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Cheryl Stelte · Postcards to the Universe

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Speaker 1: Welcome to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa Capria. Do
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Speaker 1: you believe in magic? What if you were told that
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Speaker 1: all you had to do was get a little creative
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Speaker 1: and work a magic spell to bring anything you can
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Speaker 1: imagine into your life. Here on Postcards to the Universe,
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Speaker 1: we will share manifesting tips, postcards, creativity, abundance, and prosperity.
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Speaker 1: Here's your host, Melissa Caprill.
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Speaker 2: Hey guys, and welcome to Postcards to the Universe with
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Speaker 2: Melissa Creating the Life you crave. It's Wednesday. How are
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Speaker 2: you guys doing today? I hope everybody is doing well
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Speaker 2: and holding up. Okay, right now, we're in crazy times.
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Speaker 2: I don't know about all and any of you listening,
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Speaker 2: but I swear I can't believe that half the years
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Speaker 2: over already. I feel like time is just moving so
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Speaker 2: fast that I can't keep up. But I'm trying to
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Speaker 2: stay grounded doing my meditation practice every day and that
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Speaker 2: really helps. Today I have a really great show. I
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Speaker 2: have author, master healer and spiritual coach SHAYL. Stealty with
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Speaker 2: me and she's going to join me in just a
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Speaker 2: few minutes. I want to say a big shout out
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Speaker 2: to my regulars who listen to me every week. Thank
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Speaker 2: you so much. I really appreciate you joining me. And
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Speaker 2: for if you're new to my show, welcome, And just
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Speaker 2: so you know that you can listen to any of
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Speaker 2: the shows at any time that you want, on any
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Speaker 2: of the podcasting platforms, or on ome Times Radio in
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Speaker 2: the archives, or on my website Postcards to the Universe
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Speaker 2: dot com. I have a section of podcasts and there's
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Speaker 2: always a description about who my guest is and what
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Speaker 2: we're going to be talking about on the show. So
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Speaker 2: I hope you come back and listen to some of
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Speaker 2: my other shows. And if you didn't know, I'm an author,
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Speaker 2: I'm a photographer, I'm an artist. I have a book.
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Speaker 2: It's titled Postcards to the Universe, Harness the Universe's power
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Speaker 2: and manifest your dreams. And I have manifesting postcards that
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Speaker 2: I had people create and when their manifestation showed up
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Speaker 2: in the reality, we talk about it and we share
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Speaker 2: it in the book, and I photographed their postcards and
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Speaker 2: I just actually made a fifty six deck oracle cards
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Speaker 2: of the postcards of the affirmations and the postcards, and
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Speaker 2: I'm doing a daily pull like an affirmation pool. I
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Speaker 2: just started doing these short videos on YouTube, Instagram and TikTok,
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Speaker 2: and I try to keep them around three to four minutes.
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Speaker 2: But I played with the photos myself and I made
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Speaker 2: the deck because I want to get a feel for
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Speaker 2: it before I actually have an oracle deck created. And
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Speaker 2: it's cool. I really really like them. I like the
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Speaker 2: way they feel, and I like getting the messages every day.
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Speaker 2: So check those out. You know. You can find everything
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Speaker 2: I do under postcards to the universe. Let me know
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Speaker 2: if you're there, say hi, give me a like, get
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Speaker 2: me a shout out, you know, and if you want
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Speaker 2: to learn how to create a manifesting postcard, just reach
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Speaker 2: out to me. I tell you how to do it.
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Speaker 2: On my website. There's a section on how to create
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Speaker 2: one and the address of where to send it. So
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Speaker 2: I hope that you do that. Okay, So to get
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Speaker 2: to my guest today, Cheryl Stealthy. She is a spiritual coach,
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Speaker 2: master healer, speaker, best selling author of three books, and
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Speaker 2: the CEO and the founder of the Star of Divine
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Speaker 2: Light Institute and the Azarious Energy Healing Certification Program. She's
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Speaker 2: an energy healer, an empowerment expert, Cheryl helps mature women
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Speaker 2: who know that they are meant for more but feel blocked,
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Speaker 2: gain the clarity they long for and step into their true,
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Speaker 2: authentically powerful selves, enabling them to live their lives with
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Speaker 2: high level purpose. With over thirty years of experience and
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Speaker 2: extensive training and numerous healing modalities spiritual leadership, coaching, retreat guiding, shamanism, yoga,
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Speaker 2: and meditation, Cheryl finds nothing more rewarding than helping women
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Speaker 2: safely break through their subconscious blocks when nothing else has
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Speaker 2: worked as profoundly. Her book, Ace Method, Power of Clearing
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Speaker 2: Subconscious Blocks shares transformative techniques to identify, clear and elevate
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Speaker 2: beyond subconscious barriers, empowering you to unlock clarity and step
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Speaker 2: into your authentic power self. So Ace or ACE is
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Speaker 2: a access c clear and empower You want to find
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Speaker 2: out more about her, you can go to her website
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Speaker 2: Star of Divine Light dot com that Star Ofdivine Light
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Speaker 2: dot com. Welcome Cheryl, thanks so much for joining me today.
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Speaker 3: Oh thank you, Melissa. I'm thrilled to be here.
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Speaker 2: I'm excited to talk to you. So I love that
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Speaker 2: you said that you're doing this kind of work for you.
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Speaker 2: Use the word mature women. And you know, when I
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Speaker 2: got to middle age and all my girlfriends got to
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Speaker 2: middle age, I noticed something that I don't have children.
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Speaker 2: I decided not to have kids, so I don't have children.
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Speaker 2: But a lot of my friends have children, right, and
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Speaker 2: their kids are older now. And it's like these women,
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Speaker 2: even if they had careers, but their children are now
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Speaker 2: kind of doing their own thing. It's like, well, what
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Speaker 2: they're restless? Like what do I want to do now?
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Speaker 2: Like there's so much more to me right than what
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Speaker 2: society tells us that women are supposed to do. And
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Speaker 2: now I have this freedom in this time and they're
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Speaker 2: reinventing themselves. Is that kind of what you're finding with
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Speaker 2: your clients. So I'll let you answer that, but first,
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Speaker 2: maybe you can give us a little bit of a
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Speaker 2: background of how you got into the kind of work
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Speaker 2: that you're doing.
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Speaker 3: Ah, thank you, yes, And I'll just quickly say yes,
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Speaker 3: those kind of women, and I'll elaborate a little bit more.
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Speaker 3: But what got me into doing this kind of work?
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Speaker 3: I was going through I had just actually divorced my
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Speaker 3: first husband and it was very challenging, and so I
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Speaker 3: was one of those women with two young children they
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Speaker 3: were eight and ten years old, and all I felt
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Speaker 3: was relief. Every day I would wake up just feeling
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Speaker 3: relieved that I was out of that marriage. Fine. It
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Speaker 3: was that same sort of feeling, well now what okay,
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Speaker 3: I know I meant for more, there's you know, what
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Speaker 3: is this all about? And really started to question things.
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Speaker 3: And I'll tell you I had a very profound experience
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Speaker 3: on the beach on Vancouver Island when my deceased brother's
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Speaker 3: spirit showed up and I could feel his loving presence
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Speaker 3: as this huge ball of light covering above me, and
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Speaker 3: then my girlfriend, who was doing kinesiology at the time, eventually,
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Speaker 3: you know, felt him too. I didn't say anything because
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Speaker 3: she was going on doing her thing, and then she said,
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Speaker 3: it's your brother, and she said he's here and his
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Speaker 3: The long and the short of it was his message
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Speaker 3: to me was to start meditating. And I had no
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Speaker 3: idea where it was going to lead me, but I did.
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Speaker 3: I found a class. And back then, that's thirty two
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Speaker 3: years ago, it was not the end thing. Yoga was
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Speaker 3: barely catching on. Yoga was just getting into rec centers,
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Speaker 3: but there were no you know, to find a meditation
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Speaker 3: class was rare, and so the women I help, it's
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Speaker 3: they know they're meant for more. It's a feeling. They're
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Speaker 3: not thinking it in their heads. It felt like, oh yeah,
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Speaker 3: I've done this. It's a feeling, this feeling that they
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Speaker 3: just know they're meant for more. And what surprises me,
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Speaker 3: but yet doesn't surprise me because I see how much
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Speaker 3: how quickly, you know, like you said, oh I miss flying, well,
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Speaker 3: I am seeing humanity evolving at more and more rapid
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Speaker 3: rate as time goes on. And so I do get
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Speaker 3: women with small children as well, which I never used
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Speaker 3: to as much, but it doesn't matter. And I also
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Speaker 3: get older women who have had one or two or
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Speaker 3: three careers, or they've done you know, they've had a
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Speaker 3: certain amount of success, and often a lot of success,
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Speaker 3: and they don't know what that next thing is. They
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Speaker 3: know there's something else, and they just lack the clarity.
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Speaker 3: They don't know what it is for the life of them,
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Speaker 3: and every thing that they've tried that they've done in
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Speaker 3: the past isn't working. And I get a lot of
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Speaker 3: women who have done you know, tremendous amount of personal
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Speaker 3: work and that it's just not happening for them.
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Speaker 2: Mm hmmm, I know, yeah, like it's I it's so
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Speaker 2: crazy that you said that you had your brother come
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Speaker 2: to you because and that that that inspired you to
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Speaker 2: start meditating, because I had a similar situation. But flip
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Speaker 2: that I started meditating. I started doing these visual I
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Speaker 2: call them my little visual journey meditations. That's what I do.
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Speaker 2: And my sister who passed away three years ago shows
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Speaker 2: up now and I see her every day in my
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Speaker 2: meditation and I actually feel like I'm more connected to
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Speaker 2: her now than I was when she was alive. My
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Speaker 2: sister was special needs, and it's been an incredible it's
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Speaker 2: it's incredible what's actually happened to have this experience for me.
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Speaker 2: And I love the fact that I have a platform
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Speaker 2: where this is kinds of conversations are becoming more mainstream.
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Speaker 2: Right like you said, this happened over thirty years ago.
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Speaker 2: You couldn't even find a place to do a meditation
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Speaker 2: practice and learn how to do meditation. And look at
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Speaker 2: how far we've come. So I agree with you. I
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Speaker 2: do see that we are evolving on a level of
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Speaker 2: consciousness so fast. And of course that's also why we're
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Speaker 2: seeing a lot of the shadow, the dark stuff coming up,
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Speaker 2: because it has to come up so it can be healed, right,
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Speaker 2: so we can move through it and move past it
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Speaker 2: and move past it. And I love that you're seeing
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Speaker 2: younger women and that you're seeing older women. And do
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Speaker 2: you exclusively just see women you don't see men specifically,
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Speaker 2: or it's just that men. You don't find that men
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Speaker 2: come to you that often.
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Speaker 3: I just don't find that men come to me that often.
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Speaker 3: It's rare. I have worked with men, but it's just
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Speaker 3: like so maybe one a year, it's so few, and
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Speaker 3: a few years ago I had more men. It gets
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Speaker 3: to be less and less men. But what surprises me
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Speaker 3: so much is women in their seventies finding me and
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Speaker 3: they're like, I'm done. I need change. I need to
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Speaker 3: understand myself better and move forward now period you know,
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Speaker 3: late sixties, early seventies, even late seventies. I do have
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Speaker 3: a client that's in her early eighties and read more
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Speaker 3: control wonderful.
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Speaker 2: Well, don't you find that as we get older, like
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Speaker 2: when we're young, we live so outwardly, right, Like everything
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Speaker 2: is outwardly. Like I remember growing up with my girlfriends
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Speaker 2: and you know, going out and dating and meeting their husbands,
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Speaker 2: and it was all about outwardly and then as we
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Speaker 2: get older, we realized that if we want to change anything,
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Speaker 2: it's really an inside job, right, So we start to
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Speaker 2: go deeper and deeper inward, and that's where we find
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Speaker 2: so much healing and growth is by going inside. Like,
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Speaker 2: we can't change the world, right, the way we change
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Speaker 2: the world is we change ourselves. That's the only way
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Speaker 2: we can do it because what we do affects everybody
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Speaker 2: else around us. Have you found that to be true
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Speaker 2: in your work with your clients?
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Speaker 3: Oh? Yes, absolutely, And it really is when all the
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Speaker 3: outward things, all everything in our environment, people, places, work, things,
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Speaker 3: all of that starts to reflect back to us the
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Speaker 3: inner work that we came here to do. So, especially relationships,
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Speaker 3: and the most intimate relationships, the deepest loves are often
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Speaker 3: our biggest teachers. And if so, what some people will
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Speaker 3: do is turned two addictions. And that's a real crankral
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Speaker 3: chakra thing, because it's the intimacy with the self that's
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Speaker 3: too scary for them. It's it's too hard to feel
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Speaker 3: all their emotions and be honest and vulnerable with the self.
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Speaker 3: So when you talk about going inward, that's, you know,
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Speaker 3: a huge part of it. And so some people will
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Speaker 3: you know, especially with screens today, start to online shop
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Speaker 3: or gamble or you know various. I mean, so there's
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Speaker 3: so many. I wonder how long the list is of astractions, addictions,
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Speaker 3: right to avoid. But those who who do want quality
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Speaker 3: of life, want fulfillment, want more meaning, want connection, they
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Speaker 3: do learn to go inward and people are doing it
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Speaker 3: at younger and younger ages.
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Speaker 2: M Well, I want to talk about your book. So
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Speaker 2: do you say the Ace method or do you say
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Speaker 2: Acee Method? How do you call your book?
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Speaker 3: Well, the aceh Method. That's my that's my little it's
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Speaker 3: a little freebe e book. So people that want to
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Speaker 3: do want to do the inner work. That's the only
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Speaker 3: one that's just a little e book my other three books,
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Speaker 3: and I call it the Ace Method. And you've got
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Speaker 3: it all right, thank you for stating it so clearly, access,
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Speaker 3: clear and empower. But my first book, I wrote that
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Speaker 3: book because I realized one day that all my clients
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Speaker 3: had throat chakra issues and I thought I was, you know,
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Speaker 3: I was the one in the world that had more
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Speaker 3: throat chakra issues than anybody, and that at first it
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Speaker 3: was kind of well, this is what what especially women
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Speaker 3: need because culturally and historically women have been silenced in
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Speaker 3: certain ways, and you know, we've really come out of
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Speaker 3: our shelves, especially since the sixties and then the set
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Speaker 3: vanes in the eighties and so on, but there's still more.
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Speaker 3: And so I at first, you know, I hit my
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Speaker 3: own blog. Who am I to write a book about
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Speaker 3: the throat chakra? Who am I not to write a
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Speaker 3: book about the throat chakra? And I just discovered so
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Speaker 3: much that I wanted to share in that book. So
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Speaker 3: it was my it was my first book. And then
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Speaker 3: I started coaches, started finding and I started working with
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Speaker 3: all these coaches to help them become client magnets. Because
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Speaker 3: people would say to me, where are you getting your clients?
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Speaker 3: I was like, I don't know, They're kind of falling
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Speaker 3: out of the sky. Well are you doing social media? No, No,
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Speaker 3: I've tried. I'm just not that good at it. And
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Speaker 3: just recently I'm getting more on Instagram. And so I
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Speaker 3: ended up writing that book based on helping other coaches
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Speaker 3: and businesswomen attract there are clients, And it was one
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Speaker 3: of the reasons I just was so honored when you
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Speaker 3: asked me to be on your radio show. Is you
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Speaker 3: know we are not just here to manifest money and
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Speaker 3: soule mantic relationships, but to really manifest our service, you know,
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Speaker 3: and those souls that need us the most, that we
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Speaker 3: learned to really attract them energy energetically. And I'll, you know,
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Speaker 3: just say, the biggest secret is you've got to work
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Speaker 3: on those lower three chakras and it's really the solar
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Speaker 3: plexus that helps us do that. And then it was
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Speaker 3: just last fall I wrote my book From Block to
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Speaker 3: Powerful and I'm like, oh man, this is this is
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Speaker 3: my sort of my legacy book, and I put all
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Speaker 3: sorts of different practices in it. It's a more advanced book,
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Speaker 3: all hear toward mature women, no kids.
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Speaker 2: I love it. I love it. And your book the
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Speaker 2: Ace Method you talk about and it's in you said,
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Speaker 2: it's a free ebook people can find. That's good to know.
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Speaker 2: So guys, if you're listening, check it out. It's about
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Speaker 2: clearing subconscious blocks, because that's the thing that so many
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Speaker 2: of us don't understand why things aren't happening, because we
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Speaker 2: have these subconscious stories. I always call them stories that
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Speaker 2: are really running the show right, Like you're doing all
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Speaker 2: the things like I tell people create a manifesting postcard
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Speaker 2: they're wonderful, they're fun, you tap into the energy, they're playful.
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Speaker 2: It's all that stuff. And you're putting a visual component
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Speaker 2: to something that you want and you're sending it out
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Speaker 2: and like it's the whole ritual and the process. But
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Speaker 2: if you don't feel you're worthy of what you're asking
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Speaker 2: for because you have a worthiness issue, you can make
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Speaker 2: a thousand of them and it's not going to make
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Speaker 2: there's going to be no moves, right. You have to
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Speaker 2: work on that whatever, that subconscious story that you've been
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Speaker 2: telling yourself. So what do you find in from your
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Speaker 2: from your clients and your own work? Like, what is
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Speaker 2: one of the biggest subconscious blocks that seem to keep
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Speaker 2: showing up for us women?
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Speaker 3: Uh? You know you you really hit the nail on
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Speaker 3: the head. And unworthiness is one I like to believe
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Speaker 3: or just based on all the years I've been doing
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Speaker 3: this work, I believe there's four main subconscious blocks and
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Speaker 3: they can you can have a combination of all four,
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Speaker 3: but it varies as to which one is the strongest.
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Speaker 3: But everybody can feel it. So even if you're listening
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Speaker 3: to the show right now, you can tune into your heart.
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Speaker 3: You can put your hand on your heart, and and
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Speaker 3: I'm going to repeat all four of them. And they
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Speaker 3: are subconscious beliefs based in repressed emotions. So it's always
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Speaker 3: the repressed emotions that lead to as you call it,
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Speaker 3: the subconscious stories. I call them subconscious blocks, and so
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Speaker 3: we and they're not in any particular order, So you
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Speaker 3: just feel in your body. Your body will tell you
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Speaker 3: which one is strongest for you. You'll get the biggest reactions.
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Speaker 3: So if you say to yourself, I'm unworthy, I'm unworthy,
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Speaker 3: and you see how that feels in your body, And
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Speaker 3: then the next one, I could say, I don't matter,
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Speaker 3: so I don't matter, what I want, doesn't matter what
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Speaker 3: you know.
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Speaker 2: I don't matter.
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Speaker 3: And another one I'm not enough or I'm not good enough.
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Speaker 3: I'm not enough, I'm not good enough, and the last
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Speaker 3: one I'm unlovable. And so you can go through all
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Speaker 3: four and see which one you have the biggest reaction to,
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Speaker 3: and that's going to lead you to a direction and
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Speaker 3: a release where you can actually release all the emotions
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Speaker 3: that you weren't able to feel when you were really
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Speaker 3: small that caused you to form that subconscious belief without
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Speaker 3: even realizing it.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, Oh my got one hundred percent and I already
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Speaker 2: know out of the four. So mine was always it
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Speaker 2: would fall under I don't matter because I would always think, well,
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Speaker 2: I'm not as important as because I'm the oldest of
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Speaker 2: three and I have two younger sisters and then my
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Speaker 2: others my sister who passed away, we weren't we were
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Speaker 2: not even three years apart. She was born special needs,
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Speaker 2: so she she always had issues from birth, right, and
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Speaker 2: my parents were super young when they had us, like
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Speaker 2: my mom had me, and she was twenty years old
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Speaker 2: when she had me, so she had two kids. One
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Speaker 2: was special needs by the time she was twenty three
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Speaker 2: twenty four, so you know, they did the best that
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Speaker 2: they could. So it's not that I was I didn't
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Speaker 2: feel loved. I just always felt that I wasn't as
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Speaker 2: important because Tony had issues. Right, it was always about Tony,
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Speaker 2: Tony Tony my sister. And then my other sister came
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Speaker 2: along years later, and so then she was the baby.
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Speaker 2: So mine was that. And now because I've done so
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Speaker 2: much work on myself, I see how that manifested in
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Speaker 2: my life. That kept showing me like your voice matters,
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Speaker 2: your opinion matters, your what you know you. What you
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Speaker 2: say matters. You know, how you feel matters. And it's
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Speaker 2: interesting that I fell into radio because I wasn't expecting
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Speaker 2: to do radio because I'm a visual artist. It never
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Speaker 2: occurred to me, and that has helped open my throat chakra.
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Speaker 3: Awesome, awesome, and you know whatever, whatever the one of
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Speaker 3: the four that is the strongest right now in your life,
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Speaker 3: it's the opposite of that. So for you, it was
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Speaker 3: I don't matter, and it's the opposite of that is
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Speaker 3: part of what your soul came here to experience. I
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Speaker 3: matter a whole lot. Wow, I actually so we have
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Speaker 3: to experience the deepest, the darkest shadow of that so
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Speaker 3: that we can heal, grow empower until it becomes our superpower.
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Speaker 2: I love that. I got goosebumps when you said that.
22:27
Speaker 2: I love that. So how for anybody who's listening right now,
22:31
Speaker 2: who is like, oh, I recognize me. You know I'm
22:35
Speaker 2: carrying one, two, three, all of them? What how do
22:40
Speaker 2: we start clearing the subconscious blocks so that we can
22:46
Speaker 2: heel from this, right, because that's what we're meant to do.
22:49
Speaker 2: That's why we're having these experiences.
22:52
Speaker 3: That's right, that's right, And so to me, the easiest
22:56
Speaker 3: way is true meditation, but not sitting on the floor
23:01
Speaker 3: cross legged. You'll get further if you sit on a
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Speaker 3: chair with your feet firmly flat on the chair and
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Speaker 3: sitting nice and straight with the you know, your back
23:11
Speaker 3: really straight, a nice straight spine because energy runs up
23:14
Speaker 3: and down the spine and you know curly in photography
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Speaker 3: has proven we're made of light and energy can be
23:22
Speaker 3: can be seen. And what we can do is, uh,
23:27
Speaker 3: let's just pick one. Let's just say unworthy. I feel
23:30
Speaker 3: unworthy of the abundance of life in all areas. So
23:37
Speaker 3: we can look at our lives, look at anything, you know,
23:41
Speaker 3: what's your biggest problem with respect to where you're feeling
23:46
Speaker 3: unworthy or wait, where it may appear that you're not
23:49
Speaker 3: worthy enough. And so what you can do is just
23:55
Speaker 3: close your eyes and start to feel those feelings that
23:59
Speaker 3: go along with it, and they all be right there. Now,
24:02
Speaker 3: this is the important part, and this is probably the
24:06
Speaker 3: most important part, is to take long, full, deep breath
24:11
Speaker 3: with your lower aftermen because that changes the brain function
24:16
Speaker 3: when we breathe fully. So I'm talking six to eight
24:19
Speaker 3: seconds on the inhale and six to eight seconds on
24:22
Speaker 3: the exhale, So you first want to practice that until
24:26
Speaker 3: it becomes easier, and for some people you may end
24:30
Speaker 3: up with a jagged breath or the inhales longer than
24:33
Speaker 3: the exhale, and those all represent different things. But you
24:36
Speaker 3: just try and do it. And then when you feel
24:39
Speaker 3: your emotions while you're doing this breath, it actually starts
24:44
Speaker 3: to release them from your subconscious. And science has proven
24:49
Speaker 3: that trauma, all our wounding, is encoded in the right
24:53
Speaker 3: side of the brain, in the subconscious. So that's why
24:58
Speaker 3: your postcards to the universe aren't always going to work.
25:02
Speaker 3: They work at a conscious level, but if you have
25:04
Speaker 3: some big wombs sitting in there that needs to be healed,
25:08
Speaker 3: you need to go into the subconscious. And so and
25:13
Speaker 3: I just want to say that this is just coming
25:15
Speaker 3: to my mind right now that with your postcards, and
25:19
Speaker 3: I've loved that that you've done the cards as well, the.
25:26
Speaker 2: Terrible cards.
25:26
Speaker 3: Ye, fantastic, fantastic. So if you look at what is
25:32
Speaker 3: your greatest desire? Take all of all of Melissa's oracle
25:37
Speaker 3: cards or all her postcards in the universe, what is
25:40
Speaker 3: your greatest desire? Look at them all, what which one?
25:43
Speaker 3: If you could just have that, it's it'll be the
25:47
Speaker 3: one you want the most might have the complete opposite.
25:51
Speaker 3: That's your biggest blog that's getting in the way of
25:53
Speaker 3: your moving forward. So you can start to breed through
25:57
Speaker 3: those emotions and that if if you really want to
26:01
Speaker 3: kind of go all the way with this is to
26:03
Speaker 3: focus on the root chakra at the tip of the tailbone.
26:06
Speaker 3: And you know, I wrote my first book, Heal Your
26:09
Speaker 3: Neck Issues and Let your Throat Chakra Shine. And what
26:13
Speaker 3: I realized after helping people for yours with their throat
26:16
Speaker 3: chakras was that all the problems are in the root chakra.
26:21
Speaker 3: When we heal, when we keep healing at the level
26:25
Speaker 3: of the throat chakra, it's just going to come back
26:28
Speaker 3: because it all starts in the root, and the root
26:31
Speaker 3: is all about number one, creating safety and stability. So
26:36
Speaker 3: Melissa will just use you for an example. You didn't
26:39
Speaker 3: feel safe and stable enough that you mattered as much
26:43
Speaker 3: as your siblings, and so the next level, when you
26:47
Speaker 3: do feel safe and stable enough, would you do now
26:50
Speaker 3: then you move into trust and faith. Oh yeah, I
26:53
Speaker 3: meant to have this radio show. I meant to do
26:55
Speaker 3: this work a matter be a move into trust and faith.
26:59
Speaker 3: It comes and the trust in life, trust in the universe,
27:02
Speaker 3: trust in God. And then the ultimate level is responsibility
27:09
Speaker 3: and accomplishment. What did your soul come here to be
27:13
Speaker 3: responsible for? And part of what your soul came here
27:16
Speaker 3: to be responsible for was getting these important messages out
27:22
Speaker 3: right and accomplishing that. So you you can stand in
27:26
Speaker 3: your responsibility. I matter, my show matters. I'm doing this
27:31
Speaker 3: period and it brings you joy, it lights you up,
27:35
Speaker 3: and that's the energy of manifesting. So any blocks, it's
27:39
Speaker 3: about breathing into the emotions. And then in the ACEH
27:43
Speaker 3: method you'll find so it's it's really quite detailed. It's
27:48
Speaker 3: a it's a written description.
27:51
Speaker 2: Okay, before we get into that, let's let's let's let's
27:54
Speaker 2: continue that. I just looked at the clock and and
27:56
Speaker 2: we're going to take our break here because then we
27:58
Speaker 2: can get into the ace method and talk more. All right,
28:00
Speaker 2: stay tuned, everybody, really interesting. We'll be back in a
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30:42
Speaker 2: was thinking during the break about what you said, using
30:45
Speaker 2: me as an example, and I was like, you know,
30:49
Speaker 2: that's really really fascinating because one day I wrote, and
30:54
Speaker 2: we'll get back into it, like about myself, and I
30:58
Speaker 2: put it in notes in my and I found it
31:00
Speaker 2: during the break and I wrote, I am an illuminator
31:04
Speaker 2: with my photography, with my postcards and oracle cards with
31:07
Speaker 2: people's manifestations, and now through my podcast and radio show,
31:12
Speaker 2: I shine a light or illuminate what others are contributing
31:16
Speaker 2: to the raising of the vibrations of the planet. Like
31:20
Speaker 2: that came to me one day so strong that I
31:24
Speaker 2: had to write that down because that's what my soul
31:29
Speaker 2: was meant to do. And that's why I love doing
31:31
Speaker 2: what I do, and that's why I light up when
31:33
Speaker 2: I do it, because I'm doing it finally, you.
31:35
Speaker 3: Know, yes, yes, And it's and it is so much
31:39
Speaker 3: about light, and it's also about love, love and light,
31:43
Speaker 3: light and love. It's not a flaky thing. It's not
31:47
Speaker 3: just whimsical. It's true. And you can stand in that
31:51
Speaker 3: and claim it. You can claim it, you can own it.
31:55
Speaker 3: And when you're all finished, and it doesn't mean you
31:58
Speaker 3: won't do other things. But when you're all finished and
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Speaker 3: you're on your deathbed, you're just going to be thrilled.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, You're going to be just.
32:07
Speaker 3: Thrilled because and you're you're fulfilling your soul's purpose. And
32:12
Speaker 3: yet there will still be obstacles. Right, Can you say
32:16
Speaker 3: it's always just a smooth ride up here?
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Speaker 2: No? No, no, no no. So you were going to
32:24
Speaker 2: talk more about you said about getting into the a
32:27
Speaker 2: access c clear e empower. So yeah, I'll let you
32:31
Speaker 2: go ahead finish your thoughts right.
32:33
Speaker 3: So the first thing trauma are wounding is all stored
32:38
Speaker 3: in the subconscious in the right side of the brain.
32:41
Speaker 3: So by breathing fully we can gain access. And you
32:45
Speaker 3: can start by thinking of any negative or derogatory situation
32:50
Speaker 3: in your life. Just think about it and let your
32:54
Speaker 3: emotions come up, whether it's anger, frustration, what worry, whatever
33:01
Speaker 3: it is, and let yourself feel those emotions. Keep your
33:04
Speaker 3: eyes down on your root chakra and breathe fully into them,
33:07
Speaker 3: and you'll notice after a period of time that the
33:11
Speaker 3: emotions start to dissipate. And then what you want to do.
33:15
Speaker 3: You want to what I call follow the emotional thread,
33:20
Speaker 3: for the emotional track, So you keep asking yourself what else,
33:26
Speaker 3: what's underneath? What else haven't I felt? Because so many
33:32
Speaker 3: of us I mean, I was raised, you put out
33:34
Speaker 3: your feelings aside. You don't talk about your feelings, you know,
33:39
Speaker 3: And so this is an opportunity to let yourself feel
33:45
Speaker 3: your emotions. And emotions are energy emotion. They're meant to
33:48
Speaker 3: move when they're stuck. That's what creates our blocks, especially
33:53
Speaker 3: our manifesting blocks, so you go deeper and deeper, and
33:59
Speaker 3: then the ultimate is to ask yourself when you sort
34:02
Speaker 3: of get to the bottom of the barrel, and they're
34:04
Speaker 3: often the lowest vibration emotions like shame and believe it
34:10
Speaker 3: or not confusion. Confusion is an emotion that's usually linked
34:18
Speaker 3: with trauma at the age of two or one or three,
34:22
Speaker 3: at an early age, and I help people, you know,
34:26
Speaker 3: back to as early as in the womb. Fetuses definitely
34:29
Speaker 3: feel and so you can imagine that you become that
34:33
Speaker 3: younger self and you feel your emotions, and you will
34:36
Speaker 3: eventually when you clear enough of the emotions, and clearing
34:39
Speaker 3: them is just breathing through them. Breathing through them. That's
34:43
Speaker 3: the C is for clear. A is for first access,
34:46
Speaker 3: and you keep going deeper and you're clearing, clearing, clearing,
34:50
Speaker 3: You're getting down to the roots sort of like a dandelion.
34:54
Speaker 3: And then once you clear all that and you understand
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Speaker 3: and what the subconscious belief was, or as you say,
35:04
Speaker 3: the subconscious story, then you can start to be empower
35:09
Speaker 3: by reprogramming and you can start to reparent yourself. So
35:14
Speaker 3: you have this little self that was really injured wounded,
35:18
Speaker 3: and it could have been. You know, I'm going to
35:21
Speaker 3: use you again, Melissa. As an example, Let's say your
35:24
Speaker 3: special needs sister is four years old and you suddenly
35:29
Speaker 3: realize whoa she is, forever going to come first. I'll
35:34
Speaker 3: never matter as much my needs. My needs don't matter
35:39
Speaker 3: as much. And you know, one of our basic needs
35:42
Speaker 3: is that we feel cared for and loved unconditionally. So
35:46
Speaker 3: when you're feeling second, or third or lasts, that creates
35:51
Speaker 3: a certain energy and you can feel confused. It's amazing
35:56
Speaker 3: how many two year olds in the subconscious feel confused,
36:00
Speaker 3: don't understand, don't understand, and you can what I always say, uh,
36:08
Speaker 3: you know, really disarm the little one who's feeling the emotion,
36:11
Speaker 3: letting them know it's not their fault. You know, they
36:14
Speaker 3: didn't do anything wrong. But it's then it's the little
36:18
Speaker 3: one starts to understand, no, they're actually meant for more
36:22
Speaker 3: for sure, and they start to feel their true essence
36:27
Speaker 3: and that light that you're talking about, They start to
36:30
Speaker 3: feel their light, and then suddenly the true, the real
36:36
Speaker 3: beliefs will come through and it's you know, I'm I'm
36:43
Speaker 3: meant to be powerful, i am meant to speak my truth.
36:47
Speaker 3: Life is miraculous. And you know, little ones, I just
36:52
Speaker 3: was up in the mountains, really high up this last
36:55
Speaker 3: weekend and tell your ride, and you're a up and
36:59
Speaker 3: collar and I and I went to a number of
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Speaker 3: waterfalls and I was walking out of this area for
37:05
Speaker 3: this one waterfall, and this mother and her little baby,
37:10
Speaker 3: I would say nine months old, maybe nine or ten
37:13
Speaker 3: months old. The little one saw my light, see all
37:17
Speaker 3: of it. She just had like a neutral face and
37:20
Speaker 3: she and there were all these people around, and she
37:23
Speaker 3: saw me, and I could feel how I was just
37:26
Speaker 3: so in alignment, especially from this waterfall, and her face
37:32
Speaker 3: lit up and she put her hand out to me.
37:34
Speaker 3: She just wanted to touch me. Yeah, and the mother just
37:38
Speaker 3: looked at me and she didn't get it. The mother
37:39
Speaker 3: didn't get it. And and but those little ones are
37:42
Speaker 3: still so in tune and in touch with their light
37:47
Speaker 3: and you know, their soul. So yeah, so we can
37:52
Speaker 3: do anything.
37:55
Speaker 2: We can reprogram anything. And it's funny that you said that,
37:57
Speaker 2: because that is so true around those ages three and four.
38:01
Speaker 2: I took that story on it. And also I have
38:05
Speaker 2: a personality even before my little my sister was born
38:10
Speaker 2: that I developed early. I walked fast, I talked fast.
38:13
Speaker 2: I was independent from the very beginning, like figuring things
38:17
Speaker 2: out for myself. So I was a very easy child,
38:22
Speaker 2: and I was a very independent child. So I even
38:27
Speaker 2: perpetuated that. So you know, my parents thinking, well, I
38:30
Speaker 2: don't we don't have to worry about her. She's you know,
38:34
Speaker 2: she's okay.
38:35
Speaker 3: You know.
38:36
Speaker 2: But when you think about a four or five six
38:39
Speaker 2: year old and you're emotional intelligence, you don't know, right,
38:42
Speaker 2: you think, well, I'm not going to bother them with
38:45
Speaker 2: this trivial little ooh, my feelings are hurt from my
38:48
Speaker 2: friend because my sister's having an issue. Right, you see it?
38:52
Speaker 2: And then then what does that let what does that manifest?
38:55
Speaker 2: When you get older, Well, you know, you you attract
38:59
Speaker 2: relationships where their emotional capacity is way more important than yours.
39:04
Speaker 2: So you put yourself on the back burner because somebody
39:06
Speaker 2: else is going through something or having an issue or
39:10
Speaker 2: you know, and that's and that's how it shows up.
39:13
Speaker 2: That's right, and it's it. It becomes it's interesting. You
39:17
Speaker 2: don't realize it until you're you've actually done some inner
39:20
Speaker 2: work and you've seen it and you can give yourself
39:23
Speaker 2: you can give examples of it in your own life.
39:26
Speaker 3: That's right, and it becomes an embedded pattern. I've noticed
39:31
Speaker 3: that most people that really need to feel in control
39:35
Speaker 3: of their lives. You know, we're not designed to be
39:37
Speaker 3: in control of our lives. That's right, that's not how
39:40
Speaker 3: the universe intended. The universe wants us to feel loved
39:44
Speaker 3: and cared for and that everything is happening for us,
39:48
Speaker 3: the good, bad, and the in between. And it usually
39:52
Speaker 3: starts at around age two. There's often an incident in
39:56
Speaker 3: the family where the parents aren't handling things well and
40:00
Speaker 3: the two year old thinks, oh my gosh, this is chaos.
40:04
Speaker 3: They don't know what they're doing, and they and they
40:07
Speaker 3: suddenly have to take on the need for control. And
40:10
Speaker 3: then it's usually in their forties they just start to realize, wow,
40:15
Speaker 3: I'm pretty controlling and they don't see it as a problem,
40:19
Speaker 3: but it really gets gets in our way. But it's
40:23
Speaker 3: it was out of the need to survive. And if
40:26
Speaker 3: if our parents are young, and I had young parents too,
40:29
Speaker 3: they're still kind of kids and adult bodies, they're not,
40:34
Speaker 3: and so does it, you know, And like you said,
40:36
Speaker 3: they're always doing their best, and yes, signed up to
40:39
Speaker 3: have them. We signed up to have them for parents
40:42
Speaker 3: and any of the wounding that we got. And so
40:45
Speaker 3: it's always about going back, finding when were those patterns
40:50
Speaker 3: first created in the subconscious and feeling the emotions that
40:54
Speaker 3: go with them so that we can we can start
40:56
Speaker 3: to reprogram. And that's where you're postcards and the oracle
41:02
Speaker 3: cards really work because the visual helps, because it helps
41:07
Speaker 3: you feel differently, it helps you feel better. Like when
41:11
Speaker 3: you said I'm an illuminator, you felt that you know
41:16
Speaker 3: what that feels like to be an illuminator.
41:20
Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, yeah, it's This is so in alignment with
41:25
Speaker 2: the work that I do and why I love having
41:27
Speaker 2: people like you on my show and having these conversations
41:30
Speaker 2: because I'm noticing more and more around me, more people
41:35
Speaker 2: are coming into themselves and realizing, you know, hey, I
41:41
Speaker 2: have this issue. And it's because I learned this so young,
41:48
Speaker 2: this story in my life, and it has been running
41:52
Speaker 2: the show of my life right, it's been running the
41:55
Speaker 2: show like I never I always knew I was loved.
41:59
Speaker 2: Loved isn't the problem. But what happened was I grew
42:02
Speaker 2: up and became a people pleaser where all I did
42:05
Speaker 2: was want to please everybody else. And you know when
42:07
Speaker 2: I stopped doing that. Oh, I can tell you the
42:10
Speaker 2: shake up in relationships friends, family, when I said, oh,
42:15
Speaker 2: oh no, no, no, no, no, are you available? No, I'm
42:18
Speaker 2: not available any longer. It really shifted a lot of
42:23
Speaker 2: the dynamics, you know. And it's a great thing though,
42:27
Speaker 2: you know, it's it's great. So for anybody listening, who's thinking,
42:31
Speaker 2: who's thinking, Yeah, it's changed, but it's good change.
42:36
Speaker 3: It's and it is really good change. And it's interesting.
42:39
Speaker 3: Most of my clients, most of my clients are are
42:44
Speaker 3: people pleasers, or if they're not, they just simply put
42:47
Speaker 3: other people before them and overly responsible, like you said,
42:52
Speaker 3: you know, being independent early on being responsible. But I
42:57
Speaker 3: will say I'm starting to see this more and more
43:00
Speaker 3: for married women, don't expect your relationship to stay the
43:06
Speaker 3: same if you're going even if you're working on your
43:10
Speaker 3: business or you know, feeling better for don't expect your
43:16
Speaker 3: relationships to stay the same. And it's fascinating how they
43:21
Speaker 3: swing one way or the other. If so, if there
43:23
Speaker 3: are some deep seated problems in the relationship, it's not
43:27
Speaker 3: going to work. And you start creating those changes and
43:31
Speaker 3: putting yourself first. And like you said, big shakeups, what
43:35
Speaker 3: the opposite is also so true. I have two clients
43:40
Speaker 3: that I'm working with right now whose marriages, one in particular,
43:44
Speaker 3: really on the rocks and been on the rocks for
43:47
Speaker 3: a long time. And she'd you know, they were actually
43:49
Speaker 3: talking about the big D word. And they are just
43:54
Speaker 3: moving to new levels in their relationships and their marriages
43:58
Speaker 3: that they didn't even dream possible, just by the change
44:02
Speaker 3: and they and they asked me, are you working on
44:04
Speaker 3: my husband in the background? Are you doing something to him?
44:07
Speaker 3: Because he's really different? It always laughs, I don't know,
44:10
Speaker 3: you're you're you're different, and so you can't stay the same.
44:14
Speaker 2: He can't, right, And so what happens he can't stay
44:18
Speaker 2: the same. That's why when people say I want to
44:20
Speaker 2: change the world, change yourself, and you will because the
44:24
Speaker 2: people around you can't stay the same any longer. And
44:27
Speaker 2: that's how you change the world. If we all did that,
44:30
Speaker 2: the world would look very different. Is this all what
44:32
Speaker 2: inspired you to get to your book From Black to Powerful?
44:37
Speaker 2: Is that this did all of this kind of work? Yeah?
44:41
Speaker 3: Oh yeah, and more and more because in that book
44:45
Speaker 3: there's you know, there's some I've studied multiople mode out.
44:50
Speaker 3: I mean, I've spent thousands, right, thousands of dollars in years.
44:54
Speaker 3: But there's practices from different modalities, Shawmanism, Sufism, and I
45:00
Speaker 3: would say, you know, it's sort of a compilation of
45:04
Speaker 3: my my best practices and how to really become empowered
45:10
Speaker 3: and to own why we're here and what that really
45:13
Speaker 3: is about. So it's it's pretty high level. And that's
45:16
Speaker 3: that book goes with my highest level program. It's called
45:21
Speaker 3: the higher state throat Chopper program, where you actually start
45:25
Speaker 3: to live in a much higher state and that and
45:28
Speaker 3: like you said, what that does is it affects those
45:33
Speaker 3: around around us, whether it's you know, the clerk at
45:36
Speaker 3: the grocery store, or our partner or our children. We
45:41
Speaker 3: are all transmitting energy all the time. We are constantly.
45:46
Speaker 3: It's sort of like you know the wires in your house.
45:50
Speaker 3: We're like the wires. There's always electricity going through them
45:54
Speaker 3: and and we we we feel it, but we're not
45:57
Speaker 3: aware of it. And so this book helps you the
46:01
Speaker 3: last one from block to powerful is really moving to
46:05
Speaker 3: that next level.
46:07
Speaker 2: Now, if somebody just wanted to read the book, could
46:10
Speaker 2: they do that or is that book only offered through
46:13
Speaker 2: working with you and doing coaching because they need the assistance.
46:19
Speaker 3: Oh yes they can. They can just get the book
46:22
Speaker 3: on Amazon.
46:22
Speaker 2: Okay, okay, okay, great, all three books? Okay, good. Yeah.
46:26
Speaker 3: Yeah.
46:26
Speaker 2: Some people may be like, hey, I'm ready for that.
46:29
Speaker 2: You know, I don't. I can start there, you know,
46:33
Speaker 2: because we're all in different stages of our journey to learning.
46:37
Speaker 2: And you know, it's interesting that you said that about
46:41
Speaker 2: your clients and their relationships because I feel this is
46:45
Speaker 2: just a personal opinion, so people can take it. Who
46:49
Speaker 2: are listening, I feel if you've noticed, or maybe you
46:53
Speaker 2: don't notice, there seems to be this more men are
46:57
Speaker 2: coming online and really kind of complaining and being victims
47:02
Speaker 2: about women and saying they can't get relationships women this,
47:05
Speaker 2: women this, And I feel like men are feeling a
47:11
Speaker 2: little lost because women are evolving, maybe in a more
47:15
Speaker 2: spiritual conscious level, maybe a little bit quicker. We're all
47:18
Speaker 2: going to get there, so it doesn't really matter, right,
47:20
Speaker 2: We're all going to get there in time that men
47:22
Speaker 2: don't haven't been able or haven't been given the space
47:28
Speaker 2: to do that. Maybe the you know, they feel like
47:33
Speaker 2: they're still how do I want to say it? Like,
47:35
Speaker 2: you know, I have to be a man, right, so
47:37
Speaker 2: I have to be a man means I can't show emotion,
47:39
Speaker 2: I can't feel this, I can't cry, I can't be vulnerable.
47:43
Speaker 2: So they're struggling. And that's just what I've noticed when
47:47
Speaker 2: I'm talking to women and talking and men, and I'm
47:51
Speaker 2: noticing that that's kind of a trend. Do you do
47:54
Speaker 2: you see that too? Or is it just because I've
47:57
Speaker 2: noticed it now I'm seeing it. You know when you
47:59
Speaker 2: notice thing, then you see it. How that works.
48:02
Speaker 3: Yeah, I'm actually seeing the opposite. So that exists, but
48:07
Speaker 3: it doesn't it doesn't seem to be in my purview.
48:12
Speaker 3: It doesn't tend to be in my view. And I
48:16
Speaker 3: remember when I was first teaching medic not first, but
48:20
Speaker 3: I was teaching a lot of meditation classes when I
48:23
Speaker 3: was living in Vancouver a number of years ago, and
48:25
Speaker 3: I used to get so many young men in Vancouver.
48:28
Speaker 3: And Vancouver, Canada is a pretty new age city, you know,
48:33
Speaker 3: it's very alternative. And I was living right in Kittilano,
48:38
Speaker 3: and before that, I was living right in the West End,
48:40
Speaker 3: so very new age areas, and I was getting a
48:44
Speaker 3: lot of men. And I'm always an artist, you know.
48:48
Speaker 3: Sure they had their day job because there was some
48:50
Speaker 3: sort of art and that that was so fulfilling. What
48:54
Speaker 3: I'm seeing today is that men of all ages are
48:59
Speaker 3: opening up and the ones that are just not ready,
49:04
Speaker 3: like you said, they want to play the victim. Oh,
49:07
Speaker 3: you know, woe with me if I see another women's group.
49:10
Speaker 3: It's all about women. It's such a low vibration, you know,
49:15
Speaker 3: jealousy and envy. We can have. Envy can serve us.
49:19
Speaker 3: I mean, I mean all our emotions serve us. But
49:22
Speaker 3: they they're just not ready to discover themselves with keeping
49:26
Speaker 3: them from doing the same because there is so much
49:29
Speaker 3: out there. There is just so much out there and
49:34
Speaker 3: in different spiritual groups and trainings and that sort of thing.
49:38
Speaker 3: Over the decades, you know, I've been around a while,
49:41
Speaker 3: there are more and more men attending things and harnessing
49:46
Speaker 3: and it feels like balancing the divine feminine and divine
49:52
Speaker 3: masculine within themselves. It's so cool. It's just so cool.
49:58
Speaker 3: And you have men, you know, talking about their feelings
50:02
Speaker 3: and seeing that that's it's a human thing to do.
50:07
Speaker 3: It's not really just for women, it's not just but
50:11
Speaker 3: to see how it gets them what they want. Everybody
50:15
Speaker 3: wants closeness, connection, intimacy, and if we're pushing it away.
50:21
Speaker 3: I know I'm fine on my own. It's only because
50:24
Speaker 3: of our wounds, and so yeah, I'm seeing those. Sure,
50:29
Speaker 3: there's plenty of men that are just not ready. But
50:33
Speaker 3: even my neighbor, he's eighties, he's in his early eighties.
50:39
Speaker 3: I can't believe how spiritual he is. He does distant
50:43
Speaker 3: breaking on people.
50:45
Speaker 2: I love that. I love that.
50:46
Speaker 3: Train, and I'm like, WHOA.
50:49
Speaker 2: Well, that's why I pose the question, because I know
50:53
Speaker 2: that that's not a true statement, right, that's just a
50:57
Speaker 2: perspective that I may be seeing. And that's why I
51:00
Speaker 2: like to ask, what are you seeing? And now that
51:03
Speaker 2: you said, oh no, I'm seeing this, I know what's
51:07
Speaker 2: going to happen. Now. What's going to happen now is
51:10
Speaker 2: I'm going to start seeing that more because you just
51:14
Speaker 2: planted that in my head, you see. And that's that's
51:17
Speaker 2: why I love this kind of work. And that's why
51:19
Speaker 2: I'm so open to other people's ideas about life, because
51:25
Speaker 2: my idea about life isn't the right idea, right, that's
51:28
Speaker 2: just my narrow perspective, right that I'm going through this
51:32
Speaker 2: world and I see things a certain way, and so
51:35
Speaker 2: I'm exposed to things a certain way and being open
51:39
Speaker 2: to listening and seeing how other people's perspective is is
51:43
Speaker 2: how we learn and grow, you know. And that's just
51:46
Speaker 2: my I love it. I love I'm a big reader.
51:49
Speaker 2: I'm a big you know. I love more information. Like
51:52
Speaker 2: I can't get enough information about things.
51:54
Speaker 3: You know.
51:55
Speaker 2: Maybe it's because I'm a Gemini. It's just my air sign,
51:57
Speaker 2: you know, I always need information. So I like asking people, well,
52:02
Speaker 2: what is your perspective on it?
52:06
Speaker 3: And the other thing, if I dare add to that,
52:09
Speaker 3: is your receptive You feel safe enough to be receptive
52:14
Speaker 3: that you can take on a new idea and make
52:19
Speaker 3: it your own. You can take on a new belief
52:22
Speaker 3: that you listen and you're listening with discernment, but you're
52:26
Speaker 3: taking it in and so I call it developing receptivity. Well,
52:30
Speaker 3: you've developed receptivity, so you can take that into your being,
52:34
Speaker 3: not just your head, not just your left brain, and
52:39
Speaker 3: sar it through it. Oh, so this is maybe also
52:43
Speaker 3: what's happening in the world, because you feel safe and
52:47
Speaker 3: stable enough to be receptive to take on new ideas
52:52
Speaker 3: that may be contrary to what you've believed thus far,
52:57
Speaker 3: and we take that in and that is spiritual evolution
53:02
Speaker 3: as well. Then you're taking on a different vibration through that.
53:07
Speaker 3: So you probably bought brought it up today because you're
53:11
Speaker 3: no longer in alignment with it, but it's what you're seeing,
53:15
Speaker 3: and so you're actually more in alignment with what I'm seeing.
53:20
Speaker 3: And now you'll see, like you said, you'll start to
53:23
Speaker 3: see more of that. So we can always ask ourselves
53:26
Speaker 3: what am I in alignment with? What am I question?
53:32
Speaker 2: That's a really good question to ask yourself.
53:35
Speaker 3: Mm hmm, because we will see where we may be
53:39
Speaker 3: in alignment with something that we don't want to be
53:41
Speaker 3: in alignment with. Your wonderful postcard to the universe, and
53:46
Speaker 3: you're doing all these mantras, your affirmations and meditating and
53:51
Speaker 3: doing all the things, but you look in your life
53:54
Speaker 3: and you go, I can't believe it. I'm still putting
53:56
Speaker 3: everybody else first. So you're in alignant with putting yourself
54:02
Speaker 3: second or last. You're actually so talk is cheap, folks.
54:07
Speaker 2: Yeah, it's action.
54:09
Speaker 3: It's vibration, that exactly, And so it's an opportunity everything,
54:17
Speaker 3: every single thing in our lives, that especially whatever hurts
54:21
Speaker 3: us the most, can be the catalyst for the greatest change.
54:25
Speaker 2: I'm glad you said that. That's very hard for people
54:28
Speaker 2: to digest, especially if they've had terrible trauma. I mean,
54:32
Speaker 2: some people have gone through some of the most horrific,
54:35
Speaker 2: horrific things you can even imagine, right, So how do
54:39
Speaker 2: they start to look at it is as an opportunity
54:41
Speaker 2: and start healing.
54:44
Speaker 3: Absolutely, And when you have serious trauma, especially things like
54:49
Speaker 3: sexual abuse. I've really helped a lot of women with
54:52
Speaker 3: early childhood sexual abuse, even that's gone on for decades.
54:56
Speaker 3: That sort of thing, severe trauma you need, you need
55:00
Speaker 3: a specialist, and there's a few other modalities out there,
55:04
Speaker 3: but often you know what what my clients say to
55:07
Speaker 3: me is talk therapy is not enough, you know. And
55:10
Speaker 3: then you know, some of them come to me forty
55:12
Speaker 3: years of talk therapy and they've done other energy healing
55:16
Speaker 3: modalities and that sort of thing, and they all say, Cheryl,
55:19
Speaker 3: nobody goes as deep as you. You go so deep,
55:23
Speaker 3: and it's we're finding somebody that you can trust that
55:27
Speaker 3: can be there with you, supporting you throughout, because, folks,
55:31
Speaker 3: it is not about reliving it. Sauma is roared in
55:36
Speaker 3: the in the right side of the brain through physical
55:39
Speaker 3: sensations and emotions.
55:42
Speaker 2: And in the body stored. That's right, yeah, and.
55:45
Speaker 3: It is not linear memories. Whatever memories you have, if any,
55:50
Speaker 3: don't matter, and they're always fragmented, they're just pieces of memory.
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Speaker 2: Well, thank you Cheryl. Check her out go to Star
55:58
Speaker 2: of Divine Light if you want to work with Cheryl
56:01
Speaker 2: and you have more questions for her. It was such
56:03
Speaker 2: a delight having you today. I really enjoyed our conversation.
56:07
Speaker 2: Thank you so much. All Right, everybody, thanks for listening
56:11
Speaker 2: to Postcards to the Universe with Melissa creating the life
56:13
Speaker 2: you crave. And I'm wishing everyone a wonderful week filled
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Speaker 2: with joy, abundance and love. Peace,