Latest / Rich Fulcher's TalkBox / Riki Lindhome: Motherhood, Dead Inside & Standup Comedy | TalkBox Ep. 47
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- 0:00Hey, podcast listeners, it's me, Rich Vulture.
- 0:03And welcome to Rich Vulture Stock Bugs.
- 0:06If you like the show, please follow me and give us a five
- 0:12star review because that's fun. And my guest this week is Ricky
- 0:18Lynnholm. She is with the famous group
- 0:21Garfunkel and Oates. She's been on Wednesday and Big
- 0:25Bang Theory, and she's doing a show out here in London and we
- 0:29talk about it. You're going to love it.
- 0:31OK, let's go to it. Come on.
- 0:51Louder. Hi, Ricky.
- 0:59Hi. How are you?
- 1:01What are you doing here? You'd ask me to be.
- 1:03On your podcast. So I thought I would come and do
- 1:05it. That's right.
- 1:06Yeah. Are you available?
- 1:07Absolutely. Because it seemed like you might
- 1:09be. Have a seat.
- 1:11Oh my gosh. How long have you been in
- 1:13London? Like a week and 1/2.
- 1:16A week and a half, yeah. How long did it take for the jet
- 1:19lag? It's still happening.
- 1:21Well, maybe like a week. No, it's still, but it's still a
- 1:23little bit. Did you take melatonin?
- 1:25Oh, that's kids stuff. Oh, really?
- 1:28Yeah, yeah, yeah. I took way worse than melatonin.
- 1:29Yeah. Really.
- 1:30Yeah. I can't.
- 1:31I can't. I'm not a good sleeper.
- 1:32Everybody has their own trick. Yeah, mine is, you know, like I
- 1:37took like Ambien or something, you know, stuff like.
- 1:38That, but not like Michael Jackson.
- 1:41No, his was. Propofol, yeah.
- 1:43His was Propofol and. Then get a doctor.
- 1:45Yes, yes, I don't. I'm not that advanced.
- 1:47OK, good. But no, I'm off the Ambien now.
- 1:49I just needed it to like make myself fall asleep at you know,
- 1:53one in the afternoon for a one night or whatever it is,
- 1:55whatever that crossover is. Can I tell you something funny?
- 1:59Yes. You are in my show.
- 2:02I heard this you. Are in my show.
- 2:04Tell me more. So my show is about my fertility
- 2:06journey and if you remember, you were on the Garfunkel and OCH.
- 2:09Show yes, and as a doctor, yes. You played my Doctor Who gave me
- 2:13like info via emojis, which really happened in real life.
- 2:17Yes. And so instead of like
- 2:19explaining it to the audience, I go, well, we actually did this.
- 2:23And so I showed the clip of you explaining my fertility.
- 2:26And everybody goes. That's Rich Falcher.
- 2:28And then and then they shouted out.
- 2:30And then, yeah, you tell me I didn't get any eggs.
- 2:34And so, yeah. And that segways into.
- 2:37Into the show, but it's funny cuz I thought like I thought
- 2:40that would be my whole fertility journey like the whole egg
- 2:42freezing saga and like that was like chapter 1 of like a
- 2:44marathon that was like mile one of a marathon, right And I was
- 2:47like and I thought it was like so interesting documenting the
- 2:50whole journey and like that was just like but so you're you're
- 2:54like a minute into my show there's a.
- 2:56Video so cool. Yep.
- 2:58I've got to see it. I know you have to come I.
- 3:01Have to come next. Couple weeks, yeah.
- 3:03Tell the date 930. At night though, it's.
- 3:05I don't know if that's too. Late for you it's.
- 3:08Late for me, I'm a mom and I'm like woof.
- 3:10No, I know it's sometimes you have to go into the city and
- 3:13then you go. I got to catch a train.
- 3:16It's so late. Yeah.
- 3:17It's so late, yeah, but it's like it's from now until the
- 3:2018th of April. Yes, you've got to see this.
- 3:24It's at Soho Theatre and it is just taking the city by storm.
- 3:30Thank. You yeah, the reviews were.
- 3:33I was so pleasantly surprised. I was like, cuz you never know.
- 3:37Why? Well, it's such a sensitive
- 3:39topic that you never know what people are gonna.
- 3:41Think too sensitive? Yeah, well, you never know.
- 3:44And so it was like very happy that people liked it.
- 3:47Now the whole journey started. When?
- 3:52When would you say it all started?
- 3:54It was like, I would do this. I think it was like 34 and it
- 3:57was when I was doing the Garfunkel and Hot Show and I got
- 4:00my eggs frozen and we did an episode about it where you
- 4:02played the doctor. That was kind.
- 4:03Of the I think you might have even told me about it on the
- 4:07set. Yeah, cuz you were playing the.
- 4:09I'm sure I did. And we were eating jello on the
- 4:12set. I don't know what we were eating
- 4:14something. It was, but it's funny because
- 4:16that was the first like show that really showed the egg
- 4:20freezing process. Yes, and the reason we knew that
- 4:22is because our prop people went to the medical houses to get the
- 4:26the drugs and they were like, we don't have those.
- 4:28And they were like, what do you mean?
- 4:30You have you know, there's been a zillion medical shows.
- 4:32They have every drug. They had to like fashion.
- 4:34They had to the prop people had to make the I took pictures of
- 4:37my IVF drugs. They had to make them.
- 4:39I mean now it's everywhere. But then they had to make their
- 4:41own look alike drugs. And wasn't this filmed at an old
- 4:45hospital? Yes, everything of that show was
- 4:47filmed at the oldest it. Was such an old hospital.
- 4:51That show is so low budget that like we had a driving scene and
- 4:55the day we got there they were like, well, you can't, we can't
- 4:57afford to drive. And then we were like, what?
- 4:59And so we had to like fake the scene where I pick up Kate from
- 5:03this one night stand and then we just sit and do the whole scene
- 5:05in the car and then I go, Oh my gosh, I forgot to drive.
- 5:07That's literally in the show. Like we pretend to start driving
- 5:11and then they cut. My doctor smock was made of
- 5:13toilet paper. I.
- 5:16Would not be surprised it was we did not have any money.
- 5:20But that those are the best shows.
- 5:22Yeah. Yes, the best comedies come out
- 5:25of that. Yeah.
- 5:26So you had already started your process, though.
- 5:29Yeah, I think I've already. Frozen my eggs three times by
- 5:31the time we did that. Three times how many total?
- 5:35Five, yeah, yeah. But it's funny, I thought like,
- 5:39I did it, I got my insurance, I'm all set.
- 5:43And I was like, no, you're not. That's not even.
- 5:45There's just like no information like really about exactly what
- 5:51happened. Or maybe it's just me.
- 5:52I just thought it was going to work out.
- 5:53You were a pioneer. I guess so, yeah.
- 5:56I guess I was, yeah. But well, I mean, I, yeah, the
- 5:59fact that they didn't, I think, I think other people had had egg
- 6:02freezing as a as a topic, but then they didn't like show it.
- 6:05They'd be like, I'm thinking about it.
- 6:07And then they're like, I'm pregnant.
- 6:08It's something you say at a dinner party.
- 6:10I'm freezing. My eyes, Yeah, he's like.
- 6:14But now no one would care. No good.
- 6:16Good work, yeah. And so when did you decide to do
- 6:19the show? To do dead inside.
- 6:22Yes. It was like maybe a year after
- 6:25my son was born and I had all these people calling me asking
- 6:28me for fertility advice and it was like friends of friends of
- 6:32friends. It would be cuz nobody knew
- 6:34anything and nobody knew who to talk to.
- 6:36And so people were calling me about adoption or sperm donation
- 6:39or surrogacy or any of these things.
- 6:42And I was like. You're like an expert.
- 6:44I was kind of an unofficial, well, I would say like I'm not
- 6:46an I was like, this is only my experience.
- 6:48I don't know anything. It's just me.
- 6:50Yes, but this is what happened. And then I'd had all these
- 6:52conversations and I was like, oh, people don't know anything.
- 6:55I need to maybe right about this.
- 6:58Yeah, like they they knew nothing.
- 6:59They go do I need to buy an egg and then stick it?
- 7:03Yeah, I'm. Like no, no, no, you need to.
- 7:06Hey you. Need to take the chicken?
- 7:08You need to take all your money and light it on fire.
- 7:10Yeah, it probably won't work. Because it's expensive, isn't
- 7:13it? Oh.
- 7:13My gosh, everything is. So they spare you no expense?
- 7:17Yeah, no expense. Yeah.
- 7:20And so you sat down. Was this during COVID that you
- 7:24started? Yeah, it would just be phone
- 7:26calls. It would just be.
- 7:28Yeah, it was because my son was born in 20.
- 7:31Well, I guess I don't know, maybe not during, depends on how
- 7:33you define COVID, because it was, he was born in 2022.
- 7:36So it was kind of around then. OK, that all these cops.
- 7:39COVID baby. Yes, that I did have a mask on
- 7:42when he was born. So I guess still COVID.
- 7:45Yeah, but it wasn't like 2020. So you thought with all this
- 7:51knowledge and stuff I should do a show out of this?
- 7:55Yeah, it just seemed so extreme what I was doing and I'm like,
- 7:59feels. Like, and.
- 7:59Nobody's written a show about this, no.
- 8:03There hasn't been, there's been like, it's been like a sort of
- 8:06side plot and things, but there's never been that I've
- 8:08seen. No, at least not a musical
- 8:09comedy. I looked because I didn't want
- 8:12to like accidentally make the same show as someone else.
- 8:14Were you nervous? The Google search, like, I hope
- 8:17nobody's done it. Yeah.
- 8:19I what? Literally.
- 8:20Merman. Yeah, like damn.
- 8:22No. But at the same time it's like
- 8:24almost good if you could see someone else's because then
- 8:25you're like, OK, so I won't do that area.
- 8:27I'll. Do it different.
- 8:28Because you don't want to do the same terrain.
- 8:30And I was like, oh, I have free rain.
- 8:31Yeah, there's nothing. It's your oyster, yes?
- 8:35Yes, now I've taken it all. Now the second person's going to
- 8:38have. Trouble.
- 8:38It's going to be a problem, so I wanted it all.
- 8:41I'll start. When you were writing, did you
- 8:43just go? What are some ideas about it?
- 8:46Or did you read chronological? Because I'm like songs are where
- 8:49I'm comfortable. So I started writing just funny
- 8:51songs just to see if I could do it because it felt kind of like
- 8:54a high degree of difficulty topic to make funny.
- 8:57And so I started with and once I had like 5 songs I was like OK,
- 9:00now I'm going to write them. How do you approach songs?
- 9:03Do you do lyrics first? Yeah, yeah.
- 9:05How do you write songs? I write songs like this, no.
- 9:12Just off the top of. Your head.
- 9:14So sometimes it goes either way if I've got a melody, but mostly
- 9:18words first. Yeah, yeah.
- 9:20I don't even understand how people do melody first.
- 9:22I know it like breaks my brain. I'm like, what?
- 9:26Like it doesn't. So I do lyrics first.
- 9:28What about the Elton John's musical partner?
- 9:33You would mail him? Yeah, he would mail him his
- 9:37poetry and they never really met in a room.
- 9:40It's insane. Yes.
- 9:42God, yeah, that's, yeah, that's nuts.
- 9:45So you wrote the songs first? And then I played them out at
- 9:49some comedy clubs to see, like, are these funny?
- 9:51And like, at first, like, not really.
- 9:54Like I was like, OK, I need to add more jokes.
- 9:55I needed to. Yeah.
- 9:56And then I just, I kind of workshopped them for like a
- 9:58month or two. And then I was like, OK, I think
- 10:00I have something here. And then I signed up for
- 10:02Edinburgh because I never really performed alone.
- 10:06This was like I was always in a duo, really.
- 10:08Yeah, some pre Garfunkel notes. Not really, no.
- 10:13I like maybe this small one off thing here or there, but like
- 10:16not really. It like doesn't count.
- 10:18And so I was like, well I'll do Edinburgh.
- 10:21Then I have to perform alone for like a full month.
- 10:23What venue did you do? Unpleasants.
- 10:26Nice, yeah. It was nice, it was good.
- 10:29It was. Good venue.
- 10:30Yes, it was a very good venue. I was.
- 10:32I had really good time. And but.
- 10:35It was hard. It's hard in that what?
- 10:39Well, I I did 2 shows because I had another musical just
- 10:42happened to go there after I'd already signed up for one.
- 10:44So I had two shows a day and I had my 2 year old there.
- 10:47So it was like it was. AI can't imagine.
- 10:51It was a whole thing and I didn't get to like, have the
- 10:52experience of seeing a lot of other people's shows.
- 10:55Oh no, you want to see everything.
- 10:57Yeah, I didn't go out. I didn't because you just can't
- 10:59like with your. You have to go do a bath and
- 11:01give your. You have to bathe, no?
- 11:03I had to give my son his bath and his story and stuff, so I
- 11:07would go home and do that. So it was kind of a weird.
- 11:11Yeah, it. Wasn't like the traditional
- 11:12experience, but the actual performing was really fun.
- 11:15Well, good for you for doing that.
- 11:17It was cool. Wow.
- 11:18Yeah, I used to have a system where I would see shows far away
- 11:26and then as it got closer to the end I just see shows at my venue
- 11:30cuz it's smart, yeah. You can just.
- 11:33Yeah, and I'd also lose my voice once every festival.
- 11:37You have to, That's part of it. And then that would be a sign
- 11:41that I had to go to sleep, right?
- 11:43Yeah, everyone was sick. Everyone.
- 11:44I didn't realise that they're like, no, everyone gets COVID,
- 11:46everyone's sick. And I was like, I'm going to try
- 11:49to stay out. And then I was immediately.
- 11:50Like, were there Covids? I got COVID for the first time
- 11:53in Edinboro. It was like the day I got there.
- 11:56I think I got it at sound check. It was like.
- 11:58Yeah, and what did you do? I went to bed for like a week or
- 12:02like whatever. I went early to do tech and so I
- 12:05missed my first two shows and then I was good after that.
- 12:09That's very smart to go early, get things going, yeah.
- 12:14Because I didn't know what to expect.
- 12:16I didn't know that everything was so running.
- 12:18It was just that everyone was kind of just like, let's go.
- 12:21I felt unprepared and I was like, everyone feels that.
- 12:24I didn't realise that. Yeah, yeah.
- 12:25I thought other people knew what they were doing and I was like.
- 12:28No, a lot of people don't know what the Hell's going on.
- 12:32Yes, Yeah, I didn't, I didn't realise that.
- 12:35Yeah. You done Edinburgh a lot.
- 12:36Well now they do. I've done it about 9 times over
- 12:39the years. But now they have these work in
- 12:43progress things. That's good.
- 12:45Some people do the festival with just doing a work in progress.
- 12:49I guess I did too, Yeah. I'd only performed it twice
- 12:53before I went and I'd done it just off.
- 12:54I had like a notebook. I was reading it out of a
- 12:57notebook that was, so I guess it was.
- 12:59I still didn't. Know my line?
- 13:00That's very LA. Yeah, yeah.
- 13:02My first few performances in Edinburgh, I didn't know my
- 13:05lines yet. And so by the end of it, though,
- 13:08how did you feel? Really good yeah I was like cuz
- 13:11every day we'd add. My director wanted to add huge
- 13:14changes every day, but my brain was so full that I was like 1
- 13:17change a day. That's all I can because I have
- 13:19to remember a full hour of dialogue.
- 13:22And so, yeah, so we would do one change a day and then every day
- 13:25it got like a little better. And then So what happened after
- 13:27that? You went back to LA?
- 13:29I went back to LA and I'm like, well, what happens?
- 13:31And everyone's like, what do you mean?
- 13:33And I'm like, what do we what do we do with this?
- 13:35Come on. Yeah.
- 13:36Everyone's like, I don't know what you're talking about.
- 13:38I'm like. OK, I want a Tony.
- 13:40Yes. Yeah.
- 13:41No, exactly. I was like, I wanna do, or at
- 13:43least I wanna perform it again, like what do I do?
- 13:45Yeah. And then eventually I I got Ali
- 13:50Wong and Bill Hader came aboard as exec producers and that
- 13:53really helped it get attention. Did you know them before?
- 13:57I did well, I knew Allie for a long time.
- 13:58Bill, I'd only met a couple times, but Bill is really close
- 14:02friends with my husband. And so Bill's assistant saw the
- 14:06show in Edinburgh and Bill said, oh, what was your favourite show
- 14:10in Edinburgh? And she's like, oh, this show
- 14:12dead inside. And so he, like I said, Freddy
- 14:14was like this. She said it was the best show
- 14:15she saw in Edinburgh. And Fred's like she's doing it
- 14:18Friday. And so they came to see it at a.
- 14:19Small place in LA because I. Would just perform.
- 14:22It. No, the Elysian.
- 14:24Yeah, the Mbar. No, the Elysian.
- 14:25So I just did it like kind of once a month in LA was trying to
- 14:28keep it alive. And then once they came on
- 14:31board, I got a theatre agent and it started touring and that kind
- 14:35of brought it to life. It's so hard when you go back to
- 14:40LA because it's so it's not conducive to doing that sort of
- 14:45thing. And Edinburgh's so
- 14:46all-encompassing that you think like, if you feel like so ready
- 14:50to do. And people are like, oh, you
- 14:51left and you're like, yeah, no, I made this whole thing and.
- 14:54Because I talked to a lot of comics on this show and they go,
- 14:57they're never more prepared than when the end of Edinburgh.
- 15:01They're so up for it. But if they go away from it for
- 15:05a while, it just goes. It just dies, yeah.
- 15:09It's dead inside. It's dead inside.
- 15:11I know I got depressed. I was like, I really wanted to
- 15:13keep going and I was like, I don't know what.
- 15:15To do I know, I know. It's almost like, you know,
- 15:19you're landing from the moon mission and you go into one of
- 15:23those trailers. And you're just like, no, it's
- 15:26like, yeah, you're taking off roller skates and now you're
- 15:28just walking. Like I'm like so.
- 15:29Slow. I hate it.
- 15:30Yeah, I. Don't know what's going on.
- 15:32Did you keep touring your shows after Edinburgh?
- 15:34I tried some of them. I did some of them.
- 15:37I I would come back here and then cry.
- 15:44Yeah. Same, I fully cried on.
- 15:48Some I was it. It depends on the show.
- 15:51I would go. There would be Australia,
- 15:54sometimes we would go in New Zealand.
- 15:56Would you do Melbourne? Or would you do?
- 15:58Yeah, yeah. And Adelaide and it it all
- 16:02depended on how much popularity there, right?
- 16:06Right, right. But sometimes you could just do
- 16:10it every every time if you wanted to.
- 16:15But. Yeah, some people afterwards are
- 16:17like, well, now you just make another show.
- 16:18I'm like, no, this is. The Yeah, yeah, this is the one.
- 16:21This. Is the I'm telling you this is
- 16:23not like this is the one. Guys, I cannot believe this, but
- 16:27it's been a year since we've had our first podcast with Dan
- 16:32Clark. Can you believe it?
- 16:35I can't believe it. And you know what we've decided
- 16:38to do? We're going to do a live show
- 16:41the 11th of April. That's a Saturday at the Moth
- 16:46Club. So go on the Moth Club website
- 16:50and get you tickies because it's going to sell out fast.
- 16:54Mother F Watts. OK, All right, See you there
- 17:00live. The The problem nowadays, I
- 17:04think is we have so much control.
- 17:07I always have a problem because I can't decide what's my next
- 17:12career step. I.
- 17:14Know it's such a weird, it's like a champagne problem, but
- 17:16it's such a real problem. I don't know any creative person
- 17:19who's like totally sure about what they should be working on
- 17:21every day. Every day when I wake up, I'm
- 17:23like, what is the best? Unless you have like an acting
- 17:26job to go to, then you're like OK that one otherwise.
- 17:29Because in the old days, it was all set for you.
- 17:32I do my puppet show. I get on Carol Burnett that I
- 17:37get on Jackpot, you get. A handshake?
- 17:40Yeah, you get a handshake from Johnny Carson and then you get
- 17:42your own sitcom and that's. It I get a bungalow in Florida.
- 17:46Exactly. Yeah, instead it's.
- 17:48But now it's like, oh, do I go online?
- 17:51Do I sell myself on YouTube? Do I get an agent?
- 17:54Another agent? I just did it all.
- 17:56I sell myself on YouTube and yeah, I started on YouTube in
- 18:002007. You.
- 18:01Did. Yeah.
- 18:02It started in 2006, yeah. Yeah.
- 18:06What? Yeah, you really are a pioneer.
- 18:10I guess well the problem with being a pioneer is you do stuff
- 18:12before people figure out how to get paid for it.
- 18:15So like I was like a YouTube star in like 2007 or 8 and it
- 18:18was like 2012 when they made money and I was.
- 18:20Like wait you can put ads on it? Like yes.
- 18:22We missed it. No, I mean we still could ads on
- 18:26it. Yes, we put ads on it like
- 18:28later, but you can't catch up from that initial.
- 18:33I know I'm just starting. Really.
- 18:36I mean, this podcast is only a year old and I'm like, I've got.
- 18:40So I didn't even do the COVID, you know, Yeah.
- 18:44It was hard. There was a lot of there was too
- 18:46many podcasts and. COVID life's hard there.
- 18:48Was there was too many podcasts and COVID though?
- 18:50It was too like. Yeah, because everybody would do
- 18:55it consistently. Now I read this weird statistic
- 18:59like there's only 1% that go beyond 30 weekly episodes.
- 19:05Really of a podcast. OK.
- 19:06That makes sense. That actually makes me kind of
- 19:08feel better. Good.
- 19:09No, it does, right? Cuz it's hard.
- 19:12Yeah, it seems easy and it's really hard to do.
- 19:15I feel that way about comedy music cuz people feel like it's
- 19:18so easy. And I'm like, OK, write 50
- 19:21songs. Like you can write 1 short.
- 19:23Anyone could write. Maybe, probably people could
- 19:25rate 10, but I'm like rate 50. Yeah.
- 19:27And then talk to. Me, it separates people.
- 19:30It really does the amount of work you put into that.
- 19:33Yeah, yeah, probably the same for a.
- 19:35Podcast, yeah. This room is cool.
- 19:38It is. I like the soundproofing.
- 19:40Yeah, it's very good soundproofing.
- 19:43How did you find it? I have people that worked.
- 19:48I like the fact that it's near Soho Theatre.
- 19:51So when did you do you did Washington, DC?
- 19:55Yes, last summer. So how did that happen?
- 19:58It was once Ali and Bill signed on, I had this theatre agent who
- 20:02is amazing and he just sent it around to all these places and
- 20:05then they wanted to do it. So I did it for like 6 weeks.
- 20:08What theatre in the? Woolly mammoth.
- 20:10Oh, nice, yeah. It was great.
- 20:11It was like it was a real, it's, it was, it was the direct
- 20:15opposite of Edinburgh where like theatre is like, you know, it's
- 20:19very slow and methodical and serious.
- 20:21And yeah, it was like such a change that it was like, it was
- 20:24interesting. I'm like, I think my personality
- 20:26is like in the middle of those. Two, right?
- 20:28I think not as chaotic. Yes, not as chaotic as
- 20:30Edinburgh, but not as like thought out as as DC.
- 20:34I'm like somewhere in the middle.
- 20:35Yeah, DC chaotic. The professional.
- 20:38I used to live there. You did.
- 20:39Professional crowd. Yes, yes, like lots of people
- 20:44working on it, which was nice. I'm like, I have a lighting
- 20:47design. OK, great.
- 20:49I have a coffee person, yeah. Didn't have that, but I had
- 20:54pretty much everything else. I had a stage manager.
- 20:56I was like, look. At me.
- 20:58Yeah, yeah, that was kind of fun.
- 21:00And so that ended last year. Yes.
- 21:03And then I was like dying to get, it's like the same thing as
- 21:06Edinburgh that I'm dying to get it to another place.
- 21:08And now here I. Am here you are.
- 21:10What's gonna happen after this? I don't know.
- 21:12I think there's, I think there I might be going to New York.
- 21:15We're still figuring it out. But it's in Hawaii.
- 21:17Then Hawaii, yes. Then Alaska, no.
- 21:20I, I don't know where. After that, it's hard.
- 21:22To go on Broadway, Oh my gosh. That'd be amazing, but it's
- 21:26like, it's the I've got like a caravan, you know, cuz I've got
- 21:29my son and Andy. I've got like a crew.
- 21:32You've got a team. Yeah, I've been slowly getting
- 21:35this team together. Yeah, I how many people?
- 21:40Like, I think it's seven people came here total to help me with
- 21:44the Soho show. That's great, though, because
- 21:47it's like you've got all the support when things are going
- 21:51awry, right? Yeah, like last night.
- 21:55When my when we had to move in the middle of the night.
- 21:58What happened? There was, well there was we got
- 22:01this Airbnb that was the beds had bugs in them like in the
- 22:05mattresses, but. Didn't you read the fine print?
- 22:07I didn't. I didn't our.
- 22:08Beds had the finest bugs in London.
- 22:11It was so gross. It was really, really gross.
- 22:14We were just like, I'm not gonna fall asleep.
- 22:16Did you see the bugs faces? I don't know.
- 22:19I did videotape them and we texted it to the owner and they
- 22:23were like, we'll come over with a vacuum.
- 22:24And I was like. Yeah, these.
- 22:26That's Fred. That's George.
- 22:28I'm. Like, oh, God, yeah, no, it's so
- 22:30gross. So we just moved all our stuff
- 22:33last night, and now we're gonna find a new place to live.
- 22:36Yeah. I don't have much space.
- 22:39No, that's OK. You don't want to house 5.
- 22:41People, the garage has some room.
- 22:43I want to live with my 4 year old.
- 22:44Yeah, it's really quiet. It's how is the kid?
- 22:47He's the best. He's such a good traveller.
- 22:49It's it's crazy. Like he was totally fine to.
- 22:52Like, he's like in his pyjamas and we're like walking to this
- 22:54hotel. Here's the thing.
- 22:56I think this is good because kids are adaptable if they get
- 23:00used to it early. He's so used to it.
- 23:03Like the peanut allergies? Yes, they have it early.
- 23:07I think they're fine. Well, there's those allergy.
- 23:10Have you seen these little allergy sticks They have now.
- 23:12They're like little powders. Tell me more You there's like,
- 23:15it's like peanut butter almond, like oysters, like all the stuff
- 23:18and they they just. Oysters, yeah.
- 23:19You just put a little bit of like shellfish, you put a.
- 23:21Little bit stings. Yeah, but you put powder in
- 23:24their baby food, these like little tiny bits and they and
- 23:26it's like makes it less likely for them to develop allergies.
- 23:29That's a great idea. So he like got when he was
- 23:32little, we just had all these powders.
- 23:33That is an idea for this age. It is.
- 23:36It's amazing. What else do they have?
- 23:39What are people allergic to? A lot.
- 23:42What else was in there? No, I.
- 23:44Think soy was in there I my son's only allergies.
- 23:49Yes, exactly. He had a ginger allergy, but now
- 23:51that's gone too, which is just so strange.
- 23:53He was, he used to be allergic to ginger and apples and
- 23:57walnuts. Oh, nuts.
- 23:58Nuts were in there too, but now they're gone.
- 24:00I had allergies when I was little.
- 24:02You did, you know you had those tests where they put drops on
- 24:05cats? It was the word.
- 24:07I'm still allergic. You are.
- 24:09Yeah, my husband's allergic to all animals and so my son can't
- 24:13have a pet. He's so.
- 24:15Bummed like that. I still we still have a cat.
- 24:18You do, even though you're allergic.
- 24:20I have an inhaler I used to use it.
- 24:22That's how much you like cats. No, I just like my family.
- 24:27OK? OK.
- 24:27Oh my gosh. No.
- 24:29But it's not a like some cats are more allergic than others,
- 24:33so this one isn't that bad, right?
- 24:35Yeah, you're still nice to do that.
- 24:38I don't know if we'll get another one after this one dies.
- 24:42Do you guys have the drops here, the allergy drops?
- 24:45No, you get, you get blood tests, blood work done and they
- 24:49do bespoke allergy drops that you put like under your tongue.
- 24:53I want to get there. For like 2 years and then it's
- 24:55supposed to get rid of your allergies.
- 24:56Also, you know what they have is cat food that will get rid of
- 25:00the dander. Really.
- 25:02Yeah. This is amazing.
- 25:04But here's the problem. The cat does not like it.
- 25:08In no sense. You've literally got to shove it
- 25:10down his throat, Yeah. That's not a fun.
- 25:13Oh my gosh. That's one thing I learned as a
- 25:16parent where you can't, you cannot force someone to eat.
- 25:19You just can't. I would like, I remember before
- 25:21I was a parent, I was like, well, I'm gonna have my kid eat.
- 25:23It was like, no, if they it is, you can't put some, you can't.
- 25:27No, if they don't, you can threaten them with no iPad or
- 25:32whatever but. You do the aeroplane.
- 25:35Do the He's 4, so he's not amused by that anymore.
- 25:39OK. Yeah, the train, no.
- 25:42I should try that. I should he likes horses.
- 25:44I should try a horse. The.
- 25:45Horse, Yeah. I should try that.
- 25:47But you want them to, but they can't or they don't.
- 25:52What do you do right? Yeah, you can't actually.
- 25:55Yeah, they'll like choke. I like, didn't think that
- 25:57through. I was like, oh, you've actually.
- 25:59Did you do the baby LED weaning where you put the food on the
- 26:04plate and then they just eat it I.
- 26:07Know I don't what does. That mean, I think that was more
- 26:10how is that different from you introducing them to solid foods?
- 26:13Oh, OK. It's just sort of put them out
- 26:16there so that they. And you let them?
- 26:18Yeah. I don't think we did that.
- 26:19No. Oh.
- 26:20That's all. Right.
- 26:20Yeah. I was like, I'm trying to think
- 26:22of how that's different than just eating.
- 26:26You put it on a plate and then you like that sounds.
- 26:28Like, I don't know the details, Ricky.
- 26:30That sounds like how like eating like.
- 26:32Here's the. Food, well, it's baby LED
- 26:35though. OK, You don't leave the food.
- 26:38So if they don't select it, yes you don't.
- 26:40You let them select like a buffet, right?
- 26:43They have to be on a Lazy Susan, right?
- 26:46They're. Like that's what my son does now
- 26:49he's just like. So this baby has been on lots of
- 26:53sets, yeah. He's been in Edinburgh and in
- 26:56New York and he was in DC with me.
- 26:58He's here. He slept the whole plane ride.
- 27:02He just is such a good traveller.
- 27:04It's crazy cuz but I have a lot of travel rules.
- 27:07I have like hacks that I got from other travel moms.
- 27:10You did. What's the hack for the baby?
- 27:12The biggest hack is, is, well, basically when he's on the
- 27:15plane, it's like unlimited iPad, unlimited iPad on planes.
- 27:19So he's like looking forward to it, but no iPad in the airport.
- 27:22You have to save everything. No treats in.
- 27:24The. Airport, nothing in the airport.
- 27:25So he's like waiting to sit and then he's like, he gets like he
- 27:29gets a plane. We pick out an aeroplane snack
- 27:31at the thing and then he gets one snack from home, 1 aeroplane
- 27:34snack. And then I get him like that
- 27:36cheese grape plate if they have it, yes.
- 27:39And so he thinks of it like a vacation.
- 27:40Denial of pleasure? Yes, On the plane.
- 27:43Pleasure. Pleasure.
- 27:44Exactly. That's exactly it.
- 27:46It's like you can't watch any Ryan Reynolds movies till you
- 27:49get on the plane. Just Friends is on the plane.
- 27:52That's the only right movie I. Could yes.
- 27:54What was that one where Sandra Bullock?
- 27:58The proposal I like. That one, yeah, that one's good.
- 28:02And then they wind up together. It is.
- 28:05I actually like that movie for real.
- 28:06It's not bad, I like it. Yeah.
- 28:08It made me laugh. I was just saying to the guests
- 28:11before this, which is not it's OK that I had another guest.
- 28:19Well, you told me it was just going to be me.
- 28:21I thought this was our show. But no, it is for the most part
- 28:26that I will watch anything on a plane.
- 28:28Me too that I don't normally watch.
- 28:30Anything I will watch, I watched one of those like Maze Hunter or
- 28:34like not Hunger Games, but there's one like Hunger Games
- 28:36that's not hunger. Games Maze hunter is that.
- 28:38Real. Where's the next maze?
- 28:40It's. Something like that.
- 28:41It might be called. It's something.
- 28:43Do you know what I'm talking about?
- 28:45Yeah, there's some. I can do one better.
- 28:48What it's conclave? What's Conclave?
- 28:51How they select the Pope. Yeah, that's.
- 28:54It was actually not bad. I'm sure it's not.
- 28:56But I would have never sat down at home, no.
- 29:00With a bag of bugles and God, I want to watch Conclave.
- 29:05Right? It's only when you're on this
- 29:06tube. Yeah, with wings, right?
- 29:09Yeah, it does. And it the movies are kind of
- 29:11better up there. I feel like I have more emotions
- 29:13when I'm in the sky. I know I can cry easy.
- 29:16I can, yeah. Now, has this ever happened to
- 29:18you? What?
- 29:19You're on the plane because you've been in enough films
- 29:23right where you walk down the aisle and you see you're on.
- 29:27Somebody's watching you on the plane.
- 29:29That's only happened to me once and it was, it was like a long
- 29:33time ago and it was I was on everyone's TV because it was
- 29:37Remember when they used to just play all the same things on the
- 29:39TV's? They're like.
- 29:39Today, the years ago. Yeah, it was.
- 29:42I was on Big Bang Theory and my episode was on The Thing and I
- 29:44was like, but I had red hair and so like nobody really recognised
- 29:47me. And then the the flight
- 29:49attendant recognised me and she announced it in The Thing and I
- 29:52was like, hey you. Know now what was the quote you
- 29:56said because this is such a big quote that they before a certain
- 30:01era they never allowed two women to have the same.
- 30:05Totally. It's hair colour.
- 30:07It is totally true. I was and I was always like, I'm
- 30:10sort of like in between types. Like I was never getting like
- 30:12the lead. I was, I wasn't, I wasn't quite
- 30:14a character actor, not quite the lead.
- 30:16So I was always the one that had to change their hair colour.
- 30:18Like I like if there was, if there was a blonde, I had to
- 30:20cheat, if I just would always have to dye my hair.
- 30:22And then like my I still have hair extensions.
- 30:24My hair just kind of all fell out.
- 30:26Ricky has a closet. Her contract?
- 30:28No hair dyeing. But it's funny because I dyed it
- 30:31for Big Bang Theory in like season 3 and then they brought
- 30:34me back like 10 years later for whatever, you know, right, For
- 30:37season 10 or 12. Or whatever it's better with you
- 30:39in a thank. You.
- 30:40Yeah. And they didn't make me dye it.
- 30:42I just got to be blonde again. And I was like OK, so the rule
- 30:45had somehow changed. The red suddenly disappeared.
- 30:49Yeah. But you see, like friends, like
- 30:50all those three guys have the exact same hair colour.
- 30:52It's fine. And the women have to all be
- 30:54different. Never even thought of that.
- 30:56Any show ever and all the women they have to, it's weird.
- 31:00They have those sisters and they have to have different hair
- 31:02colours. They just, they think that the
- 31:04executives, I think, thought that people would mix us up.
- 31:08I'm like Kaylee quote. I don't look that much alike.
- 31:10Right. I guess maybe the grand scheme
- 31:12of people we might, but not enough where people be like
- 31:15which one is that? Did you guys hang out?
- 31:18Yeah, I love that whole cast. They're really, really great.
- 31:21They. Seem like, I mean, of course,
- 31:24being on for so long, they've gotta hang out.
- 31:27Yeah, there's a reason why that. I mean, other than the show
- 31:30being really good. It was like everyone was just
- 31:32like kind of the exact same 10 years later where I was like,
- 31:35cuz you come back after they're all superstars and you wonder
- 31:38and it was like, Oh no, they're all still friends.
- 31:41They're all, you know, they just have like, they just have like
- 31:43better cars. Yes, but they were all still
- 31:45super professional. More cars.
- 31:47Yes, more cars. Yeah, and when did was the kid
- 31:50on the Wednesday set? No, because I had him two weeks
- 31:54after Wednesday wrapped or for me so they were everyone else
- 31:57was still going but I wrapped and then cuz when I booked the
- 31:59show I was like I had I was just about to like put implant the
- 32:06baby into my surrogate and I was like so I have to be out by.
- 32:10Wait, you implanted the baby? Or the doctor.
- 32:12Oh, OK. I thought this is.
- 32:14Interesting. Yeah, we're actually, I think it
- 32:16might have been, it might have been after the implant, but we
- 32:18were waiting to see if it was working.
- 32:20It was like right in that thing. And I was like, there's a chance
- 32:22I'm going to be having a child in March and they're like,
- 32:24you're pregnant. And I was like, no, so that
- 32:26won't affect the show, but I need to be out by the state.
- 32:28And they were like, great. And so.
- 32:31Yeah. What about the next Wednesday
- 32:34Are you? No, cuz my character dies.
- 32:37Yeah, it's such a. Bummer.
- 32:39It's no. It's like it took me like 20
- 32:41years to be on a hit and then I my character dies.
- 32:43I'm like man, my. Kids love the show, isn't?
- 32:46It great, yeah, but my character was always gonna die.
- 32:49I can't take it personally. Like my character was when I
- 32:51signed my contract, I was like, it's just a one season and
- 32:53they're like, yeah, you die. And I was like, OK, I.
- 32:56Know it's good and bad. I know because now they do that.
- 33:00They kill people off. Yeah.
- 33:03And something exciting else happened on Wednesday.
- 33:07Oh, Fred. Yes, I didn't even know about
- 33:11this we. Didn't really tell anyone it was
- 33:12you. Didn't tell me.
- 33:13It was, I'm so sorry. I should have, I should have
- 33:16told you first. I'm sorry.
- 33:17But no, it wasn't even it wasn't really even like a secret.
- 33:20It just was like such a big time in my life that I didn't even
- 33:23like have time to see anyone. So I didn't just, I just, I was
- 33:27in Romania for seven months, so like.
- 33:30For Wednesday, so. Like nobody knew that, Yeah.
- 33:34And caressed. And I just wanted people to know
- 33:37I knew that. Oh yeah, you did.
- 33:38Yeah. It's some people think it's
- 33:41Budapest, but it's that's a. Different.
- 33:42No, that's not great. That's a different country, but
- 33:45yeah. And then we fell in love, like
- 33:46right before my son was born. It was wild.
- 33:50How did it happen? I basically told him that I was
- 33:56into him, like, yeah. So you had had this happened
- 34:01before Wednesday or? No, it was like, so we worked
- 34:06together right before I left for Wednesday and we were like, we
- 34:09were in this music video together and I and then like
- 34:14Kate and I worked with him and Kate was like, you know, he's
- 34:15single. And I was like, because he's
- 34:17just never been single. And I was like, oh, interesting.
- 34:20I was like, well, I'm going to Romania, who cares?
- 34:22Like I'm leaving anyway. So I just left and then he
- 34:25texted me. He's like I got cast in the
- 34:26show. That's uncle faster.
- 34:28Yeah. And he's like, I'm coming to
- 34:29Romania and I was like, interesting.
- 34:32And then? OK.
- 34:33Yeah. And then he.
- 34:34Like lot thickens. Yeah, he did not flirt with me
- 34:36at all. We all hung out in like groups.
- 34:39But we I saw him like almost every day, like we had dinner,
- 34:41like every single. Day, but that's the best way.
- 34:43Yeah, keep it cool. Yes, and like there was a curfew
- 34:46because of COVID. Like there was no like late
- 34:48night, there was no like, way to organically, yeah, see if he was
- 34:53into me. So I just texted him that I
- 34:56thought he should be my boyfriend.
- 34:58And he was like, he was like, what?
- 34:59And I was like, I know, Well, I do.
- 35:02And then? Sometimes you have to accelerate
- 35:04the process. I mean, we've been friends for
- 35:06so long. Yeah.
- 35:08I, I wasn't like, you know, I just kind of wanted to know like
- 35:13if that if. He was interested.
- 35:15We're here. Yeah.
- 35:16Yeah. I was like.
- 35:17What do you think? And he was like basically said
- 35:20yes. So was it that he needed that
- 35:23jolt? Well, it it's just it's hard to
- 35:27hit on someone on when you're working.
- 35:29So I actually waited until his last day.
- 35:32Because people have these innate rules about work and.
- 35:36It felt unprofessional and so I waited till he finished his last
- 35:39shoot day and then I told him that I asked him that night
- 35:42because I didn't want to make him like uncomfortable because
- 35:44we were, because he was still having to see me every night for
- 35:46dinner and like I didn't want it.
- 35:47I didn't want it to be weird. Boy, what a wrap that was.
- 35:50So I. Just waited and then because I I
- 35:52did feel like unprofessional. So it was like.
- 35:54And how soon after that did you get married?
- 35:57Like 3 1/2 months later. But it did all built up to that
- 36:02point. It was a long time coming, I
- 36:04think, yeah. Well, that's so great.
- 36:06Yeah, it was. It was.
- 36:07Yeah. Now we've been married four
- 36:09years. So shocking.
- 36:11Yeah. I didn't think we'd get married.
- 36:13I thought I was going to be a single mom with a boyfriend,
- 36:15which kind of sounded cool to me.
- 36:16Yeah. I was like, oh, look at me, you
- 36:18know? Yeah, and now you're just like
- 36:19everybody. Yeah, but yeah, it was shocking.
- 36:25And are there a lot of surprises about being married that you're
- 36:28surprised about yourself? I'm surprised that I like it.
- 36:31I never. Really like Tupperware.
- 36:34I just never thought I'd be married.
- 36:36I never wanted to. And I was very surprised that I
- 36:38wanted to. I was stunned that I wanted to.
- 36:41Oh, so you never had these married feelings before?
- 36:44It was an issue in my relationships because I'd be
- 36:46like just so you, I would kind of say upfront like or when we,
- 36:49when it felt like we were together, I'd be like, I never
- 36:51want that. So if that's a problem just
- 36:53that's not going to be for me. It seems like because of all
- 36:57this chaos, it just sort of happens.
- 37:00Yeah, yeah. It's I don't know what are your
- 37:02thoughts on marriage in general. I think it's not right for
- 37:06everyone. So it has to be at a right place
- 37:11and time as well. Yeah, yeah, yeah, I agree.
- 37:14Yeah. Because it was right for me,
- 37:16yeah. How did you know?
- 37:17Like what was the impetus? It was just like, it was just a
- 37:21natural flowing, like normally when I'm going out with someone,
- 37:25it was sort of like maybe when is this possibly going to end,
- 37:29right? Whereas this was like, what's
- 37:31the next step? And then it was just a natural
- 37:34thing. Yeah, same.
- 37:36Yeah, it was. It was weird and also lucky how
- 37:39many things like lined up for us.
- 37:41Like, as far as like, our natural ways of doing things
- 37:44were very similar. We were like, weird.
- 37:47That's important, yeah. Yeah.
- 37:50And also, yeah. And also our, our strengths are
- 37:52different, which was kind of nice.
- 37:54Like our parenting strengths are different.
- 37:56Oh really? What's your parenting strength?
- 37:58I think like the like sort of like the warmth, like I'm like
- 38:03Mama, I'm like, you know, like if he like gets hurt, it's like,
- 38:07you know, I'm like, you know, I like, you know, I just like sing
- 38:10to him, you know, I'm like the warm.
- 38:13Yes, And Fred's like the class clown one.
- 38:15He's like the entertainment. Oh, I thought you were gonna say
- 38:18he's the disciplinarian. No, that's more me.
- 38:21Oh, really? Yeah, that's more me.
- 38:22Yeah. Loving but strict.
- 38:25Yes, yeah, like very like Mama bear, like I got you, but like,
- 38:29you know. Watch your stuff.
- 38:31Yes, yes, that's me. And he's more like cool Dad.
- 38:36Like making him cool. Yeah.
- 38:38I'm going to ask Dad before I ask Mom.
- 38:40Right. Well, he luckily he knows that
- 38:42doesn't work. Yeah, he's fooled Fred a couple
- 38:44times, but mostly no. Right.
- 38:47Mostly Fred. Yeah, he's fooled him a couple
- 38:51times where he. Wait, and your kids name is
- 38:54Keaton? Keaton.
- 38:55Yeah. What a great name.
- 38:56Thank you. Oh my gosh.
- 38:59So listen Ricky, I have a set format in the show.
- 39:04Great. And I ask you 5 questions, OK?
- 39:07One has a blank in it. OK?
- 39:09It's called fill in the blank. OK, Are you ready?
- 39:12Yes, I'm ready. OK, it doesn't have to be funny.
- 39:15OK, OK, blank is the biggest mistake I've made this week.
- 39:22Moving into the Airbnb that I chose, that was the beds were
- 39:25filled with amps. That's that's so easy.
- 39:27You don't have to name what it was a hotel.
- 39:31Well, it's not a hotel, it was an Airbnb.
- 39:33OK, Yeah, yeah. Don't name it.
- 39:35OK, don't give the address. I would like to yell blank at
- 39:42the most inappropriate time during a show.
- 39:46Boring. Your show or a show?
- 39:50A show? Don't you want to?
- 39:51Don't. You want to yell that when it's
- 39:52boring. You want to be like I'm bored.
- 39:54Or speed it up. Yes, yeah, yeah.
- 39:58Louder. You're not on a film set.
- 40:03You should yell that at my show. No, no, I know during my part.
- 40:08Yes, this guy's SO. This guy's awful.
- 40:13I'm sorry, I've tried but I just can't understand blank Oh.
- 40:20God, so many things TikTok. You don't understand tik.
- 40:27T.O.K no, I just don't know how to do it really.
- 40:29I just I put up my same things from like that go on YouTube and
- 40:32like nobody likes them. And I'm like, why it's?
- 40:34Just not the right for it. TikTok is more like talking to,
- 40:38you know, I don't know. I heard TikTok is a minute now
- 40:42you need to have is that true? I don't know, I just, it's just
- 40:46I, I like to watch it, yeah, but I just don't have like the, the
- 40:49TikTok gene as far as like what to do on there.
- 40:52Here's how bad I am. I got on and I somehow got
- 40:56denied and it's like application denied.
- 40:59For get to get verified. Me too like 5 times.
- 41:03No, but I'm not even on it. I can't even post anything.
- 41:07Account. Yeah, what?
- 41:09I can't even get an account. What?
- 41:11Because I wanted to get a specific name and they go, you
- 41:15need to apply before the board of TikTok or something like
- 41:19that. I don't know what's going on
- 41:21TikTok. You can't get your own name.
- 41:24Well, I have rich underline underscore faulture.
- 41:28I can't get it because I did something wrong the first time
- 41:32and then they denied me or so I don't know, a lawyer.
- 41:37Very sad. Dad as in loser.
- 41:43If my house or apartment were burning I could only take one
- 41:47thing besides family members. It would be blank.
- 41:52Mine's so boring my computer. That's got everything in it.
- 41:56It's got. Everything because I don't have
- 41:58a lot of stuff, but I like photos and videos.
- 42:01That's all my memories. Yeah, it would just be my.
- 42:04Computer. Isn't it in the cloud?
- 42:06No, I can't use the cloud. What?
- 42:09No, I get hacked too much. My cloud's been hacked several
- 42:11times, so I just don't use it. Like if someone stole my
- 42:14computer. I'm like I have it backed up to
- 42:16actual physical hard drives but I don't have anything in the
- 42:20cloud. Really.
- 42:22I didn't know that. Yeah, you can hack a cloud.
- 42:24Yeah, yeah, I, I've been to Target several times.
- 42:28I think any female comedian that you have on here, if you ask
- 42:31them if their cloud's been hacked, they'll say yes.
- 42:34And then I went to the Apple Store and I'm like, hey, can I?
- 42:36I wanted. And they wouldn't let me back in
- 42:38because they're like, no, we, we're secure here.
- 42:40We don't do that. And I was like, but it's mine.
- 42:42And they're like, because someone went in and they changed
- 42:44my password and had all my stuff and I was like, no, you have to
- 42:47let. And they're like, Nope.
- 42:49So all of that's just. Oh my God, yeah.
- 42:53So no cloud for me. OK, no cloud and you're gonna
- 42:55take that laptop? Yeah.
- 42:57During that fire. There won't be a fire though.
- 43:00No, no blank. This is the last one.
- 43:03Blank is what I'd really like to tell my blank.
- 43:07Oh my God. It's A2 blank.
- 43:13Question. I can't think of it.
- 43:19OK, wait. Blank is what I really like to
- 43:21tell my blank. I don't know why I'm I'm I'm
- 43:27like blanket. That's OK.
- 43:28I mean, I'm just thinking of like sweet things.
- 43:30I'm like I love you, is what I really want to tell my son.
- 43:32But I already say that all the time.
- 43:34What's wrong with that? Because I already say that all
- 43:35the time I'm trying to think of I, I kind of always say the
- 43:38thing I don't have a lot of. I'm not good at holding back.
- 43:42OK. Clearly I'm like, I want you to
- 43:44be my boyfriend. I like I've just, I just say the
- 43:46thing. So I don't even I'm like the
- 43:48worst candidate for this. What do you say for it?
- 43:50What's yours? Oh my God, Huzzah is what I'd
- 43:56like to tell my Renaissance festival.
- 43:59There you go. Person.
- 44:01No, I I know I've got 1. I'm tired is what I really want
- 44:05to tell people when I don't write them back.
- 44:07Yes. Like it's not personal.
- 44:08I'm just like, I'm like I'm tired.
- 44:10I'm like a mom. I'm tired.
- 44:12But then they might think, oh, you're just saying that yes,
- 44:15yeah, yeah. But you really are tired, so
- 44:19Ricky's not going to respond to you.
- 44:21I don't everybody. I just literally forget.
- 44:24I just like I. I forget, I just.
- 44:27People understand. Most people, yeah, some people
- 44:30get their feelings hurt or they're or they won't write a
- 44:33second thing and they'll be like, no, I asked you like 6
- 44:35months ago. I'm like, I, I didn't see it.
- 44:38I don't. I didn't see it.
- 44:40I know. Like sometimes you've you've got
- 44:43a message that's six months old and you go shit.
- 44:47It's like I used to be so on top of that, maybe because I used to
- 44:49be very on top of stuff and ever since becoming a mom, I just
- 44:52forget everything. You kind of got to let things go
- 44:55and prioritise, yeah, Which is the baby you.
- 44:58Only have like so much energy and then the rest I'm just
- 45:01blank. Yeah, Oh my God.
- 45:03I'm just tired. I mean.
- 45:04I went to the wrong address today.
- 45:06You did, yeah. That is so not like me.
- 45:09If you you went to Big Ben, is that when I said don't go to Big
- 45:12Ben? I went to the Tower of London.
- 45:14I think that's where you recorded your podcast, but yet
- 45:18no, just it was never like that before.
- 45:22So now it's plug time. You can plug anything.
- 45:25Of course you want to plug your show.
- 45:27Let's I. Want to plug my TikTok?
- 45:29Just kidding my amazing tik. T.O.K it hasn't been denied,
- 45:33yes. It is.
- 45:34It does exist, yeah. I want to plug the Soho Theatre
- 45:37dead inside at the Soho Theatre. On April 18th, April 18th.
- 45:42Please go see it. It is.
- 45:44Buy the tickets on sohotheatre.co.uk.
- 45:51Yeah, yeah, that's it. Theatre Re.
- 45:54It's a great theatre it. Is yeah, I'm really loving it.
- 45:57And which one is it, the upstairs or the downstairs?
- 46:00It's upstairs. It's like that big one.
- 46:02Yeah, so walk up the stairs. Yes, but I'm like in front of
- 46:07the stage. I'm not on the stage for real.
- 46:09I'm in front of the stage. What?
- 46:11Cuz there's a play before me that's got the whole stage.
- 46:13So then they put a screen in front of the thing and I'm like.
- 46:15So they remove a row and I'm just there on the.
- 46:18You can. Still interesting, yeah?
- 46:19It's still it's enough room for my show.
- 46:21Are you thinking of doing anything after the run?
- 46:24Well, I do wanna see other plays, but we'll have to.
- 46:26We'll have to see what's. Yes.
- 46:29Yeah, I wanna see some other shows.
- 46:31I'm so sad I missed the last five years.
- 46:33It was like it was here right when I got here.
- 46:35But I had like tech and stuff. I didn't go.
- 46:36I wish I had gone. Well, you had a baby.
- 46:38Of course you missed the last five years.
- 46:41But I did you see it? No, I've.
- 46:43Been watching videos obsessively online.
- 46:45I'm just like Rachel Ziegler's just so amazing.
- 46:48There's so much to see and I haven't seen any of it really.
- 46:52Well, I see, you know, stand up and stuff.
- 46:55You. Don't go to musicals.
- 46:56Well, I I try. There's this one called
- 47:00Mincemeat. Never heard of it.
- 47:02Operation Mincemeat, yes, Yeah, you've got to see that it's.
- 47:06Really good. Yeah, Maybe I'll stay and see
- 47:07that. I want to see something.
- 47:09Yeah, I want to see something. Well, Ricky, thank you for
- 47:12coming on and good luck with the rest of the run.
- 47:15I hope it gets on Broadway. Thank you.
- 47:17That would be crazy. That'd be amazing.
- 47:20So thank you. Thank you for having me, even
- 47:22though it was a surprise to you. It was a big surprise.
- 47:27Wow, that was Ricky. She's amazing and her show is
- 47:30going till April 18th at the Soho Theatre.
- 47:34Now if you want to support the show, you can become a Patreon
- 47:38member just like Ashley Figueredo who just became one.
- 47:43Or is it Figurido? I don't know, let's call the
- 47:46whole thing off, come on down and maybe we'll see you at the
- 47:54live show on the 11th of April at the Moth Club.
- 47:57Details below. Bye
- 48:14rich Vultures talk box.