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1062 - 90 Day HEA Tell-All Part 2 with Kimberly and Matt! · Pink Shade: Reality TV with Mary Payne

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  Speaker 1: Hello, Hello, it is I don't know what today. This
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  Speaker 1: is coming out Saturday. This is Kimberly, This is Pink Shade,
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  Speaker 1: and I am with Matt Maher from Reality Gaze and
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  Speaker 1: we are talking about ninety day the Tell All Part
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  Speaker 1: D and why I've been looking at Instagram. Mary Payne
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  Speaker 1: is having a blast at Bravo Con.
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  Speaker 2: She just sent me a video of Meredith Mark's DJing.
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  Speaker 1: I forgot that that's her new career thing.
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  Speaker 2: At like eleven A. I think this DJ, look, it's insulting.
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  Speaker 2: This is going to make me seem old, but I
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  Speaker 2: think you'll roll with me on this. People don't know
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  Speaker 2: what it's like to be a DJ, because back in
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  Speaker 2: our day a DJ had to use records or even
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  Speaker 2: cassette tapes, hell even a CD. They don't know what
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  Speaker 2: it's like to DJ, to mix, to when to do
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  Speaker 2: DJ things.
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  Speaker 1: Funnily enough, on our podcast, Katie always says, don't date
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  Speaker 1: a DJ, or friends, don't let friends date DJs. They're
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  Speaker 1: just bad news for women to date a male DJ.
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  Speaker 1: Generally they might murder you. And it happened once, but
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  Speaker 1: that we take that as they're all douchebags. But someone
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  Speaker 1: one of our listeners just wrote and said, I literally
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  Speaker 1: just realized that Katie did not mean a person named dj.
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  Speaker 2: Oh oh bless her heart, Carl, Carl's wife as we
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  Speaker 2: call it. Yes, Carl got it. Well, I I don't know.
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  Speaker 2: I don't think Mary Payne's going to date Meredith Marks,
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  Speaker 2: but maybe like yeah, but they're having.
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  Speaker 1: Fun be a step down.
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  Speaker 2: I am so glad I'm not there. I feel like
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  Speaker 2: already the energy in Vegas is so much I can
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  Speaker 2: only do lie. Like one of my friends says, oh,
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  Speaker 2: do you want to go to Vegas for like five days?
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  Speaker 2: I went no, No, wait too long. No, I want
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  Speaker 2: to go for forty eight hours. And then that's it.
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  Speaker 2: A bitch is asses, yes, but with that and then
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  Speaker 2: also with the energy of Bravo kN.
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  Speaker 1: No, it's exhausting.
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  Speaker 2: That would be a lot.
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  Speaker 1: She has makeup on in every picture and like an outfit. No,
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  Speaker 1: and you never can just sit in your hotel room
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  Speaker 1: and get away from people and everywhere smells like cigarette smoke.
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  Speaker 2: Because it's very too much. It's too much. Oh, I
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  Speaker 2: don't give a shit.
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  Speaker 1: She hates Vegas too, so that's funny.
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  Speaker 2: And we went to that podcast Moving in Vegas for
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  Speaker 2: five days that we were all we were we were
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  Speaker 2: going to kill someone by the end of that trip,
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  Speaker 2: not at each other, but just life.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, Katie loves Vegas. I don't know what it is.
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  Speaker 1: She loves.
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  Speaker 2: One of my best friends loves Vegas too. He's sober, though,
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  Speaker 2: and he likes to gamble, and funny, I go with him.
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  Speaker 2: I don't really drink because I don't really need to,
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  Speaker 2: Like I might get like a Ruman diet coke or something,
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  Speaker 2: but like from the free one. But that's it. And
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  Speaker 2: it's kind of nice because A you spend less money,
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  Speaker 2: but also b you're better at gambling when you're not drinking.
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  Speaker 2: It's like a thought. Who would have thought? Who would
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  Speaker 2: have thought?
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  Speaker 1: I mean I thought that alcohol impairs.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, I don't know. I mean I still always lose
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  Speaker 2: because I get excited and then but uh yeah, he
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  Speaker 2: can do it for days. I can't. It's fine, it's fine.
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  Speaker 1: I don't mind going for like a day and walk around,
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  Speaker 1: like I don't look at the sites.
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  Speaker 2: I want to go to the sphere. I want to
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  Speaker 2: see the new Wizard of Oz and then I want
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  Speaker 2: to fly back. And in fact, I might even just
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  Speaker 2: do it and not tell anybody.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, then you don't have to socialize.
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  Speaker 2: Then I can just go do that. I would. I
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  Speaker 2: think I will. I think I'm gonna fly in that
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  Speaker 2: day see Wizard of Oz and then fly out.
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  Speaker 1: I love that.
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  Speaker 2: This. Sorry about the.
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  Speaker 1: Cool it's uh you you're still cool. So back to
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  Speaker 1: these horrible people. I was shocked right off the bat
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  Speaker 1: that in the previously on they didn't show Jasmine rubbing
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  Speaker 1: her dirty underwear all over Gino's luggage.
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  Speaker 2: They kind of have dropped that plot line.
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  Speaker 1: They they never brought it up. Sean didn't bring it
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  Speaker 1: up on this set. I assumed they're going to show
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  Speaker 1: the footage.
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  Speaker 2: That was lost. We didn't talk about that, and you're right.
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  Speaker 1: Like, wait, I'm waiting for them to show the footage,
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  Speaker 1: like when they were showing if Rob and Jennifer had
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  Speaker 1: sex on Hunt for Love. We were just waiting for
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  Speaker 1: the footage to be shown.
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  Speaker 2: Then we saw it and she couldn't handle it and
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  Speaker 2: it was great.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, it was amazing. So we ended last time with
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  Speaker 1: andre It challenging Alexei to a fight outside, which we
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  Speaker 1: knew wasn't gonna happen because Andrea's all talk.
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  Speaker 2: I think, so Alexi's not stupid.
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  Speaker 1: No, he's not stupid. So also I feel like he
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  Speaker 1: could kill Andre because he was in the Israeli army,
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  Speaker 1: so I feel like he has moves.
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  Speaker 2: And also did you see what he looked like by
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  Speaker 2: that pool? Yeah? My god.
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  Speaker 1: Mm hm. So Libby says to Yara and Jovi, you
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  Speaker 1: just stir the pot and sit there quietly, And Sean says,
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  Speaker 1: whose fault is it that all of this is happening?
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  Speaker 1: And Jovie says there was a lot of fault y'all
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  Speaker 1: exposed private information. And Libby is like, y'all, are you
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  Speaker 1: sure you want to say, y'all.
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  Speaker 2: She's she's trying to have her name them moment, right,
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  Speaker 2: whether that the house or she goes name them or
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  Speaker 2: name it name. Yes, she was just going, y'all, y'all, y'all, y'all, yes, y'all,
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  Speaker 2: but yes, y'all.
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  Speaker 1: Also, why do you keep throwing Andre under the bus
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  Speaker 1: when she's the one who brought up the body shaming
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  Speaker 1: at the party and we all saw the footage of it.
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  Speaker 2: Isn't it funny how Libby has become the bigger troll
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  Speaker 2: than Andrea, Like she hilarious, it's she's she's it's interesting
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  Speaker 2: to see Libby in a different light because I've always
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  Speaker 2: had some sympathy for her, because I've always said on
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  Speaker 2: our pod, Libby is the best of her family, her,
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  Speaker 2: which is, as Jake said, the family that uh, the
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  Speaker 2: family that embodies the values of Florida and and so.
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  Speaker 2: But she is the best of them because her sisters
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  Speaker 2: are She doesn't know girl code because her the butthole brigade.
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  Speaker 2: Her sisters are horrible. Ye Her brother Charlie is horrible.
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  Speaker 2: Their mom's a piece of shit.
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  Speaker 1: Yep.
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  Speaker 2: Chuck is really kind of the only redeeming figure and
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  Speaker 2: in their life, like I understand why they don't talk
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  Speaker 2: to their family anymore. And they treated Andre terribly. Not
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  Speaker 2: that he's great, but just see, so I always, you know,
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  Speaker 2: it's like poor lib poor lib poor Libby or Elizabeth
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  Speaker 2: And now she wants to.
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  Speaker 1: Be called but this is because I keep calling her Libby.
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  Speaker 2: I do too too as well. But this is like, oh, honey,
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  Speaker 2: you trow trolling mm hm.
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  Speaker 1: And now we realize being the best of the swamp
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  Speaker 1: is still not that great.
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  Speaker 2: You're still a slack swamp.
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  Speaker 1: So she says, also she's not funny, and Andrea is
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  Speaker 1: a dick, but at least he's amusing, and Libby has
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  Speaker 1: none of that. No, she so she's just.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, which Andre does too, but in different ways.
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  Speaker 1: He does too. But then occasionally he'll have a line
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  Speaker 1: that you're like, okay, yeah, that was kind of funny.
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  Speaker 1: So Yara says it wasn't right to reveal that stuff,
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  Speaker 1: even though she also revealed to Lauren that Libby was
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  Speaker 1: talking about her, and she told Libby that Lauren called
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  Speaker 1: Andrea Dick, and then she told Libby that Alex told
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  Speaker 1: them about the money that there lost. So she has
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  Speaker 1: thrice started things.
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  Speaker 2: I wish if they show this. Maybe they will later
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  Speaker 2: when they bring out Noga, but I don't, maybe because
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  Speaker 2: they're going to talk about the Dick conversation. I'm sure again,
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  Speaker 2: but yeah, she gets.
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  Speaker 1: She gets away with it. She looks all innocent, but
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  Speaker 1: she's not. But she also is funny, which makes me
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  Speaker 1: like her a lot more than Lara.
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  Speaker 2: Is great Reality TV and Jovie even though sometimes you
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  Speaker 2: get some of my nerves fishal and dis tell all
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  Speaker 2: uh because I'm sure we'll talk about But I just again,
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  Speaker 2: we've got the men's rights now club, as we say,
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  Speaker 2: showing up all the men and the women are all
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  Speaker 2: just sluts and stupid.
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  Speaker 1: You're absolutely right. It's like after the Last Resort where
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  Speaker 1: the men just all ganged up on Jasmine and which
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  Speaker 1: like women are whores, you could be pregnant, a pregnant horror,
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  Speaker 1: and it just yes, men's rights they are or.
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  Speaker 2: The way they have, like basically the way that they like,
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  Speaker 2: especially the way we'll talk about late, but the way
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  Speaker 2: they come for Kara mm hmm. So anyway, we'll get to.
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  Speaker 3: I'm very excited about that. I'm actually gonna host a
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  Speaker 1: So Libby says, Yara plays a double game, and Yara says, look,
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  Speaker 1: I never told I never said that Lauren called on
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  Speaker 1: there a horrible person, which is the first time we're
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  Speaker 1: hearing this, I think, and Elizabeth said, okay, fine, maybe
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  Speaker 1: Jovi said it, but it was said, like you don't
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  Speaker 1: remember now who started this entire thing.
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  Speaker 2: I don't blame Lauren for screaming. I would have too.
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  Speaker 1: I would have too. I was getting very frustrated, and
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  Speaker 1: Lauren says, no one called Andrea a horrible person. And
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  Speaker 1: Libby says, then why did you apologize for it? Because
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  Speaker 1: she and then I just.
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  Speaker 2: Can't because you kept trying to be nice, do you.
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  Speaker 1: She just trying to be nice, and she's like, I
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  Speaker 1: don't know what was said, but I'm trying to make
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  Speaker 1: the peace, so I've apologized. She's like, you don't remember
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  Speaker 1: if you called your best friend's husband a horrible person,
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  Speaker 1: And Lauren is like, I was just apologizing for calling
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  Speaker 1: him a dick, and I'm sorry your butt hurt. And
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  Speaker 1: Libby says that's not a real apology. And that's when
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  Speaker 1: Lauren screams again, and it's like, I apologize twenty fucking times.
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  Speaker 1: She did rolled the tape. It's there and they were genuine.
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  Speaker 1: She was crying.
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  Speaker 2: Who has never apologized for anything, Elizabeth, Yes, she kind
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  Speaker 2: of gave that that, like in that past bar like,
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  Speaker 2: I'm sorry you had hurt feelings.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, I'm sorry that your feelings were hurt. But also
• 12:52
  Speaker 1: I think your husband is verbally abusive to you. And
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  Speaker 1: I just said that on TV.
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  Speaker 2: Yeah, she never APOLOGI so yeah.
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  Speaker 1: So Libby's like, we bonded over the fact that we're
• 13:06
  Speaker 1: not Florida women. We don't like botox, we don't like
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  Speaker 1: plastic surgery. We aren't those girls. And they do a
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  Speaker 1: quick cut to poor Darcy's face.
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  Speaker 2: Oh there with her tits out going heyday talking about me.
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  Speaker 1: That's how I'm snatched. I gotta snatch VIY.
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  Speaker 2: But don't you feel like it's a bit of a
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  Speaker 2: jealousy thing, because totally what Lauren does with her bodies
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  Speaker 2: none of your fucking business.
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  Speaker 1: Also, you're allowed to change your mind, you're allowed to
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  Speaker 1: not think that things are important, and then your body
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  Speaker 1: changes and your val you just change.
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  Speaker 2: You have hashtag three under three and see how your
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  Speaker 2: body feels exactly.
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  Speaker 1: And Libby's like, you got all this surgery, and I
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  Speaker 1: was just confused, and Laurence's or jealousy kids or jealous
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  Speaker 1: I had three kids. I had the abdominal dysdat diastis
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  Speaker 1: whatever muscles, don't reattach in your stomach. She's like, and
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  Speaker 1: I talked about that at the last tell all, so
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  Speaker 1: you know this information. That's why I started wanting the surgery.
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  Speaker 1: And Lauren's like, we bitched to each other that husbands
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  Speaker 1: can be difficult, you know European men, and they're very similar.
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  Speaker 1: And Andre's like, we're not similar, and Alexi's like, no,
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  Speaker 1: we're not similar. I was like, okay, you're kind of
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  Speaker 1: similar to that moment.
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  Speaker 2: Well yes, and no different, but there is, yeah, there's
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  Speaker 2: don't you think too? I think Elizabeth and like Lauren
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  Speaker 2: to me, is coming out way better in this tell all.
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  Speaker 2: That's what More has shown her ass before and sometimes
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  Speaker 2: she hasn't done it in a long time, not since
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  Speaker 2: that terrible tell all where she was a mean girl
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  Speaker 2: with Yes, who they're going to be on supposed to
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  Speaker 2: be on last resort with Powell with Russ and Powell. Yes,
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  Speaker 2: she was a mean girl with Powell. I forgot who
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  Speaker 2: they are. I mean to that was really shitty. But
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  Speaker 2: also that was like some people still punish her for that.
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  Speaker 2: That was like seven years ago.
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  Speaker 1: Seriously, like before she hated one afternoon.
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  Speaker 2: One of the people can change. And so I like Lauren,
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  Speaker 2: I do, and but I do think Lauren and Elizabeth
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  Speaker 2: probably did shit talk other people together. That's who they
• 15:18
  Speaker 2: were to one another. But yes, they were venting, but
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  Speaker 2: they were also like, oh my god, did you see
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  Speaker 2: this castleman? Or did you see it? They did that talk.
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  Speaker 2: But just know, if you're doing that talk with your friend,
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  Speaker 2: then your friend's doing that talk with someone else.
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  Speaker 1: Right, That's a good point, and they might reveal it
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  Speaker 1: at some point publicly, which is the Yeah, super Dicky,
• 15:39
  Speaker 1: do you want to shop talking?
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  Speaker 2: Very pain, because Mary Pain and I just shit talk people.
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  Speaker 2: I'm kidding. We don't Gingeringer, Ginger, don't you hear that
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  Speaker 2: shit talking? You sit down, Ginger.
• 15:53
  Speaker 1: I almost died. We went on a golf cart and
• 15:55
  Speaker 1: I was looking for alligators and then I take you
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  Speaker 1: to the beach never and I came back to life.
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  Speaker 2: You will not go to the beach house.
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  Speaker 1: My stomach literally exploded.
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  Speaker 2: And I bring me that receipt from the real, real
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  Speaker 2: Mama's got returns.
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  Speaker 1: I love her, Okay, I love her. So Lauren's like,
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  Speaker 1: we bitched about her husband's and Jasmine jumps in. Jasmin's
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  Speaker 1: always a fun girls girl at these tell alls.
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  Speaker 2: She she is when she wants to be, when.
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  Speaker 1: She wants to be. She's like, it's very therapeutic to
• 16:30
  Speaker 1: have a friend to bitch about your husband too, Like
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  Speaker 1: that's healthy. And I bitch about Brandon and my bitch
• 16:36
  Speaker 1: about Gino and Matt to Julia and Brandon, you better
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  Speaker 1: not look at those messages. And also, Julia would never
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  Speaker 1: reveal that.
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  Speaker 2: Julia would never Julia doesn't like Julia doesn't like to
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  Speaker 2: reveal a lot of things.
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  Speaker 1: No, she doesn't. She start crying and.
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  Speaker 2: Out upstates and have an anxiety and have a fucking
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  Speaker 2: panic attack, BLUs her heart.
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  Speaker 1: Yeah, so Andre says, I thought we squashed her and
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  Speaker 1: then it was over, and Lauren's like it was And
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  Speaker 1: then Jovi told me that Libby's told Yara that I
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  Speaker 1: was making fun of her clothes and we had just
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  Speaker 1: made up and I was done, and Libby's like, I
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  Speaker 1: never said that Lauren made fun of her clothes. I
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  Speaker 1: never said that she made fun of her And Sean says,
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  Speaker 1: roll the clip.
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  Speaker 2: Fine, I just went out. They don't do this on
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  Speaker 2: Nati Day Fiance. A lot of times they never view
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  Speaker 2: the evidence, and it's frustrating. It's so it's like watching
• 17:28
  Speaker 2: a debate with President cankles with taco tits when you
• 17:31
  Speaker 2: want to pull up a tweet that he said when
• 17:33
  Speaker 2: he's saying something completely different. That's the feeling. I would
• 17:36
  Speaker 2: have a lot of time to the tell all so this.
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  Speaker 1: Yes, please we have the evidence, it's right there.
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  Speaker 2: Please continue this trend because I loved it.
• 17:44
  Speaker 1: Yeah, go ahead, I love it so and then you
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  Speaker 1: get to watch the person after, like Libby being like, well,
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  Speaker 1: that's not what I said. We just saw it. We
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  Speaker 1: have eyes.
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  Speaker 2: Liby look like she was smelling a wet fart with
• 17:57
  Speaker 2: her backwards.
• 17:58
  Speaker 1: Mouth, Like, how can I gaslight all of these people
• 18:02
  Speaker 1: and convince them that that is not what I said,
• 18:05
  Speaker 1: even though their eyes and their ears are telling them
• 18:08
  Speaker 1: that that is what I just said. It's Ai. She's
• 18:11
  Speaker 1: gonna say, it's an AI deep fake. It's not real,
• 18:15
  Speaker 1: it's not real. So and so they show the clip
• 18:18
  Speaker 1: where she fully says like beware of be careful. Bitches
• 18:22
  Speaker 1: are fake Lauren's talking shit about you, be careful and
• 18:27
  Speaker 1: Sean goes, Libby, you stand by those comments. She goes yes,
• 18:31
  Speaker 1: because she can't admit she's just like deny, deny, deny.
• 18:36
  Speaker 2: She is.
• 18:36
  Speaker 1: She's a politician. She's a type of politician. And they're like,
• 18:43
  Speaker 1: is it. She goes, isn't it girl code to warn
• 18:45
  Speaker 1: another girl that your friend is talking about you? And
• 18:49
  Speaker 1: Alex is like their snakes, and Libby goes off on
• 18:53
  Speaker 1: how I didn't do anything, and Lauren accused me of
• 18:55
  Speaker 1: things that I didn't do, and so she's a person
• 18:58
  Speaker 1: I can't trust because she's accusing me of things that
• 19:02
  Speaker 1: I didn't do. Dan yeah, and Sean's like, so you
• 19:06
  Speaker 1: think Yura shouldn't trust Lauren. I never said that, And
• 19:10
  Speaker 1: Alex is like.
• 19:11
  Speaker 2: You just said it, just did you just did?
• 19:16
  Speaker 4: Guy?
• 19:16
  Speaker 1: And conspiracy theories that you can't keep track of she
• 19:20
  Speaker 1: really fits well, and family politics. So Libby says, you
• 19:26
  Speaker 1: hurt us. We were fine. We had an understanding of
• 19:29
  Speaker 1: what was going on, so nobody's feelings got hurt. Now
• 19:34
  Speaker 1: to me, I kind of felt like she was alluding
• 19:36
  Speaker 1: like they had a plan to start to have drama
• 19:40
  Speaker 1: this season so they would get another season and Lauren
• 19:44
  Speaker 1: was taking things too personally, too much into it.
• 19:49
  Speaker 2: No, no, I think that here's a look, this is
• 19:52
  Speaker 2: the Florida Contingent as we call them, is it. It's
• 19:55
  Speaker 2: a reality show, it is. I'm here for it. I'm
• 19:58
  Speaker 2: all for ninety Day Housewife, I'm all for it. A
• 20:02
  Speaker 2: lot of people were like, but honestly, I think this
• 20:05
  Speaker 2: is why this has been a better Even Jake admits
• 20:08
  Speaker 2: that usually he's sick of Happily ever after.
• 20:10
  Speaker 1: By like episode eight, No, me too, and it's episode
• 20:13
  Speaker 1: three for me three.
• 20:15
  Speaker 2: Well what about this season because he didn't really.
• 20:17
  Speaker 1: He was the season's been a lot better.
• 20:19
  Speaker 2: He wasn't done until like episode like fifteen. Then he
• 20:21
  Speaker 2: was like, I'm out. It helped that Tiger Lillian Adnon
• 20:25
  Speaker 2: flamed out really quickly. But uh, but I know Mary
• 20:31
  Speaker 2: Payne has mentioned she's like, yeah, this Hay has been better,
• 20:34
  Speaker 2: and I hope they continue because the problem what I
• 20:37
  Speaker 2: was going to say, I think I Lauren, y'are and
• 20:42
  Speaker 2: Libby are really good at this reality TV thing because
• 20:45
  Speaker 2: things roll off of them and they don't take it seriously.
• 20:48
  Speaker 2: It does feel like Lauren doesn't or forgets that this
• 20:53
  Speaker 2: is a game. Yeah, this is a reality show. This
• 20:57
  Speaker 2: is not docuseries the people on ninety Day the other
• 21:00
  Speaker 2: way all that. Yes, that's way more of people's real lives,
• 21:03
  Speaker 2: but this is just Candy ninety day Candy, and she
• 21:06
  Speaker 2: is taking it that I don't know she has that ability.
• 21:09
  Speaker 1: Though, I don't know if her mental health is there
• 21:13
  Speaker 1: where she can see it physically on her with her
• 21:16
  Speaker 1: her tics go and she and she's just seems so
• 21:20
  Speaker 1: anxious and uncomfortable.
• 21:21
  Speaker 2: And she's been so probably more than any of these women.
• 21:25
  Speaker 2: Like again, like this is why I will This is
• 21:28
  Speaker 2: why I will ride for Lauren, because Lauren's a fucking
• 21:31
  Speaker 2: o g meaning not only did she do it long ago,
• 21:34
  Speaker 2: but she was like one of the first people in
• 21:36
  Speaker 2: ninety Day to be like, we're going to talk about
• 21:38
  Speaker 2: my tics, We're going to talk about my anxiety. We're
• 21:41
  Speaker 2: going to show a messy relationship with my mom who's horrible.
• 21:44
  Speaker 2: We're going to talk about my body issues and how
• 21:46
  Speaker 2: I feel, We're going to talk about my body dysmorphia.
• 21:49
  Speaker 2: Like it's almost too I'm like, I would never share
• 21:53
  Speaker 2: that much personal information, but it's what kind of has
• 21:55
  Speaker 2: made her story very riveting, and you can't knock that
• 22:00
  Speaker 2: that that's kind of the way she's led her story.
• 22:02
  Speaker 2: But going into this new era, I say that weird
• 22:07
  Speaker 2: because my accent era. That's I don't know if that's
• 22:11
  Speaker 2: going to serve her, because I think that would burn
• 22:13
  Speaker 2: her out really quickly.
• 22:15
  Speaker 1: Yeah. I think she's just gonna be left shaking in
• 22:17
  Speaker 1: a corner, just like, why don't I let these people
• 22:20
  Speaker 1: hurt me? And I know, I don't know if that's
• 22:22
  Speaker 1: good for her at all. And then poor Alex is
• 22:24
  Speaker 1: going to have to keep calming her down and taking
• 22:27
  Speaker 1: her away from situation.
• 22:28
  Speaker 2: You can calm me down with a.
• 22:30
  Speaker 1: Dig yeah, so and yeah, and Libby is really auditioning
• 22:36
  Speaker 1: for Real Housewives of Miami. That's what she understood. She
• 22:40
  Speaker 1: understood the assignment. Yeah, yeah she is.
• 22:46
  Speaker 2: And Joey is really working anyway, Go ahead, I keep talking.
• 22:50
  Speaker 1: So, Lauren says, Libby and Andre told Yara and Jovi
• 22:54
  Speaker 1: that they had to choose between us or them, and
• 22:56
  Speaker 1: that's not fair. Are we in high school? And Sewn asked, Rarah,
• 23:00
  Speaker 1: are you friends with Lauren? She says yeah. Are you
• 23:03
  Speaker 1: friends with Elizabeth? She says, I'm not sure because she
• 23:06
  Speaker 1: knows she can't trust him, and Sean says, we're going
• 23:11
  Speaker 1: to take a break and we're done for today. Tomorrow
• 23:14
  Speaker 1: Noga is gonna come, so that should be fun for
• 23:16
  Speaker 1: everybody or nobody, and backstage, Lauren says, I'm so embarrassed
• 23:22
  Speaker 1: that I yelled. But they're so frustrating because they never
• 23:24
  Speaker 1: admit that they did anything wrong. And then they're all
• 23:28
  Speaker 1: bonding and talking and they go back to the house
• 23:30
  Speaker 1: and they start eating their takeout. Georgie leads a few
• 23:33
  Speaker 1: of them in a prayer, which I wasn't expecting.
• 23:37
  Speaker 2: No, tell all, I did not expect to see this.
• 23:41
  Speaker 1: It was she needs to be praying to Darcy's dress
• 23:44
  Speaker 1: to keep her nipplein.
• 23:46
  Speaker 2: Well, yeah, they really that. Yeah, it doesn't help that
• 23:51
  Speaker 2: she keeps sitting back, you.
• 23:53
  Speaker 1: Know, yeah, she keeps sitting back. I think she can't
• 23:55
  Speaker 1: sit forward because she doesn't know where her boom her
• 23:58
  Speaker 1: hands would go because they'd have to on her boobs.
• 24:01
  Speaker 2: And that's not kind of a how to give you
• 24:04
  Speaker 2: a breast reduction. That's what she did.
• 24:06
  Speaker 1: It's on Instagram like or I saw it on Reddit
• 24:10
  Speaker 1: like last you do it? Her aunt Stacey and too
• 24:15
  Speaker 1: much other stuff, a lot, a whole laundry list under
• 24:19
  Speaker 1: like the lower chin area, jaw area, something on the back?
• 24:25
  Speaker 2: Yeah, what you doing your back in a hump shade?
• 24:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know, but it was all written on with
• 24:30
  Speaker 1: sharpie on her back and I was like, what are
• 24:33
  Speaker 1: they doing?
• 24:33
  Speaker 2: What are they who looks at your back? I guess
• 24:36
  Speaker 2: if you're a woman and you're wearing a backless dress. Yeah,
• 24:41
  Speaker 2: you know who looks good in a backless outfit? Poodle?
• 24:46
  Speaker 2: You poodle? He I gotta say those creamy shoulders. And
• 24:52
  Speaker 2: he kind of has a feminine back, So if he
• 24:54
  Speaker 2: wears something backless, it's really pretty. I'm not attracted to
• 24:58
  Speaker 2: him because it's very it's feminine. Does it look like
• 25:00
  Speaker 2: a man to me? And it's also poodle but we're sisters,
• 25:05
  Speaker 2: but it is, he's got a really beautiful back in
• 25:08
  Speaker 2: a back what's okay?
• 25:09
  Speaker 1: I'm gonna need to photousphic evidence it's yeah, yeah, yeah,
• 25:15
  Speaker 1: I admit it. Also, don't say creamy because that makes
• 25:19
  Speaker 1: me think of Nick from Seeking Sister.
• 25:20
  Speaker 2: Wise and his creamy alabaster shoulders.
• 25:26
  Speaker 1: Ross is he doesn't have hair back.
• 25:29
  Speaker 2: There is this smooth No, he's very he's very look
• 25:33
  Speaker 2: when Jake used to because you know, a lot of
• 25:36
  Speaker 2: people forget we've known each other since college. We've been
• 25:38
  Speaker 2: friends for like twenty five years now.
• 25:40
  Speaker 1: Yeah, so I have Katie and I.
• 25:41
  Speaker 2: Yeah so yeah, yeah, yeah exactly. So you have this
• 25:44
  Speaker 2: history with someone when Jake he he used to be
• 25:48
  Speaker 2: a little heavier and also he used to shave his face.
• 25:52
  Speaker 2: He would get on. We would go to gay bars
• 25:55
  Speaker 2: and he every time would get hit on by one
• 25:57
  Speaker 2: or two women that thought he was a lesbian. I
• 26:00
  Speaker 2: mean he could, Sorry, you have water in your mouth,
• 26:03
  Speaker 2: but really he gives the energy. The haircut, it was
• 26:07
  Speaker 2: kind of like this. He would always have like foppish
• 26:10
  Speaker 2: kind of gender nonconforming before people did that, and he
• 26:14
  Speaker 2: would always be touching it. And Jake likes to pose
• 26:16
  Speaker 2: when he stands and he puts his hand on his
• 26:18
  Speaker 2: hip like his mother. And when he was clean shaven,
• 26:22
  Speaker 2: I'm telling you, there'd be like there'd be some woman
• 26:25
  Speaker 2: named Ruth looking like a fucking you know, oh uh,
• 26:32
  Speaker 2: looking like, oh, what's her name? The singer who was
• 26:35
  Speaker 2: married to Sarah Gilbert, Melissa Ethrich misle K not Katie,
• 26:43
  Speaker 2: but he would get a Katie Lange. Yes, you would
• 26:46
  Speaker 2: have a Katie Lane looking motherfucker woman come up and
• 26:48
  Speaker 2: be like, hey, how are you, and he want to
• 26:50
  Speaker 2: buy him a drink and then he would be like,
• 26:52
  Speaker 2: I'm not a woman.
• 26:55
  Speaker 1: But he got a drink out of it.
• 26:56
  Speaker 2: He got a drink out of it.
• 27:01
  Speaker 1: Good for him. Scam in the lesbians.
• 27:05
  Speaker 2: He has those huge duck lips that are all natural,
• 27:08
  Speaker 2: so when he shaves, all you just see your lips. Yes,
• 27:12
  Speaker 2: I mean, he'd be a beautiful drag queen.
• 27:17
  Speaker 1: It's really a shame that he that he won't drag
• 27:22
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• 27:27
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• 29:16
  Speaker 1: Uh speA could have snatched. So at the house they
• 29:21
  Speaker 1: do the prayer. Gino tells Andre, I was shocked at
• 29:25
  Speaker 1: all the fighting with you guys. Were you being a dick?
• 29:27
  Speaker 4: Andre?
• 29:28
  Speaker 1: And Andre says probably so he can fully admit that
• 29:31
  Speaker 1: he's a dick. That's when he's likable, and yeah, he
• 29:33
  Speaker 1: gets in it. I have some but yeah, and then
• 29:37
  Speaker 1: some of them start playing beer pong and Jovi of
• 29:40
  Speaker 1: course wants to drink with Andre, and they bring Lauren
• 29:44
  Speaker 1: and the Alexi drinks and try to make friends because
• 29:47
  Speaker 1: Jovi is in his peacemaker era right now and is
• 29:51
  Speaker 1: it just or is well he stirs it up and
• 29:54
  Speaker 1: then he tries to make the feast joby yara.
• 29:56
  Speaker 2: They where producers like, hey, if you could just because
• 29:59
  Speaker 2: Joe is shit, because he's not a peacemaker because again
• 30:02
  Speaker 2: he was trying to get into shit later on next
• 30:04
  Speaker 2: and tomorrow.
• 30:04
  Speaker 1: Oh totally. Oh, but he vacillates very quickly every five minutes.
• 30:10
  Speaker 2: But this is you know, they sit down and when
• 30:15
  Speaker 2: this kind of moment between Lauren's like when Laura said, look,
• 30:18
  Speaker 2: I never said you were a horrible person. She's like,
• 30:20
  Speaker 2: but your character is dickish, you are you can act
• 30:24
  Speaker 2: like a dick and he's like that is true, Yes, yes,
• 30:27
  Speaker 2: I can, It is true. Yeah. Yeah, So he actually
• 30:29
  Speaker 2: kind of has his men, and it seems like it's
• 30:31
  Speaker 2: going well, and then like out of like nineteen eighties
• 30:35
  Speaker 2: dynasty soap opera, around the corner of you, here are
• 30:39
  Speaker 2: you tagging out of mere again, and it's it's Libby
• 30:42
  Speaker 2: who's come out from under her bridge of troland.
• 30:46
  Speaker 1: It's so and she of course joins right at the
• 30:49
  Speaker 1: moment where their voices are getting higher, but it's still
• 30:52
  Speaker 1: a peaceful conversation, and then she destroys everything she likes.
• 30:56
  Speaker 1: God Zilla was stomping all over the city and she's
• 31:01
  Speaker 1: she's like, why are you still talking about this? And
• 31:03
  Speaker 1: she's like we're going it's going well, it's fine, and
• 31:06
  Speaker 1: we're talking civilly and Lauren's like, I just want to
• 31:09
  Speaker 1: know who revealed the body shaming and Andre will not reveal.
• 31:14
  Speaker 1: He's like dodging and bobbing, and we even away from
• 31:17
  Speaker 1: that question and they're like we saw in the clip
• 31:20
  Speaker 1: that Libby brought it up and she won't own it.
• 31:23
  Speaker 1: And then that's when Libby comes up and is like,
• 31:25
  Speaker 1: why are you still talking about this? And Andrea's like,
• 31:29
  Speaker 1: why do you keep asking the question? You should you
• 31:32
  Speaker 1: shouldn't have left that night, you should have clarified at
• 31:34
  Speaker 1: the moment, which is a dumb thing to be mad
• 31:37
  Speaker 1: at someone about for. And then like, he's still not
• 31:40
  Speaker 1: answering the question, and it's almost masterful, but it's actually
• 31:45
  Speaker 1: quite obvious, so it's not masterful at all. And Andre
• 31:49
  Speaker 1: is like, you always remove yourself and from the situation,
• 31:53
  Speaker 1: and then Elizabeth is like, I don't give a flying fuck.
• 31:56
  Speaker 1: And then Andre says, let's get a drink and Lauren's like, oh,
• 32:00
  Speaker 1: you're removing yourself from the conversation after you just criticize
• 32:03
  Speaker 1: me for it. And then Lauren and Yara discuss how
• 32:07
  Speaker 1: Libby pushes away everyone, her friends, her family, the family
• 32:12
  Speaker 1: was a good decision, but that's a.
• 32:14
  Speaker 2: Little unfair to say they do push people away. But
• 32:17
  Speaker 2: that is a little unfair to say that her again,
• 32:20
  Speaker 2: her family.
• 32:21
  Speaker 1: Horrible people horrible.
• 32:23
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 32:23
  Speaker 1: Yeah, So then there's some fun couples hanging out in
• 32:26
  Speaker 1: Kara's room and they're playing truth or Dare, and Gierma
• 32:31
  Speaker 1: dares Kara to do a back roll on the floor
• 32:34
  Speaker 1: and she, I don't know drag race reference, okay, thank you,
• 32:40
  Speaker 1: and Katie would have got it. And Kara dares Brandon
• 32:44
  Speaker 1: to lick a door handle and he basically whistles out
• 32:48
  Speaker 1: and touches the very tip of his tongue on the.
• 32:52
  Speaker 2: Would you are you a truther or a darer?
• 32:56
  Speaker 1: I'm a truther for sure. I'm terrified of.
• 33:00
  Speaker 2: I want to be a truther because I'm fine with it.
• 33:03
  Speaker 2: I don't really have a lot of secrets and I
• 33:05
  Speaker 2: don't have a lot of shame. However, I feel like
• 33:10
  Speaker 2: if I don't dare, then people will make fun of
• 33:12
  Speaker 2: me for not doing a dare.
• 33:14
  Speaker 1: Yeah, which is what happens. You kind of get bullied
• 33:16
  Speaker 1: into daring in this and these people, at least anytime
• 33:20
  Speaker 1: someone says truth, they're like boring.
• 33:22
  Speaker 2: And then once I'm that little pisces in me takes over,
• 33:25
  Speaker 2: like like if you say, if I accept the dare,
• 33:27
  Speaker 2: and as long as it doesn't involve a snake or
• 33:30
  Speaker 2: a chicken which on a farm. But yeah, but they
• 33:37
  Speaker 2: they're like make out with this person I'm like, sure, okay,
• 33:40
  Speaker 2: and then I'm all in and then I get crazy.
• 33:45
  Speaker 1: Good to know, So Kara, they're all just having fun
• 33:50
  Speaker 1: and Brandon dares Matt to such Jasmine's toes, and Jasmine says,
• 33:53
  Speaker 1: I have a foot fetish, and Kara says, we've all
• 33:56
  Speaker 1: seen it, which was.
• 33:58
  Speaker 2: The funny thing.
• 34:01
  Speaker 1: All of America saw it. He's he licks her toe
• 34:07
  Speaker 1: and then he runs to wash his mouth and they
• 34:11
  Speaker 1: joke about how I walked in.
• 34:13
  Speaker 2: The bathroom bare foot.
• 34:16
  Speaker 1: And then Germo is so funny and he's like, just
• 34:20
  Speaker 1: I'm imagining you sucking Gino's feet and why and why
• 34:23
  Speaker 1: and how? And Jess's like that was the only thing
• 34:26
  Speaker 1: he'd let me suck. And Matt says that's how cheap
• 34:28
  Speaker 1: he is trying to save on a pedicure. He can't
• 34:31
  Speaker 1: stop getting a dig in. Yeah, it's either Gino's old
• 34:35
  Speaker 1: bald or cheap with Those are his go.
• 34:37
  Speaker 2: To but they're funny. All of his one liners about
• 34:39
  Speaker 2: Geno are real, where Gino sounds like a kid in
• 34:43
  Speaker 2: middle school who's not good at comeback shit. Yes, He's like, well,
• 34:47
  Speaker 2: Matt's just a short.
• 34:48
  Speaker 1: Butt, heead and I'll tell him that the next time
• 34:51
  Speaker 1: I see him.
• 34:52
  Speaker 2: I'll tell him he's a manie like that's Ginos where
• 34:55
  Speaker 2: Matt's really Matt's fucking charming. I think he if he's
• 35:00
  Speaker 2: really found his and Jasmine can stick this out. And
• 35:03
  Speaker 2: I think they could become a a if Jasmine doesn't
• 35:06
  Speaker 2: fuck it up. I think they speak a couple.
• 35:09
  Speaker 1: I think so too, and they could be funny on TV.
• 35:12
  Speaker 2: They could be great pillow talk.
• 35:15
  Speaker 1: Mmmmm, I agree. So downstairs, Jovie again is now he's
• 35:21
  Speaker 1: left his peacemaker era. Every time he leaves the room,
• 35:24
  Speaker 1: he crosses that threshold and he switches.
• 35:26
  Speaker 2: I think.
• 35:27
  Speaker 1: So now he's walked into by the bar and now
• 35:30
  Speaker 1: he's in his shit stirring era, and he says, Gino,
• 35:35
  Speaker 1: let's get that call that number that you think is Matt,
• 35:37
  Speaker 1: and we'll see if Matt answers. But again, Jasmine had
• 35:42
  Speaker 1: admitted that she and Matt were talking on the phone
• 35:44
  Speaker 1: because they were friends, so none of this would prove anything.
• 35:47
  Speaker 1: It wouldn't prove they were sleeping together, yea, but whatever,
• 35:51
  Speaker 1: So they call, it goes to voicemail with no human
• 35:54
  Speaker 1: voice so they can't tell. And upstairs they ask Kara,
• 35:58
  Speaker 1: do you still feelings for Gear, and she says like, yeah,
• 36:01
  Speaker 1: we share a child. I always love him, and Germo says,
• 36:04
  Speaker 1: we didn't really try in our relationship, and they are
• 36:08
  Speaker 1: starting to argue, and Jasmine's like, you should have chosen
• 36:11
  Speaker 1: Dare because she's funny. And then downstairs, Andre gets a
• 36:16
  Speaker 1: text from the number that he called, saying who is this?
• 36:21
  Speaker 1: What's your favorite scary movie? And Andrea texts, is this Matt?
• 36:26
  Speaker 1: And upstairs, Matt is clearly not on his phone, so
• 36:30
  Speaker 1: it's not him, but they're still convinced.
• 36:33
  Speaker 2: Worst detective agency ever flame down quickly because live is
• 36:37
  Speaker 2: up there, like when she goes up, it's so dumb.
• 36:40
  Speaker 1: It's so dumb. So Kara asked Jasmine, do you love
• 36:43
  Speaker 1: Matt as much as you love Gino? And Jasmine says
• 36:47
  Speaker 1: with Gino, I didn't love him in a healthy way.
• 36:50
  Speaker 1: I was obsessed with him, which no one still understands why.
• 36:55
  Speaker 2: I don't understand, but I believe it.
• 36:58
  Speaker 1: I one percent believe it. I just don't understand why
• 37:01
  Speaker 1: I stand it. Now Daddy issues something, so she's like,
• 37:07
  Speaker 1: I don't want to be that way again. I love Matt,
• 37:10
  Speaker 1: I like his company, Our sex is the best. And
• 37:12
  Speaker 1: Matt's just like she just love me, like she really
• 37:16
  Speaker 1: fumbled this. Yeah, uh so, Jasmine dares Kara.
• 37:21
  Speaker 2: I feel like for Jasmine, something she needs to work
• 37:24
  Speaker 2: through is she she does not know what it's does
• 37:34
  Speaker 2: not know what it's like to be in a relationship
• 37:37
  Speaker 2: with someone who accepts hers and accepts accepts her and
• 37:41
  Speaker 2: loves her for who she is. Yeah, so I bet
• 37:44
  Speaker 2: you she is. Part of her feels unable to love
• 37:48
  Speaker 2: Matt because it's so uncomfortable to be seeing I'm not
• 37:52
  Speaker 2: saying he's the best guy in the world, but I
• 37:54
  Speaker 2: do think he's a pretty good guy, a lot better
• 37:56
  Speaker 2: than Gino. She's used to abusive and she sick, and
• 38:01
  Speaker 2: that's the norm, so it feels normal. So it actually,
• 38:04
  Speaker 2: in a weird way, probably feels more uncomfortable to be
• 38:08
  Speaker 2: with Matt exactly. That's why I figured out drama.
• 38:13
  Speaker 1: She has to. It's like if she if you grew
• 38:16
  Speaker 1: up in an unhealthy, toxic you kind of almost crave
• 38:20
  Speaker 1: the drama because it feels safe to you.
• 38:23
  Speaker 2: Right. Yeah, it releases cortisol, releases still some type of dopamine.
• 38:28
  Speaker 2: It's like it's, you know, our body. It gets once
• 38:31
  Speaker 2: your body gets acclimated to it, and that's all you're
• 38:33
  Speaker 2: used to. So yeah, anyway, continue, I just want.
• 38:38
  Speaker 1: To do therapy. Last Resort does not do just they
• 38:42
  Speaker 1: need some better, No, they.
• 38:44
  Speaker 2: Don't, and I don't know what they're going to do.
• 38:46
  Speaker 2: I feel like, well, actually, I Jake, and I really
• 38:50
  Speaker 2: I liked James and Heidi a lot on Last Resort?
• 38:53
  Speaker 2: Did you not?
• 38:54
  Speaker 1: I didn't watch that close closely?
• 38:57
  Speaker 2: I remember, and they were way better.
• 39:00
  Speaker 1: Okay, that's good.
• 39:01
  Speaker 2: James and Heidi were great, and they brought Riba back,
• 39:05
  Speaker 2: and Reba's fantastic like Reba's actually, she especially on the
• 39:09
  Speaker 2: between the Sheets. Reba's the one that called out way
• 39:13
  Speaker 2: early on in that season. She said you could tell
• 39:16
  Speaker 2: she was not a Geno fan, and she's basically said,
• 39:19
  Speaker 2: what Gino is doing is he's weaponizing sex and using
• 39:22
  Speaker 2: it against Jasmine because that's the only currency he has
• 39:26
  Speaker 2: to hurt her. And she that is nailed it.
• 39:30
  Speaker 1: Oh right.
• 39:31
  Speaker 2: She saw this, this kind of gross Gino that we're
• 39:33
  Speaker 2: seeing now. She saw it then but couldn't say because
• 39:38
  Speaker 2: he's like this for her, So I'm really, I really she.
• 39:42
  Speaker 1: Should have watched it more closely. I think I was
• 39:44
  Speaker 1: so just annoyed by everyone that they chose. I was
• 39:47
  Speaker 1: over it great Last Resort. I okay, I might need
• 39:51
  Speaker 1: to go back because that is actually spot on.
• 39:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, and Heidi, Heidi would say shit too, and James
• 39:59
  Speaker 2: like they especially in the Between the Sheets, which may
• 40:02
  Speaker 2: be angry because we have to watch it. It was more
• 40:03
  Speaker 2: TV to watch. But if you're not watching Between the
• 40:06
  Speaker 2: Sheets for Last Resort, then you're missing parts of the good.
• 40:09
  Speaker 1: I don't know if I even knew they had. Oh no,
• 40:11
  Speaker 1: of course I did. Where they would sit and they
• 40:13
  Speaker 1: play games and yeah, like.
• 40:15
  Speaker 2: Fast forward through the game. I don't give a shit
• 40:17
  Speaker 2: about that, but I do watch the Yeah, it's really
• 40:20
  Speaker 2: great insights because you don't really hear a lot from
• 40:22
  Speaker 2: the therapist during the show, but that's where you get
• 40:25
  Speaker 2: their takes.
• 40:26
  Speaker 1: Okay, good tip. So then so they're talking, Oh, Jasmine
• 40:33
  Speaker 1: dares Kara to lick Darcy's nipple. You've never seen anyone
• 40:37
  Speaker 1: as excited as Julia was to watch this. And also
• 40:41
  Speaker 1: we've already all seen Darcy's nipple because it's been out
• 40:43
  Speaker 1: all day, but no one's flipped it yet. So Kara
• 40:47
  Speaker 1: says she'll lick the boob, not the nipple, and then
• 40:49
  Speaker 1: everyone's dying and then Julia. It dares Gearmo to do
• 40:53
  Speaker 1: a sexy dance for Kara, and it's pretty hot. She
• 40:57
  Speaker 1: has a sandwich in her mouth. It was still pretty.
• 41:00
  Speaker 2: Until they did the sandwich part.
• 41:01
  Speaker 1: But before that I didn't like lady in the tramping
• 41:04
  Speaker 1: of the sandwich. But when he was just dancing.
• 41:07
  Speaker 2: It was hot. He's hot, he looks good.
• 41:10
  Speaker 1: Hot, he's getting hotter. I love the facial I like
• 41:14
  Speaker 1: when he wears his little cardigans.
• 41:16
  Speaker 2: Yeah.
• 41:18
  Speaker 1: So downstairs they're like, where's Matt? Is he on his phone?
• 41:21
  Speaker 1: So this is when Libby and Georgie and Yara do
• 41:23
  Speaker 1: the worst detective agency in America and they go up
• 41:27
  Speaker 1: they would never sell the murder on dateline. They go
• 41:30
  Speaker 1: up to the truther Dare group to spy on Matt.
• 41:33
  Speaker 1: Like Katie and I have a like a fan fiction
• 41:36
  Speaker 1: detective agency that we randomly will pull people into if
• 41:40
  Speaker 1: we like someone on dateline. They're like, they're in our
• 41:43
  Speaker 1: imaginary detective agency. These three are never never being invited.
• 41:48
  Speaker 1: Their invitation got lost in the mail. So Andre and
• 41:53
  Speaker 1: Gino are calling Matt and Matt's phone is not ringing,
• 41:56
  Speaker 1: and Libby keeps going is someone texting you? Were you
• 42:00
  Speaker 1: texting someone earlier, where's your phone?
• 42:03
  Speaker 4: Are you?
• 42:03
  Speaker 1: And he's like, I have no idea, what are you
• 42:05
  Speaker 1: talking about? And they're just all staring at her, and
• 42:09
  Speaker 1: it's just terrible. It's as terrible as she is at
• 42:13
  Speaker 1: everything and being a good friend. So Matt's they're just
• 42:18
  Speaker 1: like we failed. He wasn't on his phone, so Gino says,
• 42:21
  Speaker 1: when I googled it was Matt's number and he must
• 42:24
  Speaker 1: have changed it, so that proves that he's guilty, whatever, whatever,
• 42:29
  Speaker 1: or you're just an idiot that you and you don't
• 42:32
  Speaker 1: know how to google works. I don't know.
• 42:34
  Speaker 2: No, it's not that he's I don't think it's that
• 42:36
  Speaker 2: he's an idiot. It's that he's so cruel and a
• 42:41
  Speaker 2: monster that he doesn't care. Nothing is going to prove
• 42:44
  Speaker 2: Matt's innocence in this because Jasmine, he's got the Madonna
• 42:48
  Speaker 2: horror complex. And Jasmine has to be a whore because
• 42:51
  Speaker 2: that's what we've always thought about her. It's a camgirl whore.
• 42:54
  Speaker 2: And then she became a real person who had real
• 42:57
  Speaker 2: emotions that he never wanted to introduce to his family
• 43:00
  Speaker 2: because part of him knew that she was better than him.
• 43:03
  Speaker 1: Yep, and they'd like him more because she's way more likable.
• 43:08
  Speaker 1: So and that's crazy because she can be very unlikable.
• 43:14
  Speaker 4: She's nuts, I'm fucking crazy.
• 43:19
  Speaker 2: She will say it.
• 43:21
  Speaker 1: Yeah, but they still they still prefer her to uh him,
• 43:29
  Speaker 1: which I love that for him. So Georgie is downstairs
• 43:34
  Speaker 1: getting annoyed Kara lick Darcy's boob. He's getting very jealous
• 43:38
  Speaker 1: and Jovi now, why did you lick boob in front
• 43:42
  Speaker 1: of people? And now so now Jovie puts on his
• 43:49
  Speaker 1: doctor Ruth Era costume and he's like, when's the last
• 43:55
  Speaker 1: time you guys said sick? It's last time. It was
• 43:59
  Speaker 1: three months ago. You told me it had been in
• 44:01
  Speaker 1: three months, So it's been six months. Why are you
• 44:03
  Speaker 1: not banging your wife? And so Jovi says, why don't
• 44:07
  Speaker 1: you just go off sex? And Georgie says, Jersey's always tired.
• 44:11
  Speaker 1: And she's like, I think you're getting it for somewhere else.
• 44:13
  Speaker 1: Hot lady, young, hot.
• 44:14
  Speaker 2: Lady lady at sonnayah, I want a.
• 44:19
  Speaker 1: Little rub down, Andrey goes, I think he's getting it
• 44:24
  Speaker 1: somewhere because if you go for two weeks, you're going
• 44:27
  Speaker 1: to explode. And then they have a brief.
• 44:30
  Speaker 5: I have wet dreams, and I'm like, Georgie's really really hot,
• 44:34
  Speaker 5: and I think he has probably a beautiful just pork
• 44:38
  Speaker 5: loin of a schlung, but I still did not want
• 44:41
  Speaker 5: to hear that he has wet dreams.
• 44:44
  Speaker 1: Also, the poor bartender that has.
• 44:46
  Speaker 2: Been hired to bartender Jake and I think that they
• 44:50
  Speaker 2: should next time have like because Jake thinks they got
• 44:56
  Speaker 2: a bartender because last time they overserved themselves and got
• 44:58
  Speaker 2: too drunk.
• 45:00
  Speaker 1: Yeah, that could be or not enough, but or not
• 45:03
  Speaker 1: if they didn't give it have enough.
• 45:05
  Speaker 2: So I like the bartender, but we think they should
• 45:08
  Speaker 2: also have rotating people, like wouldn't you love to see
• 45:11
  Speaker 2: Kimbally being a bartender?
• 45:13
  Speaker 1: Like why not watch what happens? And he always says
• 45:17
  Speaker 1: exactly the.
• 45:17
  Speaker 2: Bar Annie of David and Annie or even the other
• 45:21
  Speaker 2: Annie are actually Robert of any like having Robbert. I
• 45:25
  Speaker 2: think that would be so fun.
• 45:29
  Speaker 1: I love that idea. Robit inception. So Jovi says you
• 45:34
  Speaker 1: should have sex with your wife, and Joe Darcy says
• 45:38
  Speaker 1: I'm hormonal, but I want romance and he's like, thank you, ma'am.
• 45:43
  Speaker 2: Snap.
• 45:45
  Speaker 1: And also he's never freaky. It's a little so Jovi's like,
• 45:53
  Speaker 1: you should go upstairs and renew your six month membership,
• 45:56
  Speaker 1: and Georgie says, you want to go upstairs and have
• 46:00
  Speaker 1: sex like a robot? Go quick, and she's like sure,
• 46:05
  Speaker 1: and everyone's like do it. Go rock your world. And
• 46:11
  Speaker 1: then we see on their camera in their room they
• 46:13
  Speaker 1: get in bed and he just falls on top of her,
• 46:16
  Speaker 1: like weekend at Bernie's Style.
• 46:18
  Speaker 4: And bring back.
• 46:31
  Speaker 1: They ride to the studio the next day and Kara
• 46:34
  Speaker 1: says that she tasted Darcy's perfume on that hour.
• 46:39
  Speaker 2: That was great. I loved that line, which she said,
• 46:42
  Speaker 2: you said it so not even to be funny. She
• 46:44
  Speaker 2: said it kind of real and we're all which she
• 46:47
  Speaker 2: said it we all kind of just tasted. I did
• 46:50
  Speaker 2: secret perfume and I went, I can taste that.
• 46:55
  Speaker 1: Yeah. So Matt says, you know, I thought that people
• 46:59
  Speaker 1: would be mean to me, but they're nice. And you know,
• 47:02
  Speaker 1: Kara says, I wanted to not like you, but you're
• 47:04
  Speaker 1: just so likable. I can't. And I thought Jasmine was
• 47:07
  Speaker 1: gonna be so much drama. She came in hating Jasmine,
• 47:10
  Speaker 1: and she's like jas was pretty nice too, and I
• 47:13
  Speaker 1: was like, you forgot about the first night where you're screaming,
• 47:16
  Speaker 1: and she's okay, it's fine. So Sean starts the day
• 47:21
  Speaker 1: with Kara and Guaramo and Kara, you're in the house
• 47:25
  Speaker 1: that you two bought together, and Giamo's like, Yep, it's fine.
• 47:29
  Speaker 1: I'm totally fine with it. It's totally fair. And Kara says, yeah,
• 47:34
  Speaker 1: he's on the deed, but I'm the one who got
• 47:36
  Speaker 1: us the house, and he shouldn't have fifty percent ownership
• 47:39
  Speaker 1: if he didn't contribute money. And Giamo's like, because you
• 47:43
  Speaker 1: took my paycheck and you put it towards food for
• 47:46
  Speaker 1: our child and clothes for our child, and that was
• 47:49
  Speaker 1: often more than you were putting in for the house.
• 47:51
  Speaker 1: And Alex says, well, you can't discount what he put
• 47:54
  Speaker 1: in and car. You can't give him back the money
• 47:57
  Speaker 1: he bought. And Kara says, but the money isn't building equity.
• 48:01
  Speaker 1: I ate it and I pooped it out.
• 48:05
  Speaker 2: I pooped it out.
• 48:06
  Speaker 1: Yeah, came out of my bumble.
• 48:08
  Speaker 2: Kind came on my Chota bumhole.
• 48:12
  Speaker 1: So Guierremo says, look, I came from nothing. I will
• 48:15
  Speaker 1: go back to nothing. It's just money. It's not worth
• 48:18
  Speaker 1: fighting over. She can have my fifty percent, and Matt
• 48:21
  Speaker 1: says it doesn't seem fair, and Guillermo says, well, there's
• 48:24
  Speaker 1: no equality in our relationship, and that's where Matt is
• 48:28
  Speaker 1: going to take over, where we see the saddest couple
• 48:31
  Speaker 1: of our season. Further, it's.
• 48:38
  Speaker 2: It's it is, like Jay keeps calling it marriage story,
• 48:41
  Speaker 2: but it's also riveting to watch because I think these
• 48:44
  Speaker 2: are two people that you know, I don't know y'all
• 48:47
  Speaker 2: probably did as well. But we came hard for care
• 48:49
  Speaker 2: last of the part one because she was horrible. She
• 48:51
  Speaker 2: was horrible on the tell all and horrible to Jat
• 48:54
  Speaker 2: and like you're you're not on the wrong right side
• 48:57
  Speaker 2: when you're defending Gino, like you, I agree, something's off
• 49:01
  Speaker 2: and I feel like she just wanted screen time. And
• 49:04
  Speaker 2: but with this, I think they're definitely gearing up that
• 49:08
  Speaker 2: Karen Guillermo I bet for sure are going to be
• 49:10
  Speaker 2: on last Resort.
• 49:12
  Speaker 1: Yeah.
• 49:14
  Speaker 2: But yeah, so there is this, but but it's let's
• 49:18
  Speaker 2: talk about it because there it is. I what I
• 49:21
  Speaker 2: find riveting about them. These are two people who got
• 49:24
  Speaker 2: together when they were young. She wasn't really that young,
• 49:27
  Speaker 2: but don't forget he wasn't he like twenty one or
• 49:29
  Speaker 2: twenty two.
• 49:29
  Speaker 1: She was a lot younger than her, very young, yes,
• 49:34
  Speaker 1: but in some ways he was more mature than she
• 49:36
  Speaker 1: was in some ways.
• 49:38
  Speaker 2: In some way, you know, if you go back to
• 49:40
  Speaker 2: their old seats, were they on naughty Day or were
• 49:42
  Speaker 2: they in love in paradise?
• 49:44
  Speaker 1: They were ninety day and he came here and he
• 49:48
  Speaker 1: had he I love that they're acting like. He never
• 49:51
  Speaker 1: had an issue with her drinking before. He totally did.
• 49:54
  Speaker 1: That was one of the issues about the their season
• 49:57
  Speaker 1: was the day before the wedding, he said, I think
• 50:00
  Speaker 1: you drink too much and you party too much, and
• 50:02
  Speaker 1: I think we should be settling down and you should
• 50:04
  Speaker 1: not be doing that. It's not appropriate not do that.
• 50:07
  Speaker 2: And also, if you remember, he showed like signs of
• 50:11
  Speaker 2: being super jealous and things like that too.
• 50:14
  Speaker 1: Yes, treating that's true. And on their tell All she
• 50:17
  Speaker 1: revealed that she had cheated on her first or her
• 50:21
  Speaker 1: long term boyfriend, and they brought out that guy who
• 50:24
  Speaker 1: was like a DJ. He might it wasn't the same
• 50:26
  Speaker 1: guy though he was.
• 50:28
  Speaker 2: Yeah, it definitely gave her to edit, though I feel
• 50:31
  Speaker 2: like as we talk about it, they really seemed to edit,
• 50:34
  Speaker 2: really seemed to put care in a bad light, and
• 50:36
  Speaker 2: I don't really know that's all deserved.
• 50:40
  Speaker 1: I agree, and people on Reddit hate her, and I
• 50:43
  Speaker 1: feel like I'm in the twilight Zone because I I
• 50:48
  Speaker 1: think she has some unlike Hobule qualities. For sure, her
• 50:52
  Speaker 1: first season she had a bad edit, but this season,
• 50:55
  Speaker 1: I felt like she had a fine edit, and they
• 50:57
  Speaker 1: still hate her, you.
• 50:59
  Speaker 2: Know, honestly, It's like I think a lot of it
• 51:01
  Speaker 2: so much is women really need to look in the
• 51:03
  Speaker 2: mirror about the way they talk about the women, because
• 51:06
  Speaker 2: that's it. That's exactly Lauren gets the same thing Ya
• 51:10
  Speaker 2: has gotten. That's probably why Libby and Lauren bonded. But y'all,
• 51:14
  Speaker 2: you will let these it's it's the difference of talking
• 51:17
  Speaker 2: about another show that we love. We love our friends
• 51:20
  Speaker 2: Kim and Kyle of Craig Carey, Like when we were
• 51:23
  Speaker 2: first starting out, they had us on and were so wonderful,
• 51:26
  Speaker 2: but we would see like Kim would get so much
• 51:29
  Speaker 2: hate for saying shit, and no one would ever say
• 51:31
  Speaker 2: anything about Kyle, and Kyle's like poodle. He says shit,
• 51:35
  Speaker 2: you know, And but I just and I say that
• 51:39
  Speaker 2: for listeners' I said this other day on our show,
• 51:42
  Speaker 2: just like think about how you talk to and the
• 51:45
  Speaker 2: expectations as a woman you put on other women, and
• 51:48
  Speaker 2: are those things fair because Kara, maybe Kara drinks too
• 51:53
  Speaker 2: much and she parties too much, Okay, but that doesn't
• 51:57
  Speaker 2: mean that Giermo doesn't want care to have a music
• 52:01
  Speaker 2: career full stop. And this is who she was from
• 52:05
  Speaker 2: the get go and told him that this was her dream.
• 52:08
  Speaker 2: He just doesn't understand what it's like to be with
• 52:11
  Speaker 2: an artist. He has very probably where he other probably
• 52:16
  Speaker 2: more traditional ideas about family and what the problem is.
• 52:20
  Speaker 2: These two people didn't really talk about their values, because
• 52:23
  Speaker 2: especially when you're twenty, you don't know what your fucking
• 52:25
  Speaker 2: values are. And now that's but this happens so often
• 52:29
  Speaker 2: to real people in real relationships, and that's why I
• 52:34
  Speaker 2: hope people instead of I think another reason people go
• 52:37
  Speaker 2: for her is because they somehow see themselves in her,
• 52:42
  Speaker 2: or that she triggers their relationship triggers them, and instead
• 52:46
  Speaker 2: of looking at themselves, they want to go online and
• 52:49
  Speaker 2: keyboard warrior this person, I agree, that's kind of my
• 52:53
  Speaker 2: soap bobble.
• 52:54
  Speaker 1: He quit his job without telling his wife.
• 52:59
  Speaker 2: Armforces without telling his wife.
• 53:01
  Speaker 1: He got healthcare through that job for their child and
• 53:05
  Speaker 1: quit without telling his wife. Yes, it's things that most
• 53:09
  Speaker 1: women would find unforgivable, but because.
• 53:13
  Speaker 2: He's I love her or he said he didn't know
• 53:17
  Speaker 2: if he full stop if someone said that to me,
• 53:22
  Speaker 2: Well someone has said that to me, and guess what,
• 53:25
  Speaker 2: I broke up with them, Like that's what you and so,
• 53:28
  Speaker 2: but I didn't have a kid. She did, so now
• 53:32
  Speaker 2: she's got to unpack this, and so it's just this
• 53:35
  Speaker 2: is why this felt so one sided. And like even
• 53:40
  Speaker 2: like with Giermo, that like the way he acted like, oh, well,
• 53:44
  Speaker 2: I just gave her the house. I don't need that.
• 53:46
  Speaker 2: I really feel like he's trying to get a hero
• 53:48
  Speaker 2: edit out of this.
• 53:50
  Speaker 1: Anyway we'll get up into So, yeah, she cheated on me,
• 53:53
  Speaker 1: but there's no proof.
• 53:54
  Speaker 2: That there's no proof that she did, so, you know,
• 53:57
  Speaker 2: and so you know, he's he feels like that the
• 54:03
  Speaker 2: you know, you know, she asked like, if you had
• 54:05
  Speaker 2: a child, would you spill be together? And I think
• 54:10
  Speaker 2: the answer to that, of course, is no. And he
• 54:12
  Speaker 2: tries to say no, that doesn't make a difference. I'm like, well, yeah,
• 54:15
  Speaker 2: that actually does make a difference. He says, the way
• 54:19
  Speaker 2: and I want to know I don't want to tell
• 54:20
  Speaker 2: you what Jackson, because he kind of brought up I
• 54:21
  Speaker 2: want to see if you got this vibe. As we
• 54:23
  Speaker 2: go along, but Garl starts talking about he starts dropping
• 54:26
  Speaker 2: these things all throughout this, like, well, it's the way
• 54:28
  Speaker 2: she speaks to me. She speaks down to me. And
• 54:32
  Speaker 2: then he even invokes Kara's mother, who's not even there,
• 54:36
  Speaker 2: who said, well, Kara's mother said that she speaks badly
• 54:39
  Speaker 2: to me, and Kara seems shocked by this, and she's like, well, generally,
• 54:44
  Speaker 2: sometimes my general my general tone can be sharp. I
• 54:47
  Speaker 2: know this about it. And Garyl says, well, we're talking
• 54:50
  Speaker 2: about words. The way you spoke to me is not right,
• 54:53
  Speaker 2: and Kara even she tries to press that and talks
• 54:59
  Speaker 2: about it later like what she actually said to him,
• 55:01
  Speaker 2: and he never actually says either he's making it up
• 55:05
  Speaker 2: or he doesn't want to say what she said to him.
• 55:10
  Speaker 2: So it's a little confusing on our end.
• 55:14
  Speaker 1: And then I don't know, give us an example of
• 55:16
  Speaker 1: the words that she used. The words that she used,
• 55:19
  Speaker 1: but we did see in their first season she talked
• 55:22
  Speaker 1: down to him all the time.
• 55:23
  Speaker 2: She did like she did, and.
• 55:24
  Speaker 1: She's super bossy and dismissive of him very she knows
• 55:30
  Speaker 1: that it mastulates.
• 55:31
  Speaker 2: Him all the time. And I don't even know if
• 55:34
  Speaker 2: he could say those words because he I don't know
• 55:36
  Speaker 2: if he has the awareness to know that's what's happening
• 55:38
  Speaker 2: and he needs to feel like a man and the
• 55:41
  Speaker 2: machismo that plays in and all that kind of stuff.
• 55:43
  Speaker 2: You know, it's a good point, but then I don't
• 55:48
  Speaker 2: I don't know you felt about this, Jake, and I
• 55:50
  Speaker 2: kind of got offended when Sean was like, well, does
• 55:53
  Speaker 2: your music career bring in money? And we're like, that's
• 55:56
  Speaker 2: I don't know what. We're artists, so that was kind
• 55:58
  Speaker 2: of like, yeah, come on, you know that doesn't have
• 56:01
  Speaker 2: and Karen kind of said it takes a long time
• 56:03
  Speaker 2: before you build that, like, yeah, she's building a career,
• 56:07
  Speaker 2: but she basically says, you know, she kind of gets emotional, says,
• 56:11
  Speaker 2: I don't know how I was married to someone who
• 56:12
  Speaker 2: doesn't support me. And that's when Germo says, well, it's
• 56:15
  Speaker 2: not that I don't support her, is that she goes
• 56:17
  Speaker 2: out drinking and partying until four am. And it's interesting
• 56:23
  Speaker 2: because the women are like so yrs like I go
• 56:26
  Speaker 2: to New York to be with my friends, and even
• 56:29
  Speaker 2: Libby is like, yeah, it. He doesn't want to say it,
• 56:31
  Speaker 2: but it's almost like he wants to say a mother
• 56:34
  Speaker 2: with children should be home at midnight every night.
• 56:37
  Speaker 4: That's what I expect from her.
• 56:38
  Speaker 2: There's nothing wrong with thinking that. Some people believe that that.
• 56:43
  Speaker 2: That was never Kara. I'm not I'm not saying she
• 56:46
  Speaker 2: should go out. Maybe she is partying too much and
• 56:48
  Speaker 2: we're going to talk about the other guy later.
• 56:50
  Speaker 1: But so yeah, and Andre says she's not wife material.
• 56:55
  Speaker 2: Yeah, like oh yeah. Joey's like, I don't. She's the
• 57:00
  Speaker 2: one she keeps going out. This is pro which I'm like, jobey,
• 57:05
  Speaker 2: but you want to go out and see strippers? But
• 57:07
  Speaker 2: that was that's husband material. You're not husband material because
• 57:12
  Speaker 2: you did that. You still do that to Yara, and
• 57:15
  Speaker 2: now she just accepts it because she knows you're not
• 57:17
  Speaker 2: gonna fucking change. So the hypocrisy of these men movies
• 57:22
  Speaker 2: so angry. But so because Julia too is like, yeah,
• 57:27
  Speaker 2: but she goes home with you, it's fine. Now. Giaron
• 57:31
  Speaker 2: says when she drinks, she's a different person and she
• 57:33
  Speaker 2: knows it, and I would get scared. She would flirt
• 57:37
  Speaker 2: with and talk to other guys, and Sean even asked carry,
• 57:41
  Speaker 2: He's like, do you think you become a new person,
• 57:43
  Speaker 2: a different person when you drink? And Kara said, well,
• 57:46
  Speaker 2: I think I'm a lot more fun when I drink.
• 57:49
  Speaker 2: I mean, I do get the vibe that Kara on
• 57:51
  Speaker 2: some level realizes she has maybe a drinking problem. And
• 57:57
  Speaker 2: you know, Gamra said, we agreed though, that she had
• 57:59
  Speaker 2: a problem, and she said she stop drinking, and Kara said, well,
• 58:02
  Speaker 2: I did, but he didn't do anything. He took no
• 58:06
  Speaker 2: actionable steps. Do you believe that?
• 58:10
  Speaker 1: She said he was still being withdrawn and distant and
• 58:14
  Speaker 1: in two weeks and it didn't change fast enough for her.
• 58:17
  Speaker 1: So she's like, then I'm going to just drink because
• 58:20
  Speaker 1: he still had those feelings from before. They don't just
• 58:24
  Speaker 1: go away. I think she didn't give it long enough.
• 58:28
  Speaker 1: But I can see him being distant for sure.
• 58:31
  Speaker 2: He's very stubborn. They're both very stubborn.
• 58:33
  Speaker 1: They're both are and I can see him not supporting
• 58:36
  Speaker 1: her career. I can also see her flirting as being
• 58:39
  Speaker 1: part of her career, like making connections at a club too.
• 58:43
  Speaker 1: But I can see it both ways. They're both not perfect.
• 58:47
  Speaker 1: It is.
• 58:48
  Speaker 2: That's what's great about Yes, that is what's They're both
• 58:51
  Speaker 2: not perfect in this and again when people want to
• 58:54
  Speaker 2: go on Reddit and be warriors, like try to think
• 58:56
  Speaker 2: about that like anyway, but whatever.
• 59:00
  Speaker 1: And they still love. They love each other too where
• 59:05
  Speaker 1: there's no crazy age difference. I mean there is an
• 59:07
  Speaker 1: age difference that was problematic, but it wasn't as like
• 59:11
  Speaker 1: they're not like ATEBBI you know, and so and they
• 59:16
  Speaker 1: usually love. It's like real love, you know.
• 59:20
  Speaker 2: Yeah, yeah, it was real love. They and they have
• 59:23
  Speaker 2: a beautiful child and they both seem like they want
• 59:25
  Speaker 2: to be committed parents, but I don't know. So Garmo
• 59:33
  Speaker 2: says she doesn't like it when people tell her what
• 59:35
  Speaker 2: to do, which is true. I don't like that he
• 59:38
  Speaker 2: keeps throwing in these things that her mom said when
• 59:40
  Speaker 2: her mom isn't there to talk because he's like her
• 59:42
  Speaker 2: mom said, she's the type of person to do that,
• 59:44
  Speaker 2: and she told me to be careful. I'm like, okay.
• 59:48
  Speaker 2: So they show a flashback and let's talk about the
• 59:54
  Speaker 2: DJ as you talked about always problematic and Sean's like, well, Kara,
• 1:00:00
  Speaker 2: I get there. They're starting to talk about. Kara says,
• 1:00:03
  Speaker 2: I give depression. There's something that you're holding back, and
• 1:00:07
  Speaker 2: Kara said, well, you know, if I went up to
• 1:00:09
  Speaker 2: him and asked him to hook up, he would do
• 1:00:11
  Speaker 2: it in an instant. And I went, okay, like.
• 1:00:16
  Speaker 1: That, I don't know, why, what do you think about that?
• 1:00:19
  Speaker 1: I didn't like it because it's it sounded like bragging
• 1:00:22
  Speaker 1: or something. But also I don't like when people blame
• 1:00:25
  Speaker 1: a woman for men wanting to sleep with her, because
• 1:00:28
  Speaker 1: she also has to be a willing participant. So if
• 1:00:31
  Speaker 1: there's no trust, you have to trust your woman. Because
• 1:00:34
  Speaker 1: I think most men on the street would fuck Kara.
• 1:00:36
  Speaker 1: Anybody on the subway would fuck Kara. But that's not
• 1:00:40
  Speaker 1: her fault. And if she doesn't want to fuck them,
• 1:00:43
  Speaker 1: that's what really matters, because then she's not going to
• 1:00:45
  Speaker 1: do it, and so that's Guiermon needs to trust her
• 1:00:49
  Speaker 1: that she wouldn't do it. And I think she thinks
• 1:00:51
  Speaker 1: this guy is gross because I don't think she's attracted
• 1:00:55
  Speaker 1: to him this detail.
• 1:00:56
  Speaker 2: No, I don't think she is, but maybe we're wrong. Yeah,
• 1:01:00
  Speaker 2: that's a good point. That's a good point that we
• 1:01:01
  Speaker 2: didn't because obviously I would have reservations. But yeah, I don't.
• 1:01:09
  Speaker 1: Think get why he's uncomfortable.
• 1:01:11
  Speaker 2: I get why he's uncomfortable, but then he says, that's
• 1:01:13
  Speaker 2: it's thinking not about him, Go ahead.
• 1:01:15
  Speaker 1: It's not about him. I think that any she couldn't
• 1:01:18
  Speaker 1: hang out with anybody because then and I think any man,
• 1:01:22
  Speaker 1: any man, she's really good looking, and I think, I mean,
• 1:01:26
  Speaker 1: I think even if she had a lesbian fred or
• 1:01:28
  Speaker 1: a by friend, that they would want to sleep with her,
• 1:01:31
  Speaker 1: and he might be jealous, but that doesn't mean she
• 1:01:33
  Speaker 1: wants to sleep with them, and so the onus is
• 1:01:35
  Speaker 1: always like on the woman for that, even though she's
• 1:01:37
  Speaker 1: not doing anything in it. So I get her point
• 1:01:40
  Speaker 1: in that I feel.
• 1:01:42
  Speaker 2: Like on a deep need and there's nothing wrong with this.
• 1:01:46
  Speaker 2: I think, I don't know, doesn't want to use the
• 1:01:48
  Speaker 2: word baby, but I think Yarima wants to be taking
• 1:01:52
  Speaker 2: care of more emotionally and physically and didn't realize he
• 1:01:58
  Speaker 2: married the wrong girl. That is is not Kara.
• 1:02:01
  Speaker 1: She's not sugarcoat things, you know, like.
• 1:02:05
  Speaker 2: Lauren is independent, but she has that she takes care
• 1:02:08
  Speaker 2: of out. She likes part of her likes that Amber
• 1:02:13
  Speaker 2: and Daniel Daniel Daniel ranch dressing, who just had that. God,
• 1:02:17
  Speaker 2: their baby's so fucking cute. He's so fat and looks
• 1:02:20
  Speaker 2: just like Daniel. I want to buy his looks. But
• 1:02:22
  Speaker 2: like or like Emily, Emily and Kobe those they all
• 1:02:25
  Speaker 2: kind of like to do those things to take care
• 1:02:27
  Speaker 2: of their household. Garama wants that, and that is Kara
• 1:02:33
  Speaker 2: is so in the farther opposite uh direction of that.
• 1:02:37
  Speaker 2: She's never like best She's she's a hustler.
• 1:02:43
  Speaker 1: Yeah, she's a she's more money focused, career focused. She
• 1:02:46
  Speaker 1: has a bunch of businesses. She was making balloon art.
• 1:02:51
  Speaker 2: She's doing realist. Yeah. Yeah, she's terrified poodle phobia. I
• 1:02:56
  Speaker 2: love that. That was fun when he was terrorized. But well,
• 1:03:00
  Speaker 2: oh well, so, yeah, we're talking about this a lot
• 1:03:04
  Speaker 2: because I think and the reason why a lot of
• 1:03:05
  Speaker 2: people were talking about them a lot because I do
• 1:03:06
  Speaker 2: think this is the most rimoning couple that we have
• 1:03:09
  Speaker 2: on Hey this season. And so but yeah, he says,
• 1:03:13
  Speaker 2: it's not really about him. My problem is I talked
• 1:03:15
  Speaker 2: to her and she does nothing about it. So it's
• 1:03:18
  Speaker 2: interesting they both are saying that I talked to the
• 1:03:20
  Speaker 2: other person and they do nothing about it. So they're
• 1:03:23
  Speaker 2: not able to meet each other's needs at all. And
• 1:03:26
  Speaker 2: and she says, I feel like he was fine with
• 1:03:29
  Speaker 2: all of this, and then I came to the US
• 1:03:31
  Speaker 2: and I got with my people and my friends, and
• 1:03:34
  Speaker 2: now it's a problem for him. I believe that too,
• 1:03:37
  Speaker 2: and he probably and he says, She's like, do you
• 1:03:40
  Speaker 2: trust him? And he goes, sure, I believe her, which
• 1:03:44
  Speaker 2: didn't sound the most convincing, and he says, but he's like,
• 1:03:47
  Speaker 2: you know when I when we have problems, my way
• 1:03:49
  Speaker 2: is to let it go. I'm like, but you're not now,
• 1:03:52
  Speaker 2: and he says this, you know, Kara was the love
• 1:03:56
  Speaker 2: of my life. And you see Karam like you said,
• 1:04:00
  Speaker 2: because they love each other and Karris and you know,
• 1:04:04
  Speaker 2: I wish it had gone different because he was my
• 1:04:06
  Speaker 2: ride or die and we said it start to come together.
• 1:04:10
  Speaker 2: And then Sean Robinson says, in her way, but let's
• 1:04:12
  Speaker 2: talk about him maybe cheating on you. Let's break it,
• 1:04:17
  Speaker 2: and so they brings up this incident. He comes home
• 1:04:20
  Speaker 2: basically the mom said her mom is like, honestly, it's
• 1:04:24
  Speaker 2: a failure of a tell all that they didn't bring
• 1:04:25
  Speaker 2: the mom on via skype at least seriously.
• 1:04:28
  Speaker 1: I don't know if they knew that she was going
• 1:04:30
  Speaker 1: to be this important.
• 1:04:32
  Speaker 2: No, because they brought her in a lot and they're
• 1:04:34
  Speaker 2: talking about we saw a flashback we still never heard about.
• 1:04:38
  Speaker 2: She telling Karras she to be careful because he came home.
• 1:04:41
  Speaker 2: He was wearing his work clothes, but he came on
• 1:04:43
  Speaker 2: an hour late. He showered, he said he was out.
• 1:04:45
  Speaker 2: It didn't make sense because Gary was like, I was
• 1:04:47
  Speaker 2: out fishing. She's like, but you came from work, so
• 1:04:50
  Speaker 2: why were you fishing. You don't fish in your work clothes.
• 1:04:53
  Speaker 2: You wear wets. It doesn't add It's suspicious. I don't
• 1:04:58
  Speaker 2: think the thing was suspicion of him coming home and
• 1:05:00
  Speaker 2: directly showering, but his excuse or response or defensive yes
• 1:05:05
  Speaker 2: is suspicious. Yes me. And honestly, even though they love
• 1:05:11
  Speaker 2: each other, I could see either one of them, probably
• 1:05:13
  Speaker 2: a little bit more gearmo of potentially having an affair
• 1:05:16
  Speaker 2: because in a way, they both are resenting one another
• 1:05:20
  Speaker 2: right now, and when you resent someone in your couple,
• 1:05:22
  Speaker 2: you also it's really hard not to actively hurt them
• 1:05:25
  Speaker 2: because you're hurt, so you want them to hurt, and
• 1:05:27
  Speaker 2: then it creates this vicious war of the roses cycle.
• 1:05:30
  Speaker 2: And then if you're too late to come to therapy
• 1:05:32
  Speaker 2: because you both hate each other and resent each other
• 1:05:34
  Speaker 2: so much, and it's like last resort does need to
• 1:05:37
  Speaker 2: happen for them. And I think it truly is because
• 1:05:40
  Speaker 2: most couples, in my experience of working with when I
• 1:05:43
  Speaker 2: used to work with them, most couples come to therapy
• 1:05:45
  Speaker 2: too late, too late, yeah, and they're already done so
• 1:05:49
  Speaker 2: and they tried and then they had to fall out.
• 1:05:51
  Speaker 2: So I don't know. So anyway, they went once.
• 1:05:56
  Speaker 1: They went to one session.
• 1:05:57
  Speaker 2: Once and Sean says, you said in therapy you did
• 1:06:00
  Speaker 2: and love Kara, and he brings up this mother of
• 1:06:02
  Speaker 2: your chi your He's like, the mother of your child
• 1:06:04
  Speaker 2: is your woman, which I understand culturally where he's coming from.
• 1:06:10
  Speaker 2: But for Kara, they really both just want to know
• 1:06:13
  Speaker 2: do you love me and want to prioritize me? And
• 1:06:16
  Speaker 2: they can't say it. He's like, I don't know, and
• 1:06:19
  Speaker 2: you see Kara's kind of face fall and she's like,
• 1:06:23
  Speaker 2: I'm lost, and he says I'm lost too, and Jasmine says,
• 1:06:27
  Speaker 2: you know, this is a cultural thing for him and
• 1:06:29
  Speaker 2: they really need a place where they where he can
• 1:06:31
  Speaker 2: dig into his feelings. More cut to the bust, the island,
• 1:06:36
  Speaker 2: you had a therapy island, okay, And my next notes,
• 1:06:39
  Speaker 2: I have finding Mister Christmas Corner, because that's where we
• 1:06:43
  Speaker 2: did our finding Mister Christmas Corner on our Happily ever After,
• 1:06:45
  Speaker 2: which is a great show on Hallmark. You can listen
• 1:06:48
  Speaker 2: to on our Hey recaps. But anyway, it's so holiday hunks.
• 1:06:53
  Speaker 2: Melissa Peterman and Jonathan Bennett are so funny. So okay,
• 1:06:58
  Speaker 2: so now it's time to talk to Julia. Julia comes
• 1:07:00
  Speaker 2: over to Sean and it's like, I'm scared. I don't know.
• 1:07:05
  Speaker 2: Sean Robertson is like the comforter. This tell all, it's
• 1:07:07
  Speaker 2: a different Seawn a little bit, and I don't like it.
• 1:07:10
  Speaker 1: People always are like Sean's not that great. I love Sean,
• 1:07:13
  Speaker 1: and this season I feel like there's nothing Sean can't do.
• 1:07:17
  Speaker 1: She's the Jasmine whisperer. So if Jasmine is starming off,
• 1:07:21
  Speaker 1: she's the one. She'll be like, Jasmine, do it for me,
• 1:07:24
  Speaker 1: please come back, do it for me. And she'll be like,
• 1:07:26
  Speaker 1: I do it for you, Sean. I love you, Sean.
• 1:07:28
  Speaker 1: And this just sits down and now she's like Jasmine's
• 1:07:31
  Speaker 1: or Julia's like therapist. She comforts the back.
• 1:07:35
  Speaker 2: Yes, I still don't know if Sean Robinson watches the shows.
• 1:07:39
  Speaker 1: I still don't know.
• 1:07:40
  Speaker 2: I still don't know.
• 1:07:41
  Speaker 1: But these people she at least has met at tell
• 1:07:44
  Speaker 1: All's before, so she knows.
• 1:07:46
  Speaker 2: Do need to give what she's given. She's starting to
• 1:07:48
  Speaker 2: give Auntie sean Es yes, and that I'm okay with that.
• 1:07:53
  Speaker 2: I want more of Auntie sean Yes. So she calms
• 1:07:58
  Speaker 2: Julia and so let's talk about Brandon and Julia. Julie
• 1:08:00
  Speaker 2: is immediately crying, crying, and she says, it's been tough.
• 1:08:05
  Speaker 2: Did we know they had miscarriages before? I didn't think
• 1:08:07
  Speaker 2: we did.
• 1:08:08
  Speaker 1: I don't think we knew that.
• 1:08:10
  Speaker 2: So she said, you know, she talks about having miscarriages,
• 1:08:14
  Speaker 2: but now she's six months pregnant and they were just
• 1:08:16
  Speaker 2: like yay, and she She's like, but I'm having panic
• 1:08:20
  Speaker 2: attacks and I'm so paranoid and I'm I'm pushing on
• 1:08:23
  Speaker 2: the baby every day to make sure they're kicking that
• 1:08:25
  Speaker 2: my baby. This is this is a normal thing in
• 1:08:28
  Speaker 2: pregnancy of human being. That my mother was this way
• 1:08:31
  Speaker 2: with my older brother because she had had miscarriages. But
• 1:08:35
  Speaker 2: we talked about this a lot on our pod. So
• 1:08:37
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to go in into it here, but
• 1:08:39
  Speaker 2: I do want to say, like if I've said this
• 1:08:42
  Speaker 2: before I actually feel I feel for both of them,
• 1:08:47
  Speaker 2: of Brandon and Julia, and I do think they actually
• 1:08:49
  Speaker 2: love each other. But if Julia doesn't get help for
• 1:08:53
  Speaker 2: her general anxiety disorder, which she needs to be dedicated
• 1:08:58
  Speaker 2: for it, it's so bad, she needs to be in
• 1:09:00
  Speaker 2: therapy for it. It's so bad because she what she's doing.
• 1:09:04
  Speaker 2: And I remember seeing this a lot with my friends
• 1:09:06
  Speaker 2: but also clients. What the anxiety tells you that if
• 1:09:10
  Speaker 2: you get here, if you get this goal post, if
• 1:09:13
  Speaker 2: this thing happens, then the anxiety will go away.
• 1:09:17
  Speaker 1: Guess what, it never goes away. It's in your brain.
• 1:09:21
  Speaker 2: It's in your brain, even if it's like about things
• 1:09:24
  Speaker 2: like dead where you're like, I'm one hundred thousand dollars
• 1:09:27
  Speaker 2: in debt and once I get that paid off, that
• 1:09:29
  Speaker 2: I'm not going to have anxiety anymore. No, you are
• 1:09:31
  Speaker 2: going to feel better and you are gonna That might
• 1:09:34
  Speaker 2: not be, but if you don't have the ability to
• 1:09:38
  Speaker 2: see your anxiety, to have a relationship with your anxiety
• 1:09:42
  Speaker 2: and meet it head on, You're never going to be
• 1:09:45
  Speaker 2: happy and I'll find.
• 1:09:47
  Speaker 1: Something else to be anxious about. Your Your anxiety is
• 1:09:51
  Speaker 1: a lying hoe and it will be a lying ho.
• 1:09:56
  Speaker 1: I've had it since I was a kid debilitating, and
• 1:09:58
  Speaker 1: I think it on medication to I was like twenty
• 1:10:01
  Speaker 1: five and it was life changing, and I was like,
• 1:10:03
  Speaker 1: I thought, I thought everyone felt this way all the time,
• 1:10:06
  Speaker 1: but they don't. And I was like, oh my god,
• 1:10:09
  Speaker 1: I cannot feel this way all the time, every day
• 1:10:11
  Speaker 1: thinking I'm going to die. Sure, okay, great.
• 1:10:15
  Speaker 2: Yes, so you know because especially well poor girl, because
• 1:10:19
  Speaker 2: especially what's happened in our childhood, especially our brains, then
• 1:10:22
  Speaker 2: there's so much neuroplasticity that it wires our brain, then
• 1:10:25
  Speaker 2: it affects our body chemistry. So that's sometimes why I'm
• 1:10:28
  Speaker 2: not telling everybody to get on drugs. Did you do
• 1:10:30
  Speaker 2: what you want to do? But I'm just saying that
• 1:10:33
  Speaker 2: it sometimes we think it's again, you know, it's something
• 1:10:36
  Speaker 2: that really totally going off on a tangent. Sorry long show,
• 1:10:41
  Speaker 2: but whenever my father was when he got sick and
• 1:10:44
  Speaker 2: I moved to Oklahoma and then it was like eighteen
• 1:10:46
  Speaker 2: months and then he eventually died. U fuck answer. But yes,
• 1:10:51
  Speaker 2: when yeah, you know, fuck answer. But when I we
• 1:10:55
  Speaker 2: were doing Jake and I had to sponsor like this
• 1:10:58
  Speaker 2: medical app that we're sponsoring show at the time. So
• 1:11:00
  Speaker 2: we had like free medical care like service concierge service
• 1:11:04
  Speaker 2: flocky year, and so we would get testing done like
• 1:11:08
  Speaker 2: every three months. And it started literally about a month
• 1:11:12
  Speaker 2: before I found out my dad was sick. And what
• 1:11:16
  Speaker 2: I noticed all throughout that was my cortisol levels and
• 1:11:19
  Speaker 2: how my court which is your cortisol. That's y'all, that's
• 1:11:22
  Speaker 2: your stress drug. To give you an example, that's why
• 1:11:25
  Speaker 2: you get STIs in your eye a lot because who
• 1:11:27
  Speaker 2: knew medical pink shade, But cortisol, it thickens, it thickens
• 1:11:32
  Speaker 2: liquids in your body. There's definitely a more medical medical
• 1:11:35
  Speaker 2: bunky can come from me. So it sings like you
• 1:11:37
  Speaker 2: get a stye in your eye because the oil in
• 1:11:39
  Speaker 2: your eye is thicker and doesn't drain as well, and
• 1:11:42
  Speaker 2: it clogs the poor and you get a stye. It's
• 1:11:44
  Speaker 2: why people it leads to why people have heart attacks
• 1:11:47
  Speaker 2: more because your blood is moving thicker in your body
• 1:11:51
  Speaker 2: and not as able. So that is very very shitty
• 1:11:56
  Speaker 2: shitty Oklahoma boy science there. But what I noticed is
• 1:12:00
  Speaker 2: is that I remember when things were really bad with
• 1:12:03
  Speaker 2: my dad, and at the time, like things were bad
• 1:12:06
  Speaker 2: with my dad and this there was just these horrible
• 1:12:09
  Speaker 2: people at the time that were in our Facebook group
• 1:12:11
  Speaker 2: trying to blow up our Facebook. It was just a
• 1:12:13
  Speaker 2: really stressful time. They're gone, yeah, gone vi trolls and
• 1:12:19
  Speaker 2: but they I noticed all throughout the that my cortisol
• 1:12:24
  Speaker 2: levels went up and up and up and up, and
• 1:12:27
  Speaker 2: I thought, oh, because I kept thinking I have a
• 1:12:29
  Speaker 2: fucking degree in therapy, but I kept thinking I can
• 1:12:32
  Speaker 2: just calm myself. And it really it made me hit
• 1:12:35
  Speaker 2: me that no, our body is reacting and have chemical reactions.
• 1:12:39
  Speaker 2: And when my cortisol, I remember, at one time, is
• 1:12:43
  Speaker 2: triple the level it's supposed to be. I don't have
• 1:12:46
  Speaker 2: the physical capacity to calm myself down. I need help.
• 1:12:51
  Speaker 2: And that's the point that Julia is gonna have to
• 1:12:54
  Speaker 2: get sadly because she's gonna have this baby and the
• 1:12:57
  Speaker 2: anxiety probably is going to get worse. Yeah, so it's
• 1:13:01
  Speaker 2: just sorry, but yeah, it's.
• 1:13:06
  Speaker 1: Just and I think Betty and Ron do not help
• 1:13:08
  Speaker 1: the situation.
• 1:13:09
  Speaker 2: Betty, Betty and Julie are the same full stop. They're
• 1:13:12
  Speaker 2: the same anxious person and they can't not control things.
• 1:13:17
  Speaker 2: They both should fucking go to anxiety therapy together. I
• 1:13:20
  Speaker 2: would love that. Anyway, Good little we're doing great. Yeah,
• 1:13:25
  Speaker 2: it'd be great. So anyway, So basically, the kind of
• 1:13:29
  Speaker 2: thing is that the group finally they find out they
• 1:13:32
  Speaker 2: haven't told anybody, and the group says, you gotta tell
• 1:13:35
  Speaker 2: your parents, and even Lauren, Yara and Libby are like, honey, yes,
• 1:13:40
  Speaker 2: your mother in law is gonna come over, but you're
• 1:13:42
  Speaker 2: gonna need the help. Take it, take it, take it.
• 1:13:46
  Speaker 2: You don't she doesn't. They're kind of saying, you don't
• 1:13:48
  Speaker 2: realize how look you are for that, and she's trying
• 1:13:50
  Speaker 2: to hear that. So she decides that they're gonna call
• 1:13:55
  Speaker 2: her parents and tell her parents. So they FaceTime her parents,
• 1:13:58
  Speaker 2: wake up her parents and Rasha and.
• 1:14:01
  Speaker 1: I'm still shipping her parents. Why did they get divorced?
• 1:14:04
  Speaker 1: They get along great. We were waiting for a huge
• 1:14:07
  Speaker 1: Russian just screaming I wanted to fucking check off too,
• 1:14:14
  Speaker 1: and we get it, and they loved it. They were
• 1:14:16
  Speaker 1: cooking for each other and joking around. I was like, oh,
• 1:14:19
  Speaker 1: you guys are adorbsorbs.
• 1:14:22
  Speaker 2: Even though Julia already had it made up in her
• 1:14:24
  Speaker 2: head that they were just going to move all the
• 1:14:25
  Speaker 2: way to America for her again, she plays the series.
• 1:14:29
  Speaker 2: She creates the scenarios to ease anxiety in her mind,
• 1:14:32
  Speaker 2: but then doesn't tell anybody. She doesn't tell Brandon a lot.
• 1:14:34
  Speaker 2: Do I think betting Ron can be horrible? Yes? But
• 1:14:38
  Speaker 2: do I think Julia makes it worse and over dramaticize
• 1:14:41
  Speaker 2: it than it is. Yes? And I wonder, because they're
• 1:14:44
  Speaker 2: still doing tiktoks together. I wonder how much of this
• 1:14:47
  Speaker 2: is fraudacity?
• 1:14:48
  Speaker 1: Yeah. Mary Payne thinks a lot of it.
• 1:14:50
  Speaker 2: Is because you just don't FaceTime your parents in Russia
• 1:14:54
  Speaker 2: and they're available.
• 1:14:56
  Speaker 1: Yeah, And I'll why does Sean know that it was
• 1:14:58
  Speaker 1: eleven thirty? Se like, well, producer told tell her and
• 1:15:02
  Speaker 1: then cut that out, because in my ear, I was like,
• 1:15:05
  Speaker 1: very impressed that Sean, I'm.
• 1:15:06
  Speaker 2: Nerdy producing it's eleven Thirnie and rush on right now.
• 1:15:12
  Speaker 2: So they call the parents. Of course, her mom doesn't
• 1:15:15
  Speaker 2: believe her. She's like, show me, show me, and she
• 1:15:17
  Speaker 2: and the dad said it looks like you, Joseida heavy Meal.
• 1:15:21
  Speaker 2: But she finally convinces them and they get off the phone,
• 1:15:27
  Speaker 2: and it was I got to say, even I was
• 1:15:29
  Speaker 2: excited watching it. He was like, whether it was fraudacity
• 1:15:33
  Speaker 2: or not, it was good TV. Everyone's into it and
• 1:15:36
  Speaker 2: then they're like, well, it's time to tell Ron and Betty.
• 1:15:40
  Speaker 2: And then they show up and Betty's got that glass
• 1:15:42
  Speaker 2: of chardonnay y'all.
• 1:15:44
  Speaker 1: On its own. It's I don't know what it is,
• 1:15:48
  Speaker 1: but it's she. I'm surprised she doesn't have an ivy drip.
• 1:15:51
  Speaker 2: I know, you know, I loved it when they called
• 1:15:54
  Speaker 2: drunk on a cruise. That was the best.
• 1:15:57
  Speaker 1: When they were just they were all sunburned, they were yes,
• 1:16:00
  Speaker 1: read I.
• 1:16:02
  Speaker 2: Bet Betty and Ron are a fun bunch.
• 1:16:05
  Speaker 1: They're swingers.
• 1:16:08
  Speaker 2: I bet they're so much fun. Yeah.
• 1:16:10
  Speaker 1: If they're not my parents, I'm fine with it.
• 1:16:13
  Speaker 2: But with it. Yeah, So Julia says, you know, they
• 1:16:19
  Speaker 2: could start to talk to Julius says, you know, we
• 1:16:20
  Speaker 2: do have a disconnection, and I actually do want to
• 1:16:22
  Speaker 2: have a relation with you, ship with you. I want boundaries,
• 1:16:25
  Speaker 2: but I want to connect to you. Because they haven't talked.
• 1:16:27
  Speaker 2: But what made me think it was fake is that
• 1:16:29
  Speaker 2: when Betty said, well, heaven forbid, you have grandkids, and
• 1:16:32
  Speaker 2: then Ron is like, oh, yeah, we're supposed to say
• 1:16:35
  Speaker 2: we don't know about grants. So he literally says the line,
• 1:16:37
  Speaker 2: you know, but you don't have kids now, right, and
• 1:16:41
  Speaker 2: I went, y'all, come on that you are gilding this lily.
• 1:16:46
  Speaker 2: We get it, and so Julius as well. We are lying.
• 1:16:52
  Speaker 1: Blackout, I screamed, because this is the only thing I
• 1:16:56
  Speaker 1: want to see. Is I want to see. I want
• 1:17:00
  Speaker 1: to judge with my theater school eyes are they acting
• 1:17:04
  Speaker 1: or not? And I want to know if it's fake
• 1:17:06
  Speaker 1: or not. But that's when they.
• 1:17:08
  Speaker 2: Cut it off.
• 1:17:10
  Speaker 1: I want to know if they are tears are there,
• 1:17:13
  Speaker 1: because none of them they're not Betty.
• 1:17:16
  Speaker 2: I think Betty can cry on command.
• 1:17:18
  Speaker 1: She is manipulative, and so that might be in her
• 1:17:22
  Speaker 1: arsenal where she can cry on cue. So I don't know.
• 1:17:26
  Speaker 1: I feel like I can judge because I always try
• 1:17:29
  Speaker 1: to judge on dateline if a person murdered their spouse,
• 1:17:32
  Speaker 1: if those are real tears or not? And so I'm
• 1:17:35
  Speaker 1: sorry of an expert.
• 1:17:37
  Speaker 2: Could you tell that the mother did it? And that
• 1:17:39
  Speaker 2: thing everybody talked about like a couple of months ago
• 1:17:40
  Speaker 2: that documented where the mother was catfish? Oh yeah, you
• 1:17:44
  Speaker 2: could tell early on it was a mom.
• 1:17:46
  Speaker 1: It's kind of unfair because I knew the story because
• 1:17:49
  Speaker 1: I'd read that it wouldn't happen. Ah, ok, so that
• 1:17:52
  Speaker 1: I guess is not a clear judge of my talents.
• 1:17:55
  Speaker 2: Do you think you could have told? Well, it's hard
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 2: to tell.
• 1:17:57
  Speaker 1: It's hard to there was something really weird about that.
• 1:18:00
  Speaker 1: I think she's she's just a strange looking person. Yeah,
• 1:18:07
  Speaker 1: she gets some misshoes. Anyway, next week, it looks like
• 1:18:11
  Speaker 1: it's mostly going.
• 1:18:12
  Speaker 2: To be ed down next week. I forget, I'll do that.
• 1:18:15
  Speaker 1: Sorry, Oh no, it's it's just everyone thinks that Georgie
• 1:18:19
  Speaker 1: is stepping out on Darcy in the Miami club scene.
• 1:18:23
  Speaker 2: We're gonna have Laura show up.
• 1:18:25
  Speaker 1: Oh yeah. And then he's funny, I tell, because he
• 1:18:34
  Speaker 1: puts his therapy pants on and he tries to analyze
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 1: the other.
• 1:18:37
  Speaker 2: Even though you think he grew so much a last resort,
• 1:18:40
  Speaker 2: he's done a damn fucking nothing since nothing.
• 1:18:43
  Speaker 1: He has not changed. His teeth are just getting bigger
• 1:18:47
  Speaker 1: and bigger, though, And it seems like everyone tells Matt
• 1:18:52
  Speaker 1: that he needs to not wait around for Jasmine to
• 1:18:55
  Speaker 1: marry him, even though she's still married to Gino, so
• 1:18:59
  Speaker 1: still has children. Panama, she doesn't see so give it
• 1:19:03
  Speaker 1: a little bit of time, maybe, but maybe who knows.
• 1:19:06
  Speaker 1: It's enjoyable. I'm really, really enjoying this tell all much
• 1:19:11
  Speaker 1: more than I usually do.
• 1:19:12
  Speaker 2: This was one of the best haytell alls we've ever had.
• 1:19:14
  Speaker 1: I think, Yeah, yeah, I agree, and I love talking
• 1:19:18
  Speaker 1: to you. Mary Pain. Stay in Vegas. No, I'm just kidding.
• 1:19:23
  Speaker 1: Come back from Vegas.
• 1:19:24
  Speaker 2: May Payne, tak me to Vegas. Tak me to Vegas,
• 1:19:29
  Speaker 2: Mary Pain. It is that. Don't remember when Natalie, when
• 1:19:35
  Speaker 2: Josh Josh take me to Vegas? Won't you take me
• 1:19:40
  Speaker 2: to Vegas? Cam Ca?
• 1:19:42
  Speaker 1: I need cam just while I have you. That just
• 1:19:47
  Speaker 1: made me think, did you see the thriller video by
• 1:19:51
  Speaker 1: the Bad Boys of ninety days? Do you keep up
• 1:19:53
  Speaker 1: with them?
• 1:19:55
  Speaker 2: I don't know if I saw a thriller. I did
• 1:19:57
  Speaker 2: see one, and I was like, that's actually fun The
• 1:20:00
  Speaker 2: thing about Rob he's a douche, but he's funny. He Yeah,
• 1:20:06
  Speaker 2: I did not see thriller, honestly. Sorry, I don't mean
• 1:20:08
  Speaker 2: to bring it down. I can't listen to Michael Jackson
• 1:20:11
  Speaker 2: anymore after that. Doctor.
• 1:20:12
  Speaker 1: Oh No, I agree, So no, I agree.
• 1:20:14
  Speaker 2: I came with Michael Jackson. I'm out. I can't separate
• 1:20:17
  Speaker 2: the artists from that.
• 1:20:19
  Speaker 1: So I totally agree, and that's I love kim Balie,
• 1:20:24
  Speaker 1: but she has real questionable tastes. She still has that
• 1:20:28
  Speaker 1: Michael Jackson tattoo. But anyway, it was cringe. They're all terrible,
• 1:20:33
  Speaker 1: terrible dancers. I'm not judging the choreography, but it was
• 1:20:37
  Speaker 1: I don't know. It had Luke of Luke and Madeleine
• 1:20:40
  Speaker 1: and it had Annie from the Throutle in it, but
• 1:20:43
  Speaker 1: she's totally unrecognizable, and it has kim Balie living out
• 1:20:47
  Speaker 1: her best MJA dreams walking down the street.
• 1:20:50
  Speaker 2: Annie of the Thrule, Oh Annie, that was the one
• 1:20:57
  Speaker 2: we liked.
• 1:20:58
  Speaker 1: She's she's way better than A many A Mony.
• 1:21:02
  Speaker 2: Many Mony. I'm not judging Kimbally. We both have the
• 1:21:06
  Speaker 2: same birthday because pieces we love it. You know. I
• 1:21:09
  Speaker 2: right now it's Carol Burnette this picture for people on
• 1:21:12
  Speaker 2: the video, But before that it was Bill Cosby, so
• 1:21:16
  Speaker 2: I know what it's like to have a fall from
• 1:21:17
  Speaker 2: grace of your heroes. But after that, because that was
• 1:21:21
  Speaker 2: my favorite show. That's why I got into standup comedy.
• 1:21:24
  Speaker 2: Like it was the Cosby show. I wanted God to
• 1:21:26
  Speaker 2: be my mother, like I still agnore her. So yeah
• 1:21:32
  Speaker 2: that so after that, now when they're like, oh this
• 1:21:35
  Speaker 2: person did it, I'm like and put them on the
• 1:21:37
  Speaker 2: burn pile. I've already I've already.
• 1:21:38
  Speaker 1: Mourned, Yes, you've mourned.
• 1:21:41
  Speaker 2: So when we came in, I was like, bye anyway, anyway, Yeah,
• 1:21:48
  Speaker 2: it's it's job.
• 1:21:49
  Speaker 1: But Josh is in that group and he thinks he's
• 1:21:53
  Speaker 1: very funny. Look Jamal, I think is funny even though
• 1:21:58
  Speaker 1: so hot to know, hot to me, so hot, also
• 1:22:01
  Speaker 1: the hottest one to me.
• 1:22:02
  Speaker 2: Oh by far as the hottest one. I probably like
• 1:22:05
  Speaker 2: Josh too, but he's so Rob is actually not well.
• 1:22:12
  Speaker 1: His personality has turned me off of him.
• 1:22:16
  Speaker 2: And I used to don't you dumb bitch like Poodle.
• 1:22:20
  Speaker 2: You would fold in front of him like you did
• 1:22:23
  Speaker 2: before fall Amy.
• 1:22:26
  Speaker 1: That is Amy Archer. I wasn't there.
• 1:22:30
  Speaker 2: It was not I thought you were there.
• 1:22:32
  Speaker 1: It was I was not there. She shame here.
• 1:22:41
  Speaker 2: Strong. I was like, well you blocked us, and He's like,
• 1:22:43
  Speaker 2: will you must doing something wrong. I was like, so,
• 1:22:45
  Speaker 2: I'm not into Rob, but I'm not judging because I
• 1:22:53
  Speaker 2: don't know why. But I'm attracted to Luke and I
• 1:22:55
  Speaker 2: need to process that.
• 1:22:58
  Speaker 1: Lord foh Luke. I call him lukestein.
• 1:23:03
  Speaker 2: I don't like when he slick files, but when it's
• 1:23:06
  Speaker 2: softer and it kind of falls. I'm like, oh, I
• 1:23:09
  Speaker 2: kind of want to suck is dick?
• 1:23:12
  Speaker 1: Okay? That is bizarre. I am des sure, making me
• 1:23:18
  Speaker 1: feel like a freak. Kimberly, I just what did they say?
• 1:23:25
  Speaker 1: I yucked all over your ym you.
• 1:23:29
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  Speaker 1: Thank you, everybody, Thank you for having me. Love you, Bride.