Latest / The Big Gay Radio Show / May 12th, 2026 - Leo Andersen (Queer Asian Museum: St. Pete)
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- 2:34the Big Gay Radio Show's streaming platform, Spotify,
- 2:36Apple podcast. Just look up the big gay radio
- 2:39show. But first, we're joined by a
- 2:41very special guest. We are joined by Leo Anderson,
- 2:46the owner of the Queer Asian Museum.
- 2:49Hello, Petersburg, right? Yeah, yeah, I seen Saint
- 2:51Petersburg go one, 1006 Central Ave.
- 2:55Awesome. So where what is the Queer Asian
- 2:59History Museum? What is that?
- 3:00Where obviously you know the name, you know it gives.
- 3:03It gives a little bit of a way, but what is it?
- 3:05So it's a museum that focus on the multi nation experience of
- 3:11all pan Asian experience and their queers history and arts
- 3:16it. That's awesome.
- 3:18So where did the idea come from? This Can I tell a little bit
- 3:22about my own history? Absolutely, 100%.
- 3:25All right, so I was the Beijing LGBT Center directors back in
- 3:31201112. So I was heavily involved with
- 3:38the China and Taiwan's LGBT movement and by 2013 I start
- 3:44work for the United Nation. What on earth?
- 3:48Oh my gosh. OK, keep going.
- 3:50Keep going. All right, so we actually like
- 3:53organized the first Trans Asian Trans Roundtable and yeah,
- 4:00that's when I start to realize, you know, it's not just one
- 4:04country like the whole Asian. We have so many things that
- 4:08share together and that idea always see me and every time I
- 4:13go to a museum, I was like, why this is just one country when
- 4:16we, you know, if you see chopstick, you wouldn't ask
- 4:20that's Chinese, Japanese or Korean chopsticks.
- 4:23That's true, although they are all different.
- 4:27So you wouldn't know, you wouldn't care.
- 4:29So why? There's nothing like a multi
- 4:31nation thing. And by the time 2023, a lot of
- 4:35my friends back in China start talking, telling me things get a
- 4:40little bit difficult and some space got shut down.
- 4:44So they want to send me for things for safe keep.
- 4:49And I'm like, yeah, yeah, send it over, send it over.
- 4:51So after two years, by the year 2025 I have more than 2000
- 4:57things from different bars for office and then I cannot just
- 5:04leave them, let them sit in my garage.
- 5:07Oh, absolutely not. Are you right?
- 5:09No, definitely. That makes sense.
- 5:11Yeah, Like history is supposed to inspire people.
- 5:14You can study it, but at the very end, it's political.
- 5:17You need to inspire the next generation, even when it's in
- 5:21hiatus. So I talked with some friends
- 5:23Like we create this queer Asian museum right here in Sin Peak,
- 5:27though that's a whole history of this museum.
- 5:30I love that. That's amazing.
- 5:32That is such an awesome story. So thank you so much for for,
- 5:36you know, sharing that and, and for doing what you're doing
- 5:39because that that's actually, I agree.
- 5:41You know, history shouldn't be kept in a, in a locker or a, a
- 5:45storage unit. You know, there's so much we can
- 5:47learn and we can be inspired from when it comes to to the the
- 5:51past in just general. And something that, you know,
- 5:54really bothers me about about nowadays is that the past always
- 5:59repeats itself. Despite having literally the
- 6:02entirety of the history of the world in our phones, history
- 6:05still is repeating itself over and over and over again.
- 6:10We never learn. And the way that we can learn is
- 6:13through amazing museums such as yours.
- 6:15So thank you again for what you do.
- 6:19So I want Vin to go ahead and and it seems like you have some
- 6:23stuff to talk about. I do.
- 6:25So it's funny that you say that, particularly that history
- 6:29repeats itself. I actually had a meeting
- 6:31yesterday with Rafi Blue and Rafi was my introduction to you.
- 6:36And also I'm like mind blown that we haven't crossed paths in
- 6:40all of this time that we've been like circling St.
- 6:43Pete together. So I'm actually really grateful
- 6:45to be connected with you. When I heard about the Queer
- 6:48Asian Museum, I was like, that's oddly specific, right?
- 6:52And I was in in my, in my brain. I was like, it's interesting
- 6:55that this is oddly specific. And then when I was in my
- 6:58meeting with Rafi yesterday, it really put it into perspective
- 7:01how influential queer Asian culture really has been in all
- 7:06of this time, in like thousands of years.
- 7:09If you even look back in the early 1500s, we influenced
- 7:11politics, we influenced fashion, we influenced movement.
- 7:15And so like, to have a queer Asian museum here now to
- 7:20recognize what's happening now, like that's mind blowing.
- 7:23It's incredible. It's really inspirational, Leah.
- 7:26I think it's very interesting you mention now because, you
- 7:28know, right now I actually see some mirroring parallelism
- 7:32between what's happening here in the Westerns to what happened in
- 7:36China when the things start to get worse, right?
- 7:40Like we used to have a golden age around the Olympic time and
- 7:44then things just start degrading.
- 7:48I agree. Yeah, I do agree.
- 7:50Yeah, like. There are so many I every time I
- 7:53go through these things, I was like, isn't this just happened
- 7:55last week here? Yes.
- 7:58It's a sense of deja vu. I know, I know.
- 8:00Very much which? Is why I was like, this is
- 8:02interesting that you said history repeats itself because I
- 8:05do believe that history in its modern way is repeating lessons
- 8:10right now and we get a really awesome opportunity from to
- 8:14learn from different cultures. So to have an, A, an Asian
- 8:18museum, let's start there then. Then to extend it and go deeper,
- 8:21to go queer Asian is actually profound.
- 8:24I'm really excited to be there on Friday.
- 8:26Thank you, Miss Red. Yes.
- 8:27Yeah. Yeah.
- 8:28So Speaking of Friday, it is the the Queer Asian Icons event in
- 8:32the event. Can you give me a little bit of
- 8:34a explanation as to to what you're going to be doing there?
- 8:37So I'm actually going to be hosting the event.
- 8:39I'm very excited to have been invited to host the event.
- 8:41Thank you for that, Leo. And I'm actually going to be
- 8:44performing as well. Rafi Blue and I are going to be
- 8:47performing there and it is going to be from 7:00 to 9:00.
- 8:51We're going to get the opportunity to really showcase
- 8:54modern icons, modern queer Asian icons in our community.
- 8:58And I didn't realize that there were so many of us until we were
- 9:02put in the same room. So it's oh.
- 9:04Yeah, you got somebody like Alice Marie Grip who is
- 9:07absolutely amazing with what she's doing with Equality
- 9:10Florida and with with their safe teaching department.
- 9:14I forget what the what a specific is called.
- 9:16I don't I don't remember the exact title, but Alice in
- 9:19general and Alex Quinto like Alice Marie grip, Alex Quinto
- 9:22right? Them as people, they really
- 9:26create a safe space for human kind, so for them to exist and.
- 9:31Same with Claire Leeson, who is also being honored as well.
- 9:34Project no labels exactly, exactly.
- 9:37So I, you know, we we land in the same spaces sometimes and go
- 9:42man, there's not very many of us.
- 9:44So I'm really excited to be playing.
- 9:45The same role we're. Everywhere it's 60.
- 9:48Percent of the population in the world are Asian.
- 9:54Yes, that was loud. I am very sure that our
- 9:58listeners really appreciated you screaming.
- 10:00I'm so sorry. I'm so sorry.
- 10:03That was exciting. Let me calm down.
- 10:05Yeah, just take a, take a, take a breather there, then just an
- 10:08exciting. Experience.
- 10:09Take a chill pill please. I feel you.
- 10:11People are in their cars. They just lowered the volume.
- 10:16What just sorry, what just happened?
- 10:18I thought there was a wombat in here.
- 10:20No, sorry. A wombat.
- 10:21Do you know a fun fact? The wombat poop.
- 10:25How little cubes? Wait, they they poop cubes?
- 10:30I had no idea. Our show is very famous for
- 10:33talking about poop is. It really.
- 10:35Yeah, we have had different, we've had different
- 10:38conversations in this show and in the after show in reference
- 10:41to poop, human poop and animal poop.
- 10:44Yeah, actually. So this so this conversation
- 10:47doesn't surprise me at all. Anyways, sorry because my whole
- 10:52queer journey starts with a safe place when I started Indian
- 10:55Sydney and so like warm bad I just have to throw that.
- 10:58They're very cute, by the way. That was such a very interesting
- 11:02little. What a way to loop that.
- 11:04Actually, that was great. Our show is ADHD 100%.
- 11:09We're all over the place. We are, we are.
- 11:13As my mother would say to me when I was a little boy, I am
- 11:16special. Because she didn't have a.
- 11:19Because she didn't have a better word.
- 11:20We all vibe special right here. So to kind of go and, and bring
- 11:25it back to you. So obviously you you had a very
- 11:29extensive history. What what specifically brought
- 11:33you to the Saint Petersburg area?
- 11:35Oh, interesting. So my aunt was well, a little
- 11:41bit sad. She and her family is trying to
- 11:43treat cancer. So we have the the Mafia Cancer
- 11:48Center here. So when we came here with like,
- 11:51this is a very nice area and I was bored a little bit.
- 11:57After a couple days, I applied for jobs and here I am.
- 12:01I got a job opportunity and Saint Pete is just so awesome.
- 12:05So when we opened it, we're like, let's find a place there.
- 12:09I love that. Absolutely.
- 12:11Yeah. I love that.
- 12:12What were you going to? What were you going to save?
- 12:14In Saint Pete is its own like happy bubble, so I'm glad that
- 12:17you feel loved and welcome here. Yeah.
- 12:20So obviously, you know, our experiences as LGBTQ individuals
- 12:26would probably be different because as you know, I'm, I'm a
- 12:28white man. You're Asian, So what you?
- 12:31Know you were wise. Oh my God.
- 12:33Oh my God. So what was it?
- 12:34What was it like, you know, growing up as an as an LGBTQ
- 12:38Asian individual? I have a story that's very
- 12:41Asian. Maybe Mr. Vin can relate.
- 12:44My mom, my coming out story is my mom.
- 12:47When they sit me down, it's like Leo when I clean your room, I
- 12:51accidentally your journal fell off the desk and saw one of the
- 12:56last love letter you wrote to your classmate.
- 12:59Oh my God. Like there's something you want
- 13:02to tell me like that is the most.
- 13:06Angrier. No, no, she's very
- 13:08understanding. My dad on another hand.
- 13:11Yeah, see, I had to reverse. Yeah, my father was under
- 13:15completely understanding and my mother was the one that reacted
- 13:20badly. But she got over it of it.
- 13:22Obviously when you when you live as a woman for 50 years, I mean,
- 13:26what is she going to do now? It's obviously not a phase.
- 13:30Yeah, it's not. Yeah, it turns out my mom
- 13:33actually the biggest cheerleader, like even when I
- 13:35opened the museum, we donated some of her Chinese painting and
- 13:39we sold it on Winter Pride or whatever.
- 13:42And that's the initial found that we start the museum that
- 13:47pays for all the meetings for the first eight boxes.
- 13:50Now, do your parents live here? Do they live in China?
- 13:52Oh, my mom just moved to the DC area.
- 13:54She had a little bit traumatic experience with the interpreters
- 13:59here, so he moved to somewhere she will speak more.
- 14:03OK. Yeah.
- 14:04So there because with communication you mean?
- 14:07Yeah, because, you know, she's in that generation doing the
- 14:11traditional Chinese medicine, right?
- 14:13And she sometimes said there's fire in my body, there's winding
- 14:17going through my head. And the interpreter translate in
- 14:21a totally weird way and the doctor saw sees her like some
- 14:26lunatics. Like what do you mean?
- 14:27I'm really sorry it. Was a language barrier.
- 14:30Yeah, that's so sad. That's.
- 14:32So frustrating. Yeah, I don't know.
- 14:34It's same to like, I don't know for me, like Asians living in
- 14:38the queer community saying like sometimes there's a language
- 14:42barrier I have to explain myself.
- 14:44But my mom for her, like I, I can't have my mom live like like
- 14:48that. I have that Saxon City Steve
- 14:50moment. It's like my mom can't live like
- 14:53this. So I moved her over to DC area.
- 14:55Is it better for her there? Yeah, she found a Chinese
- 14:58speaking senior activity center and she has things to do every
- 15:01day now. OK.
- 15:03Good. Culturally, I do believe that DC
- 15:05is much more heartwarming, so I feel safer up there, you know
- 15:09what I mean? Culturally, culturally,
- 15:14culturally. Yeah, well.
- 15:16Not in the, Not in the White House, not in the.
- 15:18White. House No.
- 15:19As a trans person, I don't feel safe.
- 15:21As an Asian person, I I can feel.
- 15:24Safe and the food is safer. Correct, correct.
- 15:27I was actually just in DC 2 weeks ago.
- 15:30There were three choir Asian choirs like to form together.
- 15:34What? Yeah, it's 'cause it's the
- 15:36invisible body, indivisible body, the like the put
- 15:42peremptions around the DI. So we have the Cherry Blossom
- 15:50Choir from DC and we have Asian Rainbow Choir from New York and
- 15:54the local Korean Pure song playing the traditional Korean
- 15:58drums. That's.
- 15:59Incredible. Yeah, that's incredible.
- 16:02So Esme, do you have any last little questions real quick?
- 16:05No, no, I've talked to, I've talked to him so much today that
- 16:08I'm just, I got everything I needed to get out of him as a
- 16:11person. Honestly, I'm just, I'm very
- 16:13happy that, you know, we can go ahead and learn from queer
- 16:16Asian, you know, communities because honestly, I didn't
- 16:19really think of, you know, that segment of the population being,
- 16:23you know, having that much of A history.
- 16:25And, you know, I can't wait to come down and see, you know, the
- 16:28museum. So where can people find a
- 16:30little bit more information about the museum?
- 16:32Yeah, so you can find us on the website qom.org or Cam, that's
- 16:37how I call it. Or if you go to the social
- 16:39media, just of there's a queer Asian museum, that's our
- 16:45Instagram. Or if you are actually a queer
- 16:49Asian person or organization, feel free to donate to us or we
- 16:54can set up an item. So our museum actually one of
- 16:59our main thing is we're museum create to return.
- 17:03So if your organization is in hiatus and stop and after you
- 17:09donate to us and when you reopen, we'll return your things
- 17:13back to you because. Oh nice.
- 17:15Yes, I think we're the only museum does that because our
- 17:18idea is to impact inspires the next generation.
- 17:21What do you collect from them? Any artifact, documents, video,
- 17:25music, anything you want to pass on?
- 17:27OK, I see. Yeah.
- 17:29So you. Make copies of it.
- 17:30Sure, whatever, whatever that's that shows your spirits and by
- 17:36the time you're ready, your group is ready, we can give
- 17:39those things back to you. That's that's just our museum.
- 17:44That's amazing. You know, I you see so many
- 17:46museums they just collect and collect and collect and then
- 17:49eventually the issue happens where they have so much
- 17:53collection that they put it in a storage unit and then they don't
- 17:56actually inspire the next generation.
- 17:57It just collects destiny we. Believe a flag should pop you
- 18:00waving for people to gather and or not be sitting folded on the
- 18:05wall. Absolutely.
- 18:06No, I completely, completely agree.
- 18:08So, Miss Esme, what are we going to talk about after we get back?
- 18:12What about Betty Broderick, she was sentenced to life in 1989.
- 18:16I'll tell you what she did for those of you that aren't
- 18:18familiar with her and why her case is so important even though
- 18:22she died in prison. Why her case is so important
- 18:25especially for women. Also a Florida Chase Bank is in
- 18:29trouble for how they treated a person that was waiting for
- 18:33their to make a deposit. I'll tell you what happened to
- 18:36this young man. The Hungarian Prime Minister
- 18:39takes office. Yay.
- 18:41I'm so happy that they have a new Prime Minister and of A and
- 18:46a quarter of Americans think that the assassination attempt
- 18:51at the White House Correspondents Dinner was
- 18:54staged. I'll tell you why that's bad.
- 18:57I'm I'm going to tell you why I think that's bad.
- 18:59And maybe everybody else has a different opinion.
- 19:01So those are my topics. Yes.
- 19:03And we also got the hantavirus. We will definitely talk about
- 19:06that and our opinions on that. But we also got Erica and
- 19:10Charlie Kirk giving a an honorary degree.
- 19:15We'll talk about that. And then I also want to go ahead
- 19:18and touch on the USF Canvas hack.
- 19:22Well, I shouldn't say it's USF specifically, but the nationwide
- 19:25Canvas hack that affected USF students.
- 19:28I'll give you guys my perspective after the break.
- 19:31But first, let's go ahead and throw it over to Claire Leeson
- 19:33from Project No Labels for our big gay news.
- 19:35And then over to Joanna Grasso for Joe on the Go, our community
- 19:38calendar. We'll be right back.
- 19:44I'm Claire Leeson from Project No Labels and this is your LGBTQ
- 19:47plus news from around the country and right here in Tampa
- 19:50Bay in Saint Petersburg from watermark out news.
- 19:54Saint Pete pride officially kicked off pride season May 3rd
- 19:57with the 2020 sixth mix Saint Pete pride pageant at 1920 ybor
- 20:01crowning a new Royal Court in a celebration of local LGBTQ plus
- 20:04talent and community. The event built momentum towards
- 20:07next month's 24th annual Saint Pete Pride celebration and
- 20:11honored the 2025 title holders including Miss Saint Pete Pride,
- 20:14Seduction, Dickerson, Mr. Saint Pete Pride, the Oscar de Milo
- 20:17and mix Saint Pete Pride Roman Marco Lewinsky, former Miss
- 20:21Saint Pete. Pete Pride Jada Fuentes was also
- 20:22recognized for 15 years of service and impact within the
- 20:26community. During opening remarks, St.
- 20:28Pete Pride President Doctor Byron Green Khalid emphasized
- 20:31the growing importance of diversity and inclusion efforts
- 20:34as state legislation targeting DEI programs continues to impact
- 20:38LGBTQ plus organizations and funding opportunities across
- 20:41Florida. Crowned as this year's winner
- 20:43were ashed in opulence as Mr. Saint Pete Pride 2026, Emmani El
- 20:47Valentino as Miss Saint Pete Pride 2026 and Kenzie D Lavish
- 20:51make Saint Pete Pride 2026. Congratulations to all who
- 20:54competed also from Watermark in Key West.
- 20:57Organizers say future pride related events will no longer
- 21:00receive state funding following the passage of Florida's anti
- 21:03dei legislation. According to a letter provided
- 21:05to the Key West Business Guild, state funding tied to events
- 21:08like Key West Pride, Tropical Heat and Women's Fest will end
- 21:11beginning 2027 as a result of Senate Bill 1134.
- 21:15In House Bill 1001, Executive Director Rob Doherty says the
- 21:19change will significantly affect how major LGBTQ plus events in
- 21:23the Keys are organized moving forward.
- 21:25The organizers say this year's events will not be impacted in
- 21:29Wisconsin. From the Wisconsin Examiner,
- 21:31Governor Tony Ever says his administration has no plans to
- 21:34repeal the state's ban on conversion therapy for LGBTQ
- 21:37plus clients, in a sharply worded response to two
- 21:40conservative groups seeking to overturn the policy.
- 21:43Evers called conversion therapy an outdated practice linked to
- 21:47depression, anxiety, substance misuse and suicide.
- 21:50The dispute follows a recent US Supreme Court ruling that sent a
- 21:54challenge to Colorado's conversion therapy ban back to
- 21:56lower courts for further review on 1st Amendment grounds.
- 21:59And finally, in religious news from the Washington Blade, a new
- 22:03Vatican report acknowledges that many LGBTQ plus Catholics have
- 22:06felt isolated within the church. The report includes testimony
- 22:09from married gay Catholics and appears critical of so-called
- 22:12conversion therapy practices. Well, the document does not
- 22:15change official church teachings on homosexuality, marriage or
- 22:18gender identity. LGBTQ plus Catholic advocacy
- 22:21groups welcome the recognition and tone of the report.
- 22:23Please remember to stay safe and treat yourself and others with
- 22:26kindness. This has been your LGBTQ plus
- 22:28news for the Big Gay radio show. I'm Claire Leeson on 88.5 WMNF
- 22:33Tampa. Hey, hey Tampa Bay, it's Joanna
- 22:40Grosso with Joe on the go. Tampa Bay.
- 22:42Here's what's happening around the community this week.
- 22:44First up, on Friday, May 15th at 7:00 PM, head to Ten O 6 Central
- 22:48Ave. in Saint Pete for a special celebration honoring queer Asian
- 22:52icons in Tampa Bay. The night will feature
- 22:54performances, storytelling, and local talent including Alice,
- 22:57Marine, Grip, Cat Limb and many more than on Saturday, May 16th.
- 23:01Equality Floors 2026 Saint Pete Gala is bringing the rainbow
- 23:05disco theme into town for a night celebrating the LGBTQ
- 23:08community with dinner, dancing, local honorees and a big disco
- 23:12inspired party to close out the evening.
- 23:14Then on Sunday, May 24th at 3:00 PM FGRA Country Sunday is
- 23:18happening at the Garage on Central Ave. in Saint Pete's.
- 23:21The Florida Gay Rodeo Association is hosting line
- 23:24dancing lessons, patio hangs, drinks in a super welcoming
- 23:27country style social vibe. For more events, interviews and
- 23:31Tampa Bay happenings make sure to follow Joe on the Have a
- 23:35great week, Tampa Bay, and I'll see you out and about.
- 23:43This is the big gay radio show only on 88.5 WMNF.
- 23:49Welcome back to the Big Gay Radio Show.
- 23:51My name is Chris Gorman and I am joined by Leo Anderson.
- 23:56It's just us two in the studio because of everybody else
- 23:59decided to abandon us. Talking about ADHD.
- 24:02It's just everybody's just wanting to go ahead and go and
- 24:05get coffee and go to the bathroom breaks and nobody wants
- 24:08to be on time. Now we're joined by the
- 24:11vivacious Vince Suasion and the electric trans Queen of radio,
- 24:15Miss Esme Russell. I went.
- 24:17So fast, I just couldn't and that and and then I and then
- 24:21what happened was I was in the in the break room and I was
- 24:25listening to Claire and Joanna on the air and I was thinking,
- 24:28God, they sound so good. That was the fastest pee I ever
- 24:32took. Oh my God.
- 24:34Well, it should have been faster.
- 24:35I guess so. Good grief.
- 24:37Well, I told you you had like a minute and a half.
- 24:39Anyways, Esme, what's some tea? What's the top?
- 24:41Oh, actually Vin, you want to do a special shout out?
- 24:44Yeah, really quick. I just, well, not really quick,
- 24:47but anyway, it's today is National Mental Health Provider
- 24:50Appreciation Day. The month of May is National
- 24:53Mental Health Awareness Month, so I just really quick want to
- 24:56shout out thank you so much to project no labels for hosting
- 24:59the Dear Self You Are Worth It program.
- 25:00Thank you so much to Cypress Wellness for partnering with us
- 25:03here in Tampa Bay. Thank you so much to Rainbow
- 25:05Family Wellness up in Pasco for partnering with us.
- 25:08And a really awesome shout out to the Emerge new growth
- 25:10community for being an incredible supplemental
- 25:13community for mental health awareness and and growth and
- 25:16healing. I really am so grateful and
- 25:18proud to have the existence of these organizations.
- 25:21Thank you and take care of yourselves y'all.
- 25:23We love you, we see you. Absolutely.
- 25:25Well, Speaking of mental health. All right.
- 25:30So Betty Broderick in 1989 was sentenced to life.
- 25:34And the reason she was sentenced to life, if she had made a life
- 25:37with this man, she had children with him.
- 25:39She put him through medical school.
- 25:41No, through. It was medical school, wasn't
- 25:43it? Could you check?
- 25:44I think it was medical school or law school.
- 25:46I'm not sure which one it was. I'm going to.
- 25:48I'm going to look it up. Yeah.
- 25:49But anyway, so he decided he wanted to leave her for a
- 25:54younger woman after she had helped build his life, his
- 25:57career. And so he left her.
- 26:00What he did do is it was a very filthy, very dirty divorce.
- 26:06He took the house from her. He took the credit cards from
- 26:10her. He isolated her from her money
- 26:14after she had invested in this relationship.
- 26:17Medical school and law school. Medical school and law school.
- 26:20She gave up her life to raise his children so that he could
- 26:24have the life that he wanted. And then after he got that life
- 26:28and they were living very well, she was going to elite parties,
- 26:31getting dressed very well, had beautiful jewelry.
- 26:34He left her and took everything back, wiped her out.
- 26:37And so she was financially destitute and he ostracized her
- 26:42children from her. No.
- 26:44Yes. So what happened was, is the
- 26:47daughter one of the the daughter that she had because she has
- 26:49several children, the daughter had a key to the house that the
- 26:52husband had moved into with the new wife.
- 26:55So what does she do? She steals the key, goes into
- 26:59the house and kills them both in the bed, husband and the new
- 27:04wife. And of course, she was arrested
- 27:06and charged. And her defense was that she was
- 27:09a traumatized woman, that she had been led to it over a period
- 27:13of, you know, years, going through the divorce and having
- 27:16no financial backing. She wasn't really.
- 27:18She felt like he should have taken care of her better, you
- 27:21know, that that's what she felt. So however it worked out, you
- 27:24know, you got to realize women haven't always been treated very
- 27:27well in court dealings, especially with divorces.
- 27:30Not always. People think women always get it
- 27:32all, but they don't. And in this case, he was able to
- 27:35manipulate the law because he was obviously a lawyer to work
- 27:38in his favor. So anyways, he was sentenced to
- 27:40life in prison. She ended up dying just a few
- 27:43days ago at 78 years of age, they say, of natural causes.
- 27:47So she had a lot of health issues.
- 27:49So she finally did die. I just want to say that I always
- 27:53had AII was angry with her for what she did.
- 27:56I was very conflicted. I think that what she did,
- 27:59murdering her husband and the ex-wife was completely wrong.
- 28:02That was not the way to handle it.
- 28:04But on the other hand, there is another hand to this.
- 28:07I always felt sad for her because I felt like she got
- 28:11trauma. You know, some people aren't
- 28:13strong mentally. They got mental issues, right?
- 28:16And I think there were mental issues there.
- 28:20You know, in the court they said that she was a narcissistic
- 28:22behavior. I don't know if she was
- 28:23narcissistic. She took care of him.
- 28:26She really was there for him 150 percent, 1000%.
- 28:32So I think that she should have got taken care of better at the
- 28:35divorce level. And I think it just the him
- 28:38being married to a beautiful young woman, By the way, she had
- 28:41already aged out of his, of what he wanted, right?
- 28:46So he took a younger wife, I think.
- 28:49I don't want to say that it explains it, but I can see how
- 28:52somebody can be driven to insanity.
- 28:54What's that song? Yeah, yeah, yeah.
- 28:59It's just listen, we've all been there.
- 29:02We feel like we haven't been treated right and we lose
- 29:04control. She lost control in the most
- 29:06horrific way. So she died.
- 29:08She died in prison. But I I just wanted to say that
- 29:11I have a lot of compassion for women, for anyone that gets to
- 29:14go through a bad breakup and gets treated badly during the
- 29:17breakup. And in that time also, because
- 29:20in that time, women were met, were made to be homemakers.
- 29:25So, you know, they don't really get to go for the dreams and
- 29:29aspirations that they desire, you know what I mean?
- 29:31She said in open court that she gave up her life so that he
- 29:35could have his and, and I, and I believe that.
- 29:38I believe that she believed that I'm she deserved her prison
- 29:43sentence. I'm just going to say that what
- 29:45she did, I'm sorry, you just can't, you just can't take the
- 29:48law into your own hands like that.
- 29:49That's not the way to resolve it, but I could understand how
- 29:52it could happen. If you guys want to go ahead and
- 29:55talk about history repeating itself, we got viruses in the
- 29:59news again. We've got the Hantavirus.
- 30:01At least 18 pass US. Passengers from the MV Hondius
- 30:06HONDIUS cruise ship are now under observation in Nebraska
- 30:12and Atlanta after possible exposure to the hantavirus
- 30:15during a deadly outbreak linked to the ship.
- 30:19Two passengers, including one with symptoms, were transferred
- 30:22to Emory University in Atlanta for further assessment and 1
- 30:27passenger in Nebraska tested positive as well.
- 30:31So the Hantavirus is in the United States, and Donald Trump
- 30:36and Health and Human Services Secretary Robert F Kennedy
- 30:39Junior have both said that the outbreak is under control and
- 30:43downplayed concerns about broader spread.
- 30:46Now, I'm not going to go ahead and say that this is going to
- 30:50spread any further. However, this is exactly the
- 30:53same stuff that they said when the COVID virus came out.
- 30:58I distinctly remember them saying, oh, it's under control,
- 31:01it's OK, it's fine. And then, you know, two months
- 31:04later, they're telling us to inject bleach.
- 31:06So. This is the coming from the
- 31:08people that didn't mask up when they needed to mask that so the.
- 31:11Hantavirus has been here for years, OK?
- 31:14It's always been here, Yes. In February, Gene Kackman and
- 31:18his wife died in their home. They were found both dead after
- 31:22being there for a week. Hackman's wife died in the
- 31:25bathroom. She caught the hantavirus.
- 31:29She was either bitten by an animal, something happened that
- 31:31she was she, that's what was in her bloodstream.
- 31:33Breathing in airborne particles. She died in the bathroom and
- 31:37because she was his primary care care caregiver, he died of
- 31:42starvation in another room. He just, he was never fully, he
- 31:46has, what is it, dementia. So he wasn't even aware that she
- 31:51wasn't taking care of him. He just died of starvation.
- 31:54So they both died of horrific deaths.
- 31:57So this disease has been here for a long time, but oh, yeah,
- 32:01obviously now when you spread it from person to person, I mean,
- 32:05it can it can get out of control.
- 32:07It can blow out of control. So, but our our very what, what
- 32:11is it? What is John F KS Our Our
- 32:14health. Health and Human Services
- 32:17Secretary. OK.
- 32:18And well, isn't he an expert in medicine?
- 32:21No, no. That's why I would.
- 32:25Why would you make someone a a person to handle that job?
- 32:30It's like a teacher. You want we're going to make her
- 32:33teach Spanish. And then I ask you, does your
- 32:35teacher speak Spanish? No.
- 32:38Mine did, but yours does. I just want to go ahead and
- 32:41clarify. That, yeah.
- 32:41But what I'm saying is that's just, it just sounds stupid.
- 32:44It sounds so stupid. You're going to make him the
- 32:47Secretary of Health and Human Services, but he doesn't have
- 32:51any qualifications. All right, I want to go ahead
- 32:53and jump into one more our topic and then we'll go ahead and do a
- 32:56little bit more of a discussion and other stuff.
- 32:59Hillsdale College is to award honorary degrees to Charlie and
- 33:03Erica Kirk. College president Larry ARN
- 33:07announced the honorary doctorates during Charlie Kirk's
- 33:10memorial service in Glendale, AZ on September 21st.
- 33:14He he's going to go ahead. It's They said Kirk completed 31
- 33:19Hillsdale College online courses and regularly sent him
- 33:23certificates of completion. They have also.
- 33:26This college has previously honored recipients such as
- 33:32Clarence Thomas, Victor Davis, Hanson Bishop, Robert Barron and
- 33:37Pat and Leslie Sajak. So not necessarily, you know,
- 33:43the greatest list of people, but I think that it's very
- 33:48interesting that these people who are so against giving awards
- 33:52and jobs based off of just anything other than diversity
- 33:58that they are going to just get a random award.
- 34:01If she starts calling herself Doctor, I'm going to chop.
- 34:04Doctor. They are trying to turn him into
- 34:08some kind of a St. and. Interesting to me.
- 34:11All you got to do, you don't have to listen to me because you
- 34:14know, I'm just doing the radio right.
- 34:17Go on YouTube and listen to his speeches to the students, listen
- 34:21to the rhetoric, listen to what he says.
- 34:24He was not a St., he was many things.
- 34:26But so honestly, so I would be so if, if, if Erica Kirk did
- 34:31complete 31 Hillsdale College courses and was working on his
- 34:36doctorate. If if that's the case, then that
- 34:39I can understand. But Erica Kirk has done nothing.
- 34:43She isn't even a podcaster. She has married this guy she and
- 34:47now she's in charge of of Turning Point USA.
- 34:49She's. Scary.
- 34:50She really is. Have you ever seen?
- 34:52Her look into the camera. Yeah, something wrong with her.
- 34:55She really? Is either mental illness or
- 34:57something's going on. But the other day she did, she
- 35:00did the speech and she, she was dressed like Janet Jackson.
- 35:03Yeah, she had on the basement. Owen said that.
- 35:05She had the Janet Jackson head on and the T-shirt and she's
- 35:08looking in the camera. People.
- 35:10People are. I'm like, people are doing white
- 35:14face. White face girl.
- 35:16People can't do white face if they're white.
- 35:19Well, Drewski's black. But yeah, I know.
- 35:21But he's great, by the way. But he's not doing a white face.
- 35:23He's doing like parodies of her, you know what I'm saying?
- 35:25But. Well, as a white person, I'm not
- 35:27offended. Yeah, that doesn't pin pin me at
- 35:29all. You know, I mean, so the, the
- 35:31issue when it comes to blackface is the fact that they went ahead
- 35:35that that white individuals were, you know, making fun of in
- 35:38an extreme way and, and they were, you know, being completely
- 35:42racist with it. All he's doing is parodying her.
- 35:45What he's doing is doing exactly what she's.
- 35:48Doing. She's literally going here with
- 35:50these fireworks behind her and her fake tears in her eyes with
- 35:55her little handkerchief, wiping her, her little fake teeth.
- 35:59I can, I can fake cry better than her.
- 36:02I, I'm, I'm just going to say it right now.
- 36:04Vin, what's your perspective? Have you ever been so sick of
- 36:09hearing and seeing the same crap over again?
- 36:12It just makes you. Tired.
- 36:14That's actually really funny, David, Mr. White, Pep, Brian
- 36:17said. He's so tired of of circle Kirk.
- 36:19I'm literally like I'm so speechless and so like baffled.
- 36:24I'm just so my brain is so tired.
- 36:26She loves the attention though, by the way, I know that she says
- 36:29that she wants privacy and but she.
- 36:31Really knows she loves. It If you want privacy, what are
- 36:34you doing? Television interviews.
- 36:35You don't want privacy, you want to attention.
- 36:38She wants attention. Believe me, she loves it.
- 36:40Leo, what's your your perspective if you got it?
- 36:44I'm just feels like from an Asian person, if you get a
- 36:48doctorate degree without putting the work there, I feel offended.
- 36:52Thank you, thank you, thank you for saying that.
- 36:55Oh my gosh. Well, I'm a I'm about to
- 36:58graduate with my political science bachelor's in December
- 37:01and I this is hard. It is hard to get a degree, OK.
- 37:07And now they want. And then now, now she can
- 37:09technically go by Doctor, even though it's honorary.
- 37:13No, it's inappropriate. It's she could use that title.
- 37:16You know who did deserve their honorary doctorate and I'm very
- 37:19proud that USF did this is that is the 2 individuals that were
- 37:23murdered this past month. Or so.
- 37:27Those people deserved that and those are the people that and,
- 37:31and honestly and like I said, Charlie.
- 37:34And that's what they were. Working towards if he was
- 37:36working towards his doctorate and he was killed while working
- 37:39on his doctorate, then I can go ahead and I can give that a
- 37:43little bit of leeway. And they were stellar students.
- 37:45But Erica Kirk going ahead and getting it without doing
- 37:49probably any I I didn't see any sort of, you know, college do
- 37:54Janet Jackson, she can do. Janet, she can do.
- 37:57Janet can do Janet Jackson. She didn't look like I'm.
- 38:00I'm mad that they jumped all the way to doctorates.
- 38:04Like are you kidding me? Like not honorary bachelors, not
- 38:09honorary masters, Like you're going to jump all the way to
- 38:11doctorates with 30 credits? Get out of here.
- 38:15These. People are something else, man,
- 38:16I tell you. I and, and Leo, you actually
- 38:20nailed it because in Asian culture, we take education
- 38:23seriously. We take knowledge seriously, We
- 38:25take, we take passion and understanding seriously.
- 38:28So like for people to like she, I'm speechless.
- 38:33And also like if you watch the videos or what he's seeing in
- 38:37most of his podcasts or whatever, they basically just
- 38:40like bombshell someone with repeating the same sentence.
- 38:43There's. It's just.
- 38:44The same rhetoric over and over again.
- 38:46Exactly. They're using all his powers,
- 38:48his presence, his authorities to like, talk down to people like,
- 38:53I don't know. They're not talk down to people,
- 38:54talk down to college students. Don't forget he's a 30 year old
- 38:57man talking down to college students, going from college
- 39:00campus to college campus, trying to go ahead and own the libs by
- 39:04going ahead and targeting college students.
- 39:06Come on, let's not. Let's move on.
- 39:09Also, oh wait, one more thing. I'm so sorry.
- 39:11The doctorate is supposed to be in biblical studies.
- 39:16Oh, God. OK, I'm not I'm not knocking
- 39:19biblical studies. OK, I'm not knocking the fact
- 39:22that that is a like a legitimate.
- 39:25He's got a master's in metaphysics and religious
- 39:28education. Religious Education.
- 39:29Yeah, yeah. But the religious education,
- 39:32religious education, which means there's a spectrum.
- 39:35Of yeah. So it's not, it's not, it's not
- 39:36a denominational, correct? Yeah.
- 39:38It's not a denomination. I learned a lot of different
- 39:40religions while I was there, all kinds of different religions.
- 39:43I doubt this is the case. No, no.
- 39:46Yeah, she she is an openly evangelical Christian and which
- 39:51is completely fine, but she still scares me when I look at
- 39:54her and when she looks into that camera.
- 39:56I'm telling you, I want to run. Yeah, I mean, really well.
- 39:59She looks into the camera. I'm like, wow, this lady's not
- 40:02well. Anyways, let's move on.
- 40:05I'm trying attire to the circle. OK, so yeah, so let's do so the
- 40:08Hungarian Prime Minister takes office.
- 40:10Peter Magyar took office on May the 9th and I'm.
- 40:13As may as crush. I'm just, I love him.
- 40:16I'm, I'm just rooting for him. I'm rooting for him and for the
- 40:18Hungarian people, you know, under this oppressive government
- 40:22that they had for 16 years under Orban.
- 40:25He had been in power since 2010. And it's so wonderful to see
- 40:29these people that they're getting the gay rights, but the
- 40:32gay people are getting their rights back and women are going
- 40:35to be able to function in society more openly.
- 40:37Remember that authoritarians, that they don't like the races.
- 40:42They don't like races, race, races other other than their own
- 40:45race. They want to condense religion.
- 40:49They want to condense speech. They want to condense everything
- 40:52has to be minimized so that people don't have power.
- 40:55And this guy wants to give power back to the people.
- 40:57The first thing he did, he says he wants to rejoin the United
- 41:00Nations, which I think is just wonderful because what there's
- 41:04there's power in numbers, right? He had isolated the country.
- 41:08So. And by the way, we're being
- 41:09isolated right now, you know. Yeah.
- 41:11Just terrible. Do you realize that?
- 41:14I mean, in Canada, they don't even sell our, most of our
- 41:19products aren't being sold anymore because of Canadians are
- 41:23boycotting us, you know, because of all the things between him
- 41:26and them and the president. You know, and I hear that Las
- 41:29Vegas is like, dad, the tourists aren't going there.
- 41:32You know, they, they need the tourist industry.
- 41:35So our country is hurting because of this.
- 41:37Oh, very much so. And I think that I think that
- 41:40the rise of far right authoritarianism and and far
- 41:43right movements is is happening in a worldwide aspect.
- 41:46Everybody should be really scared.
- 41:48But then you got people like the Hungarian Prime Minister who won
- 41:52and defeated after 16 and how we won by going door to door.
- 41:57I agree. Yeah, no.
- 41:58It was a foot mission. He went.
- 42:00He went to the people. He went to the people.
- 42:03I. Said it exactly right, Leo.
- 42:05The power of the people, absolutely.
- 42:07Well, let's I kind of want to go ahead and talk about the data
- 42:11breach that happened. Hillsborough Public Schools and
- 42:14USF were impacted by a major nationwide data breach.
- 42:19They there was a cybersecurity attack on Canvas, which is the
- 42:24learning platform used by schools and colleges.
- 42:27Officials say the exposed information was limited to
- 42:29names, e-mail addresses and student ID numbers, saying that
- 42:33there was number, password, Social Security numbers, birth
- 42:36dates, financial information or government ID's compromised.
- 42:40The USF was they, they basically shut down the access for canvas
- 42:46and they, like, they even removed the button on the home
- 42:49page for the canvas. They removed that button.
- 42:52So rather than going ahead and, and sending it to like a, a, a
- 42:55broken URL, they literally just completely took it off of their
- 42:59software, threw it all away in the middle of finals week, in
- 43:05the middle of finals week. So people were literally going
- 43:08to take their final exams and they couldn't access Canvas.
- 43:12Luckily, my professors have gone ahead and moved past going ahead
- 43:18and doing digital tests because they've, they've realized that a
- 43:21lot of students just go ahead and cheat on those anyways.
- 43:24So they've gone ahead and started doing in person exams,
- 43:29which honestly? Back to old school.
- 43:31I was actually really happy when that, when I saw the canvas
- 43:36outbreak that, that this, that this professor was wanting to do
- 43:40in person exams, because then I knew, Oh well, you can't go
- 43:44ahead and hack my, my test, my paper test, It's there.
- 43:48He's going to go ahead and grade it either way.
- 43:51I and, and I took it on Monday too, So all my exams were
- 43:54already taken. So, but honestly, it's, it's a
- 43:57lesson to every single person out there because these data
- 44:00breaches and these hackings are probably going to become more
- 44:03prevalent. So if you are in school or
- 44:05you're going to be in school, make sure if you have a, a test
- 44:10of any kind, do it as soon as humanly possible because you
- 44:14never know when something like this is going to happen.
- 44:17And I honestly, I expected it. I, I genuinely did.
- 44:21I knew that the, the, you know, institutions are, you know,
- 44:24vulnerable in terms of, you know, because they have so much
- 44:28information that, that it's, it was inevitable.
- 44:32And I'm glad that we have people that are doing in person stuff.
- 44:37What were you going to say as May?
- 44:38No, I was going to, I was going to go to the next topic, but if
- 44:40you have anything you want to add them.
- 44:43No. So Florida Chase Bank, anybody
- 44:47know that bank? Anybody familiar with it?
- 44:49Well, Florida Chase Bank had a customer the other day and what
- 44:52he did I do all the time. I'm one of these people.
- 44:56I like to use the tellers inside.
- 44:58So I show up at the bank. My bank opens up at 8:30 in the
- 45:01morning. I usually get there about 8:10,
- 45:048/15 and I sit in the parking lot and wait.
- 45:09I did. This morning.
- 45:10We, I think most of us have done.
- 45:12I wait until the bank opens and then I run in real fast.
- 45:15I do my banking, everybody says hello to me.
- 45:17I get out and then I go over to Walmart, which is right next
- 45:20door. OK, perfect.
- 45:22He had a wad of cash. I guess he works in the bar
- 45:26business or something. Young black man, and it's very
- 45:29important that I use his color here.
- 45:30Young black male. He had a big old wad of cash in
- 45:33a in a like a zipper pouch sitting there in his car.
- 45:37It's looking at the clock saying, well, the bank opens up
- 45:40in 20 minutes and he's ready. He wants to get rid of this
- 45:43money and put it deposited in his account.
- 45:45This is the money from the weekend.
- 45:47Whatever he does doesn't matter the security.
- 45:50Other people were also waiting in their cars, by the way, just
- 45:55like him. Guess what happens?
- 45:57Security comes and taps on his window and pulls him out and
- 46:00wants him to show his ID and where are you going and why are
- 46:03you sitting? And they called the police
- 46:05because they said he was sitting in his car looking suspicious.
- 46:09And he said, But look around you, there's other people doing
- 46:11the same. Thing.
- 46:13This is crazy. Banking while black, that's what
- 46:18they call things like that. But when things like that
- 46:20happen, yeah. We're not doing it, Yeah.
- 46:22That's exactly what it. Is it's just horrible.
- 46:24It's exactly what it is. Leave people alone, let people
- 46:27live their lives. This boy was this young man was
- 46:30not doing anything wrong. Nothing.
- 46:33The police were like, I don't understand what's going on here.
- 46:36What did you call? I'd regularly go ahead and when
- 46:39I was dancing at Bradley's I had an entire backpack full of
- 46:43crumpled up jock strap ones and I would go to the bank.
- 46:46But I would do it in the early morning so that I can go ahead
- 46:48and get it taken care of. It's just, I'm just so saddened
- 46:51by this. It's it's terrible.
- 46:52By the way, Florida, I've. Never had an issue I've never
- 46:55had. I've never had an issue sitting
- 46:56in any parking. Lot I've never had anyone knock
- 46:59on my window and ask me at that ever and any bank.
- 47:02What are you doing here? Never.
- 47:04No one's ever said anything to me.
- 47:05That's heartbreaking. And I have done worse than that.
- 47:07I have actually sat in front of the of the bank like by the door
- 47:11because I want to be the first one there.
- 47:13So I stand by the door by where the door actually opens.
- 47:16No one's ever walked up to me and said, what are you, you
- 47:18doing here? No one.
- 47:20So I just God, man, leave people alone and leave black folk
- 47:24alone. They're not bothering you.
- 47:26Leave them alone. I don't know.
- 47:28Just so I just when I read this article, I was just so
- 47:30frustrated. And by the way, there's a very
- 47:33high percentage of black people that go through this in the
- 47:35state of Florida all the time. And it's valid, the frustration.
- 47:39Like people wonder why we're still mad about racism.
- 47:43Because it's still present. It's still exist.
- 47:45Oh, this is clearly racism. I don't care what you want to
- 47:48call it. It's something that Clarence
- 47:50Thomas would never be able to go ahead and and understand because
- 47:54he's effectively called the end of racism when it comes to race
- 47:57based districting in terms of stuff like that.
- 47:59You know what also I didn't, I didn't add to the story which I
- 48:02need to. He showed the security guard the
- 48:04money. He said he opened up the pouch
- 48:07and said, look, this is the I'm not here to I just want to
- 48:10deposit this money. He showed him the the wad of
- 48:14cash, the, you know, the ones that do whatever was in there
- 48:17and he still called the police on the guy.
- 48:19Which he didn't have to. No showing him the money.
- 48:23Shoot, I don't understand. I'm telling you, I I know I'm
- 48:26hyped up about this, but girl, we just got to leave folk alone.
- 48:29I love that. I love that the police though
- 48:32caught it. Yeah, they did.
- 48:34But you know, they're guilty of it too sometimes, you know, not
- 48:36all the time. There's a like, like we said,
- 48:38off the air, there's a lot of good police officers and then
- 48:40there's some that aren't so good.
- 48:42There are some good ones though. I'm glad in this particular
- 48:45scenario they caught it. I I want to add there are some
- 48:48good ones and then there's also good ones that don't turn in the
- 48:52bad ones and those make them bad.
- 48:54People, you're right about that. I've always been lucky with
- 48:57policeman. Police officers have always it's
- 49:00I'm really fortunate as a trans person living here, I've never
- 49:04had any issues. But police, they've never
- 49:05treated me badly. I they're always very and even
- 49:08more all the police are very protective of us.
- 49:11I wish I could say the same. Oh, I've had some really great
- 49:13luck with officers and they're always nice to me.
- 49:15And even when they know that I'm trans, I've you know, they know.
- 49:17Especially anymore, they know, they know.
- 49:20They see all that makeup on. They know you ain't no lady.
- 49:23There's some awesome gems up in Pasco County, but there's also
- 49:27some crap people in Pasco County.
- 49:29Well, we got time for one real quick more topic, and this is
- 49:33coming from Fox News. You know, they're all upset
- 49:36about this one. More than 20 Catholic colleges
- 49:39and universities are holding or planning separate LGBTQ Focus
- 49:44Lavender graduation ceremonies alongside their main
- 49:47commencements this spring. Seattle Universities event is
- 49:51expected to feature a performance by Sativa the drag
- 49:54queen, according to the school's event page Schools.
- 49:57Schools tied to the events include Georgetown, Boston
- 50:01College, the Santa Clara University of San Francisco and
- 50:07the universities describe the ceremonies as celebrating and
- 50:10honoring LGBTQ plus graduates and their achievements.
- 50:13So educate me, what is lavender ceremony?
- 50:16I I'm assuming I'm not 100% sure but if I remember correctly the
- 50:21in Leo it seems like you might be able.
- 50:23To so you know what lavender is a term people used to describe
- 50:27them almost like pink. This day, that's a queer.
- 50:30So if you're a graduation, that ceremony you probably wear
- 50:34something that shows your queer and it's almost like you have a
- 50:37Asian graduation, you have a black, you have a Spanish and
- 50:42then you have a lavender 1. So it's a separate like a sub
- 50:45forum of the graduation ceremony.
- 50:48So yeah. So what is the?
- 50:49What is the? What is the definition?
- 50:51You have the definition of it. Yeah, it says online.
- 50:54So the significance of the color it represents, reclamation of
- 50:57history, represents the LGBTQ plus community blending the
- 51:00colors once used to identify gay and lesbian individuals.
- 51:04And so it signifies reclamation. So like in the past, they had
- 51:07lavender weddings. OK, so I'm a little bit
- 51:09confused. So the university, this
- 51:11particular university. There's multiple 20 universities
- 51:14that are having LGBTQ focused ceremonies.
- 51:17Particularly Catholic colleges. Oh wow.
- 51:21Yeah. That is kind of impressive
- 51:23though. Very much so so.
- 51:24It says so it says we've moved forward, we've moved the needle
- 51:27a little bit there, huh? Yeah, it says the ceremonies are
- 51:30intended to recognize academic achievements and unique
- 51:33contributions of the LGBTQ students.
- 51:35The controversy is that that's drawing criticism for
- 51:38organizations which argues contradicting Catholic teachings
- 51:41and of sexuality and gender. Well, the church came, you know,
- 51:44I, I was raised a Catholic, you know, Well, I have protested
- 51:47this well, because my mother's Protestant, my dad was Catholic.
- 51:49But listen, church can be against it.
- 51:52Gay people still exist, you know.
- 51:55They don't like trans people, but here I am.
- 51:58The Pope says that they still celebrate them.
- 52:00Well, I'm here. Doesn't matter if you like them
- 52:03or not. I'm not going to go away because
- 52:05you don't like them. It's.
- 52:06Supposed to be if the Pope says it, that it's like, you know,
- 52:09solid. But that's not really what's.
- 52:11Happening. You can pass all the laws and
- 52:13you can do anything you want against gays and trans people.
- 52:15I'm just telling you they're still going to exist, right?
- 52:18Well, it's one win for the day. Leo, thank you so much for
- 52:21joining us. I want to go ahead and do
- 52:23another special shout out to the the Queer Asian Museum over in
- 52:26Saint Petersburg. So where can people find more
- 52:28information about the Queer Asian Museum in Saint Pete?
- 52:31Yeah. Go to theqm.org or follow us on
- 52:34Instagram Song Queer Asian Museum.
- 52:38Awesome. And I hope you can stick around
- 52:40for the Big Gay After Show, which is going to be streaming
- 52:43on all streaming platforms at 5:00 PM.
- 52:45We're also going to have a streaming exclusive interview
- 52:48with the musical artist M, who is going to be at Crowbar
- 52:52tonight. And I cannot wait to hear your
- 52:55your perspective, Mr. Vin, on how it was opening.
- 52:59I think it's going to be a very interesting show.
- 53:01I think it's going to be exciting.
- 53:02Exactly. I knew you were.
- 53:04I knew you were as May. What are we going to talk about
- 53:06on the on the after show? So Trump says he's sending an
- 53:09elect an an election integrity army into the voting booth.
- 53:15If during the midterms that's what he said, those were his
- 53:17words. And a quarter of Americans think
- 53:20that the assassination attempt at the White House
- 53:23Correspondents Dinner was staged.
- 53:25I'll tell you why I think that's a really bad.
- 53:27And Donald Trump also in the news wants to open Fort Knox.
- 53:33He wants to see, he wants to see that the goal that is supposedly
- 53:36backing up our American money is really there.
- 53:40I'm saying they better lock up Port Knox because he's trying to
- 53:45get that money. I'm telling you, there's
- 53:48supposed to be $700 billion in gold in there.
- 53:51I wouldn't trust Trump in that door.
- 53:53He'll probably have a semi truck backed up to the back door,
- 53:57girl. I would not trust them people
- 53:59with that money. I would tell Port Knox, please
- 54:03do not open the door to the president.
- 54:05Do not. Do not.
- 54:07Well, I got the Education Department opening a probe into
- 54:10Smith College for admitting trans women.
- 54:13We also have a Tampa man thrown in jail after neighbor drops a
- 54:17dime over building a backyard, guest house, pool and pickleball
- 54:22court. We'll talk about that.
- 54:24And then of course, we've got, you know, the Supreme Court.
- 54:28Who is extended a the allotment on the abortion pill?
- 54:33I believe it's Myth of Prestone. So we're going to go ahead and
- 54:35talk about all of that and more after on the after show.
- 54:40And that's streaming at all platforms at 5:00 PM.
- 54:42We hope you have a wonderful rest of your day and we'll see
- 54:44you next time. Bye.
- 54:48This has been the big gay radio show on 88.5 WM and F Tampa.
- 54:53Remember to stay kind and prideful, Tampa Bay.