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- 0:00Chapter nineteen, The Measure of forgiveness. Peter had come to Christ with the
- 0:05question, how oft shall my brother sin against me? And I forgive him
- 0:09till seven times? The rabbis limited the exercise of forgiveness to three offenses.
- 0:15Peter, carrying out as he supposed the teaching of Christ, thought to extend
- 0:19it to seven, the numbers signifying perfection. But Christ taught that we are
- 0:23never to become weary of forgiving. Not until seven times, he said,
- 0:28but until seventy times. Seven. Then he showed the true ground upon which
- 0:32forgiveness is to be granted, and the danger of cherishing and unforgiving spirit.
- 0:38In a parable he told of a king's dealing with the officers who administered the
- 0:41affairs of his government. Some of these officers were in receipt of vast sums
- 0:46of money belonging to the state. As the king investigated their administration of this
- 0:51trust, there was brought before him one man whose account showed a debt to
- 0:55his lord for the immense sum of ten thousand talents. He had nothing to
- 0:59pay, and according to the custom, the king ordered him to be sold
- 1:03with all that he had that payment might be made. But the terrified man
- 1:07fell at his feet and besought him, saying, have patience with me,
- 1:11and I will pay thee all. Then the lord of the servant was moved
- 1:14with compassion and loosed him and forgave him the debt. But the same servant
- 1:19went out and found one of his fellow servants, which owed him a hundred
- 1:22pence, and he laid hands on him and took him by the throat,
- 1:26saying pay me that thou owest. And his fellow servant fell down at his
- 1:30feet and besought him, saying, have patience with me, and I will
- 1:33pay thee all. And he would not, but went and cast him into
- 1:37prison till he should pay the debt. So when his fellow servants saw what
- 1:41was done, they were very sorry and came and told unto their lord all
- 1:44that was done. Then his lord, after that he had called him,
- 1:48said unto him, O, thou wicked servant, I forgave thee all that
- 1:52debt, because thou desirest me, shouldst not thou also have compassion on thy
- 1:56fellow servant, even as I had pity on thee. And his lord was
- 2:00wroth and delivered him to the tormentors till he should pay all that was due
- 2:04unto him. This parable presents details which are needed for the filling out of
- 2:07the picture, but which have no counterpart in its spiritual significance. The attention
- 2:13should not be diverted to them. Certain great truths are illustrated, and to
- 2:17these our thoughts should be given. The pardon granted by this king represents a
- 2:23divine forgiveness of all sin. Christ is represented by the King, who moved
- 2:27with compassion forgave the debt of his servant. Man was under the condemnation of
- 2:32the broken law. He could not save himself, and for this reason Christ
- 2:37came to this world, clothed his divinity with humanity, and gave his life
- 2:42the just for the unjust. He gave himself for our sins, and to
- 2:46every soul he freely offers the blood bought pardon. With the Lord there is
- 2:50mercy, and with him is plentious redemption. Here is the ground upon which
- 2:54we should exercise compassion toward our fellow sinners. If God so loved us,
- 3:00we ought also to love one another. Freely. Ye have received Christ says,
- 3:05freely give in the parable. When the debtor pleaded for delay with the
- 3:08promise, have patience with me, I will pay thee all. The sentence
- 3:13was revoked, the whole debt was canceled, and he was soon given an
- 3:16opportunity to follow the example of the master who had forgiven him. Going out,
- 3:22he met a fellow servant who owed him a small sum. He had
- 3:25been forgiven ten thousand talents. The debtor owed him a hundred pence. But
- 3:30he who had been so mercifully treated, dealt with his fellow laborer in an
- 3:34altogether different manner. His debtor made an appeal similar to that which he himself
- 3:38had made to the king, but without a similar result. He who had
- 3:43so recently been forgiven, was not tender hearted and pitiful the mercy shown him,
- 3:47he did not exercise In dealing with his fellow servant. He heeded not
- 3:52the request to be patient. The small sum owed to him was all that
- 3:55the ungrateful servant would keep in mind. He demanded all all that he thought
- 4:00his due, and carried into effect a sentence similar to that which had been
- 4:03so graciously revoked for him. How many are today manifesting the same spirit.
- 4:10When the debtor pleaded with his lord for mercy, he had no true sense
- 4:14of the greatness of his debt. He did not realize his helplessness. He
- 4:17hoped to deliver himself. Have patience with me, he said, and I
- 4:21will pay thee all. So there are many who hope, by their own
- 4:25works to merit God's favor. They do not realize their helplessness. They do
- 4:30not accept the grace of God as a free gift, but are trying to
- 4:32build themselves up in self righteousness. Their own hearts are not broken and humbled
- 4:38on account of sin, and they are exacting and unforgiving toward others. Their
- 4:43own sins against God compared with their brother's sins against them, are as ten
- 4:47thousand talents to one hundred pence, nearly one million to one. Yet they
- 4:53dare to be unforgiving in the parable. The Lord summoned the unmerciful debtor and
- 4:58said, unto him, O, thou wicked servant, I forgave THEE all
- 5:01that debt, because thou desirest me, shouldst not thou also have had compassion
- 5:06on thy fellow servant, even as I had pity on THEE. And his
- 5:10Lord was wroth and delivered him to the tormentors till he should pay all that
- 5:14was due unto him. So likewise, said Jesus, shall my heavenly Father,
- 5:18do also unto you, if ye, from your hearts forgive not every
- 5:23one his brother their trespasses. He who refuses to forgive is thereby casting away
- 5:29his own hope of pardon. But the teaching of this parable should not be
- 5:32misapplied. God's forgiveness toward us lessens in no wise our duty to obey him.
- 5:39So the spirit of forgiveness toward our fellow men does not lessen the claim
- 5:43of just obligation. In the prayer which Christ taught his disciples, he said,
- 5:47forgive us our debts, as we forgive our debtors. By this,
- 5:51he did not mean that in order to be forgiven our sins, we must
- 5:55not require our just dues from our debtors if they cannot pay, even though
- 5:59that may be the result of unwise management. They are not to be cast
- 6:02into prison, oppressed, or even treated harshly. But the parable does not
- 6:06teach us to encourage indolence. The word of God declares that if a man
- 6:12will not work, neither shall he eat. The Lord does not require the
- 6:15hard working man to support others in idleness. With many there is a waste
- 6:19of time, a lack of effort, which brings to poverty and want.
- 6:24If these faults are not corrected by those who indulge them, all that might
- 6:28be done in their behalf would be like putting treasure into a bag with holes.
- 6:31Yet there is an unavoidable poverty, and we are to manifest tenderness and
- 6:35compassion toward those who are unfortunate. We should treat others just as we ourselves,
- 6:41in like circumstances, would wish to be treated. The Holy Spirit through
- 6:45the Apostle, Paul charges us, if there be therefore any consolation in Christ,
- 6:50if any comfort of love, if any fellowship of the Spirit, if
- 6:54any bowels and mercies, fulfill ye my joy, that ye be like minded,
- 6:59having the same love of being of one accord of one mind. Let
- 7:02nothing be done through strife or vainglory, but in lowliness of mind, Let
- 7:08each esteem other better than themselves. Look not every man on his own things,
- 7:13but every man also on the things of others. Let this mind be
- 7:15in you, which was also in Christ Jesus. But sin is not to
- 7:20be lightly regarded. The Lord has commanded us not to suffer wrong upon our
- 7:25brother. He says, if thy brother trespass against THEE, rebuke him.
- 7:30Sin is to be called by its right name, and is to be plainly
- 7:32laid out before the wrong doer. In his charge. To Timothy, Paul,
- 7:38writing by the Holy Spirit, says, be instant in season out of
- 7:42season, reprove, rebuke, exhort with all long suffering and doctrine. And
- 7:47to Titus, he writes, there are many unruly, in vain talkers and
- 7:51deceivers, Wherefore rebuke them sharply that they may be sound in the faith.
- 7:57If thy brother shall trespass against THEE, Christ said, go and tell him
- 8:01his fault between THEE and him alone. If he shall hear THEE, thou
- 8:05hast gained thy brother. But if he will not hear THEE, then take
- 8:09with THEE one or two more, that in the mouth of two or three
- 8:11witnesses, every word may be established. And if he shall neglect to hear
- 8:16them, tell it unto the Church. But if he neglect to hear the
- 8:20Church, let him be unto THEE as a heathen man and a publican.
- 8:24Our Lord teaches that matters of difficulty between Christians are to be settled within the
- 8:30Church. They should not be opened before those who do not fear God.
- 8:33If a Christian is wronged by his brother, let him not appeal to unbelievers
- 8:37in a court of justice. Let him follow out the instruction Christ is given.
- 8:43Instead of trying to avenge himself, Let him seek to save his brother.
- 8:46God will guard the interests of those who love and fear Him, and
- 8:50with confidence we may commit our case to him who judges righteously. Too often,
- 8:56when wrongs are committed again and again, and the wrong doer confesses his
- 9:00fault, the injured one becomes weary and thinks he has forgiven quite enough.
- 9:05But the Savior has plainly told us how to deal with the erring. If
- 9:07thy brother trespass against thee, rebuke him, and if he repent, forgive
- 9:11him. Do not hold him off as unworthy of your confidence. Consider thyself
- 9:18lest thou also be tempted. If your brothern heir, you are to forgive
- 9:22them when they come to you with confession, You should not say, I
- 9:26do not think they are humble enough. I do not think they feel their
- 9:28confession. What right have you to judge them as if you could read the
- 9:31heart. The word of God says, if he repent forgive him. And
- 9:37if he trespass against THEE seven times in a day, and seven times in
- 9:41a day, turn again to THEE, saying I repent, thou shalt forgive
- 9:43him, And not only seven times, but seventy times seven, just as
- 9:48often as God forgives you. We ourselves owe everything to God's free grace,
- 9:56grace in the Covenant ordained our adoption, grace in and the Savior affected,
- 10:01our redemption, our regeneration, and our exultation to airship with Christ. Let
- 10:05this grace be revealed to others. Give the erring one no occasion for discouragement.
- 10:11Suffer not a phariseical hardness to come in and hurt your brother. Let
- 10:16no bitter sneer rise in mind or heart. Let no tinge of scorn be
- 10:20manifest in the voice. If you speak a word of your own, if
- 10:24you take an attitude of indifference, or show suspicion or distrust, it may
- 10:28prove the ruin of a soul. He needs a brother with the elder brother's
- 10:33heart of sympathy to touch his heart of humanity. Let him feel the strong
- 10:37clasp of a sympathizing hand and hear the whisper. Let us pray, God
- 10:43will give a rich experience to you both. Prayer unites us with one another
- 10:48and with God. Prayer brings Jesus to our side and gives to the fainting,
- 10:52perplexed soul new strength to overcome the world, the flesh, and the
- 10:56devil. Prayer turns aside the attacks of Satan. When one turns away from
- 11:03human imperfections to behold Jesus, a divine transformation takes place in the character.
- 11:07The spirit of Christ working upon the heart, conforms it to his image.
- 11:13Then let it be your effort to lift up Jesus. Let the mind's eye
- 11:16be directed to the lamb of God, which taketh away the sin of the
- 11:20world. And as you engage in this work, remember that he which converteth
- 11:24the sinner from the error of his way, shall save a soul from death,
- 11:28and shall hide a multitude of sins. But if you forgive not men
- 11:33their trespasses, neither will your Father forgive your trispasses. Nothing can justify an
- 11:39unforgiving spirit. He who is unmerciful toward others shows that he himself is not
- 11:45a partaker of God's pardoning grace. In God's forgiveness, the heart of the
- 11:50erring one is drawn close to the great heart of infinite love. The tide
- 11:54of divine compassion flows into the sinner's soul, and from him to the soul's
- 12:00of others. The tenderness and mercy that Christ has revealed in his own precious
- 12:03life will be seen in those who become sharers of his grace. But if
- 12:09any man have not the spirit of Christ, he is none of his.
- 12:13He is alienated from God, fitted only for eternal separation from him. It
- 12:18is true that he may once have received forgiveness, but his unmerciful spirit shows
- 12:22that he now rejects God's pardoning love. He has separated himself from God and
- 12:28is in the same condition as before he was forgiven. He has denied his
- 12:31repentance, and his sins are upon him as if he had not repented.
- 12:35But the great lesson of the parable lies in the contrast between God's compassion and
- 12:41man's hard heartedness, in the fact that God's forgiving mercy is to be the
- 12:46measure of our own. Shouldst not thou also have had compassion on thy fellow
- 12:50servant, even as I had pity on thee. We are not forgiven because
- 12:56we forgive, but as we forgive, the ground of all forgiveness is found
- 13:00in the unmerited love of God. But by our attitude toward others we show
- 13:05whether we have made that love our own. Wherefore Christ says, with what
- 13:09judgment ye judge, ye shall be judged, and with what measure ye meet,
- 13:13it shall be measured to you again. End of Chapter nineteen.