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Cuffing Season 2025 · We Talk Back

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  Speaker 1: Welcome to We Talk Back Podcast, the production of iHeartRadio
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  Speaker 1: and the Black Effect Network.
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  Speaker 2: We're just two unapologetically black women with an opinion who talks.
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  Speaker 1: What's up, Y'all's your girl a j holiday.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all, It's official, Tam Bam. I love y'all so very
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  Speaker 2: very much. And I missed y'all even though it's only
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  Speaker 2: been seven days, but I still miss y'all. How'd you?
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  Speaker 2: How's your weekend?
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  Speaker 1: I have been having some great weekends. I might say, Okay.
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  Speaker 2: Tell everybody, why why? Who's telling?
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  Speaker 1: Absolutely not. I've just been doing adult things on the weekends,
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  Speaker 1: you know, consistent adult things, nice little outlet though.
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  Speaker 2: That's good, that's good. I wow, my week ain't been.
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  Speaker 2: Ain't been like yours. I'll say that I've been getting
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  Speaker 2: a lot of TV and that's it I need. Like
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  Speaker 2: I've been slacking on my gym, and I can see
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  Speaker 2: it in my arms right now. So I'm starting.
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  Speaker 1: To get your wings back.
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  Speaker 2: So now I'm starting back. I started back yesterday getting
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  Speaker 2: back into the gym because my birth month came and
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  Speaker 2: I was bullshitting all July. I mean, I had Fitness
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  Speaker 2: is a never ending process, Like you stop a little
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  Speaker 2: while your body all changes quick.
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  Speaker 1: It's automatically.
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  Speaker 2: So I watched I watched Amanda Seals versus twenty Conservatives.
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  Speaker 1: Oh, I gotta finish Cannis Owens first and then that's
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  Speaker 1: next on my list.
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  Speaker 2: It was so good. Let me tell you something, Amanda
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  Speaker 2: Seals may not be everybody's favorite person. Yeah she was.
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  Speaker 1: Uh, it wasn't nobody that could handle her her mouth.
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  Speaker 1: You're not about to out talk her, and you're not
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  Speaker 1: about to out with her. You're not about to out
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  Speaker 1: uh intellect, intellect her nothing, none of that. She she's
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  Speaker 1: a great orator. Orator, right, so she knows how to
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  Speaker 1: fucking speak, and she knows how to put the words together.
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  Speaker 2: And I put you down without even really trying.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, well, I think that's the problem people
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  Speaker 1: have with her. I also think that's the problem black people.
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  Speaker 1: When I say people, I mean black people in particular
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  Speaker 1: have with a canvas os also for whatever reason, I
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  Speaker 1: feel like black people have a problem with you being funny,
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  Speaker 1: smart and black for real and being able to articulate.
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  Speaker 1: Is like they just annoy your ears for some reason.
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  Speaker 1: But I like those my people. I understand why people
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  Speaker 1: don't like I have had my own personal experience that
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  Speaker 1: I've talked about on here with the Mandaciels. But nonetheless,
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  Speaker 1: she's a sweetheart. And I understand some people are just
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  Speaker 1: kind of socially awkward. Sometimes they might say some shit
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  Speaker 1: they don't got no business saying, like sometimes located shut
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  Speaker 1: the fuck up, always gotta talk one of those people.
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  Speaker 1: So that might get on people nerves, right, But.
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  Speaker 2: For me, she just seems and this is just big.
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  Speaker 2: I don't have a personal experience with her at all.
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  Speaker 2: It was around her one time, wasn't it. I don't
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  Speaker 2: know anyway, she just seems very combative to me. But
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  Speaker 2: in a debate, that's perfect energy, right, you know, all
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  Speaker 2: this and I don't I ever don't feel like it
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  Speaker 2: ever turns off. You know, that combative energy, always ready
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  Speaker 2: on go, you know. But like relax, That one one
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  Speaker 2: radical versus twenty conservatives was so good. I enjoyed it.
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  Speaker 2: Y'all should watch it on YouTube. And then I watched
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  Speaker 2: the Katrina documentary that Ryan Cooler put out. That was
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  Speaker 2: really good too, Like it was Katrina from a different
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  Speaker 2: perspective than what the New News gave us all those
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  Speaker 2: years ago, and it was that was good. I was
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  Speaker 2: in here crying watching that, so I see that. That's
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  Speaker 2: all I did over the weekend. Was watched a bunch
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  Speaker 2: of documentaries I think I watched. I started the Tsunami
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  Speaker 2: and Thailand documentary. I just I think I was just
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  Speaker 2: on my natural disaster kick or something. I don't know,
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  Speaker 2: but that and it worked. So that was it.
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  Speaker 1: I did watch some TV this weekend too. I started
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  Speaker 1: rewatching His Dark Materials because I wanted my my people
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  Speaker 1: to see it, and it was that's one of my
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  Speaker 1: favorite You.
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  Speaker 2: Ever watched that?
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  Speaker 1: His Dark Materials. Y'all should watch that too. It's it's
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  Speaker 1: really how I think life is like the Unseen worlds,
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  Speaker 1: and everybody has a spelled damon d A E M
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  Speaker 1: O n as opposed to demon. So everybody has like
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  Speaker 1: a damon, which is like a essentially your subconscious mind
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  Speaker 1: that stays with you, stays with you your whole life,
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  Speaker 1: but it runs around and talk as an animal, like
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  Speaker 1: an animal spirit essentially. But it's a real, real good movie.
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  Speaker 2: I have to see it. It's a movieries.
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  Speaker 1: There is a movie, but then it's the series. I
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  Speaker 1: suggest people to watch. The movie is like a little
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  Speaker 1: quick synopsis of the series, but the series is way
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  Speaker 1: way way better.
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  Speaker 2: See if my little friend want to watch that.
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  Speaker 1: I hate when I started watching TV because you don't
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  Speaker 1: know when to start.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that's all I did was watch TV.
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  Speaker 1: Get your eyes off that team.
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  Speaker 2: I tried to watch Wednesday, but for whatever, this season,
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  Speaker 2: I just won't grasp. It won't grab me like the
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  Speaker 2: first Wednesday, all.
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  Speaker 1: With the little yeah Adam's family.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, it just won't. I don't know, I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: It just ain't doing it for me.
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  Speaker 1: They might got some little sneaky shit in there.
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  Speaker 2: Oh I wouldn't. I lie. I also went to the
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  Speaker 2: movies and I saw uh weapons with the kids, the
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  Speaker 2: seventeen kids they got kidnapped from the school. This is
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  Speaker 2: a scary movie, and it's supposed to be based on
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  Speaker 2: loosely on the true story, but it ended up being
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  Speaker 2: kind of funny, honestly, honestly, like I was laughing at
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  Speaker 2: the end. I wasn't horrified like I thought I was
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  Speaker 2: supposed to be. But yeah, y'all go see that too.
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  Speaker 1: Shame all right, I'm doing all right. So I know
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  Speaker 1: Tammy and I have been on this show and we
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  Speaker 1: have spoken about this particular fine ass specimen of a
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  Speaker 1: black man when we talked back David Banner, y'all know
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  Speaker 1: Michael Blaxton, ex girlfriend, and I don't want to like
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  Speaker 1: that's not just what she's known as, because she's a dancer,
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  Speaker 1: she's a singer. She's an entertainer. Georgia Rayne, super fine ass,
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  Speaker 1: Georgia Rayne. So she campaigned, Okay, she was fasten from sex.
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  Speaker 1: She had been celibate for I don't know, over one
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  Speaker 1: hundred some days, or she just wasn't having sex for
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  Speaker 1: a very long time. I don't know when it started
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  Speaker 1: when it stopped, but she said the only person she
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  Speaker 1: wanted to get him cookies to was David Banner. So
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  Speaker 1: she started campaigning for this nigga like I don't know,
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  Speaker 1: February or March or something like that, Like y'all please
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  Speaker 1: tell my man to meet me at such and such
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  Speaker 1: like real live campaigning like this was from August eighth.
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  Speaker 1: She said, after one hundred and fifty days of waiting
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  Speaker 1: in the sun, rain and streets with my bagpack, my
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  Speaker 1: man never picked me up. She kept saying, David Batty,
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  Speaker 1: come get me. Okay, she said, I waited for my
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  Speaker 1: man for one hundred and fifty days. Hashtag David Banner,
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  Speaker 1: you tricked me one time too many. I mean you
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  Speaker 1: tricked me again, but I'm tired. No wait wait, I
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  Speaker 1: mean you can trick me again, but I'm tired. I
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  Speaker 1: gotta put me first. I'm going back outside. I almost
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  Speaker 1: missed my summer playing with you. Monday, I'm outside real girls.
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  Speaker 1: So it was just like a bunch of different random
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  Speaker 1: ass posts like that every couple of weeks. My man
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  Speaker 1: got into Monday to come get me. She like standing
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  Speaker 1: in the rain under a tree waiting for David Banner
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  Speaker 1: with her bags and like the last picture she posted, Okay,
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  Speaker 1: this was on This is three days ago, so over
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  Speaker 1: the weekend she is posted up. After one hundred and
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  Speaker 1: seventy nine days, my man came and got me. David Banner,
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  Speaker 1: thank y'all for telling him. I was outside with my
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  Speaker 1: overnight bag. And then she added some of her friend
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  Speaker 1: some of her people tell but they saved her, saved
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  Speaker 1: the relationship. I don't know were they really dating or
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  Speaker 1: she really campaigned for David Banner and he came through.
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  Speaker 2: Is she fine? Yeah, she's fine. I'm looking at it.
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  Speaker 2: I don't know her music, but now I don't want
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  Speaker 2: to go see what it is because she is beautiful.
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  Speaker 2: She looked like what he would want to date in
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  Speaker 2: my mind, you know, Afro chocolate. Yeah, but I don't.
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  Speaker 2: I'm kind of what they want. I know, I love
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  Speaker 2: me some David Banner.
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  Speaker 1: They don't be knowing what they want. She dated Michael
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  Speaker 1: Blacksmith for many years and you see what he ended
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  Speaker 1: up with, Asian persuasion. Okay, this girl is super fine.
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  Speaker 1: She don't got no kids. So, like, all the flavors
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  Speaker 1: is out here. So when y'all men say like this,
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  Speaker 1: all the women ghetto asked, that's a damn lie. It
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  Speaker 1: is so many different types of black women out here.
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  Speaker 1: If you really wanted one, okay, natural bust down, lace
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  Speaker 1: front dress.
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  Speaker 2: Right one, it's all out here, Yeah, pick one. Congratulations
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  Speaker 2: to her forgetting not mad.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's just like he's bars. Let's keep me at
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  Speaker 1: her house, different band, call me.
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  Speaker 2: Right if that don't work out, if you get back outside,
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  Speaker 2: all right.
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  Speaker 1: So a Georgia jubb, A Georgia jub A Georgia.
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  Speaker 2: Judge flubs verdict reading tells defendant he is guilty, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: This Fulton County judge was spoke while reading a defendant
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  Speaker 2: verdict in the Georgia courtroom Friday telling him he was
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  Speaker 2: guilty when the deemed him not guilty.
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  Speaker 1: Now, you know, he wanted to tell that black man.
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  Speaker 2: He was guilty. He won him so badly. Sub consciously
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  Speaker 2: he wanted to tell that man he was guilty. And
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  Speaker 2: he talking about he messed up reading no, you that's
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  Speaker 2: what you wanted to say.
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  Speaker 1: So.
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  Speaker 2: Alton Oliver was on trial over the twenty twenty two
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  Speaker 2: killing of a full ten county deputy and phase six counts,
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  Speaker 2: including three of murder. Video from inside the courtroom shows
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  Speaker 2: the moment the judge accidentally told Oliver he was guilty. Now,
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  Speaker 2: after confirming with the jury that the paperwork was correct,
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  Speaker 2: the judge read the verdict we the jury finally defend
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  Speaker 2: it guilty as to all six counts. Oliver and his
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  Speaker 2: legal team sat in silence, but people in the courtroom
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  Speaker 2: started audibly questioning the judges reading. Prought to him to
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  Speaker 2: double check the paper. He said, did I say not?
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  Speaker 2: The judge asked the room to room, to which number
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  Speaker 2: of people replied fuck no.
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  Speaker 1: They we heard people say fuck no.
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  Speaker 2: Right. He apologized and re read the statement, this time correctly.
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  Speaker 2: People in the courtroom laughed and applauded. Laugh. Ain't shit
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  Speaker 2: funny about that?
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  Speaker 1: Not at all times?
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  Speaker 2: Right? Life? Talk about did I not say not? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: He played on somebody life and this lifetime and the next.
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  Speaker 1: Because I'm pretty sure they wanted to give us as
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  Speaker 1: twenty consecutive life terms. Y'all think that shit only count
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  Speaker 1: for this lifetime. One thing, the people know who are
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  Speaker 1: in power, They know how the world actually work. Right,
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  Speaker 1: Why else would you give somebody four consecutive life term
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  Speaker 1: sentences if it doesn't go into another lifetime. It doesn't
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  Speaker 1: make sense. So when people come back with the same
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  Speaker 1: transgressions and end up doing the same shit, they got
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  Speaker 1: you stuck in a fucking cycle lifetime at the lifetime,
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  Speaker 1: at the lifetime, at the lifetime, but maybe all that
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  Speaker 1: fifth lifetime you might be regular. Don't be out here
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  Speaker 1: committing crimes because they gonna sentence your ass to twenty
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  Speaker 1: lifetimes of bullshit. You be stuck.
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  Speaker 2: That's crazy. But shout out to my brother for getting
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  Speaker 2: out not guilty.
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  Speaker 1: And I gotta read into that case. I wondered, like,
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  Speaker 1: what was the like the whole I didn't even hear
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  Speaker 1: about that.
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  Speaker 2: Right, I don't even know what it was, right because
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  Speaker 2: it was three counters of murders. So he killed three
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  Speaker 2: people in a depth including a depth deputy, and got off.
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  Speaker 2: What happened.
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  Speaker 1: I don't think he killed three people. They can give
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  Speaker 1: you like three council murder. Yeah, but that they they
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  Speaker 1: just trumped the charges up. They just add all these
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  Speaker 1: different charges. You can have manslaughter and murder and attempted
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  Speaker 1: murder altogether at the same time.
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  Speaker 2: It's yeah, but no, it's three people died.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I don't think he killed three people though.
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  Speaker 2: But he was accused of killing three people.
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  Speaker 1: They said he has three murder chargers, but he killed
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  Speaker 1: a deputy one person.
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  Speaker 2: Right, But so what they were saying is it's three
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  Speaker 2: motherfuckers dead and we accusing you of it. I want
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  Speaker 2: to know what happened.
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  Speaker 1: No, they he only killed one person. How they gonna
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  Speaker 1: count three councilor murder? He would they do that? They
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  Speaker 1: will put up They will put twenty charges on you
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  Speaker 1: for the same type of ship. They all kind of
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  Speaker 1: like be similar, like the same type of charges.
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  Speaker 2: Three murder charges for one person?
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  Speaker 1: Are they they just the trump just the just to
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  Speaker 1: just to boost your fucking time up essentially, so count
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  Speaker 1: one murder not guilty. Count two murder not guilty, Count three.
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  Speaker 1: There's no way he killed three police officers and was
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  Speaker 1: found not guilty. Like, what was the situation?
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  Speaker 2: So I can kill one person and they can charge
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  Speaker 2: me three times? Yes, the one one person?
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  Speaker 1: Let's see, I mean, let's see. I mean did they
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  Speaker 1: shoot multiple people and a rare moved to defend George
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  Speaker 1: her Dah. Yeah, we're gonna have to come back to this. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I need because if y'all know about it, let us
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  Speaker 1: know we might have to come back to this. I
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  Speaker 1: think it was a black man he killed.
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  Speaker 2: Dang.
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  Speaker 1: Anyway, we'll come back to that, not today. Yeah, I'm
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  Speaker 1: gonna be happy, all right. So y'all know Belly is
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  Speaker 1: like top five black film all time. Right, So, yes,
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  Speaker 1: Tarot Hicks, you know, chocolate brown, brown, little fine, little
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  Speaker 1: fine shit. She recently did an interview on the show
• 14:31
  Speaker 1: and they asked her about the infamous y'all remember because
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  Speaker 1: everybody fell in love with DMX that day when he
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  Speaker 1: snatched snatched khass up and had her in the damn
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  Speaker 1: yaew her to the matches. Yes, had her in a
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  Speaker 1: little wheelbarrow, right quick, girl, I just I can close
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  Speaker 1: my eyes right now and see that he like with
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  Speaker 1: his butt and his leg up one leg hiked up
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  Speaker 1: on the side, and he just right, yeah, sorry, did
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  Speaker 1: you have a moment that was me? This weekend acting knowledge?
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  Speaker 1: When women we be acting, we really be acting having sex. Okay,
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  Speaker 1: not for real acting, because I'd be dead ass fucking serious.
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  Speaker 1: But when I think about it after the fact that
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  Speaker 1: you'll be doing too much, you are not that fucking
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  Speaker 1: sexy bitch. Bet I'll be so sexy.
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  Speaker 2: On the dick.
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  Speaker 1: In my mind and probably making the ugliest for a
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  Speaker 1: long time.
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  Speaker 2: Like looking at his dick like that. I know my
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  Speaker 2: dick ain't doing all of that.
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  Speaker 1: This fucking showing out for a nigga. Anyway, She said
• 15:41
  Speaker 1: that it was a body double. It wasn't even her
• 15:44
  Speaker 1: and she didn't even know about the scene until the
• 15:46
  Speaker 1: movie premiered, So imagine like you just you a mom acting.
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  Speaker 1: She was like, I would have never done a scene
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  Speaker 1: like that. I got kids, like I'm a mom, I'm
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  Speaker 1: a wife, like I would have never done a scene
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  Speaker 1: like that, And the the director just slid that shit
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  Speaker 1: on the end on her with a body double. So
• 16:04
  Speaker 1: she was getting that ass toward by DMX.
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  Speaker 2: I mean, how though, how was that not her, That's
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  Speaker 2: what I'm saying, Like, how did they do that? Especially
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  Speaker 2: the technology was not as advanced back then as it
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  Speaker 2: is now.
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  Speaker 1: It might have been they slapped her face on this
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  Speaker 1: person she turned over in the bad she was all
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  Speaker 1: sweaty and glistening.
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  Speaker 2: Yep, I remember that that was her. That was her
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  Speaker 2: to me, and it's still hurt of me. I'll give
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  Speaker 2: what you say. That was forever we.
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  Speaker 1: Saw them Teddy's Girl.
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  Speaker 2: But then she also said that she was upset about
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  Speaker 2: it because she started getting offered nothing but that included
• 16:45
  Speaker 2: you know, sexual explicit scenes and she you know, had
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  Speaker 2: no she didn't want to do any of those. So
• 16:52
  Speaker 2: it kind of cause think about what we seen her
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  Speaker 2: in since, right, you know.
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  Speaker 1: So yeah, and I can imagine like all the black films,
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  Speaker 1: was probably trying to get her naked and they shit, yep,
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  Speaker 1: running out. Yeah, so she got typecasted after that. That
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  Speaker 1: is fucked up.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, that is This is why you gotta be careful
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  Speaker 2: like what you get nicked for when it comes to
• 17:16
  Speaker 2: like acting in film, like you know, because she said
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  Speaker 2: back then you couldn't you didn't have any say soul,
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  Speaker 2: Like how right?
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  Speaker 1: How do you not have any scuse. I guess if
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  Speaker 1: you give me a script, right, I do what's in
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  Speaker 1: the script. We filmed this movie, and in the day
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  Speaker 1: that I'm off, you deviate outside of this script and
• 17:36
  Speaker 1: ask some shit in there like that, Like how do
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: you not get sued for that?
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  Speaker 2: Right? And have me looking like I'm fucking on there
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  Speaker 2: and I didn't even know.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, you got to read them contracts, cause.
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  Speaker 2: Read the fine print. And now they don't even have
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  Speaker 2: to get a body double day.
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  Speaker 1: AI AIU exactly. So, Yeah, I was talking to my homegirl,
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  Speaker 1: you know, for so and she just was saying, like
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  Speaker 1: how crazy like the industry is right now, like when
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: those people went on strike, the writers and all that stuff,
• 18:09
  Speaker 1: like it was definitely for good reason. Like they are
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  Speaker 1: literally trying to replace people because you look at social media,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: like people are creating whole movies, whole storylines with AI characters.
• 18:20
  Speaker 1: Right there are so many AI artists right now, Like
• 18:23
  Speaker 1: I almost want to create one. Mm hm, bitch, I'm
• 18:25
  Speaker 1: about to be a singer like might as well I
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: could write I'm about to put an AI artist out.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: Have you seen like those little short stories they be
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: like on Facebook or TikTok and you don't never get
• 18:39
  Speaker 2: to see the end. They'll show you on my nerve.
• 18:42
  Speaker 1: I'd be stuck trying to find the other part. Yes,
• 18:46
  Speaker 1: it's always like some rich man family abusing the lady,
• 18:50
  Speaker 1: like what happened?
• 18:53
  Speaker 2: So bad? But you cannot find that MP.
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: You think those you think that's AI.
• 18:58
  Speaker 2: Some of it.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: I do, because it'd be like it'd be so cheesy, right,
• 19:03
  Speaker 1: but it'd be entertaining. But it's like so cheesy, like
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: did somebody really put this together?
• 19:09
  Speaker 2: Ain't no way, like.
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Y'all paid acting? Now that is AI, because I would
• 19:13
  Speaker 1: always think any way they paid people to do this.
• 19:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I think it's AI for sure.
• 19:19
  Speaker 1: Interesting.
• 19:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and shits, we have me in the choke. Ho
• 19:24
  Speaker 2: shame I won't click on another.
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: One, Yeah, because now they start just popping up on
• 19:31
  Speaker 1: your timeline and one time you click on some ship,
• 19:33
  Speaker 1: it just they just.
• 19:33
  Speaker 2: Can now in front of you. They're forcing it on you.
• 19:38
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all. It is August, all right, We are.
• 19:41
  Speaker 2: At the end of August too.
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, the year is almost over and you know what
• 19:46
  Speaker 1: time it is.
• 19:48
  Speaker 2: Yeah, cuffin season it's a foot.
• 19:55
  Speaker 1: So yeah, that's what we're getting into this week.
• 19:59
  Speaker 2: Yeah, are you ready? To get cuffed. Are you cuffed?
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: Are you preparing for cuffing like we're gonna talk about?
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: Oh no, I know AJ and that came up with
• 20:12
  Speaker 2: a new cuffing program. So this shit is funny, y'all.
• 20:16
  Speaker 2: So y'all stay tuned.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: We'll be right back with it, all right, y'all. So
• 20:26
  Speaker 1: today is August the twenty first. Okay, so we are
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: officially twenty one days into cuffing season. Scouting started August first. Okay,
• 20:39
  Speaker 1: So August first, the thirty first is scouting. Okay, Still summertime.
• 20:45
  Speaker 1: You're supposed to be outside linking talking, I mean, if
• 20:48
  Speaker 1: you want. Of the people who can't talk to people
• 20:51
  Speaker 1: in real life. Maybe you're on social media. I don't know.
• 20:54
  Speaker 1: But you're supposed to be setting up your roster right now,
• 20:58
  Speaker 1: right Okay, you're scouting right now?
• 21:02
  Speaker 2: Okay, right, So have you been scouting? No?
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: I haven't been scouting. Okay.
• 21:12
  Speaker 2: I might be off the bench. I don't know, bitch.
• 21:14
  Speaker 2: I might be.
• 21:15
  Speaker 1: I might be on the bench. Okay. It might be coughed,
• 21:18
  Speaker 1: would it be? I might be cuffed? Yeah, I might
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: be a little bit early this year.
• 21:24
  Speaker 2: You got it out the way, didn't you.
• 21:27
  Speaker 1: I'm usually cuffed.
• 21:29
  Speaker 2: I just.
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: Wintertime, smertime, when time be trying to get uncuffed.
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: But I'm saying, you.
• 21:35
  Speaker 1: Know you got recuffed. You uncuffed and recuffed very quickly.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: You know.
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: I talked to one of my guy friends and he
• 21:47
  Speaker 1: was like, you move fast, And I'm like, why not?
• 21:52
  Speaker 2: Right? Why slow?
• 21:55
  Speaker 1: When a man wife died, he already know he who
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: he about to marry again? Okay, talking about why should I?
• 22:01
  Speaker 1: I don't even have time to be moving slow? Y'all
• 22:03
  Speaker 1: got time because I don't, right, So if it ain't working,
• 22:07
  Speaker 1: you gotta get out of there. But if it is working,
• 22:10
  Speaker 1: why not just go ahead and try it out, see
• 22:13
  Speaker 1: if it works long term, and start again if you
• 22:16
  Speaker 1: need to. I never scared to start all over, That's
• 22:19
  Speaker 1: my thing.
• 22:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, Scar.
• 22:21
  Speaker 1: I't mean saying places because they're scared to be alone
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: and they're scared to start all over.
• 22:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah. I just never really lock in all the way
• 22:30
  Speaker 2: with somebody, especially once it start getting cold. I like,
• 22:35
  Speaker 2: I always end up with massed pajamas with my mama.
• 22:38
  Speaker 2: So we're gonna see what half.
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: Of this year, so right, this comf of season is
• 22:43
  Speaker 1: for you. Right now, it's scouting. Who do you have
• 22:47
  Speaker 1: on the rostapasta, anybody on the vegenda? Okay in August,
• 22:51
  Speaker 1: I actually do have some uh not agenda yet, but
• 22:58
  Speaker 1: they're on the agenda. It's someone that I do I
• 23:02
  Speaker 1: got my eye on or they got me eyed in.
• 23:07
  Speaker 1: Actually yeah, it's more than one. Made the best man
• 23:10
  Speaker 1: win period. But no legenda yet.
• 23:16
  Speaker 2: No agenda y'all.
• 23:18
  Speaker 1: So we're here to help y'all try and build a roster.
• 23:21
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: So, I think there's like a certain different archaea types
• 23:26
  Speaker 1: you should probably be looking for or probably already have,
• 23:29
  Speaker 1: right to try to wean out. Who's who? I think
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: we all got a foodie. No, the nigga who gonna
• 23:36
  Speaker 1: take us to eat at least?
• 23:38
  Speaker 2: Well, it says, I'm confused right here, because the food
• 23:41
  Speaker 2: always down to eat, never down the pay. This is
• 23:45
  Speaker 2: one we want to get rid of. Yes, okay, because
• 23:50
  Speaker 2: I'm about to say, never down the pay. How we
• 23:53
  Speaker 2: get there? I don't, But let me tell you something.
• 23:56
  Speaker 2: Why are we talking about a nigga never down the pay?
• 23:58
  Speaker 2: I had this guy that I thought was like coming
• 24:03
  Speaker 2: like that right based on his social media he looked
• 24:06
  Speaker 2: like he liked that, you know, and I actually know
• 24:09
  Speaker 2: him in real life. I met him in DC a
• 24:14
  Speaker 2: couple of years back or whatever. So he asked me
• 24:17
  Speaker 2: he can call me one morning. Who was like, you're busy.
• 24:21
  Speaker 2: I was like, I'm at work. He's like, check your text.
• 24:24
  Speaker 2: So he was like, can you shoot me fifty dollars
• 24:27
  Speaker 2: real quick? Oh? So I was like is it I
• 24:31
  Speaker 2: think this is a test. So I said, so I
• 24:35
  Speaker 2: a apple, payd him fifty dollars. Like there you go.
• 24:39
  Speaker 2: He's like, I give it back. I know it's like,
• 24:42
  Speaker 2: shoot me fifty dollars. I give it right back. So
• 24:45
  Speaker 2: it's only fifty dollars, right whatever. Some time went by,
• 24:50
  Speaker 2: I ain't heard from him, and he I said my
• 24:53
  Speaker 2: fifty dollars back. So I messaged him like, hey, I
• 24:57
  Speaker 2: want to get my nails done. Can you see my
• 24:59
  Speaker 2: fifty dollars? And he was like, if I had it,
• 25:03
  Speaker 2: I would send it with zeros on the end.
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: You ain't pardon me.
• 25:10
  Speaker 2: I was appalled.
• 25:12
  Speaker 1: So wait a minute, I'm always appalled when a man
• 25:17
  Speaker 1: asked for money, because didn't you know, like, I'm not
• 25:21
  Speaker 1: gonna say I just be asking men for money because
• 25:23
  Speaker 1: I really don't, right, but I do expect you to
• 25:27
  Speaker 1: give me money because I do stuff for whoever I'm
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: with too, So it's just hey, girl, get out of here.
• 25:35
  Speaker 1: It has to be like, I'm just asking for reciprocity essentially, right,
• 25:39
  Speaker 1: I'm not a real gold digger. I am a gold
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: digger at heart, okay, but I don't be really digging
• 25:45
  Speaker 1: for gold. But I'm trying to figure out the thought
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: process of a grown man hitting me up whom I've
• 25:51
  Speaker 1: never asked for money. He never started this shit with you,
• 25:56
  Speaker 1: never ask you for anything, and all of a sudden
• 25:59
  Speaker 1: you think you can that sad me. Do I look
• 26:00
  Speaker 1: like a fucking lick? Apparently, And I was like, oh,
• 26:04
  Speaker 1: this is a test. It was a lick.
• 26:09
  Speaker 2: It was a lig He probably called he hit probably
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: and he fine too. So he probably hit up like
• 26:15
  Speaker 2: ten bitches and said let me get fifty dollars and
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: all of us was like, oh, he testing.
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: I don't know teverybody just for you, nigga. Better never
• 26:28
  Speaker 1: test me like that is the quickest way to get
• 26:30
  Speaker 1: rid of me. Ask me for money. I'll ask people
• 26:32
  Speaker 1: a ride too many times. I'm out of there. So
• 26:34
  Speaker 1: he's the flexer, good ig presence, questionable funds.
• 26:39
  Speaker 2: Oh yep, he's definitely that.
• 26:42
  Speaker 1: Okay, So he is off the roster. Okay, he's he's
• 26:46
  Speaker 1: not in the starting lineup.
• 26:51
  Speaker 2: This is vacation Bay. Oh, that's all right that I
• 26:54
  Speaker 2: listen the trip it disappears after definitely have a birthday
• 26:58
  Speaker 2: vacation Bay, Like he's taking me, but after that we'll
• 27:06
  Speaker 2: do nothing else. But he'll take me on the trip,
• 27:11
  Speaker 2: but he ain doing ship else.
• 27:15
  Speaker 1: Man, what type of shit is that?
• 27:18
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 27:19
  Speaker 1: That's supposed to last? To whe of y'all get a
• 27:22
  Speaker 1: like a real relationship.
• 27:23
  Speaker 2: I guess right, mm hmm, I mean I appreciate the
• 27:27
  Speaker 2: truths Uh. Then there's the sneakyling knows their role, no
• 27:31
  Speaker 2: question asked. You can't coach flings be turned into boyfriends sometimes,
• 27:36
  Speaker 2: but it's not all. It's not often though.
• 27:39
  Speaker 1: I don't know. You sleep with somebody long enough or
• 27:42
  Speaker 1: often enough. People men be falling in love too.
• 27:45
  Speaker 2: Yeah, they do the homebody Netflix snacks and vibes. I
• 27:52
  Speaker 2: don't see he can turn it to a boyfriend. I
• 27:54
  Speaker 2: feel like I like a nigga who don't like to
• 27:56
  Speaker 2: be outside. But I don't like that. You don't want
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: to do nothing else but sit in the house. Now
• 28:01
  Speaker 2: you're gonna have to date me? Right? Well?
• 28:04
  Speaker 1: I mean listen. The homebody might be I don't know.
• 28:08
  Speaker 1: Maybe he has a very busy week and on the
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: weekends he just wants to relax and chill and he's
• 28:14
  Speaker 1: hoping that you would like to be included in those activities.
• 28:18
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but that's not enough. That's not enough. I mean,
• 28:22
  Speaker 2: you can get you can get tied without niggas. They
• 28:25
  Speaker 2: ain't never been on no dates. Y'all got a kid
• 28:28
  Speaker 2: with a man who ain never took you on a date?
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: No, no, I like vacation, bib, y'all listen, my first
• 28:38
  Speaker 1: date was on vacation. For this current situation, I don't
• 28:44
  Speaker 1: even call a situation my current whatever it is.
• 28:48
  Speaker 2: You can't even state for today. Want what you got going?
• 28:52
  Speaker 1: I can? But do I want to? I don't know.
• 28:55
  Speaker 1: I don't want to. I don't want I don't like
• 28:56
  Speaker 1: shit to go sour. I try not to. I don't know.
• 29:01
  Speaker 2: Girl, what.
• 29:04
  Speaker 1: Me and my man? My man? What? What's the girl?
• 29:09
  Speaker 1: Tianna Taylor?
• 29:10
  Speaker 2: She was, what's the guy?
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: You know? I know? Aaron Pierre's Yes, Aaron Pierre, She said,
• 29:16
  Speaker 1: he handles her like a cup of tea. I am
• 29:19
  Speaker 1: being handled like a cup of tea.
• 29:21
  Speaker 2: Y'all.
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: You know you had a hot cup of tea. You
• 29:23
  Speaker 1: gotta walk real slow, gentle, be real careful. That is
• 29:27
  Speaker 1: how I'm being carried right. I love it all nice, Okay,
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: cup of tea, cup of tea?
• 29:32
  Speaker 2: Me please?
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: Yeah, yeah, you like me? Take me somewhere right.
• 29:39
  Speaker 2: Make me feel special. That's what I always telling me. I
• 29:41
  Speaker 2: need to be made to feel special. And nothing happens
• 29:44
  Speaker 2: until then.
• 29:45
  Speaker 1: I don't know, because what choice do you have but
• 29:48
  Speaker 1: to love who you who this person is, Yes, you
• 29:53
  Speaker 1: don't have no.
• 29:55
  Speaker 2: All right? The next one, the bread winner, my favorite.
• 30:00
  Speaker 2: You're generous. Maybe boring, though I don't care nothing about that,
• 30:03
  Speaker 2: because I can be the lively one. You can be
• 30:05
  Speaker 2: boring because I got all the energy for both of us.
• 30:08
  Speaker 1: I don't want a rich stuffy nigga. It don't want
• 30:10
  Speaker 1: to be like a hybrid stuffy. It don't say stuffy
• 30:13
  Speaker 1: and say boring. Stuffy is boring, like do the same
• 30:17
  Speaker 1: shit every day. He might go to the gym. This
• 30:19
  Speaker 1: is a routine. Okay, I don't care about it. He
• 30:22
  Speaker 1: got a little bag.
• 30:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah that's good. Go take your ass to the jib
• 30:26
  Speaker 2: or come home and eat your sandwich and go to
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: bit and do it. Again, nigga, that's what I want.
• 30:30
  Speaker 2: I don't want you to be in too. Let me
• 30:32
  Speaker 2: be the spontaneous one. Let me add that adventure to
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: your life. You go to work. Lastly, the toxic, all
• 30:46
  Speaker 2: star fun, dramatic and unforgettable. That's usually who I end up.
• 30:50
  Speaker 1: With, though, driving your ass fucking nuts through the winter exactly.
• 30:57
  Speaker 2: Yeah, calling you like I always had am and then
• 31:03
  Speaker 2: I always do a little toxic. I like a little
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: midget of toxic.
• 31:08
  Speaker 1: Yes, what type of toxic though, because let me not
• 31:12
  Speaker 1: even say that I don't like toxic. I lied. I
• 31:15
  Speaker 1: don't like nothing toxic. I lied real fast.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: I like a little little little taste of toxicity for
• 31:23
  Speaker 2: whatever reason, just a little, you know, just a little
• 31:27
  Speaker 2: something like that, because it has spice things up a
• 31:30
  Speaker 2: little bit. Don't make it boring, you know. So just.
• 31:35
  Speaker 1: I said, this girl post and she has uh, I
• 31:38
  Speaker 1: forgot her Instagram. Damn she she's a she's a ex wife, right,
• 31:43
  Speaker 1: she has two kids, but now she's a lesbian. And
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: she was like I always knew I was a lesbian.
• 31:46
  Speaker 1: I don't know why the fuck I went and had
• 31:47
  Speaker 1: two kids, got married all that bullshit, and not here
• 31:50
  Speaker 1: I am. But she posted some shit this morning and
• 31:52
  Speaker 1: she was like, I can't stand with a motherfucker. Want
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: to ask you, Uh, when y'all first started talking, what's
• 31:59
  Speaker 1: your toxic traits? Maybe just hold on up, finish show
• 32:02
  Speaker 1: you don't rush it. Just hold on, baby, just hold
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: on a minute. God damn, don't rush. I'm gonna show you, right.
• 32:11
  Speaker 2: I'm gonna show you that.
• 32:18
  Speaker 1: Hey the other day I told her nigger, I said,
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: I'm about to start beating you now. Little time I
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: passed by, but it start who your ask but to.
• 32:29
  Speaker 2: Show you take your mind? Now? So what's the psychology
• 32:39
  Speaker 2: of cuffing? So?
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: I mean it's cold outside those high and your mama
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: asking you why you're still single? So it's just walking
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: the cuffing season, right, So I feel like the winter times,
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: the winter months when it's more cold outside, you got
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: the leaves falling, it's like renewal time, right, people start
• 33:05
  Speaker 1: getting lonely, you know what I'm saying. Dropping. Yeah, we
• 33:10
  Speaker 1: do hibernate just like animals essentially, So why would you
• 33:15
  Speaker 1: not want to hibernate with someone? So people start, like
• 33:17
  Speaker 1: during cuff of season, trying to find somebody to lay
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: up with in the wintertime.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: And that's how summer babies are made.
• 33:25
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm. So shorter days, shorter moves. Listen, summer babies.
• 33:30
  Speaker 1: I told y'all my dates is August twenty eighth through
• 33:33
  Speaker 1: through October third. I think I think from my gemini for.
• 33:41
  Speaker 2: You to have your gemini. M h yes, you know.
• 33:46
  Speaker 2: I think that's why a lot of us want to
• 33:48
  Speaker 2: get cuffed is we don't want to be rewatching game
• 33:51
  Speaker 2: of throws by itself this sun this winter. So in
• 33:56
  Speaker 2: the fall slash winter, the days are shorter and sunlight
• 33:59
  Speaker 2: is limit it. Less sunlight equals lower serotonin vitamin D,
• 34:03
  Speaker 2: which can affect your mood. People naturally spend more time indoors,
• 34:06
  Speaker 2: leading into less social interaction and.
• 34:08
  Speaker 1: More feelings of isolation. Okay, so thus a cuffing partner.
• 34:17
  Speaker 2: So is cuffing season biology culture or is it just
• 34:20
  Speaker 2: a vibe?
• 34:22
  Speaker 1: I think it's just it's I think it's biology and
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: it's a vibe. I don't know that as like culture.
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: So are we saying like culturally black people like dump
• 34:32
  Speaker 1: everybody in the winter time and then try to find
• 34:34
  Speaker 1: somebody before Valentine's Because that's what cuff and season is
• 34:38
  Speaker 1: leading up to Valentine, so you can have somebody through
• 34:41
  Speaker 1: this through through the winter months, and.
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: It's for Christmas. For me, I just be like, Lord,
• 34:46
  Speaker 2: bless me with matching jamas this year, you know. So
• 34:51
  Speaker 2: I feel like, I mean, you.
• 34:52
  Speaker 1: Asking for the wrong thing. You get your matching pajamas
• 34:55
  Speaker 1: with your fucking mama.
• 34:57
  Speaker 2: God, please, I need to get more right.
• 35:01
  Speaker 1: You need to write that exactly what he looks like
• 35:03
  Speaker 1: with them pajamas on? What that back looking like in
• 35:06
  Speaker 1: that plaid pajama?
• 35:08
  Speaker 2: Okay, jack pajamas.
• 35:10
  Speaker 1: Maybe he just got the bottoms on shirt off.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: Right, okay? And I got on the shirt and he
• 35:14
  Speaker 2: got on the bottoms just one pajama, said not too amen?
• 35:20
  Speaker 1: I like that photo shoot?
• 35:21
  Speaker 2: Yeah? Amen? So glad.
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: So holidays equals pressure cooker. Okay. So Thanksgiving, Christmas, New
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: Year's and family centered gatherings often bring questions like so
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: when you trying to get married or where's your boot?
• 35:39
  Speaker 1: When you're gonna have some kids, you're gonna get all
• 35:41
  Speaker 1: like we dread that shit happening at family functions because
• 35:46
  Speaker 1: most of them are in the wintertime.
• 35:48
  Speaker 2: I'm saying last Thanksgiving, as me, my mom, and my sister,
• 35:53
  Speaker 2: it was just the three of us last year and
• 35:55
  Speaker 2: we said and had Thanksgiving dinner, and we said that
• 35:57
  Speaker 2: this year, if you ain't got a man and you
• 36:00
  Speaker 2: can't come to Thanksgiving. So Tanya, she's already set to
• 36:05
  Speaker 2: be at Thanksgiving, she might be there by herself. Mama
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: said she just gonna find her a blind nigga who
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: ain't got nowhere to go and bring up to the table.
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: You better rent you a nigga. And I don't know
• 36:20
  Speaker 1: for me somebody to come with you. Huh, you got
• 36:23
  Speaker 1: somebody that'll come.
• 36:25
  Speaker 2: I don't want just somebody to come to Thanksgiving with me,
• 36:29
  Speaker 2: that's insane. I wanted to be someone like that. I'm
• 36:32
  Speaker 2: really like, I want to present to my family, you know,
• 36:36
  Speaker 2: not just.
• 36:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know. I done had a couple of random
• 36:39
  Speaker 1: niggas that Thanksgiving before just because they didn't have no
• 36:41
  Speaker 1: place to go eat either, like come to my mama house.
• 36:44
  Speaker 1: And I wasn't even fucking with them like that.
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: But that's not the same though.
• 36:49
  Speaker 1: They wanted to fuck with me, but I wasn't fucking
• 36:51
  Speaker 1: with them, and that me inviting them to dinner at
• 36:54
  Speaker 1: my mom's house couldn't mean a lot to them. Yeah,
• 36:57
  Speaker 1: but nigga just come eat because I realized.
• 36:59
  Speaker 2: You what little do they know?
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: It's it's a suit case everybody and my mama generous.
• 37:09
  Speaker 1: You'll be a mama to everybody. Yeah, you'll have one.
• 37:13
  Speaker 1: Y'all need to be your mama.
• 37:15
  Speaker 2: So not you? Not you thinking you special? Don't think
• 37:19
  Speaker 2: it's somebody different over here every Sunday this big Mama's house.
• 37:24
  Speaker 1: But Retina Bay is an option, y'all know. They have
• 37:27
  Speaker 1: services like that. Y'all seen the niggas post it every
• 37:29
  Speaker 1: year too. Eight different packages. Have you know?
• 37:33
  Speaker 2: Have you seen online where they can AI boyfriend and
• 37:36
  Speaker 2: he'll come up and kiss you in a video? Is uh?
• 37:40
  Speaker 2: Where you can pay to have an AI boyfriend and
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: you like create a video of yourself and they'll have
• 37:47
  Speaker 2: him walk up and kiss you and like like so
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: you can post it for your social media or whatever.
• 37:55
  Speaker 2: And it's a fake boyfriend.
• 37:58
  Speaker 1: That is nuts? Where where are we going at with
• 38:01
  Speaker 1: the world.
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: I keep trying to promote that to me and I'm like,
• 38:03
  Speaker 2: how did this get in my algorithm? Because I'm not.
• 38:06
  Speaker 1: What though, I'm not that pressed put a nigga that
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: I got an AI nigga walking up and kissing me?
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: They do? They do be fine, but I'm not that pressed.
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: So winter blues equals cuddle effect. The cuddle effects so
• 38:25
  Speaker 1: colder weather, more nights in, less parties, less socializing, loneliness.
• 38:30
  Speaker 1: Plus the craving for physical comfort makes people prioritize companionship.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: So cuff and season thrives because it's not just about sex.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: It's about warmth, affection and having someone to binge watch
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: shows with. Okay, nobody wants to be out here paying
• 38:44
  Speaker 1: four hundred dollars heating bill and sleeping cold. Okay, get
• 38:49
  Speaker 1: you a man this winter.
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: Or a woman or whatever you like or whatever it is.
• 38:53
  Speaker 1: I'm always speaking from a woman's perspective. Some women don't
• 38:56
  Speaker 1: like man man.
• 38:58
  Speaker 2: I forgot.
• 38:58
  Speaker 1: I'm always speaking from a head or sexual woman perspectives. Yeah,
• 39:02
  Speaker 1: we add all of that shit in there. I'm always
• 39:04
  Speaker 1: speaking from a CIS perspective.
• 39:08
  Speaker 2: Cis. Yeah. So Valentine's Day is the deadline? Is that real? Yeah?
• 39:17
  Speaker 1: Like all of this is leading up to that. So
• 39:19
  Speaker 1: all of this is leading up to right these August September, right,
• 39:24
  Speaker 1: it is leading up to you having somebody for the
• 39:26
  Speaker 1: holidays and then Valentine's ultimately, like that should be your man,
• 39:31
  Speaker 1: your may a man by Valentine.
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: And then breakup by March.
• 39:35
  Speaker 1: You don't have to break up. That's a problem with
• 39:37
  Speaker 1: your young niggas.
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: But it's people couple up quickly during the winter, but
• 39:42
  Speaker 2: breakup Spike in March. April wants to March. April wants
• 39:47
  Speaker 2: the weather warms back up. Cuff and Season is basically
• 39:51
  Speaker 2: a trial relationship with an expiration date.
• 39:55
  Speaker 1: Interesting, I'm not participating in.
• 40:00
  Speaker 2: They say love contracts me expiring right after the super Bowl. Yeah,
• 40:05
  Speaker 2: because that's right after like Valentine's Day.
• 40:08
  Speaker 1: I don't know, so I didn't. I didn't think that
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: Cuff and Season. Oh maybe, I mean, yeah, seasons do
• 40:14
  Speaker 1: come to an end, right, But I thought it was
• 40:17
  Speaker 1: like to actually find somebody to just But really they
• 40:21
  Speaker 1: just want you to find somebody to lay up with the.
• 40:23
  Speaker 2: Whole time, and then it's back the whim whammy.
• 40:29
  Speaker 1: Whim whammy. I like that song. Put this whammy on him. Yes,
• 40:42
  Speaker 1: do you have any like real life draft stories, Like
• 40:44
  Speaker 1: have you ever actively, like intentionally try to set up
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: You said you got one person in the pocket right now?
• 40:52
  Speaker 1: I got two people, okay, two and impossible.
• 40:57
  Speaker 2: Impossible? I do I have two in impossible right now
• 41:01
  Speaker 2: quality quality guys right now.
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: Mm hmmm. No cuci given to either yet mm hmmm.
• 41:09
  Speaker 2: No. And one of them is actually older than me,
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: I know when whammy, Oh shit, I know that's not
• 41:22
  Speaker 2: normal for me.
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: So by what four months?
• 41:25
  Speaker 2: No, he's a few years older than me. What, Yes,
• 41:29
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 41:31
  Speaker 1: We're swapping right. Listen to the other you were young places.
• 41:36
  Speaker 2: Oh I'm talking about you young right. Well, one of
• 41:39
  Speaker 2: them is my like, right below my age, and the
• 41:42
  Speaker 2: other one.
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: Is like, guess a fucking childish. He like twelve years
• 41:47
  Speaker 1: younger than me. But he the one I like the most.
• 41:49
  Speaker 1: It's crazy right under my age. You're what whatever that is?
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: He said, We're right up under there?
• 42:03
  Speaker 2: Win though, because I mean, so everybody out here choosing,
• 42:08
  Speaker 2: like I imagine that even though these guys are pursuing me,
• 42:12
  Speaker 2: they might be pursuing other women at the same time.
• 42:14
  Speaker 2: You know, do you feel like you when you're dating
• 42:19
  Speaker 2: that man is only dating you. I would like to
• 42:24
  Speaker 2: think that, but you could never be sure.
• 42:26
  Speaker 1: You know, it just depends, you know what I'm saying, Like,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: people do find time to fuck off and do like
• 42:31
  Speaker 1: low bullshit. But and I'm never just trying to take
• 42:35
  Speaker 1: up all of somebody's time. I got shit to do too, right,
• 42:39
  Speaker 1: But I'll ask questions. I do want to know because
• 42:42
  Speaker 1: I usually if I'm entertaining somebody, I try to hone
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: in on that person. I don't really had an attention
• 42:47
  Speaker 1: span for multiple people now, So it's motherfucker's like, I
• 42:51
  Speaker 1: owe an apology to it right now because I ghost it.
• 42:54
  Speaker 1: And if you're listening, because I know you probably are,
• 42:56
  Speaker 1: am I bad. I'm just I can't do more one person.
• 43:00
  Speaker 1: I can't I cannot entertain. I can't talk to more
• 43:04
  Speaker 1: than one person at the same time. I pick a
• 43:07
  Speaker 1: person and then that's where I'll be and if it ends,
• 43:09
  Speaker 1: then you know I'll start all over.
• 43:12
  Speaker 2: So you know, I can entertain multiple guys. But once
• 43:17
  Speaker 2: I start uh busting and wide open, then I kind
• 43:20
  Speaker 2: of lock in on that one person. I can be
• 43:22
  Speaker 2: thinking about my kouchie and my brain and heart are
• 43:25
  Speaker 2: like on the string or something like that.
• 43:27
  Speaker 1: Yes, unless you're a prostitute, unless you're a call hopper,
• 43:30
  Speaker 1: like your kouchie run straight to your heart. So if
• 43:32
  Speaker 1: I let you hit this pussy like yeah.
• 43:35
  Speaker 2: Then now we locked in. And that's why I'll be
• 43:38
  Speaker 2: trying to take my time on that, because I know
• 43:41
  Speaker 2: you'll find yourself locked in with the wrong type of
• 43:43
  Speaker 2: nigga if you don't like vet these niggas.
• 43:46
  Speaker 1: Yeah for sure. Oh you ain't telling me nothing, y'all. Yeah,
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: it's all I've been doing my whole life, long ass
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: relationships with the wrong person, long ass relationships. Be mad
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: as tell at my dan so be hey, man, life
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: is lessons, that's all of this. So now you gotta
• 44:05
  Speaker 1: go through those things and know exactly what you want,
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: exactly what you don't want. But you're willing to tolerate
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: all the things, because that's all relationships is. There's how
• 44:14
  Speaker 1: much you could tolerate, tolerate from somebody else. That's it.
• 44:20
  Speaker 2: I find myself. But this year, one thing I'm not
• 44:22
  Speaker 2: gonna do that I always do is I be upset
• 44:26
  Speaker 2: on Valentine's Day and bitter. I'm not doing that this year.
• 44:30
  Speaker 2: This year, well next year when Valentine's Day comes around,
• 44:34
  Speaker 2: if I'm not with the guy, I'm not gonna be
• 44:37
  Speaker 2: like I remember one year I went nigga knocking on
• 44:41
  Speaker 2: people doing.
• 44:41
  Speaker 1: You're told me that you told us that you ain't
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: that crazy.
• 44:45
  Speaker 2: That is fucking that, y'all.
• 44:46
  Speaker 1: Let y'all.
• 44:49
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it's not anything saud a little Roman.
• 44:52
  Speaker 1: Oh, y'all Roman taking their Bucky's up.
• 44:59
  Speaker 2: Midstroke.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: That was so much fun, though, bitch probably think it's
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: her other nigga other do it vice versa.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: Right, I started right gonna lie but that, but that
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: is kind of nuts. So if I am still single,
• 45:14
  Speaker 2: which I doubt i'll be, I'll definitely channel my soft
• 45:19
  Speaker 2: girl era. If y'a ain't listening to that episode, y'all
• 45:22
  Speaker 2: should go back and listen. But I'm just gonna be
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: nice to myself and not mean to others. Amen, somebody,
• 45:29
  Speaker 2: yeah man?
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: Amen? So okay, I was me and one of my
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: girlfriends had a conversation and she was like, you know
• 45:41
  Speaker 1: what I like the next relationship I get in, Like
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: I'm really giving, it's gonna be based off like a
• 45:46
  Speaker 1: rewards system. Right, It's gonna be like crazy, give a
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: nigga credit card. Look, I even created I might post
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: it online. Let's see, does anybody need a rewards card
• 45:59
  Speaker 1: to pass us out to their possibles.
• 46:04
  Speaker 2: For this season? He get to stay up his loyalty card.
• 46:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, because I feel like, really, that's what you have
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: to do, so you can kind of keep track. You
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: could kind of keep tracked like it's not quiet. You
• 46:20
  Speaker 1: gotta keep track of the good deeds and the bad deeds,
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: like you just have to, because how else are you
• 46:25
  Speaker 1: gonna like? We need help picking obviously, right, because the
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: men love to tell us online how we picked the
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: wrong person, right, Not that we got bamboozled into picking
• 46:35
  Speaker 1: the wrong person. We just outright picked the wrong niggas.
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: So I guess all women always pick the wrong man,
• 46:42
  Speaker 1: or it's just the wrong man out here. I don't
• 46:44
  Speaker 1: know which one it is, but I want to help
• 46:46
  Speaker 1: the girlies try to pick the right one. So, yeah,
• 46:50
  Speaker 1: you gotta put these niggas on a point system. Now,
• 46:53
  Speaker 1: this thing, this actually says to the point system breakdown.
• 46:58
  Speaker 1: This one actually says answering what you're doing wyd within
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: ten minutes. Listen. If he's sending you too many wyds
• 47:06
  Speaker 1: with no real plans, that's negative five points. Yeah, automatic,
• 47:11
  Speaker 1: we're not entertaining wyds for cuffing season, all right. If
• 47:15
  Speaker 1: the man actually wants to see you, he will make
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: a plan to do so.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 47:19
  Speaker 1: If he's not making any plans, baby, stop responding to
• 47:22
  Speaker 1: them text messages. That should get annoying a nigga died
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: wyd you to death.
• 47:26
  Speaker 2: Let me tell you something I won't go for like
• 47:29
  Speaker 2: cause I you know, i'd be liking younger man. But if,
• 47:32
  Speaker 2: like if our first conversation, if they say type shit
• 47:35
  Speaker 2: more than twice, I'm not talking to you type shit.
• 47:40
  Speaker 2: If you say it more than two times, baby, Oh,
• 47:42
  Speaker 2: hold on my mama calling me. I'm gonna call you
• 47:44
  Speaker 2: right back, and I'll never call back cause I need you.
• 47:47
  Speaker 1: That's hyn lingo. Yeah, it's like who y in for me?
• 47:51
  Speaker 2: Like shit, I see you coming out to the gym.
• 47:53
  Speaker 2: You're looking fine as hell. Type shit. Boy, don't say
• 47:59
  Speaker 2: if you say it one time, okay, twice, I'd be
• 48:02
  Speaker 2: like boom, But if you say it more than twice,
• 48:04
  Speaker 2: you got.
• 48:04
  Speaker 1: To go type shit. I hate that all right, So
• 48:11
  Speaker 1: negative negative five points for wid text messages every time
• 48:14
  Speaker 1: he send one. You taking off five points to get
• 48:16
  Speaker 1: every nigga starts with a hundred. Okay, bringing snacks when
• 48:22
  Speaker 1: they come over, Like, I love a man who is thoughtful. Right,
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: So if I'm cooking, if I'm bring something a bottle
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: of yeah something, don't come. Don't ever go to a
• 48:35
  Speaker 1: woman's house empty handed.
• 48:36
  Speaker 2: I love when a man if he comes over and
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: he just take my trash out without having me to
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: ask him to do it. You just grab it out
• 48:43
  Speaker 2: the church can and take it. I hate if I
• 48:46
  Speaker 2: see my trash canting full and you sitting there and
• 48:48
  Speaker 2: you don't get up and try to take my trash.
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: Get your ass up and take my trash.
• 48:52
  Speaker 1: Shout, nigga yo, you chirpping see me. I'm trying to
• 48:55
  Speaker 1: take the trash out before company actually even get there,
• 48:58
  Speaker 1: like while we got trash in there.
• 49:00
  Speaker 2: No, I'm saying, not just when you first get there.
• 49:02
  Speaker 2: I mean like if a trash has accumulated while you've been.
• 49:06
  Speaker 1: Oh right, yes, what are you doing?
• 49:09
  Speaker 2: Right?
• 49:09
  Speaker 1: Take that with you. You're going outside, aren't you right?
• 49:12
  Speaker 2: Take it?
• 49:13
  Speaker 1: Yeah?
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: Don't and don't have me to ask. Yeah.
• 49:18
  Speaker 1: Ten points for that too, right, consistent, good morning text,
• 49:23
  Speaker 1: no skips, fifteen points all right, So every morning you're
• 49:27
  Speaker 1: the first person on his mind, even if he got
• 49:30
  Speaker 1: auto generated messages to five out the bitches. You want
• 49:32
  Speaker 1: the roster of him. Okay, he gets some points for that.
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: He's thinking about you. He's so considerate that he put
• 49:41
  Speaker 1: auto messages already in place for you.
• 49:43
  Speaker 2: Can you do that.
• 49:45
  Speaker 1: Yes, you can schedule text messages.
• 49:47
  Speaker 2: Oh I need to do that.
• 49:49
  Speaker 1: You're gonna send all your niggas good morning sunshine, the fuck.
• 49:53
  Speaker 2: Them NIGGAS'MU say my mom are really serious about her
• 49:56
  Speaker 2: good morning texts. I'm gonna make sure she get one
• 49:58
  Speaker 2: because she don't play about.
• 49:59
  Speaker 1: That, y'all like cat in heat. I'm sorry, dammy.
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: Did you hear her?
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: Uh huh okay, sorry, like going that money? Is that
• 50:10
  Speaker 1: you're a pussy you're talking about or because you look
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: it down you look at down between your legs and
• 50:16
  Speaker 1: you said about Caddy heat.
• 50:18
  Speaker 2: I'm like the.
• 50:19
  Speaker 1: Actual cat like, I don't know what she thinks my
• 50:22
  Speaker 1: feet can do for her, But baby, whatever freaky shit
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: you w into, I'm not with it.
• 50:25
  Speaker 2: She's she can watching you all weekend and now now
• 50:29
  Speaker 2: you talking about you, you are with it. I saw
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: you with it all weekend. Yo.
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: Uh staying the night and making the bed after oh
• 50:47
  Speaker 1: hot twenty get twenty points for that nice clean man
• 50:50
  Speaker 1: that smashed you all night. She'd take the sheet off
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: and put him in the wash machine. You get thirty
• 50:54
  Speaker 1: points for that.
• 50:57
  Speaker 2: I don't expect you to make the bed and she's
• 51:00
  Speaker 2: still still the last. I don't even I guess I
• 51:02
  Speaker 2: don't expect you to make my bed.
• 51:05
  Speaker 1: I don't either, because men can't even make the bed
• 51:06
  Speaker 1: not good. I don't know they do not make the bed. Well,
• 51:10
  Speaker 1: I'll let you, but I am just not coming.
• 51:12
  Speaker 2: Out my mind. My pillows need to be set up
• 51:13
  Speaker 2: a certain way, and you're just not gonna do that.
• 51:16
  Speaker 2: You just don't know how that needs to be done.
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: So just leave it alone.
• 51:19
  Speaker 1: Right, I'm gonna go ahead and make it up, but
• 51:21
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna make it up after you don't feel no
• 51:23
  Speaker 1: type of way. Yeah, so I'll give I'll give you
• 51:26
  Speaker 1: some points from making the beds up, remembering your favorite
• 51:32
  Speaker 1: show and watching it together.
• 51:34
  Speaker 2: I love that. That's a love language for me.
• 51:36
  Speaker 1: Okay, so you get twenty five points for that.
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: I love a nigga who love a movie. If a
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: nigga be like I don't watch TV like that and
• 51:44
  Speaker 2: my mama calling me, I'm gonna call you right back.
• 51:46
  Speaker 2: What I don't watch TV like that? So that wouldn't
• 51:52
  Speaker 2: be like, yeah you get that, you get that message? Yeah,
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: my mama call it. We texted what do you me
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: and your mom wall call it. I'm not talking to you, no,
• 51:59
  Speaker 2: more because I love a movie.
• 52:02
  Speaker 1: Driving across town in traffic just to chill.
• 52:06
  Speaker 2: Ummm, unless we got a confortable and we're on the
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: ocean line and we're gonna see like scenic shit. I
• 52:14
  Speaker 2: don't like being in the car.
• 52:16
  Speaker 1: Thirty points supposedly for that. I mean just to chill. No,
• 52:21
  Speaker 1: but like if we're gonna go, like do a nice
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: thing like this weekend we went to.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: If a nigga driving you across town just to chill,
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: he might be dropping off the work girl, be careful
• 52:31
  Speaker 2: with him. Don't trust it.
• 52:38
  Speaker 1: Shave you a decoy so the police don't look so hard.
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Now you're in a shootout, mistaken identity, posting a soft launch,
• 52:51
  Speaker 1: the hand, the drink, the shadow pick. Don't post me
• 52:55
  Speaker 1: before I post you? No, but do I care? I
• 52:58
  Speaker 1: don't hear. I don't care, but don't have the expectation
• 53:03
  Speaker 1: of me also posting you.
• 53:06
  Speaker 2: Don't post me till our way and day because I
• 53:08
  Speaker 2: ain't posting you to mine. I might show a watch,
• 53:12
  Speaker 2: a watch.
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: Or a foot a ring engagement.
• 53:16
  Speaker 2: Oh yeah, I'll do that, but I'm not posting the
• 53:18
  Speaker 2: old nigga because I always we know some holes lurking
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: like ooh, I want that. That's how you be probably Ooh,
• 53:27
  Speaker 2: I want that. I do want that, but not with
• 53:30
  Speaker 2: your nigga. I want my own nigga. But it beholds
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: that be wanting yours just because it's you.
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I never liked when I was engaged. I didn't.
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: I didn't really post like an engagement type thing. I
• 53:42
  Speaker 1: remember I posted one picture it was him and I
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: and I just had to ring on in the picture
• 53:46
  Speaker 1: like hand just but I never went online to say
• 53:51
  Speaker 1: I said I do and all that weird chit, and
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: one of my friends at the time told me is
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: not real unless I post.
• 53:56
  Speaker 2: It, that's not true.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: I'm like, what can I? I mean, I didn't get
• 54:01
  Speaker 1: married though. That was the fucking poster, right, she.
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: Put an omen over your shit. Yeah, I just think that.
• 54:11
  Speaker 2: I don't. I don't like public displays of affection on
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: like social media. Yeah, like social media, I don't like
• 54:22
  Speaker 2: to do that.
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: I don't want to because in the actual public I'd
• 54:25
  Speaker 1: be all over a nigga.
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but on social media, I don't want to do
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: that just because if it don't work in my head,
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: if it don't work out, now, everybody want an explanation,
• 54:34
  Speaker 2: what happened. Why a you gonna take all these pictures down?
• 54:37
  Speaker 2: And I'm emotional. If we get into a bad fight,
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: You'll come all the way off, you know, just because
• 54:43
  Speaker 2: I'm mad at the time. And then next week we
• 54:45
  Speaker 2: I'm back cool, and now I got to unarchive all
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: these pictures. I ain't got time for me.
• 54:48
  Speaker 1: Right, I mean, I literally have deleted my entire social media.
• 54:52
  Speaker 1: I was off of social media from twenty twelve to
• 54:55
  Speaker 1: twenty sixteen because of that, because of deleting, you know,
• 55:00
  Speaker 1: breaking up and niggas started deleting, deleting our pictures off
• 55:05
  Speaker 1: of his social media, and I started deleting him, and
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: I'm like, this is hurting my feelings, deleting these pictures. Yeah,
• 55:13
  Speaker 1: because in his mind he just didn't want nobody to
• 55:15
  Speaker 1: know who he was in a relationship with. But now
• 55:18
  Speaker 1: you you started it. You started with the post and shit,
• 55:21
  Speaker 1: I didn't, Okay, I didn't start that shit.
• 55:25
  Speaker 2: You. I added my ex recently on Facebook because I
• 55:30
  Speaker 2: kept seeing like, I kept seeing him. He's still friends
• 55:33
  Speaker 2: with my family and stuff like that. I'm still friends
• 55:35
  Speaker 2: with him. So I was like, fucking, I'll ad him.
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: And I looked at his page and he's married to
• 55:40
  Speaker 2: get he's married now to someone else and they have
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: hid and my pictures are still on his page.
• 55:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah, some people don't delete. It is a part of
• 55:51
  Speaker 1: their timeline. Literally, That's what I'm saying. Like, when my
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: ex said that shit like you deleted our pictures, I
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: felt like you were deleting those moments because why did
• 55:59
  Speaker 1: you ever and post them? And then you don't even
• 56:01
  Speaker 1: have these pictures no more? They literally lived on social media.
• 56:04
  Speaker 2: When I with me and my nigga. If you don't
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: get this bitch off your page, why do you still
• 56:10
  Speaker 2: have this bitch on your page. There's a new sheriff
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: in town. Take her down the fuck.
• 56:16
  Speaker 1: I don't care about shit like that. I don't.
• 56:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you ain't gonna have your ex.
• 56:22
  Speaker 1: So how many points a nigga losing If you're digging
• 56:23
  Speaker 1: somebody and you go on this page and he still
• 56:25
  Speaker 1: got his ex girlfriend up there.
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: If we're like together together now, I'm a request that
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: he deleted them. I'm not gonna expect him to know
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: that that's a requirement for me, but I will ask
• 56:37
  Speaker 2: that he deletes them. And if he doesn't, like, oh,
• 56:39
  Speaker 2: I don't want to delete them, then I don't feel
• 56:42
  Speaker 2: like you still attached to that person, like you're not
• 56:45
  Speaker 2: ready for this relationship if you still like cause I
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: got like I got a dick pic folder. When I
• 56:52
  Speaker 2: get a man, I'm a hide it in the calculator.
• 56:55
  Speaker 1: But you.
• 57:01
  Speaker 2: Just appease me. That's all I'm saying. Like you got
• 57:04
  Speaker 2: to really get rid of their bitch, just hide it.
• 57:07
  Speaker 1: I made a mistake once to telling the nigga that
• 57:09
  Speaker 1: I had a video of somebody eating my pussy in
• 57:11
  Speaker 1: my phone. Boy, he was so livid. And it's not
• 57:14
  Speaker 1: that it was just there. I knew it was there
• 57:16
  Speaker 1: somewhere where it was in the phone. I wasn't sure
• 57:18
  Speaker 1: at that time. You know what I'm saying. I knew
• 57:21
  Speaker 1: I never deleted it though. Man, he was upset about
• 57:24
  Speaker 1: that ship ups that nigga was about to.
• 57:28
  Speaker 2: Put your hand between the Washington drying Yes.
• 57:32
  Speaker 1: So maybe all right, yeah, maybe you gotta get rid
• 57:38
  Speaker 1: of that stuff, man, Yeah, you get rid of it.
• 57:42
  Speaker 1: I think I think I'm gonna get me a new
• 57:43
  Speaker 1: number this time. I think I might change my cell
• 57:46
  Speaker 1: phone number I have. I have had the same number
• 57:48
  Speaker 1: this one since I was eighteen, same phone number. Like
• 57:52
  Speaker 1: I'm accessible. I don't want to be accessible no more. Yeah,
• 57:56
  Speaker 1: I don't want no problems, bitch none.
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: I just locked a bunch of people.
• 58:03
  Speaker 1: With no problems. Uh, surviving Thanksgiving dinner with the family
• 58:07
  Speaker 1: fifty points. I feel like that's easy.
• 58:09
  Speaker 2: With my family though, they would just be so happy
• 58:12
  Speaker 2: for me to bring a nigga. They would be like
• 58:13
  Speaker 2: so nice to him, they'd just be happy to have
• 58:16
  Speaker 2: I guess.
• 58:18
  Speaker 1: It'd be my sister drunk ass got a million and
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: one questions for a nigga, and she's still gonna be fun.
• 58:25
  Speaker 1: You know what I'm saying. That's still gonna be fun. Uh.
• 58:30
  Speaker 1: Magic pajama photo for Christmas? You get seventy five points
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: for that.
• 58:34
  Speaker 2: Yeah, you get a hundred points for that with me
• 58:36
  Speaker 2: because I've been waiting on that for a long time.
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: And Valentine's dinner reservation with flowers a hundred points.
• 58:44
  Speaker 2: Yeah, both of those that undone for me. Yes, But
• 58:52
  Speaker 2: it's all crazy because these last Valentine's I could have
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: like gone out with a guy, but I didn't want
• 58:58
  Speaker 2: to because it would have been fake.
• 59:01
  Speaker 1: Yeah, you want to go with somebody who actually like
• 59:04
  Speaker 1: and you're gonna get dicked down afterwards, like I don't
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: want to just go because I don't want to be
• 59:08
  Speaker 1: by myself. Yeah, I'm still gonna let you smash. I'm
• 59:12
  Speaker 1: still not getting Dick on Valentine right.
• 59:14
  Speaker 2: So so so.
• 59:18
  Speaker 1: Bronze Tear this is one in three months. Okay, this
• 59:21
  Speaker 1: is the Bronze Terror loyalty program.
• 59:24
  Speaker 2: Uh.
• 59:25
  Speaker 1: You get answered texts, occasional leftovers, shared next Netflix passwords
• 59:31
  Speaker 1: and the restrictions for this particular package. No holidays, no
• 59:36
  Speaker 1: Instagram tags, no meet the Pearans.
• 59:39
  Speaker 2: I gave somebody my HBO Max password and then he
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: kissed me off, and then I went and changed the
• 59:45
  Speaker 2: password and he gonna message me. He's like, you changed
• 59:49
  Speaker 2: your HBO Max. I'm like, you can't log in.
• 59:57
  Speaker 1: Edie you Patty and Hell. I still got my homegirl
• 1:00:01
  Speaker 1: HBO Max, who I haven't spoken to her months because
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 1: we haven't beefing, But she still got my Disney so
• 1:00:06
  Speaker 1: we haven't removed each other.
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: If you're not gonna be having a bit chump in
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: your house watching Game of Thrones on my HBO, you've
• 1:00:14
  Speaker 2: been a good hell loggin right.
• 1:00:18
  Speaker 1: Silver Tear this is three to five months benefits, weekend sleepovers,
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: rides to the airport. That's love. Okay, your favorite snacks
• 1:00:26
  Speaker 1: and their fridge restrictions. Still no family introductions. Valentine Day
• 1:00:32
  Speaker 1: is to be determined, okay, gold teer. This is six
• 1:00:38
  Speaker 1: months plus benefits, magic pajamas with Christmas picks, family holiday dinners,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: birthday acknowledgments, restrictions, risk of being cut once spring starts
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: like you still on a chopping block. And this is
• 1:00:54
  Speaker 1: Platinum Tear. Platinum Taar is the all star cuff and
• 1:00:57
  Speaker 1: season loyalty rewards. So the benefits are keys to the apartment, bitch,
• 1:01:03
  Speaker 1: I'm ready to cut a pair of keys right now,
• 1:01:05
  Speaker 1: really to them damn kids to the apartment, shared Uber
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 1: eats account, maybe even a vacation trip. Restrictions me expired
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: when the weather breaks and the streets reopened.
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 2: I ain't never been ready to give a nigga a key, never, ever,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 2: never a key. I remember somebody asked me for a
• 1:01:30
  Speaker 2: key one time, and I was like, I started hypervillion
• 1:01:32
  Speaker 2: late and I was like, what does she talk about?
• 1:01:38
  Speaker 1: Was he paying some bills?
• 1:01:39
  Speaker 2: Yeah, he paid the rent.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 1: I got herd on the nigga.
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: Why you need to keep them by shit? It's crazy.
• 1:01:54
  Speaker 1: Like cause it's kind of like both of ours that's
• 1:01:56
  Speaker 1: like asking for my passwords to my phone. Why you
• 1:01:59
  Speaker 1: need right won't be able to pull up? When the
• 1:02:02
  Speaker 1: why would you need to get in here without my
• 1:02:04
  Speaker 1: ex like, I'll let you in. Maybe you want to
• 1:02:11
  Speaker 1: surprise you, Maybe you want access to come and you
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 1: come home like flowers everywhere, all that good stuff. Coordinate
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 1: with my mama, Coordinate with my homegirl, Coordinate with my sister.
• 1:02:21
  Speaker 2: Got a key, ask put the flowers in? This bitch?
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 1: Is you crazy?
• 1:02:29
  Speaker 2: Shame? But you don't live here?
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 1: Huh?
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: If you don't live in this motherfucker, I don't see
• 1:02:35
  Speaker 2: why you wouldn't need a key. No.
• 1:02:36
  Speaker 1: I never give no keys out in real life unless
• 1:02:39
  Speaker 1: the man is living there, right. I think the only
• 1:02:41
  Speaker 1: person who ever had a key tell place I lived
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: is my ex fiance and my ex ex ex ex
• 1:02:47
  Speaker 1: boyfriend from when I was in my twenties. He definitely
• 1:02:50
  Speaker 1: had a key to my fucking house. Nigga locked me
• 1:02:52
  Speaker 1: out my own house. I got home and all you
• 1:02:55
  Speaker 1: could hear through the window was was it yous a hole?
• 1:03:01
  Speaker 1: Or it was like some song like it was either ludicrous,
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 1: it was like some whole song like he was like,
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 1: had I already went through all my shit in my
• 1:03:10
  Speaker 1: house is essentially what happened. And I get home from
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 1: work and now he's not opening the fucking door. Maybe
• 1:03:16
  Speaker 1: he didn't have a key. Maybe I just left him
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 1: with the key. Maybe he didn't have a key at
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 1: the time, but eventually he definitely had a key in
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 1: my place. But ye had a nigga win come to
• 1:03:25
  Speaker 1: the door. He like, blasted music. I get in there.
• 1:03:27
  Speaker 1: He got my fucking college trunk open. Bitch, you know
• 1:03:30
  Speaker 1: how much stuff. I still got that trunk right now
• 1:03:32
  Speaker 1: in my other bedroom. You know how much shit in there.
• 1:03:36
  Speaker 1: A whole bunch of shit. My life is in that trunk.
• 1:03:39
  Speaker 1: And imagine somebody just really violating his shit and going through. Yeah,
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 1: he found my very short list. It was mad because
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 1: his name was the first name on the list. I'm like,
• 1:03:51
  Speaker 1: because you're not the first person that had sex with fuck,
• 1:03:53
  Speaker 1: why would your p up at the top of the list.
• 1:03:55
  Speaker 1: And it's not based off of performance either, it's just
• 1:04:01
  Speaker 1: the chronological Mayyo. Business ain't for.
• 1:04:07
  Speaker 2: Your eyes, right, you shouldn't have been in my chest anyway, nigga, Yeah.
• 1:04:11
  Speaker 1: Who does that? I don't like that, man. I don't
• 1:04:13
  Speaker 1: go through people shit. I do not go through. That's
• 1:04:16
  Speaker 1: one thing I'm not going to body and my ship.
• 1:04:18
  Speaker 2: I had to. I learned the hard way.
• 1:04:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah I'm hurting my own ship. Yeah yeah, I would
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 1: to have a good day. I would have good days, Like,
• 1:04:27
  Speaker 1: who the fuck wake up? That's the toxic shit who
• 1:04:31
  Speaker 1: wakes up to ruin their own day? Can you the
• 1:04:33
  Speaker 1: man or woman? You will find some shit don't got
• 1:04:35
  Speaker 1: nothing to do with your eyes exactly, and you create
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 1: a whole scenario around it to create a problem with
• 1:04:40
  Speaker 1: your significant other.
• 1:04:42
  Speaker 2: I hate a bitch that'll go on vacation and go
• 1:04:44
  Speaker 2: on a nigga phone while y'all on vacation.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 1: You're a weird though.
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: Why are you doing that?
• 1:04:49
  Speaker 1: Like it's a weird nigga? Can't he never relax?
• 1:04:52
  Speaker 2: You know? He?
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 1: Fucking bitches right? You wouldn't be looking up trip right here?
• 1:04:56
  Speaker 1: This is a makeup trip, bitch. Okay, he's booked this
• 1:04:59
  Speaker 1: trip because he don this fucked up shit to you.
• 1:05:01
  Speaker 1: And now here you are and you're ruining the makeup trip.
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: What at least wait you there? How are you gonna
• 1:05:07
  Speaker 2: ruin vacation? I hate that. That's so dumb, baby.
• 1:05:10
  Speaker 1: Put it a bitch messaging you from vacation before. Yeah,
• 1:05:15
  Speaker 1: by her nigga, I ain't know, I ain't know that
• 1:05:17
  Speaker 1: was your man.
• 1:05:18
  Speaker 2: She posted me on her story and everything. She's like
• 1:05:21
  Speaker 2: this another one right here. I was like, now see
• 1:05:24
  Speaker 2: how I get in it?
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 1: All right, y'all. So that's cuff and season. Kay, So
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 1: hopefully y'all got some takeaways from this episode. Put these
• 1:05:41
  Speaker 1: niggas on the rewards program. Men. Put these women on
• 1:05:44
  Speaker 1: a rewards program, a loyalty program, right, add it up,
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 1: tally it.
• 1:05:48
  Speaker 2: Up, do all the things ship.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, wean them out, wean them out and get you
• 1:05:54
  Speaker 1: one good one or maybe two good ones.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: Okay, I think you know, like start with two and
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: then made the best man or woman win, you know.
• 1:06:03
  Speaker 1: Period yeah, period, period, period.
• 1:06:07
  Speaker 2: Any last last? That was your last last?
• 1:06:09
  Speaker 1: Yep, that's my last last?
• 1:06:11
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