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- 0:03What's happening everybody? Welcome to Scrappy What Successful. It's a show where I sit down
- 0:07with your favorite consultants and we find out if they're successful today because they're sophisticated
- 0:11or because they're a little bit scrappy. I'm your host, Jock Tompkins, CEO of Pineapple
- 0:15Consulting Firm and Pineapple An Analyst AI, always helping small businesses become more data driven.
- 0:20Fun fact of the day, sp very specific for our guest today, it's estimated that
- 0:24a whopping three hundred million golf balls are lost in the US every single year.
- 0:28I contribute about half of that, but I don't think our guest contributes at all
- 0:32to that. She's a pro. But that's neither here nor there. Today I'm joined by
- 0:37my friend, Tina Ruark Baker. That is the first time I've ever said your entire
- 0:41name, because I just call her T, like everybody
- 0:44I know.
- 0:46else does. She's the founder of TRB Creative. She's a three-time founder. Couple of nice
- 0:50exits under her belt, too. She's been a scrappy founder and a sophisticated corporate C-suite
- 0:54exec. She got the strategic thinking. She's a LinkedIn expert. She's a speaker. She's a
- 0:59super connector. She's got all this stuff. She's a straight talking advisor. Let me tell
- 1:03you folks, she plays to win. T, I'm so pumped that you're joining me today.
- 1:08I know that you're successful. We all know that you're successful. The question we have
- 1:12for you, do you think you fall more on the sophisticated side or more on
- 1:17the scrappy side?
- 1:18I am 100% scrappy. But I can also put on a polish when I need
- 1:25to.
- 1:26There you go. Okay. Most of my guests I'm like, you know, we'll see. This
- 1:28one, I'm feeling pretty confident that I'm gonna agree with you at the end of
- 1:31this.
- 1:32Yeah. Yeah.
- 1:35Take us back to the beginning. New York girl, right? Tell us about where'd you
- 1:38grow up? Did you have entrepreneurs in the family?
- 1:41Yeah, so I'm actually native Detroit girl. So grew up in Detroit, and I think
- 1:45that's probably where the scrappiness came from. Started my first business at 18 in my
- 1:50dad's basement. It was a staffing company, and I had worked for other staffing firms.
- 1:54Remember the workers' permit that we had in high school? Like you could go get
- 1:59a job part-time. That's where I worked and I figured it out. And
- 2:03Nice.
- 2:04my clients were Ford, Chrysler, and GM. My dad was a Ford guy and built
- 2:08up that business. And then I also had a second company that was a it
- 2:12was called the Service Connection. And I was on the news every time a storm
- 2:17hit, my 1-800 number would come up, and it was much like Angie's list. It
- 2:21gave contractors that were already approved to people that needed help, right? So both of
- 2:25those companies I sold, and that's the company that bought my business, is actually the
- 2:30company that asked me to go to New York City back in 2000. God, I'm
- 2:34old. But
- 2:35Yeah.
- 2:36that's where I I knew no one. In New York City and a very tall
- 2:40six foot four Italian by the name of Joe Rizzo was at the gate and
- 2:44picked me up. And that started my New York journey. He was one of our
- 2:49employees that was at boots on the ground in New York City. And he just
- 2:53basically took me for a cup of coffee and it was over
- 2:57Yeah.
- 2:58from there. Yeah. So was in New York City for 20 years, met my hubby,
- 3:03and we cashed out right before COVID and went to Charlotte, and that's where I
- 3:09met you. And we recently just moved to the vacation forever paradise home over at
- 3:15the beach in the golf community. So full 30 years of change, but yeah, I'm
- 3:21a little scrappy when it comes to that.
- 3:25And starting is at eighteen, getting two X
- 3:27Eighteen was my first official LLC. Yeah. Yeah.
- 3:30I mean, that's pretty awesome. What like w did you r were you running like
- 3:32lemonade stands before that? Like what'd you do as a kid? Yep.
- 3:35yeah, I had the paper routes. I was the I was the the the grandkid
- 3:39that was like playing office and had everything organized. My grandparents owned a marina in
- 3:44Michigan, and my grandmother on my mom's side had a dairy farm. So we were
- 3:49always hustling for jobs, always hustling. And I think I got the bite from them
- 3:54of just doing my own thing. But listen, it's not all rainbows and sunshine. We
- 3:58know that, right? Whenever you start a business, there's some dark times and there's a
- 4:03lot of doubt. But I think my corporate background, because I was always in sales
- 4:08and I was always in the staffing industry, which is every industry possible, I was
- 4:13just a sponge on what was working, what trends are working, where to leverage, when
- 4:17the markets crash, you gotta go to a different entity, like all of the shifting
- 4:22that goes on with human people that led to that scrappiness of always kind of
- 4:27landing on my feet, keep the wheels spinning and keep going.
- 4:31Okay, I love it. And it shows up today too. I mean, even just in
- 4:33our conversations, it's very much like, all right, well, let's do this. Like we did
- 4:36a webinar however
- 4:37Yeah, yeah.
- 4:38long ago. It was like, hey, let's just do this. And like there wasn't like
- 4:40we'd need a planning committee. It was all right, let's just do it. We're gonna
- 4:43invite some people, we're gonna have a good time. okay, this is great. I'm I'm
- 4:46pumped. I got so many I got a million questions for you.
- 4:49God.
- 4:53As a kid, were you bordering with friends at all?
- 4:57Yeah, I mean, I had tons of cousins. So it was like you were constantly
- 5:00coming up with different ways of getting more money or getting and the money always
- 5:03went to the candy store or the ice cream parlor. Like that's where
- 5:07course.
- 5:08the money went, right? But it was things like, you know, hey, I own a
- 5:12company now and I've got a position that I would bring family into work with
- 5:17me and they would then put the siding on my house. Like we were constantly
- 5:21trading the trade, right? That's what we do.
- 5:24This is great. This is scrappy through and through. ever collect
- 5:26Yeah.
- 5:27anything as a kid?
- 5:29Collect. people would probably say I collected souls, but I'm kidding. No. I didn't I
- 5:33mean, no,
- 5:34Collected money.
- 5:36I didn't do any collecting of anything, I don't think. I mean I had a
- 5:39doll house, but that was it, I think. Yeah. Yeah.
- 5:41Okay. All right. Not bad. how are the grades while you're doing all this entrepreneurial
- 5:44stuff as a kid? The grades in high school.
- 5:47How are the what? I I was kind of above the bar, but I never
- 5:51was an A student. My attention span was of a gnat, and I was always
- 5:56thinking, doing, going. But, you know, even in the college side, when I went to
- 6:00go start to dive into school, I my mom got pretty sick with lupus and
- 6:05I had to help out financially and like time and all the things. So I
- 6:09said, let's just start the business and let's start making money. And next thing you
- 6:14know, my My family was working for me and I had people and subcontractors and
- 6:19it just college kind of went out the window and I kept pulling it back
- 6:23in from time to time. But leaning into owning my own business was definitely a
- 6:28moneymaker for me and I had I had to make it happen.
- 6:32Okay. Give me give me thirty seconds on what you do today, what you most
- 6:35commonly do today, and we're gonna build that bridge throughout the episode.
- 6:38I coach people on how to grow their business. That's what I do. Whether it's
- 6:42a small business or it's an entrepreneur, I try or a nonprofit. I try to
- 6:46show them how to grow their business quickly within 90 days, start to see money
- 6:51coming in. And my tool of choice is LinkedIn. I've just gotten really scrappy on
- 6:55the corporate side of how to use that tool to build business and teach teams
- 6:59to do it when I was in corporate. So I adapted that and that's what
- 7:04I do now.
- 7:05Okay. Okay. this is great too. I got a bunch of selfish LinkedIn questions for
- 7:08that maybe we do have Air or something like that. But all right, so that's
- 7:11that's
- 7:12Anytime.
- 7:13where we're at today. You're helping people grow businesses and why LinkedIn? Is it just
- 7:17you ha you kind of got a feel for it and then it's an untapped
- 7:21kind of market? Like why why that?
- 7:23So for me, when I started my first business, I leaned heavily on it and
- 7:27it's changed so much over the last five years. But the thing that shocks me,
- 7:31and if you would have told me two years ago when I leaned into this
- 7:35full time, because I was doing it as a side hustle when I met you,
- 7:39right? I was kind of putting my toe into the water again. But when I
- 7:43fully jumped off into the pool, I thought it was gonna be a fractional CMO.
- 7:47And that's I always did marketing and sales. That's what I did. But there's a
- 7:51huge gap. I'm like, okay, so let's talk about your LinkedIn. We got to upgrade
- 7:55it. And they're like, what you mean? How do you find you know, and people
- 7:59just didn't know how to use it. It's not about posting and praying. It's about
- 8:03connecting your brand to the companies, your dream clients that you want to work with,
- 8:07right? And a great example of this is there's a a person I was coaching
- 8:11in Charlotte, and she wanted a specific company in the sports industry that she wanted
- 8:15to work with. And she wanted her product to be sold at their At their
- 8:19stadium. And I said, okay, let's target it. Let's go after it. And to this
- 8:23day, she now has a contract for three years and her product is now being
- 8:27sold at the at the stadium. So
- 8:29Well.
- 8:30little things like that is that's where I learned really quickly, I'm in the right
- 8:33lane. And I'm not doing it for people. I'm teaching people how to do it.
- 8:38That's a big difference. I don't want to be working 40 hours a week, 60
- 8:43hours a week anymore. But if I can teach them in a short term and
- 8:47the money that they're paying me to coach them, they get that back in in
- 8:52revenue fast. That's when I know I I knew I had a win. So it's
- 8:57it's been really cool to watch it from the outside in. But it was not
- 9:01my business model. It was not my website. It was not what I was gonna
- 9:06do when I walked away from corporate. And here we are.
- 9:10There you go. How do
- 9:12Here we are.
- 9:12you find those first clients? So starting kind of on the side, dipping a toe,
- 9:14where do you get your first clients from?
- 9:16Networking. I was a big, big, always have been a big networking person. And my
- 9:20one of the women who one of my favorite clients, she was so shy, she
- 9:24actually didn't come to the event that we were supposed to meet. She she was
- 9:29there, but she hid in the back. Let me rephrase. And I I'm texting, I'm
- 9:33like, hey, are you here? And like not seeing the next day I email I'm
- 9:37like, Hey, were you there? And she's like, Yeah. And I'm here I am in
- 9:42the front row of the event, ready, like bright eyes, bushy-tailed, ready to go. And
- 9:46We just had a really good working relationship for over a year and it's just
- 9:51a funny thing of like people's strengths versus what they'll utilize my skills for. It
- 9:55usually fills the gap there.
- 9:57Yeah, 'cause you're as soon as anybody meets you, they're like, I like this girl,
- 9:59I just want to keep talking 'cause this is a fun time.
- 10:01Or they hate me. It could go either way.
- 10:05Ha ha ha
- 10:07I mean, you know, I do have I do have that moment. I have to
- 10:09have fun. Yeah,
- 10:10The rare one in a million.
- 10:13I have to have fun at what I do. And I look at other people's
- 10:17businesses as where's the shortest way I can help them make a correction. Now that
- 10:21could be like I have a company now that I'm working with and I pulled
- 10:25in another vendor because he's the specialist in the CRM world. I know how they
- 10:29work, I know what's happening, but it's not what I do. But to my client,
- 10:34I'm a superhero because I helped fix that, which then in turn is driving revenue
- 10:38for them automatically, right? So it's just thinking differently about I might not be able
- 10:42to do the fix, but I know people that can, right? And then paying that
- 10:46forward.
- 10:47Gotcha. Okay. Do you have any employees today?
- 10:50I have three that I use on a virtual basis. And I have what I
- 10:54call my power partners. And I consider you one of those, someone who I know,
- 10:59love, and trust. And I know I can bring into a company that I'm working
- 11:04with or an individual, and they're gonna do right by them. Right. So those people
- 11:08we all kind of met during COVID and we kept most of us were unemployed.
- 11:13We were, you know, trying to figure out where we were gonna go. But we
- 11:18kept together and now they all have their own businesses. One's a bookkeeper, one's a
- 11:22lawyer, one deals with insurance, corporate insurance, and we constantly are giving each other leads.
- 11:27So that referral network is what led to one of the communities that I built
- 11:32specifically for people that want to grow their business and we're not selling to each
- 11:36other, we're lifting each other. So it's a big difference.
- 11:40And and what is that community? Is that a publicly available thing?
- 11:42Yeah, that's it's actually on my LinkedIn. You can see some of the links and
- 11:46sign up sheets for it, but it's called Rev Lab and it's a revenue driven
- 11:51leadership group that we all are entrepreneurs doing different things. Some of us do the
- 11:56same, but we do we still share business or we partner together to do the
- 12:00business.
- 12:01Yeah, you go there you go. Okay. Very nice. Very nice. Okay. did working with
- 12:06family and managing family members, did that sour the like employee employer relationship for the
- 12:11future? Or was that just, hey, we're all in this together kind of thing?
- 12:17Well, you know, it was years ago. So this
- 12:19Sure.
- 12:20is and I'm gonna age myself. This is before the technology w that we have
- 12:23now, right? So I had three pages on my hip. I worked three shifts a
- 12:27week or three shifts a day. And I had a car phone that was in
- 12:31a bag car phone, right? So having family work for you and being able to
- 12:36work now versus then was a whole other ball game. I mean, it was like
- 12:40you didn't show up and what's going on and I flat tire, I couldn't call
- 12:44you. And, you know, it was that kind of a world. Where now I think
- 12:48even my clients that are family owned businesses, it's a really hard mix sometimes. And
- 12:53me as an outsider coming in as an advisor or coach, I kind of have
- 12:57to be kind of the referee and just say, listen, guys, we all know each
- 13:01other, we love each other, you guys are gonna have dinner tonight together, but we
- 13:05got to do what's right for the business. Raise your head. Stand up tall and
- 13:10make the business happen. So that's, you know, to answer your question, family stuff is
- 13:14is I don't know that I would ever do it again. But it's a different
- 13:18game now. It's a different time, you know? But yeah, well, there was a lot
- 13:23of cousin rivalry for sure. And being all rue arcs, it could get crazy. You
- 13:27just never know. Big comedy people.
- 13:29Yeah. About a couple of Thanksgivings. Okay. Okay. because you're such a super connector and
- 13:36you have that again, that just immediate likability, do you find that the difference between
- 13:44connecting people and managing people is significant, or do you find there's a lot of
- 13:51overlap?
- 13:52I tend to and I've learned in my old salty dog years is that I
- 13:56don't want to control the relationship of the connecting. My job is to make the
- 14:01connection and they're two adults and they can figure it out. I don't want to
- 14:06be the person who is guiding the relationship because it just never works. That's where
- 14:11a lot of saltiness can happen. but if I can bring value to someone's life,
- 14:16business, or family based off of making a referral for someone. Yeah, I'll do it
- 14:21in a heartbeat. Yeah.
- 14:23Okay. Okay. Starting this business or the other ones, I suppose, whichever one you feel
- 14:28like. Do you ever get in a situation where you somebody asks you to do
- 14:33something and you're like, sure, a hundred percent, can totally do it, absolutely, full confidence,
- 14:38but you've never actually done it?
- 14:40I think everybody has done that at
- 14:41Yeah.
- 14:42one point because we're figuring stuff out, right? But I'll and I'll give this analogy.
- 14:47I also do abstract art. And I was asked by a doctor at that I
- 14:53she was my doctor, my OB at Novant to do her entire office. What?
- 14:59well.
- 15:00Yeah, it was over 20 paintings, huge paintings. And I
- 15:02Holy crap. From scratch, brand new.
- 15:05said yes. I turned my
- 15:08Yeah.
- 15:09bedroom upstairs into an art studio. My husband hung all of the huge canvases up.
- 15:13They all had to have Novant purple in them. And they had to be modern
- 15:18with like foil and all kinds of crazy textures. And I had never done a
- 15:23project like that before. And they loved every piece. I'll get I'll send you the
- 15:28link so you can actually show it. There's a video of her office on it.
- 15:33I sit back and look at stuff like that and the only reason that happened,
- 15:38which kind of launched my art career, which is another revenue stream for myself, was
- 15:43because I said yes.
- 15:45Just diving in.
- 15:46I said yes. I had never done paintings that large, that many, at one time.
- 15:51it it was a lot of pressure, but my husband will tell you I probably
- 15:57went 100% gray. And so did he. But it was so cool to sit back
- 16:03in that lobby and go, this is gonna be hanging here for years. And I
- 16:09did that because I said yes. So do I say yes often? Yeah, I do.
- 16:15I do.
- 16:16Okay. Okay. Give me give me the scrappy conversation. Like how do you figure out
- 16:19going about pricing something like that? Like this that's an out of the blue request,
- 16:23something you've never done. What is that conversation like?
- 16:26Yeah, that was very uncomfortable because there was a third party vendor that was price
- 16:31gouging my pricing that he had
- 16:33geez.
- 16:34the contract through procurement. And if I was in New York and still knew my
- 16:38six foot Italian, I would have been like pulling a soprano card, but I didn't
- 16:42Yeah.
- 16:44have those people in Charlotte. So I had to just kind of navigate that. And
- 16:48it was awkward for the doctors. There was four doctors that were or three doctors
- 16:53involved at the time that were in that. Practice. And it was uncomfortable for me.
- 16:58It was uncomfortable for my vendors that I was getting supply. It was just uncomfortable.
- 17:02But I chose it to flip it and put it into a positive bucket of
- 17:07I'm going to do this. It's probably not the money that I want. It was
- 17:12still great money, let me tell you that. But to someone else who's established and
- 17:16their art is what they do, they probably would have said, you need to get
- 17:21at least double. But for me, Working full time, doing this for the exposure, supporting
- 17:26a doctor that I loved. She saved my life. that to me was a full
- 17:30turnaround give back. So it is awkward, but I say little prayers that I hope
- 17:35that his hair falls out and it makes me feel better.
- 17:39Yeah.
- 17:42You know how you have that thing and you squish their head? Yeah, that's what
- 17:45I do. But
- 17:46Yep.
- 17:47I never have to see him again, but it was definitely an interesting experience for
- 17:50sure.
- 17:51Sounds like yeah, that's I'm like, Man, I hope he wakes up with a hangnail
- 17:53every morning. Nothing detrimental, just
- 17:54I know. Yeah, I wished worse, but that's okay.
- 17:58Sure. first version of this of the new business of the TRB creative business. Was
- 18:01it something that you had kind of fleshed out of all right, I think there's
- 18:05a market for this, I think I can offer this and there's a good value
- 18:09there? Or was it just, hey, I'm I'm doing this stuff, I'm gonna talk with
- 18:13some people and see where the market is and and roll out a first offering.
- 18:17Okay.
- 18:18No, I was I'm a planner. I'm a lunatic when it comes to that. So
- 18:22I had, and don't laugh, I had my website built, I had my logos, I
- 18:27had my taglines, I had my pitch deck all done before I had my first
- 18:32client. And
- 18:33Respect it.
- 18:35but none of that is even what I'm doing right now. So I mean I
- 18:39hired a coach to get my head straight from going from this great corporate job
- 18:44and salary, and I'm walking away from that. And how am I going to leverage
- 18:49that to and spending a lot of money on coaching and tech skills and all
- 18:54this like how to build websites? Like so much work was wasted. Good to learn,
- 18:59good to teach people now what not to do when I'm getting them walking through
- 19:04my door. But It's it's interesting when you start to look at like what I'm
- 19:09actually doing now. I have about then I just shared this on a conference call
- 19:14with a private community. And these people, when I say private, like what happens in
- 19:19Vegas stays in Vegas. We all have signed agreements, nobody talks about it, but we
- 19:24bring our situations and problems. And I brought my business right now to them on
- 19:29a PDF and I shared it on the screen and said, This is where I'm
- 19:34at. These are my revenue percentages, this is my growth strategy, these are my growth,
- 19:39blah, blah, blah. And I have nine different revenue streams in my business. But I
- 19:44think that's because I'm learning that all of these things are semi-connected. It's all about
- 19:49growth. It's all about supporting other people. I'm just attaching some bit of revenue to
- 19:53it. And if it's a what I call one of my power partners, there's a
- 19:58referral piece for that. And if it's a nonprofit, there's a referral piece to that
- 20:03going back to their nonprofit. So it's kind of gets sticky. But at the same
- 20:08time, my accountant probably hates it. But I don't want to say no to an
- 20:13opportunity if I can bring a partner in to make something happen for someone that
- 20:18I love and trust. That to me, I'm a valued asset to them regardless. So
- 20:23technology, I use you and I have had conversations about what you do, connecting you
- 20:28to some of the vendors that I work with that are in your world on
- 20:33the CRM side, like all of that stuff is. It g it's sticky, but we're
- 20:38also supporting each other's businesses.
- 20:40Okay, if I go serious business for a second, we'll get back to the random
- 20:42jokes and stuff like that. No, what what I'm saying is a compliment,
- 20:44God. All right. I'm ready.
- 20:48like there's you're willing to say yes to the full flywheel of things, if you
- 20:52will, but you're still sticking within your specialty, right? You're still doing the stuff that
- 20:56you love and the stuff that you're an expert at. And then you've got the
- 21:00power partners that kind of fill out the rest, right? Like I that's years of
- 21:04networking and finding the right people to actually put that together. Was your ICP, your
- 21:08ideal client, was that right from the beginning or has it evolved over time? Okay.
- 21:13No. No. I was selling myself into corporate to be a fractional CMO. And what
- 21:18I found out very quickly is they have marketing teams and they don't want to
- 21:23be told what to do by an outsider. It's a really, really it's a really
- 21:28hard road to navigate. And marketing people are replaceable, right? If the money's not coming
- 21:34in and it's not showing on all of these lovely platforms that we use. The
- 21:39marketing people are the first to go and they'll replace them very quickly. So that's
- 21:44when I said, This is not what I want to do because I don't wanna
- 21:49have to feel pressure on something I can't control.
- 21:53Yeah.
- 21:54So it was a really quick learn for me that if I can bring value
- 21:59on how to sell and how to build relationships and network yourself into profitability, that
- 22:04I love. Like that stuff I love. But to sit and talk about a marketing
- 22:10strategy, go-to-market strategy that I'm hoping a 21-year-old is going to understand with no business
- 22:15experience, that's gonna fall flat. And that's the daughter of the owner and I can't
- 22:20do anything with that. Or that's the son of
- 22:24Yeah.
- 22:25the mother that like, you know, so there's a lot that happens there. But if
- 22:29I can teach them how to think differently about business and watch the winds come
- 22:34in and they're learning as we go, that's a different ballgame.
- 22:38Okay. Yeah, that I mean it's a very different ballgame and it's that kind of
- 22:41to your point about the LinkedIn stuff too. When somebody learns it, it's teaching how
- 22:44to fish, right? It's it's much more powerful. Who is
- 22:47Yep. Yep.
- 22:49your ICP today? What has it evolved into? Okay.
- 22:51I have three. Small businesses that have teams that need to break the silos and
- 22:56grow, and it's all focused on growth. I have nonprofits that want to grow their
- 23:01board, their funding, and their volunteers. And I have entrepreneurs that are trying to figure
- 23:06out how to grow their business. Those are my three buckets that I have right
- 23:11now.
- 23:12Okay. And LinkedIn is one of the more consistent levers to pull in all three
- 23:16of those.
- 23:17LinkedIn is my tool of choice that I teach people how to use properly. A
- 23:21lot of it is lifting on the profile. They there's there's so many levers that
- 23:26people don't even know are there. And then once that happens, I teach them there's
- 23:30three steps. I teach them how to use it and then how to turn those
- 23:35people into clients.
- 23:36Is it about the follower count? Is it about the like count? Okay.
- 23:39No. It's about the peop being in the right lane for what you do.
- 23:45Okay. Okay.
- 23:46I mean, if you're selling a a a a widget of some sort, you want
- 23:50to make sure you've got volume on your socials. But the thing I think is
- 23:54so amazing about LinkedIn is there's so many people on it, and there's so very
- 23:59few people that use it correctly to get seen. Or do people even know that
- 24:03they're people are using it like Google? They're searching for leaders, they're searching for talent,
- 24:08they're searching for nonprofits that they can invite to things. Like they use it like
- 24:12Google and If you don't have your right SEO optimize all the things, you you
- 24:16just you're never found. You're you're invisible. You know? Anyway, LinkedIn talk. LinkedIn talk.
- 24:21No, this is this is great. I th I think this is I mean, do
- 24:24ads come into play? Do you do a LinkedIn ad?
- 24:27I've never spent a dollar, never spent a dollar on ads. And as a matter
- 24:31of fact, there's a marketing company that I adore. And I wanted to do a
- 24:36partnership with them and using a different platform using Insta. And I said, Hey, I
- 24:41have this online program. I want to sell it. I want to do it. And
- 24:45then everything just started just started slowing down. People everywhere were talking about like the
- 24:50amount of money they were spending. So we decided to put a pin in it
- 24:55and not move forward with paying for ads, but every single every single coach or
- 25:00business that I see, it's a struggle. It's a real struggle to get any social
- 25:04platform to see a return unless you've got tons of followers and you, you know,
- 25:09that's a different ballgame. But for LinkedIn, everything that I teach, everything that I I've
- 25:14personally done in my corporate life, we did not have a budget for ads. So
- 25:18we had to get scrappy. We had to get scrappy. And it stayed.
- 25:23You had to get scrappy. Exactly what I was going
- 25:27Ha ha ha.
- 25:28for. for your own businesses, any real scrappy, real hustle marketing things, any ridiculous marketing
- 25:33events that you had to throw or anything fun like that?
- 25:38Well, I always do when I was in Charlotte, I always would try to do
- 25:42power like groups, right? Getting people together for an event and what have you. Those
- 25:46are always great. And I try to get people from different industries so they can
- 25:50learn each other and learn about what they do and all the things. but probably
- 25:54one of the most fun I've done are around golf outings, because that, you know,
- 25:59to me, that's my jam. So if we can get a cocktail in a golf
- 26:03club, I'm I'm a happy girl.
- 26:05How much are you golfing? Yeah.
- 26:07Right now, like a lot, like two, three times a week we're out there. But
- 26:09the golf cart is literally in the garage now. So I don't have to
- 26:11Okay.
- 26:15it's we just go out the driveway and we pull out on the course. So
- 26:17the great
- 26:18It's too easy.
- 26:19thing is is people are already calling me the mayor here. So I I know
- 26:22everybody and the guys at the golf course are great and you know, I celebrate
- 26:26their birthdays and get treats and they they treat us great. So it's all good.
- 26:30It's all good.
- 26:31the super connector coming out too.
- 26:32I know.
- 26:33How is the golf game? Are you are you winning? Are you a bogey golfer?
- 26:37What kind of scores are we shooting?
- 26:39I'm in the nineties, which I'm not mad about,
- 26:41Sure.
- 26:42but I just had my knee replaced. God, I'm old. I just had my knee
- 26:43replaced
- 26:44Yeah.
- 26:46in January. And of course I had to plan that for it did mess up
- 26:50my summer. And I
- 26:52Yeah.
- 26:53went back to Charlotte, which is a two and a half hour drive from here.
- 26:55I'm at the beach. I went back to Charlotte to get the surgery done because
- 26:59I wanted the Novant system. So it's just, yeah, I came home the same day
- 27:03and now I'm back on the course. I was really on the course three months
- 27:07later. My
- 27:08Yeah.
- 27:09PT guy wouldn't like that. But what is the luck too? My PT guy was
- 27:12literally a scratch. Like he was like a handicap of like two. And he did
- 27:17all the things to get me back on the course fast. So yeah, I play
- 27:21a lot, but it's also now that with the keynote speaking that I do, I
- 27:26am able to select where I want to go that have good golf courses. And
- 27:31Yeah.
- 27:32I bring the hubby with in the club. So we're making a little You know,
- 27:36we don't have kids, so we've got like the whole like we're just yeah. That's
- 27:40what's happening now.
- 27:41That's awesome. You are living the dream, T. I love it.
- 27:44It's fun. I don't know. And I get to meet cool people and I get
- 27:47to support other people and it's just yeah, it's fun. It's fun.
- 27:51Give me some keynote topics. What are you speaking on these days?
- 27:54the one everybody wants is LinkedIn. So that that's the most popular. But the one
- 27:58I really like is for stop asking for permission. And it's getting your head straight
- 28:02with what your goals are versus what the corporate goals are and thinking completely differently.
- 28:07And most of the time that lands for people that are thinking about doing an
- 28:11exit to startup, whatever. And funny story, Barry, if you're listening, this is a this
- 28:16is a coworker of mine from Detroit. We've known each other for Over 30 years.
- 28:20And we both worked at a staffing firm. I leave New York. I do my
- 28:25thing. She's still there. She's still there in New York. And she randomly sends me
- 28:29a message and says, Hey, do you can I get on your calendar? And she's
- 28:34starting up as a coach, health in the health industry for for women's health. And
- 28:38she signed with me, and she was the one that I was literally on the
- 28:43golf course, and she texted and said she got her first keynote. She got first
- 28:47client, she got her first, her first, her first. And that's the stuff that tells
- 28:52me I'm in the right lane. That's the cool stuff. Yeah. So people
- 28:56Nice. that's awesome. A lifelong person making that's beautiful.
- 29:01that you knew in your career, they don't forget, you know, they see. And I
- 29:05was actually talking with someone today that just I haven't talked to her in years.
- 29:09And she, her doctor was my doctor in New York. And she and I worked
- 29:14together in the staffing industry. And she's now in the Hamptons and she's living her
- 29:18life and she's singing and she's acting and she's doing comedy and it's just where
- 29:22people's lives go. You just never know. You never know. Yeah.
- 29:26Yeah. That's fantastic. How so I on that note, how do you actually measure success
- 29:31for yourself, but also for clients? Like is success being able to golf three times
- 29:36a week? Is it is it
- 29:39Yeah.
- 29:40a number? What are you talking what are you doing?
- 29:41I mean, it really depends on what their goals are, you know. I know people
- 29:45that want to make a million, you know, and is that realistic? Are you gonna
- 29:49do that your lifetime? What is your what is your what is your cycle even
- 29:54look like for that, right? I know other people that are wanting to step away
- 29:58from their CEO job, let their brothers and their sisters and take over the company,
- 30:02and I coach them on their exit strategy, right? So their item for success is
- 30:07to have the business stay and grow without them being there, right? Then you have
- 30:11people that are, I just want to work part-time and cover my mortgage, right? And
- 30:15how do I do that on a long-term scale? So we talk about contract levels
- 30:20and like how does that work? And how do you increase your prices every year
- 30:24and be comfortable with those conversations? Like all the stuff. But for me, if I
- 30:29know what your top three goals are, and it's something that I think I can
- 30:33help you transition through, I'm gonna come up and lean in heavy and possibly bring
- 30:37in other people that I know that can help leverage that quickly for them. But
- 30:42it really just depends on what their personal goals are.
- 30:45Okay, and this is this is where like the true advisor in you comes out
- 30:48too, because it's really easy to say, I'll I'll use an example that you specifically
- 30:51said no, that you don't do this. So like you get in you gained a
- 30:54hundred followers, great, that's awesome, right? But that's not really the goal. The goal is
- 30:57to grow. So it's not the follower count, it's the revenue in the bank or
- 31:00the profit, more likely, right?
- 31:02Correct. Correct.
- 31:04That understanding of the overarching business, how do you enter that conversation with a new
- 31:08client? Is it, hey, welcome to the show and tell me about everything going on?
- 31:13Or how do you how do you approach that initial conversation about goals?
- 31:17So two years ago, I would say that was easier to do and have those
- 31:21conversations up front right now. And I hate even saying this, but there's a big
- 31:26trust issue going on, I think, with all the AI and all the coaches that
- 31:31are coming out of the woodwork and all the things. But what I'm finding right
- 31:35now is working is, and I I truly believe this, is leading with trust. So
- 31:40I'll start off with a smaller package and we'll have a smaller goal. And I
- 31:45get an inside look at the organization. Okay. So I know who the players are,
- 31:49I know where their weaknesses are. I know a little bit about the employees and
- 31:54the personalities we're dealing with and levels of training on a corporate level that they
- 31:59might have, right? And then it could also be like, how are you gaining people?
- 32:03Are you turning people over all the time? Like all of those things that are
- 32:08go on inside of business. That's what I would do for my clients in my
- 32:13old job, right? I would always look at the inside and be like, I can
- 32:17help here and here, and this guy can hip help here, right? So I apply
- 32:22that to the same business model that I have now. But it's really focused on
- 32:27once you build trust with them, you become that advisor, right? And they start to
- 32:31say, okay, our contract is ending. Here's something. We've had this much growth, whatever the
- 32:36percentage is. We've we fixed A, B, and C, and we are seeing a return.
- 32:41I love to see. Four, five, and six get done in the next six months.
- 32:45Here's my proposal for that. Let me know if you're interested in moving forward. And
- 32:50we can, you know, and that always seems to continuously build. But at the same
- 32:55time, it's also building me and my skills because I'm thinking differently about right now.
- 32:59I have four retained clients that I've, they're all different industries, and it's really keeping
- 33:04my mind sharp. What works for one is not going to work for this one.
- 33:09So I've got to get really creative on this. And it's keeping me and my
- 33:13skills kind of honed in on the growth strategies, which I'm kind of a dork
- 33:18and I just lean into with that stuff. I mean, I definitely am a a
- 33:23thinker when it comes to that, you know. But when when you're looking at people,
- 33:27this is their livelihood, this is what's paying for colleges. It's not a joke. It's
- 33:32very, very serious. And if we can get from A to B to C quickly.
- 33:37why not pull the trigger and and have them, you know, so it's it just
- 33:41builds relationships. It's just building loyalty. And then I have customers that I've worked with
- 33:46that I they go through like a a a a five session co coaching class
- 33:51on LinkedIn and they're all excited and they don't do the lift every day. They
- 33:55don't they don't use the they stop. And it's those bad habits creeping in. And
- 34:00it doesn't happen often, but that bothers me because They've paid me a a fee
- 34:05to coach and they're not using and again, I'm not gonna do it for you.
- 34:09You have to do the lifting. And they don't do it. And then I see
- 34:14I can just see that they're not. but that's out of my control, right? I
- 34:19can't I can't force that. I can try to lead to water.
- 34:23Right. I don't know T, dare I say this is sounding a little sophisticated at
- 34:27this point. I like it.
- 34:29No no no no. We're staying scrappy. We're staying scrappy.
- 34:34All let me hit you with some blinding round scrappy versus sophisticated. all
- 34:37jeez. Okay.
- 34:38right. Early days, the hustle days, working three shifts, three pagers, whatever. What was your
- 34:43version of like a ramen noodle dinner?
- 34:46my god, we didn't even eat ramen in Detroit. we were mac and cheese people.
- 34:48I didn't even find ramen until I got to New York. We didn't do that.
- 34:51Okay. What kind of macage are you doing? A craft? Are you doing a Velveeta?
- 34:57What are we doing?
- 34:59it was Velveeta with maybe like some, you know, a little spice added to it.
- 35:03Right. More flavor on top. All right. Not bad. how do you feel about websites
- 35:08that are.net?
- 35:09I don't. I don't Ha ha
- 35:18all right, still in the hustle time period. do you ever use two dryer sheets
- 35:22that would have been previously used instead of using one new dryer sheet?
- 35:26No, and my husband will attest to this. I put four to six in every
- 35:29load and I need fresh. Ever yeah, I'm a snuggle girl. Yeah. Yeah.
- 35:33Okay. Okay. have you ever ran out of bowls and used a Tupperware as a
- 35:38bowl?
- 35:39Yeah. I absolutely and then you get the lid, it's easy. Just yeah. Absolutely.
- 35:46all right. ever play the credit card timing game where you wait till tomorrow to
- 35:50charge something because that's next month's statement?
- 35:53Back in the day, you betcha. And I would put them in my wallet in
- 35:57order of the of the date of when things would be due. so I kept
- 36:01rotating it. Now I just my husband takes care of all of it and I
- 36:05just get the points to fly on my MX.
- 36:08Right ship some golf clubs with you, I get it. Have you ever gotten a
- 36:13review from a family member?
- 36:15Yeah. Yeah, they half half of them worked for me. That was back when they
- 36:18the the reviews on the website were going. Yeah. They weren't
- 36:21Okay.
- 36:22they weren't unkind, but there were hidden words in there that I knew had meaning.
- 36:26You know? Yeah.
- 36:27That's a family review if I've ever heard one. All right, take me inside the
- 36:32office. How many monitors do you use today?
- 36:35One ginormous one? Ginormous. And my husband's
- 36:37One J numbers. Okay.
- 36:39a techie, remember. I can't change the battery and the clicker for the television.
- 36:42Yeah.
- 36:43But he does all of the gigawatts. So I've got my mic, I've got my
- 36:46cameras, I've got all the things, I've got my phone st everything is him. Yeah.
- 36:49But one ginormous
- 36:50Okay. It looks like a
- 36:52screen. It's it's big.
- 36:53it looks like a pretty nice setup. Everything's pretty clean and organized. Do you have
- 36:56a docking station or are there just wires going everywhere in the back?
- 37:00no, it's a docking. He's IT. He everything is tied together. It's very, yeah. Very
- 37:04neat.
- 37:05It's pretty good. Any business cards currently on the desk?
- 37:08Yes.
- 37:10There we go. There we go. Okay.
- 37:12Are those are my to dos today.
- 37:15Any ridiculous lighting where you've got you know, a lamp on a bar stool?
- 37:18No, keep it boring. I just have my paintings up. Yeah, no. Mm-mm. My palm
- 37:22trees out front. That's it. Yeah, yeah.
- 37:24Okay. What's the most unique There you go. Gotta have the palm trees next to
- 37:29the golf cart right in the front there. what is the most unique thing in
- 37:34your office? Any trinkets, any stories?
- 37:36unique thing in my well I've got nail polish I've got all kinds of stuff
- 37:39but
- 37:40Yeah.
- 37:42I have a bean bag yeah I have a huge bean bag in the corner
- 37:45and my dog of 10 pounds sleeps on it that's her office
- 37:49Okay.
- 37:50it was given to us from the the couch company that we bought our sofa
- 37:54from and it was l it it's so big and so heavy we shoved it
- 37:59in the corner and that's her office chair. It's purple by the way purple
- 38:04Okay. If she comes up in the middle of a meeting, she whatever, she barks,
- 38:07she shows up on screen. Do you say, so sorry about that? You say, Hey,
- 38:11like that's just our director of HR making noise in the back.
- 38:15Yeah, she's the she's the nap s my my chief nap officer. That's what I
- 38:17call her. I actually
- 38:18Ha ha ha.
- 38:20did a post on LinkedIn about it the other day.
- 38:22That's pretty good. Okay. take me inside the inbox. How many emails unread is too
- 38:31many?
- 38:32my God, there's thousands of them in there that are still
- 38:34Ha ha.
- 38:35and they're all from from the technology, right? So yeah, people emails get ready immediately.
- 38:39Client emails are red flag, but there is a whole folder of blah that's still
- 38:45in there. Yeah.
- 38:47Okay. Okay. do you ever send any emails that are just the subject line, nothing
- 38:52in the body?
- 38:53No. I at least say hi in the email or something.
- 38:57Okay. do you ever email that we can do something when it's everybody knows it's
- 39:03just you that's doing it?
- 39:06I do say we a lot because people know that I have partners, so I
- 39:09do say we a lot and it it may just be me, but I do
- 39:12say we a lot.
- 39:13Okay. What is the first time during the day that you allow yourself to look
- 39:18at your email?
- 39:20well I get up at five every day whether I want to or not. I
- 39:23have a self self clock and that's probably the first time I touch my phone
- 39:27and I check things. But I've got clients
- 39:29Right away. First thing.
- 39:30that are in Cali, so by the time I go to bed they are they're
- 39:33communicating in the evenings my way. So Yeah.
- 39:36Okay. All right. What is the morning routine?
- 39:41Up at five, cup of coffee. I watch my Bravo shows
- 39:45Ha ha ha.
- 39:46that I record, and I start to put my strategy plan together for the week
- 39:51two weeks ahead of where I'm at now. So I don't live real time. I
- 39:57and that's from corporate. I'm always at least a quarter ahead for marketing and other
- 40:03people's marketing. so then I start, I'm usually in here by like seven thirty, eight
- 40:09o'clock. starting to do work for myself before I go live with client work.
- 40:15Pretty good. It's pretty good. I like the live in two weeks of the future.
- 40:16Yeah, that's good though.
- 40:17Yeah, I'm very strict. Very strict.
- 40:19It keeps you moving in the right direction. how many phone numbers do you have?
- 40:24One and I've had it for since two thousands, the day my feet hit New
- 40:27York. One phone number.
- 40:29Okay. Okay. Does your phone currently have any cracks or screen issues?
- 40:35No, it's good actually. It's good. But I baby it. So yeah.
- 40:40Hey, but it's if it's working, it's working.
- 40:42It is.
- 40:43if somebody's trying to schedule a meeting with you, is it, hey, sure, I'm I'm
- 40:46free later this week, or are you sending a calendar invite or calendar link, excuse
- 40:49me? Yeah.
- 40:50I send the calendar invite. Yeah. And I have three, depending on if it's someone
- 40:54I really want to talk to, or maybe I know they're gonna ask me for
- 40:58a free favor that's booked for four months. No, I'm kidding. I I don't do
- 41:02that. I'm just kidding. Maybe. Not at all.
- 41:05I'm in the same boat. I got fifteen minute highly available, fifteen minute not at
- 41:07all available, and then that goes in each increment. You gotta protect your time. Did
- 41:09Yep. Yeah, yeah. Yes.
- 41:16you ever get sassy with Chat GPT or Claude or anything?
- 41:18every day. I challenge it like it's it's a cousin that I can't stand. I
- 41:22challenge it like crazy. As a matter of fact, I was I got in an
- 41:26argument with it the other day and it it said, don't use that tone with
- 41:30me.
- 41:31Yeah.
- 41:33So I think it's learning
- 41:34Our man.
- 41:35me a little. It's it's definitely learning my scrappiness. I
- 41:37Getting back talk from the AI.
- 41:39know.
- 41:40A hundred percent scrappy. Tina, Ruark, Baker, just call her tea, everybody. Thank you so
- 41:44much for coming on. One thousand percent
- 41:47thanks for having me.
- 41:48scrappy. This is fantastic.
- 41:51Thank you, I love it. I love you to death, Jack Attack, and thanks for
- 41:54this time. It's great.
- 41:56Of course. anything you want the folks out there to know, anything you want promote.
- 42:01yeah, I'll send you a link to my community that I'm working on and it's
- 42:05only business owners. Most of us are entrepreneurs, solopreneurs. and it's really just talking about
- 42:09revenue. Nobody's allowed to sell. We just talk about what's working and not working to
- 42:14grow our businesses. So I'll send you that link for Rev Lab.
- 42:18Amazing. Thank you so much for coming on T. I appreciate it. It's always
- 42:20Thank you.
- 42:21a pleasure talking with you.
- 42:22Thank you. And I hopefully we'll see you when I come back into Charlotte. I'd
- 42:24love that.
- 42:25Definitely. Yeah. Give me a shout. Thanks everybody. Stay data driven.