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Lion's Gate Portal IHP-IG 5D SEE Channeled Guidance Solo-Poly Enlightenment Community Relationships · Inspiring Human Potential

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Welcome back to my lovely I HP community.
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We have some channel guidance for my solo police enlightenment
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community. So age group of Zen masters and
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so you might not be a solo poli secure person but you're a
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person who is always able to be in the state of love because
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your integration of the mind has taken place either on your own
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or you know in life really and on your own means in the absence
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of needing to learn about it. So you're able to think with
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your left mode, the non the the verbal part of our brain and to
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feel the sensations from your body come up right side of your
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brain. You didn't need yoga to learn
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how to engage and to venture vagle because you love people,
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you hug people, you want to be around people.
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No matter how many times people have been envious, jealous,
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spiteful, vengeful bunch of things, no matter what has taken
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place, in fact of what those who are not then masters call evil,
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they just don't know. It's a person who needs a very
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good somatic sensory modern trauma psychologist and then to
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stay in therapy for a long long time, which would be as long as
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it takes entire humanity to get out of this shamed effectiveness
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idea that we need it to evolve. We actually evolve because our
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brain likes to Co create and to create excuse me and excuse me
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to collaborate our mammalian heritage.
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It came about when our lovely species was able to start to be
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hunting gatherers. And so the hunting gatherer got
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us to develop a mammalian nervous system.
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Yoga people know all about it, the good practitioners, but
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their followers actually fall in love with their own night.
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So there's the 4D community and the people in the middle for
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you. So we're going to get to talk
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about a lot of things in this community, but it's only if you
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love humanity and know nobody's fucked up.
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Because if really anything, we're all potentially, quote UN
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quote fucked up. But nobody really is unless they
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have a series of events that take place and they do end up
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potentially in prison for one to nine people on the scale of
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Michael Stone's evil thing, which they get caught up into
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the bad shit. And then we got the grandiose
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people. I don't really feel bad for
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those. Maybe if they get good therapy,
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they can get out of being the ones who tell people about being
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what they are and they're all grandiose and have psychopathic
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traits, but people fall in love with their charm.
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It's very fascinating when you know people think they're smart
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and then you see them falling in love with somebody who's
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basically a grandiose ass. Because the minute you look at
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anybody, if you're in the Enlightenment, so age of, you'll
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notice the difference between the people who care and the ones
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who think of themselves as high and mighty.
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And that just tells you how insecure that poor infant was in
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their own house. Male, female, non gender,
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doesn't matter. You just look at them.
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You're like, wow, that's an inflated ego and you really need
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a good therapist again to get out of that.
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But you know how some people, actually, my lovely therapist,
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have taught me? Some people, they become that
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successful thanks to their inflated ego.
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And when they figure out that it's a defectiveness, shame
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thing with the therapist, they don't want to let it go.
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They resist. And you know why, though?
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This is the saddest part is those people think of themselves
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as smart. But the minute that their
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emotions start to make their way as a tsunami, apparently they
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don't have the objectivity to say, wow, I'm an adult, and I'm
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reacting to my emotions as if somebody's putting a life in my
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stomach, which is not happening right now or in my heart,
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physically speaking. No knife is in my presence.
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I have emotions coming up that are that painful.
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Wow. Maybe if I'm smart enough,
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since, you know, people love to use their word, does this word.
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When I hear it, I say I'm stupid.
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I love being stupid. But when I see a grandiose
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person who wants to resist getting good therapy or I'm
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being told about it, and then they're saying that they're
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smart, they think they're smart and they want to keep on pumping
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themselves up. What I would want to say is
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there's no knife penetrating you right now and yet you are so
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afraid of the big ass that you cannot even be objective with
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your mouth or your brain. And this is where cognitive
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dissonance is very painful, which is why we actually, the
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Enlightenment community don't go around trying to poke at blind
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people, as I said, Guru will have shared.
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And you don't mess with states of consciousness.
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We don't mess with it. Not because it's something that
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the supernatural, which does not exist, entity of collective
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consciousness is going to come down and beat us.
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No, we don't do it because we recognize the intellectually
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savvy. Apparently people like to be in
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their fake inflated egos thinking and we actually
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recognize that a modulated and dysregulated embodied person is
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going to go through hell if they get out of there and they don't
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want to climb the ladder out of hell.
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So while the ingurent, ignorant blind lions keep on yelling
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about these people being evil, we know that they're poor
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pitied, pitied infants who didn't have a choice.
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Everyone's an infant who had some unresolved trauma.
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Shit go down and people keep wanting to use the word that
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comes from a textbook of religion and that even a
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criminologist will have said I love that Michael Stone begins
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his video. You know, evil used to be a word
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that only in religious institution, but I saw everybody
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using it. So I said why shouldn't I go and
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make a video or what Was it a study about all of these skills
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of evil. And he did so 9 to 16 are these
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poor inflated human beings who those who think they're smart
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follow like fuck. I mean, when I see these people
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following influence, I'm like, OK, those are all smart people.
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Let them go to the smart people. Let the pseudoscience bullshit
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people come on over here and let's have them keep on, because
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they don't mean anything, by the way.
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I mean, this is the most hilarious part.
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And when I say this, some people, they get really pissed.
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It's like, yeah, okay, you obviously don't know how the
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system works. You didn't study political
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science. I did.
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I'm not going to bother educating you about it.
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Not here in general, because this is again and so why solo
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poli? Right here is why solo poli?
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Because there's a lot of dumbass people who put subject matters
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on pedestals and we don't do that enlightenment.
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So age group, excuse me, let me go and find the first part of
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our channel guidance. Where's my lovely sad guru here?
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He is sad. Guru Sama means a quantumist.
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You know what a solo poli is? We're a quantumist.
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All right. We got Khali, Shiva and
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Krishnalida all over our relationships.
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I was a teenager and as a smart ass.
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And I'm a better smart ass now. I have a lot more education.
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D or Budi means intellect. Samadhi.
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It means a quantum is intellect. You know what people do with
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subject matters? We don't put them on pedestals.
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Not the Enlightenment, so age group.
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So when children get pissy because we don't highlight that
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their leaders are awesome and they think we're stupid, we are
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like not really. But I get it because actually
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I'm now curious to hear your ideas of what the future is
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going to look like. Because now you've you've made
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my Krishna Lila, my little tickle bone, is curious to hear
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your future predictions. So come on over and then I'm 43.
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I can say I have not met any interesting gossip people,
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predictions of the future, except for that they watch
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Doomsday Claws. Very boring.
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So the people who are interesting, they're all
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educators actually, and the creative ones, the ones who have
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these inflated egos, they're interesting for other reasons.
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And it's the data points, not their opinions.
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Their opinions are like those other gossip people that I know
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in my life that have the same shit to say about humanity over
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and over and over again. So again, 5D, it's 7 minutes in.
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It's only about loving humanity. And we do have a reaction to
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those who don't. And this is it.
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They're stupid, not the other way around.
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And they're evil, not the other way around.
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And really, they're not evil. They just need a very good
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somatic sensor, motor and trauma therapist and the knowledge of
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going to optimize their brain the human way.
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They can do all the yoga they want, lock themselves up in
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mountains as long as you don't want to be around people.
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Not optimized your humanity. Because restorative embodied
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self and integration of the mind is you optimized.
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That means you want to hug all the human beings on a face of
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this planet with your body. Meaning that you're not afraid
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or like I don't like your energy because you're an energy
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vampire. Nobody's an energy vampire.
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They're all human beings now. There are some.
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I've met them. I don't want them near me.
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I think it was today that I share with you a very funny
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story. I even share with you how a
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loved one insistently tried to actually have me be around that
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energy, which I found quite interesting.
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But then I remembered, oh, people do love to be in a
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specific type of energy when they are choosing not to move
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out of their temporal junction and call life hard.
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And that there might be some kind of supernatural entity that
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is doing something. And it's like, no, that's not
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really how the life of anyone who's in enlightenment works.
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No. We look to science and then
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we're OK with mysticism and being stupid.
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This is where it's not stupidity.
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But science has yet to reach my ear so that I can explain all
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the Claire's with all of the quantum physics out there.
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But I do know that they can explain it as the neuroscientist
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so optimized brains. There's four attributes for
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those who become shamans or deities or whatever it is that
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that guy talks about. Because see all of these words.
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Let me finish. Samadhi, equanimous intellect
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and equanimous intellect is an intellect that doesn't
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discriminate between good and bad.
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There's enlightenment. This is my community.
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So if you're not here, please go somewhere else.
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Or if you're curious, it's called equanimity.
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Being adults. So we don't do the karma wheel,
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we do Dharma. This is a very beautiful land,
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and it's all in the human being's body.
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Oh yes, integration of the mind. All hands on deck.
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As I said, we use our left and right mode all by ourselves, and
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there is no default mode network.
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I'm not scanning to see if you're dangerous.
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If you don't have a weapon and you're not stabbing me,
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obviously you're not doing anything except for using your
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mouth. And if you try to get closer and
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do want to represent a physical threat, I will run away and then
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I won't come back at all because I'm smart.
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So that's about it. Other than that, I don't have
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shame for the idiots who think that we're idiots.
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We're like, wow, you have a beautiful future ahead of you,
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and it's in the shithole with all the other people that make
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crappy movies about humanity. And we're going to go and be
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fake pretty unhappy? No, we're going to go do shit,
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unlike those people who don't do anything except for misery.
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So here in equanimous intellect, we do not discriminate between
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good and bad, high and low, joy and misery, pain and pleasure.
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I did this all on my own, FYI, which is where you get to learn
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about it in the advanced place of the inner growth mindset if
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you move into neutrality. But you know what most people
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say about neutrality, how dare you not take a stand?
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And do you know how many people have that energy every time they
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see us and we know what's going on and we're like, wow, there's
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a lot of pent up anger in there. I wonder which one of the
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moments are they going to take it out and finally just spell
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out what they think? Are they ever going to get the
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guts to actually become no, no, no, too much.
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We're special and other people are not group around them.
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They're going to have fun in their little hellhole because
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it's a hellhole. When all these people get
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together, they think they're having fun.
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Oh, yeah, you should see them with the Claires.
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They all get together and then they think they can affect
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people's lives. And there are people that think
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they can. So there's all those four
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deteriorators for them. You got a karmic against you,
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got a third party against you, got this.
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Again, all these people are trying to pull you down, and
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they actually believe it like teenagers do.
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And actually, I was a teenager. I'm like, what are you guys
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talking about? We're all friends.
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Why are we, Why are we doing this?
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It sounds silly to me. And then I grew up like, wow,
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all teenagers. Very interesting.
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No economists, individuals. So samadhi, very beautiful to be
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here. Let's get us together in a
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group. We're gonna have fun.
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We're gonna have fun. Okay Maha samadhi.
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We're moving to the great one. Cuz this is exactly where the
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Enlightenment community is. Maha Samadhi Samadhi.
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So again, we're probably averse because we are one big ball of
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energy and we don't need to play with the ones who are in hell.
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They're not going to want to be near us because we discussed
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them and enrage them and it's okay because they're not with
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us. They have plenty of influencers
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who are, again, in their cocky, grandiose, inflated egos leading
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them. They're a group.
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It's like the flat or there's, they hang out altogether.
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Let all of the other ones hang out.
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It's going to be okay. It's going to be very okay
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because we're going to have fun and we're going to, you know,
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keep doing stuff and they can go do their stuff.
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We also have a beautiful group. It's a spirituality, soul age
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group. So they're following Sad Guru
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and he's doing great, so let's join them.
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We don't need to go vegan, though.
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They can go vegan. We don't have to.
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We're we're going to keep doing other things.
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Maha Samadhi means a great economist.
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Intellect, the highest level of equanimity of the intellect.
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That means your intelligence lost all external input.
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And this is where my group is now.
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Optimize brains, neuroscience, selflessness, timelessness,
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effortlessness, richness. And that's why we do samadhi,
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Maha samadhi. So subject matters, subject
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matter experts, they are not on pedestals.
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They are down on the earth and we're looking straight at them
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and either we absorb their information and get it or not.
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Like math. I don't get math and I don't get
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some things that I really would want to.
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But my brain's like this is so hard.
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So I wait and use my brain on things that I do get easy early,
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if that's a word. So when intelligence functions
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with external input, it means you accumulate memory through
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what you read. That's like my big man, baby
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child friend. He regurgitates information like
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a little machine, which is really my my brain.
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When he did that the first time. The only reason I'm friends with
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him is because my younger sister told me not to be mean, and he
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is a very sweet person. But other than that, when he
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speaks, my ears don't hear him. I will read a book I do not need
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him to read to me. So I don't actually have
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anything that I gather from that mouth except for wow, you really
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have a lot of memory going on. So they accumulate memory and
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then they can read here, gather and project that memory as an
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intelligence, which it is not. That's right.
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That's why it's not interesting, because I don't have a person
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speaking to me. I got a book being read to me
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out loud. This is you identifying with
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your memory. And that's exactly why this
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person thinks they're smart and yet they act like not even a
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teenager does in public. And when you identify with your
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memory, equanimity is not possible.
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Exactly. And in fact, they actually talk
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about good or bad, and they talk about humanity being sheep.
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And I always tell them, stop talking about humanity as sheep.
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They're not sheep. You're sheep If they're sheep
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and they say no, I'm not, because I am cultured and I
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leave it alone. So samadhi, on the other hand,
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is when you have disengaged your memory from your intellect,
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which we do. Very easy peasy over here.
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When this happens, your intellect may struggle for a
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little while. Not really, no, no, no.
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It actually feels very freeing as you move forward.
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I have to share with you that that process is beautiful,
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beautiful, beautiful. So love cycle.
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People, FYI, are going to be inclined to be attracted to all
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of this because we do not have evil.
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Evil doesn't exist. I was a kid and I learned about
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it through psychology and I told God about it.
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My only one moment of Oh my gosh, I might feel guilty.
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Oh wait, the institutions told me evil existed, but they're
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evil because they're not loving. And the only moment of shame
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when I learned I was cast in stones and I said, I'm so sorry,
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Jesus, I did not recognize that the adults have taught me this
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black and white thinking. I'm so happy that I am
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enlightened now, and I didn't even know those words.
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And yet here I am today, Enlightenment as a teenager,
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very beautiful might might I add, when people do envy, spite,
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jealousy, that's where we know they are very poor souls.
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We feel bad for them and we don't do anything about it
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except for feel bad for them and say, well, you know, Carmen's
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going to come back and get you, but not because it's a bad
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thing. And we'll get to Carmen in a
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minute. So no, we don't do karma.
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We do Dharma because we don't actually sit in these likes and
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dislikes because we do. Maha, Somali, Somali, as I just
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explained. So integration of the mind, very
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easy, piecey. And we don't take it out on the
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system or the past. We know that the ignorance of
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our human species shows how savages and the savages are
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still out there. Those grandiose people that are
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actually attracting people who want to follow them because
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those people aren't secure. Yeah, we're trying to get those
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people out. You're going to succeed because
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they're not the optimized version of our species, their
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brain not integrated. Nope, No, no.
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That's called cognitive dissonance.
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Harsh, unforgiving, adaptive children projecting in fact
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their charge states to each other and then calling the
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kettle black. So, oh, that's evil because
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you're not sanctified in my book of religion.
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And no, you're evil over there because you're not sanctified in
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my book of whatever. It is, science and nobody's
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sansified. You're all people with opinions
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and apparently you don't know that we want the system to make
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laws that protects physical life.
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So air, water, food. And don't worry about social
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media because it will be taken care of by the system.
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Again, who also likes to leverage making money, which we
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all know. No, no, there's no conspiracies
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though. There's just the normal
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entrepreneur over here who gets it about the economy and it will
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be transforming. Oh yes, I know.
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You know how many times I said it's going to go digital?
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No, it's not. OK, fine.
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You know, keep on talking. You're smart people because I'm
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stupid. I don't know what I'm talking
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about. So solo poli.
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Again, it's because really, why would we want to walk with those
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who do not know how to do samadhi Maha samadhi.
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It's a very boring conversation. And then when they get off to
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see because you don't follow their leader, that's another
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boring conversation and having to deal with the misery of the
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oh, but life is so fucking horrible and shitty and you want
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to say it's pretty And I get so here's again, we don't want to
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be around people like that. We don't feel that they're
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energy vampires. We just say, wow, your energy is
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so low we don't even know what to do with you right now.
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And you're still in the same space you were yesterday and
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yesterday and the day before yesterday because you're not
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letting go of your teenage story.
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How many times does the word teenager have to come out of my
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mouth? Adaptive children are really,
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really annoying as adults. I mean, a teenager, I can handle
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them. I'm an adult.
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I don't want to be around teenagers, honestly.
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And when I am, I try to be at my best behavior as the adult that
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I'm supposed to be. But I'm like, ready to be out of
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there if they begin to do types of conversations.
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I'm like, OKI need to shut up because I'm not the teenager and
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their hormones are all over the place and they're all curious
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and they should do their own shit because that's where every
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person, your state of consciousness is yours.
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You go do with yourself what you want to do and leave me out of
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it and I'm okay. So we are all good.
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We don't want to actually hold anybody's hand.
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In fact, that's exactly why. Again, totally secure.
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Might add safe haven. Secure base.
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We know what tickles our brains, our hearts and our bodies.
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And yeah, we're not going to be around people who are always
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crapping on humanity. They're no fun.
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Their brain doesn't work as a smart brain.
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It works as a brain that is like, Oh my gosh, they're making
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it torturous to live life right now and I don't see a weapon
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anywhere near them. And I need to be the cold,
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frigid asshole I am. I'm cold.
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I'm an asshole. Can I go now?
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Am I excused? Can I can I be excused from this
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table? I really want to go away now.
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So our brain is really happy that we are found stupid and
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cold and emotionless. It's really good.
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We know we're not, but it's OK. Again, the grandiose leaders,
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they're all over that one. You know how many people think
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emotions are stupid because you got people telling them how
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horrible and negative compassion based therapy is because those
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people don't know how to handle their emotions.
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But until a person's blinded by the projection of so they fall
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in love with an image, No, let's not go there.
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Okay. So we get 20 minutes in.
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Let me finish up with our. Little data points and humor and
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that way we can get to more of our channel guidance.
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It's a beautiful 88, don't you find?
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I love this energy. Every year it's gotten better
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and better and better and better because the Leo of a heart.
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That is a true Leo, even though I'm an Aquarius.
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But the Leo's heart, We're all of Leo's heart when it comes to
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our lovely alignment heaven in our body, it's an integrated
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mind. You're able to be in
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selflessness, effortlessness, timelessness and richness.
20:38
Now the part about when we are going through expansion and
20:42
energy and there's a lot of different things, we talk about
20:45
it. So there are essential symptoms
20:47
for anybody who is a light worker of that type.
20:50
And if you have questions, we have paid subscription based
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model content. But what you want to do, Sleep
20:56
well, drink water, eat well, treat yourself well, be around
21:00
people who support you. And if there are people who do
21:03
not support you so they cannot align with you when you ask them
21:07
or share with them that you're needing to be uplifted, Okay.
21:13
Or that at the very least, you're looking to be in
21:16
conversations that are uplifting.
21:19
OK, so here is the difference between when people are like,
21:21
you bummed me out, those shame, blame, fault, revenge.
21:24
Here's that adaptive child that projects the idealization of
21:28
their type of parent or friend or family or whatever.
21:30
So they're trying to tell people how to be in their relationship.
21:33
When we have those people, the solo police, understand exactly
21:36
what's happening. It's a lower energy that's
21:38
really pissed at life. That's really upset.
21:40
Some shit's going down. There ain't no knife, but it has
21:43
as if there is a knife. So there's shaming, blaming,
21:45
faulting and putting it upon us. We've learned, I've learned how
21:48
to be a grown up about it because one I've chosen very
21:51
carefully the people that I carry and have around me.
21:54
And it's really straightforward as a teenager.
21:57
Out, out, out, out, out, out, OK, you're all in.
21:59
Good to go. And then as a grown up, I don't
22:02
need to do too much. I'm a busy person, so I've grown
22:06
up. So there you go, very beautiful
22:07
to have busyness. And I get to meet my colleagues,
22:09
actually, thanks to my educational information, all on
22:13
my own studies for being an entrepreneur.
22:17
Yay me. OK, good.
22:18
So when you get to choose how to lead your life, it's because you
22:21
actually thought with your brain how to do so and the people
22:25
around you as well, apparently this makes me lucky.
22:28
So lucky I am. When people who are adaptive
22:31
children, they don't know how to tend to their emotions come with
22:34
you without any, you know, needle again, stabbing them
22:36
there. There's just life happening and
22:39
they're intuitive. So it's all the 4D, the 4D, man.
22:42
I swear, because 3D at least they're going and just doing the
22:44
church thing, right? They're just going to church.
22:46
They're saying we're going to howl.
22:48
It's a very straightforward conversation and it's very good
22:50
and dude, and that's it. These people, they love to
22:53
present to equations, which is like, OK, then I'm going to let
22:58
you know on how negative news is really upsetting.
23:01
So let's say I'm interested in a human being.
23:06
This is where relationships. I swear, I don't even know what
23:09
to say about this, but I forget I'm not an adaptive child.
23:13
I'm a solo poli because I'm safe within my own self and secure
23:17
within my own self and know that I can follow my dreams.
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Apparently this is very hard for people from the body.
23:23
So again, I am a restorative, embodied self enlightenment
23:25
community. Please come on over.
23:26
I'm spelling it out so that we can make sure to build an
23:29
enlightenment sole age of community, not the other ones.
23:31
OK, we don't want the children. We're done with the children.
23:35
Get away from us. Please go and lead with your
23:38
beautiful, charming, pompous leader and go be groups together
23:42
like the flat Earthers. I love looking at the groups
23:44
from afar. All I need to do spot the
23:46
leader, hear what they're saying, go and find all the data
23:48
resources and I'll know all their story.
23:50
And it's really great. It's really fun.
23:52
I'm more curious about the ones who think outside the box.
23:55
Samadhi ma samadhi. I'm not curious about the ones
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who don't know how to get out of their own karma story.
24:00
So please do not give me news of when people don't like me
24:09
because that's really awful to hear that somebody is not
24:12
interested in me the way that I'm interested in them.
24:18
I'm so I should not laugh. I really shouldn't.
24:21
I shouldn't. But you know at 43 years old I'm
24:25
just like dude and do that's and days what the fuck is wrong with
24:29
any of you? I seriously, I'm going to say it
24:32
because the fact that any person as a teenager, I'm thinking how
24:36
does one human being mean everything to you?
24:39
I don't understand. I don't understand cuz what are
24:42
you reading? Are you doing anything together
24:43
besides that? You can't do it forever.
24:46
You know you're not going to be able to sit and bed all the
24:49
time. It's not possible physically.
24:51
Physically you're going to have like you need to stop it down
24:54
and it's on street short. The difference is the people who
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know how to handle our emotions. We don't actually go around
25:00
telling you don't tell me they don't like me.
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I'm so upset that they don't know we're in more of OK look if
25:04
you're going to crap on humanity in life every day and you're
25:07
going to keep telling me how chaotic your life is I really
25:09
need you to calm down with your energy then.
25:12
So this is where because that's not going to happen.
25:15
So when people are freaking out about their life and you're
25:18
needing them to disengage from shitting all over you because
25:21
their life is so miserable, you do what is called I hear you, I
25:26
see you, I'm going to hug you like any child, that's all they
25:30
want. They want the floor, spill the
25:32
beans. There you go.
25:35
And that's it. And that's how you get to be a
25:37
very good, good, good person for those two year olds who keep on
25:41
coming over while they don't like your energy because you're
25:44
happy, peasy and pleasing and always happy.
25:47
And people don't mean anything except for good.
25:50
And so you don't want to be around you, especially when
25:53
they're pissed at humanity, but when they're not pissed and
25:55
they're sad about humanity and they're just in their floored
25:58
gut, you know? So the nice thing about the
26:01
universe and supernatural, it's not super.
26:04
The nice thing about energy, we don't have to lift a finger.
26:08
You know how easy it is for the universe to get people in their
26:11
groups? They do it all by themselves.
26:16
We don't have to do anything. So they choose their corner of
26:19
our lovely playground and let's keep moving forward so our
26:22
playground isn't always. And when we're told how to
26:24
behave by those adaptive children, we learn how to behave
26:28
that way. That 2 year old stays calm and
26:30
good and nice and we're good and they're good.
26:32
And then we all navigate to wherever the fuck we want
26:35
because we're not going to be engaging in the same behavior.
26:38
Why? Because the adaptive child tends
26:40
to have a shame cycle. Inner critic, outer critic.
26:43
And then they deny it through distractive activities,
26:45
addictive behaviors, compulsive activities, excuse me, drugs,
26:48
sex, alcohol, food, teenage behaviors that move into
26:51
adulthood. And apparently they find it
26:52
humorous and enticing and interesting.
26:55
Somehow to the brain of these people, being distracted is
26:58
fulfilling. Go figure.
27:00
So we don't need to do anything because they're going to do
27:03
things with the people that have fun.
27:06
We're not fun. Remember samadhiva samadhi
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people? We're not fun.
27:12
We don't believe in good and bad.
27:13
We don't do the evil shit, and we tell them about the
27:16
psychology, shit that gets boring pretty fast because they
27:19
can't deny it either, because thank goodness they're all out
27:21
there. The good psycho educators.
27:23
Thank goodness I have them. Then we got Sad Guru.
27:26
We got a guru out there. It's spelled it out shit as
27:28
well. So we got that for the spiritual
27:30
40 people who like to talk about, again, the same stuff.
27:35
And so they don't have a way to say no, but the world is shitty,
27:39
the world is crumbling. And so because they can't do
27:41
that, they're not going to have fun with us.
27:45
They're going to be very bored, their mind going to be very
27:47
upset and they're going to not want to be.
27:49
And it's like, you know what? That's good.
27:51
Go distract yourself. It's not really healthy.
27:54
But hey, you get bored with the serious stuff, so go distract
27:58
yourself. I was what?
28:00
How old was I? It was with my late 20s, and I
28:04
had a friend. I still have the same friend.
28:07
He's adorable. And him and I, we read each
28:10
other like he looks at me. I look at him, we laugh.
28:13
This is my friend, the one I didn't talk to for five years,
28:15
that he knows me like the back of his hand, and I know him like
28:18
the back of my hand. And when we're together, we
28:21
actually are able to be a good balance.
28:24
So when we're with groups, even though we don't hang out anymore
28:26
because he's basically dead now, he's not that he, he's he's he's
28:32
busy in his relationship. I shouldn't laugh.
28:36
Oh, my friend had so much energy in life and he's so not
28:40
energetic anymore. But I get it.
28:42
I know where he's at. He's going to be in my future,
28:45
by the way. So here's the other beautiful
28:47
part for the 5D Mystics in the Enlightenment.
28:49
So Adrif, we know our future. I had gifted to me a lot of
28:52
things this year, and part of them, well last year was my gift
28:56
initiation to knowing who my future is with.
28:59
Then I also started to say, but wait, OK, so this person's in my
29:03
future, but who else is in my future?
29:05
Cause I want to know out of these people that I know who
29:08
else is in my future. And I have yet to be able to
29:10
share with my one friend that he's in my future.
29:12
And when I recognized which one he was and I was like, that
29:16
totally makes fucking sense. I totally can see why it's him
29:21
and the other people that are there too.
29:23
I know why they're there. So Long story short Miss Friend
29:27
and I though we balance each other out because of course the
29:29
feminine energy, which is where the divine feminine is a person
29:34
who can see always the relationality.
29:37
But some people, they don't, they don't want to handle their
29:39
unresolved trauma so serious talk.
29:41
Some people they are, they're just wanting to have fun and
29:43
that's why nobody has to do anything about the over soul.
29:46
We always have all our loved ones with us, and the ones are
29:50
spiteful, vengeful. That one is a little bit more
29:52
challenging to work through because they actually get really
29:55
in their vengeance with you. Meaning they have these thoughts
29:59
in certain ways. They're ruminating patterns.
30:03
There's a collective consciousness for reason and
30:05
they're not the only ones. So we have a rainbow of colors
30:10
and that's where look at it as a rainbow and we have groups.
30:14
So your over soul is the entire humanity and infinite and beyond
30:17
whatever you want to think of. And we have a collective
30:19
consciousness. So people think things up and
30:21
they're in groups again and we got movies you, you name it.
30:23
Everything that exists in the in the sphere of energy, which is
30:27
any thought that's ever been spoken.
30:29
This is why when you connect, for example, the whole Pono
30:31
Pono, when I did it the first time I was like, wow, I could
30:35
feel all of the people that had used it.
30:38
And that's still do like with Jesus or prayer, like see here.
30:42
When you connect to the energies of those groups, you can feel
30:47
they're they're, they're there. It's it's something the
30:51
neuroscience and the physics community, I need to read
30:54
existential physics from Sabine, they know.
30:56
So again, solo poli, by the way, it's because those of us who are
31:01
complete spiritual processes, we walk alone, not because we walk
31:05
without people. We walk alone means we do self
31:07
transformation. So we're always inside working
31:10
on equanimity when we are around our lovely little people, we
31:15
know how to handle our likes and dislikes, so we're still
31:18
mastering that physical plane. And that involves various
31:20
elements, including the people that are in this moment pissed
31:24
at you because you're compassionate beyond a reason
31:26
and they're not pissed at you don't take it personally.
31:28
They don't like that you think everybody is special.
31:31
They're not in agreement and their rage is within their own
31:35
body and that's their zero year old, not yours.
31:37
So let them be pissed and be flies on a wall and just allow
31:41
yourself. You have one option.
31:43
Either you master equanimity or you don't.
31:45
You can choose. So do Dharma or do karma.
31:47
Your business. Not ours, Not mine for sure.
31:50
So on that note, let me actually look at this part I want to read
31:57
to you where sad guru in my inner engineering course, he
32:03
talks about this thing and he actually organizes our brain.
32:07
So one of the layers of the mind, he talks about conscious,
32:10
subconscious and conscious and the collective unconsciousness
32:13
and the unconscious subconscious and conscious and collective
32:17
unconsciousness makes up 98% of the mind.
32:22
Once you transcend the conscious mind, you transcend the
32:26
limitations of space and time and what is here is there.
32:29
What is there is here and what is now is then what is then is
32:33
now and it gets all garbled up. But this subconscious 2 to 3%,
32:39
which is dreams, situations that you're aware of floating between
32:43
sleep and wake state. Sometimes these happen because
32:48
time and space are the making of conscious mind.
32:50
So this is 4th dimension and people stay there because they
32:54
keep on believing in good and evil instead of recognizing it's
32:57
in my mind's eye it's not good and evil and there you go.
33:01
So the quality, the nature of the unconscious mind determines
33:04
the nature of your subconscious mind.
33:07
So the unconscious is where that infant of you OK and the body of
33:12
you. So if you have a dysregulated
33:14
modulated bodied your your scorecard is coming up with the
33:18
fight flight freeze attached cry, collapse a bit, please
33:22
apiece. So defense safety behaviors,
33:24
that's why you developed compulsive mechanisms to soothe.
33:29
And those are all people who have not resolved those shame,
33:34
defectiveness, heartbreak, heart wrench.
33:36
I'm unworthy, I'm broken. They're broken and fix, not
33:38
fixed. All this shit and it's not shit
33:40
for those people, but the ones who whine about it, They don't
33:43
know that their mothers, fathers, parents love them.
33:46
They just didn't have a regulated nervous system, so
33:48
they didn't know how to get them to be able and feel safe in
33:51
their bodies. So the parents were not able to
33:53
hold them, to tune to them a third of the time and then
33:56
repair and make them know they're lovable as they are
33:59
unconditionally. OK, so keeping it
34:01
straightforward, leave them alone or just handle the
34:03
insecure attachment people in a way of with gloves.
34:07
The quality of the unconscious mind determines the quality of
34:11
the subconscious and conscious minds.
34:13
And so if you are deep in your unconscious there is no such
34:19
thing as your mind. Oh OK.
34:21
This is subgroup. Being philosophical, what you
34:24
want to understand is that you are free of the subconscious and
34:31
conscious. When you start to understand
34:33
that suffering 4th dimension, you are potentially in the Maya
34:38
land. So let's get out of my land and
34:40
here's what I wanted to read from said guru. 4th dimension
34:43
part of mind. He talks about some Kara.
34:46
The pleasant sensation arose within you.
34:48
You said, oh I love it. Then your son Kara says, oh, he
34:51
loves it. Store it in the love bag.
34:53
Store it in the love bag forever.
34:55
Unpleasant sensation. Oh, I hate it, your son Kara
34:57
says. Oh, he hates it.
35:00
Stored in the hate bag. Stored in that bag forever.
35:02
If you are in love and hate, craving an aversion, wanting and
35:05
not wanting, your karma is growing.
35:08
So karma are those who navigate life just with their left mode
35:11
brain. They do not work with their
35:13
right mode. So when hate comes up, they're
35:15
like, oh, I shouldn't work with it.
35:17
It's I called it hate and she. That's it.
35:20
And there's our adaptive children, harsh and forgiving.
35:23
They go rigid chaos and they don't save.
35:25
Wait a minute. I need to calm my fucking self
35:27
because I'm not the only ego in town.
35:30
So let's see. The stronger your likes and
35:32
dislikes as that Google continues to point out, the
35:35
stronger and more painful your karma becomes.
35:38
Have you noticed this? If you have strong sense of like
35:42
and dislike, your suffering is also intense.
35:44
Because the more you are trapped and dislike and dislike, wanting
35:47
and not wanting, craving, an aversion, the karma is growing
35:50
at a rapid pace. Patterns of bondage are being
35:53
built within you. Now sensation comes, you're
35:56
equanimous. You're simply experiencing the
35:58
sensation for what it is. You don't like it, You don't
36:00
dislike it, simply experience it for what it is.
36:02
This is called you in mindfulness and mindsight, by
36:05
the way. Mindsight means you're going to
36:06
start to explore those sensations, those images, and
36:09
become the grown up of you. Thank you, Daniel Siegel.
36:12
So here's where said Guru continues to point out.
36:15
If you like it, you will distort it.
36:18
If you dislike it, you will distort it.
36:21
Simply experience it for what it is now, he says.
36:24
The karma attached to that sensation will begin to crumble.
36:29
The past will fall away and that is where it crumbles with you.
36:32
So if you maintain this equanimous mind, the karma will
36:35
begin to collapse. When will your mind be
36:38
equanimous? When your mind is accepting of
36:40
what is there right now. So this is where equanimity and
36:43
actual grown up land. And we're done with this said
36:45
guru stuff for now. Thank you said guru.
36:47
Thank you Daniel Siegel. And here lastly, people are all
36:51
are able to be bored in a magnificent life because they're
36:54
stuck in their mind. Yes, some rubbish is going on in
36:56
their head and there you go. Now those of us who are instead
37:01
in the invitement, so adrip. We do Dharma, we do not do
37:03
karma, and we don't sit there with people who do karma and we
37:06
let them do their own stuff. All as sacred or all as utter
37:12
nonsense nonsacred. In fact, we do not have anything
37:16
to do with any of that. The Shambabi doesn't create
37:20
ecstasy, it is expression of inner, core, creator.
37:23
Anything you don't understand, you will call it a miracle.
37:26
Cause and effect, not a miracle, but also it is.
37:29
Of course all is and all is nothing when you are a very
37:34
beautiful adult. You do know how to be in yoga
37:38
without even ever doing yoga or really knowing about yoga until
37:42
I met said guru. OK, so the lovely solo Poli and
37:47
anybody who's interested, let me read to you.
37:49
So polyamory. And really, if you are
37:52
enlightenment, so age of material.
37:54
You're a Poly secure person or at least secure human being,
37:58
which means secure attachment. So you know how to be your own
38:01
safe haven and secure base. It means you uncount.
38:04
You love who you are as you are with your flaws and
38:07
imperfections, and you know what tickles your mind, and you have
38:09
no problem following it. And if somebody doesn't like
38:12
what you do, it's OK. They don't have to.
38:14
If they don't like your same interest, if they don't like who
38:16
you are, you don't make it into a like, Oh my God, you don't
38:19
like me. How dare you not like me.
38:22
Oh my gosh, I'm so sad that you don't like me.
38:24
No. You know what's beautiful about
38:27
recognizing how different people are when it comes to this stuff?
38:33
In college, I had a girlfriend. It was very fascinating thing
38:37
she did because she she she she she seemed very confident.
38:43
And yet the minute she was able to fool around with a person
38:47
that she knew I liked was the minute that I realized, huh,
38:51
that's why people compete with each other.
38:53
They're not secure. How fascinating.
38:55
But I also realized the guy was an asshole as well.
38:58
I was like, huh, that's so fascinating that people do shit
39:01
like this. I wonder.
39:03
And really what I wondered was nothing more than.
39:06
That's something that's good to know about, both the people and
39:08
really the one individual man that was the most interesting
39:14
and eye opening experience. That confirms something about
39:19
myself that I already knew and I'm gonna keep it big on
39:21
purpose. I just know that I laughed about
39:23
all of it immediately, not after the fact.
39:26
And insecurity is something that we spot like that because we are
39:30
lions who see. So as a teenager, I knew lying,
39:32
cheating, casual betrayal, you name it.
39:34
All it gaslighting, manipulate, all of it.
39:37
Not evil. No, no, no, no.
39:39
Defectiveness, shame. I'm going to hide the truth.
39:41
I'm going to make myself out to be a victim, or I'm going to
39:44
make you out to be the bad guy. And then I'm going to go around
39:46
faulting shame and blaming and revenging people all of the rest
39:49
of my life. So the good psychoeducators are
39:52
going to help that to be gone with the science.
39:55
People are going to prove what Claire's are, and it's all good
39:58
and dandy because it's not going to change the beautiful
40:01
collective consciousness. It's an energy sphere.
40:04
What 4D doesn't understand is that the 5D Mystics, we have a
40:07
buttload of fun because we're in a playground.
40:11
So while they sit and think they're anointed and then they
40:13
keep fuming from hell because they're in hell, not the other
40:16
way around. They think that earth is hell.
40:18
You know how many people in 40 say earth is hell?
40:20
And I'm like, no, it's really in your body, in my brain.
40:22
I don't sell it to them face because otherwise they're gonna
40:25
punch me and they should cuz I'd punch me too.
40:28
Cuz you know, when you speak a truth, that is the truth.
40:30
And then it's gonna be felt. Somebody's gonna want to react
40:33
to that. And that's normal.
40:34
That's their inner child protecting.
40:36
I'm. I'm totally okay with people
40:38
protecting themselves. I think it's fair and square.
40:41
The fact that I have no weapon in my hand is interesting.
40:44
But hey, again, emotions. A lot of people don't know how
40:47
to handle them. That's why, again, I say
40:49
insecure emotionally speaking. I didn't say they're not cocky.
40:53
No, no, they can speak their mouthful.
40:55
I'm saying their emotions seek. Oh, I'm so sorry.
40:59
We don't actually do that. We don't have fun doing teak.
41:02
We actually just trying to be grown-ups.
41:04
We don't realize that people don't know how to handle their
41:06
hearts. That's the Enlightenment.
41:08
So age group people, solo poli. It's not because we don't love,
41:12
you don't know. We love all people is that they
41:15
bum us out. And when we speak the truth,
41:17
they teach us that they don't actually have the handling of
41:20
their heart. And we're like, wait a minute,
41:21
OK, I'm having part time right now with what you're doing.
41:25
You want to shame, blame, fault and revenge me for something
41:28
that I did not do. I didn't lift a finger.
41:30
I'm actually having what is called in my book a
41:33
conversation. You don't like it?
41:35
I don't know why. Oh, thank you.
41:37
Psychoeducators, adaptive children, you know what they do
41:40
since they have shame, blame, fault, and they're unresolved
41:43
trauma with people that are actual functional adults that
41:47
are somatic empaths. The therapists talk to me about
41:49
it all the time because I learned from them.
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It's called transference. Oh, and the good therapists?
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They don't use it. They allow themselves to sit
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through it with silence, as grownups do, and then when the
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opportune moment. I'm not a person's therapist.
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Oh see, in my love circle, I ain't here to be your therapist.
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And on the episodes we are talking about how one can become
42:11
their own Zen masters. So I'm giving food for thought
42:14
and sharing stories and having good laughs.
42:16
The channel guidance is for only those who are in the
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Enlightenment community. This is a very specific one.
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We're going to have more, don't worry.
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So keep on tuning in because this one's almost run out of its
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time. So the police, because we know
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exactly how to. Let me go to the safe haven and
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secure base description when you can be your own safe haven.
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Let's see, You don't need a relationship to feel safe.
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You're safe all by yourself. If you turn towards yourself,
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are you going to be there for you?
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Yep. Check.
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Do you receive and accept yourself, or do you attack,
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criticize, or judge or dismiss yourself?
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If you do that, you're in a shame cycle.
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Are you going to comfort yourself?
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Good. Do you respond in a way that
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calms your nervous system, or do you sit in rumination when
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people don't like to play with you because they don't like you?
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Okay. Do you matter to yourself?
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Let me see. Check.
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Do you make a difference in your life?
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You know how many people actually don't.
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This is really sad. Nobody matters.
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Nobody loves me. But I'm here talking to you as a
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teenager. No, but it's not the same thing
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as an adult. I'm here talking to you.
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Does it make a difference? No.
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So when people are like I need another partner in my in my
43:24
life. No, you need to choose yourself
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because otherwise you're going to be in this state forever and
43:30
ever. No, no, I need someone okay and
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friends don't matter, right? And so this is the hilarious
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part about why we don't do any relationship with people who
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their friends don't matter because we're like, what are you
43:43
doing? Do you not have other family?
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Like, what is this? How old are you?
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I get it. If you're a teenager, you think
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the world revolves around one person.
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But then again, no, I don't get it.
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Because I was a teenager and my teenage boyfriend.
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The world ain't going to revolve around you, so you better put
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yourself in a seat. You're not going to be picked.
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Out of all my 10 friends, or however many I had, you're going
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to be on the same list, equally giving love to all of you.
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I'm so sorry that you thought you'd be special.
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You are special, but in a very equal way.
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Can we lean into and rely on each other?
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Can you lean into yourself and rely?
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Yes, yes, yes. That's a beautiful one.
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So there's your safe haven. So safe haven.
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Easy peasy. For those of you who are your
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own functional adults and you've gotten here, whether on your own
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doesn't matter. Here's for secure base.
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OK Do you encourage your own personal growth and development?
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Raise your hand? Yes, I do.
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Do you support your work and your interest?
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Raise your hand again? Do you need somebody to motivate
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you? I didn't need motivation in
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school, and it's a very basic skill set, by the way.
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Apparently I was the odd one. But go figure.
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I was thinking, I'm not going to waste my time doing shit that
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doesn't seem to bring people anywhere.
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Let's see, Do you listen to each other's hopes, dreams?
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I do listen to my hopes, dreams and visions.
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They're amazing. And I do listen to other
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people's. Do they listen to mine?
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Depends what mood they're in. So, and it depends if I want to
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share and you know, really it's only if they actually do.
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I do have people that want to listen to them, listen when your
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partners share about their experiences in other
45:13
relationships. I do that very well.
45:15
But you know how hard it is for people to actually share their
45:18
relationships even when you make it very clear that you're not a
45:20
jealous person and that you're open.
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Very fascinating when people don't know how to talk about
45:25
their intimate relationships with the person who's Poly
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secure. I didn't have the word, but I
45:29
still was open to We're not needing to be 1 to one, you
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know, Life is a beautiful oyster, so there you go.
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But go figure. As a teenager and a young adult,
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I was like, wow, no matter how flexible you are, people seem to
45:43
be scared shitless of talking about their shit.
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What is that? So solo poli.
45:48
Again, very great because most people are not secure attachment
45:52
within themselves, so they don't actually know how to talk about
45:55
their experiences in other relationships with the people
45:57
they choose to be exclusive with all on their own.
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Might I add, You know, The funny thing about using words and not
46:03
meaning them is that you don't mean them.
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But then other people like, wait a minute, there's an
46:08
inconsistency here. So it's called when people are
46:11
afraid and they don't know it and that's all the adults that
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are not adults and that's every single one.
46:16
They don't even need to be in the insecure attachment style.
46:18
I see them all over the place. Again, they're secure
46:21
attachment, but they got issues with their own self-confidence,
46:25
and they're grownups to have conversations about things that
46:28
are intellectually or emotionally stimulating to each
46:31
other. I love those ones.
46:32
Those are very beautiful and I have them all the time with
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myself and my colleagues. Acknowledge each other's
46:39
capabilities and possibilities for growth compassionately.
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Bring light to your partner's limitations and blind spots.
46:45
The path, compassionately, is important.
46:47
And really, you don't do that unless they're asking you about
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something like that or if it's really important.
46:53
So obviously, like if I see a loved one who's drinking too
46:57
much, too much, I'll say, you know, maybe for your health, you
47:00
could consider drinking a little bit less or taking a note.
47:04
You know, like there's different ways you can present to
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somebody. How about you do this?
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We could go get a checkup, you know, just be an adult with them
47:13
and then you let them know. I worry.
47:14
That's all. Offer words of encouragement
47:17
when your partners take on new responsibilities, go on dates
47:19
with others, take a risk or learn something new.
47:22
And that's where these are really great things.
47:25
And when you find people who are secure and enlightened, you'll
47:31
find this when people are Zen masters of themselves.
47:34
So to find that type of person all day, you need to look for
47:38
are people who are unconsciously loving with their own flaws and
47:41
imperfections, and they know how to talk about all shit, not just
47:44
some shit. And it's a very easygoing thing.
47:46
Now there are people who have different types of attachment
47:50
styles, so that is something we'll be talking about.
47:53
And you just want to be aware because they are going to the
47:57
disconnected feels that they don't give a shit at all because
47:59
their self is completely offline.
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Their body and brain doesn't have a connection.
48:05
The preoccupied is the one who actually is always freaking out.
48:09
So they need time to get comfortable with the fact that
48:12
you don't attach and they're going to feel that you don't
48:14
love them. So it requires a certain amount
48:17
of time. The fearful avoidant.
48:18
They just have the defense mechanism and attachment system
48:22
intertwined, so they come in and out and don't stick around at
48:25
all because they're consistently on the run.
48:28
They consistently fear relationship until they actually
48:31
get a handle on their fight flight, freeze and that they
48:35
realize shit. I keep running away all the time
48:37
until they are the ones who decide to sit still.
48:41
They're not going to build anything because their defense
48:43
mechanism is terrified by attachments, because they had a
48:47
terrifying household. So they will avoid all
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relationships, and that's about it.
48:51
And that's where you don't have relationships with people who
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are not consistently building relationships with you.
48:59
Which is why there's no twin flames or twin flame or soul
49:04
mates or soul mate or whatever. For my lovely 5D Mystics, you
49:08
will already know this. We are consistently, always
49:12
expanding our oversole, not diminishing it.
49:14
So our connections grow, the perception of our partners are
49:19
that they are committed to us and us to them.
49:21
The ones who we're growing with. We appreciate each other.
49:23
There is obviously going to be sexual satisfaction for those of
49:26
you who have that type of relationship and the perception
49:30
of satisfaction is something you discuss and openly and then
49:34
dealing with any type of conflict is grown up land.
49:38
So function adult there is the ability to speak.
49:40
So again, when people hide shit, they're not hiding it.
49:44
Their nervous system is speaking it to any person who's in the
49:48
mysticism plane, but any person who is a functional, adult,
49:54
integrated mind, restorative body itself means you know, your
49:58
own nervous system, your own shit.
50:01
And so you know when it's not yours and you don't talk about
50:04
people as energy vampires or evil, that's not what they are.
50:07
You understand that you're in a room full of people,
50:09
potentially. Again, putting all that to the
50:12
side as we close on out when it comes to being able to talk
50:18
about your solo Poly secure status, it's easy if you're a
50:23
solo monogamist. It's easy if you're a whatever
50:26
you want to use for your own way of identifying how you enter
50:30
into your community of relationships. the
50:34
Enlightenment. So age of person is a person who
50:37
unconsciously loves with flaws and imperfections.
50:40
All evil does not exist, but we do know how to engage with the
50:44
people who are in the yellow and the red.
50:46
So if a neighbor throws shit in our face we wonder and or hope
50:50
they're OK. If they do it again then we
50:52
might say OK look or we might not.
50:54
We might just call the cops and that's about it.
50:56
But we do not make any type of assumptions or prejudice.
51:00
Love means to nurture life beyond opinions and prejudice,
51:04
compassionate beyond. A reason is where and how a
51:08
person who has integration of the mind and restorative
51:11
embodied self. So the individual who has
51:13
optimized their human life experience, it's the infinite
51:16
higher human consciousness potential.
51:18
You're a scientist they talk about when we're channeling.
51:21
So I channel for 5D communities and I don't do the people who
51:26
are looking to be handheld because that means you do not
51:29
know you're a person. You do not know that energy is
51:31
energy and that the collective consciousness is energy.
51:34
So you don't use your brain to translate your predictions and
51:38
say get offline prediction board because I don't need you because
51:43
there isn't a prediction. There is a learning how to
51:46
handle your own energetic spectrum first, So your
51:49
alignment of your mental, physical energy body with your
51:54
own values and then your heart, body and every person's
51:57
experience is different, which is why we come together and we
52:00
do solo journeys, but it's together.
52:03
That's why it's polyamory. We unconditionally love does not
52:07
mean sexual, does not mean that we have to have any type of
52:12
specific bond. It's that we safe haven, secure
52:15
base each other. OK, so the Enlightenment
52:18
community is one that appreciates all of our friends.
52:21
That's why I do relationship anarchy and I do not do
52:26
hierarchy at all. No, it's it's anarchy and then
52:29
it's also non hierarchical because that's ridiculous.
52:32
I do have to use words, friends, family, because people like to
52:35
be identified but that's not what polyamory is for those of
52:40
us who are in the Enlightenment. So a group and what I mean by
52:43
that is that we love all of our over soul and that's never going
52:47
to change. It only amplifies.
52:49
Which is why the people who think of us and then they spit
52:53
in their little vengeance little box is because they actually
52:56
think that only some human beings deserve love and some
52:59
human beings are good. They believe that some human
53:03
beings are evil and they forget that every human being began
53:05
life as an infant. Everyone of the human beings
53:08
that has existed prior to us from today to tomorrow will have
53:12
been an infant and from zero to seven months old they will have
53:15
an experience and then in the womb and there is no devil,
53:17
there is no demon. Look up Patrick McNamara and
53:21
religious self and his book and then look at his video that
53:24
talks about what happens when people have demonic dreams.
53:27
There is no demonic possession. There is a part of your brain
53:29
that breaks science, explains how we are and why we are.
53:34
The Michael Stone do did a 1 to 22 scale on evil because he is a
53:38
criminologist and he teases about how we should not be using
53:41
that word. We have episodes about how evil
53:44
doesn't exist and we're going to continue those episodes to
53:46
destigmatize also those people who are not evil.
53:50
And again, it is something that is based on pseudoscience.
53:55
Yes, because I bring in together this and that.
53:58
The mystical part is because I tell the mystical plane, stop
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talking about evil, it doesn't exist.
54:03
Go learn science and stop supporting the Flat Earthers.
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Please. I'm okay with all the things I
54:09
don't know, but let's call it what it is.
54:11
If you throw yourself off the balcony, there's gravity.
54:14
Please stay grounded in reality. That way we can actually make
54:17
our world move somewhere, growing relationships very easy
54:22
for an enlightenment community. We do not need to speak, and we
54:25
don't speak about any of the revenge that people do to us.
54:28
You know why? Because while we're feeling it,
54:30
we're looking how to maintain a specific equanimous stance.
54:34
We are consistently active in this pure consciousness,
54:38
Plurusha and Prakriti pure energy.
54:41
And so we know, colleague, come on stop, teenage version of
54:45
ourselves. It's okay.
54:47
And we learn actually how to allocate the hell people in
54:50
their little hell box. And then we start to try working
54:53
very well to clear the line. You know what clearing the line
54:57
means to remember they were all infants.
54:59
They're the ones who don't have peace with their own inner
55:02
world. They're zero year old fucking
55:04
hates their guts and they're teenagers now making a shit show
55:08
and they're turning it against somebody else.
55:10
So let's clear that line. And I'm clearing it right now
55:13
because they are really always, every year these people come on
55:16
out of the and there are people who think they're doing good.
55:20
These are the people. They're that story that sad guru
55:23
shares of that one dude who figures out that he's been
55:27
killing and and shedding blood in a very bad way.
55:31
So if there is evil, we will know where to allocate it and it
55:34
will not be with the people that these people are pointing
55:37
fingers at. It's actually going to be
55:39
something different. And we don't do it because we
55:41
know that it's bad. Matters to point, did anybody
55:43
not get taught this as a kid? I got taught it.
55:46
I remember. And I remember again noticing,
55:49
oh, don't cast the stone, Maria. That's not nice.
55:52
So pure consciousness, pure energy, very straightforward
55:55
enlightenment. So age group, this is who these
55:58
are for. You don't have to be a solo
56:00
poli, but I'm a solo poli. And that's because we walk well
56:05
as we uncon. She love all of our
56:07
relationships, are entire over soul and create a beautiful
56:10
playground and then support people to come together and
56:12
create mindful, beautiful relationships.
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So tune on in for more and have a wonderful 88.