Latest / Business Roundtable / Building Leaders Worth Following with Jeremie Kubicek
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- 0:13Speaker 1: All right, welcome back to the Business Roundtable podcast. My
- 0:17Speaker 1: name is David Carr, founder of Steward Your Business here
- 0:20Speaker 1: with Jeremy Kouba Check. I'm super excited to have Jeremy here.
- 0:24Speaker 1: I've known Jeremy, he's the co founder of Giant for
- 0:27Speaker 1: a number of years. Welcome to the podcast. Jeremy.
- 0:30Speaker 2: Good see David. I love your music Divide. Let's go, Man.
- 0:37Speaker 3: Oh Man. So glad to have you here.
- 0:39Speaker 1: For those of you that have are listening, you've probably
- 0:42Speaker 1: heard me talk about some of these tools, Giant, five Voices,
- 0:46Speaker 1: five years, a whole bunch of these things over the
- 0:48Speaker 1: course of many podcast episodes. And I'm super excited to
- 0:51Speaker 1: have Jeremy here because he has been an influence of
- 0:54Speaker 1: my own leadership journey over the last few years, being
- 0:57Speaker 1: a Giant certified guide going back to twenty two twenty three,
- 1:00Speaker 1: and just being a part of a great community really
- 1:03Speaker 1: creating a multiplying effect. So super excited to get into
- 1:07Speaker 1: it with you here, Jeremy. You now have been an
- 1:09Speaker 1: author of a number of books, one hundred x Leader,
- 1:12Speaker 1: five Voices with Steve Cochran and now the Voice Driven Leader.
- 1:15Speaker 1: We're going to get into today share a little bit
- 1:18Speaker 1: about among other things, but I always love folks to
- 1:22Speaker 1: hear a little bit in your own words, Jeremy, your
- 1:24Speaker 1: kind of story about why you're at doing what you're
- 1:27Speaker 1: doing here from marketing and entrepreneurship kind of where you
- 1:31Speaker 1: work with John Maxwell. If you wouldn't mind just taking
- 1:34Speaker 1: our listeners back a little bit about your journey as
- 1:37Speaker 1: a business owner and a leader.
- 1:39Speaker 2: Yeah, I mean, thanks for having me and thanks for that.
- 1:42Speaker 2: So yeah, for those interested. When I was twenty one
- 1:45Speaker 2: years old, I moved from to all places. I moved
- 1:48Speaker 2: to Moscow, Russia, and it was right after the fall
- 1:51Speaker 2: of Communism, and I started economic school. It's the largest
- 1:55Speaker 2: private school in Russia. Day started an accounting training company
- 2:01Speaker 2: and a marketing consulting business and with a team, and
- 2:05Speaker 2: we had a team, and so what happened. It was early.
- 2:08Speaker 2: It was like Chicago in the thirties. I had a
- 2:11Speaker 2: client assassinated. We were in a coup attempt. We lived
- 2:14Speaker 2: at Bobb, a mafia group.
- 2:16Speaker 3: So my first book became a bestseller.
- 2:18Speaker 2: It's called Leadership Is Dead. It was a Wall Street
- 2:20Speaker 2: Journal bestseller because of all the mafia stories probably in it,
- 2:23Speaker 2: and people it was just a fascinating period of time.
- 2:26Speaker 2: But what happened was I got to watch I studied
- 2:31Speaker 2: Russian history from World War two, their view of World
- 2:34Speaker 2: War two and versus the American view of World War
- 2:37Speaker 2: two fascinating and got to another perspective. Butt end of
- 2:41Speaker 2: the day, I had this big epiphany of watching what
- 2:46Speaker 2: seventy years of communism did to the people, and I
- 2:49Speaker 2: got to be with the people, and it realized that
- 2:52Speaker 2: it was a dominating culture of control and it led
- 2:56Speaker 2: to apathy and abdication. It didn't lead to empowerment, it
- 3:00Speaker 2: didn't lead to liberation. And so I started creating like
- 3:03Speaker 2: the support Challenge Matrix, one of our tools, and that
- 3:06Speaker 2: came the liberation domination concept. And I started just thinking
- 3:10Speaker 2: about people. And with me, I always think of three categories.
- 3:15Speaker 2: I think of Businesses are aligned around strategy, what's your
- 3:19Speaker 2: business plan, financial plan, how do you make money? And
- 3:23Speaker 2: then your people your talent and you have them. It's
- 3:26Speaker 2: a very crude, simple version of business. But you think
- 3:29Speaker 2: of those three areas. You think, well, if you have
- 3:31Speaker 2: a business plan and money and then you hope you
- 3:34Speaker 2: find good people, what does that do for you? Or
- 3:37Speaker 2: if you have money and people but no plan, or
- 3:40Speaker 2: if you have a plan and people but no money,
- 3:43Speaker 2: you have to have all three.
- 3:44Speaker 3: They all have to go together, right.
- 3:46Speaker 2: So I came out of that situation at a very
- 3:49Speaker 2: young age with a.
- 3:50Speaker 3: Different perspective than most people did. And then I went on.
- 3:54Speaker 2: And what's hard to explain is I my dad said,
- 3:59Speaker 2: in your twenty it's not what you do, is who
- 4:01Speaker 2: you work for that's most important. So I found a
- 4:04Speaker 2: liberator and I worked for this guy named Can Humphreys,
- 4:06Speaker 2: and he shaped me and changed me. And then he
- 4:10Speaker 2: sold and I worked for the private equity group and
- 4:12Speaker 2: they were a dominator group, not a liberator group. But
- 4:15Speaker 2: I go to experience good and bad from both sides,
- 4:19Speaker 2: and we bought. I was a part of acquisition team.
- 4:21Speaker 2: We bought seventeen companies in three years. I started three
- 4:24Speaker 2: dot coms. So by the time I was thirty, I
- 4:27Speaker 2: think i'd started I don't know five six companies had bought,
- 4:34Speaker 2: you know, as a part of private equity for a
- 4:36Speaker 2: number of years, and.
- 4:37Speaker 3: I'd just done a lot at that age.
- 4:40Speaker 2: So that gave me a very perspective as an ambitious
- 4:45Speaker 2: business person.
- 4:47Speaker 3: This whole framework of the importance of all three you.
- 4:49Speaker 2: Have to have a business model, you have to have
- 4:51Speaker 2: a financial plan, you have to have a people development system.
- 4:55Speaker 2: And then as I started to build a growth advisory
- 4:58Speaker 2: business called Giant Growth Consulting Firm, that's what we started
- 5:02Speaker 2: coaching people on and we realized that it's easy to
- 5:06Speaker 2: get a business plan, and it's easy to have a
- 5:08Speaker 2: financial plan, easier to get work, get in a room
- 5:12Speaker 2: and think about it with some smart people. But the
- 5:15Speaker 2: hardest thing is people. And people always screw up the
- 5:18Speaker 2: business plan, They always screw up the financials in some way.
- 5:22Speaker 2: And so if you don't get ahead of it, if
- 5:25Speaker 2: you don't think strategically about people and talent and building
- 5:28Speaker 2: your bench, they'll always undermine your plans. And so that
- 5:35Speaker 2: shifted me to overemphasize people development because it's very easy
- 5:40Speaker 2: to do some of these other tasks.
- 5:43Speaker 3: So that a long answer, Yeah, no.
- 5:44Speaker 1: That's that's great, and I think it's important for our
- 5:46Speaker 1: listeners to hear you guys. So Jeremy has a long
- 5:49Speaker 1: history here working with companies, getting them up and running
- 5:53Speaker 1: and is seeing where the challenges are. And I think, Jeremy,
- 5:55Speaker 1: what I've I've seen you and why I love having
- 5:57Speaker 1: you on the podcast is because the business owners want
- 5:59Speaker 1: to to go to those they I don't know for
- 6:01Speaker 1: what reason. At times they I mean, we can get
- 6:03Speaker 1: into this a little bit, but they are like, well,
- 6:05Speaker 1: I don't want to touch the people issue. Let's just
- 6:07Speaker 1: do an their system or a process or another plan.
- 6:09Speaker 1: And it's like the value that they'll get from investing
- 6:13Speaker 1: and building what you've done through the culture is there's
- 6:16Speaker 1: much more dividends, there's much more benefit of the long haul.
- 6:20Speaker 1: But that does take some intentionality, which we'll get into today.
- 6:23Speaker 1: And I think where we see the business owners and
- 6:25Speaker 1: the businesses that are actually winning in the long haul
- 6:28Speaker 1: of how they've incorporated that. And I know Giant has
- 6:30Speaker 1: done empowering guides like myself and working with big, well
- 6:34Speaker 1: known companies and how they differentiate themselves, particularly today with
- 6:38Speaker 1: technology and other things out there. How do you differentiate
- 6:40Speaker 1: yourself in the marketplace? It is the people, right.
- 6:43Speaker 3: It is.
- 6:44Speaker 2: And so I went on and we bought John Maxwell's
- 6:47Speaker 2: assets and then verge them into Giant, and then we
- 6:50Speaker 2: partnered with people like Pat Lancioni and Hinry Cloud and
- 6:54Speaker 2: all these great thought leaders and they're amazing people, that
- 6:56Speaker 2: really are, and we started helping them build their businesses
- 7:00Speaker 2: and scale. But we kept running into another issue, which
- 7:05Speaker 2: is how people learn. And we started seeing the twentieth
- 7:08Speaker 2: century model in the twenty first century model. And I
- 7:11Speaker 2: used to run these brands, the Catalyst Conferences, Leader Casts,
- 7:16Speaker 2: some of the largest leadership events in the world for
- 7:19Speaker 2: that period of time. And it was bothering me because
- 7:23Speaker 2: it was like, Okay, we're one and done. Everything in
- 7:25Speaker 2: the past was butts and seats, selling books, so people
- 7:29Speaker 2: would learn from events and books. They don't learn that
- 7:32Speaker 2: way in the twenty first century. Everything is visual and
- 7:36Speaker 2: the next generation they learned through YouTube videos. They learned
- 7:39Speaker 2: through watching and observing and conversations. So Steve and I
- 7:45Speaker 2: formed a partnership and we said, let's go after changing
- 7:48Speaker 2: the way people development happens. But it has to start
- 7:52Speaker 2: with a mindset from the owner the leader to start
- 7:56Speaker 2: treating people as an asset, not a liability. And so
- 8:01Speaker 2: and then and then there was another misnomber that happened
- 8:04Speaker 2: in the Good to Great book, which is awesome, and
- 8:07Speaker 2: Jim Collins is a friend we used to work with Jim.
- 8:10Speaker 2: Jim was awesome and that book was one of the
- 8:14Speaker 2: most it still is one of.
- 8:15Speaker 3: The best books.
- 8:17Speaker 2: But in the book, he makes this comment of like
- 8:19Speaker 2: get the right people on the bus, right, that's it,
- 8:23Speaker 2: get the right people on the bus.
- 8:24Speaker 3: So even like in EOS.
- 8:26Speaker 2: Or some other places, people have this misnumber of like,
- 8:29Speaker 2: well we just got to get the right people. Just
- 8:31Speaker 2: just hire and find the right people.
- 8:32Speaker 3: We'll find them.
- 8:34Speaker 2: And I'm like, yeah, yeah, yeah, I mean like that's great, yes, yes,
- 8:39Speaker 2: but that's like that's just the beginning. It's like, how
- 8:44Speaker 2: do we pull they bring their culture into your culture
- 8:48Speaker 2: good and be a great person and be a know
- 8:52Speaker 2: it all and completely disrupt your team and your culture.
- 8:56Speaker 2: So it's not just get the right people, but actually
- 8:59Speaker 2: develop those people into your culture, your systems, your standards
- 9:03Speaker 2: so that they bring their best into your best. So
- 9:06Speaker 2: let's not just find good people and it all works out.
- 9:09Speaker 2: And I think that's this number for a lot of entrepreneurs.
- 9:12Speaker 1: No, I agree, And as I talked to you know, Jeremy,
- 9:16Speaker 1: I talked to executive recruiters, talent sourcers, right, They're like,
- 9:20Speaker 1: I can find you some great people, but what's your culture?
- 9:23Speaker 1: How are you integrating them into what you have? And
- 9:25Speaker 1: a lot of companies I hear them say, we struggle
- 9:27Speaker 1: with the success of those people staying with those companies
- 9:30Speaker 1: and they're great people that we recruited them. There was
- 9:33Speaker 1: there was an intention of like how do we integrate
- 9:35Speaker 1: them over the long haul? And even you and I
- 9:39Speaker 1: know and in businesses, when you come in in a
- 9:41Speaker 1: certain role too, hopefully the good business is growing and developing.
- 9:45Speaker 1: That means your role and responsibilities are going to likely
- 9:47Speaker 1: shift as the company shifts and grows. And if you
- 9:50Speaker 1: don't know how to do that, well, we start to
- 9:53Speaker 1: live in an like use an unhealthy culture is what
- 9:55Speaker 1: I've seen. Or people just want to hold into the
- 9:58Speaker 1: little spaces or I know this this control and it
- 10:00Speaker 1: doesn't have it doesn't create a space where people want
- 10:04Speaker 1: to come and be a part of over the long haul.
- 10:06Speaker 3: That's it.
- 10:07Speaker 2: Yes, So then it is this, it's the idea of assimilation.
- 10:14Speaker 2: So finding talent and assimilating them and then leveraging them
- 10:20Speaker 2: to become the most effective they possibly can. So I
- 10:24Speaker 2: had the privilege of also working in the sports world,
- 10:26Speaker 2: and I worked with a lot of college athletes and
- 10:31Speaker 2: a lot of coaches, and then I've worked with some
- 10:34Speaker 2: coaches at Alabama, University of Oklahoma, we work with Florida
- 10:37Speaker 2: State lots of other places, Assissippi State, and we're constantly
- 10:42Speaker 2: training the coaches on the concept of what is culture
- 10:47Speaker 2: and culture is atmosphere, and you can't bring in a
- 10:51Speaker 2: disruptive player can disrupt the atmosphere very very quickly.
- 10:56Speaker 3: So the culture dynamics.
- 10:58Speaker 2: And I'll also brag on my team, the Oklahoma City Thunder,
- 11:02Speaker 2: Oklahoma City Thunder basketball team that I'm from, you know,
- 11:05Speaker 2: but they've done such a good job on culture building
- 11:09Speaker 2: because they understand the locker room and the practice mindset
- 11:12Speaker 2: and the locker room mindset and then will show up
- 11:15Speaker 2: on the game day mindset. And so if you're listening
- 11:20Speaker 2: to this and you're like, you know, yeah, tell me more,
- 11:24Speaker 2: what we're saying is you have to apprentice talent, you
- 11:28Speaker 2: have to develop talent, and you're constantly working themselves up.
- 11:33Speaker 2: I have a good friend who is on the board
- 11:35Speaker 2: of Quick Trip and their gas station chain. They're like
- 11:39Speaker 2: the Chick fil A of gas stations, and they have
- 11:44Speaker 2: this phrase, a leader readiness Trump's opportunity, and so they
- 11:48Speaker 2: won't open a new location until they have their too
- 11:51Speaker 2: deep of their teams, their first and second line have
- 11:58Speaker 2: to be fully developed and fully ready to be able
- 12:00Speaker 2: to start a newation. So and so how do they
- 12:05Speaker 2: train people? Well, they have this massive org chart and
- 12:07Speaker 2: they are constantly like, hey, let's move David.
- 12:10Speaker 3: He might be a CFO candidate. Let's give him one
- 12:13Speaker 3: year over here. So they move him over here for
- 12:14Speaker 3: a year.
- 12:15Speaker 2: Then they move you over here, so you get all
- 12:17Speaker 2: of this experience to get you ready because they're developing
- 12:21Speaker 2: four or five, six, seven layers deep for their future growth.
- 12:27Speaker 1: Yep.
- 12:28Speaker 2: The problem with most business owners and leaders is they're
- 12:32Speaker 2: so in the weeds. And I get it, but I've
- 12:35Speaker 2: started thirty something companies. I'm like, I understand, there are
- 12:40Speaker 2: you know, just getting in the weeds. You've got to
- 12:42Speaker 2: make the donuts. You've got client issues, you've got lawyers,
- 12:47Speaker 2: you've got accounts, you get your reports, you've got your
- 12:49Speaker 2: all the things you've got to start. And then once
- 12:51Speaker 2: you do start, then you've got the minutia of every day.
- 12:54Speaker 2: You might have issues at home. All these things affect
- 12:57Speaker 2: to you. But what typically gets taken off the priority
- 13:02Speaker 2: list is the development of the people. Yes, and that's
- 13:06Speaker 2: what we're really really focusing on in this next season
- 13:09Speaker 2: within Giant, even deeper than we were out.
- 13:13Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 13:13Speaker 1: Well, and I love Jeremy speak a little bit about this.
- 13:16Speaker 1: You've worked with so many different organizations, so sometimes I
- 13:18Speaker 1: feel like speaking a little bit about having that third
- 13:21Speaker 1: party come in and look at kind of lift up
- 13:24Speaker 1: the hood of the car, come in, because they're like, well,
- 13:25Speaker 1: we could figure this out ourselves. We could just do
- 13:27Speaker 1: this ourselves. Speak a little bit about the value of
- 13:29Speaker 1: having somebody outside your organization come in and take a look.
- 13:33Speaker 3: Okay, so well I'll go big and then I'll go small. Yeah,
- 13:37Speaker 3: so big.
- 13:40Speaker 2: I worked for Ford with Ford Motor Company in two
- 13:42Speaker 2: thousand and eight, nine ten, and Alan Malali came in,
- 13:46Speaker 2: So you got a brand new culture keeper. Okay, so
- 13:50Speaker 2: he was. He came from Boeing. There was the eight
- 13:54Speaker 2: nine ten recession. He came in, and when we did,
- 13:57Speaker 2: he needed.
- 13:58Speaker 3: An outside forced help him with his culture because they
- 14:02Speaker 3: didn't have They couldn't see it because when you live it,
- 14:05Speaker 3: you only know what's in your walls.
- 14:08Speaker 2: It's like you don't have vision for it. Like let's
- 14:10Speaker 2: say I went to your house right now. If I
- 14:12Speaker 2: came into your house right now, I bet you I
- 14:14Speaker 2: could make two major changes and probably ten minor changes.
- 14:20Speaker 2: I might say, David, did you know your shoes are
- 14:22Speaker 2: right here you and you're like, oh my gosh, no
- 14:24Speaker 2: I even noticed that because you just live.
- 14:28Speaker 3: That's just where the shoes go. Yeah, but could you
- 14:30Speaker 3: move in the closet? Yeah, I mean yeah, I probably could.
- 14:33Speaker 2: So the outside eyes give you perspective, right, And so
- 14:39Speaker 2: this week I've been so Ford basically brought me in
- 14:43Speaker 2: and then we brought a team in and we built
- 14:46Speaker 2: we built their supplier relations and their dealer relations program.
- 14:52Speaker 2: And he wanted to reset the culture between Ford and
- 14:54Speaker 2: the dealerships. And he called it a love campaign. And
- 14:58Speaker 2: we helped build a love campaign four Ford, and we
- 15:02Speaker 2: built the tools, we built the systems with the process
- 15:04Speaker 2: and he and so we were the ones who helped
- 15:06Speaker 2: to get that, uh.
- 15:07Speaker 3: And it changed, it changed the culture. Their scores went
- 15:10Speaker 3: up all these different things.
- 15:12Speaker 2: Well, this week I was in a place called Cinnamon Shore.
- 15:16Speaker 2: Cinnamon Shore is on the coast of Texas. It's in
- 15:20Speaker 2: the Gulf.
- 15:21Speaker 3: It is on.
- 15:24Speaker 2: Mustang Island. And the friend of mine is the developer
- 15:28Speaker 2: and they have gosh, I don't know, five hundred plus
- 15:32Speaker 2: houses on the ocean and they're gorgeous and it's it's
- 15:35Speaker 2: like it's a it's an ermit. It's a planned community, yeah,
- 15:39Speaker 2: golf arts and it's a resort, and but they they
- 15:44Speaker 2: needed another set of eyes. So they've asked me to
- 15:46Speaker 2: come in and work with them on the customer journey.
- 15:50Speaker 3: And there's three or four different.
- 15:51Speaker 2: Customers and on the employee journey, and because they want
- 15:56Speaker 2: to get better. They're really good, but they want to
- 15:58Speaker 2: get better. So, you know, so I drove in and
- 16:02Speaker 2: I'm like, so, is that golf cart supposed to be there?
- 16:05Speaker 3: Why?
- 16:05Speaker 2: Why move? Why is the maintenance cart right there? Could
- 16:09Speaker 2: it be somewhere else? And by the end of the
- 16:11Speaker 2: day they are like, oh my gosh, we didn't even
- 16:13Speaker 2: thought of it. It's like the shoes, Yeah, this other
- 16:17Speaker 2: little spot. And what if you had a sign that
- 16:21Speaker 2: says the you know, welcome to peace in Paradise or
- 16:27Speaker 2: some phrase that really you know, what if it was
- 16:30Speaker 2: right there as you drive in, there's this opportunity just
- 16:33Speaker 2: to get it.
- 16:34Speaker 3: Right there, right.
- 16:35Speaker 2: And so the idea is a journey. What is the
- 16:39Speaker 2: journey of a customer? What is the journey of an employee?
- 16:43Speaker 2: And walk step into their shoes And when you start
- 16:47Speaker 2: stepping into their shoes, you start realizing, Okay, this is
- 16:50Speaker 2: how an employee feels right now, they're coming in with
- 16:54Speaker 2: high confidence and low competence.
- 16:57Speaker 3: They don't know what to do, but they're excited.
- 17:00Speaker 2: Yeah, and so they and they think I got chosen,
- 17:03Speaker 2: I'm here, let's go.
- 17:05Speaker 3: And so how do you take them through that foundation stage?
- 17:08Speaker 3: How do you onboard them?
- 17:10Speaker 2: And then you know how they You do the work
- 17:13Speaker 2: and they watch you. Well, now you get them to
- 17:15Speaker 2: you do the work and they help you. So how
- 17:18Speaker 2: do they start getting immersed into their world? And then
- 17:21Speaker 2: you start to going through the development square? And then
- 17:24Speaker 2: all of a sudden, there's this opportunity that can fall
- 17:26Speaker 2: into the pittancepare and their confidence goes so low and
- 17:30Speaker 2: their competence is still low that they can help select.
- 17:34Speaker 2: So you have to lead them into the engagement stage,
- 17:38Speaker 2: which is rising confidence, rising competence, and you have to affirm.
- 17:44Speaker 2: But you have to do it based on their wiring,
- 17:48Speaker 2: their personality and your personality. And that's where it gets.
- 17:53Speaker 3: Super complicated, but super doable if you figure it out
- 17:57Speaker 3: and we think we've solved it. Yeah, basically, here's the voices,
- 18:02Speaker 3: here's the tools. Now, here's the roadmap, here's the journey
- 18:06Speaker 3: you're trying to take every employee on and if.
- 18:08Speaker 2: You can get them through the square, they become an asset,
- 18:12Speaker 2: and then they become what you've always hoped they would become.
- 18:16Speaker 2: Most people just hire people and if they don't become it,
- 18:18Speaker 2: they fire them and then try to find another one
- 18:21Speaker 2: and another one, and it just becomes a turnover factory.
- 18:24Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 18:25Speaker 1: Oh man, so many great nuggets there, Jeremy that you
- 18:27Speaker 1: just brought up, you know, and and as one that
- 18:32Speaker 1: has been in that space of what you said, I
- 18:36Speaker 1: didn't know that way, and I didn't work with the
- 18:38Speaker 1: company that didn't quite understand how to do that, and
- 18:42Speaker 1: I started my own personal journey of like discovery. And
- 18:46Speaker 1: I think, you know, you say this often is like
- 18:49Speaker 1: how do we know ourselves to lead ourselves? Uh and
- 18:52Speaker 1: do it well? And I think it's challenging. And I
- 18:54Speaker 1: think a lot of businesses that I found sometimes they
- 18:56Speaker 1: don't want to, especially if it's a small company, very
- 18:59Speaker 1: small as this owner is, just to hire people that
- 19:01Speaker 1: are just basically the same voice of them because they
- 19:03Speaker 1: feel like they talk with the same language. I don't
- 19:04Speaker 1: understand the value of getting these other voices in there.
- 19:07Speaker 1: And it is complicated, it's a little messy in there,
- 19:10Speaker 1: and you've created these great frameworks and tools over the years,
- 19:13Speaker 1: and you now have a new book coming out of
- 19:16Speaker 1: The Voice Driven Leader, which I'm super excited about. I
- 19:19Speaker 1: was telling you my preiod of my copy already, so
- 19:21Speaker 1: I'm excited to get that. And I know we're going
- 19:23Speaker 1: to be talking about that Voices twenty five later on
- 19:26Speaker 1: in this coming up. But you know, talk a little
- 19:29Speaker 1: bit more about where we're at along this leadership journey.
- 19:32Speaker 1: Why did you why this book now? And you talk
- 19:34Speaker 1: a little bit about this development square, but you know
- 19:37Speaker 1: you've done a lot, but what makes this unique? Where
- 19:40Speaker 1: are we going here? You know, I know we're I'm
- 19:42Speaker 1: curious as a guide myself because if the leadership and
- 19:45Speaker 1: the tools you've ringing. But yeah, yeah, yeah, so let's go.
- 19:50Speaker 2: Let's go into the companies that master people development will
- 19:55Speaker 2: have a competitive advantage in the future. We're going to
- 19:59Speaker 2: be managing half the half of people's team will be
- 20:04Speaker 2: bots or agents and half will be real. Half will
- 20:08Speaker 2: be machines and half will be real. So if you
- 20:12Speaker 2: think about the dynamics, then we've got to have astute,
- 20:17Speaker 2: strong people and strong teams. Well, so this morning I
- 20:22Speaker 2: was with a treasurer of a state treasurer and helping
- 20:26Speaker 2: him with his team. And I was meeting with them
- 20:30Speaker 2: and I explained, so, how many employees you have? He's
- 20:33Speaker 2: got well, fifty in this register in this treasurer's office
- 20:37Speaker 2: the state capitol. All right, fifty five or something. How
- 20:40Speaker 2: many people lead people? Got seven? So seven managers of people?
- 20:46Speaker 3: All right?
- 20:46Speaker 2: Then the number one thing you need to do is
- 20:50Speaker 2: you need to train them because they're the most important
- 20:52Speaker 2: people in your organization. They are your shirpa. They're the
- 20:56Speaker 2: ones that get you up the mountain. So he was
- 21:01Speaker 2: getting it. It's like that makes total sense. Meaning in
- 21:04Speaker 2: Mount Everest, you have one person leading six people up
- 21:10Speaker 2: the mountain. Without sherpa, the guy couldn't take fifty people up.
- 21:15Speaker 3: There's no way.
- 21:16Speaker 2: But by distributing it, now you've got these well that
- 21:19Speaker 2: sharpa need to be the healthiest people in your organization.
- 21:22Speaker 2: So if you're listening to this, how many people will
- 21:24Speaker 2: lead people in your company? Make that list and draw circles.
- 21:29Speaker 2: If you have ten, let's say you have ten, draw
- 21:31Speaker 2: ten circles, put the name of every person in there,
- 21:34Speaker 2: each individual circle, and then give them a score. Half
- 21:37Speaker 2: the circle is performance one through ten. How would they
- 21:41Speaker 2: do in this case? This morning, he gave one of
- 21:44Speaker 2: his leaders a nine on performance, meaning how good a job.
- 21:49Speaker 3: Does she do? And he gave her an eight on leadership.
- 21:53Speaker 3: Pretty high.
- 21:54Speaker 2: Nine to eight out of ten ten is the highest.
- 21:57Speaker 2: The average when I've been doing this for the last
- 22:00Speaker 2: four or five years, average has been six to four.
- 22:03Speaker 2: The average SHIRPA score has been they perform at six
- 22:07Speaker 2: out of ten.
- 22:09Speaker 3: Now leadership is the other side. So performance is.
- 22:11Speaker 2: One, leadership is the other four out of ten. So
- 22:15Speaker 2: how's that working for you? If your shirpa, your people
- 22:18Speaker 2: who lead people are six fours, right, Well, a six
- 22:23Speaker 2: is a D on the grading scale and a four
- 22:26Speaker 2: is failing. So if you think you have six to four,
- 22:30Speaker 2: then they are not effective leaders. So what has to
- 22:33Speaker 2: happen to get them to an eight in performance and
- 22:36Speaker 2: a seven minimum in their leadership? If you get a
- 22:38Speaker 2: seven seven or eight seven, you've got a really solid team.
- 22:42Speaker 3: That's a really good team. You can do a lot.
- 22:44Speaker 3: So that's the game. The entire game is now to
- 22:47Speaker 3: develop your SHIRPA. So you then need to know, well,
- 22:51Speaker 3: who are you?
- 22:52Speaker 2: Well, David and I are connectors, So if we're connectors,
- 22:56Speaker 2: and that's we're the leader and we're on boarding people.
- 23:01Speaker 2: We're not the best in onboarding because we may not
- 23:06Speaker 2: give enough detail. Yep, we will definitely give enough raw rah,
- 23:11Speaker 2: like oh man, it's so good to have you. We're
- 23:14Speaker 2: doing this and this, and we.
- 23:15Speaker 3: Will definitely overload them on vision. So we'll give them vision,
- 23:19Speaker 3: we'll give them excitement, we'll give them love, but the
- 23:23Speaker 3: detail of like what's your password, how do you sign in?
- 23:28Speaker 3: What's the process? Oh, it's just that's kind of like.
- 23:34Speaker 2: Ask Cindy, she'll take care of ask Tracy, right, So
- 23:39Speaker 2: we'll ask the guardians to take care of it. So
- 23:42Speaker 2: then the onboarding process and then when we take them
- 23:45Speaker 2: to the immersion stage sometimes it's like, well it's hard
- 23:48Speaker 2: for us to delegate. We're not the best delegators because
- 23:51Speaker 2: we kind of like to do it ourselves or we.
- 23:54Speaker 3: Hope that you figured it out.
- 23:56Speaker 2: So the point is is this is whoever you are
- 24:00Speaker 2: as the leader, who are they? You have to know
- 24:03Speaker 2: yourself and that's the power of five voices and David,
- 24:06Speaker 2: you can share the link and.
- 24:07Speaker 3: All this stuff.
- 24:07Speaker 1: Yeah. Absolutely, the power of.
- 24:09Speaker 2: Knowing who you are is one thing. Then you need
- 24:12Speaker 2: to know who they are, and who's they it's your shurpa,
- 24:16Speaker 2: or it's any employee that comes on. If you are
- 24:18Speaker 2: the sharp, any of your new employees, well if you're
- 24:21Speaker 2: if you're a connector and they're a nurturer, there's clues.
- 24:26Speaker 2: It's called the voice driven leader. Lead based on how
- 24:29Speaker 2: they want to be onboarded based on how you on board.
- 24:34Speaker 2: So if I no, I'm with a guardian, They're gonna
- 24:36Speaker 2: have a lot of questions.
- 24:38Speaker 3: I need to do the.
- 24:39Speaker 2: Work to give them everything they need so that they're successful,
- 24:43Speaker 2: so they're onboard in that first month or two so
- 24:46Speaker 2: that they can be the most effective and ultimately get
- 24:49Speaker 2: them to the engagement. But if I run ahead of them,
- 24:52Speaker 2: which most connectors will do, I leave them in the dust,
- 24:56Speaker 2: and then they get frustrated, and then I'm frustrated with them.
- 25:00Speaker 2: Now we've got an employee issue all because I didn't
- 25:03Speaker 2: lead them based on who they were. I was leading
- 25:07Speaker 2: based on who I am.
- 25:09Speaker 1: Yes, and and and it's natural I think what I
- 25:13Speaker 1: like about the five voices Jeremy, and there's a great breakdown,
- 25:16Speaker 1: And like Jeremy said, I'll give you guys a link
- 25:18Speaker 1: to the five Voices assessment. You guys can take it
- 25:20Speaker 1: down there. There's a component of nature and nurture and
- 25:22Speaker 1: choice and how we show up here. And to your point, Jeremy,
- 25:26Speaker 1: you're saying, you know, how we show up naturally, But
- 25:28Speaker 1: then how do we learn how to be with these
- 25:30Speaker 1: other folks? It can be learned and and how can
- 25:33Speaker 1: I how can I better interact with them. I was
- 25:36Speaker 1: just talking with a client today about that who his
- 25:39Speaker 1: he's a nurturer and his wife's a guardian and why
- 25:43Speaker 1: he's all about relational harmony and just make sure everybody's okay,
- 25:46Speaker 1: And she's just frustrated and like, can you just tell
- 25:48Speaker 1: me the specific thing this is what I need to
- 25:50Speaker 1: high challenge and like he didn't understand that. Who was
- 25:52Speaker 1: like trying to ask you all these questions and she's
- 25:54Speaker 1: getting frustrated and she's like, just I just need this
- 25:58Speaker 1: and and so there can be you know, and that's
- 26:01Speaker 1: I mean, this is not just a work we're talking about.
- 26:02Speaker 1: This is a home marriage relationships, right, It goes across
- 26:06Speaker 1: the board.
- 26:06Speaker 3: Kids, the whole bit.
- 26:08Speaker 2: Yeah, and it's so interesting because you know, again back
- 26:11Speaker 2: to Jim Collins, so we got the right people on
- 26:14Speaker 2: the bus. Great, what I'm trying to say, is that's
- 26:17Speaker 2: just the beginning.
- 26:19Speaker 3: Where do we try? Where are we trying to take them?
- 26:21Speaker 3: What do we want? What are our expectations? What are
- 26:24Speaker 3: they supposed to do? What's their role? Clarity? How do
- 26:26Speaker 3: they win? How do other people know how they win?
- 26:29Speaker 3: So the journey we've.
- 26:30Speaker 2: Tried to make it now super simple. Okay, great, you've
- 26:34Speaker 2: got a good employee.
- 26:35Speaker 3: Awesome, Who are they? Well? Who are you? You know
- 26:38Speaker 3: your person? Who are they? Are they a guardian? Are
- 26:41Speaker 3: they a nurturer? Are they a creative, a pioneer, another connector?
- 26:45Speaker 3: Who are they? Once you know who they are, it's
- 26:49Speaker 3: a clue. Now let's give you a roadmap. You're in
- 26:53Speaker 3: foundation stage, onboarding stage. Now you're an immersion stage. Let's
- 26:58Speaker 3: avoid let's avoid the pititans, fair, Let's get them into
- 27:01Speaker 3: the engagement stage. Let's get them into the multiplication stage.
- 27:05Speaker 3: That entire development process is a minimum of a year minimum.
- 27:10Speaker 3: It will take probably two or three years honestly to
- 27:14Speaker 3: build an unbelievable teammate. And then once they are, then
- 27:20Speaker 3: they can start multiplying other people.
- 27:22Speaker 2: And now that but we've given we're actually built a
- 27:25Speaker 2: roadmap so that people who've got good people on the
- 27:28Speaker 2: bus now know.
- 27:29Speaker 3: Where to go.
- 27:31Speaker 2: And I think that's where I think that's what's missing
- 27:33Speaker 2: in most leadership because most leadership books is just a
- 27:36Speaker 2: bunch of motivational jargon, and it's a bunch of it's
- 27:40Speaker 2: all about be a better performer, awaken the giant within
- 27:45Speaker 2: all these things that are for you.
- 27:48Speaker 3: But it's that's that's you. To be a climber, not
- 27:51Speaker 3: to be a Shurpa has to.
- 27:54Speaker 2: Be healthy and perform. But they have to help people perform.
- 27:58Speaker 2: They have to help people climb, and that's what leadership
- 28:01Speaker 2: is about.
- 28:03Speaker 1: Jeremy so Well said, And I think you know, you've
- 28:06Speaker 1: worked with a lot of private equity and building the
- 28:08Speaker 1: terms and when I've heard a lot of as I
- 28:10Speaker 1: look at people that are either wanting to exit or
- 28:13Speaker 1: or potentially buy a company, to your point, they're actually,
- 28:16Speaker 1: look what's that leadership team? Look like? What's the dynamic?
- 28:18Speaker 1: Especial when we're talking a professional services in particular, because
- 28:22Speaker 1: your point of like this is not health, I mean
- 28:23Speaker 1: what am I actually buying as a company? You know,
- 28:27Speaker 1: especially if that leader is key and they're gonna they
- 28:29Speaker 1: want to step out and they're like, who, what's this team?
- 28:32Speaker 1: And to your point, most of the time, that's what
- 28:34Speaker 1: what I've talked with folks that are doing exits, like,
- 28:36Speaker 1: it's going to take us two three plus years to
- 28:39Speaker 1: get your company in a good, good enough shape, right,
- 28:43Speaker 1: so to get all.
- 28:44Speaker 2: Those time, yeah, totally and land and Lyunch one of
- 28:47Speaker 2: our giants. We're working with a couple of private equity
- 28:49Speaker 2: groups right now. And and in private equity they have
- 28:53Speaker 2: two they have three years and then three to five
- 28:56Speaker 2: years they'll turn and sell the business to the next group.
- 28:59Speaker 3: So their job is always three years.
- 29:01Speaker 2: Well, but they love talent, they just want it to
- 29:04Speaker 2: be developed by the leader. So the best leaders will
- 29:08Speaker 2: always build their bench. They just have a shorter time
- 29:11Speaker 2: period to do so.
- 29:13Speaker 3: And you can do it. You can. You can speed up.
- 29:15Speaker 2: You can hire some all stars and then you bring
- 29:18Speaker 2: them in and then but the job is simple. Who
- 29:22Speaker 2: are your SHIPA where are they now? What needs to
- 29:26Speaker 2: happen to get them to an eight seven or an
- 29:28Speaker 2: eight eight?
- 29:29Speaker 3: That's it. So now, if you understand performance and leadership,
- 29:33Speaker 3: we're giving you clues on how to speed up the
- 29:36Speaker 3: development process. But there's still work to be done in
- 29:39Speaker 3: the development process. You still have to do.
- 29:42Speaker 2: But if you as a if you're an entrepreneur or
- 29:45Speaker 2: an owner, it's all about shurpe training. Spend all of
- 29:49Speaker 2: your time on shurpet training. They'll take care of.
- 29:51Speaker 3: The rest of the employees. I think that's a misnomerate.
- 29:55Speaker 3: A lot of people will just go, well, we have
- 29:57Speaker 3: you know, we do an annual retreat, do an annual
- 30:00Speaker 3: one day of training. Check.
- 30:03Speaker 2: That doesn't mean anything, no, no, no, yeah, But why do
- 30:07Speaker 2: you have Why are you like a sieve.
- 30:08Speaker 3: And your back doors open?
- 30:10Speaker 2: And you know, no one likes Tom over here because
- 30:14Speaker 2: Tom is an eight in performance and a two in leadership,
- 30:18Speaker 2: but he makes money for the company. We don't want
- 30:20Speaker 2: to lose him. But he's killing your employees and he's
- 30:23Speaker 2: killing your culture internally, so you got to You gotta
- 30:27Speaker 2: remember culture is atmosphere, and if you're the leader, you're
- 30:32Speaker 2: the keeper of the atmosphere. You are leaders define the culture,
- 30:37Speaker 2: but your sub leaders, your shirpa, are subculture leaders. They
- 30:41Speaker 2: define the subculture. And if you have eight leaders, you
- 30:46Speaker 2: have eight subcultures. And those subcultures they need to be
- 30:51Speaker 2: a majority positive. But if you get six subcultures that
- 30:55Speaker 2: are negative and people don't love uh to work or
- 30:59Speaker 2: they don't. You know, if you've got if they're undermining you,
- 31:02Speaker 2: you're you're gonna be underwater very very quickly.
- 31:05Speaker 1: Oh man, Yeah, Jeremy, to your point, I mean you're
- 31:09Speaker 1: just bringing in story now. This is Unfortunately they didn't
- 31:13Speaker 1: have employees with subcontractors, but they was working on a
- 31:16Speaker 1: very big project, complicated project, Jeremy, and they heard for
- 31:19Speaker 1: a big project, these independent contractors, and to your point,
- 31:22Speaker 1: that's exactly what happened. Like I'm gonna run this this big,
- 31:26Speaker 1: big project, environmental project. I'm gonna run my little section here,
- 31:29Speaker 1: I'm gonna run it this way. And it was just
- 31:31Speaker 1: a nightmare of people colliding with each other.
- 31:36Speaker 3: Yeah yeah.
- 31:38Speaker 2: And that's where if if you get on the other
- 31:41Speaker 2: side of the talent gap, where you start getting to
- 31:44Speaker 2: the place where you have confidence. And that's what most
- 31:48Speaker 2: business owners want. They just want peace, Like can we
- 31:50Speaker 2: just get something that works? Can we get aligned and
- 31:54Speaker 2: just execute?
- 31:55Speaker 3: Like yeah, yeah, yeah we can. But you have to
- 31:58Speaker 3: build your surf and and you have to deal.
- 32:03Speaker 2: Yeah, well, we've got my cousin's brother involved and we
- 32:07Speaker 2: can't lose him. I'm like, yeah, yeah, all that needs
- 32:11Speaker 2: to go. All the nepotism. You've got to get it
- 32:13Speaker 2: to the point of leaders define culture. If you want
- 32:16Speaker 2: a great culture, you have to bring support and challenge.
- 32:20Speaker 2: But that challenge you've got to set it up correctly.
- 32:23Speaker 2: Work on your shirpa. Your shirpa great sherpa.
- 32:27Speaker 3: Will will lead unbelievable teams.
- 32:30Speaker 2: The problem is no one wants to follow the asthmatic shirpa,
- 32:34Speaker 2: right like the unhealthy shurpa. People are like, oh my gosh,
- 32:38Speaker 2: I'm on Tom's team. How do I get off and stop?
- 32:44Speaker 2: And that that person. And now I would tell I
- 32:47Speaker 2: would say to owners, be belligerent about your shirpa, like
- 32:51Speaker 2: train them, but they need to be above a five
- 32:54Speaker 2: to five for sure in both the moments and leadership
- 32:58Speaker 2: and in either give them the chance to get there
- 33:02Speaker 2: or move them on and get a new sharpa in place.
- 33:05Speaker 2: But once you have seventy five percent of your shirpa
- 33:08Speaker 2: that are healthy and moving, now you can move the needle.
- 33:12Speaker 2: Now you can start seeing things really really happen. But again,
- 33:16Speaker 2: I think there's just so much.
- 33:18Speaker 3: Like I love EOS.
- 33:19Speaker 2: EOS is awesome, but it's so misses on people development
- 33:26Speaker 2: because it's just it's just like we'll just get good
- 33:29Speaker 2: people and then follow our system. They're like, yeah, well
- 33:33Speaker 2: who are they? Are they a guardian? Are they a nurturer?
- 33:36Speaker 2: Like you got to know a lot. There's a lot
- 33:38Speaker 2: more that goes into it, but eos.
- 33:40Speaker 1: With Yes, I love working with the implementers.
- 33:44Speaker 3: Yeah, get over if they can, if they install the
- 33:48Speaker 3: people section of it.
- 33:50Speaker 1: Yeah, I agree with you, Jeremy. And it's it's it's
- 33:53Speaker 1: so important and the tools that you've created. And I
- 33:56Speaker 1: really like how you said this earlier on is that
- 33:58Speaker 1: how people are experiencing things. Why I was pulled to
- 34:02Speaker 1: the Giant O West platform was you know that the
- 34:05Speaker 1: the videos, the resources in there, tied with like a
- 34:09Speaker 1: guy I like myself because what I found is people
- 34:12Speaker 1: even like you said, maybe go to an annual you know,
- 34:15Speaker 1: retreat or something, or watch a video or read a book.
- 34:18Speaker 1: It can be helpful. I mean, they'd be helpful, but
- 34:19Speaker 1: it's like somebody else that's coming through. Like what we're
- 34:21Speaker 1: doing is building the relationship, building the muscle memory, and
- 34:24Speaker 1: that takes time. It's like I don't both go to
- 34:26Speaker 1: the gym and I'm super strong and I've got it
- 34:28Speaker 1: all dialed in. This is an ongoing thing week after week,
- 34:31Speaker 1: month after month.
- 34:32Speaker 2: Right, it's it absolutely and when you when you are
- 34:36Speaker 2: consistent and put together that again, that's that's back to
- 34:41Speaker 2: quick trip. You're building layers of depth. Like imagine if
- 34:46Speaker 2: you're listening to this and you go, we're four or
- 34:49Speaker 2: five six deep, I could plug and play anybody at
- 34:53Speaker 2: this position. Wouldn't that be amazing? Most people are not
- 34:56Speaker 2: one deep, you know. And so building your bench and
- 35:00Speaker 2: having it so what it requires. It requires you as
- 35:04Speaker 2: a leader to slow down to speed up. It requires
- 35:08Speaker 2: you to stop long enough to get a game plan
- 35:12Speaker 2: and know yourself. Then you start with yourself. Here's who
- 35:15Speaker 2: I am. Oh my gosh, I'm a pioneer connector. I
- 35:19Speaker 2: just I run past people.
- 35:21Speaker 3: I go too fast and that's why I'm always having
- 35:24Speaker 3: these turnover issues. Okay, got it? Good?
- 35:27Speaker 2: Now who are your shurpa? How deep are you right now?
- 35:30Speaker 2: Be honest, I've got four sherpa. We're an average of.
- 35:34Speaker 3: Five to five.
- 35:35Speaker 2: I got to get a stronger group of shurpa. Great, yes, Now,
- 35:40Speaker 2: how do we get to sherpa to start leading their people?
- 35:43Speaker 2: And what's the development plan for them? So we got
- 35:47Speaker 2: to train them to develop. So there's a system there's
- 35:50Speaker 2: a process. And that's what this next book, the Voice
- 35:52Speaker 2: Driven Leader, all it does is here's the crisis development crisis,
- 35:57Speaker 2: here's the development system. Are like, how do you actually
- 36:02Speaker 2: develop people? And then here's the system that you put
- 36:04Speaker 2: in place, and it gives you all that and then
- 36:08Speaker 2: we've created on top of that Five Voices AI. We
- 36:11Speaker 2: actually have it now to such a degree all you
- 36:13Speaker 2: have to do is ask questions of it and hey,
- 36:17Speaker 2: how do I take a nurture connector through the immersion stage.
- 36:22Speaker 2: If I'm a pioneer, it walks you through, it helps
- 36:26Speaker 2: you in addition to it. So that's we're trying to
- 36:29Speaker 2: give every resource possible.
- 36:31Speaker 3: For people to actually not have any excuses.
- 36:33Speaker 1: Yeah, Jeremy, So you guys, we're going to make sure
- 36:36Speaker 1: everybody the book is actually available for prego now on
- 36:40Speaker 1: Amazon and all those good places. We'll make sure that
- 36:43Speaker 1: the link is in there, and like I said, the
- 36:45Speaker 1: five Voices Assessment, so you guys can actually go in
- 36:48Speaker 1: there and start checking this stuff out now. And I
- 36:50Speaker 1: like how, Jeremy, you said this too. There's where you're
- 36:53Speaker 1: a way of quantifying there's different ways that we can
- 36:55Speaker 1: quantify that through the team performance assessment. There's other ways
- 36:58Speaker 1: and that we can go through and and I'm excited
- 37:01Speaker 1: to go in and even further Jeremy, as you were
- 37:03Speaker 1: explaining in the book here of how to walk folks
- 37:06Speaker 1: through this journey, because I think sometimes people get a
- 37:08Speaker 1: little frustrated with like, oh, these are soft skills, how
- 37:10Speaker 1: do we quantify this? Get how do we go wrap
- 37:12Speaker 1: our arms around it? But you've spent a lot of
- 37:14Speaker 1: time in an effort creating a helping us break down
- 37:17Speaker 1: from alignment, rational trust or how we're executing and our
- 37:20Speaker 1: capacity all of that stuff in a very you know,
- 37:23Speaker 1: very thoughtful way, and it works. We know that this
- 37:26Speaker 1: works when we break it down absolutely.
- 37:30Speaker 2: Yeah, and yeah, we've been doing this for way too
- 37:33Speaker 2: long and when people get to it, they just appreciate
- 37:35Speaker 2: the simplicity.
- 37:36Speaker 3: We made it simple enough our thirteen year old. And
- 37:39Speaker 3: just a side note, I did this.
- 37:41Speaker 2: My kids are all in their twenties, but I started
- 37:43Speaker 2: with my kids when they were ten twelve years old
- 37:46Speaker 2: on the tools and then the five voices, and it
- 37:49Speaker 2: changed the dynamic at home. So my wife, when she
- 37:52Speaker 2: found out she's a guardian, I knew that she's a guardian, nurturer,
- 37:56Speaker 2: I'm a connector, so we're nemesis voices and we have
- 37:59Speaker 2: a creative daughter, we have a guardian son and a
- 38:02Speaker 2: nurturer daughter. Once we figured out who they were, we
- 38:07Speaker 2: started speaking their language and it changed the relational dynamics
- 38:11Speaker 2: between us. We started pouring in and they started to
- 38:15Speaker 2: open up and accept us, apprenticing and developing our own
- 38:18Speaker 2: kids so much so that we've developed a plan of
- 38:22Speaker 2: how do you take them through every year thirteen's year
- 38:25Speaker 2: of identity, fourteen, year of relationship, fifteen every year to
- 38:29Speaker 2: get them to launch at eighteen. So we created that
- 38:33Speaker 2: system because we're intentional, all because we knew who they were.
- 38:38Speaker 2: And you know, that's the beauty of it. Most everyone
- 38:41Speaker 2: just wants to be known. And once you're known you
- 38:44Speaker 2: and they see that you're trying, they will appreciate you,
- 38:49Speaker 2: and they'll have you'll have more influence in our life,
- 38:51Speaker 2: and then they'll run through walls for you. And then
- 38:54Speaker 2: the person that people want to follow and not have
- 38:57Speaker 2: to follow.
- 38:58Speaker 3: And there's a big difference between those two.
- 39:00Speaker 1: Big difference, And I want to just acknowledge that, Jeremy.
- 39:03Speaker 1: I mean, I've got to meet your wife, Kelly. I
- 39:05Speaker 1: will as part of Giant. I've actually seen this at firsthand.
- 39:09Speaker 1: So this isn't you know. I've got to know Steve Cochran,
- 39:12Speaker 1: who Jeremy and Steve have worked together, lived together, gone
- 39:15Speaker 1: through things life together. So this is true. And this
- 39:18Speaker 1: is what I love about the Giant community and working
- 39:21Speaker 1: with other guys and why we're so passionate about liberation
- 39:24Speaker 1: and helping people. And Jeremy, why I have you here
- 39:27Speaker 1: on the podcast. I know we're gretting close, and the
- 39:29Speaker 1: time on the podcast I definitely could go longer.
- 39:31Speaker 3: You know, are both.
- 39:32Speaker 1: Connector voices for those of you don't know what's funny
- 39:34Speaker 1: as you're saying that too, Jeremy, my wife's a guardian
- 39:37Speaker 1: nurture as well, and so it's like, well we had
- 39:40Speaker 1: these conflicts, now we're creating a better space of understanding
- 39:43Speaker 1: and appreciation for one another. So so important.
- 39:47Speaker 3: Yeah, yeah, we And so you know the way we started.
- 39:51Speaker 2: We moved to London and we moved in the manor
- 39:53Speaker 2: house and Steve Cockraman had his family and we had
- 39:56Speaker 2: one family in two different wings of this old state
- 40:00Speaker 2: and then we would bring people over and it was
- 40:02Speaker 2: like an experiment. We did it for nine months.
- 40:04Speaker 3: It was. It was amazing. But we got to learn
- 40:07Speaker 3: our kids and know each.
- 40:09Speaker 2: Other and you know, and then we'd have people come
- 40:12Speaker 2: and do retreats and it was just like, uh, it
- 40:15Speaker 2: was like magic, you know. And the thing is, once
- 40:21Speaker 2: we've just built the five voices to be simple enough
- 40:24Speaker 2: again for a thirteen year old to get it, but
- 40:27Speaker 2: once you do, you'll never forget it versus you know.
- 40:31Speaker 3: The other day, I was literally with someone and he goes.
- 40:34Speaker 2: Yeah, I have done myerspread because I'm like, yeah, what
- 40:36Speaker 2: are you? And he was joking because he could remember it.
- 40:39Speaker 2: He goes, I'm an ESPN and we're like and we're like, yeah,
- 40:44Speaker 2: he goes, I honestly can't remember, but it was good.
- 40:47Speaker 3: I can't remember. And we've tried to get well. Once
- 40:50Speaker 3: you know, if you're a connector, you'll never forget that.
- 40:53Speaker 2: If you know you're a pioneer, you'll never forget that.
- 40:55Speaker 2: You'll at least you'll know your foundational voice. And that's
- 40:58Speaker 2: what we're trying to do, is like help people know
- 41:00Speaker 2: themselves so they can lead themselves. Then help them to
- 41:03Speaker 2: know other people so they can help them lead them
- 41:07Speaker 2: And when you do that, well, gosh, it's way better
- 41:11Speaker 2: than being accidental. You avoid some of the issues that
- 41:15Speaker 2: most business leaders have because they're accidental with their leadership.
- 41:19Speaker 1: Mm hmm.
- 41:20Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 41:20Speaker 1: And that's the whole point of this podcast. We don't
- 41:22Speaker 1: want you to be accidental. We want you to be intentional.
- 41:25Speaker 1: Jeremys and and Steve Cockerman and then the team at
- 41:28Speaker 1: Giant have just amazing tools and resources. That's why I
- 41:31Speaker 1: got certified as a guide. Five voices for teams and
- 41:34Speaker 1: and and helping you be more impactful. As we're wrapping
- 41:39Speaker 1: up the podcast, Jeremy, I like to always give our
- 41:41Speaker 1: our guests an opportunity, if you know, as we've covered
- 41:45Speaker 1: a lot of ground here today, just you know, last
- 41:48Speaker 1: maybe thought or action that somebody can do that you
- 41:51Speaker 1: you would say, hey, if you did nothing else, if
- 41:53Speaker 1: you took nothing else from this podcast, and you listen
- 41:55Speaker 1: to this today, I you know, hopefully you will. You'll
- 41:57Speaker 1: walk away with this you know, thought or action.
- 42:01Speaker 2: Yeah, I would hope that you'd be super, super curious
- 42:04Speaker 2: to figure out who you really are. So going to
- 42:07Speaker 2: take the five voices. It's going to tell you what
- 42:11Speaker 2: happens to you understress, Where do you tend to go,
- 42:15Speaker 2: what are your patterns and actions, and you'll find if
- 42:19Speaker 2: you take it in the right spirits, you're taking the assessment.
- 42:23Speaker 2: Don't take it based on who you think you should be.
- 42:26Speaker 2: I don't want to know who you play on TV.
- 42:28Speaker 2: We want to know who you really are. And so
- 42:31Speaker 2: if you just take it and go, oh my gosh,
- 42:33Speaker 2: this and then you read it and soak in it,
- 42:36Speaker 2: you'll probably find is probably we hear this. I don't
- 42:40Speaker 2: know ten thousands of times, you know, we've we've had
- 42:44Speaker 2: there's a lot a lot of people take this and
- 42:47Speaker 2: they'll go, oh my goodness like that.
- 42:49Speaker 3: I've seen people cry. I've seen my own kids read
- 42:53Speaker 3: report and.
- 42:53Speaker 2: Cry because it's like, this is me, this is me.
- 42:58Speaker 2: And once you do, then there's something that happens. You
- 43:02Speaker 2: have to give yourself grace and truth. You bring support
- 43:06Speaker 2: and challenge in this process. So I hope you would
- 43:09Speaker 2: want to know who you are. But because once you
- 43:12Speaker 2: know who you are, you'll start going, well, I want
- 43:14Speaker 2: to know who David is.
- 43:15Speaker 3: I want to know who my wife. I want to
- 43:17Speaker 3: know who there is.
- 43:18Speaker 2: And then once you get to know who they are,
- 43:20Speaker 2: then the voices are like languages. Then you just learn
- 43:24Speaker 2: to speak their language. When I used to live in Europe,
- 43:28Speaker 2: I would go all over Europe and I've lived in
- 43:30Speaker 2: Europe twice. And when i'd go into France, you know,
- 43:34Speaker 2: I would try enough French because the French at a cafe,
- 43:39Speaker 2: you know, probably food front say, and you know they're
- 43:41Speaker 2: they're asking, and I'm asking for you know, can I
- 43:44Speaker 2: have a cup of coffee and the nicest trying to
- 43:46Speaker 2: do French. But because I'm trying, they at least appreciate it,
- 43:51Speaker 2: versus if I'm like coffee, coffee black, no sugar, that's
- 43:57Speaker 2: guaranteed spit in the cup. Right, So it's like it's
- 44:01Speaker 2: like the idea is when I attempt to know another
- 44:05Speaker 2: person's voice and I have to show it, they'll let
- 44:08Speaker 2: their guard down because they'll appreciate it. They'll see that
- 44:11Speaker 2: I'm trying to get to know how they operate and work.
- 44:14Speaker 2: And once I do, it's like cracking code. Now I've
- 44:18Speaker 2: got an opportunity to turn them into an asset, not
- 44:22Speaker 2: a liability.
- 44:23Speaker 3: So that's the game.
- 44:25Speaker 1: Yes, I love that. Yeah, you guys will have that
- 44:27Speaker 1: in there. The five Voices Assessment absolutely free. You guys
- 44:31Speaker 1: can check that out. Learn what your foundational voice is. Jeremy,
- 44:34Speaker 1: I want to just thank you for sharing your wisdom,
- 44:36Speaker 1: your story, your heart, where you're at, where Giant is.
- 44:40Speaker 1: And I really love that this conversation reminds us that
- 44:44Speaker 1: culture doesn't shift just because there's like lofty visions or
- 44:47Speaker 1: big slogans, but it's really when the shurpas, the team
- 44:49Speaker 1: leaders are equipped with clarity, courage, they're consistency, they're getting
- 44:52Speaker 1: after and appreciating who they are and who else is
- 44:55Speaker 1: on their team. So I just super excited about that.
- 45:00Speaker 1: And then for those of you that you know, if
- 45:02Speaker 1: this sparked you know something for you today, I want
- 45:04Speaker 1: to make sure that you guys go check out the
- 45:06Speaker 1: new book Jeremy and Steve Coachman, The Voice Driven Leader.
- 45:10Speaker 1: It's coming out. Here's what's the date when it's actually going.
- 45:13Speaker 3: To be released in October?
- 45:15Speaker 1: In October eighteenth something like that.
- 45:17Speaker 2: Okay, it may say November on in Amazon, but it's
- 45:20Speaker 2: really October.
- 45:21Speaker 1: There you go, So go check that out. Uh, And
- 45:24Speaker 1: you know, we would love to have you back. Jeremy.
- 45:27Speaker 1: You've been great here. You own our connected on LinkedIn
- 45:29Speaker 1: as well. Jeremy can be check dot com Giant worldwide
- 45:32Speaker 1: you can find Jeremy. He's all he's out there. I
- 45:35Speaker 1: really appreciate you being here a Jeremy on the podcast.
- 45:38Speaker 3: Thank you, David, appreciate what you're doing. I love the
- 45:40Speaker 3: word steward by the way, oh thank you. It's a
- 45:44Speaker 3: great word. Yeah.
- 45:45Speaker 1: Well, you know that that comes from the place of, hey,
- 45:48Speaker 1: our people, right, we take care of our people, our great,
- 45:50Speaker 1: greatest asset. And you know we only we all have
- 45:53Speaker 1: a responsibility along this journey. And then so I think
- 45:56Speaker 1: as business owners, what to you, what you said is like,
- 45:59Speaker 1: we want help help you take care of your people.
- 46:02Speaker 1: I love it. Yeah, awesome. Thank you everybody for being
- 46:07Speaker 1: on the podcast with Jeremy and I. Please of course
- 46:10Speaker 1: like subscribe, follow us along. We appreciate you and until
- 46:13Speaker 1: next time, be well. Thanks everybody,