035 | I Probably Shouldn’t Be Telling You This: Naming the Gender Wellbeing Gap

Spacious Success · Oct 8, 2026 · 22m · transcript

What if the exhaustion you’ve been hiding isn’t yours to carry alone, but a pattern with a name?

For almost two years, Kristy has been having the identical conversation with different women in different rooms. In the queue after a keynote. In the lift down to the lobby. In the DMs that land once everyone has gone home. It almost always starts with the same four words: "I probably shouldn’t be telling you this."

Sitting in a Perth hotel room after a keynote, Kristy realised she had been quietly building an archive of women’s exhaustion for years. One story is an anecdote. Fifty is a pattern…