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- 0:00So we say transform your product funnel and entertain a flow of prospects and customers,
- 0:05and they're like, what are you talking about?
- 0:07I just need more customers.
- 0:08And you're like, I know that's what I was saying.
- 0:10And so look into the words that your ideal customers use before they work with you and
- 0:17really just tailor your marketing language to those messages.
- 0:21That, to me, is always the path
- 0:27lady host of the small bizchett podcast.
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- 1:19Ending small business failure.
- 1:22Welcome to the Small Biz Chat podcast with a number 1 small business expert Melinda Emerson.
- 1:28Melinda's goal is to end small business failure, and she'll give you the information
- 1:32you need to succeed and live the life you dream of.
- 1:36Now here's the small Biz lady herself.
- 1:40Melinda Emerson.
- 1:42Hi, everybody.
- 1:43I'm Melinda Emerson.
- 1:44Small biz lady, and I wanna welcome you to small biz chat live.
- 1:49I'm America's number one small business expert, and I'm so excited to be here with you tonight
- 1:54because I have an amazing show in store.
- 1:57The small business chat podcast is a peer to peer interview show.
- 2:02That gives small business owners a way to get invaluable insight and expert advice.
- 2:07The mission of small business chat is to end small business failure.
- 2:11Our goal is to give you small business advice and an opportunity to just hear from season
- 2:18experts who are gonna give you all of their secrets to business success so that you can
- 2:23take your small business to the next level.
- 2:26Alright.
- 2:26It's time for me to introduce my guest.
- 2:29Now it's time for my next guest, miss Pam slim.
- 2:33Now she is an award winning author speaker and business coach who works with small business
- 2:38owners who are ready to scale their businesses and IP.
- 2:42She's the author of escape from cubicle nation, body of work, and her latest book is the widest
- 2:49net and I'm so excited it's coming out actually officially on November 11th.
- 2:55So I'm so excited to talk to her today Her and her husband Daryl co founded the Key Main
- 3:01Street Learning Lab in Mesa, Arizona where they host scores of diverse community leaders and
- 3:06regular small business programming.
- 3:08For more information, go to pamlesslim.com/the widestnet Pam, thank you so much for coming
- 3:15back to the small pitchjet podcast.
- 3:18I am so happy to be here.
- 3:19I would do anything for you, and I think you know that.
- 3:22You're the best.
- 3:23You're the best.
- 3:23Alright.
- 3:24So finding and keeping customers is such a challenge for small business owners Why do you
- 3:31think that is?
- 3:32I think it's because people don't know where to look.
- 3:35It would be like saying, go on a trip, but I'm not gonna tell you where So we don't know if
- 3:40we're gonna be going to Colorado to visit John or Philadelphia to visit you, and it becomes
- 3:45very overwhelming when people can look everywhere theoretically, staring into their
- 3:50computer screen.
- 3:51So I think if we have a strategic plan to know the places to look, that's gonna help people to
- 3:58actually reach out and begin to build relationships.
- 4:01Now I know that the pandemic really did make it harder to market Or did it just demand that
- 4:08people get a little bit more specific about their value proposition?
- 4:12I I honestly think it did both, and there is a opponent that is when you look at different
- 4:19business owners that you and I have had many conversations about this and in other settings,
- 4:24when folks may have been right on the edge before with their business where they were
- 4:29getting by, they just had enough sales.
- 4:30I know here in Main Street in Mesa, a lot of our businesses that were restaurants were doing
- 4:36okay, but all of a sudden, when everything shut down, they really just fell off the edge.
- 4:42And so that kind of situation is more radical when somebody needs to completely reinvent
- 4:47their business.
- 4:49And, yes, a lot of people working together began to refine their messaging.
- 4:53I think for other folks that might be in more of a service based business where their clients
- 4:57were already global and they access them over the internet, it was easy to make some of those
- 5:03pivots.
- 5:04So it is one of those things where I I know in my own life, my toughest times have actually
- 5:09made me better and stronger, but I'm telling you going through the tough time, I wouldn't
- 5:13wish that on anyone.
- 5:15Well, I just I have a saying, you know, every kick is a boost.
- 5:17Right?
- 5:17I mean, that that's basically how that works.
- 5:20Now how can small business owners get more clear about their marketing message.
- 5:26Sometimes I feel like people are just like, I do that too.
- 5:30You know, like, like, it's like there's no real specific it's like tell people all the time,
- 5:35strategy is about creating something in your business that's not easily duplicatable by your
- 5:40competitors.
- 5:41And I don't know that people really got that, but I feel like everything that happened in the
- 5:45pandemic made it be like, if you're doing something that's just okay, Nobody's looking
- 5:51for just okay.
- 5:53I think it's true.
- 5:54To me, the heart of messaging, really great connective messaging, is always in the language
- 5:59that your ideal customers use.
- 6:01And I have a metaphor I use with my clients called the Magic Door because I used to love to
- 6:05read the little the line in which in the wardrobe.
- 6:07So before people work with you, they are just living in their problem.
- 6:12I need money.
- 6:13And by the way, I'm now a super fan.
- 6:15Of our other guests because I think she's totally amazing, Ken.
- 6:18A great job.
- 6:19Before they go through that magic door, they're like, I'm dying.
- 6:22I need more money.
- 6:23Not realizing they need to really fix their sales process to close more sales.
- 6:27Once they go through that magic door and they work with you, All of a sudden then, they can
- 6:32have access to your vocabulary and know how you talk about things and they'll be ready for that
- 6:37message.
- 6:37Very often, we speak to people with marketing language, before they go through the magic
- 6:42door.
- 6:42And so we say transform your product funnel and entertain a flow of prospects and customers.
- 6:48And they're like, what are you talking about?
- 6:50I just need more and you're like, I know that's what I was saying.
- 6:53And so look into the words that your ideal customers use before they work with you and
- 7:00really just tailor your marketing language to those messages.
- 7:04That to me is always the path through.
- 7:06I love it.
- 7:07I love it.
- 7:07I I and I think you're right on.
- 7:09We gotta be careful.
- 7:10Sometimes we get into this jargon in our industry, and you really gotta make sure that
- 7:14the people you're talking to can actually hear what you're saying.
- 7:17So now in your new book, the widest net, I feel like you're trying to teach people how to find
- 7:24customers right in front of them.
- 7:27So, okay, tell us how you do that.
- 7:30It is really funny in so many different experiences of working with people First of
- 7:35all, many people don't really think critically about every aspect of their life and where they
- 7:41show up and where customers can be.
- 7:43I'm I'm a soccer mom.
- 7:44My son Josh has played soccer for a really long time, and I always find it fascinating as an
- 7:49extrovert.
- 7:50And somebody who loves community that all go.
- 7:53I've talked to all the different parents on the team.
- 7:55And, you know, through the years sitting on the sidelines, you begin to have conversations.
- 7:59I'm often the only one who knows that one of the soccer parents is actually a startup
- 8:04founder, and he bought and sold the company, and he has connections with somebody else.
- 8:10And so knowing sometimes just who what does your neighbor do?
- 8:13What do people on the soccer field do?
- 8:15Believe it or not, when I do my drive through at Starbucks in the morning, I now have ongoing
- 8:19conversations through the days.
- 8:21With the folks there, one person's working on a startup, one's dad has a new business.
- 8:25So sometimes if you just ask people more what's going on in their work life, the customers are
- 8:30right there.
- 8:31Other times, you're not just asking your ideal customers.
- 8:34Who are the other service providers you're working with?
- 8:37So if you connect with them, they often have access to ideal customers that you both can
- 8:42share and refer.
- 8:43So why is it important to identify your values before you start targeting potential customers.
- 8:52Values, if you think about whatever your product or services, really what it is that you
- 8:57sell, there are many people who are selling that.
- 9:00Your values are gonna determine how you connect with them and everything from what marketing
- 9:06strategy is really gonna work well with you, what are your internal policies and procedures,
- 9:11what kind of brand and messaging do you have?
- 9:15And I think our our ideal customers automatically have a sense of why they connect
- 9:21with people, certain people, and why they they don't others.
- 9:24To me, when you talk to them about it, it's almost always because of values.
- 9:29And they might say, gosh, Melinda, I love how you just show up.
- 9:31You're always so prepared.
- 9:33You're positive.
- 9:34You bring really interesting people together, and your production value is so good.
- 9:38That really is a value that you have about how you show up in business.
- 9:42I I appreciate that.
- 9:44I feel like when I think about your book and just overall your body of work, I feel like
- 9:51what you're trying teach people overall is the value of developing ecosystems, or what you
- 9:58refer to as multiple watering holes in your in your customer's ecosystem.
- 10:04And I was wondering if you could just talk more about that sort of like having the spirit of
- 10:09collaboration versus competition.
- 10:13Cause I think that was one thing that I think the pandemic forced some people to do.
- 10:17It forced people to help each other because they didn't have a choice, but you have always
- 10:22kinda had that spirit in that philosophy.
- 10:24So I was wondering if you could kind of elaborate on that.
- 10:27Yeah.
- 10:27I I really contrast that ecosystem collaborative strategy with what I call empire
- 10:32culture.
- 10:32So there is a certain business culture where you say it's all about centering yourself
- 10:37building your empire, your audience, or your fans, and your followers, not like John was
- 10:41saying, your members are actually people you have a relationship with.
- 10:45I love to be in a situation where I center my ideal customer in the middle of an ecosystem,
- 10:51where by the way, they're already looking for resources and support They're reading your
- 10:55book, John's book.
- 10:56They're they're listening to Kedma's advice or a podcast.
- 10:59Are customers already are going multiple places in an ecosystem for information advice.
- 11:05So if you connect with a watering hole, which is just a place in person or online, where
- 11:10these people have been gathered by your ecosystem partners, it's so much more of an
- 11:14efficient way for you to begin to reach and connect with them.
- 11:18And I think if we center our efforts saying, how can we together find our perfect spot in
- 11:24the ecosystem given our strengths, so that our focus is in solving our customers' problems
- 11:30completely and not in saying, I'm better than Melinda.
- 11:34Who's better than John?
- 11:35And having some kind of a competition.
- 11:37That does not ever serve our customers, and it doesn't allow us to innovate and improve the
- 11:43small business ecosystem.
- 11:45I completely.
- 11:46I completely agree.
- 11:47So how do you know the best place to focus your marketing efforts?
- 11:54When you begin to look at all of the places in which you can be serving new customer bases, I
- 12:01have 10 different segments of my ecosystem wheel in the model in the widest net.
- 12:05And so those can be places like associations, which are huge amounts of people who can
- 12:11gather, let's say, over a topical focus area.
- 12:14So if you're a business coach and you say, I wanna serve financial advisors, You can
- 12:18probably find so many associations that already have gathered people that way.
- 12:22There can be academic institutions.
- 12:24There can be service providers.
- 12:26So you operate like an accordion.
- 12:28First, you wanna look way out and say, where are all the possibilities in which I could
- 12:33connect with customers that would be a long term scalable interest, and then you wanna come
- 12:40in really small and say, with criteria, What are my specific business goals?
- 12:45What makes the most sense in terms of where it is that I should focus my efforts?
- 12:50Because Often, we're strengthening the work we're doing with customers.
- 12:54As John is saying, looking at your top 20% and really strengthening the work you do with them,
- 12:59And then if there's a new area, that's something that usually takes some more focused
- 13:03time of lots of seeding and connecting before it it bears fruit.
- 13:07So you wanna be doing a process to me.
- 13:09It's usually the beginning of the year, once a quarter, and little check ins every month where
- 13:14you say, do I have the right places?
- 13:17And am I focused on the right audiences?
- 13:19Alright.
- 13:20So how can Main Streets everywhere learn about supporting small businesses from online
- 13:26entrepreneurs.
- 13:28I've learned so much from my Main Street partners down here that do so much good work
- 13:31about creating great customer experiences.
- 13:34I want all of them to have email lists I'm like, y'all need to ask people for their email
- 13:39because if they do some of the things we know where anytime you have a point of contact, and
- 13:44you make sure that you get the person's email list and then provide useful, informative
- 13:49information to entice people to come back to buy again.
- 13:53You might feature your favorite customers and who's not gonna show all their friends their
- 13:57feature in their favorite cafe's email newsletter.
- 14:00I think some basic tools like that can really be effective for our Main Street businesses.
- 14:05I love it.
- 14:05I love it.
- 14:06Alright.
- 14:06Last question.
- 14:07What is the best business advice you've ever gotten?
- 14:11I was on a panel at South by Southwest with Guy Kawasaki who is a great friend and who gave me
- 14:16a big break many years ago when he posted my blog post on blog.
- 14:20And somebody in the audience said, how do you get the attention of busy influencers?
- 14:25And he said, you know, people say I have the Midas touch thinking that everything I touch
- 14:29turns to gold.
- 14:30Actually, I only touch gold.
- 14:33And it was just it just struck me in the middle by forehead, and it just always reminded me if
- 14:39you want to connect with people who may have a bigger platform than you and have more
- 14:44visibility you need to make sure that your body of work is excellent.
- 14:49That's gonna increase the odds that somebody's gonna wanna work with you.
- 14:53Love it.
- 14:53Love it.
- 14:54And what's your favorite app?
- 14:56I say TikTok.
- 14:57I love TikTok.
- 14:58I send them to my kids.
- 14:59I get entertained, and I learn every day as a marketer.
- 15:03I am so impressed and excited by new things that are happening there.
- 15:07And even though my daughter won't let me use it yet, because she's a teenager, I learn so much
- 15:13every day, and so it's my favorite.
- 15:15Yeah.
- 15:15TikTok University is really, really interesting.
- 15:18Thought people were just dancing on there too, and then I started digging in.
- 15:21I'm like, oh, people are actually teaching people something on here.
- 15:23Let me learn about this.
- 15:25So alright.
- 15:26Next question.
- 15:27Favorite old school marketing tip.
- 15:30Old school prospecting.
- 15:31People say never do cold outreach and, like, don't waste your time reaching out to people.
- 15:36I am like, all day every day.
- 15:38Some of the best situations that I've had is where you do strategic outreach, reach out to
- 15:43somebody, send them a love letter, It is amazing how that can open some doors.
- 15:47It doesn't always happen immediately, but do not really rule out old school prospecting.
- 15:54I love it.
- 15:54I love it.
- 15:55I'm big on handwritten notes, so I love love letters.
- 15:58I love that.
- 15:59Alright.
- 15:59Last question.
- 16:00Favorite business book you ever read.
- 16:03Favorite business book.
- 16:04I gotta say the art of the start by Guy Kawasaki.
- 16:07I love his writing.
- 16:08I love him as a person, and it's really long time enduring advice.
- 16:12Listen, thank you guys so much for coming on the small biz chat podcast.
- 16:17Thank you so much again to my guests.
- 16:19I'm Melinda Emerson, the small biz lady.
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- 16:50Goodbye, everybody, and god bless.
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