these stats. I mean,
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Speaker 2: dating is already hard enough, why are you pushing these
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Speaker 2: kids to grow up as sterile adults that very few
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Speaker 2: people will want to be in a long-term relationship with
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Speaker 2: because they can't have kids? Don't the people promoting this
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Speaker 2: stuff go on Reddit? Like the number one complaint from
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Speaker 2: the child-free Reddit is that they can't find long-term relationship
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Speaker 2: partners because they don't want kids. I also find all
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Speaker 2: of this particularly messed up when the cure for most
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Speaker 2: of these kids' gender dysphoria is just letting them go
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Speaker 2: through puberty. Medically transitioning minors should be punishable with life
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Speaker 2: in prison or worse. Not to mention the mental health
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Speaker 2: issues that come along with transitioning. Another big reason why
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Speaker 2: these people are having trouble finding long-term relationships is because statistically,
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Speaker 2: they have numerous mental health issues that no one wants
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Speaker 2: to deal with because instead of going to therapy, they
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Speaker 2: took HRT. I have yet to see evidence that gender-affirming
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Speaker 2: care fixes mental health issues, and I think that activists
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Speaker 2: telling these people that a surgery will fix their bipolar
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Speaker 2: disorder or their borderline personality is highly immoral. Really, if
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Speaker 2: you want to fix mental health problems, then you need
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Speaker 2: a team of people around you who will be honest
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Speaker 2: and not enable your pathological behaviors, which is why the
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Speaker 2: whole idea of preaching delusion about how other people feel
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Speaker 2: about things like the dating market and then calling them
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Speaker 2: hateful Nazis for voicing their opinions is only going to
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Speaker 2: make people's mental health worse. As I said earlier, maybe
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Speaker 2: that's the point. But the cruelest thing that you can
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Speaker 2: do to someone who is mentally ill is be dishonest.
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Speaker 2: Many people get stuck in things like addictions for years
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Speaker 2: or decades because nobody will tell them the truth. Like
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Speaker 2: I said, if you're an adult, do what you want,
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Speaker 2: it's your life, but no one should be forced to participate. Anyway,
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