Latest / Intuitive Coaching with Amy Radio / Focus on Truest Desire in 2025
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- 0:01Speaker 1: Hi, this is Amy. I am a high end, one
- 0:04Speaker 1: on one intuitive coach and I help people create the
- 0:08Speaker 1: life of their dreams. Let's talk about desire, because a
- 0:12Speaker 1: part of creating the life of your dreams requires that
- 0:15Speaker 1: you're clear on your truest and highest desire. And so
- 0:21Speaker 1: what keeps you from going for that big, wild, glorious
- 0:24Speaker 1: thing Number One? You could be potentially copying somebody else,
- 0:35Speaker 1: And you know it's based on the research, it's kind
- 0:42Speaker 1: of normal for us as humans to pursue a desire
- 0:46Speaker 1: based on something we see someone else having. And I
- 0:51Speaker 1: don't think it works anymore. I think we've moved past that,
- 0:55Speaker 1: and I think the only thing that will be really
- 0:57Speaker 1: effective in creating life of our dreams is going for
- 1:02Speaker 1: our truest and highest desires. And so that's going to
- 1:05Speaker 1: require that you stop doing some things. So you're going
- 1:08Speaker 1: to have to stop downplaying your desire. You're going to
- 1:11Speaker 1: have to stop minimizing your desire and minimizing yourself. You're
- 1:16Speaker 1: going to have to stop dumbing down the desire. You're
- 1:20Speaker 1: going to have to stop trying to be realistic. I
- 1:24Speaker 1: think realistic is our way of setting ourselves up for
- 1:28Speaker 1: managing our disappointment if we don't get what we want.
- 1:33Speaker 1: But what I know to be true, if you go
- 1:34Speaker 1: for your truest desire, you will get what you want.
- 1:38Speaker 1: And so there's this perception that, oh, if I go
- 1:43Speaker 1: for something really big and I don't get it, I'm
- 1:45Speaker 1: going to feel terrible. Well, I think that we feel
- 1:51Speaker 1: terrible about the desire that we really didn't want. That
- 1:56Speaker 1: is what I consistently see is I'm manifesting in my
- 1:59Speaker 1: own life as I'm working with others as they manifest
- 2:02Speaker 1: particularly love. That's one where you can really see where
- 2:07Speaker 1: people tend to not go for what they want and
- 2:12Speaker 1: then they wind up in a situation and then it
- 2:14Speaker 1: winds up falling apart and they feel awful. And I
- 2:17Speaker 1: think it's because we didn't go for what we really
- 2:20Speaker 1: wanted in the first place. So will be willing to
- 2:24Speaker 1: step away from trying to be realistic and just go
- 2:29Speaker 1: for what you really want. Another reason why we don't
- 2:34Speaker 1: go for our truth desire is because we're too caught
- 2:36Speaker 1: up in the process. And I'm the queen of this.
- 2:38Speaker 1: I've talked about this on the show. I'm really good
- 2:40Speaker 1: at building a beautiful plan for spirit and telling spirit
- 2:44Speaker 1: hate Spirit, just follow my plan. This would all go
- 2:47Speaker 1: a lot better if you just followed my plan. And
- 2:52Speaker 1: that's not the way it works. And I mean that literally,
- 2:57Speaker 1: that's not the way it works. Spirit has something so
- 3:02Speaker 1: much more glorious than your mind could even come up with. Recently,
- 3:06Speaker 1: I had a issue and I had started out the
- 3:11Speaker 1: morning writing out like Spirit, I need you do this,
- 3:14Speaker 1: I need you do this, and I had all these
- 3:15Speaker 1: steps that I had made up in my mind. Right
- 3:19Speaker 1: I was like, Spirit, I need this to come through,
- 3:21Speaker 1: so then I'll do this, and then this needs to
- 3:23Speaker 1: work this way, and this needs to go this way,
- 3:26Speaker 1: and so I wind it up. I got to the
- 3:30Speaker 1: end of my journaling on this and something was like, well,
- 3:35Speaker 1: tell Spirit what you actually want. Well, what I really
- 3:37Speaker 1: wanted was the whole situation to be resolved, and so
- 3:41Speaker 1: I finally I wrote that down. I'm like, I just
- 3:43Speaker 1: want this situation to be resolved, and I kid you not.
- 3:47Speaker 1: Within within the hour, I got a phone call and
- 3:50Speaker 1: within two hours the whole situation was resolved. My plan
- 3:55Speaker 1: was like a three day, four day plan, and I
- 3:59Speaker 1: am so grateful, but Spirit did not follow my plan
- 4:02Speaker 1: because it was so easy and everything I needed showed
- 4:05Speaker 1: up at the perfect time, in the perfect way for
- 4:07Speaker 1: it to be resolved in literally hours in comparison to
- 4:11Speaker 1: three four days, and that was being generous. It was
- 4:15Speaker 1: it probably would have been more like a seven eight
- 4:17Speaker 1: day process. So get out of the process, get out
- 4:22Speaker 1: of trying to determine and work out the how and
- 4:25Speaker 1: the wind, like I'm gonna let myself have this thing
- 4:27Speaker 1: if I feel really good about the how and the wind. No,
- 4:30Speaker 1: it's not your job to even feel good about the
- 4:32Speaker 1: how and the wind. Let spirit do that, and you
- 4:35Speaker 1: focus on the truth desire. And then another thing that
- 4:40Speaker 1: gets from the way of truth desire is we quit.
- 4:51Speaker 1: I pause, because I'm still working through in my mind
- 4:56Speaker 1: if it's we quit because we're not in the truth?
- 5:00Speaker 1: Are we quit because of something else? And I think
- 5:04Speaker 1: it's a little bit. I think it's about fifty to fifty.
- 5:07Speaker 1: I do think oftentimes we do quit because we're not
- 5:13Speaker 1: clicking into what we really want. And so when we
- 5:16Speaker 1: do face a challenge or a hardship that goes along
- 5:18Speaker 1: with the process. Doesn't necessarily have to be a part
- 5:21Speaker 1: of the process, but oftentimes there could be a challenge
- 5:25Speaker 1: right when we're faced with that challenge, we're like, oh,
- 5:30Speaker 1: I have enough energy to get through that, so let's
- 5:34Speaker 1: dump the desire. But I believe that if you're rooted
- 5:37Speaker 1: in truest desire, and then when you are faced with
- 5:39Speaker 1: a challenge, it won't even look like a challenge. It
- 5:42Speaker 1: will look like, oh, this is just a part of
- 5:46Speaker 1: the game. Let's make this fun, right And I think
- 5:50Speaker 1: I think one of the reasons we do quit is
- 5:54Speaker 1: because we're telling ourselves some story in the moment of
- 5:57Speaker 1: things unfolding. You know, things don't go exact exactly the
- 6:00Speaker 1: way we want, and so all of a sudden we
- 6:02Speaker 1: start telling ourselves this must mean this about me, and
- 6:05Speaker 1: this must mean this about my future, and oh I
- 6:07Speaker 1: did this in the past, and this must be we
- 6:10Speaker 1: try to punish ourselves for our mistakes. We're not meant
- 6:13Speaker 1: to be perfect, and God's grace will suffice. And if
- 6:19Speaker 1: we're showing up and doing our best, you're going to
- 6:23Speaker 1: see that things do unfold for your greater good. And
- 6:27Speaker 1: it's not ever going to look the way you think
- 6:29Speaker 1: it is. It's not ever going to look the way
- 6:32Speaker 1: you think it is. And do you care if you
- 6:34Speaker 1: have what you want? Do you really care if you
- 6:36Speaker 1: know when I think about all these elaborate plans that
- 6:39Speaker 1: I build for spirit, Spirit, if you follow my plan,
- 6:43Speaker 1: I really don't care if Spirit follows my plan. When
- 6:45Speaker 1: I'm rooted in truth desire, I really just want the
- 6:48Speaker 1: truth desire. And so I think, let's start focusing on
- 6:53Speaker 1: what we really, really really want. As you move into
- 6:56Speaker 1: twenty twenty five, as you start to look at your
- 6:58Speaker 1: goals and you journal what you want to accomplish, focus
- 7:02Speaker 1: on what you really really want and be okay with
- 7:07Speaker 1: the journey and release the urgency. Release the because urgency
- 7:13Speaker 1: is timing right. And so I do think things move
- 7:16Speaker 1: way quicker when we go with spirits timing. But usually
- 7:21Speaker 1: if there's some urgency, oh my god, I've got to
- 7:22Speaker 1: get this done, there's more to it than I'm not
- 7:29Speaker 1: saying things aren't time sensitive in this world. We do
- 7:31Speaker 1: make things time sensitive on this planet. I'm saying if
- 7:36Speaker 1: you're getting caught up in the time sensitiveness of it,
- 7:39Speaker 1: you're probably losing sight of what the truest desire is.
- 7:42Speaker 1: And if you root into that and say, God, I
- 7:45Speaker 1: just want my truest desire, a path is going to
- 7:49Speaker 1: be presented to you. That's a lot faster and a
- 7:51Speaker 1: lot easier, and so I think getting caught up in
- 7:55Speaker 1: the anxiety of oh my god, I'm going to run
- 7:57Speaker 1: a time. I'm going to run a time, that's what
- 8:00Speaker 1: slows the process down. So those are my thoughts on desire.
- 8:05Speaker 1: Go for what you really really really want in twenty
- 8:09Speaker 1: twenty five, and there will be lots of external influences
- 8:15Speaker 1: that will try to derail you. And I'm starting to
- 8:19Speaker 1: see those as like lower energy. Let's just call it.
- 8:23Speaker 1: It's a devil. The devil is trying to get me
- 8:26Speaker 1: off my path. Okay, so the devil is trying to
- 8:28Speaker 1: get me off my path with this piece of data.
- 8:32Speaker 1: The devil's trying to get me off my path with
- 8:33Speaker 1: this piece of data, And just say, no, what do
- 8:37Speaker 1: I really really really want? I recently fell in love
- 8:40Speaker 1: with something and I was just like, this is what
- 8:42Speaker 1: I want, so right, this has always been what I want.
- 8:44Speaker 1: I when I encounter a truest desire, I either judge
- 8:54Speaker 1: it harshly first, or I yeah, I usually just judge
- 9:08Speaker 1: it harshly and I don't see it through. But when
- 9:11Speaker 1: I let myself see something through and I'm like, oh,
- 9:14Speaker 1: that's exactly what I wanted that. Oh that, thank you
- 9:17Speaker 1: spirit for all that information showing up, because now I'm
- 9:21Speaker 1: more clear than ever about my desire. It feels really
- 9:27Speaker 1: good in my body. So just be mindful. Am I
- 9:30Speaker 1: downplaying my desire? Am I judging myself out of what
- 9:32Speaker 1: I want? Am I saying I can't have it for
- 9:35Speaker 1: this and this and this reason? Am I telling myself
- 9:38Speaker 1: a story that needs to be X y Z steps.
- 9:41Speaker 1: You really don't know what the steps are until you
- 9:43Speaker 1: engage it. You really don't know. I think that's why
- 9:48Speaker 1: knowledge is a high vibrational feeling on the emotional guidance
- 9:53Speaker 1: scale that Abraham Hicks created, because once you have that knowledge,
- 9:56Speaker 1: you're like, oh, okay, I can work with that. I
- 9:59Speaker 1: can work with that. So I would say take the
- 10:01Speaker 1: time to date the desire. If you're sensing there's something
- 10:04Speaker 1: that you want, lean into it and really make sure
- 10:07Speaker 1: it's what you want, and not make sure from the
- 10:09Speaker 1: place of oh, are you're going to get it wrong? No,
- 10:12Speaker 1: make sure, just like, hey, does this really feel like me?
- 10:15Speaker 1: Does this really feel like me? This? Is this really
- 10:17Speaker 1: what I want? Is this the life I really want
- 10:19Speaker 1: to be living? That's it. Keep it light, fun, playful,
- 10:23Speaker 1: and focus on your highest and greatest desire. That's my show.
- 10:30Speaker 1: I'm Amy. I'm a high end one on one intuitive coach.
- 10:34Speaker 1: You can learn more and purchase my services at intuitive
- 10:38Speaker 1: Coaching Withthamy dot com. Thank you for listening to the show.
- 10:42Speaker 1: I pray all your desires unfold in the most beautiful
- 10:46Speaker 1: and magical way in the new year, take care of yourself. Goodbye.