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Ooni Of Ife and Oritsefemi's Public Marriage Saga · DidiLawren

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  Hello and welcome back to my channel.
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  My name is Lauren said with defect and this is bunted.
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  Lawrence here, how are you all doing?
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  I hope you're doing great October.
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  I mean, this month, has been the months where everything went
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  down, polygon was acceptable to some people talking about your
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  new of your face, onew is, you know, getting married to his
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  seventh wife. And he has been marrying every
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  other markets day. So, I mean, I read a book.
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  I was given a prize, you know, Animal Farm.
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  When I was in primary school and that taught me a lesson, I mean,
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  George Orwell, all animals are equal, but some are more equal
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  than the other. This is really at play, at the
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  moment because some people are happy with polygamy, like in
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  Africa, some people are happy to go into polygamy.
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  Ami while some people are like this is not for me, I think just
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  find what suits you if you're getting married.
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  Choose the one that suits you talking about on your Fifi.
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  I mean this man, he married this King.
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  He's a god according to the cultural belief.
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  So this God or date. You see Mario first own married.
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  The second one, Maria told one and it didn't work, so, but now
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  he is married. Wives every other Market day
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  just to ensure that if one is leaving at least yes six
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  otherwise through to wipe his tears away.
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  So he's marrying all these women and these women are happy.
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  They are the ones are applying to be married to him.
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  Now, the only first side celebrity marriages, the there's
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  been so many different discussions of people breaking
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  up. Like, if we will start talking
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  about this today, like we Oh, about seven different couples
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  that this month of October announced their separation, but
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  the one that got everybody talking is Orissa fehmi.
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  Now, if you don't know, Reserve Army Reserve, am is a Nigerian
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  musician. Started singing in early 2000s,
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  he was looking up to the likes of daddy showkey.
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  Baba, fry you, I mean, children, sit this one out.
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  You don't know who I'm talking about, but these are people who
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  I think he was looking up to when he was Growing up were
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  trying to get into the music industry.
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  He eventually made it. Big one is sound of Wala.
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  Double Wala was a global heat. Like, everybody was singing the
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  voila. He did tours around, though.
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  The whole world then he was dating a girl, a lady, and the
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  lady after the voila became a hit, it was a public breakup
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  because the girl came out. The lady came out and said that
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  she paid for the video shoot she paid for it.
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  Everything she was feeding him. She was taking care of him until
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  he became that successful, like he became a viral sensation.
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  And now she has sidelined her. So she came out and said she was
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  responsible for taking care of his kids, his family, and it was
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  a public break, hope she brought out.
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  Receipt of arrest, Ava me cheating on her and just chasing
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  everything in skirt on social media.
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  But people are like, oh, you know, Beta woman.
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  She's trying to bring him down under his successful and all
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  that. So they didn't really take us
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  seriously because people and they've decided at that points.
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  According to her, they've dated for like 10 years before that
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  heat. So she said she was responsible
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  for everything and she was happy to do it because she knew his
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  mom. She knew the family.
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  So they even. Oh yeah, why she would do a
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  calling her wife and all that. Now before the relationship or
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  is ephemeral, ready, had two kids, from two different.
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  Baby mamas, two daughters. And they are now in that scene,
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  maybe 1920 at this very points. But, you know today and he was
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  she was happy to take in those kids.
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  Taking care of them paying their school fees.
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  This was public. So, I am not making this up,
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  guys. She alleged that she was one
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  taking care of him when he was not able to make a hit when he
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  was not successful musically. So when he eventually hit that,
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  Mahalo, it was remix all over the place.
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  Even Divine remix. Jump on that song.
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  It was massive now or is a family after that break, hope he
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  wanted like a clean image. He was touring around the world.
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  He told UK that was where he met nabilah allegedly, he must not
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  be lavash and not enough. Ash is a very sophisticated
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  lady, like she is into she's a PR Guru.
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  She's into sports helping International footballers to get
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  an endorsement deal in Nigeria. So she was, she was massive.
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  She worked with a lot of international Brands before, she
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  became actually started a company and became a PR Guru.
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  So, when she started dating, a researcher family, people were
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  like, hey nabila, this guy like this guy really or suffer me,
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  you know, she came out and said, oh, love is, you know, she's in
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  love with him, die law. Of that these they are that even
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  at that point, ladies were coming out to say that or is a
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  family? Still heating them up on social
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  media, trying to get with them trying to do all these not being
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  supported our boyfriend at that point in time.
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  So they had like a united front on till they he proposed to her,
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  she accepted the proposal. I mean people were shocked
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  because they thought maybe this is just not black trying to you
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  know, I don't know. What people because people were
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  confused. They didn't understand why.
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  That Lila the like the two people did like nebula is quite
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  nebula. Is very professional.
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  Not be like is very homely kind of person and also for me is
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  totally the opposite of it. Now, don't get me wrong.
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  Like there are musicians who have like Public Image like
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  really bad Public Image for privately.
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  They are good people who are legit.
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  People that have dated Risa family of Commerce and say that
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  this guy is not his, his his his, the ex-girlfriend, I was
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  praying for all those videos actually called him a dog
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  allegedly. So this guy is somebody that
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  everybody knows like even people in the industry know that he
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  cannot keep it in his pants. So when nabilah decided to marry
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  own little family, she was more at that point.
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  She was even more successful than him.
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  But because of the Success of the war.
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  Holla. It kind of made it look as if
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  Orissa famine was more successful or they started they
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  got married. In fact, they got married on the
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  day. That bank adorably got married
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  in Dubai so it was like to begin those two wedding.
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  So you know Banky W and at this were continued their lives or
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  suffer me and not Billa. Continue their life just sitting
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  there. Minding our business in 2012 See
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  also family came out and said, everybody should go and beg his
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  wife that his wife moved out of the house that people should
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  help him beg. Her people are wondering, like,
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  you know, for you to come out on social media and big, you know,
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  that that's has to be a very big thing that must have happened
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  before this whole thing just love.
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  I was the one that came out and said, Orissa family, and nebulas
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  marriage is in trouble. That this is five years
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  marriage, by the way that Your marriage is in trouble.
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  Teresa from is cheating with how this girl's house help and
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  everything. In fact, such as refuse to
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  employ any female stuff in her house, but neighbors, I mean,
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  you can refuse to employ, any female, you know, stuff.
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  But your neighbors, they have house helps.
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  And these are the people that are reserved for me, was
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  allegedly going out with. So when just lover, made that
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  public, nothing like a mouse and said, no, her husband do this.
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  These are tinted Having problem is just normal marital issue or
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  is of a Mickey Mouse and said everybody should beg his wife
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  allegedly. At that point Arisa family,
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  impregnated somebody else they denied it.
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  I mean, they cover kind of, I mean the wife is a pair of grew
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  so she was able to manage that and cover the whole thing.
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  Now we're just sitting there minding our business two years
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  on or is a family has allegedly impregnated on that lady.
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  That's some blocks. Carried it.
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  But people were I thinking, you know, it's not it's not it's
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  just one of those things that block us, you know the only say,
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  bloggers are just trying to get traffic and everything.
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  People are like, oh you should leave this couple alone.
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  They have had their own fair share of controversies so we
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  just sitting there, minding our business nabila went on that.
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  If reshoots to say that her marriage has ended.
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  She's going to file for divorce. She is in fact, separated, from
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  Marissa for me, and the reasons being that this guy Has
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  impregnated. Like he had two children before
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  marrying nabila and now during their marriage, he has
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  impregnated two different women. He so he has four baby mamas
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  into so. And she was like that, she's not
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  going to accept it. I mean, she accepted the two
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  before the marriage, according to her.
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  When do I getting married? She found out that he somebody
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  was pregnant for him. Now, he had three girls at that
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  point. So now what actually broke the
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  camel's back. Was that she said, according to
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  her, she's trying to get pregnant and it's not working
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  for her, but her husband has impregnating, her another go.
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  So she was like that. She's no longer having it that
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  she's tired of the whole thing. She's tired of the marriage,
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  she's no longer going to go ahead with the marriage that
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  she's coming out to say how inside of the story before.
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  Buddy will start spinning the story or before he will come out
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  again. And start begging people to beg
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  her to come back to him. It was it generated?
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  Because people are now thinking like not belie, you should have
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  seen this coming, this is somebody that before you.
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  There was a lady who can see. What I will tell people is
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  before you get married to somebody that has children or
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  has been divorced, talk to those.
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  Those baby mama if it's a baby mama talk to the baby mama if
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  it's an ex-wife talk to the ex-wife.
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  I know it's going to look messy because let's look as if all the
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  ex-wife if they are vindictive they're going to try to sabotage
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  the whole thing but it is you have to understand when
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  somebody's trying to sabotage our relationship and when
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  somebody's telling you the truth, don't just think accept
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  everything that that man is telling you and then just
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  running with it. In all he has a beta X or she's
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  just trying to spoil the relationship.
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  If nebula had taken our time to talk to the other, good lady
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  who, I mean this was not even this was before their
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  relationship because I think their relationship wasn't even
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  up to a year before they come married.
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  So this lady was very vocal on life, she provided receipt and
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  everything. And if nothing, I mean this is
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  there are some people who are According to her, she said some
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  people were telling her to just give birth and focus on our
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  children that cheating in, get a 10-minute industry, comes with
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  the business, like a musician is always going to cheat.
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  So people were actually advising her to just ignore what he's
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  doing and focus on her marriage, focus on our children, which is,
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  I don't know. I said that this video talking
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  about the owner of, if a, you know, about people Applying to
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  marry him applying to be a mean. He has seven now seven wives.
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  Now, some people are even applying to be the 8th 9th 10th
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  wives because of the status. So, I think people should just
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  choose what suits them I am. Very sure that there are some
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  people, some ladies who line up to be or is a famous fifth baby.
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  Mama six baby mama seven baby mama.
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  And there are some people who are going to still marry him
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  knowing that he has For children from four different women.
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  I just think people should choose people who are happy with
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  polygamy. Don't just get married to
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  somebody. And then you're telling them
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  that you're my one in a million. You're my all, and all you swore
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  before God, and man, that you will be faithful to this person
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  knowing fully well that you're not going to be faithful to this
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  person. And also ladies, if you are
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  getting married to somebody who has been married before, or who
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  has a child outside much money, Homework was baby mamas.
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  In this case, he had two baby mamas and one public breakup
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  talk to these people talk to them so that you understand what
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  you're getting yourself into. If it is something that you can
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  deal with. Then I mean if he/she had talked
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  to the ex-girlfriend she would have told him that this guy like
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  there was a receipt online. So don't think you can change
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  anybody. The long and short story is,
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  don't think you can change anybody.
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  If you're happy to be the sixth wife and for your husband or
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  your husband-to-be or your boyfriend to have several baby,
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  mamas, are you just happy? Some people are just happy with
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  that title of. I am the main chick or I am the
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  main wife or I am. The wife are to dine comes back
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  to or this in. People are happy with different
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  titles that they gets in relationship.
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  Like what? Whatever?
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  Give them fulfillments, they're happy. with the however, if you
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  know that you're not that type, that will be happy with your
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  husband or your boyfriend cheating on you, they don't go
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  out and marry somebody with two children from two different baby
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  mamas and then a public break up that the lady was publicly
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  saying that this man is a drg that he cheats everything in
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  skirts and then you look, you're very comfortable to marry that
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  person and then you're coming out to cry.
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  Like I'm not even trying to blame her.
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  I'm not even trying to fix him shame.
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  Her, we are just trying to learn lessons from these teens.
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  Be very like, I mean, I mean, you can never be very careful
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  with these things, but sometimes there are red flags that we just
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  ignore just because we want to get married somebody.
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  I remember somebody saying that it is better for you to marry
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  wants and then being divorced, that To not have married at all.
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  Because people will be looking at you.
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  Like there's something wrong with you, that's why you're not
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  getting married. So some people are actually
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  happy to just marry anybody just to be just to be like oh I was
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  once married so people are happy to just jump into any marriage
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  or job painting into any relationship to get that title
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  and then jump back out of it, whatever works for you works for
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  you. I mean, when I'm going to tell
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  people how to live their life, Lives.
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  We're not even going to try to tell people what to do, how to
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  live their relationship, or how to cool to get married too.
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  But if you're going to bring it online for us to George, this is
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  where we're going to sit down and George these things.
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  So, I mean, I wish you all the best.
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  She looked exhausted, she looked tired, you know, house shoes
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  look beaten down by the whole problems but I wish you all the
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  best. I wish I was.
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  Best before you get married to that man with children before
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  you get married to that man with a baby mama or ex-wife, talk to
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  the people talk to the ex-wife. Even if you're going to think
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  that exercise is not going to give you the full detail talk to
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  people, there are some people that will be happy to tell you
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  what happened, trust me but we just want to go in bed with
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  blinders and then that is his past so I am the present.
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  Well tomorrow you're going to be his path.
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  First. So let us just be guided, think
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  about what you're getting yourself into.
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  Think about your mental health, think about what is going to do
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  to your psyche, before you get married.
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  Don't listen to people. That will tell you, it is better
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  for you to be married. Once done for you, not to be
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  married at all, and then, if you want to follow that and you get
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  into a marriage that okay, maybe in the next few years, I'm going
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  to get out of it. You don't know what that would
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  do to your mental health. You don't know what I would do
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  to your psyche. Leave you you want to come out
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  of it? No more.
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  Listen to people, do whatever you want to do but if you're
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  going to bring it on social media, then we online in-laws.
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  We're happy to sit down and dissect it and tell you where
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  you went wrong. So yeah, thank you very much for
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  watching. Today's episode, please like
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  Bye, bye.