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Marriage Trouble Clues · Let's Ask the Mamas!

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  Speaker 1: We got a question for American mamas. Dear mama's, what
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  Speaker 1: are the clues that make you think a marriage is
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  Speaker 1: in trouble? Well, let's ask our American mama's.
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  Speaker 2: Mama, mama, she said, and joining is now we're American mama's.
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  Speaker 1: Terry Nedville and Kimberly Burlason, We're good. I don't see
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  Speaker 1: why y'all are just staring at me.
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  Speaker 3: They are fine for sure. Let me tell you this
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  Speaker 3: is my sign. And I'm sorry for anybody that's done this,
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  Speaker 3: but so this is your Yes. Yes, I always have
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  Speaker 3: that feeling like, oh, something's ah when people renew their vowels. Really,
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  Speaker 3: I think look at Bruce Jinner and Chris Jinner, you
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  Speaker 3: know what I mean, They're like a big example. But
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  Speaker 3: this filters down to everybody else.
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  Speaker 1: I know.
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  Speaker 3: Usually when they have to come together and renew their vowels,
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  Speaker 3: it's because something's going wrong, something or something went wrong,
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  Speaker 3: something that's wrong, or they've lost each other and they're
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  Speaker 3: trying to bring it there. They need something to, you know,
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  Speaker 3: bring it back together.
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  Speaker 1: So it's a big gesture thing.
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  Speaker 3: Yes, I think it is exactly. I Also my other
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  Speaker 3: little sign is when and I'm this is not anniversaries
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  Speaker 3: or birthdays. But when one of them starts doing these
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  Speaker 3: long love professing professing their love, I'm like, is this
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  Speaker 3: person not right next to you right now? I'm like,
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  Speaker 3: when they start professing their love and putting all this
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  Speaker 3: stuff on, that's again, I'm like, Uh, they're covering up something,
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  Speaker 3: They're covering up. It's just the way my mind works.
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  Speaker 4: So interesting. I'm trying to think, wait.
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  Speaker 1: Is it just a single post that's a long thing,
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  Speaker 1: or if they're doing multiple okay multiple, because I have
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  Speaker 1: done a single.
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  Speaker 3: I'm not saying a like an anniversary, a birthday or
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  Speaker 3: I just love you. I'm talking because I've done that
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  Speaker 3: in the past. This is like like someth's going on.
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  Speaker 1: Okay, so this is like a thing.
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  Speaker 4: Yes, And they're also h Stephen, you're a wordsmith, you're
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  Speaker 4: a writer. That's kind of how you express yourself.
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  Speaker 3: So there's always an exception.
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  Speaker 4: So imagine that there's like some guy that's never on
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  Speaker 4: social media and all of a sudden, all of a sudden, yeah,
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  Speaker 4: maybe those cryptic messages. A lot of women do this,
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  Speaker 4: like if there's if there's a struggle going on, they'll
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  Speaker 4: do these little cryptic posts where it's either a meme
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  Speaker 4: or it's like a quote, and you're like trying to dissect.
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  Speaker 3: It like a women.
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  Speaker 4: Know, women pick up on that, and then you go
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  Speaker 4: back and you're like, look at pictures or they still
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  Speaker 4: are they still together in these pictures? I mean, I
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  Speaker 4: guess that would be a telltale sign. I'm so honest
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  Speaker 4: to god, I'm so clueless about everything. It feels like
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  Speaker 4: that I don't know. And then when it happens, if
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  Speaker 4: somebody splits, I'm like what, But then you usually can
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  Speaker 4: go back and say yeah, then you go back.
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  Speaker 3: I said, yeah, you know. I asked Mike this question
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  Speaker 3: is like what signs do you and he's like, what,
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  Speaker 3: I know.
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  Speaker 4: Guys don't think.
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  Speaker 3: Guys don't don't even think, he said, I don't even
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  Speaker 3: think about anybody else's relationships. You know. It's like it's
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  Speaker 3: like if they divorce, it's just like WHOA never saw
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  Speaker 3: that coming? Yeah, you know, it's just they're not interested.
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  Speaker 3: Whereas women, we pick up on little cues, like you're
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  Speaker 3: talking about the memes and you know these.
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  Speaker 4: Deep thoughts yeah, and you're like wow, and what does
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  Speaker 4: that mean? You'll reach out to one of their friends
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  Speaker 4: and everything Okay, is everything good?
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  Speaker 1: So for me this may sound really weird, but in pictures,
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  Speaker 1: if they don't, there's not a full smile. And what
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  Speaker 1: I mean by that is a smile that actually reaches
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  Speaker 1: your eyebrows or your your eyelids, right, So if someone's
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  Speaker 1: actually smiling, there's actually a little crinkle right on the
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  Speaker 1: edge of the eye. You can do a stage smile
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  Speaker 1: and it doesn't reach that level. You got the smile
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  Speaker 1: on the teeth and all there, but if you look
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  Speaker 1: at the eyes, there's not like a little squint in
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  Speaker 1: the eyes. So if I'm not seeing in pictures the
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  Speaker 1: squint in the eyes when they're posting pictures of them smile.
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  Speaker 1: I see this with celebrity couples all the time, especially
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  Speaker 1: after they've can I go back and you look and yeah,
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  Speaker 1: that's she looked. They're they're they're on the red carpet,
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  Speaker 1: and neither one of them looks happy to be there.
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  Speaker 4: I am shocked every time whenever, even celebrities. You know,
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  Speaker 4: the only one that I thought, oh, and it's because
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  Speaker 4: he can't hide his emotions was Ben Affleck and Jennifer Yeah,
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  Speaker 4: you could absolutely see that this was breaking apart, you know,
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  Speaker 4: and The first telltale was her that stupid documentary about
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  Speaker 4: their love and she shared all of his letters while
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  Speaker 4: he was married to Jennifer. She shared this book of
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  Speaker 4: letters that he when he was professing his love and
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  Speaker 4: on there they interviewed him and he was livid. He
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  Speaker 4: was like, she shared that, Like, she shared that with
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  Speaker 4: all of y'all, and she knew that it wasn't right
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  Speaker 4: at the time. She was when she was sharing it,
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  Speaker 4: and I thought, oh boy, oh that is that's bad
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  Speaker 4: because you've got children. You know, you've got children in
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  Speaker 4: the night, so you know, I could tell about them.
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  Speaker 4: But there's a lot of couples that I'm just like, wow,
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  Speaker 4: I thought that huge?
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  Speaker 1: Is it?
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  Speaker 4: Hugh Jackman, Yeah, and his wife.
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  Speaker 2: I was shocked.
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  Speaker 4: I was like what, because there's some couples that you
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  Speaker 4: just think, oh, once they've made it past that ten mark,
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  Speaker 4: twenty mark, you're like, oh, they're they're golden. So what
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  Speaker 4: happens You're like, oh my god. You just never know
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  Speaker 4: what's going on.
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  Speaker 3: It's the matching tattoos is another sign, is it right?
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  Speaker 4: I didn't know that.
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  Speaker 3: Yeah, well this is I did not know that. But
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  Speaker 3: you know, when I saw this question, you know, I
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  Speaker 3: start looking it up, and I saw where a lot
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  Speaker 3: of people felt like when people start getting matching tattoos
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  Speaker 3: after many years.
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  Speaker 1: I'm like, so, it's when someone does a really really
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  Speaker 1: big gesture that seems like it's almost too big.
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  Speaker 4: That's it.
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  Speaker 1: That's that's the sign. Yeah, that there's something going.
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  Speaker 3: On, because if you're like us, you just live in
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  Speaker 3: your best life. I'll marry the love of mine. We
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  Speaker 3: just have the best life. But I don't even think
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  Speaker 3: to put anything out there because he's right beside me, right.
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  Speaker 1: I just tell him, Yeah. I text Wendy a lot
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  Speaker 1: Netivill kiberly Bro listen. Thank you so much, Thank you,