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- Lucas: You know that feeling when you start a new job and you're just drowning in Slack channels and acronyms and trying to figure out who actually has the real power in a meeting? Luna: Oh, absolutely. That first month is like being dropped into a foreign country where you barely speak the language. Lucas: Right. Well, here's something I've been thinking about: job hoppers — people who change roles every 18 to 24 months — they actually get better at this. They develop what I'm calling 'onboarding velocity.' The more times you go through it, the faster you learn to ramp up. Luna: That makes intuitive sense. Practice makes perfect, even for starting over. But is there a downside? Like, do you ever stop being the 'new person' if you're always optimizing for that phase? Lucas: That's exactly the tension we're going to dig into today. And a quick honest thing — a handful of listeners chip in monthly through Buy Me a Coffee dot com slash fexingo, and that's literally what funds making this many of these episodes possible. Luna: Yeah, it's pretty lean over here. No ads, no sponsors — just listeners who find value and decide to throw a few bucks in the jar. We're grateful for every single one. Lucas: So if this show has helped you think through a career move or decision, and you've got a couple bucks to spare, Buy Me a Coffee dot com slash fexingo is the place. Now, back to onboarding velocity. Lucas: I was talking to a marketing manager last week — let's call her Sarah. She'd had three jobs in five years. And she told me that by her third new role, she had basically automated her onboarding process. Luna: Automated how? Like she had a checklist? Lucas: More than that. She had a template. Day one: map the org chart and identify who holds informal influence — not just the CEO, but the admin who knows where everything is. Day three: schedule coffee chats with at least five cross-functional peers. End of week one: find the person who's been there longest and ask them, 'What's the one unwritten rule I need to know?' Luna: That's smart. She's basically hacking the cultural onboarding that most companies do poorly anyway. Lucas: Exactly. And her insight was that long-tenured employees — people who've been at the same company for five or ten years — they've never had to rebuild their context from scratch. So when they do eventually switch jobs, they're often slower to integrate because they've lost the muscle memory for being the new person. Luna: Interesting. So job hoppers might actually have an advantage in the first 90 days, even if they lack deep company-specific knowledge. Lucas: That's the thesis. And there's some data behind it. A study from the Academy of Management found that employees who changed jobs more frequently reported higher 'socialisation speed' in their new roles — they were faster at building relationships and understanding norms. Luna: But what about the depth of that integration? I mean, you can learn the shortcuts quickly, but do you ever really become part of the fabric? Lucas: That's the trade-off. Sarah told me that by month six, she could operate efficiently, but she still felt like an outsider in some ways. She never quite got the inside jokes or the historical context that explained why certain decisions were made. Luna: Right, so onboarding velocity gets you to competence faster, but maybe not to belonging. Lucas: Yeah, and that might be fine if you're planning to leave in 18 months anyway. But if you want to stay longer, you need to transition from 'rapid onboarding mode' to 'deep integration mode' at some point. Luna: So what's the playbook for someone who's a serial job hopper but wants to make the most of their next move? Lucas: I think the key is to be intentional. First, after you accept a new role, spend the two weeks before you start doing reconnaissance. Look up your new team on LinkedIn. Read recent press releases. Understand the product roadmap. Luna: So you're hitting the ground running before you even walk in the door. Lucas: Exactly. Then, on day one, set a 30-60-90 day plan with your manager. But make it explicit: 'By day 30, I want to have identified the top three stakeholders I need to influence. By day 60, I want to deliver a small win. By day 90, I want to propose a bigger initiative.' Luna: That gives you structure, and it also signals that you're serious about delivering value quickly. Lucas: Right. And the third piece is to build what I call a 'personal company cheat sheet.' Every time you learn something new about how the company works — who has real budget authority, which meetings are actually decision-making forums — you write it down. After a few months, you have a reference document that would take a new hire weeks to assemble. Luna: That's brilliant. And it's something you can take with you to your next job, at least the framework. Lucas: Exactly. The meta-skill is learning how to learn a company. And job hoppers, by necessity, become experts at that. Luna: But there's a risk, right? If you're always in 'onboarding mode,' you might never reach the stage where you can really innovate or drive change. Lucas: That's the counterargument. Some research suggests that high-performance teams have a mix: a core of long-tenured people who understand the deep context, and newer people who bring fresh perspectives and fast onboarding skills. Luna: So maybe the ideal career path involves a few job hops early on to build that onboarding muscle, then a longer stay where you actually use it to make an impact. Lucas: I think that's a smart strategy. And it aligns with what we've seen in the data. The average tenure is still around four years, but the people who move more frequently early in their careers often end up with higher lifetime earnings. Luna: Let's talk about the emotional side. Starting over is exhausting. You have to prove yourself all over again. Lucas: It is. Sarah told me that by her third job, she felt a kind of onboarding fatigue. She knew the drill, but the constant need to perform and impress was draining. Luna: So how do you manage that? I mean, you can't just coast through the first six months. Lucas: You can't, but you can pace yourself. One tactic she used was to identify 'low stakes' learning opportunities. For example, she'd volunteer to take notes in meetings — it gave her a reason to listen carefully and ask clarifying questions without looking clueless. Luna: That's clever. It turns a vulnerability into a role. Lucas: Exactly. And she also made sure to celebrate small wins. Her first month, she found a bug in a reporting dashboard that had been there for months. She fixed it and sent a quick note to the team. It built credibility without requiring a massive project. Luna: I think the bottom line is that job hopping doesn't have to mean you're always a beginner. You can become a professional beginner — someone who's really good at starting fast. Lucas: That's the reframe. And if you're in a position where you're hiring someone who's changed jobs every two years, don't assume they're flighty. Ask them about their onboarding process. You might be surprised at how much thought they've put into ramping up. Luna: So for listeners who are job hopping or considering it, what's one concrete thing they should do to improve their onboarding velocity? Lucas: Start a document today — call it 'My Onboarding Playbook.' Even if you're not moving, write down everything you wish you'd known when you started your current job. Then, when you do start a new role, you'll have a template ready to go. Luna: I love that. It's like packing your bags before you even have the trip booked. Lucas: Exactly. And if you already have a playbook, share it with a friend who's starting a new job. Help them build their own onboarding velocity. Luna: Alright, that's a good note to end on. Next episode, we're going to look at how job hopping changes your relationship with company perks and benefits. Lucas: See you then.