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Fear of Losing a Job, Home, Car, Relationship · Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio

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  Speaker 1: Hi, This is Amy with Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio,
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  Speaker 1: and this is your sacred space for spirituality, intuition, manifestation
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  Speaker 1: and metaphysical wisdom. Today, I want to talk to you
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  Speaker 1: about the fear of losing something. A job, a relationship,
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  Speaker 1: a car, a home, security, stability, all of this. These
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  Speaker 1: fears are very human and very normal, and that fear
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  Speaker 1: can have an effect on your ability to manifest what
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  Speaker 1: you want. When fear of loss is running the show,
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  Speaker 1: your energy contracts, your body tightens, your thoughts narrow. You
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  Speaker 1: stop creating from a place of desire possibility and all
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  Speaker 1: things are possible, and you start reacting, and you're reacting
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  Speaker 1: from a place of needing to protect yourself. Your thoughts
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  Speaker 1: become I have to hold onto this. I can't risk
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  Speaker 1: losing this, I cannot make the wrong move. And this
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  Speaker 1: fear can seem practical, it can seem sometimes responsible, it
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  Speaker 1: can seem smart, but underneath it is a belief that
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  Speaker 1: supports that support is fragile, that safety can disappear at
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  Speaker 1: any moment, and that you are one step away from
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  Speaker 1: losing everything. And when you live from that place, you
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  Speaker 1: are not open to receiving your in survival mode. So
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  Speaker 1: fear of loss keeps you focused on what might occur
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  Speaker 1: instead of what you're meant to receive next. So here
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  Speaker 1: is some important things to understand. Nothing that is truly
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  Speaker 1: meant to support your life can be taken away from you.
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  Speaker 1: All your needs are meant to be met, All your
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  Speaker 1: needs are meant to be met, all needs met. And
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  Speaker 1: a part of your birthright is that you are safe
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  Speaker 1: and protected. And when you are in a state of
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  Speaker 1: fear of loss, you forget your birthright. You forget that
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  Speaker 1: God did say that all our needs would be met
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  Speaker 1: and that we are always safe and protected. And that
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  Speaker 1: causes us to make choices and decisions that lead to
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  Speaker 1: us not feeling safe and protected and leads to our
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  Speaker 1: needs not being met. And so what you have to
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  Speaker 1: do you have to accept that fear of loss is
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  Speaker 1: a thing. It's all so a thing you don't need
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  Speaker 1: to experience or feel, I should say, and that you
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  Speaker 1: just return to a place of desire. What do you
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  Speaker 1: want and not what do you want from a place
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  Speaker 1: of fear, Like, oh, I want to keep this job
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  Speaker 1: because I'm afraid dot dot dot, or oh I want
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  Speaker 1: to keep this home or this relationship because I'm afraid
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  Speaker 1: dot dot dot. You need to just be in this
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  Speaker 1: moment and ask yourself, what do you want. Often the
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  Speaker 1: fear of lost comes from old experiences, maybe what you
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  Speaker 1: saw people loose in your childhood, you saw adults lose.
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  Speaker 1: But one of the running affirmations that I have, and
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  Speaker 1: it's one that I've shared with clients quite a bit
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  Speaker 1: this year, that I that I had to learn was
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  Speaker 1: people who lose believe that they can lose. And so
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  Speaker 1: if you don't want to lose, you have to stop
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  Speaker 1: believing that you could lose, and you have to return
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  Speaker 1: to a place of believing that all your needs will
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  Speaker 1: be met and that your desires are on your heart
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  Speaker 1: for a reason, your pure clean desire, not the desire
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  Speaker 1: rooted in fear, but the desire on your heart. Now,
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  Speaker 1: this can get a little tricky in the sense that
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  Speaker 1: I have found that people will use this experience around
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  Speaker 1: fear of loss as an opportunity and a very human
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  Speaker 1: approach to self sabotage. So it could be instead of
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  Speaker 1: focusing on the desire to keep your job, keep your home,
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  Speaker 1: keep your relationship, that pure clean desire, you can wander
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  Speaker 1: off into lala land and start dreaming up a new reality,
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  Speaker 1: and sometimes a better goal is the right approach. Right,
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  Speaker 1: But in those moments when you're off in lalla land,
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  Speaker 1: you're not actually thinking of the most aligned goal. You're
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  Speaker 1: just trying to run from that fear. And so if
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  Speaker 1: you are in a place where you're afraid, maybe you're
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  Speaker 1: afraid of a layoff, maybe you're afraid of things aren't
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  Speaker 1: going to come together for you financially, and you might
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  Speaker 1: be in a position where you'll lose your home or
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  Speaker 1: or your car, your financial stability. I want you to
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  Speaker 1: center yourself and ask yourself, what do I want? Not
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  Speaker 1: from a place of fear, but what do I genuinely want?
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  Speaker 1: Because you might decide I actually really wouldn't mind if
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  Speaker 1: I lost my job, assuming I get some type of
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  Speaker 1: or unemployment, and it would give me the opportunity to
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  Speaker 1: move in this direction. So then you know your actions
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  Speaker 1: are okay, let me put my life in order in
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  Speaker 1: the event that happens. And so when I walk clients
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  Speaker 1: through this exercise, they often get afraid that, oh, if
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  Speaker 1: I look at how to prepare my life or loss,
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  Speaker 1: then that loss becomes inevitable. Now, actually, what that preparing
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  Speaker 1: does was it gives you a greater sense of safety
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  Speaker 1: and command over your reality. I had a client a
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  Speaker 1: couple of years ago who was she had locked in already.
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  Speaker 1: She was a good manifestor in the sense that she
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  Speaker 1: had locked in that she would never lose her job,
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  Speaker 1: so to the point where anytime I tuned into her
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  Speaker 1: job and we talked a lot about her work, I
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  Speaker 1: never picked up her getting fired or let go or
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  Speaker 1: laid off. But what I was picking up in that
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  Speaker 1: scenario was that work had gotten so stressful that she
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  Speaker 1: might have to just abruptly leave. And so I told her,
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  Speaker 1: I said, you know, if you don't want that choice,
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  Speaker 1: what I recommend is look at your financial life and
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  Speaker 1: see what you could sustain with. And so, you know,
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  Speaker 1: look at her savings, look at what her life would
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  Speaker 1: be like if she did no longer have her job temporarily.
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  Speaker 1: And she resisted it for three months, and it finally
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  Speaker 1: got to a breaking point where she was like, oh
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  Speaker 1: my god, Amy, I finally sat down and looked at
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  Speaker 1: my finances and I realized that if I did have
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  Speaker 1: to leave my job, I would be okay. And I
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  Speaker 1: put together a plan for myself. And then within days
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  Speaker 1: she gets a job offer. Because what she did was
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  Speaker 1: she created a sense of safety and security within her
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  Speaker 1: being so that the blessing can come through. When we
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  Speaker 1: are in fear, we are not connected to the divine.
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  Speaker 1: It is our birthright to have all of our needs met,
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  Speaker 1: it is our birthright to be safe and protected. And
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  Speaker 1: when we are in fear, we forget that and at
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  Speaker 1: the same time, we're cutting off our connection to source,
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  Speaker 1: to God. And so what it means is you have
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  Speaker 1: to do whatever it takes to move out of the fear.
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  Speaker 1: And I think the easiest way to do that, and
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  Speaker 1: what I've found in my own life is just returned
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  Speaker 1: to the pure desire. My pure desire is to keep
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  Speaker 1: my car. My pure desire is to keep my home,
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  Speaker 1: My pure desire is to be in this relationship. My
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  Speaker 1: pure desire is to keep my job. And once you
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  Speaker 1: can get to that place without any mind shatter around
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  Speaker 1: fear of what would happen if you did lose it,
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  Speaker 1: now you've just returned to a state of power, and
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  Speaker 1: now you can channel energy from the heavens and create
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  Speaker 1: a miraculous result. Now you can start taking actions to
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  Speaker 1: support that result, no matter whether it's some force outside
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  Speaker 1: of you that might lead to the loss or maybe
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  Speaker 1: you've made some mistakes in your life. God still has
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  Speaker 1: you covered. You're not being punished, You're always forgiven and
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  Speaker 1: you can always turn energy around. And so I would
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  Speaker 1: say this to you, if you're in a state where
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  Speaker 1: you're fearing loss, get clear on the desire. Then ask
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  Speaker 1: yourself what actions do I need to take to support
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  Speaker 1: that desire? And then trust and believe and know that
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  Speaker 1: spirit is going to support you. You may not know
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  Speaker 1: how and when it all comes together, but it will
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  Speaker 1: come together. So fear of loss is a sign to
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  Speaker 1: take your power back. It's a sign to get clear
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  Speaker 1: about what you want, that pure, clean desire within you
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  Speaker 1: in the scent often in the center of your being,
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  Speaker 1: and then into that and you can you can do
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  Speaker 1: a root chakra meditation, you can do a grounding meditation,
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  Speaker 1: and you focus on that desire. And as you focus
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  Speaker 1: on that desire, you will create the result that is
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  Speaker 1: for your highest and greatest and good and a little
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  Speaker 1: alignment with the desire. So and there's so many possibilities,
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  Speaker 1: there are so many possibilities for how everything can come together.
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  Speaker 1: You just because you're fearing loss does not mean you
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  Speaker 1: will experience loss, But it is a cue that Okay,
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  Speaker 1: let me take my power back. What do I want?
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  Speaker 1: What actions can I take right now that support that desire?
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  Speaker 1: And then you open the channel to all possibilities. So
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  Speaker 1: going back to that client who what she wanted was
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  Speaker 1: this in her job, leave that job and get a
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  Speaker 1: new job, right, she wanted to give notice and move
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  Speaker 1: into a new job. When she took the action of
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  Speaker 1: looking at her finances to see if you know, of course,
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  Speaker 1: I mean she's an affluent woman, just to structure things
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  Speaker 1: so that she could be supported in the event she
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  Speaker 1: had to leave her job. That's when she opened the
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  Speaker 1: channel for the new job to come in. And trust me,
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  Speaker 1: she had been looking for work. She's really good at
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  Speaker 1: interviewing and finding jobs. She had been looking for work
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  Speaker 1: the whole time, but the right opportunity was able to
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  Speaker 1: show up when she shifted out of the fear. And
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  Speaker 1: so this is a powerful practice that you can do
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  Speaker 1: no matter what. And I know there's probably my figures
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  Speaker 1: are flashing that there's somebody who's like, well, Amy, I
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  Speaker 1: if I lost my job, I don't have the means
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  Speaker 1: to support myself. Well, even knowing that can help you, right,
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  Speaker 1: and you can still put things in place so that
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  Speaker 1: you can still feel supported. And so fear keeps us
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  Speaker 1: from taking action, and fear keeps us in a place
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  Speaker 1: a victimhood. And so if you can ditch the fear
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  Speaker 1: by returning to a place of desire, you immediately move
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  Speaker 1: into the energy of empowerment. And from that energetic space
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  Speaker 1: you become powerful and you can create some beautiful results
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  Speaker 1: you and spirit where you get exactly what you want.
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  Speaker 1: So basically, don't be scared of anything. I know it's hard,
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  Speaker 1: believe me. I'm a human being. I live in this
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  Speaker 1: time space reality. There are oftentimes I am like scared,
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  Speaker 1: and then I have to tell myself the fear is
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  Speaker 1: not going to manifest the result I decidre, So let
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  Speaker 1: me move out of this fear. What can I do?
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  Speaker 1: What action can I take to support my truest desire?
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  Speaker 1: And then I do that thing. I do that thing,
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  Speaker 1: and then I find that everything starts to come together
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  Speaker 1: for my favorite and my good. Even if I feel
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  Speaker 1: like there's a part of me that wants to judge
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  Speaker 1: myself that oh, you should have done this better, you
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  Speaker 1: should have done this this way, you should have done
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  Speaker 1: it this way. Even when that is occurring, I still
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  Speaker 1: know that I can turn that off and move out
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  Speaker 1: of a state of fear, and move out a state
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  Speaker 1: of self judgment and just be in the place of
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  Speaker 1: this is my pure desire. What actions can I take
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  Speaker 1: right now? I'm going to believe that I can have
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  Speaker 1: what I want. I'm going to believe that I can
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  Speaker 1: create a miraculous result, and that all things are possible
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  Speaker 1: and all my needs can be met. And if I
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  Speaker 1: am in a situation where change is me it, where
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  Speaker 1: it is time to evolve, where it's time to move
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  Speaker 1: into something new, it's not going to feel jarring. It's
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  Speaker 1: not going to feel like the you know, the rug's
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  Speaker 1: been pulled out from underneath me. It's going to feel
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  Speaker 1: fluid and flowy and natural and fun. And so you
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  Speaker 1: have so much power if you are willing to shift
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  Speaker 1: out of fear, and so first you just got to
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  Speaker 1: acknowledge the fear. Okay, I'm afraid of losing this because dada,
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  Speaker 1: da dat. And then you say to yourself, what do
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  Speaker 1: I want? And then you focus all your attention there,
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  Speaker 1: and you do your part to support the unfolding of
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  Speaker 1: that while holding faith and believing that it's possible and
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  Speaker 1: wanting it right because here's the thing, going back to
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  Speaker 1: my client who didn't want to have to leave her
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  Speaker 1: job and not have a source of income. When she
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  Speaker 1: was holding the fear, she was blocking all the ways
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  Speaker 1: in what she could be supported. And when she moved
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  Speaker 1: out of the fear and created some safety for herself,
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  Speaker 1: energetic safety, a sense of empowerment in the situation, then
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  Speaker 1: she opened the channels to all that was possible. Spirit
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  Speaker 1: has guided us through various spiritual channels, religious texts that
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  Speaker 1: all of our needs will be met. It's our birthright,
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  Speaker 1: and that we are always meant to be safe and protected.
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  Speaker 1: That is our birthright, and we cut ourselves off from
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  Speaker 1: that when we are in a state of fear, and
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  Speaker 1: you just have to be willing to move out of it.
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  Speaker 1: And again, I know it's tricky, and I know it's hard,
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  Speaker 1: but then also it's not. You just return to a
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  Speaker 1: state of what to I want and your need in
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  Speaker 1: that desire will be met and you won't lose, You'll
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  Speaker 1: only gain, You'll only sustain yourself, you will be safe
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  Speaker 1: and protected and all your needs will be met. All right,
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  Speaker 1: So I hope this helps somebody who is fearing loss,
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  Speaker 1: be in it, be in it. Look at it, acknowledge it,
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  Speaker 1: own it. Stop judging yourself, because sometimes we're judging ourselves
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  Speaker 1: around even experiencing the fear of loss, Like, what does
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  Speaker 1: it mean about me? If I'm scared I'm going to
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  Speaker 1: lose my job? It means absolutely jackshit nothing. It's just
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  Speaker 1: a feeling and a feeling that is generated by some thoughts.
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  Speaker 1: And the thought can always be changed, So change the thought.
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  Speaker 1: What's it? Let's talk about my one year Intuitive Coaching package.
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  Speaker 1: In this service, we look at patterns, and we might
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  Speaker 1: look at the fear of loss, and there is always
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  Speaker 1: a solution. And I'll help you see that there's always
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  Speaker 1: a solution, and you can shift your energy rapidly. You
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  Speaker 1: can shift the results of your life rapidly. What looks
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  Speaker 1: like a loss can easily be turned around to be
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  Speaker 1: your gain, your blessing, your miracle. And I guide you
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  Speaker 1: as to how to live this way. I guide you
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  Speaker 1: how to manifest from a place of centeredness instead of stress,
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  Speaker 1: and then you get to attract all that you want,
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  Speaker 1: need and desire. So you can learn more at Intuitive
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  Speaker 1: You'll feel so happy on the other side, and right
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  Speaker 1: now I am focused on enrollment for the one year
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  Speaker 1: Intuitive Coaching, but I do have some other options that
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  Speaker 1: are currently not listed on the website, and so if
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  Speaker 1: you're interested in learning more about how we can work together,
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  Speaker 1: just reach out to me either on the contact page
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  Speaker 1: you can send me an email, or you can drop
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  Speaker 1: me a text and we can arrange a call. My
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  Speaker 1: goal is to support you in creating a life that
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  Speaker 1: feels good, a life that feels like you, a life
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  Speaker 1: that feels magical. So thank you so much for listening
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  Speaker 1: to the show. You're not here to live in the
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  Speaker 1: fear of losing what you have. You are here to
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  Speaker 1: trust what is unfolding for your good and in your favor,
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  Speaker 1: and you always get to have your needs met and
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  Speaker 1: you are always safe and protected. And when you move
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  Speaker 1: out of fear, you can tap into that energy and
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  Speaker 1: create something beautiful, amazing, and wonderful. Thank you so much
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  Speaker 1: for listening to the show. I look forward to speaking
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  Speaker 1: with you again soon. To take care of yourself. Goodbye.