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- 0:03Speaker 1: Reality with the King is hosted by me, Carlos King.
- 0:06Speaker 1: I'm an executive producer who have produced some of your
- 0:10Speaker 1: favorite shows from the Real Housewives of Atlanta, New Jersey,
- 0:13Speaker 1: and my own creation, the Love and Marriage franchise and
- 0:17Speaker 1: Bell Collective. Every episode, we recap reality television from the
- 0:23Speaker 1: Real Housewives franchise to The Bachelor or Selling Sunset. in
- 0:27Speaker 1: addition to celebrity guests, whether in the unscripted space or
- 0:31Speaker 1: scripted as well.
- 0:36Speaker 2: Hey, Raindrops.
- 0:37Speaker 1: The Monday Night Live crew is headed to New York City.
- 0:40Speaker 1: We have a live show on Sunday, September 20th, at
- 0:44Speaker 1: the City Winery in New York City.
- 0:46Speaker 2: That's right.
- 0:47Speaker 1: Come see me, Carlos King, blue-centric Claudia Jordan, and Dustin Ross.
- 0:54Speaker 1: live on stage in New York City, Sunday, September 20th,
- 1:00Speaker 1: City Winery.
- 1:01Speaker 2: Get your tickets at KingdomRankInt.com.
- 1:07Speaker 1: We have to get into the Real Housewives of Potomac trailer, okay?
- 1:13Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Potomac is back with season 11 that
- 1:18Speaker 1: is airing October 11th at that 8 o'clock p.m. Sundays
- 1:22Speaker 1: on Bravo. So some of the highlights, Dustin and Mandy,
- 1:26Speaker 1: we have to get into deals with Wendy and Eddie
- 1:31Speaker 1: discussing their marriage. Karen being out of the slammer and
- 1:36Speaker 1: back into.
- 1:37Speaker 3: The fold with the ladies.
- 1:39Speaker 4: The slammer, the clank.
- 1:39Speaker 1: We also have Karen almost fighting Giselle. So first thing first, Mandy,
- 1:45Speaker 1: ladies first, what are your thoughts on the Potomac trailer?
- 1:48Speaker 3: And are you a Potomac girlie?
- 1:52Speaker 5: I am such a Potomac girlie. I think that this
- 1:56Speaker 5: was a trailer, okay? I'm excited to get into seeing
- 2:01Speaker 5: Wendy's storyline and what's happening with that lawsuit. I'm glad
- 2:04Speaker 5: we got Karen back. Not going to lie, I don't
- 2:08Speaker 5: know if too much time went on with her in jail.
- 2:10Speaker 5: The wigs ain't wigging, it looked like in the trailer
- 2:12Speaker 5: for her. That's a little tricky for me, but I'm
- 2:16Speaker 5: excited to see her. I said the one thing that
- 2:18Speaker 5: stood out to me most about the trailer- was Ray's
- 2:24Speaker 5: talk about her maybe being more fun if she was non-sober.
- 2:28Speaker 5: And knowing people that deal with addictions, knowing that, I'm
- 2:31Speaker 5: not going to lie, by the end of the trailer,
- 2:33Speaker 5: seeing that she may be moving out and leaving the
- 2:35Speaker 5: Black Bill Gates, I'm fine with that. I'm really excited
- 2:39Speaker 5: to see that storyline because when he said that, that
- 2:42Speaker 5: bothered me.
- 2:43Speaker 6: She just got out of jail.
- 2:44Speaker 5: For a DUI, multiple DUIs, and you making it seem
- 2:48Speaker 5: like she's no longer fun maybe because she's not drinking.
- 2:51Speaker 6: Don't like that. Also, where the fuck was Ashley? Is
- 2:54Speaker 6: she a friend of us? Is she a... Where was she?
- 2:58Speaker 6: Is she not giving us nothing? She was in there
- 3:02Speaker 6: for two seconds. Where was she? Is she a friend of, wait, Carlos,
- 3:06Speaker 6: I don't know. Did she get demoted?
- 3:08Speaker 1: No.
- 3:09Speaker 6: Oh, she didn't. Robin came back and had more airtime, babe.
- 3:13Speaker 2: What's happening?
- 3:16Speaker 6: I can't, you know what?
- 3:18Speaker 5: Only because she is half black, I'm here for people
- 3:21Speaker 5: getting more money than they deserve, especially when you are black.
- 3:25Speaker 6: But Ashley, Ashley, give us something. I'm excited. I'm really excited.
- 3:32Speaker 6: Just know I'm excited. I'm here for it.
- 3:37Speaker 1: Dustin Ross, did you notice that Ashley was in the
- 3:39Speaker 1: trailer for 0.2 seconds?
- 3:42Speaker 7: No, I didn't feel like there was a lack of
- 3:45Speaker 7: Ashley in the trailer personally, but I do see what
- 3:48Speaker 7: you're saying, Mandy.
- 3:49Speaker 4: It wasn't a lot of her in the trailer.
- 3:52Speaker 7: This is Ashley's 11th consecutive season as a full-time housewife.
- 3:57Speaker 4: Let's see what we can squeeze out.
- 3:58Speaker 7: I think Ashley's always willing to agitate the cast in
- 4:01Speaker 7: a way that leads to um, spirited conversations and that's
- 4:04Speaker 7: her superpower. So let her go over there and start
- 4:07Speaker 7: some more shit up in that floor dress. She looked pretty. Um,
- 4:09Speaker 7: I think all the ladies look pretty in the cast photo. Um,
- 4:13Speaker 7: I was very excited to see Stacey Rush, the star
- 4:16Speaker 7: of all stars over there in Potomac.
- 4:17Speaker 4: Soon as they said that Potomac was starless. Wow.
- 4:21Speaker 7: Look how God works. We got a real deal, legit
- 4:25Speaker 7: star on the cast. Soon as that was said, it's
- 4:27Speaker 7: amazing how that worked.
- 4:28Speaker 4: But, um, listen, um, I'm excited.
- 4:31Speaker 7: The first thing that the trailer got right to me
- 4:34Speaker 7: was showing the actual Potomac River. Seeing that water flowing
- 4:38Speaker 7: from the Potomac River in the trailer, it set the
- 4:40Speaker 7: tone for drama and made it specific to that area.
- 4:43Speaker 7: And I thought that that was a great way to
- 4:45Speaker 7: set up the trailer. Not interested in Karen and Ray's
- 4:50Speaker 7: fallout of their marriage.
- 4:51Speaker 4: They're going to be all right. They're too old. They're
- 4:53Speaker 4: not breaking up.
- 4:54Speaker 7: So that's just Karen just moving things around enough to
- 4:58Speaker 7: be interesting, but they're not breaking up. I thought that
- 5:00Speaker 7: it was very black that Karen came in in a
- 5:03Speaker 7: Miss Sophia costume saying Sophia home now when she got
- 5:07Speaker 7: out of jail. I thought that that was hilarious. And
- 5:09Speaker 7: if you know, you know why that was funny. But yeah,
- 5:12Speaker 7: it's going to be a good trailer. I don't think
- 5:14Speaker 7: for one second Robin and Giselle are going to have
- 5:17Speaker 7: a real clash or confrontation. I think that was just
- 5:19Speaker 7: cut that way for the trailer. But they're going to
- 5:22Speaker 7: stick together and be tight as two thighs in one stocking.
- 5:26Speaker 7: You know what I'm saying? They're going to continue to
- 5:28Speaker 7: be tight. So that was great. Let's see what happens
- 5:31Speaker 7: with Wendy. Her mother was still yelling and cussing and
- 5:33Speaker 7: talking shit in the trailer, which we love.
- 5:35Speaker 4: So I'm excited. I'll be watching.
- 5:39Speaker 3: No, it was good. It was good. I do want
- 5:41Speaker 3: to get into Karen and Ray.
- 5:42Speaker 1: I think, listen, I'll say this. I think in most,
- 5:48Speaker 1: not all, Black households, we've all had grandparents that slept
- 5:53Speaker 1: in separate beds.
- 5:55Speaker 4: Yeah.
- 5:55Speaker 1: And as kids, we were all confused, like, why are
- 5:57Speaker 1: you sleeping in separate beds until you've gotten older? And
- 6:00Speaker 1: as somebody in their 40s, I understand sleeping in separate beds.
- 6:05Speaker 3: I'm in my 40s.
- 6:05Speaker 1: There's moments where I like to tell my little thang thang,
- 6:11Speaker 1: I don't mind sleeping by myself.
- 6:15Speaker 6: Who said.
- 6:18Speaker 2: That? I....
- 6:21Speaker 1: Hey, Portia.
- 6:22Speaker 4: Okay.
- 6:23Speaker 3: Thanks for following us on Monday Night Live.
- 6:29Speaker 1: So one of the things that I think with Karen
- 6:33Speaker 1: and Ray is the fact that I think like Dustin said,
- 6:39Speaker 1: they're of a particular age. You know, Karen obviously has
- 6:42Speaker 1: celebrated being 60 a couple of years ago.
- 6:45Speaker 3: Ray, I believe, could be in his 80s, maybe late 70s.
- 6:49Speaker 3: I'm not sure exactly.
- 6:51Speaker 1: And look, I just think it's one of those things
- 6:53Speaker 1: where Karen, in my opinion, I think Karen wants a
- 7:02Speaker 1: different life based on the world that she lives in now.
- 7:08Speaker 4: Right?
- 7:09Speaker 3: I think she still has it in her to move
- 7:11Speaker 3: and groove.
- 7:12Speaker 1: And I think the black Bill Gates, like Mandy said,
- 7:15Speaker 1: I think he's counting the Vanguard stocks and ETFs and
- 7:19Speaker 1: index funds. And I think he's happy seeing those things
- 7:22Speaker 1: grow instead of other things grow. I think he's, I
- 7:25Speaker 1: think he's, I think he's contempt with that at that age,
- 7:29Speaker 1: you want your money.
- 7:30Speaker 3: To grow, not. And I, I actually respect it.
- 7:36Speaker 1: Um, Speaking of Karen, did you two gag when you
- 7:38Speaker 1: saw the potential altercation between Karen and Giselle?
- 7:43Speaker 5: No, because we done got that every year for the
- 7:46Speaker 5: past 11 years.
- 7:47Speaker 6: They stay going toe-to-toe.
- 7:51Speaker 5: All the way back to season one, season two, where
- 7:53Speaker 5: Giselle came with the Texas t-shirt. This is so Potomac-coded.
- 7:59Speaker 5: It wouldn't have been a season without this. So even
- 8:01Speaker 5: that just feels like we knew we was going to
- 8:03Speaker 5: get it.
- 8:04Speaker 7: Can we get into that tax t-shirt for a second?
- 8:07Speaker 7: Cause I never really talk about that moment, but I
- 8:10Speaker 7: think that speaking to like Giselle's tackiness, um, her aesthetic
- 8:14Speaker 7: is concerned. That was a prime example because she had
- 8:16Speaker 7: that t-shirt made. Now this is a little bit of
- 8:18Speaker 7: lore for the real Potomac fans. We're going to go
- 8:21Speaker 7: off track here a little bit, but she had that
- 8:23Speaker 7: t-shirt made that said free uncle being a free or free,
- 8:26Speaker 7: whatever it said, Giselle has the worst style, personal style.
- 8:31Speaker 7: Like when it comes to her making choices. as far
- 8:34Speaker 7: as how things look, that was a prime example. Because
- 8:37Speaker 7: if you remember when she stood up and was like,
- 8:39Speaker 7: read the back, the hashtags on the shirt, one was
- 8:42Speaker 7: over on this side, halfway around her waist.
- 8:44Speaker 4: One was up here on the right side.
- 8:46Speaker 7: They were like staggered, but it wasn't even like an
- 8:49Speaker 7: even staggering. It just was a mess. And she really
- 8:52Speaker 7: thought that that was doing something.
- 8:54Speaker 6: It did. Shout out to Giselle.
- 8:56Speaker 4: I just think that that is an example of why
- 8:58Speaker 4: she can't dress. That's all.
- 9:00Speaker 5: I love Giselle. I love the green eyed bandits. I
- 9:03Speaker 5: love that she gives us TV, and this is why
- 9:05Speaker 5: she's here. This is why she was just on Ultimate
- 9:07Speaker 5: Girls Trip. I know that you don't like Gisele.
- 9:11Speaker 4: I'm here- Who? I love Gisele. Not all that.
- 9:13Speaker 6: Not with all that. What you mean? You like her.
- 9:16Speaker 6: I love Gisele.
- 9:17Speaker 4: Oh, so you really want to argue. Okay. I love Gisele.
- 9:20Speaker 7: I was just talking about the fact that she don't
- 9:21Speaker 7: love herself enough to dress well.
- 9:24Speaker 4: That's all. Now, you want to argue with that? No,
- 9:27Speaker 4: because I'm not going to- I'm not going to take
- 9:30Speaker 4: it to the church, folks, okay? She was in the church.
- 9:33Speaker 6: She had to cover up. She now, you know, living
- 9:35Speaker 6: her best life. It's tricky. It's tricky. It's tricky. No,
- 9:39Speaker 6: I mean, I love it. Like I said, I agree
- 9:41Speaker 6: with you, Carlos.
- 9:42Speaker 5: I don't believe that they're going to go tit for tat.
- 9:44Speaker 5: The Karen thing, that's expected. I will say, she's gorgeous.
- 9:52Speaker 5: I'm hoping the new housewife is something. I'm talking about Courtney.
- 9:56Speaker 5: I think it's a Yinka or a Jinka. Baby, we
- 10:02Speaker 5: got one housewife off with a fine husband. Her husband
- 10:06Speaker 5: good looking. I like a tall man with big features.
- 10:09Speaker 5: He's giving Adonis. He's giving Thor. I'm here for it.
- 10:14Speaker 5: I hope that we see a little bit more of
- 10:16Speaker 5: him on TV because I think he's a retired NBA player.
- 10:19Speaker 6: I'm familiar with Kourtney.
- 10:21Speaker 5: She does events. She's an event planner. I've followed her
- 10:24Speaker 5: on Instagram. She does really good business. So I'm really
- 10:28Speaker 5: curious to see how she fits in with the girls
- 10:31Speaker 5: because they pretty much just got rid of the other girlies.
- 10:34Speaker 1: Yeah.
- 10:34Speaker 4: I know. Go ahead, Los. Go ahead, Los.
- 10:37Speaker 3: I was going to say no.
- 10:38Speaker 1: So we don't have K this season. Nor Angel Massey.
- 10:44Speaker 1: Dustin's favorite Potomac housewife of all time, Angel Massey.
- 10:49Speaker 3: She would not be on this season. Hi, Angel Massey.
- 10:51Speaker 3: You know I love you.
- 10:53Speaker 6: I was about to say, y'all can watch her on
- 10:54Speaker 6: her YouTube show.
- 10:56Speaker 7: Which I love, by the way. I think that's a
- 11:00Speaker 7: great fit for her. We're not going to beat a
- 11:02Speaker 7: dead horse here, but I said from the beginning that
- 11:05Speaker 7: I would watch a show about her life outside of
- 11:08Speaker 7: being a housewife.
- 11:09Speaker 4: And Carlos King agreed with me.
- 11:14Speaker 8: Anyways listen listen you spoke truth to power and you
- 11:21Speaker 8: manifested this it is happening so congratulations Angel Massey Courtney
- 11:25Speaker 8: is a new Potomac housewife one thing I always say
- 11:28Speaker 8: about Potomac they they always switch it up on us
- 11:32Speaker 8: I like.
- 11:32Speaker 1: That Courtney seems interesting her husband is attractive I'm looking
- 11:36Speaker 1: forward to that I'm also looking at the fact that Stacey, Chris,
- 11:40Speaker 1: can you put up the shot again of the Potomac graphic?
- 11:44Speaker 1: Because Stacey Rush is in the middle. And when I
- 11:52Speaker 1: say this, hear me out. When you are in the
- 11:57Speaker 1: cast photo and you're, listen, I don't care what no
- 12:01Speaker 1: one says.
- 12:01Speaker 3: Y'all hear me straight for me.
- 12:03Speaker 1: When you are in the cast photo and you're in
- 12:05Speaker 1: the middle, that really solidifies your position on the show.
- 12:09Speaker 3: And I will leave it at that.
- 12:12Speaker 4: Ain't nothing else to be said. You see it. We
- 12:14Speaker 4: all see it.
- 12:15Speaker 6: She the birthday. She the Beyonce.
- 12:17Speaker 4: Yes.
- 12:18Speaker 7: Stacey is the star. Stacey Rush. And we're so happy
- 12:21Speaker 7: to have her as a part of this cast and
- 12:24Speaker 7: to be able to enjoy her. She's refreshing and she's
- 12:27Speaker 7: proof positive that all you have to do is be yourself.
- 12:31Speaker 4: That's it.
- 12:32Speaker 6: Big Stacey, not the little one.
- 12:34Speaker 4: Shout out to Stacey. That's right, Big Stace. Big Stace.
- 12:37Speaker 3: No, Stacey's doing her thing.
- 12:39Speaker 1: And listen, my thoughts and prayers go out to Wendy
- 12:42Speaker 1: and Eddie, who in their scene, he did ask Wendy
- 12:46Speaker 1: if you still love me and she did not respond.
- 12:48Speaker 1: Like Dustin said, that could be editing, but we'll see
- 12:52Speaker 1: this season.
- 12:54Speaker 3: Do you guys feel like.
- 12:56Speaker 1: Wendy and Eddie may not make it depending on the
- 12:59Speaker 1: outcome of the court proceeding?
- 13:00Speaker 5: When I saw they both had separate lawyers... It was given,
- 13:04Speaker 5: it's not a union. It was given somebody about to
- 13:06Speaker 5: take the fall.
- 13:08Speaker 6: It's tricky.
- 13:09Speaker 5: I think with them, we've seen Wendy have investment after investment.
- 13:14Speaker 6: I don't know if y'all ever bought the candles. She just,
- 13:16Speaker 6: I don't know. Or you know what I mean? Happy Eddie,
- 13:19Speaker 6: is he still happy? I don't know.
- 13:21Speaker 5: But there's also been a lot of money going into
- 13:22Speaker 5: a lot of things, which I think can really ruin
- 13:25Speaker 5: a relationship. Like, and clearly they were trying to keep
- 13:28Speaker 5: up with the Joneses, according to, you know, the case.
- 13:33Speaker 2: I don't know.
- 13:34Speaker 6: I think one of them will end up going to jail, though.
- 13:36Speaker 5: So I'm curious to see how this plays out throughout
- 13:38Speaker 5: the season and how the other people have opinions into
- 13:42Speaker 5: what's happening.
- 13:43Speaker 7: I hope they stay together. I don't want to see
- 13:45Speaker 7: them break up. And I definitely don't want to see
- 13:47Speaker 7: this legal matter be the root cause of them breaking
- 13:52Speaker 7: up their family. Wendy and Eddie seem to be pretty
- 13:55Speaker 7: in love to me. They've been weathering the storm together.
- 13:58Speaker 7: I did think that them having separate lawyers was smarter
- 14:02Speaker 7: to me. because there has to be some sort of,
- 14:04Speaker 7: if they end up, let's keep it real. If they
- 14:06Speaker 7: end up going to jail, they need to stagger the
- 14:08Speaker 7: sentences so that one of them could be present with
- 14:10Speaker 7: their children. So I didn't think that was indicative of
- 14:13Speaker 7: like a break in their relationship. I just thought that
- 14:16Speaker 7: was like smart lawyering on their behalf. I don't want
- 14:19Speaker 7: to see them break up and I don't think they will.
- 14:22Speaker 7: I think they're exploring their feelings and emotions with specifically Wendy.
- 14:26Speaker 7: And I think that's why she kind of had that
- 14:28Speaker 7: pregnant pause thing. When he asked if she still loved
- 14:31Speaker 7: him or whatever. There's a lot of shit going on
- 14:34Speaker 7: over there right now. They got a lot of shit
- 14:35Speaker 7: to think.
- 14:36Speaker 4: About and work through.
- 14:37Speaker 7: So sometimes that looks at examining your relationship and why
- 14:41Speaker 7: this happened or whatever. But I don't think for one
- 14:43Speaker 7: second they're going to break up at all.
- 14:45Speaker 4: I don't.
- 14:45Speaker 3: Yeah. My thoughts and prayers are with the Osefos.
- 14:49Speaker 1: Real Housewives of Potomac season 11 airs October 11th, 8 o'clock,
- 14:54Speaker 1: 7 central on Bravo.
- 14:58Speaker 3: This is Reality with the King, and I'm Carlos King.
- 15:02Speaker 2: Let's get back into the show.
- 15:05Speaker 1: Up next, NeNe Leakes has made a statement that has
- 15:09Speaker 1: shocked the Bravoverse and the fans of RHOA. She was
- 15:15Speaker 1: recently on V103, a local station in Atlanta.
- 15:19Speaker 3: I think they're syndicated too, though.
- 15:21Speaker 1: And the journalist did ask NeNe if she would return.
- 15:26Speaker 1: Would she like to return, excuse me, to the Real
- 15:29Speaker 1: Housewives of Atlanta, to which NeNe made a very surprising
- 15:32Speaker 1: statement for the audience.
- 15:34Speaker 3: NeNe Leakes has said once and for all that she.
- 15:38Speaker 1: Doesn't see herself returning as a full-time cast member on
- 15:42Speaker 1: the Real Housewives of Atlanta.
- 15:44Speaker 3: She does not see that for herself right now.
- 15:47Speaker 1: She said, look, me hanging out with the girls like that,
- 15:51Speaker 1: full-time basis, doing that, I can't see myself doing that.
- 15:55Speaker 1: What I can see myself doing, though, is maybe hosting
- 15:59Speaker 1: a trip for the girls.
- 16:02Speaker 3: And I take the girls on a trip.
- 16:04Speaker 1: And we hang out on the trip for a few days,
- 16:06Speaker 1: and I come back home, and I leave them alone.
- 16:09Speaker 3: A lot of people, of course, were surprised by that.
- 16:11Speaker 3: Some people felt.
- 16:12Speaker 1: Hey guys, she said it, so let's stop.
- 16:16Speaker 3: Beating a dead horse.
- 16:18Speaker 1: NeNe Leakes does not even want to come back to
- 16:21Speaker 1: the Real Housewives of Atlanta as a full-time peach holder.
- 16:25Speaker 3: Dustin, what are your thoughts on this?
- 16:28Speaker 4: I think NeNe's full of shit.
- 16:30Speaker 7: I think that it's no secret that she would love
- 16:33Speaker 7: to return to the Atlanta Housewives as a full-time peach holder.
- 16:36Speaker 7: It's consumed all of the conversation surrounding her and her work.
- 16:41Speaker 7: as a television personality, as a great host, it always
- 16:45Speaker 7: goes back to her.
- 16:46Speaker 4: Being a housewife. And a lot of that is from
- 16:48Speaker 4: Nene's own mouth.
- 16:49Speaker 7: I think that once Nene saw that recent interview clip
- 16:54Speaker 7: where Andy was asked about the cast and he was
- 16:57Speaker 7: saying how it was in a great place and they
- 16:59Speaker 7: were happy to have Nene return for the Ultimate Girl Strip,
- 17:02Speaker 7: I think that Nene heard that interview and then it
- 17:05Speaker 7: affected the way that she spoke about being a housewife
- 17:08Speaker 7: moving forward.
- 17:09Speaker 4: Because before this interview, Nene has.
- 17:12Speaker 7: Always said she's toyed with the conversation surrounding her being
- 17:18Speaker 7: a housewife. She's been coy and vague about it and
- 17:21Speaker 7: really kind of hit the accelerator on the fandom, kind
- 17:26Speaker 7: of moving that conversation forward. Is Nene coming back? Why
- 17:29Speaker 7: isn't Nene a housewife? When is Nene coming back to Bravo?
- 17:32Speaker 7: And I think that after a very warm reception from
- 17:36Speaker 7: the fans and the audiences alike, Nene was probably hopeful.
- 17:41Speaker 7: And I think that when she did not hear what
- 17:43Speaker 7: she wanted to hear, maybe in that interview from Andy,
- 17:46Speaker 7: I think she changed her tune, which I don't blame her.
- 17:48Speaker 4: I wouldn't kiss nobody's ass either.
- 17:50Speaker 7: But I don't think for one second that Nene doesn't
- 17:52Speaker 7: want to be a housewife.
- 17:54Speaker 4: She absolutely appears to.
- 17:56Speaker 7: Have a desire to want to be a part of
- 17:59Speaker 7: that world and be a housewife. So I think she's
- 18:01Speaker 7: full of shit. But just trying to save face. And
- 18:03Speaker 7: I get it. I get it.
- 18:06Speaker 3: Mandy.
- 18:08Speaker 6: I'm 100% in agreement.
- 18:11Speaker 1: Full of shit.
- 18:11Speaker 6: I think that pride and ego is a motherfucker.
- 18:14Speaker 5: And if anybody has pride and ego, it's NeNe Leakes.
- 18:17Speaker 5: We saw her on Ultimate Girls Trip, and she had
- 18:19Speaker 5: a lot of time when they went to Atlanta. And
- 18:21Speaker 5: then to even say, I would do a trip with
- 18:24Speaker 5: the girls, but I think she knows that it's not
- 18:27Speaker 5: happening for her.
- 18:28Speaker 4: And.
- 18:30Speaker 6: You know, good riddance.
- 18:32Speaker 5: Also, if this was a few years ago, back when
- 18:34Speaker 5: she was doing Glee and Broadway and very booked and busy,
- 18:37Speaker 5: I think I would have believed her more.
- 18:39Speaker 6: But she got time.
- 18:42Speaker 5: We don't know, outside of, you know, being spotted out
- 18:45Speaker 5: in Atlanta with various Africans, we don't see much of
- 18:49Speaker 5: Nene on our television screens anymore.
- 18:52Speaker 6: So I call cap on this.
- 18:54Speaker 5: I think that if her and Andy or her and
- 18:56Speaker 5: the network had a little bit of a better relationship.
- 18:59Speaker 6: she would take that peach in a heartbeat.
- 19:03Speaker 1: So as somebody who has spoken to her personally, I
- 19:07Speaker 1: will go on record saying this, and I'm not telling
- 19:10Speaker 1: her business, because when the girls call me and I
- 19:12Speaker 1: talk to them, it's always off the record.
- 19:15Speaker 3: But the only reason why I'm.
- 19:16Speaker 1: Saying this is because we were on a mini tour
- 19:19Speaker 1: together a few months ago, and we did talk about
- 19:23Speaker 1: this live in front of an audience. So that's the
- 19:25Speaker 1: only reason why I feel comfortable saying this, because she
- 19:27Speaker 1: said it.
- 19:28Speaker 3: In front of a live audience. Nimi, okay. Who Nimi
- 19:35Speaker 3: is today, right?
- 19:38Speaker 1: She even asked me my thoughts on it because I
- 19:42Speaker 1: did ask her on stage, if you were ever to
- 19:45Speaker 1: return full time, would you want to? And she has
- 19:48Speaker 1: always said to me, I can't see myself doing that.
- 19:53Speaker 3: Can you see it? And I was like, yeah, I
- 19:55Speaker 3: can see you doing anything. You're Nene. You're the best
- 19:57Speaker 3: thing in the world.
- 19:59Speaker 1: I will say in her defense, she always said to me,
- 20:03Speaker 1: she was always conflicted. Whether or not she saw herself
- 20:07Speaker 1: doing it, because listen, I think for her, based on
- 20:11Speaker 1: what's happening in her real life and based on where
- 20:13Speaker 1: the show has gone, I think she knows that I
- 20:16Speaker 1: don't have the energy to give my personal story the
- 20:19Speaker 1: same way these other girls are doing. You know, I
- 20:23Speaker 1: think the reason why Cynthia Bailey is thriving as, I'm
- 20:26Speaker 1: going to call Cynthia the friend of anymore because I
- 20:29Speaker 1: think she's more elevated than that. I like to call
- 20:33Speaker 1: her one of the godmothers, to be honest with you.
- 20:35Speaker 1: I see Nene as one of the godmothers of the franchise.
- 20:38Speaker 1: And that is something that I did say to her.
- 20:41Speaker 1: I'm not saying me saying that to her has changed
- 20:45Speaker 1: her mind completely. But I did say to her, after
- 20:49Speaker 1: seeing how successful Cynthia was, I've said this to her
- 20:53Speaker 1: and I've also said this to the other OGs from Atlanta.
- 20:57Speaker 1: I don't want to see you girls back full time
- 20:59Speaker 1: because as somebody who's worked with y'all, y'all don't owe
- 21:04Speaker 1: it to us, the audience to give that level of
- 21:07Speaker 1: personal story anymore.
- 21:08Speaker 3: Cause the thing is this y'all drained it. You know
- 21:12Speaker 3: what I'm saying?
- 21:12Speaker 1: And I think when it comes to the Kelly Potters,
- 21:16Speaker 1: the Shamia Morton's, you know, the pinkies.
- 21:20Speaker 3: Um, These girls are new and.
- 21:23Speaker 1: They're fresh and they have the ability to give so much.
- 21:28Speaker 1: And I just don't think those girls, I don't think
- 21:31Speaker 1: Nene has it in her.
- 21:33Speaker 3: And I think that's the reason why.
- 21:34Speaker 1: Cynthia loves doing it because Cynthia makes a lot of
- 21:38Speaker 1: money to show up, give an opinion, mentor these girls,
- 21:43Speaker 1: take them on a trip to Dallas and go home.
- 21:46Speaker 3: And I think that's good.
- 21:47Speaker 4: Yes, she should.
- 21:49Speaker 7: But I also think that if they hit Nene's line
- 21:52Speaker 7: today and said, yo, we got a peach for you, like,
- 21:55Speaker 7: what's up?
- 21:56Speaker 4: She would go do it. I don't think she would.
- 21:59Speaker 2: I do.
- 21:59Speaker 4: I don't think she's doing nothing else. She ain't doing
- 22:03Speaker 4: nothing else.
- 22:04Speaker 3: Actually, well, let me say, actually, well, let me, hold on, Mandy.
- 22:06Speaker 6: Hold on, Mandy.
- 22:07Speaker 2: Let me say, hold on, hold on.
- 22:10Speaker 3: Nene phone rings off the hook.
- 22:13Speaker 7: But she's not doing anything. They can call all day.
- 22:18Speaker 7: She's not answering the calls.
- 22:19Speaker 1: No, you don't know what she's doing because unlike most
- 22:25Speaker 1: people that you're used to, she's not parading around her business, hashtagging,
- 22:30Speaker 1: wait for it. She's not taking a picture of herself
- 22:35Speaker 1: with a ring light saying, stay tuned.
- 22:38Speaker 3: Most of these girls do that.
- 22:39Speaker 4: She tried it.
- 22:40Speaker 6: She tried it with Ciara.
- 22:41Speaker 5: She tried to have a podcast and did all of
- 22:43Speaker 5: three or four episodes.
- 22:44Speaker 1: Ain't no try. She did have a podcast with Ciara
- 22:47Speaker 1: Glamship and she's not the reason why it did.
- 22:49Speaker 3: Not work out.
- 22:51Speaker 5: Regardless of the reason why it didn't work out, she
- 22:53Speaker 5: does want to be in our faces and she does
- 22:56Speaker 5: want to give us things.
- 22:57Speaker 6: I do believe that. I do believe she wants to
- 22:59Speaker 6: be seen and visible.
- 23:00Speaker 5: I don't think this is like a case of Samantha
- 23:02Speaker 5: from Sex and the City who genuinely did not want
- 23:05Speaker 5: to film with Sarah Jessica Parker anymore.
- 23:08Speaker 6: I think this is genuinely like.
- 23:10Speaker 5: It's just not coming to her and she has to
- 23:11Speaker 5: say that she don't want to do it.
- 23:12Speaker 3: But to your point, she never said she didn't want
- 23:14Speaker 3: to be seen.
- 23:15Speaker 1: She literally said, I would like to take the girls
- 23:18Speaker 1: on a trip and host them. So that translation for
- 23:21Speaker 1: me is I want to be seen. I just don't
- 23:24Speaker 1: want to be seen as a full-time housewife while y'all
- 23:27Speaker 1: at home with me and Yoni and I'm making him
- 23:30Speaker 1: peach tea.
- 23:32Speaker 4: I don't believe that.
- 23:33Speaker 6: Yeah, me neither, Carlos. You got it.
- 23:34Speaker 4: I believe she wants to. And also.
- 23:39Speaker 4: I've always said it.
- 23:40Speaker 7: I love Nene as an actor in scripted content. She's
- 23:45Speaker 7: a great comedic actor. She was incredible on The New Normal.
- 23:50Speaker 7: She was incredible on Glee. She was incredible on Clean Sweep.
- 23:54Speaker 7: Nene is a great actor, and I would love to
- 23:57Speaker 7: see her on a sitcom. I would love to see that.
- 23:59Speaker 7: I don't really know if the reality space is appealing
- 24:04Speaker 7: to me for Nene anymore. I want to see her
- 24:06Speaker 7: acting and at the top of her game back on
- 24:08Speaker 7: Broadway again, like doing that shit. Like that's what I
- 24:11Speaker 7: want to see Nene doing. I want to enjoy her
- 24:13Speaker 7: in that way. Cause I think that she deserves that
- 24:15Speaker 7: based on what she's given to us. I just think
- 24:18Speaker 7: she deserves to be seen in that light. So while
- 24:21Speaker 7: I am not hopeful for her to become a Atlanta housewife,
- 24:24Speaker 7: I'm very hopeful for her to return to scripted acting
- 24:29Speaker 7: full force and and be in our faces in that way.
- 24:32Speaker 7: She's a great red carpet host. I loved her working
- 24:35Speaker 7: with E on the Oscars red carpet. More of that.
- 24:39Speaker 7: And that's what I mean when I say she's not
- 24:41Speaker 7: doing anything because we've only seen her do those spot
- 24:44Speaker 7: gigs and that's it. I want to see Nene in
- 24:48Speaker 7: the press for promoting a project that's coming out that
- 24:51Speaker 7: shows her at her best.
- 24:54Speaker 4: That's what I want. I'm alive.
- 24:57Speaker 6: I want to see more of her.
- 24:58Speaker 2: Yeah, same.
- 25:00Speaker 3: And you will. Stay tuned. Okay, so.
- 25:03Speaker 8: Look, look, look.
- 25:04Speaker 3: I'm doing it.
- 25:05Speaker 4: Hashtag stay tuned. She won't do it, but I will.
- 25:09Speaker 3: Hashtag stay tuned.
- 25:11Speaker 4: Good.
- 25:11Speaker 1: All right, but Raindrops, let us know in the comments
- 25:17Speaker 1: your thoughts on that.
- 25:17Speaker 3: Do you want Nene back full-time regardless?
- 25:20Speaker 1: Or are you okay with her hosting the eight Peach Holders.
- 25:25Speaker 3: Plus Cynthia Bailey on a girls' trip?
- 25:28Speaker 1: And then having four episodes with these girls this season
- 25:31Speaker 1: and then going home. Let us know in the comments
- 25:34Speaker 1: and we will read the responses later in the episode. Okay,
- 25:40Speaker 1: up next we have Todd Tucker. Broke the internet this morning.
- 25:46Speaker 1: Todd Tucker, as you all know, he is the ex-husband
- 25:51Speaker 1: of Kandi Burress. They were married for 11 years, I believe.
- 25:57Speaker 1: And they recently got a divorce. Todd, as you all know,
- 26:01Speaker 1: is a producer. So he has produced plays and movies.
- 26:06Speaker 1: And he is now producing what he is calling a
- 26:09Speaker 1: divorce documentary movie that he said will be in select
- 26:13Speaker 1: theaters soon.
- 26:14Speaker 3: He dropped a trailer last week, or two weeks.
- 26:18Speaker 1: Ago, rather, where it showed that he was dealing with
- 26:25Speaker 1: his life post-divorce from Candy. Today, Todd posted another mini trailer,
- 26:32Speaker 1: and this time some familiar faces popped up from Apollo NIDA,
- 26:37Speaker 1: Peter Thomas, Ralph Pittman, the soon-to-be ex-husband of Juicidora, in
- 26:45Speaker 1: addition to Dennis McKinley, who is Portia's child's father.
- 26:52Speaker 4: Okay.
- 26:53Speaker 3: Okay. And also the attorney to the stars, Randy Kessler.
- 26:57Speaker 4: Okay.
- 26:59Speaker 1: In this trailer, he did speak about having threesomes with Candy.
- 27:04Speaker 1: Out of his own mouth, guys, he said that him
- 27:06Speaker 1: and Candy had several threesomes throughout their marriage. He also,
- 27:13Speaker 1: in the first trailer, mentioned that he was intimating whether
- 27:20Speaker 1: or not he had an affair on her. Um, he
- 27:24Speaker 1: intimated that he did not sleep with this woman and
- 27:29Speaker 1: intimated whether or not Candy believe he did. Listen, the
- 27:32Speaker 1: trailer is juicy is, is very cryptic because obviously he's
- 27:36Speaker 1: drawing us in to watch the full documentary, but those
- 27:41Speaker 1: are some of the explosive tidbits that occurred in these
- 27:46Speaker 1: two trailers. Mandy, what are your thoughts on Todd even
- 27:49Speaker 1: doing a divorce movie? And do you feel like talking
- 27:52Speaker 1: about whether or not you and Kendi had threesomes is
- 27:54Speaker 1: the right thing to do?
- 27:56Speaker 6: Okay, so three things. First off, trailer eight down.
- 28:00Speaker 4: I ain't going to hold you.
- 28:02Speaker 6: I like hearing both sides of a story.
- 28:04Speaker 5: And when you sit here and have all the women
- 28:06Speaker 5: on talking about their side, there is also three sides
- 28:10Speaker 5: to a story.
- 28:11Speaker 6: They side, they side.
- 28:13Speaker 5: They'll decide and the truth, right? And so I like
- 28:15Speaker 5: to kind of get the full gamut of it all.
- 28:18Speaker 5: I don't like that he went on saying about the threesomes.
- 28:21Speaker 6: We already knew that. That was already a discussion.
- 28:24Speaker 5: So you're not giving us anything there. But what I
- 28:27Speaker 5: don't like is the lead in about the cheating. And
- 28:32Speaker 5: that's maybe because for y'all.
- 28:33Speaker 6: That do not know, I am very on board with
- 28:36Speaker 6: being ethically non-monogamous. So knowing that he had.
- 28:40Speaker 5: full, you know, full rights to other vaginas during his
- 28:44Speaker 5: marriage and during the fun thing. I do know they
- 28:46Speaker 5: signed NDAs and stuff. To know that he stepped out
- 28:50Speaker 5: of whatever boundaries Kandi set for him, don't really like that.
- 28:54Speaker 5: And I actually had the opportunity to sit with Kandi
- 28:57Speaker 5: literally a month before the divorce came out at Essence Fest.
- 29:00Speaker 6: So it was really interesting too.
- 29:01Speaker 5: To talk to her about how they keep their relationship
- 29:04Speaker 5: going and keep the bedroom spicy and then to hear
- 29:08Speaker 5: a month later that a divorce was filed.
- 29:11Speaker 8: Right.
- 29:11Speaker 6: I think in terms of this, um, what is it called?
- 29:16Speaker 5: Uh, it's sorry if I'm, if I'm cursing too much y'all, but, uh, what,
- 29:21Speaker 5: what's the biggest bitch you ever seen? It's going to
- 29:23Speaker 5: be a man every single time. So like to see
- 29:27Speaker 5: this kind of cast come together, I love the bitch assness.
- 29:31Speaker 5: I want to watch them. I want to hear them talk.
- 29:34Speaker 5: I think it's going to be good and I'm here
- 29:36Speaker 5: for it. Do I like this for candy?
- 29:38Speaker 3: No.
- 29:39Speaker 6: Um, I think it's tacky.
- 29:41Speaker 5: I wouldn't want my partner doing it. But at the
- 29:44Speaker 5: same time, they already entered us into the group chat.
- 29:46Speaker 5: And baby, this is entertainment now. I want to hear
- 29:48Speaker 5: both sides. And I'm just going to throw it out there. Todd,
- 29:51Speaker 5: if you do this again, I need to see Mauricio.
- 29:54Speaker 5: I know you're only focused on Atlanta, but I want
- 29:57Speaker 5: to hear Mauricio's side, okay?
- 30:00Speaker 6: So have him do a cameo, please. But yeah, that's
- 30:06Speaker 6: kind of my statement. I want to hear the man's side, okay?
- 30:11Speaker 3: Mauricio P.K.
- 30:12Speaker 6: Hello.
- 30:19Speaker 3: Okay, Michael Darby.
- 30:21Speaker 8: Hey.
- 30:22Speaker 5: No, nobody want to hear from Michael, Carlos. Not a
- 30:25Speaker 5: soul want to hear from Michael S.
- 30:27Speaker 4: Jamal Bryant. Oh, You know what?
- 30:30Speaker 6: He got a podcast. I don't want to hear from
- 30:31Speaker 6: him either.
- 30:32Speaker 3: Don't do it.
- 30:34Speaker 1: Dustin Ross, what are your thoughts on Todd Tucker's divorce
- 30:36Speaker 1: trailer mentioning that him and Candy had several threesomes throughout
- 30:40Speaker 1: their marriage, intimating that there was another woman involved, whether
- 30:44Speaker 1: or not he was cheating. And the one thing I forgot,
- 30:46Speaker 1: there were rumors circulating around the web that Candy and
- 30:50Speaker 1: Todd were in a.
- 30:52Speaker 3: that they had a third woman in their relationship, this
- 30:55Speaker 3: beautiful woman named Fatoum. He showed... her also in the trailer.
- 31:02Speaker 1: Again, Todd, I'm a producer, so I know exactly what
- 31:06Speaker 1: Todd is doing by showing this because game recognizes game,
- 31:09Speaker 1: or should I say producer recognizes producer. Todd is definitely
- 31:14Speaker 1: engaging in the fodder that he saw online about their relationship.
- 31:18Speaker 1: And he's smart enough not to confirm anything with the
- 31:22Speaker 1: trailer because he's waiting for us to watch it.
- 31:25Speaker 3: But Dustin, has he gone too far?
- 31:27Speaker 2: Oh, hey!
- 31:28Speaker 3: This is all fair game and love and war.
- 31:31Speaker 7: Well, I don't think he's going too far because it
- 31:34Speaker 7: is Todd's right to tell his story, right? This is
- 31:36Speaker 7: his experience. These are his reflections on that experience. And
- 31:40Speaker 7: I saw him saying that he had made some mistakes.
- 31:43Speaker 7: So it looks like there was some accountability in there
- 31:45Speaker 7: as well. But as you said, Carlos, Todd Tucker is
- 31:49Speaker 7: a television producer. He has a very active, creative mind.
- 31:55Speaker 7: And he's always thinking, it seems that He's always thinking
- 31:58Speaker 7: about the next move as far as his business affairs
- 32:01Speaker 7: are concerned.
- 32:02Speaker 4: And the next move looks like.
- 32:06Speaker 7: Commodifying his experience getting divorced in a way that is bankable.
- 32:11Speaker 7: And what better way than to let everybody in through
- 32:14Speaker 7: what you have to say about it? He's been quiet
- 32:16Speaker 7: for the most part since this divorce. We don't know
- 32:19Speaker 7: how he feels. We really don't even know what happened
- 32:21Speaker 7: unless you went to Candy's One Woman Show, where she
- 32:24Speaker 7: told a little bit more details about that.
- 32:27Speaker 4: This is his turn.
- 32:28Speaker 3: I'm going to cut you off. Did you attend that?
- 32:30Speaker 7: I was unable to because I was working, but I
- 32:32Speaker 7: was going to attend it. Y'all know I love Kandi.
- 32:35Speaker 4: Love Kandi. Been loving her.
- 32:37Speaker 3: Since he's dead.
- 32:39Speaker 1: I was asking because I want to know if she
- 32:41Speaker 1: said anything about their relationship.
- 32:42Speaker 4: Well, she definitely did in the show.
- 32:44Speaker 7: The people that actually went to see the show, they
- 32:48Speaker 7: were saying that she told details about what happened that
- 32:51Speaker 7: night when I guess he went over whatever he did,
- 32:53Speaker 7: which I'm sure we'll find out more in his new show.
- 32:57Speaker 7: till divorce do us part which i think it's in
- 32:59Speaker 7: i think it's a it's a series i think that
- 33:02Speaker 7: they're showing it uh and they're showing it in conjunction
- 33:06Speaker 7: with his film don't bring your man to atlanta in
- 33:09Speaker 7: like 10 different amc theaters and they're going to show
- 33:12Speaker 7: one of the episodes i think in that screen.
- 33:15Speaker 5: Let's go i'm down we out let's go i would
- 33:17Speaker 5: love to go let's go.
- 33:18Speaker 7: But i i'm down but i think that um Candy
- 33:22Speaker 7: is all right with this. I don't think that we
- 33:24Speaker 7: would see, you know, like certain people in that trailer
- 33:28Speaker 7: speaking like her best for her hairstylist, Jodi, who used
- 33:32Speaker 7: to be a very prominent figure in their Todd and
- 33:34Speaker 7: the Glam Squad videos where him, Candy and her glam
- 33:37Speaker 7: will be talking on YouTube about relationship issues and all
- 33:40Speaker 7: that kind of shit. Jodi was always there. She's very
- 33:43Speaker 7: close with Candy. So to me, that's an indicator that
- 33:46Speaker 7: Candy is all right with this. Candy is a businesswoman
- 33:49Speaker 7: at the end of the day, and she's a person
- 33:51Speaker 7: who knows how to separate the two. So I think
- 33:54Speaker 7: that she will allow Todd space to do this. And
- 33:58Speaker 7: I think it'll be good for them. Why not get money, Todd?
- 34:01Speaker 7: I think this is a great way. He knows that
- 34:03Speaker 7: there's interest for sure. So why not stoke that interest
- 34:07Speaker 7: with a project like this? I think it makes sense.
- 34:11Speaker 1: Yeah, look, I'll say this. I agree with the both
- 34:15Speaker 1: of you guys. I think this, I think when it
- 34:17Speaker 1: comes to, and I've said this about couples and I
- 34:24Speaker 1: wasn't even thinking about Candy and Todd when I made
- 34:27Speaker 1: this declaration on my podcast, doing interviews with women because
- 34:33Speaker 1: I did an interview with Mimi Fowles and some other
- 34:36Speaker 1: women who's been in the reality world, Even one recently,
- 34:39Speaker 1: but Queen Aja, who I've been open about my stance
- 34:43Speaker 1: on women who do invite other women in the bedroom.
- 34:48Speaker 1: I think that's your prerogative. That's your business. I strongly
- 34:52Speaker 1: believe what you do in your marriage is your business.
- 34:56Speaker 3: And it may not work for me or the next person.
- 34:58Speaker 3: It's your marriage. And as long as you're not being hurt,
- 35:02Speaker 3: do you, sis, right?
- 35:03Speaker 2: Right.
- 35:04Speaker 1: However, with that being said, I have been very, very
- 35:07Speaker 1: vocal that ladies be very careful. When you are married
- 35:13Speaker 1: to a man and you invite other women in the bedroom,
- 35:18Speaker 1: in my opinion, you are inviting that man to cheat
- 35:22Speaker 1: on you.
- 35:23Speaker 3: Outside of the bedroom. Because for a man, hear me out,
- 35:28Speaker 3: for a man.
- 35:30Speaker 1: What you are saying to him is, I'm okay with
- 35:34Speaker 1: you sticking your Johnson in another woman's patty cake, okay?
- 35:38Speaker 1: Her pot pie. I'm okay with it. Because I'm going
- 35:42Speaker 1: to tell you how men think. A man thinks I
- 35:47Speaker 1: just found a loophole. No pun intended. A man thinks this, ladies,
- 35:54Speaker 1: when you invite another woman in the bedroom, when you're married...
- 35:59Speaker 1: A man oftentimes think this is a loophole. Let me
- 36:03Speaker 1: sneak out and do other things. And in case I
- 36:07Speaker 1: get caught, I can say, yo, what's the problem?
- 36:11Speaker 3: Like, you know, this is what we do. And that's
- 36:14Speaker 3: not how that works. I got caught up. So ladies
- 36:18Speaker 3: be very careful. That's just what it is.
- 36:20Speaker 1: So For Todd to say, and I'm quoting what he
- 36:24Speaker 1: said because I did watch the trailer.
- 36:26Speaker 3: And shout out to Todd. As a producer, I was
- 36:30Speaker 3: impressed by the trailer.
- 36:32Speaker 1: Todd, job well done. Great production value. Todd hit all
- 36:38Speaker 1: the marks in terms of the trailer.
- 36:39Speaker 3: I have no notes.
- 36:41Speaker 1: I thought Todd Tuck did an excellent job with the trailer.
- 36:43Speaker 1: I'm intrigued by it.
- 36:45Speaker 3: Number two.
- 36:46Speaker 1: When Todd said we've had threesomes most times in our marriage, that,
- 36:52Speaker 1: in my opinion, is a man saying, if I did cheat,
- 36:58Speaker 1: I may have done it because you introduced me to
- 37:03Speaker 1: the idea of having another woman. So what's the big deal?
- 37:07Speaker 1: I'm not saying that's what he's saying. I'm saying that's
- 37:09Speaker 1: what I've heard from men in the barbershop, my family members.
- 37:14Speaker 3: I said too much. I've heard it before. Okay. Thank
- 37:18Speaker 3: God they don't watch this show. Okay, number three.
- 37:20Speaker 4: Number three.
- 37:22Speaker 1: I don't understand why people are calling Todd messy.
- 37:27Speaker 3: You a bitch for doing this. How dare you?
- 37:31Speaker 1: The reason why I don't understand where that's coming from,
- 37:35Speaker 1: Todd Tucker was on The Real Housewives of Atlanta since
- 37:38Speaker 1: season five. They've been very open about their relationship. They've
- 37:44Speaker 1: been very open about threesomes on the show. Todd doing
- 37:49Speaker 1: his own production value, I don't think that's a messy
- 37:52Speaker 1: man doing that.
- 37:53Speaker 3: I think that's a businessman. And I agree with Dustin.
- 37:57Speaker 1: I don't think Candy has a problem with this because
- 38:01Speaker 1: Candy was able to do her one-woman show where she's
- 38:05Speaker 1: allowed to say whatever she wants to say about Todd.
- 38:08Speaker 1: And I think it's fair that Ty's able to say
- 38:12Speaker 1: his side of the story too. I don't see this
- 38:16Speaker 1: being a messy thing that he's doing.
- 38:19Speaker 3: I don't see it.
- 38:21Speaker 7: I don't see it either. And the threesome shit don't
- 38:23Speaker 7: surprise me. Candy and Ty have been very open about
- 38:26Speaker 7: them being open when it comes to their marriage and
- 38:29Speaker 7: their sexual life.
- 38:32Speaker 4: You know what I'm saying?
- 38:33Speaker 7: I think the threesome thing is just bait for people
- 38:36Speaker 7: who are still.
- 38:37Speaker 4: Intrigued by that sort of thing.
- 38:39Speaker 7: People are surprised by a married couple having a threesome
- 38:43Speaker 7: and shit.
- 38:44Speaker 4: It's just a bait for that audience. That's all.
- 38:46Speaker 6: But that's another thing too. Like the women may not
- 38:48Speaker 6: have been for Todd.
- 38:49Speaker 5: Like there's a lot of bisexual women that whether they're
- 38:52Speaker 5: in a marriage or in a relationship, they let it
- 38:54Speaker 5: be known that I don't want to give this piece
- 38:56Speaker 5: of me up. And so, yes, it becomes an addition
- 38:59Speaker 5: or a benefit for the man. But I do believe
- 39:01Speaker 5: maybe Kandi genuinely likes women as well and wasn't willing
- 39:04Speaker 5: to give up that piece of herself. Also, when you
- 39:07Speaker 5: go into having threesomes and you introduce it, there's a
- 39:09Speaker 5: lot more conversation that's supposed to be happening. Like, it's
- 39:12Speaker 5: funny because I'm seeing people always say open relationships never
- 39:16Speaker 5: work out.
- 39:17Speaker 6: Baby, neither do monogamous ones.
- 39:20Speaker 5: If you're getting into a relationship and your partner is
- 39:22Speaker 5: constantly cheating on you when you stay, it's actually not
- 39:24Speaker 5: much different than maybe what they're experiencing with the threesomes
- 39:27Speaker 5: and allowing other people in. There's a lot of women
- 39:29Speaker 5: that will know their partner is out cheating and stay. Baby,
- 39:33Speaker 5: you're not in a monogamous relationship either. So for me,
- 39:37Speaker 5: when you open up the door for that, I just
- 39:39Speaker 5: think as women, especially those who are part of the
- 39:42Speaker 5: alphabet community and understand that a part of us doesn't
- 39:46Speaker 5: get to leave because we get with a man, I
- 39:48Speaker 5: think that there's just more conversations to be had. And
- 39:51Speaker 5: I don't believe Kandi was given him permission to have
- 39:54Speaker 5: other romantic relationships outside of their relationship.
- 39:58Speaker 6: And it also always gets me like.
- 40:01Speaker 5: Baby, I'm giving you more pussy.
- 40:04Speaker 6: Why can't... Is this not enough? So I think that
- 40:06Speaker 6: that's where it becomes the frustrating part.
- 40:08Speaker 3: Well, I think it's one of those things... It steps out.
- 40:10Speaker 1: Yeah, and I also think it's one of those things
- 40:12Speaker 1: where you could give a child too much sugar and
- 40:16Speaker 1: they have cavities. You could give a child too much
- 40:18Speaker 1: toys and they spoil. Listen, I think offering a man
- 40:23Speaker 1: too much Popeye, he's going.
- 40:29Speaker 3: Listen, I'm a man who likes... my one man, right?
- 40:35Speaker 1: I like being, I love being in a monogamous relationship.
- 40:39Speaker 3: I love it. It's the reason why I like being
- 40:45Speaker 3: in one.
- 40:46Speaker 1: Let's leave it there because this ain't Patreon.
- 40:50Speaker 3: Although, subscribe to my Patreon.
- 40:53Speaker 1: The three of us plus Claudia will be there on Friday.
- 40:55Speaker 4: Freaky Friday.
- 40:56Speaker 6: Yeah, y'all do that.
- 40:57Speaker 3: On my Patreon. I'll tell more.
- 41:00Speaker 1: I think women have to understand as men, and Dustin,
- 41:05Speaker 1: you tell me you agree with me. As men, we
- 41:08Speaker 1: are natural born leaders, but we are also natural.
- 41:11Speaker 3: Born species leaders.
- 41:13Speaker 1: Who love the art of that particular pleasure, whatever floats
- 41:18Speaker 1: your boat. So when you are trying to please your
- 41:23Speaker 1: man by saying, I'm giving you, I'm allowing you to
- 41:25Speaker 1: do this, but do it with me. I think that's
- 41:29Speaker 1: a little bit restricted because when you open up the
- 41:33Speaker 1: opportunity to have him do that with a woman in
- 41:37Speaker 1: front of you, you don't think when you are out
- 41:40Speaker 1: of town at work, He's not thinking about the act
- 41:45Speaker 1: with another woman.
- 41:46Speaker 3: I think women have to be smarter.
- 41:51Speaker 4: I think that Todd and Kandi, based.
- 41:55Speaker 1: On- Oh, by the way, not to cut you off,
- 41:58Speaker 1: I was saying, this is for me.
- 42:00Speaker 3: Just so y'all know, that was me generalizing, not.
- 42:02Speaker 4: Talking about her.
- 42:04Speaker 7: I just think that they're a little bit more sexually astute.
- 42:08Speaker 7: than to be enticed by the option of fucking somebody else.
- 42:15Speaker 7: I think that they're past that. I think that once
- 42:18Speaker 7: boundaries have been established, because when you're in that type
- 42:21Speaker 7: of situation, you and your partner talk and come to
- 42:24Speaker 7: terms that you all will exist on. So I think
- 42:28Speaker 7: that that's enough for some people. There are some people
- 42:32Speaker 7: who can exist within those boundaries in a relationship and
- 42:36Speaker 7: not If they feel like, well, because I have this freedom,
- 42:39Speaker 7: then I'm going to go ahead and cross these boundaries
- 42:41Speaker 7: that we established. There are some people who can say, okay,
- 42:44Speaker 7: this is the rules and this is how we are
- 42:46Speaker 7: able to have fun with other people. I'm going to
- 42:48Speaker 7: follow these rules and we'll be all right. So I
- 42:51Speaker 7: don't think that everyone that is presented that opportunity will
- 42:55Speaker 7: become this sexual deviant that is just, fuck it, I
- 42:59Speaker 7: can get someone to get it all. There are niggas
- 43:01Speaker 7: like that. And there are men who are driven by
- 43:03Speaker 7: the pursuit of having sex with a woman, but It's
- 43:07Speaker 7: a lot of other niggas who are very well aware
- 43:10Speaker 7: of the decisions that they're making and they are at
- 43:12Speaker 7: a place in their lives where they are interested in ethical,
- 43:16Speaker 7: keyword ethical, non-monogamy. So when you cross out of the
- 43:20Speaker 7: ethical space and it becomes unethical, there's consequences for that shit.
- 43:24Speaker 7: And I think that's what we're seeing in this case
- 43:26Speaker 7: with Candy and Todd.
- 43:28Speaker 1: And Mandy, my question for you before we get to
- 43:30Speaker 1: Love and Marriage Huntsville premiere is... You've been very open
- 43:34Speaker 1: about enjoying threesomes. You can say what you want to
- 43:39Speaker 1: say whether or not you've done it with married couples before.
- 43:41Speaker 3: That's your business.
- 43:43Speaker 1: But what advice, Mandy, would you give married women if
- 43:49Speaker 1: they want to have threesomes with their husband? Are there
- 43:54Speaker 1: set rules that one must abide by before entering that domain?
- 44:00Speaker 5: I mean, I think the number one thing is that
- 44:02Speaker 5: you're doing it for yourself, not to keep your man.
- 44:05Speaker 5: A threesome is never going to keep your man. It's
- 44:07Speaker 5: never going to keep him from going astray. I also
- 44:10Speaker 5: think you have to have a very strong, solid foundation.
- 44:16Speaker 5: If you're having a threesome because you think it's going
- 44:17Speaker 5: to fix a problem, it won't. It's going to make
- 44:20Speaker 5: the foundation even less solid, right? To me, like I said,
- 44:25Speaker 5: and I guess this is coming from being purely bisexual,
- 44:28Speaker 5: when I go into non-monogamous relationships, it's because I'm not
- 44:31Speaker 5: willing to give up the part of me that likes women.
- 44:33Speaker 6: So I may want to be with women without my partner.
- 44:35Speaker 4: Which part is that?
- 44:36Speaker 6: You know what I mean? Listen, listen. And so for me, yeah,
- 44:41Speaker 6: I mean, I've had a lot of threesomes. I enjoy threesomes.
- 44:43Speaker 5: I also just like being with women by themselves. And
- 44:46Speaker 5: to me, it's... Really being mature. You have to be mature.
- 44:50Speaker 5: You have to be able to understand that your emotions
- 44:53Speaker 5: aren't going to change. You are going to be jealous.
- 44:55Speaker 5: You are going to feel an insecurity. New pussy is always,
- 44:58Speaker 5: you know, exciting for men.
- 45:00Speaker 2: Yay.
- 45:01Speaker 5: But I think when you're in a relationship and you
- 45:03Speaker 5: want to consider it, you need to make sure that
- 45:05Speaker 5: you're doing it for yourself and not for him.
- 45:07Speaker 6: And then, like I said, if.
- 45:09Speaker 5: You feel like you can't talk to that man, if
- 45:11Speaker 5: you feel like he gaslights you or there's just not
- 45:14Speaker 5: a strong foundation in communication.
- 45:17Speaker 6: It ain't going to work.
- 45:18Speaker 5: Like, you have to really be able to talk this
- 45:19Speaker 5: stuff out and catch up with each other after and
- 45:22Speaker 5: lay your boundaries. And then your boundary has to be
- 45:24Speaker 5: your boundary. If he doesn't say this is a hard
- 45:27Speaker 5: stop and I'll leave. Like, that's another thing. Once they
- 45:29Speaker 5: feel like they can get over on you and you're going.
- 45:31Speaker 6: To stay, they're going to keep doing it.
- 45:34Speaker 3: Yeah.
- 45:34Speaker 5: So I just say it's always going to be slippery, y'all.
- 45:38Speaker 5: But the same way y'all get with niggas knowing they
- 45:40Speaker 5: was cheaters and abusers and think it ain't going to
- 45:41Speaker 5: happen to you.
- 45:43Speaker 6: What the goddamn thing is the difference? You know what
- 45:45Speaker 6: I mean?
- 45:46Speaker 5: Like, we know a lot of the men that we
- 45:48Speaker 5: get with and we date them for the potential not
- 45:50Speaker 5: to see them who they truly are. And unfortunately, I
- 45:53Speaker 5: do believe we know the men that we're dating out
- 45:55Speaker 5: the gate. You know if he cheated on his ex
- 45:57Speaker 5: or his wife or you know if you was the
- 45:59Speaker 5: side chick.
- 46:00Speaker 6: Like, you know the type of man you're with. We
- 46:02Speaker 6: talked about this with.
- 46:04Speaker 5: You know, Soraya and Joey Badass over on Reality After Dark.
- 46:09Speaker 6: So, I mean, for this, you know... Good luck. Good
- 46:13Speaker 6: luck to all. And to all a good night.
- 46:16Speaker 8: Yeah.
- 46:16Speaker 4: Yeah.
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