Latest / Miss Understood with Rachel Uchitel / Dita Von Teese: Small Town Dreamer to Burlesque Icon
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- 0:59Speaker 1: I'm Rachel Uchitel. Okay, so I feel like you guys
- 1:02Speaker 1: all probably know her name, Dita Von Teese. She is
- 1:07Speaker 1: somewhat iconic, and if you're not really sure what she represents,
- 1:10Speaker 1: you're gonna love this show. So for a long time,
- 1:12Speaker 1: I've heard her name, I know her face, I know
- 1:16Speaker 1: her look, it's an iconic look that she's had, and
- 1:19Speaker 1: it really hasn't changed. We all know that she was
- 1:20Speaker 1: married to Marilyn Manson, but what do we really know
- 1:23Speaker 1: about her besides the image that's in our minds of
- 1:25Speaker 1: her laying seductively in a martini glass. So I think
- 1:31Speaker 1: you're really going to like this episode because we really
- 1:33Speaker 1: get to know who Dita is behind the headlines. She
- 1:37Speaker 1: grew up in Orange County, California, and at an early
- 1:39Speaker 1: age was heavily influenced by movies and movie stars of
- 1:41Speaker 1: the 1940s. She began dressing in vintage and played around
- 1:45Speaker 1: with makeup and hair color, perfecting her look. And before
- 1:48Speaker 1: she became the Dita we all know today as the
- 1:50Speaker 1: queen of burlesque, there were lots of stops along the way.
- 1:53Speaker 1: There were strip clubs, fetish photo shoots, and even her
- 1:56Speaker 1: own pay website before things like Cameo or OnlyFans existed.
- 2:00Speaker 1: I think most people really got to know her when
- 2:02Speaker 1: she had that Betty Page haircut and started being seen
- 2:06Speaker 1: on the red carpet with her then-husband, Marilyn Manson. But
- 2:09Speaker 1: the truth is she was always an entrepreneur. She saw
- 2:11Speaker 1: a space for herself doing something no one else was
- 2:14Speaker 1: doing and created a brand. Last year, Dina's iconic martini
- 2:17Speaker 1: glass dance was featured in the film Don't Worry Darling
- 2:20Speaker 1: with Harry Styles and in Taylor Swift's video Bejeweled, not
- 2:24Speaker 1: bad company to be in. I got to talk to
- 2:26Speaker 1: Dita about Taylor, the show she's currently performing in at
- 2:29Speaker 1: the Jubilee Theater in Vegas, the evolution of burlesque, and
- 2:33Speaker 1: how she played a huge part in bringing it all
- 2:35Speaker 1: back to the masses. Personally, I really had no idea
- 2:38Speaker 1: about the history of burlesque or even exactly what that
- 2:41Speaker 1: was before talking to her. She's such a style connoisseur.
- 2:44Speaker 1: It makes me want to redo my whole wardrobe and
- 2:46Speaker 1: redecorate my house. So sit back, enjoy getting to know
- 2:50Speaker 1: a more personal side of Dita Von Teese. Nita, thank
- 3:25Speaker 1: you so much for joining me on Misunderstood. It's so
- 3:27Speaker 1: exciting to have you here.
- 3:29Speaker 2: Nice to meet you. I'm excited to be here.
- 3:32Speaker 1: So I wanted to start by asking you what it
- 3:35Speaker 1: was like for you, because I know you as a
- 3:37Speaker 1: child is very different from you now. So what was
- 3:40Speaker 1: it like growing up? You're from Michigan and then in
- 3:42Speaker 1: Orange County, right? Tell me what that was like. Yeah.
- 3:45Speaker 3: Well, I was born in Rochester, Michigan, and then moved
- 3:49Speaker 3: to a town called West Branch, which is a very
- 3:51Speaker 3: small town with like 2,000 people. And then I moved
- 3:54Speaker 3: with my family to Orange County, California when I was
- 3:57Speaker 3: about 12. So yeah, that's like the beginnings of it.
- 4:03Speaker 3: But yeah, I mean, I was like.
- 4:06Speaker 2: Siblings, like what's your family like?
- 4:09Speaker 3: I have two sisters, one older and one younger. And
- 4:13Speaker 3: my parents were married till I was like.
- 4:16Speaker 2: 16, I guess.
- 4:18Speaker 3: What else can I say? I don't know what's interesting
- 4:22Speaker 3: and what's not.
- 4:22Speaker 1: No, what's interesting is that, you know, you've created such
- 4:25Speaker 1: a persona now.
- 4:26Speaker 2: And I'm curious because I've seen pictures of you as
- 4:29Speaker 2: a child. You were blonde. Your name wasn't Zita. You know,
- 4:32Speaker 2: so I'm just curious, like, what, you know, how.
- 4:35Speaker 3: You got to the.
- 4:37Speaker 1: Position you're in now, like were you enamored by old movies?
- 4:40Speaker 2: Like what was it that got you where you are?
- 4:44Speaker 3: Well, back in Michigan, my mother loved to watch old
- 4:47Speaker 3: films from the 30s, 40s, and 50s.
- 4:50Speaker 2: So there was that. And she also was a big
- 4:52Speaker 2: collector of antiques.
- 4:53Speaker 3: So we were always going to antique shops and things
- 4:58Speaker 3: like that together. So that kind of started my love
- 5:00Speaker 3: of old things and vintage movies.
- 5:05Speaker 2: And my mother is a manicurist.
- 5:06Speaker 3: So I'd watch her do people's nails in our home.
- 5:09Speaker 3: And my father was a machinist. often out of work
- 5:14Speaker 3: when I was little. But yeah, I think it had
- 5:20Speaker 3: such a big imprint on me, these classic films. And
- 5:24Speaker 3: I grew up kind of just feeling like, oh, that's
- 5:26Speaker 3: what I was going to dress like when I was
- 5:29Speaker 3: a grown woman. To me, that was what I wanted
- 5:31Speaker 3: to look like. And I was very, very clear in that.
- 5:34Speaker 2: Right.
- 5:35Speaker 1: I'm curious what your friends from high school would say
- 5:38Speaker 1: about you.
- 5:39Speaker 2: What did they see you as? Yeah.
- 5:41Speaker 3: Um, I, in high school I was still blonde. Um,
- 5:45Speaker 3: I did not play with my hair colors yet, but
- 5:47Speaker 3: I was in high school. I was working in a
- 5:49Speaker 3: lingerie store and I had like one best girlfriend and she,
- 5:53Speaker 3: we both had long-term boyfriends. Her boyfriend was older and
- 5:57Speaker 3: went to another school or wasn't in school anymore or something. And, um, Yeah,
- 6:02Speaker 3: we were kind of like this birds of a feather,
- 6:04Speaker 3: and I worked in this lingerie store, and we already
- 6:08Speaker 3: kind of started dressing in vintage, and I used to
- 6:10Speaker 3: wear little bustiers with my pants and skirts and things.
- 6:15Speaker 3: So it just kind of started like that. And of course,
- 6:18Speaker 3: anytime there was a homecoming or prom or something like that,
- 6:21Speaker 3: I would really turn it out and.
- 6:23Speaker 2: Wear vintage looks. So it kind of started there. And
- 6:28Speaker 2: when I graduated from high school, I.
- 6:31Speaker 3: uh I went to my first rave party and met
- 6:35Speaker 3: all these club kids and drag queens and kind of
- 6:37Speaker 3: like opened up a whole another world for me where
- 6:39Speaker 3: I really started like playing with my hair and my
- 6:42Speaker 3: makeup and my clothes even more and I first started
- 6:45Speaker 3: dressing in vintage because I couldn't afford like the you
- 6:48Speaker 3: know my parents weren't weren't buying me like designer jeans
- 6:52Speaker 3: and all that kind of stuff so Um, it started
- 6:54Speaker 3: with kind of like a necessity because back in the
- 6:57Speaker 3: eighties and nineties, I don't, you know, vintage clothing was
- 6:59Speaker 3: not the big cache it is now. So that's really
- 7:03Speaker 3: where it came from. And just, um, yeah, I just
- 7:07Speaker 3: always felt like I could, I gained, I gained a
- 7:12Speaker 3: lot of confidence from dressing up.
- 7:15Speaker 2: The way that I liked. And I felt like I could,
- 7:17Speaker 2: you know, like, um, kind.
- 7:19Speaker 3: Of creating this, this mythological femme fatale, um, persona that
- 7:26Speaker 3: kind of counteracted my shyness.
- 7:28Speaker 2: Right.
- 7:29Speaker 1: And is that when you finally, like, did you play
- 7:31Speaker 1: with your hair? You said you were playing with your hair.
- 7:32Speaker 1: Did you finally go black and you were like, this
- 7:35Speaker 1: is it?
- 7:35Speaker 3: I love it.
- 7:36Speaker 2: This is the style. And you never went back? Or
- 7:38Speaker 2: how did that become? It's kind of gradual.
- 7:40Speaker 3: Like, in my, like, 19 to 21, I was wearing
- 7:46Speaker 3: my hair.
- 7:46Speaker 2: It was still blonde, but I wore it in, like,
- 7:48Speaker 2: a beehive hairdo.
- 7:49Speaker 3: And I used to put all these, like, things in
- 7:52Speaker 3: my hair, in my beehive, like a jeweled uh, butterflies
- 7:56Speaker 3: and rhinestone things and everything. So it was kind of
- 7:59Speaker 3: like doing this sixties thing with the sick black cat eye.
- 8:02Speaker 3: And then I kind of shifted person, you know, shifted eras, um,
- 8:07Speaker 3: but from like a, like a late sixties to like
- 8:10Speaker 3: a fifties, like, you know, I dyed my hair bright
- 8:13Speaker 3: red and I wore it in a flip and then
- 8:16Speaker 3: I cut it into like a black Louise Brooks, um,
- 8:19Speaker 3: bob haircut right after that and then once i went
- 8:22Speaker 3: with then i grew along and i was very into
- 8:24Speaker 3: betty page so this is like you know i was
- 8:26Speaker 3: like all of this happened in the course of like
- 8:29Speaker 3: 19 to 21 um and yeah and then i kind
- 8:34Speaker 3: of i started because i became very uh interested also
- 8:39Speaker 3: in the swing dance scene it was like in orange
- 8:42Speaker 3: county the swing dance scene was really like bubbling up
- 8:45Speaker 3: there because a lot of the dancers that worked at Disneyland,
- 8:49Speaker 3: which like if you grew up in Orange County, you know,
- 8:52Speaker 3: a lot of people should do Disneyland, especially back then
- 8:55Speaker 3: when it was you know, you could just go there
- 8:58Speaker 3: on a whim and it was like $ 25 to get in.
- 9:01Speaker 2: Very different.
- 9:02Speaker 3: But like a lot of my friends and people in
- 9:05Speaker 3: the dance world worked at Disneyland. And that's kind of where,
- 9:08Speaker 3: you know, we started learning how to swing dance was
- 9:10Speaker 3: kind of like.
- 9:11Speaker 2: In that whole scene.
- 9:12Speaker 3: And so then I became really into the forties, like
- 9:15Speaker 3: thirties and forties and bought my first vintage car. And
- 9:17Speaker 3: I was dressing head to toe in forties clothes and
- 9:20Speaker 3: going out swing dancing. And that was like, you know,
- 9:23Speaker 3: the like 1994, Right.
- 9:27Speaker 2: So I read that you were classically trained as a
- 9:30Speaker 2: ballet dancer. Is that true?
- 9:31Speaker 3: I know the word classically trained is a little bit
- 9:34Speaker 3: funny because I, you know, I started taking ballet classes
- 9:38Speaker 3: in West Branch, Michigan, a little ballet studio that was
- 9:41Speaker 3: not much. And then in Orange County, I was You know,
- 9:45Speaker 3: in both there and in Orange County, I was cleaning
- 9:49Speaker 3: the bathrooms in exchange for ballet classes. So I wouldn't,
- 9:52Speaker 3: I'm not, I don't come from like a fancy ballet school.
- 9:56Speaker 3: And I was, you know, like, I think star in
- 9:59Speaker 3: the nutcracker or something yeah I know I mean I
- 10:01Speaker 3: was like a snowflake in the like little rinky-dink ballet
- 10:04Speaker 3: production in Orange County you know like I was that
- 10:07Speaker 3: kind of dancer like struggle always struggling I always loved
- 10:11Speaker 3: ballet I love dance but sometimes when I see it
- 10:13Speaker 3: on paper and they say she comes from classical ballet
- 10:16Speaker 3: and I was like oh lord I'm not like I
- 10:19Speaker 3: listen to all these podcasts about the showgirls, and they
- 10:23Speaker 3: come from all these famous ballet schools all.
- 10:25Speaker 2: Over the world. I'm like, oh, no, that's not the
- 10:28Speaker 2: kind of ballet that I did. Okay, well, thanks.
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- 11:06Speaker 2: So I see that you started working at a strip
- 11:09Speaker 2: club though, when you were 19, is that like your
- 11:11Speaker 2: first job that required some sort of dancing and movement?
- 11:15Speaker 3: Kind of.
- 11:15Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 11:16Speaker 3: There's, I was doing, I was kind of like, I
- 11:18Speaker 3: had so many jobs worked in the lingerie store when
- 11:21Speaker 3: I was 14, just tagging things that I was a
- 11:24Speaker 3: sales girl. So I worked in lingerie and, um, Then,
- 11:29Speaker 3: like I was saying, I worked in the rave scene
- 11:31Speaker 3: like I was a go-go dancer. That was kind of
- 11:33Speaker 3: my first like onstage thing. And then I wandered into
- 11:38Speaker 3: a strip club with some friends.
- 11:39Speaker 2: And I was like, I'm going to do this too.
- 11:41Speaker 2: So I was working like all these jobs at once.
- 11:43Speaker 3: And for a little while I was graduated from, I
- 11:46Speaker 3: was working in a department store selling lingerie and I
- 11:50Speaker 3: wanted to work in beauty. So I went in to
- 11:52Speaker 3: work in, in, at the Shiseido counter, um, while I
- 11:56Speaker 3: was doing all the other things, working at the strip club,
- 11:59Speaker 3: working in the rave scene. Cause I always kept like
- 12:01Speaker 3: a legit job because I was like, well, this is
- 12:03Speaker 3: just all stuff that I'm doing for fun. Like the
- 12:05Speaker 3: strip club and all of these things. Um, at the
- 12:08Speaker 3: same time I was, um, the most famous fetish model
- 12:12Speaker 3: in the world, which is.
- 12:13Speaker 2: Very like, you know, big fish in a little pond, right?
- 12:17Speaker 3: But I was on the cover of all those magazines
- 12:19Speaker 3: because I was, you know, kind of rehashing the whole
- 12:21Speaker 3: Betty Page aesthetic, doing bondage photos, but doing it all
- 12:25Speaker 3: in a vintage way.
- 12:26Speaker 2: So I was famous all around the world for that.
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- 14:09Speaker 2: So that's really interesting though. Like how did that come about?
- 14:16Speaker 1: It just, that's a hard thing to become like the
- 14:20Speaker 1: number one girl in that business.
- 14:23Speaker 3: Well, it started with first, like, it's so hard. Cause
- 14:26Speaker 3: it's like, there's the timeline is like all over the place. I,
- 14:31Speaker 3: you know, I'm dressing vintage. So I'd have like, but
- 14:34Speaker 3: photography students, come to me and say, can.
- 14:37Speaker 2: I take your picture? You look amazing.
- 14:38Speaker 3: And I'd be like, sure.
- 14:40Speaker 2: So I'd take these pictures.
- 14:41Speaker 3: And then meanwhile, I'm working in the strip club. So
- 14:43Speaker 3: I'm like, oh, let's take pictures of my corsets. Let's
- 14:46Speaker 3: do these pinup photos. And I had the first pinup
- 14:50Speaker 3: website ever on the.
- 14:51Speaker 2: Web, on the internet.
- 14:52Speaker 3: When my, I remember my boyfriend at the time was like, Hey,
- 14:56Speaker 3: there's this thing called the worldwide web and we should
- 14:59Speaker 3: put you on it. And so I sold little postcard
- 15:02Speaker 3: sets of me posing as a pinup girl and you'd
- 15:05Speaker 3: have to like send in your check. And then I'd
- 15:06Speaker 3: like sign your little cards and then send it out.
- 15:09Speaker 3: So that was like the first ever, it was one
- 15:11Speaker 3: page when you could have one page on the internet.
- 15:14Speaker 2: And, um, it's like my space meets only fans kind of.
- 15:19Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 15:19Speaker 2: But way before any of that stuff. So this is
- 15:21Speaker 2: like very early years and, um, Yeah.
- 15:25Speaker 3: So I was definitely like the first pinup girl on
- 15:28Speaker 3: the web, on the internet. And then I, my, so
- 15:31Speaker 3: I got bigger and I was one of like the first,
- 15:33Speaker 3: I'd say the first like, like 10 or 20 people.
- 15:37Speaker 2: To have like a membership site.
- 15:38Speaker 3: Like it was when all that, but it was bubbling
- 15:40Speaker 3: and up, up and all the like playboy girls were
- 15:42Speaker 3: making these membership paywalls where you would take pictures with
- 15:46Speaker 3: the other girls and we'd all like share the pictures
- 15:49Speaker 3: and put them on our paywall. So I had that too.
- 15:52Speaker 3: So I'd say I became famous because I, was connected.
- 15:55Speaker 3: Like I would fly to Germany and shoot for this
- 15:57Speaker 3: magazine called marquee magazine.
- 16:00Speaker 2: And I do their little like fetish videos, you know.
- 16:02Speaker 3: It's like wearing corsets and walking around and, you know, uh,
- 16:06Speaker 3: wearing rubber, trying on rubber outfits, trying on shoes, you know,
- 16:09Speaker 3: very like, you know, non, um, you know, just, I
- 16:15Speaker 3: just became like the, the, the famous and the modern
- 16:18Speaker 3: answer to Betty page like that by doing all these
- 16:20Speaker 3: like glossy fetish magazines all over the world.
- 16:23Speaker 2: They were mostly like in London.
- 16:24Speaker 3: And, um, there was one magazine, uh, in LA and
- 16:28Speaker 3: orange County areas and performing at these fetish parties.
- 16:32Speaker 2: And, you know, everybody in that world knew me at
- 16:34Speaker 2: that time.
- 16:35Speaker 1: Do you think it's because you had your own look
- 16:37Speaker 1: that was kind of more romantic than this? Like, you know,
- 16:41Speaker 1: wickedly sexy type of girl that can be threatening.
- 16:44Speaker 3: Do you know what I mean?
- 16:45Speaker 2: Like, you seem more romantic and soft. I remember.
- 16:50Speaker 3: very well how it all started um too and I
- 16:53Speaker 3: forgot about this part but like so I I I
- 16:57Speaker 3: was I was working you know I was working the
- 16:59Speaker 3: lingerie store and I wanted to have a corset and
- 17:02Speaker 3: somebody gave me an address on a piece of paper
- 17:04Speaker 3: like here's where you can buy a corset and I
- 17:06Speaker 3: walked in and there was this super nice guy sitting
- 17:09Speaker 3: behind the counter and all these like you know a
- 17:11Speaker 3: rack of corsets and and tons of magazines and like
- 17:15Speaker 3: opera gloves and boots and all this like fetish gear everywhere.
- 17:19Speaker 3: And I remember like I spent hours there and I
- 17:22Speaker 3: was talking to this guy who became a lifelong friend.
- 17:26Speaker 2: And he showed me pictures of Betty Page.
- 17:29Speaker 3: And so I'm looking at all these pictures of Betty
- 17:31Speaker 3: Page and I'm looking at the modern fetish magazines and
- 17:33Speaker 3: they were all like tattooed, pierced, bald girls, like really
- 17:37Speaker 3: like in your face. And I was like, how come
- 17:39Speaker 3: no one's doing this though? And he's like, it's wide
- 17:42Speaker 3: open for you.
- 17:43Speaker 2: And that's what I did.
- 17:44Speaker 3: Like nobody, nobody was doing that. And so I kind
- 17:46Speaker 3: of set my mind to do that.
- 17:49Speaker 2: Right.
- 17:49Speaker 1: It's so interesting because it's like, it was coming from
- 17:53Speaker 1: an earlier age and it was very raw and real
- 17:57Speaker 1: who you were. And then it seems like it turned
- 18:00Speaker 1: into something that people, there was really an opening.
- 18:03Speaker 2: For that kind of thing.
- 18:04Speaker 1: I'm really curious because I have had a decent amount
- 18:07Speaker 1: of women on here who are strippers or porn stars
- 18:11Speaker 1: or sort of in that world.
- 18:14Speaker 2: And they have felt very misunderstood. Their families disowned them.
- 18:18Speaker 1: You know, there was all sorts of, you know, stigma
- 18:21Speaker 1: that they had to have some like sexual trauma to
- 18:23Speaker 1: go into that field.
- 18:25Speaker 2: You know, you work with so many of these women.
- 18:27Speaker 2: You started in that kind of environment. What do you
- 18:31Speaker 2: feel about that? Does your past have anything to do
- 18:33Speaker 2: with it?
- 18:34Speaker 3: I don't know if my experience is like having known
- 18:38Speaker 3: many women who were.
- 18:40Speaker 2: Hardcore porn stars or soft core porn stars.
- 18:42Speaker 3: Or playboy models or legit actresses or like all of
- 18:46Speaker 3: these things, people, I've known lots of these people and
- 18:48Speaker 3: I feel like it's across the board. I mean, I
- 18:50Speaker 3: feel like, Every woman I know has a story, like
- 18:54Speaker 3: a me too-ish thing or like, oh my God, I
- 18:57Speaker 3: didn't even realize it, but like I was date raped
- 18:59Speaker 3: or whatever. Like, I feel like there, I do not
- 19:01Speaker 3: know one woman who doesn't have some kind of story
- 19:03Speaker 3: where they're like, oh, that was weird. Now I look
- 19:05Speaker 3: back and I'm like, that was not cool. But I
- 19:09Speaker 3: don't think that that's like the gold standard of like
- 19:12Speaker 3: that abuse makes you turn to sex work. I don't
- 19:15Speaker 3: believe that at all.
- 19:16Speaker 2: And there's nothing.
- 19:17Speaker 3: For me, I didn't become a stripper dancer for any reason.
- 19:25Speaker 3: I just wanted to be a ballerina when I grew up.
- 19:28Speaker 3: I realized that my obsessions with ballet... I have an
- 19:33Speaker 3: imprint on me. I had this vinyl record from the
- 19:38Speaker 3: 50s of Tchaikovsky. It had a ballerina from the 50s
- 19:41Speaker 3: on it. She had fishnet tights, pointe shoes... like a
- 19:47Speaker 3: pale blue platter, tutu, the dramatic makeup, the tiara, the
- 19:53Speaker 3: black hair pulled back. And I was like, I was
- 19:56Speaker 3: obsessed with that. And I realized though, like somebody asked
- 20:00Speaker 3: me once, I said, what was it that you never
- 20:02Speaker 3: would do, never got to.
- 20:03Speaker 2: Do that you wanted to do?
- 20:05Speaker 3: And I was like, well, I wanted to be a ballerina,
- 20:06Speaker 3: but I wasn't good enough, you know? And they said, oh,
- 20:09Speaker 3: what about it that you loved? And I said, I mean,
- 20:12Speaker 3: it was just like the idea of like the pointe
- 20:15Speaker 3: shoes and the beauty and the femininity and the exaggeration,
- 20:18Speaker 3: the drama and like the makeup and, you know, and
- 20:21Speaker 3: I'm saying all these things and he says, Don't you
- 20:24Speaker 3: feel like you got everything you asked the universe for,
- 20:27Speaker 3: but in a very different way?
- 20:28Speaker 2: And I was like, yeah, because I never heard you
- 20:30Speaker 2: say once.
- 20:31Speaker 3: That you just love to dance. And I was like, no,
- 20:33Speaker 3: I didn't love to dance because I was not good
- 20:36Speaker 3: at it. I just wanted to move and I wanted.
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- 20:55Speaker 3: I love the hands and the head and the pointing
- 21:01Speaker 3: the toes and all of these, the emotion and feeling
- 21:06Speaker 3: of dance. But I was never like, God, I feel
- 21:09Speaker 3: free when I dance. So there's a lot of things
- 21:11Speaker 3: in my life that I realized, things that I saw
- 21:14Speaker 3: in my childhood or experienced in my childhood that made
- 21:17Speaker 3: me want, that all laid the groundwork for what I
- 21:20Speaker 3: do now.
- 21:21Speaker 2: Yeah. And it's like a proud obsession, all of it.
- 21:25Speaker 1: And it's interesting because the women that I have talked to,
- 21:27Speaker 1: and I've lived in, I lived in Vegas for years.
- 21:31Speaker 1: You know, the women that I knew that did this,
- 21:33Speaker 1: they all came from a place of feeling very powerful.
- 21:36Speaker 1: They did it, chose to continue to do it because
- 21:39Speaker 1: it made them feel beautiful.
- 21:40Speaker 2: It made them feel powerful. And yes, everyone had a story,
- 21:43Speaker 2: but they, you know.
- 21:44Speaker 1: They knew exactly why they felt better on stage doing
- 21:50Speaker 1: that and then they could go home to like their
- 21:51Speaker 1: real life and they almost loved that that stage life
- 21:54Speaker 1: right to them it was the closest they were going
- 21:56Speaker 1: to get to being a famous actress and idolized by
- 21:59Speaker 1: someone right so um i i love hearing that from people.
- 22:02Speaker 3: What were you feeling yeah same thing your family were
- 22:07Speaker 3: they supportive of you um in the grand scheme of
- 22:12Speaker 3: things yes, but there were moments that they were questioning
- 22:16Speaker 3: me and you can't blame them.
- 22:17Speaker 2: Listen, I was literally 20 years old, you know, working
- 22:22Speaker 2: in a strip club and like paying my own way,
- 22:25Speaker 2: by the way, like.
- 22:26Speaker 3: I had credit cards paid with very self-sufficient. And, um,
- 22:30Speaker 3: but my parents were, you know, maybe they challenged me
- 22:33Speaker 3: a few times, like, what are you doing? And I
- 22:35Speaker 3: was like, I want to do this thing like Betty page,
- 22:38Speaker 3: you know, cause I'm doing all the bondage photos and stuff.
- 22:40Speaker 2: And, you know, they wanted to know how you were
- 22:43Speaker 2: going to turn this into a real living.
- 22:44Speaker 3: I had like, cause there was no blueprint for that.
- 22:47Speaker 2: And there was no living blueprint.
- 22:48Speaker 3: Like what gypsy Rosalie, it hasn't happened in 75 years
- 22:52Speaker 3: that there's been a famous bondage model or like burlesque star.
- 22:57Speaker 3: So it was very much against the odds, which I think,
- 23:00Speaker 3: you know, I never had any lofty ideas of, of,
- 23:04Speaker 3: fame or that I would have a show in Vegas
- 23:06Speaker 3: of this magnitude, like nothing. I never thought anything like that.
- 23:09Speaker 3: I was just having a good time. And, um, it's
- 23:13Speaker 3: just like, you know, I didn't, I didn't make this goal.
- 23:16Speaker 3: Like I'm going to show you, I'm going to be famous,
- 23:18Speaker 3: you know, but however, at the same time, you know, the,
- 23:22Speaker 3: the time when my father finally accepted me, um, And
- 23:26Speaker 3: what I'm doing was, you know, I was on the
- 23:28Speaker 3: cover of Playboy and like for that generation of men
- 23:31Speaker 3: and that to the time I was on the cover
- 23:33Speaker 3: of Playboy for the most, the biggest, the second biggest
- 23:38Speaker 3: issue of the year, the play me of the year
- 23:39Speaker 3: after was the Christmas issue.
- 23:41Speaker 2: Like Sherilyn Fenn and Sharon Stone.
- 23:44Speaker 3: And Drew Barrymore and all of these like women had
- 23:47Speaker 3: been on the cover of Playboy. So like, it was
- 23:49Speaker 3: the first time my dad was like, okay, Um, so
- 23:52Speaker 3: it was kind of weird to me that like fame
- 23:56Speaker 3: legitimized me.
- 23:57Speaker 2: Cause I was kind of like, well, this is what
- 23:58Speaker 2: I've been doing all along.
- 23:59Speaker 3: You know, it just like, just because you didn't get it,
- 24:03Speaker 3: that's not much, you know? Right.
- 24:05Speaker 2: No, I understand.
- 24:06Speaker 1: Um, so how did you become, go from Heather Renee Sweet? Like,
- 24:11Speaker 1: how did you pick the name Dita Avanti?
- 24:13Speaker 3: Um, I was working in the strip club and I was,
- 24:18Speaker 3: like I said, I was just a fetish model with
- 24:19Speaker 3: the name Dita. And like anybody walks into a strip club,
- 24:22Speaker 3: you pick like an alter ego.
- 24:24Speaker 2: It's part of the fun of it, you know?
- 24:25Speaker 3: And also, so you, people don't know your name and
- 24:27Speaker 3: can find out where you live or whatever. So, but
- 24:31Speaker 3: the Monty's came from the first time I was in Playboy.
- 24:34Speaker 3: I was in the play in Playboy in the nineties
- 24:36Speaker 3: as well. Um, and, um, They have like these book
- 24:40Speaker 3: of lingerie they used to have that came out every
- 24:43Speaker 3: other month and it was all like girls, you know,
- 24:46Speaker 3: from all over the world. And so I was in
- 24:48Speaker 3: that and I said, well, I'm just Dita. And they go, no,
- 24:52Speaker 3: you have to have a last name. I was like, why?
- 24:53Speaker 3: Like Madonna, Cher, I want to be like a one
- 24:56Speaker 3: name person.
- 24:57Speaker 2: And they said, no.
- 24:58Speaker 3: So I remember I was sitting at the bar and
- 25:00Speaker 3: pulled out the phone book and looked under. I was like,
- 25:03Speaker 3: Vons have cool things. And I was looking under the
- 25:05Speaker 3: Vons and I found the name Von Treece and I
- 25:08Speaker 3: called Playboy and I said, I'm going to be Dita
- 25:10Speaker 3: Von Treece.
- 25:10Speaker 2: And they're like, okay.
- 25:12Speaker 3: And then, you know, a month and a half later
- 25:14Speaker 3: or whatever, I go to the liquor store to pick
- 25:16Speaker 3: up my issue and I open it up.
- 25:18Speaker 2: And it says D to Von T's. And I was like,
- 25:20Speaker 2: that's not right.
- 25:21Speaker 3: And I actually called them and not even smart enough
- 25:24Speaker 3: at that point to think like, this could be good.
- 25:26Speaker 2: Von T's.
- 25:28Speaker 3: No, I call them and I say, Hey, you guys,
- 25:30Speaker 3: you've got it wrong.
- 25:31Speaker 2: It's Von trees.
- 25:32Speaker 3: There's an R in it. And so then they go, yeah,
- 25:35Speaker 3: we'll get.
- 25:35Speaker 2: It right next month.
- 25:36Speaker 3: And then next month it is the same.
- 25:39Speaker 2: And finally I was like, whatever.
- 25:40Speaker 3: So it's like a very not calculated thing. If I
- 25:44Speaker 3: had to do it all again, it would probably be different,
- 25:47Speaker 3: but yeah, you know.
- 25:48Speaker 2: Well, it seems perfect though.
- 25:50Speaker 1: I would have thought that they, they changed it for
- 25:52Speaker 1: you on purpose. I don't even thought that, I don't.
- 25:58Speaker 2: Know what they thought.
- 25:59Speaker 3: They didn't say so if that was deliberate, but I
- 26:02Speaker 3: feel like that is like that, like a series of
- 26:06Speaker 3: things that were not like calculated. Like I never thought
- 26:10Speaker 3: that I was, there was all these things that happened
- 26:12Speaker 3: that were never like my lofty goals.
- 26:14Speaker 2: They were just like, Oh, I mean, this is great.
- 26:16Speaker 2: And like getting secretly excited, like, oh, this is, you know.
- 26:19Speaker 3: Like I remember being like headlining a strip club in Pittsburgh,
- 26:23Speaker 3: you know, at a truck stop with a billboard and
- 26:26Speaker 3: being like, huh, my name, I have all the pictures
- 26:28Speaker 3: to prove it to you. Like, here I am proudly
- 26:30Speaker 3: standing in front of my strip club billboard in Pittsburgh,
- 26:33Speaker 3: you know, or Wichita Falls.
- 26:35Speaker 2: And that to.
- 26:36Speaker 3: Me, I was like, this is my moment. This is
- 26:39Speaker 3: the pinnacle of my life.
- 26:40Speaker 2: This is as good as it gets.
- 26:42Speaker 3: Like, and I genuinely believed it. And I was genuinely,
- 26:46Speaker 3: grateful for it, like for everything I was doing.
- 26:49Speaker 2: And it made it so that everything I did, whether.
- 26:52Speaker 3: It was doing my little feather fan dance and a
- 26:57Speaker 3: beat down strip club for whoever, I was having fun.
- 27:04Speaker 3: And I feel like I don't mean to be like
- 27:06Speaker 3: all universe, but It is like I didn't ask for
- 27:11Speaker 3: anything more. I just did my best and enjoyed what
- 27:14Speaker 3: I was doing at the time and appreciated the moment,
- 27:18Speaker 3: no matter how small it seems now.
- 27:20Speaker 2: I was going to say you come off as being
- 27:22Speaker 2: very grateful and kind. And, you know, there are people
- 27:25Speaker 2: that are total hustlers and will do anything they can
- 27:27Speaker 2: to make it to the top. And it's like when
- 27:29Speaker 2: you got to the top, you thought that was the
- 27:31Speaker 2: top of the mountain. But those are just little hills.
- 27:36Speaker 2: And you were just on it for the ride. I
- 27:38Speaker 2: love that. That's such a good thing.
- 27:40Speaker 5: Okay.
- 27:41Speaker 2: Tell us what burlesque is. How would you describe it?
- 27:44Speaker 3: Okay. It's confusing to some people because burlesque is a
- 27:47Speaker 3: term that's been really thrown around and capitalized on in
- 27:50Speaker 3: recent years. So burlesque was a variety show that was
- 27:53Speaker 3: kind of a spinoff of vaudeville. Like a vaudeville show
- 27:57Speaker 3: was a variety show that happened like in the early,
- 28:00Speaker 3: you know, 1900s and 2000s.
- 28:02Speaker 2: And in America and.
- 28:03Speaker 3: A burlesque show was kind of started in like the
- 28:06Speaker 3: 30s and it was a little bit more of a
- 28:07Speaker 3: racy show and the stars of the burlesque show were
- 28:10Speaker 3: strippers and it was kind of like a in in
- 28:14Speaker 3: the the comedy and striptease together like you'd have like
- 28:18Speaker 3: famous comedians that would come and or before they were
- 28:22Speaker 3: famous actually before they were like movie stars were playing
- 28:26Speaker 3: burlesque houses and And it was just like more of
- 28:29Speaker 3: a raucous kind of show than a vaudeville show like
- 28:32Speaker 3: vaudeville is considered more legitimate. And they say like striptease
- 28:37Speaker 3: was kind of born out of like somebody doing a
- 28:39Speaker 3: quick change before they were still in view of the
- 28:42Speaker 3: audience and the crowd going crazy and then the manager
- 28:44Speaker 3: saying keep doing that thing where you take off those
- 28:47Speaker 3: things before you leave the.
- 28:48Speaker 2: Stage so it kind of turned into this.
- 28:50Speaker 3: Show where the stars of the burlesque show were striptease stars.
- 28:54Speaker 3: So there were big stars that came out of burlesque,
- 28:57Speaker 3: like Gypsy Roselies, who many people know because of the
- 29:00Speaker 3: musical and the film Gypsy, starring Natalie Wood in 1962.
- 29:05Speaker 2: And Lily St.
- 29:06Speaker 3: Cyr, who is like another very famous striptease star, more
- 29:10Speaker 3: in the 50s. Sally Rand, who famously did the Feather
- 29:14Speaker 3: Fan Dance in 1939 at the World's Fair in Chicago.
- 29:19Speaker 3: So there's like a few like very famous names that
- 29:22Speaker 3: people may or may not know, but you would recognize
- 29:25Speaker 3: like there was a movie called The Right Stuff that
- 29:28Speaker 3: had a little bit of Sally Rand fan dancing. And
- 29:30Speaker 3: so like if you, sometimes when I say things like that,
- 29:33Speaker 3: people go, oh, I get it now. I remember that.
- 29:36Speaker 3: So um, yeah, it's, you know, there have been like
- 29:40Speaker 3: little burlesque resurgences, but it never as big as it
- 29:43Speaker 3: is now. It's been, it's, I feel like in my,
- 29:48Speaker 3: my career, which started in the early nineties, um, Hey, cats, um,
- 29:56Speaker 3: I mean, it's really I've seen like a major evolution
- 30:01Speaker 3: just in not only just like my audience, you know, my.
- 30:04Speaker 2: Audience was mostly male in the 90s.
- 30:07Speaker 3: And when I came out with my first book.
- 30:11Speaker 2: And like around the time or just after I was
- 30:13Speaker 2: on the cover of Playboy. I wrote about why I
- 30:16Speaker 2: love burlesque, why.
- 30:17Speaker 3: I look to it, what it means to me, how
- 30:19Speaker 3: I felt empowered, you know, in this world. And I
- 30:24Speaker 3: had a whole new fan base of women. And still
- 30:29Speaker 3: to this day.
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- 31:02Speaker 3: Mostly my audience is mostly female, which I feel very, again,
- 31:08Speaker 3: like so lucky for that, like, you know, I'm... I
- 31:13Speaker 3: have this like longevity that probably wouldn't exist if I
- 31:16Speaker 3: had just been beneath the hetero male gaze, you know, right. Right.
- 31:22Speaker 2: Different story.
- 31:22Speaker 3: And it came from me sharing my story. And I
- 31:25Speaker 3: think other, other people, um, like saying, I want, I
- 31:29Speaker 3: want to do that too. I want to be like
- 31:30Speaker 3: that too. I want to be in control of my sensuality.
- 31:33Speaker 3: I want to liberate myself.
- 31:35Speaker 2: I want to, I want to, I feel, I.
- 31:37Speaker 3: Like to be inspired by a show like this. My
- 31:40Speaker 3: show has always been about diversity and inclusion since I
- 31:44Speaker 3: first started touring 15 years ago. And it was kind
- 31:49Speaker 3: of just like a natural thing that came from burlesque
- 31:51Speaker 3: where I was like, that person is an amazing performer.
- 31:54Speaker 3: And I felt like I always wanted to present performers
- 31:57Speaker 3: that people can feel like they'll change their minds about
- 32:01Speaker 3: what a burlesque show is like, instead of having a
- 32:04Speaker 3: show full of like, pin up girls. How do we,
- 32:08Speaker 3: how do we change people's minds about what this is? Like,
- 32:10Speaker 3: you know, so that's something I did before it was
- 32:13Speaker 3: a buzzword before it was cool.
- 32:16Speaker 2: And change people's minds about what beauty is kind of,
- 32:19Speaker 2: because I was going to ask you about self-esteem and
- 32:22Speaker 2: body image and the size of women, right? Many years ago,
- 32:26Speaker 2: stick thin, now it's all shapes and sizes.
- 32:29Speaker 1: So how do you sort of talk to the people
- 32:33Speaker 1: that work with you and that are in your show
- 32:35Speaker 1: about what is normal and good and looks good?
- 32:37Speaker 2: And how do you stay in shape?
- 32:40Speaker 3: I mean, I just think, I think a lot about
- 32:42Speaker 3: strength and power and ability and like, you know, although
- 32:46Speaker 3: I've played with that in the past too, where I've
- 32:48Speaker 3: had in my show, non-dancers that just capture your gaze,
- 32:54Speaker 3: that just like capture your attention.
- 32:55Speaker 2: And I really like look for that.
- 32:57Speaker 3: And even in casting this Vegas show, we had these
- 32:59Speaker 3: huge auditions and there were some people that I was like,
- 33:02Speaker 3: can't take my eyes off that person.
- 33:04Speaker 2: And maybe somebody on the choreo team was like, they're
- 33:06Speaker 2: not the strongest dancer.
- 33:07Speaker 3: And I was like, I'm sorry, can't take my eyes
- 33:09Speaker 3: off that person.
- 33:10Speaker 2: And then they, I put them in the show and
- 33:12Speaker 2: guess what?
- 33:12Speaker 3: I'm right. You know, 90% of the people go, couldn't
- 33:16Speaker 3: take my eyes off that one person. And I was like,
- 33:18Speaker 3: I know, because it isn't always about like this show
- 33:22Speaker 3: off the dancing or, or circusy thing or whatever you're doing.
- 33:27Speaker 3: That's like, it's sometimes you just, you can't really explain
- 33:30Speaker 3: why someone draws your eye.
- 33:32Speaker 2: And I'm very interested in that. And I always have been.
- 33:35Speaker 2: And so.
- 33:37Speaker 3: It's, I feel like it's one of the things that
- 33:39Speaker 3: I love about burlesque and what I do and that
- 33:41Speaker 3: I can break those rules and go against what people say,
- 33:46Speaker 3: you know, you should hire, you should have this kind
- 33:48Speaker 3: of person. I don't agree, you know, cause like also
- 33:52Speaker 3: I'm not, you know, I come from the, everything I
- 33:55Speaker 3: do is born out of the things that you could
- 33:58Speaker 3: perceive as my downfalls or the things that are my,
- 34:02Speaker 3: that I'm not good at.
- 34:03Speaker 2: But if I had been good at those other things,
- 34:06Speaker 2: I would not be the world's most famous burlesque star.
- 34:09Speaker 3: Like I would not be doing any of this. And
- 34:11Speaker 3: I feel like I picked the right path and I
- 34:13Speaker 3: persevered and I didn't say, Oh, I can't, I'm not
- 34:16Speaker 3: as good of a dancer as those people.
- 34:18Speaker 2: So I can't dance. No, I was like, I'm going
- 34:20Speaker 2: to do it in my own way. And I, I
- 34:23Speaker 2: just am.
- 34:24Speaker 3: Very, I feel like I, even when I think about
- 34:27Speaker 3: the artists that I love, like whether it's someone who's
- 34:30Speaker 3: a singer, there's always something I feel like this in
- 34:35Speaker 3: this thing that draws you to them. And sometimes it's
- 34:39Speaker 3: the imperfections. Like I'm like, I don't like I have
- 34:44Speaker 3: a very like particular like taste in like music or singers.
- 34:47Speaker 3: Like I love the way someone like, you know, Frank
- 34:51Speaker 3: Sinatra communicated. Right.
- 34:53Speaker 2: Or I love. I loved Amy Winehouse.
- 34:56Speaker 3: Um, but like, I can't stand like really like vocal
- 35:00Speaker 3: gymnastics type, like synthesized pop-ish stuff.
- 35:04Speaker 2: I can't, I can't listen to it.
- 35:05Speaker 3: You know, like I like people that have a distinctive
- 35:09Speaker 3: voice that is about like something more, a different.
- 35:13Speaker 2: Kind of depth, if it makes sense. Yeah, of course.
- 35:17Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 35:17Speaker 2: It's interesting because, you know, there's been a real push
- 35:20Speaker 2: like in gyms.
- 35:21Speaker 1: This is such a dumb thing to say, but like,
- 35:23Speaker 1: you know, there are classes now on stripper poles.
- 35:26Speaker 2: They're sort of.
- 35:27Speaker 1: Everywhere about how to be more sexy and you don't
- 35:29Speaker 1: necessarily have to know how to dance like that or
- 35:32Speaker 1: act like that, but they teach you all sorts of
- 35:34Speaker 1: things like eye contact and just being confident in your
- 35:37Speaker 1: own skin can be sexy.
- 35:38Speaker 2: I'm curious for people.
- 35:39Speaker 1: That are listening, what someone like you, who is like
- 35:42Speaker 1: the epitome of sex appeal, would say to give advice
- 35:46Speaker 1: to someone who might not be, you know, physically, they
- 35:50Speaker 1: might not feel like they're the sexiest or they might
- 35:52Speaker 1: not be a great dancer.
- 35:53Speaker 2: How can someone be more sexy?
- 35:55Speaker 3: Right. Well, I mean, it's always about, it always starts
- 35:59Speaker 3: with the, with you and how, what makes you feel sexy?
- 36:02Speaker 3: Because the first problem people have is when they ask somebody.
- 36:06Speaker 2: Like me, what I think is sexy.
- 36:07Speaker 3: Like it's, you have to really get to the essence
- 36:10Speaker 3: of what you as an individual feel and go into that.
- 36:14Speaker 3: So if that for you is like, I'm going to
- 36:16Speaker 3: go take that pole dancing class, you know? And that's
- 36:19Speaker 3: like where you find yourself and you're like, I feel powerful.
- 36:22Speaker 3: But like some people might go to that class and
- 36:24Speaker 3: be like, I was wildly uncomfortable. Like I would be
- 36:27Speaker 3: wildly uncomfortable there. I would, um, You know, even though I've,
- 36:32Speaker 3: you know, I've had a pole on my stage before,
- 36:35Speaker 3: you know, but I just am saying like there's certain
- 36:38Speaker 3: kinds of dance that I would feel like really like
- 36:41Speaker 3: doesn't feel doesn't feel like me. It doesn't get to
- 36:44Speaker 3: who I am, you know, like a hip hop class
- 36:48Speaker 3: or something, you know, like there's something I just feel like, oh,
- 36:50Speaker 3: my body doesn't know how to move like that. I
- 36:53Speaker 3: think it's like just noticing what it is for you
- 36:55Speaker 3: and finding other, trying out different things and finding where
- 36:59Speaker 3: you feel like you belong and putting yourself in that
- 37:01Speaker 3: place where you.
- 37:02Speaker 2: Might feel uncomfortable.
- 37:03Speaker 3: You know, you might be like, whoa, that was crazy,
- 37:06Speaker 3: but I tried it. And then just, you know, maybe
- 37:09Speaker 3: that wasn't for you, but we're taking a tassel twirling
- 37:12Speaker 3: class with one of the amazing tassel twirlers that's in
- 37:15Speaker 3: my show. You know, like I think there's fun things
- 37:18Speaker 3: that you can do.
- 37:18Speaker 2: And I think it's.
- 37:19Speaker 3: Also really great to like, you know, find places where
- 37:22Speaker 3: you can be around other women who are there just being,
- 37:25Speaker 3: you know, playing and having fun. That's what I think
- 37:28Speaker 3: is the key. I think like part of being sexy
- 37:31Speaker 3: is when you are, you're having a good time, you're
- 37:34Speaker 3: reveling in what you're doing. And like, for me, that's
- 37:37Speaker 3: even the basis of every burlesque show is like, does
- 37:39Speaker 3: this look fun? Is it fun?
- 37:41Speaker 2: Is it playful?
- 37:42Speaker 3: Is it about fantasy and spectacle, but with a lightness
- 37:46Speaker 3: to it? Yeah.
- 37:48Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 37:48Speaker 1: And I think it's interesting because so many people, I
- 37:51Speaker 1: think so many women are get it wrong because they
- 37:54Speaker 1: think sexy is like having on the least clothes as
- 37:56Speaker 1: possible or, you know, looking a little bit, you know, too,
- 38:00Speaker 1: too much. And sometimes that just turns people off. And
- 38:03Speaker 1: at the end of the day, it's more about feeling
- 38:05Speaker 1: comfortable in your own skin and liking what you're doing
- 38:08Speaker 1: and having fun.
- 38:09Speaker 2: And I think that, I think you're right. I mean,
- 38:10Speaker 2: the conversations I've had.
- 38:12Speaker 1: And also conversations with men, they are more attracted to
- 38:15Speaker 1: somebody who's confident and, and feels good and, in what
- 38:18Speaker 1: they're doing or how they're representing themselves.
- 38:21Speaker 3: The good men. Anyway, you can say there's definitely some
- 38:23Speaker 3: that will be like, do not want you to find
- 38:26Speaker 3: your power and confidence, you know, generalization is, you know.
- 38:32Speaker 2: But I think in terms of feeling confident in yourself. Yeah, yeah, totally.
- 38:36Speaker 2: You have to always have you and know that you're
- 38:38Speaker 2: never going to please everyone.
- 38:39Speaker 3: I always, I have a famous quote, you can be
- 38:42Speaker 3: a juicy ripe peach and there'll still be someone who
- 38:45Speaker 3: doesn't like peaches.
- 38:46Speaker 2: Like that goes for everything. I know that's true for
- 38:49Speaker 2: what I do.
- 38:49Speaker 3: And I never pretend that it's got to be, you know,
- 38:53Speaker 3: globally accepted and like, and further that I always think
- 38:56Speaker 3: if everyone.
- 38:56Speaker 2: Likes it, it's probably pretty boring. Okay. I love that.
- 39:01Speaker 2: If you want to, If you weren't working in burlesque,
- 39:04Speaker 2: what do you think you would be doing?
- 39:07Speaker 3: I probably would be, I always say that like a
- 39:12Speaker 3: big part of my job, I'm an aesthetic control freak.
- 39:15Speaker 3: I'm very like, I notice every detail. And I remember
- 39:18Speaker 3: like watching this woman that I was on a photo
- 39:21Speaker 3: shoot for Vanity Fair, like sometime in the early 2000s.
- 39:24Speaker 2: And I was like, oh yeah, that's the job I
- 39:26Speaker 2: would do. And her job was like overseeing an entire production.
- 39:32Speaker 2: Like is the hair, right. Is the makeup light, right.
- 39:34Speaker 2: Is the clothes, right. Is that thing tied?
- 39:36Speaker 4: Right.
- 39:36Speaker 3: Like I see all the details, you know, I would
- 39:39Speaker 3: be that person. I'd be, you know, an aesthetic control freak.
- 39:42Speaker 3: I don't, I don't want to even say stylist. I
- 39:44Speaker 3: would be like beyond stylist because I'm, I can, I
- 39:47Speaker 3: see the hair, the makeup, the clothes.
- 39:49Speaker 2: That, everything details so I'm curious there are people that
- 39:54Speaker 2: you know are a certain person when they are their
- 39:58Speaker 2: brand but then when cameras are off they'll put their
- 40:01Speaker 2: sweatpants on their hair in a bun you know they'll
- 40:03Speaker 2: eat Doritos and you know they'll sit on the couch
- 40:06Speaker 2: are you Dita Von Teese all the time.
- 40:09Speaker 1: Like we've never seen you in the magazines, like celebs.
- 40:12Speaker 1: They're just like us. We never see you going to
- 40:15Speaker 1: Wegmans or to.
- 40:16Speaker 2: Albertsons or whatever. Do you shop for yourself? Do you
- 40:20Speaker 2: wear these clothes when you're shopping? Like, tell me, tell
- 40:22Speaker 2: me what you were like when the cameras are on.
- 40:25Speaker 3: Well, I mean, first of all, Dita Von Teese does
- 40:27Speaker 3: eat a cheese puff at home and like with the
- 40:30Speaker 3: orange fingers and everything, you know, like I'm, I don't see, like.
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- 40:54Speaker 3: The thing is, though, like, I'm wearing my.
- 40:56Speaker 2: I'm wearing a robe.
- 40:57Speaker 3: Like, this is what I would be wearing, you know? Like,
- 41:00Speaker 3: I just... Yesterday, I went grocery shopping for the holidays,
- 41:05Speaker 3: and I was wearing just like a sweater and a skirt,
- 41:07Speaker 3: but I put on a really nice 1940s.
- 41:10Speaker 2: Coat because it's not hard to put on a coat.
- 41:12Speaker 3: It's cold out.
- 41:14Speaker 2: And people all day were like, wow, that coat is beautiful.
- 41:17Speaker 3: Wow, that's amazing. I'm like, thanks. You know, I just
- 41:20Speaker 3: feel like I love putting on something, even if I
- 41:22Speaker 3: throw that coat over my athleisure so I can go
- 41:26Speaker 3: to my, you know, workout and then, you know, put
- 41:29Speaker 3: a coat over it. I just, I just enjoy presenting
- 41:32Speaker 3: myself like that.
- 41:33Speaker 2: And it's not hard.
- 41:34Speaker 3: And it's like, an old 1940s coat that I paid
- 41:37Speaker 3: less for than a modern.
- 41:39Speaker 2: Coat, you know?
- 41:39Speaker 3: I just enjoy it. And it's not hard for me.
- 41:42Speaker 3: I'm well-practiced in it. I don't have like an alter
- 41:44Speaker 3: ego or like a secret person that I don't want
- 41:46Speaker 3: people to see. Hey, do I, I don't want people
- 41:49Speaker 3: to really see me like, you know, eating the cheese puffs,
- 41:52Speaker 3: you know, like sit with the fridge open, like eating the,
- 41:55Speaker 3: you know, of course I'm not like, if you can
- 42:00Speaker 3: get the feeling from just talking to me, I'm not
- 42:02Speaker 3: like speaking to you in a glamorous way. That's my
- 42:06Speaker 3: beautiful life. I really don't like that kind of thing.
- 42:09Speaker 3: I'm just like, you know, I, I, I enjoy like
- 42:13Speaker 3: wearing red lipstick and like, yes, no, I get it.
- 42:16Speaker 2: It's innately you. I mean, I get it, but not like.
- 42:20Speaker 3: I, cause I, cause I've met and I've actually met
- 42:22Speaker 3: like other burlesque dancers that do.
- 42:25Speaker 2: This, like this, like I am.
- 42:27Speaker 3: So they have like the accent and they try to
- 42:29Speaker 3: be like glamor glamor. And I'm like, Oh, so it's
- 42:32Speaker 3: just very like, tiresome for me.
- 42:35Speaker 2: And it's not authentic.
- 42:36Speaker 3: And you can, I can see right through when people
- 42:39Speaker 3: are putting on airs as like this persona.
- 42:42Speaker 2: To feel, be sexy, be glamorous. And it's like, as
- 42:44Speaker 2: soon as you are trying to be sexy.
- 42:46Speaker 3: You have failed because you don't understand what it is.
- 42:49Speaker 1: Right.
- 42:51Speaker 2: Um, you spoke before about music that you, um, genuinely
- 42:54Speaker 2: like a couple of those people you mentioned are dead.
- 42:57Speaker 2: Do you have someone who you listen to now that's alive,
- 43:01Speaker 2: that we would be interested in hearing what your music
- 43:04Speaker 2: taste is.
- 43:05Speaker 3: Yeah, I mean, my music taste is across the board.
- 43:07Speaker 3: I did this thing once for Spotify. They called up
- 43:11Speaker 3: my agent one day, and this is like a couple
- 43:14Speaker 3: years ago, a few years ago. They're like, we want
- 43:16Speaker 3: you to come to Cannes, and we're going to listen
- 43:19Speaker 3: to your... to they have this big convention called can
- 43:23Speaker 3: lion it's in the south of france we want we're
- 43:25Speaker 3: going to look at you're going to analyze your listening
- 43:27Speaker 3: history and like don't try to be cool.
- 43:30Speaker 2: And listen to like try to change.
- 43:31Speaker 3: It we already got you we already know what you
- 43:34Speaker 3: do so i had to sit there while they analyzed
- 43:36Speaker 3: my listening history and they were just like this is
- 43:38Speaker 3: outrageous you know because i listen to like electronic music
- 43:42Speaker 3: because it reminds me of my like you know rave
- 43:45Speaker 3: days um And I listen to like Amy Winehouse, George Michael. I,
- 43:51Speaker 3: you know, I love many kinds of music, you know,
- 43:54Speaker 3: but I like music that I can listen to someone's
- 43:57Speaker 3: album the whole way through and I don't have to
- 43:58Speaker 3: skip through things because I can't be bothered to make playlists.
- 44:02Speaker 3: But I like a lot of different music. Lately, I've
- 44:04Speaker 3: been listening to this Barbra Streisand audio book, which is
- 44:08Speaker 3: really great. And I've been digging into her first, like
- 44:11Speaker 3: the songs that she was singing in nightclubs before.
- 44:14Speaker 2: And she never even had a singing teacher ever.
- 44:17Speaker 3: And it's like really interesting to listen to her young
- 44:20Speaker 3: voice when she was just starting out with no formal training.
- 44:24Speaker 1: So I know you were in, okay, everyone's going to
- 44:27Speaker 1: freak out if I don't ask you this, because you
- 44:28Speaker 1: were in one of Taylor Swift's videos, Bejeweled. How did
- 44:32Speaker 1: that opportunity come about? And obviously you have to tell
- 44:36Speaker 1: everybody what it was like to work with Taylor.
- 44:38Speaker 3: Oh yeah. Well, I was just sitting here one afternoon
- 44:42Speaker 3: and I think I, my, My PR was like, oh,
- 44:48Speaker 3: Taylor Swift's people reached out to me to try to
- 44:51Speaker 3: talk to you.
- 44:51Speaker 2: And so.
- 44:54Speaker 3: Her people called me and I'm talking to them. They're like,
- 44:56Speaker 3: Taylor wants to do this thing. Taylor wants to do
- 44:57Speaker 3: this thing. And then suddenly Taylor comes on and then
- 45:00Speaker 3: we're talking. And she knew everything about what I do.
- 45:03Speaker 3: And she was very like, I love what you do.
- 45:06Speaker 3: And I want to showcase what you do because I
- 45:09Speaker 3: think it's so great. And, you know, cause usually like
- 45:12Speaker 3: people I'm used to people coming to me and being.
- 45:14Speaker 2: Like, Hey, can I borrow that glass?
- 45:16Speaker 3: Thanks. You know, or like, they just, you know, they just,
- 45:19Speaker 3: I'm on their mood board, you know? Um, but you know,
- 45:22Speaker 3: it's one of those very times that she, and she
- 45:24Speaker 3: said to me too, she goes, I see people like
- 45:27Speaker 3: mimicking you and copying you and they.
- 45:29Speaker 2: Don't give you credit.
- 45:30Speaker 3: And I was like, okay.
- 45:32Speaker 2: Yeah.
- 45:35Speaker 3: So she said, you know, I want to be side
- 45:37Speaker 3: by side with you and I want to learn from
- 45:39Speaker 3: you and I want you people to see what you do.
- 45:41Speaker 2: And I was like, wow, cool.
- 45:42Speaker 3: And it was amazing. And she's, you know, she's an
- 45:45Speaker 3: amazing woman. And I was like, one of the, it's
- 45:48Speaker 3: one of the few times that I've been approached in
- 45:51Speaker 3: that way, you know, cause it's usually just, you know,
- 45:54Speaker 3: take it.
- 45:56Speaker 1: Are you surprised at how big, especially this year? I mean,
- 45:59Speaker 1: she's always been relatively big, but this year she is, Totally.
- 46:03Speaker 2: Become one of the biggest stars, if not the biggest star.
- 46:06Speaker 1: And, you know, I don't think a lot of people
- 46:07Speaker 1: would necessarily say she is like the best voice, but
- 46:10Speaker 1: she's one of the best performers and her her repertoire
- 46:13Speaker 1: as a songwriter is so unbelievable. And, you know, I
- 46:17Speaker 1: brought my daughter to her concert beginning of the year
- 46:21Speaker 1: in Philadelphia, and my daughter is still asking to go
- 46:24Speaker 1: to another concert next year.
- 46:26Speaker 2: It was like the greatest day of her life. And
- 46:28Speaker 2: I just, you know, I love performers like that. We
- 46:31Speaker 2: don't have that anymore.
- 46:32Speaker 1: Like in our generation, like I listened to Michael Jackson,
- 46:36Speaker 1: George Michael, you know, Madonna, Whitney Houston, Um, but you
- 46:40Speaker 1: don't have stars like that.
- 46:41Speaker 2: I don't think Prince.
- 46:42Speaker 3: Yeah. Yeah. Like I feel the same way. I was
- 46:46Speaker 3: just like, Oh, there doesn't, it doesn't feel the same,
- 46:48Speaker 3: but you know, then when you, when you're like every
- 46:51Speaker 3: generation talks about music in a way, like, well, we
- 46:54Speaker 3: had David Bowie and we had, you know, Prince and,
- 46:58Speaker 3: and I'm like, you know, the younger people just don't,
- 47:01Speaker 3: they won't hear it at all. Um, But yeah, I
- 47:05Speaker 3: feel like that always happens, you know, but yeah, she, I,
- 47:09Speaker 3: that was a long, I'm, that was a long concert.
- 47:11Speaker 3: I remember like it was like four hours and I
- 47:14Speaker 3: remember I was sitting there like, you know, like in
- 47:17Speaker 3: their little VIP area and her people were like, you
- 47:20Speaker 3: should go now. like before the show ended I was
- 47:24Speaker 3: like but I didn't see the bejeweled part yet and
- 47:26Speaker 3: they're like no if you don't go you're gonna be
- 47:28Speaker 3: here for like three more hours and I was like.
- 47:30Speaker 2: Oh yeah right because getting out of there is like
- 47:32Speaker 2: yeah getting out of there was like major but yeah she's.
- 47:36Speaker 3: She's amazing and she's yeah it's yeah I'm very happy
- 47:40Speaker 3: for her because she is I you can feel her
- 47:43Speaker 3: um authenticity and kindness. And she cares, you know, I
- 47:47Speaker 3: feel like she cares about her fans and she's, she's
- 47:51Speaker 3: a good, a good person and a smart person making
- 47:55Speaker 3: that video was an incredible operation. You'll notice none of
- 47:59Speaker 3: it got leaked. I mean, the song was never played
- 48:01Speaker 3: on set at all. Like it was super secret. Like
- 48:04Speaker 3: we'd go into this little secure tent and she put
- 48:07Speaker 3: the headphones on me and.
- 48:08Speaker 2: Say, this is the song.
- 48:09Speaker 3: And then it was really, um.
- 48:13Speaker 2: She's an amazing director.
- 48:14Speaker 4: Wow.
- 48:15Speaker 2: That's so cool.
- 48:16Speaker 1: Um, you are also in don't worry, darling, which of
- 48:19Speaker 1: course became sort of, you know, tabloid fodder because Olivia
- 48:23Speaker 1: Wilde was the director and she was dating Harry Styles
- 48:26Speaker 1: during that.
- 48:27Speaker 2: Do you have any good gossip from being on that?
- 48:29Speaker 3: Um, I think, I mean, I don't, I don't know.
- 48:33Speaker 2: I'm trying to remember if I knew about it.
- 48:35Speaker 3: I don't know. Um, I just remember a long time ago,
- 48:43Speaker 3: it was like a Burberry show in London and I
- 48:45Speaker 3: was sitting next to Harry Styles.
- 48:48Speaker 2: And I'd never heard of him before.
- 48:49Speaker 3: And the next day I had all this like hate mail,
- 48:52Speaker 3: like email, all these girls emailing about, about like stay
- 48:55Speaker 3: away from Harry and all this stuff. And I was like,
- 48:57Speaker 3: I don't even know what they're talking about. And then
- 48:59Speaker 3: I had to ask somebody to go, Oh, it's Harry Styles.
- 49:01Speaker 3: I was like, Oh, I don't know.
- 49:02Speaker 2: And he was just like the lovely guy.
- 49:04Speaker 3: And, um, and then I got to the makeup trailer
- 49:07Speaker 3: that morning and it was like the first thing we
- 49:09Speaker 3: shot after, you know, like the first, one of the
- 49:12Speaker 3: productions to start up again, um, after the COVID thing,
- 49:17Speaker 3: And he like was so lovely and immediately remembered me
- 49:21Speaker 3: and everything and I was like you remember me he's
- 49:23Speaker 3: like of course but he's like a real gentleman you
- 49:26Speaker 3: know even when I was like in the glass doing.
- 49:28Speaker 2: The performance which was just crazy because it was.
- 49:30Speaker 3: Like First thing back and I haven't performed in a
- 49:33Speaker 3: long time and I'm wearing this like blonde wig because
- 49:35Speaker 3: it tied in with the story and everyone's going crazy
- 49:39Speaker 3: like all of the stars of the movie and it
- 49:41Speaker 3: was like a really intense like intense scene. But really
- 49:46Speaker 3: like a fun moment it's a shame there was so
- 49:49Speaker 3: much like. drama around the film because I don't really
- 49:53Speaker 3: know why there would have been you know I.
- 49:56Speaker 1: Mean listen at the end of the day I think
- 49:58Speaker 1: it sent people to the theater to.
- 49:59Speaker 2: See well it's true so did Olivia actually direct you during.
- 50:04Speaker 3: That scene yeah yeah she did yeah and it was
- 50:09Speaker 3: like I just kind of did my usual thing a
- 50:11Speaker 3: few takes and then she said okay now we're doing
- 50:13Speaker 3: one take where you know this thing and you're going
- 50:16Speaker 3: to lock eyes with Florence's character and like it was
- 50:20Speaker 3: like very much like just me doing my thing until
- 50:23Speaker 3: we did one final take which was kind of like
- 50:26Speaker 3: a you know uh the kind of it's it's a
- 50:30Speaker 3: pivotal scene in the.
- 50:31Speaker 2: Movie it's like a moment where he figures everything out
- 50:34Speaker 2: so right it was me just being me but.
- 50:38Speaker 3: Um uh you know still an important part of the
- 50:41Speaker 3: movie even if it was short and i'm pretty sure
- 50:43Speaker 3: it's like the best swarovski crystals ever looked on screen Yes,
- 50:48Speaker 3: I think so. It's like, yes, that's what it's supposed
- 50:50Speaker 3: to look like. Whenever they show like some pop star
- 50:54Speaker 3: at the Super Bowl, like with, they have a rhinestone
- 50:57Speaker 3: microphone or whatever. And you're just like, that doesn't, it
- 51:00Speaker 3: doesn't show up at all. But that is how Swarovski
- 51:03Speaker 3: crystal is supposed to look on screen. Right. Okay.
- 51:07Speaker 1: So let's talk about how people can come see you
- 51:09Speaker 1: live now in Dita, Las Vegas, a jubilant review.
- 51:14Speaker 2: You're playing in Las Vegas at the Horseshoe.
- 51:17Speaker 3: Yes.
- 51:17Speaker 2: The horseshoes used to be valleys.
- 51:20Speaker 3: And we're in this the Jubilee Theater, which was this
- 51:24Speaker 3: legendary theater. The stage is half the size of a
- 51:28Speaker 3: football field. It's got, it was the great showgirl theater
- 51:32Speaker 3: with all of the things that come out of the
- 51:34Speaker 3: floor and out of the ceiling, chandeliers that come down
- 51:37Speaker 3: with showgirls on up.
- 51:38Speaker 2: It's just like all these.
- 51:39Speaker 3: Bells and whistles and the Rat Pack played in there,
- 51:44Speaker 3: played there as well.
- 51:45Speaker 2: So it's kind of this legendary space.
- 51:48Speaker 3: And I'm, I have a feather in my cap is
- 51:52Speaker 3: that I'm using all of these incredible costumes that were
- 51:56Speaker 3: in that review, all the Bob Mackie vintage costumes.
- 51:59Speaker 2: And it's, you know, it's millions and millions of dollars.
- 52:01Speaker 3: Worth of feathers and rhinestones and um it's a big
- 52:06Speaker 3: you know it's a it's a little my version of
- 52:10Speaker 3: a the classic las vegas review with show girls and
- 52:13Speaker 3: show guys and more feathers than any show in las
- 52:16Speaker 3: vegas and that's a guarantee more feathers and rhinestones than
- 52:19Speaker 3: any show in las vegas for sure did you have a.
- 52:23Speaker 2: Choreographer did you really have a hand in all of
- 52:26Speaker 2: in all of the show um I had.
- 52:28Speaker 3: A choreography team who worked with the cast and a
- 52:31Speaker 3: lot of it is like my, it's like my life's work,
- 52:34Speaker 3: like all of these different numbers that I've done besides
- 52:36Speaker 3: the glasses, but we have all my glasses on stage
- 52:38Speaker 3: at once, including.
- 52:39Speaker 2: The Taylor's glass.
- 52:42Speaker 3: And so like, like my bird, I have a birdcage act.
- 52:45Speaker 2: I come out of a big powder compact.
- 52:47Speaker 3: I have all these other things, like tons of like
- 52:50Speaker 3: my life's work, but we have other performers doing these numbers,
- 52:53Speaker 3: like for some of the lesser known acts that I've.
- 52:55Speaker 2: Done over the years. And what can people expect to see? Like,
- 53:01Speaker 2: tell us just a little bit more about it. I mean,
- 53:03Speaker 2: is it, does everyone get naked?
- 53:05Speaker 1: Does everyone, you know, for people, again, into something like
- 53:08Speaker 1: this and are wondering what they should see when they're
- 53:10Speaker 1: in Vegas?
- 53:11Speaker 3: Well, they are extravagant stripscapes. So there is definitely striptease.
- 53:16Speaker 3: It has that, you know, that I think there's a
- 53:18Speaker 3: difference between like the classic Vegas show girl and the
- 53:22Speaker 3: burlesque performer.
- 53:23Speaker 2: Like the burlesque.
- 53:23Speaker 3: Performer is a striptease star and has a little bit
- 53:26Speaker 3: more like inviting you in and sensuality and eroticism and
- 53:31Speaker 3: the show girl is a little bit like more cool
- 53:33Speaker 3: there's a there were a lot of rules about the
- 53:35Speaker 3: topless show girl however they were completely topless um and
- 53:38Speaker 3: in burlesque we do the pasties with the tassels and
- 53:41Speaker 3: and whatnot so it's kind of like combining the two
- 53:44Speaker 3: together and bringing my favorite bits of both um of
- 53:49Speaker 3: both worlds together. So it's definitely sexy. It's there's the
- 53:53Speaker 3: biggest burlesque show in the world that ever there was.
- 53:56Speaker 3: So I'm very proud of that. And I'm glad that
- 53:59Speaker 3: we can, you know, we're the last, we're the only
- 54:00Speaker 3: show where you can see that true classic Las Vegas, because,
- 54:04Speaker 3: you know, there's other shows in Vegas and they have their, their,
- 54:07Speaker 3: their feathers, but this is like, these are the, you
- 54:10Speaker 3: will never see costumes like this anywhere else in the world.
- 54:15Speaker 2: Amazing. It runs through April, correct?
- 54:19Speaker 3: Yes. I believe we're going to add some more dates. So,
- 54:22Speaker 3: but right now we have dates through April. And it's
- 54:25Speaker 3: just Friday and Saturday nights?
- 54:27Speaker 2: Thursday, Friday, select Thursday, Friday, Saturday.
- 54:29Speaker 3: And then we're on New Year's Eve weekend, 28 through 31.
- 54:34Speaker 2: I'm not sure when this airs, but.
- 54:35Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 54:36Speaker 2: Okay. So it'll be after that, but that's fine.
- 54:39Speaker 1: And then just quickly tell me like when you're in Vegas, how,
- 54:42Speaker 1: like what's your day in the life? Are you guys
- 54:45Speaker 1: practicing all day long and then you go into the show?
- 54:48Speaker 3: It's kind of like a little bit of both. I
- 54:53Speaker 3: come in on Thursdays on the same day of the show,
- 54:56Speaker 3: so I'm usually doing some tech stuff.
- 55:00Speaker 2: And rehearsal things. There's always a lot to do.
- 55:05Speaker 3: And then I usually have time on like Friday and
- 55:07Speaker 3: Saturday before the show to kind of like go to
- 55:10Speaker 3: lunch or, you know, I drive, I drive a vintage
- 55:12Speaker 3: car on stage during the show. So I'll usually take
- 55:16Speaker 3: that car, rip around the strip every once.
- 55:18Speaker 4: In a while.
- 55:18Speaker 3: So you can kind of see me doing that every
- 55:20Speaker 3: so often. So I'm just getting my bearings in Vegas
- 55:24Speaker 3: and there's definitely things that I want to see and
- 55:26Speaker 3: places I want to go, but I just haven't had
- 55:30Speaker 3: too much time on my hands yet, but I will.
- 55:33Speaker 3: Is there a.
- 55:33Speaker 2: Show in particular that you'd love to see in Vegas?
- 55:37Speaker 3: I mean, there's a lot that I would love to see.
- 55:39Speaker 3: I'm definitely going. I was, invited by you two to come.
- 55:43Speaker 2: See the sphere.
- 55:44Speaker 3: So I would love to come and see that that's
- 55:45Speaker 3: on my list of things to do on.
- 55:47Speaker 2: My days off.
- 55:48Speaker 3: And Adam Clayton from you two came to see my
- 55:50Speaker 3: show and Bono is a big fan of burlesque.
- 55:53Speaker 2: And I had a whole conversation with him about burlesque once. Um,
- 55:57Speaker 2: so yeah, I'm trying to think of what I did see.
- 56:00Speaker 3: I love seeing the magic shows. I really want to
- 56:03Speaker 3: see David Blaine do that show when he's, yeah.
- 56:07Speaker 2: Yeah. Have you seen David Copperfield? No, I haven't. I'd
- 56:11Speaker 2: love to.
- 56:11Speaker 3: I really want to see the magic shows. Yeah. Yeah.
- 56:14Speaker 1: When I lived there, my most favorite thing that I
- 56:16Speaker 1: saw was Celine Dion. She was just, you know, her hater.
- 56:20Speaker 1: She was just amazing in concert. I saw Britney once.
- 56:25Speaker 1: That was pretty great.
- 56:26Speaker 3: It was interesting to listen to her audio book and
- 56:31Speaker 3: all this stuff about Las Vegas. Wow.
- 56:33Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 56:33Speaker 2: Yeah. Love Britney. Always a fan.
- 56:36Speaker 1: Um, All right, so for anyone who's listening who finds
- 56:40Speaker 1: all of this very interesting, who has had an interest
- 56:43Speaker 1: in burlesque, how would you say that they can break
- 56:48Speaker 1: into this?
- 56:48Speaker 2: Are there classes? Is there something they should study? Is
- 56:51Speaker 2: there a place they should go?
- 56:53Speaker 3: Well, there is the Burlesque Hall of Fame is in
- 56:56Speaker 3: Las Vegas and they have my original martini glass on
- 56:59Speaker 3: display there at all times.
- 57:01Speaker 2: But I would say that would be a good resource
- 57:03Speaker 2: to go.
- 57:03Speaker 3: And there's a big event there that happens every year.
- 57:07Speaker 2: Like there's like a They have like the Legends Showcase where.
- 57:11Speaker 3: They have some of the old-time burlesque stars, and then
- 57:15Speaker 3: they have a competition for all the new burlesque stars.
- 57:17Speaker 2: And then there's also Viva Las Vegas.
- 57:19Speaker 3: There's a big burlesque showcase there, which happens, and the
- 57:23Speaker 3: big car show.
- 57:23Speaker 2: I think that's in April.
- 57:25Speaker 3: So, um, but yeah, there's a lot of local burlesque
- 57:28Speaker 3: talent as well and small and small burlesque shows to
- 57:31Speaker 3: come to go see, you know, what the local burlesque shows.
- 57:34Speaker 2: Are like as well. I haven't been to any of
- 57:36Speaker 2: them yet, but I know a lot.
- 57:37Speaker 3: Of the performers and we have Dirty Martini, who's a
- 57:41Speaker 3: great world famous tassel twirler is in my show.
- 57:44Speaker 2: And so she's, you know, she.
- 57:46Speaker 3: Always keeps me abreast of what's going on in the
- 57:49Speaker 3: tassel twirling world.
- 57:51Speaker 2: Interesting. And I'm just curious, how does it work with
- 57:54Speaker 2: you finding your talent?
- 57:55Speaker 1: Like, is it kind of like the chorus line where
- 57:58Speaker 1: people are, you know, applying all the time and you
- 58:00Speaker 1: get to see these new interesting dancers that you're finding
- 58:03Speaker 1: out of nowhere?
- 58:04Speaker 3: Um, I mean, I look for burlesque talent that way,
- 58:07Speaker 3: and I have representation of authentic burlesque performers that are,
- 58:11Speaker 3: I mean, in this show. Um, but I have a
- 58:14Speaker 3: lot of like dancers, like that we've, that we did
- 58:18Speaker 3: huge auditions in LA and in Las Vegas and cherry
- 58:22Speaker 3: picked the best of. So it's like a balance of, um,
- 58:26Speaker 3: professional dancers and burlesque performers. Amazing.
- 58:31Speaker 1: So everyone should visit you when they're in Las Vegas
- 58:34Speaker 1: at the Horseshoe, Thursday, Friday, or Saturday nights.
- 58:37Speaker 2: Through at least April. And then where can they find
- 58:40Speaker 2: you if they're interested in just following you, like your Instagram,
- 58:43Speaker 2: your website?
- 58:44Speaker 3: I'm very active on Instagram and semi-active on Facebook. But
- 58:50Speaker 3: it's just at Dita Von Teese with the double E's
- 58:53Speaker 3: in it.
- 58:53Speaker 2: So find me. And do you read your DMs if
- 58:57Speaker 2: people DM you?
- 58:57Speaker 3: No. Sometimes.
- 59:02Speaker 1: We won't guarantee a response, but people can find out
- 59:08Speaker 1: what you're doing.
- 59:08Speaker 2: On there.
- 59:09Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 59:11Speaker 2: Okay, Dita, thank you so much for joining us. I
- 59:12Speaker 2: really appreciate your time. And good luck. If I go
- 59:16Speaker 2: to Vegas, which I do often, I am going to
- 59:18Speaker 2: come see your show. Very good. I hope you will.
- 59:22Speaker 3: Thank you. Thanks.
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