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The One Where She’s Got Main Character Energy · Untraditionally Lala

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  Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous, welcome back to give them La La podcast.
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  Speaker 2: Whether you're listening or watching them, what's up. It's sad
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  Speaker 2: today Easton is in Utah.
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  Speaker 3: I know, I hate it. It feels it used to
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  Speaker 3: be just us too, and now without Easton it feels
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  Speaker 3: not good. It feels like it feels.
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  Speaker 2: A little weird, right Yeah.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah. I don't know if it's sad, like sadder for
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  Speaker 1: us or sadder for him, but like we're doing this
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  Speaker 1: without him or he's in Utah, probably sader for us.
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  Speaker 1: I talked to him, I was like, do you miss it?
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  Speaker 1: He was like, no, the podcast or missing miss like
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  Speaker 1: miss Utah. Do you miss being there? Like you're there,
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  Speaker 1: you you get to go home? And he's like, no,
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  Speaker 1: it doesn't. It doesn't feel like home when your family,
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  Speaker 1: like my mama says, the home is where the heart
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  Speaker 1: is right right, and we're all out here now. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: So he will be missed today. He comes back tonight,
• 1:00
  Speaker 1: which is great. We record on Mondays. Mondays are always
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  Speaker 1: a jam packed day, but I'm super super excited because
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  Speaker 1: we are doing our live show at the ear of
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  Speaker 1: Vine m Prov. We only had one date at first,
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  Speaker 1: it was October seventeenth. You guys are so savage that
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  Speaker 1: we sold out very quickly. It's a super important show
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  Speaker 1: for me because I will be approaching five years of sobriety.
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  Speaker 1: So it's like that celebration and I want you guys
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  Speaker 1: to come. So I added another date on October eighteenth,
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  Speaker 1: and you can literally the link is like right here
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  Speaker 1: buy the tickets, come celebrate again, one day at a time.
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  Speaker 1: But I have a solid feeling that we will make
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  Speaker 1: it to five years of sobriety.
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  Speaker 3: Five years is huge.
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  Speaker 2: It's pretty freak and huge.
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  Speaker 3: Every year is huge, every day is huge, but five
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  Speaker 3: years is gigantic.
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  Speaker 1: Five years is gigantic. It's like the you go, the
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  Speaker 1: first year is huge.
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  Speaker 2: The next big one is five, you know.
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  Speaker 1: But I also am obsessed with like numbers and doing
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  Speaker 1: like one and then five, ten, fifteen, twenty.
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  Speaker 2: You guys know the drill. Jessica, how are you doing today?
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  Speaker 3: I'm so good. I'm thirty two, so this is fun.
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  Speaker 2: How's it feel?
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  Speaker 3: It feels good? I said on last week's episode that
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  Speaker 3: it felt weird and I didn't know how I felt
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  Speaker 3: turning thirty two, But it feels fine. It's an ugly number,
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  Speaker 3: but it's fine.
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  Speaker 1: Cutter than thirty one. As we talked about last week. Yeah,
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  Speaker 1: I'm so excited.
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  Speaker 3: To hear about of saving it. Yeah, your birthday, you
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  Speaker 3: guys am saving it for the Ache and Relief section.
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  Speaker 3: And I haven't told Laala it's it's a thing.
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  Speaker 2: The birthday was on Saturday.
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  Speaker 1: I was so bummed because I really thought that I
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  Speaker 1: would be able to make it to your birthday. We
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  Speaker 1: film on Saturdays, and then I got my call sheet,
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  Speaker 1: which actually comes to you two of like where I
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  Speaker 1: need to be, and I was gone from ten am
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  Speaker 1: you guys, to literally ten o'clock at night. That was
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  Speaker 1: like the longest filming day I've had in many years, the.
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  Speaker 3: Most packed I've that's the most I've seen your your
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  Speaker 3: schedule or filming.
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  Speaker 1: Well, I'm so excited to hear about your ache and relief.
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  Speaker 2: I want to talk.
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  Speaker 1: Every time I ask my people, like what do you
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  Speaker 1: love talking about on this pod, and everyone always says ocean.
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  Speaker 2: Now it is a bummer.
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  Speaker 1: Because I don't think people really get to see me
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  Speaker 1: as a mom, so really it's just stories. I want
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  Speaker 1: to get Ocean on the pod, just to like say,
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  Speaker 1: what's up real quick?
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  Speaker 2: So we're gonna definitely do that one day.
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  Speaker 3: Thank God. Yeah, Ocean and Lisa Ocehanman, those are the
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  Speaker 3: guests that we need them, and they're both stars.
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  Speaker 1: So I was with Ocean in her room the other
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  Speaker 1: day and We're like doing our bedtime routine. Everyone knows
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  Speaker 1: I'm obsessed with a good routine, and I'm trying to
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  Speaker 1: have Ocean know her routine as well, because I read
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  Speaker 1: online that the most important time of a child's day
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  Speaker 1: is the first three minutes after they wake up, the
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  Speaker 1: first three minutes after they come home from school. Oceans
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  Speaker 1: not in school yet, so maybe after nap time, and
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  Speaker 1: then the first three minutes before they go to bed.
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  Speaker 1: Those are the most important minutes of the day for
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  Speaker 1: a child.
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  Speaker 2: So we do our whole thing. We read the book,
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  Speaker 2: we say our prayers. She knows the drill.
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  Speaker 1: But during this time of getting her in her PGS,
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  Speaker 1: she comes up to me and holds my face in
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  Speaker 1: her hands and says, Mama's so cute.
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  Speaker 2: I keep you.
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  Speaker 1: And I was like, yes, you get to keep me forever,
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  Speaker 1: and she goes okay, comes back to me, holds my
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  Speaker 1: face again, puts it on the forehead and she goes,
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  Speaker 1: I love Mama, I keep you.
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  Speaker 2: And I said, yes, baby, you keep mama.
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  Speaker 1: And she says and sealed with a kiss, kisses me
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  Speaker 1: on the lips and goes true love.
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  Speaker 2: I go Ocean. She's two and a half.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, maybe a little over two and a half. I'm
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  Speaker 1: bad with math, but a little over two and a half.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm like, Ocean, where did you learn that? She
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  Speaker 1: told me she learned it on Frozen from ELSA.
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  Speaker 2: True love's kiss? Is? Is that real? Yeah?
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  Speaker 1: I mean it's proud of every dizzy, right, she fed
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  Speaker 1: the kiss. But I'm like, I remember that being sisterly loved.
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  Speaker 1: Do they seal it with the kiss?
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  Speaker 2: I don't know.
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  Speaker 3: She is And I say this every time, but every
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  Speaker 3: time I see her or hear her, she's a genius. Yeah,
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  Speaker 3: she's an angel. Yes, she's a comedian. Correct, And she's
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  Speaker 3: an entertainer. She's she's going to be a star.
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  Speaker 2: She's a star. She's already a star.
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  Speaker 1: She's got main character energy and what's hard for me
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  Speaker 1: And you'll get this when you're a parent, right, Like
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  Speaker 1: I look at Ocean.
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  Speaker 2: And I'm like, there's there.
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  Speaker 1: She's developing her personality right, she's communicating.
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  Speaker 2: I take her to the pool.
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  Speaker 1: I take her to the pool often, and she always
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  Speaker 1: wants to kick it with like other kids.
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  Speaker 2: Like. She's very, very social. And there were these two
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  Speaker 2: little shits.
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  Speaker 1: And I'm only saying this because of what happened, all right,
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  Speaker 1: the brother and a sister at the pool. Ocean wanted
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  Speaker 1: to play with them. So I said, okay, baby, go
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  Speaker 1: go swim with them. And she was a little nervous.
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  Speaker 1: She kept telling me to come with her, and I said,
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  Speaker 1: you're a big girl, just go and start playing with them.
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  Speaker 1: Ask them what their names are. So she toddles over
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  Speaker 1: with her little life jacket on, gets in the pool.
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  Speaker 1: I can tell they're like assholes. Okay, they're mean. I
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  Speaker 1: don't like them, sister and a brother. So I go
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  Speaker 1: over and get in the pool with her, and we're
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  Speaker 1: swimming whatever, and she's looking over. She clearly wants to
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  Speaker 1: participate in little kid fun that they're doing, you know,
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  Speaker 1: splashing around. So she swims over to them and says.
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  Speaker 2: Come jump, come jump, come come.
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  Speaker 1: And she walks up the stairs to go to the edge.
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  Speaker 1: And I watched the little girl look at her little brother.
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  Speaker 2: She goes like.
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  Speaker 1: This, They both go underwater and swim far away from her,
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  Speaker 1: like so that she does now when I tell you
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  Speaker 1: the level, like, I'm definitely getting arrested when Ocean goes
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  Speaker 1: to pre k because if anybody like, these kids are
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  Speaker 1: so freaking mean. And in that moment, I was like,
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  Speaker 1: I am giving my child a sibling. Yeah, like asap?
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  Speaker 1: Did you say anything to the kids?
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  Speaker 3: Where was the parent?
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  Speaker 1: The mom was reading a book and like I didn't.
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  Speaker 1: I just like I didn't want that smoke. You know,
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  Speaker 1: we're filming right now. I get the smoke often. I
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  Speaker 1: just didn't want to deal. It was like, I'll play
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  Speaker 1: with my kid, but like you two, if your mama
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  Speaker 1: wasn't here, it's on.
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  Speaker 2: It's on.
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  Speaker 1: Not with the kids Saturday, you're mean to my kid?
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  Speaker 2: Fair game?
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  Speaker 3: Did did because Gig was there, right, Gig was there
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  Speaker 3: and DG didn't say anything because.
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  Speaker 1: I was actively telling my mom bite your tongue. You
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  Speaker 1: know they were about to see bander pump rules La
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  Speaker 1: la real fucking quick. No. I was so upset about it,
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  Speaker 1: just like I actively had to like stop myself from crying.
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  Speaker 3: Did it affect Ocean though, or does she not really
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  Speaker 3: notice when people are mean?
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  Speaker 1: Just yet she didn't see them swim away or anything,
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  Speaker 1: and you you know, distract or whatever. We got out
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  Speaker 1: of the pool and she wanted to go back and
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  Speaker 1: play with them again. So I said, we're gonna go
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  Speaker 1: eat cookies. Remember Mom promised you cookies. I was like that,
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  Speaker 1: don't distract you.
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  Speaker 2: But I'm like, you're not.
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  Speaker 1: And I also don't want to say to my child,
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  Speaker 1: they don't want to play with you, like, because what
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  Speaker 1: I would never want to feel like she's unwanted by anybody.
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  Speaker 1: You're a star and anyone who gets to hang out
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  Speaker 1: with you is a lucky lucky you know, their loss,
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  Speaker 1: little assholes. I was so angry about it. Anyway, shits,
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  Speaker 1: little shits. We went back, devoured Mulano's cookies, love it,
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  Speaker 1: watched you know, all the music videos in the world.
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  Speaker 1: She loves taking the dogs out to go potty. It's like,
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  Speaker 1: she's such a goer, you guys, and I'm not a goer.
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  Speaker 1: And I'll sit on my ass all the livelong day
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  Speaker 1: if I could.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I hear you, I hear you. I think you
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  Speaker 3: are a goer just because you work so much, but
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  Speaker 3: like when you have the opportunity to relax, Gigi's a goer.
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  Speaker 1: Gigi's a goer, and it's like the littlest things. They're like, all,
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  Speaker 1: go take the dogs out. Yeah, all go do this,
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  Speaker 1: and it's like little things where I'm like, no, no,
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  Speaker 1: I'd rather not. There's like so many New Housewives to watch,
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  Speaker 1: rights who wants to do that? So she always wants
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  Speaker 1: to go down to take the dogs and this at
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  Speaker 1: this time, she wanted Mom to come with her and
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  Speaker 1: Gigi to take the dogs out to go potty. Bella
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  Speaker 1: goes out, who's like a hundred Okay, it's like my
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  Speaker 1: mom's little Pomeranian and she's literally I feel like I
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  Speaker 1: have friends in this camera.
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  Speaker 3: I love. I know, I love. They are looking at
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  Speaker 3: the camera.
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  Speaker 2: No, you do have friends, No, I know, and I
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  Speaker 2: want to watch they're all here.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, we're all.
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  Speaker 2: Just like hanging out.
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  Speaker 1: My mom's Pomeranian who's fifteen and she's going blind.
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  Speaker 3: She's a toothpick. She's toothpicks with fur.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, it's like a supermodel, right, you know these long
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  Speaker 1: she does not look like a Pomeranian to me, but
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  Speaker 1: we shave her like a lion and she's like kind
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  Speaker 1: of going death as well. But she goes potty and
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  Speaker 1: Ocean's vary into thumbs up right now.
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  Speaker 2: She was like this.
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  Speaker 1: So she Bella goes potty and she goes good job, baby,
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  Speaker 1: sweet baby Bella, and she's like this in her face,
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  Speaker 1: the thumbs up.
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  Speaker 3: Wait, I love it. Give one, give one to the
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  Speaker 3: your friends.
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  Speaker 2: We do it all the time. She loves that face.
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  Speaker 2: I can't so you breathe.
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  Speaker 3: Oh my god, she is a star.
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  Speaker 2: So we do that.
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  Speaker 1: We come back because again, my child, in my eyes,
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  Speaker 1: was just traumatized by these little bullies right, yes, so mean.
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  Speaker 1: So I let her stay up a little bit later.
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  Speaker 1: My daughter is obsessed with music videos. Okay, she's very
• 11:01
  Speaker 1: into so as you know, Swifty's in town, Taylor Swift. Yep,
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  Speaker 1: I'm not a huge fan of Taylor Swift. While I
• 11:07
  Speaker 1: wasn't not because I just didn't like her, her music,
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  Speaker 1: her music hits. I just didn't ever really listen to
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  Speaker 1: her music. My daughter is a proud Swiftie and I
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  Speaker 1: am so thrilled about it.
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  Speaker 3: She is because I haven't seen the swifty side of her.
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  Speaker 3: I've seen the Elton John side, I've seen the pink side.
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  Speaker 1: What does she She has become obsessed with Taylor Swift,
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  Speaker 1: and I'm so happy about it. And I think because
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  Speaker 1: Ocean continues to watch her music videos, I'm like.
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  Speaker 2: Damn, this song's a banger.
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  Speaker 3: She has so many bangers. Do you see the parents,
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  Speaker 3: this is the cutest thing going to the concerts with
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  Speaker 3: their this is gonna be you next year, with their
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  Speaker 3: little ones who are like die hard screaming and crying
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  Speaker 3: Taylor Swift fans. And they have the t shirts that
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  Speaker 3: say like, I'm a Swifty mom, I'm a Swifty dad.
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  Speaker 3: It's cute.
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  Speaker 2: I have chills as you talk about it right now.
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  Speaker 3: So cute.
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  Speaker 1: So La is utter k right now? Okay, Swift's in town.
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  Speaker 1: I mean I walked over to the Grove the other day.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, why are there so many tours? Everyone
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  Speaker 1: there with their Taylor's Swift merch on? So I was
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  Speaker 1: invited to this concert and I declined because I was like,
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  Speaker 1: it sounds fun, but like this should go to someone
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  Speaker 1: who's like a diehard, right, Like I don't want to
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  Speaker 1: take up a spot for someone who like really loves
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  Speaker 1: Taylor Swift. Right, And now I'm feeling like I have
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  Speaker 1: I have fomo that I didn't go.
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  Speaker 3: I am so sad that you declined it, because I
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  Speaker 3: think you would have had a blast. It's a whole production.
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  Speaker 3: It's not just a concert. It's like it's like a thing.
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  Speaker 3: I don't even know what to call production.
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  Speaker 1: Well, did you see that she gave like I think
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  Speaker 1: it was between fifty and fifty five million dollars in
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  Speaker 1: bonuses to like it was like drivers, just anyone a
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  Speaker 1: part of the production team for this tour.
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  Speaker 3: A queen of our time.
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  Speaker 1: No, so clearly I've been obsessing and talking about her
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  Speaker 1: often because she's all over my algorithm.
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  Speaker 2: Now it's all Taylor Swift.
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  Speaker 1: You should see my saved area of just all of
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  Speaker 1: these words of wisdom that she spews. I'm like, this
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  Speaker 1: is like fantastic human being. And I am so thrilled
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  Speaker 1: that my daughter is listening to her music.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, that makes me really And I've heard she's always
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  Speaker 3: been like that because when I lived in Nashville and
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  Speaker 3: she was just coming up, she used to do things
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  Speaker 3: like donate huge amounts to the library and a lot
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  Speaker 3: of things for the city of Nashville, which I believe
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  Speaker 3: she still does because she used to live there full time.
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  Speaker 3: So she's kind of always been that way, which is amazing.
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  Speaker 3: You can just tell that her soul is good.
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  Speaker 1: And Emily Rada Jakowski or as you say her name, Radakowski,
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  Speaker 1: I don't know. I'm Rata was saying that she was
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  Speaker 1: not a fan, and then she went to her concert
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  Speaker 1: and became completely obsessed. And she was like, honestly, if
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  Speaker 1: you don't like her, like you're kind of unintelligent.
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  Speaker 3: I feel that she's like a magical human. Oh my god,
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  Speaker 3: that's who Ocean's gonna be.
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  Speaker 2: Taylor Swift.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, you're telling me my daughter that I created in
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  Speaker 1: my stomach is gonna be.
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  Speaker 3: A Taylor Swift one percent.
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  Speaker 2: I did tell my mom.
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  Speaker 1: I was like, by the way, the moment that Ocean
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  Speaker 1: can start, because Ocean can carry a tune.
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  Speaker 2: I know she definitely.
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  Speaker 1: Can when she can actually speak, singing lessons, piano violin.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna be a star, baby, You're gonna be a star.
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  Speaker 1: You're gonna be everything I wanted to be and never became.
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  Speaker 3: We've got a stage mom over yere, Chris Jenner, we
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  Speaker 3: love it.
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  Speaker 2: Yes, minus the sex tape.
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  Speaker 3: Oh okay, good that I will.
• 14:41
  Speaker 2: Not stand for I refuse rafuse minus the sex tape tape.
• 14:51
  Speaker 1: Yeah, Ocean's gonna be Taylor Swift. That's been established. Whoa,
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  Speaker 1: I am taking her to the Pink concert though she's
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  Speaker 1: been watching. She loves Pink from the time she was
• 15:01
  Speaker 1: like a child, literally seven months old. Yeah, Pink got
• 15:06
  Speaker 1: us through a lot. She loves Rocketman, but Pink. I'm
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  Speaker 1: taking her on October fifth to the concert. I think
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  Speaker 1: I need to get those little ear muffs.
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  Speaker 3: Maybe the big ones.
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  Speaker 2: They're so cute. Yeah, yeah, and I Pink.
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  Speaker 1: I highly doubt you listen to this, but if you do,
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  Speaker 1: I am begging you to please perform cover Me in Sunshine,
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  Speaker 1: because I don't think anyone understands what that song did
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  Speaker 1: for my kid, me and my mother When we left
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  Speaker 1: the house almost two years ago, really had nothing. I
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  Speaker 1: was rebuilding and that song we listened to with Ocean
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  Speaker 1: every single morning, and it's basically about how the world
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  Speaker 1: has been spinning forever, all is good, It's gonna be okay,
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  Speaker 1: Like it was the anthem we started our day with
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  Speaker 1: that song. Morning you know, Jesse, you appeared and we're
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  Speaker 1: dancing in front of the TV, me and my mom
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  Speaker 1: sobbing our eyes out and Ocean. That was really the
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  Speaker 1: first song that she listened to where she was introduced
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  Speaker 1: to music over and over.
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  Speaker 3: I have goosebumps because that was such a beautiful time
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  Speaker 3: and she would like, I mean little bean, like too
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  Speaker 3: small to be dancing. How is she dancing so bald?
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  Speaker 3: It's so bold? And I have so many cute videos
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  Speaker 3: we'll go through of you and her and her just
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  Speaker 3: biggest smile on her face, bald head dancing away to
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  Speaker 3: that song, the Pink song.
• 16:33
  Speaker 1: The first like little tune that she sang was in
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: that song that n Na na yes or La la
• 16:39
  Speaker 1: la or something like that la yeah.
• 16:41
  Speaker 3: Yeah.
• 16:42
  Speaker 1: So I'm very excited to start like really introducing her
• 16:45
  Speaker 1: to performances, like not just the music videos. Pink is
• 16:48
  Speaker 1: gonna be her first concert, and I'm.
• 16:50
  Speaker 2: Like, wow, you a cool kid.
• 16:52
  Speaker 1: She's right, well kid, And it makes total sense that
• 16:54
  Speaker 1: she would be obsessed with Pink because she's such a
• 16:56
  Speaker 1: badass my daughter. For so long, I was like, I'm
• 16:59
  Speaker 1: not having boy. I cannot have a boy. It seemed
• 17:02
  Speaker 1: like after I had Ocean, I'm like, they seem very
• 17:05
  Speaker 1: chaotic and just like a lot I look over the
• 17:08
  Speaker 1: other day. Ocean is with Summer Moon, Summer Moon's standing
• 17:12
  Speaker 1: there being a little sweet pea that she is not,
• 17:14
  Speaker 1: that Ocean's not, but just the little daredevil. Ocean is
• 17:18
  Speaker 1: grabbing her play chairs and putting them together by the
• 17:22
  Speaker 1: ball pit for them to jump in.
• 17:26
  Speaker 2: She tried head first. I was like no, no, no, no.
• 17:30
  Speaker 1: Jumping into the ballpit off of these chairs, like what
• 17:33
  Speaker 1: are you doing at two and a half?
• 17:35
  Speaker 2: Being like, you know what I'm gonna do.
• 17:37
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna grab those chairs, give us some give us
• 17:39
  Speaker 1: some leveled upness to get us really down into this
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: most shallow ballpit in the world.
• 17:45
  Speaker 3: No, she is such a daredevil. When I was babysitting
• 17:48
  Speaker 3: her that one night, she in the living room moved.
• 17:53
  Speaker 3: I didn't allow her to do this, but I'm sitting
• 17:55
  Speaker 3: there watching her, and she moves the ottoman Lala has
• 17:58
  Speaker 3: like a couch. She moves the autumn out of the way,
• 18:01
  Speaker 3: starts stacking up the pillows so she could jump in,
• 18:05
  Speaker 3: and it just without asking. She's she's building, she's and
• 18:09
  Speaker 3: I'm like, what are you doing, babe? And she's just
• 18:10
  Speaker 3: stacking up the pillows and then hops up on the
• 18:13
  Speaker 3: couch gets ready to jump, and I was like, whoa, okay,
• 18:16
  Speaker 3: let's and I let her do a couple like guided jumps.
• 18:19
  Speaker 3: But I'm like, damn, I wouldn't even do that.
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: Well least she's preparing me that if my next kid
• 18:24
  Speaker 1: is a boy, I kind of know the drill. Yeah right,
• 18:29
  Speaker 1: one funny Lisa story before we dive into reality.
• 18:32
  Speaker 2: TV love it.
• 18:33
  Speaker 3: We need a Lisa story.
• 18:35
  Speaker 1: So I was telling my mom like I'm warming up
• 18:38
  Speaker 1: to dating and how I want to go about it,
• 18:41
  Speaker 1: and like I think I'm gonna do Bumble, and we're
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: just having this conversation. She's like, oh my gosh, like
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: it's so great to hear you talk about wanting to
• 18:48
  Speaker 1: possibly date again. And she was like asking me, like
• 18:52
  Speaker 1: why would you choose Bumble, Like don't you meet guys
• 18:56
  Speaker 1: like in the DM And I'm like that don't work out.
• 18:59
  Speaker 1: That work out with a hit sometimes not even an orgasm.
• 19:04
  Speaker 2: It's like a buzz hill all the way around.
• 19:06
  Speaker 3: Sometimes a forty second event.
• 19:08
  Speaker 2: Sometimes you get mister forty five.
• 19:10
  Speaker 3: Mister forty five.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: Uh oh uh oh no, I refuse.
• 19:15
  Speaker 1: So I'm telling her about Bumble. I'm like, I just
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: like it. I feel like I'm gonna be safe on it,
• 19:18
  Speaker 1: Like safety is a priority on Bumble. I love that
• 19:22
  Speaker 1: it's female driven, that I, you know, kind of wear
• 19:25
  Speaker 1: the pants that feels natural to me. And I was like,
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: would you ever want to sign up for a Bumble?
• 19:32
  Speaker 1: And she was like, I mean it sounds like a
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: lot of fun, maybe, but I just feel like i'd
• 19:37
  Speaker 1: be bombarded. Lisa is worried that she's gonna be bombarded
• 19:43
  Speaker 1: by all these mans.
• 19:44
  Speaker 3: And let me tell you that is a good worry,
• 19:46
  Speaker 3: because she would be bombarded, she facts, especially if she
• 19:50
  Speaker 3: put her real age. Are you kidding me? I know
• 19:54
  Speaker 3: people would be like, First off, she's lying, she's saying
• 19:56
  Speaker 3: she's older than she is. Second, who is this queen
• 20:00
  Speaker 3: of a woman? And I will whine and dine her.
• 20:03
  Speaker 2: I know, all the live long day. You're right, she
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: could be bombarded on Bumble?
• 20:07
  Speaker 3: Would you be okay with that?
• 20:09
  Speaker 2: I think I could warm up to the idea. Okay.
• 20:11
  Speaker 2: I think I need to pray about it, actually pray
• 20:13
  Speaker 2: about it. Yeah, let me pray about it. Okay.
• 20:16
  Speaker 1: So I want to dive right in. First of all,
• 20:20
  Speaker 1: let's talk about this. I was on My mom loves
• 20:22
  Speaker 1: to show me depressing things on the Gram.
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: I don't know why it's but her most favorite thing
• 20:28
  Speaker 2: to do.
• 20:28
  Speaker 1: So she's showing me that at Westfield Mall in Century City,
• 20:31
  Speaker 1: the Gucci store got robbed. Heard that it was insane,
• 20:35
  Speaker 1: like watching and so many people are like, why is
• 20:37
  Speaker 1: no one doing anything? It's like, why do you think?
• 20:41
  Speaker 1: There's a many things that could go wrong if you
• 20:43
  Speaker 1: try to, like save a bag.
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: Who cares? They wiped them out? Though, Did you see
• 20:47
  Speaker 2: the store?
• 20:48
  Speaker 3: I did, and I heard this. I heard this a
• 20:52
  Speaker 3: couple of years ago. But if you're ever watching a
• 20:54
  Speaker 3: robbery of like jewelry, goods, anything, the last thing this
• 20:59
  Speaker 3: sounds so like duh, but the last thing you ever
• 21:02
  Speaker 3: want to do is try and stop them. No, let
• 21:05
  Speaker 3: them go.
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: Let them go. Could you imagine they could have weapons
• 21:09
  Speaker 2: on them? Like, let them go? Anyway?
• 21:11
  Speaker 1: Then she shows me another another robbery story. There's this
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: place it sounded like it was in northern California. There
• 21:19
  Speaker 1: was a robbery at Heller Jewelers. They took over one
• 21:22
  Speaker 1: million dollars of jewelry. They took a rolex that had
• 21:25
  Speaker 1: a tracking device in it and ended up catching these fools. Okay,
• 21:31
  Speaker 1: So then I got me to thinking designers, like bags, clothing,
• 21:36
  Speaker 1: any of these designer stores, they should put tracking devices
• 21:39
  Speaker 1: that are removed after the purchase in all the bags
• 21:42
  Speaker 1: and if you try to remove them, it completely ruins
• 21:45
  Speaker 1: the bag.
• 21:45
  Speaker 3: I love that idea. And I don't know why these
• 21:48
  Speaker 3: these items are so expensive. They're luxury items. Why wouldn't
• 21:51
  Speaker 3: It's not like, you know, it's gonna be cost nothing
• 21:55
  Speaker 3: compared to what the item costs to put the tracking
• 21:56
  Speaker 3: device in?
• 21:57
  Speaker 1: Right, So I was thinking, why don't they do that,
• 22:00
  Speaker 1: like implanted into the back.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: I don't know, just a thought.
• 22:04
  Speaker 1: Gucci, you should have done that, should have had that
• 22:08
  Speaker 1: all of that. Yeah, there's something about watching people like
• 22:11
  Speaker 1: steal shit that makes me very uneasy, pisses me off.
• 22:16
  Speaker 2: I'm like, I don't like this. What are we doing? Oh?
• 22:19
  Speaker 2: Have you ever stolen anything?
• 22:20
  Speaker 3: Just accidentally stole a lollipop? I was six.
• 22:23
  Speaker 2: Oh, we talked about this, Yeah, your parents scolded you.
• 22:26
  Speaker 3: Yeah, I just took it. I mean I was like, uh,
• 22:29
  Speaker 3: how about you? We talked about this, But is it
• 22:32
  Speaker 3: something on purpose or no, like when you were little?
• 22:36
  Speaker 3: Why do I remember?
• 22:37
  Speaker 1: Like, I feel like I may have talked about I
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: took like a choker that I it was not it
• 22:45
  Speaker 1: was I was modeling, okay, and they had this as
• 22:48
  Speaker 1: one of the looks, and I was like, damn, this
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: is kind of cute.
• 22:51
  Speaker 2: And then I took it and like literally the next
• 22:53
  Speaker 2: day all the jewels fell out.
• 22:56
  Speaker 3: That's what you get.
• 22:57
  Speaker 1: Easton told his robbery story. Yeah he did women's earrings.
• 23:01
  Speaker 2: Oh, women's earring man from the Pashion Place mall.
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: Anyway, let's go into Real Housewives of Orange County. So
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: not much happened?
• 23:11
  Speaker 2: Okay, have you been watching OC?
• 23:13
  Speaker 3: Just okay, you guys, I want to say not OC.
• 23:16
  Speaker 3: But last night I was laying my head down on
• 23:19
  Speaker 3: my pillow. I was comfy, and then I popped open
• 23:24
  Speaker 3: and I said Real Housewives of New York. Oh no,
• 23:27
  Speaker 3: And I ran out in my living room and I
• 23:28
  Speaker 3: turned it on.
• 23:29
  Speaker 2: I got time. I mean, I had a long weekend.
• 23:32
  Speaker 2: So it was like eight thirty years. Oh okay, I
• 23:34
  Speaker 2: feel less badly.
• 23:35
  Speaker 3: It wasn't like one am I watched this set. It
• 23:37
  Speaker 3: was live streaming. But I watched or whatever the half
• 23:42
  Speaker 3: of New York episode four and then all of episode three.
• 23:45
  Speaker 3: But let's talk about OC.
• 23:47
  Speaker 1: Well, OC, it's fine that you didn't watch. Not much happened.
• 23:50
  Speaker 1: I was hoping that at the beginning of SO tonight
• 23:56
  Speaker 1: will be a new episode. So two weeks ago the
• 24:00
  Speaker 1: tail end of the episode that we talked about, was
• 24:03
  Speaker 1: I hope that Shannon Badoor's like whatever was said that
• 24:07
  Speaker 1: Heather repeated has talked about, was it? No, it wasn't,
• 24:12
  Speaker 1: But Shannon kept saying he's very very private and like
• 24:16
  Speaker 1: this will ruin everything. They still didn't say what Heather repeated,
• 24:21
  Speaker 1: but obviously Shannon was very shook up about it, and like,
• 24:26
  Speaker 1: I don't know how I feel about people dating reality
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: TV personalities when they want their business more private.
• 24:36
  Speaker 3: Okay, that's interesting.
• 24:38
  Speaker 1: I just feel like if I sit here and I'm
• 24:39
  Speaker 1: like I hate sports, I cannot stand them, I wouldn't
• 24:46
  Speaker 1: go like find an athlete really, or if I was
• 24:49
  Speaker 1: like I hate talking about finances, like I wouldn't go
• 24:55
  Speaker 1: find someone who's in finance.
• 24:56
  Speaker 2: Like do you get what I'm saying and what you're saying.
• 24:58
  Speaker 3: But on the opposite end, would you want to date
• 25:00
  Speaker 3: someone who's like I love Bravo and reality TV?
• 25:03
  Speaker 1: Well, that's why I wanted to get your opinion, because
• 25:05
  Speaker 1: that actually scares me. That's if I date someone who's like, yeah,
• 25:10
  Speaker 1: I would film, it's like why.
• 25:12
  Speaker 3: Yeah, no, why are you so into? And same with sports,
• 25:16
  Speaker 3: of course, I don't know if I'm not a sports guy,
• 25:19
  Speaker 3: but I might not want to date or be with
• 25:22
  Speaker 3: someone who's like, that's sports chick who's like at all
• 25:25
  Speaker 3: the games and obsessed, because I'd be like, oh, you're
• 25:27
  Speaker 3: I don't know.
• 25:28
  Speaker 1: Wow, you just made way more sense. You're right, You're
• 25:31
  Speaker 1: absolutely right.
• 25:32
  Speaker 3: It's a spectrum you don't want to date on either end.
• 25:35
  Speaker 3: You don't want to date the obsessed, but also the hate.
• 25:37
  Speaker 3: You don't want to date someone who's like, oh, reality
• 25:39
  Speaker 3: TV disgusting. You'd be like, Okay, it's my job.
• 25:42
  Speaker 1: It's my job, and I'm offended because it's awesome, awesome, Okay, No,
• 25:46
  Speaker 1: you just made all this sense. I think what's hard
• 25:48
  Speaker 1: is you have to find the person to vent to
• 25:53
  Speaker 1: who's not on the show with you.
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: And I always say I feel like that's why.
• 25:58
  Speaker 1: Vander Pump is different than most shows. Is there many
• 26:01
  Speaker 1: conversations that all of us have had that we just
• 26:06
  Speaker 1: know real life works this way, right, Like, I'm not
• 26:09
  Speaker 1: gonna go out and repeat every single thing that someone
• 26:12
  Speaker 1: tells me.
• 26:12
  Speaker 2: There are things that are meant.
• 26:14
  Speaker 1: To stay just between two people, right right, These are
• 26:17
  Speaker 1: your thoughts, and if you choose one day to share them,
• 26:20
  Speaker 1: then like, that's on you. But I'm certainly not going
• 26:22
  Speaker 1: to go and like ruin a friendship or you know,
• 26:26
  Speaker 1: put you on blast when I know you're telling me
• 26:29
  Speaker 1: this in confidence and I know that every like all
• 26:31
  Speaker 1: the viewers are probably like, no, that's so boring. But
• 26:35
  Speaker 1: at the end of the day, nothing lasts forever, and
• 26:36
  Speaker 1: I would like to know that my friendships will. So
• 26:40
  Speaker 1: I think the biggest mistake was you don't tell your deepest,
• 26:45
  Speaker 1: darkest secrets or you know, vent about your relationship to
• 26:50
  Speaker 1: someone who's on the show with you. Yeah, especially housewives.
• 26:53
  Speaker 1: Mm hmm, because here we are. It's been repeated, but
• 26:56
  Speaker 1: why has it not been talked about yet? Are we
• 26:58
  Speaker 1: ever gonna know what it is that's so bad?
• 27:02
  Speaker 3: Do you think I mean a reunion come reunion time? Surely,
• 27:05
  Speaker 3: but do you think we'll have to wait?
• 27:06
  Speaker 1: I think we may have to wait, really yeah, or
• 27:10
  Speaker 1: it'll come out further. We're halfway through the season. So
• 27:14
  Speaker 1: that happened or I guess didn't happen. Again, not much have.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: In this episode, Jen and Ryan came face to face
• 27:21
  Speaker 1: with Eddie and Tamra. They talked about the dick pic
• 27:24
  Speaker 1: and the cheating on Ryan's and all is good for now.
• 27:28
  Speaker 1: I will say there's something about Ryan's eyes that I
• 27:31
  Speaker 1: do not like. They seem a little dark. And you
• 27:34
  Speaker 1: know what I've learned, when you're talking to someone, you
• 27:40
  Speaker 1: have to look at what their pupils do.
• 27:43
  Speaker 2: Because I was listening to this.
• 27:47
  Speaker 1: Behavior specialist she works strictly with like narcissism, and when
• 27:51
  Speaker 1: the pupil dilates, it means that they're in. It's almost
• 27:55
  Speaker 1: like an animal who's going in for the kill.
• 27:59
  Speaker 2: You know, they get like really big.
• 28:01
  Speaker 1: So like if if you're looking at your partner and
• 28:03
  Speaker 1: you're talking about something like where you want truth to
• 28:07
  Speaker 1: come out of it, and their pupils start doing something funky,
• 28:10
  Speaker 1: just be aware of that because it means they're in.
• 28:13
  Speaker 2: They're going into fight mode.
• 28:14
  Speaker 3: Oh my god, I've never heard that before in my life.
• 28:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah wow, because I've I've talked to like women or
• 28:21
  Speaker 3: met new women and talked about certain stuff or had
• 28:23
  Speaker 3: deep conversations and all of a sudden, like what is
• 28:25
  Speaker 3: going on.
• 28:26
  Speaker 2: With their pupils? Like what are their eyes doing? Yeah?
• 28:28
  Speaker 1: Yeah, no, it gets really scary. He just he has
• 28:32
  Speaker 1: some eyes that I feel like I've seen before.
• 28:35
  Speaker 3: Huh.
• 28:35
  Speaker 1: Oh, I've seen them with other men on reality television
• 28:39
  Speaker 1: who have turned out to be not great guys. So
• 28:41
  Speaker 1: just like be aware of that. You know, I'm not
• 28:43
  Speaker 1: wounded or scarred. Hey, telling you to look out for
• 28:46
  Speaker 1: some pupil.
• 28:46
  Speaker 3: You call it, though. The second you call something, I go, Okay,
• 28:49
  Speaker 3: I better listen because wait, really, yes, learning from experience?
• 28:53
  Speaker 2: Are you kidding me?
• 28:54
  Speaker 3: In the over two years that I've worked for you,
• 28:58
  Speaker 3: you call something and then it happens, or your gut
• 29:02
  Speaker 3: or you go. I should have listened to my gut.
• 29:04
  Speaker 3: My gut was telling me this. You've got intuition like
• 29:07
  Speaker 3: your mom.
• 29:08
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but can I tell you where the fine line is?
• 29:11
  Speaker 1: Is having your experience define you and have it be
• 29:15
  Speaker 1: the end all be all in every situation. And I
• 29:17
  Speaker 1: think that's what I'm really really trying to work on,
• 29:20
  Speaker 1: is I don't want to go out into the world
• 29:22
  Speaker 1: and have my experience define how I interact with everybody.
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: I don't want I don't want one little thing in
• 29:30
  Speaker 1: someone to go. This reminds me of this. I don't
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: want to be triggered all the time.
• 29:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, but it is hard. I also don't want to
• 29:37
  Speaker 2: be stupid.
• 29:38
  Speaker 1: You know, if you just like ignore your experiences and
• 29:41
  Speaker 1: if you see parallels to be like no, I don't
• 29:43
  Speaker 1: want I'm not wounded. I'm gonna ignore this, then you
• 29:46
  Speaker 1: cross over to being stupid. It is a fine line.
• 29:49
  Speaker 3: Yeah, Yeah, it's another fine line because where all all
• 29:52
  Speaker 3: life is is us reacting from past experiences, whether it's
• 29:56
  Speaker 3: good or bad or learn Like we're living and just
• 29:59
  Speaker 3: living from past experiences. That's like learning. That's history. Hopefully
• 30:04
  Speaker 3: doesn't repeat itself if it's negative. That's all kind of
• 30:06
  Speaker 3: life is. So it is a fine line. I get it.
• 30:09
  Speaker 3: But you're also I mean a lot has happened for
• 30:13
  Speaker 3: you in the past two years. Yeah, so you're just processing.
• 30:19
  Speaker 3: Everyone processes different things at a different speed. I get
• 30:21
  Speaker 3: what you're saying. And maybe you're at the point now
• 30:24
  Speaker 3: where you're like, Okay, I've processed, I've kind of let
• 30:27
  Speaker 3: some of it out. I've gone maybe a little too
• 30:30
  Speaker 3: far this way. So now I'm gonna reel it back
• 30:31
  Speaker 3: and actually take a beat and think about these things.
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know.
• 30:36
  Speaker 1: I also think like when it comes to all of
• 30:39
  Speaker 1: the women on OC having stories about Ryan, and I
• 30:42
  Speaker 1: get it, like Jen wants to protect him, she loves him,
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: love kind of blinds you. As cheesy as that sounds
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: when they say like love is blind, it absolutely is.
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: It's like blind, it's death, it's all of the things
• 30:55
  Speaker 1: that were like you literally don't see reality for what
• 30:58
  Speaker 1: it is. So I get where she's at, but I
• 31:00
  Speaker 1: just think, like, where there's smoke, there is fire.
• 31:04
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm yeah, kind of how I feel about Lizo
• 31:06
  Speaker 2: right now.
• 31:07
  Speaker 3: Tell me your feelings on Lizo, because I was catching
• 31:09
  Speaker 3: up on TikTok all the stories and they aren't looking great.
• 31:14
  Speaker 2: Well, we'll take a little what sidetrack for a moment.
• 31:17
  Speaker 3: Okay.
• 31:18
  Speaker 2: Never liked Lizzo.
• 31:18
  Speaker 1: I feel like I can find I never ever said
• 31:21
  Speaker 1: that to anybody, because I feel like people would clutch
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: their pearls and be like, you don't like Lizzo.
• 31:25
  Speaker 2: I never liked her. I didn't like her music.
• 31:28
  Speaker 1: There was just nothing about her that drew me to
• 31:30
  Speaker 1: her as an artist. And so when I saw all
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: of this stuff come out, I immediately thought to myself,
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: where there's smoke, there is fire. People don't just say
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: things like this, right Yeah, So a lot of people
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: have said, obviously she's under a tremendous amount of fire
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: right now. But people have said it's her management team
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: that's to blame. That is such a crock of shit.
• 31:57
  Speaker 1: It would be like me, Jess and my team or
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: whatever the team that I have, and you coming to
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: me or something and saying like they did X, Y
• 32:05
  Speaker 1: and Z, I would never let it slide, right, they'd
• 32:09
  Speaker 1: be done, like I run shit here exactly right.
• 32:13
  Speaker 2: Yes, like Lizzo, you you're the boss. What you say goes.
• 32:19
  Speaker 1: So you can't blame it on management because you're in
• 32:22
  Speaker 1: charge of all of that.
• 32:23
  Speaker 3: Yes, and surely you've heard, let's say, worst case scenario
• 32:27
  Speaker 3: her management was mons were monsters behind the scene. It
• 32:30
  Speaker 3: doesn't go It's not like she would never know or
• 32:34
  Speaker 3: never you hear about those things.
• 32:36
  Speaker 1: Well, and I also think that as the artist, And yes,
• 32:39
  Speaker 1: I can only imagine how busy you are, but I
• 32:42
  Speaker 1: imagine that Taylor Swift's dancers feel comfortable enough to come
• 32:46
  Speaker 1: up to her and say when they're uncomfortable. It's your
• 32:49
  Speaker 1: job to create a positive work environment for everybody who
• 32:52
  Speaker 1: is in your camp. Right, the job is already stressful enough.
• 32:57
  Speaker 1: There's hundreds of millions of dollars that are at stake
• 33:00
  Speaker 1: and people putting money into you, your tours, your performances.
• 33:04
  Speaker 1: Whatever it may be, there's no reason why your backup
• 33:08
  Speaker 1: dancers who are literally on stage with you couldn't feel
• 33:12
  Speaker 1: comfortable enough to come up to you for two minutes
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: and tell you, like, hey, I just wanted to let
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: you know Johnny is making me do X, Y and
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: Z and I feel extremely uncomfortable.
• 33:21
  Speaker 2: You call the meeting, You say, Johnny, this is fucked up.
• 33:24
  Speaker 2: You gotta go.
• 33:25
  Speaker 3: Yeah. I mean, I'm on the opposite end of you.
• 33:28
  Speaker 3: As far as liking her, I loved Lizzo.
• 33:31
  Speaker 2: Really I did.
• 33:33
  Speaker 3: I loved her. I thought she was just a bad bitch.
• 33:36
  Speaker 3: So confident I was like.
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: Yeah, I loved all of that.
• 33:39
  Speaker 3: I just loved all and I loved her music and
• 33:41
  Speaker 3: I loved all of it. So the second the first
• 33:43
  Speaker 3: story came out and it started getting traction, I was
• 33:46
  Speaker 3: so disappointed because I was like, this is going somewhere,
• 33:49
  Speaker 3: Like this isn't just a one off, like one story too,
• 33:52
  Speaker 3: Like this is going somewhere. And that's super disappointing because
• 33:55
  Speaker 3: I've always loved her. How do you feel now, I mean,
• 33:58
  Speaker 3: I'm I'm keeping up with the stories, but it's just disappointing.
• 34:02
  Speaker 3: I'm just disappointed. You all you have. One of the
• 34:05
  Speaker 3: main things you have is how you treat people in
• 34:07
  Speaker 3: life and how you interact with people like that is
• 34:11
  Speaker 3: we're all humans.
• 34:12
  Speaker 1: Well, once you're like done on this planet, no one
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: sits there and they're like that person was so rich,
• 34:21
  Speaker 1: right exactly. They'll talk about your music, but really it's
• 34:25
  Speaker 1: about like how they were as people.
• 34:27
  Speaker 2: Mm hmm. At least that's my.
• 34:30
  Speaker 1: What I've experienced when I, you know, am talking to
• 34:33
  Speaker 1: friends or when someone passes who is like an icon,
• 34:37
  Speaker 1: you know, it's about the art and how they were
• 34:40
  Speaker 1: as people.
• 34:41
  Speaker 3: How is she going to get rid of this? I
• 34:43
  Speaker 3: know this is going to be on her forever. How's
• 34:44
  Speaker 3: she going to come back from it? How is she
• 34:46
  Speaker 3: gonna Yeah, it's it's a it's a shame. It's really disappointing.
• 34:49
  Speaker 2: Do you think she really body shamed someone?
• 34:52
  Speaker 3: I mean, I don't know. I don't know any of it.
• 34:55
  Speaker 3: I want to do it. My My initial thought is
• 34:58
  Speaker 3: believe these people, because yeah, it's probably extremely hard to
• 35:01
  Speaker 3: come out and be like, yeah, you know, I was
• 35:03
  Speaker 3: so excited to work for this who I thought was
• 35:05
  Speaker 3: an icon and this boss, and then this is how
• 35:08
  Speaker 3: she treated me. It's embarrassing. Nobody wants to come out
• 35:10
  Speaker 3: and say that.
• 35:11
  Speaker 1: I love that you said that, because it takes a
• 35:14
  Speaker 1: tremendous amount of courage for someone to come forward on
• 35:16
  Speaker 1: someone as high level as Lizzo yeah, and share their story,
• 35:19
  Speaker 1: especially because you have the people who are die hard
• 35:23
  Speaker 1: saying well, like, what did you do? Yes, then your
• 35:26
  Speaker 1: past is looked into and all of these things. Anything
• 35:29
  Speaker 1: they can use to discredit you and your truth is
• 35:33
  Speaker 1: what they're going to use.
• 35:34
  Speaker 3: Like, it's not an easy spot to be in. No,
• 35:36
  Speaker 3: and it shouldn't be embarrassing. But I'm just saying I
• 35:38
  Speaker 3: get if some people feel that way. I was watching
• 35:40
  Speaker 3: a TikTok about a girl who said that she was like,
• 35:43
  Speaker 3: I was embarrassed because I looked up to this woman
• 35:45
  Speaker 3: and this is how it was treated. So my hope. Yeah,
• 35:49
  Speaker 3: that's a bummer.
• 35:50
  Speaker 1: Well, thank god I didn't have to go in and
• 35:52
  Speaker 1: delete any of her music because I don't even have
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: any on my phone. I do not like her music.
• 35:57
  Speaker 1: The only song I have on my phone.
• 35:59
  Speaker 3: Is yeah, Yes, that's it.
• 36:04
  Speaker 2: The rest of them, I'm like, please turn it off.
• 36:06
  Speaker 3: It was like a summer vibe for me last summer.
• 36:09
  Speaker 2: Oh no, oh, no, was it a horrendous summer for you?
• 36:12
  Speaker 2: Then that just getting.
• 36:19
  Speaker 1: Okay Rony a little bit heavy of a heavy episode?
• 36:25
  Speaker 3: Yes, Yes, I love these women.
• 36:27
  Speaker 2: Are they not great?
• 36:28
  Speaker 3: Especially last night when I really I watched the half
• 36:31
  Speaker 3: episode four and then three. I love these women.
• 36:35
  Speaker 1: I love them so much, like I could watch them. Brin,
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: can we give her pink moment in her interview?
• 36:42
  Speaker 2: Look? I mean the makeup was flawless, the dress was
• 36:46
  Speaker 2: like sexy but chic, hair was on point.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: It was so good, so good, and I feel like
• 36:56
  Speaker 1: they were like born to do this, Like it doesn't.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: When I first watched Real High Wives of Salt Lake
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: their first season, I was like, Okay, this is going
• 37:03
  Speaker 1: to be a minute before they ease into the fact
• 37:05
  Speaker 1: that there's cameras watching them with Ronie.
• 37:10
  Speaker 3: Not at all, it's like season four energy.
• 37:14
  Speaker 2: It totally is.
• 37:15
  Speaker 3: They just all seem comfortable and I don't think, who
• 37:18
  Speaker 3: did we talk about last week? And they're like some
• 37:20
  Speaker 3: people are thinking she's producing herself in this episode. I
• 37:23
  Speaker 3: didn't see that. No, not at all.
• 37:25
  Speaker 2: She was. I loved her story. Yes this episode.
• 37:30
  Speaker 1: Yes, like when she goes in to get her hair
• 37:33
  Speaker 1: done and talks about how it was like she goes
• 37:34
  Speaker 1: and does this once a week. There's a lot of hair,
• 37:37
  Speaker 1: and then she talks about how, you know, her her
• 37:41
  Speaker 1: mother is white, her father is black, her grandmother who's white,
• 37:46
  Speaker 1: raised her, and her grandmother had a friend who was
• 37:49
  Speaker 1: a black woman and gave Brin's grandmother this salon to
• 37:54
  Speaker 1: take Brienttu to get her hair done. And Brinn talks
• 37:56
  Speaker 1: about how that was the first time that she was
• 37:59
  Speaker 1: able to like see these like strong black women her
• 38:05
  Speaker 1: community that she really didn't get to be part of
• 38:10
  Speaker 1: because of just the way her family, you know, the
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: grandmother taking over, and she's like she talks about how
• 38:18
  Speaker 1: her grandmother doesn't even realize the impact that that had
• 38:21
  Speaker 1: on her life.
• 38:22
  Speaker 2: I know, I got like choked up about it. Yeah.
• 38:24
  Speaker 3: No, it was beautiful and she she's just such a gracious,
• 38:30
  Speaker 3: beautiful human well with everything she's she had gone through,
• 38:34
  Speaker 3: like she really opened up.
• 38:35
  Speaker 1: It was so it's really interesting. So if you watch
• 38:40
  Speaker 1: her talk to her friends, so they do a bris
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: brinds giving Yeah, right, and to watch her open up
• 38:46
  Speaker 1: to her group of friends about what she went through
• 38:50
  Speaker 1: as a child and like diapers going unchanged and her
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: being left behind and people not checking on her for
• 38:57
  Speaker 1: days on end, and she was only six months old.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: And then she's in her interview and the producer is
• 39:03
  Speaker 1: asking to like talk about it, and she literally cannot,
• 39:06
  Speaker 1: and they're like today and she's like not ever, She's
• 39:09
  Speaker 1: clearly deeply affected by it, and I truly cannot imagine.
• 39:12
  Speaker 1: And she talks about how the two people your mom
• 39:14
  Speaker 1: and your dad, are supposed to be the ones to
• 39:16
  Speaker 1: protect you and love you unconditionally. And you know, on
• 39:20
  Speaker 1: this podcast, like last week, we were talking about Santa Claus, right,
• 39:25
  Speaker 1: and a lot of people thought it was very funny. Right,
• 39:27
  Speaker 1: this podcast is for adults. We're here to just like
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: have fun, laugh. But being a parent is such an honor.
• 39:36
  Speaker 1: It is most certainly not a right. You don't just
• 39:39
  Speaker 1: get to be one, right, Yeah, So when I had
• 39:45
  Speaker 1: ocean and kind of my view of the world, and yes,
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: I sit here and I'm like, Sana is not taking
• 39:49
  Speaker 1: credit for gifts. Santa will absolutely be around anything that
• 39:53
  Speaker 1: is magical and allows my child to have imagination will
• 39:57
  Speaker 1: most certainly be in the home. So when you hear
• 40:01
  Speaker 1: about parents who treat it like it's just like such
• 40:03
  Speaker 1: a like being a parent is like such a like
• 40:06
  Speaker 1: a right, and it's it's whatever. And granted you you
• 40:10
  Speaker 1: have to assume that Brynn's parents were sick, well, especially
• 40:15
  Speaker 1: I'm sure they struggled with addiction.
• 40:17
  Speaker 3: Yeah, and like she said they she said they didn't
• 40:20
  Speaker 3: love me, and then she said they couldn't.
• 40:21
  Speaker 2: They couldn't.
• 40:22
  Speaker 3: She's obviously processing it's maybe wasn't a choice on their
• 40:27
  Speaker 3: end as much as maybe some others like you said,
• 40:29
  Speaker 3: maybe they were sick.
• 40:31
  Speaker 2: Right.
• 40:31
  Speaker 1: I'm sure there's many reasons that she may talk about
• 40:34
  Speaker 1: and her feelings towards it that we will never know.
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: But to hear someone like Brinn talk about her past
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: and then to see just what a beautiful human she
• 40:45
  Speaker 1: is today is like pretty inspiring. You know. I've I've
• 40:50
  Speaker 1: had the luxury of meeting her. She's friends with Pandora,
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: so we've crossed paths.
• 40:55
  Speaker 2: But she just seems to like really love life.
• 40:58
  Speaker 3: That's what the gracious, that's what I was looking for,
• 41:01
  Speaker 3: Like appreciate and love life. Like her energy. There's something
• 41:04
  Speaker 3: about her that I feel like you could be around
• 41:06
  Speaker 3: her and you're just you feel like a better person, right, Yeah.
• 41:10
  Speaker 2: Like she's the one that makes the party one hundred percent.
• 41:12
  Speaker 3: She's the one that's always invited and if she can't come,
• 41:15
  Speaker 3: it's like.
• 41:15
  Speaker 2: Uh, kind of a bummer, Yeah, like you miss her.
• 41:18
  Speaker 3: Yes.
• 41:19
  Speaker 1: I liked this episode in the way that they edited
• 41:22
  Speaker 1: it because they also showed Uba talking to someone who's
• 41:25
  Speaker 1: kind of like a mentor to her. She has Uba Hot,
• 41:28
  Speaker 1: which is a hot sauce, and she's trying to figure out,
• 41:32
  Speaker 1: you know, where to go from here and she feels
• 41:34
  Speaker 1: alone and her mentor says, you know, you have a
• 41:37
  Speaker 1: lot of friends who really love you, and she's like,
• 41:38
  Speaker 1: but it's not my mom. That was like taking a
• 41:42
  Speaker 1: bullet because I can relate to that where no matter
• 41:45
  Speaker 1: what you feel and how great your friends are, I'm
• 41:50
  Speaker 1: surrounded by many great people. But the day that my
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: mom is no longer around, like I will be lost.
• 41:57
  Speaker 1: Yeah tissue, No, we don't need tissue. I'm gonna suck
• 42:02
  Speaker 1: it up.
• 42:03
  Speaker 3: No.
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: It was just like it was a beautiful rony episode,
• 42:06
  Speaker 1: but it was like heavy kind of yah, yeah, what is.
• 42:10
  Speaker 2: Happening right now? This is give them all a podcasting.
• 42:14
  Speaker 1: It's beautiful, but I like the way that they edit
• 42:16
  Speaker 1: it because it made there were two stories happening at once. Brinn,
• 42:20
  Speaker 1: who had the lack of that mom and dad support
• 42:25
  Speaker 1: and Uba who so desperately misses it, and I just
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: thought it was like a really beautiful episode.
• 42:31
  Speaker 2: We really saw.
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: These women in a different light and sometimes they're you know,
• 42:37
  Speaker 1: all of these shows have different production companies, but I
• 42:41
  Speaker 1: do love it when the production company hones in on
• 42:46
  Speaker 1: on the struggles and like the background of why people
• 42:50
  Speaker 1: are the way they are, and it's not it doesn't
• 42:53
  Speaker 1: always have to be some giant explosive fight.
• 42:57
  Speaker 3: You know.
• 42:57
  Speaker 1: The scenes of people talking about their heartache and what
• 43:01
  Speaker 1: they missed out on as kids is just as interesting.
• 43:06
  Speaker 3: Just as interesting, if not more, and makes that human
• 43:08
  Speaker 3: were watching more dynamic on screen. It's like, oh yeah,
• 43:12
  Speaker 3: of course. And also with you getting emotional about it,
• 43:15
  Speaker 3: let's you know, be honest, it's like you know how
• 43:19
  Speaker 3: you've lost a parent where you can apply the feeling
• 43:22
  Speaker 3: and then even just thinking about your mom, like you,
• 43:24
  Speaker 3: I can't even go there, So of course you're gonna
• 43:27
  Speaker 3: feel that way. I couldn't even imagine. I couldn't even
• 43:30
  Speaker 3: imagine losing a parent, let alone too. So with Uba
• 43:34
  Speaker 3: and her mott, like of course you know how that feels.
• 43:36
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she was just so sweet and raw about it.
• 43:39
  Speaker 1: I like, really really enjoy watching these group of women.
• 43:43
  Speaker 3: Me too.
• 43:44
  Speaker 1: I love her too, She's one of my favorite I
• 43:47
  Speaker 1: loved when So last week we'll get to a lighter note.
• 43:50
  Speaker 1: I'm sorry, I don't know what just happened. Do not
• 43:52
  Speaker 1: apologize for that.
• 43:55
  Speaker 3: Connelving.
• 43:56
  Speaker 2: Yeah, we're connecting. So they're in RONI.
• 43:58
  Speaker 1: They're finally back in uh the city after going to
• 44:02
  Speaker 1: the Hampton's and apparently Jessel refers to Aaron, Brynn and
• 44:10
  Speaker 1: Uba as cackling hags. Okay, I no, Uba being like
• 44:17
  Speaker 1: what is a cackling hag? Watching her not understand what
• 44:23
  Speaker 1: it was because it's like, really, what is it?
• 44:25
  Speaker 2: Because I wouldn't use a cackling hags to.
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: Describe any of those women, So I was also a
• 44:30
  Speaker 1: little confused.
• 44:31
  Speaker 2: But watching her be so and then like looking it up.
• 44:34
  Speaker 1: It's like, that's so rude, and I love what this.
• 44:38
  Speaker 3: I don't know if she said this during that moment,
• 44:40
  Speaker 3: but she's like, I'm watching a French film. I don't understand.
• 44:43
  Speaker 2: I'm wanting this is so amazing.
• 44:48
  Speaker 1: Uba with the coconut milk that she found at the
• 44:51
  Speaker 1: restaurant in last week's episode or two weeks ago, and
• 44:54
  Speaker 1: wanting it because it's really hard to find, and her
• 44:57
  Speaker 1: obsession with provision. They don't need to do anything but
• 45:02
  Speaker 1: just like cutter around the kitchen and you can talk
• 45:05
  Speaker 1: about provisions and like how caviar is not enough for
• 45:08
  Speaker 1: a meal most certainly as I used to go to
• 45:11
  Speaker 1: Beverly Hills Hotel on the rag for caviar and champagne.
• 45:16
  Speaker 3: That sounds so good with the little potato things, Oh
• 45:19
  Speaker 3: my gosh, the bullet whatever they're called.
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: It's enough for every meal. But yes, it was. The
• 45:24
  Speaker 2: episode was so good, and so they left us.
• 45:27
  Speaker 1: They left us at the moment where it said to
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: be continued where Brinn is gonna, like, I guess, really
• 45:32
  Speaker 1: open up about. All of the women were visibly upset
• 45:36
  Speaker 1: about what she was saying. The second you hear a
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: six month old is being left with an unchanged diaper,
• 45:40
  Speaker 1: it's like, what is going on? And then it takes
• 45:44
  Speaker 1: you to a place where like you have these these
• 45:47
  Speaker 1: men and women who are in partnerships and they want
• 45:50
  Speaker 1: to have families and it's such a struggle to have
• 45:52
  Speaker 1: a baby, and you're like.
• 45:53
  Speaker 3: Make it make sense, yeah, make it make sense, right,
• 45:57
  Speaker 3: And then you have parents out there who are. It's like,
• 45:59
  Speaker 3: you know, why do you and have children if you're
• 46:01
  Speaker 3: not going to care for them or love them?
• 46:03
  Speaker 1: Yeah, it's being a parent is the funnest thing on
• 46:06
  Speaker 1: the face of the earth.
• 46:07
  Speaker 2: I'm excited to be a parent one day. You're gonna
• 46:09
  Speaker 2: be a parent one day. I want five hundred children.
• 46:12
  Speaker 3: Fingers crossed you talking about this sibling for Ocean. I
• 46:15
  Speaker 3: cannot wait to care for a pregnant Lalla.
• 46:18
  Speaker 2: You know what's happening, yess. I can't wait. I can't wait,
• 46:22
  Speaker 2: God willing.
• 46:23
  Speaker 1: You're right, because again I got pregnant with Ocean when
• 46:26
  Speaker 1: I was like, what twenty nine? Yes, I mean, I'm
• 46:29
  Speaker 1: gonna be thirty three. You never know what changes in
• 46:32
  Speaker 1: the bod. But I'm really really freaking excited. So there's
• 46:37
  Speaker 1: that I cried on this episode. What the hell was that?
• 46:40
  Speaker 1: That was very strange.
• 46:42
  Speaker 3: I loved it because you used to do that a lot.
• 46:45
  Speaker 3: There used to be at least one tier per episode.
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: I know.
• 46:48
  Speaker 1: But now I'm feeling really vulnerable because my friends are
• 46:51
  Speaker 1: here right, you know, like they're seeing.
• 46:54
  Speaker 3: It happen, and I think, I know you feel vulnerable.
• 46:57
  Speaker 3: I think it's beautiful. I'm so because you just connect
• 47:01
  Speaker 3: with that Laala. We just talked about it, me and
• 47:03
  Speaker 3: Easton and you on this episode. It's like the vulnerable Lalla.
• 47:06
  Speaker 3: Everyone needs to connect with her.
• 47:08
  Speaker 1: So then you guys should consider yourselves lucky. We're connected
• 47:12
  Speaker 1: as fuck. All right, Jessica, I want to hear we're
• 47:17
  Speaker 1: at it's that time.
• 47:19
  Speaker 2: I want to hear what is the ache of the week,
• 47:22
  Speaker 2: and then what is your relief?
• 47:23
  Speaker 3: I'm literally sweating my heart is it racing? Okay, I
• 47:28
  Speaker 3: can't believe I'm gonna talk about this on the podcast.
• 47:32
  Speaker 3: I'll start with the relief because it makes the ache
• 47:34
  Speaker 3: that much more painful. The relief was it was my
• 47:38
  Speaker 3: birthday on Saturday, August fifth. My friends. My relief is
• 47:43
  Speaker 3: that my friends Nick and Joe Nick Berry, Joe Smells
• 47:48
  Speaker 3: smellser are just the most amazing two guys ever. They
• 47:53
  Speaker 3: opened up their home for me to have a little
• 47:56
  Speaker 3: birthday party. They Nick or Joe was up at like
• 48:00
  Speaker 3: like five am making guacamole like they just they the
• 48:04
  Speaker 3: house was gorgeous. They they just are amazing and that's
• 48:08
  Speaker 3: what they did for me. And Joe missed out on
• 48:11
  Speaker 3: Taylor Swift that night. Oh wow. Third Third Row with
• 48:15
  Speaker 3: Nick and and people were staying later, and he wanted
• 48:18
  Speaker 3: to like make sure the party didn't have to end,
• 48:20
  Speaker 3: so he didn't go to Taylor. And it was supposed
• 48:22
  Speaker 3: to be like one to like five, and he was like, no, no, no,
• 48:26
  Speaker 3: They're just the best. So that's my relief. I'm obsessed
• 48:29
  Speaker 3: with them. I love them so much. My ache, okay,
• 48:33
  Speaker 3: is that we had tacos and marks, right, so it's
• 48:37
  Speaker 3: I drank a decent amount. But all day I was good,
• 48:42
  Speaker 3: like I felt good. We were in the pool and
• 48:44
  Speaker 3: then at one point in time, I remember this blackout.
• 48:50
  Speaker 2: No, it was like lights out, just randomly, not only
• 48:52
  Speaker 2: that lights out.
• 48:55
  Speaker 3: Everyone's in the pool and I just remember taking a
• 48:58
  Speaker 3: last sip of my margarita and I could I could
• 49:01
  Speaker 3: taste the like watermelon juice and tequila go down. And
• 49:05
  Speaker 3: all I remember is like feeling like I got to
• 49:07
  Speaker 3: take a nap on the pool and I'm laying on
• 49:08
  Speaker 3: the ledge of the pool and then without even thinking,
• 49:11
  Speaker 3: just throw up in the pool. No I did.
• 49:15
  Speaker 2: I almost people were swimming where.
• 49:17
  Speaker 4: People were swimming right in front of them, right in
• 49:19
  Speaker 4: front of them, and it was like I spit up
• 49:22
  Speaker 4: my drink and it was like my drink so thank
• 49:24
  Speaker 4: god awful that I didn't eat all day because we
• 49:27
  Speaker 4: started so early drinking.
• 49:28
  Speaker 3: But but also it wasn't like chunky or anything. It
• 49:32
  Speaker 3: was just the watermelon juice, but threw up. It's floating
• 49:34
  Speaker 3: in the pool.
• 49:35
  Speaker 2: Everyone's going like.
• 49:37
  Speaker 3: No, it was disgusting, humiliating. Everyone's like, oh my god,
• 49:41
  Speaker 3: oh my god. Kyle like picks me up. He's like,
• 49:43
  Speaker 3: we're going upstairs just so I could like be in
• 49:45
  Speaker 3: front of the bathroom. This is a Nick and Joe's pool.
• 49:48
  Speaker 2: They missed Taylor Swift for your drunk.
• 49:51
  Speaker 3: And then I have all these people and the friends
• 49:54
  Speaker 3: there were like some first timers that I was hanging
• 49:57
  Speaker 3: out with. They were all so nice. Nobody got out
• 50:02
  Speaker 3: of the floor.
• 50:03
  Speaker 2: Are you joking? You were all twisted la la. I'm talking.
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: Two people from our office building were there.
• 50:09
  Speaker 3: Shut the first time I ever hung out with the
• 50:11
  Speaker 3: loon and they saw me like I texted everyone the
• 50:17
  Speaker 3: next day. I'm like, I have not been that way
• 50:20
  Speaker 3: since high school.
• 50:21
  Speaker 2: I'm not kidding. They're like, we're that way every weekend.
• 50:24
  Speaker 3: We're constantly throwing up in pools, and then the rest
• 50:27
  Speaker 3: of the night I'm just in the bathroom getting sick
• 50:29
  Speaker 3: and like everyone ended up leaving, texting me the next day.
• 50:32
  Speaker 2: What happened with Jake and Amy the year?
• 50:34
  Speaker 3: My god, there are this has only happened four times
• 50:38
  Speaker 3: in my life where I have to call Jake and
• 50:40
  Speaker 3: Amy because number one, Jake puts me in check and
• 50:43
  Speaker 3: number two Amy makes me feel better about everything. She's like,
• 50:45
  Speaker 3: you're fine, everyone does. It's a mistake. So I wake
• 50:49
  Speaker 3: up at Nick and Joe's house with Kyle on the
• 50:51
  Speaker 3: bathroom floor with Kyle next to me at four thirty am,
• 50:54
  Speaker 3: and I'm like, oh my god, what happened? I call.
• 50:58
  Speaker 3: I was like, I have to go with my mom
• 50:59
  Speaker 3: and dad. I call my mom and dad and they
• 51:01
  Speaker 3: did it. My dad put me in check. He's like
• 51:03
  Speaker 3: you're thirty two, like you should have known.
• 51:05
  Speaker 2: And like, oh, Jake wasn't messing around.
• 51:08
  Speaker 3: No, he was like, come on, Jess. And then my
• 51:10
  Speaker 3: mom was like, sweetie, everyone does it. It was your birthday.
• 51:14
  Speaker 3: I thank god you didn't get hurt. Like so I
• 51:17
  Speaker 3: got that, and I just needed that Kyle, Oh, Kyle,
• 51:21
  Speaker 3: some structure. I needed some structure. Kyle took care that
• 51:24
  Speaker 3: was another of course, took help, took care of the party,
• 51:27
  Speaker 3: slept on the floor with me, got me up the
• 51:29
  Speaker 3: next day. He was like, you're good, like you had
• 51:31
  Speaker 3: a fun time.
• 51:32
  Speaker 2: I was just marry that man.
• 51:35
  Speaker 3: I don't know. He's He's like a godsend. He's the best.
• 51:38
  Speaker 2: So I don't know.
• 51:39
  Speaker 1: I kind of feel like it was your birthday throw
• 51:41
  Speaker 1: up in a couple pools whatever, you know.
• 51:45
  Speaker 3: I told them because we're going Kyle and I were
• 51:46
  Speaker 3: going to Hawaii and Nick and Joe.
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: And I was I'm coming to it, I know, and
• 51:50
  Speaker 2: Lala's coming.
• 51:50
  Speaker 3: But I was like, I promise, I don't get this way.
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: And they're like, it's fine, You're fine. We can only
• 51:55
  Speaker 2: hope you do at least once.
• 51:56
  Speaker 3: I can't believe I told that. Okay, let's hit me.
• 51:59
  Speaker 3: I can believe, so move on.
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: I'm thrilled for you.
• 52:02
  Speaker 3: Thank you.
• 52:02
  Speaker 2: You deserve that.
• 52:03
  Speaker 1: You work real, real hard, honey. You deserved that moment. Okay,
• 52:08
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna read this because this is my ache of
• 52:10
  Speaker 1: the week. Marine Land and Tebue in France plans to
• 52:15
  Speaker 1: export their orcas to another marine park.
• 52:18
  Speaker 2: It has been confirmed. Okay, so everyone knows.
• 52:20
  Speaker 1: I love my orcas, right empty the tanks send them
• 52:24
  Speaker 1: to seaside sanctuaries.
• 52:26
  Speaker 2: It is beyond me how.
• 52:28
  Speaker 1: People can still go and support these types of amusement parks. Okay,
• 52:34
  Speaker 1: so rumors were circulating in May that these orcas we're
• 52:40
  Speaker 1: going to be transferred to Suma Sea World Park in
• 52:42
  Speaker 1: Japan in twenty twenty four. Now, these orcas have never
• 52:47
  Speaker 1: been separated. Okay, they're family, and everyone knows that orca
• 52:52
  Speaker 1: pods are together until death.
• 52:55
  Speaker 2: They do not separate.
• 52:56
  Speaker 1: They have a part of the brain that processes motion
• 53:00
  Speaker 1: on a more intelligent level than humans. Okay, they will
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: now be separated. It makes me sick to my stomach.
• 53:10
  Speaker 1: They will be a very high value some of them
• 53:13
  Speaker 1: because of breeding purposes, which then just makes it so
• 53:17
  Speaker 1: more orcas are going to be in captivity. One of
• 53:21
  Speaker 1: the male orcas is sick often and has behavioral issues.
• 53:25
  Speaker 1: Now this means like a lot of oral infection, and
• 53:30
  Speaker 1: this is because orcas are not supposed to be kept
• 53:32
  Speaker 1: in tanks. So they start self destructing. They get very
• 53:35
  Speaker 1: violent towards people. We've seen if you've seen blackfish, they
• 53:39
  Speaker 1: ram themselves into the concrete, they chew on metal. It's
• 53:44
  Speaker 1: absolutely devastating. And I know this is another heavy topic,
• 53:48
  Speaker 1: but the tank that they've been in is eleven million gallons.
• 53:52
  Speaker 1: It's the largest tank in the world. Wherever they're moved
• 53:55
  Speaker 1: will be much much smaller.
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: Now.
• 53:58
  Speaker 1: These orcas are a part organ are a part of
• 54:00
  Speaker 1: the dolphin family, highly intelligent. They swim hundreds of miles
• 54:04
  Speaker 1: a day. Each pod has their own hunting technique. No
• 54:08
  Speaker 1: one pod is the same. So if you guys, give
• 54:12
  Speaker 1: a damn, let's stop supporting these places, no matter where
• 54:16
  Speaker 1: you go, whether you're in France, Japan, stop going. It's
• 54:20
  Speaker 1: not cool. Get educated. I'm over it. Don't want to
• 54:23
  Speaker 1: see stories like this anymore.
• 54:25
  Speaker 2: My relief of the week.
• 54:27
  Speaker 1: On a lighter note is the fact that the podcast
• 54:31
  Speaker 1: on YouTube is absolutely killing it, and I want to
• 54:35
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• 54:39
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• 54:44
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• 54:47
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• 54:50
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• 54:57
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• 54:58
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• 55:00
  Speaker 1: it's not constructive, I'm not trying to see it. This
• 55:03
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• 55:07
  Speaker 1: want to thank you guys so much for showing just
• 55:10
  Speaker 1: all the love in the world all times I wonder
• 55:12
  Speaker 1: I'm like for me.
• 55:15
  Speaker 3: Of course, I want to shout out really quick the
• 55:17
  Speaker 3: TikTok channel. We now have a give them Lalla podcast,
• 55:21
  Speaker 3: TikTok and Instagram give them Lalla pod. But all the
• 55:25
  Speaker 3: clips that you're mentioning are on those pages.
• 55:28
  Speaker 1: Yes, And because you linked the podcast page on Instagram
• 55:33
  Speaker 1: to TikTok, the podcast ig has changed, y'all.
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: So it's give them Laala Pod.
• 55:40
  Speaker 1: You can go there and see little clips and all
• 55:43
  Speaker 1: of that goodness. You can again purchase tickets to my
• 55:46
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• 55:52
  Speaker 1: I saying everything correctly, Are all right there it is.
• 55:55
  Speaker 1: I hope you guys have a wonderful hump day. We
• 55:57
  Speaker 1: hit all the notes today.
• 55:59
  Speaker 2: Lucky us. I hope, I hope it was a happy ending.
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: It was for me. These are what my happy endings
• 56:09
  Speaker 2: look like these days.
• 56:10
  Speaker 3: Oh no, I love y'all.
• 56:12
  Speaker 1: Have the best rest of the week, and I will
• 56:14
  Speaker 1: catch you next week.