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Women Daddy Issues, Homosexual Men, Children Roles, TV Parents, Killers · Brett Keane and Eve Show

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Goodness, let's get ourselves straightened out here.
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Hmm, there are thing, looks beautiful.
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Sorry folks, my makeup artist is away and my lighting crew on the
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camera, that is what it is. So my name is Brett Keen from
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God TV radio and I do a live podcast show and I put a public
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link out so anybody and everybody can join.
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I also write books. I do music.
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I do art used to be a big-time musician, decided to quit that.
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I've got a video on that if you're interested.
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And I also like to go another people shows and other people's
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podcasts and talk and some of the show's I like to go on.
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Is my friend John gives Shilla. John Godzilla is a Muslim who
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hangs out with a pagan warlock, which like figure and they talk
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about the woes and the pains and life has well as painting
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artwork are working on vehicles. And the guy that he's doing that
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with his Vaughn Helton. And sometimes I like to go over
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to my friend TT, you are who's running a second form of God TV
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radio, and he's always got good topics and good shows going on.
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And recently, he did a video show where he invited people in
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called deteriorating relationships and basically
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talked about what a lot of young people nowadays have to go
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through. When trying to have a successful
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relationship and what society and the government as well as
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the media has done to cause almost impossible.
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Odds for young males, as well as females to have that.
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Now, as many of, you know, I've also did a Show recently with a
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Christian friend of mine named Steven also known as Proverbs
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where we talked. Out people who are suicidal
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people who've lost hope and society.
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And basically, what is the biblical view of this?
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What is the idea? And it's obvious that every one
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of my topics even if other people suggested or encourage it
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seem to be about the future. What is the new generation going
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to be able to do what our young people going to be able to do?
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The succeed is God being completely erased out of the
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picture. And I've noticed the more and
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more, it does seem like God is being erased.
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Our very identities and who we are and our concepts of Truth.
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And facts seem to not only on a theological level, but on a
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scientific level seem to be thrown in the trash.
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Nobody cares about facts and evidence or truth anymore.
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Everybody cares about how they feel their feels and this kind
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of thing. Well.
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After all that stuff before TT, you are show my son ended up
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coming over and he wanted the use one of our video game
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consoles. He's already got his own
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PlayStation. He's already got his Xbox and a
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Nintendo Wii and all that kind of stuff.
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We, we've always spoiled him and hook him up throughout his life.
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And of course, he's got a lot of great games because he spends
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money that he's worked for and that he's earned to be able to
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do this. My son being that, he's a young
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man, he works his tail off and whenever he gets done doing a
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big 0 shift at work, sometimes he gets done to do over time.
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And even after that he'll leave, he'll get in his truck and he
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will head up to a gym. Jim, where he works out.
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Ahem dieting and working out is very important.
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And he's a young man who's in the comic books and superheroes
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and you know fantasy. Like, stuff is favorite
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character Spider-Man and I think he's starting to really appeal
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to dr. Strange, but he's been in, he's
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dated several women since he was 16 years old and a lot of these
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young females, they don't know what they want in their life.
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As if they haven't developed their identity themselves, they
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don't know if they want a guy who's rich or a guy that looks a
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certain way. As far as physicality, my son is
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an extremely attractive young, man.
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My daughter is an extremely attractive.
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Young lady, all the kings are beautiful people.
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God did a really good job whenever he was designing my
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family and we appreciate that, I was the only one he kind of
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messed up. Pain.
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Just kidding, just kidding. And it's difficult for me as a
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parent to watch my son. Go through all these
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relationships being the loyal committed hard worker that he is
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working out. He's he's got muscles.
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He's I mean, everything that a woman could possibly want and
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unfortunately, these females nowadays they make it almost
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impossible. They don't express their
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feelings or the thoughts, they're not good at
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communicating. What it is?
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They want. I'm sure a lot of young men out
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there have had to deal with women just out of the blue where
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it just feels like. You don't even know how this
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happened but they say, I need space.
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I need time. And of course the guy is going
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to say well you know I respect your privacy if that's what you
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want. So be it whenever you're ready.
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Ready to talk. I'm here for you because men
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have this thing where you know even if a relationship doesn't
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work, they're fine with having a friendship or continuing that
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connection And I think that technology and politics is
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played a big part in creating more challenges and struggles
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and hard problems for kids nowadays, that isn't necessary.
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It was already hard enough to be able to pick a woman out of a
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crowd, because you have so many other males to compete with.
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But nowadays, women are being taught to not respect or
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appreciate a man and what he's about our very masculinity is
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being attacked. What we do for a living is being
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attacked. How we do this, and how we do
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that, everything seems to be a problem nowadays.
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And we men kind of feel like especially young men that so
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they're damned if they do, damned if they don't.
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Because of the woman, gets what she wants.
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And she gets a guy, he's making a lot of money and doing really
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good, they then we'll turn around.
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So you don't spend enough time with me, you don't spend enough
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time and of course, if they end up having children, then
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children become an extra responsibility and then the man
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and the woman unless they make some kind of compromise or some
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kind of decision, Two, at the same time, spend time with their
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kids which usually isn't possible.
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Sadly there seems to be this pattern and Society where men
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will work at a certain time of the day.
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In the woman will work at the opposite time of the day and
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then when they get home, they don't have no time to go out and
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do anything. They don't have time to even
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make love and they're so physically wore out.
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They can't please each other anymore.
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And as far as their kids go well their kids don't get the kind of
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attention they deserve and I think that that's one of the
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reasons why the new generation of children and teenagers are so
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screwed up while they have so many problems.
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These kids have all these false expectations for them and what
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they ought to do in school. And even if they do graduate
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high school, it's as if it's expected, they're not rewarded.
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They're not, they don't get a pat on the back for saying.
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Good job for making A's at school.
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Nowadays, I remember that was a big thing.
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We need to really, really glad our kids know when they're doing
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good. I remember when there used to be
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a day where it was looked good upon to say to your child, I
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love you for who you are. You should always be yourself
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and never change for anybody. Just be you and, and roll with
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it and all that. And one day, you'll end up
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finding somebody. That'll be good for you.
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I remember when I would be talking, A friend John whenever
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he was younger. He would say to me, Brad, how is
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it that you you able to have the marriage as long as you have?
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How have you been able to be married for almost 30 years and
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you and your wife are so happy. And you got your two beautiful
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kids. Well, we made a lot of
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sacrifices and compromises to make sure that when we brought
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our kids in the world, we wanted them.
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We didn't have an accident where are just have a child out of the
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blue. We actually planned it and put
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effort towards bringing kids into the world.
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We truly wanted to build a family and maybe it was.
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Maybe one of the reasons besides the fact of having beautiful
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children it was because my wife and I didn't have a whole lot of
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family to begin with. So we figured if we can't adopt
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a family because we didn't make enough money to be able to go
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out and adopt a kid or something like that and if we don't have
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the family structure around us, then maybe we'll build it
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together. You know, we built this city on
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rock and roll type of attitude and that's what we did.
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And we've been there for our kids, ever since my wife works
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very hard at work very hard and but we've always somehow managed
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to make time for our kids. So our children have become very
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independent. Our children are now young
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adults, they're working and they're doing things and they
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are making their own priorities and setup.
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So it is what it is. It hasn't been a perfect life
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for existence, but I remember John asking me about that.
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How do I do it? Because whenever he was younger,
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he was having a hard time. He was living with his family
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and he wasn't out on his own yet and he was starting to get to
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the point where he was getting so depressed.
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He was repeatedly talking about how he wanted to end his life
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that if this is what life has to offer.
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Where you know, I just kind of deteriorated and waste away then
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what is the point brat? And as many of you know, I ended
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up adopting him as my internet boy.
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I he's not a biological or relation to me, but I adopted
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him as an internet, the Sun, and I ended up doing that with a lot
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of people young people in the atheists as well as religious
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community. Not recruiting them just
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basically be an uncle or daddy or Grandpa Brett.
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Whatever you want to call it, whatever phase in my life, it
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was so they could feel as though there was someone there for
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them. Someone who could lift them up
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whenever they felt like the world was becoming a graveyard
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that they were crawling and digging around and Now, John
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obviously ended up growing up and he started realizing.
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Hey, I need to find some purpose and meaning in my life, and he
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started checking out Judaism, and he checked out many
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different religions, and he ended up later on nowadays, he
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has gotten deeply into Islam, and because of his desire, to
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get out of his house and go somewhere besides a bar or club
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or some kind of Flop House, Or whatever.
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He was he ended up getting himself out in the world he
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realized. I'm either going to have to move
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around and I'm going to have to go Fishin myself.
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I'm going to have to put a worm on the hook and I'm going to
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throw it out there and I have to go on this Mission or just sit
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here and rot away. Like, unfortunately, some people
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do where they live on the internet and he did that and he
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ended up finding a beautiful woman.
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He loved them and cared about him and all that.
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Unfortunately, because she was a country.
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Tree away from him, he would end up moving in being what there
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and having a relationship things didn't work out and he would
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come back, and he would have some depression and sadness.
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And he'd find another woman that he's with.
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Now that he's painting pictures with, and you can really tell
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when looking at him nowadays, that he's got some, some pink in
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a skin. Now, he feels as though, he
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rarely talks about how he's suicidal, the only real
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depression, He has, is he wishes?
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The internet was more exciting, or fun, more mentally
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stimulating, but besides that, once he turns off his computer,
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everything's good. Talking to tto, are my friend
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teeth. You are, he was having struggles
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in the past and he ended up finding him a woman and they're
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literally scheduling times that they can be together and I even
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asked him, I said, you want to be on my show on Saturday at
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9:00 p.m. he said I'd love to. He goes, I usually spend a lot
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of time with my girl or in the weekend.
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So we ended up setting it for 9:00 instead of 7:00, so it's
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really nice at now. We're older.
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And we got families and we're literally having to look at our
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schedule books and our information.
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And, you know, talk to our wives, is it okay to do things
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like this? Trust me.
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It wasn't always great. Like that, whenever I was a kid,
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whenever I was a young guy, Between 16 and 20 years old.
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I thought I would never find the right woman.
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I had dated a lot of females and they were all Potato.
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Heads was some of them extremely attractive.
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Some of them lame average as what some would say and although
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I was always honorable and I was always loyal, I had the problem
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of being the poor guy, the guy who didn't have a whole lot
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going on the you know I didn't have all the nice things and
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wearing Adidas and fancy outfits.
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I had a leather jacket, some black Levi's, and, you know,
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usually a concert T-shirt, I was basically a banger, a Metalhead.
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Some would have referred to that as a greaser in the 70s, but
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some women like that, some women like that hardness, it wasn't
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until I was about 18 years old. I ended up finding this woman
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who was extremely, supportive and loving and would be there
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for me and Life. But nowadays kids have it so
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rough. These women are basically saying
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that men are garbage. The court systems have been set
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up to where if men and women end up having a Fallout or a bad
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relationship, a guy can get things aren't his record, a guy
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can have his kids taken away, a guy can have everything he's
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ever worked for taken away by a woman who may have not even
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worked herself or put in the hours in, I seen a court case
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where there was a woman who was doing man meth and doing drugs
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with her kids sitting right in the same room and the father
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however had evolved past this kind of stupidity and went
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armed. I actually run in a business and
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doing well for himself and you would think that that's what the
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court systems would want. The kids would be with a father
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who actually has money and has structure in a way to support,
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but they didn't they actually gave the kids over to the meth
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head. Because she's a female.
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The system. It's entirely too broken.
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It doesn't benefit a teenager or young adult.
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That all in fact, it's a lot of teenagers, who unfortunately, I
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found themself in events that they never asked for one to be
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in the end up in jail or their lives, are screwed up because
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something gets put on their record because they hung out
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with the wrong kids or made a stupid mistake and then that
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record sits on there. Forever causing them to have
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issue with getting a good job. And then the females nowadays, a
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lot of females, one of the most saddest things I've noticed
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about women, nowadays is these girls are absolutely stunning.
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They are beautiful long flowing blond Mains.
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Just beautiful bodies, beautiful faces and then they want to
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become a part of this like woke our feminist Community I guess
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to fit in, I guess to be a part of a gang or because they've
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been Ernst to think that there's somehow a press tour treated
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like garbage and that men are evil maybe because they had a
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couple negative experiences with some men and decided to hate all
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men because of it. So they cut all their hair off
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and then they dye it pink or green like they're in the TV
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show She-Hulk. They end up getting really big
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and overweight because they don't have the self-esteem.
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And now they don't think anybody wants them and their to one's
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own self aware to realize that it's their own personalities and
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attitudes that are pushing them away.
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Now you've got women nowadays, who are saying so what if I'm
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500 pounds, don't take care of myself.
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What so what if I don't want to do something and then you got
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these other women who are saying, I want to be independent
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and career Orient oriented. I don't want to even have
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children and all that. Well, a lot of men have this
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idea that they want to meet a woman that they could spend time
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with and a woman is not going to sermonize and preach to them.
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They want a woman that will be supportive of them as well as
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them being supported back. And they one day may consider
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the idea of having children come in the world.
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And when you're dealing with an idiot that you're in a
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relationship with, you know, that not only is this person, an
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anchor on you, dragging you down, but if you have kids with
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this person you're trapped, you got to financially, take care of
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them, whether they stay or not and you also have to take care
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of the kids who are going to probably hate you both and
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resent you for all the mistakes you've made.
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And could you imagine being a little boy growing up in a
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household with a feminist who's telling you that boys are bad
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and they're stupid. And that a boy ought to be more
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feminine or a woman who feels like she's got a gossip and
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spread rumors all the time or get up there and YouTube and
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just really Ram at home about what jerks guys are.
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Do you imagine what that would do to a mail boy?
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It might make the mail. Boy, look around at the internet
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and the social media and say, well maybe it'd be better.
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If I just turned myself into a woman, maybe I ought to become a
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female, maybe it's better to be a female.
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Maybe I've treated with more respect instead of society
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telling me, I have to be a protector or guardian or a
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warrior. Maybe if I dye my hair pink and
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I go to the doctor and get tits, put on me or hormones or
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something like that. Then I'll be Treated really good
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and all that. I'll get the attention that
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Mommy gets and of course there's some moms out there that
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actually encourage this type of behavior.
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They don't understand that. What's truly happening is that
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they have a kid, that's depressed.
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A kid is going through, a lot of pain, a lot of suffering, a kid
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that doesn't know their own self anymore, those lost their
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identity into hell. But they're literally in a
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living form of purgatory, they don't realize that.
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So they encourage that and they think that the kids, much more
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happier now, but the kid is simply mimicking.
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What it sees out in society of who's being treated nice and
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who's not? And unfortunately according to
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the stats, these kids end up usually slitting, her wrists
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hanging themself and just ending their life period, and it's
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over, and then these moms and dads who work all the time,
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they're asking themselves, could have I done something could have
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I said something, what did I do wrong as a parent and they
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really don't know. They don't get it, they don't
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get why children are are dying out there.
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Emotionally spiritually and mentally.
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A lot of people, whenever a kid decides that he's had enough of
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what's going on in society and school, some kid decides arm and
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self to the teeth, get his dad's gone and his equipment and then
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run into a school and start taking out students and random
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strangers, they think to themself and you'll see all
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these reports of I don't know how this happened.
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There was no clue given there was, you know, no one said
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anything. There was like no idea that this
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would ever happen. The reason why is because you
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didn't pay attention, you didn't look, you didn't listen as far
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as you were concerned before this happened.
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Those kids did not exist. They weren't real to you.
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They were they were nothing. You were so busy looking.
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For what you could do for yourself, that you didn't notice
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the people around you. Maybe it's because of what, a
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lot of people have. A problem with nowadays, were
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too busy. Looking at our phones, our head
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is down where an ostrich with our head in the ground and we're
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saying, who can I text today? I don't even want to hear a
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human voice. I don't want to connect with
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anybody. I just want to type out a line
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and then be done with that person.
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There's No human human connection or companionship or
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are people touching each other and feeling each other anymore?
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There's no calling someone up and just saying, I know you
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probably have had a hard day at work and all that but I just
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wanted to let you know. I love you.
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I care about you. I don't know.
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I just feel. I feel like there's a lot of
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people suffering and hurting out there.
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And I feel like a lot of things are happening in this world that
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it's just not right anymore. It seems like the further and
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further we get away from God and and trying to do as God told us
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to make families and bear fruit multiply, and teach our sons and
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daughters, how to be strong and independent, and how to
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emotionally, as well as physically be able to handle the
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shots that come in this world. It's not there anymore.
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The world has become a floating graveyard.
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It's become a place where we take our children out into the
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middle of the lake without them asking to be born, without them,
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wanting to even exist and we throw their ass into the deep
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end. And then we wonder why they
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drown? Well, that's the world.
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We chose to live in God bless. Hello, ladies and gentlemen, my
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name is Brett Keen from God TV radio.
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I hope you're all having a blessed day, make sure you check
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out my wife podcast, you can go to my front Channel, I've got
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videos that are scheduled and I put a link out to the public.
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Anybody can join Today we're going to talk about women and
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daddy issues, and we're also going to talk about children,
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who by proxy end up, trying to fill roles in their family that
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they were never meant to fill in the first place.
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I give you an example. Children who see their fathers
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leave or apparently the household.
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They will immediately try to step up especially if they got
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siblings. They'll try to be the dad and
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they'll try to take care of their siblings but they don't
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just do it because they want to make sure that their brothers
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and sisters and all that are going to be okay in the world.
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They do it because they need to fill in the void for themselves.
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It becomes like a what is referred to as codependency.
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A child needs to have a father in their life.
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A child needs to feel wanted and cared about as so they're
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valuable unfortunately in our day and age. a lot of kids, they
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don't have the dad or their mother has walked out or
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whatever the case might be, and a lot of kids end up watching
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television and the Get their identity from that.
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You'll notice in society that people will dress a certain way.
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They will act certain ways and they see themselves almost like
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a character in a movie, it's kind of a way to escape the
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reality of what actually is to convince yourself that you're a
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part of something that is formulated or predetermined and
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in the end usually people have this idea that they'll come out
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to hero and all will be good. Just like the movies.
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But in reality, whenever a kid decides that he wants to try to
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take on the position of the father, when he's not even to
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the point of being a man, he's going to end up because of this
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idea and concept. His siblings are going to watch
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him. They're going to listen to him
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because if you're going to be the father, then somebody
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obviously has to be the children.
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Well, usually people who are in this position, they tried to
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live better. But they end up throwing away
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their childhood. Some of these kids who decide
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they want to be the dad and the household, they won't go to
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parties, they won't go out and do things that kids do they
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won't They'll find themselves in a position where they seem to be
29:09
thinking higher and have higher priorities in their life.
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How am I going to take care of my sister today humming and take
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care of my brother. I got to make sure that my
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siblings do their homework. And then what happens is that
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they don't get the live, a childhood, they sacrifice your
29:25
childhood because for whatever reason, nature or God decides
29:30
that they need to fill in that role.
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And of course, there's going to be a lot of resentment there,
29:37
but the person who ends up having to give it up and the
29:39
only time, they feel like they've accomplished something
29:42
is by doing what a lot of parents do by living vicariously
29:46
through the siblings if the sibling succeeds, or does
29:51
something good, then the higher up in the food chain of
29:56
siblings, the one who's being the father is going to feel.
30:00
Complete on accomplished. And, of course at those siblings
30:04
fail, they are going to take it as if they failed as a brother
30:08
or a sister or all these things. The reason why I'm talking about
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all this stuff is because it shows, clearly demonstrates,
30:18
absolute evidence and proof. How important an actual father
30:22
is in a relationship. It also is important to realize
30:28
that If a girl or a woman does not have a good father, or does
30:35
not feel like her needs were met while growing up the cycle will
30:41
continue, the circle will repeat itself because a girl who ends
30:47
up becoming a young woman, a lot of her views about what a man
30:52
ought to be. Her thoughts are and how she
30:56
felt like she didn't get enough love.
30:59
You'll end up finding herself in a position where when she does
31:03
meet a guy whether he's developed into a man or not,
31:08
she's going to do, expect attention.
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She's going to be expected to be high maintenance.
31:16
He's going to expect that this is not only her boyfriend, but
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she expects him to be like a father.
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Or she wants somebody by nature and proxy to become her Father,
31:28
which is why they come up with the concept of daddy issues.
31:32
It sounds kind of like it's insulting or somehow lowering a
31:37
woman's value but believe it or not, there are males out there
31:41
to with daddy issues where you'll see a lot of guys who
31:47
find themselves attracted to Other men because they see that
31:54
Alpha and another man they see that there's a person who has
31:59
this protector, Guardian type of thing and I think that is one of
32:04
the reasons why we see a lot of the various forms of sexuality
32:09
in nature between humans. you probably heard when looking at
32:16
some of these videos, or if you know, people like this, you're
32:20
going to find out that there's usually a dominant partner and
32:24
then there's the partner who plays the part of the woman, so,
32:30
as you can see, Without a good father to raise families up and
32:36
raise his kids, it causes a lot of disturbance.
32:40
It causes a woman to have impossible, expectations for her
32:44
husband. It causes men to want to be
32:48
around other men, who can be their daddy, and who can You
32:53
know, fill that void that wasn't there before, it's all really.
32:58
If you think about it Sigmund, Freud was harm to something.
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He believed a lot of, a lot of the very things that men and
33:06
children and women, and girls do in society is based upon the
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relationship that they had with their moms and dads.
33:15
One of the things that is argued to is that when people go out to
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find themselves in a relationship, not only are they
33:23
looking for these things? But subconsciously, even if they
33:28
hate their Mother's or Father's or, you know, wish ill on their
33:32
own Mom and Dad, they tend to go out and find people that are
33:38
just like The people that raised them or failed to raise them
33:43
properly and this causes a whole Clash of mess and trouble with
33:49
folks. It causes problems because we
33:56
have this tendency where we want to get ourselves into a routine.
34:00
We want to be a part of the something that is organized.
34:03
We want to be around people that were used to if a girl's been
34:07
told that she's nothing or that she's a slut or a whore or piece
34:10
of trash, all of her life. She's going to end up,
34:15
unfortunately, you would think that the logic would be to go
34:19
out and find a man that would treat her better than that but
34:23
she'll end up getting hooked up with someone like that based
34:26
upon the fact that that's how she was treated and that's what
34:29
she was comfortable with. She became used to that kind of
34:33
abuse and behavior and it's the same with guys if guys are not
34:38
taught to be strong and masculine if we're not taught to
34:42
Value who we are. Then we have very low
34:45
expectations about who we associate ourselves with we are
34:50
moral. Ethical Compass is very small.
34:54
We figure that we're not good enough anyway.
34:57
We figure that you know, how can we have expectations of who we
35:02
hang with or who we talked to when in the end?
35:05
It doesn't really matter because we're trash we might as well
35:08
hang out with trash as well. So again, this is why it's so
35:16
important and obviously a mother and then any of these
35:20
relationships and families is very important to a mother
35:26
teaches how to nurture a mother teaches a lot of forms of
35:30
empathy. And compassion, you'll notice a
35:33
lot of days. A lot of times, a lot of kids
35:37
nowadays, they don't seem to have the ability to be able to
35:41
put themselves. Elf in the shoes of other
35:43
people, they don't seem to be able to relate or understand to
35:48
sympathize with the suffering and pain of others.
35:50
And almost seems like a lot of young people nowadays fall into
35:54
the very definition of sociopaths and some may very
35:58
well be a psychopath because of what has happened.
36:04
You'll love, if you look into any of study and research, I did
36:08
on serial killers and people who have done violent crimes and
36:13
evil and all that, that we deem is evil in the world.
36:17
I've always had this kind of thing.
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None of them were Ever Raised, right?
36:21
They either had a father who made them feel like they weren't
36:26
a man or a woman who Took the masculinity away from the child
36:33
and made the child feel absolutely horrible.
36:37
It's one of the reasons why a lot of people get irritated
36:40
whenever they find out that a serial killer.
36:43
Just so happened to be someone who doesn't have any foundation
36:47
and their beliefs like a non-believer.
36:49
It's one of the reasons why people get irritated when they
36:52
find out that a lot of serial killers have been damask elated,
36:57
they've Had their value as human beings taken away Jeffrey
37:02
Dahmer. Cannibal atheist once said, why
37:06
should I have any moral parameters for if there's no one
37:10
to rule over me, then why should I do any of these things?
37:16
And as far as men looking for Daddy's, Jeffrey Dahmer was the
37:20
perfect example of someone that I'm giving that I'm telling you
37:24
about this guy didn't feel like his father was.
37:28
There is Father, would later on become a Christian and commit
37:31
himself to the church and all that.
37:34
But before that happened, his father was not there for him
37:39
drank all the time, did alcohol and all that.
37:43
And basically told him he wasn't the man that he wasn't that
37:47
there wasn't nothing to him, that he would never amount to
37:50
anything. The Jeffrey Dahmer.
37:53
A lot of people, they study him and they study him and they act
37:56
like they don't understand what happened.
37:59
To him, and why he became the way dead.
38:01
Well, this is a person who was literally before he even got
38:05
into cannibalism. He was eating up inside his
38:09
being eaten Up, Inside by his own pain suffering and misery.
38:16
He was being told that he had no values.
38:18
So it was easy for him to adapt to an idea such as we come from
38:23
the Slime. And we have no God, there is
38:28
nothing to even be valued and then of course, according to his
38:32
life and how death was brought into?
38:34
It was he went out trying to find alpha males.
38:38
He tried to find men. That would be his father, his
38:42
dad. But unfortunately the Agent
38:45
anger and void in him was so great that when he ended up
38:50
getting into this father-son role with a total stranger.
38:58
They would find that, they didn't know what to say.
39:00
They didn't realize they were a part of a script or performance
39:03
that he had fantasized in his head.
39:07
So he wasn't getting what he wanted out of these people.
39:11
And then he decided that he needed to Simply destroy them
39:14
and consume them. And I think that's what happens
39:19
to a lot of people just not to the extreme that.
39:24
Jeffrey Dahmer did before he died.
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I think people when they have that void inside of them, their
39:31
body and nature takes over and they begin to eat themselves,
39:36
they begin to fall apart inside. They try to fit a roll, they try
39:42
to jump from Cliff to Cliff and as the walls are coming down.
39:48
But they never grasped onto anything that they can call
39:51
their own because they're always trying to be someone else.
39:56
We lose our identities. And that's really why we one of
40:00
the most important reasons why we need a stable, father, and a
40:04
mother. There's a kind of remark that
40:10
someone made a long time ago to me that stock, he said, Brad, if
40:15
you don't have a foundation that you can stand on, then you
40:19
believe anything. You'll basically fall for
40:22
anything, you have to have a place.
40:25
You have to have a point in your life where you find yourself,
40:27
content and say, this is me, this is who I am, this is what I
40:32
want in life. And we got to learn as a people
40:36
not to lower our expectations. We can't say to ourselves that
40:39
we are so little and value that we might as well.
40:44
Hang out in gangs that we might as well do this.
40:48
And another thing that we need to learn to is that television
40:53
is not our mom and dad. It's teaching you a fantasy
40:57
world that doesn't exist. I remember whenever I was a
41:00
child, I used to watch. Leave it to Beaver and all these
41:03
He's 1950, 1930 type of shows, black and white and I got the
41:09
idea that that was what a mom and Dad was supposed to be.
41:13
And it was really disappointing because I had the setup in my
41:17
head of what people ought to be, and how a family should act
41:22
towards each other. And then, of course, in reality,
41:25
whenever it wasn't happening, I felt this.
41:27
Oh, my soul wasn't being fed. What is my advice and
41:34
suggestions for people who don't have a father or mother or
41:39
you're missing one of those parents?
41:43
My Suggestion would be don't try to be the dad.
41:48
Don't try to be the mom. Be the best sibling that you can
41:53
but don't forget who you are make time for those you love,
41:58
but also, make sure that you have fun and you enjoy yourself
42:02
and that you have some kind of good and Tranquility in your
42:06
life. Don't forget the things that you
42:08
were seeking. Don't forget the things that you
42:11
were working for before. All of that happened before, the
42:14
divorce of the separation are to the point where you no longer
42:20
felt that one. T'adore needed would be my
42:23
suggestion. Now, ladies and gentlemen, I'm
42:27
not a psychiatrist, I'm not a shrink, I don't have some kind
42:31
of degree in any of this. I'm just a guy like you, who's
42:36
out there listening or a woman who's listening?
42:39
Just had normal person. He's just simply had a lot of
42:43
personal experiences and street-smart.
42:47
I would suggest that if any of you out there is hurting and
42:50
you're going through some kind of harm and my videos are not
42:53
helping you that you should probably seek out a professional
42:56
seek out. Someone that can help you take
43:00
steps towards being the person that you want to be.
43:04
Or at least. To help you be able to make
43:08
friendships that are healthy for you and be able to build healthy
43:12
relationships with family. Family members, that may not
43:16
themselves know how to do that. And that's how we'll make it.
43:23
Ladies and gentlemen, you've been listening to Brett Keen?
43:26
I hope that you all attend the shows and become part of the
43:30
discussions. I'd appreciate it.
43:32
If and comments you let me know how you feel about these videos
43:36
where I'm on camera. I had actually decided a long
43:40
time ago that I wasn't going to get on camera anymore.
43:43
They didn't feel like there was a point but a lot of you seem to
43:47
be very encouraging of this. You want me on camera and I
43:50
don't know why I sound The same way whether I have images going
43:55
or whether I'm on camera, but please tell me why if you don't
44:00
mind why you value this kind of thing as opposed to my other
44:04
videos. God bless
44:21
If I could convert everyone in the world not convert, I can
44:23
convince the non-believer and I've really done brilliantly,
44:30
and there's anyone left one more, then it be done, they'll
44:35
be no more religion, Never Dies. Somehow drive it out of the
45:03
world. I wouldn't and the incredulity
45:07
with that. She stays with mr.
45:16
Hello, ladies and gentlemen, my name is Brett Keen from guard TV
45:20
radio. Have you ever heard of the Fermi
45:22
Paradox? According to science, is up to
45:25
10 trillion planets that exist in the universe but not one
45:29
single. Planet has life on it except for
45:32
the planet Earth. Apparently abiogenesis.
45:36
Natural selection and evolution doesn't work on any Planet
45:40
except for Earth, according to the scientist.
45:44
I guess we are alone in the universe unless you count, God,
45:48
and all of his angels and everything.
45:49
He's designed God bless tension. You have a filthy mouth.
45:55
Tell your mama wash it out with soap.
45:57
That's taking advantage of me dude.
45:59
You will go to hell. I'm not joking.
46:03
As far as homosexuality goes. You know I believe the Bible
46:05
puts a death penalty on it. I believe it's I believe it's
46:08
disgusting. Obviously, I believe it's the
46:10
government's job to execute criminals.
46:12
And, you know, I believe that the Bible says, clearly that
46:15
homosexuality is, it's a criminal crime, it's a, it's a
46:18
crime. It's one of the worst crimes
46:20
ever, by whatever. Means, they Execute people, and
46:22
obviously, I believe inhumane, you know, putting to death,
46:25
whatever our government says, as far as like, for a death
46:28
penalty, I think should go for them.
46:30
It might be legal, like, homosexuality is illegal in some
46:33
states, but it's still not morally, right?
46:41
First John chapter 3 verses, eight little children.
46:46
Let no one deceive you. The one who practices
46:50
righteousness is righteous just as Christ as righteous, the one,
46:55
who practices sin is of the devil because the devil has been
47:00
sinning from the very start. This is why the Son of God was
47:05
revealed to destroy the works of the devil.
47:08
Anyone born of God, refuses to practice sin because God's seed
47:13
abides in him. He cannot go on sinning because
47:19
he has been born of God.