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Why We Stopped Recapping · Untraditionally Lala

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Speaker 1: Hello, gorgeous. It's Lala Kent. Welcome to untraditionally Lala, Hello,
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Speaker 1: gorge La La Kent. Here we are bonusing our little
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Speaker 1: hearts out. I did a Q and A for you guys,
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Speaker 1: and you asked some amazing questions, a lot of questions
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Speaker 1: about Jasmine's wedding and why I wasn't there, and why
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Speaker 1: Easton and my mom don't recap the episodes. But first
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Speaker 1: I want to acknowledge this one. Joe Mini Underscore asks me,
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Speaker 1: what's the cheese routine looking like these days? Guda and
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Speaker 1: crackers still care gold for the win, so I've actually
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Speaker 1: I'm a weirdo. I go through phases. It was like
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Speaker 1: cheese and crackers in the bed for like months on end,
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Speaker 1: and I haven't done it in so long. But I
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Speaker 1: do cheese and crackers on the couch now like a
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Speaker 1: civilized human now. And I'm very, very into a pack
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Speaker 1: of Sargento either Havardi or I do love my Guda
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Speaker 1: with like a ritz cracker. That's my go to. Robertson
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Speaker 1: B two says, how do you and Amber co pair
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Speaker 1: in each other's kids? I actually love this question, so
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Speaker 1: she facetimes with her kids a lot, a lot, a lot,
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Speaker 1: like multiple times a day when she's in town or
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Speaker 1: when we're together. And there are times where you know
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Speaker 1: her kids are older and they're going through just the
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Speaker 1: spirals that happen when you're a teenager, and we'll sit
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Speaker 1: on the phone with them and if you know London
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Speaker 1: is feeling anxious, because she's kind of like me and
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Speaker 1: Amber and just an anxious human by nature. So with London,
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Speaker 1: if she's going through panic, I will step in with
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Speaker 1: Amber and we'll both be on the FaceTime like this,
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Speaker 1: and I'm like, Okay, let's pinpoint what's giving you anxiety. Okay,
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Speaker 1: do we feel like we need to do that? Do
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Speaker 1: is that like something we need to do? And if
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Speaker 1: London's like I feel like I need to do it,
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Speaker 1: but I'm so scared, and I was like, then we
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Speaker 1: come up with a game plan like, Okay, we're going
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Speaker 1: to take it step by step. You are gonna get there,
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Speaker 1: and you're gonna stay in the moment. If you're feeling anxious,
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Speaker 1: you're gonna have your phone with you, you can call
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Speaker 1: your mom. You're never stuck anywhere. Like moments like that
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Speaker 1: we co parent. Then there's Riley and she goes toes.
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Speaker 1: There are times where her mom will be talking to
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Speaker 1: her and I'll step in and be like, Riley, listen
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Speaker 1: to me. This person sounds crazy. I get it, but
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Speaker 1: you gotta disengage now. This is what you're gonna write
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Speaker 1: back and like leave it alone. So that's kind of
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Speaker 1: how we co parent and Ocean's just a little bit
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Speaker 1: chiller are co parenting with Ocean is like I wake
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Speaker 1: up early and I'm dealing with Sosa, and Amber will
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Speaker 1: be upstairs doing Ocean's hair and like getting her out
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Speaker 1: the door for school. Or I'll be throwing Ocean shoes
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Speaker 1: on and Amber's in there, like putting the lunch in
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Speaker 1: the backpack, getting the water bottle filled up, or hanging
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Speaker 1: out with or takes care of Sosa while I get
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Speaker 1: in the car and take Ocean school. Like it's a
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Speaker 1: very We just do it. It's like a you know,
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Speaker 1: it takes a villagin Tatelin with three ends says, is
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Speaker 1: what's something you're most proud of that never made it
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Speaker 1: onto TV? Honestly, I would say my Sobriety, I don't
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Speaker 1: feel like they ever have been able to really cover it.
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Speaker 2: Here's the thing, the rock and the hard spot because yes,
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Speaker 2: they'd want to cover it. And even if you say
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Speaker 2: you can, you still feel because it's an anonymous thing,
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Speaker 2: so a lot of people kind of respect that. Even
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Speaker 2: if you're like, come and follow me, they're like, we
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Speaker 2: would love to, but you're going to see other people
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Speaker 2: who are anonymous, and now you're putting it in other people,
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Speaker 2: so it's very hard. So I agree with you that
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Speaker 2: they haven't shown it.
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Speaker 1: They haven't shown it because they haven't been able to.
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Speaker 1: They're like, can we film you with your sponsor. I'm like, no,
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Speaker 1: absolutely not. That's the work that I do behind closed doors.
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Speaker 1: Can we film you in a therapy session? No, because
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Speaker 1: in real life I wouldn't bring a friend of my
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Speaker 1: therapy session, let alone an entire camera crew to then
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Speaker 1: air it on TV, So that's not happening. But I mean,
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Speaker 1: even when they ask me about my day to day
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Speaker 1: with sobriety, it's just never quite made the cut until
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Speaker 1: this season, where my seven year sobriety birthday actually happened
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Speaker 1: during filming because we used to film the other show
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Speaker 1: during the summertime, so things didn't really have like I
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Speaker 1: didn't have a birthday, a sober birthday on camera but
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Speaker 1: this season they do get to to capture that a
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Speaker 1: little bit more. This person. This was such an interesting
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Speaker 1: question to me because I like it, but I don't
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Speaker 1: understand it. Rebecca Carlton fifty two. Why do you always
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Speaker 1: pout your lips? I didn't realize that I was doing that. No, me, not,
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Speaker 1: you like this? I think I go like this a lot.
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Speaker 3: I think you do too.
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Speaker 1: You do. I do it when I'm pissed off, when
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Speaker 1: someone says something that I'm not quite sure about that
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Speaker 1: I find is bullshit, or when I'm listening intently, I
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Speaker 1: tend to first.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, you do it a lot, I will say.
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Speaker 2: Even when we're just at like lunchhall, look over and
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Speaker 2: you're doing it deep in thought.
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Speaker 1: That's what it is. I'm a thinker by nature, and
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Speaker 1: my face shows it. Like most people have a lot
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Speaker 1: on their minds all the time. Right, it's just human nature.
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Speaker 1: We're all thinking.
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Speaker 3: Everybody.
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Speaker 2: I want everybody to to pucker your lips like Law
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Speaker 2: does and even start thinking, because it really is a
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Speaker 2: different mindset. Oh, it's like all the things I've done
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Speaker 2: wrong in my life.
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Speaker 1: No, but my mom will look at me and go,
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Speaker 1: what are you thinking about? I'm like you can tell
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Speaker 1: them I'm thinking about.
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Speaker 3: Something right now. It's like, well, fucking very apparent.
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Speaker 2: We'll be in the car and she's just stewing in
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Speaker 2: the side and go, what are you thinking about?
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Speaker 3: How could you tell? How could you not?
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Speaker 1: There was this guy that I used to date, and
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Speaker 1: he always knew when I was livid because he'd go,
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Speaker 1: oh my god, the lips, the lips are happening. And
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Speaker 1: I'm like, yeah, I'm really fucking annoyed right now because
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Speaker 1: immediately it's person of the lips. That's why I pucker.
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Speaker 1: That's why I'm puckering.
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Speaker 3: Baby.
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Speaker 1: Call it three two three The Regrets BJ's for Pj's question, Mark,
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Speaker 1: will you encourage Ocean to do? BJ's for Pj's. I
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Speaker 1: find this to be kind of a dumb question because
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Speaker 1: I don't know of any mother who would encourage.
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Speaker 3: I don't think their daughter encouraging what happened? And does it?
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Speaker 3: I mean, I have a feeling we don't want that.
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Speaker 1: No, but I have a feeling that Ocean is going
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Speaker 1: to say a lot of things because life makes you
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Speaker 1: get older and you have no control over what your
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Speaker 1: kids say or do. Let me be very clear, during
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Speaker 1: that time when I was saying BJ's for pj's, I
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Speaker 1: was being called Yes, I was drinking. I was also
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Speaker 1: very young, and I was being called a lot of names.
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Speaker 1: So if you can't beat them, join them. So I
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Speaker 1: just started saying things to kind of get under people's skin.
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Speaker 1: You know. People were mad that I had my bum
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Speaker 1: is my profile picture. So what did I do? I
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Speaker 1: decided to wear thong underwear or bikinis to the beach.
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Speaker 1: Like now, I'm just feeding into this. Everyone was like,
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Speaker 1: you're sucking dick for this, and it's like, let's let's remember,
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Speaker 1: like I wasn't doing that for things like this person
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Speaker 1: was my boyfriend who went on to be my fiance,
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Speaker 1: who then went on to to be like the father
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Speaker 1: of my child.
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Speaker 2: You wouldn't take it as far as let me have
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Speaker 2: a child because the BJ's for the PJ wasn't enough.
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Speaker 1: No, I was just feeding into what was being said
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Speaker 1: about me. I was like, well, if you guys want
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Speaker 1: to be assholes, then I'm going to make jokes and
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Speaker 1: really like I'm really gonna be you want to talk about,
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Speaker 1: I'm going to give you fucking something to talk about.
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Speaker 1: Blow jobs for private jets.
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Speaker 2: Yay.
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Speaker 1: It was just me trying to be annoying and get
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Speaker 1: under people's skin. Now, would I operate that way now? No,
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Speaker 1: because I'm not twenty four years old and I'm not drinking.
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Speaker 1: I'm a grown ass woman. I still crack very inappropriate
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Speaker 1: jokes sometimes because I'm immature at times. And sometimes yes,
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Speaker 1: and sometimes I like to say things to have to
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Speaker 1: see the look on people's faces, like the shock.
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Speaker 2: Do you ever go out with somebody and they're like
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Speaker 2: our age and you're trying to make jokes and they're
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Speaker 2: like You're like whoas I know we're adults now, It's like,
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Speaker 2: I promise you we have at any time to be adults.
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Speaker 3: I'm going to be a kid right now at thirty three.
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Speaker 1: You're gonna be a kid for my whole life.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, looks way more fun.
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Speaker 1: And I'm going to assess the situation.
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Speaker 3: And that's why like so young there it is fruitful.
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Speaker 1: Cracking inappropriate joke sometimes, Yes, you got to assess the situation.
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Speaker 1: You think, I'm sitting at tables with CEOs all buttoned
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Speaker 1: up with like their bougie wives don't say that same
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Speaker 1: things like that. No, And by the way, they probably
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Speaker 1: have watched it.
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Speaker 3: Just to let you know.
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Speaker 2: I've been in some crazy rooms and I know you
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Speaker 2: have when I was in a little writer's room. And
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Speaker 2: to be completely honest, the ship that comes out of
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Speaker 2: half of these people's mouth that we all love and
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Speaker 2: a door, it's fantastic.
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Speaker 3: You're like you are one of us.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, because the kind of takes We're just.
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Speaker 3: People just here for whatever reason.
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Speaker 1: And I'm really never going to be around someone who
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Speaker 1: finds my behavior.
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Speaker 3: I don't like, we're not going to connect and I
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Speaker 3: don't need to.
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Speaker 1: Like when people write me on Instagram and they talk
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Speaker 1: about my behavior, it's like, save it, man, Like you
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Speaker 1: were just not each other's cup of tea.
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Speaker 2: Put a camera on you, and then maybe we can
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Speaker 2: talk about your behavior.
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Speaker 1: But beyond that, they're like, we would never be friends.
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Speaker 1: It's like, we don't need to worry about it because
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Speaker 1: I'm never going to even know who you are. I
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Speaker 1: know we're never going to meet.
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Speaker 3: And what's funny is.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, like the fact that you would think that you
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Speaker 2: have to turn me down to be your friend is.
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Speaker 1: Wild, right, just like everyone calm down, calm down, that's
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Speaker 1: the BJ's for PJS. Ocean is going to say inappropriate things.
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Speaker 1: So so SA and you know what. They're going to
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Speaker 1: be able to watch me back, like, won't you be embarrassed? No,
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Speaker 1: I was a young girl having the time of my life,
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Speaker 1: and they're going to watch that and be like, wow, okay.
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Speaker 3: I know what and not what to do and whatnot
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Speaker 3: what not to do. You'll find out their little and
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Speaker 3: go oh okay. Yes.
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Speaker 1: But also, don't you think when you know that your
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Speaker 1: mom has like done some crazy stuff, it's like, oh,
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Speaker 1: this is a judgment free zone. My mom may know
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Speaker 1: what she's talking about. My mom was a little bit wild,
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Speaker 1: you know.
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Speaker 3: Yeah. No, yeah, that's.
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Speaker 1: How I feel about it. A a Locke says, were
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Speaker 1: you invited to the wedding? I lost so many questions
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Speaker 1: about this? But by the ways, when people meet you,
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Speaker 1: they like you way more than they like me.
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Speaker 2: Well, no, I'm like a pair of brand new tips.
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Speaker 2: Pretty perfect.
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Speaker 1: It's so weird. Oh my god, someone needs a nap.
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Speaker 1: He's going rogue. Guys, he's gone rogue.
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Speaker 3: I really I do need a nap.
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Speaker 1: It's okay, Well, most most of these questions are about
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Speaker 1: me anyway, perfect. I was invited and I talked about
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Speaker 1: this on the main episode My best friend since kindergarten
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Speaker 1: has been trying to get pregnant for eight years and
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Speaker 1: is finally expecting a little boy with her husband the
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Speaker 1: end of August. So I went to Utah to celebrate
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Speaker 1: that and had massive fomo. Loved being in Utah. That
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Speaker 1: was a no brainer. It was like, obviously I'm gonna
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Speaker 1: be there with my bestie, but I had fomo. Looking
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Speaker 1: at the content that people were posting. I just wish
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Speaker 1: they would have fallen on different weekends. That's okay, Yeah,
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Speaker 1: all is good. Jessica underscore Monte Rosa. Why do you
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Speaker 1: say on the show that I'm not on? It's kind
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Speaker 1: of like my little stick because we're not allowed to
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Speaker 1: talk about the valley to hear the show I'm not on. Well, no,
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Speaker 1: because that's not why, and your turn will come because
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Speaker 1: someone else asked the question.
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Speaker 3: That I know you want to care.
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Speaker 1: This was long before, like when I signed my contract
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Speaker 1: and we started doing like the photos and filming and
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Speaker 1: we had the air date. They told me like, by
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Speaker 1: the way, you cannot talk about the show, like just
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Speaker 1: pretend that you're not even on it. And I was like, oh,
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Speaker 1: that's that's very different from when I was on vander Pump.
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Speaker 1: We were very much allowed to talk about that show,
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Speaker 1: So this is a little bit different. But I didn't
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Speaker 1: realize how hard that line was, where it's like, no, literally,
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Speaker 1: don't say a word.
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Speaker 3: So here I am talking about it again.
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Speaker 1: So that's why I say the show I'm not on
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Speaker 1: because we're not allowed to talk about it. Lure one
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Speaker 1: five eighty six. Are you still in an active custody
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Speaker 1: battle or have things come to an agreement? We came
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Speaker 1: to an agreement.
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Speaker 3: In define agreement.
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Speaker 1: We won't even get into those Sosa was born. Sosa
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Speaker 1: was born in September, and we reached an agreement the
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Speaker 1: following February. Beautiful, Yeah, it was great. Came to a close.
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Speaker 1: Chelsea Rose Kaylin. If you could have any superpower in
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Speaker 1: the world, what would it be? What would yours be?
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Speaker 1: Easton teleporting either teleporting flying.
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Speaker 2: Teleporting would be great, but flying would be way fun
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Speaker 2: because you've got to be a part of the flying
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Speaker 2: in the experience, which is I think ege my mind,
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Speaker 2: because like teleporting is just like, yeah, you're there, but
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Speaker 2: like the experience of flying would be crazy.
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Speaker 3: So that or mind reader.
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Speaker 1: See I was thinking mind reader, but I'm already in
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Speaker 1: my head so much that if I really actually knew.
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Speaker 3: But then you don't have to be in your head.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, and you know everything, so it's like there's nothing
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Speaker 2: to be in your head about, Like am I thinking that?
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Speaker 3: There are they thinking this? Am I? Right? You just know?
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Speaker 1: Maybe I would want to control the future. I don't
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Speaker 1: want to see the future, but like not in that
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Speaker 1: that's the raven kind of way where she does needs.
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Speaker 3: Reverse time.
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Speaker 2: When really good idea comes, I can reverse time and
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Speaker 2: come up with it myself, like loogle.
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Speaker 1: Could you only reverse time? Or could just speed it up? Too?
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Speaker 2: Is an option from this is your then both come on,
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Speaker 2: now you want a little fast forward like loogle. I
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Speaker 2: don't know if you've seen hot Tub time machine, but
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Speaker 2: Google is a thing. And then they go back in
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Speaker 2: time and he starts it instead of Google. His name's
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Speaker 2: Lou and he makes it Loogle and he's a billionaire.
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Speaker 1: Oh wow, you just beat him to the punch genius.
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Speaker 2: Yeah, so that would be mine too, because I could
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Speaker 2: be very rich, very rich.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, so rich. You're like fuel the jet, I know,
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Speaker 3: But then what if you're like fuel the jet and
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Speaker 3: then all of your friends are on the jet and
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Speaker 3: you're just to the side of it. Flying by, like, hey,
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Speaker 3: oh could be legit.
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Speaker 1: See now there's too many superpowers that I would want.
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Speaker 1: Molly underscore Ron. Does it interest you to date someone
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Speaker 1: who drinks around you and your kids? That's kind of
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Speaker 1: a loaded question. Yeah, I think a normy who can
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Speaker 1: have like a cocktail or like a glass of wine.
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Speaker 1: Here's the thing though, when you throw in the kids,
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Speaker 1: I think it's unnecessary for you to be drinking in
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Speaker 1: front of my kids.
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Speaker 3: But then again, it's like, I mean here's the thing
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Speaker 3: I feel like, see.
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Speaker 1: I immediately go to if you're gonna drink in front
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Speaker 1: of my kids, you're gonna be drunk.
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Speaker 2: No, See that's normy. Like all you have to say
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Speaker 2: is like I'm an addict. There's people who are normal
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Speaker 2: and they're like, does me drinking in front of you?
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Speaker 2: It's like, No, what pisses me off is that you're
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Speaker 2: leaving a little bit of that wine with you. Fuck,
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Speaker 2: that's what's pissing me off. But that's the addict. But
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Speaker 2: like there's been like Landing. Yeah, he would go out,
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Speaker 2: he would get an apparol sprits and like talk about
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Speaker 2: the taste of it, yeah, and how he loved it.
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Speaker 2: And when we leave there was still some in there
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Speaker 2: and be like, oh, are you gonna drink it and be
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Speaker 2: like no, I'm great. It's like, oh, you're normal, okay.
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Speaker 1: So then I like that. If they're a normal person,
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Speaker 1: I don't care if they drink around.
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Speaker 3: No lass of wine which take the.
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Speaker 1: Kids out of it. Though, if you're enormy and like
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Speaker 1: you're drinking and you have nights where you get a
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Speaker 1: little drunk, I'm totally fine with that. Again, if you're
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Speaker 1: a normal person. My sobriety, I obviously have my crew
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Speaker 1: of other sober people, which is a must. You have
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Speaker 1: to have those people. Amber is sober. A lot of
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Speaker 1: people that come to the house they may not be sober,
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Speaker 1: but they I've found a lot of people a lot
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Speaker 1: of just.
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Speaker 3: Don't drink or smug. They're just like, yeah, I just stopped.
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Speaker 1: I'm like, oh they're programmed. They're like no, they just
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Speaker 1: don't self control.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, exactly, oh something I don't have.
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Speaker 1: Then they'll have like a gummy or something, which doesn't
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Speaker 1: bother me at all.
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Speaker 3: No loss.
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Speaker 1: However, I don't and I always crack jokes because there
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Speaker 1: are some people that are like, do care if I
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Speaker 1: drink around you? I'm like, I would prefer you do.
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Speaker 1: And then it leads to a question of why, and
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Speaker 1: I go because I'm hell of fun sober, you're.
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Speaker 3: Kind of not.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, that's yeah, And then they get offended.
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Speaker 3: Just kidding, they don't get offended.
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Speaker 1: But the other part of it is I profer or
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Speaker 1: for me and my sobriety. I prefer to date someone
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Speaker 1: who is not in the program and who is not sober.
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Speaker 1: And here's why I am very strong in my sobriety.
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Speaker 1: I have my tools. I know what to do, God willing,
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Speaker 1: I will continue to know what to do for the
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Speaker 1: long haul, but exactly one day at a time. I
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Speaker 1: don't want to have to worry about your sobriety. Here
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Speaker 1: it is if you are in the program, that means
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Speaker 1: you and I are one and the same. I don't
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Speaker 1: know what you're like in your sobriety. You can say
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Speaker 1: that you're not triggered by things. I can't worry about it.
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Speaker 1: I have a life. I have a beautiful family that
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Speaker 1: I've created, these two beautiful babies who I can't take
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Speaker 1: any chances. So I prefer that you just are a
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Speaker 1: normal drinker, go out. Sometimes you may have a rougher
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Speaker 1: night than you know. The others all good. I don't
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Speaker 1: want to worry about you relapsing because I can't deal.
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Speaker 1: I know that that's cold and heartless. But if I'm
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Speaker 1: welcoming you in in that capacity, I can't worry about it.
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Speaker 2: It sounds that way, I will say from just like
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Speaker 2: an outsider's But that's me putting my foot in the
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Speaker 2: other shoe. But until you are an addict, and unless
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Speaker 2: you are, you'll never know what it's like to live
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Speaker 2: in this mind. But it's enough just to keep me sober.
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Speaker 2: I can't add somebody else, yeah, because that will fucking
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Speaker 2: drive me to relapse. Yes, And that's why it's like,
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Speaker 2: I just need somebody normal. You don't overdrink. I'm only
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Speaker 2: worried about me. I'm not like, are you sneaking?
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Speaker 3: Like I'm too worried about me.
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Speaker 2: And it's like if I'm worried about you sneaking and drink,
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Speaker 2: maybe it's because maybe I'm worried about me.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, it's just or for everything.
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Speaker 2: And that's where it's just like, you know what, I'm
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Speaker 2: happy where I'm at, and I like what I I.
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Speaker 1: Want a guy who's normal and walks in a room
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Speaker 1: and doesn't even have to think about it. Little kids
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Speaker 1: are here, like, not the time to get wasted, and
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Speaker 1: I don't even want to get wasted because I'm an ormy, right,
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Speaker 1: Holly Marie Loy says, why are you no longer doing
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Speaker 1: Monday recaps of the Valley?
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Speaker 3: Was loving those who oh man, mom.
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Speaker 1: We had people that were not happy about the recaps happening,
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Speaker 1: and it's easier to just say can you please be quiet,
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Speaker 1: because I will I do listen. I just thought I
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Speaker 1: wasn't allowed to talk about it, but I guess than
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Speaker 1: it is getting other people to not care. There's a
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Speaker 1: handful of people on this cast that are extremely sensitive,
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Speaker 1: which I didn't have to deal with. On the last
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Speaker 1: show that I was on, everyone knew the drill. We
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Speaker 1: talked about podcasts all the time when we picked up
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Speaker 1: cameras again, and no one was calling and complaining and
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Speaker 1: crying about things like your actions.
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Speaker 2: Were on the television and what was spoken about your
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Speaker 2: actions was all right.
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Speaker 1: A lot of thick skinned people, Yes, I'm like.
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Speaker 3: Okay, you're going to talk about it. I did it.
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Speaker 3: I can't run from it.
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Speaker 2: I did it, And now these people are like, I
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Speaker 2: did that but nobody can talk about it.
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Speaker 3: Yeah, because I can't.
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Speaker 1: Believe people just got sensitive and it's all good, you know,
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Speaker 1: but people do listen, people do miss listening to it.
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Speaker 2: I enjoyed doing it a lot, and Mom was starting
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Speaker 2: to pick up, started saying words.
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Speaker 1: I know, maybe it's a good thing. She's not doing
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Speaker 1: it right now. People want an update on her.
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Speaker 2: I was just going to say, I agree with you
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Speaker 2: right now with where she's at. But I also think
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Speaker 2: that she would have been really good, and I think
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Speaker 2: that this would could have taken her away from other
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Speaker 2: things and given her, like just something else to worry about,
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Speaker 2: where you're not just worried about that one thing.
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Speaker 1: Ocean watched Blackfish.
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Speaker 3: I know, she.
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Speaker 1: Started inquiring about things, and so I showed her the
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Speaker 1: trailer and she was very interested, and I thought, why not,
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Speaker 1: let's watch it. And now she tells me constantly, Mom,
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Speaker 1: I need to get on the podcast and I need
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Speaker 1: to tell them that we need to get a boat
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Speaker 1: and take the orcas in a net and put them back.
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Speaker 3: In the ocean. Right, you're right.
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Speaker 1: You have such a kind heart, Ocean.
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Speaker 3: I'm so proud of you. That's why we say see world.
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Speaker 1: Yeah, exactly, Tierra Underscore Suerte. I hope I'm saying that right.
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Speaker 1: Lip filler, you guys, I have not had my lips
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Speaker 1: filled up in quite some time.
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Speaker 3: What is it?
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Speaker 1: You don't need to worry about that, baby, But can
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Speaker 1: I tell you I'm a huge fan of overlining, Like
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Speaker 1: if you I mean, they look pretty big right now,
21:36
Speaker 1: but compared to what they look like when I overline them.
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Speaker 1: So I use bodily something Body body something lipliner, which
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Speaker 1: is like kind of the same hue as my actual
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Speaker 1: lip and I'll line that where my actual lip line
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Speaker 1: is and then I go on the outside of that
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Speaker 1: with whirl both by Mac and I have the biggest
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Speaker 1: lips ever and people are like, stop injecting them, and
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Speaker 1: I'm like, I haven't just overlining. The moment I drink water,
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Speaker 1: my lips are going to go down about four sizes.
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Speaker 1: That's okay. I like lip filler. If you want your
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Speaker 1: lips done and you have a good person to go to,
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Speaker 1: by all means, do your thing.
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Speaker 3: Boo Okay.
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Speaker 1: Dating life update by t Underscore Low Underscore Vision Dating
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Speaker 1: I would say is yes, I'm dating for the first time.
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Speaker 1: Like instead of going from one extreme to the other,
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Speaker 1: which was like, no men allowed to Like they're good
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Speaker 1: for one thing that I'm actually allowing men to come
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Speaker 1: in and like, even though I'm keeping my guard up,
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Speaker 1: we're like hanging out, We're talking, we'll go to dinner,
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Speaker 1: We'll share moments like that, and it's not so black
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Speaker 1: or white, like I'm finding the gray with dating, which
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Speaker 1: is good because I need to put the tools that
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Speaker 1: I have been working on to use. Because there was
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Speaker 1: someone that came into my world and I really shit
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Speaker 1: the bed with it and it was not okay. And
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Speaker 1: the shit that I allowed was utterly disgusting and I'm
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Speaker 1: so happy he's out of my world. But at the
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Speaker 1: same time, it fucked me up and taught me a lot.
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Speaker 1: It taught me a little. I did learn a huge lesson.
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Speaker 1: I'm ending it on this Oh. This person does want
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Speaker 1: to know if I smoke weed because I give sexy,
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Speaker 1: stoner vibes. I love that. No, I don't smoke weed.
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Speaker 1: I'm fully sober. This person wants to know if I'm
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Speaker 1: still friends with my assistant Jessica. We have reconnected and
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Speaker 1: I absolutely adore her. I always have and I always will.
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Speaker 1: She and I I don't feel like we went south.
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Speaker 1: It was I could not in the moment give her hurt.
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Speaker 2: Can I say this because I was reading comments, Sorry
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Speaker 2: to interrupt you. People really can't wrap their mind around that,
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Speaker 2: Like the timing. They're like, there's something deeper, it's deeper,
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Speaker 2: it's deeper. It's not deeper. Not deeper, It's not deeper.
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Speaker 2: She was one of my dearest friends and my rock.
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Speaker 2: On the other side of that was she was my employee.
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Speaker 2: There were things that we wanted to do and build
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Speaker 2: together to further her in her career. And then things
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Speaker 2: happened where the timing did not allow me to give
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Speaker 2: her what she wanted in that moment, and she had
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Speaker 2: to make a really big decision, which was to walk
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Speaker 2: away from me. And it was painful and I was
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Speaker 2: devastated by it. But it's where friendship and personal and
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Speaker 2: business kind of collided, and it was one of the
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Speaker 2: hardest breakups I've ever experienced in my life. We still
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Speaker 2: text and check in with each other because she will
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Speaker 2: always be one of my most favorite humans on the
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Speaker 2: face of the earth. And if I could snap my
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Speaker 2: fingers and give her everything she wanted and more and
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Speaker 2: deserved career career wise, I wish I could have, but
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Speaker 2: the timing and just things that had shifted, I couldn't
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Speaker 2: give to her in that moment.
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Speaker 1: And I think she was like, I have to make
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Speaker 1: faith and move on you.
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Speaker 3: And there's no ill will for her wanting to.
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Speaker 1: Do that, and and I understood that.
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Speaker 3: No, that was the thing, and that was the hardest part.
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Speaker 3: But that's where it was.
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Speaker 2: Is like, the hardest part was not being able to
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Speaker 2: give her what she wants at the time she wanted,
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Speaker 2: but knowing that we already we could in due time,
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Speaker 2: but she had been you know, you just start looking
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Speaker 2: and you're like, but I have it ready now and
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Speaker 2: I can't wait another X amount of time.
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Speaker 3: And it just and I understood that, and it is
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Speaker 3: what it is.
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Speaker 1: And I would have given anything, because she deserved everything
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Speaker 1: she wanted, but I can't.
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Speaker 2: Things are looking great with where you are in the things,
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Speaker 2: and I will say that that things are looking good,
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Speaker 2: and just yes.
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Speaker 1: It wasn't deeper than that, though, it really wasn't.
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Speaker 3: She just needed to find her way and she did. Yeah,
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Speaker 3: she did, and she's doing amazing.
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Speaker 1: I know, but I miss her terribly.
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Speaker 3: No, there is something about Jess that I yeah.
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Speaker 1: Okay, the last question then I want to wrap it
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Speaker 1: with this. Would you ever get a cat? Yes, we
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Speaker 1: had one, I know. I just don't like the thought
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Speaker 1: of them pooping in a box and then taking their
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Speaker 1: paws and walking on my countertop. I don't know, I'm weird.
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Speaker 1: But then again, my dogs go outside and go to
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Speaker 1: the bathroom on the turf and then walk in the house,
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Speaker 1: So maybe I would get a cat. I just picture
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Speaker 1: myself was more of a big dog. But remember kid
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Speaker 1: Kitty loved kid Kitty.
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Speaker 3: She was a dog.
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Speaker 1: And I hate when people say that my cat's like
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Speaker 1: a dog. I'm like, no, bitch, you still want me
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Speaker 1: to judge you for having a cat. I know this
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Speaker 1: cat was a fucking dog, hang out between the two
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Speaker 1: pit bulls, and then she would go on her hind
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Speaker 1: legs and bag.
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Speaker 3: For and I wouldn't. She died in my arm.
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Speaker 1: Just a lot of death in your day.
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Speaker 3: The hell's wrong with me?
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Speaker 1: All right? My loves. Thank you for listening to the
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Speaker 1: bonus episode of Untraditionally Lala. I'm going to catch you
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Speaker 1: on Wednesday for a regular old episode and a reminder.
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Speaker 1: Unlikely Affair with Me and Amber Childers airs Thursday nights
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Speaker 1: at nine pm love y'all, Bye Bye,